Sex Positivity: Unfiltered (Sex Positivity Unfiltered)

In this episode of our sex positivity podcast, Denise and Lyndsey dive into the world of Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) with expert Martha Kauppi. Discover the types of CNM, the difference between CNM and infidelity, and the importance of setting up agreements with your partner. Martha shares valuable resources for those exploring CNM. Contact Martha! https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/martha_kauppi/?hl=en https://www.youtube.com/@MarthaKauppiLMFTIRI/featured Buy Her Book or Download Her Free Resources! https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/book https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/polyamory-relationship-skills-handout-set https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/free-training https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/blog Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this episode, we discuss the nuance of what Domestic Violence entails. We cover what it is, signs of an abusive relationship, why people abuse, the history of law enforcement’s involvement regarding investigation and conviction of offenders, why it’s difficult to leave an abusive relationship, and steps to getting out. 

 

If you are in a situation involving domestic violence, or know someone who is, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline by phone at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), or by text by texting START to 88788.

 

Resources for this episode: 

 

https://www.un.org/en/coronavirus/what-is-domestic-abuse

https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/power-and-control/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/domestic-violence

https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/07/23/opinion/domestic-violence-criminal-justice-reform-too.html

https://sharecenter.yale.edu/information-about-sexual-misconduct/forms-sexual-violence/intimate-partner-violence#:~:text=It%20can%20involve%20rape%20or,thing%20they%27re%20good%20for.

https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/domestic-violence/leaving-abusive-relationship

https://www.washingtoncountyor.gov/documents/12-reasons-why-couples-counseling-not-recommended-when-domestic-violence-present/download?inline

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1yW5IsnSjo

Oxford Dictionary 

Tune in for an exciting episode where we interview Todd “Max” Carey, an award-winning film producer and director out of Montreal, Canada with over 25 years of expertise. He is the CEO of tOuch Seven Journeys Films, is a global location and marketing specialist, and is the director of “tOuch Kink,” a documentary film journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power. 

 

We had the opportunity to find out how tOuch Kink came to be, what Max’s process was in creating the film, as well as his personal insights into the kink community. Below are links where you can find more information about the film, the trailer, screenings, as well as where to find Max on various social medias. In addition, please sign up for Max’s newsletter (link provided below)

 

Let us know in the comments what you think, and if you had a chance to watch the film! 

 

Links: 

 

https://touchkink.com/

 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/

 

https://twitter.com/seven_journeys

 

https://www.sevenjourneys.com

 

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In this special birthday episode, Denise surprises Lyndsey with a fun-filled interrogation about her life! From past adventures to present quirks, join us for laughter and nostalgia as Lyndsey spills the beans on her journey. Tune in for a celebration of our very own legendary Lyndsey Murray. What's the best piece of advice Lyndsey has ever given you? Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

Delve into how Attachment Theory shapes your sex life. In this episode, we discuss four types of attachment styles, decoding the link between early development and adult relationships. Join us for a deep dive into the psychology of connection, fostering a healthier, more fulfilling sex-positive mindset. Don't miss out! Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL1NBH7LrXk https://exploringyourmind.com/john-bowlby-biography-of-the-founder-of-attachment-theory/ https://www.structural-learning.com/post/bowlbys-attachment-theory#:~:text=This%20theory%20proposes%20that%20the,serves%20as%20a%20survival%20strategy. https://www.structural-learning.com/post/childhood-trauma-tests https://brianamacwilliam.com/disorganized-attachment-style/#:~:text=Disorganized%20attachment%20is%20a%20combination,parent%27s%20unresolved%20trauma%20or%20loss. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QP-nPJbTgTs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjOowWxOXCg https://www.orri-uk.com/how-your-attachment-style-shows-up-in-sex-and-intimacy/

Your hosts of Sex Positivity: Unfiltered, Lyndsey & Denise, provide a bonus episode for their review of the Barbie movie and how it relates to sex positivity and breaking down the patriarchy. Whether you have seen the movie or not, this episode is filled with knowledge and insight, all rooted in what we thought about the Barbie movie. Check it out!

In this candid and empowering episode, we delve into the delicate but crucial topic of sexual anxiety. Join us as we explore five practical tips to help you lower anxiety levels and foster a more fulfilling and confident intimate life. 

