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| 25 Apr 2024 | losing yourself in a relationship: the perfect girlfriend doesn’t exist so relax (video essay) | 01:49:16 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new Vonsway Hendrix, back on dating apps, broken limbs, surgery, and duality. **Shop Vonsway Hendrix Streetwear: https://www.instagram.com/vonsway_hendrix/ ** Next, we dive into this week’s topic: losing yourself in a relationship. relationship you vs single you, why do we like certain versions better? is it normal to lose your identity in a relationship? what does it mean to give 100%? how much should you sacrifice in a relationship? when are you the problem? We’re talking: boyfriend air, putting your happiness in someone else, getting comfortable and letting yourself go, the perks of consistent sex, the relationship glow, why men get hit on more when they’re in a relationship, adapting to what your partner wants, compromises, what to do when you’re watching your friend lose themselves in a relationship, how to prioritize your own needs, the difference between losing yourself and growing as a person, canonical relationships, signs you’re losing yourself in a relationship, scarcity mindset, the pressure women feel to be perfect in relationships, codependency, how our childhood impacts our relationships, limiting beliefs, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00-00:01:39 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry 00:01:39 - 00:06:07 The difference between relationship you and single you: which one is better? 00:06:07 - 00:11:10 Thugging it out vs being soft 00:11:10 - 00:13:24 Why are women sad in relationships 00:13:24 - 00:17:04 The boyfriend effect/ boyfriend air 00:17:04 - 00:20:37 The benefits of consistent sex 00:20:37 - 00:22:25 The relationship glow: Do we get hit on more when we’re in a relationship? 00:22:25 - 00:25:21 Why men get hit on more when they’re in a relationship 00:25:21 - 00:31:41 Losing your identity in relationships 00:31:41 - 00:40:18 How much of yourself should you give in a relationship? 00:40:18 - 00:49:05 Is it normal to lose yourself in a relationship? 00:49:05 - 00:56:13 Signs of identity loss in a relationship 00:56:13 - 01:03:13 Reddit stories about losing yourself in a relationship: am I the problem? 01:03:13 - 01:17:41 Does women’s social conditioning contribute to our tendency to losing ourselves in relationships 01:17:41 - 01:23:25 Why do people lose themselves in relationships? 01:23:25 - 01:32:24 What limiting beliefs do you have around love: an exercise 01:32:24 - 01:39:29 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topics 01:39:29 - 01:49:16 Sources: https://x.com/_speedfromtx/status/1725530243983696183?s=20 https://x.com/Hoodville_/status/1767280125392097714 https://ifunny.co/picture/relationship-me-is-extremely-soft-single-me-is-a-thug-IUYlV1t2A?s=cl https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLSCY77m/ https://www.tiktok.com/@imvonteee/video/7335252325277109546?_r=1&_t=8l2iOHr6UiE https://www.tiktok.com/@zman_g/video/7253972354676673838 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tufYwOcXu4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IVublH538VM https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/905ovt/i_22f_have_lost_myself_in_relationship_w_24m/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 04 May 2023 | defining exhibitionism: our favorite kink | 01:08:03 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about my ex dropping off weed, giving short kings a chance, people leaving hate comments, defining exhibitionism, mutual masturbation, fingering in math class, walking around the house naked, getting in trouble for being naked, fantasizing about being watched, goddess energy, sex in public, road head, getting kicked out for having sex in a bar bathroom, being perceived as a slut and loving it, stripping & only fans, and finally, we answer viewer questions and share their stories!👀 sources: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/exhibitionism https://www.britannica.com/topic/exhibitionism https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32760449/what-is-exhibitionism/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/social-sciences/exhibitionism https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/exhibitionism Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 07 Dec 2023 | oral sex tips: deep throating the pussy | 01:32:33 | |
**This episode is sponsored by Mochi Melt! Shop their Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!*** https://mochimelt.com/collections/water-based-lubricants Fiji and Autumn check in this week with getting back with my situationship, having solid women in your life, transport by foot, and looking for better places to go out. . Next, they break down this episode's main topic: oral sex tips! The positive impacts of oral sex on health and relationships, intimacy, the less cute parts of sex, performance anxiety, golden showers, cotton mouth, the benefits of flavored lube, teasing, keeping your panties on, degrading dirty talk, slowing down, keeping better stamina, being spontaneous, road head, eating ass, ice play, deep throating the pussy (and dick), breathing, struggling to cum from head, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6327665/ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/confessions/tips/a3497/oral-sex-tips/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 02 Mar 2023 | we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 | 01:04:29 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this intro episode, we talk about who we are and what the podcast will be about. then we get into what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. New lovers, shame, sexuality, lap dances, Brazilian waxes, and more👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 13 Oct 2024 | our journey as small podcast/ youtube creators: what we've learned | 00:24:32 | |
Fiji and Autumn sat down to get real about what we've learned in the past year and a half as small podcast and youtube video essay creators. We share insights into our creator journey, the tools and equipment we use, advice for creators that are just getting started, and what to expect in terms of growth, money, and brand deals. If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics about sex, relationships, and personal identity where internet trends and reality collide. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Listen in on our FaceTime calls for the nuanced reality check that only a best friend (and some research) can provide. Join our community of confused pxssies and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode. | |||
| 15 Jun 2023 | the ultimatum queer love: we're wet for mal | 01:07:17 | |
***SPOILER ALERT*** we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on being single, male strippers in Nashville, LA pride, and paying for pussy. Next they break down this episode's main topic: Netflix’s The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Unpacking the first WLW reality show ! 👀 Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-7233 Mental Health Crisis Hotline: 988 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 16 May 2024 | a deep dive: are we dating the same guy facebook groups, tiktok loyalty tests, & internet sleuths | 02:02:22 | |
**Trigger warning for SA, r*pe, & DA***
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with learning how to clap my ass, my mom visiting me, angry girlfriend AI to teach men empathy, and toxic moms on TikTok.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: are we dating the same guy facebook groups, loyalty testing, internet sleuths, and the ethics of doxing
Who’s scarier a man or a bear? Is all gossip feminist? Do we need review sites for dating apps? What counts as dating red flags? Is it really embarrassing if your man cheats on you? Have we taken this all a bit too far?
We’re talking: internet stalking your dates pre-meet up, how to stay safe while dating, the me too movement, whisper networks, the different types of posts in are we dating the same guy Facebook groups, are we dating the same guy LA and Arizona lawsuits, defamation cases, Couch Guy, West Elm Caleb, Baby Reindeer, true crime tiktok, doxing, loyalty testing tiktok, dating app profile reviews, the problem with internet activism, the dangers of echo chambers, mass dating paranoia, hating men, listener stories, and more!👀
Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵
intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:38
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:38 - 00:08:49
How much do people sleuth before they go on a first date? 00:08:49 - 00:12:32
Women are afraid of men 00:12:32 - 00:15:08
The Me Too Movement and whisper networks 00:15:08 - 00:26:30
Is gossip feminist? 00:26:30 - 00:29:51
What are the are we dating the same guy Facebook groups? 00:29:51 - 00:30:34
Internet sleuths on TikTok 00:30:34 - 00:37:29
Why do people join these Facebook groups? 00:37:29 - 00:40:29
The different types of posts in are we dating the same guy Facebook groups 00:40:29 - 00:46:10
Loyalty testing tiktok 00:46:10 - 00:53:31
Do we need the are we dating the same guy Facebook groups? 00:53:31 - 00:55:43
the defamation lawsuit against 50 women from are we dating the same guy LA 00:55:43 - 01:07:14
Are these Facebook groups defamation? 01:07:14 - 01:10:41
West Elm Caleb: do we need review sites for dating apps? Are we in a doxing crisis? 01:10:41 - 01:23:16
Couch guy, internet sleuths, and more doxing 01:23:16 - 01:32:56
Women dominated platforms and echo chambers on the internet 01:32:56 - 01:39:55
Who should we really be scared of? 01:39:55 - 01:42:09
Would this be okay if men did the same thing? And are we talking the man hate too far? 01:42:09 - 01:51:15
What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:51:15 - 02:02:22
Sources:https://www.tiktok.com/@screenshothq/video/7356208240008498465?_r=1&_t=8lr3VckKxlT https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whisper_network
https://journals.openedition.org/ejas/16587
https://youtu.be/mZaWnQ9HXZA?si=WYUrl2ZSFtYYB5schttps://www.glamour.com/story/are-we-dating-the-same-guy-facebook-groupshttps://www.latimes.com/california/story/2024-04-09/dating-the-same-guy-defamation-lawsuithttps://youtu.be/UHvaVEsfaz8?si=oOWkRVWZM-N91ia8 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13301999/The-bachelor-sued-50-women-calling-bad-date-turned-one-homes-didnt-address-discovered-online-group-exposed-him.htmlhttps://www.npr.org/2024/03/11/1237398097/facebook-groups-where-women-discuss-dating-topics-are-under-fire-in-a-lawsuithttps://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/caleb-west-elm-dating-saga-1288386/https://www.tiktok.com/@wabbyrose/video/7348952476973878571?q=are%20we%20dating%20the%20same%20guy&t=1714150859031https://www.tiktok.com/@wabbyrose/video/7348952476973878571?q=are%20we%20dating%20the%20same%20guy&t=1714150859031
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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| 17 Oct 2024 | competition, business, & female friendship break ups: can we work it out on the remix? | 03:10:54 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new Netflix shows Te Perfect Couple and Average Joe, Eat Predators controversy, and my dog’s adoption day. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: the depth of female friendship and friendship breakups. Why are we all competing and when can we just work it out on the remix? We’re talking: Early female friendships, romanticizing girlhood, the differences between male and female friendships, how female friendships are similar to romantic relationships, the depth of female friendships, painful friendship breakups, female rivalry, competition between women, mean girls, performative friendships/ friendships for PR, Kim Kardashian and Paris Hilton, Charlie XCX and Lorde, Brat’s focus on female dynamics, how the media pits women against each other, comparing yourself to other women, Ice Spice and Cleotrapa, colorism, business relationships with other women, JT and Yung Miami, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=cRBG4-T_vvLHyASy https://youtu.be/1dyg8lI9k3k?si=sg6FvJ_iaq_kjFIm https://youtu.be/Rclk6K9alZU?si=jxcAxkp4UxR5Mpnq Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1DNhXXR4bL3A-bzp3bwIoNDyTv2_XCVFm_Xv-McVy3Zo/edit?tab=t.0 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* | |||
