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The truth is we are so much stronger and smarter than we think, especially when it comes to dating. Today's guest is Delores Jones, and she's The Comeback Coach, who helps women transform their lives and bounce back better, not bitter despite diversity and bad decisions. Sometimes we don't give ourselves enough credit while forgetting our value and worthiness. Is it possible to hold ourselves back from fear of rejection, failure, or success? In this week's episode, Delores discusses the main fears we encounter in love and how to overcome these obstacles. She also shares strategies around doing the unfamiliar while encouraging us to face our fears and do it anyway because you'll be amazed at what's truly possible! Why it's time to take responsibility for our decisions and why we should stop playing small because we have the power to design the life we want. 

Delores Jones is an Award-Winning Broadcast Journalist, T.V. Personality, and motivational speaker. She's the author of the book Stop the D.U.M.B. Stuff: A woman's guide for being responsible for the relationships were in and the decisions we make. Delores was an honored guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show and featured in the book: "Come on People: On the Path from Victims to Victors for her rise from poverty to prosperity. She's a regular guest and contributor for CBS, NBC, Fly Nubian Queen Network, The Examiner, NPR, and other local media outlets. She received a master's degree in Social Work and a bachelor's degree in Broadcast Journalism from The University of Missouri. Her story of going from 'Destitute to Drive-Time Diva' led to a full feature story in The Kansas City Star Newspaper.

Kerry Brett and Delores Jones cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Why you should create a folder of your accomplishments to reference on the days you don't believe in yourself or feel down.
How not to suffer from possibility blindness.
How to step into a place of being unstoppable.
In the chessboard of life, the queen is the most powerful piece on the chessboard, and the queen can move what stands in her way, why you can make yourself a queen and crown yourself. 
How to harness inner queen energy for ourselves, especially when dating.
How to stop playing small. 
If we don't see things bigger than they need to be, you'll miss opportunities. 
Why you need to pay attention to men who are inconsistent and drop them like a bad habit.
Don't give more of yourself that you expect to lose.
Why you have to lose the safety net, and how to engage in the lose to win mentality.
When a man makes you a priority, you know - how to avoid being an option.
Why no one gets to tell you who you are or how powerful you are other than you.
It is essential to know and own your value, especially when it comes to life and love.
Why you need to put what's important first which is YOU.
Each day work on something, even if it's small, when working towards your goals.
Be loyal to the royal in you, and remember you were born to be a queen and be treated like one.
To feel like a queen is as simple as believing you are one.
You'll never be crowned if you always back down. Don't be afraid to push back when dating and always stay in your power.

To find out more about Delores Jones, follow her on Instagram@mycomebackcoach, on FaceBook www.facebook.com/thecomebackcoach, or clubhouse under Delores Jones or her club Stop The D.U.M.B. Stuff.

To find out more about Your Best Shot@Love Master Class go to https://www.shotatlove.co
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Are you consciously dating with intention, or are you struggling to date while pulling in the same time waster, leaving you wondering why you can't find the one? Today's guest is Chantal Landreville, and she's a Love Coach who will help you reframe your thoughts if you're questioning yourself. Are you telling yourself comments like "how can I be so amazing if I'm still single," "Am I being too demanding," or "will I be alone for the rest of my life"? If you're feeling discouraged, this episode is for you! Chantal will help turn around self-doubt and introduce self-development. We'll get to the root of your patterns to stop attracting men who aren't emotionally available—Chantal share's love connection skills and how to raise your love signal to attract the right relationship.

Chantal Landreville is a certified love coach, and a lot of what she teaches comes from 20 years of her own experience. Chantal is a French Canadian who lives in Toronto, Canada, and after years of being single and searching for love, she became a self-proclaimed self-development junkie. She's finally in a happy, healthy, relationship and she wants you to have the same experience. Chantal's the founder of the Raise Your Love Signal; A program to master the art of love that helps women achieve the ultimate love connection and teach them the proper skills to be in a healthy, loving, long-term committed relationship. She's also currently writing her book by the same name, Raise Your Love Signal.

In this episode, you'll learn how to step into our power and own who we are, define what we want in your journey of finding love. Kerry Brett and Chantal Landreville cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

How to navigate dating and focus on intentional dating in order to have more positive experiences.
How to raise your love signal.
The way you love yourself determines the quality of the partner you pull in.
In your search for love look for a conscious relationship because it will be transformational and set you up for success.
Why you should be 100% committed and zero percent attached.
The Importance of watching your thoughts. The influence of our thoughts impact how we live and what we experience especially in love.
When dating, it’s imperative to manage your expectations, never assume, communicate your needs and watch your attitude.
How to attract your high vibrational match.

To find out more about Chantal Landreville follow her on Instagram @chantal.landreville, or her website https://raiseyourlovesignal.com. You can also find her on Clubhouse uner Chantal Landreville her club Raise Your Love Signal happens every Monday at 5:00 PM (EST).

To find out more about Your Best Shot@Love Master Class go to https://www.shotatlove.co
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This week, we discuss what men want. Today's guest is Daniel Herrold and he's the co-creator of Divorced Over 40, a rapidly growing community with tribes in fifty cities and seven countries worldwide. Daniel provides a man's perspective on dating, relationships and just about everything women are straight-up confused about these days! He helps translate the difficult conversations you may have with guys. He gives insight into what men may be thinking and, better yet, what they really meant. He also helps us spot the signs to differentiate between good and bad behavior. Daniel encourages dating with a purpose i.e. knowing what you want in a partner and getting clear about your next chapter. Daniel finally offers tips for protecting your time around those who don’t align with you and how to be proactive by playing offense instead of defense.  

Daniel Herrold is the co-creator of Divorced Over 40, an online and in-person community of divorced women and men. This incredibly curated group provides support through content on its social media channels and hosts live events so that those navigating divorce can cultivate new friendships. Divorced Over 40 has over 10,000 members and has formed virtual tribes worldwide in just over a year. Daniel is also the founder of the Intentional Dating Club. He's a writer of all things divorce and known for his blog and his viral Divorced Dad Tik Tok videos, which offer dating tips. Daniel is a proud divorced dad of three daughters, who lives in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and is dedicated to changing the stigma of divorce.

Once Daniel found himself divorced in his 40s, he began looking for friendships and doing what most people do... diving straight into dating to avoid the pain of loneliness. In this episode, he shares how connecting with others, who are in the same situation, allowed him to heal and ignited his passion for helping others.

Kerry Brett and Daniel Herrold cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Why women should stop accepting poor behavior from men.
When bad behaviors are shown early it’s better to cut your losses and move on.
Don’t make excuses why bad behaviors exist. Chances are, they are only going to get worse.
Slow and steady wins the race when dating someone new.
How to ask the right questions to see if someone is aligned with you.
If one person tries to push the agenda of the status of the relationship, it’s likely to blow up.
If someone ghosts you, they are showing a lack of respect and it is what it is, no explanation needed, the memo has been received – move along and consider yourself lucky.
Don’t be too accessible and watch the frequency of your communication. Don’t fall into the trap of burning the roast because you got too ambitious in the kitchen. If things progress too quickly either person is most likely to lose steam.
The importance of avoiding negativity in your profile.
It’s better to fill your profile of what you do want rather than what you don’t. And remember men love positive winners.
You can’t change men, make sure your expectations are aligned. A serious dater and casual dater are like oil and vinegar.
Stop putting so much pressure on the first date. Doesn’t friendship come before marriage? Use a date as an opportunity to find a new friendship.
The breakdown of intentional dating.
How to manage your expectations to avoid pain and heartbreak.
How to navigate dating in a healthy way when it’s too soon to date.

To find out more about Daniel Herrold, the Divorced Dad go to danielherrold.com or divorcedover40.com. You can find him on social media @daniel.herrold or @divorcedover40, and also on Tik Tok under daniel.herrold. He has a members-only dating club. There is a hyper link on his Instagram. Daniel also hosts clubhouse

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I can’t believe it! Today is my 100th episode and in honor of this milestone I have a very special guest, my boyfriend Scott Stunzenas. We discuss how we became a Tinder Success Story. I understand what works and what doesn't because I’ve tested it all, then used what I learned to find love. Scott was my MVP on Tinder, and I want to encourage all my listeners to give more people a chance and be open to all possibilities because you never know what package your person will come in. You’ve heard me talk about him on the past 99 episodes and now it’s time to put him in the Hot Seat! Hear his side of the story while he shares all the right moves he made after swiping right.

Honestly, Shot@Love wouldn't exist if it weren't for Scott – he saw that I had valuable information and he encouraged me to get out of my own way and help others by developing this podcast. Behind the scenes, there were lots of nights full of tears and fear around telling my own story. He reminded me that Shot@Love was not about me; it was about the person struggling to get it right and find love. Thankfully, on our first date he saw my heart, not a girl who felt like a disaster at the time, crying into her paper napkin. I was successful on Tinder because I pushed through the pain, dragged my sorry sad soul into the shower, kept swiping and kept going. Until one day I swiped right on an photograph of Scott, who lived 13 miles away, graduated from American University and was looking for love in all the wrong places and the rest is history!

Kerry Brett and Scott Stunzenas break down their online dating journey and how they became a Tinder Success Story.

Why dating is a numbers game and how to increase your odds.
Why you should avoid sending a thank you text after the date. Thank the other person on the date that night.
Do not send double texts if you don’t get a response.
Why the breakthrough is always the last key on the key chain – it’s always  that last key that unlocks the door.
Why you should avoid showing up as the representative.
The importance of managing expectations.
Dating is a numbers game and why it’s all about timing.
It’s also all about curb appeal and first impressions.
Why you should pay attention to the buzz words you put in your bio.
Why you should take risks sending edgy or funny responses.
Make no apology for your personality. You’ll be too much for some, those aren’t your people.
Your success is found in your daily routine. Everyday aim to be 1 percent better than the day before.
Stop trying to be perfect because perfect doesn’t exist! Beauty is an inside job and begins the moment you decide to be yourself.
Never water yourself down because someone can’t handle you at 100 proof. A real man isn’t threatened by your talents or abilities.

To find out more about Scott Stunzenas follow on Instagram @scottstunzenas or on FaceBook under his name.  After you’ve found love and decide to take the next step contact Scott at Compass because he will help you find your forever home.  To find out more about my Master Class go to shotatlove.co.

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Today's topic is all about the emotions of dating. This week's guest is Dr. Renee Mudrey, and she's an educational psychologist, author, and founder of Transcendent Heart Life Coaching. Dr. Renee is a chief emotions doctor who understands the gamut of emotions people experience when dating. We cover the hopes, joys, expectations, projections, and the best mindset. She'll offer tips around staying grounded, being present, and living in the moment when on the lookout for love—strategies to avoid burnout and trusting yourself after rejection. Dr. Renee shares her wisdom to gain a new perspective and advice for regulating our emotional well-being. If you can't get excited about dating, stop putting in the effort, or completely lost interest, this episode is for you. Dr. Renee shares how to overcome feeling let down and conquer relational troubles to live an abundant life and find a meaningful relationship. 

Dr. Renee Mudrey is an Educational Psychologist and Spiritual Mentor; whose stood by her clients over the last 17 years, helping them find their way in overcoming personal tragedy. She spent most of her 20s worrying about everything that could go wrong in life only to find she wasn't living at all. In her 30s, Dr. Renee faced a major health issue that became a turning point that forced her to decide who she was and what she was capable of. Despite having a Ph.D. in the field of educational psychology and two decades of teaching experience, she knew there was still so much more to learn. Dr. Renee embarked on a journey to conquer internal doubt, negative thinking, and feelings of hopelessness. Today she'll share what she's learned while empowering us to be the best version of ourselves.

Kerry Brett and Dr. Renee Mudrey cover a lot of ground topics, include:
How to navigate the ups and downs of dating.
How to trust yourself after a failed relationship.
How to ground yourself and stay present when dating.
The value of finding support when dating.
Why it's essential to have a positive mindset when dating.
How to manage your expectations and not get too ahead of yourself when dating.
Dr. Renee's theory of the "Unbecoming" and how to trust the process that everything will work out.
Advice for someone who's entirely burned out with online dating.
Divine timing and why it's never too late to find love.
How to find your way again after rejection.
How to let go of toxic patterns and belief that love is heavy. Trust your smile, not your past. Love is supposed to be full of joy, not drama.
How to find love in the wholeness that you are, not in the brokenness that you are not.

To find out more about Dr. Renee Mudrey, you can find out more on her website https://www.transcendentheart.com/ or follow her on Instagram @transcend.with.drrenee or order her book on Amazon The Unbecoming: A Journey Within and follow The Emotion Club and Dr. Renee on Clubhouse.

To find out information about Kerry Brett Master Class Your Best Shot@Love go to www.shotatlove.co

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Today's guest is Rosie Dalton, and she’s a grief counselor, and lifestyle coach. Rosie knows first-hand how to handle hard times. She tragically lost her only son, got divorced, lost her home, even her car—although it was a heartbreaking time all was not lost. Rosie had her survival skills and the willingness for a better future! She understands that life is short and can be gone at any moment. Rosie became a quick learner called in her future self while learning the power of the word and. She found ways to live with ever-present grief and experience all the joys of life. At age 54, Rosie created her heaven on earth, found love at a Match Mingle, and remarried. Rosie shares how eventually, everything comes up roses, her tips around midlife dating, and why there's a lot to be rosy about when it comes to online dating.  

Rosie Dalton is a midlife revisionist, lifestyle coach, spiritual guide, and workshop facilitator. Rosie was an inspirational speaker at Canyon Ranch, Kripalu Center for Yoga & Health, 1440 Multiversity, and several similar venues across the country. Rosie shows women how to immerse themselves into a new and powerful paradigm of the ageless woman. Rosie shows others a world of untapped possibilities of deep and unapologetic authenticity and burgeoning vitality. Midlife is not a dirty word but an incredible opportunity to transform past challenges and loss into feminine rocket fuel. 

Kerry Brett and Rosie Dalton discuss how Rosie reimagined a new life and recreated a fabulous new one. Topics include;

How to let go of things that aren't meant for you anymore.
How Rosie was willing to lose everything to create a better life for herself, leaned into her survival skills, and just kept going.
How Rosie didn't let her current financial situation affect her self-worth, it doesn't matter what's in your bank account; it's what's in your heart that's important.
Why you should keep trying new things and do more of the things that you love, that way, it creates an energetic field of love, happiness, and abundance around you. 
Why you should start looking at men with a new lens, look for good and handsome–handsome becomes unattractive really quick if he's not a good person.
If you look for a good heart first, then you'll have a great and fun life.
The importance of writing a list of what you want in a partner–and why a good person should be at the top of your list.
Midlife isn't a dirty word, and it's an excellent opportunity for a second chance.
Advice for someone who feels hopeless about finding love.
Advice for someone who feels too old to find love, and why it's never too late.
Why Rosie, having the desire to feel cherished was enough to propel her forward, and find love.
Take action, and don't be afraid to try something unconventional even if you have to grab an ex-boyfriend to accompany you to a Match Mixer because you never know where you can meet your person.
You can choose a better life and carefully select the type of people you date. You are the ultimate authority, so fill your mind with positive beliefs, and that will be your feminine rocket fuel.

To find out more about Rosie Dalton, you can follow her on Instagram @silverandsovereign and stay tuned for Rosie's Dalton's upcoming podcast. Keep an eye out for the launch of Rosie's sister Comedian Medium Maureen Hancock’s upcoming podcast The Medium Next Door, which will be found on all platforms.

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Today's guest is Lori Mendelsohn. She's a dating app profile writer, dating coach, and matchmaker. This week's topic is why you need a dating coach. Lori will break down the difference between a dating coach and a therapist and why there is such a huge difference. Dating coaches help you move into the future, identify your blocks and create a structure to achieve your goal faster. A dating coach gets you relationship ready while helping you break past patterns. Asking our family and friends for dating advice is not the best way to go because often we're asking advice from those who have never been on a dating app, which is why we should ask a professional. Lori shares why it's important to keep an open and curious mind– And like the great coach Ted Lasso said, "Be curious, not judgmental."

Lori Mendelsohn is a dating app profile writer, matchmaker, dating coach, and award-winning entrepreneur. She writes unique profiles that help you not only tell your story by adding some swagger, levity, and humor because, after all, laughter is the best Mendelsohn. Lori is excellent at helping you write a dating profile that stops suitors in their tracks. When Lori writes, you find love. In this episode, Kerry Brett and Lori Mendelsohn break down why hiring a dating coach is in your best interest. Topics include;

You should be curious, not judgmental, because who's to say what type of person will make you happy. Stay curious; on a date, have a conversation of curiosity-ask the other person where they see themselves in five years? This question will give you a lot of information.
Why a dating coach can save you emotional energy and time when navigating these dating sites.
Dating coaches have a playbook and identify what skills you need to improve.
Setbacks are not failures; it's an opportunity to learn and course-correct once you realize your mistakes.
Why hiring a dating coach will help you discover what's not working and help you put a new plan in place.
Dating coaches will identify the patterns we need to break, remove blocks, and figure out why you are pulling in the same type of people.
How to build off of your strengths and put new strategies in place so you can play to win.
An investment in yourself is so worth it because what counts is the inside work you've done on yourself.
Why you shouldn't trust the opinions of friends or family and work with a professional.
Why blind spots are almost impossible to see when your heart is involved.
Look closely at the qualities you want in a partner. Are you focusing on the wrong things, or are you being overly selective?
This is not Build a Bear. You aren't assembling a stuffed animal. It's impossible to be all things to all people.
Why it's so important to live in the present and enjoy the moment without any expectations.

To learn more about Lori Mendelsohn and all of her services, go to www.avconnexions.com or email Lori at hello@avconnexions.com. Follow on Instagram @avconnexions or follow her on Clubhouse under Lori Mendelsohn and check out her Clubhouse Club Single Over 50 every Tuesday at 6 PM (EST).

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What makes or breaks a relationship? The truth is another person can't make you happy; being fulfilled is an inside job. Today's guest is Barry Selby. He's helped thousands learn to love themselves. He's affectionately known as the "Love Doctor." Barry is an inspirational speaker, relationship expert, best-selling author, and spiritual guide. Most successful women rely on masculine energy to survive in the business world but often don't know how to shut it off. Barry is a champion for the divine feminine and he's dedicated to helping strong women attract relationships that equal who they are. Barry offers principles that will change how you experience romance and how to love and treat yourself.

Barry Selby is passionate about helping successful women create greater balance in love, life, and business. He's on a mission to awaken women to own and express their feminine magnificence in love and in the world. He's a relationship coach and a guide for singles seeking relationships and self-love. He has over 35 years of training and experience, including a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and more than two decades as a professional spiritual counselor. His #1 best-selling book, "50 Ways to Love Your Lover," helps singles and couples embody powerful principles for passionate and richly rewarding relationships. He brings deep compassion, a calm masculine presence, and wise guidance to assist his clients in their journey to true love. Barry epitomizes the perfect blend of practical, spiritual, tangible, and intangible in relationship coaching. In this week's episode, we'll learn about his approach to dating and love.

Kerry Brett and Barry Selby discuss masculine and feminine energy and why that needs to be in balance to find love. Topics include:

The polarity between the masculine and feminine. 
You don't need the other person to complete you if you truly love someone. Come from a place of loving yourself first, which is the best place to attract a new relationship.
How to love from overfill and not love from a place of lack.
The difference between masculine and macho energy.
Masculine energy comes from having a strong spine and being single-focused.
Why women need to turn off the masculine energy that they use at work.
Feminine energy comes from the energy of the heart.
Why women don't trust their feminine energy.
Why women have a difficult time letting the man lead in dating.
Rule #45 in "50 Ways to Love Your Lover" Ladies, let your man be masculine and remember you are feminine. Don't compete for it, or you will lose in romance. Barry, can you expand on this?
Rule #42 is men and women attract each other differently. Men see attraction, and women feel attraction. 
Why is it crucial to be grounded in your feminine as a woman in dating?
Barry Selby's advice for dating and healing a broken heart.
Why you want to be fulfilled as a single person? So, when you find a relationship, it just adds to who you are.
If you aren't happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from men.
Why being single doesn't mean you are undesirable or unwanted. It means you know your value and are holding out for someone who is worthy and sees your worth.

To find out more about Barry Selby go to www.barryselby.com. All of his social he can be found under Barry Selby except on Instagram which is @therealbarryselby and you can talk to him directly on Clubhouse or watch his 1,400 videos on YouTube.

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This week is all about deliberate attraction! Today's guest is Michael Losier, author of the Law of Attraction. A book so powerful he's sold almost 4 million copies in 37 languages! We'll learn how to attract the perfect partner so you can get more of what you want and less of what you don't want. Have you ever noticed how people repeatedly find themselves in a bad relationship or complain about pulling in the same type of person? Well, the Law of Attraction is at work for them too. Michael's motto is you attract whatever you give attention, energy, and focus to, whether positive or negative. He'll share his 3-step process for deliberate attraction, how to let go of doubt and allow love into our lives. Michael will show us how to stop using the words don't, not, and no and how to reset your vibration because we all have the power to manifest incredible relationships and experiences. 

Michael Losier is the author of best-selling books such as Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What you Want and Less of What you Don't, Law of Connection: The Science of Using NLP to Create Ideal Personal and Professional Relationships and Your Life's Purpose. The movie The Secret brought international exposure to the subject of Law of Attraction. Michael's business flourished as a result, and Michael was branded as the "How-to-Guy" for teaching others how to use the Law of Attraction, and even caught the attention of Oprah Winfrey. Oprah interviewed him four times on her Soul Series Radio show on Sirius/XM satellite radio, and then Michael enjoyed a year-long run hosting his own radio show on Oprah & Friends Radio. He's been around the world twice teaching the Law of Attraction and has certified 470 Law of Attraction Facilitators in 17 countries. Michael shares evidence of the law of attraction around finding love and how we can get what we want if we deliberately use the Law of Attraction. 

Kerry Brett and Michael Losier cover a lot of ground. Topics include:

How to become a deliberate attractor to attract your perfect partner.
Why allowing is the opposite of doubt.
How you can reset your vibration.
Why we should stop using the words, don't, not and no.
Why a belief is a word or a phrase you say repeatedly.
The importance of changing your vibration to attract love.
Why you should say daily, "I'm in the process of attracting my ideal partner."
Why you shouldn't tell your friends about a bad date.

To find out more about Michael Losier go to www.michaellosier.com, follow on Clubhouse under Michael Losier or on Instagram @michael_losier_loa. Purchase his book Law of Attraction or book an appointment at www.ReleasingNegativeEmotions.com

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Today’s topic is about the power of mindset and how to manage and control our response to others when dating. This week’s guest is Special Victim’s Investigator Will Kesselman, an expert in dynamic and repetitive patterns. He shares what he’s learned on the job. His acquired skills in psychology, coaching, consulting, and advanced knowledge around trauma so we can sharpen our skills around judgment. Decide which people to avoid and who is worthy of our time. He’ll share strategies he’s used in leading thousands of women to safety. HIS theories around emotional reactions–so you can stay in control and remain in power. We’ll discover that you don’t have to be phenomenally skilled to succeed; you need to be phenomenally willed, and if you want to find love, you absolutely can as long as you stay determined because where there is a will, there’s a way!

