Stowe talks (Stowe talks)
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| 17 May 2022 | How to spot a toxic relationship and leave one with Sara Davison | 00:39:43 | |
In this episode of Stowe talks, Matt and Liza are joined by Sara Davison, one of the UK’s leading divorce coaches and NLP Master Practitioner, as she talks through her advice on how to spot a toxic relationship and leave one Sara shares her deep knowledge of what a toxic relationship is, how to recognise the red flags of abusive behaviour, including love-bombing and gaslighting, the cycle of abuse, how to approach the divorce, and the power of her gameplay checklist. She also discusses the use of parallel parenting and practical tips on how to parent alongside a toxic or abusive ex-partner, as well as advice for handling family courts and hybrid mediation. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 17 May 2022 | Dealing with a relationship breakdown during menopause with Dr Sue Palmer-Conn | 00:39:44 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Dr Sue Palmer-Conn, a leading UK Certified Divorce Specialist and Chartered Psychologist, as they explore the challenges faced by women if their relationship breaks down during the menopausal years. Sue shares her own personal experience, having divorced at 50, and her expertise in supporting women through the menopause deal with a relationship breakdown on how to rebuild confidence, take back control and gain strength and independence. Through Sue’s emotional advice and practical tips, you can learn how to practice self-care, build a new life for yourself, and make it your time to shine. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 17 May 2022 | How to co-parent calmly and navigate the challenges of blended families with Tom Nash | 00:48:10 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Tom Nash, an internationally certified Life, Divorce & Business Coach, as he shares his advice on how to become a successful co-parent after separation and navigate the challenges of a blended family. Following his own marital breakdown, Tom shares his personal journey from going through the family courts to building a respectful and mutually beneficial partnership with his ex-wife and a happy, successfully blended family. Sharing the techniques he has learned along the way, and the practical advice he frequently gives his clients, you will learn how to positively co-parent, creating calm and respectful relationships. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 17 May 2022 | Taking control of your finances on separation and beyond with Lottie Kent | 00:47:14 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Lottie Kent, founder and owner of True Financial Design, as they look at the importance of understanding your financial situation and making plans that meet your immediate and long-term needs following a divorce or separation. Lottie explains the importance of financial knowledge, managing expectations, understanding the value of the family home, how to map out your finances for your immediate needs and plan for the future, and how to deal with and understand pensions. Through Lottie’s advice, you can learn how to measure the impact of the financial decisions you make, helping you build a financially secure future. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 17 May 2022 | Divorcing or separating from a narcissist with Dr Supriya McKenna | 00:54:48 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced Specialist Narcissism expert, as she shares her deep understanding of narcissism, along with tools and techniques for people undergoing a divorce or separation from narcissistic individuals. Supriya discusses the traits of a narcissist, how to identify them, how to best manage your response to their behaviours, and why divorcing from them requires a very different approach. Her advice will help you take back control of the separation process, helping prevent costs spiralling out of control, and protect your mental health and well-being during the divorce and beyond. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 03 Nov 2022 | Episode 6: Surviving economic abuse with Rosie Lyon | 00:34:23 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Rosie Lyon, an Executive Assistant and divorce coach, public speaker and campaigner for survivors of economic and domestic abuse. Rosie shares her personal story of being in an abusive relationship that led to the repossession of her home through no-fault of her own, and how this has impacted her life and financial position. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 07 Nov 2022 | Episode 7 Understanding pensions in divorce with Ceri Griffiths | 00:37:59 | |
In this episode of Stowe talks, Matt and Liza are joined by specialist divorce financial planner Ceri Griffiths of Willowbrook Lifestyle Planning, as they look at the importance of pensions and how to deal with them in a divorce settlement. Ceri shares her knowledge of the different types of pensions, how to value a pension, the role of an actuary report, issues around offsetting a pension against the family home, and the options available for pension sharing. She also shares the importance of getting financial advice as early as possible, and taking a long-term view of your finances to cover both your immediate and long-term needs. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 16 Nov 2022 | Episode 8 Overcoming loneliness after separation with Tosh Brittan | 00:34:14 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Divorce Coach and Founder of Divorce Goddess Coaching, Tosh Brittan, as they talk about loneliness and how to overcome it following a relationship breakdown. Tosh explains how loneliness can easily sneak up on people, the difference between married lonely and divorce lonely, how embracing loneliness can help remove the fear and uncomfortableness of it, and practical advice on dealing with it, especially when you have time away from your children. Tosh also shares her ethos of showing kindness in divorce to each other and yourself, and tips on how to deal with a challenging ex-partner. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 24 Nov 2022 | Episode 9 Dealing with conflict about Christmas | 00:20:26 | |