 

Knowledge/Education is Empowerment: Dive into the importance of sexual education and how understanding the physiological and emotional aspects of intimacy can dispel misconceptions. Gain insights into your own body and your partner's, fostering a deeper appreciation for the complexities of human sexuality. 

 

The Power of Communication: Uncover the transformative impact of open and honest communication with your partner. Learn how sharing your fears and desires can create a foundation of trust, paving the way for a more connected and understanding relationship. 

 

Embracing Solo Sexuality: Explore your sexuality and pleasure points all on your own as you navigate your journey of lowering your sexuality. We promote self-pleasure just as much as we promote sex with others (if that is your preference), and our expert advice is that this can help tremendously in helping you feel more relaxed and confident in your sex life. 

 

Mindfulness in the Bedroom: Explore the world of mindfulness and relaxation techniques to calm the mind and elevate the overall sexual experience. Discover how being present in the moment can enhance intimacy and reduce anxiety. 

 

Graduate Exposure: Embrace a gradual approach to sexual exploration. Uncover the power of taking small, manageable steps to overcome anxieties and build confidence, creating a more comfortable and enjoyable journey towards intimacy.

Tune in to this episode for a compassionate and informative conversation that aims to empower you on your journey toward a more confident and fulfilling intimate life. Whether you're navigating new relationships or seeking to enhance existing ones, these tips are designed to help you embrace intimacy with openness and self-assurance. 

 

Resources: 

https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/sexual-performance-anxiety-causes-treatments https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAWNRdP-RgY https://www.tiktok.com/@touchysubjectsss/video/7159997233537043758?lang=en&q=how%20to%20overcome%20sexual%20anxiety&t=1699066441552 https://www.tiktok.com/@queersextherapy/video/7227882398938156334?lang=en&q=how%20to%20overcome%20sexual%20anxiety&t=1699066441552 https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5b22d6eb5417fc72cb1fa302/t/5fa9c5194e5ce030c7e922cb/1604961563862/Esther+Perel+Sex+Conversation+Starters.pdf https://www.dodsonandross.com/sexfeature/first-time-orgasm?utm_source=www.dodsonandross.com https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JL148FW?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_E2WZMD4XFHT6RP9S8YBY https://health.cornell.edu/sites/health/files/pdf-library/sensate-focus.pdf https://www.couplesinstitute.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Upshifting_Downshifting-Exercise-2.pdf

Join Lyndsey, Denise, and Sorcha as we delve into diverse perspectives on relationships and sex. From navigating sexual exploration to dating experiences with men and women, we share insights on threesomes and friendships. Explore the joys and challenges of sexuality through our candid conversations on this sex-positive podcast. In what ways do you relate to the experiences shared by these women? Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

In this revealing episode, we sit down with Ashley Ward, a seasoned Sheriff's Deputy from the Jail Division to peel back the layers of their profession. Join us as we delve into the rigorous training process, honing the essential skills, and navigating the daily struggles faced by those tasked with maintaining order behind bars. From the initial steps of becoming a prison guard to the ongoing challenges within the jail environment, our guest shares candid insights into their unique journey. Gain an insider's perspective on the dedication, resilience, and commitment required to uphold justice within the walls of a correctional facility. Don't miss out! Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

In this short but impactful podcast episode, we explore the roots of Women's History Month, tracing its origins to the pioneering efforts of the women's suffrage movement in the United States. Delve into the story of how Women's History Month evolved from a local celebration in Sonoma, California, into a nationally recognized observance dedicated to honoring the contributions and achievements of women throughout history. Join us as we uncover the significance of this annual commemoration and reflect on the ongoing journey toward gender equality. Tune in for a concise yet compelling exploration of the history behind Women's History Month.

Discover how to access therapy on a budget. Uncover free therapy resources and learn where to cultivate mindfulness without breaking the bank. Elevate your mental health journey with cost-effective strategies on this episode of Sex Positivity: Unfiltered. Don't miss out! Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivit... TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Free or Low Cost Therapy Resources: Text HOME to 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org/https://www.therapistaid.com/ https://www.betterhelp.com/https://openpathcollective.org/https://www.talkspace.com/https://self-compassion.org/about-kri...https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Sco...https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-S... Research Resources: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...https://www.crisistextline.org/?corre...https://www.healthline.com/health/the...https://adaa.org/find-help/by-demogra...

