So What Now? with Carla and Dex (Idea to Launch Productions)
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| 14 May 2018 | BONUS EP: 01 Unsolicited Advice | 00:46:43 | |
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| 07 Aug 2023 | EP 193: Focusing on Self-growth After Break-ups with Mandii B. | 01:00:04 | |
Mandii B. (See, The Thing Is…and WHOREible Decisions Podcasts) is in Orlando and of course she had to come by the studio! Both women have been through very tough break ups that were so different yet so similar. If you've heard the term " she wont leave him until she is ready" then you will understand why they stayed in their relationships longer than they should have. Mandii has decided to become celibate after this breakup and her and Carla discuss how celibacy Is different between the both of them because it has been over a year and Carla is still not ready to date. There is a deep talk about narcissism and toxic manipulative relationships and how they can be so similar yet so different and how to support a friend through it. Join the conversation and laughter as these long-time friends show how growth comes in ANY form.
(4:32) - Being Unapologetically You (10:43) - Picking Yourself Up After the Pandemic (13:37) - Finding Strength in Being Alone (34:56) - With Age Comes Wisdom (44:03) - Vow of Celibacy (51:52) - Thriving While Single (57:17) - Bible Verse - Proverbs 18:24 Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube Thank you to our Sponsors:
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| 03 May 2022 | EP 148: Love Bombing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist | 00:48:01 | |
We have Mac “The Therapist” back for another week to continue to talk about Narcissism. This episode delves deeper in the conversation of how this affects the one on the receiving end. We talked about love- bombing and how its an end to their means. We had moments where realizations were made and gave a different perspective. I learned that I came to terms with the fact that although this person put me through the wildest emotional rollercoaster, I lived through that, there were moments that were good, along with the dark side.
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| 23 Jan 2023 | EP 169: Mommy Issues After Sexual Trauma ft Samia Burton | 01:08:57 | |
Carla is BACK! After another successful production for a few of the Idea to Launch clientele Carla is joined by Samia Burton host of Not Just Another Sex Podcast. Join them as they get down to the nitty gritty and discuss:
(2:46) Full circle moments (6:20) Emotionally immature parents (8:47) Mommie issues after sexual trauma (11:55) Why Carla thought her mother “didn't have a backbone” (18:33) Why women are more verbally abusive than men (23:51) How Samia is getting over Stockholm Syndrome (37:55) Why it’s important to surrender for your blessings to pour down on you (49:57) Advice Letter: A man gets in trouble for driving a lady friend home at night (01:01:31) Bible Verse: 1st Corintheans 5:17
Connect with Samia: IG: @miabuggzy
Carla’s Recommendations Episode 59 “An Open Letter to Mommy Dearest” Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents Marriage.com 10 Signs Of Mommy Issues In Women And How To Fix Them
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| 01 Jan 2019 | EP 43: Am I Becoming An Introvert in my 30's? ft Anthony Bertram | 01:13:20 | |
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| 17 Aug 2018 | 10K! Unsolicited BONUS | 00:38:17 | |
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| 20 Jul 2018 | EP 18: Health, Yoga, & Piss "Fitness is for the Mind, Body, &...Sex?" | 01:03:14 | |
We've all wondered what goes on behind the scenes of trainers and those socially awkward yoga instructors. In this episode we break through the stereotypes of brown & black people in the Yogi community, and how a trainer can help you jump start your fitness journey with two amazing trainers, Bert from @bodybybert and Rasta Yogi DJ @dade2shelby. Listen until the end when we start speaking on mental health and suddenly one of the guests decide that he was going to do something NO ONE was expecting! This is frankly sh*t we cant make up. Follow us on social media @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris | |||
| 17 Nov 2021 | EP 140: This Feels Like A Life Sentence | 00:17:43 | |
My life revolves around my kids and my family and now it feels like the woman that I am is in prison. My spirit got me out of bed and told me to vocalize what I am feeling today and in the coming weeks. Who is Carla today? Is she just a mom? Will she ever be a woman again? Tune in and go on this journey again with me. It is not pretty but it is raw. | |||
| 30 Aug 2018 | EP 24: Girl Boss ft Ivana Cora | 01:09:01 | |
This week Carla is joined by her instagram bestie Ivana Cora from Brendalin & Cora ---They finally get to sit down and meet face to face! SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW
During our girl boss topic we talk about getting out of your comfort zone and working towards your passion even when its not all that glamorous in the beginning. Ivana's internet trolls, and people who want her to give them all the answers without wanting to do the work. How Ivana has managed to have a successful online boutique and quit her job almost one year ago to work for herself. This week's book recommendations Girl Boss by Sophia Amoruso You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero Unsolicited Advice
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| 04 Dec 2020 | EP 138: Pivoting & Leveling TF Up! | 00:19:18 | |
It is time to Pivot. My vision has become so clear in the last 2.5 years and now I want to serve you in the new space that I'm in. Today I will share the new vision and direction that Sh*T I'm 30 is going in and trust me it is NOT for the weak!!!
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| 27 Feb 2018 | EP 01 WELCOME TO SH*T I'M 30! | 00:01:42 | |
| 13 Nov 2024 | EP 3: Still Processing Rejection | 00:45:06 | |
In this episode, Carla and Dex share their raw reactions to the 2024 Presidential election. With no outline or segments, it’s a heartfelt, off-the-cuff conversation as they process the results and how they’re personally navigating the aftermath. From coping with the outcome to confronting the challenges of moving forward in a divided world, this episode is a rollercoaster of feelings and reflections. Tune in for a real and honest discussion, as Carla and Dex work through it all—together. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Election Shock and Disappointment: The hosts express disappointmentover Trump’s re-election, with surprise that his controversial policiesand divisive rhetoric did not prevent his victory. They voice concernabout the country’s future and the social divides it highlights.
Representation Matters: One host discusses the emotional impact ofseeing Kamala Harris, a woman of color, in a leadership position, whichgave her a sense of visibility and pride. However, there is alsofrustration that gender and racial biases may have hindered Harris’ssupport.
Frustration with Social Media and Misinformation: The hosts criticizehow misinformation spread on social media influenced people'sopinions, especially around topics like abortion, LGBTQ rights, andhealthcare.
Importance of Local Politics: Beyond the presidential election, the hostsemphasize the significance of local issues, such as marijuanalegalization and education funding, urging listeners to remainpolitically active and informed at all levels of government.
Self-Care and Emotional Processing: In coping with the electionoutcome, the hosts discuss the importance of processing feelings in asupportive environment rather than engaging in social media debates,aiming to foster resilience and stay involved in the political processdespite setbacks.
Role of Women and Bias: There is a shared feeling of rejection amongthe hosts, particularly regarding gender bias in leadership. They notethe resistance against women, especially women of color, holdingpowerful roles, which feels like a societal setback. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/
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| 14 Jan 2020 | EP 98: "The Other Woman" A Story of Growth and Forgiveness | 01:34:13 | |
Have you ever dated a married man? At some point in your life you will either know someone who has or you will have experienced this BUT will you ever sit across from her and talk about how you felt during this time and what led to it? This week I am joined by Vyky to tell our stories from 7 years ago when I was "The Other Woman". It takes one hell of an incredible woman to agree to come on this show and tell HER story which is one of Strength, Growth, & Purpose! My goals with this episode is to show every woman you can choose to be brave and let go of negative feelings that are holding you back from you GREATNESS! We are women and we are more powerful together than we could ever be apart! SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW
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| 30 Oct 2024 | EP 239: Spooky Stories: High Speed Chase, Professor Exposing Himself, Dating and Held Hostage | 01:01:44 | |
This week on Pivot with Purpose, we’re getting into the Halloween spirit! I’m joined by two of my favorite people, Dexty and Ariel B, to relive the thrills of my recent Halloween bash. From spooky stories to a few terrifyingly hilarious fashion throwbacks, this episode promises all the laughs and chills you need. Tune in for a hilariously spooky time you won’t forget!
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| 30 Nov 2018 | EP 37: The Hustle Never Stops | 00:17:05 | |
Today I bring you into the studio with me to talk to you about what is new in my self employed business venture life. Follow me on instagram @carlawilmaris & @shitim30podcast to stay up to date with what I have going on. Email me to schedule your One-On-One Consultation, Editing of Your Podcast, or Podcast management today! Don't forget to Rate, Review and Subscribe - Your review might be the next one I read on the show and post on social media.
