Stripped by SIA (STEPH SIA)
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| 06 Jun 2021 | #74 - A Lengthy Battle Ahead: Challenging the Laws that Criminalize Sex Work in Canada w/ Jenn Clamen of the Canadian Alliance Sex Work Law Reform | 01:00:04 | |
I've been really excited to release this week's episode as it hits close to home and the news is hot off the press! I was able to catch Jenn Clamen who is the National Coordinator for the Canadian Alliance Sex Work Law Reform here in Canada to discuss the launch of the Charter challenge against the prostitution laws in Canada. We speak about what this may mean for sex workers in Canada, the outcome it hopes to achieve and the amount of exhaustive work that has gone into launching this. Jenn graciously and patiently breaks down the process in what the Charter of Rights and Freedoms is in Canada, what is deemed unconstitutional and what the previous and current Canadian government has done thus far in recognizing the needs of sex workers. To give context, we go even further about how deep this goes into our history with a brief overview of the Canada v. Bedford case which took a similar route which reached the Supreme Court of Canada (the highest court of law in Canada) and what has happened (or should I say, hasn't happened) in recent years. We speak about representation, the opportunities that have been given to law and policy makers here in Canada, fellow organizations and even the prime minister's office with no avail which has frustratingly pushed them to organize and fight for their, simply put, labour rights. It is a PACKED 1-hour conversation that I am so grateful to have had with Jenn. Do give it a listen - I'd be happy to hear your thoughts and feelings on this episode. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 25 Feb 2024 | (2022) Black and Kinky: Making Space for Black Dommes w/ Mistress Marley | 00:58:07 | |
It's a re-release week! In light of Black History Month, I am re-airing this gem of an episode with Mistress Marley on breaking into the dome world as a Black SWer, the impact she's made in the dominatrix world as a Black dominatrix, the schooling and mentorship she is providing for aspiring Black dommes. --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Erotica by Phoenix James, skrippa-style dance certification created by a skrippa, for skrippas. Interested in getting certified? Click here to get started! --- I am so proud of this episode with dominatrix, Mistress Marley. It’s really inspiring to hear all that Mistress Marley is doing for the community. As a young sex worker, Mistress Marley dabbled in other forms of sex work and stumbled into domming when answering an ad on Craigslist. It gave her the freedom and flexibility to live her life the way she wanted to. But there was one problem: the domming world was very White. The lack of peers that looked like her and spaces that were safe to her inspired her to create The Domme Academy, her own group and program for Black and Brown dominatrices, Black and Kinky – events for Black kinky folks and her own Brooklyn-based dungeon, Pynk Matrix. If you are in the New York area, you’ll have to check out these events and spaces in person!
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| 18 Oct 2020 | #43 - Returning to the Strip Club as a First Time Mother w/ Sasha Belle | 00:56:48 | |
I am very excited to bring on Sasha Belle onto the show this week! A fan favourite and highly requested guest, Sasha joins us after completing her first week back at the clubs after having a newborn baby (congrats!). Prior to her being a mom, Sasha was winning titles all over the west coast of Canada as her debut as an exotic dancer following a bad break up. Sasha just had a baby boy 6 months ago and she shares with us her struggles with being a mother, postpartum depression, mental wellbeing, and expectations. She also opens up to us about her outlook on stripping, how she approaches customers, body image, and overall, trying to re-navigate the stage and the floor. We are more than happy to have her back on stage again and so very excited to have her provide quality entertainment to us and also congratulate her on becoming a mom!
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| 08 Mar 2020 | #26 - Meet the Man Who Paints with His Penis w/ Brent Ray Fraser | 00:58:27 | |
This week we get to know Brent Ray Fraser of penis painting fame! What's penis painting you ask? Well, it's exactly what you think it is - and more. An esteemed artist, Brent Ray Fraser speaks of his artistic roots growing up as a child which he further expanded in his careers as an adult entertainer, cam shows and performance art. Once he discovered this artistic niche, he was featured globally in many of the "Got Talent" franchises in Europe, has drawn portraits for numerous celebrities and has been commissioned by private art collectors around the world. Even if you aren't an art buff, you will find this self-described "artsexual" absolutely fascinating - I know I sure did! IG:
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| 26 Jul 2020 | BLM Series 3: Dismantling Whiteness in Burlesque and the Need for Anti-Racist Coaching w/ Miss Monday Blues | 00:54:47 | |
Continuing the Black narrative in our Black Lives Matter miniseries, we continue to showcase and highlight Black voices in our community. This week, I invited Miss Monday Blues to speak on the podcast on how White the burlesque community is, navigating with the autoimmune disease, lupus, and how that's affected her artistry and her wildly successful anti-racist coaching programs. We bring up a topic that is so blatantly obvious, even to outsiders: the Whiteness amongst burlesque dancers. Why is it so White? What strides is the community taking to dismantle and challenge that narrative? And what can we do to help? Speaking of helping and ally ship, it is SO important to engage in anti-racist coaching. Miss Monday Blues offers unique coaching and consulting designed specifically for White folx and BIPOC to help navigate through this emotionally-sensitive time. Also, HUGE announcement at the end of the episode! This is the final episode of the BLM miniseries on the pod! Thank you ALL for listening! This is not the end of BLM; I will continue to include, as I've always done before, a multitude of BIPOC, LGBTQI+ and varied sex workers on my show....as...SEASON 2 will begin NEXT WEEK! Yay!
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| 07 Apr 2024 | #205 - Everything You Need to Know About Sourcing a Good Photographer with Kactus Kutie | 01:18:58 | |
Sooooo excited to be bringing Kactus Kutie back on the show! Kactus was a previous guest on the show but this time around, is bringing back her expertise as a photographer in the adult industry. She dishes it out on how to source and vet a good photographer, what questions to ask, who to ask for references and so on. We also discuss what happens during a shoot and reasonable expectations and wait times after the shoot is finished And of course, not to be missed, we describe how best to tag and give credit to photographers work and so on. All really great conversation and a reminder because as we all know, good photography is essential in this business! Also, be sure to wish Kactus a happy birthday because it's her birthday on this release date! Go tip her! Find Kactus Kutie of Kactus Kamera online: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 03 Feb 2024 | #195 - Learning About the Largest SW Media Archive in the World with Jelena Vermilion | 01:17:08 | |
I'm honoured to bring on Jelena Vermillion onto the show this week. Jelena is an icon in the SWer advocacy space. She is also the founder and holder the largest SWer media archive in the world. You might be curious about what might be contained in the archive or what is SWer media archive. It houses a number of different media mediums such as zines, audio, articles, and more. Jelena shares with us on the podcast her story on how she got the funding for the archive (and it's an incredible story) and why she provides this for the community. Although she gatekeeps the access, she does stress that this is done solely for the protection of our community. Academics, researchers and writers often ask for access to the archive but questions their motivations. We also speak about Jelena's current projects and advocacy work in the episode as well. You can find out more about Jelena and the archive by listening in on the full episode. You can find Jelena online at her links below:
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| 14 Jul 2024 | #212 - Does Race Play Contribute to Racism? with Tia Maria | 01:24:33 | |
Tia Maria shares her experiences as a phone sex operator and dancer, discussing the importance of creating a safe space for clients to explore their fantasies. She talks about her journey into race play and the different dynamics involved, including both derogatory and worshipful aspects. Tia Maria emphasizes the need for consent and non-judgment in the sex work industry. She also discusses her personal experiences with trauma and abusive relationships, as well as her current relationship and exploration of race play as a lifestyle. In this part of the conversation, Tia Maria discusses the role of race in kink and fetish play. She explains that race play is a form of role play that involves exploring racial dynamics and stereotypes. Tia Maria emphasizes the importance of consent and boundaries in these scenarios, and shares her personal experiences with clients who engage in race play. She also addresses the question of whether race play perpetuates racism, and discusses the distinction between fantasy and reality. Tia Maria explains her process for preparing for race play sessions, including discussing boundaries and using safe words. In this conversation, Tia Maria shares her experiences with race play and degradation in the context of BDSM. She discusses the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries to ensure a safe and consensual experience. Tia also addresses the question of whether race play can contribute positively to goals of racial liberation, emphasizing the need to prioritize personal comfort and safety in sex work. She concludes by sharing her contact information for those interested in booking her services. Follow Tia Maria in her links below: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 29 Nov 2020 | #49 - Paying For Sex: Just For Sex or Something More? w/ Miguel* | 00:59:40 | |
We're flipping the table this week on the podcast as I bring a client onto the show - please welcome Miguel* (not his actual name). Miguel comes to the show with a plethora of experience as a loyal client of many different escorts in the city (including past guests on my show). His curiosity first originated in erotic massage parlours and then graduated to full service sex workers via Backpage and Craiglist (RIP!). Miguel shares his experiences regarding why he chooses to pay for sex, what comfort it brings him, and why he continues to seek professional sexual treatment. Is it just for the sex? Is it a form of therapy? Companionship? Not only does he go over the obvious, but we also divulge in him being scammed, catfished and his own personal boundaries being crossed by sex workers. They say there are bad apples in every batch and the sex work industry is not exempt. We also go over client etiquette, what to expect on your first session, keywords to look for in ads that may be red flags and more. This episode is for anyone who is seeking sex work as a client and even for sex workers as well on how to better improve your ads, helpful tips in protecting yourself and basically, the curious! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 30 Apr 2023 | #168 - Calling for Inclusivity and Diversity in Sex Work with Marcela Alonso of the Get Schooled Podcast | 00:58:12 | |
Y'all, it's here! Season 6 has officially landed and I am so excited to kick off this brand new season with this feisty firecracker, Marcela Alonso. Marcela is a digital content creator and the host of the sex worker podcast, Get Schooled. She brings on decades of experience in our industry including many years as an exotic dancer, a dominatrix, cam model and content creator. Marcela started off as a survival sex worker in the mid-90s and speaks to that time where there wasn't much diversity. She shares the prejudices that she personally received and bore witness to discriminatory behaviour from various strip clubs across the USA. Of course, it was a different time back then and although this generation has welcomed more sex workers of colour, Marcela shares that there is still much work to do. Our conversation begins with a call for diversity and inclusion and veers off into other related topics like underrepresentation, fetishization, addressing stereotypes, colonization, sobriety, sensationalism and more. I had such a great conversation with Marcela and can't wait to have her speak on the podcast again one day. You can reach out to Marcela directly, below, on her platforms:
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| 06 Dec 2020 | #50 - The Rights Sex Workers Don't Have and the Wrongs on the Policing of Women's Bodies w/ Sonia Nowak | 01:03:40 | |
This week, we're flying over to POLAND to speak with sex worker and activist, Sonia Nowak. Sonia started in sex work when she was in Poland and later took those skills to London when she was going to school. There, she noticed the injustices that were occurring when it came to sex work, specifically, in regards to stripping. Are we considered as independent contractors or employees? The parameters given by the strip club she was employed at dictated what type of outfits to wear, what hours she was to work, what she could and couldn't do... wait a minute. That doesn't sound like contracting to me - that sounds like employment. Observing these details motivated her to seek out resources for her and other sex workers to organize to build a case against the club and seek to form a union because sex workers deserve to be afforded basic human rights (DAMN RIGHT!). And her involvement with activism doesn't just stop there. Sonia was also recently taking part at the recent protests in Poland surrounding the anti-abortion laws and governing women's bodies. She is an opinionated and intelligent woman and I am so glad to have connected with her and to have had her on the show! Additional information re: sex worker unions, gathering + supplemental resources
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| 26 Mar 2023 | #163 - Leaked Content: What to Do and How to Protect Yourself from Getting Scammed with Zeus of Olympus Mons | 01:08:07 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mentioning of suicide.*** What does a physicist and sex work got to do with each other?! Well, I am bringing on Zeus of Olympus Mons onto the show this week. Zeus is a trained physicist, sex worker (and all around teddybear!) who helps take down leaked content of sex workers down for free. Zeus brings in over 15 years of experience of taking leaked or stolen content down starting from when he was in highschool. After witnessing his peers at school getting blackmailed and hearing stories of young teens being pushed to take their own lives after their nudes were threatened to get leaked, Zeus decided enough was enough. Word got out that he was a protector of some sort in his teen years which followed him into his sex work career and because he has had so much experience getting this stuff off the internet, he's now teaching people through his YouTube how to get it off for free. Zeus and I also go through specific websites you should watch out for where leaked content is posted, different methods which people will use to steal your content, how to find out if your content has been stolen and his recommend course of action on how to get it down. It is a highly informative episode that every sex worker (and honestly, minors) should be listening to.
