Sexplore With Papushka. (Papushka )

Continuation of From Men's lips to God's ears.

Kenne and I delve further into the political ideas around sex and sexuality. On this episode we tackle sexual freedom, the pop culture and how it influences sex and as well the PORN CULTURE 😜. IÑTRESTING annit??

The podcast talks about finding yourself sexually.... Chasing the orgasm, understanding and appreciating your body and establishing what works for you sexually.

This is a follow up from the podcast WANKING DIARIES. on this episode I talk about the impacts and effects of Masturbation to one's sexual life.

This is a sample audio for the Whickers Radio and Audio award 2020 application.

It's as simple as it gets..... The secrets behind making men have intimate, pleasurable and orgasmic Sexual experiences.

Continuation of the SERIES on answering your questions.

Putting in the work in sorting out our toxic traits. Dealing with toxic patners. What do you do when your friends are in toxic Relationships?

This is an introduction episode for my sex podcast. Feel free to pop some questions on what you want me to discuss in subsequent shares. Cheers!!

I honestly don't even know what to tell you this episode is about..... it's just a conversation with a friend......you tell me what your take away was from our conversation

How do you Balance sexual energies? What happens if one patner wants sex more than the other or is highly Sexually active? Can men be emotionally expressive in the relationship? How do you vreak the glasd ceiling in relationships?

Have you ever been left without a word. Without an explanation without being informed? Your patner just gies mute on you and bloody moves on.... This episode ecoloees the importance of closure.

This is part 2 of the condom episode. In this episode we discuss types are of condoms and deconstruct some of the misconceptions around condom use.

We are tired of starting the conversation, we are tired of being the ones to throw some pickup lines. It won't hurt if you ladies also took some time to ignite the fire. 

"In this episode, Baby Rue and I embark on a candid exploration of modern-day parenthood and the empowering choice not to have children. We delve into family planning options, discuss the evolving concept of parenting in the 21st century, and gain insights into why Rue has made the decision not to embrace motherhood. Join us for a thought-provoking conversation on choice, autonomy, and breaking societal stigmas."

In the spirit of INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA BIPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA (IDAHOBIT) we are breaking the silence by having a gays talk. An intricate look at the gay experience in kenya, from birth to religion and finally self actualization.

This is part 2 of Answering questions that the fans asked anonymously.

Have you had any wet dreams in your Adulthood. In your 20s or 30s? What does it mean and how can you go about it?

Have you had numerous sexual occasions where you ejaculated but failed to experience a climax? That moment you wanked and diddled the sausage but ended up being too tired to continue. Or you came but never liked it? Or you felt like trash after the sex? Felt like it was a waste of time? I got some news for you my person..... You got Orgasm Dysfunction. This episode give a quick brush on description of the condition, symptoms, causes and remedies.

Orweda the bird and I discuss having friends with benefits. What makes a friends with benefits situation work? Are you pro or anti friends with benefits? Also there is a lil confession on sneaky links and friends with benefits gone wrong.

This episode talks about Online Dating etiquette, how to shoot your shot on social Media. Is it right to go direct? Should we normalize having a conversation first before shooting your shot? How do we deal with Catfish's?

"In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the intriguing intersection of sex and technology with our guests, Ben and NK. From the impact of dating apps to the ethics of virtual intimacy, we navigate the evolving landscape where digital innovation meets human desire. Join us as we delve into the use of lights, music, sex toys, virtual intimacy pornography etc.

This is my Christmas gift to you. Just a small talk on how to handle your sexcapades this festive season. In this episode I talk about the power of self pleasure, protection during the festivities and the importance of communicating your feelings before sex

I have a small dick and that shit frustrates me as fuck. naogopanga adi kuchinjia madem. Na me hupenda msokolombo kwa giza.

Of everything cheating and best friends. Is cheating justifiable? Is it forgivable? What id considered cheating? Is flirting cheating?

Spatu and I discuss some aspects of mild BDSM. MATTERS handcuffs, beatings, chocking pissing shitting etc. Enjoy 😜😜

Have you ever been heartbroken from a relationship you were never in? Or one that never kicked off? What are labels what is the necessity of having lables how does it help? All these and more as we discuss various lables and their meaning

Kadiam, Andrew and myself chit chat about aspects of a good Top. What makes a top skillfull. What are the. Sexual attributes thar a Top should poses? Romance skills anyone?