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| 04 Apr 2019 | EP 57: You're Such A Narcissist | 01:18:34 | |
| 24 Oct 2022 | EP 158: Changing Lives, Threesomes, and IDK who Ice Cube Is | 01:07:37 | |
This week Carla is joined by a couple of the most inspiring entrepreneurs in Orlando, Michelle Welch & Jena Melhberg. These friends could not stop laughing as they discussed the latest Ray J and Princess mess, their journeys as self made entrepreneurs, and why they don’t like the phrase “women empowerment”!
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| 18 Apr 2023 | EP 181: I Found God Through Astrology feat Gigi | 01:10:23 | |
This week on Pivot With Purpose, Carla is joined by intuitive Astrologist “Gigi”. They start by discussing Gigi’s background and why she decided to move to Mexico. Then, The ladies bond over motherhood when GiGi describes how she’s able to put her daughter through college. Gigi shares how a broken marriage inspired her to start researching astrology and how her christian mother came to accept her career path. Gigi even reads Carla’s natal chart live on the podcast! Today’s bible verse is Proverbs 19:21. 10:00- Gigi explains her background and how she got to Mexico 17:00- Gigi puts her daughter through college by moving to Mexico 22:10- Carla shares how astrology ruffles christians feathers 30:00- Having a stronger connection with God through astrology 38:00- The ladies discuss their natal charts 42:00- Gigi Reads Carla’s Natal Chart Live On Air 53:00- Gigi Gives Carla Dating tips based on her natal chart 1:01:00- Today’s Bible Verse is Proverbs 19:21 Connect with Gigi on social media @iamlivingaligned Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube
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| 05 Aug 2020 | EP 125: The "So...What Are We?" Talk Ft. Need To Know Podcast | 01:50:11 | |
Why are we so afraid to have the "define the relationship" talk?
Join me as I chat with Savon & Alex from Need To Know Podcast! We talk about being petty on the internet, dating as a millennial during COVID, and so much more!
Stick around until the end to hear Alex's super vulnerable & transparent confession about his father!
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| 20 Jan 2025 | EP13: Beyoncé Cancels, Carla Confesses, and LA’s Crisis | 00:51:00 | |
In this week’s episode Carla and Dex to catch you up on all the current events. We kick things off with Beyoncé’s surprising move to cancel her highly anticipated announcement, leaving fans buzzing. Plus, we reflect on recent actions from political leaders and the messages they’re sending. The conversation heats up as we discuss the devastating LA fires and how natural disasters continue to disproportionately impact marginalized communities. Carla makes a surprising confession about her recycling habits (or lack thereof), sparking a meaningful discussion on environmental responsibility. And finally, the ultimate question: is it ever appropriate to call your ex-wife "the baby momma"? Tune in for laughter, honest takes, and a little self-reflection as we tackle life’s messy and meaningful moments. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| 27 Aug 2024 | EP 231: Running On Crazy | 01:02:23 | |
This week Carla and Dexty are joined by Christina from Running on Crazy. Christina shares her personal journey with bulimia and depression. Christina’s story is a powerful one about body image, self-love, and her road to recovery.
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| 19 Feb 2020 | EP 102: Dating, Divorce, Dropping Out of College! feat Krysta Monet | 01:22:41 | |
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| 17 Jul 2023 | EP 190: Behind the Laughter: A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod about Marriage, Blended Family, and Children with Autism | 01:04:01 | |
Join us on a journey filled with laughter, real-life experiences, and powerful insights as we welcome Kristen and J-Rod, the couple behind the hit podcast 'And Then We Had Sex'. These two share an incredible story about how they launched a successful podcast, and their unique approach to navigating relationships and intimacy when you're older. This episode is a deep dive into the idea of 'Pivot with Purpose' and how Kristen and J-Rod carved their path on their own terms.
As we dig deeper, we engage in an enlightening discussion about common reasons for failed relationships. Brace yourselves as we reveal that cleanliness tops the list, even surpassing financial issues! We also touch on the negative impacts of social media overuse on relationships, illustrated by a viral video that underscores the importance of being present. This conversation doesn't shy away from exploring the challenges of dating, blended families, and the therapeutic potential of podcasting for couples.
(0:00:06) - Pivot With Purpose (0:06:13) - Contributors to Failed Relationships (0:10:46) - Podcasting and Relationship Stories (0:23:46) - Podcasting as Therapy for Couples (0:30:04) - Challenges of Dating and Blended Families (0:42:36) - Power of Prayer, Finding a Church (0:47:19) - Benefits of Tithing and Podcasting (0:53:31) - Maintaining Consistency in Freelancing and Creativity (1:06:36) Bible Verse - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube
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| 11 Jul 2023 | EP 189: Birth Doulas, Manifesting Pregnancy, and Finding Your Purpose without Kids | 01:10:29 | |
This week, Carla is joined by Wendy and Charlene; two doulas with a purpose to educate and support women (and their families) throughout their pregnancy journeys. Join the trio as they navigate what it means to be a doula and how to handle pregnancy as a woman of color.
(7:06) Doula Description (12:29) The trio discuss when Wendy found her purpose (14:45) The ladies discuss doula with kids vs. doula without kids (22:26) Discussion on why the education from doulas is important (39:06) Carla opens up about her miscarriage (56:36) Wendy and Sharlene explain the do’s and don’ts of finding a doula (1:06:08) Where to hire Wendy and Sharlene (1:06:36) Bible Verse - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube Thank you to our Sponsors:
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| 28 May 2024 | EP 220: Behind Closed Doors: The Ashley Madison Controversy | 01:00:17 | |
This week discover the secrets behind Ashley Madison, the notorious website designed for married people seeking discreet affairs. Joined by our guest, Jenna, we peel back the layers of this controversial platform, starting with its provocative slogan, "Life is short, have an affair," and the infamous 2015 hack that exposed millions of users. Jenna shares her perspective on how men she knew used the site, and we debate whether it catered more to sugar babies or mutual infidelity. Plus, we unravel the marketing genius that propelled Ashley Madison into the limelight and why the Netflix documentary is a must-watch to understand its full impact.
We then shift gears to explore the devastating fallout from the Ashley Madison hack. Hear the tragic tale of a priest whose exposure led to his suicide, and a couple who continue to live authentically despite the controversy. The conversation also highlights the CEO's surprising lack of personal repercussions amid an $11.2 million settlement and the dark web's role in leaking personal information. Jenna and I delve into the rise of Ashley Madison's scandalous practices, including the use of AI-generated photos and fake profiles, and the emotional toll on employees and victims alike.
(01:22 - 02:48) The Ashley Madison Website Scandal (03:56 - 05:39) Ashley Madison and Seek Arrangement Perceptions (11:03 - 12:29) Unexpected Twist in the Priest's Marriage (14:24 - 15:31) White Collar Crime and Privacy Concerns (17:48 - 19:07) Suspected Inside Job (41:03 - 42:29) Friendship Through Dark Times (54:35 - 55:31) Dreaming of a Luxurious Lifestyle
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| 25 Mar 2020 | EP 108: "I Wasn't Lost" feat WaxKyng Quarantine Bonus | 01:41:59 | |
Spending almost a week together 24/7 a lot is revealed in our relationship and our day to day and Since we are quarantined together why not get in front of the mic! This episode Carla and Wax discuss how the relationship has changed after spending so much time together not only together but with Carla's teenage daughter. Would Wax be ok being a stay at home dad? Gender roles are real on this side of the fence! & we are giving advice to unsolicited advice letters:
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| 04 Jun 2024 | EP 221: Learning How To Receive (Ft Antoinette) | 01:37:59 | |
Ever wondered how to live authentically and explore personal growth, even when it shakes up your world? Antoinette from Around the Way Curls joins us to discuss the profound journey of self-discovery and the importance of being true to oneself. We also share our transition to virtual recording, reflecting on how it has surprisingly fostered deeper connections. And, for a bit of fun and enlightenment, we recount a memorable experience at a sex club event, celebrating body acceptance and the essential practice of consent. Lastly, we delve into the intricacies of aging, cultural identity, and the nurturing roles we play in our communities. From navigating bicultural backgrounds to finding healthy relationships after being single, we explore how these experiences shape our lives and values. We emphasize the importance of mutual support, shared values, and living with integrity (01:58 - 03:18) Virtual Connections and Forgetful Meetings (16:38 - 17:38) Redefining Mental Health in Corporate America (23:11 - 24:59) Embracing Auntie Vibes in Mid-30s (26:09 - 27:38) Caring Motherly Vibes in Relationships (40:12 - 41:30) Learning to Accept Help and Relax (44:08 - 45:21) Online Connection Turned Real Relationship (48:07 - 48:56) Respectful Supportive Partner Relationship (01:22:56 - 01:23:59) Family Bias and Racial Blindness (01:30:10 - 01:31:37) Unpacking Gender Expectations in Relationships (01:33:43 - 01:34:58) Faith and Overcoming Negativity
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| 09 Sep 2020 | EP 130: Phenomenal Black Boy, Rachel Dolezal 2.0, & Colorism | 01:46:13 | |
This week I am joined by filmmaker, photographer, mother, and now author Francesa Andre!
