Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective (Jay Dee - Marriage Educator)

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	Pub. Date	Title	Duration
	12 Feb 2017	Still looking for the perfect Valentine’s Gift?	00:04:00
Looking for the perfect Valentine's Day gift that will continue to around for years to come? Something that's sexy without being sexual? Check out Melt.
	18 Mar 2017	SWM028 – Answering questions about oral sex before marriage, joint bank accounts, toys, dirty talking and grooming	00:17:26
I'm changing up the format of the podcast a bit this week and answering some reader questions.
	25 Mar 2017	SWM029 – Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers and work during sex	00:29:43
This episode, I'm answering anonymous questions we've received about fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.
	01 Apr 2017	SWM030 – Credentials, sex and sickness, falling out of love, self control and how to start leading	00:27:15
Today I'm answering some more questions from our Have A Question page that have come in over the last month or so. This episode I talk about my credentials, dealing with sex drive and long-term illness, falling out of love, self-control and how to start leading when you haven't been. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.
	18 Apr 2018	SWM031 – How to help your husband be more assertive in bed	00:23:56
I have a lot of wives coming to me asking how to get their husband to be more assertive in bed. The problem is, our society and culture have taught men to be more submissive, and take a back seat with regard to sex. We're either explicitly or implicitly taught that we should let the woman lead in the physical relationship. The problem is that many married women don't want that. They want a husband who is assertive and confident, not waiting for his wife to make the first move and anxious. So, this podcast is about how to help your husband to be more assertive in the bedroom, because while I can tell men all day to be more confident, the truth is, a lot of it has to do with how his wife responds. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.
	23 May 2018	SWM032 – Is oral sex unsanitary?	00:16:26
Today I'm talking about oral sex and whether or not it's sanitary. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.
	20 Jun 2018	SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss	00:43:48
This is the audio recording of the sermon I preached in my home church about sex. You can get the full transcript on the website. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.
	30 Nov 2018	SWM034 – Limited Time offer – Intimacy Advent Calendar	00:07:24
This is just a quick podcast episode to let my listeners know about our Intimacy Advent Calendar currently for sale in our shop. You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling. At the same time, I know many couples struggle to maintain intimacy during the holidays. Not just physical intimacy (but that too), but it’s also a high-point for arguments and blow-outs. So, I wanted to make something that encouraged us to draw together during this season. So, I put together an Advent Calendar for couples. It took me a while to figure out how to manage things like visitations, big dinners, people’s differing boundaries and comfort levels around certain sexual activities, travel, and even periods. But, I think I found a fairly elegant solution. Check out the product here for more info: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/intimacy-advent-calendar/ Only available until Dec 2.
	15 Jan 2019	SWM035 – Anonymous Questions from December 2018	01:01:28
This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018. You can find the complete questions and answers at https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-december-2018/ Topics include: ED due to medical problems Husband in erotic chatrooms Sex toys caused sexual awakening List of books for continued learning Double standard on the blog Positions Anal sex in Song of Solomon Sexy underwear for men Hypnosis Is it wrong to masturbate if you don't have an orgasm during sex? Why there is nothing new on the blog How to ask a potential spouse if they like oral sex Orgasming on command If you have a question you'd like to have answered, check out our Have A Question page at UncoveringIntimacy.com Find us on Patreon Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest Or subscribe to our newsletter to get all the info. ";s:7:"gp_desc";s:1615:" This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018. You can find the complete questions and answers at https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-december-2018/ Topics include: ED due to medical problems Husband in erotic chatrooms Sex toys caused sexual awakening List of books for continued learning Double standard on the blog Positions Anal sex in Song of Solomon Sexy underwear for men Hypnosis Is it wrong to masturbate if you don't have an orgasm during sex? Why there is nothing new on the blog How to ask a potential spouse if they like oral sex Orgasming on command If you have a question you'd like to have answered, check out our Have A Question page at UncoveringIntimacy.com Find us on Patreon Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest Or subscribe to our newsletter to get all the info.
	12 Feb 2019	SWM036 – Sexy Memory Foreplay Game

	01 Mar 2019	SWM 037 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 1

	12 Mar 2019	SWM 038 – Anonymous Questions January 2019 – Part 2	00:28:53

	31 Mar 2019	SWM 039 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 3	00:42:34

	07 Apr 2019	SWM 040 – What happens to our souls when we have sex?	00:22:51

	14 Apr 2019	SWM041 – How do you stay interested long term?

	21 Apr 2019	SWM042 – God will never leave you	00:32:54
This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce. Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4U Get the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/
	26 May 2019	SWM 043 – Anonymous Questions from April 2019	00:38:22

	09 Jun 2019	SWM 044 – Anonymous Questions from February and March 2019	00:42:07

	19 Aug 2019	SWM 045 – Anonymous Questions from May and June 2019	00:34:09
July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high? How to squirt Wife is into whipping Anal sex tips Single and curious about erections Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night Husband has a secret Facebook profile Porn addiction ruining relationships Wife said she could go months without sex Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist Oral sex not being reciprocated Husband engaging with women online Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud Covenant Eyes Web Filtering The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome 22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's Syndrome Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. We lost a few supporters over the slow summer and due to fincial setbacks from a couple of our supporters, but we're gaining traction again. We're 81% of the way to our next goal - weekly podcast episodes! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. ";s:7:"gp_desc";s:2450:" July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high? How to squirt Wife is into whipping Anal sex tips Single and curious about erections Low drive wife is secretly masturbating every night Husband has a secret Facebook profile Porn addiction ruining relationships Wife said she could go months without sex Low drive husband with Asperger's Syndrome Sex is just another thing on my wife's checklist Oral sex not being reciprocated Husband engaging with women online Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire Women's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirt Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud				06 Sep 2019	SWM 046 – Responsive desire is a blessing

	26 Sep 2019	SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

	20 Oct 2019	SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex	00:33:10

	10 Nov 2019	SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

	27 Nov 2019	SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse	00:42:26

	17 Jan 2020	SWM 051 – Anonymous Questions – October & November 2019 – Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more	00:36:37

