
Seasoned Dialogue with Lisa-Marie (Lisa Marie )
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05 Nov 2022 | Wish them well and let them go | 00:06:03 | |
In this episode, Lisa-Marie discusses how our kindness, grace, and blind faith in others can be a severe deterrent when seeing red flags. | |||
03 Dec 2022 | Separation of Friendship | 00:06:51 | |
In this episode, Lisa-Marie talks about the fundamental lessons we learn about ourselves outside of friendships and the realistic hardships we may face in the altered situation. | |||
06 Dec 2022 | The many reasons to forgive | 00:10:30 | |
In this episode, Lisa-Marie explores the importance of forgiveness and why it can be difficult to process disappoints, hurt, and betrayal. | |||
12 Dec 2022 | Speak Highly of yourself | 00:06:23 | |
In this episode, Lisa-Marie explains the significance of viewing yourself as a person who can accomplish everything, experience everything, and overcome everything. Practicing positive affirmations and regulating a positive mentality is a goal that may be accomplished if one desires to do so. | |||
15 Dec 2022 | Slow and Steady | 00:15:05 | |
In this episode, Lisa-Marie discusses the significance of waiting on God before making life-altering decisions and examines the options for overcoming obstacles objectively rather than hastily. | |||
20 Dec 2022 | The "Rebirth" | 00:11:11 | |
This episode discusses "rebirth," the continuation of life, decisions, and self-discovery. Rebirth is a transitional phase that many will experience. It can be challenging for individuals who are new to the change, but the residual effects are useful for those who want to lead a more tranquil and fulfilled life. | |||
21 Dec 2022 | Beautiful Reminder - I honor me | 00:00:49 | |
28 Dec 2022 | Capacity is perspective | 00:11:16 | |
The term capacity is defined in this episode in the context of the relationship between perspective and assumptions. Understanding capacity and its functions inspires us to want to learn more about each other or to consider whether it is self-serving in our lives. | |||
09 Jan 2023 | Beautiful Reminder - I give myself space | 00:01:10 | |
02 Jan 2023 | 2023 - More Consistency | 00:14:39 | |
What are your goals for 2023? Are there any resolutions or desires? Are you aware of your inabilities and your pitfalls? Perhaps inconsistency is the reason you haven't successfully accomplished it. Let's talk about it.... | |||
02 Jan 2023 | Beautiful Reminder - I am enough | 00:01:11 | |
07 Jan 2023 | Stop Caring about how others feel | 00:17:03 | |
In this episode, we discuss how the "Spotlight effect" relates to an individual's failure to overcome their fears. | |||
09 Jan 2023 | When your love isn’t sufficient | 00:19:39 | |
For 2023, remind yourself of who you are, what you require, and what makes sense in this season in your life. Establish how love flows from you and how you expect it to be reciprocated so that your relationships and connections are fully functional and healthy. | |||
13 Jan 2023 | Re-evaluate your circle | 00:31:41 | |
In this episode, we discuss our familiar circle (family and friends) and how this dynamic may change over time. We also explore the many reasons we move at different paces and how the structure of your circle may suffer loss or closeness. We discuss alternative lessons on how things can work out after a circle has been broken and the important lesson of knowing where you are in your life. | |||
16 Jan 2023 | Beautiful Reminders- I will heal | 00:00:50 | |
21 Jan 2023 | Aftermath of Toxic and Absent Parents | 00:36:36 | |
In this episode, we examine the effects of absent parents on children and how it manifests in adulthood. We examine the hurt, pain, and anger that persist into adulthood, as well as the patterns that lead to unfulfilled romantic and platonic relationships. In this section, we also examine the reality of parental reconciliation and the circumstances in which it is more difficult to achieve | |||
23 Jan 2023 | Beautiful Reminders - I am currently unavailable | 00:00:27 | |
25 Jan 2023 | What marriage is really like… | 00:45:10 | |
In this episode we dive into the complexities of marriage. We discuss children and the affect it has on parental relationships, the unspoken truths about marriage, the importance of communication, and the reasons why no marriage will be perfect. | |||
27 Jan 2023 | Why loving you first matters… | 00:28:09 | |
In this episode we discuss why entering into relationships broken result in turmoil for you and the other person. Expecting people to fill voids left in previous relationships creates an undesirable environment for love to thrive in. We evaluate why self love and independence is needed in order to show up as “your best self”. Navigating true desires must be done independently before encountering the desires for others. | |||