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| 11 Jan 2020 | #18 - Aerial Silks and Ask a Criminal Defence Lawyer Day....But Not Really w/ Jennifer Summer Ashley from Strippers With Anxiety | 00:54:06 | |
This week we speak with Summer Kitten Showgirl aka Jennifer Summer Ashley from Strippers With Anxiety about how she started stripping and her career as a criminal defense lawyer. We speak extensively about aerial silks, proper rigging and how she always wanted to become a stripper. This episode also had a record-breaking amount of questions from the audience - are you guys seeking free legal advice or something?! Listen to the episode to see if your questions were answered or not! Find Jennifer on social:
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| 26 Feb 2023 | #159 - Life After an Multilevel Marketing Scheme: Transforming Trauma into Success with Cami Strella | 01:10:58 | |
It’s a jam-packed episode this week! I speak with Top 0.1% OnlyFans and TikTok creator, Cami Strella, this week to speak about her experience in a multilevel marketing (MLM) scheme and what that had taught her. Her story may have been a long one but because MLMs occur to many BIPOC people and vulnerable groups, we wanted to share her story to provide perspective and how her escape bled into her entry into sex work. After leaving the organization she was involved in, Cami put herself through school to pursue occupational therapy but was doxxed and kicked out of her academic program by her peers by a TikTok that went viral. Despite the traumatic events that had happened to her, Cami was able to turn her life around and continually gives back to the community and those in need by donating 10% of her monthly OF sales to people in need and military veterans.
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| 20 Mar 2022 | #111 - Camming 101: Tips and Tricks from the Best Cam Coach in the Biz w/ Nikki Night | 01:01:00 | |
I am super stoked to bring on this week’s guest, Nikki Night, onto the show this week. Nikki is one of the world’s BEST cam model coaches out there. Starting off as a camgirl herself, she quickly was scouted by Playboy to work in their head office. After her short stint there and realizing that the corporate camming (who knew that was a thing!), she found herself at CAM4 in a coaching position. Having had previous administrative and educational experience in her vanilla jobs developing curriculums and programs, Nikki began to conduct group coaching sessions in addition to one-on-one coaching. Overall, Nikki has coached over 8000 cam models worldwide and continues to help new and upcoming cam models in establishing themselves, offering herself as a valuable resource and devising strategy and marketing plans for them. She is such an amazing pillar in this industry and I’m honoured to have her on. Be sure to peep the exclusive video interview – only on Patreon. Patreon.com/strippedbysia Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 10 May 2020 | COVID-19 Series 1: What About our Street Sex Workers? w/ Morgan Sexter of WISH Vancouver | 00:53:24 | |
I'm not quite finished yet. I just can't seem to sit idly while the entire world is on lockdown when there are still so many issues we are facing as sex workers. But I wanted to highlight a voice that probably isn't listening to this podcast and hasn't been represented on the show yet: our street sex workers. I spoke with Morgan Sexter this week, a fellow dancer who is currently working with WISH Vancouver on their Mobile Access Project (MAP Van). WISH Vancouver is a non-profit organization which works to provides harm reduction services, shelter, food and resources for Vancouver's street se workers. Morgan and I speak about the challenges street and survival sex workers are facing, currently and also in the time of COVID-19, how this virus has affected their income, their clients and even the drop-in centres. We also discuss current needs for the organization, our speculations about what will happen post-COVID and what will happen with dancers and lap dances once, and if, clubs choose to reopen in the future. Morgan is also taking orders for her home sewn masks as well!
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| 01 Mar 2020 | #25 - The Skinny on Big Beautiful Women (BBW) Escorts w/ Karina Riviera | 00:53:07 | |
We're having our first plus-size escort on the pod today! Karina Riviera joins us today as we talk about quitting her full-time job to become an escort, body image, responding to "fat" comments and more. She explains how there's more to love in this industry as a BBW and how getting into sex work has catapulted her into the the best self she's ever been. Ever think about taking the leap into escorting full-time? This might be the episode for you - listen in!
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| 15 Sep 2024 | #221 - Sex Work as Play: Exploring Joy, Pleasure and Healing with Suzannah Weiss | 01:01:20 | |
This week, I invite, writer Suzannah Weiss about her experience in sex work and the concept of sex work as play. Suzannah shares her journey into sex work, which started as a playful experiment during the COVID-19 pandemic. We explore the moral dilemmas and boundaries that arise in sex work and the societal attitudes towards sex work. Suzannah challenges the notion that sex work is inherently exploitative and discusses the joy and pleasure that can be found in the work. In this conversation, Suzannah Weiss and Steph Sia discuss various aspects of sex work, including the double standards faced by female sex workers, the experiences of male sex workers, and boundary-pushing clients. They also touch on the power of sex work as education and healing, and the importance of emotional safety in sexual experiences. We also discuss Suzannah's book tour and the readings she has done at sex clubs, where she incorporates the element of pleasure and orgasm into her readings. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 05 May 2024 | #209 - The Roots of Feminism and How It's Impacted the Lives of Sex Workers with Dr. Brandy Wiebe | 01:10:53 | |
It's rare that my vanilla world and SW world collide...so you'd best believe I was absolutely thrilled when my colleague and friend, Dr. Brandy Wiebe, pulled me aside at one of our work get-togethers and asked if she could chat with me on the podcast. As a professor at UBC in the Department of Sociology, Brandy is esteemed academic with research specializing in sex, gender and sexuality and feminism. We speak about the history of feminism and how the roots its had in contemporary laws that condemn SW and the impact its had. We discuss the roots of where anti-SW was formed, where it's based and we can kind of see a cyclical repeat happening to our community through general whorephobia. I had such a great conversation with Brandy and we will likely be chatting about this again at our next gettogether! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 15 May 2022 | #119 – A Review on the Shift in Language and Terminology Amongst the Trans Community w/ Velvet Steele | 01:15:14 | |
With so much emphasis on the trans community in recent times regarding gender affirming surgery and trans rights, I think it was time to have an overdue conversation with trans activist, Velvet Steele. Velvet is a longtime educator, advocate, SWer and icon in the queer community in Vancouver who I’ve been looking forward to having on the show. Velvet provides her crystal clear perspective on how language has shaped, impacted and harmed the community. Going from the past to present, we discuss problematic terms such as a sex reassignment surgery to outdated and offensive terms like “shemale” and how other buzzwords have discriminated and harmed the trans community. We speak about the importance in language and how its become more trans inclusive, shying away from terms we had once used in the past. Velvet took so much time to answer many fan questions and gives us a crash course on trans history – a fantastically educational episode that you don’t want to miss. Catch the video exclusive of Velvet and I only on Patreon: patreon.com/strippedbysia Don’t forget to LIKE, SHARE, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 20 Oct 2024 | #226 - Tough Conversations: Talking to Family, Friends, and Your Kids About Sex Work with ShaeCutie | 01:09:31 | |
I am SO excited that I get to reconnect with Season 1 OG guest, ShaeCutie, a seasoned sex worker, to discuss the evolution of her career and the stigma she's faced over the span of her career. We explore the importance of destigmatizing sex work, navigating tough conversations with family and friends, and the impact of judgment on sex workers. Shay shares her journey of coming out to her family, discussing her work with her children, and the lessons learned from her experiences in the sex work industry. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, self-acceptance, and the importance of creating a supportive environment for discussions about sex work. Get in touch with ShaeCutie below: This episode was brought to you by PS: Group. An adult marketing agency for the independent creator-driven era, PS: Group offers a comprehensive range of creative services designed exclusively for sex workers, by sex workers. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 13 Feb 2022 | #106 - A "Pee"-R Nightmare Gone Wrong: Rebuilding Your Following After You've Lost Everything w/ Kactus Kutie | 01:15:40 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault.*** I am very hapPEE to be bringing on this week’s guest today, Kactus Kutie! This model, photographer, ecosexual, podcast host (of the Candygirl Network) and digital content creator specializes in niche fetishes, primarily within the hairy community and piss play. She is a profound nature lover that enjoys incorporating her fetishes outside in nature. Where things went wrong was when she was interviewed about selling a cup of her pee that went viral on various social media outlets. Excited about the opportunity, the journalist went too far reporting on this sensationalized story which lead to Kactus’ OnlyFans account being deleted with little to no warning. Having built her following scratch from 2017 and amassing 5000+ subscribers, she was left scrambling on trying to get her account back with no avail. Kactus shares her story on what happened, the dire consequences that simple buzzwords may have and explains on how she is dealing with the whole ordeal. Watch part of our interview in video format on Patreon: Patreon.com/strippedbysia Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 05 Jun 2022 | #122 – Dissecting Artificial Intelligence: Being Aware of the Impact that Algorithms, Apps and Platforms May Have on You w/ Dr. Mistress Snow | 01:09:23 | |
I have been patiently awaiting for this episode to be released! I am really excited to pair my nerdiness on artificial intelligence and sex work on this episode with fellow dominatrix, researcher and professor, Dr. Mistress Snow, onto the show this week! Dr. Snow is an adjunct professor and researcher at NYU at the AI Now Institute and the UCLA Center for Critical Intelligence and as a sex worker, she understands the many discriminatory practices through artificial intelligence that major platforms and companies adopt to prevent sex workers from doing our jobs. Dr. Snow opens up about her current research, shares her thoughts on the recent acquisition of Twitter by Elon Musk and what that might mean for sex workers, and ways that artificial intelligence works in ways that do not allow us to thrive. It is a completely fascinating conversation (atleast for me!) that absolutely affects our livelihood and how we conduct business. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 05 Jan 2020 | #17 - Rebirth, Reincarnation and Racism w/ Naomi Vice | 00:53:58 | |
As performers, we sometimes need to disappear and take a break - and that's totally okay. This week on the podcast, we speak with Naomi Vice, formerly known as Rocket Ray, aka Felicia, on why she had to leave the industry and how her life experiences affected her comeback. We ask her about her reincarnation in the industry and how much she's grown from it. We also touch a bit on the touchy subject of racism (yes, it's 2020 and it still exists) within the dancer industry. Do you agree that it's a thing? If not, you might want to check your privilege here. Find Naomi on social:
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| 19 May 2024 | (2021) The War on Pornography: Fear Mongering, Sex Education and the Role of Schools and Parenting with Carlie McPhee of The Whole SHEbang | 01:11:07 | |
***TW: mention of sexual assault in this episode.*** We’re taking a bit of a turn this week as I excitedly bring on my colleague from one of my vanilla gigs, Carlie McPhee, a sexual health educator based in Vancouver, Canada to speak to us about the so-called effects of pornography on children. We analyze the newly-released documentary, “Raised on Porn”, as requested by one of you listeners (thanks @gallegosmash!). He wanted to know if this film was based on factual merit or evidentiary research or if it was sensationalism at its finest. If you’ve been a long-time listener of the show, you may know that us sex workers get the brunt end of stigmatization, tasteless jokes, the short end of the stick when it comes to policy and acknowledgement, and the list can go on. I bring on Carlie this week to dissect the unintentional role pornography plays in kids’ lives when growing up: as a sexual education tool. We also discuss sexual health education in schools and at home and discuss where the responsibility should lie amongst our kids and youth. With porn being so accessible nowadays, where does it belong? What should we do about it? Share your thoughts with us! Find Carlie online at : Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 11 Aug 2024 | #216 - When It's Time to Ditch Your 9-5 for a Career in the Adult Industry with Addis Fouche | 00:59:39 | |
There are a lot of us that don't do SW full-time. A lot of us do SW on the side or are moonlighting at night time after our 9-5s, which is totally okay. I bring on adult creator, model, speaker, and entrepreneur, Addis Fouche, onto the show to discuss how she left her career in advertising for a full-time career in the adult industry. We chat about balancing vanilla work with sex work, the right timing to transition to full-time sex work, public speaking, and advocacy. Addis shares her background growing up in Brooklyn and attending boarding school, her experiences as a sugar baby and adult content creator, and her involvement in grassroots organizations supporting sex workers. The conversation highlights the importance of humanizing sex workers and breaking down stereotypes and the challenges of balancing multiple careers and income streams. She emphasizes the importance of trial and error, setting short-term and long-term goals, and having a consistent income stream. Addis also shares her strategies for time management, self-care, and maintaining privacy while showcasing her personality online. She highlights the significance of rest, financial planning, and investing in professional help. Addis emphasizes the need for sex workers to be seen as multifaceted individuals and challenges the stigma surrounding their work. She shares her journey of self-discovery and self-expression, using her platform to educate and empower others. Follow Addis Fouche in her links below: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 06 Feb 2022 | #105 - When Anal Sex Scenes Get Cut: You Fall into Stand-Up Comedy w/ Kate Kennedy | 01:02:56 | |
Be prepared for some laughs on this episode because I am sitting down with Los Angeles-based comedian, former porn actress, content creator and podcast host, Kate Kennedy of The Kennedy Assassination, The Camgirl Chronicles Podcast and Two Girls One Mic: The Porncast. How a random job at a small porn production got Kate hired in Portland, Oregon, working behind the scenes, into her taking her first baby steps in front of the camera. Kate loved it so much that she eventually packed her bags and headed for sunny LA. There, Kate racked up many awards and nominations for her work in porn, slowly rising the ranks in the porn scene until COVID-19 shut her dreams down. Dabbling in stand-up comedy, Kate was able to share her experiences, both good and bad, as a comedy goldmine for material, gracing many of Hollywood’s oldest stand-up stages. It was such a pleasure to have Kate onto the show this week to lighten the load. Be sure to catch her on her various channels – she’s a total gem! Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 09 Jul 2023 | #175 - Submitting to Submission: Subbing at a Commercial Dungeon with Stephanie Parent | 01:08:07 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault at the 40 minute mark.*** A new topic on the podcast? Like, BRAND NEW. There is so much focus on domination and dominatrixes in our industry that it was finally time to shed some light on being a professional submissive. I speak to Stephanie Parent, a professional submissive who used to work in a commercial dungeon in Los Angeles. Stephanie shares with us how she got into being a submissive, learning the ropes (literally and figuratively) on the fly as her first entry point into the sex industry and into the world of BDSM. She describes her experience in working at the dungeon, goes over the interview process, going over safety measures, payment structure and more. Stephanie is also the author of the newly-released novel, which, in part, is also a fictional story based on her life, called The Briars. It was great to have Stephanie on the show to share her expertise on this part of the industry.