Will Kesselman, Special Victims Investigator, Social Impact Strategist, speaker, and, Founder and President of Control and Power Strategy, a Domestic Violence- Divorce Consulting Trauma Coaching agency. After experiencing trauma, he chose to dedicate his life to protecting others. With over 14 years of experience, through his consulting and coaching company, Will continues to help empower mostly women, and sometimes men, to protect themselves, even potentially saving lives. Through his company, Will specializes in revealing to his clients the hidden information known mostly to government investigators, police, and judges; and how they think and react to situations. Will has helped thousands navigate government and community systems to safety. Will has also recently been on a "live" private FB group (for Domestic Violence) with over 10 thousand members, podcasts, and a radio show on KLAA for Southern California.
 
Today, Will teaches us that we can respond differently to how others treat us and that we can be in control of our feelings and our emotions. Kerry Brett and Will Kesselman cover a lot of ground. Topics include; 

How to use pain to catapult you forward, especially in online dating.
Will’s golden rule of being responsive, not reactive, and how it serves him in his life.
How behavior can lead to thoughts, then thoughts lead to emotions.
How we feel about ourselves matters in who they will attract.
How women have a gatekeeper which is usually a best friend or sister, when vetting people to date.
How to get an emotional response with the words you use when texting.
A big red flag to Will is someone who's not flexible; the relationship is being set up as one-sided, or the person is being too dominant. This is trouble and not going to work.
Women should never settle or make excuses for poor behavior because they don’t want to start over.
Why it’s so difficult to leave a toxic relationship because of the emotional bonding.
Why women are likely to get addicted to a relationship quicker than a man.
Narcissists have to feed and are brilliant manipulatives and need to have a woman to dominate.
Will’s advice around the mistakes women make when dating?
Women need to understand they have more control and are worth more than they think.
The importance of a buddy system when dating.
Men will respond favorably when the woman stands in her power, and if they don’t respond favorably, they aren’t for you.

To find out more about Will Kesselman, go to www.controlandpower.com, follow him on Instagram @will_wise_words, on LinkedIn under Will K., and Clubhouse or Owwll under Will Kesselman.

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Tough times don't last, but tough people do. When the bottom falls out, you have a choice; you can either cry about it or laugh your way through it! Picking up the pieces is never easy, but it has to happen. There's a lot of power in laughter, and no one's mastered laughing more than Boston's Comedian and Movie Star - Lenny Clarke. Lenny went from having everything to having nothing, not once but many times. He's survived heart attacks, a massive stroke, overcame addiction, and even lost 200 pounds! Lenny lived through heartbreaks, divorce, and then found love with his wife Jennifer, who stood by his side as he climbed back to the top. Lenny understands that you can be famous and funny, but it doesn't mean one thing if you can't be a good friend and help others during challenging times. Lenny shares his survival tips and how to laugh your way through these valuable life lessons.

Nationally renowned comedian Lenny Clarke is one of the biggest names in comedy. He's known for inventing Boston comedy as he came up in the 1980s, the heyday of Boston Comedy, with fellow funnymen Steven Wright, Martin Olson, and Denis Leary. He was roommates with Olsen, and their apartment, was known by comedians as "The Barracks," a notorious "Crash Pad" for visiting comics and the subject of the documentary "When Standup Stood Out." Lenny's comedic abilities captured the attention of Rodney Dangerfield, who gave him his first big break on the HBO special "Nothing Goes Right." Lenny has been on stages making people laugh for over 45 years. He's appeared in television shows such as his own network sitcom Lenny, The Job, The John Larroquette Show; It's All Relative, The Winner, Touched by an Angel, Love Boat: The Next Wave. He played the role of Uncle Teddy on Rescue Me and appeared in feature films such as Me, Myself and Irene, Rounders; There's Something About Mary, Two if by Sea, and Southie, to name a few.

We laugh until we cry in this special episode while forgetting our troubles. Lenny share’s his uplifting story that inspire and entertain because his journey is one wild ride! 

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This week is part two of The Ultimate Funny Guy’s Survival Guide for Hard Times with comedian and actor Lenny Clarke. In part one, Lenny shared his story of finding fame and fortune then losing it all. At one point he had more than he could ever dream. He remembers standing on his roof in Marina Del Ray overlooking the canal, having everything money could buy but he wasn’t happy. He was morally and spiritually bankrupt. His hit sitcom Lenny got cancelled, his health was deteriorating, and his marriage was falling apart. In this episode Lenny shares how he found the strength to get sober, believe in himself and find love. We all go through difficult times, but it will get easier, but we need to hang on in order to get there. And why we can’t quit five minutes before the miracle. Lenny shares his strategies for moving forward, healing a broken heart and why we all deserve and can achieve happiness. 

Lenny Clarke is one of the biggest names in comedy. Aside from his roles in television and films, Lenny is a person who would do anything for someone who was hurting. Lenny’s been interviewed by Talk Show Host Jimmy Kimmel on Jimmy Kimmel Live! And by podcaster Joe Rogan, the host of The Joe Rogan Experience so it’s an honor to have him back on Shot@Love. 

Kerry Brett and Lenny Clarke cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Why when you’re not looking for love – love finds you.
Give someone a compliment and encourage someone else because there’s not enough of that! Think about the time when you were at your lowest point and someone was kind to you – pay it forward and do the same for someone else.
We all go through bad times, but it will get easier. You got to hang in there, and you can’t quit five minutes before the miracle.
Nothing will fulfill you but you. Take from Lenny who learned that fame or money wasn’t enough – you have to realize that you are enough – just the way you are.

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This week’s topic is resilience. Professor Theresa Agostinelli shares her groundbreaking techniques for strengthening resilience by tapping into challenges as a source of powerful transformation. Theresa is a superpower activator, author, speaker and psychotherapist. With a masters in psychotherapy and a life of surmounting the odds, she became a change agent to help others. After a series of tragic loss, Theresa dug deep, put on her cape and found her superpower. You can’t control what happens in life but you can manage your reaction and get back on track. She believes life is not happening to you but for you, and if you change your mindset you can change your life. Theresa shares her paradigm-shifting practices that will skyrocket you to personal success.

Professor Theresa Agostinelli, lovingly known as Prof T., from Philly, is president and CEO of Glen Mills Coaching and Consulting, a licensed psychotherapist, professor, and certified John C. Maxwell leadership coach, international speaker, and business mentor. Her highly anticipated book The Grid System is launching this month. Prof. T has been teaching resiliency for decades, and her road to resilience is beyond inspiring. 

Kerry Brett and Professor Theresa Agostinelli cover a lot of ground and topics include:

*How positive affirmations help you think, feel and behave.
*How the vibration of gratitude can change your life.
*Theresa’s advice if you’re finding dating challenging.
*It’s now o’clock! You've got to live in the now, because now is all we have!
*There will always be adversities and challenges before you achieve success - the key is to solider on and not quit. If you’ve lived through tough times – you can do it again - just keep going.
*Focus on the wins. When you’re focused on the wins, you make better decisions and attract winners into your life.
*Prof. T’s three P’s. Use the pain to propel you into your purpose.
*Four reasons people self sabotage or remain stuck and how to change the blueprint.
*How to overcome adversities and create a new narrative.
*When you tap into resiliency you are so much more powerful than those who quit.
Resiliency is a superpower!


To find out more about Professor Theresa Agostinelli  or pre-order her book go to grid.professortheresamarie.com. Follow on Instagram @theresamarie.coach or on Clubhouse under Prof.T Agostinelli.


 

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Summer is upon us, temperatures are rising, the sun is out, and it's time to shine! Many dating app executives believe that this summer could be the summer of love – the summer singles have been anticipating. Today's guest is an astrologer and psychic healer, Jill Jardine, and she'll share the best times for singles to find love in the summer of 2022! In this week's episode, we'll discuss tips for meeting new people, the best places to find someone special, and how to start doing more things you love while creating new opportunities to find love. Jill will share which days are lucky for finding love and specific times that are more promising to meet someone special.

Jill Jardine is an astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's the former radio personality on WATD 95.9 FM, and she's the host of the podcast - Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. She's a Reverend in Sanskrit mantra; chanting mantras shifts outcomes and proves to be an invaluable tool. For over 30 years, Jill's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves while guiding them with important decisions. It's no secret that people turn TO astrology in the age of uncertainty and often look to the stars when dating. In today's episode, Jill will bring us up to speed to paint a picture of what will be happening astrologically this summer while sharing the best days to manifest amate. Stay tuned until the end of the episode when I share Jill's optimal dates for making a love connection during the summer of 2022.

Kerry Brett and Jill Jardine cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Why this summer is “go time.”
People are more optimistic than in previous months and will be more proactive when they get back out there.
Mercury goes direct at the beginning of June – this marks the clean slate for 2022.
The summer is a marker of good times and a time to reassess and reboot.
Jill gives the dates of full moons and new moons for the summer.
Jill encourages you to try something different and be bold and adventurous in your activities.
The summer will ignite, and passion will heat up in August – lucky Leo.
If you don’t find love at the beginning of the summer, don’t lose hope chances are great for finding love later in the summer.
Mars and Venus are relationship signs, and Jill discusses their transits.
Jill’s tips around mindset for meeting new people.
Jill shares her list of the best astrological dates for dating this summer.

Listen to Jill’s podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine on all platforms where podcasts are found. To book a reading with Jill, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com. Follow on Instagram @thejilljardine or Facebook under Jill Jardine.

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Today, we'll discuss fascinating psychological insights from psychologist Richard DiNapoli, who has 30 years of experience helping is clients in the area of relationships. A psychologist studies how we think, behave and feel. His job is to listen to people’s issues and guide them accordingly, but you don't need a Ph.D to be a good listener; trust your instincts, feelings, or emotions. In this week’s episode, Rich will share his expertise around the tell tale question why did your last relationship end? What’s said and not said is very revealing and significant when looking for a new partner. Why people overlook red flags and don’t listen to their intuition. Rich also shares what he’s learned on his dating journey and tips for setting up boundaries and expectations. And the importance of being transparent and open. 

Richard DiNapoli is a psychologist who works predominately with adults and relationship issues. He has been trained in family systems as well as psychodynamic and narrative therapies. He has also been trained in psychodrama and has incorporated his work in theatrical improvisation into his psychotherapy practice. Today’s discussion is all about what can be learned from what’s said and not said in the answer to the question what went wrong in your last relationship. 

Kerry Brett and Rich DiNapoli cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

The importance of finding out why past relationships ended.
Unhealthy and unhealed issues regarding relationships. The classic possibilities are pursuing unavailable partners such as someone emotionally unavailable or married. Rescuing others in distress. Looking for a caretaker. Driven by the need to be in control and minimize vulnerability. 
Why you should never work harder than your date.
Why you shouldn’t try convince or talk someone into dating you or  continue to date you – if they’re not sure – it’s not your job to change their mind. If they are in conflict that conflict has healed within themselves.
Don’t be too enthusiastic, over the top, or have a pre-established happily ever after storyline because then you’re putting the cart the horse.

To find out more about Richard DiNapoli go to psychologytoday.com

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Do you think your life needs to be perfect to find love? This is not true, and today's episode will prove otherwise while instilling hope in humanity and changing your negative beliefs around online dating. Sometimes life throw's so many things at you that it's impossible to handle them on your own, and when you think things can't get any worse, you can catch a break, and an amazing knight in shining armor can ride up on a horse because you swiped right! This week's guest is my oldest friend Kristine Brennan, and her journey and love story are unbelievably inspirational. In this week's episode, Kristine shares tips around online dating and all of the mistakes she made until she finally got it right!

Kristine Brennan is a full-time nurse and a divorced mother of three who grew up in a coastal town called Hingham, just outside of Boston. Kristine had no idea she had Lyme disease when she was pregnant with her children until she passed it in utero to her kids. Her oldest, Delaney, has been dealing with debilitating symptoms for most of her childhood. She's spent years on crutches and in a wheelchair and has suffered too many procedures and hospitalizations. Kristine has taken her all over the country, trying to get Delaney well while paying out of pocket as a single mother. These trips for treatments forced Kristine to be on her fourth family medical leave. Lyme disease has deteriorated and weakened Delaney's immune system; she only tolerates her hydration and nutrition through a feeding tube. Delaney's younger brother and sister also have congenital Lyme and are treated by a homeopathic practice in California. Insurance does not cover Lyme Disease, which creates havoc and financial hardship in your life. A Go Fund Me has been established to help the Brennan family, and I will share details later on how to donate. 

During all of these incredible challenges, Kristine kept going, searching for a cure, and finding love online throughout all of these personal challenges. I'm excited to share Kristine's unbelievable story of love, strength, and resilience!

Kerry Brett and Kristine Brennan cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Tips for finding a nice guy online.
How to look for what's truly important.
How to make shifts within yourself to pull in a great person.
Why not prioritizing what you're looking for in a partner is a big mistake.
Why bitterness has no place in online dating.
Pay attention to the men who write long and caring messages – this is a sign of someone serious about finding a relationship.
Kristine's dating advice for busy working parents.
How to look for someone who makes your life easier.
How to stop caring what other people think. Is he shorter than you? Who cares? Don't have so many rules that look good to others but make you feel bad about yourself.
What are the boxes that you're looking to check? How many of those boxes are based solely on looks or on other people's opinions as opposed to what you think you deserve or makes you happy.

Please contribute to the Go Fund Me fundraiser on behalf of Delaney's Journey. Kristine and Delaney are traveling for treatments in the hopes that this will finally put an end to the debilitating symptoms that she has been suffering for most of her childhood. All of these costs are out pocket as Lyme Disease is not covered by medical insurance, and Kristine is on her fourth (unpaid) medical leave. I hope that we can ease some of the financial burdens that has been accumulated over the past decade. We appreciate any support you can give – no amount is too small. You can make donations at www.gofundme.com and search Delaney's Journey. And with your help - one day we'll be able to say Delaney is cured by your caring and kindness. The Brennan family thanks you in advance from the bottom of their hearts.

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Are you leading with loneliness? Let’s find out! Today’s guest is Annie Parker. She’s a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist, and Intuitive Healer, who helps you clear blocks from the past so you can be a magnet for love. In this week’s episode, she’ll teach you how to regain your power, close that door on an ex and make room for your future and use your intuition when dating to attract the love you deserve.

Remove feelings of lack and loneliness because sometimes, when swiping, it feels like you have many options, but there’s a difference between perceived options and a real authentic connection. It all depends on your mindset and energy when dating, how you feel about yourself, and what’s truly possible for you. 

Annie Parker is a Reiki Master, Theta Healer, and Shamanic Practitioner that focuses on cord-cutting, soul retrieval, and chakra clearing so you can break through the generational patterns and trauma of the past and move into the life and love that you desire. She focuses on clearing any resentments and ties from past relationships so you can make room for new love. She’s part of the Single in the City Mod Squad on Clubhouse and in August will be hosting and joining Matchmaker Laura Bilotta in the live workshop “Become a Magnet for Love.”

Kerry Brett and Annie Parker cover a lot of ground. Topics include:
*How you can take your power back and take your pain from a breakup and turn it into something positive.
*Why it’s so important to clear all of the resentments from a former relationship.
*How to avoid dating for potential.
*How to get your mind and energy on the same page.
*How to release energies that don’t serve you anymore.
*How to cut cords with ourselves and our perceived failures.
*How to trust yourself and listen to your intuition.
*How to drop the energetic shield in front of our hearts so you can be a magnetic from love.
*Why the energy around money and love is one of the same energetic.
*Why people have trouble receiving money, compliments or love and how to open up the heart space so you can give and receive.
*Why getting your energy aligned helps you listen to your intuition.
*How to avoid having your emotions overrun your intuition and look at what is really happening.
*How to avoid leading with loneliness and approach dating from a place of abundance.
*Your energy around dating always comes down to how you feel about yourself.
*Any time you question someone – if it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no!
*People must have the same values; you don’t have to like the same things, but you must have the same values. If you’re clear about what you want, then the trash will take itself out.
*How to work on having good energy about yourself. When you feel good and look good, you’ll get noticed.

Follow @msannieparker on Instagram, Tik Tok, Facebook and Twitter or sign up for Annie Parker and Laura Bilotta’s live workshop “Become a Magnet for Love” on August 4th. Find out more about her energy work & readings on www.msannieparker.com.

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This episode aired two years ago and is still current today. It’s packed with great information! And tune in next week when we bring Jill Sylvester back for more powerful tips around online dating. 

Jill Sylvester is a licensed mental health counselor and author of "Trust Your Intuition." In this week’s episode, Jill teaches us the importance of trusting yourself and listening to your intuition when dating. Jill shows us how to transform anxiety and depression for stronger mental health. It's time to trust our inner navigation system and truly raise the bar to find love. 

Jill works with individuals in personal development. In her private practice, she has successfully guided thousands of client sessions toward stronger health, wellness, and transformation. Jill also works with people to deepen their understanding of the language of energy and intuition. She is the host of the podcast "Trust Your Intuition" and the author of 3 books. Jill's passion is helping individuals see past the darkness to find the light. This is such a powerful episode for single people looking to make a shift.

Kerry Brett and Jill Sylvester cover a lot of ground. Topics include:
The importance of trusting your intuition.
How to move the energy of feeling stuck.
How to keep yourself buoyant through challenging times.
The power of setting intentions.
Getting clear about what you want and setting  boundaries.
How to silence "gremlins" your lower vibration inner voice.
Why positive shifts take discipline and consistency.
Daily practices that set you up for success.
The power of affirmations.
Checking yourself and your part in the chaos.
How anxiety isn't a bad thing, it's a gift.
How to transition into new energies.
Life gets better when you choose to listen to your intuition.
Why emotional awareness is key.
The value of the enough is enough prayer.

For more information about Jill Sylvester, you can find her at www.jillsylvester.com. Listen to her podcast, "Trust Your Intuition," or purchase her books on her website or Amazon.

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Kerry Brett is in the hot seat! This week Kerry appears as a guest on Jill Sylvester's podcast Trust Your Intuition. Kerry lays it all out there and gives you her best advice to find love this summer! Kerry shares tips and strategies that worked for her and the people she's helped.

Trust Your Intuition Podcast can be found on all platforms. Stay tuned for Shot@Love's upcoming episode with Jill Sylvester, where she shares advice that Jill gives to her clients as a licensed mental health counselor and author of the book Trust Your Intuition.

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Too often, we default to victim mode when dating, and falling into this mindset hurts our results. Today's guest is Jill Sylvester, a licensed therapist and author of the book, Trust Your Intuition. Jill helps us avoid staying stuck, feeling bad about our past mistakes, and how to find confidence in our abilities. Summer is the time to be out dating, and there is no reason to hold ourselves back. Why are we waiting months, weeks, or days to find love? Jill shares how she helps her clients realize the time is now and, most importantly, how to change their mindset. Because when you change how you feel about yourself, everything will change! Jill discusses the power of setting intentions, manifestation and trusting your intuition.

Jill's also a speaker, host of the podcast Trust Your Intuition and author of the book Trust Your Intuition: 100 Ways to Transform Anxiety and Depression for Stronger Mental Health, and author of the young adult novels, The Land of Blue and Devon: Dream Agent Series. Her work deals with personal growth and development, intuition, and energy. Jill teaches by focusing on your power, you raise the standards for your life, ultimately affecting the world around you. She has successfully guided thousands of client sessions in her private practice toward stronger health, wellness, and transformation. Jill's passion is helping others see past the darkness to find the light. 

Kerry Brett and Jill Sylvester cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
How to find the next thing that helps you find joy and get out of pain.
Why goals need to be fed every day.
How to align with the force to make a change. 
How to flip the script with action. What are you doing to move forward? Find one thing each day to do to move forward.
Why it's so important to flex the muscle of worthiness and remind ourselves that we are worth it.
Jill's tips around working on the worthiness piece.
How to get out of victim mode.
Start somewhere – put it out there, do one thing to bring that person towards you.
Why you need to stop worrying about what other people think.
You can't hold a negative thought and a positive thought at the same time. Chose the positive thought.
How to avoid perfection – and why you have the opportunity to get it right every day.

To find out more about Jill Sylvester, go to her website jillsylvester.com. All of Jill's books can be found on Amazon. Listen to her podcast Trust Your Intuition and follow her on Instagram @jillsylvester.

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In this week’s episode we discuss 10 tips for showing up online as yourwonderfully unique and attractive self. Today’s guestisMara Stefan who wrote the article that was published in the Good Men Project titled Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew. We discuss how to make the task of sorting through all of the profiles a little easier, why the eyes have it, why you should smile in your photographs, be available emotionally and for God sake keep your clothes on!
 
Mara Stefan has spent most of her more than 25-year career helping companies and executives establish thought leadership positions with their industries. She has overseen strategic partnerships with organizations including, The World EconomicForum, TED, The Nantucket Project and Thinkers50 among others. She’s also awriter who is currently working on a book aimed at women in the post pandemic world of work and often writes lifestyle blogs that have been published on sites like Thrive Global. Mara is a recovering hockey mom and attempts to navigate life’s challenges with the help of her family, friends, silly pets, and wine as needed. 
 
Mara has been single for years now and is no stranger to online dating and has a lot to say about profiles, her love/hate relationship with online dating and the process of finding a soul mate.
 
Kerry Brett and Mara Stefan cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
The value of investing in yourself.
Take small steps putting the focus on you, book a professional headshot, buy a new pair of jeans or make the effort to get back out their even if it’s making new friends.
How to plan to date differently this time around.
How to shift the energy when you put yourself first and invest in yourself.
Mara’s list of 10 Things: What Women Wish You Knew.
Dating can be difficult and at times frustrating but it’s not enough to not try.
If the process of online dating scares the hell out of you it’s helpful to lean on your friends, have a wing girl or an accountability partner­–someone to cheer you on to push you out of your comfort zone.
The pandemic made us feel bad about ourselves­–Mara’s advice for rebuilding your confidence and how you feel about yourself.
The time is now! It’s time­–WHY because you’ve run out of excuses. Take one step at a time and I promise it will get easier, you’ll gain more confidence over time and you’ll get there.
 
To find out more about Mara Stefan, you can follow her under Mara Stefan on LinkedIn, and Facebook. You can read her article Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew on the Good Men Project.

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Today's guests are Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross, the co-founders of the new app–My Little Black Book–The Dating Organizer launching in August. This app will revolutionize the complicated world of online dating.
 
The truth is–dating apps can be overwhelming, time-consuming, and unorganized. Billie and Melissa share how they’ve developed an organizational productivity system, so you can enjoy dating in a fun, easy, and safe way so finding love won’t feel like a full-time job!
 
Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross met in dentistry, and while working together realized they experienced similar dating issues. Together, they combined their knowledge and passion and plan on shaking up the dating industry hoping to make real and impactful social change. Their goal is to put the power back in the hands of the user, with safety being the core of My Little Black Book. Whether you prefer Tinder, Match, Christian Mingle or Bumble to get busy, My Little Black Book offers a one-stop shop.  A place where trying to remember who is on what app will be a problem of the past. These two impressive women are here to modernize a landscape that has remained virtually untouched for the past ten years, and to give the power of organization and control and control back to you!
 
Today, we discuss how to put safety into our own hands and be proactive. And how this dating toolbox works as a diary or spreadsheet keeping track of everyone you're communicating with while organizing upcoming dates and learn why digital organization starts with a little black book!
 
Kerry Brett, Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross cover a lot of ground topics include;
How My Little Black Book keeps you organized making the whole process easier, so you’ll have more time to date.
How My Little Black Book helps you avoid mixing people that you’re texting.
Examples of how My Little Black Book helps you be more successful at dating.
My Little Black Book’s safety features.
How My Little Black Book tailors to each person’s needs helping you to keep everything straight in a more organized way.
How My Little Black Book allows you to add specific details about the people you are in communication with.
My Little Black Book has a built-in feature where you can rate your date.
My Little Black Book has a built-in feature where it does background checks and supplies you with an incognito number if you choose for safety purposes.
 
To find out more about My Little Book go to www.mlbb.rocks.

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It’s never too late for a new beginning or to live the life of your dreams. Just ask Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven, founder of Raven International Broadcast Empire, and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7. After years of searching for her purpose, Raven began to fulfill her lifelong dream by creating a show on a hospital computer at the age of 55 at her mother’s bedside at the Methodist Hospital in Texas – a show she took all the way to the top! Jack Canfield calls her the best interviewer on the planet, to becoming a 5-time Award Winning Radio Host and receiving prestigious awards such as being the proud recipient of the 2016 Lifetime Achievement Award from President Barack Obama. Aside from achieving her professional goals she also found personal success when she found love at age sixty with soul mate Grammy Award-Winning mixing engineer Khaliq Glover. Raven shares her story of how her life changed when she decided to step up, show up and grow up to make her dreams come true and why you don’t have to wait to be great! 

Kerry Brett and Raven Blair Glover cover a lot of ground topics include;

What the mind can conceive it will achieve and why you need to be ok failing forward.
Raven’s golden rule – "if it’s meant to be then it’s up to me.”
What you speak about you bring about – if you speak it out into the universe it will happen.
Why you should give yourself permission to succeed.
Why nothing beats failure than a try.
Why you should show up in a big way when you’re going for your dream – showing up in a way thatl makes you stand out in the relationship.
Be honest with yourself and take a good look in the mirror. Be willing to own your part.
It’s not over until it’s over and why it’s not how you start but how you finish.

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This week is a special bonus episode! Kerry Brett, the host of Shot@Love is interviewed by Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven and the founder of Power Me Up Radio, on iHeart Radio. We discuss the biggest challenge single’s face and that is fear. Fear of the unknown–that potentially someone won’t like us, or that no one will love us. But once we realize these are just storylines we tell ourselves as a form of protection, and it’s simply not true. If we believe these lies, it only serves one purpose and one purpose only to hold us back. In this interview, Kerry and Raven discuss what finding love looks like in 2022 and how it’s possible for you. I hope this conversation motivates and inspires you to believe in yourself and give online dating a try!

In this interview Raven Blair Glover and Kerry Brett cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

If you are afraid to date take small actions and more opportunities will present.
People shut down because of failed relationships and past setbacks, how to change your mindset around the past.
You can manifest love just like you manifested a car, a job and home. We all have that attractor factor within us. We have to trust it, trust ourselves and trust the process.
It’s time to live out your dreams rather than your fears. You owe it to yourself to try.
Stop aimlessly swiping and get passionate about taking action and be consistent with the follow through and you will get results.
How you decide to date all comes to how you feel about yourself.
How to overcome the storylines that are created in your mind.
The importance and power of the leading photograph.
How to remove blocks around finding love.
How to manage the online dating overwhelm.
Why the beauty lies in your imperfections.

To find out more about Your Best Shot Masterclass and six hours of coaching with Kerry Brett go to shotatlove.co or reach out to Kerry on Instagram @kerry_brett.

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Today is part two of Raven Blair Glover's inspiring story. She's the talk show maven and founder of the Raven International Broadcast Empire and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7 on iHeart Radio. At age 60, she found love with Grammy Award-Winning Mixing Engineer Khaliq Glover. Khaliq will join Raven and share his thoughts on love. They'll share how falling in love with the right person changed their lives. Many positive things happen when you find your soul mate…you become a better version of yourself, you put others before you, you have enhanced communication and trust, you work as a team, and you walk with a bounce in your step. Raven and Khaliq will share how they feel in love, married, and live like newlyweds. We’ll hear how they permitted themselves to move forward and created a whole new life and how you can do it too.

Raven Blair Glover, Khaliq Glover and Kerry Brett cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Why you need to take a hard look in the mirror and be ok making changes.
How to show up in a big way and as yourself when dating.
Why you need to raise the bar when looking for a partner.
The importance of being free to be who you are.
Why you must let go of baggage from the past and why you can’t bring your past into your present.
Why you should never play yourself down or settle.
How life changes in such a positive way when you meet the right person.
Raven’s inspiring words around holding out for the right person.
Khaliq’s inspiring words to encourage listeners to never give up or searching for the right one.

To find out more about Raven or Khaliq go to raveninternationalmediaempire.com or follow Khaliq Glover on Instagram @khaliqovision and Raven Blair Glover @talkshowmaven

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Today's topic is staying together. Every love story is profoundly different and unique. And for those who don't find everlasting love, we head to the movies to be reminded that it is possible and does exist. Movies teach humanity and make us feel less alone. They lift us up and instill hope. And sometimes we need movies so we can momentarily forget our lives and have a good cry or laugh so hard we forget why we were crying in the first place! If you are a great actor – their words and story are believable, and it can be life-changing. And if that character prevails through extreme hardship, their impact can be even greater. Today's guest is Oscar-winning actor Chris Cooper and his wife Marianne Leone Cooper, who's also an actress and writer, and their love story is beyond beautiful! They've lived through the most difficult of times–enduring the loss of their only son Jesse. Yet somehow, they learned to continue on–put their gifts and pain into purpose, leading Chris to win an Academy Award and Golden Globe Award and Marianne to write the best-selling memoir "Knowing Jesse, A Mother's Story of Grief, Grace and Everyday Bliss," which honors their precious child. Surviving and thriving through all these experiences wouldn't be possible without their love for each other. I've watched Chris's Academy Award acceptance speech many times to remind myself that true love is real and doesn't only exist in the movies.

Chris Cooper is an actor known for his Oscar-winning performance in Adaptation and roles in American Beauty, The Bourne Identity, Seabiscuit, Capote, A Time to Kill, and Breech, to name a few. His wife, Marianne Leone Cooper, is a writer and screenwriter. She's known for her published memoirs and essays. She's also an actress most recognized for playing the role of Christopher Moltisanti's mother on the Sopranos. I admire them so much and the love they share. Today they share their powerful story and what it takes to Stay Together! 

Kerry Brett, Chris Cooper, and Marianne Leone Cooper cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
Having different personalities is a strength and can help balance difficult times.
What being a team looks like within a relationship?
Find someone who makes you laugh so hard that you lose it! Having fabulous humor is key and awfully important in staying together.
The importance of leading your partner when the other is lost.
Why being a team was survival during challenges.
When experiencing loss, don't expect your partner to grieve the same way. You can't expect others to feel how you feel at all times. Practice patience, not resentment, and have empathy.
Mutual respect and kindness are crucial, don't be kinder to your friends than the love of your life. And don't forget to say thank you – it goes a long way.

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Today’s topic is all about connecting with like-minded people. It’s proven that people connect by having similar interests and with the things they have in common. This week’s guest is Marisa Saks. She’s the former host of Bravo TV’s Millionaire Matchmaker and the founder of Caviar Lifestyles, a social networking and dating app. Caviar’s goal is to have lifestyle experiences as the center of social connection thus solving many of the user frustrations with traditional dating apps. People are tired of going on a dinner date feeling like they are being interviewed and want something more. Instead of swiping left and right solely based on aesthetics and physical appearance – Caviar members swipe based on common interests. Marisa shares why dating someone with a different lifestyle isn’t going to work and why real connection comes down to finding someone who loves to do the same thing you do. 

Caviar’s founder Marisa Saks is an entrepreneur and actress, who’s appeared in productions such as Scary Movie 5, Entourage, Bold & The Beautiful, All My Children, Faster starring the Rock, and Just Go With It starring Adam Sandler to name a few. Marisa’s unique and established brand, network, and high exposure marketing channels was established through her work on Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo. She has a planned Docudrama centered on the creation of Caviar, featuring behind the scenes and raw footage, including female entrepreneurship, what it takes to build a business as a woman, what it takes to raise capital, find the correct development team and right marketing outlets to promote and launch. 

Kerry Brett and Marisa Saks cover a lot of ground. Topics include:
*What Marisa learned about finding love from the Millionaire Matchmaker.
*How Marisa’s past dating history led to the creation of Caviar.
*How Caviar will lead to instant gratification.
*The importance of shared experiences.
*Why doing an activity allows for you to let your guard down and show your true self, which results in more dating success.
*Why people want something more than a dinner date.
*It’s all about connecting with like minded people.
*How  Caviar gets you out from behind the screen.

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Did you know that people are the most vulnerable regarding their love life? And safety is a real concern for online daters. This week’s topic is how to be alert on these dating apps and how to avoid dangerous situations when you do go out on a date. We have control over the narrative and our safety, Today’s guest is the “Date Detective” Randy Gomez, lovingly known by his nickname Moose. Moose spent 30 years as a bail bondsman and 25 years as a private detective and now uses all the skills he’s acquired to help women stay safe online. Moose will share his strategies around safety, how to spot the red flags when texting, avoiding someone you feel  could potentially harm you, and most importantly, devise the perfect exit strategy. 

Randy, AKA “Moose” Gomez, the “Date Detective,” is a cowboy and a single dad from New Mexico. He’s also a trainer for world champion boxers, on the board of directors for the Police Athletic League Boxing Club, President of Moose Inc., and founder of the “US” charity. For most of his professional life, Moose worked as a bail bondsman, recovery agent and as a private investigator. During that period, he learned a lot about people, especially when he bailed someone out of jail. And that moment, during that car ride home, people often spilled their life stories. He learned so much about heartbreak, being emotionally vulnerable, and the consequences of making poor decisions.

During the pandemic, scammers and con artists have been on the rise. These "Tinder Swindler” types are on dating apps and many other apps such as Clubhouse. And it was on the social audio app Clubhouse when Moose saw the need for his advice around keeping all of us woman safe. And the service he was providing led to the creation of the brand, the “Date Detective” Today, Moose shares his story and his thoughts on safety.

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This week, we welcome back Amy Nobile, the founder of Love, Amy, a dating concierge service based in NYC that helps you find love. Did you know amazing people are disguised as mediocre profiles all over these dating apps? Today, Amy shows us how to sort through profiles like a pro, clarify our core values and why we shouldn't be so quick to judge. She shares why it's important to show who you are every step of the way and how to put the fun back into dating. Showing up as yourself - not your representative; will make you shine and stand out from the rest! Amy discusses her strategies around finding love online, and she encourages you to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes and why it's crucial to have little self-compassion. 

Amy Nobile is an entrepreneur, a mother of two, married young, divorced after 20 years of marriage, then found love on Bumble, recently got engaged, and created a whole new life for herself. Her online dating journey made such an impact that she decided to share with others what worked for her, and Love, Amy was born. She's different from most "Dating Coaches" because she takes a holistic, inside-out look at who you are and what makes you unique, helps you narrow in on your core values, and zone into who you truly want to attract. Amy is a successful author who's published four books. Love, Amy has been featured in the New York Times, Business Insider, and the Today Show. Amy is back to share how to be successful in online dating and ultimately find love.

Kerry Brett and Amy Nobile cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

*Why you should have blind faith that you will find love
*Why your dating success comes down to your mindset, attitude, and belief system
*The importance of highlighting your gifts and why you should be specific and include what makes you uniquely special
*Why being specific and adding the details around what you want in a partner will help you stand out
*Why you should add photographs you think you shouldn't include will set you apart
*How to flirt and have chemistry over texts
*Why to cut cords in the beginning
*Why Amy recommends dressing down for the first date
*Ice breakers and great questions to ask on a date
*Why the profile is not the person
*Amy's famous 30-minute mini screener dates
*Why your profile should reflect where you are in life
*How to bring back the fun in dating Kristin Wiig style

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Let’s face it, Dating can be discouraging and feeling hopeless is (ALL TO) common. Often, we don’t know what we’re doing on these dating apps. So, Today’s goal is to find the hope that we’ve lost. With that said, I’m excited to announce this week’s guest Brian Howie. Time Magazine named Brian - America’s #1 Dating Enthusiast, and he’s the creator of The Great Love Debate, A Live show featured on Bravo. The premise of the show is to sell hope. The Great Love Debate World Tour is just that … Worldwide! And today,Brian has actually landed in Boston and last night at the City Winery, I joined him on stage as one of the featured panelists! In this episode, we discussed what Brian has learned about dating, the differences between men and women, and why the most confident person in the room is the person who owns their weakness. Brian shares tips around making real connections, vulnerability, and how to find love in 60 seconds.

Brian Howie is an-award-winning director, producer, and the author of “How to Find Love in 60 Seconds” he has been the subject of features on FOX, ABC, CNN, Entertainment Weekly, The New Yorker, and Esquire Magazine. The Great Love Debate World tour is now in its ninth season, with over 400 shows inover 100 cities and 13 countries. This greatest social experiment on love has come to Boston for one special night. Brian’s Great Love Debate Podcast has been the world’s #1 dating and relationship since its debut in 2015. Today we learn about this LIVE traveling show and why his mission is to get us all in a room talkingabout love and dating. 

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Today, we're discussing breakups, broken heart, and moving on – and this week’s expert is Janice Formichella. She’s a breakup coach, writer and host of the podcast the Ex-Philes (with a PH, not an F). When you're in the process of a painful breakup, you forget how much power you have and how much is in your control. Believe it or not, you are in charge of how you’ll handle moving forward and can choose how you feel each day. It's common to feel sorry for yourself, and many of us lose our identity, sense of self and worth. Janice shares how to flip the script and how to turn your breakup into a magical opportunity. Janice encourages those struggling to get empowered, beat that breakup and create the life you love. 

Janice Formichella took a painful divorce and turned it into a positive! After recovering from domestic violence and hitting rock bottom in her 30’s, she did the work needed to heal her heartbreak. She decided to share what she learned, support others and help her clients build new lives through one-on-one coaching and by creating her podcast, the Ex-Philes. As a breakup coach, Janice supports those struggling with the pain and confusion of a broken heart and show you how to turn your breakup into an opportunity for something else. With a focus on overcomingloneliness and living a desired-led life, she works with people to become passionate about being their own soulmates and using solo time as a superpower.

Kerry Brett and Janice Formichella cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
*Making yourself feel like a VIP, starting with your morning routine.
*Why you should go to fancy restaurants on your own and don’t be afraid to try Janice’s sexy solo date.
*Why going out on your own makes you feel more confident and increases your chances of meeting someone.
*Be single long enough to become happy with your life, work on your relationship with yourself first because if you’re good on your own, you’ll make better choices in a partner.

To find out more about Janice Formichella, listen to her podcast the Ex-Philes or follow her on Instagram @janiceformichella.

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Today's guest is Astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine, and today she'll discuss why the fall is the perfect timeto fall in love. Autumn has arrived, and you knowwhat that means it’s Cuffing Season! The search to shack up is on! Many are looking for a new love interest to stay warm during these colder months. The fall equinox is an incredible time to take things to the next level if you're single, and Cuffing Season is when singles are more inclined to settle into a serious relationship. Jill lets us know how the planets will affect our love forecast for Autumn of 2022 and what to expect as we kick off Cuffing Season.

Jill Jardine is an astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's also a former radio personality on WATD 95.9 and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. She's also a Reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and chanting mantras can shift outcomes and is an invaluable tool. For over 30 years, she's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves and help with important decisions. Astrology and dating have always gone hand in hand because you can use Astrology to predict the unknown. Jill is back by popular demand, and today she will help us put our dating life into perspective and predict what is coming down the pike.

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Finding that connection and being in a relationship is one of the most critical things in our lives. The million-dollar question is, how do we find that? Or is there another way to find love other than a dating app? Today we’ll find out! This week's guest is Jill Vandor, she’s a dating and relationship coach, love extraordinaire and executive matchmaker at LunchDates - Boston's locally owned matchmaking service that is celebrating 40 years in business. She's been responsible for relationships , marriages, children, and grandchildren. Finding love is serious business for Jill; and in this episode she’ll share how it's done!

Jill Vandor, is an executive matchmaker, dating and relationship coach with over 25 years in the dating industry. Jill has made a career out of getting people into serious relationships. She’s been featured in the Boston Globe, Boston Magazine, the New York Times and Chronicle on WCVB Channel 5 Boston. She is the go-to for successful single professionals in the Greater Boston area as a matchmaker, dating coach and all-around dating expert. Jill and I recently shared the stage at the Great Love Debate that was hosted by Brian Howie at Boston City Winery and I’m so excited to have her on Shot@Love today.

Kerry Brett and Jill Vandor cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

Being present on the date and why you should be genuinely interested in the other person.
Why you should ask a lot of follow up questions on the date.
Jill’s tips for first and second dates.
Why you should avoid talking about your ex, dating in general, and your past history.
Stay away from controversial subjects such as religion or politics.
In dating there will be ups and downs but whatever you do don’t take yourself out of the game.

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Today's topic is how to avoid dating fatigue. Are you burned out from swiping, uninspired by conversations over text, or feeling hopeless when it comes to dating? This week's guest is going to shift our mindset, and her name is Michelle Oliver, she's a business coach, and she's going to show us how we can reframe our thinking so we can cope and continue on our journey (that doesn't need to be so difficult) of finding love. Michelle will share strategies around being open to the unexpected, not taking things to heart, managing our expectations, and having fun along the way.

Michelle has been professionally training and coaching within the small business sector over the last 34 years. For over 30 years, she's been a student of personal development. She's held countless live trainings and workshops and was personally mentored by several high-performance athletic and business trainers, including Peter McLaughlin. She studied and trained with Success Motivation Institute and the Pacific Institute, working as a sale’s professional trainer and coach. Much of her life has been "in-the-trenches" business experience, having built 6 small businesses in various industries. She offers transparent conversations and relevant, valuable content, sharing everything she’s learned of the mosteffective approaches to growing a business, mindset, and skills online and offline.

Kerry Brett and Michelle Oliver recently did a live stream about overcoming dating fatigue which has inspired this episode. Together they cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

How to motivate yourself when things aren’t going well.
How to manage expectations and having zero attachment.
How to move away from disappointment or feelings of discontentment.
Why it’s important to have better thoughts and feelings, leading to a better outcome.
Why it’s important to look at a date as a new business opportunity, an opportunity to make a new friendship, or learn something new.
How to look towards possibilities and move away from the lies we tell ourselves.
How to look for alternate way of meeting new people.

To find out more about Michelle Oliver go to her website www.iammichelleoliver.comor follow her on Instagram @iammichelleoliver and all social media under the same name.

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This week I have the privilege to highlight the incredible story of Charlie Cifarelli. Charlie had everything in life he set out to achieve until one day; his world fell apart over a national story about a dog named Star. What started as a journey to save a dog, in turn, would save him. Star taught Charlie everything he needed to learn about love. Charlie went from having a transactional life with value on useless things and realized what he thought he wanted didn’t make him happy. We look for love because we believe it will complete us – but the truth is LOVE is universal. We can be in a relationship or have a dream home or career, yet often, it does not equate to happiness. Charlie share’s his tips around having a successful relationship, why comparison is the thief of joy, the value of finding purpose and why having gratitude is most important! 

Charlie Cifarelli, is an author, motivational speaker, businessman and dog lover, with a focus on rescues, in fact he has seven! In his early twenties he became homeless and addicted to drugs. He went into recovery after being directed to a Monastery where he got clean and sober, finally after numerous attempts. Circumstances led him to the Midwest where he lived in Nebraska for 25 years working at three maximum security prisons. He worked on death row, connecting with the inmates on a deep level - he became the inmates favorite! After seeing enough sadness - he started a trash business with the hopes of having a life of freedom and happiness which only made him miserably comfortable. It wasn’t until August 13, 2012 that his world would collide with a dog who was reported to be and killed in New York City by a police officer while protecting her owner – who was homeless. For the first time in Charlie’s life he believed in something he couldn’t see at the corner of 14th and  2nd. 

Today, Charlie shares his story of love. Love for his little girl Star “his snoopy” a dog so special - she’s on Wikipedia with the likes of Rin Tin Tin and Lassie. Charlie believes love starts in many places and carries over. He’ll share how rescuing Star connected him with people globally and how love found him in the most unlikely place on the corner of 14th & 2nd. Tune into this beautiful story of redemption, hope and most importantly love.

To find out more about Charlie Cifarelli go to www.charliecifarelli.com for follow on Instagram @charlie_cifarelli or on Facebook under Charlie Cifarelli.

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Today's topic is how to avoid questions that lead to interrogations. Getting to know someone is one thing but placing a person in the hot seat can be stressful and off-putting. Many ask Q&A-style questions because they need to know, but in the early stages of dating, you're on a need-to-know basis. There's a better way to gain information, and that's by listening! This week's guest will lend his expert ear and share strategies for gathering data. His name is Randy "Moose" Gomez, and he's the "Date Detective" and an experienced PI and Bail Bondsman. We'll learn why to avoid pop quizzes, 20 questions – and one-time-at-band-camp stories. And why it's important to remind yourself this is only a date; you're not a cop on CSI; it's a courtship, not Judge Judy's courtroom. 

Randy, AKA "Moose" Gomez, the "Date Detective," is a cowboy and a single dad from New Mexico. He's also a trainer for world champion boxers, on the board of directors for PAL Boxing Club, President of Moose Inc., and founder of the "US" charity. Moose worked as a Bail Bondsman, a Recovery Agent, and a Private Investigator for most of his professional life. During that period, Moose learned a lot about people, especially when he bailed someone out of jail. And at that moment, he listened during that car ride home when people often spilled their life stories. He also learned about the power of listening, and in today's world, we are rarely present. 

A few months ago, I covered how con artists and scammers have doubled online during the pandemic in my episode How to Avoid the Tinder Swindler with the "Date Detective" Randy "Moose" Gomez, and today he's back by popular demand. He'll share strategies around keeping a date, a date not the Spanish Inquisition.