30 Jan 2023 | Beautiful Reminder - I am loved | 00:00:55 | |
30 Jan 2023 | Examples of the black experience | 00:36:18 | |
There are just some things that are misunderstood about the black culture. There are grand misrepresentations of who we are and what we stand for. Because of racial inequalities, we are subject to violence, lesser job wages, incarceration and exploitation . We are constantly questioned about our credentials and worth. Many years later… we are left asking why? This dialogue will be revisited several different times throughout the podcast because there are sincerely so many avenues yet to be explored | |||
04 Feb 2023 | Self Awareness | 00:17:12 | |
How aware are you of yourself? Do you take in what others may say to you or do those words make you turn away from them? | |||
06 Feb 2023 | Go get Healed | 00:29:14 | |
Healing is a requirement needed before entering into anything new. It saves you and the other person from pain and disappointment. | |||
10 Feb 2023 | Are you an overthinker? Let's dig in | 00:26:27 | |
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13 Feb 2023 | What would I tell my younger self? | 00:28:02 | |
Dear Younger Self, | |||
13 Feb 2023 | Beautiful Reminder - I am blessed | 00:00:35 | |
20 Feb 2023 | You can’t save everyone | 00:23:55 | |
We all want to save those suffering or dealing with issues, but we also have to understand that people won’t change unless they want to change. | |||
24 Feb 2023 | The isolation season | 00:20:05 | |
Are you suddenly alone? | |||
27 Feb 2023 | The Chapters in your book | 00:23:57 | |
If you’ve ever read a good book, you know that there is always an introduction, a middle filled with suspense, and an ending. If you enter into the middle of the book you don’t get a preview of what happened beforehand. Thus beginning your reading at the end, doesn’t give the reader a good outlook on what the story is really about. This coincides with our book. Many people will meet us at different chapters. They won’t get the totality of who we are and their summarizations can be off. | |||
06 Mar 2023 | Don’t dim your light | 00:20:36 | |
Every one of us has something inside of us that makes us special and unique. It is who we are and what makes us stand apart. If you’ve been ever told to show up differently, I’m telling you don’t. Others recognize the light in you in hopes that you will not proceed in your path. | |||
10 Mar 2023 | What does your life say about you? | 00:14:48 | |
Have you ever taken a moment to reflect on your life from the beginning until now? How is it going? What are you currently doing? Are you happy? | |||
17 Mar 2023 | The shift | 00:26:26 | |
So many things are happening and so many people are in their season of seeing and doing. | |||
20 Mar 2023 | Not your savior | 00:30:54 | |
Let’s be honest about who we are and where we are in our life in contrast to others who pull from us. Are we extending time hoping that helping others would get them closer to a solution or are we wasting time? | |||
28 Mar 2023 | Completely Full | 00:16:53 | |
In this season, let’s begin by telling people that our hands are completely full. We don’t have room to hold anything else and their responsibilities should be handled independently. Let’s begin to act on these things and not speak on these things. | |||
03 Apr 2023 | Fatherless Daughter | 00:34:52 | |
In this new season we explore very personal matters. | |||
07 Apr 2023 | Oops… I forgot to tell you that you’re adopted | 00:44:43 | |
Journey with me as I tell my truth about being adopted. The ups, the downs, and how I came to find my biological family through years of prayer. It’s a story made for television… but it’s definitely a chapter in my life that has led me to heal within | |||
21 Apr 2023 | The Purging Season | 00:15:13 | |
After a period of purging, I found myself pondering whether this was my next journey. I've found myself in some uncomfortable situations, but heartfelt communications have comforted me... | |||
28 Apr 2023 | Why am I mourning my old self? | 00:23:07 | |
Any or all of your physical, social, and spiritual life may undergo change as you travel the path of transition. You have taken the courageous choice to explore and embrace your real self, whatever "transition" means to you. | |||
08 May 2023 | The walls we put up | 00:18:53 | |
If you have ever been wounded or disappointed by another person, you understand the dangers of closing your heart completely and not allowing others in. We mistakenly believe that constructing these boundaries will protect us from outside influences, but the result is that we isolate ourselves in the process.