If you have heard of Rachel Dozer, then you have to hear about Rachel 2.0! Tune in!
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| 22 Jan 2019 | EP 47: There's A Thin Line Between an Entrepreneur and a Scammer | 01:05:59 | |
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| 19 Feb 2019 | EP 51 Entrepreneurship: Parties & Podcasts feat Chris Stylezz | 00:53:26 | |
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| 02 Dec 2024 | EP 6: Burnout Diaries: Navigating Motherhood and Rediscovering Joy | 00:51:46 | |
In this lively episode of The So What Now Podcast, Carla and Dex tackle everything from neighborhood drama to the emotional rollercoaster of motherhood. Carla shares her escalating battle with the local "cat lady," sparking a hilarious yet relatable discussion about boundaries and suburban chaos.
Meanwhile, the duo dives into mom guilt—whether it’s Carla juggling life with a toddler and a grown daughter or Dex navigating communication in a long distance relationship with her daughter. With raw honesty and a touch of humor, the hosts reflect on burnout, personal growth, and finding unexpected joys (like crafting and ginger beer).
It’s a heartwarming reminder that life’s challenges may leave us wondering, “So what now?”—but with the right mindset, a good laugh, and maybe a glue gun, we’ll get through it together.
4 Key Takeaways from This Episode: 💡 Mom Guilt is Real (and Never Ends): Carla and Dex open up about their personal experiences with mom guilt, whether it’s raising a toddler or navigating life as an empty nester, and how they’re learning to let go of unrealistic expectations. 🔥 Burnout Isn’t Just Work-Related: Dex shares her journey of uncovering the deeper layers of life burnout while Carla offers insights on creating boundaries and finding joy amidst chaos. 🌱 Parenting Evolves, So Should We: From toddler meltdowns to adult children’s independence, the duo reflects on how their parenting styles have changed and how they’re redefining what it means to be a “good mom.” 🎉 Finding Joy in the Small Things: Whether it’s crafting, cooking, or just sipping ginger beer, Carla and Dex discuss how leaning into simple joys helps them recharge and stay grounded.
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| 15 Apr 2020 | EP 111: Therapy, Celibacy, & Healing feat Hey Fran Hey | 01:31:16 | |
This week we are joined by the amazing Hey Fran Hey to discuss Celibacy and why Fran has decided to be celibate for the last 4 years. The importance of therapy in our lives and how we have healed from emotional trauma. ________________________________________ Connect with us on social media: @carlawilmaris @heyfranhey @shitim30podcast ___________________________________________ Thank you to our sponsors: BetterHelp - Visit trybetterhelp.com/30 t join the over 500,000 people talking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional Special offer for SH*T I'm 30! listeners... get 10% off your first month at trybetterhelp.com/30
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| 26 Apr 2022 | EP 147: Signs You're Dating/Dealing With a Narcissist | 00:59:44 | |
This week Carla Wilmaris is back with recurring guest, Paola and a special guest, Mac “The Therapist”. We get deep this week, so grab some wine, a notebook, some tissues, whatever you need because we are going right into it. We are talking about Narcissism. We started the conversation with statistics and how 1 in every 16 Americans has been affected by someone with NPD, then broke down the differences between traits and the disorder. We went down the rabbit hole, and all I can say is buckle up, this is part one to a very necessary conversation we needed to have. What You’ll Hear:
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| 28 Dec 2023 | The Best of 2023 - Going Down Memory Lane | 01:01:25 | |
In this week's episode were listening to highlights of 2023 from episodes EP 157 Time over Money, Vasectomies, and Deadbeats
EP 161 Soft Life vs Hyper-Independence, Sassy Men, Hinge Chronicles Ft Krysta Monet
EP 162 Gratitude Is My Superpower FT Alisia Adamson Profit
EP 170_Finding Your Soulmate and Leaving Toxic Relationships Ft. Laron Profit
EP 171 The Family Secret- A Mother’s Lie About Adoption ft Ariel Brown
EP 176 He's Aware That He's A Narcissist Feat. Lee Hammock
EP 187 From Crack Baby to Superstar Comedian Feat. Akeem Woods
EP 188 Ask And It Shall Be Given ft. Fabiana Ferrarini
EP 190 Behind the Laughter A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod
EP 193 Focusing on Self-growth After Break-Ups with Mandii B.
EP 194: "They Always Say the Ex is Crazy" Feat.THE EX
EP 196 Manifesting Friendships as Adults and Creating Healthy Boundaries Ft. May Tsehay
EP 198 From Addiction to Motherhood with Jessica Rose
EP 200 It's a Celebration 200 EPISODES!!! Road to Redemption
EP 202: 7 Kids and 7 Baby Mamas Ft. TK Kirkland
EP 203 Reflecting on Five Years of Entrepreneurship
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| 31 Oct 2022 | EP 159: Hickeys, Blow Up Dolls, and IDC About Your 750k views | 00:59:06 | |
Happy Halloween! This week the sexy cat herself is back to discuss some halloween horror stories, scary things no one warns you about in your 30s, and why Carla plans on getting WILD at 50 PURRRR!
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| 09 Dec 2024 | EP 7: Holiday Drama, Traditions, and Boundaries: Surviving Toxicity During the Holidays | 00:42:53 | |
This week Carla and Dex dive into the chaos and comedy of navigating toxic family traditions during the holidays. From Carla’s journey of estrangement and her search for new holiday magic with friends to Dex’s big family and the pressure to make everything “perfect,” they share hilarious and heartfelt insights on surviving family dysfunction. Carla reflects on the bittersweet loss of old traditions while creating new ones, and Dex opens up about her childhood trauma (cue the villain origin story—spoiler: it’s all about that Barbie Dream House). The duo also tackles how to deal with negative family members and offers tips on carving out your own healthy, joyful holiday traditions. Tune in for humor, honesty, and some solid advice that might just help you survive this holiday season with your sanity—and maybe a little magic—intact.
SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Create Your Own Traditions: Whether you're estranged from family or just tired of the same old drama, it's okay to let go of toxic traditions and create new ones that bring you joy—whether that’s with friends, chosen family, or just on your own. You deserve a holiday that feels good to you. Set Boundaries with Toxic Family Members: The holidays don't have to mean enduring negativity from relatives. Learn how to politely (but firmly) set boundaries with family members who bring drama, and how to protect your mental health without feeling guilty. Make Holiday Magic for You: It's easy to get caught up in the pressure to create the "perfect" holiday for others, especially when you have a big family. Take a page from Dex’s playbook and find small, healthy traditions that keep the holiday spirit alive for you—and leave the stress behind.
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| 02 Apr 2021 | 139. I Played Myself! - I Don't Know How to Be a Mompreneur | 00:32:28 | |
She's back! Pivot with Purpose is back and it ain't perfect. If she waited for perfection this episode would have never been released so LET'S TALK ABOUT IT! How do we pivot when life has thrown all these curve balls and we thought we had it all figured out but we dont! This week we will go over new segments of the show like Unconventional Side Hustles & start the documented journey of Carla's business and how she is expanding and learning from all of her mistakes. Come on and join the ride. Let's Pivot unapologetically and intentionally find our Purpose! Connect with me
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| 01 Feb 2023 | Working On a Huge Project! | 00:00:58 | |
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| 17 Jul 2024 | EP 225: Heartbreak to Healing: Love's Turbulence | 01:05:05 | |
Ever wondered why fast-moving relationships often end in heartbreak? In this episode of Pivot With Purpose, we uncover the whirlwind saga of Jeannie Mai and rapper Jeezy. From the highs of their passionate romance to the lows of an unexpected divorce and custody battle, we break down the emotional rollercoaster of rapid life decisions. Jeannie's journey from a firm stance against motherhood to embracing it wholeheartedly for her love, only to face unforeseen turmoil, illuminates the perilous nature of making swift, life-altering choices.