Ever had a hookup gone wrong? You are there regretting going for the hookup in the first place? Why not know what you need to do before a hookup? On this episode I analyze what needs to be done before a hookup.

In this episode I host baby rue. Baby Rue and I discuss the impacts of. Our Upbringing to our dating lives. How does our childhood impact our dating lives now? What are our toxic traits that we attribute to our parents or guardians that are festering in our relationships? Does our Upbringing impact the type of partners that we desire?? WHO KNOWS.

This episode highlights what informs our sexual views. From the societal influence to local sex education and stereotypes around sex and sexuality. My guest and I review some of our sexual norms and practices in Kenya including sexual entitlement by men, activism and feminisms impact on sexual practices and the role of politics in sexual practices

I honestly don't know what to describe this as. Just listen.

Guys take on matters sex. Talk about mistakes people make in bed, masturbation, penis sizes and gath, communication in sex, where sex is most plesurable and finally lessons learnt from their hoectivities.

Join me in this episode as I host JD, exploring the intricacies of long-distance relationships. From unraveling the challenges and unexpected benefits to spicing up intimacy across miles, we delve into the unique perspective JD brings. Tune in for insights on navigating sex drive, power dynamics, and fostering connection in a relationship that defies geographical boundaries.

What does marriage mean to you? My guest and I discuss the concept of marriage in the 21st century. We evaluate giving birth to children in marriage and stigma against unmarried adults.

On This episode I hosted the legendary Natalie Abuodha. The episode tackles the 4 stages of the Menstrual cycle, How it affects the woman's behaviour, sexual desires and decision making. Why should you listen to this if you are a man? Because information is key. You need to understand the woman's anatomy in order to know how to deal with her at different stages of their 28 day cycle. Why should you listen to this if you are a woman? Well get to understand yourself from another woman's perspective. Feel free to give feedback on my socials Papa_Alando on Instagram. Or just dm me on Whatsapp@ +250 784 589 507

In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the relationship of our guests—a straight couple—and explore the intricate dynamics that make their bond special. We discuss how their shared interests and hobbies have played a role in strengthening their connection. The conversation highlights their strategies for effective communication, even when faced with challenges, and the art of balancing their individuality with their togetherness. We touch upon the concept of love languages and how they express affection uniquely, and how they navigate differences, be they cultural, personal, or lifestyle-related, all while maintaining a strong and harmonious partnership.

Certain traumatic life experiences affect how we associate with people both Sexually, socially and romantically. This episode guides people recovering from traumatic experiences like rape. Assault, death, murder, pedophilia and any forms of sexual assault that may interfere with one's mental health.

My guest Alex is an LGBTIQ rights activist who helps us delve into HIV AND AIDS WITHIN THE DATING SPECTRUM.

You know how sometimes we overhype out sex and then when pus comes to shove we under deliver? This episode looks at feedback during and after sex with your patner.

When you are sending those naughty pics? Nudes? Videos etc ... What's there to know beforehand? The episode discuses the do's the don't and the downright ugly of sex chatting.

Do you just have those ex patners who were the Devil's Agents??On this episode We discuss sex with an ex, friendship with an ex, sharing friends with and ex and insurance in a relationship.

In this episode, I am joined by Fred Rwaka, an independent activist from Rwanda, as they candidly share their journey growing up as a gay and feminine individual. We explore the unique challenges and advantages of navigating a straight world, surviving in corporate and social settings, and confronting stereotypes head-on. Join us for a compelling conversation that celebrates authenticity and resilience.

Have you heard of the 5 apology Languages? This episode is a ran down on understanding the needs of each apology language and how to explore different apology styles. It's topped with stories and experiences from the one and only...... PAPUSHKAAAAAA

Do you enjoy blows, are you a blowjob virgin? Well this episode is for you. The essential preparations and fundamentals to consider when giving or taking Oral sex.

This is. a 4 part series with guests Koech and master mkuto Emmanuel. The gentlemen disect on matters men, orgasm Dysfunction in men, one night stands, when that pussy stunk, toxic masculine traits and of best friends and gay friends.

What are queer spaces? What's the impact of older generation queers to young upcoming queers? How can we create a safe environment fir growth of younger queers? Ibanda and I discuss these aspects of of queer spaces.