Kerry Brett and Randy "Moose" Gomez cover a lot of ground topics, include;

Why to avoid interrogation style questions.
Instead of directly asking others about their line of work, ask them about their passions. Their passion will tell you a lot about them personally.
The value of the art of listening when getting to know someone else.
Avoid predetermined questions and keep the conversation fluid.
If you're not getting the answers you want – let it go and come back to it at another time.
Why we should avoid over-sharing in the beginning of dating.
Don't rely on an agenda or a list of questions. If you have a rigid agenda, you'll stick to it, and a date should be fluid.
Why the best conversations or interviews are not planned?
When people tell you who they are, believe them.
Get clear about your what and your why. Why are you on the date, and what are you trying to accomplish?

To find out more about Randy “Moose” Gomez and all of his “Date Detective” tips follow on Facebook under Randy Moose Gomez, or on Instagram @randymoosegomez or email him directly at randy-gomez@comcast.net.

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Today we’ll discuss dating faux pas with Flora Ong, dating coach and founder of Redo Love. Flora feels one of the most unattractive things you can do is tell people who you are instead of showing them. People with a lot of unhealed trauma tend to live behind what Flora calls “a meme and a dream."  Flora shares tips around communicating better, trusting yourself, and learning why you attract the kind of people you do. She also shares what she’s learned from multiple failed dating episodes, anxious moments, sleepless nights, and painful lessons. She teaches us how to identify our specific attachment style so we don’t end up dating the same people who will never give us the love we deserve. Flora covers setting boundaries, avoiding wasting time with the wrong people, and stopping questioning yourself or the need to ask your friends for their opinions. You’ll hear how to date better people while finding peace in the process and look for love in all the right places.

Flora Ong is a divorcee and single mother of two. She's also a matchmaker, dating coach, and founder of Redo Love. Flora's sole focus is helping others find peace, trust, and safety in dating. She's a certified life coach and trauma-informed specialist focusing on attachment styles and helps people understand how they were programmed to have the life they do and how to reprogram their subconscious so they can have the life they want. She's a natural connector with a knack for understanding compatibility, and Flora is responsible for hundreds of relationships. She is also an expert at making intuitive matches and helping her clients find the right fit.

Kerry Brett and Flora Ong cover a lot of ground and topics, including;

How to stop ruminating over people who aren’t worth your while.
How to stop looking for security through other people.
The importance of learning about your attachment style.
How to stop living off a meme or a dream?
Why memes can act as barriers or devices to hide behind when texting.
How to get to a place where you trust yourself and do not have to rely on your friends’ opinions?
Why people don’t listen to others’ dating advice? They listen to their subconscious.
How the book Attached was the catalyst and became the blueprint for Flora.
You can cut things off early when you learn to trust your intuition.
Be willing to leave if someone doesn’t meet your standards.
Don’t take things personally; it usually doesn’t have to do with you.

To find out more about Flora Ong, go to her website www.redo.love. Check out her free Webinar and Attachment Style Quiz, or follow her on Instagram @redo.love or on Tik Tok @redo_love.

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Today, we welcome back Flora Ong, the incredible dating coach and founder of Redo Love! And she discusses how to stop responding to low-effort behavior. Engaging in low-effort behavior creates more of the same. It also shows others what we will accept or tolerate. Unfortunately, we avoid cutting off low-effort behavior because we don't want to feel empty or lonely or have to look within ourselves to figure out why we were accepting this kind of behavior from the beginning. Flora shares how understanding yourself and your attachment style is valuable and why once you figure this out– you discover this is something you can control and, in turn, change the outcome. We’ll learn how women give their power away by being easily accessible, readily available, or by responding in a weak moment. And learn how to avoid these traps, understand subconscious manipulations, and why it's human nature to want to keep a connection going but not at the cost of being mistreated. 

Flora Ong is the founder of Redo Love, a dating and relationship coach, and a matchmaker. She has set up 100’s of matches with an 85% success rate. After a failed 14-year marriage, she joined the millions of online/app daters in her search for love. During this process, she discovered she had no idea how to date, love, and be loved. Flora turned all her blunders into a quest to find her way into love and help others who struggled with similar issues. Her focus is to help others identify their blocks around dating to find the love they want while experiencing peace in the process.

 If you’ve listened to my most recent episode, “How to Stop Living off a Meme and a Dream," with Flora Ong – you’ll understand why I immediately had to bring her back for part two. Today we’ll discuss handling text messages, learning when to attach and detach and why the right person feels different to your nervous system.

Kerry Brett and Flora Ong cover a lot of ground topics, including:

How to stop being a lifetime responder or someone who needs to know every little thing or respond to every text?
Why you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.
When things end, you shouldn’t focus on the highlight reel; you should focus on the documentary.
When you find the right one, you won’t need to write lists of why he’s not calling in your note section on your phone, and you won’t feel confused, anxious, or bad about yourself – you’ll feel happy and at peace.
When in doubt, don’t send the text! You can write the text you want to send and take a screenshot so you can remember it the next day but know your power remains in your silence.
Always remember you’re the architect of your destiny and in control of your future. Stop focusing on the negative and focus on the things you want to create more of that.

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Today's episode is titled "A Memoir of Love: How to Embrace New Chapters with novelist Elin Hilderbrand”. Elin Hilderbrand is the author of 28 best-selling books and the queen of the beach read. She’s in town working on her last revisions for book #29! Her muse is the magical island of Nantucket, and her novels include stories of romance, friendships, ex-wives, passionate affairs, and matchmaking. People often wonder how much of Elin's real life is behind these pages - if you think the characters she composes are riveting, wait until you hear her story. She's overcome personal tragedy, heartbreak, divorce, and is an eight-year breast cancer survivor. She relied on discipline, consistency, and determination to overcome it all! We'll hear how she focused on the things she loved…such as writing, her family, her adoring fans, an island 30 miles out, and how having compassion for others gave her strength when she needed it the most. We also hear a romance novelist's advice for finding love. 

Elin Hildebrand is an American novelist who graduated from Johns Hopkins University and later attended the University of Iowa, earning her MFA. After a short stint in publishing and teaching in New York City, she moved to Nantucket permanently in 1994. In the summer of 2000, she published her first novel, the Beach Club. Her 2019 novel, Summer of 69, debuted at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. Five of her books are currently being optioned for movies, and a six-episode limited series has been green-lighted for Netflix. She's also a mother of three who loves cooking, riding her Peloton, and going to the beach.

 Kerry Brett and Elin Hilderbrand cover a lot of ground in this conversation. Topics include;

Why you need to worry about yourself first – do the work on yourself. Once you’re good and strong, you will attract people.
Going out and finding a man won’t fix you. Do things on your own, don’t be afraid to be independent and do something for yourself.
Make your own money because what we find attractive in men are the same things they find attractive in us. Men like women who have their finances in order.
A romance novelist's advice if you feel down on your luck and looking to find that special person.
Elin’s thoughts around a perfect date in Nantucket.
Elin's advice for navigating challenging times.
Having discipline is Elin’s secret power and sets her up for success.

To learn more about Elin’s books or events, visit her website at www.elinhilderbrand.net or follow her on Instagram @elinhilderbrand.

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Do you want to change your dating life and are looking for love - then change your location! Or you could drive to your closest city and change the radius on your dating app, try out a new neighborhood hot spot, or do what this week’s guest Lori Mendelsohn did. Lori Mendelsohn packed up her two dogs at age 66 and moved from Wisconsin to Maine. As a result of this bold and brave move, she started dating someone new and tripled her business. Lori shares how changing her environment changed everything for her. We’ll discuss the many ways you can change it up to change your results, whether that means moving or doing something on a smaller scale, like picking up a new hobby, enrolling in a class, or trying out new technology (such as a new app) to meet people. Lori also discusses how focusing on herself works for her, and loving her new location doesn’t hurt either.

Lori Mendelsohn is a matchmaker, dating coach, Dating profile writer, and an award-winning entrepreneur. She writes unique profiles that help you tell your story by adding personality, heart, and humor to stand out from the rest. When Lori writes, you find love. People resonate with her because she is in the dating game herself and has met many terrific men. Today we catch up with her to hear what she’s learned about love by relocating.

Kerry Brett and Lori Mendelsohn cover a lot of ground topics, including;
How relocating got Lori out of a rut and improved her love life and business.
Why it’s important to live in the present moment when it comes to finding love.
If you are afraid to get out of your comfort zone, remember you are your safety net and the only one you can truly count on.
If you want to change, be the change you want to be.
Do away with preconceived notions, release any expectations about meeting a person, and try to enjoy the moment without attachment to the outcome.

To learn more about Lori Mendelsohn, her coaching, and upcoming courses, follow her on Instagram @smartfunnysingle.

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In this new calendar year, what are we going to do differently? And what tools do we need to get from where we are to where we want to go? When we show up differently, what shows up for us is different. Today, we discuss the astrological forecast for the new year with well-known astrologer Jill Jardine. Jill will explain why love is in the cards for you in 2023 while sharing her predictions about romance and identifying the best times to date, how to set the tone for the upcoming year, and shift our mindset to align with the new energies and opportunities that lie ahead in the new year! Jill helps us prepare to pull in a new love interest – get intentional about what we want to manifest while sharing a snapshot of this new year. 

Jill Jardine is a professional astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's also a former radio personality on WATD and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill has been a reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and for over 30 years, she's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves while helping guide others with important decisions. Jill is my dear friend and my psychic healer who's predicted so many things in my life! In this week's episode, Jill shares why we can usher in anything we want in 2023 and what to expect in this new year! 

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Today’s guest is Sarah Levy; she’s a writer in recovery and author of the new book “Drinking Games.” At the age of 28, Sarah, on paper, looked like she had it all together, a great job – and a successful life that was on track. The truth was she felt empty and alone, suffered from blackouts, and repeatedly put herself in dangerous situations. Sarah thought using alcohol helped heal her broken heart, empowered her to date, and quenched her thirst for validation. But drinking only numbed her pain and dimmed her light as she dated different kinds of men, feeling perpetually hung over and spiritually bankrupt. When she gave up alcohol, she thought her life was over. But for Sarah, her last sip was the moment when her life started. In sobriety, she fell in love, changed careers, moved across the country, got married, published a must-read book, and became the woman she is today. If you’re looking to change your relationship with alcohol, are sober curious, or want to be inspired, then this episode is for you!

Sarah Levy is the author of Drinking Games, a memoir in essays from St. Martin’s Press. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, New York Magazine (The Cut), Glamour, Elle, Vogue, Refinery29, and Cosmopolitan, among other publications. Sarah has written articles such as “Falling In Love Without Alcohol” and “Giving Up Alcohol Made Me Date Again Like a Teenager.” Drinking Games has been named most anticipated by Good Morning America, Good Day DC, the LA Times, New York Post, Zibby Mag, Buzzfeed Books, Pure Wow, and Apple Books to name a few. And the favorable reviews keep on coming! Sarah is a graduate of Brown University and lives in Los Angeles by way of New York City.

I’m excited to feature Sarah on Shot@Love today and admire her greatly for spreading awareness around sobriety and her goals to change the culture around addiction and alcoholism. I hope you enjoy this conversation.

To learn more about Sarah Levy, go to www.sarahllevy.com or follow her on Instagram @sarahllevy.

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There is a difference between giving up and realizing when you’ve had enough—today’s guest is Jennifer Hurvitz, and she understands the power of ending a relationship that isn’t serving you. In fact, she’s written a whole book about it called Midlife Priceless, and yes, I said priceless, not midlife crisis. In the past, Jennifer stayed too long in her marriage, put up with far too much in previous relationships, and recently found the courage to leave her last relationship. She shares why you need to trust your intuition and respect yourself enough to call it quits. And why sometimes throwing in the towel and moving on is the most important thing you can do when choosing yourself. Jennifer shares some of her Hurvitz Hot Tips, her favorite dating apps, and why dating doesn’t need to be a disaster. 

Jennifer Hurvitz is a relationship expert, dating coach, best-selling author, and host of the award-winning Doing Relationships Right Podcast. Through her books and weekly podcast, Jennifer helps people understand what a happy relationship can look like and how to dip their toes back into the dating world post-divorce. Jennifer has been highlighted by Oprah Daily, where her book Woulda Coulda Should: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married was chosen as one of the best marriage books to read with your partner for a healthy relationship! Jennifer speaks all over the country, and her expert opinions have been featured in publications like Forbes, Scary Mommy, Women’s Health, Bustle, Divorced Mom, and BluntMoms.

Kerry Brett and Jennifer Hurvitz cover a lot of ground; topics include:
Key takeaways from Midlife Priceless.
Jennifer Hurvitz tips for doing relationships right.
How to know when to call it quits.
The importance of a non-negotiable list.
The value of looking at your five year plan.
Why you should never put what you don’t want in your dating profile.
If you can’t show up with an optimistic attitude when online dating wait until you can because otherwise you’ll be wasting your time and others.
If you lack confidence and have low-self worth, take more time before you begin dating.
Without communication, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no love, without trust, there is no reason to continue.
Happy divorces, happy dating, happy relationships, happy marriages, they all take work. But the most important relationship you have is the one you have with yourself.

To learn more about Jennifer Hurvitz and purchase her books, you can do so at www.jenniferhurvitz.com. Follow on Instagram @doingrelationshipsright or listen to Jennifer’s podcast Doing Relationships Right on all platforms. 

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Today's topic is Moving on! Moving on is a time to level up, learn how to step into our power to create the life we want, and go for it! Michelle Dempsey-Multack, knows all about Moving On; she’s written a book about it and host's the podcast Moms Moving On sharing her advice as a Divorce & Co-Parenting specialist. You can embrace this time and realize nothing is holding you back. It's time to decide what we want to change while consciously choosing to build a better life for ourselves. Michelle shares how she found beauty in a situation that almost broke her. And why your cup isn't half full of half empty, it’s refillable because loss leaves you in a place to be filled up with all good things. And why, damn it – it feels so good to be moving on! 

Michelle Dempsey-Multack is a writer, mom, coach, speaker, and genuine girl power enthusiast. Michelle attended American University as a Journalism major, graduated from Hofstra’s communications program with a bachelor’s degree in Communications, and then earned a Double Master’s Degree in Education from Adelphi University. Originally from New York, Michelle moved to Miami in her late 20’s, where the “second part of her life” began. She married her daughter’sfather, got divorced and years later remarried and lives in North Miami Beach raising a beautiful blended family. She’s been featured in US Weekly, Parents Magazine, Scary Mommy, Forbes, Elite Daily, Ocean’s Drive, HuffPost, NBC, and Good Morning America to name a few.

In this episode Michelle shares her wisdom, and life experiences that will help anyone in the process of Moving On. 

Kerry Brett and Michelle Dempsey-Multack cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

Your break-up or divorce should be the center of your universe not your friends center. Why you should have boundaries with friends.
How to manage the rage when you are left alone to pick up the pieces.
Why journaling is a practice to manage your fears, anxiety or what you want for your future.
How to unravel and manage gaslighting.
How to learn to trust yourself again when moving on.
How Michelle learned to move away from toxic men out of the fear of being alone.
Why we need to remind ourselves or remind our children that we don’t settle, and we don’t let people treat us for less than we are worth.
There is a big difference between being alone and lonely.
The what if and the what is very helpful for parents who are in the beginning of co-parenting. 
Why can’t see clearly when you are run by emotion.
Boundaries will be your best friend when moving on.
No response is a response and why you don’t need to have the last word.

To find out more about Michelle Dempsey-Multack or purchase her book Moms Moving On go to www.momsmovingon.com. Follow on Instagram at @themichelledempsey and listen to her podcast Moms Moving On on all platforms.

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This week's topic is finding the key to unbreakable confidence. You must put yourself out there– when looking for love, you can fake it until you make it or fail it to nail it! We all have failures of epic proportions and go through several failed relationships, which are inevitable, but they can also provide valuable opportunities. Today's guest is Ben Currier, the World’s #1 Biggest Failure and host of the podcast The Failure Guy. Ben was fired repeatedly and couldn’t figure out why he wasn't succeeding. He'll share why failure has many benefits, like getting honest with yourself and improving self-awareness. Failing inspires creativity and encourages innovative solutions to problems. And why we can quickly turn it around and go in another direction because we all have a get out of fail free card. 

Self-proclaimed World's #1 Failure Ben Currier hosts the ironically successful “Failure Guy” podcast. His podcast currently has a global reach: that Spotify-owned Chartable ranks higher than 99.8% of all Podcasts. Ben spent 15 years in corporate America, financially forecasting billions of dollars across multiple industries. He is an Excel guru, 4-time Microsoft MVP Award Winner, and creator of one of the six Best Online Excel Classes per Investopedia. His Excel training has over 25 million minutes of listening time, and he’s helped millions with his online Excel training. 

Despite these successes, Ben has been fired from every jobhe’s had. This has inspired him to investigate failure while working hard to turn his setbacks into success. He inspires others across the country through his hit podcast, public speaking engagements and has interviewed many big names, such as Carole Baskin, and William Hung, to name a few.

Ben shares his incredible journey and what he's learned in the process so we can find our unbreakable inner confidence in our abilities when dating.

Ben Currier the World’s #1 Failure and Kerry Brett the World’s #2 Failure cover a lot of ground discussing how failures led both of us to success in both dating and life. Topics include;
Why people hold themselves back because of the fear of failure and how to overcome.
How to use clothing to raise your confidence.
Why you should take a chance to stand out in online dating.
Why you should be weirder than you are.
Take risks in texts and stop trying to be like everyone else.
Remember to remind yourself that no one is perfect and that everyone is flawed.
Why having low expectations is helpful while hoping for the best outcomes.
Dating is a percentage game, the more dates you go on–the more comfortable you’ll get and the higher the chance you’ll have of succeeding.
Don’t be afraid to fail! Do at least one thing on a date outside of your comfort because that’s where the magic happens.
Fake it until you make it or Fail it until you nail either way will work. And remember action creates reaction.

Listen to Ben’s Failure Guy podcast that can be found on all platforms, follow on Instagram @failureguyben, or on Twitter.

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Have you ever wondered why men don't call back, disappear into thin air, or can’t commit? Today, we will uncover the most common mistakes women make and how to avoid them. In honor of Valentine's Day, "aka" (National Single Awareness Day), and Shot@Love's 3rd anniversary, we have the greatest guest imaginable. Dr. John Gray! Dr. John Gray is the most well-known relationship expert in the world! He's the author of the highly acclaimed, widely popular, and most trusted relationship book of all time; Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the 10 most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the bestselling book of the 90s. Dr. Gray's books are translated into over 45 languages in more than 100 countries, and it continues to be a bestseller.

Dr. Gray has written over twenty books, his most recent is Beyond Mars and Venus. His books have forever changed the way men and women view their relationships. John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, Today, CBS this Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by the late Barbara Walters. 

Today we'll learn how to manage our emotions, approach dating and relationships differently, and stop sabotaging ourselves. Dr. John Gray will point us in the right direction and show us how to win over our potential partner so we can avoid pain and experience more love. 

Kerry Brett and Dr. John Gray cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

Why men are attracted to women who are happy, and how do you stay happy do more of what you love.
Why men are more motivated when they feel they are needed.
Why men get close but need to pull away.
The best times to have a conversation with a man.
How men and women keep score differently.
Ways to score points with both women and men.
The power of being direct and using few words.
Men are motivated to make you happy. Men expect you to be happy and don’t want someone who’s always unhappy or complaining. Just having a good time is the greatest gift a man can receive.
Women often hand their power over to men, which is a worthiness issue. Know that you are desirable and worthy, and you don’t have to earn it.
Men want to feel accepted and appreciated. Women need to trust that a man is doing his best, and when you accept and appreciate him, you give him the fuel and motivation to do more.

John’s course “How to Get Everything You Want in Relationships For Women, Men, Couples, and Singles” https://marsvenus.com/gift. John has an upcoming two-day class that will change your life on March 4-5. It’s limited to just 40 seats, so click the link to claim yours! https://www.marsvenus.com/relationship-weekend

Follow on social media www.twitter.com/marsvenus, www.facebook.com/Mars.Venus.John.Gray, www.instagram.com/johngraymarsvenus_official/ 

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Today's topic is how to genuinely put yourself out there because people who do – have success, especially when finding love. And this week's guest has no problem in that department! He shows up as himself and handles rejections graciously. Get ready for … William Hung! William Hung became an instant celebrity with his rendition of Ricky Martin's song "She Bangs" during American Idol, which went viral. When he didn't get the golden ticket or hear "you're going to Hollywood," he stated, "he did his best and had no regrets," and the world fell in love with him. Today, William shares his setbacks in love. You may not know, but he's been divorced twice and discusses his inspirational journey to find love with his fiancé… And why sometimes you need relationships that didn't work to get it right. 

William Hung is a former American singer who gained fame through his audition on the third season of American Idol in 2003. He acquired notoriety with his off-key performance of Ricky Martin's song of "She Bangs," He instantly became a household name for his unique dance moves and enthusiastic personality. Following his audition, he became a motivational speaker and has spoken to audiences worldwide about his experiences and the importance of pursuing one's dreams. William went from being laughed off stage to having a number-one hit to singing "She Bangs" live with Ricky Martin in 2018.

Kerry Brett and William Hung cover a lot of ground. Topics include:

William's online dating experience.
William's Dad pretended to be William online to help him find love.
William's lessons from past failed relationships.
Throughout the hard years, William never gave up or lost hope.
When looking for love, focus on core values and having activities you both like to do together.
Beauty can change over time, but beauty on the inside will never change. Remember the line from She Bangs – she looks like a flower but stings like a bee. Avoid choosing a relationship based solely on looks.
Stay away from secrets because harboring secrets creates a less satisfying relationship. Even small secrets can prevent closeness and create problems. 

To learn more about William Hung and his upcoming speaking engagements and podcast, follow him on Instagram @williamhungofficial.

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Today's topic is a breath of fresh air "Why Spring is the Best Time to Start a Relationship." With the arrival of spring just around the corner, people are excited to embrace the season of new beginnings. As the sun shines and days grow longer, the outdoors bloom with the possibility of new connections. People are happier, hearts more open, and the spring air is filled with the promise of love. Our resident astrologer, the fabulous psychic healer Jill Jardine, shares the best dates toput a spring in your step, kick off a new romance, and bask in the warmth of a fresh spring fling. 

Jill Jardine is a therapist, professional astrologer and spiritual advisor.  For over 30 years, she’s helped thousands of people find the power and confidence within themselves to make decisions to move forward with ease and joy. If you feel stuck and unfulfilled it could be caused by your subconscious, limiting beliefs or past-life agreements. Today, Jill will share how easy it is to tap into your higher self and live you’re your best life. 

In this episode Jill shares her astrology update for the Spring of 2023 and give us a breakdown of March, April, May and June for dating.

Kerry Brett and Jill Jardine cover a lot of ground and focus on why spring is the best time to start a relationship. Topics include;

The new season, with longer days and warmer weather, will make people more open and excited to date.