	16 Feb 2020	SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

	05 Apr 2020	SWM 053 – Anonymous Questions – December 2019 & January 2020

	26 Apr 2020	SWM 054 – Anonymous Questions – February 2020	00:23:46

	21 May 2020	SWM 055 – Anonymous Questions from March 2020	00:10:13

	01 Jun 2020	SWM 056 – How To Feel Connected During Sex	00:16:07
How do you feel connected during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the question of how you can feel more connected during sex. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Why I, as a Christian, believe we don't have a soul Spice Jar Our Sexploration List Marriage Coaching Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. We are 53% of the way to our next support goal! Thank you to all our faithful supporters. If you'd like us to start hosting virtual workshops, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. And don't forget to leave us a review and share with your friends!
	07 Jul 2020	SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020	00:30:29

	26 Jul 2020	SWM 058 – Anonymous Questions from May 2020	00:32:58
May 2020 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we're tackling the subjects: Husband is in jail Husband masturbates all the time Husband won't quit porn Should Christians avoid Tantric Sex? Premature Ejaculation Bondage Resources Jock Itch Wife is not interested in sex Husband not interested in sex with wife Being "too loose" after children When to disclose a masturbation & porn addiction when dating This month our most popular resource is Becoming More Sexually Engaged - A Course for Christian Wives. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Keep Your Love On - Danny Silk Boundaries In Marriage - Henry Cloud et al. Becoming more sexually engaged SWM 039 - Anonymous Questions from January 2019 - Part 3 SWM 051 - Anonymous Questions from October 2019 Premature Ejaculation Mutual Masturbation Our Sexploration List Beginner Bondage Questions Bondage Rope on Amazon Twisted Monk The Dutchy Safety Scissors Intimacy Ignited Marriage Coaching with Jay Dee Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference.
	06 Aug 2020	SWM 059 – Anonymous Questions from June and July 2020

	27 Sep 2020	SWM 060 – Aug 2020 Questions – Negative Self-Talk, Affairs, Manual Sex Troubles and more	00:40:14

	27 Oct 2020	SWM 061 – September 2020 Questions – High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more	00:25:04

	27 Nov 2020	Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

	04 Dec 2020	SWM 063 – Sermon – It’s all worth it	00:47:18
I’m preaching this weekend in my home church, and so, I thought I’d share my sermon, both because I feel bad that I haven’t been working as much on getting podcast episodes out because of it, and because I thought it might be a good way to practice it, do some final editing and figure out how long it would be. So, the audio is a recording of me reading through it, and if you prefer text, you can find it at uncoveringintimacy.com/swm-063-sermon-its-all-worth-it/ If you like our podcast, and want to encourage us to make more, please be sure to leave us a rating, or better yet a review by visiting lovethepodcast.com/uncoveringintimacy.
	17 Dec 2020	SWM 064 – Oct 2020 Questions – Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more	00:18:26