Watch as we reacted to a video from Jesse Lee Peterson called "Ladies, Your Mouth Was Not Made for THAT" (https://youtu.be/jLWxyKMgg5o?si=Fl2ONnONmJYEe204) where he states women should not be giving oral sex. Not only do we not agree, but we have A LOT to say about it!

Check it out and we'd love to hear your opinion!

In this episode, Denise and Lyndsey engage with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers—a renowned sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, professor emerita, and author of 'Shameless Parenting'. They explore strategies to overcome sexual shame, focusing on the profound effects of religious and sexual education teachings and their evolution over time. Contact Dr Sellers and Buy Her Book! https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/books https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/about https://inannarising.org/ https://www.nwioi.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drtinashameless/ Resources Discussed in the Episode: https://www.amazon.com/Not-Under-My-Roof-Parents/dp/0226736199 https://digitalcommons.spu.edu/cpy_etd/25/ https://www.peggyorenstein.com/about1 https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2021/07/10568734/sex-education-abstinence-only-sex-ed Support Our Podcast! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexpositivityunfiltered/support Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources for Info and Media https://www.volantoverseas.com/university/seattle-pacific-university/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ronald_Reagan_and_AIDS#/media/File:NYC_1987_let_the_record_show.png https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1987-04-02-mn-1950-story.html https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Constantine_the_Great#/media/File:Statua_di_Costantino_ai_musei_capitolini.jpg https://stlukesokc.org/inspiration/st-lukes-blogs/daily-devotional/love-your-neighbor-2/attachment/a-sinful-woman-washes-jesus-feet-luke-737-38/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=V8yY-CIIL9I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPCclavlz9Q https://service.catholic.edu/civil-rights-walking-tour/segregation-desegregation/index.html https://www.teenvogue.com/story/religious-right-abortion-segregation https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psilocybin_mushroom

Bedroom Revelations: Join Lyndsey and me as we take a BDSM test, exploring each question and sharing our surprising results. Unveil the unexpected, laugh with us, and gain insights into our kinks on this candid and humorous episode of our sex-positive podcast. Have you taken the test? Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Promoting Kink Resources: https://bdsmtest.org/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7lc4qkh5eY

In this special episode, we're diving deep into LGBTQ+ history and celebrating iconic figures who have left an indelible mark on the world. Join us as we explore the extraordinary lives of two LGBTQ+ trailblazers, Elton John and Sally Ride, and how they've become queer icons, inspiring generations. We're also delving into the history and concept of "Gay Christmas." This heartwarming tradition celebrates chosen families, love, and acceptance, offering a unique perspective on the holiday season while honoring LGBT History Month. Don't miss out! Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources Capd Period - https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7LERLj/ https://www.nbcnews.com/sciencemain/why-sally-ride-waited-until-her-death-tell-world-she-908942 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sally_Ride https://www.nasa.gov/history/the-class-of-1978-and-the-flats/ https://www.pbs.org/newshour/science/life-sally-ride-americas-first-woman-astronaut-pictures https://science.nasa.gov/people/sally-ride/ https://www.wowstem.org/post/sally-ride https://sallyridescience.ucsd.edu/npr-short-wave-podcast-tam-oshaughnessys-27-year-partnership-with-the-first-american-woman-in-space/ https://www.the-sun.com/sport/8934723/us-open-billie-jean-king-astronaut-tam-oshaughnessy/ https://www.nbcnews.com/sciencemain/why-sally-ride-waited-until-her-death-tell-world-she-908942 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRbV9lwp8n8 https://www.smoothradio.com/artists/elton-john/husband-marriage-children/ https://www.instagram.com/davidfurnish/?hl=en https://alchetron.com/Bluesology#bluesology-401d3567-d67c-49e3-ac66-d6a37f4f467-resize-750.jpeg https://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/steptoeandson/ https://www.nme.com/news/music/elton-john-pays-tribute-to-queen-elizabeth-ii-during-his-toronto-show-3307097 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7852727/Sir-Elton-John-72-says-NEVER-smack-shout-two-sons.html https://iconicimages.net/news/fineartfriday-elton-john-terry-oneill-2/ https://doowopheaven.blogspot.com/2014/09/patti-labelle-bluebelles-aka-patti.html https://nypost.com/2019/12/07/i-knew-it-was-about-me-maxine-taupin-talks-tiny-dancer-other-elton-john-hits/ https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/elton-john-didnt-return-patti-labelles-tupperware-but-made-amends-in-an-extravagant-way.html/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=AKBQCE9RzAw https://people.com/music/bernie-taupin-elton-john-partnership-early-days-interview/ https://twitter.com/Eminem/status/1226734856706707460 https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/lifestyle/2000/09/07/gay-group-mtv-at-odds-over-eminem/8b69bf5a-eb3a-4ddd-98b1-de455ace75c3/ https://www.rollingstone.com/feature/elton-john-lonely-at-the-top-rolling-stones-1976-cover-story-238734/ https://transgriot.blogspot.com/2010/10/finnies-halloween-balls.html https://virginiachronicle.com/?a=d&d=OOC19791101.1.1&e=-------en-20--1--txt-txIN--------