Jill discusses why March is the perfect month to start dating as all planets are traveling direct until April 21st, with no retrograde planets to hold anyone back.

Jill also notes that March is an astrologically significant month, with Saturn leaving Aquarius and moving into Pisces, signifying a whole new three-year cycle. This is an ideal time to re-evaluate your relationships and begin anew.

Pluto also enters Aquarius on March 23rd, signifying a new era of connection and connectivity. For dating, this means people will quickly determine whether someone is their tribe or vibe.

It’s manifestation time, where people can create a new reality around their love life.

All of this positive astrological energy will encourage others to spring into action and start something new.

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This week’s episode is all about persistence. If you want something, you have to go after it with everything you’ve got, which couldn’t be truer when finding love. Today, we’re joined by Keisha Stubbs, who shares her inspiring story of love, loss, and redemption. From hitting rock bottom to rising to the top, Keisha is a testament to the power of persistence and the importance of never giving up on finding love. When finding love, anything is possible if you’re willing to put in the work. Keisha will share how she met the love of her life, recently got engaged, and why sometimes you need to hit rock bottom to rock it! 

Keisha Stubbs is the author of the book "Close or be Closed, How A Teen Mom Sold Her Way Out Of Poverty. Keisha hit rock bottom early in life when she ended her High School career by fighting her way to graduation with a 4-month-old baby on her hip. When Keisha was 23, her boyfriend and her son's father was murdered, making her a single mother. The following year she lost everything, her apartment, car, and job. Keisha climbed the ladder in the automotive industry, going from the salesperson of the year to sales manager. Recently she ran for office and started a new business, the Artisan Markets. She founded the non-profit Tied Together, which is geared towards helping children. Her life purpose is to inspire and help people who've been dealt a bad hand.

Keisha Stubbs emphasizes the importance of persistence and never giving up on finding love. She also discusses the value of putting yourself first and creating a space someone else would want to share with you. Kerry Brett shares dating tips inspired by Keisha's story, including being who you want to attract, acting like a wife if you want to be a wife, and being consistent in putting yourself out there. This episode is a reminder that anything is possible if you're willing to do the work and never give up on finding love.

To find out more about Keisha Stubbs, follow on Instagram @keishavstubbs. To find out more about the Artisan Markets go to www.artisanmarkets.com.

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This week we will learn about Lola, a new dating app launching in Boston and New York this summer. Today's guest is Paul English the founder of six startups and co-founder of Kayak, a travel industry giant he sold to Priceline for 1.8 billion dollars. Paul is passionate about finding a better way and uses his creativity to solve problems. Years ago, when online dating himself - Paul could identify issues and became compelled to solve the frustrations many faced with existing dating apps. It was a match on Bumble with Rachel Cohen, who became his girlfriend, and now the couple is taking on a new challenge with the upcoming launch of their dating app, Lola. Through Lola, Paul and Rachel plan on creating a new way to connect. Paul shares the vision and inspiration behind Lola, and learn about the exciting possibilities that lie ahead for this new dating app. 

Paul English is the founder of Boston Venture Studio and he’s also an entrepreneur, and philanthropist who has previously co-founded and successfully sold six startups – Kayak, Lola, Moonbeam, GetHuman, Boston Light, and Intermute. Paul is also the founder of four nonprofits – Summits Education in Haiti, Embrace Boston, The Winter Walk for Homelessness, and The Bipolar Social Club. Paul is the subject of Tracy Kidder's book "A Truck Full of Money" and you can hear an interview with Paul on "How I Built This" with Guy Raz and view his video from TEDxBoston in 2022. I’ve watched and listened to it all and I can’t tell you how special this man is!

Kerry Brett and Paul English discuss the common struggles many have with online dating and how Paul plans on changing the online dating culture and improve and simplify the over dating experience.

How Lola will filter out terrible daters.
How Lola will use A1 to give the users better matches.
Lola will be very safe for women.
Lola will have a component built into the app that will find a place in the middle for you to meet.
How Lola will use machine learning to help find you a better date.
Lola will cut down catfishing.
Lola will filter out people who don't practice good behavior.

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You have the power to transform your life and write your own love story, and today we'll hear from a special guest who did just that. Lisa Shield is a world-renowned love, dating, and relationship coach whose journey to love didn't start as a fairy tale. It began as an unhappily married fashion photographer who entered the dark room and emerged into a lighted hallway when she realized the stories we tell ourselves dictate who we become. We make it up, all of it. Lisa decided that if she was making it up, she might as well make it good. And that she had the power to change her life, take control of the narrative, and write a new story. She divorced, changed the portrait of a woman who was always sad, left a dysfunctional relationship, and embarked on a path of self-discovery. In two years, she went on 95 dates. On the 96th date, she met her husband, who encouraged her to become one of the first love coaches twenty years ago. 

Lisa Shield is a love, dating, and heart-opening ninja with two decades of experience. She is a pioneer in the field of love coaching. Lisa earned a master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach. She has been a featured expert in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, ABC News, and Cosmopolitan, to name a few. Last year, twelve of Lisa's clients were married, and she officiated four of those weddings. She and her husband, Benjamin, have been together for over 20 years and live with their two dogs in Santa Fe, New Mexico. 

Today we discuss what men want in a woman, and Lisa shares her wisdom while encouraging us to take power back and take control of our love life. Kerry Brett and Lisa Shield cover a lot of ground and topics, including:

Tips around the importance of being present on the first date.
Small acts of kindness, caring, and being a great listener can go a long way on the date.
Getting emotionally naked is the most challenging part, but if you let your guard down will gain an extra point on the date.
Look for your final five. Throw away the list that everyone has and create a relationship inventory that will lead you to your final five. And remember, he doesn't have the final five; you can't date him.
Men want to be hunters, and if we have a checklist and put them in a box, men are very sensitive to a woman who want to take away their freedom and clip their wings.
We must move away from looks; are we choosing someone from our heads or hearts?
There is a difference between being a strong, successful woman and being competitive.
Stop creating rules; every hoop you put up is another restriction on men. Men don't like jumping through hoops. Men want women who make their world bigger because you're in it.
No man is going to allow women to put them on a shortlist. You must understand that a man's bandwidth is smaller than a woman's.
There is a big difference between genuine emotion and drama.
We have to learn how to talk to men without getting passive-aggressive.
Lisa’s five shifts to find love.

To learn more about Lisa Shield, visit www.com, Instagram @lisashieldcoaching, and on Facebook under lisashieldcoaching. Listen to her podcast Finding the Guardian of Your Soul on all platforms where podcasts are found.

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Today, we’re diving into the scary world of ghosting, which is all too familiar to many of us. Ghosting is the ultimate silent treatment and is the practice of someone ending a relationship without explanation and withdrawing from all communication. It's painful, cruel, and can be psychologically damaging. A brutal rejection leaves us confused, hurt, and alone. But fear not because this week's guest is leading a crusade to combat this emotional epidemic. Meet Gretta Perlmutter, the host of Coping with Ghosting, A podcast that helps people navigate heartbreak with hope and courage. Gretta is a mindset coach with a master's degree in communications and a heart full of compassion. Her goal is spreading kindness and understanding, and she'll share her strategies with us today. If you’ve been ghosted one too many times and are struggling to make sense of it all, this episode is for you!

Gretta is on an anti-ghosting mission, helping people handle heartbreak and loss while teaching others how to move on confidently. She started a movement of compassion due to getting ghosted one too many times, leaving her alienated, upset, and angry. Gretta blamed herself for being ghosted and spent time trying to figure out what she did wrong. She questioned her self-worth and wallowed in self-pity. The positive was – the more she got ghosted, the quicker she got over it and learned that ghosting is not personal. She discovered hurt people - hurt people and cultivated compassion for her ghosts.

Gretta shares how she realized ghosted had less to do with her and more to do with other people’s issues. She also shares what's worked for her in the past and how to move forward while becoming stronger and more resilient than before. 

Kerry Brett and Gretta Perlmutter cover all things ghosting and feature the song Ghosting by artist Gustavo Zaiah, whose song is the theme song for the Coping with Ghosting podcast and is available for purchase on Amazon. Topic includes:

Breaking the silence: strategies for confronting ghosting.
Don’t ghost yourself; how to go from haunted to healed.
Ghostbusting 101: tools and techniques for dealing with ghosting.
Understanding why people disappear.
The impact of ghosting and how to fight back.
How to empower yourself and move on from ghosting.

To learn more about Gretta Perlmutter, you can find more information on her website www.copingwithghosting. Follow her on Instagram @copingwithghosting and listen to her podcast, Coping with Ghosting, on all platforms where podcasts are found.

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Today’s topic is the 5 secrets to lasting love and this week’s guests are the dynamic duo of John David Mann and Ana Gabriel Mann, a married couple who have mastered the art of sustaining love. They’ll share the secret sauce in their book The Go-Giver Marriage. Their success came down to one word: giving – And they harnessed the power of generosity to keep their love burning bright, even in the face of adversity. They share real-life examples of how these secrets played out in their relationship, while giving us a glimpse of how it can play out in ours. It's not enough to know the secrets, it's about practicing them too. And with practice comes improvement – it doesn’t make your love perfect, but it does make your love better. Because there is no point in finding love if we can’t keep it. Get ready to take some notes and fall in love, with this couple and story. 

John David Mann is the co-author of more than thirty books, including four New York Times bestsellers and five national bestsellers, with over 3 million books sold in 38 languages. His works include The Go-Giver (co-authored with Bob Burg), which won the Axiom Business Book Award, and cited on Inc.’s “Most Motivational Books Ever Written” and Hubspot’s “20 Most Highly Rated sales books of all Time”; The Go-Giver Leader  was listed on Entrepreneur magazine’s “10 Books Every Leader Should Read” and Forbes magazine’s “8 Books Every Young Leaders Should Read." Aside from his books, John has written for notable publications like the Financial Times, CNBC, Huffington post, Ivey Business Journal and Wired.

Ana Gabriel Mann is a Psychotherapist, who holds a master’s degree in clinical psychology and is also a life and relationship coach, teacher, speaker, and mediator, she is the creator and lead facilitator of the Go-Giver Marriage Coaches training program and co-author of the Go-Giver Marriage.

John and Ana will talk about the spirit of generosity, because the more you give, the more you have. To find out more about John David Mann go to www.johndavidmann.com and to learn more about Ana go to www.gogivermarriage.com.

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Imagine stepping outside your door and meeting someone new and life-changing, no matter where you choose - whether it’s an art show, an exhibition, or even a car show. The possibilities are endless, and the world is your playground. Today's guest believes it is up to you to choose where you play – his name is Johnny Cassell, London's premier Elite Dating Coach, and Men's Lifestyle Strategist. Johnny believes your social network is the key to your success in any area of life, and he shares strategies for creating the right social circle to meet quality people. We dive into the power of familiarity and association and how it impacts interactions with others. And why breaking patterns of people's expectations can lead to new exciting experiences. So, get ready to shake things up and learnhow to take your social life to the next level with Johnny Cassell. 

Johnny Cassell is the best-selling author of Elite Seduction – Actionable Tools for Love, Seduction and Dating. Johnny helps men from all over the world attract the type of women they truly desire. He’s personally coached over 2,000 men including CEO’S of some of the world largest companies, celebrities and royalty. He’s racked 100,000 coaching hours and lead over 200 international workshops. He’s been featured twice on the cover of Times Magazine, appeared in the Sunday Times, The Evening Standard, The Express, The Daily Mail, Cosmopolitan, The Metro, BBC Radio to name a few. Johnny recently appeared on the UK hit reality show Made in Chelsea and he’s also the host of the Johnny Cassell Podcast.

To find out more about Johnny Cassell go to www.johnnycassell.com or follow on Instagram at @londondatingcoach.

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Today’s topic is the power of manifestation: The magic of Mantras and Metta. We’ll learn how Sanskrit chants can help you find your match. If you’re looking for love, then this episode is for you. Joining us today is the amazing Astrologer Jill Jardine, and her new course Sanskrit Mantras for Love, is changing lives, and she shares her strategies with us. So, get ready to align your chakras, raise your vibration, and find your soulmate. Because when you radiate positivity, confidence, and authenticity, you become irresistible to others. We also discuss how to recalibrate and raise your vibration because it’s time to attract your perfect match.

Jill Jardine is a professional astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She’s also a former radio personality on WATD and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. Jill has been a reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and for over 30 years, she’s helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves while helping guide others with important decisions. 

We’ve got some incredible tips guaranteed to help you attract the partner of your dreams. At least one of these powerful techniques will resonate with you–or you can try all three. We also discuss the importance of inner knowing and having blind trust.

To find out more about Jill Jardine, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com.

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Are you tired of swiping through countless profiles and having no connection? Do you struggle to come up with funny one liner’s or grab the attention of others? Today we learn how to make the most of your profile using Chat GPT! Dr. Duana Welch, the author of Love Factually, has been using Chat GPT to assist her clients in creating profiles that help them stand out in a crowd. From catchy opening lines to interesting taglines and everything in between, Chat GPT can help generate ideas, spark creativity, and offer suggestions making you the talk of the town. With its advanced capabilities, Chat GPT helps you create a write up that reflects your personality while showcasing your best qualities so you can bring in the one, you're meant to have.

Dr. Duana Welch is the first dating-and-relationship coach and author to use science rather than opinion to help men and women all over the world find and keep the love of their lives. She’s a favorite guest on this podcast, a former psychology professor, an expert for the couples’ relationship app Paired, a writer for Psychology Today, and the author of the famous book now out in five languages: Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do.

Already great at profiles—or hate writing? No worries: by the end of today’s podcast, you’ll know how to leverage Chat GPT to boost your creativity and—if you’d rather not create your ad yourself--do the heavy lifting for you. Hate technology? No problem: you can DIY if you don’t want to deal with AI. It’s all here, now.

Kerry Brett and Dr. Duana Welch dive into the exciting world of Chat GPT and learn how it can help you find love, and Dr. Duana Welch shares  what she knows about this cutting-edge technology to find your person and create a profile based on science, not opinion, no matter who you are. 

To find out more about Dr. Duana Welch's work go to www.lovesciencemedia.com.

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This week’s guest is Karina Solomon, and she’s a relationship, intimacy and style makeover expert. Today we’re talking about something that goes beyond clothing. Karina’s approach to styling involves redefining who we are and dressing congruently with how we feel about our new and improved selves. She believes that when we feel confident on the inside, it shows on the outside. This episode is all about creating the life you want and dressing the part to match. Whether you’re looking to make a statement at a networking event or feel like a million bucks on a date, Karina’s tips will help you help get noticed. Get ready to take some notes because you won’t want to miss the valuable insights Karina has to share. 

Karina Solomon is the author of Sassy, Sexy and Starting Over. She guides divorcées, and others after any life transition to clear their past and design an irresistible future. Karina teaches the keys to confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. Her communication, coaching, and facilitation style is bold and edgy, and infused with humor. She seeks to empower both men and women to be their authentic, unadulterated selves. Karina is a credentialed teacher with over two decades of experience providing image makeovers and relationship coaching for men and women to facilitate her clients in becoming the best version of themselves, especially when starting over. 

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Did you know that in the process of finding love one of the most powerful thingsyou can do is surrender, surrender to the timing, surrender to your past mistakes and surrender to the process. Today’s guest is Kute Blackson and he’s a renowned transformational speaker, and national best-selling author of the book You.Are.The.One and Kute has a new revelation for us–a new book The Magic of Surrender, a guide that will help you navigate through these challenging times. Prepare to tap into your true greatness, and yes find love. When you let go of the constraints of when and how? Love will arrive in your life! Kute will show us how to dismantle the barriers that have held you back for far too long. Get ready tounlock a world of freedom, and infinite possibilities, which is all on the other side of surrender. 

Kute Blackson, was born the son of the “Miracle Man” of Ghana, by the age 8 he was speaking to hundreds of thousands, and by the time he was 14 years old he was an ordained minister. By the age of 18 his soul told him not to take over his father’s ministry in the UK, and with a little over 1,000 dollars in his pocket he left to pursue his dreams in America and has never looked back. Kute has been recognized as the “Mindfulness guru that billionaires go to for advice” by Inc Magazine. He has been featured on The Larry King Now Show, Dr. Drew, NPR, Fox and Friends, Mind Body Green, and many more. The “Magic of Surrender” has been endorsed by Jack Canfield, Les Brown, John Gray, Anthony William, Barbara de Angelis, and Martha Beck to name a few. Kute’s work has changed thousands of lives around the world, so get ready to be highly motivated and experience the transformative power of his depth, and practical wisdom.

Why a relationship is a mirror manifestation of yourself.
Are you open and available for love?
What do I need to change within myself that I need to shift to pull in someone different?
How to shift the focus of looking at past relationships as failures, their helped
People create the same experiences over and over again until we learn – all lessons are repeated until learn.
You can’t become someone different if you’re in victim or in blame.
When you go into surrender you can get honest with yourself.
Relationships are feedback and if you don’t like what you are seeing change yourself.
How to stop the scarcity mindset and feeling desperate around finding love.
How to stop attracting a relationship from a need base.
Unconscious payoffs for not changing or transforming.
How to accept and tell the truth to yourself about what needs to change in your life.

To find out more about Kute Blackson's work, retreat and books go to www.kuteblackson.com. See below for his links.

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kuteblacksonlovenow
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/kuteblackson
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kuteblackson09
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kute-blackson-35755519/
Life changing event to Bali: www.boundlessblissbali.com

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Are you tired of repeating the same patterns and pulling in the wrong type of person? Do you keep ending up with someone emotionally unavailable or unhealthy for you? Today’s guest is here to help! Dr. Duana Welch, best-selling author, and relationship coach, shares how you can intellectually and logically find love that lasts. Duana experienced this struggle firsthand, having married two alcoholics despite not drinking herself. But she didn’t let that hold her back. Instead, she turned to her own book, “Love Factually,” and used the ten proven steps from “I Wish to I Do” to find happiness with her new husband. Now, she helps others break free from toxic patterns and make better choices by using social science to see clearly. Get ready to learn how to find the love you want by using the power of science.

Duana Welch has been a professor at universities in Florida, California, and Texas for 20 years and has contributed to NPR, PBS, Psychology Today, Redbook, and Huffington Post, to name a few. Her first book, Love Factually: 10 Prove Steps from I Is to I Do, is now out globally in five languages; Its revised and updated edition released in 2022. Love Factually for Single Parents is specifically geared toward finding the right partner for readers and their families and the Love Factually Single series. All of Duana’s books rely on science rather than opinion to help others find and keep the right partners. She is an expert for Paired, the couple’s relationship app, and she’s all things heart, soul, and science.

Duana has written a series of books filled with relationship advice but only writes books she needs. Today she shares with us the advice we need.

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Are you settling for a better-than-nothing relationship? This week’s guest is standup comedian and dating coach Paul Roseberry, and he shares tips on how to avoid being trapped in relationships that don’t fulfill your needs. Paul brings in an objective perspective – as he’s someone with a hawk’s view because it’s easier for someone who’s not emotionally involved to see what’s happening. When emotions run high, logic becomes less. Are you wondering if you’re in a relationship or a situationship? He’ll share telltale signs to help us differentiate between genuine connections and temporary arrangements. And discuss how the way present yourself matters as it influences the type of relationships you attract and why no one will overpay if they don’t have too. And how to make sure you’re not undervalued or taken for granted. 

Paul Roseberry is a Los Angeles based nationally headlining stand-up comedian and relationship coach both in person and as host of the podcast “Best Dating Advice... EVER!”. Paul’s comedy and relationship perspectives are designed to take a look at life from a bird’s eye view and make connections that most of us may otherwise never notice. Both of these crafts aim to make life more fun for just about anybody!

Becoming a dating coach was not a conscious intention at first and began with helping one co-worker to repair a breakup during a lunch break. After this, the word began to travel and other co-workers and even his real estate clients began approaching him for advice. After hearing consistent praise from everyone who sought his help, Paul decided to take on paying clients and his success rate continued. Already a fan of public speaking and a lover of scalable, reproducible modules, Paul created his podcast to reach a wide net of listeners and offer firm solutions to common dating and relationships problems in bite size, easy to use practices. Paul’s “Super Power” is recognizing that today’s men are in need of positive role models who can reinforce the value of masculinity, build confidence on a personal level and bring awareness of a man’s role in a balanced and healthy relationship and he believes he’s just the guy to deliver this message! Using organization, logic and reason, Paul builds a road map to navigating relationships that makes them as simple as driving, as long as you understand the signs, lines and lanes. 

To find out more about Paul his website is PaulRoseberry.com and media links:
Instagram: @Paul_Roseberry_Comedy Facebook: facebook.com/Paul.Roseberry.94 

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Are you looking to enhance your dating life? What if how your skin looks on the outside affected the way you feel about yourself on the inside? And what if having increased confidence could hold the key to finding love? Today we'll explore the impact of beauty on relationships with Janice Pringle, owner of the groundbreaking serum, Reverse. Janice understands the transformative power of feeling youthful, having experienced it firsthand after her divorce. Her journey led her to find love and marry a man 11 years younger – inspiring her to create a new career path. Driven to capture the essence of youth, Janice developed Reverse—A revolutionary beauty line that boosts confidence and helps you feel fabulous. Stay tuned as Janice reveals her secrets to starting over, finding love, and looking your best. Say goodbye to feeling single like a Pringle—This is a conversation you don’t want to miss!

Meet the founder of Reverse Beauty, Janice Pringle - a natural skincare enthusiast who’s on a mission to help everyone achieve healthy, youthful, and radiant skin. After meeting her now-husband, she realized the clock was ticking, and her quest for eternal youth began. After a year of experimentation in her kitchen, she found the perfect natural formula that gave her the glowing skin she had been searching for. And thus, Reverse Beauty was born - a brand dedicated to the power of natural ingredients in achieving beautiful skin. As a former healthcare & pharmaceutical industry professional, she understood the importance of natural ingredients and the impact of skincare on overall health. Her passion for natural skincare stems from losing her father to skin cancer, motivating her to be even more dedicated to skin care. This episode is for you if anyone wants to look and feel better.

To learn more about Reverse and purchase this serum go to www.reversebeauty.org or follow on Instagram @reversebeauty8.

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Today, we have a remarkable guest, the one and only Kim Sinatra, who’s renowned for her role as the former general counsel and executive vice president at Wynn Resorts in Las Vegas. But Kim’s story goes far beyond her professional achievements. In one fell swoop, her life took an unexpected turn, leading her to a heart-wrenching breakup with her boss, shattering her long-standing career and ending of her marriage. Instead of succumbing to despair, she used the power of forgiveness as a superpower. She shares how she broke the shackles of her past, refusing to be defined by her circumstances, and how forgiving others and herself, she rewrote a new narrative. This week, Kim shares her inspiring journey and how she transformed from feeling like collateral damage to scaling the glass cliff. 