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16 May 2023 | Motherhood reflections | 00:11:28 | |
Here is a thorough dive into my motherhood reflections and the things I’ve recognized about myself. Self awareness positioned me in many aspects that I wanted to reject, but after reconciling with the truth, I resolved to create a secure environment for my three children to flourish. | |||
24 May 2023 | Why I choose to be selective | 00:13:59 | |
In many parts of my life, I neglected to operate in a space of boundaries with those who expected so much out of me. I began to realize that I had to become selective with the people I involved myself with, the places I went to, and the environment I shared with others. Being selective provided me with a newfound life that allowed me to operate freely with my “NO” and be ok with it. | |||
28 May 2023 | The truth about the best version of yourself | 00:17:43 | |
Seeing and walking into the best version of yourself are two entirely distinct things that require either imagination or authentic and deliberate action. Why do so many individuals desire this version, and why is it essential? What measures are required, and what does the process actually entail? As we sift through this essential topic, hopefully this conversation will yield numerous answers.
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02 Jun 2023 | Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster: Understanding and Healing from Breakups | 00:24:40 | |
Have you ever wondered why breakups hurt so deeply, even when they're amicable? Join us for a heartfelt and eye-opening discussion as we explore the emotional rollercoaster that comes with the dissolution of relationships. We'll uncover the powerful bond formed through love and sex, and how this connection makes the pain of separation all the more intense. Together, we'll examine the effects of abandonment rage and separation anxiety, and emphasize the importance of understanding our feelings in order to better cope with the end of a relationship. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Embracing Change: The Biggest Version of You | 00:01:11 | |
What if personal growth means outgrowing certain situations and relationships? Listen as we explore the concept of personal growth and self-discovery, and the impact it has on ourselves and the people around us. Our journey through life requires us to constantly evolve and adapt, recognizing that, while it may be difficult for others to relate to our new selves, it's all part of the process. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Filling Your Cup First: Selfish about me | 00:01:08 | |
Have you ever felt like you're constantly pouring energy into others but neglecting your own needs? If that resonates, then you're in for a treat as I share my personal journey of learning to prioritize my own well-being and how doing so has positively impacted my relationships and interactions with others. In this dialogue, I discuss the importance of filling our own cups before pouring into others and the realization that I can't always be the one to initiate conversations, check-ups, or apologies when both parties are at fault. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Embracing Self Love: The Affirmation | 00:01:21 | |
Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, "I am not enough?" Are you ready to break free from self-doubt and truly believe in your own beauty, strength, and potential? In this empowering dialogue, I share a personal affirmation so that we can explore our unique qualities and mastering the art of self-love. Discover how the powerful mantra "I am beautiful, I am whole, I am enough" can transform your mindset and foster a healthy self-image, leading you on the path to becoming your best self. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | From Self-Doubt to Self-Love: Dear Me | 00:01:13 | |
After facing countless challenges and internal battles, I finally embarked on a transformative journey of self-discovery, growth, and self-love. In this raw and heartfelt conversation, I open up about how I went from being my own worst enemy to embracing a more positive and open-minded version of myself, and the lessons I learned along the way. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | The Power of Authentic Friendships: Celebrating Real Connections and Unwavering Support | 00:00:58 | |
Have you ever stopped to think about the incredible power of real friendships? The kind that uplifts you, challenges you, and nourishes your soul? In this heartfelt dialogue , I dive deep into the beauty of authentic connections and the invaluable support they bring into our lives. From the real people who surround us, to the real love that binds us, I articulate why these genuine relationships are worth nurturing and celebrating. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Breaking Free: A Journey of Self-Discovery, Growth, and Embracing Authenticity | 00:01:13 | |
Can you recall a time when you felt trapped by your own thoughts and habits, unable to see a way out? I've been there too, but today, I am celebrating the unbreakable and resilient person I have become through self-discovery and personal growth. Listen to this heartfelt and introspective journey as I share the obstacles I faced, the invaluable lessons I learned, and the incredible transformation I underwent to embrace my true self. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Rising Above Negativity: Not matching energies | 00:01:16 | |