Join Lyndsey and Denise as they chat with renowned sex educator Nadine Thornhill, Ed.D. Stay tuned as Nadine shares her expertise on when and how to talk to your kids about SEX. We discuss how parents should approach these crucial conversations, offering tips for making children comfortable and fostering inclusive and safe environments. Tune in for many invaluable insights! How old were you when you learned about the birds and the bees? Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

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https://everybodycurious.com/episodes https://www.scarleteen.com/about/teamhttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Cory-Silverberg/author/B003TYV11Q?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1712554251&sr=8-1&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=truehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpmgFWyoBQ00FjQBUOgMfAghttps://www.instagram.com/spencer2thewest/https://www.thestar.com/life/health-wellness/groundbreaking-youtube-series-features-talks-about-sexuality-with-kids-with-disabilities/article_b3dd494b-6c10-5002-83d4-c604d814718e.html

What really happens during pregnancy? In this episode, Denise asks Lyndsey all about her first pregnancy—from the journey to conceive, the surprising realities of pregnancy, and the things no one prepared her for. We dive into how pregnancy impacts relationships, mental health, and what education should look like for future parents. Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources Discussed in the Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_ssj7-8rYg https://a.co/d/9qdt8n9 Resources for Info and Media https://www.wtamu.edu/~cbaird/sq/2013/04/13/why-do-women-get-more-tooth-problems-during-pregnancy/ https://www.goodrx.com/enoxaparin/what-is https://www.yalemedicine.org/conditions/gestational-diabetes-symptoms-causes-treatments#:~:text=What%20is%20gestational%20diabetes?,the%20mother's%20and%20fetus's%20cells. https://www.pristyncare.com/blog/vaginal-suppositories-when-to-use-pc0101/ https://www.webmd.com/baby/what-is-a-subchorionic-hematoma https://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy/your-body/pregnancy-brain-why-it-happens-and-how-to-be-less-forgetful_236 https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/pcos/conditioninfo https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323128#side-effects-of-metformin https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hysterosalpingography https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semen_analysis https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blighted_ovum https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molar_pregnancy

In this episode, Lyndsey and Denise discuss the complexities of healing from religious trauma. We explore the lasting effects of religious trauma and spiritual abuse on sexuality and offer guidance on reclaiming sexual empowerment. Tune in for candid conversation and insights. Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

Empowering Voices: Spotlighting 6 Black Mental Health and Sex Education Educators. Dive into why we admire them, our discovery journey, and the positive impact they have on the world. Elevate your knowledge and well-being with this inspiring episode of our sex-positive podcast. Don't miss out! Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Promoting Black Resources: https://www.kazentertainment.com/about https://www.nadinethornhill.com/identity-and-values https://royalfetishxxx.com/ https://vagesteem.com/about/ https://www.trentshelton.com/book https://www.onthegreencouch.com/linkinbio.html Research Resources: https://twitter.com/RoyalFetishFilm/status/1301946899042390021/photo/1 https://www.jsjlinks.com/about-jsj https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qdbA6JBEBg https://www.camsoda.com/blog/live-sex-therapy-with-jetsetting-jasmine-therapist-to-the-porn-world-who-is-also-a-performer/ https://www.kingnoire.com/about-3 https://www.xbiz.com/news/250285/kink-com-royal-fetish-films-launch-channel-for-kink-performers-of-color https://www.papermag.com/royal-fetish-porn-race-problem https://www.ted.com/talks/kaz_sex_education_should_start_with_consent?language=en https://ameyawdebrah.com/remember-13-years-m-nets-project-fame-see-favourite-contestants/ https://www.tiktok.com/@jpalmhairdressing/video/7317291020482563374?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7322998509188400686 https://www.instagram.com/sexologistshamyra/?hl=en https://www.onthegreencouch.com/in-the-media.html http://www.mollena.com