	29 Dec 2020	SWM 065 – Nov 2020 Questions – High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more	00:18:14

	20 Jan 2021	SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

	24 Jan 2021	SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love

	24 Feb 2021	SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more	00:25:19

	09 Mar 2021	SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

	24 Mar 2021	SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more	00:15:42
February 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Semi-public sex Squirting Low drive wife Fell asleep during sex Wife doesn't like physical contact What is pornographic Poophole loophole This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage Our Sexploration List Spice Jar Last month's podcast Female ejaculation/squirting/gushing survey results How can I stop gushing? How to make yourself squirt during sex Where did my sex drive go? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in January get our Truth or Dare printable free. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	13 Apr 2021	SWM 071 – Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies?	00:15:18
Are sexual fantasies okay for Christians? Does it matter what the fantasy is? If it's only in your mind, does that make it okay? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have had a reasonably active sex life for most of our relationship. There have been ups and downs of course, but for the most part, we really have no complaints that way. One part of that sex life that has been around since very early on is fantasy. We both, me somewhat more than her, enjoy and get very aroused by telling each other different fantasies. The ones that are the most effective and "fun" are ones that involve other people, and even more, same-sex activity. She gets extremely aroused and has very intense orgasms when I tell her about me having sex with another man, vice versa when she tells me about having sex with another woman. Neither of these has ever actually happened, it's strictly fantasy, and neither of us actually has a desire to fulfill these fantasies, but they continue to be part of our sex life. I don't feel guilt or shame about this at all as I feel it's only in the fantasy realm. She is all over the map. Sometimes she feels intense guilt and shame, sometimes she is ok with it. Sometimes, she tries hard to not go there, and other times she asks me to take her there. It's quite confusing for both of us. I just want to get some feedback and perspective on this in an open, Christian forum. I'm quite certain that we are not the only couple that has this "problem" if you would call it that. Thanks. This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life without having to engage in fantasies like this. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here's the post I mentioned during the podcast: Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	05 May 2021	SWM 072 – Mar 2021 Questions – Should humans be non-monogamous and more	00:12:17
March 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is any part of porn ok? Is it unreasonable to expect sex after oral? Are humans meant to be non-monogamous? Is it okay to teach kids to masturbate safely? Wife doesn't enjoy sex but says she wants to be promiscuous This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Solo masturbation is a problem whether you are married or single Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	30 May 2021	Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source?	00:09:54
Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: My wife and I have a very active sex life. We enjoy a nice variety of activities and positions. Our frequency is definitely on the higher side, so I really have no complaints. We have used porn, either separately or together, for much of our relationship and are working on that issue. I understand the problems with that and the implications. That is not what this is about. Many of the things we do sexually have been learned and implemented from watching or reading porn. We have discovered many very enjoyable activities from that area of our lives together. So, here is the question. Does a sexual activity become wrong or sinful if it was introduced from a sinful source? I feel that as long as the activity involves a man and woman married to each other, that activity becomes blessed in the marriage bed. I know others who don't feel the same way. My wife is not completely sure. I'm just wondering what your thoughts are. This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	07 Jun 2021	SWM 074 – Apr 2021 Questions – Friends who grope, postpartum recovery, anxious husbands and more	00:19:35
April 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Friends touching me inappropriately Postpartum recovery from the husband’s perspective Husband is anxious about sex Not attracted to my husband anymore Husband doesn’t like oral sex How to get over husband’s porn use Narcissistic husband and adulterous wife This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	18 Jun 2021	SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more	00:17:21
May 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How we look at sex Why we have refractory periods Whether or not it’s common for a husband to have to ask his wife if she had an orgasm A husband who is secretly purchasing toys A widow who wants to know what happened to her husband who was cremated This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Melt - CouplesMassageCourses.com - 20% off for Fathers' Day Why you should take a couples massage class 25% off in our shop for Father's Day - use coupon code FATHERSDAY A day of sex About the corpus callosum (why men are single minded) Why do some women's legs shake when they orgasm? Keep Your Love On - Danny Silk Boundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John Townsend Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage? Survey Results - Christians, anal sex and anal play What happens when you die? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	09 Aug 2021	SWM 076 – June 2021 Questions – Boring sex lives, ED and PE troubles and breast play	00:30:39
June 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How to improve a boring sex life Why only ED during sex? Meds for Premature Ejaculation Risky public sex Should I talk to my doctor if I have ED? Fantasizing about premarital sex Turned on by my wife urinating Wife with no interest in sex Is breastplay required for a good marriage? This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. We just updated it! Get it free this month when you become a new $5+/month supporter. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Sex Noises Survey Intimacy Ignited - Song of Solomon Bible Study Promescent - Premature Ejaculation Spray Episode 68 - Discussion of the morality of public sex Why marriage ruins sex Introduction to talking dirty Where did my sex drive go? - Free ebook Why are men obsessed with breasts? Don't put your hope in magic pills Melt - Couples massage classes Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference, and also a free copy of Our Sexploration List this month! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	15 Sep 2021	SWM 077 – July 2021 Questions – Dealing with PCOS, fantasizing about your fiancee and more	00:11:10
July 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How do I hide my BDSM toys when I live at home with my parents? Does God value boys more than girls based on Leviticus 12:2-5? How do you handle the hormones from PCOS when you have a low-drive husband? Is it okay to fantasize about my fiancee? This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Sex Noises Survey Christian Married Sex Conference Becoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian Wives Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	24 Sep 2021	SWM 078 – August 2021 Questions – Catching spouses with porn, birth control, Zoloft and PE and more	00:30:18
August 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Snoopy wife caught husband Is orgasming the same as cumming? Is OMGYes okay? Ejaculate colour and consistency Encouraging senior sex Wife won’t “finish” oral sex Wife searched for porn Birth control for Christians Wife’s smell What sexual behaviour is prohibited Zoloft and PE update Multiple wives - again This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life. Recently updated with new sections! Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Christian Married Sex Conference Becoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian Wives Birth control options for Christians Zoloft and PE original question When did God stop allowing multiple wives? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	02 Nov 2021	SWM 079 – September 2021 Questions – Guarding fantasies, low libido, not wanting sex, pain during sex and more	00:44:04
September 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn't want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you to be a virgin if you don't get married? Dealing with the loss of a wife Can men continue to have sex after orgasm? Should you do Our Sexploration List while aroused or not? Pain during sex Are men turned off by prolapses? How to build stamina Are topless and nude photos the same as porn? This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Covenant Eyes - Accountability Software Where did my sex drive go? - Free Ebook Our Sexploration List Post on pain during sex Moringa seeds Moringa seeds Maca powder L-Arginine Red Ginseng Ashwagandha Red Raspberry Leaf Tea Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Plus, supporters this month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	11 Nov 2021	SWM 080 – Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer?	00:20:06
Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. The question we're answering today is: Hi Jay, I have a question for you / your podcast. So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasming is, I feel like after I orgasm so quickly, I am not as stimulated by penetration. Also, I really enjoy oral sex and I wish the experience could last longer. My husband and I waited until marriage to have sex. But before I was following Christ and before I met my husband, I was sexually active, including oral sex, and this never happened. So my questions are: 1) is this normal? is "premature ejaculation" a thing in women? 2) are there any ways to fix this and/or last longer? and 3) in women, if you orgasm once, is there a "come down" period? How is it possible to have multiple orgasms in one "sex session"? Sorry for all of the questions! I still feel like we are so new to having sex and we have a lot to learn. I appreciate any and all input. Thanks! This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: How to make it easier to orgasm during sex Making it easier to orgasm - a guide for Christian wives Introduction to talking dirty Oral sex survey Christians, anal sex and anal play Responsive desire vs. spontaneous desire Limon by Minna (use coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY for $50 off) Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Plus, supporters this month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	16 Nov 2021	SWM 081 – The Limon by Minna – Product Review	00:11:29
The Limon by Minna - Product Review. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Get $50 off the Limon by by clicking here and using the coupon code UIBLACKFRIDAY. This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: The Ola by Minna Learn how to give a great massage Book - ADHD After Dark Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	30 Nov 2021	SWM 082 – October 2021 Questions – Consensual adultery, caught masturbating, handjobs with condoms and more	00:14:50
