Suburban Sex with Remy and Addy (Remy and Addy)
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| 21 Jun 2024 | Learning from a Master Bater | 00:57:46 | |
Our friend Josh gives it to us straight about not being straight - married to a woman for 25 years before he came out of the closet. Now he’s living his best life and has great wisdom (and crazy stories) to share that you won’t want to miss! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 10 May 2024 | Do you like a porno? | 00:49:48 | |
In this week’s episode, we answer the age-old question: is porn considered cheating? Note: we accepted zero bribes for this episode ;) Porn is so easily accessible and yet seen as such a faux pas in the suburbs. Most long-term, everyday couples aren’t talking about it - and definitely most friends aren’t talking about it - but we know it exists. Does porn have a place in your marriage? Tune in as we get into the male and female perspectives and where we draw the line in our own relationships. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 03 May 2024 | We’re shameless… yeah right | 00:59:26 | |
You’d think we’re all shameless - us sharing our dirty details in the bedroom for the world to hear - but shame is a reality for everyone. It could be insecurities about your body, religious trauma, or even guilt about using toys in the bedroom. The truth is that we all carry some level of shame and if we let it, that shame can prevent us from ever being truly satisfied with who we are. Join us this week for a candid discussion about self-image, shame and all the things that hold us back from being happy. We also discuss how our views have changed as we have gotten older. We get real about our insecurities and the steps we have taken to let go of a few of them. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 22 Mar 2024 | It's Not Gonna Lick Itself | 01:00:48 | |
Ladies and gents, this is a wild one (our episode AND guest)! If you’re familiar with “Samantha” from Sex in the City, this is the real-life version of her! Samantha is every man’s dream and every woman’s best friend. We start with blow jobs because: why the hell not!? Hint: think licking an ice cream cone ;) Then we talk about how age and overall health make a difference in her sex life and she gives all of us women a beacon of hope as to what to look forward to in our 60’s. She knows how to make sex playful but you’ll need to listen in for her ideas - even Addy was taking notes! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 01 Nov 2024 | Confessions of a Former Polyamorist | 00:43:17 | |
Settle in for a two-part series with a local sex coach: Rene. Check out her websites below. She’s a 20 year established sex coach who has worked with over a thousand couples, writer of hundreds of articles/blogs, and author of an upcoming book “Empowered, But Empty.” In this first part with Rene, we hear what vanilla couples can learn from polyamory couples in the way of open communication and trust. But there’s a dark side to everything; and we get curious about the drawbacks Rene found from the polyamory lifestyle and how that’s shaped her current monogamous relationship today. But wait … there’s more! Check out part 2 to hear about the quality of sex: “both partners actually getting into each other not just getting off on each other.” https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/ https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com | |||
| 05 Jul 2024 | Hawk Tuah: when spitting isn’t quitting | 00:47:02 | |
We’re riding the coattails of the Hawk Tuah Girl: reminiscing about our drunken 20’s to get in the mindset of this new phenomenon. The 40 year olds in us think it’s the modern pornification of America, but you tell us where it came from. Any spitters out there? Then we join in on the fun with more “would you rather” questions - the sexy suburban version. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 07 Jun 2024 | Good girls read dirty smut | 00:52:32 | |
Mistress Monroe joins us to discuss her new obsession: smutty, dirty books. She reads her daily dose of smut and romance which has turned her last year into the best sex of their 13 year marriage! Read that again. Her genres build up in dirtiness that empower her to talk more about sex and ask for what she wants. Her list of lustrous books are below to help you get revved up. Keep reading, my friends! Monroe’s Recommendations in order of spice: Tame: Strictly Business by Carrie Elks Dear Grumpy Boss by Julia Wolf Puck Pact, Heart Trick, and Odd Man Rush by Kristin Grenata (the male/female/female book she mentions) Mid level just based on trigger warnings. Spice can be high but the characters are not amoral: Irresistibly Broken by J.Saman (the butt sex book) Part of a 5 book series. High spice and/or high trigger warning books - characters do what it takes to get the girl even if it’s severely questionable: The Pucking Wrong Number by C.R. Jane. This is the hockey book based in Dallas. Part of a 4 book series. Not Yours to Keep by Ella Jacobs (explores Dom/Sub relationships) Pretty Little Tease, Pretty Little Killer, and Pretty Little Monster by AJ Merlin (the series with serial killers) Reverse Harem options: Rebel Bloom is an author I read a lot in this space. Very cheesy but she has a lot of good reads for spice but light. Puck One Night Stands by Emma Foxx (4 in the series) Double Pucked by Lauren Blakely All of the trigger warnings: Blood Ties Series by A.K. Rose. There are 9 books - the first is titled Mine. It is very dark so know what you’re getting into. Restraint fun: https://a.co/d/aT09YTw Booty fun: https://shorturl.at/A2kQw Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 23 Aug 2024 | The Kinky Quiz Episode (clothing optional) | 00:57:08 | |