Join Denise and Lyndsey as they delve into the complex topic of toxic femininity and its impact on future generations. From purity culture to beauty standards, they dissect the harmful aspects of societal expectations on women. Learn how toxic femininity differs from feminism in this thought-provoking discussion. Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources: https://thedailyguardian.com/what-is-toxic-feminism/ https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-toxic-femininity-5222736#:~:text=Examples%20of%20traits%20that%20are,conditional%20value%20in%20patriarchal%20societies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJSrrQD_f-g https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/toxic-femininity#:~:text=A%20teacher%20who%20tells%20you,%E2%80%9Creal%20women%20have%20curves.%E2%80%9D

Lesbian vs. Straight: Join Lyndsey and me as we unravel the unique perspectives on relationships and sex. Delve into the distinct experiences of exploring sexuality, from navigating female friendships to the joys and challenges of dating. A candid and humorous dialogue awaits on this eye-opening episode of our sex-positive podcast. Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

In this episode, Denise and Lyndsey dive deep into the fabulous world of drag! 💃 We explore the history of drag culture, the evolution of drag shows, and why drag is so important in today’s society. Plus, we share our own experience attending a drag show and wrap up by celebrating our 1-year podcast anniversary with a look back at our favorite episodes and guests. 🌈🎉 Don’t miss the history, the performances, and the celebrations! Support Our Podcast! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexpositivityunfiltered/support Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ LGBT Resources Mentioned In This Episode https://www.hrc.org/resources/understanding-drag https://www.mustacheenvy.com/video https://www.lesbianbarproject.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-q-tSHo9Ho https://www.dragstoryhour.org/about Sources https://www.tiktok.com/@thewendyweather/video/6920688938239741189?q=history%20of%20drag&t=1722171235527 https://www.tiktok.com/@thedailyshow/video/7221931663302036782?q=history%20of%20drag&t=1722171235527 https://www.tiktok.com/@krisagonna/video/7228632757730282798?q=history%20of%20drag&t=1722171235527 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjzA11tJEKw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YT3feUhR44 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Annie_Hindle https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXshUNU65wI&t=2s https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/the-first-self-proclaimed-drag-queen-was-a-formerly-enslaved-man-180982311/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qF6wvS-ss2c https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lRTtMcx6rSM https://www.queermusicheritage.com/drag-SH-hindle.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZyApc37lw4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gboEyrj02g https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gladys_Bentley#/media/File:Gladys_Bentley_c._1930_(extracted).jpg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uy7Oj4fSzuI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzkAj2d8lS8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWpUMIsKyXc

In this bonus episode, Denise asks Lyndsey some questions from our listeners. Here you will get first hand expertise, insights, and advice from Lyndsey Murray, who is a Certified Sex Therapist. Tune in, and please share some additional questions you'd like us to answer in future episodes!

In this episode, Denise and Lyndsey delve into the world of surrogate partner therapy. Learn what a sexual surrogate is, how it differs from a sex worker, and who can benefit from seeing one. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on this unique therapeutic approach. Resources: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-sexual-surrogacyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0IzYBw6m3khttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFG3eYZNccIhttps://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-sexual-surrogacyhttps://ampersandintimacy.com/services/surrogate-partner-therapy/https://www.aasect.org/sites/default/files/Contemporary%20Sexuality%20-FEB2013-Final.pdfhttps://hbr.org/2023/04/research-how-to-be-a-better-ally-to-the-lgbtq-community Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

Unveiling the Unseen: A Candid Conversation with Professional Sex Worker Tressa Silguero. Gain insights into the industry's realities, empowerment, and challenges. Join us for an eye-opening discussion with Tressa as we delve into her experiences and the world of sex work. Give Tressa a Follow: OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/therealstellamay Instagram: @trettuhh Twitter: @Miss_Stella_May Hey viewer! In your opinion, how has the concept of sex positivity impacted attitudes towards sex and sexuality in the USA? Are you actively involved in the sex positive community or interested in learning more? Let us know! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources https://follower.co/blog/onlyfans-adult-content-of-banning-adult-content-again/ Netflix - Hot Girls Wanted

Get into the details of queer sex with our special guest Eric Crumrine! Here we talk about coming out, what it means to be queer, what sex is like for gay men, and the nuance that comes with defining what sex ACTUALLY is. We also discuss where sex education is lacking through a queer lens, and Eric shares some personal stories to speak to all of this. Check it out and comment your thoughts below!