October 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Why do people think it's okay to commit adultery if their spouse is okay with it? Caught son masturbating with his mom's underwear - what do I do? Handjobs with condoms on? Guilt about bachelorette party Is crossdressing normal? The TENUTO How do I get my wife to come to bed? This month our most popular resource is Our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a fun way to inject some intimacy into the holiday season. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Why masturbation is a problem whether you are married or single Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress? The TENUTO by MysteryVibe TOR 2 by LELO Melt - Couples massage courses Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Plus, supporters this month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	16 Dec 2021	SWM 083 – What is “feeling naughty”?	00:07:59
What is feeling naughty? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of "feeling naughty"? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply "different" as "naughty" as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? There’s no great issue in our marriage or anything around the topic, just curious for your thoughts. But as a little context that got me thinking - my wife and I had a night in a hotel recently to celebrate our anniversary (which was actually 6 months ago, better late than never). As a treat and for fun, I bought her some lingerie that had a hole in the crotch area. It was very sexy and she loved them and we made love while she wore them. To which she exclaimed, "It feels so naughty!"…which I had to agree with, but I’d probably describe more like lots of "fun" whether naughtiness was an element or not. Thanks for your good work! Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Why marriage ruins sex Our Sexploration List Sexy Coupons - show your spouse you still love them in that special way Introduction to Talking Dirty - if you're looking to break some taboos Intimacy Advent Calendar - You can still manage to do 7 days of Christmas Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	31 Dec 2021	SWM 084 – November 2021 Anonymous Questions – Last post of the year	00:33:31
November 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn't acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we going too far? Sex frequency has gone down Crossdressing men Rimming Sex once or twice per year since kids were born Conflict over anal play CBD Lube Spanking Masturbation for medical reasons Is masturbation okay if your spouse can't participate? Will masturbation keep me out of heaven? This year, our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Premature Ejaculation Keep Your Love On - Danny Silk Introduction to talking dirty Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress? Is it okay to engage in pegging in a marriage? Marriage Coaching with Jay Dee Spice Jar - Break out of your bedroom routine Is masturbation for medical reasons okay? Why masturbation is a problem whether you are married or single What is your opinion of solo masturbation due to separation? Three are no salvation issues Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	02 Feb 2022	SWM 085 – December 2021 Anonymous Questions	00:39:23
December 2021 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wet Dreams Money and Marriage Handjobs and control Is my dead husband still with me? Are dreams sinful? How do I take control of my marriage? Sex once a year Is it wrong for a widow to have desires? Unsatisfied with little sex Wife suddenly changed oral skills Best position for first time Is oral sex a sin? Husband has a lot more experience Movies to get in the mood Prepping for anal sex How can I get my wife to show more passion? Issues with wife's self-esteem Questions about lube Realistic toys Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Becoming More Sexually Engaged - A Course for Christian Wives Book a free discovery call with Jay Dee SWM082 - Question 3 - Condoms for handjobs What happens when you die ChristianFriendlySexPositions.com - Cowgirl (Woman on Top) Melt - Couples Massage Courses Wives' orgasm experience System Jo - Naturallove Organic lube Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	11 Feb 2022	SWM 086 – Sex with a well endowed husband	00:15:59
How do you have sex with a well-endowed husband? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Here's the question I'm answering: I’ve been married for a few years now, and before I got married I was a virgin as was my wife. Before getting married I thought that my penis size was going to be a huge asset. I’m fairly large in both length and girth. Unfortunately, my size seems to be more of a hindrance than a benefit. Even with lots of foreplay and lube my wife is often sore afterwards, so even if she is in the mood, we have to wait until she’s no longer sore. Some positions have become off-limits for fear of hitting her cervix. She is usually unable to have an orgasm with me inside even if I primarily am just providing manual stimulation. It doesn’t feel good to be told to pull out and only use my hand, but I do want her to feel good so I gladly do it. Oral sex rarely happens because her jaw is often sore later. In general, I’m very satisfied with our sex life, but I often feel bad about my size, that it makes sex worse for her, but it also limits the things we’re able to do together. So I guess my question is, what advice do you have for bigger guys? I feel like I’m doing what I can to help, including just ordering the thrust buffer that you mentioned in another episode. Waiting for that to arrive. Anything to help with penetrative or oral sex? Or do I just accept that sex will always take a bit more work? I know that God made my body good and that I should love it, but sometimes it’s hard to love the penis he gave me when it seems to cause problems. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Sexy Memory Printable - on sales for $10 until Valentine's Day The OhNut - thrust buffer at MarriedDance.com Clue - cycle tracking app ChristianFriendlySexPositions.com - positions for well-endowed men Cowboy When in doubt Down Low Spooning The Column MarriedDance.com - thick lubricants Slippery Stuff Extra Gentle Gel Water-Based Personal Lubricant System Jo H2O Jelly Original Thick Water-Based Personal Lubricant Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	20 Mar 2022	SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions	00:18:04
January 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Low Drive / Low T Husband Wife won't talk about sex Not attracted to my husband Wife against spicing up sex Is there a difference between having sex and making love? Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Free ebook - Where did my sex drive go? Becoming More Sexually Engaged - A Course for Christian Wives Book - Intimacy Ignited Forum Discussion - What is sex? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	15 Apr 2022	SWM 088 – My Vasectomy Experience	00:16:33
My Vasectomy Experience. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Last month someone emailed me telling me just how amazing they were doing after going through our Sexploration List. I posted some of their testimonial on social media (with permission). You may have seen it. During their email, they also asked some questions, which I wanted to pick up here. Here’s the continuation of that testimonial: But as we chuckled about 9 consecutive days of sex... we both paused...We are 42 and 43 yrs young... Having another child is not something we feel God is prompting us to do. We very clearly felt His timing for all 4 kids. We do not feel any direction that way right now. And so... the V-word crossed both our lips. At the same time. Vasectomy. And I'm not sure what to do… Natural Family Planning is hard when we are keeping each other aroused daily, lol. Your post about your surgery is 5+ years old.... any updates, additional thoughts, additional things to research? Is there a certain "technique" we should look into (stitches vs something else I read about briefly?) dare I ask, has it affected your faith? We are Southern Baptist raised, and raising our kiddos Baptist/ non-denominational. In other words, denomination is not a factor in this decision. But there are so many opinions out there, I’m at a loss. I know that is what they are, just opinions. At this point, if I spend time in prayer and the Lord brings me peace... I’m going to trust God to give my husband the same peace. If not, we will go another route. As the wife, even if we are both pro-vasectomy, I just don’t know how our relationship would handle the guilt if something did go wrong…. - Lydia There’s an old joke that goes "What do you call people who practice Natual Family Planning?" The answer is "Parents" That's how we became a family of 5 kids. So, today I’m going to share an update about what marriage is like post-vasectomy. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: What would be on your vasectomy wishlist? So Simple Vasectomy - No Scalpel Vasectomy Is masturbation for medical reasons okay? Is it alirght to ejaculate on my wife? "A selfish alteration of someone else's creation" thread Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	10 Jun 2022	SWM 089 – February 2022 Anonymous Questions	00:20:01
February 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Fix the alcohol abuse before trying to fix your sex life Wife who has hourly mood swings and is disrespectful Wife who engages in sex, but isn't sexual Oxytocin and porn and masturbation Wife wants husband to get a vasectomy Clone-a-willy question Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: How does porn use harm a marriage The effect of oxytocin on the anthropomorphism of touch Question 9 - Wife who is not attacted to her husband Question 5 - Clone-a-willy Buy your own clone-a-willy Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	31 Jul 2022	SWM 090 – March 2022 Anonymous Questions	00:19:16
March 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Husband who gets defensive about possible porn use Did I change my mind about anal sex? How to I tell my wife that more sex helps with temptation? Is mutual masturbation okay if you're separated due to work? Haven't been able to have sex for 4 years due to vaginismus Friend can't have sex with his wife because of prior porn use Is a panty fetish a problem? Wife hates being pregnant and being a mother Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Becoming More Sexually Engaged - for Christian Wives Free webinar - August 5th, 2002, 9 pm Eastern Is anal sex a sin? The dual control model Mutual Masturbation Mutual Masturbation Survey Results Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	25 Aug 2022	SWM 091 – Explaining romance and foreplay, should both spouses enjoy sex, is my wife faking, nipple orgasms and more	00:21:51
April 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is it okay to masturbate as a widow? Explaining romance and foreplay Is it unreasonable to expect both spouses to enjoy sex? Is my wife really having an orgasm? Is it wrong to want to be more adventurous? Wife got upset when asked for more frequent sex Is mutual masturbation wrong in marriage? Nipple orgasms Last month, our most popular resource was Our Sexploration List - a great way to start a conversation about your sexual preferences with your spouse. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Is it sinful for widows to masturbate? Truth or Dare (free game) Sexy Marriage game (printable) Christian Fiendly Sex Positions Intimacy Ignited (book) Is mutual masturbation okay for married Christians? Mutual Masturbation Survey Results Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	08 Oct 2022	SWM 092 – How do you know if you’ve had an orgasm