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| 22 Dec 2019 | #15 - The Nomadic Life of a Camming Cirque du Soleil Couple w/ R & J from How to Have Threesomes | 01:05:39 | |
Couples camming - it's a thing. Whether you're a girl-on-girl couple, male and female linked romantically or whatever, it's no secret that couples camming make a shit ton of money. But what happens when your audience members try and identify you and threaten to blackmail you? What do you do then? We speak to R & J from the podcast, How to Have Threesomes to speak on their experiences behind the camera while R was in Cirque du Soleil and doubly, as a means to make an income living nomadically. Naturally, we had to speak about threesomes and how it is a regular thing for them - their screening process, how their families reacted, their podcast and of course, how to actually have threesomes. Find R & J on on social:
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| 02 Oct 2022 | #139 - The Isolation, Loss and Sacrifice in Pregnancy and Sex Work w/ Jenna Elissa | 01:08:49 | |
Very excited to bring on my friend, fellow pole athlete and stripper, Jenna Elissa. Jenna and I have known each other for sometime and she was supposed to come on before the pandemic hit but she's finally here joining me on the show for a completely different topic: pregnancy. Jenna (at the time of recording) was 38 weeks pregnant, awaiting her first child. As a SWer, it can be both an exciting time in peoples' lives. Exciting to bring life to a little human but terrifying, because planning for income loss, FOMO, and the segregation can be completely isolating and a burden. Jenna opens up to us about managing her own expectations when it comes to her pregnancy journey, what methods she's had to partake in order to not feel anxious or have FOMO, and what she's looking forward to post-pregnancy. It's an intimate, raw and honest conversation that anyone who plans to have a child and go through pregnancy might need to hear. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 08 Jan 2023 | #152 - Wicked Eden: Documenting Life as a Dominatrix with Alexandra Snow | 01:03:33 | |
I'm really excited to bring on legendary dominatrix, Alexandra Snow, onto the show this week. Alex has been an icon in the dominatrix space of our community for almost two decades. She is not only a well-known dominatrix, but she was also a mentor to many aspiring dominatrices-to-be. I invited her onto the show to speak about the documentary that centers around her, aptly titled, Wicked Eden, which shares the name of her dungeon in Columbus, Ohio. The documentary focuses on Alex's experience as a dominatrix, how she navigates through society, her relationships, and family. After watching, I was curious (and impressed) to hear about much of an excellent job the she, along with her creative direction and her producer's leadership, was able to portray for our community of sex workers. The documentary tackled a lot of the societal stigmas that comes with being a sex worker, the very real challenges that workers face, and the no bullshit reality of what sex work really is. Besides the documentary, we speak about Wicked Eden 2.0 - her new 6000 sq ft dungeon that will be debuting in the spring! Alex shares with us a ton of knowledge in this episode and I'm feeing super lucky to have had the opportunity to have her on! You can can watch Wicked Eden via rental on YouTube, Amazon and iTunes:
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| 09 Apr 2023 | #165 - Accessible Therapy for Sex Workers with Leya Tanit of Pineapple Support | 00:58:02 | |
It's a glorious long weekend here in Canada and since you're all at home (or maybe hustling!), I wanted to bring you a great episode with none other than Leya Tanit. Leya is the founder of Pineapple Support, therapy and additional support for sex workers. Leya, a long-time veteran in the BDSM space identified early on in her career that there was a lack of accessible therapy in the SW community. Because our work is so highly stigmatized, it can be challenging for SWers to find therapists who are qualified to provide support for those in our field without feeling judged. That, and some therapists hold biases or haven't even undergone the correct sensitivity training to work with marginalized groups. With this in mind, Leya went on to create Pineapple Support to fill the void. Leya breaks down the current offerings that Pineapple Support provides, some on a sliding scale and goes over the many free services that the organization provides and goes over who it services. In need of extra support? With 24/7 and countless services, you'll want to check out Pineapple Support. Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 14 Feb 2021 | #59 - Check Yourself: Undoing, Unlearning and Unraveling w/ AMD of Yes, a Stripper Podcast | 01:05:44 | |
Just keeping the momentum going here with super strong, incredible and knowledgeable guests in the sex worker space making a difference and making waves. I invited AMD of the Yes, A Stripper Podcast to come onto the show to speak intimately about her experiences stripping in LA, the realization of her white privilege, the gentrification of strip clubs in LA, social media monitoring censorship, amputation and more. I get up close and personal with AM as she lets us into her world. This serial entrepreneur opens up about her various ventures in both sex worker advocacy (Soldiers of Pole) and the pole dancing world (United Pole Artists and Everybody Visible) and the divide that has been going on FOREVER and what her thoughts on it in this current environment. No conversation in regards to the policing of sex work is complete without a mention of FOSTA/SESTA and we briefly touch on that topic in regards to the censorship that's happening in our space. There are a lot of things that we discuss and some excellent Q&A questions from the audience. Strap in and come along for the ride.
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| 27 Dec 2020 | #53 - The Gentrification of the Exotic Dancer w/ Madame Nova Caine | 01:29:34 | |
The last episode of the year and we are going out with a BAAAAAAANG! I invite Madame Nova Caine onto the show to speak about...pretty much everything. 53 episodes in and it's important to review and educate all you listeners out there where the term "exotic" in exotic dancer came from. We dive deep into the history of sex work, acknowledging its colonial roots as brown and black bodies being a muse for the white man and how this colonizing perspective is found even in today's world. The competing views of sex workers and the pole community continue to be on edge as we discuss the Pleasers controversy that happened earlier this month and what Nova Caine believes how erotic movement classes should be taught in studios. We also get cozy with Nova Caine as she shares with us intimate details of her military discharge and the role it played in her family, her sex work and the chronic pain it left her at age 21 and how stripping serves as physical therapy for her. We get into some heated topics on this episode but the overarching theme is the same: giving credit where credit is due. Thank you again to all of the loyal listeners. There will be more episodes going straight through 2021 - stay tuned! Don't forget LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 16 Feb 2020 | #23 - Intersecting Movements: Burlesque, Filipino Arnis, Dance Hall and...WRESTLING!? w/ Pocket Phoenix | 00:57:05 | |
Pocket Phoenix joins us today on the podcast to speak about her movement journey which eventually lead to her stripping in the city. Originally of burlesque origins, she branched off into other interdisciplinary forms of movement and dance including FIlipino arnis, Jamaican dance hall and wrestling! Yes, wrestling - who knew!? Through dance, she was able to become reacquainted with her Filipino heritage - something that was lost years ago over a broken friendship and was able to find herself and to mend a broken heart post-break up. She speaks about her experience at the Burlesque Hall of Fame with Screaming Chickens back in the day and touches on great resources for strippers in terms of podcasts (this isn't the only one out there!), stripper courses and one-on-ones. IG:
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| 12 Apr 2020 | #31 - Gay Escorting, Gay Porn and Growing up as Gay in the United Arab Emirates w/ Hamed Raidd | 00:59:51 | |
We have our very first gay-identifying male sex worker on the show today - please welcome Hamed Raidd! It's so interesting to hear of an individual with so many contradicting backgrounds and layers: identifying as gay, being of Arab descent and growing up in an Islamic country - there is SO much to breathe and take in on this episode! Hamed opens up about growing up in the United Arab Emirates, addressing issues like gender segregation and censorship. Since coming to Canada, he slowly discovered what the term "gay" meant and was intrigued by what he had discovered. He has since then gotten into porn and escorting as a gay male and has faced racial stereotyping and challenges with role playing in porn. As a male, he faces both similar yet very different issues in the sex industry - we uncover these issues and more on this episode.
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| 15 Nov 2020 | #47 - "Would You Like Whipped Cream on That?" - A Caffeinated Conversation with a Bikini Barista w/ Mya Banks | 00:54:26 | |
I've been following one of Vancouver's local dancers on Instagram for a little while now only to find out that she's moved down to AMERICA! Wait, what? During a global pandemic? HOW?! I caught up with Mya Banks to speak about her big move down to Washington and her new career change: a bikini barista. From stripping on western Canada's stages to club closures due to the pandemic and a heartbreaking familial situation, Mya decided it was time to pack up and leave. It was time for a new change. With the big move, she had to pivot and find a new job. She was able to find a job that mixed her exhibitionism and killer good looks as a bikini barista. What is that exactly? A naked Starbucks? How do you get paid? What does that entail? You'll have to listen to the entire episode to find out about this form of sex work and how lucrative it can really be. It's a shift in a somewhat different direction with earlier hours, great tips and a helllllllll of a lot of caffeine! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 26 Jun 2022 | #125 - A Historic Win: Decriminalization of SW in Belgium w/ Quentin Deltour of Espace P | 01:33:32 | |
I've got to say, I was a little nervous yet super excited to record this week's episode. I had a riveting conversation with Brussels-based, Espace P, a non-profit organization which helps and protects sex workers in Belgium. I got the opportunity to speak with their public relations representative, Quentin Deltour, to learn more about the organization, the history and who Espace P helps, and how much of a resource they are for sex workers based in Belgium. Although it is a small country, Belgium became the first European country to decriminalize sex work back in March of this year. We speak about the struggles that sex workers have experienced in Belgium, what this decision may mean and what will happen moving forward for sex workers and clients. English is not Quentin's first language so please practice patience with him as he navigates throughout our conversation. Watch the video exclusive on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 01 Nov 2020 | #45 - How to Strip and Travel Around the World (When It Opens Up Again) w/ Angela from The Striptease Agency | 00:56:01 | |
Curious about wanting to strip around the world and travel while doing it? Although it's still COVID, this can be a reality for you depending on where you live or may come true when the world opens up again and Angela from The Striptease Agency tells us all how to do it. An exotic dancer herself with almost 10 years of experience in the field, Angela visits and vouches for the clubs herself while building a relationship with club owners and the people that run them. After getting into stripping and living in multiple countries, she decided to build her own agency and treat dancers well by sending them off halfway around the world to the best and most lucrative clubs all over Europe, Japan, South Africa and even Guam! She shares her best and worst experiences stripping and tells us how she can hook you up with bookings. Excited? Tune into the full episode to hear how you can inquire and maybe you'll be on the next flight to your next destination!