Here is where you can find & follow Eric:

Twitter: @Ecrumrine / @TheQueerXP

Instagram: @ECrumrine / @TheQueerXP

BlueSky: FalconWizard.bsky.social / TheQueerXP.Bsky.social

Podcast: The QueerXP

Join Denise and Lyndsey as they chat with first-time mom Kat Pineda about "How Childbirth Impacts Your Sex Life." Discover insights on libido changes, navigating parenthood, and maintaining intimacy after a traumatic birth. Essential listening for new parents and those interested in the realities of postpartum life. **Apologies for the audio issues – we damaged an SD card.** Contact Kat! https://www.facebook.com/kat.pineda.5/ Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

In this episode, we react to a YouTube video by Paul & Morgan called "What We Wish We Knew About Sex: https://www.youtube.com/live/YzjTbGmwP7M?si=HQSM6KIe8p99uFv2

See our live reactions, both the good & the parts we found problematic. Let us know what you think, and comment below with what you'd like us to react to next!

Link to the book recommendation "She Comes First" that was mentioned in this video:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0007Q1CI6?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_9VW7V8XBCT209CE47YM0

In this episode, we delve deep into the intricate web of toxic masculinity and its profound implications on the future generations. We provide insightful discussions that explore the origins, manifestations, and the enduring impact of toxic masculinity on individuals and society at large.

We navigate through the societal expectations and stereotypes that shape traditional masculinity, often stifling emotional expression and authentic self-discovery. We also shed light on how toxic masculinity can contribute to harmful behaviors and attitudes that perpetuate cycles of prejudice, inequality, and violence.

Listeners will gain a nuanced understanding of the intersections between toxic masculinity and mental health, as well as the ways it hampers healthy relationships. We discuss strategies for breaking free from these ingrained patterns, encouraging open dialogue, empathy, and inclusivity.

As we envision a more equitable and compassionate future, we explore the pivotal role parents, educators, and influencers play in dismantling toxic masculinity. Through this episode, we aim to spark conversations that inspire positive change, fostering environments that empower individuals to redefine masculinity and create a healthier legacy for the generations to come.

Tune in to this crucial conversation as we challenge societal norms, question ingrained beliefs, and strive for a more inclusive and empathetic world. It's time to break the chains of toxic masculinity and pave the way for a future where everyone can thrive authentically.

Resources: 

• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_masculinity

• ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exO8Kowpn1o&list=PLxM1uzcC_DlLGyz-j5u72dXot_aDPOB06&index=1⁠

• ⁠https://www.focusforhealth.org/how-toxic-masculinity-harms-men-and-society-as-a-whole/⁠

• https://www.focusforhealth.org/how-toxic-masculinity-harms-men-and-society-as-a-whole/
• ⁠https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/us/toxic-masculinity.html⁠
• ⁠https://www.apa.org/monitor/2019/01/ce-corner⁠
• ⁠https://www.apa.org/practice/guidelines/girls-and-women⁠
• ⁠https://www.apa.org/about/policy/boys-men-practice-guidelines.pdf⁠
• ⁠https://www.up.ac.za/media/shared/396/ZP_Files/scu-mha-poster_toxic-masculinity-vs-healthy-masculinity_august-2022.zp222941.pdf