We tackle the heavier side of relationships and parenting with heartfelt discussions on single motherhood, infidelity, and the financial expectations of being a bridesmaid. We offer valuable insights into managing emotional risks, fostering supportive communities, and maintaining direct communication in relationships. Wrapping up with a hopeful message about resilience and faith, we remind our listeners that even in the darkest times, perseverance and optimism can light the way forward. Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions, lessons, and laughs that promise to leave you both enlightened and entertained.
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| 18 Jun 2019 | EP 68: Big News & Let's Talk About Sex Baby! | 01:16:41 | |
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| 17 Dec 2019 | Ep 94: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable! | 00:51:08 | |
On this week's episode of #ShitIm30Podcast, Carla recaps the last decade of her life and Four Lessons she has learned while taking you on a journey of her relationships throughout the last 10 years. Also Carla finally returned back to her roots this past weekend and did something NO ONE expected, find out what it was! Join Carla Wilmaris for FREE How to Launch Your HIT Podcast in 30 Days! Wednesday Dec 18th & Thursday Dec 19th at 8pm This is a virtual Webinar LIVE! So your wine or drink of choice and come learn a few things! Thank you to our Sponsor: AUDIBLE - get a FREE audiobook download and 30 day free trial at www.audibletrial.com/shitim30. Over 180,000 titles to choose from for your iPhone, Android, Kindle or mp3 player. | |||
| 06 Mar 2023 | EP 175: Airport Lounge Access Granted feat Dexty | 01:01:14 | |
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| 02 Apr 2020 | EP 109: Marijuana and Our Kids with Good Moms Bad Choices | 01:19:24 | |
This Week I am joined by the ladies of Good Moms Bad Choices Podcast and we discuss how we talk to our kids about marijuana and how comfortable we are with them knowing that we use it recreationally. The ladies talk to us about how the podcast could possibly be affecting their dating life and how Mila thought that Erica was engaged to an African Prince when she met her! (she was close...kinda..ok maybe not) Unsolicited Advice gets interesting with a married woman getting a phone call from her ex which she still says she in love with but you wont believe who her ex is and how her husband feels about it. _________________________________________________________ Get Your Tickets GET PAID THIS DECADE! I will be having a full workshop all about monetizing your podcast. https://businessrulesforwomen.splashthat.com/#rsvp _________________________________________________________ Idea to Launch Academy LAUNCH YOUR PODCAST IN 30 DAYS! is currently 50% off! Launch your podcast with confidence and land in the top charts of your category! If you would like to schedule a free 15 minute consultation you can do so HERE _________________________________________________________ Connect with us on social media @carlawilmaris @goodmomsbadchoices @shitim30podcast
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| 12 Aug 2020 | EP 126: I’m In Love But Hoe Is Life Ft. Mandii B | 01:24:13 | |
In this week’s episode I am joined by one of my best friends and apparently the second mother of my new child Mandii B. I am attempting to channel my inner Oprah, Iyanla, & Jada to make Mandii confess… she’s in love!
We also discuss growth in all aspects of our lives from business to health and of course….relationships. We are two women who quit our full-time jobs to pursue a career that didn’t come with a blueprint! Since Mandii is the guest for this episode, you know you’re in for a treat. We may or may not have discussed an 8 person orgy in a sex club during COVID! Guess you’ll have to tune in to find out!
Don't forget to check out her new podcast titled "Period, Sis" on all podcast platforms. It's a podcast discussing the taboo topics of women's sexual and reproductive health!
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| 11 Dec 2018 | EP 39: 35 Year Old Virgin, & Recovering from Porn Addiction "Life After Freedom" ft Melodia Shekia | 01:17:48 | |
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| 08 Jan 2019 | EP 44: Tax Season/Scam Season & Loyalty in Friendships | 01:11:50 | |
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| 23 Sep 2020 | EP 132: Divine Feminine Energy & The Power of Manifestation…With a Dash of Ratchet | 00:54:28 | |
Manifestation is a stronger power than most of us recognize. This weekend was a true testament of the power of manifestation. When you have an idea in mind, and it’s meant for you to accomplish it, God provides the people, resources, & dismantles any obstacles in the way of your goal. Join me as I recap the first annual Synergy Women’s Wellness retreat with Beavis and Butthead (May & Wendy). I’ve been working with May virtually and this was the first weekend that we met finally in person…luckily she wasn’t a psycho! Thank you to my Patreon community you all are amazing, empowering, dynamic women with so much to offer the world! Connect with us on social media: @MayTsehay @W3ndy1321 ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: ONLY 7 MORE DAYS TO SIGN UP FOR THE INTENSIVE COURSE! THERE ARE ONLY 5 SPOTS LEFT...DON'T WAIT! If you are ready to launch your own hit podcast without the Tech overwhelm and my exact blue print .... Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Wendy's Only Fans Link for Tasteful Nudity lol: https://onlyfans.com/msmarss ——————————————————— Patreon: My Patreon community is far more than just extra content, its sisterhood. Join to gain access to our monthly virtual pajama parties, book clubs, and to get first dibs on everything (like next year's retreat!) https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30 ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos ——————————————————— Sponsored by Better Help: Better Help wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. https://betterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional. There is a special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners, you'll get 10% off your first month at: ——————————————————— Audible: Join this months book club on Patreon! It’s an easy way to reach your reading goals with funny, educated, & engaging conversations! Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. | |||
| 25 Aug 2022 | EP 154: New Job...Who's This? | 01:01:31 | |
This is a story of resilience, hard work, faith, and obedience. Carla this weeks tells her story from 2015 being fired from her finance to being hired to be the female voice of her city in the SAME BUILDING!!!! | |||
| 10 Sep 2019 | EP 80: Official Draft of the Cuffing Season | 01:29:39 | |
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SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOWOregon bill would allow victims of racially motivated 911 calls to sueCUFFING SEASONCuffing season is the time of the year, usually between Oct-March where people feel the urge to be coupled up.
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| 03 Sep 2024 | EP 232: Humor in the Hustle: Entrepreneurial Wins (Ft. Didi Ramos) | 01:03:44 | |
Welcome back to another exciting episode of Pivot With Purpose! This week, we bring you a mix of humor and practical advice, starting with a hilarious yet concerning Florida man story. Our special guest, Didi, steps into the spotlight! Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate how hard work behind the scenes often leads to visible achievements. We share stories about meeting and collaborating with dedicated individuals like Felix and Jenna, highlighting the importance of initiative and patience. This chapter is packed with practical takeaways on how proactive engagement and commitment can help you stand out and seize opportunities.
Finally, we explore the journey from corporate roles to entrepreneurship, balancing personal and professional growth, and overcoming obstacles through personal development. We share our own experiences transitioning from traditional employment to starting our own ventures, emphasizing the emotional toll and the ultimate fulfillment of pursuing passion. We also touch on setting family boundaries, finding supportive relationships, and the significance of faith and belief in personal growth. This episode is a blend of entertainment, heartfelt advice, and inspiring stories that will leave you motivated and empowered.
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| 04 Jun 2019 | EP 66: Light It Up - "Decriminalization/Legalization of Marijuana & Prison Reform" | 01:33:20 | |
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| 24 Sep 2019 | EP 82: Did You Say I Am Too Opinionated? feat Mandii B | 00:52:49 | |
THIS WEEK CARLA IS JOINED BY MANDII B OF WHOREIBLE DECISIONS! ENJOY! Join us now on Patreon for Exclusive Bonus Content and a more indepth episode regarding the recent change of the show! When you join you will also unlock all previous episodes and receive 30% off all merch! SHIT YOU SHOULD KNOW
BEING TOO OPINIONATED with Mandii B
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| 14 May 2019 | EP 63: "Take Your Ass to Sleep" Mental Health Awareness | 01:18:44 | |
Today's podcast is brought to you by audible - get a FREE audiobook download and 30 day free trial at www.audibletrial.com/shitim30 . Over 180,000 titles to choose from for your iPhone, Android, Kindle or mp3 player SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW
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| 05 Feb 2020 | EP 100: We Made It! but What Did it Take? | 01:03:05 | |
100 Episodes!!!!!! Can you believe we made it to 100? Today we get to hear from our day 1 Besties giving us their most memorable moments of the past 100 episodes. For those that joined the pod recently Carla will share her journey of how it all started and how we got HERE today! OH and for those of you that have been listening from day let's see how well you really know her! ___________ Get Your FREE Audiobook ____________ Want to be Carla's Bestie? Unlock exclusive episodes and join the monthly Virtual Party? BECOME A PATRON on Patreon _____________ Are you ready to start a podcast of your own? Tell YOUR story? Join the Idea to Launch Academy and Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days. _____________ Send in your advice letters to shitim30podcast@gmail.com and your letter might be the next one we read on the show!