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| 15 Mar 2025 | #245 - Advocating for Your Personal and Professional Space in Sex Work with Ameena Green and Willow Ryder | 01:11:20 | |
This week, I welcome adult film stars, Ameena Green and Willow Ryder, to discuss their experiences in the adult industry. The conversation covers their personal journeys, the importance of research and preparation before entering the industry, financial discipline, and the dynamics of living and working together. They also touch on the significance of communication on set, self-care practices, and maintaining boundaries with fans while fostering a genuine connection. We also delve into the complexities of navigating fan expectations, the importance of community support, and the challenges of building a positive reputation in the adult industry. They discuss the need for clear boundaries with fans, the significance of having a supportive network, and how to address harmful behavior within the industry. The conversation also touches on the pros and cons of working in the adult industry, offering valuable advice for those considering entering this field. | |||
| 13 Dec 2020 | #51 - Devotees and Disability Fetish: The Act of Caring or Crossing the Line? w/ Rafael Hotrod | 01:23:55 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING*** This week I will be discussing sex work and disability. If this triggers you, you may want to skip this episode. I invite disabled sex worker, Rafael Hotrod, onto the show today to speak about his sexuality, how he expresses that in his disabled state, the stigma that comes with a physical disability, finding carecaregivers and more. He has recently forayed into sex work during the pandemic after years of pondering and has finally taken the plunge. What made him do it? Is there a market out there for disabled bodies? How does he shoot his content? From having years of experience with gay male escorts, Rafael has finally started to produce his own content. He shares with us a fetish that I had no idea about: disability fetish. He explains the different subgroups of disability, devotee community, admirers, pretenders and more. I know what some of you may be thinking: this isn't moral, this is unethical but hear this one out. Rafael gives us an in-depth and thought-out answer to this niche community and fetish that will have you second-guessing your own judgment.
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| 21 Feb 2021 | #60 - The Ultimate Guide to Selling Your Used Panties w/ Dalma Rosa of the Panty Selling Podcast | 01:20:14 | |
Oooooh, this is a good one. And I'm ashamed to admit I haven't done an episode on this subject but here goes! This week's episode is all about selling your used panties. Has this thought ever come across your mind? Maybe it piqued your interest while watching the last couple seasons of Orange is the New Black? Perhaps you may have considered it. Even if you haven't, you'll still want to listen in to this episode as I have got the ultimate guest on this week to share the ins and outs of this business: Dalma Rosa of the Panty Selling Podcast! Dalma has been in the panty selling game for the past two years and has been so gracious to share her mistakes, tips, and overall expertise on the world of used panties. No, selling used panties is not just a stereotypical thing that Japanese men are into (nor do we even discuss the on the pod!) but it is a viable source of income and is an industry that is thriving. Dalma and I discuss the marketing around buying and selling, the logistics when it comes to shipping your used goods out (and best practices on how to preserve the scent!), safety and security surrounding your pictures and videos, the types of underwear are the most popular, where her clients are located, and so much more. That, and we'll be discussing Dalma's other ventures that she has started since this whole thing unexpectedly blew up for her. Tune in and maybe we'll be seeing you on one of the many used ware sites on the web! Dalma has also been so generous to give listeners of Stripped by SIA 20% off all available courses on PantySellingSchool.com as well as 10% off all purchases on Pantygasm.com using code "SIA" at checkout. Thank you so much, Dalma!
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| 02 Feb 2025 | #239 - Race Play: Profitable or Problematic? with Savannah | 01:04:43 | |
This week, we dive into a deep conversation with Savannah, a South Asian sex worker, about the complexities of race play in the sex work industry. They explore Savannah's journey from being a full-service sex worker to a cam model, the intersection of art and sex work, and the cultural perspectives surrounding sex work, particularly for people of colour. The discussion also delves into the profitability and problematic nature of race play, highlighting the nuances and challenges faced by sex workers in navigating their identities and the demands of their clients. We discuss the performative aspects of roles, the dynamics of power in domination and submission, and the necessity of healthy detachment from their work personas. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, setting boundaries, and the ability to say no, while also encouraging clients to explore their sexuality in a safe and respectful manner. Follow Savannah below:
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| 28 Nov 2021 | #96 - Human Trafficking: What It Can Really Look Like w/ Brandi Wood | 01:09:35 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Human trafficking*** This week, I sit down with full service sex worker, Brandi Wood, whom I connected with recently to touch base on the topic of human trafficking. Often times, when we think of somebody being trafficked, images of children in Southeast Asian with older men might come to mind, or perhaps images of Eastern European or Asian women may flash through your head. These are images that are fed to us through mass media. I, too, fell prey to this and I am still working on unwiring my brain to think differently because I was able to sit down with someone who was trafficked as a teen. My guest this week, Brandi Wood, was trafficked as a teenager. She was introduced to an opportunity "to make some money" by one of her family members, another victim of trafficking, and it wasn't until very recently that Brandi even realized that she was trafficked. She was made to work in a massage parlour in Buffalo, NY. Although the working conditions were described as safe, Brandi had no idea that she was being trafficked into the sex trade. Human trafficking can take form in many different ways and this is just one of them. Thank you so much, Brandi, for coming out the show and sharing your story. Brandi's recommended resources: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!!! | |||
| 28 Jun 2020 | COVID-19 Series 8: Hanging Up the Pleasers - Talking Retirement w/ Maddy Moore | 00:47:00 | |
There comes a time a person's career when they realize it's time to move on. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't but it was certainly the case for Maddy Moore. The recent retiree and former exotic recently had her last booked gig at the No. 5 Orange and she reminisces on how she got started in the industry, some of the great clubs she danced at, her downtime during COVID-19 and her exciting entrepreneurial plans for the future. Whether retirement is something you've planned or something you want to do in the future, Maddy shares some great tips, tricks and advice she wishes she had received in the beginning. Happy retirement, Maddy and best wishes to you and your future endeavours!
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| 21 Apr 2024 | #207 - What Dating is REALLY Like as a Sex Worker with Danica Darling of 50 Plus a Tip | 01:07:19 | |
It's a little reunion episode! Stoked to bring former Season 1 guest, Danica from the 50 Plus a Tip Podcast! Danica is a stripper and online content creator and she does NOT hold back on dishing it all on what dating has been like for her as a SWer. As you can probably expect, there's some good, there's a lot of bad and a ton of great advice that Danica shares with us on this episode. To disclosure, meeting friends and family, to dating horror stories, Danica spills it all. Listen in on this super fun episode! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 05 Dec 2021 | #97 - Pimped: A Story of Manipulation, Power, Control, Abuse and Sex w/ Cougar Nikki | 01:28:34 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING – Mention of sexual assault, substance abuse, physical abuse, pimps.*** Huge episode this week. It’s been a while since we’ve had a long-form episode on the podcast, eh? Well, this week is certainly deserving of the length as it is a fascinating and heartbreaking episode that I have had the pleasure to share. I speak with fellow full service sex worker, Cougar Nikki, this week on the podcast to tell us her story on how she was pimped as a young teenager and then trafficked across Canada by her pimps. She tells us of her backstory, how she ended up on the “tracks” of Winnipeg, Canada, the emotional and physical abuse she’s had to endure, the manipulation tactics of her pimps, the power of control, and how she was able to finally get out. Nikki’s story, which occurred in her teenage years during the 90s, is a riveting one, eye-opening, and a different landscape compared to how it is now. It’s a longer episode but well-worth the listen! Please note that a number of names and affiliations were censored in this episode due to protection and to ensure anonymity as Nikki’s former pimps are still around, to her knowledge. Please excuse the number of censored beeps in this episode. Resources:
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| 17 Dec 2023 | #192 - The Do's and Don'ts of Freelance and Bondage Modelling with Ariel Anderssen | 01:14:25 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, voyeurisum.*** Excited to bring on renknowned BDSM model, Ariel Anderssen, onto the show this week to close out the year! Ariel is a freelance model, professional submissive and adult content creator based in the UK. She is also the author of her brand new book, Playing to Lose, an autobiography about her life. With over 20 years of experience, I bring on Ariel to speak about model safety and why it is so important to be prepared and be cautious when working with other photographers and videographers. Ariel goes into her humble beginnings as a model and shares her mistakes so you don't have to. Ariel goes on to provide her personal tips and tricks on ensuring her safety while working with other photographers and some red flags to look out for. This episode is a must-listen and contains lots of resourceful information that applies to our careers in the adult industry.
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| 23 Jul 2023 | (2022) Porn Debunked: Imposter Syndrome, Reality vs. Fantasy and Defining "Ethical" Porn with Alison Rey | 01:10:06 | |
Enjoy this throwback episode to 2022 with Alison Rey! New episodes coming soon at the end of the summer. Folks, I am so stoked to bring on this week's guest onto the show! If you haven't heard of Alison Rey, she is a longstanding adult performer and producer in the industry who will be giving us an insight on the porn industry. Alison shares with us her story on how she got into porn, having the choice to say no to scenes you don't want to do, challenging certain storylines in porn and how she went from performing to producing...and back to performing. She lays it all down for us this week in debunking some myths about squirting and performers using enhancements and gets real vulnerable with us in struggling with imposter syndrome, questioning what "ethical porn" really is and acknowledges just how fun filming cheesy porn is. It's a packed episode that really gives us insight on how the industry work from someone who has been both in front and behind the camera. Watch the video exclusive on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 11 Oct 2020 | #42 - The Not So Average Job of Being a Production Manager in the Adult Industry w/ Mo Reese | 01:06:59 | |
We're flipping the perspective this week and we're diving deep behind the scenes with Mo Reese. Mo is a veteran production manager, producer, and director of 15+ years of experience in the adult industry and has possibly worked with or shot with your favourite pornstars! As a photographer by trade, he ended up in the industry by accident. Since then he hasn't left the scene. Since then, he's flourished from being a stunt dick on set and creating a ton his own online content with his polyamorous girlfriend (and also, fellow pornstar), Karla Lane, amongst other pornstars. He's also the host of his own podcast, More with Mo, where he interviews hundreds of pornstars (literally, he's over 300+ episodes now!). Mo doesn't shy away from the dirty and super technical details of what goes really goes down on a porn set. Does he get turned on when he's shooting? What are the best "OMG" stories and shocking stories? All this and more on this week's episode.
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| 14 Jun 2020 | COVID-19 Series 6: Welcome Back to the World Famous No. 5 Orange w/ Randi | 00:50:32 | |
Strip clubs are reopening again, YAY! This week we speak with Randi, an exotic dancer employed at the No. 5 Orange on her experience with the pandemic, dancing pre- and post-quarantine and new protocols that are currently in place. The No. 5 Orange is the first strip club in Canada to reopen - but of course, with new health regulations in place. What kind of standards have they instilled? What is it going to be like for future patrons and club goers? What about the safety and wellbeing of the dancers? And most importantly, what about their legendary lap dances? Randi shares her story on how her first week went at the club and what it means for her health, income and future.