Kim Sinatra builds companies and culture, working for gifted entrepreneurs scaling big ideas and making things happen. She’s been a C-Suite executive in industries leading gaming, entertainment, and hospitality companies. She’s a trusted advisor to boards and CEOs navigating complicated legal, financial and expansion issues. More than a lawyer, Kim is a leader in business development, mergers, acquisitions, financing, and governance activities in both private and public companies. She is the founder of Sinatra + Co, the former executive vice president and general counsel for Wynn Resorts, and the former executive vice president and general counsel for Caesars Entertainment Inc.

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Today’s episode is a story of acceptance – the art of finding strength and wisdom when life doesn’t go according to plan. Joining us is Emi Nietfeld, a true inspiration who went from homelessness to Harvard University. Emi saw a way out of her hopeless life and became fixated on her dream of an Ivy League education, only to discover that Harvard didn’t quite meet her expectations. After graduation, she secured a coveted job at Google seemingly guaranteeing a life of success and stability. Emi reveals that healing and growth can’t be gained from a relationship, a prestigious college, or a high-powered job. Why the traumas of ourpast won’t define us– and proves that it’s the journey, not the destination, but the transformation we experience along the way that truly matters.

Emi Nietfeld, is the author of Acceptance, named one of the best books of 2022 by NPR and Amazon. After graduating from Harvard College, in 2015 she worked at Google, an experience she wrote about in her viral New York Times Essay, “After Working at Google, I’ll Never Let Myself Love a Job Again.” Her writing has appeared in The Atlantic, Teen Vogue, Slate, and many other publications. She lives in New York City with her family.

Emi shares invaluable tips on navigating through failed relationships, job setbacks and missed opportunities.

To find out more about Emi Nietfeld follow on Instagram @eminietfeld or website www.eminietfeld.com or purchase Acceptance available in both hardcover and paperback.

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Are you struggling to move forward? Or are you still in communication with your ex? Maybe you've found yourself in the position of being an option or, worse, a backup plan. Today, we dive into the dynamic world of the “No Contact Rule,” a radical self-care move that empowers you to break free. Breakups happen to all of us, even breakup coaches. This week, we’re joined by Janice Formichella, a seasoned breakup coach and host of the podcast “Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.” Get ready as Janice shares her 5 Breakup Lessons, hidden truths behind breakups, and why breaking the chains is your ticket to a brighter future. If heartache has you in its grip – you're exactly where you need to be. Tune in for insights, inspiration, and the roadmap to mending that broken heart. I’m Kerry Brett, and Shot@Love starts now.

Janice Formichella is a breakup coach passionate about helping people from all backgrounds beat their breakup, overcome loneliness, and make the end of a relationship the start of a powerful new beginning. Today, she shares 5 Break Up Lessons from her life. Why healing is a roller coaster, why the no contact rule is your secret weapon, how routines help, and why you should keep the details of the breakup on a need-to-know basis. 

Kerry Brett and Janice Formichella cover a lot of ground – topics, including;

Janice’s Journey to Helping Others with Breakups:

Janice's personal experience led her to help others navigate breakups.
·      Emphasize that breakup pain can be eased and the process shortened.
·      Importance of Giving Yourself Grace
·      Acknowledge the difficulty of the initial weeks after a breakup.
·      Taking time off is crucial for self-care during this challenging period.

Lesson 1: Acknowledging the Loss:
·      Losing something that isn't good for you can still hurt.
·      Breakups occur for a reason; it's essential to acknowledge this fact.

 Lesson 2: Keeping Positivity from Past Relationships:
·      Recognize and retain positive aspects from past relationships.·      Janice's affirmations and routines helped maintain self-esteem.

 Lesson 3: Letting Go of Hurtful Words:
·      Discard hurtful words spoken in moments of pain and anger.

 Lesson 4: Dealing with Negative Emotions:
·      Breakups bring out anger, disappointment, and regret.
·      Avoid self-destructive behavior and cope positively with emotions.
·      Journaling and expressing emotions creatively can help.

 Lesson 5: Setting Boundaries and Moving Forward:
·      After a breakup, staying friends or continuing favors is unnecessary.
·      Setting boundaries and focusing on self-care is crucial.

 The No Contact Rule:
·      After clarity on reasons for the breakup, begin the No Contact Rule.
·      Journal about the qualities of a new partner or write a letter to your future self.
·      No Contact helps create space for a new future.

 Leaving the Past Behind:
·      Avoid engaging in discussions about the breakup or damage control.
·      Care less about others' opinions and focus on moving forward.

 Avoiding Revisiting Old Memories:
·      Don't dwell on old memories or hypothetical scenarios.
·      Delete or archive old text messages, screenshots, and block numbers.
·      Emphasize the importance of self-love and acceptance.

To learn more about Janice Formichella, follow her on Instagram @janiceformichella and tune into her podcast Breakups, Broken Hearts and Moving on all platforms.

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On today’s episode, we’re joined by Cindy House, the author of 'Mother Noise,' whose real-life story reads like a riveting novel. Cindy shares how her journey through the shadows led her to write her inspiring memoir. She survived a harrowing heroin addiction, overcame personal storms such as a difficult divorce, and weathered times of despair. But most importantly, she navigated the complexities of sharing her troubled past with her son. She’s a testament to the power of recovery, second chances, and sheer determination. Cindy transformed her experiences into artistry and literary success, and she’ll share why we should make art out of the worst things that happen to us. And she’ll encourage us to turn our life’s challenges into creativity because we can all craft a new ending and create a life filled with love. 

Cindy House is an essayist, short story writer, artist, and regular opener for David Sedaris on his tours across the country. She studied at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago and 2017, earned an MFA from Lesley University. She lives in New Haven, Connecticut, with her son.

Cindy House shares her inspiring journey through addiction, personal challenges, and recovery, highlighting her transformation into an accomplished writer and artist. She brings a wealth of wisdom and experiences to the conversation. Topics include;

· Cindy shares her harrowing experiences, from battling heroin addiction to overcoming personal storms like a difficult divorce. She emphasizes the importance of not hiding or denying one's past, as facing discomfort leads to personal growth.
· Understanding Addiction: Cindy dives into the challenges of her 20s, lost to addiction. She sheds light on the complexities of addiction that others might not understand.
· The Importance of Mentorship: Cindy speaks about the impact of mentors, especially David Sedaris, in her life. She highlights how having even one person believe in you can transform one's life.
· Finding Meaning Beyond Suffering: Inspired by Tim O'Brien's book The Things They Carried, Cindy emphasizes believing in something beyond suffering. This belief can be a guiding light through difficult times.
· Embracing Change: Cindy's story exemplifies that it's never too late for change, personal growth, or pursuing dreams. Her experiences show that transformation is always possible.
· Cindy opens up about her divorce when her son was young, explaining that it was as challenging as overcoming her addiction. She offers advice for those facing similar struggles.
· Turning Challenges into Creativity: Cindy advocates making art from life's challenges. She discusses the healing power of expressing oneself through creative outlets and writing about difficult experiences.
· Cindy explains how sharing her story has been a healing process for her. Vulnerability can foster connection and provide a sense of closure.
· How love and fulfillment can be found in various aspects of life, not solely through romantic relationships. Teaching, performing, and spending time with loved ones make life meaningful.
· Strength in Connection: Finding strength often involves leaning on mentors friends, or connecting with something that inspires you, such as a book or a song.

The episode ends with these takeaways: embracing new stories, letting go of self-imposed limitations, and finding inspiration and hope in various forms to navigate life's challenges. You can purchase Mother Noise in bookstores and on Amazon. To learn more about Cindy, go to https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Cindy-House/177732249 and follow her on Twitter or Instagram @cndy_housea.

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It's game time for Fall romance, and it's time to step onto the field of Love like never before! Today, we've got the one and only Astrologer and Psychic Healer, Jill Jardine, to guide us through the cosmic plays of the season! Autumn isn't just about the falling leaves; it's about falling head over heels, too! As the season changes and temperatures drop, many are looking to heat up and searching for a cozy companionship. That's right, it's Cuffing Season! Are you ready to find a new flame as the cool weather blows in? Grab your scarfs and get your sweaters and pumpkin spice lattes ready because Love is in the air! 

Jill Jardine is an astrologer, therapist, psychic healer, and spiritual advisor. She's also a former radio personality on WATD 95.9 and the host of the podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine. She's also a Reverend in Sanskrit Mantra, and chanting mantras can shift outcomes and is an invaluable tool. For over 30 years, she's helped thousands of people find power and confidence within themselves and help with important decisions.

Jill unveils the celestial roadmap of Love for the Fall of 2023 and shares astrological insights to inspire and empower you to find Love this Fall. Topics include;

• Reflecting on Summer and its Effects: Why it was the Summer of retrogrades
• Many challenges faced by clients during the summer and the impact of retrogrades, especially Venus and Mercury retrograde.
• The aftermath and implications of Venus retrograde.
• Venus and Love Transits this Fall: Jill discusses the positive aspect of Venus, the planet of Love, transiting throughout the year.
• Understanding how this transit benefits people in the dating world.
• Mercury's Communication Transits: Jill explains the influence of Mercury, the planet of communication, during new interactions with dating prospects.
•  Jill Discusses the retrograde phase during Fall and strategies for approaching romantic pursuits during this time.
• Mercury's Retrograde Dates and Strategies: Jill highlights specific dates to be cautious about interactions in the dating world during Mercury's retrograde periods.
• Astrological Lineup for Fall: Anticipation for Fall's astrological influences, starting with September's events.
• Fall Equinox and New Energy: Jill discusses the astrological shifts that come with the Fall Equinox and their impact on love lives.
• Power of Attraction and Relationships: Jill's perspective on the ability to draw people into daily life and how it applies to relationships and opportunities.
• Understanding Cuffing Season: The psychological, biological, and scientific aspects of why people want to settle down during this time.
• Planetary Aspects and Relationships: Jill examines specific planetary aspects that influence singles' approach to relationships during the Fall season.
• Standout Alignments and Challenges: Jill identifies standout planetary alignments and potential challenges for specific astrological signs.
• Positive Shifts for Specific Signs: Jill Discusses astrological signs that might experience a particularly positive shift during Fall.
• Opportunities with Eclipses and Moons: Jill Highlights potential opportunities presented by celestial events like eclipses, full moons, and new moons.
• How listeners can tap into their inner confidence and radiate positivity while navigating the dating landscape.
• Tips for Making the Most of Fall's Astrological Transits: Jill shares actionable tips for listeners to leverage astrology's guidance in finding Love during Fall.

To book a reading with Jill Jardine, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com or follow Jill Jardine on Facebook and Instagram@soulmappingjilljardine. And

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Is Love written in the cards? Today’s guests think so. Meet thedynamic duo known as “Dear Wise Women.” Think of them as a blend of Page 6's intrigue, the mystique of The Horoscopes, and the sage wisdom of Ann Landers. These remarkable sisters, Donna Bernard and Jeri Isaacs, possess a remarkable talent –the ability to guide you through your life’s journey through the power of playing cards. Every one of us has a birthdate, and within that date lies insights into ourpersonality, potential partner and even our destiny. Ever wonder why some connections feel soprofound or feel that you’ve known someone your whole life? Donna and Jeri know why and have all the answers, and it comes down to the day you were born. They’re share how they use cards as a tool to gain insights into your preferences, a way to look for compatibility, and help guide you in the right direction when searching for love. It’s, fun, it never disappoints and it’s always in the cards. 

Jeri Isaacs & Donna Bernard, known as DearWiseWomen, are Astrological Advisors and NEWSBreak Contributors with a popular column on the NEWSBreak app. They take an in depth look at the Birthday Cards of Celebrities, Politicians, and Athletes in order to explain thepersonality traits associated with different cards. DearWiseWomen offers personalized sessions exclusively for their fanbase. They also host a podcast Dear Wise Women on 360 Network for Women and co-moderate a Clubhouse room discussing family dynamics and relationships, embracing an ancient personality identification system. Their mission is to provide advice and wisdom with humor, and they started their blog, "DearWiseWomen.com," in May 2021, analyzing famous relationships.

Kerry discusses common relationship questions, including finding soulmates.

Jeri provides examples of how they guide people in the process of finding love.

Spotting Red Flags: Donna talks about how she helps people identify red flags and provide warnings about potential issues in their relationships.

Matching and Compatibility: Jeri explains how they determine if two people are a good match and how they guide individuals in playing their cards right from the beginning.

Card Interpretation (Using Kerry as an Example): Kerry's card combination: Ace of Spades, 9 of Spades, and 7 of Diamonds.

Donna and Jeri both discuss  how the cards combined with birthdays help guide individuals in various aspects of life, aligning goals, and values.

Understanding Card Suits: Jeri explains the four suits: hearts, clubs, diamonds, and spades, and what they signify.

Self-awareness and Personal Growth: The importance of self-awareness and understanding strengths and weaknesses in finding a successful relationship.

Communication and Success:How the cards aid in improving communication, which contributes to success in both business and relationships.

Timing and Auspicious Moments: Can the cards help identify the right time to meet someone? Discusses timing in relationships.

Using Cards to understand one's personality.

Communication for Success: How improved communication, guided by the cards, can lead to success in business and relationships.

Dating Tips Inspired by Dear Wise Women: Seek Guidance: Call Donna and Jeri for insights using the card system based on astrology.

Learn from Past Relationships: Dear Wise Women can help identify past relationship issues and guide you towards finding the right partner.

Trust Your Destiny: Remember that your destiny is written, listen to your intuition, and know that it's always in the cards.

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Today, we’ll uncover the complexities of relationships, love, and everything in between. And we've got one impressive expert in the house today! Meet Christina Morelli, and she’s not just any guest; she's a relationship coach extraordinaire and a virtuoso in the art of love. She’s also a woman on a mission to help others navigate the intricate world of connection. Christina will be our compass this week, shedding light on her passion for preparing others for a committed partnership. And she’ll share how to have those crucial conversations before jumping headfirst into something new. And most importantly, what to say when deciding or sliding into a relationship. 

Christina Morelli is a relationship and personal coach working with individuals and people in partnership to create healthy, rewarding, and fulfilling relationships. Her practice fosters self-awareness and provides the relationship education and skills we were never taught. The mission is to educate the world on increasing relational and emotional intelligence, happiness, and personal healing.

Kerry Brett and Christina Morelli discuss their journeys and both of their passions for understanding social psychology and interpersonal relationships. Topics include;

· The Lack of Relationship Education: Christina discusses how most people are never formally taught how to have relationships. 
· The Search for a Better Way

Christina emphasizes the desire to find a better way to navigate relationships without experiencing repeated failures. Communication plays  key role in building successful relationships.
· Valuing Intuition and Non-Negotiables

Christina talks about the importance of valuing intuition in relationships.
· The realization of non-negotiables in relationships and avoiding settling for less.
· The shift from trying to fit someone into a mold to finding compatible partners.

Misconceptions About Communication: Christina discusses the misconception that communication and compromise are the keys to successful relationships.
· The importance of self-awareness in communication and compromise.
· Comparing relational intelligence to financial or technical intelligence.

Dating Yourself and Self-Value: Christina shares the concept of "dating yourself" and why it's important.
· How treating yourself well establishes deep and unshakeable self-value.
It's the difference between liking someone for who they are and how they make you feel.

Being a Partner and Not Just Finding One: Christina emphasizes the need for personal growth and self-awareness before seeking a partner.
· The importance of asking, "What kind of partner am I going to be?" rather than just seeking qualities in a partner.
· How relationships require two autonomous individuals coming together with agency.

The Stages of Relationships: Christina explores the different stages of relationships based on neuroscience.
· Biological responses drive the initial lust stage.
· The attachment stage with norepinephrine and dopamine.
· Transitioning into the oxytocin stage, characterized by deep intimacy and trust.

The Blueprint for Successful Relationships: Christina highlights the value of creating a blueprint for a relationship.

Why is it important to understand who you want to be as a partner, what you want your partnership to look like, and what you want in a partner?
· The flexibility to adapt as priorities and needs change over time.

Imago Dialogue for Effective Communication: Christina introduces the Imago dialogue as a structured framework for communication.

· The roles of the sender and receiver in resolving conflicts.
· How Imago dialogue minimizes emotional conflicts and fosters productive conversations.

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This episode is an enlightening one! Today, we have a truly exceptional guest with us. He's not just a spiritualist and teacher; he's the Architect of The Art of Peaceful Living. Meet Sid McNairy, a remarkable individual who has dedicated his life to helping others connect with their highest and best selves through the power of meditation, yoga, and self-discovery. Sid found his path to healing, during the process of finding love and peace, which resulted in transforming his life. Now his passion is empowering others to fine discipline and peace in their lives. Sid willtake us through the process of surrendering, while sharing the power of finding balance, being ok with where you are right now. And show us how to find grounding within yourself, and why you need to discover who you are first before you seek love from another. 

With a background in coaching college football and coaching NFL players, Sid’s journey has involved battles both physically and mentally. After struggling with feelings of not being accepted and making decisions against his heart, Sid found solace in yoga and meditation, which helped him heal his past and find inner peace. Now a renowned figure in the wellness industry, Sid has written several books, and he’s also a sought-after speaker who inspires audiences around the world with his trainings and presentations on wellness, and self-discovery.

 Kerry Brett and Sid McNairy have a conversation around why it’s important to find peace within yourself before finding love with another person. Topics include;

• Pivotal Moments: Sid shares the moment when he decided to shift from coaching football to becoming a spiritual teacher.
• Dealing with Suffering: Advice for those suffering and feeling hopeless, drawing strength from personal experiences.
• Yoga and Meditation: Sid describes how yoga and meditation played a significant role in his personal transformation. Sid also shares why doing things you love is one of the quickest ways out of pain.
• Finding Inner Peace and Love: Sid explains the importance of finding inner peace on the journey to finding love.
• Finding Love: Sid's shares his struggles with finding love and key takeaways for those facing similar challenges.
• Overcoming Challenges: Advice for individuals struggling with feelings of not being accepted or making tough decisions.
• Impactful Moments: Sid shares memorable moments where he’s made a significant impact on other’s lives through his teachings.
• Surrendering and Inner Grounding: Sid shares practical advice on surrendering to where you are in life and finding inner grounding before seeking love from others.
• Maintaining Discipline: Strategies and daily practices to help others achieve balance and peace in their lives.
• Trusting the Process: Sid’s advice for those who struggle with impatience and trusting the process.
• Community and Healing: How Sid works to improve the lives of others, with a specific example of a thriving community or individual.
• Unexpected Challenges: Sid shares unexpected challenges or surprises that shaped his understanding of self-discovery and inner peace.
• Strength in Self: Sid shares how to draw strength from within and constructive advice around dealing with others' opinions.
• Emotion in Motion: Using emotional energy positively through activities like yoga or art. Sid shares why you should just get moving forward.

To find out more about Sid McNairy go to www.sidmcnairy.com.

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In this special  episode, I’m honored to welcome Natalie Lue, someone who has profoundly influenced the lives of countless individuals, including myself. Natalie Lue, a beacon of inspiration, joins us today. As a podcaster, speaker, artist, and renowned author, her remarkable works, particularly "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," have left an indelible mark. Natalie's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery.

Natalie's story is a tale of metamorphosis. In 2005, a debilitating illness and a tumultuous breakup with an emotionally distant partner ignited a spark of self-realization. Her experiences became the cornerstone for her incredible journey, which encompasses five best-selling books, the creation of Baggage Reclaim, an archive of over 16,000 enlightening blog entries, and a podcast that has touched the lives of millions of women across 140 countries. Her unwavering mission is to help others overcome abandonment, rejection, trauma, and the damaging effects of people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feelings of inadequacy.

Natalie Lue's impact extends far and wide. Her candid, compassionate, and humor-infused approach to relationships has gained her a global following. She's been recognized by esteemed outlets like The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC. Her books, including "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," "The No Contact Rule," "The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship," and "Love, Care, Trust & Respect," with over 140,000 copies sold, have been pivotal in reshaping perspectives. Her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," has surpassed 2 million downloads. Furthermore, Harper Horizon published her latest book, "The Joy of Saying No," in October 2022.

Natalie's expertise is not confined to the world of self-help and relationships. She's also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog, Bambino Goodies. For the past 13.5 years, she has dedicated herself to full-time blogging, leaving behind a career in advertising. Natalie has shared her insights on relationships at numerous conferences worldwide, and her current focus encompasses subjects like people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity.

Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue dive into a rich and enlightening conversation. Natalie's remarkable ability to unravel complex relationship dynamics and her skillful articulation in "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" are highlighted. If you've ever grappled with feelings of unworthiness or questioned your value in the world of dating, this episode is a game-changer.

Natalie's unparalleled ability to identify and address relationship issues with unfiltered candor.
Unpacking the enigma of "Mr. Unavailable" and the emotional turmoil it entails.
The enduring impact of the book "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl."
How Natalie's work resonates with women worldwide, illuminating shared pains.
The societal conditioning that often leaves women with the short end of the stick in toxic relationships.
The imperative of never settling in matters of the heart.
A sobering glimpse into relationships with "Mr. Unavailable."
The importance of recognizing and navigating "Future Faking."
The phenomenon of "Fast Forwarding" and its fleeting intensity.

Connect with Natalie:
Stay connected with Natalie Lue on Instagram @natlue or visit her website at natalielue.com. You can find all her empowering books on Amazon and access her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," on all major podcast platforms.

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In this week's episode, meet Joe Heroun, a man who’s mastered the art of capturing attention. He’s a multifaceted talent in the world of photography, fashion, art direction and design. Joe’s been the creative force behind iconic magazine covers for decades and was a driving force at the Improper Bostonian Magazine. Today, his mission is to help men elevate their style and up their dating game. He’ll share secrets to online appeal and what’s behind the perfect image for the digital age? How to enhance your image through clothing, from the timeless white tee, layering up,  or choosing the right accessories.  What makes a lasting impression visually, and how to be yourself in front of the camera.  And what it takes to look put together in a photograph. Because in the world of dating, appearances matter. 

Kerry Brett welcomes the incredibly talented Joe Heroun.  It's an engaging conversation between Kerry and Joe as they dive into photography, art direction, and dating. Whether you are looking to upgrade your dating profile or want to enhance your style, this episode is packed with practical advice and creative insights. 

Joe's expertise extends beyond the world of magazines and media. Today, he's on a mission to help men elevate their style and enhance their dating game. This episode is filled with valuable insights, dating tips, and secrets to online appeal, all brought to you by an industry veteran.

Key Talking Points:

• Joe's unconventional path to becoming an art director.
• The chaos and creative problem-solving behind iconic magazine covers.
• The significance of preparation and clear authority on set.
• The art of styling and how to enhance your personal image for dating success.
• The importance of the leading photograph in online dating.
• Joe's collaboration with dating expert Blaine Anderson and the importance of variety in dating profile photos.
• The psychology of getting your subject to open up during a photoshoot.
• The impact of first impressions in online dating.
• The nuances of looking well-groomed, confident, and approachable in photographs.
• Embracing personal style and projecting confidence in your online dating profile.