In this episode, Denise and Lyndsey sit down with Dr. Ley David Elliette Cray, an expert on autism, neurodiversity, and inclusive sexual education. Dr. Ley shares their nuanced definition of autism and explains how relationships and sex can be uniquely different for neurodivergent individuals. Join us for an insightful, inclusive, and eye-opening conversation about love and sex within the neurodivergent community. Contact Dr. Ley David Elliette Cray! https://transentiencecoaching.com https://www.patreon.com/transentience https://www.instagram.com/transentience.coaching Resources Discussed in the Episode: https://neuroqueer.com/neuroqueer-heresies/ https://sexualhealthalliance.com/nymphomedia-blog/a-few-tips-for-dating-neurodivergent-persons https://www.amazon.com/Laziness-Does-Not-Exist/dp/B08D3Z8S5B/ https://www.amazon.com/Unmasking-Autism/dp/1800960549/ https://www.amazon.com/Unlearning-Shame-Self-Blame-Culture-Reclaim/dp/B0C6YL86G6/ https://www.amazon.com/Unmasking-Life-Autistic-Connecting-Authentically/dp/0593735757/ https://heyplura.com/events/free-finding-your-voice Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources for Info and Media https://www.nmsu.edu/about/locations.html https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/autism-spectrum-disorders-asd#:~:text=Autism%20spectrum%20disorder%20(ASD)%20is,about%20ASD%20screening%20or%20evaluation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVZELi7FOcU https://www.instagram.com/p/DAtoY13vQ0f/?hl=en https://www.npr.org/2021/09/24/1039676445/laziness-does-not-exist-devon-price https://www.npr.org/2022/04/14/1092869514/unmasking-autism-more-inclusive-world https://www.reddit.com/r/adhdmeme/comments/w6pd7g/socks_at_all_times_for_sure/ https://www.youtube.com/shorts/dSGrvUkfQ3w

Join Denise and Lyndsey as they discuss menopause, perimenopause, and sex with expert Brandie Sellers. Learn how these life changes impact intimacy and get tips for navigating this phase of life with confidence and joy. Perfect for anyone wanting to understand these important topics. Contact Brandie! https://sellerscounseling.com/ https://www.instagram.com/brandie.sellers/ Support Our Podcast! https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sexpositivityunfiltered/support Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

Tune in as we unveil the Sex Positive Revolution. Explore its transformative effects on society, mental wellness, and self-expression. From vital sex education to personal school experiences, delve into the movement's profound impact. We candidly address both its empowering facets and concerns about inclusivity and exploitation for better understanding. Hey viewer! In your opinion, how has the concept of sex positivity impacted attitudes towards sex and sexuality in the USA? Are you actively involved in the sex positive community or interested in learning more? Let us know! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Resources https://www.apa.org/education-career/ce/sex-positivity.pdf https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/blog/what-do-you-need-to-know-about-asexuality https://themindembodied.com/blog/2015/8/10/sex-addiction-vs-out-of-control-sexual-behavior-definitions-and-the-importance-and-impact-of-language https://www.youtube.com/live/YzjTbGmwP7M?si=HO4mrbgG4ikQIhH_ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJEC44LM1Ik https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex-positive_movement https://thefrisky.com/8-ways-to-be-positive-youre-sex-positive/ http://www.ejhs.org/volume3/sexpositive.htm https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0024658&utm_cam

Embark on a historical journey through the sex positive movement, from Freud and Reich's influences, to feminism's impact, and unearthing how the patriarchy developed in the USA. Join us as we unravel the pivotal moments that shaped sex positivity. Hey viewer! In your opinion, how has the concept of patriarchy impacted attitudes towards sex and sexuality in the USA? Are you actively involved in the sex positive community or interested in learning more? Let us know! ---------------------------------------------------------------

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Unlocking Desire: Your Ultimate Guide to Exploring Kink, Solo or with a Partner. Dive into the vast world of common kinks, from mild to wild, and learn essential safety tips and consent rules. Start your journey into the kink community with confidence on this enlightening episode of Sex Positivity: Unfiltered. How comfortable are you discussing kinks with a partner? Watch now and share your thoughts in the comments. Let's spark a conversation! 👇 Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spu_podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Promoting Kink Resources: A to Z Kinks and Fetishes Guide - https://www.glamour.com/story/a-to-z-kinks-and-fetishes BDSM Test - https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode https://fetlife.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@KinkyAssignments https://sunnymegatron.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/YesNoMaybe-SunnyMegatron1.pdf https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Research Resources: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTtaKPZX098 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOsI9tlnvUg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3KTOHIiAno https://racebannon.medium.com/so-youre-new-to-kink-baf2d946ec20 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-up-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kink_(sexuality) https://www.vice.com/en/article/xgy88z/how-do-you-explore-kinks-safely https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_Attitude_Reassessment/