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| 02 Mar 2025 | #243 - A Female-Centric Approach to Ethical Porn with Todd Spates of Yanks.com | 01:08:39 | |
In this episode of Stripped by Sia, host Steph Sia engages in a deep conversation with Todd Spates, co-founder of Yanks, a 100% female-produced adult content platform. They discuss the journey of sex work, the importance of ethical porn, and the appeal of amateur content. Todd shares insights into the origin of Yanks, the significance of creating safe spaces for models, and the challenges of navigating male representation in a female-centric industry. The conversation emphasizes the need for transparency and understanding in the adult industry, aiming to destigmatize sex work and promote female empowerment. In this conversation, Todd discusses the importance of creating a safe space in adult production, the differences between the male and female gaze in adult content, and the concept of ethical pornography. He emphasizes the need for transparency and accountability within the adult industry, particularly in light of the challenges faced by models and creators. Todd also shares insights about Yanks, a platform that focuses on authentic adult content, and highlights innovative projects, including the integration of AI and global outreach efforts to diversify representation in adult entertainment. | |||
| 04 Dec 2022 | #147 - Battling with Burnout, Balance and Boundaries with Spencer Bradley | 01:20:35 | |
We've all been there. Burnout. Sex workers are no stranger to burnout. As independent contractors, we are not always in the position to say no to work so I invite adult performer, Spencer Bradley, onto the show to share their experiences on how they deal with it all. Having worked as a stripper previously, we compare and contrast just how vastly different working as a dancer is vs. working on-screen in pornography. The luxury and privilege of having the choice to not go to work or hide in the change room differs greatly than when you're working on set. You have to work through it and put your happy face on which doesn't always contribute to a healthy mentality. Spencer shares their methods on how they prevent getting burnt out, recognizing your boundaries and how they practice unwinding. Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 13 Nov 2022 | BONUS - Sex Work is Work (LIVE Guest Lecture at Florida State University 11.8.22) | 00:51:10 | |
I know I don't post bonus episodes anymore but today is an exception! I guest lectured recently at Florida State University in their Human Sexuality class where I spoke to class of eager and curious students about sex work. It's always a pleasure to speak to this class and every cohort is different and I so very much appreciate the respectfulness and all of the questions that were asked in class. Thanks Alicia for having me! Watch the video exclusive + bonus episodes only on Patreon: patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 03 Oct 2021 | #89 - Taking the “Revenge” Out of Revenge Porn w/ Erika Smith of Take Back the Tech | 01:13:39 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of rape and sexual assault in this episode.*** Such a juicy topic today and one that I have literally been DYING to report on forever. This week we discuss “revenge porn”. It’s a term that you’re likely familiar with but we actually don’t call it that anymore. Gender-based internet violence or non-consensual image distribution is the correct term that we are using to describe it nowadays and I bring on Erika Smith of Take Back the Tech, a global organization working end violence against women (especially harms that are conducted online!), reporting in from Mexico to teach us all a lesson today on what is popularly known as “revenge porn”. There are so many different types of gender based internet violence which we discuss in depth during our time together. We speak about on who it targets, how images or videos may be distributed, how it affects sex workers and what we can to get our content off and how we, as allies, can help.
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| 15 Aug 2021 | #83 - Costuming and Cosplay: Sewing Along Craftmanship, Creativity and Fetishization w/ Serena Rayne | 01:01:54 | |
Sooo excited about this episode! We all know how much fun it is to be on stage (or maybe you don’t do stage) or atleast how fun it is to play dress up in our respective lines of work. Whether it's dainty lingerie, something silky and sultry, or maybe it's campy, there is always an artist behind the outfit. This week, I bring on Alberta-based dancer, Serena Rayne, to speak abut her love for anime (Japanese animation), cosplay, and sewing. Because we were (and are) anime geeks, we gush about our favourite shows, what we grow up with and how it influenced us. Anime played a major role in Serena's life which led her to working at fellow princess parties and later, channeling those costumes on stage as a stripper. Serena now creates all of her costumes from scratch which is super impressive since she is completely self-taught! But can a white woman playing dress up be equally as harmful, opposite of the fantasy they are portraying? Because some costumes are dangerously close to emanating culture, traditions and bear cultural significance, we just had to speak about appropriation and the fetishization of costumes and how that may further perpetuate negative stereotypes about certain races, genders and so on. Even if you aren't an anime lover, tune in because Serena provides so much great insight on all of these topics as mentioned above! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 10 Sep 2023 | #178 - Becoming a Master at Creating Solo Content with Bea York | 01:03:23 | |
A lot of you (including myself!) are solo content creators. We make all of our own content and are responsible for the storyboarding, lighting, editing, audio...and the list goes on! Or perhaps you collaborate with other creators and make your own content to diversify what's on on your roster. Whatever your reason is, it is really helpful to hear some expert advice and tips from one of the pros and that's why I brought solo creator and clip artist, Bea York, onto the show to speak about this very topic. Bea has been in the adult industry for some time now and creates some of the most captivating and sexy, and not to mention award-winning, clips photosets and videos. She shares with us some of her secrets to success and really gets into detail on what's worked best for her. She discusses some specific equipment, tips on framing, lighting, and applicable tips on how to really sell your personality. It was really great to get to know Bea and for her to be such a huge resource on this very episode. Enjoy!
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| 19 Sep 2021 | #87 - The Art of Humiliation, Ethical Domination and Slavework w/ Miss Quail Avara | 01:16:15 | |
Because you all LOVE learning about dominatrices and the kink and fetish life, I just had to bring another one on this week! I am so excited to bring on Miss Quail Avara onto the show this week. She is a dominatrix hailing from Georgia, USA who I had the opportunity to connect with over a recent episode that was recorded previously. We speak about about virtual domming, busting myths about what we stereotypically know about doms, and at what point does domming cross the line. We also learn about what is expected out of a responsible dom and how it goes hand-in-hand with fetish and kink work. We also delightfully discuss how her and her “husboy” met (who I mention was her former slave!), how that relationship grew and what the past and current slave/dom dynamics work in her household. Last but not least, Quail doesn’t hold back on her hate for OnlyFans and expresses her love for AVN Stars. Amidst everything that’s been going on, it sounds like a great option if you haven’t diversified already! Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 05 Apr 2020 | #30 - A Little Less Conversation and a Hell of a Lot of Rock 'N Roll w/ Dora Kola | 00:49:03 | |
We're getting a little bit loud and a little bit rowdy today with none other than DORA FUCKING KOLA herself! I'm a supporter of any fellow person of colour (especially Asians!) in the industry and I just knew I had to have her on the podcast at some point. With roots in broadcasting and as an award-winning rock radio DJ, this girl was meant to be an entertainer. The amount of energy and passion she has not only for music and dancing not only shows on-stage, but is also so apparent in her interview here on the pod. But it's not all about the glitz and glam. Dora opens up about how she was bullied as a kid, slut-shamed in high school, experienced online harassment from her former colleagues when working in Alberta and the racism she's felt on stage as an Asian dancer. She spills a LOT on this episode and isn't afraid to throw shade at her haters. Learn more about how music has helped guide her way through life and how it has shaped and changed her as an entertainer.
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| 22 Nov 2020 | #48 - Finding a Niche Feeding Hungry Strippers in the Stripper Capital of the USA w/ Nikeisah Newton of Meals 4 Heels | 01:02:10 | |
We're talking about two of my favourite things this week: food and sex work. That, along with two of my other favourite topics on the podcast: resiliency and allyship. I catch up with Nikeisah Newton of the Portland-based, Meals 4 Heels, a late-night food delivery service fueling hungry strippers with healthy and wholesome food. It was a niche that Nikeisah identified when she left her job as a cook in Portland's restaurant scene. Wanting to support her then dancer ex-girlfriend, she packed up some home cooked lunches for her which she brought to the club and ended up drawing some attention from other local dancers. Before she knew it, things started taking off and word let out. She's now not only feeding sex workers across Portland, but also providing food to the Portland's frontline workers, protesters, LGBTQ and the greater community. Meals 4 Heels is a Black-owned, queer-friendly, and sex worker-supportive business - be sure to order from her if you're based in Portland!
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| 25 Sep 2023 | #180 - Lobbying and Advocating for the Decriminalization of Sex Work with David Mickenberg and Henri of the Ishtar Collective | 01:02:07 | |
This episode has been a long time coming and after some technical difficulties during the first round and some major anxiety, I have gotten the group together to record this fantastic episode on what's happening in the east coast of the USA. You might've heard an earlier episode this season on the decriminalization front in Vermont with Misha Montana (Episode #170) and you can think of this episode as a response/part 2 continuation of that conversation. On today's episode, I invite David Mickenberg and Henri of the Ishtar Collective onto the show to speak about what collective efforts they have been working on towards pushing for decriminalization in Vermont. David is a political lobbyist who has had much experience lobbying for harm reduction and other related causes against marginalized groups in the state of Vermont. Henri's experience in advocacy in organizing spans across her time in various states. In this conversation, we speak about the landscape in Vermont -- what's happening with sex work, how has the public received it, and where they are receiving support. It's a riveting conversation (and a hopeful and progressive one too!). Henri - The Ishtar Collective (https://www.ishtarcollective.org/) David Mickenberg Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 14 Nov 2021 | #94 - Privilege in Sex Work w/ Jessie Sage of the On the Whoreizon Podcast | 01:17:42 | |
It’s time to have a conversation about privilege within our community. What does that mean to you? What does that mean? It’s such a huge and hot topic within our industry that people either love or loathe talking about but after a brief tweet went viral, I’m here to start a discussion about it. I am joined by Jessie Sage of On the Whoreizon who I’ve had on the show before (go check out Episode 71!) to help me tackle this behemoth of a topic. We do our best in addressing our own privileges – being white, being cis, being educated, the ability to hold a civ job, being in North America – as we try to untangle what privilege can mean to so many in our community. I was so wrong with when I said that face out could be seen as a privilege and was presented with varying situations where it was out of their control and not their choice. We speak about the challenges of varying dichotomies of being face in vs. face out, contact vs. non-contact work, virtual vs. in-person work, thin vs. fat bodies, white vs. POC, heterosexual vs. LGBTQIA2S+, regionality, experience vs. inexperience. We barely even scratched the surface. An hour just isn’t long enough to fully dissect privilege but alteast we have gotten a conversation going. A big thank you to those who contributed to the show via voice memos. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and stories. Voice memos:
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| 22 Oct 2023 | #184 - What Every Sex Worker Needs to Know About Safety with Amy Taylor | 01:08:23 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING - Mention of assault and attempted murder*** We haven't had an episode in a while that was fully dedicated to safety measures for sex workers so when this week's guest, Amy Taylor, contacted me to hop on the show with her compelling story, I had to give her the throne. Amy is a full service sex worker based in NYC who's had an extensive amount of experience in the biz. Amy is no stranger to starting out her career with some questionable decisions early on but through some sketchy incidences and close calls, including an attempted murder, she lives on and is here on the show this week to tell the tale and to warn other sex workers to keep their guard up. Amy has compiled an extensive list (and even more that we didn't have enough time to cover on the show) on common safety measures that she's adopted over the years and tips and tricks to keep us all safe. Safety is and always should be number one so this keep this episode in mind if you are starting out in the industry or if you're needing a bit of a refresher! I was nominated for an Allyship Award and the 2023 Skripped Down competition, Canada's only by and for sex worker pole competition, happening on November 3rd. I was nominated for Philanthropist of the Year and would appreciate your vote! Please vote for me at the link below - your support would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 21 Aug 2022 | #133 - The Road to Recovery: Overcoming Addiction and the Importance of Support Groups w/ Lula Blue of SHIFT Calgary | 01:07:20 | |
I am absolutely thrilled to bring on Lula Blue of SHIFT Calgary this week onto the show. Lula is a FSSWer based in Calgary, Alberta, Canada who is also a strong advocate for all things sex work-related and who volunteers at SHIFT Calgary, a harm reduction support group for former and current SWers. Lula shares her own story of alcohol addiction early on and the struggles that accompanied that and how it impacted her personal life and even her sex work. On her own road to recovery, she found that support groups were especially helpful in getting her sober. Lula details about her treatment process and stresses the importance of her support groups to enable her to fully heal. She goes on to speak about her volunteer work and the good things she’s doing in her community in regards to advocacy for supporting SWers in Calgary. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 22 Sep 2024 | #222 - All About Anal with Amy Ivy | 01:11:25 | |
This highly-anticipated episode is ALL about anal! I invite our guest this week, Amy Ivy, an online adult creator dedicated to extreme anal content. Amy and I cover common myths and hesitations about anal play, tips for beginners, the importance of relaxation and lube, and the best materials for toys. We also discuss the importance of cleaning toys properly and thoroughly. Throughout the conversation, Amy Ivy shares her expertise on anal play and discusses topics such as sizing up to larger toys, how to identify between discomfort and pain, post-care after playing, and the use of butt plugs in dom and sub dynamics. Lots of great nuggets of information and advice in this episode, including Amy's own personal recipe for lube! Listen in! | |||
| 13 Mar 2022 | #110 - From Camgirl to Pornstar: Setting Yourself Up for Success w/ Leana Lovings | 01:02:26 | |
Okay, everyone. I'd like to introduce you to the CUTEST guest I have ever hosted on the show. I am so happy to have interviewed the cutesy Leana Lovings onto the show! Leana is a cam girl who also just recently journeyed into the world of porn - currently #65 and rising the charts on PornHub! We begin our conversation about her roots and upbringing in a religious household, being raised in a megachurch and how it lead to her hopping onto Chaturbate to explore her sexuality and sensuality. We then go into an in-depth conversation about how she's set herself up for success including what specific webcams she uses, the importance of lighting and microphones to create an intimate setting for all of her fans. She also shares an important PSA on toxic dildos (who knew about that?!) and of course, how she got into porn. We speak about her expectations before going into porn and the realities of it, how she feels about the industry and where she will continue to go from there. It's a fantastic conversation that shouldn't be missed, especially if you are thinking about going into camming or porn! Watch part of the interview in full video format on my Patreon: Patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 07 Aug 2022 | #131 - Power Dynamics and Authority Transfer within Sex Work and BDSM w/ Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey | 01:06:00 | |
We’re nearing the end of Season 4 but I’ve still got some killer guests to bring on over the next couple of weeks!!! I am thrilled to bring this week’s guest onto the show. You may have recognized her from Open House: The Great Sex Experiment on TV, calling in all the way from the UK, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey joins me this week on the show. An esteemed psychologist, GSRD (gender, sex, relationship, diversity) therapist, and polyamorous leatherwoman, Dr. Bisbey brings on a wealth of information and resources to the show. As a trained and knowledgeable professional in the field, Dr. Bisbey and I discuss authority transfer (and why it’s no longer called power play anymore), power dynamics within relationships, clients and sex work, and the importance of being trauma-informed. It’s a super packed episode that I’m sad we could only record for an hour but it’s guaranteed you’ll be walking away with some major takeaways. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE on all podcast platforms!