| 05 Oct 2023 | too slutty or too prude: the bad bitch struggle | 01:01:03 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with sexual compatibility, a new shirt by Vonsway Hendrix, accidents in the kitchen, and new TikTok features. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: can women be taken seriously when they express their sexuality? We're diving deep into Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift, Cardi B, Glorilla, City Girls, Travis Scott, and answering the questions: Can you take a woman who does sex work seriously? Why do sex workers feel shame? Do women need to have sex appeal to be a mainstream artist? Sex tapes and 2000’s celebrity scrutiny. How does sex work impact your identity? Would we be okay with our daughters doing sex work? Learning how to own your sexuality. Do you need to have trauma and daddy issues to become a sex worker? Does being a sex worker affect your future intimate relationships? How does stripping affect your body image? Listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Fiji's shirt by @Vonsway_Hendrix https://vonsway-hendrix.myshopify.com/password?fbclid=PAAabfyn_EVzyR0cDU8g-50oouxhmod3kVsEpq9FZ0nWmPAm_-uqhEEn3hugw_aem_AXHcdV_ke-2A0rvDv9r7Z3zT3Y_6tST99_clCZ-rWyFW7wEuKSFwY2hB56XPcE-eFts Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) Caleb Marsh (Audio Editor) instagram: @calebm.audio --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 24 Oct 2024 | ovulation has the tiktok girls ravenous | 02:51:24 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive ovulation horniness. We’re talking: What is ovulation?, ovulation music, the menstruation cycle explained, tracking your period cycle, discharge, ovulation horny, going to the gyno, the problems with women’s healthcare, ultrasounds, post-ovulation clarity, men’s response to ovulation, the types of people you might be attracted to during ovulation, the types of sex you might like during ovulation, are you more attractive during ovulation?, does the luteal phase make you ugly?, menstrual nutrition, cycle syncing tiktok, menstrual health education, censorship on tiktok, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtzN8kstoU4&t=3102s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l954x4jxwzc&t=2044s Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1GroyTHdcScTr056chZDhcDQiJwnVYMbOqk7wZtgNCtg/edit?tab=t.0 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:52 Ovulation is trending on TikTok and Sabrina Carpenter’s Ovulation Music 00:01:52 - 00:05:20 What is ovulation and what are the syptoms? 00:05:20 - 00:19:49 Ovulation horniess on tiktok 00:19:49 - 00:37:00 The types of sex you might prefer when you’re ovulating 00:37:00 - 00:54:05 The types of people we’re attracted to when we’re ovulating 00:54:05 - 01:12:26 How men respond when a woman is ovulating 01:12:26 - 01:25:27 Are you more attractive during ovulation? 1:25:27 - 01:50:35 Menstrual cycle nutrition and cycle syncing tiktok 01:50:35 - 02:06:52 The need for menstrual health education and menstruation censorship on tiktok 02:06:52 - 02:27:28 Listener Story 02:27:28 - 02:36:39 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about ovulation 02:36:39 - 02:51:24 the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* | |||
| 04 Jul 2024 | Sex-positive feminism failed us, now what? | 01:54:19 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being in love with flirting with ai, chapped lips, and crying in the shower. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: sex-positive feminism We’re talking: Rethinking sex positivity, reflecting on our sexual histories, critiques of sex-positive feminism, misconceptions about sex-positive feminism, the gaps between ideals and reality, slut shaming, the pressure to be more promiscuous, codes of how to act around men passed down by other women, prioritizing men’s pleasure, heterosexual norms, women’s desire, rebellion, Kim K, Sex Will Be Good Again by Katherine Angel, the popularity of profiting off of your body, hook up culture, Confidence feminism, the “hurtable” woman, the importance of preparing girls for womanhood, sex and relationship education, how sex-positive feminism impacts dating, the risks of being openly sex-positive, the shift to celibacy, women relearning themselves, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:11 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:11 - 00:06:46 Defining sex-positive feminism + our history and initial thoughts on sex positivity 00:06:46 - 00:14:00 The problems with sex-positive feminism & men’s perception 00:14:00 - 00:23:29 the pressure to be more promiscuous, our pleasure, and not knowing what we really want as women 00:23:29 - 00:28:14 consent culture, heterosexual norms, women’s desire, and rebellion 00:28:14 - 00:40:43 How sex-positive feminism gained and lost popularity 00:40:43 - 00:51:09 Confidence feminism vs the hurtable woman and the unachievable woman 00:51:09 - 01:02:23 Criticisms of sex-positive feminism, conservative tiktok, the anti-porn movement, and the pressures to have kinky sex 01:02:23 - 01:15:22 Where do men play a role in sex-positive feminism, how sex-positive feminism impacts dating, and the risks of being openly sex-positive 01:15:22 - 01:22:11 The gaps in sex-positive feminism, the 4B movement, and where to go from here 01:22:11 - 01:40:21 Wrap-up: Is sexual liberation truly possible? And What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about sex-positive feminism 01:40:21 -01:54:19 Sources:https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/24/opinion/sex-positivity-feminism.htmlhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/feb/02/it-stopped-me-having-sex-for-a-year-why-generation-z-is-turning-its-back-on-sex-positive-feminismhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Idmegxtis8I&t=3s https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/feb/02/it-stopped-me-having-sex-for-a-year-why-generation-z-is-turning-its-back-on-sex-positive-feminismhttps://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/article/2024/may/21/celibacy-hetrosexual-women-boysober-4b-sex-positive-feminismfollow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 01 Feb 2024 | consensual non-consent kinks (cnc): are you normal or is there a screw loose? | 01:33:49 | |
***Trigger Warning*** ****We talk about r*pe, sexual assault, domestic violence, and kidnapping in this episode. Please don't listen if these are your triggers.**** Fiji and Autumn check in this week with paying off debt, new fantasies, being annoyed with therapy, and sexist clients. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: CNC aka consensual non-consent kinks. What is CNC? How common is it? Are you messed up for liking this kink or is there a stigma? We’re talking: our CNC experiences, CNC roleplay, sexual assault survivors using CNC for healing, rewiring your brain from trauma, feeling shame for liking the kink, how CNC can be detrimental, miscommunications during kink play, safe words, sleeping kinks, kidnapping kinks, sex education, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=consent%20non%20consent https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/comments/m2ax4g/im_a_survivor_who_is_into_cnc_i_have_mixed/ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIrm6RbDBJQ https://www.tiktok.com/@aussarah/video/7201629633412959490 https://www.choosingtherapy.com/sexual-shame/ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/sex-therapy/ https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/what-is-consensual-non-consent https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2016.1139034 https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7vyk4/consensual-non-consent-meaning https://domsubliving.com/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 14 Nov 2024 | Art about abuse and dark romance: why does the media romanticize toxic relationships? | 03:09:25 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive toxic relationships in the media, dark romance, and art about abuse. We’re talking: It Ends with Us and the marketing disaster, Colleen Hoover, Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni, did It Ends With Us romanticize abuse?, what is the “right” story about abuse, input from survivors, why do people stay in toxic relationships?, who are stories about toxic relationships for?, what does good representation for survivors of domestic violence look like?, Baby Reindeer, You, Twilight, Harley Quinn and The Joker, Euphoria, The Notebook, Beauty and the Beast, Lana Del Rey and the controversy about glamorizing toxic relationships, the line “he hit me and it felt like a kiss”, America’s domestic and sexual violence epidemic, domestic violence and sexual abuse stats, the patriarchy, trauma bonds, abuse’s effects on the brain, the controversy over dark romance, how are toxic relationships in the media effecting teens?, dark romance as a power fantasy and coping mechanism, fantasy versus reality, shame about fantasies, the need for more arts and social sciences education, listener stories, and more!👀 Resources Sexual Assault, Rape, and Domestic Violence Resources, Support, and Hotlines: Mental Health Support, Resources, and Hotline: https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ https://www.apa.org/topics/crisis-hotlines Intro, spoiler alert disclaimers, and trigger warnings 00:00:00 - 00:03:52 It Ends With Us: The marketing backlash and did it romanticize abuse? 00:03:52 - 00:48:14 Toxic Relationships are Everywhere in the Media: When are they normalized and romanticized? 00:48:14 - 00:59:09 Does Lana Del Rey romanticize abuse and toxic relationships? 00:59:09 - 01:22:47 How much context do we need when consuming art about toxic relationships? 01:22:47 - 01:47:34 The Dark Romance controversy: dark romance as a power fantasy and coping mechanism 01:47:34 - 02:21:51 How is the romanticization of toxic relationships in the media effecting the teens? 02:21:51 - 02:40:32 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 02:40:32 - 03:09:25 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=B3JA1BATIrW3roP1 https://youtu.be/lb035NeGKLs?si=gHC36-3NB6MlZZGU https://youtu.be/3GN87EuNg9w?si=_6s9wqGrga3hAVt_ Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 22 Aug 2024 | trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment: a deep dive | 02:49:23 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with F.D Signifier’s video essays, How I Met Your Mother, free online concerts, a failed night out, and having a hard time sleeping. . Next, we dive into this week’s topic: trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment. We’re talking: The gendered and internet history of “oversharing”, oversharing memes, social media as a third space, finstas, the right to tell your story, storytelling as an art form, profiting off of oversharing/ trauma dumping, Reesa Tessa, Brooke Schofield, Who tf did I marry, Hayley Baylee, truth vs fiction, creators as entrepreneurs/ artists, put a finger down tiktok, Tana Mongeau, Alex Cooper and Call Her Daddy, exploiting your life for money, watching creators grow up in real-time, the addiction loop of posting, the trauma plot, the traumaification of reality tv, Joey the Bachelor, the trauma candy salad, does trauma make you funny?, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=0VzFI8QENED37ZI5 https://youtu.be/Rclk6K9alZU?si=tiHDOPTPtiW2-uCC Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Oq68JJ_-Vg54a29_BsvhVLsGxncw5UMlyBEFTzNqdkQ/edit Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:41 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:41 - 00:08:13 The gendered and internet history of “oversharing” 00:08:13 - 00:13:15 What is oversharing online? 00:13:15 - 00:25:53 Who tf did I marry tiktok: the ethics of oversharing and trauma dumping as storytelling 00:25:53 - 00:39:50 The rise of the storytime era: Tana Mongeau and Oversharing as storytelling 00:39:50 - 00:47:51 The addiction loop of exploiting yourself online and monetizing oversharing: Call Her Daddy 00:47:51 - 01:06:47 The case against the trauma plot: personal testimony as art and the traumaification of reality tv 01:06:47 - 01:51:53 The regularization of trauma dumping on tiktok: trauma candy salads and other trends 01:51:53 - 02:13:32 The audience for trauma dumping and the intention of the creator 02:13:32 - 02:33:31 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about trauma dumping and oversharing as entertainment 02:33:31 - 02:49:23 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 29 Feb 2024 | the men are spiraling because we wanna hookup on the first date | 01:20:17 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with karaoke birthday parties, career changes, drunk calls, and being flakey. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: should you fuck on the first date? Does fucking first lose sexual tension? Does it cloud your mind? Why do people ghost after hooking up? Why do men insist on holding it against us for hooking up on the first date? We’re talking: first hook up red flags, developing feelings from an orgasm, ghosting, oxytocin, good sex vs bad sex, the stigma around fucking first, people who wait until marriage to have sex, emotional connections vs physical connections, withholding sex to manipulate men, why do men think women are hoes for fucking first, sexual compatibility, dick sizes, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro: 00:00:00 - 00:01:52 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week: 00:01:52 - 00:06:54 Why people say you shouldn’t fuck on the first date: 00:06:54 - 00:13:05 Who hooks up first vs getting to know someone first by gender: 00:13:05 - 00:19:48 Why people think you should fuck first: 00:19:48 - 00:24:47 The two schools of thought on fucking first: 00:24:47 - 00:30:52 Does hooking up first lose all sexual tension? 00:30:52 - 00:32:59 What does fucking on the first date say about you as a woman? 00:32:59 - 00:37:32 Are you able to think clearly emotionally when you fuck first? 00:37:32 - 00:43:28 Are people more likely to stay or ghost. after fucking first? 00:43:28 - 00:46:27 Is it possible to be “bad” at sex? 00:46:27 - 00:52:01 Does getting to know each other first make the relationship last longer? 00:52:01 - 00:56:28 Listener Stories 00:56:28 - 01:07:47 Wrap Up (Wet, Dry, Confused) 01:07:47 - 01:20:17:11 Sources: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a21097210/men-sex-on-the-first-date/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8cXC7QH/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8cXV54H/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6OxFPw7vmQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4jzyB4ZB8o follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- | |||
| 04 Jan 2024 | lover girl vs mysterious girl TikTok: two different versions of a pick me | 01:47:10 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new jobs, mini golf pros, hot dads, doctors appointments, and incels hating on YouTube. Next, we dive into girl tiktok where lover girls are tired of the streets and everyone wants to give you tips on how to be more mysterious in your dating life. We’re talking: the stereotypes of the lover girl and mysterious girl archetypes, pick me tendencies, self-deprecating humor, relatability, lovebombing, ride or dies, internalized misogyny, heartbreak, the common failure to thug it out, unattainable standards for women, nepotism babies, the state of dating, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/@sicicameron/v... (https://www.tiktok.com/@sicicameron/v...) https://www.tiktok.com/@marissam888/v... (https://www.tiktok.com/@marissam888/v...) https://www.tiktok.com/@pretty.babezz... (https://www.tiktok.com/@pretty.babezz...) https://www.tiktok.com/@mommaim4real/... (https://www.tiktok.com/@mommaim4real/...) https://www.tiktok.com/@keiravanderko... (https://www.tiktok.com/@keiravanderko...) https://www.tiktok.com/@gu33iii/video... (https://www.tiktok.com/@gu33iii/video...) https://www.tiktok.com/@lillydonnelly... (https://www.tiktok.com/@lillydonnelly...) https://www.tiktok.com/@glowuporstayt... (https://www.tiktok.com/@glowuporstayt...) https://www.tiktok.com/@lucindapikkat... (https://www.tiktok.com/@lucindapikkat...) https://i-d.vice.com/en/article/pkakw... (https://i-d.vice.com/en/article/pkakw...) follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 01 Aug 2024 | Limerence: a fun delusional crush or a reason to seek help? | 01:51:52 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with a new tattoo, Billie Eilish, Bear, and allergic reactions. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: political apathy and dating someone with different political views than your own, is it possible? We’re talking: Mistaking limerence for love, parasocial relationships, projecting onto other people, what limerence fills in your life, queer yearning, sapphic limerence, unrequited love, crushes on straight people, falling for someone before you know that you’re compatible, when love is super intense, putting people on a pedestal, ups and downs in relationships, advice for people experiencing limerence, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DB7lnTs-K8A&t=1s Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Hgth5uPnVsxLqwaHeCoKHRvECAM64c6t3bsG96vBiwk/edit Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:07 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:07 - 00:10:13 What is limerence? Love vs limerence 00:10:13 - 00:34:25 How our culture encourages limerence 00:34:25 - 00:42:28 When is limerence fun vs harmful? 00:42:28 - 00:52:18 The queer yearn and sapphic limerence 00:52:18 -01:15:49 Putting people on a pedestal and ups and downs in relationships 01:15:49 - 01:28:58 Advice for people experiencing limerence 01:28:58 - 01:39:22 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about limerence 01:39:22 - 01:51:52 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 13 Apr 2023 | getting on your shit: finding motivation and balance | 00:56:38 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. Your ex’s new girl calling you crying, knowing when to be social and when to be alone, how to cleanse your space, getting it out on paper, moving your body to release stress, setting motivation triggers and rewarding yourself, balancing different areas of your life as a content creator, knowing when to give a fuck at work, focusing on the greater vision, appreciating the journey, self-care, accountability partners, trusting the universe, practicing gratitude and more👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com Content we mentioned that we recommend: WHOREible Decisions https://open.spotify.com/show/71qcFqfm1Y5PAQ6tUonLR3 Atomic Habits by James Clear https://amzn.to/43qHLsr Lynette Adkins https://www.youtube.com/@LynetteAdkins SLOANHOOKS https://www.youtube.com/@SLOANHOOKS The Comment Section with Drew Afualo https://open.spotify.com/show/1gtOt4yUGUZNEzJsy2q8Cb follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 24 Aug 2023 | they call us big money: we're acting like men | 01:00:20 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with bad dreams, TikTok updates, drinking a lot, and family time. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: dating vs your career goals. Listener polls, defining a woman with motion, hyper productivity influencers, the impossible girlboss standard, are relationships distractions?, how our families’ views of love and a career impacted us, valuing a career or love more, being best friends and business partners, the Call Her Daddy breakup, listener stories, and more👀 Shoutout to TeeShmoney for this episode idea! Find her, her music, and her videography on instagram @therealteeshmoney @lipton.jpeg Sources: https://www.vox.com/22466574/gaslight-gatekeep-girlboss-meaning https://www.thecut.com/2021/08/demise-of-the-girlboss.html we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 11 Nov 2024 | Dear white women who voted for Trump: | 02:22:26 | |
Dear white women who voted for Trump, We’re Fiji and Autumn and we have a sex, relationships, and personal identity podcast but this is not a regular episode. When we discovered that 53% of white women in America voted for Trump we were shocked, hurt, and confused. In past years we probably would have blocked you, talked shxt, and looked down on you, but that doesn’t feel good or right anymore. We want real change and we want democracy, and we know you do too. For this episode we researched the reasons you voted for Trump and we hear you: you want a better economy and lower cost of living, you want your kids to be safe from crimes, and you respect Donald Trump to be the guy to get it done because of his past as a businessman. He reminds you of men in your family that you love and even though the sexist comments aren’t great, you’re willing to look past them because you trust him to deliver. We know we won’t change your minds on everything but since the media so often divides us, we wanted to tell you about the issues we care about. We’re here as two human beings trying to talk to you as a human being and we hope this conversation goes somewhere. Intro: We come in peace 00:00:00 - 00:08:11 Why people are blocking friends on social media and ending relationships across party lines 00:08:11 -00:12:17 Who voted for Donald Trump and why? 00:12:17 - 00:19:37 The economy 00:19:37 - 00:33:44 Immigration 00:33:44 - 00:47:01 Donal Trump’s history of sexual abuse against women and felonies 00:47:01 - 00:57:49 - 01:09:09 Sexism 01:09:09 - 01:27:26 Trans and LGBTQ+ Issues 01:27:26 - 01:36:30 Critical Race Theory 01:36:30 - 01:49:36 White Privilege 01:49:36 - 01:59:53 The Department of Education 01:59:53 - 02:12:24 Wrap Up 02:12:24 - 02:22:26 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=LBpNNas6k6yA34Mk https://youtu.be/nw-TNrYj4CU?si=mKQqj3Ownr6jYZG9 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 22 Jun 2023 | one night stands: ghost or accidentally fall in love? | 01:16:40 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on setting boundaries, making new friends, and hiding your sexuality in certain spaces. next, they break down this episode's main topic: one night stands. Sharing listener poll results, defining a one night stand, our best one night stands, worshipping big tits, one night stand decorum, fucking a married man, one night stands that turn into something more, mommy kinks, when guys can’t get hard, STIs, when to make contact, and sharing crazy listener stories👀 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 04 Sep 2024 | Humiliation content wouldn’t exist without OnlyFans creators | 03:15:39 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding literature and arts events in Atlanta, love from our supporters, technical difficulties, and missing stripping. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: humiliation content and the influencer to OnlyFans pipeline. We’re talking: the LMS for a rate era, smash or pass, top OnlyFans earners, is OnlyFans easy work?, influencers struggling to make money, the rise in popularity of OnlyFans, 20 girls 1 rapper, pop the balloon, promo opportunities, what humiliation content says about our society, the impact on the black community, male validation, natural bodies vs BBLs, does this content reflect the dating scene?, using the system to your advantage, Huak Tuah, the downsides of OnlyFans, the whatever podcast, the manosphere, incels, ant-sex work beliefs, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=0VzFI8QENED37ZI5 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ncTa7JTXDhw&t=2273s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lb035NeGKLs&t=6103s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWGww4hdgp4&t=1689s Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1HcxSQ-3dxNBhf18OElcFzhqLfgmHSs6jn1rYg7V9Ts0/edit Survival is a Promise: The Eternal Life of Audre Lorde by Alexis Pauline Gumbs: https://www.amazon.com/Survival-Promise-Eternal-Audre-Lorde-ebook/dp/B0CV41CBD8 Intro 00:00:00-00:02:33 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:33 - 00:09:51 Early stages of dating/ relationship content 00:09:51 - 00:12:30 Some background and history of OnlyFans and the Influencer to OnlyFans pipeline 00:12:30 - 00:37:10 New age dating content aka humiliation content: 20 girls 1 rapper, pop the balloon, and more 00:37:10 - 01:33:56 Why do women do onlyfans? 