Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo (Nikki Novo)
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| 18 Apr 2024 | 133. 5 Messages About Expanding Your Audience | 00:28:09 | |
It’s time to grow your audience. You know that right? You’re feeling it. Well, I’m feeling it too. So I decided to plug into that stream of divine guidance that we all love and download five intuitive messages about the expansion of your audience. I share the five messages I received in today’s business podcast. I think you’re going to love it. | |||
| 16 May 2024 | 141. Do You Really Believe You Can Make Money Doing What You Love? | 00:36:20 | |
As a child of immigrants, making money doing what you love wasn’t really a theme I heard at home. In fact, my father started his college career as a film major at NYU. After two years of school, my broke the news to him: “You know you can’t become a filmmaker, right? We don’t have that luxury. You need to become a doctor. Something safe. Something that can move us ahead.” That’s how my dad became a doctor. And I have so much compassion, respect and gratitude for my mother’s foresight. She knew their role in the lineage. And she made sure to live into it. Even though I was raised to become a doctor, lawyer, accountant — you know the drill — like my mother, I knew my role in the lineage was different. I was meant to be the person who introduced the concept of “making money doing what you love.” To start, it was just a theory? Is this possible? Can someone really make a living in a way that feels fun? And although I have proven this theory to be true, at every up-level I face the belief all over again. Can we really make money in a way that feels free and fun to us? Do we really believe this concept? Those are the questions we explore in today’s podcast episode. And what I received from the Divine will blow your mind. If you’re struggling to prove your own theory, this episode is a must-listen. I can’t wait to share! ------
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| 19 Apr 2022 | 92. Signs You're Meant to be a Spiritual Teacher | 00:28:47 | |
Join Nikki in this episode of awakening as she talks to your soul and shares signs that you’re meant to be a spiritual teacher. Main Points:
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| 06 Aug 2024 | 163. 7 Messages from Your Heart | 00:30:49 | |
I feel a little strange telling you what your heart has to say, lol. But don’t you sometimes feel a little confused as to what’s actually in there? I know, I do! Over the last few days, your heart was reaching out to me, so I could ask you for a seat at the table. It’s saying “Hey, use me! I can make your dreams come true!” Such a great salesperson! In today’s podcast episode, I share seven messages that your heart asked me to share. I trust there will be something in there for you that will help you move towards where you’re destined to be. Enjoy! ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes. | |||
| 31 May 2022 | 94. Why Manifesting Isn't Working For You | 00:15:57 | |
This episode is an audio recording from Nikki's YouTube video. You can watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/vjNd5dsvlNE Four stages of manifesting:
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| 04 Jun 2024 | 145. June Predictions | 00:32:55 | |
Today we cover June predictions. Let's see what the month has in store for us! ------- Join me on Substack: Spiritual Teacher & Soul Led-Living Publications! | |||
| 21 Sep 2021 | 69. Starseeds & Awakenings with Rebecca Campbell | 00:50:39 | |
Writer, poet, mystic, artist, and spiritual soul seeker, Rebecca Campbell, joins the Soul Led collective to reflect on her spiritual journey and career thus far, from her first spiritual awakening in 2011 and 2013, to her most recent initiation into motherhood, her conscious connection to the rose, and the inspiration and lessons learned authoring her bestselling books and oracle decks. Stay tuned until the end, where we pull a card from her beloved Starseed Oracle deck. What we cover:
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| 07 Nov 2024 | 187. November Predictions | 00:29:34 | |
It’s that time of the month: monthly predictions! In today’s episode, I share all my predictions for November. And by the way, it’s not nearly as scary as I thought it would be! Yes, it’s a month of shadows, but it’s about embracing them, loving ourselves and integrating them into our being. And don’t forget to share with a friend! ------- | |||
| 17 Apr 2025 | 224. Messages from the Economy | 00:37:38 | |
What’s really going on with the economy? In this episode, we tune into the energy of the economy to uncover the deeper shifts unfolding beneath the surface. From waves of innovation and creativity to major changes in the workforce, the energy reveals how our collective direction is evolving. You’ll hear intuitive insights to help you stand in your power, make bold moves, and trust the inner guidance leading you forward. Plus, discover the unexpected career changes on the horizon—and what they might mean for you. Let’s explore the bigger picture together. Enjoy the episode! | |||
| 07 May 2024 | 138. May Predictions | 00:39:51 | |
On today’s pod episode we’re going to do some predictions. We’ll be taking a look into what May holds for us. May is, um, a mix bag. But we’ll still have fun with it! I’m also answering a personal question — because you asked! Plus, I wanted to share an exciting milestone. ------- Would you like to dive deeper into the podcast content? Join Soul-Led Living on Substack! Products/people Nikki recommends in this episode:
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| 11 Oct 2022 | 101. Motherhood, Intuitive Parenting, and Serena Williams Energy Reading | 00:51:17 | |
In this episode of Ask Nikki Novo we focus on motherhood and what it means to parent intuitively. Nikki takes a question from a listener that is torn between going back to work or homeschooling her child and another question from a mom looking for advice on parenting her Scorpio Starseed toddler. Nikki also reads the energy of Serena Williams and takes a look at what her path could be like after retiring from Tennis. Resources:
Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only. Nikki Novo has no personal connection to Serena Williams so please take what she says during this podcast as strictly her opinion in what came through to her as an intuitive download and not a basis in fact from what Nikki learned from Serena Williams or anyone with first hand knowledge of Serena Williams. This reading and the information Nikki is sharing is for entertainment purposes only. | |||
| 09 May 2024 | 139. The Energy of Being Seen | 00:32:53 | |
If you’re wondering why your brand is not getting the attention you’ve been hoping for, then this episode is for you. I tapped into the energy of being seen in today’s podcast episode. I was wondering why some people are more seen than others, so I asked! In today’s episode, I share 5 messages that will help you become more seen. -------
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| 13 Sep 2022 | 97. Money Mindset Tips, Draining Friendships, Elon Musk Energy Reading | 00:50:13 | |
In this episode, Nikki takes listener questions about money and draining friendships. She also does a full energy reading on Elon Musk and the messages she receives may surprise you. You don’t want to miss this one! What we cover:
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only. Nikki Novo has no personal connection to Elon Musk so please take what she says during this podcast as strictly her opinion in what came through to her as an intuitive download and not a basis in fact from what Nikki learned from Elon Musk or anyone with first hand knowledge of Elon Musk. This reading and the information Nikki is sharing is for entertainment purposes only. | |||
| 25 Jul 2024 | 160. Your Business in 2025 | 00:34:50 | |
I know this is such a weird topic. Believe me, I thought the same thing. It’s July! Why would we be thinking of 2025 already? Well, it seems like the next few months are truly going to fly by, so your business would love to chat with you now so you can take advantage of the opportunities 2025 will bring. Think of this less as a 2025 strategy session and more of a planting seeds that will create clarity in the coming weeks and months so that you have a clear direction for 2025. Plus, there are some fun predictions in this episode, as well! ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes. | |||
| 26 Nov 2024 | 192. Thanksgiving Week | 00:06:16 | |
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| 16 Jul 2024 | 157. Messages from Your Spirit Baby | 00:48:26 | |
Spirit babies are souls that hang around us because they are our future children. Sweet, right? Their energy often feels like a guardian angel staying close to us. In today’s podcast episode, I tap into your spirit baby and what they have to share. It was pretty magical! I divided the episode by:
The spirit babies had a lot to say! And they hope this supports you in feeling clear and confident when it comes to your role of being a mother. ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes. | |||
| 27 Jun 2024 | 152. Messages About Your Productivity | 00:33:09 | |
Changes in our businesses and what we want to do are happening. So it’s no wonder our ability to get things done is also evolving. In today’s episode, we talk all about productivity:
It’s an episode full of a bit of tough love, but also extremely helpful. I can’t wait for you to listen. ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes. | |||
| 12 Apr 2022 | 91. How to Connect and Channel Safely | 00:27:56 | |
Join Nikki as she shares how to connect and channel safely, in a way that you’re not afraid of what you’re connected to. Main Points:
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| 01 Feb 2022 | 85. Starseeds with Cosmic Kamila | 01:19:19 | |
Kamila is an intuitive, Starseed, channel, and energy healer. She has intensive training in reading energy, performing shamanic healings, and visiting the Akashic records. She is also currently undergoing Priestess Initiation through the Tantric Rose Mystery School in the Isis – Magdalene Rose Lineage. As a modern mystic, she can connect with energies beyond the human senses, including communicating with and channelling spirit guides and celestial and inter-dimensional beings. Aside from being an intuitive and healer, Kamila is also a spiritual guide, a writer, and an advocate for women's reproductive health. Main Points:
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| 18 Jun 2024 | 149. Comfort Zone | 00:40:32 | |
In today’s episode, we're diving into what comfort zone is from the intuitve point of view and what messages it has for us. Is it always bad to stay in yours? How to know where it's the time to move out of it? What intuitive tools can help you understand it better and decide on your next steps? We cover all this and so much more in this episode. I can’t wait for you to listen! ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes | |||
| 18 Feb 2025 | 209. Messages from Your Angels | 00:29:45 | |
Your beautiful loving angels are wanting to come through for you today. If you’re wondering what angels are. They are our support team, almost like Fairy Godmothers. Unlike spirit guides, they’re not here to make sure we learn lessons. Honestly, they’re just here to send love and help our dreams come true. Sounds hard to believe but wait until you feel their energy in today’s podcast episode. If you’re ready to open up your path to more love and ease, this podcast episode is for you. I’m excited to hear how the episode shifted you! ------- | |||
| 24 Aug 2021 | 66. Animal Readings with Jordan Sasser | 00:55:44 | |
When Jordan Sasser’s spiritual awakening knocked her inner-critic out of the room, she discovered an organic connection to animals. The animal kingdom kept cropping up (uninvited) during her visual exercises. She couldn’t shake them off, so she decided to take the practice to the next level. First, by offering spirit animal readings for clients and, then, by reading animals themselves. In this episode, Jordan shares how she conquered her initial resistance to dive into the soul academy and how she’s navigating her dual role as an intuitive and animal whisperer while also working a “regular” 9-5 job. What we cover:
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| 21 Mar 2024 | 125. How to Clearly Communicate Your Business Offer — Even Though It’s Unclear to You | 00:42:03 | |
Early on in my business, I couldn’t understand why more people weren’t signing up for my offers. I felt good about them and I knew people needed them. So why the crickets? Of course, I did what any spiritual girlie would do, I pulled angel cards to see what divine guidance I could get. I kept receiving this one card which was all about “clearing up communication and any misunderstandings.” The cards were right. I wasn’t communicating my offers correctly, enough, or to the right people. This is when I decided to start thinking about how I was communicating. I think most of us just depend on whatever natural communication style we have. It’s not fun to work on changing how we communicate, because it often feels like how we communicate is who we are. And if we’re being asked to be better at it, then we’re being asked to change ourselves. With time, I learned that becoming a better communicator just means becoming more of who I am. Yes, there are a ton of sleazy ways of communicating, but in today’s episode we’re going to talk about ways that feel right for you. In today’s podcast episode we discuss:
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| 28 Sep 2021 | 70. Spiritual Motherhood and How I Do It All | 00:59:36 | |
My spiritual journey went into overdrive when I became a mother, and each of my children has upleveled my consciousness and frequency in different ways. In this episode, I unpack the role of motherhood and how it has shifted me physically, emotionally, and spiritually, from the ego-death of childbirth to the practical ways I streamlined my business model to sync with my family's needs. What we cover:
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Soul Led is a production of Crate Media | |||
| 11 Mar 2025 | 214. A Reading of Your Energy | 00:40:48 | |
How do I manage to make accurate predictions and share uncanny messages? I’m going to let you in on my secret. I read energy. Everything is energy. So when I want to know something, I bring the energy forward, hold my focus there, and allow myself to receive the messages. In today’s podcast episode, I read your energy — or at least, the collective body of our podcast community. And I did this by calling forward the seven main chakras on the body. This is the first practice I used to train myself to be intuitive. Years later, I still find it way too much. We received so many beautiful messages about your energy today. I can’t wait for you to listen. And hopefully by observing me as I perform the reading, you also learn a little bit about how it’s done. ------- Join me in Soul Reading Method! | |||
| 13 Mar 2025 | 215. How Your Business Energy is Different Than Yours | 00:31:26 | |
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| 06 Jul 2021 | 60. Developing Your Intuition with Angelica Ray | 00:59:27 | |
Senior soul mentor and my beautiful friend, Angelica Ray, shares how she tapped into her intuitive gifts after years working in jobs that were out of her true alignment. Taking lessons from her stints in banking and teaching, Angelica followed the breadcrumbs that led her home: right here as an intuitive, healer, and coach. We also reflect on how we grew into our roles as spiritual entrepreneurs without following the wellness rubric, the emotional ups and downs of female friendships from childhood to adulthood, and the complex power dynamics between healer and client. What we cover:
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Soul Led is a production of Crate Media | |||
| 24 Sep 2024 | 176. Messages from Your Future Self | 00:39:35 | |
One of my favorite manifesting hacks is using the Future Self. If you don’t know what the Future Self is, she is the version of you that has everything you want. You know, all the things you dream of and believe can come your way, but are not sure how to make happen. She can show you what blocks you from what you want and what can move you closer to your desires. This is why I love working with her. In today’s podcast episode, I connect with her for you and share a few messages. Many of them really surprised me! Listen to today’s podcast episode and see what your Future Self has to say. ------- Soul Reading Method is open for enrolment! We start October 1st. Join today! | |||
| 13 Feb 2025 | 208. Messages About Your Business Uplevel | 00:30:10 | |
Your business is about to uplevel. I’m not sure you realize that all the effort you’ve put in lately is about to cause an avalanche of abundant energy. I can’t wait for you! To prepare, your angels were asking me to make this episode to help encourage you but also clear a few things up so you can take the most advantage of this “lucky break.” Find out what’s coming, how to enjoy it, and how to not block it from happening in today’s podcast episode. ------- | |||
| 29 Feb 2024 | 119. What Your Business is Trying to Tell You | 00:23:06 | |
When running our own business, it’s hard to see the line between us and the business. I often have to remind myself that my business is not me. Instead, my business is something I birthed. This means that our business might have similarities to us — like our children do — but it is its own entity. And if we don’t see it that way, we can miss the messages it might be trying to send us. In today’s business pod, we’re going to talk about:
Can’t wait for you to listen.