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| 25 Jun 2020 | I Can't Do This Anymore | 00:08:18 | |
I am so overwhelmed with emotion. We have received yet another phone call with terrible news and I cannot handle another. We have people in our lives that we owe it to to take care of our mental health. I have been LOW and I have been HIGH. Recently I have been LOWWWW but I have to do something about it and I cannot be ashamed of that! If you feel the way that I do and soooo many others take advantage of BETTER HELP please. The only reason I am here today is because I decided to start when I really did not want to. If you want to connect with me email me at shitim30podcast@gmail.com and tell me what you are going through LET'S TALK ABOUT IT! | |||
| 30 Sep 2020 | EP 133: What Happens When Your Dreams Become a Reality Feat The Ladies | 00:55:43 | |
Have you ever had this overwhelming sense of calm after so much anxiety, stress, and doubt? Yeah, me too... although it may take a while to get there!
This week we have a live and interactive conversation with the virtual family I have built through this podcast platform. We chat about manifestation, doubt, clarity, and intentions.
Personally, this is an episode that I will cherish forever and hopefully, it inspires people to dream big and to just… keep swimming! What are your manifestations over your life? Share them with us on the podcast page or email.
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| 08 Oct 2019 | EP 84: The Pursuit of Success feat Ryan Plaza | 01:03:08 | |
We are joined this week by Ryan Plaza @rs_plaza the host of The NewRich Podcast SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW
Ryan Plaza : The Pursuit Of Success
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| 11 Jun 2019 | EP 67: Black,Gay, Converting to Islam | 01:25:40 | |
EPISODE 67 Episode Notes SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW Clarksdale, Mississippi Mayor will Pay Drug Dealers and Gang Members up $10,000 to leave his City!
COVERTING TO ISLAM Guest: Daniel Downer and his story Preacher Kid raised Christian converted to Islam Common Misconceptions about Muslims Why is Islam the Fastest growing Religion in th US Explaining Ramadan and Rituals after Sex Being Gay and Muslim There are different Islamic Factions
UNSOLICITED ADVICE Random Hookup leads to an uninvited guest! What do I do?
SH*T TAAALLLK Anthony - Black Trans Woman Muhlaysia Booker's death Carla - Plato’s Closet TRIED to Played me for my Burburry
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| 30 Dec 2024 | EP10: Goodbye 2024: We Came, We Saw, We Hit Record | 01:27:53 | |
Disclaimer- Beyonce Bowl discussion ends at 20:57 In this episode of So What Now, Carla and Dex reflect on everything 2024 threw their way—spoiler alert: it wasn’t all vacations and TikTok dances. Dex admits that fear of losing stability had her out here playing it way too safe. Carla drops gems about showing up as your real self (even when your real self is tired) and the financial discipline it takes to buy a house without letting your Pinterest boards dictate your budget. But it wasn’t all wins—Dex opens up about how 2024 almost broke her, revealing she discovered she was "depreshee" (yes, that’s a thing), and finally got herself into therapy. Meanwhile, Carla's reflecting on how hard it can be to balance the hustle with mental health and personal growth. The hosts also take a look back at their 2024 vision boards—and let’s just say, some dreams didn’t make it off the board, but some did. They also dish on the biggest pop culture moments—Drake vs. Kendrick, TikTok influencers like Ressa Tessa and Morgan Bailey blowing up, the chaos of the U.S. election, and, of course, Beyoncé! Tune in for laughs, lessons, and plenty of hot takes as Carla and Dex close out the year with a dose of reality and a sneak peek at what’s coming next. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS A difficult year can still be a good year. Our biggest blessings come from our toughest lessons. Don't let fake stability hold you back. Act out of wisdom not out of fear. You deserve to show up as your authentic self in all spaces. Live boldly CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en
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| 26 Jun 2023 | EP 188: Ask And It Shall Be Given ft Fabianna Ferrarini | 01:36:55 | |
This week, Carla is joined by fitness mogul Fabiana Ferrarini, join them as they dive deep into their personal journeys of resilience and growth, from challenging relationships and overcoming abuse to finding strength through motherhood, they share their powerful stories of transformation. Topics like the importance of self-love, the impact of faith, and the power of embracing one's purpose were also discussed along with: (3:01) Carla gives a hack on sliding in DMs (12:10) Fabiana shares her experience as a teen mom, (21:00) Carla shares why she would rather physical abuse than verbal/emotional abuse (30:00) Fabiana shares how she escaped the abusive relationship (43:05) Carla and Fabiana talk MONEY (50:05) Fabiana shares how being the first latina on the cover of Oxygen changed her life (1:00:00) Fitness save Fabiana’s life (1:13:06) Carla gives Fabiana her flowers for being transparent and real online (1:19:35) They answer an advice question about entrepreneurship
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| 05 Sep 2023 | EP 197: The Struggles of Back To School Life as a Single Mother and Creating Your Tribe | 00:46:37 | |
Carla and Paola are back to chat about the craziness that is back to school and many other topics. Their convo begins by discussing Carla’s tell-all on her recent guest appearance on the “Know For Sure” podcast and leads into body positivity for all body types. Finally, the ladies dive into the struggles of sending their kids back to school as a single-mom and having a license to carry in a house with children. Join the duo in this informative yet fun episode filled with laughs and understanding that you are not alone in your motherhood journey.
(11:29) - Creating Confidence in Your Self-Image (16:24) - Tory Lanez Sentencing (24:35) - Back to School as a Single Mother (32:05) - The Importance of Having a “Tribe” (42:02) - Bible Verse - 1 Timothy 5:8 Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube Thank you to our Sponsors:
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| 09 Jan 2023 | EP 168: He Left Me For Dead, Bloodied, but I Still Loved Him - A Story of Survival | 01:15:17 | |
*TRIGGER WARNING* This week, Carla is back with a very special episode, she is joined by Ariel, a mom of five and domestic violence survivor. Join them as they discuss:
(7:50) How Domestic Violence is normalized in our culture (17:34) Swallowing anger after being abused (20:39) Why Ariel “kept getting pregnant” after the abuse started (38:49) The job that almost cost Ariel her kids’ lives (01:09:11) Bible Verse: Romans 12:12
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| 25 Jul 2023 | EP 191: The Impact of Liars, ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles, and Finding Strength in Faith | 01:13:56 | |
Listen in as we dissect the intricate web of lies and their implications, both for the individual and those around them. This exploration also extends to the consequences of fake kidnappings, attention-seeking behavior, and their possible link to mental health issues. Prepare for a lively debate about the characteristics that define high-value men and women. We explore the importance of a strong moral code, leadership values, faith, and discipline. This conversation also highlights the dangers of an overemphasis on superficial success and material possessions, and the need to strive for internal success. Additionally, we shed light on the challenges faced by a trans woman who was refused treatment by a gynecologist and the current debate about who owns periods and womanhood. The latter part of our discussion touches on the struggles with ADHD and bipolar medication, focusing on Carla's personal experience with Adderall. We navigate through the consequences of the 'highs' and 'lows' of medication and the importance of consistency. You will also get insights on financial literacy, budgeting, and the various avenues for accessing education. Don't miss out on this episode, where we talk about real-life experiences and challenges, providing a platform for you to learn and grow. Bible Verse: Psalm 23: 1-4 (0:00:06) - Pivot With Purpose
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| 16 Oct 2023 | EP 201: It's Step Daddy Season - Navigating Parenting and Dating with Ariel B | 00:55:12 | |
Ever wondered how to navigate the intriguing journey of parenting while also trying to keep your personal life active? Join us as we talked with Ariel Brown, host of Too Shall Pass, who shares her Inspirational and often humorous experiences. Ariel opens up about her son's evaluation at school due to concerns about his development and energy levels, and how modern technology impacts children's behavior.
We move on to a lighter note, exploring dating life and the role humor plays in relationships. Also touching on the critical need for any potential partner to provide a safe space!