How well do you know your partner? How well do you even know yourself? Get naked and take some sexy quizzes with us (ok, you don’t have to get naked for this)! We’re sharing our answers and learning more about what makes us tick - both in and out of the bedroom. #themoreyouknow Quiz Links: https://carnalcalibration.com https://bdsmtest.org https://enneagramuniverse.com Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 23 Feb 2024 | Sweet, Sweet Fantasy, Baby | 00:46:48 | |
Are your fantasies “normal?” We all have them, but why do they seem so taboo? We’re ripping off the awkwardness band-aid to openly discuss some of our favorite fantasies and how much fun it can be to share them with your partner. Addy takes us into an evolution of her fantasies … will her friends ever look her in the eye, again? Then “Hot Tub” Brad and Remy share where their male brains take them when it’s time to get in the mood - and some of it may surprise you! When it comes to married sex with your partner, you never know what you are going to get. Sometimes we as married couples just have to get after it and dust off the old hoo-ha… but it starts with knowing your partner and being open to their fantasies and whatever may come next (a-hem, gentlemen). Engaging with your partner in the way they want to be engaged can pay BIG in the bedroom. | |||
| 01 Mar 2024 | Sex: prescribed by our favorite health coach | 00:40:59 | |
We are joined by our good friend Ann, founder of Nourish Health & Wellness Coaching; a Certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach. We hear about “self care” all the time and how it impacts every aspect of our life (including our sex drive), and Ann shares real tools to help clear the path to a more balanced, well rounded wife. Husbands, don’t scroll by! Happy wife, happy sex life, right? Isn’t that how it goes?! From nutrition and exercise to stress management and self-care, Ann’s mission is to ignite a spark in women everywhere; empowering them to make themselves a top priority. Learn more about what a personalized health coach can do to help spark something inside of YOU: www.nourishhwc.com | |||
| 08 Mar 2024 | A lady in the street but a freak at the beach | 00:51:07 | |
Sexy vacations, date days and a sensual massage (or two). This week we share our stories of getting away from the kids, reconnecting and creating intimate moments together that can revive our sex lives. Join us to find how Addy went from ‘Hell no’ (as heard in episode 3) to ‘’Let’s do that again!" | |||
| 13 Feb 2024 | Your average neighbors next door…with a sex podcast | 00:49:29 | |
Welcome to the very first episode of Suburban Sex, a podcast where we give you a peek behind the curtain of average, everyday married sex (it’s not boring, we swear!). Meet us: Addy and Remy - we’re your normal, everyday soccer-mom and cheer-dad, as we talk REAL sex in the suburbs. But wait, there's a twist - we’re not married to each other! You’ll get to hear from Addy’s husband, our producer “Hot Tub” Brad and Reagan, Remy’s beautiful wife - we’ve all been friends for 10+ years, have a gaggle of kids, and now are kicking off our midlife crises with a “bang” (ha, get it?) by hosting a sex podcast. And why not jump start with a topic that will blow you away: ORAL!
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| 15 Mar 2024 | A marriage so Sympatico | 00:54:05 | |
“Simpatico, exotico, neurotico, you’re my narcotico. Ask me how I feel, I'll say, alot-ico.” Special thanks to Justin Timberlake for writing our intro; it’s so fitting for our fabulous guest KK and her Brazilian Lover who shan’t be named. They just seem so aligned with all things sex and we’re here for it! Every couple is different and we love getting the behind the curtain peek into how everyone is making it work! Listen in for their secret erogenous zone …oops, I guess it’s not a secret anymore ;)
And a new special guest is joining us this week: “Fantasy Reagan,” every man’s fantasy, the wife who’s libido surpasses every man’s libido. She’s a handful, you’ll love her!
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| 11 Oct 2024 | The Vette Gets ‘Em Wet | 00:44:09 | |
Brad and Addy talk about their adventures in California wine country for their 10th wedding anniversary, including a smoking hot Corvette and a yoga yurt. Anything goes when you’re on a vacation without kids! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at | |||
| 13 Feb 2024 | We’re bringin' sexy back (yeah) | 00:52:48 | |
Just a typical evening with friends… sipping some vino and talking about sex. Addy’s husband, “Hot Tub” Brad joins the conversation as well but, Addy’s always right so ignore everything he says ;) Pour a glass of your favorite libation with your favorite spouse as we talk about how often we have sex in our long term relationships. What's normal? How does your sex life measure up? And do you even measure in quantity or quality?