	04 Nov 2022	SWM 093 – Crossdressing, counseling not working, should I share fantasies, facial hair, Viagra for women and many more	00:30:42
May and June 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Crossdressing Counseling not fixing her sex drive Should I keep fantasies to myself? Husband addicted to porn Wife has no sex drive FaceTime sex Spouse's facial and body hair Does Viagra work for women? How do I stop her from seeing me as submissive? No sex due to pregnancy complications Wife struggles with overeating How do I stop masturbating? Anal fisting Christmas is coming up, and that means people are starting to get excited about our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a great way to add some intimacy to the holidays. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: The Lion Within AMA with Jay Dee - November 22nd, 8pm EST Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress? Why masturbation is a problem, whether you’re married or single What happened to my sex drive? (ebook) Can you divorce a spouse because of porn use? Is it okay to engage in pegging in a Christian marriage? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	14 Nov 2022	SWM 094 – Who is more righteous?	00:07:45
Who is more righteous? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. A reader posed the following question: There are two people. The first person participates in the modern Sexual Marketplace by dating around, having a series of mid-to-long-term relationships that involve sex, and having a few hookups, but ends up in a stable marriage and has children by his mid-to-late twenties. The second person follows Biblical Courtship (or whatever you want to call it), saves sex for marriage, only courts/dates Christians, but never finds a spouse and ends up as a 40-year-old childless virgin. Who was the more righteous of the two? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Anonymous have a question page SWM 063 - Sermon - It's all worth it Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	30 Nov 2022	SWM 095 – Faking orgasms, diapers, wet and messy/humiliation fetishes, does oral sex equal love, pre-orgasmic wife and more	00:16:40
August 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Coming clean about faking orgasms Wanting wife to wear a diaper Wet and messy / humiliation fetish Is oral sex a measure of love? Married and lonely Chastity play Sex outdoors Pre-orgasmic wife Last chance to jump in on our Intimacy Advent Calendar - a great way to add some intimacy to the holidays. Interested in learning more? Check it out here and get 25% off with the coupon code BLACKFRIDAY Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Coaching Married Sex - Gary Thomas and Debra Feileta (book) Intimacy Ignited - Dillow, Dillow, Pintus and Pintus (book) Becoming more sexually engaged - For Christian wives (course) Introduction to talking dirty (ebook) Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	18 Dec 2022	SWM 096 – Why men being submissive is problematic	00:12:20
Why men being submissive is problematic. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. A reader posed the following question: Hi. I wanted to know if there is any reason that the man can't be the submissive part sometimes during sex. Because I feel like I want to be submissive from time to time, but I don't want to ask my wife because it's an awkward topic. Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Anonymous have a question page What does our physiology say about who should lead? According to the Bible, which gender should lead? TheLionWithin.us - Leadership for Christian men Intimacy Advent Calendar Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	07 Jan 2023	SWM 097 – Location, bruises, God’s role vs my role, how to stop faking orgasms, where do I get my “garbage theology”	00:19:04
September 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Where are you? How to hide bruises What role do I have in God changing my heart? Mother of 3 young kids isn't as interested in sex as husband How to recover from faking orgasms? Husband wants to be pursued Where do you get your garbage theology? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) Upcoming webinar (Jan 21, 2023) about our BMSE Course CovenantEyes - Porn and more blocker (software) Where did my sex drive go? (ebook) Marriage coaching SWM 030 - Question #1 about credentials Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	20 Jan 2023	SWM 098 – Energy, mutual masturbation, orgasm struggles, desire type quiz and meeting other couples	00:09:40
October 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Where does the energy come from? Mutual masturbation Sharing fantasies and machines Masturbation due to struggles with orgasming Spontaneous / Responsive desire quiz Why do married men masturbate? How do you meet other people? Can I use sex to encourage my husband to lose weight? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) Upcoming webinar (Jan 21, 2023) about our BMSE Course Mutual masturbation (post) Mutual masturbation (survey results) SWM 093 - Question 3 - Should you share fantasies with your spouse? Spontaneous / responsive desire quiz (beta) Why do married men masturbate? Can Christians have threesomes? Can Christian couples swing? Sexy coupons (printable) Our Sexploration List (printable) Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	17 Feb 2023	SWM 099 – Spouse fell asleep, revealing clothes, public sex, dreams and encouraging your spouse to be healthier	00:12:59
November 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Spouse falls asleep during romantic getaway Husband wants her to wear revealing clothes Public sex Are we responsible for our dreams? How to encourage your spouse to be healthier Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) 37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sex Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	12 Mar 2023	SWM 100 – My daughter’s speech – The crisis of my generation – transgenderism	00:08:37