To wrap up , we discuss the wisdom that even toddlers can bring to our lives, taking note of their often funny and sometimes disconcerting remarks about their parents' significant others. We stress the necessity of resilience, faith, and positivity, particularly in challenging times. We also caution against the pitfalls of comparison, especially in today's social media-dominated world. Get ready for a mix of laughs, revelations, and heartfelt
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| 31 Dec 2019 | EP 95: You've Got Mail! #UnsolicitedAdvice with WaxKyng | 01:32:04 | |
| 31 Jan 2023 | EP 170: Toxic Mentality, Radical Honesty & Marriage ft. Laron Profit | 01:22:20 | |
This week, Carla is back with Laron Profit, former Pro Basketball Player and Coach. Join them as they discuss dating for marriage, why your circle is important when it comes to your relationship, and why it’s better to be fulfilled than happy in a relationship! | |||
| 04 Dec 2023 | EP 204: The Pursuit of Purpose: Navigating Activism and Advocacy feat Tiffany D Loftin | 01:27:13 | |
Could your content consumption habits be shaping your outlook and actions more than you realize? Join me,as I sit down with Tiffany Dean Loftin the host of "How We Get Free," for a mind-opening discussion about the power of content consumption. We dive into the creation of podcasts and the impact they have on their creators. Are you ready to navigate the complex world of advocacy, voting, and social justice? We share our personal experiences on the challenges of leaving jobs, setting boundaries, and dealing with tough dynamics. We discuss the significance of your vote and the role of elected officials in shaping our society. Furthermore, we provide valuable resources to help you stay informed, get involved, and make a difference in pressing social justice issues. Let’s go beyond the spotlight and explore the role of celebrities in the social justice movement. Join us as we disentangle the emotionally charged subject of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and emphasize the need for continued awareness and action. As we wrap up, our special guest, Tiffany shares a powerful discourse about the true meaning of success and fulfillment. Listen in as we engage these critical issues with the aim of inspiring you to pivot with purpose toward a life of significance. Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube Thank you to our Sponsors:
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| 06 Jan 2020 | EP 96: Mindful Mondays 1 - Hard Work, WORKS | 00:11:48 | |
Hard Work, WORKS! Welcome to a new segment on Mondays where I will be starting off the week with you on a positive note. NEW MONDAY - NEW WEEK - NEW GOALS! This week we will start the first Monday and full week of 2020 talking about Hard Work and how we will catapult ourselves to the next level. I also challenge you to join me on a 21 days Fast (you can choose anything that you want to give up) also go under THIS POST and finish this sentence BY THIS TIME NEXT YEAR _______________________ We are going to hold each other accountable and when you listen to this episode you will learn what my goals for for this time next year. Today . January 6th at midnight is your last chance to enroll in the Idea to Launch Intensive Course to launch your Hit Podcast in 30 days! You can watch the replay HERE of the live webinar or You can Enroll in the course and Join the Crew for Round 2 Thank you for listening and don't forget to share with your friends, rate and review the show! | |||
| 17 Aug 2018 | EP 22: Anger Management "Unlearning What Our Parents Taught Us" | 00:57:04 | |
We need to learn how to manage our anger so that it doesn't overwhelm us. Carla is joined this week by your favorite realtor Tony and Dexty to discuss how we all deal with anger in our lives but some of us struggle with managing this normal human emotion. We will discuss what we went through in our childhood to led us to struggle with controlling our anger and temper as adults. Listen to how we now cope with our emotions and best of all, our GROWTH! If you would like to listen to any of the books we mentioned for FREE all of SH*T I'm 30 listeners can get a free book with an AUDIBLE trial by just going to www.audibletrial.com/shitim30 The clip at the end of the show is from @garyvee you can find the clip on IG "How To Get Rid Of Toxic People" Follow us @carlawilmaris @tony_the_realtor @dexty
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| 02 Jan 2024 | EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN? | 01:02:41 | |
Ever feel like life's thrown you a curveball you just didn't see coming? Join us as we confess our own stories of transformation and tackle the balancing act between work and personal joy. We're peeling back the layers on the corporate world's sometimes harsh truths and revealing the silver linings that come with owning your content and career path.
So, whether you're looking for a heart-to-heart on life's pivotal moments or just a good laugh about the stress of parenting and dating ,Tune in and join the conversation—you're bound to walk away with a fresh perspective, and you might just find yourself ready to pivot
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| 15 Jul 2020 | EP 123: Adoption & Identity W/ Jeannine McKnight | 01:27:25 | |
I’m Mexican, I was adopted into a white family, & I have a great relationship with my biological mother. Now, that isn’t a sentence you hear often! In this week’s episode, I am joined by my dear friend Jeannine. We talk about her story as a Mexican-American woman raised in Florida that was adopted into a White family and her journey towards discovering her identity. Sh*t You Should Know:
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| 30 Jul 2024 | EP 227: Intersection of Mental Health and Security (Feat. Ariel B) | 00:59:48 | |
Welcome back to another exciting episode of "Pivot With Purpose"! After a three-month hiatus, I'm thrilled to return to the Hi Hello Labs studio with my dear friend Ariel. Together, we reflect on the chaos and joy of our hectic lives, filled with family drama and demanding schedules. We share the importance of having relatable conversations, supporting one another, and the need for mentors and business coaches to help navigate uncharted career territories. Plus, there's a hint of an exciting, secret project that might take me offline for six weeks, so stay tuned!
Lastly, we explore emotional and psychological journeys, balancing personal growth with faith, and the importance of setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. From dealing with family members to the struggles of single parenting, we share personal experiences of overcoming hardships and finding passion amid challenges. Ariel and I also discuss her upcoming initiative to empower single parents in locating absent co-parents. This episode is packed with heartfelt conversations and practical insights, so don't miss it!
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| 05 Mar 2020 | EP 104: Do I Even Need a Psychiatrist? feat Angel Adams | 00:55:54 | |
This week we are chatting with Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner Angel Adams and we are discussing all things mental health! My #1 question is Can't I just talk to my friends? Do I really need therapy? Ha! Let's find out! Also lets dig a little dipper on how psychiatrist prescribe drugs for mental health and if at times they are even really needed? _______________________________________________ Connect with us on social media If you are ready to get your podcast launched and are ready to start the course beginning Monday March 9th You can watch the full Replay of the Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days Masterclass HERE and decide If podcasting is really for YOU _______________________________________________ Join Patreon today and get Exclusive Content as well as access to the Mixed Minds Book Club & Monthly Virtual Parties _______________________________________________ For advice email shitim30podcast@gmail.com make sure to write Unsolicited Advice on the subject line! | |||
| 12 Feb 2019 | EP 50: Erotica, Abductions, & Bad Hygiene | 01:13:27 | |
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| 15 Jun 2018 | EP 14: What Does it Mean to Forgive? | 00:48:25 | |
Happy Friday! Forgiveness isn't weakness. It's the ultimate sign of courage and strength. Today Carla sits down with her friend Rod to discuss forgiveness and what it means to them individually. How they forgive and if they ever forget after being hurt by someone else. We also have a listener letter about a broke baby daddy that left and cheated on her with a sugar mama nurse. (Could you forgive him?) Follow us on instagram @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @sherr_styles | |||
| 27 Jul 2018 | EP 19: Making Money Moves feat Kimberly Stewart & Mandii B | 01:08:32 | |
Join me this week as I sit with financial advisor Kimberly Stewart to talk about financial literacy in our communities. This is a conversation we definitely dont have often enough and then wonder why 73% of Americans can't come up with $1000. Mandii B from the Whoreible Decisions podcast will be added in a phone call to join us in a very intense discussion revolving around household incomes and whether or not somethings can be labeled as MEDIOCRE. Follow the show on IG @shitim30podcast & @carlawilmaris
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| 24 Jun 2020 | EP 120: Sex Clubs, Micro-Cheating, & Porn Hub | 01:11:06 | |
EP 120: Sex Clubs, Micro-Cheating, & Porn Hub WTF is a micro-cheater? You cheated or you didn't, right? Wrong! Imagine this... you specifically dress up every time you know you’re going to run into a specific person. It’s technically harmless because it doesn’t directly hurt anybody, but it plants the seed of wanting someone else’s attention, who isn't your significant other. Do you consider this micro-cheating? I had mixed emotions about this scenario! I'm sure you do too! Join me and the fun, sexy, and transparent girl boss, Krysta Monet as we talk about micro-cheating and actions, we thought were harmless. You also won't want to miss a pro tip Krysta talks about while watching porn. Don't miss out! Connect with us on social media: @shitim30podcast @krysta.Monet ——————————————————— HBO New series, I May Destroy You: HBO’s new series I May Destroy You is a fearless, frank and provocative show written by and starring BAFTA award-winner Michaela Coel. Watch new episodes of I May Destroy You on Sundays at 10:30PM on HBO and stream it on HBO MAX
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| 26 Dec 2022 | EP 166: What I'm Leaving Behind in 2022 feat Dexty | 01:02:58 | |
On this last episode of the year we have an OG guest and Original host of Shit I’m 30, the one and only Dexty. Join them as they discuss
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| 29 Mar 2023 | EP 178: It's Time To Pivot Again | 01:02:57 | |
Paola is back for another jam packed episode. First, Carla and Paola are both feeling a shift in their lives and think it’s time to pivot. Then, Carla shares her concern about her forgetfulness and thinks that it comes from the trauma in her life. Carla shares her Tulum surprise and both ladies do a Love Is Blind recap. This week’s scripture is 2 John 1:8.