Are you tired of letting negative energy impact your attitude and growth? Listen to this transformative journey as I dialogue the power of maintaining our own energy and not allowing negativity to dictate our composure. I share the importance of staying true to ourselves, our values, and our integrity, regardless of how others choose to show up in our lives. Let's embark on this empowering journey to take control of our attitudes and behaviors, and focus on our own growth and well-being. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Reclaiming Your Self-Worth: Ending the Chase for Validation | 00:01:03 | |
Have you ever found yourself chasing someone who doesn't truly value or respect you? Listen as I explore the reasons behind why we often find ourselves in these situations, and how to recognize when it's time to walk away and prioritize our own self-worth. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | Embodying Modesty and Resilience in Your Journey | 00:01:01 | |
Have you ever felt like you're going through life unnoticed, silently struggling and holding it down? Just when you think no one sees you, I want you to know that I do - and I'm here to celebrate the remarkable growth and transformation you've been through. In this heartfelt dialogue, we'll bask in the beauty of modesty and the resilience it takes to emerge from dark times into the light. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | The Power of Genuine Connections: Embracing Love and Selflessness in Your Life | 00:01:07 | |
Have you ever felt like you were missing genuine connections in your life? The kind of people who truly care about you, uplift you, and inspire you to be better? Today, I'm sharing my heartfelt hope for each of you to experience the love and support of good people in your life, as we explore the power of love and selflessness. | |||
07 Jun 2023 | A Mental Check-In | 00:08:03 | |
How often do you allow yourself time to truly reflect on your mental well-being? Before you answer, join me in a simple yet powerful breathing exercise that can help clear your mind and release tension. As we breathe together, let's explore the importance of honesty in ourselves and the danger of keeping our emotions bottled up. | |||
13 Jun 2023 | Giving yourself permission to grow: releasing perfectionism and welcoming self love | 00:10:22 | |
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23 Jun 2023 | Now you're ready to settle...and they aren’t…. | 00:22:37 | |
Struggling to navigate a non-committal relationship? Listen in as we share valuable insights on how to handle this challenging situation, brought to us by a woman in her mid-20s who's falling for a man who's just not ready to commit. We discuss the importance of trusting someone when they reveal their intentions and understanding that trying to change someone who's set on staying single might only lead to frustration and heartbreak. | |||
04 Jul 2023 | Unleashing the Power of Self-Accountability in Relationships and Recognizing Sabotage | 00:26:02 | |
Ever wondered how your past experiences could be shaping your present behaviors, particularly in relationships? This episode unpacks a powerful narrative of a young woman grappling with a tumultuous situation in her relationship. After an argument that left her distraught, her boyfriend labeled her as toxic, stirring her fears about losing him. We explore the complex layers of her situation, tracing the roots back to her mother's volatile relationships she witnessed growing up and the role it's playing in her current relationship. | |||
07 Jul 2023 | Fill Your Cup, Feed Your Connections | 00:09:40 | |
Have you ever considered the paradox of pouring from an empty cup? This episode is an introspective journey into the power of self-care and the often undervalued strength in saying 'no'. We shed light on the importance of recognizing our own needs and establishing our boundaries. The concept of 'pouring into others' often leaves us drained, leaving us to ponder who's pouring into us? We explore the necessity of being forthright about our boundaries and knowing when to step away from the empty cups of others. | |||
13 Jul 2023 | Toxic Family: How Do You Cope? | 00:14:49 | |
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14 Jul 2023 | In this Journey - Words of Affirmation | 00:18:17 | |
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20 Jul 2023 | The Waiting Season | 00:11:31 | |
This episode is also on YouTube: Seasoned Dialogue | |||
27 Jul 2023 | Conflict can be transformative and can be a catalyst for resolution | 00:12:36 | |
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27 Jul 2023 | Mastering Emotional Health: A Guide to Journaling | 00:13:43 | |
Listen in as we embark on a journey of self-reflection and growth through journaling. Our conversation is an exploration into the importance of journaling and how it can be a useful tool for managing emotions and working towards your goals. Through a series of probing questions, I challenge you to explore your emotions, relationships, rest patterns, and goals. We discuss how to gauge your emotions, understanding the triggers for anger, managing relationships that may have caused hurt, assessing your sleep patterns, and outlining your personal and professional goals. | |||
08 Aug 2023 | People Don't Deserve ALL Access to you | 00:23:12 | |