In this festive themed episode, Matt and Liza look at the options available for separated couples struggling to sort out arrangements for Christmas. In what can be a tricky time of year for separated couples, they share their advice on the importance of communication and the use of tools such as child-focused mediation, arbitration, and in some cases the family court for those couples who cannot decide between them. They also talk about the wider use of a Specific Issue Order to help couples resolve issues including school and holidays, and how the family court is likely to view these applications. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 01 Dec 2022 | Episode 10 Handling fear and uncertainty with Claire Macklin | 00:40:38 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by divorce coach, NLP Master Practitioner and author of Break up: from Crisis to Confidence, Claire Macklin (nee Black) as they look at how to handle fear and uncertainty through your relationship breakdown and beyond. They also talk about helping children deal with fear and uncertainty, the importance of building a team to support you, and how family lawyers can help clients more. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 07 Dec 2022 | Episode 11 Dealing with post-separation abuse with Caron Kipping | 00:37:25 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Caron Kipping, an independent domestic abuse advocate and divorce coach specialising in domestic abuse recovery, to look at how to deal with post-separation abuse. Caron explains what post-separation abuse is, the impact it has on people, building the right support team, the power of reframing, and how to focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t. Caron also talks about financial abuse, how you cannot co-parent with an abusive ex-partner, the use of parallel parenting, and how you can move forward in life and build a positive future, free of abuse and control. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 20 Dec 2022 | Episode 12: The role of the family court with Matt & Liza | 00:25:35 | |
In the first of a two part series, Matt and Liza share their experiences of the family court system and how it can be a useful process for people in certain circumstances who cannot reach an agreement otherwise. They also discuss the limitations of the system, funding issues, court delays, top tips for dealing with court, when it does, and when it doesn’t work, and what needs to be changed. They also talk about the value of divorce coaches, the importance of a holistic approach, and how the court system still fails survivors of domestic abuse. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 21 Dec 2022 | Episode 13 Representing yourself in the family court | 00:25:21 | |
In the second part of our series on the family court, hosts Matt & Liza offer their advice for anyone facing the family court without legal representation (litigant in person). They also look at the importance of dealing with proceedings factually, not emotionally; top tips on how to deal with the court process and useful resources for further support. Please note that since recording, some of the terminology for addressing a judge has changed. Visit https://www.judiciary.uk/guidance-and-resources/what-do-i-call-a-judge/ for up-to-date guidance. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 20 Feb 2023 | Episode 14 Where do I start? A beginner's guide to divorce | 00:32:50 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza share their advice on where to start if you are thinking of ending your relationship, it has ended, or your partner has told you they want a divorce. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 30 Mar 2023 | Episode 15 Understanding and dealing with tech abuse | 00:40:14 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza are joined by Emma Pickering, Senior Operations Manager at Refuge, as they look at technology assisted abuse, what it is, how to spot and how you stop it. Emma explains what technology assisted abuse is, the signs, and the various tools used by perpetrators, including everyday devices such as ring doorbells, mobile phones, home hubs, along with stalkerware, listening and tracking devices. She also talks about the connection with other forms of abuse, the rise in deep fake technology, and sharing intimate images, along with the impact felt by survivors who find themselves isolated, scared and confused. The episode also looks at the limitations of the family court, and how a lack of response to stalking and harassment online is leaving vulnerable survivors at even greater risk. You can find out more about the work Refuge does to support survivors of tech abuse at www.refugetechsafety.org If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 04 Apr 2023 | Episode 16 Supporting children through divorce | 00:37:19 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Sue Atkins, a leading Parenting Expert, author of Divorce Journal for Kids, and Broadcaster, to look at how to best support children through all the changes that divorce brings. She discusses how parents can work together, the importance of planning and creating a parenting plan, how to manage special occasions such as Christmas and birthdays, and build new traditions. To close, she shares her advice on how to support children emotionally, build connections, put in boundaries, and keep things clear and consistent to give them the structure and routine they need. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 20 Apr 2023 | Episode 17 Budgeting solo during a cost-of-living crisis | 00:47:19 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Certified Money Coach, Fanny Snaith, on how to best manage the drop from two salaries to one following a separation during a cost of living crisis. She discusses the first steps to take to help you manage your finances if your relationship breaks down, and what to focus on once you are budgeting solo, post separation. Fanny also takes us on a money adventure (Indiana Jones style) and looks at how to create a money map and make every pound matter in these challenging times. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 04 May 2023 | Episode 18 How mediation can help you separate | 00:38:44 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Sushma Kotecha from Holistic Family Mediation & Coaching to look at how mediation can help couples work together to have a more dignified and amicable separation. Sushma talks about what mediation is, how it works, the process, what a MIAM is, and how it helps separating couples work through their issues, explore their options and make informed decisions about their future. Sushma also explains how mediation is not suitable for all couples, the red flags she looks for, and what you can do if one person is resistant to trying it. Sushma also explains her holistic approach to mediation, working with client’s mind, body, spirit and soul to help them change the narrative of their separation - leaving the past behind and focusing on building a positive future for them and their family. Please note, after recording this session, the Separated Parents Information Programme’ (SPIPs) was replaced by the Planning Together for Children. This new programme is only offered to parents within the court system via CAFCASS, and is not available to purchase for separated parents on a private paying basis. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 12 May 2023 | Episode 19 Dating after divorce | 00:33:46 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to dating coach and matchmaker Laura Buckley from Secret Alchemy to explore all things dating after divorce. Laura talks about how to get into the mindset of dating again, the red flags to look out for (love bombing being key), the importance of knowing your boundaries and what you want, not just what you don’t want. Laura also shares her top tips on dating apps, how to make your profile stand out, including ensuring your photos are upfront, clear, recent and decent (definitely no animals), how to manage that first date, and some encouragement for all those terrified about dating again in a very different world. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 23 May 2023 | Episode 20 Rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuse | 00:57:12 | |
In this episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to welcome back Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, as she shares her advice and practical tools and techniques for people rebuilding their lives after narcissistic abuse. Building on the conversation in our episode in Season 1 (see below to listen if you’ve not already), Supriya explores the impact of post-separation narcissistic abuse, how to parent with a narcissist (the only option is parallel parenting), building financial independence, and the importance of switching off that narcissistic supply, whatever the challenges. She discusses the importance of learning how to set boundaries and stick to them, exploring and labelling your emotions to help you understand them, how to identify your needs, wants, values and strengths again, often lost after years of narcissistic abuse. She looks at using meditation and mindfulness to help you become the master of your thoughts, not their slave, to raise your threshold for being triggered by your perpetrator, and the positive impact of recognising and honouring gratitude. She also covers how Brene Brown’s BRAVING model can help you rebuild trust and faith in others following narcissistic abuse, a walk through different techniques available to help you manage any anxiety and/or depression, and the power of post traumatic growth, helping you heal and then thrive and move forward in life. As mentioned, this episode is best listened to after Dr Supriya’s first podcast episode with us - Divorcing or separating from a narcissist. Available here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5MnW2zFD0baQXlJypdg4EA?si=55c12d0e80244988 or watch the video here: https://youtu.be/rCCfyHHKCfk If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 31 May 2023 | Episode 21 Domestic abuse - how can a family lawyer help? | 00:42:33 | |
In this episode, Matt & Liza look at the role a family lawyer can play to help survivors of domestic abuse, the injunction orders available, and the impact of domestic abuse on financial settlements and making arrangements for children in a divorce case. They walk through the role of the two injunction orders available: non-molestation and an occupation order, how to apply for them, how the applications are handled in the family court, and the powers they have. They also talk about how allegations of domestic abuse can impact a child arrangements case, and the minimal impact it has on financial settlements. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 16 Jun 2023 | Episode 22 What rights do cohabiting couples have? | 00:35:37 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore the myth of common-law marriage and the reality of legal rights for cohabiting couples, who are now the fastest growing family type in the UK. They talk through the minimal legal rights of cohabiting couples compared to their married counterparts, and how to deal with issues around property and child maintenance, should a couple separate. They look at how cohabiting couples can protect themselves financially with a Declaration of Trust, a cohabitation agreement, and the importance of having a Will. Along with advice for unmarried people buying a property together, including the big difference between joint tenants and tenants in common. Finally, they talk about whether cohabitation laws are still fit for purpose, and what would they change about them if they had a magic wand.