We share our secrets and have some fun ideas to incorporate teasing that adds more playfulness to the mix. We don’t want to wake up 20 years from now in a sexless marriage, so let’s talk about it now to make sure we’re measuring up with who matters most in this conversation: our spouse.
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| 12 Apr 2024 | Getting her in the mood: A How-To Guide (Part 2) | 01:04:01 | |
Back to our girls night on Suburban Sex…Part Deux! Part 1 was “cute” and all. Sure, we talked about all the ways that help Addy & Reagan get in the mood BEFORE the bedroom. But in Part 2, we let loose about what turn ons we have IN the bedroom. See a sexy, panty-dropping playlist and favorite toy ideas below! Yes, Addy needs a list of hot jams to get her going - throwback to her mix-tape days. Playlist examples: Selena Gomez “Good for You” Two Feet “I Want It”, “I Feel Like I’m Drowning” Rosenfeld “Do It For Me” (*sploosh*) Matt Maeson “Put It On Me” Robby Hunter Band “Never Say No” The Analog Affair “Saturday Waves” More Artists: Two Feet, Chet Faker, Alina Baraz, Bryce Vine, Youngr Microphone/Wand - https://shorturl.at/foZ23 Massage gun - https://a.co/d/i0pE6Ny Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 30 Aug 2024 | Are you fun in bed? | 00:47:24 | |
What exactly makes someone fun in bed? You know it when it’s good and you sure as hell know when it’s bad. But what’s the secret sauce? Join us in a thought provoking conversation about the skills that make sex most impressive. That is, if Hot Tub Brad will let us finish it…he’s in a hurry because he knows he’s getting laid after the show ;) Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 09 Aug 2024 | Winter Comes Again | 00:57:01 | |
Winter’s back, as our “Lifestyle Doula”, gently walking us through the process of what it's like in the (swingers) lifestyle. NOT because we’re recommending it, but simply to open up the conversation (before you open up your marriage). We talk about her experience as a unicorn (single woman joining a couple), attending global swinger clubs (that’s right, I said “global”) and more! She brings her confidence and big D energy to her relationships AND to our PART 2 episode! She even goes back to the basics: reiterating the baseline turn ons that us mamas talked about before, like doing the dishes and taking the mental load of kids/responsibilities from your wife to make more mental space for sex. If you missed the quiz last time: https://bdsmtest.org Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 19 Apr 2024 | Sex Under the Influence: Weed vs Wine | 00:48:03 | |
Tipsy or high; pick your poison. Tonight, Reagan joins us to compare sex while under the influence of weed vs. alcohol. Don’t worry, it’s perfectly legal … in some states. We get scientific - at least Remy does - on how each one impacts our bodies and our senses: in bed! What’s your favorite? Do you like to “wine” a little? Get high in the garage after the kids go down? Sneak a gummy? Or party-hardy: one tequila - two tequila - three tequila - FLOOR. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 06 Sep 2024 | Can men and women be friends? | 00:51:54 | |
We start with *just the tip*, then go into a “When Harry Met Sally” segment on whether men and women can really be friends. Remy’s wife Reagan joins the conversation to round out our perspectives and share their conversation starters to set healthy boundaries with friends of the opposite sex. Listen in for how many times Reagan sings a little diddy for us; bonus points for our listeners who send us an email with the total number of times she sings a tune at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at | |||
| 24 May 2024 | Dry spells, sexual ruts and husbands who just want to get laid | 00:54:52 | |
Remy’s fabulous wife, Reagan, joins the show as we discuss the husbands’ least favorite topic: sexual ruts and dry spells. Booooooo! But, hey - that’s reality. We dig into the theory that men want sex to feel like everything is okay and women don’t want sex until everything is okay. Sound familiar? Listen in to hear how we see a light at the end of every dry spell tunnel. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 12 Jul 2024 | An Oral History of the Vibrator | 00:51:01 | |
History buffs: unite! Who’s interested in hearing the history of the vibrator? Addy ran “extensive research” (aka watched movies) to drop some knowledge on the interesting beginnings of what has become so mainstream in the bedroom (ok - HER bedroom). Then hear how Brad and Addy attempt a role play, acting as strangers, during their stay-cation. Did Brad have enough game to eventually get Addy home with him? Listen in to find out! Fun Movies: Hysteria (2011 - Maggie Gyllenhaal) - https://shorturl.at/siYTK Kinsey (2004 - Liam Neeson) - https://shorturl.at/BD6rt Fun Vibes: Mini Microphone - https://shorturl.at/WQR53 Hitachi Magic Wand - https://shorturl.at/3j7qK Massage Gun - https://shorturl.at/0Jq0t Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 16 Aug 2024 | Fighting fair with really smooth balls | 00:46:17 | |
This week we discuss how we deal with conflict in our relationships and how it affects our sex life. The guys ask Addy for tips on how husbands can get more action, then they weigh in on their favorite grooming habits (yes, these men are actually going to talk about smooth balls)! We get Brad to open up more than we ever expected, so tune in for all the dirty secrets! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 17 May 2024 | The Core Four Sex Positions | 00:43:26 | |
When married, you either have a core set of sex positions that you default to or “you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit!” This week we take a page out of comedian Jim Jefferies’ standup and list out our “core four” (or in some cases core two or three) and compare against our friends. Is married sex that predictable? Spoiler alert: it is. But, that’s exactly why we sprinkle in more to keep things spicy! Watch the Jim Jefferies clip about the Core Four: https://youtu.be/ZigUT1nPIWU?si=gIyOHxJ4w_Ne_D_7 Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 13 Feb 2024 | Toy Story | 00:55:40 | |
Get ready for a fun one: Remy’s wife Reagan joins us where we divulge our favorite sex toys. Get out the pen and paper, ladies, some of these are life savers! Because not all rabbits are created equal ;) Toys also help women close the orgasm gap, which is apparently a “thing”. Equal-rights-to-equal-orgasms, who’s with me!