01:33:56 - 02:02:09 Manosphere podcasts and onlyfans creators 02:02:09 - 02:40:56 Humiliation and onlyfans content’’s impact on society 02:40:56 - 02:59:28 Wrap Up: What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 02:59:28 - 03:15:39 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 06 Jul 2023 | the sassy man apocalypse: stop competing with us | 00:59:02 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on eliminating my delusional crush, setting workout goals, past trauma resurfacing, and my ex texting me happy 4th of July. next, they break down this episode's main topic: alpha women and the sassy man apocalypse. Sharing listener poll results, the worst sassy man behaviors, defining a sassy man, the gender power flip, women artists killing it, should men have to buy drinks, the courting process, ice spice lyrics, drake lyrics, what is an alpha woman, sharing listener stories, and the balance of masculinity and femininity. and more👀 Sources: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K01j7hu0iI4 https://genius.com/Ice-spice-and-nicki-minaj-princess-diana-lyrics https://genius.com/Drake-search-and-rescue-lyrics we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 25 May 2023 | sexting at my dads wedding: red flags or turn ons? | 01:26:05 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about emerging from a depressive episode, money flowing in, and break throughs in therapy this week. then we dive into our long list of red flags like political beliefs when it comes to dating, asking for space, kicking out your one night stands, getting emails after you block them, lovebombing, intersectional feminism, dating someone with no job, being their “main girl”, cuddling after sex, guys with kids, responding to listener red flags, and more!👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 08 Aug 2024 | a deep dive into dating paranoia content: guru girlies, cheating paranoia, & TikTok dating theories | 02:27:25 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with people testing me, Wednesday, Wicked, good conversations, Brooke Schofield and Clinton Kane, and decision-making paralysis. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: dating paranoia content. We’re talking: Relationship paranoia, trust issues, the orange peel theory, the bird test, the strawberry test, the invisible string theory, If he wanted to he would, tiktok relationship theories and tests, the bar is on the floor culture, embarrassing your partner online, rage bait, women’s unvoiced needs, how women are socialized, the comment section, comparing your relationship to what you see online, airplane guy, new fears unlocked, cheating paranoia, hurt people, Shera Seven, The Wizard Liz, Manifestelle, high-value men and women, manifestation, parasocial relationships, the patriarchy, media literacy, the gender wars, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sFMxcCCJ-lh603rwUWAN4pqNWcG0BZ0ZZoAV5VEc31Q/edit Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:35 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:35 - 00:08:16 Where type of sex and relationship content are people consuming the most? 00:08:16 - 00:12:52 What is dating paranoia content? 00:12:52 - 00:16:51 If he wanted to he would and tiktok relationship theories and tests 00:16:51 - 00:49:32 Cheating paranoia content on tikTok: story times, horror stories, red flags 00:49:32 - 01:20:17 Guru Girlies: Manifestelle, Shera Seven, and The Wizard Liz 01:20:17 - 01:48:29 Dating paranoia content’s impact on the culture 01:48:29 - 02:11:40 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about dating paranoia content 02:11:40 - 02:27:25 Songs used: Darker Than This-13856 by Emile Mosseri follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 09 Mar 2023 | it's only hot cause that's not your man tho: men who make music | 00:44:00 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. Autumn's first time in Atlanta, scary shit happening at parties, dating a music artist, the media, masturbating to music, breaking down his lyrics, and more👀 watch the full video on youtube! @s0wets0dry Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 11 Jul 2024 | Boyfriends are embarrassing: It girls, the female audience, and dump him culture | 02:01:35 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with wet dreams, the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders, T breaks, coochie hair, and articles behind paywalls, Next, we dive into this week’s topic: boyfriends being embarrassing and the female audience. We’re talking: Loving men in private, the anxiety of hard launching a relationship, when being cheated on is embarrassing, men going on podcasts, keke palmer, simone biles, halle bailey, jalen & monet, It girls, the female audience, girls girl culture, dump him culture, the bar is on the floor culture, capitalism, not telling your friends about bad things your man does, the second thought, should we judge women by who the date?, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 🍄Use code WET for 50% Tailor Mushrooms at https://www.tailor.store/ 🍄 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:04:52 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:04:52 - 00:12:48 Boyfriends are embarrassing 00:12:48 - 00:17:22 Sabrina Carpenter’s song Please, Please, Please and the TikTok trends 00:17:22 - 00:23:46 Things boyfriends do to embarrass you: cheating and talking to you crazy in public 00:23:46 - 00:35:29 Men embarrassing their girlfriends in the media: Halle Bailey & DDG, Keke Palmer & boyfriend, Simone Biles & boyfriend, and Jalen & Monet and the lack of media literacy 00:35:29 - 00:50:45 how your boyfriend treats you has become a status among women: it girls and the female audience 00:50:45 - 01:14:42 Toxic dump him and the bar is on the floor culture 01:14:42 - 01:30:51 Should we judge women by who the date and is it okay to date someone with different values? 01:30:51 - 01:39:44 Wrap up: what’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:39:44 - 02:01:35 Sources:https://www.refinery29.com/en-au/sabrina-carpenter-please-please-please-fan-reactions https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNhJKGHn/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNheUWTj/ https://youtu.be/dlOyMEfs-x4?si=K_ZFVLSj04QSPfWw https://www.teenvogue.com/story/tiktok-stars-monet-mcmichael-jalen-noble-dating https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTN61qgUm/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTN61qD1x/ https://youtu.be/nX6_X314P9c?si=_N-OYtgTihJlbp6V https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTN61FJTB/ https://www.vogue.com/article/what-is-it-about-an-it-girl https://novaramedia.com/2022/09/03/dump-him-feminism-isnt-revolutionary-its-callous/https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/opinion/should-we-ever-judge-a-woman-by-who-she-chooses-to-have-sex-with/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 12 Dec 2024 | a gender wars timeline: 1st wave of feminism - rise of the manosphere (part 1) | 02:55:31 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 1 of this 3-part series. From the first wave of feminism and the men’s liberation movement to the birth of the manosphere and girlboss feminism, we’re running through an intersectional timeline of the gender wars to see how tf we go here. Part 2 comes out next week where cover the gender wars from Me Too and the rise of Andrew Tate to the present day. Part 3 will be out the following week for a full analysis of the political and dating gender wars. We WILL leave things out because we couldn’t possibly fit everything into one episode, but if there is a pivotal moment that you think we left out please please comment below and share. Our goal is to start a conversation and share insights🫶🏻 Suggested episodes: Gender Wars: https://youtu.be/ZYv4Zs03Ysg?si=KDAfH4PZvo8wtujg Bumble was never for women: https://youtu.be/cYz6BjjTZwM?si=yBGkVlD58oJzZqzO Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P We highly recommend @FDSignifire for more on the gender wars. Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/103pKZ8kBbGjWVDd1RdDcp6IJvhyApaxFWQBnX9iIFRc/edit?tab=t.0 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 14 Sep 2023 | is it in men’s biology to need a side bitch? | 01:08:04 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with the roster, running into old flings, getting our keys stolen, and broken nails. we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Next, they break down this episode's main topic: side bitches. Do main bitches or side bitches get treated better? Why are women okay with being the side bitch? Is it okay for the main girl to fight the side girl? is sex work being a side bitch? Is it men’s biology to need multiple women? Is monogamy suffocating? Can you come back from cheating? Should the side bitch feel guilty? Why do women compete for men’s attention? And of course, listener polls and listener stories! we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) Caleb Marsh (Audio Editor) instagram: @calebm.audio --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 26 Oct 2023 | non-sexual turn-ons, passenger princesses, and men with sneezing kinks | 01:23:18 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Moms getting married, new furniture, nesting, covid, unemployment, and corporate hell. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: non-sexual turn-ons. Men & sneezing fetishes, throwing up while sucking dick, the “he’s a 10 but…” trend, why are nonsexual turn-ons important? when are non-sexual turn-ons most important? hating monogamy but wanting it, what we want in our dating lives, drug dealers, security guards, people who drive, sex on the road, shy people, curved dicks, emasculating men, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 ENTER TO WIN $100!!! 1 entry per action: *Follow Us on Spotify *Rate Us on Spotify *Subscribe on YouTube MUST DM SCREENSHOTS TO @s0wets0dry ON INSTA OR EMAIL TO s0WETs0DRY@gmail.com TO QUALIFY. Winner will be announced on Thanksgiving (: Sources: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-turns-women-on-science https://chatelaine.com/health/sex-and-relationships/climate-change-relationships/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 21 Sep 2023 | praise and degradation: we’re such little sluts | 01:06:38 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with having your own space, masturbating, the chronicles of men buying drinks, and the talking stage. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: praise and degradation kinks. Degradation in serious relationships vs. one-night stands Can you be dominant in your real life and a sub in the bedroom? Morals in sex work. Why do we feel shame for wanting to get railed violently into another dimension? Is degradation sexist? How to talk to your partner about your kinks. The pressure to cum and how to tell when a woman is cumming. Listener polls, listener stories, and more! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) Caleb Marsh (Audio Editor) instagram: @calebm.audio | |||
| 05 Dec 2024 | Lily Phillips and Bonnie Blue: 101 bodies in one day and onlyfans predator ?! | 02:55:41 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive Lily Philips and Bonnie Blue. We’re talking: Pleasure activism, sex work under patriarchy, Lily Philips and her 101 men in one day vlog, why Lily Philips got into porn, the physical realities of porn, kink vs reality, vlogging behind the scenes as a sex worker and the backlash, shaming sex workers online, porn as performance, performer personas, what qualifies as a body?, breaking the fourth wall in porn, amateur porn vs professional porn, aftercare, do all sex workers have trauma?, the problem with Bonnie Blue, Lily Philips and Bonnie Blue’s beef, the barely legal porn category, the ethics of kink, the paradox of sex work, owning your sexuality vs over-sexualizing yourself, the decentralization of the porn industry, porn entrepreneurs, the rise of web cam work, how much is too much on social media, when sex work becomes your entire personality, porn addiction, listener stories, and more!👀 Intro 00:01:15 - 00:02:39 Putting sex work into perspective 00:02:39 - 00:10:37 Lily Philips: 101 guys in one day 00:10:37 - 00:49:50 The problem with Bonnie Blue 00:49:50 - 01:39:23 The paradox of sex work 01:39:23 - 01:56:37 The integration of porn and social media 01:56:37 - 02:18:31 Porn addiction 02:18:31 - 02:31:18 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 02:31:18 - 02:55:41 Suggested episodes: Sugar dating: https://youtu.be/zTebH_8E688?si=P-ZsVtwFxIucKn60 Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta Stripper stories: https://youtu.be/ncTa7JTXDhw?si=0QeDa-nIfA-aWK4b Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Gcb2L0dugzpwoFsYz2U-zOHi4K61KUVOJw6cBiQdDI8/edit?tab=t.0 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...