This episode is an exploration of the balance between sharing and retaining your privacy, specifically with your friends, family, and colleagues. We're going to illuminate the significance of cautious sharing, ensuring you grasp the profound truth that there's a distinctive charm in maintaining parts of your identity exclusive to you. | |||
09 Aug 2023 | Pouring into your unhealed wound | 00:09:09 | |
This episode is an impromptu episode for those who need a little encouragement from the breakup. | |||
17 Aug 2023 | Friendship Woes | 00:21:59 | |
This episode examines the difficulties that arise in friendships when a friend abruptly becomes unavailable. In this episode, a listener writes in for guidance on how to navigate a 20-year relationship that abruptly ended. We investigate the possibilities and provide guidance. | |||
25 Aug 2023 | Reframing Past Hurts: Finding Healing and Growth | 00:15:28 | |
Many people can relate to feeling hurt and untrusting, believing that they don't have the space to allow someone into their lives. It is possible to operate on a level of trust, even after experiencing past traumas. I encourage you to take accountability for the way you show up for yourself and others, as the lack of accountability can lead to being stuck in old patterns and resistant to growth. Feeling broken and guarded can make it challenging to open up and allow someone to love and nurture the wounded parts of their heart. We desire to protect the little corner that is still available for love and restoration but sometimes the suffering we experience is self-imposed because we are resistant to undoing the pain we have endured. Acknowledge that it is a step-by-step process but allow your heart a little bit of an opening, as experiences can help us recall the capacity to love and be loved. It is important to not allow past hurts prevent personal growth and the ability to love and connect with others. Listen in as w dive in deeper… 00:05:48 Breaking free from past hurt. | |||
31 Aug 2023 | Unhealed Parents - Unhealed Child | 00:19:48 | |
In "Unhealed Parent, Unhealed Child," Lisa-Marie discusses the impact of unhealed traumas on parenting. She emphasizes that while parents are not perfect, it is important to recognize that they are still individuals with their own struggles and limitations. Lisa Marie uses the example of a young woman who experienced molestation as a child, and how her mother's dismissive actions affected her and her sisters. She also highlights the role of trauma in shaping our perception and behavior, and how it can impact our ability to parent effectively. Ultimately, the episode encourages empathy and understanding towards unhealed parents while acknowledging the importance of addressing and healing from past traumas. | |||
15 Sep 2023 | The Power of Listening to Your Gut: Nurturing Your Spiritual Gift of Discernment | 00:25:05 | |
Life can get overwhelming, but it's important to embrace the journey and know that you still have time to achieve your goals. Intuition and discernment are spiritual gifts that we all possess. They're not superhuman abilities, but rather innate senses that guide us. Trust your gut feelings! For some, a deeper connection to their spirituality can amplify their intuition and discernment. It can be through a relationship with God or a belief in the universe. When you sense something is off, pray or ask the universe to reveal what it is. Being prepared for the outcome can save you from unnecessary heartache later. | |||
20 Sep 2023 | The Power of Staying Calm | 00:29:43 | |
In this episode, "The Power of Staying Calm," I explore the concept of remaining calm and finding peace in various aspects of life. I share personal experiences and insights on missed opportunities, the importance of self-love and personal growth, and staying true to oneself. I also discuss strategies for dealing with argumentative people, the power of choosing how situations affect us, and the benefits of maintaining a calm and composed demeanor. I emphasize the need to avoid getting upset about things that are beyond our control and to not let temporary incidents have a lasting impact on our emotions. The episode concludes with tips on maintaining calmness and finding inner peace, such as writing down thoughts and consciously choosing how to react to different situations. I hope this episode offers a thoughtful and inspiring perspective on navigating challenges and cultivating a sense of calm in our lives. | |||
21 Sep 2023 | The Load We Carry | 00:09:06 | |
This episode is also available for viewing on YouTube: | |||
11 Oct 2023 | The Shift in Your Life: Insights, Clarity, and New Perspectives on the Journey | 00:23:07 | |
Shifting entails moving away from our past, leaving behind old patterns and embracing the unknown. It can be scary, but the freedom and growth that come with it are worth it. Take that leap of faith and watch as beautiful transformations unfold along the way! | |||
17 Oct 2023 | Shout out to You, yes you!!!! | 00:12:49 | |
You’ve done the work… you’re living, and you’re breathing. | |||
27 Oct 2023 | Seeking Clarity through Prayer: Trusting God's Timing and Answers to Guide Our Path | 00:31:53 | |
In this episode we explore personal experiences and beliefs about God's presence and intervention in life. The episode emphasizes the power of prayer, maintaining a positive mindset, and trusting in God's plan. I encourage you to seek spiritual guidance, work towards personal growth, and live a fulfilling life. | |||