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| 01 Apr 2025 | 220. April 2025 Predictions | 00:19:48 | |
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| 07 Mar 2024 | 121. How to Know When it’s Time to Give Up, Pivot or Start Over | 00:39:11 | |
Last week we spoke about what your business is trying to say to you. Although I hope the exercise was helpful, understanding your business and where it’s trying to move doesn’t necessarily happen overnight. As a young entrepreneur, I was constantly confused about whether I should abandon a product because it wasn’t working or should I try to fix it. Or am I just not meant to do this work at all?! In today’s business pod, we’re going to talk about when to know what shift your business is trying to make. Is it time to give up? Is it time to pivot? Or maybe it’s time to start over? I’ll share the signs of change and how to understand what level of change is trying to come through. ------- Have a question that you would love Nikki's intuitive guidance on? Leave a voice note for her here. Please note that by leaving a message you agree to our use of your question on the show. ------- | |||
| 13 Jul 2021 | 61. Ancestral Healing with Mona Desai & Rachel Lyle | 00:53:09 | |
This episode is rich with information on how ancestral healing departs from traditional therapy and why healing the root chakra unlocks your potential in all tangible areas of your life: from career and friendships to money and dating. Soul mentors, Mona Desai and Rachel Lyle, share how they were called to work with lineage healing. We reveal the process of cutting the cord on inherited belief systems, from healing the mother wound to reconciling with the witch within. Knocking on the door to your past can bring up a lot of intense emotions, but Mona and Rachel are living proof that lifting the veil can be a truly cathartic experience that sets you free. What we cover:
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Soul Led is a production of Crate Media | |||
| 04 Mar 2025 | 212. Messages from Your Spirit Guides | 00:32:16 | |
Spirit guides are super helpful. I know it can sound weird to believe that there is some sort of imaginary friend watching over us, but… there kinda is. Spirit guides are spiritual beings that are helping us live into our soul’s path. This can be:
The important thing to understand is that they want to connect with us and help guide us to our soul’s purpose. In today’s podcast episode I asked your spirit guide for a few messages — and they delivered. In the episode, I also explain a little more about what a guide is and how we can work with them. And if you loved this episode, you’ll love my intuition development program Soul Reading Method, which is currently open for enrollment. | |||
| 08 Feb 2022 | 86. Understanding the Sisterhood Wound with Lauren Elizabeth Walsh from Global Sisterhood | 00:54:38 | |
Lauren Elizabeth Walsh is the Founder and CEO of Global Sisterhood: a movement of over 15,000 Women's Circles in 120 countries. Global Sisterhood provides the training, resources, and self-development programming for women to start circles and grow as leaders. Global Sisterhood is bringing women together to find power and healing, breaking molds of competition, and replacing them with sisterhood and connectedness. Lauren’s works include training women globally to create spaces for deep transformation as well as designing experiences for self-realization, awakening, and reclaiming the Divine Feminine. Lauren is passionate about the liberation of the feminine essence and helping people heal from traumatic imprints and low self-esteem due to growing up in an out-of-balance patriarchal society. Lauren's work is based on her own journey from trauma and self-sabotage to service and leadership. She is a ritualist, certified life coach, somatic trauma-informed facilitator, writer, speaker, teacher, and intuitive. Main Points:
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| 10 Aug 2021 | 65. Feeling Good About Your Desire for Money with Amanda Abella | 00:58:31 | |
Amanda Abella is a woman of extreme financial contrasts. After graduating from college in 2010 without work amid the crisis, Amanda hustled in writing and coaching. She was scrambling together a decent salary before she received the download to switch gears and upgrade her lifestyle by switching her business model. She created a “Persuade-to-Profit” online course, which made $10,000 cash in the first two weeks of launch. That was in 2017, and things have only skyrocketed since. Amanda basks in the glow of her accomplishments (and so she should). Still, it took years of working on her sense of deservedness, laying down firm boundaries, and rewiring her attitudes toward money to elevate her income to the level it’s at today. In this episode, she explains how she did it, what specific steps she took to build her abundant life, and why you don’t need to feel bad about wanting to make money. What we cover:
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Soul Led is a production of Crate Media | |||
| 28 Dec 2021 | 81. 2022 Predictions with Nikki and Chelsea | 01:12:42 | |
Join Nikki and Chelsea Jewel as they come together to share their 2022 predictions! Main Points:
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| 09 Nov 2021 | 76. Working with Ancestors & Conscious Business Building with Ash Johns | 01:04:36 | |
Ash Johns is a certified psychospiritual life coach, ancestral healer, and conscious business strategist. She’s spent the last nine years at the intersection of personal growth, spiritual practice, and conscious business for personal growth, helping thousands of women, femmes, and women-identifying people to heal the core ancestral wounds that have prevented them from being their best selves. She’s also the host of It’s Still Happening, a podcast deeply relevant to any and all listeners of Soul Led. As impressive as her bio is, it fails to reflect how all-encompassing and multifaceted she truly is. What we cover:
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| 31 Aug 2021 | 67. My Journey to Starting a Spiritual Business | 01:02:00 | |
I’m putting the spotlight on how I built a spiritual business, hoping that it will provide a reference point for those seeking to switch things up professionally – whether that’s working in the spiritual realm or setting up your own business. Contrary to the traditional psychic perspective, my spirit guides did not come knocking when I was a child. I was preoccupied with everyday, adolescent concerns, like finding ways to earn money to liberate myself from my strict household. This episode lifts the lid on my zig-zag career path from TV and film production in Florida and Hollywood, writing for magazines, setting up my blog as a side hustle, before eventually scaling it to become a brand. I took some seriously unusual detours and picked up incredible experience and insights while flip-flopping between jobs in the media industry. What we cover:
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Soul Led is a production of Crate Media | |||
| 04 Jul 2024 | 154. The Energy of Confidence | 00:31:13 | |
In today’s episode, we talk all about confidence:
I can’t wait for you to listen. ------- Join Soul-Led Living on Substack to access meditations and journal prompts for the episodes. | |||
| 29 Oct 2024 | 184. Messages about Your Sex Life | 00:38:10 | |
I’m going to be honest. I think about my sex life similar to how I feel about wellness. I know it can be healthier, but ya know, it sometimes just feels like another thing. But funny enough, I was looking at my natal chart a few months ago and noticed that I was going to have a rebirth in this area of life. And it came for me! It’s come for me so much that I’ve had a recent influx of clients asking me about their own sex life and libido! On Soul-Led Living, I do my best to apply spiritually to all aspects of life: love, money, career, parenthood, etc. I never thought that sex would be one of them, too. But I’ve recently started to understand that our sexual energy can really block or expand our lives, so in today’s episode we go into it. Of course, I’m not an expert on this topic, but I did receive some interesting messages for us that relate to how our sex lives can help us live more deeply into our purpose. Listen to today’s (very Scorpio season) episode. Enjoy! And you’re welcome to all your current and future lovers, lol! ------- | |||
| 26 Mar 2024 | 126. What to Do With Yourself When You’re Waiting for Something to Manifest | 00:31:23 | |
It’s Spring and Aries season! We’ll soon start to feel the feelings of moving forward on something we’ve been dreaming and thinking about. By now, the vision might be a little more clear in your mind. Or at least the desire is really starting to roar. That’s amazing! But there’s only one thing: nothing is changing quickly enough, ha. I always think it’s funny how when we manifest the visions ultimately become really strong but as we start to take steps forward it’s so disappointing when we realize how slow it is to drag our meat suit around. As souls, we move fast. But as humans, we have a body. Plus, this world is physical. So manifestations take time. Which leads me to the question: What do we do with ourselves as we wait for our dreams to become reality? In today’s episode, I share with you what it looks like to trust and hold the vibration of what you really want in life. We’ll discuss:
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| 13 Feb 2024 | 115. Dating & Relationship Messages from my Higher Self | 00:17:25 | |
I’ve always loved love. A hopeless romantic from birth, I’ll forever be a sucker for a good love story. Today, I’m feeling the Valentine’s Day vibes plus those 2024 lunar nodes in Aries and Libra. Meaning, let’s talk about dating and relationships! I have a few downloaded messages for those of you in partnership or looking that I would love to share. In today’s Soul-Led Living podcast episode we cover:
Listen to today’s episode. Also, if you’re in need of some dating support, this week only I’m releasing a special dating offer that includes:
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| 10 Sep 2024 | 172. Messages from Your Ancestors | 00:34:26 | |
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| 19 Oct 2021 | 73. How We Can Help Our Children Live a Soul-Led Life With Latoya | 01:04:45 | |
Teacher, mom, and intuitive, Latoya has a beautiful connection with children’s souls. In this episode, she walks us through her spiritual journey, from awakening her relationship with her spirit guides and healing her ancestral wounds to reading for my child and helping other parents unlock their children’s potential that’s true to their purpose here on Earth. What we cover:
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| 28 May 2024 | 144. How to Not Sabotage Your Uplevel | 00:39:09 | |