Bold topic right??🤣🤣🤣well it's not really the essence of the episode but I found the topic eye catching. On This episode we talk about THE LGBTQ SPACE IN RWANDA. My Guest and I delve on safety and security for queers in Rwanda. The LGBTIQ LIFE, HOOKING UP CULTURE AND MOST importantly Rwandan men.(Trust me Rwandan men are a whole us conversation.)

Join me for a transformative episode as I delve into the art of maximizing pleasure during penetrative sex. From navigating intensity to assessing pain and pleasure, this masterclass is tailored for anyone receiving penetration. Elevate your intimate experiences with practical insights and techniques. Tune in now and embark on a journey to heightened satisfaction! The background music is chilled saxophone music by BRENDAN ROSS

The episode explores the queer culture in kenya. Matters sex, lust, mental health, cheating, trust respect and longevity of queer relationships.

what would make a guy cheat? Is it normal for a guy to appreciate another guys beauty? Is the man's ego in his dingo🍆🍆?

On this episode I Host the fashion icon Kimani with the oldies Kadiam and Andrew as we talk about Ghosting. In this part A series we share our ghosting stories and get to hear what makes us ghost people and what pur thoughts are on the ghosting culture. This is the first part of the two part series.

In the spirit of INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA BIPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA (IDAHOBIT) we are breaking the silence by having a gays talk. An intricate look at the gay experience in kenya, from birth to religion and finally self actualization.

Baby Rue and I discuss what actually makes Good sex from a female perspective. She shares her experiences with when she enjoyed sex and some of the factors that for HER, makes sex great.

How should we go about asking for an open relationship? What are the terms of open Relationships? Why have an open relationship in the first place?

How to reject someone politely, harnessing the energy, greyticks, blueticks or ignore? How donwe ensure that our communication techniques are compatible?

My sexuality confuses me and I would like to just have a constant. I know I am gay but sometimes I feel asexual. Even then sometimes I think I'm bisexual and there is so much trauma behind acting straight that I would never want to have any attraction to the opposite sex. I wish my body could just pick to either be gay or asexual because the realities of both are tough to deal with individually let alone confused. I just feel so frustrated, any advice?

How do you express your love? How do yoy expect your partner to express their love? This episode takes you through all the 5 love languages. And how to do a love language test which can be done through this linkhttps://www.5lovelanguages.com/

Orweda the bird and I discuss what men want romantically, emotionally, psychologically and sexually from a Straight man's perspective.

The gang and I self-reflect on why finding love has been such a tussle in 2022....we Break down our own contribution to what's making us single and delve deep into how communication affects the dating phase.

Sometimes you just need to cum for you to know exactly what you want. This episode highlights the importance of separating life decisions from sexual tension through ejaculation Clarity.

Continuity of lables in a relationship. This episode talks about an open relationship, FWB, POLYAMORY ETC.

My guest Spatu and I discuss delayed ejaculation and prolonged sex. What is delayed ejaculation? How long is good sex? How should one handle delayed ejaculation? What are some of the causes? How does dick size and gath affect ejaculation? This and much more in this episode. Enjoy. Feel free to give feedback through my Instagram Papa_alando.

Ever been the Doormat in the relationship? You keep on forgiving and forgetting but they keep on making the same mistake over and over again? Listen to me, you are the Doormat.... Brave yourself coz they gon wipe their dirt on you.

I have good size, but I have a problem lasting long enough (+1 min) during sex, and after that i don't have energy for round 2+ on most times...have had an issue with masturbation

😝😝🍆😁🍑🍑. I mean, the title explains it all annit??? Let's discuss some ground rules for threesomes shall we?

What makes a relationship toxic? How do you deal with toxic partners?does everyone have toxic traits?

In this episode, join hosts Baby Rue, G, Anonymous, and Gad as they dive into a whirlwind of candid discussions covering a wide array of topics. From the timeless question of whether size matters to the more intimate sharing of personal sexual experiences, this unscripted conversation takes unexpected turns and explores the depths of human curiosity and experience. Expect the unexpected as these lively personalities engage in a raw and unfiltered exchange, offering insights, laughter, and perhaps even a few surprises along the way. Strap in for a rollercoaster ride of random musings and genuine exploration in this episode.