14 Nov 2023 | When the Affirmations aren’t affirming | 00:25:55 | |
In this episode of the podcast, I discuss the concept of affirmations and how they may not always have the desired effect. I emphasize the importance of taking action in addition to affirming oneself and explore how certain beliefs and behaviors can undermine the effectiveness of affirmations. I also introduce the idea of toxic positivity, which involves ignoring or denying negative emotions and the role of affirmations in improving self-esteem and transforming negative thoughts. I provide various affirmations throughout the episode and encourage you to choose ones that resonates with you to incorporate into their daily lives. Affirmations should be grounded in reality and serve as motivation or reminders to keep going, rather than temporary placeholders for how they wish to feel. | |||
05 Dec 2023 | Temporary Highs…. | 00:30:38 | |
In the episode titled 'Temporary High', we delve into the profound topics of emotional healing and personal growth. I offer a perspective on the transient nature of physical connections, drawing a clear distinction between transient lust and deeper love. I advocate for the pursuit of enduring solutions in the quest for joy and peace of mind. I encourage anyone struggling to seek support and consider therapy as a pathway to healing, growth, and self-development. Central to the mission of my podcast, I emphasize the importance of self-love, healing, transformation, and the courage to make meaningful life changes. | |||
21 Dec 2023 | Embracing New Beginnings: Goal Setting for a Purposeful 2024 | 00:27:53 | |
In this podcast episode, I share my thoughts on goal setting and the significance of being intentional in life. I emphasize the importance of celebrating personal milestones and staying motivated. I want to encourage you to define your goals for the coming year and to create a word or phrase that encapsulates your aspirations. I hope to provide practical advice on how to break down and prioritize goals, create a plan, and stay organized. Furthermore, I address the detrimental effects of envy and the need to focus on personal fulfillment rather than comparing oneself to others. Throughout the episode, I advocate for self-love, compassion, and self-improvement, ultimately reminding listeners to live purposefully and intentionally. The episode ends with a message of love and support for those who may have faced struggles throughout the year. | |||
31 Dec 2023 | The Last Episode of 2023: Reflections and Resolutions with Lisa Marie | 00:26:36 | |
In the last episode of Seasoned Dialogue for 2023, I reflect on the year and encourage you to do the same. A series of introspective questions, urging listeners to consider their personal growth, relationships, and goals. I emphasize the importance of being authentic, staying consistent with values and morals, and being open to spiritual growth. Throughout the episode, I encourage self-compassion, kindness towards others, and belief in one's own abilities. The episode ends with a message of gratitude for the audience and looks forward to the new year, emphasizing alignment with purpose, self-empowerment, and positive growth. | |||
10 Jan 2024 | 2024: Revelations Uncovered - The truth and exposure | 00:28:32 | |
This podcast episode revolves around the theme of revelation and its impact on individuals and society. I share personal anecdotes and observations to delve into the significance of truth, secrets, and intentions in people's lives. I emphasize the power of honesty, the consequences of harboring secrets, and the potential harm caused by hidden truths. I also discusses the reactions and behaviors of individuals when their secrets are exposed, touching on the importance of intentions and living with honesty and integrity. Throughout the episode, I encourage self-reflection, authenticity, and the pursuit of a purposeful, meaningful life. 1. Truth and Intentionality | |||
06 Feb 2024 | Healing from Relationship Betrayal: Trust, Identity, and Emotional Recovery | 00:43:28 | |
In this episode we delve into the complex aftermath of betrayal in relationships. I highlight how betrayal can lead to trust issues, emotional turmoil, and psychological stress, potentially causing anxiety, depression, and PTSD. Healing from betrayal is critical not just for the individual but also for the broader social and family dynamics. I stress the importance of processing emotions at one's own pace, despite societal pressures to quickly overcome the trauma. I cover different levels of betrayal, varying effects on individuals, and the necessity of open communication and honesty in relationships. I also emphasize that if one chooses to stay post-betrayal, the importance of love-based communication and not using the past as leverage is paramount. For those who leave, I advise not to return to the source of the pain. Recognizing both partners need to heal, I points out that genuine remorse and attempts to make amends by the betrayer can be admirable. The episode also touches on signs of a failing relationship, the importance of honesty, and the role of personal judgment in post-betrayal decisions. 1. Trust Erosion - Understand how betrayal can erode trust not only in relationships but across your life, and what that means for your future bonds. 2. Emotional Roller Coaster - Get real about the ups and downs of betrayal's emotional impact and how to brace yourself for the ride. 3. Communication is Key - Learn why it's absolutely crucial to have open, honest conversations in the healing process. 4. Moving On - Whether you decide to stay or leave, discover the steps you need to take to heal on your terms. 5. Prevention - Spot the warning signs of relationship distress Linda-Marie discusses and how addressing them early can offset potential betrayal. | |||