	04 Apr 2023	SWM 101 – Why does my spouse always push for more during sex?	00:08:07
SWM 101 - Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. Today I'm answer this question I received in my inbox: Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction to Talking Dirty) that my hubby put on my iPad. The thing is, no matter what I do in my comfort zone, it isn't enough. I do many, I mean many, of the examples you use, even the F WORD. How do I get him to be grateful for what I do instead of needing more? I always feel inadequate. Anyways thanks for helping many couples enjoy their intimacy more! Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	09 Apr 2023	SWM 102 – Wife conflicted, orgasming during sex, BDSM, wife doesn’t like clitoral stimulation and holding your spouse accountable	00:22:12
December 2022 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Does my wife know what I'm doing to her? I want to share orgasms with my husband What are your thoughts on BDSM? Is bondage a problem for me? Wife doesn't like direct clitoral stimulation How do I hold my wife accountable? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused (post) Episode 95 - Question 1 - Coming clean about faking orgasms (post/podcast) Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) Making it easier to orgasm - guide for Christian wives (ebook) Introduction to Talking Dirty (ebook) Our Sexploration List (printable) My wife wants me to tie her up!? (post) Honour bondage (post) Beginner bondage questions (post) Bondage resources - Question 6 (post/podcast) Are dominance/submission games okay in the bedroom? (post) Why does my spouse always push for more during sex? (post/podcast) She Comes First - Book Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	10 May 2023	SWM 103 – Phone sex, oral sex to completion, are pictures okay, increasing female libido, toxic wife and more	00:15:41
January 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Phone sex Oral sex to completion Forgiveness and trust after betrayal Are pictures and videos a problem? Increasing female libido naturally What is our duty? Toxic wife Abusive employer Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Our Sexploration List (printable) Oral sex survey results (post) Do Christians make sex tapes - survey results (post) Why masturbation is a problem, whether you're married or single (post) Becoming More Sexually Engaged (course) Where did my sex drive go? (ebook) Lately our Introduction to Talking Dirty ebook has been very popular. I'm looking to update and expand it this year, which will probably come with a price increase, so if you want to jump in at the current price, it's a good resource for $5. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	02 Jun 2023	SWM 104 – Do women control men, beauty vs lusting, playlist for sex, and are men polygamous by nature?	00:18:46
February 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to masturbate Appreciating beauty vs lusting Playlist for sex Tenuto Squeamish about handjobs Another question about masturbation How do I get my wife to masturbate for me? Is oral sex okay? Are men polygamous by nature? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: The Art of Edging: Enhancing Connection and Pleasure in your Marriage Bed (ebook) Book a coaching call SoL sensual massage (Spotify playlist) Romantic date night (Spotify playlist) Christian romantic date night (Spotify playlist) Best '90s Alternative Playlist Ever (Spotify playlist) 00s Rock Anthems (Spotify playlist) Tenuto by Mysteryvibe (toy) Tor 2 from Lelo (toy) Question about handjobs with condoms (post) Why masturbation is a problem whether you're married or single (post) When did God stop allowing multiple wives? (post) Lately our Art of Edging ebook has been very popular as it's brand new. If you want to learn how to extend your sex sessions, along with connection and pleasure, check it out. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	06 Jul 2023	SWM 105 – Threesome temptation, aversion to manual and oral, penis size, falling asleep during sex	00:14:36
March 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Threesome tempations Aversion to receiving manual and oral sex Penis size Falling asleep during sexy time Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Melt - Couples Massage Course (course) Intimacy Ignited (book) Spice Jar game (printable) Our Sexploration List (printable) Your definition of gross changes when you're aroused (post) How does breast or penis size affect sex? (post) Lately our Art of Edging ebook has been very popular as it's new. If you want to learn how to extend your sex sessions, along with connection and pleasure, check it out. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	15 Jul 2023	SWM 106 – Nude pictures, sex toys, asexual wife, wife not in love with me, wish my wife had a bigger butt	00:23:06
April 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other? Limon by Minna discount Asexual wife? Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with me Wife isn’t interested in improving our sex life Wish I married a bigger butt Secretly feed her ejaculate Husband says my vagina stinks and tastes bad 50-year-old wife refuses to have sex Do we need a counselor? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Why masturbation is a problem, whether you're married or single (post) Limon by Minna (review) Limon by Minna (toy) - use coupon code LIMONADE for 30% off Arousal Non-Concordance (post) Married Sex (book) Intimacy Ignited (book) Is my spouse attracted to me (survey results) SWM 101 - Why does my spouse always push for more during sex (post) Marriage Coaching Book a single consultation call Lately our Art of Edging ebook has been very popular as it's new. If you want to learn how to extend your sex sessions, along with connection and pleasure, check it out. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	21 Jul 2023	SWM 107 – Wife wants too much sex, repeat unproductive fights, boundaries during dating and sexy underwear for men	00:12:01
May 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wife wants too much sex Couple needs counselling Keep having the same unproductive fight Make boundaries before you start dating Sexy underwear for men Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Book a coaching call Lately our Art of Edging ebook has been very popular as it's new. If you want to learn how to extend your sex sessions, along with connection and pleasure, check it out. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	05 Aug 2023	SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?	00:42:09
SWM 108 - What does the Bible say about hell? Check out the show notes here for more details and links. This podcast episode is a Bible study about the topic of hell. One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. I think it's so confusing because most base their beliefs on a handful of passages and then a heavy dose of pop culture. And the popular view is that hell is a place of eternal torment where vengeful God sends you for all of eternity for not obeying Him. People use this belief to try and scare people into being Christians. The "If you don't, you'll go to hell and be tortured for eternity" type of evangelism. Unfortunately, this makes the basis of your salvation one of fear rather than love and also turns God into a sadist rather than a loving Father. Because what sort of loving God would create trillions of people, knowing the vast majority would reject Him and then keep them alive for eternity to torture them? That is a difficult question for Christians to answer, and they usually resort to an argument that amounts to "He's God and can do what He wants." If you read certain parts of the Bible the way you must justify this view, it also makes heaven a front-row seat of the torture of hell, making all saints sadists who will revel in the agony of the lost for eternity. It's no wonder people look at Christianity and think you must be insane to follow such a God. You cannot support this view without leaving out large portions of the Bible. Instead, I think the Bible shows that even hell shows a loving and merciful God who gives us a choice between eternal life or eternal death. Then He grants us our selection like a loving father would. So, let's see what the Bible says about hell. Do people get tortured for eternity? Is it just an infinite existence of everlasting torment? Is God really that sadistic? Now, I know this subject is going to upset some people. I challenge you to read it until the end. Check the Bible verses for yourself. This post will be mostly Bible verses with my thoughts interspersed so you can know what I'm getting from those verses. Do your own study. I don't require you to agree with me, and I'm more than willing to be challenged on this so long as you do it in good faith. We had quite an interesting discussion about it in our supporter's forum. If you have questions, please post them in the comments on the blog post so others can participate. If you're feeling shy, you can email me as well. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	11 Aug 2023	SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t	00:10:08
June 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Crossdressing Reframing "duty" sex Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn't Afraid to have more children Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Is it wrong for Christians to Crossdress? Book a coaching call SWM 093 - Question 10 about the difficult pregnancy Don't forget to fill out ourlatest survey about how premarital sex affects married sex. We're looking for another 1000 responses before we do the analysis. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	25 Aug 2023	SWM 110 – Noticing other women, forgotten anniversary, disconnecting during foreplay and more	00:32:30