I have a serious crush of a guy... I'm not sure if he's gay but he keeps giving me mixed signals. We hang out and talk aloooot he even says he likes me but I don't know how to test the waters... I respect him and his personal space but I'm just into him and I think he knows. Please help

On this second part we talk about self esteem and how ghosting can impact one's self esteem. We discuss how to politely decline sexual or romantic advances as opposed to ghosting

The episode exolores in depth the psychological effects of masturbation. The bad and the ugly and the awkward.

Hi, I am bisexual sight of a vagina and ass disgust me, the red ma-nyama really scares me, that I like wearing CD to avoid raw contact..Am I normal?

What comes out too strong, what comes out too average. Who should shoot the first shot, who should hit the other first? Who should start the sex talk?

I'm bisexual and I really don't know how to balance. This thing is confusing.

This is Part 2 of the interview with Miss Abuodha. On this part we talk about Menstrual sex, it's benefits to the woman, and the female assigned at birth. We discuss how to prepare for Menstrual sex, the DO's and Don'ts when having Menstrual sex and alternative pleasure for penetrative sex.

Sit your ass down and tell me why we are losing men to SEXUAL ENHANCING MEDICINE. Are we still stuck to streotypical belief that the longer the sex the better? Is good sex long sex?

Have you ever dated a person with a baggage you can't really handle? They are emotionally unstable, toxic, violent etc. What are the legnths of baggages that you can sustain in a relationship? How do you get to know your partners baggage? How do. You know if the relationship is getting toxic? When is tge right time to leave?? These and more with special guest MICK KAE.

"In this episode, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and support as we tackle anonymous questions from our audience. Join me as we delve into the complexities of postnatal depression, explore the facets of self-image, address the challenges of body dysphoria, and guide individuals on the path to understanding and identifying their sexuality. It's a candid and compassionate conversation you won't want to miss."

The conversation continues from the previous episode where we highlight what about our environment is making us single

In the spirit of INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA BIPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA (IDAHOBIT) we are breaking the silence by having a gays talk. An intricate look at the gay experience in kenya, from birth to religion and finally self actualization.

How does sex affect your relationship with your partner? What attracts you to you patner? How does your sex life impact and influence your relationship? Is healtht sex really necessary in the relationship?

Bold topic right?? 😂😂. I know.Don't feel attacked as a Bi. Just know we are unveiling some of the toxic traits of bisexuals. We discuss having relationships with bisexuals and people confused about their sexuality.

Are you going through boredom this corona period? You have so much work to do at home but you are unable to. You can't concentrate on something for long? You get extremely bored with everything, watching, working, cooking, chatting sleeping etc. I got some news flash........

Is your relationship crumbling because your patner doesn't offer you sex as often as you expect? Do you think your patner is not giving much effort or intrest in sex? Has your sex drive been low of late? Have you cheated because you feel dissatisfied with your patner Sexually? Do you think you initiate sex more than your patner does? what happens now? Are you queer but not interested in penetrative sex? Then this is your episode.

Did you know it's illigal to kiss, hug, spank, touch, “sugua” and fuck anyone without their consent??, well this episodes is about consent 101. The laws of consent and the consent do's and Don'ts.

In the spirit of INTERNATIONAL DAY AGAINST HOMOPHOBIA BIPHOBIA AND TRANSPHOBIA (IDAHOBIT) we are breaking the silence by having a gays talk. An intricate look at the gay experience in kenya, from birth to religion and finally self actualization.

Having trouble Ejaculating before the fun begins? Don't worry. I ghat you.

This is a two part series where we talk about condom use, misconceptions and how to practice safe sex. In this first episode we will share our HIV scare stories and how we managed to deal with it. My guests are the legendary Andrew and Kadiam.

What are the unspoken laws behind one night stands? Is it just about the sex? How can you ensure your own safety and security during a night stand?

How do you sustain a Longer, gathier, bigger erection? How fo you increase the number of erections per night? How do you sustain a firm erection? These and much more in the episode.

In this enlightening episode, my guests, relationship experts God and G, unravel common myths and expectations surrounding relationships. Together, we delve into our individual perspectives on what constitutes a healthy relationship, offering valuable insights into managing insecurities, navigating expectations, and harnessing self-awareness to become better partners. Tune in as we explore the dynamics of modern relationships and provide practical wisdom for fostering genuine connections.

So what are the myths and misconceptions behind douching or enema? Is it safe to enema? How should ypu safely prepare for anal sex? These are some of the incites on this specific episode. Ps. This is a public warning, the content is exclusive to those who practice anal sex.