Joe's message is clear: it's not just about what you wear but how you wear it, and confidence and authenticity play a vital role in making a lasting impression in dating.

Tune in to discover how to make a memorable impact in your dating journey. To learn more about Joe Heroun's work, go to  jherounportrait.com or follow him on Instagram @jheroun.

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Dating after cancer: Runway to Romance –Navigating Love's Catwalk with Cancer Disruptor Christine Handy.

Get ready to be inspired by an incredible guest who is the epitome of strength, courage, and true beauty, both inside and out. Meet Christine Handy, a 40-year veteran in the modeling industry, a devoted mother, a best-selling author, a breast cancer survivor, a cancer disruptor, and a breastless model for Victoria's Secret. Being a breast cancer survivor, having four mastectomy’s resulted in her ultimately losing her chest–she learned – it was up to her how she felt about herself. And that the only place beauty comes from is within. Today, she shares secrets about finding self-love and, most importantly, keeping it. And why it’s important to feel confident and love yourself before stepping into the dating world. Christine’s commitment to working on herself, rebuilding her self-esteem, and feeling worthy of love led her to find it. We must remind ourselves and remember that our self-esteem and self-worth are at the core of all the decisions we make in life and love. 

 Christine Handy is an international model, cancer survivor, motivational speaker, and inspiration to all. Christine Handy is an international print and runway Model for brands such as Guess, JCREW, Target, Pepsi, and Victoria’s’ Secret. Christine is the author of the book Walk Beside Me, a fictional depiction of Christine’s life. Christine became a keynote speaker after her book was published in 2016. Christine is a mentor, a breast cancer advocate, a public figure, a Social Media Influencer, a Nationally recognized Humanitarian, and a Mother of two sons. Christine serves on the board of three non-profit organizations: EBeauty, People of Purpose, and the Break Free Foundation. Christine’s first novel is currently being adapted into a film called Hello, Beautiful.

Kerry Brett and Christine Handy's discussion covers a lot of ground. Topics include;
· Christine's remarkable journey
· Modeling industry realities: A glimpse behind the scenes of the modeling world and its impact on self-worth.
· Health journey begins: Christine's life as a self-proclaimed athlete and the initial signs of her health challenges.
· Diagnosis and despair: How Christine faced the devastating news of her aggressive breast cancer diagnosis.
· The power of community: The importance of showing up for others and building a support network.
· The path to self-love
· Self-indulgence to selflessness: Christine's journey of self-discovery and becoming selfless.
· Loving yourself enough to fight: The central theme of Christine's book, "Walk Beside Me," and the importance of self-love in her healing process.
· Christine's strategy for not letting the pain show on her face and her advice for those suffering.
· Overcoming fear of dating after illness: Christine's initial apprehension about finding love post-divorce and illness.
· Rediscovering confidence
· Challenges during the pandemic: Christine's experience with MRSA during the pandemic and its impact on her confidence.
· Realization of self-sabotage: How Christine recognized that she was the one holding herself back.
· Embracing New Challenges: Christine's determination to fight for her confidence and accept new opportunities.
· Dating and Career Advancements: Christine's experience in the dating world while advancing her modeling career.
· Resilience in the Face of Adversity: Christine's strength and resilience after a negative experience.
· Current Success: Christine's achievements as the first breastless model for Victoria's Secret and finding love.
· Inclusivity and hope: Christine's mission is to help people feel less alone.

To learn more about Christine Handy, go to www.christinehandy.com or follow on Inst

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Get ready for some exciting news! Today, we’ll hear all about Lola, a brand-new dating app exclusively launching in Boston. I think it’s safe to say that intentional daters are tired of mindless messaging, time-consuming chats, and the frustration of virtual dating pitfalls. Lola is designed to get you on real dates with real people on your schedule. Lola is about to revolutionize your dating experience by creating genuine connections, scheduling dates at your convenience, and eliminating the clutter of multiple conversations. Imagine conversing solely with only those you're interested in meeting face-to-face. Get ready to say goodbye to endless swiping, catfishing, and ghosting and say hello to dating because Lola is putting dating back into dating apps. 

This week, we have the privilege of hearing from the masterminds behind Lola, its founders, Paul English and Rachel Cohen. Paul English is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, the founder of six start-ups, and the co-founder of the travel industry giant Kayak.com. Rachel Cohen has a background in Human Resources for renowned fashion and luxury brands such as David Yurman and Diptyque Paris. Together, they combined their expertise to create a dating app that focuses on matching based on availability. They'll share why Lola stands apart from traditional dating apps and how it could redefine your dating journey. And they’ll also share with us their story and what’s in store for us with Lola.

Kerry Brett, Paul English, and Rachel Cohen cover a lot of ground around what’s working in online dating and how Lola plans to create a new community and change the dating culture. Topics include;
·      The benefit of a dating app centered on matching based on availability.
·      Their Journey to love and the inspiration behind Lola:
·      Paul and Rachel shared their serendipitous meeting on Bumble four years ago, sparking a conversation that eventually led to identifying the common problems in existing dating apps and, later, falling in love, getting engaged, and launching Lola.
·      Rachel discusses the experiences that fueled their passion for addressing these dating app challenges, emphasizing the need to reinvigorate hope for the discouraged.
·      Rachel highlights Lola's calendar-based matchmaking system. Introduces the 4-day timeline, benefitting users and empowering women to take control of their dating schedules.
·      Fast-tracking dating: Paul explains from a male perspective why immediate in-person meetings can revolutionize the dating landscape, expediting genuine connections.
·      Rachel sheds light on how Lola caters to single parents or individuals with restricted availability, maximizing dating opportunities.
·      Paul draws from his tech experiences to simplify and enhance Lola's user interface, ensuring it's both familiar and efficient.
·      How Lola plans to filter out non-intentional daters.
·      Lola's review feature, offering constructive feedback while eliminating non-genuine or uninterested users.
·      Why Lola values quality over quantity: addressing the trend of excessive conversations Lola's commitment to quality interactions rather than volume.
·      Enforcing rules for genuine engagement: Paul advocates for a no-nonsense approach to discourage habitual cancellations.
·      Anonymous feedback system: the benefit of anonymous post-date feedback, aiding users in self-improvement and finding better matches.
·      Rollout plans and recruitment events: Insights into Lola's rollout strategy, inviting potential users to join and engage.

To learn more about Lola, visit www.lola.com and follow on Instragram @lola_dates.

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Dr. Christie Kederian is a nationally renowned relationship expert specializing in helping clients create the lives they want and find the love they deserve. With an extensive career as a professional matchmaker and relationship expert for eHarmony and Match.com, Christie has helped hundreds of people find love and improve relationships. She is a "Triple Trojan," receiving her Bachelor's, Master's & doctoral degree at the University of Southern California in Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy. Christie has been a featured expert in ABC, NBC, KTLA, The Wall Street Journal, Los Angeles Times, Cosmopolitan, and many more. She is also a professional speaker and provides training with the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.

Kerry Brett and Dr. Christie Kederian cover a lot of ground. Topics include:
How to navigate dating during the holidays.
How relationships impact who we are as people.
Dr. Christie's online and offline dating strategies for dating during the holidays.
What Dr. Christie's learned about compatibility from working at eHarmony.
How to avoid falling into the scarcity mindset.
How to reset when you get discouraged with the online dating process.
Dr. Christie's Criteria Sandwich and why you should clarify your core values.
Dr. Christie's Silver Bullet Swipe and why you should focus on the main thing you want in another person.

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Today, we're joined by the trailblazer himself, Evan Marc Katz. Back in 2003, Evan made history as the world’s first dating coach, specializing in helping smart and successful women find lasting love. With four published books and a Love U podcast with over 2 million downloads, Evan's impact and expertise haven’t gone unnoticed. He’s been featured in hundreds of media outlets, from Today to the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. CNN once called him a serial dater, but Evan’s journey would serve a higher purpose–to decipher the male mind, decode their actions, and uncover what they truly want. His mission? To empower women to raise their standards and never settle for anything less. This episode is for the incredible women who’ve got it all–except love. 

Throughout our conversation, we'll discuss Evan's coaching philosophy and learn how to break free from the cycle of attracting the wrong men. It's all about finding not just anyone but the right one for a fulfilling, long-term relationship. Evan's community-building efforts have seen over 13,000 women graduate from Love U, and today, he'll share how to become the CEO of your love life. And put us on the path to finding high-quality, commitment-oriented partners.

Kerry Brett and Evan Marc Katz cover a lot of ground. Topics include;

·      Evan's journey into coaching stemmed from his dating failures; necessity is the mother of invention. His passion for finding love turned into decoding male actions and helping women understand what men truly want.
·      Empowering Women: The mission is to elevate women’s standards and help them avoid settling for less in relationships.
·      Challenges for Smart, Successful Women: The Smartness Factor: Discussing if being highly intelligent creates relationship challenges.
·      Tripped Up by Intelligence: How intelligent women might face difficulties in dating.
·      Diverse Backgrounds: Addressing successful women's challenges in various fields such as science, business, and academia.
·      Balancing Success: Exploring the downsides of dating someone equally successful.
·      Money and Happiness: Delving into advice for women dating someone who earns less.
·      Expectations and Emotional Availability: Understanding men’s responses and emotional availability in relationships
·      Dead-End Relationships: Avoid investing time in unfulfilling or ambiguous situations ships.
·      Identifying Red Flags Early: Recognizing and gracefully exiting unsuitable relationships without guilt or pressure.
·      Breaking Negative Patterns: Actionable steps to break the cycle of attracting the wrong partners.
·      Chemistry's Role: Exploring the significance of chemistry beyond common interests.
·      Why chemistry alone doesn’t sustain a relationship in the long run.
·      Balancing Act: Distinguishing between settling and compromising in relationships.
·      Identifying Long-Term Compatibility: Understanding signs that indicate a partner is suitable for the long term.
·      Advice for individuals who've struggled despite trying various methods.
·      Addressing the complexities of modern dating and simplifying approaches.
·       Identifying common limiting beliefs and encouraging women to leave their comfort zones.
·     Practical methods for women to boost self-worth and confidence in their dating journey.

To find out more about Evan Marc Katz, go to www.evankatz.com/kerry. To find out the Seven Mistakes You're Making In Dating, go to evankatz.com/kerry

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Get ready to be swept off your feet for this dynamic duo: The Golden Dating Doctors, Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Powers! These two aren’t just experts but are proof that love knows no age limits. They share their secrets to senior dating in their new book, Open to Love. Picture this:  psychologists and seniors who stumbled upon each other’s hearts on Silver Singles after enduring personal losses. Their love story isn’t just inspiring; it’s a testament to the endless possibilities of love, even when it seems out of reach. They share the highs and lows of dating, shining the pathway to success in finding love at any stage of life. This episode is for those seeking love and anyone who’s ever doubted that their best days are behind them and why you should never stop believing!

Kerry Brett, Dr. Gloria Horsley, and Dr. Frank Power cover much ground around dating. Topics include;

• Meet the Golden Dating Doctors, Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Powers, who exemplify love beyond age limits.
• Living Proof of Love: Their personal story reflects the limitless potential of love, as they found each other after personal losses through Silver Singles.
• Their Mission: Sharing insights on senior dating and addressing the loneliness and challenges faced in later stages of life.
• Gloria’s Transition: Following her partner's passing, she embraced grief groups and ventured into dating, encountering lessons that fueled the idea for their book.
• Finding Frank: Their meeting on Silver Singles sparked an immediate connection, leading to two years of shared love.
• Shared Loss: Both experienced personal tragedies that brought them closer together, understanding the depths of grief and healing.
• Dating Insights: Their shared experiences revealed crucial aspects often overlooked in dating, especially in the later stages of life.
• Overcoming Setbacks: Emphasizing reframing setbacks as learning experiences rather than failures.
• Compatibility: Stressing the significance of shared values, backgrounds, and companionship over superficial attractions in older relationships.
• Finding a Best Friend: Highlighting the value of finding a partner who becomes a best friend, fostering acceptance and understanding.
• Make a list of what you like and don't like regarding relationships because it will save you a lot of time.
• Why you need to get a dating buddy: Having a dating buddy will help your chances of success.
• Getting clear about what you're looking for in a partner.

Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Frank Power's book Open to Love will be available on Valentine's Day in 2024. Listen to their podcast Open to Hope for more inspiring stories of finding love. Follow on Instagram @opentohopefoundation.

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Join dating aficionado, renowned podcaster, videographer Brian Alves, and host Kerry Brett as they share their journey through the maze of modern romance. With Brian's unmatched expertise in the world of love and a reach of 250,000 listeners weekly on the DV Show – Video Production Just Got Easier Podcast, this episode promises a whirlwind of wisdom and wittiness.

Episode Highlights
It's all about first impressions: Explore the profound impact of initial encounters and unearth top-notch tips for leaving an indelible first impression.
Communication: Effective communication strategies emphasize the importance of active listening and genuine engagement on those pivotal first dates.
Navigating conversational terrain: Brian shares his go-to conversation topics and how he maneuvers through potentially sensitive subjects, ensuring smooth sailing through any dialogue.
Body language decoded: From door-holding debates to the silent language of attraction, discover the significance of body language in forging connections without words.
The texting artistry: Brian's secrets behind becoming a master texter, infusing personality and humor into messages while fostering genuine connections.
The bill-paying conundrum: We share a timeless debate of splitting or covering the bill. Gain insights and etiquette pointers on this hotly contested topic.
Honoring boundaries: Recognize cues and signals, ensuring respect and engagement 
while sidestepping the pitfalls of distracted interactions.
Punctuality and planning precision: From differing perspectives on planning efforts to the significance of punctuality, Brian and Kerry provide invaluable advice on this contentious subject.
Post-date feedback: Ghosting or honest communication? Explore the dos and don'ts of 
follow-up interactions after a date, navigating the delicate post-date landscape.
Embracing awkwardness: Laugh off the awkward with Brian's anecdotes, showcasing graceful navigation through uncomfortable situations, turning them into opportunities.

Key Takeaways:
Patience pays off: Understanding someone might need time, perhaps three dates, to open up.
Embrace authenticity: 
Be flexible, vulnerable, and resilient; authenticity triumphs over missteps.
Be present and caring: Show genuine interest, put away distractions, and cultivate kindness; it's the cornerstone of a successful first date.

So grab your favorite seltzer and buckle up for Shot@Love's whirlwind ride, where Brian Alves brings unparalleled expertise, humor, and authenticity to unravel the enigma of modern dating!

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Welcome to a brand-new episode of Shot@Love! New Year, New Goals, New You! I'm thrilled to start this year with an extraordinary guest, Jill Jardine, a host of Cosmic Scene and a renowned Psychic Healer. Jill sets the stage for the new year to come and shares with us the upcoming astrology, lucky days to date, and Pluto's influential power, urging us to gear up for a warp-speed year ahead. Welcome to the cosmic party that 2024 ushers in.

As we transition from holiday festivities to a Mars-driven focus on work, Jill guides us through the energies shifting from Sagittarius to the practicality of Capricorn.

January presents pivotal lunar events—the new moon on 1.11 and a significant full moon in Leo on January 25th, promising opportunities for fruitful beginnings and expansive love.

Brace for the sun's move into Aquarius, heralding the Age of Aquarius, but remember, self-care takes precedence before embracing the accelerating Aquarian energies.

But it's not just about the stars; Jill shares how these cosmic movements will impact relationships, offering insights into zodiac signs poised for significant changes and highlighting auspicious periods for new and existing relationships.

We discuss celestial events influencing romantic energies, how to align with astrological forces to enhance dating experiences, and the essential aspects of navigating relationships, ensuring harmonious communication and understanding.

Join Jill as she decodes the cosmic party that 2024 brings, unveiling how the Leo full moon on January 25th invites us to let our love light shine while also preparing for surprises ahead. Jill shares insights on the impact of these cosmic currents on long-term commitments and offers practices and advice for singles seeking love amidst these celestial shifts.

Additionally, she sheds light on utilizing personal astrological charts effectively in the dating scene of early 2024, setting the stage for an accelerated, transformative year where it's time for each of us to shine brightly.

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Shot@Love Episode Show Notes: "Setting The Stage For Love & Laughter"

Introduction
Host: Kerry Brett celebrates Valentine's Day and Shot@Love’s four-year anniversary.

Exciting guest: Laurie Hurd Ferreira discussing her journey from businesswoman to standup comedian and revitalizing the local performing arts scene.

Laurie's Story
Laurie shares her journey, starting with modeling, marriage, and motherhood.
The challenges of divorce and the impact on her life.
Struggling with alcoholism, reaching a breaking point, and deciding to seek help.
The power of sobriety: Laurie's transformation and the positive impact on her life and family.
Sobriety is a daily commitment; one day at a time.
Laurie emphasizes the importance of wanting sobriety and putting in the work.
Sobriety as a gift: improved relationships and a better life.

Overcoming Fear
Laurie's advice for those afraid to make a change: Fear is often behind our decisions.
Taking the first step, breaking stereotypes, and embracing change.

Comedy and Transformation
Laurie's journey into comedy as a result of overcoming challenges.
Comedy as a platform for sharing relatable stories and connecting with others.
The gift of finding one's purpose and joy.

The Live Event: Shot@Love Live
Announcement of a new live event for Shot@Love community on March 7th at Tosca in Hingham.
An evening of laughter, connections, networking, and surprises.
A unique opportunity for singles to meet in person, enjoy comedy, and build new relationships.

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Shot@Love host Kerry Brett interviews comedian Laurie Hurd Ferreira about the launch party they hosted last week – Shot@Love Live to bring singles together to make new connections and find love. The event was a success and Kerry and Laurie give you the play-by-play recap of the event and share what they learned about singles live events.

 ·      The episode promises insights into their recent Shot@Love Live event, filled with love, laughter, and unexpected twists.

·      The event aimed to bring those serious about finding love.  Kerry also discusses  Laurie's inspiring journey from sobriety to the spotlight.

·      Kerry and Laurie discussed the highs, lows, and everything in between of their electrifying in-person experience.

Event Successes: Sold-out Event: The event was a success, with a packed room and five couples finding love.

Positive Feedback: Over 80 women attended and had a fantastic time, enjoying food, drinks, and laughter.

Building Community: Attendees made new friends and connections, fostering a supportive community.

Comedy Highlight: The comedy segment was a hit, showcasing the healing power of laughter.

Pushing Comfort Zones: Attendees stepped out of their comfort zones, leading to personal growth and new experiences.

Positive Experience for Men: Despite the low turnout of men, those who attended had a great time and landed dates.

Challenges and Lessons Learned: Despite extensive promotional efforts, Kerry and Laurie faced challenges in attracting male attendees.

Only a few men showed up despite initial commitments.

Kerry and Laurie learned about the difficulties of finding men organically and post-COVID challenges.

Despite setbacks, they are determined to make adjustments and continue their mission.

Promotional Efforts: Kerry Brett's press efforts included articles and interviews on Newsbreak and Kiss 108 radio.

Despite transparent promotions and comped tickets, attracting male attendees remained challenging.

Future Plans: Kerry and Laurie plan to organize a brainstorming session with attendees to find solutions.

remain committed to fostering connections and creating meaningful events.

Pros and Cons of Singles Events: Pros include free food and drinks, meeting new people, trying new experiences, and supporting local businesses.

Cons include the possibility of not finding love, but attending events offers entertainment and socialization opportunities.

Conclusion: Attendees had a chance to win prizes and support local businesses while mingling with other singles.

Attending singles events offers opportunities for personal growth and potentially finding love.

Kerry and Laurie encourage listeners to stay tuned for future events and continue supporting Shot@Love's mission of bringing people together in pursuit of love.

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This episode is all about mastering deliberate attraction! Join us as we welcome Michael Losier, renowned author of the Law of Attraction, who has empowered millions worldwide with his wisdom. Discover how to swiftly navigate through resistance and fear on your journey to finding love. Learn Michael's 3-step process for deliberate attraction and how to banish doubt, allowing love to flow effortlessly into your life. Gain clarity on what you desire, and confidently place your order with the universe. Michael emphasizes the power of language, urging us to eliminate words like 'don't,' 'not,' and 'no,' and reset our vibrations to manifest incredible relationships and find the love we truly deserve.

Dive into practical tips with Michael Losier and Kerry Brett as they discuss:

• Becoming a deliberate attractor for your ideal partner.
• Embracing allowance as the antidote to doubt.
• Resetting your vibration to align with love.
• Eliminating limiting language patterns.
• Harnessing the potency of beliefs in attracting love.
• Affirming your intentions daily to magnetize your perfect match.
• The significance of keeping your dating experiences private, but when you talk about them, highlight what worked and what was positive.
• Look for proof to remove doubt; love is all around, and people find love every day.

To find more insights from Michael Losier, visit www.michaellosier.com and connect on Clubhouse (@Michael Losier) or Instagram (@michael_losier_loa). Don't miss out on his transformative book, "Law of Attraction," or book an appointment at www.ReleasingNegativeEmotions.com to assist you on your journey towards love and fulfillment.

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Ever wondered how celestial events can shake up your love life? Prepare to be enlightened as we're joined by Jill Jardine, an esteemed astrologer and psychic healer, whose insights on recent eclipses and Pluto's monumental shift into Aquarius will leave you contemplating the cosmic forces at play in your personal relationships. Discover the secrets to navigating these transformative times and how to harness the power of astrology to clear past blockages and invite new beginnings, setting the stage for a period of deep personal growth that could redefine your connections with others.

As the planets dance through their retrogrades and transits, we're here to guide you through the cosmic quicksand. With Mercury throwing curveballs in communication and travel, we share firsthand experiences and practical tips for thriving during these phases. Anticipate a summer pulsing with love and social vibrancy, thanks to Venus glowing in Taurus and Mars charging into Aries. And if you're on the hunt for romance, we've got you covered as Jill is your celestial wingman. Jill's optimism is contagious, offering a glimpse into how the planets are aligning to spice up your social calendar as we approach the warmer months.

But it's not all about the stars; sometimes, the magic lies in the mundane. The Swedish concept of death cleaning might not sound like a love potion, but creating space in your home can open doors to new opportunities. We share how decluttering and aligning your space with feng shui can energetically invite potential partners into your life. Plus, we look at the holistic ties between physical movement, a spring-cleaned liver, and a decluttered mind. Join us as Jill Jardine imparts her wisdom and anecdotes, inspiring you to embrace change, step into a vibrant social scene, and find the love that aligns with the stars.

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Unlock the transformative power of breakups with relationship scientist Dr. Gary Lewandowski, who joins us to offer a fresh perspective on the end of love affairs. Through the lens of his book "Stronger Than You Think" and the innovative tool StayGo, Dr. Lewandowski guides us through heartbreak's hidden opportunities, drawing on the Japanese art of kintsugi to illustrate finding strength in our fractures. The dialogue promises empowerment, emphasizing personal growth and liberation that often go unrecognized amidst the anguish of a split.