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| 20 Jul 2023 | ghosting: it's lowkey not that deep | 01:41:25 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on going on another podcast, mansion parties, dying my hair red, and homeowner bullshit. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: ghosting. Sharing listener poll results, the game of dating apps, guys being hard to take seriously, narcissism vs confidence, situationships, ghosting for your mental health, abandonment wounds, taking breaks from your parents, our families disapproving of us stripping, being secure in yourself, responding to listener stories and more👀 Creative Lenses TV: https://www.instagram.com/creativelensestv/ https://creativelense.com/ Sources: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/ghosting#:~:text=What%20Is%20Ghosting%3F,feeling%20indifferent%20to%20deeply%20betrayed we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 15 Feb 2024 | prison baes, prison wife TikTok, and dating someone with a record | 01:41:49 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being good & staying in, Griselda, The Hand Maid’s Tale, dance classes with delusional crushes, justice for Mariah the Scientist and Young Thug, and bad dreams about old jobs. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: prison baes, prison wife TikTok and dating someone with a record. Shoutout to a listener who is currently serving time for this episode recommendation! Would you stay with someone if they got locked up? What types of crimes would you draw the line at? Is the stigma for doing time valid? Is being a ride or die worth it? We’re talking: the facts about America’s fucked prison industrial system, racism, capitalism, the stigma around serving time and having a record, why it’s hard to have relationships while in prison, ride or die mentalities, the complexities of race, the legal system, and relationships, white women calling the cops on their black boyfriends, prison wife TikTok, visiting dress code and visiting grwms, prison wife responsibilities, how PTSD and trauma from prison can impact a relationship, prison baes looking for a penpal, people who fall in love with serial killers (hybristophilia), prisoner fetishes, handcuff play, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Write a prisoner: https://writeaprisoner.com/prison-statistics or https://wireofhope.com/ Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWUcpN/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWL9Ud/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWFeNa/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8GWmHNP/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/tv/a17804534/sexual-attraction-to-serial-killers/ https://writeaprisoner.com/prison-statistics https://defensenet.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Incarceration-and-Family-Relationships-NHMRC-2010.pdf https://www.cbc.ca/documentarychannel/features/prison-relationships-face-serious-challenges-but-can-be-a-source-of-support https://news.utdallas.edu/social-sciences/courtesy-stigma-relationships-prison-2021/ https://lithub.com/looking-for-love-in-a-prison-cell/ Intro 00:00:00-00:02:22 What’s got us Wet & Dry this week? 00:02:22-00:07:20 Is America’s prison system fucked? (Listener poll) 00:07:20-00:09:27 Why the the prison system is fucked (quick facts) 00:09:27-00:16:21 Why it’s hard to have a relationship when you’re locked up 00:16:21-00:18:41 Would you date someone in prison? (Listener polls) 00:18:41-00:23:49 Is it bad to date someone with a record? 00:23:49-00:30:16 The complexities of the legal system, race, and relationships 00:30:16-00:36:47 The stigma around people who date people in prison 00:36:47-00:39:33 The truth about dating someone in prison 00:39:33-00:45:27 Prison wife TikTok, GRWMs, and Inmates spoiling their partners 00:45:27- 00:51:23 Prison wife responsibilities and hardships 00:51:23-01:03:22 Prison baes looking for a penpal 01:03:22-01:14:02 Hybristophilia 01:14:02-01:17:46 Prisoner fetishes and Kinks 01:17:46-01:22:32 Listener Stories 01:22:32-01:23:43 What’s got us Wet, Dry, and Confused (Wrap Up) 01:23:43-01:41:49 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 07 Sep 2023 | playing games: it’s not toxic it’s roleplay | 00:57:31 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with flirting when you’re out, the 222 experience, contacts and contouring, controlling men, and TSA drama. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: playing games in your dating life. Toxic tiktoks, dating apps, games we're guilty of, playing games in serious relationships, trying to make them jealous, roleplaying, White Lotus, monogamy vs. polyamory, who plays games more: men or women?, men playing dumb, games with your ex, listener stories, and more👀 the 222 experience: https://www.instagram.com/222place/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) Caleb Marsh (Audio Editor) instagram: @calebm.audio --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 29 Jun 2023 | rough sex: you gotta warm it up first | 01:16:48 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on seeing a bisexual short film, changing perspectives, the chaos of getting ready to go out, gynecology appointments, and DMing your ex’s roommate. next, they break down this episode's main topic: rough sex. Sharing listener poll results, stereotypes about women who like rough sex, The Idol, why we like rough sex, hickies, being choked so hard you black out, eating pussy like a gremlin, dirty talk, slapping, pain play, hard surfaces, crazy listener stories, and more👀 Check out the short film that Autumn went to see: https://instagram.com/openup_shortfilm?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA== Sources: https://kitschmix.com/psychology-behind-rough-sex/ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-019-00196-y#:~:text=Findings%20indicate%20that%20rough%20sex,scratches%2C%20bruises%2C%20and%20welts we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com | |||
| 29 May 2024 | do women REALLY want men to be vulnerable? | 02:00:04 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with support for college protests, new books, Baby Reindeer developments, and texting my ex. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: men have feelings but do we REALLY care? Do women really want men to open up? Why do men feel like they need to hide their feelings to be strong? Do women use men’s vulnerability against them? Do men have healthy coping mechanisms? Why is this a women’s issue too? We’re talking: Men’s mental health, women glorifying men’s pain, women silencing men’s feelings with tears, bell hooks, the myth of protection, the disconnect, how to receive it when men are opening up, why women think men don’t give a fuck, how the patriarchy hurts boys, the pressure men feel to protect women, why are we triggered by men being vulnerable, men romanticizing their struggle and pain, why we lie to men, toxic masculinity vs heroic masculinity, what we can learn from each other, how to deepen intimacy, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:36 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:36 - 00:09:17 Glorifying men’s pain and women’s neglect for men’s emotions 00:09:17 - 00:14:07 Women are afraid of men’s feelings: why don’t we want to hear them be vulnerable? 00:14:07 - 00:18:22 Do women really want men to be vulnerable? 00:18:22 - 00:21:36 Do women give space for men to open up? 00:21:36 - 00:30:04 Men have feelings: the patriarchy and the research 00:30:04 - 00:38:24 Why men feel like they need to hide their feelings be strong? 00:38:24 - 00:42:20 The pressure men feel to protect women 00:42:20 - 00:47:42 Women using men’s vulnerability against them 00:47:42 - 01:02:38 Men romanticizing their struggle and pain 01:02:38 - 01:07:14 How do women reinforce patriarchy? And what is “good” masculinity? 01:07:14 - 01:22:10 How to improve intimate relationships dynamics between men and women 01:22:10 - 01:26:38 How to get men to open up and speak in his language 01:26:38 - 01:38:49 What can men and women learn from each other? 01:38:49 - 01:48:10 Wrap Up: What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:48:10 - 02:00:04 Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/@conradmichaelca75/video/7218640420589391150?_r=1&_t=8mBeQXnfTha https://www.tiktok.com/@davarius2x/video/7270579912791248174?_r=1&_t=8mBcKDZ4WgF https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084 https://www.amazon.com/Through-Closing-Intimacy-Between-Women/dp/0684868784 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLXoGvJb/ https://www.lyrahealth.com/blog/real-men-have-feelings/ https://briannox.com/men-have-a-hard-time-opening-up-emotionally-until-you-do-this/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLXCWrrF/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLXEqem6/ https://www.tiktok.com/@officialawakeningworld/video/7093176509430582555?_r=1&_t=8mAH1Zeo3Bb https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/kj3ihy/can_women_promote_toxic_masculinity/?rdt=57491 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4maNSmRPGEE follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 18 May 2023 | bi girls can't be trusted: the truth | 01:01:45 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about working out again, celebrating 4 months of celibacy, men using women’s bodies as marketing, and when your delusional crush gets a girlfriend. then we deep dive into bi girl struggles through responding to listener questions and stories: threesomes and the sexualization of bi women, biphobia, bi-erasure, and the stereotype that bi people can’t be trusted, and more!👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 20 Apr 2023 | men need to learn how to assess the vibe: a rant | 00:58:38 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. Guys talking to themselves in our dms, how to ask for a girl’s number, learn how to chill in the friend zone, fetishization, timing is everything, hitting on her friends, walking in on your friend having sex, knowing when to be quiet and let the woman lead, not doing too much, showing instead of telling, having patience and more👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 21 Mar 2024 | dating emotionally unavailable men to sprinkle sprinkle pipeline: bell hooks vs Shera Seven | 02:23:57 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with our 50th EPISODE and new look!!!, burnout from work, and insomnia.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the dating emotionally unavailable men to sprinkle sprinkle pipeline, Shera Seven, and Bell Hook’s The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love.
What do women care about more in a relationship with a man: his ability to emotionally open up and connect or his ability to provide? Why are women demanding that men pay more? Why can’t men open up emotionalyl? Is Shera Seven feminist? Is she just funny? Why does dating feel like a game?
We’re talking: men’s frustrations with women wanting them to provide, the sprinkle sprinkle connections to sex work, women’s exhaustion with dating, how patriarchy socializes men to disconnect from their emotions, women’s beauty expenses, dates as reparations, interracial relationships, playing a role to get a man, online gender wars, the gamification of dating, financial advice vs dating advice, toxic TikTok dating advice, white feminism, mindfulness in algorithms, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀
Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵
Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:00
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:00 -00:05:40
Setting the stage: what are the debates? 00:05:40 - 00:07:14
The dating emotionally unavailable men to sprinkle sprinkle pipeline 00:07:14 - 00:12:49
How patriarchy disconnects men from their own emotions 00:12:49- 00:18:32
What do women care about more in a relationship with a man: his ability to emotionally open up and connect or his ability to provide? 00:18:32 - 00:21:16
Why are women demanding that men pay more? 00:21:16 - 00:26:16
Should men pay for dates as reparations? 00:26:16 - 00:33:22
Shera Seven aka the sprinkle sprinkle lady and her ideologies 00:33:22 - 00:35:37
Responses to the sprinkle sprinkle lady aka Shera Seven 00:35:37 - 00:49:03
How using the sprinkle sprinkle method feels too much like playing a role and the connections to sex work 00:49:03 - 00:54:27
How shera seven markets to black women and her connections to the soft life 00:54:27 - 01:03:38
How TikTok dating advice is toxic and inherently anti-sex work 01:03:38 - 01:12:04
Is Shera Seven the female Andrew Tate? 01:12:04- 01:19:17
Is Shera Seven feminist? 01:19:17 - 01:40:09
How men are feeling financial pressures from women in romantic relationships? 01:40:09 - 01:42:13
How men feel about the sprinkle sprinkle ideology 01:42:13 - 01:55:25
How should finances be split on dates and in relationships? 01:55:25 - 01:59:28
How women reinforce patriarchy and how men can confront their emotional disconnect 01:59:28 - 02:07:36
Listener Stories 02:07:36 - 02:11:35
What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic (wrap up) 02:11:35 - 02:23:57
Sources in youtube description (they wouldn't fit here): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0ULc4c0eCWpKfkT5S47vnw
follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry
the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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| 20 Jun 2024 | Is Gen Z losing their identity with TikTok aesthetics or are people reaching? | 02:12:45 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with interesting characters, much-needed massages, dating app fatigue, and high school bullies hitting me up. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: is Gen-z losing their identity to TikTok aesthetics trends? We’re talking: cultural appropriation, the clean girl trend, sad girls, the mob wife trend, glorifying sadness,/that girl trend, morning routine videos, the unreachable bar for women, mono-cultures, tiktok good communities, how marketing influences identity crises, inclusivity, creative marketing tactics, the art of styling, what your style says about you, overconsumption, jealousy and hate between other women, aspirational influencers, rage bait, navigating social media in a healthy way, media literacy, brand identity vs human identity, influencers and niches, how we put people into boxes, giving credit to small creators, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 -00:02:04 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:04 - 00:10:02 Introducing Tiktok aesthetics 00:10:02 - 00:12:58 Have we identified with these aesthetics? 00:12:58 - 00:20:31 The sad girl aesthetic 00:20:31 - 00:25:26 The mob wife aesthetic 00:25:26 - 00:29:44 The clean girl aesthetic 00:29:44 - 00:34:34 Is Gen-Z having an extra hard time with identity than other generations because of micro trends? 00:34:34 - 00:41:13 Why is Gen-Z obsessed with micro-trends? 00:41:13 - 00:54:55 With so many trends at our fingertips: is it that bad?00:54:55 - 01:16:26 The marketing behind TikTok trends 01:16:26 - 01:39:27 Who is driving trends? 01:39:27 - 01:45:59 The environmental impact of overconsumption 01:45:59 - 01:55:05 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about tiktok micro trends and Gen-z lack of personal identity 01:55:05 - 02:12:45 Sources: https://www.dictionary.com/e/gen-z-fashion-aesthetics-terms/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLwomoAs/ https://www.instyle.com/clean-girl-aesthetic-fashion-trend-5496498 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R-F9rFPtjIg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kJiLzl-oWz0 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLwvP4HQ/ https://earth.org/fast-fashions-detrimental-effect-on-the-environment/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLwpmNms/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 14 Mar 2024 | period sex: are men afraid of blood or our sacred feminine power? | 01:39:36 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being delusional about reaching our goals, manifesting my dream life, broken nails, haters in our comment section, and making unrealistic to-do lists. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: all things period sex. Why is period sex taboo? Can you get soul ties from period sex? How does society disconnect us from our sacred female energy? Do boys need period sex education? We’re talking: The benefits of period sex, the side effects of period sex, shower sex, Saltburn, period phobias, eating pussy on her period, tricks to stop the blood, the intimacy of period sex, how period blood is sacred in different cultures, annoying men, shame, womb wisdom, soul ties, taboos, blood magic, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00-00:02:14 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:14 - 00:08:19 Benefits and side effects of period sex 00:08:19 - 00:11:02 How people feel about period sex 00:11:02 - 00:18:39 Porn tricks to stop bleeding 00:18:39 - 00:20:19 How period sex is portrayed in the media (Saltburn) 00:20:19 - 00:24:55 Men’s period phobias and period education for boys 00:24:55 - 00:33:33 How should men treat their girlfriend when she’s on her period? 00:33:33 - 00:38:30 The intensity and intimacy of period sex 00:38:30 - 00:42:59 How period blood is sacred in different cultures and unlearning period shame 00:42:59 - 00:55:09 How period blood is taboo in different religions 00:55:09 - 01:01:03 Soul ties from period sex 01:01:03 - 01:13:27 Blood magic 01:13:27- 01:18:53 Listener Stories 01:18:53 - 01:28:25 What’s got us wet, dry, and confused (wrap up) 01:28:25 - 01:39:36 Sources: https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/sex-during-periods#benefits https://www.tiktok.com/@ovira__/video/7104180491191979265?q=period%20seggs&t=1708469906088 https://www.tiktok.com/@nadyaokamoto/video/7132771092963413294?q=period%20seggs&t=1708469906088 https://www.today.com/popculture/movies/fair-play-ending-explained-rcna120873 https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2013/07/49681/men-scared-of-periods https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ohUBaL/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ohQmRR/ https://www.mamamia.com.au/what-is-period-sex/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7139224/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8oB8b9A/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ohpX6G/ https://www.gwenwalsh.com/blog/sex-magic-amp-blood-magic-is-period-sex-blood-magic https://www.reddit.com/r/magicbuilding/comments/qmiden/ok_so_what_the_heck_is_blood_magic/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 19 Dec 2024 | a gender wars timeline: from #metoo to alpha males (Part 2) | 02:17:44 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 2 of this 3-part series. From the me too movement and rise of Andrew Tate to the popularity of The Wizard Liz and SheraSeven, we’re running through an intersectional timeline of the gender wars to see how tf we got here. Part 1: https://youtu.be/2XOze-LgmY0?si=ExT1SQn3VAGKSO2n Part 3 will be out next week for a full analysis of the political and dating gender wars. We WILL leave things out because we couldn’t possibly fit everything into one episode, but if there is a pivotal moment that you think we left out please please comment below and share. Our goal is to start a conversation and share insights🫶🏻 Suggested episodes: Gender Wars: https://youtu.be/ZYv4Zs03Ysg?si=KDAfH4PZvo8wtujg Sprinkle Sprinkle: https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=2Srcz6r9bONz8bEE Humiliation content and onlyfans: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=1qxBpIM1K_WgGXta Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P We highly recommend @FD for more on the gender wars. Sources: Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 28 Dec 2024 | stop blaming algorithms for the gender wars | 03:01:30 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive the political and dating gender wars with part 3 of this 3-part series. Should we really blame algorithms for the gender wars? How does self-improvement content effect the gender wars? Do we need more censorship? Are the gender wars all the manosphere’s fault? Can feminism get toxic? What does bell hooks have to say about all of this? How does loneliness and heartbreak play a role in the gender wars? Part 1: https://youtu.be/2XOze-LgmY0?si=ExT1SQn3VAGKSO2n Part 2: https://youtu.be/O3zyci01cN0?si=8_m5kQ3LufuJxdHE Suggested episodes: Sprinkle Sprinkle: https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=2Srcz6r9bONz8bEE Dating paranoia content: https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=5JemidZEqPI6lhbu The male loneliness epidemic: https://youtu.be/bWGww4hdgp4?si=IlI8ZIWANiCQZYk3 Men and vulnerability: https://youtu.be/VxltakZaKG0?si=Ga5f6mI8Qp9Vu8N3 We highly recommend @FD for more on the gender wars. Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Db4QdlREDNdJ-BUKrfL8XwZirnnZPOCEW_q1jFogKQc/edit?tab=t.0 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 02 Nov 2023 | we're bad girls, we're romanticizing trauma, and we haven't outgrown the bad boy phase | 01:32:09 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new jobs, quarter life crises, WHOREible decisions live show, and letting go of good dick.
Next, they break down this episode's main topic: BAD BOYS AND BAD GIRLS. Defining bad boys and bad girls, how they relate to masculinity and femininity, do women like bad boys more than men like bad girls, growing out of the bad boy phase, bad girls and feminism, why are bad boys and bad girls sexy, emotionally unavailable people, attachment styles, being good girls and bad girls, catholic school girls, self-worth, the media romanticizing bad boys, Twilight, Grease, Snowfall, Future, Jennifer’s Body, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀
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https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2023/08/28/3-reasons-why-the-bad-boy-archetype-is-so-irresistibly-attractive/?sh=5a10da5e507f
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1002/per.2040
https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a32314885/dating-bad-boys/
https://www.vice.com/en/article/ae5xn4/why-women-want-to-fuck-bad-boys
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/love-sex/want-to-know-why-men-get-drawn-to-the-bad-girl/articleshow/27301055.cms
https://movieweb.com/jennifers-body-explained/
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| 07 Mar 2024 | weaponized incompetence tiktok: bimbocore for men | 01:29:36 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with reading a book, back with my man, puzzles, love is blind, the bachelor, hating ass bitches, internet death threats, crying in public, and hot men in the elevator. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: weaponized incompetence. Is weaponized incompetence intentional? Are the TikTok trends really funny? Do moms enable their sons to be man children? How do we get men to learn how to care for their own children??? How do women contribute to the problem? We’re talking: the domestic labor gap, learned helplessness, our family experiences, neglect, grocery shopping, the ketchup on counter challenge, the pads with wings challenge, weaponized incompetence when it comes to childcare, nagging wives, lazy husbands, how this a men’s issue, the importance of being reliable, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00-00:01:50 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:50-00:07:43 Defining weaponized incompetence 00:07:43-00:09:31 The history of the concept of weaponized incompetence 00:09:31-00:12:28 The gender gap in understanding weaponized incompetence/ domestic labor 00:12:28 - 00:15:34 Examples of weaponized incompetence Confessions of men who used weaponized incompetence and why they did 00:15:34 - 00:27:24 When is weaponized incompetence funny? 00:27:24 - 00:30:26 The viral ketchup on counter challenge 00:30:26- 00:32:15 The viral pads with wings challenge 00:32:15 - 00:37:01 Weaponized incompetence with childcare 00:37:01-00:42:16 The burden weaponized incompetence puts on women 00:42:16 - 00:48:10 How weaponized incompetence is a lack of respect for your partner 00:48:10 - 00:54:35 The domestic labor imbalance 00:54:35 - 00:58:54 Do men get lazier as relationships go on? 00:58:54 - 01:02:29 Independent women and why it’s important for men to be reliable 01:02:29 - 01:08:00 How to unlearn weaponized incompetence in your relationships 01:08:00 - 01:10:35 Other forms of weaponized incompetence 01:10:35 - 01:13:42 Listener stories 01:13:42 -01:19:47 What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic (wrap up) 01:19:47 - 01:29:36 Sources: https://www.care.com/c/what-is-weaponized-incompetence/ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.tiktok.com/@dvnielbon/video/7320620396275830021?_r=1&_t=8k3TQSUtWzz https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbMaVk/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbNVdN/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8EbmgK2/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8KwX5Q3/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8Kw3sCx/ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weaponized-incompetence-women_l_61e71983e4b0d8b665717814 https://www.care.com/c/what-is-weaponized-incompetence/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT83KFK8A/ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifestyle/article/what-is-weaponised-incompetence-personal-essay https://www.huffpost.com/entry/weaponized-incompetence-women_l_61e71983e4b0d8b665717814 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 28 Mar 2024 | i'm CLINGY?! anxiously attached and chronically online | 01:40:17 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with the Yeezy WET tank, new Vonsway Hendrix👀, how expensive it is to be a creator, and a lacking sex life. ***Shop Vonsway Hendrix Streetwear https://www.instagram.com/vonsway_hendrix/ *** Next, we dive into this week’s topic: Clinginess. Why are people clingy? Is clinginess romanticized online? Is it toxic? Do women want clingy partners? How do you become less clingy? How can you cope with a clingy partner? We’re talking: attachment theory, clingy girlfriends and clingy boyfriends, the clingy lesbian stereotype, Chelsea and Jimmy from Love is Blind, Kourtney Kardashian and Travis Barker, Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly, reciprocal clinginess, being annoyed with a clingy partner, cheating, underlying issues in relationships, “cool girls” vs clingy girls, growing out of clinginess, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:38 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:38 - 00:06:48 Are we clingy? and clingy couples in the media 00:06:48 - 00:11:20 How common is clinginess in relationships? 00:11:20 - 00:13:16 Self-awareness with clinginess 00:13:16 - 00:15:06 Examples of clinginess and how its normalized on social media 00:15:06 - 00:21:42 Why are people clingy? 00:21:42 - 00:26:09 Attachment theory and clinginess as a coping strategy 00:26:09 - 00:37:17 Love is Blind and how clinginess is related to underlying issues in the relationship 00:37:17 - 00:49:48 Do men like clingy women 00:49:48 - 00:56:13 Do women like clingy men? 00:56:13 - 01:07:24 When men are clingy they could be cheating… 01:07:24 - 01:11:39 Lesbian clinginess 01:11:39 - 01:22:00 How to navigate clinginess, what to do if you’re clingy/ have a clingy partner 01:22:00 - 01:30:28 Listener stories 01:30:28 - 01:32:04 What’s got us wet, dry, and confused (wrap up) 01:32:04 - 01:40:17 Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLR4sDJd/ https://www.attachmentproject.com/love/clingy-relationship/ https://www.attachmentproject.com/love/clingy-relationship/ https://www.attachmentproject.com/love/clingy-relationship/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL8681qf/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL8UTbeD/ https://mashable.com/article/cool-girl-stereotype-dating-culture https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL8j7vbg/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLR4nS8u/ https://www.tiktok.com/@christina_nomadak/video/7342206936839933227 https://mashable.com/article/cool-girl-stereotype-dating-culture https://www.attachmentproject.com/love/clingy-relationship/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 01 Jun 2023 | faking orgasms: we're tired | 01:08:08 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with lucid dreams, manifesting concert tickets, and exclusively dating women. next they break down this episode's main topic: faking orgasms. we share stories and give advice on being dickmatized, not wanting to get attached, female vs male hormones, performance anxiety, birth control, learning how to instruct your partner on what feels good, different types of orgasms, cumming with people you didn’t expect, how to eat pussy correctly, our best orgasms, responding to listener comments, and more! 👀 Sources: https://us.calmerry.com/blog/love/how-men-fall-in-love-and-how-their-brains-respond/ https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/orgasm-gap-why-it-exists-what-women-can-do-about-ncna983311 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 08 Feb 2024 | Jealousy in open relationships: are we neurotic or is monogamy a cult? | 01:44:28 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with friends visiting from out of town, being a wing woman, not knowing what we want, and lacking new music. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: jealousy in open relationships. Are non-monogamous couples less jealous than monogamous couples? Does jealousy come from insecurity? Is don't ask don't tell the way to go? How should you cope with your jealousy? We’re talking: types of open relationships, the Roman Empire, being unsure if you’re doing poly right, the various emotions of jealousy, addressing jealousy in open relationships, thought work, neuroticism, Jealousy in open relationships vs monogamous relationships, our bad jealousy experiences, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Intro 00:00:00-00:01:46 What has us wet and dry this week 00:01:46- 00:09:53 Types of jealous 00:09:53 - 00:12:15 Types of open relationships 00:12:15 - 00:16:53 History of non-monogamy 00:16:53- 00:22:19 How common are open relationships? 00:22:19 - 00:24:54 The stigma of being jealous in open relationships/ Are jealousy and insecurity the same thing? 00:24:54 - 00:30:31 Is jealousy in open relationships normal? 00:30:31 - 00:35:33 Jealousy in open relationships vs monogamous relationships (our experiences, communication, and boundaries) 00:35:33 - 00:50:36 Why do people get jealous in open relationships? 00:50:36 - 00:54:48 Defining your open relationship boundaries to 00:54:48 - 01:00:53 How to cope with your jealousy 01:00:53 - 01:03:33 Positive jealousy vs negative jealousy 01:03:33 - 01:11:18 Where does jealousy come from and is it possible to unlearn it? 01:11:18 - 01:24:37 Listener stories 01:24:37 -01:32:43 Wrap-Up/ Take Aways (Wet, Dry, Confused) 01:32:43- 01:44:48 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_GR1zdmHTw @Atouchofflavor https://www.gofreddie.com/magazine/relationships-101-14-open-relationship-types https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VcG1_XmrtD8&list=PLQMGbIXQwwbRkXyipDmYBLa7nIeCxdMey&index=11 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50uxWo7KMgI @conorandbrittany https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wxPkhRMTYagpolyamfam @polyamfam https://polylife.com.au/unlearning-jealousy-2/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/close-encounters/201410/whats-really-behind-jealousy-and-what-do-about-it follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 23 May 2024 | comphet tiktok discourse: the bisexual girls are confused (good luck, babe!) | 01:52:24 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with NDAs, my birthday, being broke, and getting sick from stress.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: comphet TikTok discourse.