July 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women Wife is hurt but not healing after years Wife disconnects during foreplay What can we do during fertile days Oral sex questions Husband doesn't know our anniversary date Should I be worried if I'm late? In-laws over-share about sex Fantasies for couples Low-drive husband Period sex Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Marriage Coaching Sexy Memory (game) Truth or Dare (game) LoveHopeAdventure.com (games) Our Sexploration List Oral sex survey results Orgasming from oral sex survey results Do Christians have sex during their period? Don't forget to fill out ourlatest survey about how premarital sex affects married sex. We're looking for another 800 responses before we do the analysis. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! All $5/month supporters in August and September get Our Sexploration List Free Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	08 Sep 2023	SWM 111 – Sex in heaven, oral sex positions, recovering from affairs, wanting to be a mom	00:11:14
August 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Sex in heaven Oral sex positions How to recover from an affair I want to become a mom Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: SWM 039 - Anonymous Questions from January 2019 - Part 3 (Question 28) MarriedDance.com (use UNCOVERINGINTIMACY coupon code for 10% off) Christian Friendly Sex Positions - Oral sex on women positions Don't forget to fill out ourlatest survey about how premarital sex affects married sex. We're looking for another 600 responses before we do the analysis. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! All $5/month supporters in September get Our Sexploration List Free Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	22 Sep 2023	SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations?	00:17:25
SWM 112 - Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. This podcast episode is answering this question I received from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hi Jay, I've noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what's considered desirable sexual performance. As a man, I feel like there's a lot of pressure to perform sexually. This means being able to become sexually aroused when seeing a naked woman (my wife in this case), being able to maintain the erection and having the sexual stamina to keep from climaxing for a sustained interval (not sure what the average woman considers desirable stamina but let's say 10 minutes?) Not to mention the societal pressure that men face when it comes to the size of their penis. I myself feel insecure about not having a large enough penis. Who doesn't want to add a couple of inches to their penis? I've become somewhat perplexed/frustrated because I feel like there are very few expectations placed on females. We live in an age when "all women are supposed to be seen as beautiful." It seems that females are simply expected to be willing to participate in sex when the mood is right, and that's it. There's no expectation on the size or quality of female genitals, no expectation on their ability to get aroused or maintain arousal, and no expectations on the level of physical or mental effort they invest in sexual activity. It seems they are just supposed to be the recipient while the man does the thrusting. Even when it comes to the subject of natural lubrication, there's a stigma around a man who can't naturally achieve and maintain an erection, but for the woman, there doesn't appear to be a stigma around the inability to produce sufficient arousal fluid (vaginal wetness). As it pertains to the topic of pornography, I've read many articles about the dangers of pornography for men, how it leads to sexual desensitization, and when paired with masturbation, decreased sexual stamina and even erectile dysfunction. I can't say I've read many articles discussing how viewing pornography is detrimental for women. Is it just me, or is there a double standard when it comes to sexual expectations for men and women? If you have a different opinion than I do, or want to share your perspective, please post them in the comments on the blog post. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference and new supporters in September get Our Sexploration List free. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	06 Nov 2015	SWM001: Welcome to the Sex Within Marriage Podcast	00:14:52
Well, my regular readers have been asking for a podcast for some time, and I'm finally ready to take the plunge. This is our first episode of what I plan to be a weekly podcast. For those who want more information, here are the show notes, or you can listen to the podcast itself. I'm still learning audio production skills, so be patient with me on the sound. I hope it will improve over time. Also, I have a cold, so when that has run its course, that should help as well. Nevertheless, I'd love to hear your feedback on our first episode. And for all our regular readers, please come out to support us. If you have an Apple product, hit subscribe for iTunes, if you have an android device, hit subscribe for Android, help us spread the word of this new podcast, because every subscribe is a "vote" in the various "featured podcasts" lists. Thank you in advance for helping us help more marriages.
	12 Oct 2023	SWM 113 – Orgasms and age, calling your spouse daddy, guilt from initiating	00:11:08
September 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: A husband's changing orgasms Can widowers masturbate Husband won't stop masturbation habit Calling husband "daddy" Feeling guilty about initiating sex Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Guide to edging Is it sinful for widows to masturbate? What about sex for the surviving spouse? Mutual Masturbation for married Christians Mutual Masturbation survey results Is there a good way to tell your husband no sex tonight? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	27 Oct 2023	SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage
SWM 114 - Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I had a wife ask, Sex should be a gift given freely, and if I don’t have veto power, am I really giving freely? This is my response in light of 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 and the role model Jesus was for us dying on the cross. If you have a different opinion than I do, or want to share your perspective, please post them in the comments on the blog post. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	11 Nov 2015	SWM002: Getting rid of veto power in the bedroom	00:16:38
Episode 2 of our podcast! We can actually call it series now. Today I'm talking about getting rid of veto power in the bedroom. Often one spouse, usually the low-drive spouse, has absolute say over when sex happens, or when it doesn't happen. But is that the way it should be? I share my thoughts and what I believe the Bible has the say on the subject. You can view the show notes here.
	10 Nov 2023	SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins	00:08:38
October 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Can I use a strap-on on my wife? My husband’s ex-girlfriend What’s a foreskin for? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Intimacy Advent Calendar Hollow strap-on at MarriedDance.com Our Sexploration List How does pre-marital sex impact married sex lives survey results What happens when you die? Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	30 Nov 2023	SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help?	00:12:21
SWM 116 - Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Lately, I've noticed a trend on social media where famous creator couples make videos of the wife telling the husband that visitors are coming over and they need to prepare. In response, the husband goes and starts cleaning out the attic and crawlspace, going through keepsakes, and performing other tasks that do little to achieve the intended goal of getting ready for guests. Of course, they're doing it as a light-hearted joke, but it points to a common conflict in marriages - women often feel they have to ask for the same help repeatedly. Even in the non-hyperbole versions of these videos, the husband typically mows the lawn, cleans the driveway, and fixes issues in the front of the house, such as rewiring a light. In contrast, the wife worries about cleaning the house's interior and preparing food. Invariably, the wife gets upset that he's not helping with what she sees as important tasks. And in media, be it TV, movies, or social media, they all generally side with the wife. The joking videos mentioned above always point and laugh at the men. Why is this? Is it just that men are inept? Are they blind? Inconsiderate? So, here are my ideas of why this happens - which you are welcome to disagree with in the comments. Interested in our Intimacy Advent Calendar? Check it out here. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	18 Nov 2015	SWM003: Is sex a need or a want?	00:16:46
Today I'm tackling the question: Is sex a need or a want? I've actually written about this in the past but it was about 3.5 years ago, and I have a lot of new readers since then and now new listeners who haven't heard my views on this subject. So, here we go.
	15 Dec 2023	SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?
SWM 117 - Why do I want sex when I'm sick? Check out the blog post here for more details and links. Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season. So, of course, the last couple of weeks, it’s been rolling through our family of 7. Christina and I were the last to get it, and it seemed I got it worse than her. She complained about being sick but still working out multiple times daily (playing Supernatural on the VR - in case any others are fans). For me, I was barely making it through my desk job and not making it some days. But at night, we’d crawl into bed, and I was still interested in sex, I think more than usual even - her, not at all. That made me wonder - what is it about being sick that makes me want sex more? Unfortunately, my head was too fuzzy to research or write an article; here we are, a week later, and I’m ready to tackle it. So, let’s dig into being sick and sex and why some may want sex when they’re sick, and even more so when they’re sick. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	12 Jan 2024	SWM 118 – In sickness and in health	00:11:16