As we navigate the aftermath of a relationship, Dr. Lewandowski shares groundbreaking findings on how rediscovering oneself can be self-care. We discuss the study, revealing a surprising twist: the comfort found in re-engaging with pre-relationship interests outweighs that of new pursuits. This episode probes the complexities of identity and the intertwining that occurs within a partnership, highlighting the importance of a diversified self. We also tackle the weighty decisions that come with potentially ending a relationship, underscoring the gravity of such crossroads in life.

Turning the spotlight on the enigmatic dance of attraction and power within relationships, we scrutinize the halo effect and its deceptive sway. Dr. Lewandowski and I dissect the allure of physical beauty, its fleeting promise, and the stability found in more profound, more compatible matches. Finally, we dive into maintaining an equitable power balance and how authenticity and self-reflection can foster healthier, more balanced connections. This episode promises not just insights, but practical wisdom for those seeking to understand the heart's journey through love and loss.

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Today, we'll take a deep dive into the dating world with the one and only Dr. John Gray. He is the mastermind behind the global sensation 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus,' with over twenty books, including his most recent 'Beyond Mars and Venus. Dr. John Gray's insights have captivated audiences worldwide, from Oprah to Barbara Walters. Stay tuned as we discuss the timeless wisdom of Dr. John Gray's classic Mars and Venus on a Date, uncovering the five stages of dating as your success comes down to attraction, uncertainty, exclusivity, intimacy, and engagement. Whether you're single, separated, or newly jumping into the dating pool, this episode is for you!

Dr. John Gray is the most well-known relationship expert in the world! He's the author of the highly acclaimed, widely popular, and most trusted relationship book of all time: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the ten most influential books of the last quarter-century. In hardcover, it was the bestselling book of the 90s. Dr. John Gray's books have been translated into over 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continue to be bestsellers. 

This episode shines a light on the five stages of dating to help you navigate the intricate dance of modern dating; Dr. Gray and I dissect the expectations and pressures influencing how men and women approach the quest for connection. We explore the importance of reciprocity and emotional bonding and how physical closeness can sometimes lead us astray from forming deeper, more meaningful relationships. Tune in as we delve into the art of communication, the significance of small acts of love, and how these elements are crucial in understanding and appreciating the unique language of love between individuals.

As our conversation culminates, we offer insights into the delicate process of building commitment. Dr. Gray imparts his wisdom on the critical role of maintaining individuality and balance in a growing relationship. Whether finding love for the first time or fostering an existing flame, this episode equips you with the tools to converse with depth, deepen emotional connections, and foster a lasting commitment. Prepare to transform your perspective on dating and engage with love in more profound and enriching ways.

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In this week's Shot@Love episode From 'Wolf of Wall Street" Ex-Wife to Empowered Psychotherapist: Dr. Nadine Macaluso's Story of Resilience and Love, we talk all about surviving toxic relationships, trauma bonds, narcissistic abuse, and healing. Have you ever found yourself trapped in a story that wasn't your own? Today, Shot@Love features Dr. Nadine Macaluso, whose life once sounded like a plot from a Hollywood movie; in fact, it was. But behind the glittering facade of a marriage to the notorious "Wolf of Wall Street," Jordan Belfort, lay a reality far removed from the glamorous image. From a model navigating the gritty streets of Brooklyn to a psychotherapist and author, Dr. Macaluso's narrative is one of profound transformation and resilience. She shares her journey of self-discovery, the intense dynamics of her past relationship, and how she used her experiences to fuel her passion for helping others in their own quests for healing.

The struggle to find one's voice amidst the chaos is a journey many can relate to. Dr. Macaluso’s account spills light on the often unseen trauma bonds underpinning some relationships. Her insights into the trials she faced during her marriage and the challenges of managing a turbulent household while nurturing a career are both sobering and inspiring. In this raw conversation, we also dissect the cultural shifts that have propelled women from a place of competition to one of mutual support—celebrating the newfound strength in women's solidarity through movements like #MeToo and the push against victim-blaming.

But beyond the past lies a blueprint for the future. Dr. Macaluso offers hope and guidance on how to rebuild life after escaping abuse and trauma. She discusses the power of setting boundaries, the role of recovery, and the significance of trust in forging authentic relationships. Her story is more than an echo of her former life; it's a testament to the courage it takes to step into the light of self-truth and to love oneself fiercely in the aftermath. Join us as we embrace Dr. Macaluso's message of empowerment, hope, and the enduring quest for love and safety in our relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso, follow her on Instagram @therealdrnadine or visit her website, www.drnae.com. You can also purchase her best-selling book Run Like Hell on Amazon. For more episodes of Shot@Love, you can listen to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and other platforms.

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Have you ever felt honesty could make or break your most important relationships? Our guest, Laurie Gerber, a seasoned life and relationship coach, discovered that. Laurie's journey from near-marital collapse to deep, connected intimacy is nothing short of inspiring. Initially seeking help for her career, Laurie was redirected to confront her crumbling marriage after a serious argument and her husband's growing interest in her assistant. This pivotal moment pushed her to align her actions with her heart's true desires, ultimately saving her marriage and transforming her life.

We then peel back the many layers of lying within relationships. Beyond outright deceit, we dive deep into lies of omission, misrepresentation, and the common avoidance of confrontation. Laurie and I discuss the delicate balance between sharing personal experiences and empathizing with others' feelings. We also highlight how understanding one's past choices can pave the way for healthier future relationships. By embracing honesty and authenticity, Laurie provides hope and practical tools for anyone looking to break free from negative patterns and build stronger connections.

Lastly, we tackle the complexities of finding a long-term partner and navigating relationship liabilities. Laurie shares actionable advice on maintaining self-worth, steering clear of a scarcity mindset, and embracing authenticity in dating. We challenge misconceptions about what makes someone undesirable and discuss how to manage personal liabilities, whether being a single parent or living with an illness - those are not liabilities but limiting beliefs. Laurie's journey, including her experience delivering a TED talk and embracing radical honesty, encourages listeners to confront their vulnerabilities and foster a culture of acceptance and truth. Tune in for a transformative discussion that could change how you approach your relationships forever.

To find out more about Laurie Gerber, go to www.lauriegerber.com.

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What happens when a life-saving act intertwines with a whirlwind romance and public attention? Discover Heather Krueger’s remarkable story of survival and transformation. Diagnosed with stage 4 autoimmune hepatitis just before her 25th birthday, Heather was in desperate need of a liver transplant. A stranger's selfless act saved her life and led to a rapid and intense romantic relationship, capturing the media's attention and inspiring a Hallmark movie. Heather shares the stark differences between the fairy tale portrayed and the real emotional and psychological hurdles she faced during her recovery.

Journey into the emotional complexities of Heather's life as she navigated profound gratitude and obligation toward her donor-turned-husband. The pressure of public validation and the need to maintain a facade of hope took a heavy toll on Heather's mental health and self-esteem. Listen as Heather bravely opens up about the struggle to differentiate genuine love from a sense of indebtedness and how the swift progression of their relationship left her little room to process her trauma or make grounded decisions. Despite the turmoil, Heather's dedication to raising awareness about living liver donations became her beacon of purpose.

Heather's story is one of survival, resilience, and empowerment. Hear how she overcame the unexpected challenges of her deteriorating relationship, physical scars, and societal pressures, all while finding strength in honesty, humor, and faith. Heather’s journey from a fairytale romance to self-discovery and empowerment is a moving testament to the power of hope and the human spirit. Her candid reflections offer inspiration and guidance for others facing their own life-altering challenges.

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What do you do when a life-altering injury threatens your greatest passion? Join us as we welcome Kelly Gunther, an Olympian whose journey from a devastating injury to competing in the 2014 Winter Olympics is nothing short of miraculous. Kelly's story isn't just about her love for skating; it's a testament to the power of resilience and the unwavering belief in one's dreams. From overcoming learning disabilities in school to making a remarkable comeback on the ice, her journey offers invaluable lessons on maintaining a winning mindset in all aspects of life, including the often daunting world of online dating.

Kelly opens up about the profound challenges she faced, both on and off the ice, and how supportive mentors and friends played a crucial role in her achievements. Her narrative reveals how finding confidence through her passion for skating was transformative, offering a sense of belonging and achievement that extended beyond sports. This episode shines a light on the significance of embracing unique learning processes and the importance of perseverance. Kelly's story emphasizes that self-belief and encouragement from others are key drivers in overcoming obstacles and realizing personal goals.

We also explore the intricacies of dating as a successful woman, discussing how confidence and resilience play into personal relationships. Through Kelly's experiences, we highlight the importance of quickly vetting potential partners and not taking rejections personally. She shares how a positive mindset and a robust support network can turn setbacks into opportunities for growth. Listen in for motivational tips on building self-confidence, overcoming limiting beliefs, and harnessing inner strength to achieve your dreams, both professionally and personally.

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How did a trusted family friend manage to kidnap a young girl not once, but twice? This jaw-dropping episode with Jan Broberg, the courageous survivor behind "Stolen Innocence," tackles the chilling realities of abduction and the insidious nature of grooming. Jan shares her powerful journey from victim to advocate, recounting the traumatic events that began when she was just nine years old and a charming neighbor infiltrated her family’s lives.

We unravel the calculated deception employed by Robert Birchtold, who manipulated Jan and her family through carefully constructed trust and charismatic charm. Jan provides a detailed account of the emotional and psychological strategies used by her abductor, including the terrifying mind games and threats that kept her compliant. Despite the unimaginable ordeals, including a second kidnapping to a Mexican trailer park, her story is one of resilience and the unyielding human spirit.

This episode is not just about the horrors Jan endured but also about her incredible journey toward healing and empowerment. Jan emphasizes the importance of gratitude, forgiveness, and boundaries in overcoming trauma. Her insights into the complexity of familial manipulation, the strength required to rebuild one's life, and her ongoing efforts as an advocate for survivors offer a beacon of hope. Tune in for an episode that underscores the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of love and support.

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What if the stars could guide you through the tumultuous energy of eclipse season? Join me, Kerry Brett, as I welcome the esteemed astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to Shot@Love. Together, we unravel the planetary influences shaping our lives, particularly how the recent and upcoming eclipses affect Pisces and Virgo. Jill unveils the deep connection between our physical and emotional well-being, providing practical advice that will empower you to stay proactive about health and recognize how our emotions can manifest physically.

How do you navigate new relationships post-October 2nd? Jill and I reflect on past experiences from 2015 to 2017 and discuss the importance of reassessing relationship goals with the South Node in Libra and North Node in Aries. We also discuss broader astrological trends, predicting political changes and significant news events influenced by lunar events and planetary movements. During these transformative weeks, you can expect insightful guidance on managing relationships, health, and financial concerns.

As we venture into the dynamics of "cuffing season," Jill sheds light on Pluto's retrograde into Capricorn and its eventual transition into Aquarius, marking the end of a 14-year cycle and the beginning of significant transformations. We tackle the chaotic global landscape and discuss how the ending of patriarchal dominance reshapes our world. Emphasizing self-care and internal peace, Jill offers wisdom on managing energy and attention during these tumultuous times, with Jupiter retrograde in Gemini. Tune in for cosmic guidance and practical tips to align yourself with the universe's energy.

To find out more about Jill Jardine and book a reading, go to www.jilljardineastrology.com

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World-renowned musician Jeff McMahon shares captivating stories from his 18-year career with Tim McGraw's band, the Dancehall Doctors. Join me, Kerry Brett, as Jeff reveals the pivotal moments that shaped his musical journey and his life offstage. From performing hits like “Live Like You Were Dying” at the Country Music Awards to running marathons for the Tug McGraw Foundation, Jeff exemplifies how music can be a force for good, connecting people and uplifting spirits.

Our conversation reveals the power of genuine connections as we reminisce about maintaining friendships from college days and finding community at unexpected places like the local Waffle House. Surprises abound as Jeff shares a heartfelt video project with artist Nicole Lewis that turns into an unexpected celebration. Through tales of kindness and thoughtful gestures, we discover the profound impact of truly listening and being present in each interaction, whether it's sending a meaningful gift or simply sharing a moment of joy.

As we explore the emotional depths of music, Jeff recounts moving performances that highlight music’s healing power, like honoring a young woman's memory with "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head." We dive into the creation and significance of songs like “Angela’s Wings,” allowing listeners to find solace and meaning. Wrapping up, I share insights on finding love and the importance of commitment to oneself and others. Tune in for a heartfelt episode filled with authenticity, inspiration, and the timeless magic of music.

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Visionary, creative, and storyteller Dave McLaughlin joins us for an electrifying conversation on his unconventional journey across filmmaking, fashion, and tech. From the creative challenges of the film industry to the audacious growth at WeWork, Dave shares his experiences navigating these dynamic fields. His latest venture, Cake, an invitation-only shopping community, is shaking up the fashion world by connecting dedicated shoppers with exclusive brands. Get ready to explore how building communities can transcend traditional advertising and offer a fresh perspective on resilience and innovation in today's fast-paced business environment.

Throughout our discussion, we explore the highs and lows of creative pursuits and the entrepreneurial spirit that fuels them. Inspired by Richard Florida's concept of the creative economy, Dave and I reflect on the intersection of art and entrepreneurship. We examine how tech advancements and pivotal events like the 2008 financial crisis have reshaped the landscape, offering both challenges and opportunities. Hear firsthand stories of embracing successes and failures, weaving through the transformative power of perseverance and the joys of witnessing the profound impact of art.

As we wrap up, Dave reflects on the whirlwind experience of WeWork's meteoric rise and subsequent challenges. He offers insights into the hero's journey through personal anecdotes, emphasizing the importance of taking initiative and fostering collaboration. From celebrating personal milestones to valuing oneself as an exclusive experience, this episode encourages a mindset of abundance and personal growth. Join us for an inspiring journey that champions creativity, resilience, and the pursuit of meaningful endeavors.

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 Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. The holiday season is often painted as a time of joy, connection, and celebration. Yet, for many, it can also be a period of deep loneliness, especially after life-altering events like a breakup, loss, or significant change. The journey from loneliness to purpose during the holidays is one of resilience, reflection, and transformation—a path that can lead to newfound success and fulfillment.  

A Journey to Overcome Holiday Loneliness  

Spending the holidays alone can feel overwhelming. Dr. Tricia Rose, a former optometrist turned life coach, knows this all too well. After her divorce, she faced the daunting prospect of navigating Christmas alone. But instead of succumbing to despair, Tricia used this time to turn inward, reflect, and ultimately transform her experience of solitude into one of peace and purpose.  

Through her blog, "Rose Colored Glasses", Tricia shares actionable strategies to help others in similar situations. She emphasizes the importance of managing expectations and reframing the holidays as just another day, which can empower individuals to approach the season without undue pressure or anxiety.  

Finding Meaning in Solitude  

Dr. Tricia Rose and Kerry Brett dive into the nuances of loneliness versus solitude, offering insights on how carving out personal time can be a deliberate, fulfilling choice. For those wrestling with the "inner Grinch," holiday triggers can stir unresolved emotions. Yet, these moments also present opportunities for self-growth and healing.  Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. 

Embracing solitude isn’t about isolation, it’s about finding peace in your own company. Self-compassion, kindness, and small, meaningful interactions can serve as powerful tools to bridge the gap between loneliness and connection.  

Discovering Purpose Through Giving  

One of the most effective ways to combat loneliness is by redirecting energy toward meaningful endeavors. Volunteering, engaging in charity work, or giving heartfelt, handmade gifts can create a ripple effect of positivity. Tricia and Kerry emphasize how stepping outside of daily routines and helping others can foster a sense of purpose and community.  Find Success During the Holidays: From Loneliness to Purpose. 

The simple act of giving, whether it's time, attention, or a carefully chosen gift, can transform your holiday experience. These gestures not only uplift others but also provide a sense of accomplishment and joy that can brighten even the loneliest days.  

Embracing Self-Care and Gratitude  

Self-care plays a pivotal role in finding success during the holidays. Indulge in activities that bring you comfort, whether that’s cozying up with a good book, preparing your favorite meal, or exploring a new hobby. Gratitude is another key element; taking time to appreciate the good in your life, no matter how small, can shift your perspective and enhance your overall well-being. 

Tune In and Transform Your Holiday  

For more inspiration, tune in to podcasts on platforms like Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and NewsBreak, where Dr. Tricia Rose and Kerry Brett share their insights. Follow their journeys on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn to discover more ways to find connection and purpose during the holidays.  

This season, let go of the traditional notions of what the holidays "should" look like. Instead, embrace your unique journey, transforming loneliness into an opportunity for self-discovery and success. Whether through connection, giving, or self-care, you have the power to create a holiday filled with meaning and joy.  Find Success During the Holidays.  

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With the holiday season upon us, it's time to rethink your dating strategy. This episode is filled with strategies for holiday dating. Dr. Christie's Holidating 101 program offers actionable tips to keep your love life moving forward without burning out. Whether optimizing your online presence, attending festive events, or maintaining a positive attitude, we provide the tools you need to navigate this busy period. With consistency and a clear plan akin to a fitness routine, you'll be ready to tackle the surge in dating activity and find the connection you've been searching for. Get inspired to take control of your dating journey and open the door to the love you deserve.

Unlock the science behind love with Dr. Christie Kederian, an acclaimed therapist, dating coach, and former eHarmony matchmaker. Join me, Kerry Brett, as we unravel how cultural and faith influences have shaped Dr. Christie's journey to becoming a relationship expert. With her profound insights, we challenge pop culture myths and explore the sophisticated eHarmony algorithm that measures 32 dimensions of compatibility. Are you curious about how attachment styles impact your love life? Discover how understanding these styles can change the dating game for you.

Venture into the heart of the dating journey as we decode why recognizing intentions early is vital and how chemistry or scarcity mentality can hinder women from seeing the truth. Dr. Christie introduces the clever "criteria sandwich" to help you sift through deal breakers and must-haves, while the concept of "soulmate sunglasses" encourages authenticity over approval-seeking. Learn to avoid the pitfalls of dismissing good matches or overlooking red flags as we prioritize your desires.

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After a painful journey through divorce and domestic violence, Janice Formichella changed her life by turning heartbreak into empowerment. She found strength in solitude, a story we've been waiting to share. As a breakup coach and host of "The EX-Files" podcast, Janice guided herself from rock bottom to new heights, and she's here to offer you a roadmap to transform heartbreak into personal growth. Her candid reflection on moving to Australia for a supposed short escape, which became a five-year journey of self-discovery, speaks to the power of resilience and embracing change.

Janice shares her strategies for rebuilding confidence after heartbreak by engaging in meaningful pursuits and embracing what she calls her sexy single time. Learn about the “sexy solo date nights” that replaced weekend dread with self-determination and how goal-setting and new projects helped Janice and others move forward from the pain of a broken heart. Her insights highlight the importance of changing environments and finding joy in one’s own company, as well as powerful tools to break negative thought cycles and foster self-confidence.

Discover how media consumption can shape your mental health, and hear Janice's personal experience of cutting out negativity to pave the way for a mindful lifestyle. She shares how uplifting shows like "Queer Eye" and "Grace and Frankie" became part of her healing process, transforming her from a party lifestyle to a more purposeful existence. With practical tips on building confidence and reclaiming self-worth post-breakup, Janice offers hope and guidance, encouraging you to embrace independence and cherish the journey to self-reliance.

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Join me, Kerry Brett, as I welcome back the ever-enlightening Jill Jardine, a renowned astrologer and spiritual advisor, to "Shot at Love." Together, we explore the cosmic energies shaping 2025, a year brimming with transformative power thanks to significant planetary shifts. Learn how Pluto's transition into Aquarius and the dynamic duo of Neptune and Saturn moving into Aries heralds unprecedented change, offering personal and collective realignment opportunities. Jill shares her wisdom on harnessing these cosmic vibrations for personal growth, especially after the uncertainty of 2024, and highlights 2025's numerological significance as a year of completion and fresh starts.

Feel the excitement as we discuss the favorable energies early in the year, with January’s full moon and the Lunar New Year setting the stage for new beginnings. February promises vibrant social dynamics, perfect for launching new ventures under Capricorn's steady influence. As Mercury retrograde in March invites reassessment, we prepare for the impactful lunar and solar eclipses. Listen closely as Jill unpacks the shifts brought by Saturn entering Aries and Jupiter's move to Cancer, with Uranus's transition into Gemini adding an element of unpredictability in July. These cosmic changes urge us to foster stability and seek truth amidst the swirling energies.

Discover how embracing Aquarian and Uranian energies can elevate your love life and vibrational frequency. Jill suggests engaging in networking events, live music, and raising your vibration to attract love and align with higher frequencies. By tapping into this year's themes of experimentation and self-reflection, you can transform your relationships and personal growth journey. As always, I'm here to guide you on this path, encouraging you to stay tuned, subscribe, and leave a review as we continue to support your quest for love and stability.

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Shot @ Love- Me Exposed with Host Kerry Brett

Kerry Brett––“Me, Exposed” with Shot@Love’s host Kerry Brett. Kerry’s success comes from inherent creativity and dedicated focus as one of the most sought-after lifestyle photographers. Early on, she perfected the ability to create life changing photographs. She has the ability to tell the story of those she has photographed through her portraits. Her photographs have helped people create the image they want to see, and the images they want others to remember.

 Kerry is not only a professional photographer, she’s a dating expert, a healer, fixer, and comedian with a deeper side and even deeper connection to people. A survivor with practical advice, who won’t let other’s settle or not take control of their own dating destiny. 

 Your successful dating life is now in sight! Let’s be busy swiping! Welcome to the podcast Shot@Love!

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Kelley Doyle is a Communications and PR Strategist at ETHIC, A Wealth Bank. Kelley is a seasoned public relations consultant with demonstrated success working with corporate nonprofit clients, travel and tourism. Skilled writer, editor, publicist, event planner. Harvard College graduate Bachelor of Arts, Cum Laude.

Kelley’s episode covers how there will always be that next chapter. In life we have good chapters and not so good chapters and during those difficult times how important it is to lean on your friends. The struggle is real, that there will always be that tough chapter, but you need to find a way to get beyond it.

Kelley also discusses how isolating being single can be and why it’s so important to surround yourself with friends and family and how to find support in a wing girl.

In this episode we stress the importance of never letting your current situation impact yourself worth. How your biggest commodity in life is time. Dating is a commitment of time––you need to make time for what’s important if you want real change.

If you want people to value your time you have to put value on it.

Remember, tomorrow has the possibility of being a better day.

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Caroline is a millennial a business professional in the advertising industry, who specializes in paid social strategy and buying. Her episodes cover how she became a new and improved version of herself in online dating. She shares stories of her dating experience. The things to avoid. Caroline encourages you to be optimistic, that in the world of online dating you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. What’s the worst that can happen? She discusses reprogramming your mind. How it’s important to lose limiting thoughts and beliefs while figuring out what you want. Caroline also discusses how patience is a virtue and the important of being patient in the world of online dating. This episode is a must for all young people especially millennials.