If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 24 Nov 2023 | Episode 23: Parenting alongside a narcissist with Dr Supriya McKenna - Part one | 00:33:07 | |
In the first of this two-parter episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to be joined again by Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, as she shares her advice and practical tools and techniques for people trying to parent alongside a narcissist. She talks through how you can never co-parent with a narcissist, how they weaponise their children, and the range of emotional, financial and legal abuse you may experience, with specific examples ranging from false allegations to discredit you to withholding passports. She rounds off part one with tips and advice on what you can do, from role modelling and teaching empathy, to setting and encouraging boundaries, being consistent and providing a safe place, to creating a secure attachment with your children, and the power this gives you. We then continue the conversation in part two, looking at learning to manage the narcissist behaviour, how to best support your children, dealing with legal and financial abuse, the family court, and learning how to raise the threshold of what triggers you. Dr Supriya’s previous podcasts Divorcing or separating from a narcissist https://open.spotify.com/episode/5MnW2zFD0baQXlJypdg4EA?si=7e889fac72534004 Rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuse https://open.spotify.com/episode/1tma50Liy4cBGFTVwwcWnP?si=87295b59f67d4c53 Additional resources Divorcing or separating from a narcissist - https://youtu.be/rCCfyHHKCfk Understanding toxic relationships - https://youtu.be/p0DFdr9PDEM Rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuse: If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 24 Nov 2023 | Episode 24: Parenting alongside a narcissist Dr Supriya McKenna - Part two | 00:40:22 | |
In the second part of this episode, Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, continues to share her advice and practical tools and techniques for people trying to parent alongside a narcissist. Dr Supriya’s previous podcasts Divorcing or separating from a narcissist Rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuse Divorcing or separating from a narcissist - https://youtu.be/rCCfyHHKCfk Understanding toxic relationships - https://youtu.be/p0DFdr9PDEM If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 07 Dec 2023 | Episode 25: The dangers of a DIY divorce | 00:26:06 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore the rising popularity of DIY divorces, how and when they work well, and the common dangers and pitfalls. They explain what a DIY divorce is, the current online process, and the difficulties that can arise from the implications of not completing the paperwork correctly in the beginning. They then turn to the numerous problems that can be caused by not getting legal advice on your finances, including inheritance and Wills, protecting yourself from future claims from your ex-spouse, and the dangers of ignoring any pensions, before looking at how to resolve issues around any children, and the importance of a parenting plan. To close, they explore people’s options if they cannot afford a lawyer, how you can use a lawyer for certain elements of the process to save money, for example initial advice or help with a consent order application, the perils of low-cost online services offering ‘quickie divorces’, and how mediation can help. Additional resources Where do I start? A beginner’s guide to divorce: https://youtu.be/EhFpi8K9VZQ 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎧 Listen to our podcast on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3L6VFcE 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 08 Jan 2024 | Episode 26: The unique challenges of a relationship break down in the LGBTQIA+ community | 00:41:00 | |
In this episode, Matt & Liza were thrilled to be joined by award-winning comedian and creator of global hit podcast and book The Breakup Monologues, Rosie Wilby, to look at the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community during a relationship breakdown. Rosie shares her passion for understanding the impact of heart break, before exploring monogamy, the history of relationships in the community, the various forms of cheating, how lesbians pioneered conscious uncoupling way before Gwyneth Paltrow, and how the gay community approaches the adversity caused by separating differently. She explores the expectation that marriage and relationships are considered the ultimate goal, especially for women, so it can considered a crashing failure when it falls apart. And that whilst tough, you can find joy in heartbreak, and embrace freedom and growth in the vibrant period afterwards. Rosie closes with the unique challenges that arise when separating in a smaller, tight-knit community, the pressure to remain on good terms, different reasons for separating, potential lack of family support, fighting over family pets, and the challenges that surrogacy and IVF may bring. Additional resources You can buy Rosie's book The Breakup Monologues: The Unexpected Joy of Heartbreak here