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| 01 Oct 2023 | #181 - Stripper Competitions: Featuring, Creating, and Touring Domestically and Internationally with Ciara | 01:09:30 | |
Very excited to release this episode with one of my friends, Ciara, who I've known since our baby poler days back in 2016! It's been so lovely and awe-inspiring to watch this girl grow. Ciara is a multi-award-winning international feature who tours all across North America and whom is known for her outstanding feature shows. Ciara started off as a stripper in Vancouver, Canada and has since then, worked her way up the ranks, like her mentor and predecessors before her like legends, Justice Jardine and Jenine Butterfly. Inspired and focused since day 1, Ciara put her blood, sweat, and tears to get her geared up and ready to compete in local stripper competitions like Miss Nude BC and her success has lead her to being invited to large competitions like the Exotic Dance International (EDIs) and more. Ciara shares her journey with us on how exactly she got here as a Canadian being invited to more and more American competitions, divulges on what sets her apart from other dancers, goes over judging criteria for previously mentioned competitions and how she settles in and decompresses when she's not on tour. It's a super fun, energy-packed episode which I know you will all enjoy!
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| 10 Mar 2024 | #201 - Sex Work is Care Work with Fiona Dawson | 01:07:01 | |
Often times, our clients like to dump on us. No, not literally (but maybe they do?!) but moreso dumping on us the woes from life, work stressors, home life, depleting marriages and more. Sometimes our services are sought out for that nurturing care, the the support, the embrace...which is why crises counsellor and fellow SWer, Fiona Dawson, is joining me on this week to speak just about that! Fiona share this perspective that sex work is care work. She compares our work with those who are in the umbrella of care work (ie. therapists, counsellors, social workers, etc.) and we analyze how there is a bit of a double standard going in. Such a fascinating conversation - listen in to the whole episode and let us know what you think! --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Looking for low cost therapy? I can help! My name is Kaitlin Petter and I'm an intern psychotherapist. My rates are as low as $50/hour and I offer sliding scale prices! I work with individuals, couples, and children using an existential approach and somatic focus. I provide in-person therapy in Langley, BC., and Zoom therapy for anyone living in British Columbia, Canada. Check out my profile on Psychology Today (Kaitlin Petter) to learn more about my approach, and book a FREE 15 minute consultation. Find me on Instagram and TikTok @therapreach for free therapy memes and mental health advice. Hope to see you soon! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 06 Sep 2020 | #38 - Fuck Bella Thorne: Sex Worker Appropriation and Celebrities Ruining It For All of Us w/ Saskia | 01:02:24 | |
I think by now everyone is acquainted with what's happening with Bella Thorne and the OnlyFans controversy and of course, I just had to address it on the show! I invited exotic dancer, Saskia, to join me on the show today. She's a fierce and VERY opinionated spirit hailing all the way from Montreal, Canada who wanted to share her two cents on sex worker appropriation. This is happening a lot lately. We're seeing that more and more civilians are once again, taking "interest" in sex work. There has been a huge influx of civvies joining OnlyFans and pole studios thanks to blockbuster hits like Hustlers and strippers being used in major media. This is great and we're all for it; HOWEVER, it's not okay when there is an deliberate erasure of the sex work narrative which is an obvious root in this type of inspiration. Saskia and I banter back and forth about how celebrities and influencers need to give credit where credit is due and to support our fellow sex workers. There is ample opportunity on these celebrity platforms to shed light and to draw attention to how we can help sex workers instead of taking up space. All of this and more on this explosive episode of Stripped by SIA.
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| 25 Apr 2021 | #68 - Fintech: All the Payment Methods You Need to Know About (And Avoid) as a Sex Worker w/ Adrie Rose | 01:00:48 | |
Wow... well, WELCOME TO SEASON 3 EVERYONE!!! What an amazing ride this has been so far! Thank you to everyone who has listened, wrote in, asked questions, recommended and referred guests, those who have reached out, and of course, my insanely intelligent guests - I really couldn't have done this with you all. Season 2 was very politically-charged and dived deeper into my advocacy for sex workers. Season 3 will continue onto ride that wave to further educate civilians, aim to decriminalize sex work and to destigmatize the industry. Thank you. For the Season 3 opener, I invited (and surprised) longtime veteran in the sex industry, Adrie Rose. Adrie was a former escort hailing from Miami, Florida and who now resides in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania as she is attending school. She is a sociology graduate and most of her research is focuses on financial institutions and how they respond to the decriminalization of sex work. We first dive into how she got involved with this type of research and how she ended up in it (because she really didn't want to do it before) and we begin to inspect the increasingly difficult ways marginalized people, often BIPOC, in rural communities don't have access to major financial institutions and the challenges on something so simple as starting up a bank account. We discuss the hurdles that these groups of people go through (often street level-based sex workers) and the impacts it may have on them. The conversation gets even juicier when we zoom in on the topic of fintech: technology and innovation involved in the delivery of financial services. Services such as PayPal, Venmo, and Ca$happ are services that we as sex workers are likely very familiar with as we all use them - or have stopped using them - for a good reason. These services are very particular in who can use their services and guess what, sex workers are not included in that group. We also talk briefly about the rise of cryptocurrency in sex work as well as crowdsourcing platforms and areas that are just not safe for sex workers to use anymore. It's a jam-packed episode. Buckle up and listen in! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 16 Oct 2022 | #141 - The Legalization of Sex Work in Nevada: A Day in the Life of a Courtesan w/ Ariel Ganja | 01:06:43 | |
I can't believe it's taken me this long to record and episode on the legalization of sex work. I know that I advocate for the decriminalization of sex work, but I also think it is fair that we hear from those who are working in a legal capacity. That's why I was so excited when I got the opportunity to interview with Ariel Ganja, a legal courtesan based in the state of Nevada, in the USA. Ariel works at the famed Chicken Ranch just outside of Las Vegas which is a legal, licensed brothel. I was very curious and had SO many questions on what life was like at the Ranch. Ariel and I discuss everything under the sun from what her regular day-to-day looks like, room and board, what she is allowed to bring into the Ranch, how the line up works for clients, picking and choosing and of course, what her stance is on legalization vs. decriminalization. Ariel speaks freely on why legalization has worked for her and offers a unique insight on why this might be a good option for people. As always, I like to a provide a transparent approach to all facets of sex work, including the legal side of it, so I hope that you are able to consume this episode with an open mind and enjoy this conversation I had with Ariel as much as I did. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 23 May 2021 | #72 - Street Walking: The Evolution of Sex Work Before the Age of the Internet w/ Miss Lady Vanessa | 01:13:03 | |
I am beyond ecstatic to bring on Miss Lady Vanessa who is a full-service sex worker based in Nanaimo, British Columbia, Canada. Vanessa tells us the most fascinating story of her life in sex work beginning at the ripe age of 16, being groomed by a local pimp in the big city of Vancouver and getting into sex work in the early 1990s. At the time, sex work, besides stripping amongst other things, was really limited to the streets. She was a street-level prostitute for 3 years when she got “hooked”. After her hiatus, a friend of hers introduced her as her duo partner for some in-person dominatrix sessions and she was hooked yet again – round 2! This time around, she was able to set herself up independently, specializing in the girlfriend experience and her most popular, option: NuRu. This episode we speak extensively of what exactly NuRu is and why you should try this service out immediately. It’s a super packed episode and a reminiscent look at the past in terms of what the landscape of sex work was like before sites like OnlyFans, PornHub, and Backpage existed. Take a step back in time with this episode because we’re going way back. We hope that you enjoy the ride! Miss Lady Vanessa is also looking for a brand new NuRu mattress! If anyone has a spare lying around that they don’t need, please contact and connect with her in her preferred links below. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 02 Feb 2020 | #21 - Eating Disorders, Self-Help DVDs, and Changing Attitudes Towards Sex Workers w/ Keira Kova | 00:57:59 | |
Don't be fooled by her young looks, Keira Kova has a wealth of life experience and at 30, she's just began her foray into the world of stripping! Her attitude going into it was far from accepting, however. After battling anorexia, separating from her husband and joining pole dancing classes, her opinion has wildly changed. Combatting depression, she was able to take control of her body and has surrounded herself with likeminded strippers. Her story surprisingly isn't uncommon. Often times, we, too, have had a negative connotation and outlook on strippers and sex work...but why? We ask that question and many more on this episode of the pod.