21 Feb 2024 | Love Bombing Explained: When Affection Becomes Manipulation | 00:35:17 | |
In the episode titled, "Love Bombing Explained: When Affection Becomes Manipulation" delves into the topic of love bombing, a manipulative technique characterized by excessive affection and attention to gain control over a partner. The episode discusses how love bombers often possess narcissistic traits and might have underlying attachment issues. Through the example of Tiffany and Dave, it illustrates how love bombing can start with overwhelming affection but evolve into possessiveness and control, potentially escalating to abuse. I highlight common warning signs like rapid relationship escalation, isolation, jealousy, and grandiose apologies. I advise victims to trust their instincts, set boundaries, and seek support. For love bombers, self-reflection and addressing personal insecurities are recommended. The goal is to educate listeners about recognizing and combating love bombing, emphasizing self-care and healthy relationship dynamics. | |||
18 Mar 2024 | Don’t Rush Me to Forgive | 00:14:05 | |
Join me in a deep and heartfelt dialogue about the intricacies of forgiveness, timing, and healing. In this episode, I delve into the minimum and maximum levels of forgiveness, exploring how individuals navigate forgiveness in varying situations, from white lies to deeply traumatic experiences. I address the challenges of imposing beliefs about forgiveness on others and emphasize the personal nature of the forgiveness process. Through insight, I touch on the profound impact of trauma on forgiveness and highlight the importance of healing and professional help in some cases. Drawing from biblical and personal perspectives, I share powerful insights on the significance of forgiveness for personal growth and freedom. This episode provides a safe and understanding space for listeners to contemplate forgiveness in their own lives, encouraging them to work through the process while respecting their own timing. | |||
20 Mar 2024 | Finding Peace and Purpose: Uplifting Words for Self-Reflection and Empowerment | 00:25:19 | |
The podcast provides words of encouragement, empowerment, and advice for personal growth and self-love. I hope to emphasize the importance of self-reflection, gratitude, and maintaining inner peace. Topics covered include relationships, parenting, financial management, and handling negative interactions. You are encouraged to practice self-love and self-care, and to remember their worth and strength. I also share the importance of patience and acceptance when facing life's challenges and disappointments. | |||
25 Mar 2024 | A Reflective Journey of Progress and Personal Transformation | 00:22:11 | |
In this episode, I talk about the satisfaction and sense of progress that comes with creating a positive environment. I reflect on my personal growth and development, sharing my own journey from being introverted and reserved to stepping out of my comfort zone and overcoming anxiety. I also discuss struggles with self-identity, acceptance, and the challenges. I emphasize the importance of recognizing and celebrating progress in all aspects of life and encourage listeners to embrace intentional change and growth. Let's dive into it! | |||
29 Apr 2024 | Perhaps you just need rest…. | 00:27:12 | |
In this episode I share personal reflections and insights on the importance of not rushing through life's processes and the value of giving things time to unfold naturally. We dive into personal growth, the pitfalls of skipping critical learning phases, and embracing the entirety of our journeys, including both triumphs and setbacks. I want to encourage you to embrace self-reflection, understand the value of setbacks, and accept the non-linear nature of personal growth in this deeply motivational talk. Whether dealing with self-actualization, healing from loss, or any personal evolution, this episode is a compassionate reminder to give yourself grace, invest time in your growth, and cherish incremental progress without succumbing to the pressures of instant gratification. | |||
28 May 2024 | Encouraging Healing: Giving Friends Space and Grace During Hardship | 00:27:57 | |
The main segment of the episode revolves around a quote shared on Threads, prompted by an epiphany from a conversation and a personal experience. The quote is about giving people space to deal with their challenges without judgment or cutting them off, emphasizing grace and communication. | |||
17 Jul 2024 | Strategies to Conquer Overthinking and Improve Your Mental Health | 00:22:33 | |
Overthinking can lead to extreme scenarios that often don't come to pass, causing stress, anxiety, and a pessimistic mindset. Overthinking can result in mental and physical exhaustion, impact sleep, and strain relationships due to increased critical feelings and misunderstandings. To combat overthinking, I advocate for strategies like mindfulness, setting time limits for decision-making, and focusing on actionable steps. I also suggests removing oneself from the situation, utilizing breath work, engaging in activities like listening to music or reading, and even prayer. | |||