I felt a strong sense that you’re onto something. Meaning, you are moving into an uplevel, a shift, or a leap — depending on how you want to see it. Sometimes we know what we’re doing to make these shifts other times we have no idea why it’s happening, but it seems to be happening for you. In today’s podcast I talk about this uplevel, how it might look for you, and what you can do to keep the momentum going. Often when we leap towards the level, we might accidentally freak out and start to take part in self-sabotaging behavior. In today’s show, we ‘ll go over those behaviors just to make sure you don’t accidentally fall into this trap. At the end of the episode, I feel into why this uplevel is happening and we’re you’re going. What I see for you even made me cry towards the end. Enjoy this episode, it’s a great one! ------- PS - This is the last week to register for my intuition program Soul Reading Method. Click here to learn more. | |||
| 22 Apr 2025 | 225. Messages About Your Lack of Clarity | 00:34:06 | |
In today's episode, Nikki connects to the energy of Clarity. You're invited to examine your inner self-talk, emotional resilience, and capacity to hold more—without drowning. You'll learn that sometimes, the universe won’t intervene, not because it’s absent, but because it’s gifting you a moment to rise and take full credit for your own breakthrough. If you’re seeking clarity, growth, and grounded emotional expansion, this episode is for you. In this episode we explore:
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| 06 Sep 2022 | 95. Welcome to Ask Nikki Novo, JLO + Ben Reading, Changing Paths | 00:49:04 | |
In this episode, Nikki welcomes listeners to Ask Nikki Novo and shares a few fun facts about herself and how this show came to be. She also performs a reading for a listener that is thinking about changing career paths and does a juicy energy reading on JLO and Ben Affleck. Were they always meant to end up together? Find out in this episode. What we cover:
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment purposes only. Nikki Novo has no personal connection to Jennifer Lopez or Ben Affleck so please take what she says during this podcast as strictly her opinion in what came through to her as an intuitive download and not a basis in fact from what Nikki learned from Jennifer Lopez or Ben Affleck or anyone with first hand knowledge of Jennifer Lopez or Ben Affleck. This reading and the information Nikki is sharing is for entertainment purposes only. | |||
| 20 Feb 2025 | 210. Messages About Your Business Expansion | 00:30:04 | |
Today’s podcast episode is about the growth your business is meant to experience. But somehow you’re stopping it. And even fearing it. This episode is full of tough love for those of us who are wearing business shoes that are a little too tight. You know it’s time to upgrade, but you’re stalling. Have no fear, because this episode is the shift you’ve been waiting for. In today’s episode I share 7 messages about the expansion and growth of your business. We’ll discuss:
If you found this, it’s meant for you. Step into your next level of business expansion. ------- | |||
| 27 Mar 2025 | 219. Messages About Your To-Do List | 00:26:35 | |
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| 02 Oct 2018 | 1. My Best Friend Liz Interviews Me | 00:35:31 | |
Get to know the podcast host, Nikki Novo, and how she became an Intuitive Dating Coach | |||
| 02 Oct 2018 | 2. How to Know When You're Ready to Find Your Person | 00:12:44 | |
Are you really ready to find love? And if you're not, how to get yourself ready. Need some extra help on getting ready for love? Check out my book, “The Final Swipe” Sign up for my masterclass Or book a session with me | |||
| 18 Oct 2018 | 3. What Venus in Retrograde Means to Your love Life | 00:18:48 | |
In this episode: - I speak with astrologer Beth Bullitt | |||
| 29 Oct 2018 | 4. How to Make Real Connections with People | 00:14:47 | |
Get additional help by: purchasing The Final Swipe book joining my masterclass or booking a session with me | |||
| 14 Nov 2018 | 5. Why Dating is so Hard for You & Not Others | 00:16:34 | |
Why is it that some people are on dating apps for two weeks and find the love of their life? While for others, it's more like five years? In this episode, I explain why dating luck seems to be unfair and what we can do to turn it around. I also talk about my:
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| 27 Nov 2018 | 6. The Blocks We Don't See | 00:47:35 | |
For the last few months, it seems like every time I sit down to meditate with my spirit guide, I have the same vision. It’s like a reoccurring dream, only this vision happens in meditation. It’s basically my spirit guide saying, “Lady, until you learn this lesson, we are not moving on to the next vision.” Spirit guides can be tough like that. What she was trying to teach me was that my external reality is a reflection of my internal client. Meaning, what’s going on inside: my beliefs, my negativity, my positivity, my focus is what I’m creating outside in the world. I know this. You know this. Yet, we don’t always see the blocks that we’re placing in our way. In today’s podcast, I help a beautiful woman see her blocks during a reading I did with her. Lacey was kind enough to allow me to share a piece of her reading with you, so that we can all learn. We talk about: 1. Believing in what we really want 2. How to date with an open heart, but also not be attached to the outcome when dating 3. How to tell if we're resisting change Resources: 1. For making your list, I mention my book "The Final Swipe." 2. Lacey mentions a book she loved titled, "Attached." | |||
| 11 Dec 2018 | 7. How Dating Anxiety is Killing Your Vibe | 00:41:13 | |
Despite wanting to find love, most of us hate dating because it makes us feel all sorts of crazy. That crazy, uncomfortable feeling is not a sign that you need to runaway to the monastery. That feeling is anxiety. What's tricky is that often we don't know it's anxiety. Instead, we think that feeling means "this isn't the right thing," or "I shouldn't be dating," or "I'm not ready to date," or "Maybe I shouldn’t be dating the opposite sex," and so on. Recognizing anxiety, and then understanding what triggers your anxiety, is going to be a huge part of your dating success. In hopes of bringing this super important topic to light, I asked anxiety expert — and just all around beautiful human — Sheryl Paul to joins me on The Final Swipe to share her wisdom on this topic. My friend, we are so lucky to have her. She hasn't done press in a really long time. And I did I mention she's been on the Oprah show? Yeah. This is a must-listen to episode. And beyond this show, I hope you continue to follow her work as she'll be an amazing resource for you on this journey to love. We talk about:
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| 05 Jan 2019 | 8. Love Predictions for 2019 | 00:23:01 | |
Hello lovers! It’s our first episode of 2019. Woohoo! I was so over 2018. I mean, there was some good stuff. We welcomed our third child into the world this year! But other than that it was all sorts of ego dying. What’s ego dying? I talk about in this episode. In this episode, I talk about what 2018 meant and how that will lead into 2019. I also share a few predictions for what we’ll see as a whole when it comes to love. Hint, hint: it’s good stuff. Enjoy! | |||
| 08 Jan 2019 | 9. Are You Surrounding Yourself with People who are Helping You Find Love? | 00:50:50 | |
One of the best things I did in in 2018 was join a sister circle. I'd heard all the hype about sisterhood, but didn't think it was for me. I'm one to think I can do it all by myself, ha! Seriously, gathering with the same group of women, every month, for a year created so much transformation in me. For this reason, I wanted to talk to you about sisterhood. To do that, I brought on my friend Emily Cassel who spends so much time in sisterhood, on the show to expand on the topic. Being that we're still in the beginning of 2019, I really hope you consider doing group work with like-minded women. Even though finding love seems like a goal for one, it's amazing what can happen when you're with other women who have that same intention for you and for themselves. Listen in on this conversation and see what sticks out to you. Don't let that intuition go to waste. We talk about:
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| 05 Feb 2019 | 10. How to Feel Safe When Dating | 00:19:07 | |
We all want to feel safe. Dating is often painful because the process does not feel safe at all. Because of this desire, we often look for our potential partner to make us feel safe. Which is natural, but sometimes we can take it a little too far and create too much pressure for this person we just met. In today's episode of The Final Swipe, you and I are going to talk about how you can soothe your own anxiety about not feeling safe. This way, you feel empowered internally and you're not putting unnecessary pressure on this new person that you like. I promise it won't hurt too much! Give this episode a listen and you'll feel better already. We talk about:
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| 12 Feb 2019 | 11. The Process of Freezing Your Eggs | 00:50:23 | |
No matter how zen we try to be about dating, there's one thing women can't get around: our biological clocks. There is nothing fun about dating when you feel like "time is running out," which is why many women opt to freeze their eggs. And while it might be common in big cities, not all of us have access to real info about the process. Not all of us have a friend who have been through the process. In today's episode of The Final Swipe, my beautiful friend, Michelle, was so kind to share her story with us. We go deep into the details: costs, emotions, dating life... It's everything you would get from your close friend. I think many of you will see yourself in Michelle. And through her journey, you can understand yours better. Have you thought about the process? Are you thinking about it? Let me know your thoughts below. We talk about:
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| 20 Feb 2019 | 12. What Do You Have to Offer When Dating? | 00:17:39 | |
Have you ever found yourself having the same relationship over and over again? Somehow, you're always the healer in the relationship? Or the one who financially supports everything? Or you're with people who only want to hook up? You probably think your manifesting skills are off, when really it's this one little thing that's off. When dating, we subconsciously think about what we have to offer. Even if we are repeating, "I am enough," over and over again, we still tend to lead with a part of us — a part that we're usually proud of. This is what I call "our energetic agreements" in relationships. May you come into relationships saying "I'm really good at fixing. I will fix any problems you have or any that show up in our relationship." May you are proud of your financial success and your ability to provide. You may say "I will pay for all things." Or may be you've been told your whole life that you're really smart. Guess what you're going to rely on when texting? Yep, your smarts. So, it's not that we're manifesting these kid of people, we're unconsciously setting the tone right at the beginning, and we may be setting a tone we really are trying to get away from! In today's episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss this little thing we miss when dating, and I teach how you can switch it around so you can give yourself the best chance at creating the relationship into one you really want, rather than more of the same. We talk about:
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| 26 Feb 2019 | 13. The Mother Wound & How it Affects our Dating Life with Bethany Webster | 01:13:23 | |
The reason we can't find love is not because there are no good people out there. It's not because "everyone on dating apps just wants to hook up." Truthfully, it's rarely what we think it is. It's always something so much deeper. When I was on my dating journey my biggest challenge was not feeling good enough. When I explored the origin of that belief, I was brought to mother. I realized that I saw myself through the eyes of my mother. And her eyes, weren't always the kindest when looking at me. Now that I'm a mother, I realize what a hard job it is. And how so many of us are mothering from a broken heart. But still, we affect the ones we mother. Even the best of us do! God knows my kids will be on some therapy couch one day talking about how I messed them up in one way or another. It can be scary, but we need to go there. Until we examine the mother relationship, we can't full see ourselves. And if we can't fully see ourselves, we can't fully accept love. For this reason, I sought out Mother Wound expert Bethany Webster to be a guest on The Final Swipe podcast. This is such an important topic, and Bethany did such a great job explaining what the mother wound is and how it can affect our dating life. Give it a listen. And if you know a friend who has mom issues, please send it along. We talk about:
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| 07 Mar 2019 | 14. How to Put an End to Ghosting | 00:13:03 | |
The term ghosting may be new, but that practice has been around for a while. I remember being ghosted way before it was ever a thing, and feeling like crap. As if something were wrong with me. And it always seem to be "the nice guys" who would do it. You know, those people-pleaser type? Who are too afraid to confront you, so they just pretend nothing ever happened. Ugh, grow a pair. I'm actually happy there's a term for it now, because before it felt quite shameful and lonely. At least now, we're able to encourage a little accountability on the ghoster. With swipe culture, ghosting has become even more rampant, considering there are so many blurred lines when it comes to what kind of interaction actually deserve closure. Regardless, we can all agree it doesn't feel good to be ghosted. But it also doesn't feel great having to let someone know that you're not feeling the connection. So in the end, we ghost, too. Today, I want to talk about how we can all put an end to ghosting, but not ghosting on our end. I don't say this because I believe karma is going to get you. I say this because, for so many of us, dating feels like a scary, unsafe interaction with heartless strangers. When we ghost we perpetuate that belief. When we agree to close the loop on all our dating interactions, we start to see that the dating world is actually not scary or ugly, but rather filled with a group of feely humans all putting themselves out there in hopes of finding their version of love. In other words, we humanize the process, which then makes us feel better about the concept of dating as a whole. In today's episode, I go deeper into the topic. We talk about how to stop ghosting, how to handle being ghosted, and how to see the dating world as a good place. Give it a listen and share it with that friend who is a notorious ghoster! Make the dating world a better place. We talk about:
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| 14 Mar 2019 | 15. Is the Past Messing with Your Future Love? | 00:44:27 | |
If you're reading this, it's because you understand what I understand, which is that finding love is a spiritual journey back to self — back to our worth and our wholeness. What happens along that journey many times is that we are confronted with our past. And if we're not aware of it, we'll be confronted with our past over and over again. This is when we start to question "Why do I keep attracting shitty situations?" This is when we get stuck. There's a part of us that believes in a new future, but we don't understand the role healing our past plays in creating a new reality. In today's episode of The Final Swipe, we take a look at your present through the lens of your past. And to do that, I brought in my soul sister Christine Gutierrez. Christine is a licensed psychotherapist and trauma expert. I love her perspective of trauma and dating, so I wanted to share her with you. If you're ready for a new future (and past and present), this episode is for you. We talk about:
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| 20 Mar 2019 | 16. When You Fall in Love with Someone who is Not Available | 00:13:46 | |
Have you ever fallen in love with someone who is off limits or unavailable? Cue: “I wish that I had Jessie’s Girl.” Unavailable can be, they told you they’re not ready for commitment, or your heart is telling you they’re not open to receiving love. And off limits can me… they’re you’re boss! This can be really confusing. Because you’re like, shit, what is going on with my manifesting skills?! But guess what: this is actually a good thing. See, when it comes to manifesting a loving relationship, we need to get to a place where we can feel what it is like to be in love. When I teach this, you often respond by saying “But I’ve never had the kind of love I’m trying to attract, so how would I know how it feels?” When you ask, you receive! And this is when the universe brings you a person who you feel all the feels for, but can’t necessarily date. I know this may sound mean, but think of it as a gift. You now know what you’re looking for — you know what it feels like. You can borrow this feeling when manifesting. Still a little confused? Don’t fret. In today’s episode of The Final Swipe, I walk you through how to create a positive story around this seemingly shitty situation and how to use this experience to make you an even better manifester. Remember, my friend, the universe is going to help you get towards the vibration you need to be on to attract the love of your life, but often there are inspired steps you need to do in order to get there. For you, this might be one of the things. I know you’re on the right path, because you’re already receiving answers to your questions. Keep going! Annnnd, If you don’t want to walk this journey alone, I would love to have you in my membership program, where I’ll answer your question every week. We have a whole community of supportive and uplifting women who are walking the same path as you. We talk about:
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| 09 Apr 2019 | 17. What One Woman Did To Find Her Happily Every After | 00:59:30 | |
I completely believe that we have everything we need right now, from where we stand to find the love we really want. BUT why isn’t it working for you, right? Well, because unfortunately we have a lot layers of crap on top of us — limiting beliefs, traumas, anxieties, and so on. So while we’re equipped, often we have to undress the layer, one by one. Which is basically what I mean when I say, “We have to do the work.” We often have to do the inner work to unlayer and love all of it. From that place is where we begin to create our dream relationships and dream lives. With this in mind, on today’s episode of The Final Swipe, I speak to my good friend Nina Endrst. Her journey to love was full of all of the shit, but then it led her to so much intention. She did the work. And it shows, because her and her husband are the cutest. I asked her to come on the show to share her process from trauma to love, because it’s always nice to have real-life examples. We also went on some tangents covering topics that include, emotional availability, dating anxiety, inner healing work, and SO much more. She takes us on her journey from experiencing trauma in the workplace and in relationships to healing her soul, discovering her passion, and ultimately, finding her husband. Enjoy this one. It’s a modern-day happily ever after. We talk about:
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| 16 Apr 2019 | 18. Are You Sabotaging Your Love Life by Doing This? | 00:10:02 | |
When I was dating and looking for love, I was only saying I was looking for love. The truth was, I wasn’t looking for only love. What I was really doing was hoping and waiting for my ex. At the time, I was pretty aware that I was recovering from a breakup. I assumed the way to get over this would be to meet someone who would sweep me of my feet. But that wasn’t happening. In fact, I couldn’t find anyone who cared much for me, and if they did, I couldn’t reciprocate. How many of us have this plan? “I’ll keep my ex on deck.” Whether we’re hoping they’ll come back or keeping them as our back up, if our ex is still in our heart, there is no space for something new. It’s also a waste of our time! We pretend to date. We pretend “there’s nothing out there.” But really all we’re doing is sabotaging ourselves so that we can prove to ourselves that our destiny is with our ex. What needs to happen is an honest conversation. Confront the situation. Ask your ex if there’s a chance. Ask yourself if that’s what you want or would you rather something new (with all the upgrades!). And when your ex replies, listen. Like really listen. Don’t just hear what you want to hear. Listen with your intuition. Listen with your heart. Because it’s time. Time to move forward. Or time to give it a real try. No more stuck in the middle. No more pretending nothing is working out for you. It’s time. We talk about:
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| 23 Apr 2019 | 19. Finding Love After Loss | 00:44:30 | |
What if you found love, and then later experienced losing it? That was the case for today's guest, Carmen Ordonez, who was happily married and then lost her husband to cancer at a very young age. Suddenly, Carmen found herself heartbroken, a single mother, and single in a dating world that was very different than the last time she saw it. What she did to move forward was incredible, and I'm so grateful to have her on today's episode of "The Final Swipe Podcast." Even if we haven't experience death of a loved one, Carmen shares so much wisdom on how we can move forward after losing love — or what we thought was love (I'm talking to you, divorced or recently single friend). Although this wasn't the plan, Carmen managed to gather her vision for a beautiful life, create it, and honor her late husband at the same time. See dating in a new light with this episode. In this episode we talk about:
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| 30 Apr 2019 | 20. How to Manifest a Soulmate | 00:05:43 | |