5:45: Carla And Paola Both Feel It’s Time For A Shift In Their Lives 11:00- Carla Is Sick From A Stomach Bug 13:45- Carla Speaks About Her Forgetfulness 19:40- Paola Recants Being Pregnant And Homeless 29:15- Carla’s Tulum Surprise 30:50-Carla Reads Her Emotional Journal Entry 35:00- Would Carla Have Another Live Show? 39:20- Love Is Blind Recap 59:20 Scripture Of The Week is 2 John 1:8 Watch Full Episode and Subscribe on YouTube
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| 29 Oct 2019 | EP 87: Submission, Blended Families, & Not Being Black Enough? feat Leticia Marie Gardner | 01:22:34 | |
This week we are joined by the beautiful @leticiamariegardner! We take the conversation deep and talk about her marriage from where they started to where they are now equally yolked. Leticia opens up about her blended family and how her and her husband make their unique and special family work. Everything that glitters isnt gold, but they have their ways of making their marriage work and she gives us great tips and amazing books she has read that we should also read AND SO MUCH MORE! To get any of the books we talked about on the show FREE with your audible trial go to www.audibletrial.com/shitim30 for your FREE Book and 30 day trial. For more exclusive BONUS episodes you can join our Patreon community and get 2 exclusive episodes a month.
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| 15 Aug 2023 | EP 194: "They Always Say The Ex is Crazy" Feat. THE EX | 00:54:00 | |
You’ve also probably been told that THE EX IS CRAZY…Well lets talk to the ex! Now we have to navigate the tricky waters of “co-parenting” ourselves. Today's episode of Pivot with Purpose offers a raw and authentic conversation with my special guest, Erica - my son's brother's mom - as we share our personal journey towards co-parenting. Our commitment to nurturing a bond between our boys may have been fraught with challenges, but it has led to a healthy relationship that we're proud to share.
A crucial part of our journey involved healing, understanding, and finding common ground. Erica and I don't shy away from discussing the heartache that comes with a complicated family dynamic, and how setting boundaries was key to our healing process. We also break down how we consciously removed chaos from our lives, each taking our unique path towards growth and strengthening our resolve to foster a positive environment for our boys. You'll learn how we both have grown from our past experiences, and how they shaped the women we are today.
Lastly, we will explore the power of generosity and the joy of utilizing our unique gifts. Drawing strength from the Bible verse Luke 6:38, we delve into how choosing love over hate has been instrumental in our healing process. Erica, now a successful culinary chef, sheds light on her journey and the fulfillment she finds in her work. This episode is a testament to the power of patience, understanding, and mutual respect in co-parenting. So join us for an honest and open conversation about navigating intricate family dynamics.
“sometimes when we talk, you relive things, right, but as part of the healing process”
“I take things personal and, um, yeah, I gotta know that, um, everything doesn't deserve a reaction”
06:05 - Co-Parenting Concerns and Finding Reassurance 0:15:00 - The Beginnings of a Beautiful Bond 0:20:29 - Shared Healing and Smiling 0:26:19 - Crazy Reactions and Mutual Understanding 0:31:47 - Intentional Growth and Dealing With Chaos 0:36:14 - Success, Power, and Communication 0:42:35 - Dealing With Control and Parenting Issues
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| 03 Sep 2019 | EP 79: Pop a Molly to Treat this Anxiety & Depression? | 01:04:45 | |
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https://www.healthline.com/health-news/4-conditions-that-ecstasy-may-help-treat#1 LIVING WITH ANXIETY & DEPRESSION While Carla deals with severe anxiety and Anthony with depression, both hosts this week dive into how they deal and cope with their mental health and how it affects them on a daily basis.
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| 25 Dec 2018 | EP 42: Its Zoe Kelly | 01:26:56 | |
| 10 Feb 2025 | EP 16: Ex-posed: When Outing Your Ex Goes Too Far & Unpacking Love Themes in Classic Black Cinema | 00:59:34 | |
In this week’s episode of So What Now, Carla and Dex dive into the tricky topic of whether it’s ever okay to air intimate details of past relationships, discussing the drama surrounding Royce Reed and Dwight Howard’s public feud. The love theme continues with a deep dive into iconic black love stories from classic films. Carla and Dex go head-to-head over Love and Basketball. While Carla believes it’s one of the greatest love stories, Dex argues that Monica might’ve “settled” for her man. The conversation also touches on other beloved films like Poetic Justice and Boomerang, exploring the highs and lows of love and the lessons we take from them. To wrap things up, they bring some much-needed levity with a feel-good of the week: Reality TV. In a world full of stress, there’s nothing like escaping into the absurd drama of the rich and famous. From ridiculous fights to jaw-dropping moments, we are reminded to laugh at the unseriousness of it all. Tune in for laughs, heated debates, and of course, a little dose of reality! CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| 23 Jul 2019 | EP 73: Phobias, Fucking Married People, & Alot of Sh*t Talk! feat WaxKyng | 01:10:23 | |
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| 05 Jun 2020 | EP 117: Myspace, Technology, and Our Post-Quarantine Future feat Assante | 01:03:24 | |
Myspace, Technology, & Our Post-Quarantine Future
Damn, Do you remember trying to customize your myspace page? It was super hard to learn how to hide your comments & change your backgrounds! I may have even paid a friend of two to help me out!
In this episode join @HeyAssante from The Friend Zone Podcast , and I as we discuss online dating, how technology affects creativity, corporations & their responsibility to the community, & advice for women dating a bisexual man.
Tune in as we remanence & look into the future!
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| 08 May 2023 | EP 183: Healers are Masters of the Darkness ft Daniela Kura | 01:22:21 | |
Carla is joined by Daniela Kura, a Trauma-Informed Psychic Healer & Manifestation Coach. This is recorded in the Tulum Mexico in the middle of the jungle! Daniela starts the episode by sharing her rough upbringing and how she met her husband. Daniela also explains what CPTSD is and how it makes her feel. Then, the ladies talk about Daniela’s physic ability and how she discovered her gift. Daniela even reads Carla's energy live on the podcast! 8:00: Daniela shares tragic story about abuse in her childhood 15:00: Daniela Shares how she met her husband 27:00: Daniela explains what CPTSD is 32:00 Daniela psychic ability 51:00 The ladies share their non negotiables while dating 1:02:00- How Trauma Impacts The Body ________ Connect with Daniela Kura @daniela.kura https://danielakura.com/manifest/ USE CODE PIVOT to get 20% OFF Daniela’s Program!