Are you really bi or just comphet? Why do women yearn for a woman while dating a man? How common is comphet? Who experiences comphet? What are the causes of compulsory heterosexuality? Is comphet over-exaggerated?
We’re talking: The Lesbian Master Doc, Hayley Kiyoko, queer culture on Tumblr, coming out, growing up queer, Blue is the Warmest Color, discovering lesbian love, Carol, Good Luck Babe by Chappell Roan and the TikTok discourse, the categories of bisexuals, cis heterosexual men not understanding your experience, lacking a queer community, and losing your queer identity when you’re dating a man, listener stories, and more!👀
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Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:24
What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:24 - 00:08:13
What is comphet? 00:08:13 - 00:12:22
The Lesbian Master Doc & Queer Culture on Tumblr 00:12:22 - 00:19:44
How common is comphet and what are the causes of compulsory heterosexuality 00:19:44 - 00:25:05
Good Luck Babe by Chappelle Roan and the TikTok discourse 00:25:05 - 00:33:05
Comphet bisexual experiences on Reddit: am I actually attracted to men or just lesbian? 00:33:05 - 00:37:56
Are we attracted to men or do we just desire men to be attracted to us 00:37:56 - 00:42:44
Will bi girls who end up with men always yearn for women? 00:42:44 - 00:45:43
The categories of bisexuals 00:45:43 - 00:48:16
Cis heterosexual men don’t understand your experience 00:48:16 - 01:05:13
Why do women yearn for a woman while dating a man? 01:05:13 - 01:09:29
Lacking a queer community and feeling your queer identity when you’re dating a man 01:09:29 - 01:16:36
Who experiences comphet? 01:16:36 - 01:26:21
Is comphet over exaggerated? 01:26:21 - 01:36:29
What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about comphet 01:36:29 - 01:52:24
Sources:
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/comphet/
https://affirmativecouch.com/deconstructing-compulsory-heterosexuality-in-psychotherapy/
https://www.ourstreetsnow.org/post/compulsory-heterosexuality-made-me-think-i-was-straight-until-i-was-21
https://www.docdroid.net/N46Ea3o/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc-pdf#page=30
https://coldantlerfarm.substack.com/p/late-bloomer-lets-talk-about-comphet
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9jSoTV/
https://www.capitalfm.com/news/music/chappell-roan-good-luck-babe-lyrics-meaning/
https://www.reddit.com/r/comphet/comments/l9uurc/comphet_for_bisexuals/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLXq7qqV/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9jMbQ8/
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL9GyHYL/
https://www.tiktok.com/@jordan.rand/video/7292788502444379425?_r=1&_t=8mAXRAn0vPe
https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/1609ojr/i_feel_like_comphet_is_over_exaggerated/
https://www.reddit.com/r/Actuallylesbian/comments/10o8ovi/this_comphet_and_unattainable_men_thing_has/
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| 03 Aug 2023 | beige flags: eating pussy isn’t a personality trait | 01:21:26 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on mansion parties, good dick, the struggles of being a dog mom, exes reaching out, and leaving my laptop in the pouring rain. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: beige flags. Listener polls, go-to drinks, different versions of “soon,” men carrying gallons of water, dirty feet, bad singers, people who are too friendly, cleantok, people who have never been in a relationship, cheap dates, condoms, walking videos, guys who think they’re certified eaters, multiple alarms, grabbing his balls from the back, skinny men legs, and more👀 sources: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/07/style/beige-flag-tiktok-dating.html https://theeverygirl.com/beige-flags/ https://www.popsugar.com/love/what-are-beige-flags-49009944 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 14 Dec 2023 | there’s a gender war and we’re trying to get out of the trenches | 01:15:54 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Brittany Spears' book, Tate McRae, dating apps, and living far away from friends. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: Heteropessimism and the online gender war. Do men hate women? Do women hate men? Are we just hurt? How much of it is humor vs seriousness? How do social media algorithms give us tunnel vision? How can we all take accountability? We're talking heteropessimism and straight pride, girl TikTok, the manosphere, the Me Too movement, Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard, Meg the Stallion vs Tory Lanez, how our biases and experiences shape our views, the patriarchy, incels, alpha males, femcels, man-haters, domination in sex vs daily life, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: ****Inspo: @KhadijaMbowe : the gender wars, are’nt yall tired? 🤨heteropessimism unpacked https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FPVHgyzMCBU https://www.britannica.com/topic/Me-Too-movement https://www.vulture.com/article/tory-lanez-megan-thee-stallion-shooting-explainer.html https://www.cnn.com/2023/03/16/us/incel-involuntary-celibate-explained-cec/index.html https://hypebae.com/2022/5/femcels-incels-meaning-celibacy-sex-feminism-misandry https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/celebrities/2023/11/24/adult-survivors-act-diddy-jamie-foxx-sexual-assault-new-york/71693294007/ https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/27/nyregion/adult-survivors-act-lawsuits.html ***We recommend Rehash's podcast for deeper dives into Depp v. Heard and Gymcels! https://open.spotify.com/show/3NiXwyBwwDrKyWW5Zd31uY follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 13 Jul 2023 | are we delulu or are we just manifesting? | 01:09:08 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on Keke Palmer, threads, booking guests in LA, and the draining corporate life. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: being delulu. Sharing listener poll results, are men delusional too?, social media feeding our delusions, staying with them when you know they won’t change, guys talking to themselves in the DMs, struggle love, polyamory, delusionships, dom fems, costar, TikTok tarot card readings, getting ready to go out, magical thinking, being a creator, and more👀 Sources: https://i-d.vice.com/en/article/pkakw8/delulu-girl-tiktok-trend we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 06 Jun 2024 | Bumble was never for women: the shady business & marketing of dating apps (a deep dive) | 02:01:08 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with bleach blonde bad built butch body, Jenn McAllister, Diddy and Cassie, and new music from delusional crushes. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the infamous anti-celibacy Bumble marketing campaign and the shady business and marketing of dating apps. Was Bumble ever really a feminist dating app? What was Bumble thinking with their rebrand? Why are dating apps in their flop era? Should we all delete the apps and get outside? We’re talking: the history of matchmaking and dating apps, the current financial state of dating apps, Bumble’s infamous anti-celibacy campaign, Whitney Wolfe Herd, Bumble lore, the gender disparities on dating apps, shady marketing tactics, influencer ethics when working with brands, a Russian billionaire, dating apps pricing structures, how dating apps addict users, lawsuits, where to actually meet a decent date, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://sundial.csun.edu/168529/arts-entertainment/the-evolution-of-online-dating/ https://fortune.com/2024/05/17/bumble-celibacy-ad-rebrand-dating-app-women/ https://www.forbes.com/sites/angelauyeung/2019/07/08/exclusive-investigation-sex-drugs-misogyny-and-sleaze-at-the-hq-of-bumbles-owner/?sh=31ce1bf5630https://www.thecut.com/2023/02/what-bumble-a-k-a-feminist-tinder-promised.htmlhttps://www.nimbleappgenie.com/blogs/dating-app-statisticshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jJMrq74BLw https://slate.com/technology/2024/05/bumble-ai-dating-app-whitney-wolfe-herd.html https://mashable.com/review/bumble-premium-review https://www.cbsnews.com/news/tinder-and-hinge-dating-apps-match-group-lawsuit/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 10 Apr 2024 | tantric sex: are we afraid of sensual and sacred sex? | 01:41:42 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with good sex, my sister visiting, mansplaining, and old bosses reaching out inappropriately. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: Tantric Sex. What is tantric sex? What are the goals of tantric sex? Who should you have tantric sex with? Is tantric sex cringey or sexy? Is our generation afraid of sensual sex? We’re talking: Masturbating to meditations, earth-shattering orgasms, sex on acid, shrooms, or Molly, the awkwardness of sensual sex, vulnerability, orgasms in other parts of your body, laughing during sex, being present during sex, edging and teasing, full body pleasure, soul-gazing, massage, being on top, oxytocin, achieving enlightenment through sex, connecting with the divine, healing from trauma through tantric sex, unlearning shame through sex, sexual expression through dance, tantric sex exploitation, tantric sex experiences, being mindful during sex, resolving conflict with sex, ties to religion, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:00 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:00 - 00:06:18 People are bored with their sex lives 00:06:18 - 00:07:26 What is Tantra? 00:07:26 - 00:10:30 What is tantric sex? 00:10:30 - 00:17:06 How common is tantric sex? 00:17:06 - 00:22:09 How does tantric sex work? 00:22:09 - 00:32:12 Tantric sex positions 00:32:12 - 00:42:20 The goals of tantric sex/ healing trauma 00:42:20 - 00:56:53 When are you ready for tantric sex 00:56:53 - 00:58:06 Tantric sex experiences 00:58:06 - 01:24:50 Listener stories 01:24:50 - 01:32:39 What has us wet, dry and still confused about tantric sex 01:32:39 - 01:41:42 Sources: https://www.healthline.com/health/tantric-masturbation#What-is-tantra? https://www.britishmuseum.org/exhibitions/tantra-enlightenment-revolution/timeline https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-tantric-sex https://www.tiktok.com/@lubilicious/video/7267707110299929898?_r=1&_t=8kGytyNyJji https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-tantric-sex https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/guide-to-tantric-sex https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLJjGPt7/ https://www.popsugar.com/love/what-tantric-sex-44047057 https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-tantric-sex https://www.vice.com/en/article/akv7bg/tantric-sex-relationships-orgasm-intimacy-meditation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Km0NT6UOP7Q https://www.quora.com/What-is-your-experience-with-tantric-sex follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 21 Nov 2024 | Liberal white women need to do better: 4B and the blue bracelets | 03:22:11 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive liberal white women and their adoption of the 4B movement and blue bracelets post election. We’re talking: Decentering men, white women divorcing and breaking up with their husbands and boyfriends that voted for Trump, the dark side of the 4B movement, the problem with blaming men for everything, calling white men in, TERF, white feminism, the dangers of exclusionary feminism, how women uphold patriarchy , blue friendship bracelets, virtue signaling, performative activism, white women centering themselves in their advocacy, talking to our own white communities listener stories, and more!