You’ve probably heard me talk about soulmates before because I’m pretty obsessed with clearing the air. When it comes to romantic relationships, there is not just one, person out there to love and cherish us. A soulmate is someone who has lived other lifetimes with us. Get it? Soul-Mate? So now that we’ve cleared that up, we can get into the real important stuff: manifesting a wonderful romantic relationship. And we’re going to do that today by creating a list. I know what you’re going to tell me, “Nikki, I’ve made my perfect-man checklist and all I heard were crickets.” And you know what I’ll say to that? You did it wrong. First off, manifesting is a real thing. We can call things into our lives through our thoughts and belief. Writing what we want down is physical action we can take in the manifesting process. So that’s why we make a list. But the reason your previous list did not work out was because you were coming from the wrong place. If your list said things like, “I want him to be tall, wealthy, and drive a truck,” I’m sorry to say but it’s not going to work. And here’s why. When we try to manifest things without addressing why we want it, we can attract really wonky stuff. The why is more important than the what. Our lists have to be based on how we want to feel. (Need more help with this? Check out my book "The Final Swipe," by following this link: https://www.amazon.com/Final-Swipe-Pe...) You want to attract someone who is wealthy, because maybe you want to someone to be equal to you, or because you don’t want to be taking care of someone, or because you want to feel secure. If you only write down “I want him to be wealthy,” you can attract someone who has a lot, but spends a lot. Or you can have someone who has a lot, but has a lot of debt. Now, if you create your list based off how you want to feel in the relationship, you can’t go wrong. You’re covering your basis. You would say something like, “I want to feel like an equal,” or “I want to feel financially secure,” or “I want to feel that my partner takes responsibility for himself.” When it comes to romantic relationships, what lasts is not the outside stuff. What lasts is how we feel. Our emotional needs are what need to be met. The outside stuff we’re trying to call in is the manifestation of a need. We don’t want a tall person just for the hell of it! We want a tall person, because we want to feel small and feminine. Our feelings list is this week’s spiritual assignment. Create your perfect partner manifestation list with your feelings list in mind. Here are some examples: “I don’t want to be second to his/her friends and family” “I want to feel like a priority” “I want to be able to trust and not feel like I’m going to be cheated on” “I want to feel emotionally secure and trusting” “I want to feel beautiful in his/her eyes” “I want to make sure this person is financially ok” “I want to feel financially secure” “I want to make sure this person isn’t a crazy partier” “I want to feel I’m with a partner who prioritizes his/her health” “I want to be with someone who will stick around for the hard stuff” “I want to feel I am in a mature and committed relationship, where communication is of highest importance” If you have any questions about your list, leave me a comment below. Much love always! Xo, Nikki | |||
| 07 May 2019 | 21. All Things Dating with Everyday Therapy Podcast | 00:53:06 | |
I did a thing recently, and thought it came out really good so I wanted to share it with you. I was feeling myself. That thing was an interview with the ladies of Everyday Therapy Podcast. I'm so grateful to have been a guest on their amazing show. They are such pros, and they asked the best questions. There was so much great dating wisdom in this one that I just had to share. We covered topics like: Intentional swiping How to feel confident around someone you like How to let go of dating expectations How to be in your divine feminine when dating How to surrender and not control And so much more. It's a great one, you guys. Enjoy! Resources | |||
| 14 May 2019 | 22. Let's Talk About Your Placeholder | 00:21:24 | |
It's not an easy convo, but we need to have it. For those of us struggling with dating, our soul is asking us to stretch. We are going to have to put ourselves out there and challenge ourselves in a way that you've never done before. Because if we keep doing the same stuff, we're just going to see the same result, right? The stretch is scary and really uncomfortable, I get it. In order to avoid that uncomfortable feeling, we do this thing: We keep a placeholder around. A placeholder is someone we keep around as our backup plan. It's our "in case of emergency" plan. And while it seems harmless, what we don't understand is how this safety net keeps us small. When we stay small, we don't allow ourselves the true love we really desire. In today's episode of The Final Swipe podcast we talk about getting ready to release the energetic cords with these people who take up that "romantic love" space in our lives, but don't provide all that we want or need in a relationship. We also talk about how, sometimes, we keep ourselves busy with other people's lives in order to not feel the void of being alone. But the feeling of being alone is the thing that is going to push outside of our comfort zone in order to find love. So let's do this together, my friend. Let's get you ready for real love. Give the episode a listen. Resources
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| 22 May 2019 | 23. Is Your Heart Open? | 00:18:47 | |
Chances are you’ve heard about chakras, but really, what the hell are they? In today’s episode of The Final Swipe, we talk all about the heart chakra. In my private sessions, I use the chakras to read energy, which is how I’m able to see blocks in people. When I see an imbalance in that center, it’s either too open or too closed. When I was starting out on my spiritual journey, my heart was too closed. In this episode, I talk about the heart healing that changed my life and led me to my energy reading gift. If you’re feeling your heart chakra is a little off, this is the episode for you. Let’s learn how to bring that bright green energy center back to health. Listen on! Resources 1. Free Heart Chakra Meditation: www.nikkinovo.com/heart 2. My new program, Living Your Best Love Life: http://nikkinovo.com/love | |||
| 04 Jun 2019 | 24. How to Embrace Your Feelings with Maddy Moon | 01:02:45 | |
There is one thing we can’t go without when dating. If we try to leave this part of us out of the process, we will be completely lost. That thing is: our feelings. Connecting to what we feel is what gives us the direction towards what we want. It’s our compass. But, sadly, we’ve also learned that feelings are bad. We either want to jump out of our bodies when they come up, or we turn them off all together. No bueno, you guys. Let’s dig into that, shall we? And to do so, I had the pleasure of conversing with feelings expert, Maddy Moon. My friends, this woman has managed to figure out how to be guided by her feelings even when she’s on dating apps! My hero, and you’re new guide. In this episode, we talk about what life looks like without feelings, what it’s like to honor even the shadow parts of ourselves, and how to embrace the deep emotions in a way that serves us. This is such a good convo. It just embodies self-acceptance — which we can never get enough of, especially while dating. Get cozy. In this episode we talk about:
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| 11 Jun 2019 | 25. How to Kill the Dating Game with Emilia Nagy | 00:58:47 | |
If you’ve hung out with me lone enough, you know all about dating blocks: The strange stuff we believe that get in our way when it comes to love. We get that healing those blocks is going to be part of the journey. But truthfully, sometimes you just need some damn good dating strategies. And that’s what today’s episode of The Final Swipe Podcast is about. Tips! Because no one ever teaches us how to date. For today’s episode, I was joined by dating and relationships coach Emilia Nagy. She is so sunny, candid, and well versed in dating. You can tell she geeks out on this stuff, which makes her so valuable. We talk about the positive side of shame, how to overcome narcissistic relationships, and how to kill the dating game. Grab that paper and pen! In this episode we talk about:
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| 06 Aug 2019 | 26. What if being single wasn't a bad thing? | 00:52:56 | |
Because it's not, and Shani Silver wants to tell you why. Shani has been single for a decade, and one day she just became tired. Not tired of being single, but tired of being mad about it. And that's when things started to change for Shani. In today's episode, Shani shares how she changed her life by taking a different approach to being single than what we're normally taught. She explains how she got here, what dating looks like these days, and how she was able to start enjoying her life again. I was excited to have Shani on the show because she's a beautiful example of being hopeful and optimistic, but at the same time completely present. Meaning, she's looking forward to the future, but she's also truly loving her present. Her perspective on dating is so refreshing (and needed), that she scored a column with Refinery29 titled, "Every Single Day" and hosts a podcast called "A Single Serving Podcast." Shani is changing the conversation for shamed singles everywhere, so that we can finally look at this time in our life with clarity There's so much wisdom in this one. Enjoy! | |||
| 13 Aug 2019 | 27. How to Know What Your Future Holds | 00:19:59 | |
Have you ever had a reading and the person told you one thing was going to happen and it never did? What's the deal, right? Did that person take you for a ride? If you're wondering about this phenomenon, you have to listen to this episode. In this episode, I talk about what futures look like in a reading; I explain how you can allow your future to come in; and how to deal with the anxiety of dating in the unknown. The truth is, the future you're looking forward to wants to come in, but we're so bogged down. So let's learn how to release, surrender, and make space (all the buzz words, yes!) for the love you really want. Also, let's learn how to open up our hearts and date even when we don't know what's going to happen with a certain relationship. There's some good wisdom in your future. Just saying! | |||
| 21 Aug 2019 | 28. Loving Again After Being Burned | 00:38:15 | |
I often think of us as little kicked dogs trying to find love again even though we were abused in a past. Have you ever been with an animal who was hurt in the past? You go in for a snuggle, and they just back up out of fear of getting hurt again. That's us, you guys! Don't you ever feel like that? At some point, you will be loved... really loved, and it'll be hard to believe it. One day, you'll allow yourself the love you really deserve, and you'll start to wonder if the person loving you is just pulling a prank on you. This has been the case for so many of us, and today, we have a guest who so generously shares her journey. It's a journey of reminding herself that she is worthy, that real love does exist and it exist for her. This is such a beautiful share from Liz Newman, who was on the first season of The Final Swipe. She found love — and it feels funny. Ready to feel all the feels on this one. Get ready to love again. | |||