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| 23 Dec 2024 | EP9: Parenting Without Help: Defiant Teens, Deadbeat Dads, and the Fight for Control | 01:13:43 | |
This week Carla, Dex are joined by Ariel B. The group dives into the complex world of parenting teens. As kids grow older, parenting styles and relationships need to shift, and the group explores how they are navigating these changes. Carla talks about her struggle with managing expectations, while Ariel reflects on the challenge of losing control as her children begin making their own decisions. The conversation touches on what happens when older kids break the rules, with Dex sharing her own experience of poor decision-making due to a lack of open communication with her parents. Carla and Ariel also reveal how their teens are turning to platforms like TikTok to express themselves when direct conversation feels too difficult. The trio also revisits the story of Amora Lex, the 27-year-old single mother who recently gave up her five children to CPS. The group reflects on the harsh social media backlash she's received, particularly the blaming comments about her choices in men. This leads to a broader discussion on absentee parents, red flags when dating men who aren't involved in their children's lives, and the importance of building strong, supportive communities for women. Tune in for an insightful episode filled with real talk on motherhood, judgment, and how we can support one another. SO WHAT NOW? TAKEAWAYS Parenting Teens Requires Letting Go of Control: As children grow older, parents must adjust their approach. It's important to allow teens to make their own decisions—even when it’s hard. Disobedience Isn’t Personal: Conflicts with teens often stem from a desire for control. Parents may take disobedience personally, but it's important to remember that teens are not thinking about how their actions affect their parents—they’re navigating their own path to independence. The Stigma of Single Motherhood: The story of Amora Lex, who gave up her children to CPS, sparked harsh judgment online. The group discusses the need for compassion, understanding, and support for mothers, particularly those raising children without strong family or community support. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en
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| 16 Jul 2019 | EP 72: It's A Hot New York Summer | 00:47:22 | |
SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW This week lets get back to the basics with Carla & Anthony. Catch up on their week together in NYC, all the parties they went to and some of their current fears and how they are overcoming them.
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| 17 Jun 2020 | EP 119: WTF, Am I Lonely? Feat Nami | 01:19:37 | |
“No one could ever understand what I'm going through!” Is this a thought that you’ve had before? With everything that’s been going on in the world, it’s easy to feel… alone. I've been trying to identify the difference between loneliness and depression. In the state of loneliness it’s easy to confuse distress and isolation as depression. As heavy as these topics feel and sound, this conversation flows very light heartedly and genuinely. I am meeting this person for the very first time! That goes to show how human we all are at the core. Join me as I talk to a master in clinical psychology about the differences between the state of loneliness, versus clinical depression. We talk about Isa & Molly’s relationship and how it clearly shows signs of loneliness, our overwhelmingly constraining cultural upbringing, self- sabotashing characteristics, etc. I promise, the conversation is less daunting as these topics seem. You may even leave feeling… relieved and less isolated. Unsolicited advice: Sometimes we have “strong” friends that present dominant & tough, but they are silently suffering. Listen to the unsolicited advice segment on how to be a good friend to someone that presents… strong. Connect with us on social media: @shitim30podcast @namunagrace ——————————————————— YouTube: Want to listen/watch to the show on YouTube? Subscribe with the link below: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCboWew9tv3bpYircL5ORvTQ/videos ——————————————————— Idea to Launch Academy: I AM GOING TO SPONSOR 2 STUDENTS TO GET THIS COURSE FOR FREE! IN A TIME WHERE REPRESENTATION MATTERS, I AM GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY I LOVE AND SERVE BY OFFERING A FREE COURSE TO START A PODCAST. Join Idea to Launch Academy and launch your show IN 30 DAYS! ——————————————————— Audible: Do you want to read more books? Make your life easier & listen to the audio version on audible. Use my code for a FREE audiobook download & a FREE 30-day trial. http://www.audibletrial.com/shitim30 ——————————————————— Better Help: BetterHelp wants you to start living a happier life TODAY. Visit www.trybetterhelp.com/30 and join the over 500,000 people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional. Special offer for SHIT IM 30 listeners get 10% off your first month at www.trybetterhelp.com/30 ——————————————————— Skyeblue Rentals: It's hot! Grab some friends, drinks, and swimsuits & get on a boat. If you're in the Pine Castle area of Orlando, Flordia. Come check us out! Skyeblue Rentals: www.skybluerentals.com ——————————————————— Patreon: Do you want access to additional content & access to our monthly virtual pajama party? Sign up to be a patron :). https://www.patreon.com/SHITIM30
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| 26 Sep 2024 | EP 235: Breaking Rules and Breaking Barriers | 00:54:02 | |
Join me, Carla, for an engaging solo episode of Pivot with Purpose! We kick off with a laugh-worthy yet cautionary tale of a Florida corrections officer caught altering a handicap sticker for better parking. This story sparks a deeper conversation on the legal and moral consequences of cutting corners, while I share my own relatable struggles with ADHD and the overlooked challenges it brings. I then dive into the emotional journey of juggling my career and motherhood, focusing on my son Psalm's recent autism diagnosis. From navigating insurance hurdles to preparing for an IEP meeting, I reflect on the importance of advocacy and perseverance. Next, I recount an exciting yet declined opportunity to join an international reality TV show, touching on the personal and financial considerations involved. Wrapping up, I share my rollercoaster journey in real estate investment and celebrate the success of Alex Cooper's *Call Her Daddy* podcast, highlighting persistence and innovation in media. This episode weaves humor, personal reflection, and inspiring stories, offering motivation and connection on your own journey.
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| 17 Jul 2018 | BONUS EP 03: Double Standards "That's $40 P*ssy!" | 01:27:16 | |
Join Carla today while she sits with Jamaal the owner of Orlando's best bbq restaurant, Jesse's Rib Shack and my bestie Dexty. Today's episode introduces a new segment SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW, and the topic is DOUBLE STANDARDS. We have a heterosexual extremely masculine male help give a different point of view on our society's double standards like the number of sexual partners, breastfeeding in public, and how many kids is just too many! All new bonus episodes will be available only to SH*T I'M 30! Patrons on www.Patreon.com/shitim30 Make sure to go become a Patron for your monthly bonus episode and video footage to keep supporting the show. Follow us on social media @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @jesseribshack @dexty
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| 13 Dec 2022 | EP 164: Busy, Petty and Don't Come to Me As A Woman | 01:02:40 | |
Busy, Petty, and Don't Come to Me as a Woman Carla is back after a crazy couple of weeks. Join her as she talks about
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| 06 Jul 2018 | EP 17: SH*T! Can We Grow Up? feat Mandii aka @fullcourtpumps | 00:56:55 | |
WHOREible Growth! This week join the conversation between Mandii (1/2 of Whoreible Decisions Podcast) & Carla in NY revolving around the growth that we all go through from our early 20's into our Golden 30's. Mandii is not quite 30..YET..but the change in her with age is definitely showing! We will also discuss if society now days with social media even lets us grow and learn from our past mistakes that we ALL make. Enjoy! Follow us on social media
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| 23 Mar 2018 | EP 02 Dating | 00:40:57 | |
| 06 Jan 2025 | EP11: Libido Low, Vibrator on High: Moms Need Lovin Too! | 01:05:33 | |
This week we’re diving headfirst into the spicy (and hilariously awkward) world of sex in your 30s and 40s! From scheduling "sexy time" to uncovering why your libido might be MIA (spoiler: social media could be to blame), we’re spilling all the tea. And if that’s not enough, Carla and Dex are bringing wild, laugh-out-loud stories that’ll leave you cringing, cackling, and maybe feeling a touch of secondhand embarrassment! 🚨 Disclaimer: This episode is NOT kid-friendly. Unless you want to explain what a sex dungeon is or why vibrators shouldn’t double as microphones, listen solo! CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ | |||
| 27 Feb 2023 | EP 174: Yo Quiero Dinero, a Prenup, and to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres | 01:12:38 | |
Today’s guest is Jannese Torres , host of “Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband’s mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week’s listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10. 4:30- The ladies talk about their love for bad bunny 8:10- Jannese describes how her food blog makes money and allowed her to quit her job 13:00- They then discuss separate bank accounts in a relationship 16:00- Jannese’s husband’s mistress contacted Jannese’s mom 20:00- Jannese made her husband sign a postnuptial agreement 33:00- Making good decisions about our bodies and health 46:45- Drug Dealers are great entrepreneurs 50:24- Money provides you freedom 54:00- Not demonizing the 9-5 56:40- The ladies discuss falling in love with Puerto Rico again 1:00:00- Listener letter about lending money to family 1:05:50-”Scripture Of The Week”-Ecclesiastes 5:10
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| 06 Apr 2018 | EP 04: Breakups "What the F**k is Closure?" | 00:42:36 | |
This week Carla & Dexty discuss breakups, makeups, baby mama's, & break babies. Song: Cardi B - Be Careful HAPPY CARDI B DAY!!! 04/06/18 Follow us @shitim30podcast @carlawilmaris @dexty | |||
| 18 Sep 2018 | EP 26: Balancing Being a Mom & Having Fun w/ Jena M | 01:03:36 | |
How do we balance being a good single mom & still having time to work on our business, have a social life, date, and travel.
We also discuss child support & Serious Mom Meltdowns! | |||