🎬 Watch more on YouTube https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 17 Jan 2024 | Episode 27: Creating financial wellbeing following separation | 00:29:59 | |
In this episode, we welcomed Jodie Phelps, a leading Financial Planner, about the importance of, and how to achieve financial wellbeing following a divorce or separation. We begin our chat exploring what lies beneath financial well-being, the importance of understanding your relationship with money, managing your mindset, and identifying and learning to avoid your spending triggers. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2
🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎧 Listen to our podcast on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3L6VFcE 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 31 Jan 2024 | Episode 28: How to prepare for your financial settlement in divorce | 00:23:50 | |
Reaching a financial settlement in divorce requires people to gather a wealth of information and paperwork, so they have a clear picture of their finances and the evidence required to complete the 30-page plus daunting Form E. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza offer practical advice to help people prepare, including where to start, what the process to reach a settlement is, the role of financial disclosure, how to complete the Form E, what information you need to gather, and what you can do if your ex won’t provide the information. They also cover how to work out your future financial needs, the importance of thinking long-term, not just short-term, why you should make the agreement legally binding through a consent order, and then close with their top tips to help get you moving. Additional resources
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| 14 Feb 2024 | Episode 29: Supporting teenagers through divorce | 00:34:53 | |
Divorce and separation can be difficult for any child, but supporting teenagers through it can bring a host of different issues. In this episode, Matt & Liza were joined by one of the UK's leading relationship and family coaches, Nichole Farrow, as she shared her advice on how to support teenagers, including the best way to tell them, how to avoid overexposing them to what is happening, the importance of putting in boundaries, and creating a safe space to enable them to share their views. She also discusses role-modelling the right behaviours, showing your emotions, helping them build positive support networks (and real people, not just online), and solid examples of how to meet them where they are to rebuild connection and trust.
🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎧 Listen to our podcast on Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3L6VFcE 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 21 Feb 2024 | Episode 30: Supporting male survivors of domestic abuse | 00:38:16 | |
One in 6-7 men is a domestic abuse survivor*, but only half of male victims (49%) fail to tell anyone they are a victim. Stigma, fear, shame, misinformation and societal pressures all contribute to men suffering in silence and not reporting their perpetrator. The conversation then turns to what holds men back from reporting abuse, and that men actually want to talk, they just need a safe and non-judgmental place to do so. Before exploring the different support available, and how to plan and create a safe exit strategy. If you are in immediate danger of domestic abuse, please call 999 and ask for the police, or alternatively you can access support at: Mankind Initiative support helpline: 01823 334 244 and Respect, mens advice line: 0808 801 0327. Or visit: mankind.org.uk and mensadviceline.org.uk/
🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 06 Mar 2024 | Episode 31: How does surrogacy work in the UK? | 00:53:03 | |
Surrogacy is a wonderful way for people to build their family outside traditional norms, but it comes with legal complexities that often surprise people. In this episode, Matt & Liza were delighted to welcome Andrew Powell, one of the country’s leading children's law barristers from 4PB, who specialises in surrogacy law, to explore how surrogacy works in the UK and internationally. An expert on surrogacy and the modern family, Andrew covers:
And closes with the joy of building your family through surrogacy and the wonderful gift it can bring, and key takeaways for anyone considering surrogacy. You can access the full details of how to obtain parental responsibility in England & Wales following surrogacy here. Additional resources
🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 19 Mar 2024 | Episode 32: Recognising and dealing with economic abuse | 00:37:33 | |
A staggering 95% of survivors of domestic abuse experience economic abuse, leaving them isolated, trapped, dependent and confused. So, we asked Tamsin Caine, a Chartered Financial Planner from Smart Divorce, to join us to look at how to recognise the signs of economic abuse and what you can do about it. A financial specialist in advising people going through a divorce or separation. Tamsin covers:
And, a powerful message for survivors on how to rebuild your life following the abuse to create a financially stable and safe life. You can access help and support from the 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247 or the Mankind Initiative support helpline: 01823 334 244
Additional information
If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 26 Mar 2024 | Episode 33: Prenups, postnups and petnups | 00:35:02 | |
No longer the preserve of the ultra- wealthy, prenups, postnups and petnups are on the rise. But what are they, what can they cover, and do they stand up in court? Take a listen as Matt & Liza dive into nuptial agreements, the advantages, the challenges, and the laws surrounding them. Along with when and how they are useful, especially for people marrying later in life, wanting to protect family assets or preserve inheritance for their kids, and when they are not. Before closing, with a discussion around the pitfalls of making these agreements legally binding, and surprise guest appearances from Matt’s dog Crumble and Liza’s dog, Duke. 00:00 What is a prenup? What is a postnup? If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 11 Jun 2024 | Episode 34: Who gets the house in a divorce? | 00:36:18 | |
The family home can often be the most emotive element of a divorce. Steeped in memories, many ex-couples face the difficult decision about what to do with the house, in the short and long term. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza deep dive into all things property and divorce including: 00:35 Why is the family home so important? Additional information Budgeting during a cost of living crisis https://youtu.be/LE-NCCOiiB4 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 18 Jun 2024 | Episode 35: School holiday planning for separated parents | 00:30:31 | |
School holidays can be difficult to juggle for any parents, but for those separated and co-parenting, it can bring a whole host of additional issues. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza were joined by The Divorce & Separation Coach, Chloe O. to look at the best way to plan the holidays as a separated parent. Take a listen as they explore the challenges of planning holidays, the importance of communication, flexibility, and child-focused decision-making. How to address objections, your legal options and the use of mediation to resolve any issues, along with practical advice for navigating the complexities of summer holidays when at home. 02:16 Why are holidays sometimes a contentious issue? Additional resources We need your help. We love making the Stowe talks podcast. And we want to enter it for the Listener’s Choice awards at the British Podcast Awards. So please vote for us: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/voting Simply search for Stowe talks and cast your vote by 29 August 2024. Thank you. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 27 Jun 2024 | Episode 36: How to introduce a new partner to the kids | 00:36:24 | |
Introducing a new partner to your kids can be complicated, and requires careful thought and planning to get it right. So we asked parenting and relationship coach Nichole Farrow to join us to share her advice on how to introduce a new partner, including:
00:00 Introductions If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 03 Jul 2024 | Episode 37 Should I stay, or should I go? | 00:36:16 | |
It is normal to face challenges in a relationship, but what happens when one, or both people, completely disconnects and thoughts turn to leaving? How do you know the right time to end a relationship?