| 10 Sep 2019 | 29. How Spirit Guides Can Help Your Love Life | 00:27:05 | |
I’m pretty obsessed with spirit guides if you haven’t noticed. I first got into them when I went to visit a psychic who was supposed to tell me that my ex-boyfriend was going to come running back to me. No such luck. Her reading was so fascinating that I had to understand what she was doing. She explained to me that she could speak to angels. Whaaaat? And these angels apparently were around us to protect us and had info on us. I needed to know more. As soon as I got over my fear of seeing and hearing spirits (religion will sometimes do that to you), through my studies I started to connect to spirit guides, accidently. And guess what? They were so chatty. Full of so much useful info. The first thing one of my guides did was show me a past life, in my dreams, with an ex that healed so much for me and finally allowed me to let go and move on. And eventually be open to attracting my husband. Besides assisting us in healing, spirit guides are here to do exactly what their title says: guide us. They are highly evolved souls that are assigned to work with us for various reasons. Some come and go depending on what season we’re in and others stick around for much longer. Their job is to help us evolve and reach our potential. If you’re feeling called to bring romantic partnership into your life, know that this is part of your purpose. And your guide wants you to fulfill your purpose, so they want to assist you in healing any blocks that is keeping you from love — that may be past life stuff or simply negative thoughts. Dating is a great teaching opportunity for them! In today’s episode, I go over what spirit guides are, how you can connect with yours, and how you can receive help in the love department. Give this episode a listen to learn more about your helpful guides. | |||
| 17 Sep 2019 | 30. Redefining Masculine Qualities | 00:23:38 | |
Today’s episode is a tough one. Here’s why. Many of us are looking for divine masculine energy. Whether we’re in search of a heterosexual relationship or same sex relationship, we’re looking for either predominatly divine femine or predominatly divine masculine energy. Today I’m speaking to those of you looking for a partner who is predominantly in their divine masculine energy. We’re going to talk about what those qualities really are and how to create space for them. Because the truth many times, we either don’t leave any room for the masculine to show up, or we condone it when it appears. As the patriarchy begins to dissolve it’s important to not label all masucline qualities as the patriarchy. It’s also important that we don’t just turn the patriarchy into the matriarchy. Let’s clear up all that funky energy and misunderstandings so you can better understand yourself and what you’re calling in. And so you can create a direct line for your manifestations. | |||
| 24 Sep 2019 | 31. Why Some People are Hard to Get Over | 00:22:57 | |
Do you find yourself hanging onto old love despite your logic? It makes no sense, right? You know your worth and that this can’t possibly be good for you, but for some reason you’re afraid of letting go. You’re afraid that you may never feel this way again despite the relationship being a total shit show. I’m here to tell you you’re not crazy. Not because you’re right. Truth is you’re probably not meant to be together. BUT the feeling and pull is real. Why? Because you’re dealing with a soulmate relationship. Now, first let me remind you that we have several soulmates. Your mother can be a soulmate. Your boss, too. And not all soulmate relationships are all rainbows and butterflies. The one you may find yourself in may be very difficult. Or perhaps it might feel cozy, but lack spark or attraction. That’s because you’ve done this before! And just because you’ve done it before doesn’t mean it’s supposed to last. Let’s break down soulmate love, how you can heal, and how you can find one that will lead to a happy ending with little drama. Give this episode a listen and let me know what you think. | |||
| 01 Oct 2019 | 32. Conscious Dating with Angela Holton | 00:43:22 | |
Conscious dating, you guys, is a thing! And today, we have the godmother of conscious dating, Angela Holton on the pod sharing wisdom. She shares with us her own personal experience — how she turned her dating life completely around to something positive and empowering. We chat about not feeling bad for ourselves when dating, how to reduce shame around dating, and how to attract without obsessing. Lots of great tips in this one! Check it out. Connect with Angela: Website: www.lovesanctuary.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelanholton/ Online Course Waitlist: Conscious Dating: “Become The ONE You Want & Attract The Love You Desire”: https://www.lovesanctuary.com/conscious-dating | |||
| 08 Oct 2019 | 33. How to Manifest Love but Not Obsess | 00:19:43 | |
Today we go over a common question I receive often: How do I manifest, but not feel obsessive over calling in a partner? Such a good question! Here are my tips. I have three for you: 1. When manifesting is not working, it's because we're being called to a journey of letting go It's important to understand that manifesting is natural. We're doing it all the time. We want something, and within little time, it shows up. If manifesting is not working, it's because we're being called to walk a journey of letting go — of releasing all the baggage and false beliefs so that our energy is clean and light. 2. Focus on the feeling What makes us feel obsessive is that we're focused on the union, on the partner, on the person. When in fact, we want to focus on the feeling. Being in a relationship represents some kind of feeling for us. For some of us it's security, fun, companionship, and so on. That feeling is what we're trying to manifest, and that's what we want to focus on, which in return eliminates a lot of pressure. 3. Keep track of your actions Lastly, we feel crazy when manifesting because we're all up in our heads. We're thinking about it and visualizing it, but we also want to get honest about what we're physically doing to help co-create this relationship. Remember, we live on this place called Earth that's physical! So let's keep track of what we're doing to help ourselves. Enjoy the episode. Let me know if you have questions. | |||
| 15 Oct 2019 | 34. How to Read People's Energy on Dating Apps | 00:15:15 | |
I know, I know. You want to meet people organically and in person, because that is how you get a better read on people. I get it! But it's 2019, and dating apps are a thing. So let's embrace it, rather than romanticize our old flip phones. Today on the pod, I offer three steps to help you get a read on those online profiles. Here they are: 1. Recognize your judgements It's important just to note that the first few seconds of looking at someone's profile, you're coming from your judgement. Based off your past experiences, you're going to decide who this person is. Don't judge your judgements, lol! Let them come through, and let them past. And then give the profile a second look. 2. Connect to your heart As you give that second look, bring your attention to your heart center. See if you can connect to that part of you rather than your mind. 3. Align with you courage Lastly, once you feel from your heart and receive some sort of knowing, you may quickly fall into fear again. Ask yourself, "What would I do if I was coming from a place of courage," and then make your move. If you're liking this info, make sure to listen to the full episode where I give a lot more detail. Enjoy! | |||
| 29 Oct 2019 | 35. How to Find Soulmate Love | 00:30:42 | |
The reason we look for soul mates is because we're looking for a feeling. We're looking for a feeling of depth and intimacy. There's a misconception that intimacy and depth happens with some people and doesn't with others. When in fact, WE create the space for that. We can either make an environment that doesn't allow for depth or we can make one that does. In today's episode, I'm going to teach you how to make depth in a relationship. And spoiler alert: It has nothing to do with talking your way to closeness. As women, that's are go-to! In this episode, learn how to:
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| 05 Nov 2019 | 36. Giving up Dating for Lent with Kacie Main | 00:54:10 | |
I see life in dating metaphors. Always have. Always will. And that started because, one day I just started to see my insides based off what I was doing in my dating life. It was the beginning of my awakening. Apparently, I’m not the only one. On today’s episode of The Final Swipe, we have author Kacie Main with us, whose dating experience was so spiritual that she gave it up for lent. This is such an insightful conversation on how we can let go the constant search for love, but also still be an energetic match for it. Kacie explains how she did it. How she let go, but in the end found herself and love. Enjoy! What we cover:
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| 12 Nov 2019 | 37. Healing Your Heart Wall with Nick Kidawski | 00:42:49 | |
Before every reading I do, I meditate. I focus on the person’s energy like a nosey mom going through her child’s drawers. I’m looking for what’s working, what trauma remains, what fears exist, and what future is set in place. Everyone is different, and there’s a ton of variation in people’s energy, but one thing I see 9 out of 10 times is a little fence around the heart. Some look like a thin curtain and others look like a full-on fortress. I see it so often because most of us want to protect our hearts. We’re afraid of what might happen if we allow anyone to get too close. We’re scared of what would happen if we let someone in who might hurt us later. Or, we may have suffered deep hurt in the past, causing us to close up shop. Funny enough, this doesn’t affect our ability to be a good person. What it does get in the way of is leading a heart-centered life. The heart chakra is the center chakra, because it’s our center. It’s the closest connection to our essence. When we live from this place, we connect more, experience more, love more. Sounds pretty amazing, right? But how are we supposed to knock down that damn wall?! On today’s episode of The Final Swipe, we speak to heart wall expert Nick K. Who get this guys, lives in Loveland, Colorado. I mean, talk about living your purpose. Nick was so kind to explain what the wall is, how we can work to release it, and what happens when we do. Get your journal ready! We talk about:
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| 20 Nov 2019 | 38. Help the Universe Bring You What You Want | 00:26:29 | |