Join Denise and Lyndsey as they explore the Stonewall Riots and their impact on queer history, the significance of Pride Month, and practical ways to support the LGBTQ+ community. Tune in and become a better ally today! Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Episode Recourse: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_F._Wagner_Jr.#/media/File:RobertFWagner.png https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/diversity/education/best-practice-highlights/working-with-lgbtq-patients#:~:text=In%20the%20context%20of%20Psychiatry,new%20understanding%20and%20treatment%20LGBTQ. https://blog.gale.com/stonewall-50-commemoration-the-power-of-print/ https://www.history.com/news/stonewall-riots-lgbtq-drag-three-article-rule https://www.history.com/news/stonewall-riots-timeline https://www.theguardian.com/film/2015/sep/25/stonewall-film-gay-rights-activists-give-their-verdict https://www.alvarezandmarsal.com/insights/stonewall-riots https://www.nypl.org/events/tours/audio-guides/treasures-audio-guide-verbal-descriptions/item/5524#:~:text=Bars%20were%20officially%20forbidden%20to,men%20who%20flirted%20with%20them. https://www.cnn.com/2016/06/16/us/gallery/tbt-first-pride-parades/index.html https://hbr.org/2023/04/research-how-to-be-a-better-ally-to-the-lgbtq-community

Denise and Lyndsey sit down with mutual friend Erin Richards, who shares her experiences growing up in conservative Christian purity culture. Gain insights into the impact of purity culture on sexuality and relationships in this eye-opening conversation. Contact Erin! DesignedSerenity.com https://www.facebook.com/DesignedSerenity https://www.etsy.com/shop/DesignedSerenity Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/

Denise and Lyndsey sit down with SJ Richman, a demisexual advocate for the ace community, to discuss asexuality, agender identity, and navigating life outside traditional sexual and gender norms. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on ace experiences and advocacy. Contact SJ! https://www.sjrichman.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sjr2d3d https://www.tiktok.com/sjr2d3d https://www.theatre3dallas.com/shows-tickets/ Contact Us! Website: https://www.sexpositivityunfiltered.com/ Email: SPUpodcast@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spupodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexpositivityunfiltered/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spupodcast/ Episode Recourse: https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Identity_diagrams https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/f0/Benkert.jpg https://blogs.iu.edu/kinseyinstitute/2021/11/10/dr-alfred-kinsey-named-distinguished-member-of-qpc/ https://www.amazon.com/ANTON-LAVEY-Satanist-Baphomet-24x36inch/dp/B019P1EGS6 https://www.youtube.com/@FlagFootage https://www.instagram.com/rheadebussy/ https://www.metroweekly.com/2021/07/tim-gunn-on-making-the-cut-dressing-for-comfort-and-the-one-show-he-absolutely-regrets-making/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SpongeBob_SquarePants_%28character%29 https://www.newgrounds.com/art/view/chibikittyira/alastor-hazbin-hotel-fanart https://villains.fandom.com/wiki/Varys https://www.eastbaytimes.com/2015/11/13/walking-dead-recap-daryl-learns-that-good-deeds-go-unrewarded/ https://criticalrole.fandom.com/wiki/Caduceus_Clay https://criticalrole.fandom.com/wiki/Dariax_Zaveon https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gwenpool https://phineasandferb.fandom.com/wiki/Perry_the_Platypus https://www.amazon.com/Original-Illustrated-Sherlock-Holmes/dp/0890090572 https://www.facebook.com/TransWellnessOntario/photos/a.1212160359317911/1213409762526304/?type=3

In this episode, we discuss PORN, specifically the difference between traditional & ethical porn. We answer the question, "Is ethical porn REALLY better?" and we take a deep dive into the porn industry. Come listen today as we provide insights, opinions, research, and even some laughs along the way!

Sources:

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn

https://www.moralrevolution.com/blog/the-dark-side-of-only-fans

https://fightthenewdrug.org/how-we-got-here-the-spread-of-porn/

https://meaww.com/marty-hodas-new-york-porn-king-romola-marijuana-chocolate-brownies-sex-drugs

https://www.psychologytoday.com/sg/blog/women-who-stray/201402/common-sense-about-the-effects-pornography

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202307/homophobia-and-religiosity-drive-struggles-with-porn