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| 09 Jul 2024 | Episode 38: The first things to do when getting a divorce | 00:31:30 | |
You may have made the decision, or had it made for you, but however you arrived at the moment, facing a divorce can be daunting So what should you do first? In this episode, family lawyers and hosts Matt & Liza share their tips on the most important things to do and consider before getting a divorce. 00:00 Introductions Where do I start? A beginner’s guide to divorce: https://youtu.be/EhFpi8K9VZQ If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 23 Jul 2024 | Episode 39: The realities of high-net-worth divorce | 00:38:01 | |
High-net-worth divorce brings its own unique challenges, especially around understanding, valuing and dividing complex earning structures, assets and pensions, often with international elements. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 26 Jul 2024 | Episode 40: Are you in a relationship with a narcissist? | 00:54:23 | |
Narcissism has become a popular buzzword. But despite the interest, there are many myths that undermine the complexity and destructive impact of this personality disorder. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 22 Aug 2024 | Episode 41: What happens if your ex won’t respond to a divorce? | 00:19:15 | |
In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore what options are available for people if their ex-partner will not respond to the initial divorce application, refuses to disclose any information, or provides incorrect or misses details when trying to resolve finances. They dive into your legal options so you can progress your divorce, how to track down a missing ex, the role the family court can play, managing the emotional impact and anxiety, and top tips for dealing with your ex throughout the process. 00:30 How common is it for someone not to respond to a divorce? Additional resources Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 29 Aug 2024 | Episode 42 How long does it take to get divorced? | 00:07:33 | |
In this bite size episode, hosts Matt & Liza turn their attention to a popular question they hear from many of their clients: How long does it take to get divorced? They talk through the process, how long it takes, the impact of the family court, the myth of the quickie divorce, before closing on their top tips to help speed up the process as much as possible. All in just under 8 minutes. 00:30 What is the process for getting divorced? Where do I start? A beginner’s guide to divorce: https://bit.ly/3v0md9g Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 29 Aug 2024 | Episode 43 How much does it cost to get divorced? | 00:07:52 | |
In this bite size episode, hosts Matt & Liza turn their attention to another popular question that clients frequently ask: How much does it cost to get divorced? They talk through typical costs, the different ways to reduce costs, for example reaching agreement together or using mediation, and what you can do personally to save money during the process. All in just under 8 minutes. 00:33 The cost of the divorce application Please note the prices quoted in this video were correct in August 2024 and are subject to change. Where do I start? A beginner’s guide to divorce: https://bit.ly/3v0md9g Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 10 Sep 2024 | Episode 44 How to prepare to leave a narcissist - Part 1 | 00:39:32 | |
In the first of this two-parter episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to be joined again by Dr Supriya McKenna, one of the leading experts in the field of narcissism, to discuss how to prepare to leave a narcissist. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 10 Sep 2024 | Episode 45 How to prepare to leave a narcissist - Part 2 | 00:40:05 | |
In the second part of this episode, Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, continues to share her advice and practical tools and techniques to help people prepare to leave a narcissist. (You can access the first part of this episode here.) We pick the conversation back up as Dr Supriyas shares her advice on preparing financially, before exploring how to stay safe online, saving previous communications, and keeping personal items safe. Before closing with her top tops. Again, Matt & Liza share their insight into how the law can help and the pitfalls to avoid. 01:48 How to financially prepare for a narcissistic divorce If you are in immediate danger of domestic abuse, call the police on 999. You can also access help and support from the 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247 or the Mankind Initiative support helpline: 01823 334 244. If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 19 Sep 2024 | Episode 46 What do changes to the Family Procedure Rules mean for separating couples? | 00:32:37 | |
In April 2024, changes were made to the Family Procedure Rules to encourage more people to use non-court-based methods to resolve financial issues arising from divorce or over their children. 00:30 What are the Family Procedure Rules? Additional resources The role of the family court: https://bit.ly/480zrlh Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN or Beginner’s Guide to Divorce: https://bit.ly/beginnersdivorceguide If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 06 Jan 2025 | Episode 47: Domestic abuse in the family courts and what needs to change | 00:48:41 | |
The gasp factor, what should be the real headline of financial abuse, things must change and our collective responsibility… If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 14 Jan 2025 | Episode 48: Mortgages during and after divorce with Meet Margo | 00:28:57 | |