Then, in typical suburban mom mode, we get real about how we fit sexy time into our current hectic schedules. Because… life. Then introduce “expectation” as a naughty word.
Random question of the day: is it possible for Addy to be allergic to Brad’s sperm? Tune in to find out!
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| 29 Mar 2024 | Getting her in the mood: A How-To Guide (Part 1) | 00:48:33 | |
It’s girls night on Suburban Sex…and everyone is invited! This week Addy & Reagan discuss what helps them get in the mood. This special episode isn’t just for ladies… the ladies share some very practical advice for the guys on how they can help create an environment that just might lead to some fun. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 04 Oct 2024 | Give it to me in inches | 00:50:58 | |
We’re back…. And we have a random assortment of topics, pulling from listener letters and Facebook mom group #drama. Who else wants to know all about our underwear choices? Listen in to hear who loves to see that thong-thong-thong-thong-thong! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at Link to palm toy Link to me undies | |||
| 01 Nov 2024 | Have it Your Way: fast food sex vs gourmet sex | 00:46:07 | |
Part 2 with Rene encourages us to think about the quality of our orgasms. Addy was on the edge of her seat for this one, as so often moms feel like they have to carve out time and mental energy for sex but don’t take the time to fully enjoy what a gourmet orgasm could offer. That’s right, ladies - we want gourmet all the way! https://goodmenproject.com/author/rene-schooler/ https://medium.com/@kwcoachingpress https://www.yourtango.com/experts/kendal-williams https://www.facebook.com/reneschooler11?mibextid=LQQJ4d Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com Send us a love note at TalkSuburbanToMe@gmail.com | |||
| 19 Jul 2024 | Married Masturbators Anonymous | 01:00:40 | |
This week we talk all about solo play. We all do it, especially when our partners aren’t around or in the mood. But instead of keeping it to ourselves, we get real about how we like it, when we do it and how often it happens. We also discuss how men and women think differently about self pleasure. Lastly, we confess whether or not we openly discuss self pleasure with our partners. Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 02 Aug 2024 | Winter is Coming (Part 1) | 01:01:13 | |
We get a little lesson in kink from a divorced suburban mom. It’s not what you think, this underworld of kink… they walk among us! Our girl Winter stresses the importance of communication and trust to make it work, and ironically she’s found that her kink partners have better communication than her marriage ever did! She’s myth-busting BDSM and makes it all seem less scary - no, really! It may not be for everyone but aren’t you even just a tiny bit curious? Check out the links below to take a quiz with your partner to explore each of your own kinks - then TALK about it together! https://badgirlsbible.com https://bdsmtest.org https://fetlife.com Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 05 Apr 2024 | Sex Bots and Bucket Lists | 00:57:36 | |
Most of us have heard of a bucket list, but Remy tries to get Addy and his wife Reagan to create a sexual bucket list…. Queue the disappointment. But leave it to Hot Tub Brad to jump in with ideas - he’s always got boundaries to push. Then we introduce a new segment, called “Addy Doesn’t Know” to test her knowledge of sexual terminology/lingo as, what we like to call, a recovering prude. Join us to test your knowledge, too! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||
| 26 Apr 2024 | Spanking with our first nude model | 00:56:30 | |
We have our very first nude model on the podcast! Meet Two Finger Tony and his gorgeous wife Gina, as compatible as can be. In their 50’s and using their (mostly) empty nest to explore things like nude modeling, sex academy classes, and spanking red rooms! You’ll love hearing about how they try new things to grow together as a couple and it may get you interested in trying a few new things yourself! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com | |||