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| 23 Feb 2025 | #242 - Viral Content: Where Does the Bar Lie? with Laura Desiree | 01:06:03 | |
This week, I invite Laura Desiree, an intimacy coordinator and sex worker, about the importance of destigmatizing sex work and the role of intimacy coordinators in ensuring safety and consent in adult entertainment. They discuss the challenges faced by sex workers, the significance of community, and the impact of viral content on the industry. The conversation highlights the need for responsible storytelling and the implications of shock content in shaping societal perceptions of sex work. In this conversation, Laura Desiree and Steph Sia delve into the complexities of the sex work industry, discussing the harmful stereotypes and stigma that persist. They explore the impact of fame and the dehumanization of sex workers, emphasizing the need for more nuanced and respectful conversations. The discussion highlights the responsibility of content creators in shaping narratives around sex work and the importance of recognizing the diversity within the industry. Ultimately, they call for a shift in societal perceptions and a deeper understanding of the realities faced by sex workers. | |||
| 23 Mar 2025 | #246 - The Other Side of Strip Club Culture with Dahlia | 01:27:30 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, kidnapping, pimping, physical assault.*** We've talked about how much I loved stripping over the years but this year, we will be discussing the complexities of strip club culture. Joining me this week is my guest Dahlia, a former NY-based dancer. The conversation highlights the challenges faced by dancers, the impact of economic changes, and the empowerment that comes from taking control of one's body and choices and the culture of fear that often silences dancers. They highlight the predatory behaviors that can occur within the industry and the struggles dancers face in navigating relationships while maintaining their professional personas. The conversation emphasizes the need for empowerment and the importance of speaking out against injustices in the workplace. We emphasize the need for a humane approach to interactions, the significance of making customers feel valued, and the necessity of setting boundaries when engaging with clients. We also highlights the critical aspects of health and safety, particularly regarding sexual health and the risks associated with extras in the industry. Lastly, we reflect on the evolution of strip club culture, the accessibility of sex work through platforms like OnlyFans, and their personal journeys within the industry. The conversation highlights the camaraderie and struggles faced by dancers, emphasizing the need for self-care and awareness in a challenging environment. | |||
| 19 Dec 2021 | #99 – Should I Stay or Should I Go? Agency Work vs. Going Indy w/ Elizabeth Weisz | 01:25:09 | |
I’ve been waiting SO LONG to bring this guest onto the show and having had some comments and curiosities surrounding the agency side of full service work, I think it was about time to bring our guest on. I am so excited to finally bring on Elizabeth Weisz onto the show this week. Elizabeth is a companion currently (at the time of recording) based in Ottawa, Canada who has been so generous to share her experience on working in escort agencies and how she finally came to the decision to go “indy”, or independent. Yes, we’ve heard of the horror stories of working in agencies but Elizabeth also speaks about the positives. She also shares about the “bait”-style agencies which, when she explains it, almost sounds a bit like a catfish situation for clients, and safety and security measures (are there any?) that agencies claim that they offer. She speaks about her challenging time transitioning from working in an agency and getting her foot started as an independent escort which she couldn’t have done without help from the collectives – something that I had no idea even existed! Elizabeth is simply just a wealth of knowledge, intelligent and extremely personable. You don’t want to miss the penultimate episode of Season 3! Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 18 Feb 2024 | #199 - An Analytical Approach to Sex Worker Representation in Fictional Media with Katarina Quinn | 01:05:58 | |
It's great to sprinkle in a lighter episode every now and then and this week is no exception! I am delighted to bring on FSSWer, writer and media contributor to Petit Mort Magazine, Katarina Quinn, onto the show! This whole episode is dedicated to talking about how SWers are represented in some of the hottest shows and films over the last couple of decades. On this week's episode, Katarina and I discuss and analyze the representation of SWers in Sex and the City, White Lotus, The Menu and Poor Things. I've seen 3 out of the 4 media pieces involved here and *spoiler alert* if you haven't seen these shows and films and intend to, there might be some spoilers! I loved chatting with Katarina on her approach on how sex workers are viewed. For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! People are pleasure! Community celebration empowerment passion & positivity. Ruby‘s Pop Up Peepshow: A mobile theatre for the senses, not the censored! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 20 Jun 2021 | #76: Peepshows: Going Beyond the Private Pleasures Booth w/ Sunshine McWane | 01:05:48 | |
Whatever happened to the peepshow? You know what I’m talking about. The little booth that you can peer through to see scantily-clad women dance for you. Sometimes there were even smaller venues that were connected to sex stores. Some just aired pornographic material 24/7. For a few quarters, you can pop in and get some live entertainment. But where did these venues go? I speak with former peepshow dancer, Sunshine McWane, to speak about her experience of working in numerous peepshow establishments. Sunshine has worked in peepshow venues for years until one the last standing establishments closed its doors for good back in 2019. Before that, she worked at six different venues around the USA, including both location of ever-so-popular, The Lusty Lady, originating in Seattle and then branching out to a sister location in San Francisco. She reminisces of a time when peepshows were in its heyday – employing up to 5 girls a shift on weekend evenings when the club was “stacked”. She speaks about the incomparable comradery with the other ladies in the venue that she just can’t find to this day. We go over fees and payment structure, what happens in a Private Pleasure booth, how peepshow entertainment was a precursor to camming and how technology killed this form of sex work. Sunshine continues her quest of finding these establishment around the country. Do you know of any? Get in touch with her, below: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 10 Nov 2019 | #09 - Entrepreneurialism & Overcoming Sexual Assault w/ Jessica Lyn of AVA Fitness | 00:59:50 | |
***TRIGGER ALERT*** We invite Jessica Lyn onto the podcast today, studio owner of AVA Fitness and former stripper. She shares with us her story about how she came to start stripping and how it lead to her eventually opening up her own pole dancing studio. She also speaks about her experience with being sexually abused as a child and how there are common similarities amongst dancers in the industry. This episode may be a trigger for some as we discuss overcoming Jessica's battle with child sexual abuse in explicit detail.
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| 08 May 2022 | #118 – Binging and Body Shaming: BBWs Have Eating Disorders Too w/ BADKITTYYY | 00:58:57 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Binging, eating disorders.*** Really excited to finally release this episode with this week’s guest, BADKITTYYY. BADKITTYYY is an award-winning BBW, pornstar, and clip maker. Despite her many accolades, I get the opportunity to speak to BADKITTYYY about her more vulnerable side. She opens up about why she waited so long to get into sex work, body issues that she’s struggled with before, and her battle with binge eating. She brings up an important point that BBWs can also suffer from eating disorders too. It’s important to speak about this and I am so glad that we were able to touch on so many subjects that she had never spoken about before. Watch the video exclusive on Patreon! Patreon.com/strippedbysia Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 16 Apr 2023 | #166 - How do Sex Workers Practice Self-Care with Jazmyne of Underneath Your Lingerie | 01:01:54 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, rape and race play.*** Since we are all such different beings, I was really curious to see how others in our community practice self-care. Self-care might look different from one person to another to I was happy to connect with all you listeners for your input so thank you for submitting! A lot of you expressed disconnecting from social, immersing yourselves in nature and treating yourself in fancy meals or retail therapy. I was interested in hearing about the self-care we can also do inwardly so I brought on Jazmyne of Underneath Your Lingerie for her to share her story and her physiological ways to administer self-care on our own bodies. Jazmyne, a cam model on Streamate, shares with us on how she prepares for her work week, how she decompresses by utilizing specific techniques on various areas of her body, and how she was able to develop a program on self-care that she shares with other sex workers. Enjoy the episode! Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: www.patreon.com/strippedbysia Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 31 Oct 2021 | BONUS - Stripping Down the Sex Industry (Virtually LIVE from Florida State University) | 01:10:15 | |
Hi folks! I’ve just recently come back from a much-needed vacation and have been busy catching up with work here this week. I also was invited to speak, yet again, at Florida State University in one of their Human Sexuality classes (thanks again, Alicia!). I thought this would be a great opportunity to share a little bit about myself (especially if you’re brand new here), to provide insight to these students, some of whom who have never spoken to a sex worker or don’t even know or realize what sex work entails, and to give a real-life account on our lives. I speak about the current landscape that us sex workers live in including laws that affect us, recent ongoing issues like labour rights, organizing in unions and the OnlyFans scandal and answer all of the student questions that I could within our alotted time slot. I was a great conversation to be had and although I was extremely tired (not my best speaking gig!), I feel incredibly humbled to be given this space to educate and spread the word. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 24 Nov 2024 | #231 - Transitioning from One Area of Sex Work to Another with Sage Hunter/Emotional Stripper | 01:14:24 | |
Super excited to have this candid conversation with Sage Hunter, who you might know as Emotional Stripper, a very popular blog in Instagram. Sage and I discuss the complexities of transitioning within the sex work industry, the stigma surrounding the work, and the internalized judgments that many sex workers face. Sage shares her journey from sugar dating to dancing, highlighting the challenges and misconceptions that come with each role. The conversation also touches on the importance of community support and the need for open discussions about safety and health in the adult industry. The conversation also touches on the economic challenges of the industry, particularly in the wake of COVID-19, and the loneliness that can accompany a career in sex work.They explore the challenges of navigating beauty standards, gender identity, and the importance of empathy and understanding within the sex work community. Sage shares her personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for compassion and the recognition of shared humanity among sex workers and clients alike. Follow Sage Hunter below:
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| 26 Sep 2021 | #88 - When True Crime Meets Stripping: A Story of Obsession, Misogyny, and Murder w/ Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite Motel | 01:06:01 | |
We are going a little left field this week as I invite my guest, Adam Heath Avitable of The Angel at the Starlite Motel and Dating Kinda Sucks podcasts onto the show. Even if you haven’t heard or listened to Adam’s podcasts, we dive deep into troubling intersectionalities that need to be discussed in sex work: misogyny, obsession, underage prostitution, stereotypes and stigmatization which all contribute to how sex work is seen in a negative light. Adam’s podcast, Angel at the Starlite Motel, tells the story of a dancer, Mandi May Jackson, and a client who was obsessed with her. After being tangled up in the murder of her former boss, strip club owner, James Mulrenin, her client, who only goes by the name of David, wrote a book dedicated to proving her innocence which Adam reads excerpts from every week with commentary. Adam, a self-described “reformed misogynist” and I discuss the problematic, and sometimes dangerous, concoction of money, obsession, drugs and sex and how it can entangle you in areas you wish you never would want to be. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 15 Jan 2023 | #153 - I Got Fired for Having an OnlyFans with Sarah Juree | 01:20:33 | |
Remember that story in the news not too long ago about a teacher whom got fired for having an OnlyFans? Well, I've gotten a hold of that teacher and she is on the podcast this week to share her story. Sarah Juree is an OnlyFans creator, mother of two, and former teacher. Sarah, a teacher of over 20 years of experience, was blasted on social media, her private nude photos taken and shared without her consent and exposed for having an OnlyFans. As a single mother, Sarah joined the platform to supplement her teaching income. Being no stranger to the gig economy, Sarah had tried everything to make ends meet. With low wages as a teacher, Sarah turned to the platform to test the waters out, only to be doxxed by a complete stranger. I speak with Sarah about what the real issue is here (her not being paid enough as a teacher to find other means of income), dealing with the aftermath and what she is up to now.