In most divorces, couples face challenges around the mortgage. From who will pay for it whilst you separate, to working out mortgage affordability for your next home. And with interest rates still high, a growing housing crisis and an expert predicted rocky 12-18 months ahead, we asked Charlotte Tollitt, a Mortgage Broker from Meet Margo, to join us to talk about all things mortgage and divorce. 00:00 Introductions If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 22 Jan 2025 | Episode 49: Spotting the early red flags of abuse in relationships | 00:27:57 | |
Abusive relationships rarely start abusive. Instead, they build up over, slowly, over time, gradually changing the survivors perception of reality and sense of self. As our guest for this episode, domestic abuse expert and coach, Caron Kipping says: “If someone punched you in the face on your first date, would you go back for a second date?” The answer is an obvious no, but domestic abuse slowly draws in survivors, leaving them trapped, isolated, confused and abused. Would you know the early signs of an abusive relationship? Take a listen as Caron explains what the red flags are and what you can do if they are there. Additional resources
If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 31 Jan 2025 | Episode 50: Understanding domestic abuse in minority communities | 00:36:22 | |
Domestic abuse is complex, multi-layered, and all consuming for survivors. For those in minority communities, it can present further unique challenges that need specialist support. Domestic Abuse Consultant, specialising in post-separation abuse and creator of You Don’t Own Me, Lucy Wade joined us to share her knowledge of the challenges faced by survivors of abuse in minority communities, and what support is available. If you are a victim/survivor of domestic abuse, or supporting someone else in this situation, this podcast will help. 00:00 Welcome Lucy’s website: https://ydom.co.uk/resources-for-everyone/ Are you in a relationship with a narcissist? https://t.ly/yEiw2 If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 04 Feb 2025 | Episode 51: What is parental responsibility, how do you get it, can you lose it? | 00:18:38 | |
Parental responsibility is a legal term that covers the rights of a parent to be involved in making decisions in the best interests of their children. But it’s not just about Mum and Dad - it's possible for someone to have parental responsibility for a child without being their legal parent, and for a legal parent to not have parental responsibility. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza break down the myths surrounding parental responsibility, who can we have it, and who can’t, if you can lose parental responsibility, and what legal options are available if those with it cannot agree on what is best for the kids. 00:30 What is parental responsibility? 02:25 Parental responsibility as a legal concept 02:48 What parental responsibility isn’t? 03:40 Who has parental responsibility? 04:53 The different rules for Mum & Dad 06:46 Who else can be granted parental responsibility? 07:33 The use of special guardianship orders to share parental responsibility 09:48 How can you lose parental responsibility? 11:30 Examples of cases where parental responsibility has been removed 14:00 If you lose parental responsibility, can you ever get it back? 15:32 What can you do if those with parental responsibility cannot agree? 15:54 The use of specific issue orders Please note this podcast focuses on heterosexual couples for the purpose of time. To learn more about same-sex parents and their legal issues on our website: https://www.stowefamilylaw.co.uk/family-law/fertility-lawyers/
If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 12 Feb 2025 | Episode 52: How is inheritance dealt with in divorce? | 00:11:17 | |
Inheritance can be one of the most emotive and complex elements of a financial settlement in divorce. Additional resources Taking control of your finances on separation: https://youtu.be/CIp6n4pgd9k How to prepare for a financial settlement: https://youtu.be/ixzT30CyMo0 How to get a financial consent order: https://youtu.be/-FlSjw4tTXM Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN and reviewing financial disclosure https://bit.ly/4hyZBjI If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||
| 19 Feb 2025 | Episode 53: What happens to debt in divorce? | 00:23:18 | |
Debts can add a layer of extra stress and complication to couples trying to navigate a divorce. What happens if one person builds up debt during the marriage? Who is responsible for the debt? What about loans from the bank of Mum & Dad? In this episode, Matt & Liza explore the role of debt in divorce, the different types of debt and how they are viewed, who has responsibility for debits, the approach of the family courts and the link between debts and economic abuse. 00:00 Debt is often a part of divorce 01:09 Can you get divorced when you are in debt? 02:39 What are the different types of debt? 02:52 What are hard and soft loans? 06:40 What happens to any individual and shared debt? 08:48 How do you share any debt in a divorce? 11:12 What happens if one person builds up debt during the marriage? 14:47 How does the family court approach debt in divorce? 15:16 What is the gasp factor? 16:17 The changing understanding of domestic and economic abuse 18:58 What are structured debt arrangements, and how do they impact any settlement? 20:39 Matt & Liza’s top tips for dealing with debt in divorce
Download our free in-depth handbook on how to complete a Form E: https://bit.ly/3A7MMvN and reviewing financial disclosure https://bit.ly/4hyZBjI If you need support with the issues raised in this podcast, or would like to speak to a family lawyer, contact Stowe at: https://bit.ly/35WPSj2 🔎 Access further free resources to help you through a relationship breakdown and beyond at Stowe support. 🎬 Watch on YouTube - https://bit.ly/3Mwa4wG Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/stowefamilylaw LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/stowe-family-law/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/StoweFamilyLaw1 | |||