	25 Nov 2015	SWM004: Why your wife can’t tell you what she wants	00:15:03
In this episode I answer the question I get from so many husbands: Why can't my wife just tell me what she wants? This used to drive me crazy earlier in my marriage, until I figured out the answer. Now I see it as an opportunity, instead of a frustration.
	27 Jan 2024	SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more	00:19:36
November and December 2023 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links. In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: How do you use a vibrator? Is roleplaying marriage a sin? Will a dildo make me unsatisfied with my husband? Wife makes excuses about everything When to start talking to your kids about sex? Wife caught me watching porn Is masturbation without porn a sin? Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast: Introduction to Talking Dirty Marriage Coaching Why masturbation is a problem whether you're married or single Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful champions! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference! Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	02 Feb 2024	SWM 120 – How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective	00:12:10
SWM 120 - How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. A few years ago, I was talking to a client during a coaching call, and we got off on a bit of a tangent about condom use. I explained a few ways that people tend to lower the protection of condoms when they use them. He was, well, shocked because he'd done many of them and had no idea that every time he did that, he was increasing the chance of conception. And so, I've had this post idea on the back burner for quite a while until last week, when I mentioned in response to an anonymous question that if you don't want kids, you shouldn't have sex because even condoms and birth control are not perfectly effective when used correctly - and most people don't know they're not using them correctly. When I posted that, one of our supporters asked if I could write that post, so here we go, because, well, my supporters do so much for me, I'm happy to help them out. In this post, I'm only talking about the birth control effects, not the effect this could have on STDs/STIs. I'm also not going to address every birth control method, just the three I hear about the most. I’m also not going to be discussing natural family planning, but that is, at best, a delay method, not a method of birth control. So, here are things you may be doing to mess up your birth control plans. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.
	02 Dec 2015	SWM005: Why your husband can’t tell you what he needs	00:15:21
In this episode I answer the question "Why can't my husband just tell me what he needs?" It's basically the other side of last week's episode.
	16 Feb 2024	SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work	00:16:06
SWM 121 - Why marriage should be hard work. Check out the blog post here for more details and links. I made a post on social media some time ago saying, “Marriage is hard, divorce is hard, choose your hard,” and someone asked me if I then disagreed with some other bloggers and podcasters who say that marriage is and should be easy. This post expands on what I wrote in response to that question. There is a trend these days to water down Christianity and make it easy. In the times of the early church, being a Christian meant persecution, possibly even death, and they still willingly took on that challenge. These days, people want Christianity to be comfortable and easy. We see many churches that are more social clubs than ministries, many pastors who are eloquent speakers but not doers of the faith, and many teachers who scratch those itching ears by telling you that being a Christian should be easy and comfortable. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables. But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry. 2 Timothy 4:3-5 (NKJV) We see some of this in the prosperity gospel, but also elements of it bleeding into mainstream Christianity. Even if they claim to reject the prosperity gospel on the surface, aspects of it still infect their teaching. In particular, I see this in the teaching about marriage. Some few are teaching that marriage is and should be easy. So, in this post, we’re going to tackle this false teaching and explore why it’s false and what that hard work is so that you can have a fantastic marriage, not because it’s easy, but because the work is worth it. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Thank you to all our faithful supporters! If you'd like to support our ministry and see it grow, check out our support page for more info. Even $5/month makes a difference. Lastly, if you like our podcast, click here to give us a rating, and leave us a review. They help others know this is a good resource to help with their marriage. You managed to find us, help someone else do the same and receive the same benefits to their relationship.

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