17 Jul 2024 | How to Stay Grounded When Others Distort the Truth | 00:24:06 | |
In this episode we discuss the emotional turmoil and reactions that arise when someone distorts the truth about a falling-out, making the victim appear to be the aggressor. People shift blame to protect their self-esteem and avoid guilt or responsibility for negative outcomes. This behavior stems from a lack of honesty, self-accountability, and the fear of consequences. | |||
23 Jul 2024 | The Pivot | 00:22:09 | |
In this episode of "The Pivot," I offer motivational advice for those struggling with indecision and fear. The importance of taking small steps toward one's goals and understanding that these minor pivots can lead to significant changes are important. | |||
08 Aug 2024 | Healing From Loss: The Emotional Waves of Grief | 00:25:47 | |
This episode dives deep into the raw and honest emotions that come with grief and bereavement. I share my story with an open heart, exploring the significant dates that have shaped my life and revealing profound insights on how to navigate through the pain of losing loved ones. | |||
15 Aug 2024 | Self Love Essentials: Compassion, Forgiveness, and Mental Well-Being | 00:31:56 | |
In this episode we delve into the multifaceted benefits of self-love, emphasizing its impact on relationships, family dynamics, and personal growth. Self-love fosters resilience, enabling individuals to handle setbacks, criticism, and failure, while promoting self-compassion, forgiveness, and the prioritization of mental and physical well-being. | |||
23 Aug 2024 | From Exhaustion to Empowerment: Breaking Free from People Pleasing | 00:31:30 | |
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09 Sep 2024 | Living Boldly with God's Grace and Purpose | 00:18:29 | |
In this episode, I, share my personal journey of evolving faith and the profound impact God's grace has had on my life. I recount how, at times, I hesitated or diverted from God's call due to reluctance or fear, and the subsequent heaviness and conviction I felt. Through my narrative, I emphasize how God requires different parts of us at different stages in our spiritual growth, gently guiding and preparing us step by step. | |||
17 Sep 2024 | Staying Grounded: Silence and Emotional Intelligence | 00:09:06 | |
In this episode, I address the power of choosing not to react when people try to provoke us, either intentionally or unintentionally. I emphasize that not every action needs a reaction and that engaging in unnecessary conflicts only drains our energy and disrupts our peace. I encourage everyone to understand the importance of silence and how it can be a powerful response. Silence doesn't mean weakness; it can signify strength and control over one's emotions. Throughout the episode, I highlight the significance of protecting our peace and urge everyone to reflect before reacting, asking themselves if the conversation will truly lead to greater understanding or just more frustration. Prioritizing peace over conflict, I advocate for walking away from arguments and choosing silence over drama. Finally, I want to to remind everyone that they are not obligated to engage in every conflict and should feel empowered to guard their peace. | |||
25 Sep 2024 | Meditation for Releasing Overwhelm and Expectations | 00:11:40 | |
Come back to this episode when you need to relax, rejuvenate, and be still... | |||
29 Oct 2024 | Love doesn't embody control | 00:16:13 | |
Love doesn’t embody control; it thrives in freedom. True love nurtures individuality and respects boundaries, allowing each person to grow in their own way. It is not about possession, manipulation, or coercion, but about trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Love encourages self-expression and empowers both individuals to be their authentic selves without fear of judgment or retribution. It embraces vulnerability and imperfection, knowing that genuine connection is born from acceptance, not domination. | |||
26 Nov 2024 | There's something you need to know | 00:16:31 | |
I've been sitting on this message for a while, and today felt like the right day to share it. As we near the end of 2024, there's often an internal urge to do things differently, to let go of the old and embrace new beginnings. Many of us carry heaviness without even realizing it, and we sometimes burden others with our issues, expecting them to fix things for us. This message is for those who feel heavy or have heavy people around them. Life is inherently heavy at times, but it's unfair to bleed on others and expect them to be content with our residue. Some burdens are meant to be released, not shared. Healing begins with acknowledgment and self-reliance, not by waiting for someone else to carry our weight. It's crucial to understand that letting go doesn't signify weakness—it's our pathway to freedom. Finally, as we approach the new year, it's important to realize that the answers we seek lie within us. We need to sit with ourselves, find peace, and, if necessary, seek wise counsel from those who can genuinely support us. My wish is that these words resonate with you and help awaken a dormant place in your heart and mind. If you know someone who might need to hear this, please share the message with them. |