Alright, so manifesting is all the rage, right? You’ve studied up on it, made the lists, closed your eyes, and still nothing. There’s even people out there that will tell you to demand from the Universe. Expect the Universe to deliver! And yet…. nada. What’s going on? Why isn't it working? Well, my friend, let me tell you about the one step you may be missing. The part where you take inspired action! Yeah, my friend, you’re going to need some dates to manifest that relationship. Yes lady, you’re going to have go out to places where you don’t just huddle around your friends who you’ve known since grade school. In other words, you have to open up funnels in order for the Universe to deliver your package. In this episode of The Final Swipe, I teach you what these funnels are and how to create them. I also teach how to not be in constant push or controlling mode. That’s for my recovering control freaks. Love you, guys! Let’s help the Universe out, yo. Listen to this episode. We talk about:
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| 26 Nov 2019 | 39. Avoid People's Negative Comments During the Holidays | 00:18:31 | |
It’s that time of the year! When all your family members and old friends get all up in your love life! So fun. You can hear it now, “Sweetie, why haven’t you met anyone yet? You’re so smart, beautiful, and successful.” Ugh, yeah, that’s what I’m saying! Have no fear! We are going to make you holiday dinner table ready with today’s episode. We’re going to learn how to navigate that energy, how to lessen it, and how to make it work in your favor. Get your notebook ready, because we have some scripts for ya that are perfect for run-in with tipsy relatives. Another thing to be thankful for! We talk about:
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| 03 Dec 2019 | 40. Game-Changing Dating Strategies with Coach Cass | 00:53:22 | |
We all love to hear stories of how couples meet. For one, it gives us hope. But also, because we feel like we're listening to a magical story that actually occurred. It's like a real-life romantic comedy. Finding love seems like magic, because it often feels like we have no say in the matter. We think it happens by chance, by luck, by fate. And it doesn't help that most people will tell you these crazy stories of how they met their partner by chance. They're beautiful stories, but they also feel really disempowering. I recommend you ask someone who has actually spent the time to analyze what brought them to find their partner. You guys, it does not happen out of pure magic. Anyone who has found love, has found it because there was energy and focus behind that desire. Most people don't like to admit that they were "looking for love," but they were. I know I was on a mission to find love every time I found it. My clients who are successful in dating have all put an energy behind dating that eliminates fear. They have strategy! In today's episode, I chat with my friend and love expert, Coach Cass, who agrees with me — finding love isn't magic! She shares with us some tips and tricks that have worked for so many of her clients, which really help to take the mystery out of dating. If you're ready to eliminate that fear and doubt surrounded around your love life, this episode is for you. Resources:
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| 10 Dec 2019 | 41. Dating from the Divine Feminine with Anya Grace | 01:02:16 | |
The reason so many of us hate dating is because many times it feels very far from romantic. The swiping, meeting strangers... it can all feel really transactional. Which is really just another word for masculine. Let's change that, shall we? In today's episode of The Final Swipe podcast, feminine energy coach Anya Grace is here to school us on how we can make the process more feminine, flowy and joyful. I really enjoyed this conversation, because Anya explains so well how we can tap into our own inner strength even when our tendency is feel scared, pain, grief, etc. She's shifting energy in this episode, no doubt. What we cover:
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| 07 Jan 2020 | 42. Setting Boundaries to Attract Love with author Nancy Levin | 00:57:21 | |
When we think "boundaries" we tend to think about setting them for people we don't really like. Or for people who we have to keep at an arms length. We rarely think of setting boundaries for people we do like. In this episode, author and master coach Nancy Levin schools us on the magic of boundaries, and how they make us look sexy while dating. She also shares her story of being in a controlling relationship, how she was able to get out, heal, and move forward. So many of us can see ourselves in her story, so it's one to listen to. I also have a funny situation in the recording, where I'm trying to please Nancy, while she's teaching us about how not to please others. It's funny, and very eye-opening. Get ready to open your heart by expanding it towards yourself first. Give this episode a listen and let me know your thoughts. What we cover:
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| 14 Jan 2020 | 43. How to Remove Energetic Cords | 00:12:08 | |
Why do some people from our past just feel sticky? Energetic cords, my friend. I see these often on people. They look like little ropes coming from one person to the other. Sometimes, we're the person holding on, and sometimes they're holding on. Who care who is the doing the holding. What's important is that we release them. If we don't, they become littler energy leaks in our aura. Don't be afraid to let go of people. It doesn't mean we'll never see them again. This healing just helps us not feel attached to them. We no longer need their validation or love to be feel whole. We are calling back all our energy to ourselves, so we can be our most powerful self. Warning, do this practice when not driving. And let me know how it goes! | |||
| 27 Jan 2020 | 44. Your 2020 Plan for Attracting Love | 00:18:57 | |
This is your year for love, right? But haven’t you said that before? Isn’t it super scary to think that you’re in the same place all over again? I got you, my friend. In this episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss your 2020 plan. This is how this year is going to be different. It’s a mix of honesty, inspired action, and mindset. Get your notes ready! Write down what comes up as we talk. | |||
| 06 Feb 2020 | 45. How I Met My Husband | 00:37:55 | |
Today is our wedding anniversary. Eight years! I can't believe it. For a while there, I really never thought I would have a relationship past two years. Here I am, all grown up! In today's episode, I wanted to share with you my story of how I met my husband. How we came together. What worked. What didn't work. I know it's kind of an old story, but love is a classic story, right? I wanted to share because I think you might find a few nuggets of wisdom that will help you along your path. Plus, aren't we at the stage by now, where you should know my love story? Enjoy! And send me any thoughts or questions. | |||
| 18 Feb 2020 | 46. A Look Inside How I do Readings | 00:53:39 | |
I recently did readings with the hosts of Mindfully Millennial, and I just had to share their thoughts on their experience. Today, we're running a recording from their podcast where we talk about how I became intuitive, and how I'm able to see people's blocks without ever seeing their faces. I know, guys, it's bizarre. But truth is, we're all energy. If you're a tad bit interested in how reading works and how legit predicting futures can really be, this is a must listen to episode. Resources:
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| 25 Feb 2020 | 47. How to Know What Really is Meant to be | 00:25:52 | |
Have you ever dated someone and thought he or she was the answer to your prayers? Where it all just seemed so perfect, and you really felt heard by the Universe. It felt like… This is it. That happened to me once while I was dating, and nope the guy didn’t turn out to be my now-husband. Shocker? And for someone who really depends on her intuition, thinking this guy was “the one” only to find out later that I was wrong, was a real blow to the ego. Not to mention, the Universe received a few angry letters from me, as well. Here’s the truth: I was seeing this relationship as an answer to my current life’s prayer and not my future life’s prayer. In today’s podcast episode, I share that story with you, so you can see where I went wrong with my own intuition, in hopes that you understand yours a little bit more. Ready? Because you’re about to have a meeting with your soul today. Listen in on today’s episode of The Final Swipe. Resources:
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| 03 Mar 2020 | 48. Tips for Changing Your Beliefs | 00:21:44 | |
Changing our beliefs in order to get to where we want, isn't a new concept. But I know so many of you are trying to believe good things are coming, or that you're worthy, or that there are still good people out there. I know you're trying, but why doesn't it always stick? In today's episode, we're going to dig into some of the material in Chapter 5 of "The Final Swipe," where I talk about how to change your beliefs in a way that feels good. Get your notebook ready, because you're going to want to remember this one. Resources:
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| 07 Apr 2020 | 49. People Pleasing, Rejection & Loneliness with Veronica Grant | 00:56:25 | |
Have you ever had a friend call you out on your shit? The kind of friend who reminds you to stop feeling bad for yourself. Veronica Grant had that friend. And this friend reminded her that she was awesome, but had a habit of wanting to be validated by outside sources — aka, a guy. Ultimately, Veronica armed herself with tools to kick the habit of down playing her worth. She found herself a partner who valued her, and then decided to teach other women how to do the same. These days, Veronica is a love-life coach and a dating podcaster helping women everywhere find love in feely kinda way. Veronica joined me today on the podcast to share her wisdom on how to move from dating overwhelm to dating success. We explained how we kick the habit of people pleasing, get over the fear of rejection, and use the feeling of loneliness for good. What we cover:
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| 13 Oct 2020 | 50. Are You Dateable? with the hosts of Dateable Podcast | 00:46:02 | |
Yue Xu was new to San Francisco when she first met Julie Krafchick at a brunch event. The two hit it off after realizing that dating was their number one favorite subject to obsess over. Soon their podcast Dateable was born where the two talk to real daters and their experiences. During their podcast tenure, they’ve both been single and in relationships, giving them learning experiences that have brought them a lot of self-work and growth. According to the podcasters, the work never stops. Yue and Julie joined me on the podcast to share all their modern dating know-how. From the Bay Area’s gender roles to the end of fuckboys, the Dateable girls give us new insight into dating during COVID and beyond. What we cover:
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