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| 12 Sep 2021 | #86 – Livestreaming on Twitch: Talking Influencers, Affiliate Status and Growing Your Brand w/ Chloe | 01:08:46 | |
So excited to bring on my friend, Chloe, who I’ve seen just SKYROCKET over the pandemic on the livestreaming platform, Twitch. We learn about her story, how she got started, and how playing videogames became her new gig. Her transformation from gamer to lifestyle streamer has been an admirable journey. Chloe, or as her fans like to call her, “Coco”, has catapulted her livestreaming career on the platform and has reached Affiliate status. So how does this all play into sex work? Well, we discuss the similarities of camming and livestreaming, the type of content she creates in her livestreams, giving into fan requests, collaborating with other creators, and dealing with problematic viewers. Fair warning – Twitch has very strict rules when it comes to nudity and sexual content and Chloe explains it all in detail so you don’t have to. Ever thinking about getting into camwork but want an alternative? If it fits your brand, this might be the platform for you to dabble in. Listen in to this super fun episode and let me know your thoughts on it! Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 12 Nov 2023 | #187 - Transgender Talks: Transitioning, Representation and American Porn Studios vs. Japanese Studios with Mimi Oh | 01:09:35 | |
I've got a great episode lined up for y'all today! This week, I'm bringing on adult porn actress, Mimi Oh, onto the show to speak about starting her adult career in the middle of her transition. Mimi shares with us what it's like to start her career with such timing (why midway throughout her transition and not wait til after?), socially transitioning and physically transitioning and gives many pointers on what's worked best for her in her transition journey. We also dabble into the topic regarding the lack of trans representation in studios and in the general porn scene and why she will never work for another American porn studio again and why she only work with Japanese studios moving forward. It's a very thought-provoking episode to gain some insight on what it's like to transition for those who are wanting to educate and empathize further and a great resource overall. Fox Digital is an official partner of the show. Stripped by SIA listeners get 20% off! Message Anthony on https://foxdigital.design and mention the show to take advantage of big savings on your website. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 12 Dec 2021 | #98 – The Misconceptions Behind Nude Life Art Modeling w/ Marcel Canuck | 00:53:27 | |
I am so thrilled to be doing my first in-person interview in a year and a half! I am absolutely ecstatic to bring on my friend and student, Marcel Canuck, onto the show this week as we go a little left field (as I always love to do!) as we speak about life art modeling. Marcel is a longtime life art model who has modeled all over North American and Europe. He brings to the show his years of experience as a model, most commonly asked questions and of course, misconceptions about what life art modeling is. If you aren’t aware, life art modelig is nude modeling. It’s an expressive art form used in visual effects schools to learn how the body moves and to better understand how to demonstrate mobility onscreen. Because of the nature of the job, Marcel is often subjected to misogynistic comments, unsolicited dick pics and assumptions that surrounds this type of art. Did you know how un-erotic this type of art is and how physical this profession is? We also discuss the shame and stigma of the naked body in the North American context, dealing with stalkers and online harassment, and how to get started as a model. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW, and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 09 Feb 2025 | #240 - From Stripping to Storytelling to Straight Life: The Journey of Jacq Frances with Jacq Frances | 01:13:52 | |
Have you been around in SW for as long as I have, in the stripping world, specifically? Then you'll know who know whoJacq Francesis, formerly known as Jacq the Stripper. Jacq us a multifaceted performer, artist and educator and we discuss Jacq's journey from stripping to comedy, her experiences in different countries, and her current exploration of life beyond sex work. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of being a sex worker, the importance of destigmatization, and the transferable skills gained through performance art. In this conversation, Jacq Frances shares her journey from struggling financially to becoming a stripper, highlighting the importance of mentorship and financial wisdom in the industry. She discusses her experiences in the film industry, particularly her role as a consultant on the movie Hustlers, and emphasizes the need for authentic representation of sex workers in media. Jacq also addresses the challenges of transitioning out of sex work and offers advice on how to navigate this change while cherishing the positive aspects of the experience. Follow Jacq below: This episode was brought to you by PS: Group. An adult marketing agency for the independent creator-driven era, PS: Group offers a comprehensive range of creative services designed exclusively for sex workers, by sex workers. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 30 Jan 2022 | #104 - Embracing Human Touch: Introducing the World of Professional Cuddling w/ Felicity Azura of Pro Cuddle Hustle Podcast | 01:13:07 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault.*** I’ve always been curious about professional cuddling. I had heard of the service years ago but never knew of anyone that offered it…until now. I’m so excited to bring on and introduce Felicity Azura of the Pro Cuddle Hustle Podcast onto the show this week! I know Felicity through Twitter and this outspoken sex worker speaks of her quick entry point into sex work. We go on about what professional cuddling entails, whether or not it can be considered as sex work and the hurdles she goes through by offering this type of body work. Felicity also goes over the different cuddling website platforms out there, how they may or may not appear to be as sex worker-friendly as they seem, and we also go over the not-so-nice things that come with this line of work. It was a fascinating conversation and a sneak peak into this very niche corner of sex work. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBCRIBE!!! | |||
| 13 Apr 2025 | #249 - The Intersectionality of Disability and Sex Work with Minnie St. Claire | 01:04:53 | |
I'm excited to bring on fellow cam model, Minnie St. Claire, on the show to demonstrate the challenges faced by disabled sex workers. The conversation delves into personal stories, the evolution of webcamming, and the realities of navigating the adult industry whilst having a disability. We explore the complexities of navigating the adult industry, particularly focusing on the intersection of disability and sex work. Minnie details her experiences with trauma, mental health challenges, and the flexibility that sex work provides. Minnie discusses the complexities of navigating disability benefits, income as a content creator, and the duality of identity in the sex work industry. She highlights the challenges of mental health, societal expectations, and the stigma surrounding both sex work and disability. Follow Minnie below: PS: Group is a proud sponsor of Stripped by SIA. Needing a new website? Branding? Video? Contact us at www.wearepsgroup.com Connect with me below: | |||
| 17 Dec 2023 | #191 - The Importance of Creating Community in the Sex Industry with Lavender Grunge of The Loops SWA | 01:05:38 | |
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| 12 May 2024 | #210 - Your Guide to All Things Chastity with Mx Tomie | 00:54:20 | |
Yay, I get to be a student again! Excited to bring you all the LAST EPISODE of Season 6! To close things off this season, I bring on NYC-based dominatrix, Mx Tomie, onto the show this week to teach us a little thing or two about chastity. Having gone some new chastity subs and harbouring my own curiosity, I invited Tomie to give us a breakdown on what chastity is, why it might appeal to some folks, and get real nerdy on the details around equipment. Since most of Tomie's clients are cis-het men, we speak primarily on cages designed for penises, the different types of material used on them, comfortability, and general hygiene on how to clean them. Of course, no fetish or kink topic can go on without discussing potential harm and general safety guidelines on how to practice chastity play safely with your clients. We also touch on remote chastity play and her thoughts on that as well as the many questions that Tomie's fans have written in. A thoroughly in-depth episode that barely just skims the surface on the topic of chastity but hopefully provides a great introductory lesson on this fun kink. Mark your calendars: Season 7 drops on Sunday, July 7th, 2024 @ midnight PST. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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| 18 Jan 2020 | #19 - Pushing Boundaries and Going Deeper into Domination w/ Goddess Ivy Harte | 00:52:05 | |
Do you guys remember allllllllllllll the way back in the very first episode of this podcast and where Sadie mentioned her dom duo partner fed her slave a tampon on made him suck it til it was bone dry? Well, we FINALLY have gotten a hold of that dom and she is on the show this week! We welcome Goddess Ivy Harte onto the podcast and we talk about pushing the boundaries, advising not going into domination and the BDSM world, slut school and the many, many services she offers to her clients. It's a comprehensive episode that's kind of like a part 2 to Episode #1 but kinkier. Find out what a tampon cocktail and fun uses for an industrial stapler are on this episode!
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| 16 Jan 2022 | #102 - Scam, Scamming, Scammer, Scammed w/ Alexis | 01:01:08 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of rape and substance use and addiction.*** This week, I am joined by former FSSWer, Alexis, who heard my recent AMA which resonated hard with her on getting scammed that we connected shortly after and just had to do an episode together! I had originally planned to do an episode dedicated to scamming back in Season 3 which didn’t work out so I am thrilled to have Alexis on to speak about this. Scamming. We’ve all been there. Didn’t get the money upfront? Scammed. Picture didn’t match his profile? Scammed. Client left you high and dry with something other than the money promised? Scammed. It’s shitty when it happens but hopefully – just hopefully – we all learn our lessons after. But when we bring up the topic of scamming, it’s hard to ignore that sometimes, we, as SWers, scam our clients. I really think it’s important to mention the intent and motive here for context because hey, it’s our job to provide services rendered for our clients in exchange for payment but some honesty may be lacking here when it comes to questionable work ethic. And let’s not forget the unfortunate attacks that may happen from within our community. I hate to mention it but I’d be doing my own podcast a disservice if we don’t mention the whorearchy and the danger behind other SWers attempting to scam other SWers and the attempts of pimping that sometime happen in our industry. There’s shame and there’s plenty of stigma, but we’re here to have a transparent discussion about it. I’d love to hear your thoughts on the episode. As Alexis is no longer an active SWer, she would like to hear your thoughts! To respect her privacy, please kindly DM me and I would be happy to connect you with Alexis. Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 23 Oct 2022 | #142 - The Reality of Addiction, Getting the Help and Working Sober w/ Charlee Beckett | 01:03:18 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of substance abuse*** Love this intimate conversation with FSSWer, Charlee Beckett. Charlee has dabbled in many forms of SW over the past decade and comes on the show this week to speak to us about her battle with substance addiction. She has had a long relationship with alcohol and various drugs throughout her late teens and adulthood. We speak about the parallels of the hospitality industry and SW and speak about how substances can be intertwined within our work. Charlee gets real with us on how she quit cold turkey and although she recognized that she desperately needed help, the throes of the reality of how drug and alcohol addiction in Vancouver proved the opposite effect. She wanted the help, but there was a waitlist. She wanted to stop using, but they recommended that she continue using until they were able to admit her. It's a rude awakening if you haven't heard of the opioid crisis in Vancouver, you'll hear about it on this episode. It's a eye-opening conversation that Charlee and I had and I hope you can learn a thing or two from the episode! Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: patreon.com/strippedbysia PS. It's Charlee's birthday today so be sure to send her some love in the form of gifts or tips! https://allmylinks.com/expcharlee Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT, RATE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 11 Apr 2021 | #67: Mo' Money, Mo' Problems: Financial Literacy, Taxes and Personal Finance w/ Janet | 01:02:53 | |
Sex workers, have you done your taxes yet? If not, then you'll want to this listen closely to this episode! I catch up with Janet who is an exotic dancer based in Toronto, Canada and a financial consultant. Having a background in accounting, she wanted to share her knowledge on personal finance and managing money and assets with her peers. To further educate herself, she enrolled herself in to receive financial certification and began to take clients on. I recently attended one of her financial literacy workshops which was catered specifically to benefit and aid sex workers. Are you curious on where to park your money? What about saving your earnings? Protecting your earnings? How do you grow your money the smart way? Janet shares a wealth of knowledge with us on this week's episode which is super timely since it is tax season! She clarifies all of your burning questions - what can we claim and write off, what job category are dancers and sex workers classified under, and the benefits of filling our taxes. We also go deep into the nitty gritty about personal finance regarding different savings accounts, TFSAs, bonds, cryptocurrency, mutual funds, segregated funds and so on. Because Janet is based in Canada, a lot of these terms are in the Canadian context which have American equivalents so keep that in mind. It's an eye-opening episode to say the least so pay attention! ALSO, this is the Season 2 finale of Stripped by SIA! Thank you for an incredibly politically-charged season. 34 episodes of quality content, exceptional guests, and thoughtful conversation. Tune in April 25th for Season 3! To get in contact with Janet, please contact her at: Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 11 Jul 2021 | #78 - Providing Critical Frontline Support to Sex Workers w/ Kit Rothschild of PACE Society | 01:00:14 | |
A casual Instagram encounter turned into conversation which turned into an invitation to come onto the show to speak. I invite Kit Rothschild of PACE Society to come onto the show this week to share and spread the word about PACE Society, a sex worker-led and run organization located in Vancouver, Canada. PACE Society has been supporting sex workers since 1994 and offers a plethora of services and programs to support sex workers. Back in Montreal where they are from, Kit was introduced to sex work in a super non-conventional way: by newspaper ad for one of the largest and oldest dungeons in Quebec. After a 5-year stint in the industry, they found themselves drawn to PACE Society, which enabled them to relocate to Vancouver. Kit, the Violence Prevention Coordinator, describes it as a "dream job". First starting as a Support Worker, they worked their way up to their current title working on providing occupational health and safety programs to members of their community and organization. Weekly workshops, lunches, tax services, and the sex worker relief are just a few of the many programs that Kit helped facilitate and worked on. This episode provides a glimpse of how we can support these sex worker-friendly organizations, where your donation money goes to, and even provides an insight if this is work that you may one day be interested in. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! | |||
| 10 Nov 2024 | #229 - Protecting Your Wellbeing and Finding Purpose in Sex Work with Emma of Imperfectly You | 01:09:40 | |
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mentioning of sexual assault*** We all know how important our mental health is, especially being in the adult industry. In this episode, I invite Emma, the founder of Imperfectly You, to discuss the importance of wellbeing in the sex work industry. We explore personal journeys, the challenges faced by sex workers, and the need for community support. Emma shares her experiences transitioning into sex work, moving to Barbados, and the impact of loss on her life choices. The conversation highlights the creation of a supportive platform for sex workers, emphasizing the significance of mental health and self-care. Emma details the features of Imperfectly You, a community aimed at fostering connection and growth among sex workers, and the importance of creating safe spaces for open dialogue. Get in touch with Emma and join Imperfectly You: This episode was brought to you by PS: Group. An adult marketing agency for the independent creator-driven era, PS: Group offers a comprehensive range of creative services designed exclusively for sex workers, by sex workers. Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE!
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