👀 Share this video with a white woman who voted for Trump: https://youtu.be/rabPfnuuHqU?si=kmj6L-Z7OhuDGNU6 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:03:04 The 4B movement’s growing popularity among liberal white women post-election 00:03:04 - 01:18:52 Trump’s feminism: white feminism and TERF 01:18:52 - 01:53:39 White women and the blue friendship bracelet debacle 01:53:39 - 02:25:18 What can we do instead? Pain Aversion and Getting Started 02:25:18 - 03:03:34 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 03:03:34 - 03:22:11 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=B3JA1BATIrW3roP1 https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=HVKOeD_kb0_5GYkA https://youtu.be/iAP_TAUd4ME?si=h9w_C9f0WGJXoXB4 https://youtu.be/bWGww4hdgp4?si=cnBNK3xxuh3ne7TW Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 28 Nov 2024 | When purity becomes shame: disney stars & the objectification of puberty | 02:18:09 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive purity culture and Disney channel’s purity ring era. We’re talking: The Silver Ring Thing, True Love Waits, purity rings, abstinence pledges, purity balls, father daughter abstinence pledges, Disney’s purity era, the fetishization of virginity, purity culture, abstinence only sex ed, Demi Lavato, The Jonas Brothers, Miley Cyrus, Vanessa Hudgens, Jordan Sparks, Russel Brand, Hilary Duff, The Mickey Mouse Club era, the wholesome disney brand, the disney star formula, 2008 VMAs, should child stars be role models?, audience polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:26 Breaking Down the Purity Movement 00:02:26 - 01:01:46 Purity Culture and Shame 01:01:46 - 01:11:10 Disney Channel and the Purity Culture Era 01:11:10 - 01:40:44 Why did Disney Encourage Purity in their Stars? 01:40:44 - 02:02:43 What’s got us Wet, Dry, and Still Confused about the Topic 02:02:43 - 02:18:09 Suggested episodes: Sex education in America: https://youtu.be/MerEM56GaGo?si=GPzZ12QMpZWc0QXl ovulation: https://youtu.be/nw-TNrYj4CU?si=El7EM_kyNLMFKbyM Sex positive feminism: https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=AieSdtvbCuq2Us9P Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Gcb2L0dugzpwoFsYz2U-zOHi4K61KUVOJw6cBiQdDI8/edit?tab=t.0 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* | |||
| 08 Dec 2023 | im coming to you as a woman: hey girly, this isn’t girl code | 01:16:25 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with ending my situationship (again), someone’s man in my DMs, alone for the holidays, and throwing tantrums because my exes moved on. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: "I'm coming to you as a woman" DMs and girl code. We're talking should you ever tell the girlfriend if you're the other woman?, the rules of telling the other woman, what to do when you find out you’re fucking w the same man, women fighting each other over a man, is girl code valid?, playing comparisons, relationships with friends vs romantic partners, can relationships come back from cheating?, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.elitedaily.com/p/if-youre-the-other-woman-should-you-tell-the-cheaters-significant-other-21811950 https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/5pjPr8dbtMb7ZSLMnlwJSdG/girl-code-what-is-it-and-should-it-ever-be-broken follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 18 Jan 2024 | nonchalant men and lover boy TikTok: two different versions of a sassy man | 01:48:06 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off! https://mochimelt.com/ Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new shows, new jobs, migraines, guys that just got out of jail, and ghosting decent men. Next, we dive into the manosphere where nonchalant men can’t express themselves to save their lives, and lover boys are seen as cucks for supporting women. We’ve talked about it before but we. are. in. a. sassy. man. apocalypse. and we want some answers. Are nonchalant men actually healthy and logical? Do women try to piss men off for attention? Are lover boys less masculine? Are they also victims of the patriarchy? Are we the problem? We’re talking: Love bombing, quiet men, moody men, men giving shitty advice on TikTok, cringey public displays of love, emo lover boys, toxic fresh and fit discourse, Nate Nayersina and Sky Bri’s relationship and breakup, when “loving hard” becomes control, nonchalance as a coping mechanism, justice for lover boys, the sex appeal of nonchalant men, which type we like more, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/@_lepro/video/7196100444622540037?lang=en&q=nonchalance&t=1702345083925 https://www.tiktok.com/@erykahdiamondd/video/7304126562243235114?lang=en&q=nonchalance&t=1702345083925 https://www.tiktok.com/@pour_minds/video/7173006346344762670?lang=en&q=nonchalance&t=1702345083925 https://www.tiktok.com/@jaden_cradle/video/7287732459528064302?lang=en&q=nonchalance&t=1702345083925 https://www.tiktok.com/@elle.kristine/video/7236928311996501294?lang=en&q=nonchalance&t=1702345083925 https://www.tiktok.com/@livportio/video/6903367353044569350?lang=en&q=romantic%20present%20from%20boyfriend&t=1705018163084 https://www.reddit.com/r/CharacterRant/comments/1345hyw/low_effort_i_love_the_emo_sad_boy_trope_so_much/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8V67RXB/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8V6CskM/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8V6ppdu/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8V6q6qr/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8VhhAa7/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8V6KyBn/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY_nCmtx9ow https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grMkMHCx9Bo follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 03 Jun 2023 | faking orgasms: we're tired [VIDEO VERSION] | 01:08:08 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with lucid dreams, manifesting concert tickets, and exclusively dating women. next they break down this episode's main topic: faking orgasms. we share stories and give advice on being dickmatized, not wanting to get attached, female vs male hormones, performance anxiety, birth control, learning how to instruct your partner on what feels good, different types of orgasms, cumming with people you didn’t expect, how to eat pussy correctly, our best orgasms, responding to listener comments, and more! 👀 Sources: https://us.calmerry.com/blog/love/how-men-fall-in-love-and-how-their-brains-respond/ https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/orgasm-gap-why-it-exists-what-women-can-do-about-ncna983311 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 25 Jul 2024 | Body insecurities and sex: the culture is to blame | 01:57:28 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new tattoos, Billie Eilish, social activities, Ice Spice, Central Lee, Madeline Argy, and body insecurities.
Next, we dive into this week’s topic: body insecurities and sex.
We’re talking: Fat shaming, being more than our bodies, bullying from doctors, internalized body shame, body dysmorphia, body shaming, pre-meet-up anxiety, bush vs bald, smells, stomach rolls, period sex, body shaming from a partner, body insecurity disclosures, insecurities about being on top during sex, How women body shame men, penis size, height, performance anxiety, not being able to get hard, sex in the dark, skinny guys, affirming experiences from men, guys putting in work, being lazy during sex, catfishing, listener stories, and more!👀
Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵
Sources:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1N85SwqxlQy1Mp7un9lL5Rayi2Vy0g6QHMMAT_pQeB6o/edit
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the s0 wet s0 dry team:
Autumn (host, editor)
instagram: @autumnkaira
twitter: @autumnkaira
tiktok: @autumnkaira
Fiji (host, editor)
instagram: @s0wet
twitter: @s0wet
tiktok: @fijithesiren
youtube: @s0wet
Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)
instagram: @xlaomedia
email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com
A.I.R. (Music Producer)
instagram: @airgoincrazy
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| 12 Sep 2024 | therapy speak: a tool or a weapon? | 02:53:36 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with more literature events, Sabrina Carpenter’s new album, wanting to quit cigarettes, and messaging my delusional crush. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: a deep dive into therapy speak. We’re talking: Defining therapy speak and therapy terms, BetterHelp, TikTok therapists, bad therapists, media literacy, the mental health crisis, access to healthcare, distancing ourselves from our emotions, the mental health stigma, is therapy speak ruining relationships?, can you have too much therapy?, weaponized therapy speak, therapy speak in romantic relationships, friendships, and family relationships, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=0VzFI8QENED37ZI5 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lb035NeGKLs&t=6103s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWGww4hdgp4&t=1689s Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Mental Health Resources: If you are suicidal or in emotional distress, consider using the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/find-help Find a therapist: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OhJnsuO07Rwyw2SQmrAZsUSkZw665DruqHVC9SNWM3I/edit Books Fiji Mentioned: Eyes of the Beholders: Life Stories of African American Women: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1733465677/ref=nosim?tag=s0wets0dry-20 Transitions by Tracee McDaniels: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0615547370/ref=nosim?tag=s0wets0dry-20 Femme Tales by Anne Shade https://www.amazon.com/dp/1635556570/ref=nosim?tag=s0wets0dry-20 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:35 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:35 - 00:13:49 What is therapy speak and why is it trending? 00:13:49 - 00:26:46 Defining therapy terms: gaslighting, triggered, trauma, and boundaries 00:26:46 - 00:56:35 Therapy speak examples: Friendship 00:56:35 - 01:14:48 Therapy speak examples: Family 01:14:48 - 01:20:27 Therapy speak examples: Romantic Relationships 01:20:27 - 01:29:48 The mental health crisis, the rise of tele-therapy, and why are we using therapy speak? 01:29:48 - 01:54:59 The problems with therapy speak 01:54:59 - 02:17:31 The case for therapy speak 02:17:31 - 02:29:07 Are we doing too much therapy? 02:29:07 - 02:38:54 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about therapy speak 02:38:54 - 02:53:36 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 16 Nov 2023 | relationship dates vs first dates: i don’t want to go to Applebees with you on a Tuesday | 01:50:38 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with the high off moving on, weed breaks, lacking Thanksgiving plans, and money problems. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: the viral list of places NOT to take a woman on the first date. How serious should we be taking first dates? We’re talking bad first dates, good first dates, is The Cheesecake Factory bad?, relationship dates vs first dates, things not eat on a first date, coffee dates, the bird test, what makes a first date good, dating on your period, backlash from men, women using men for a free meal, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 ENTER TO WIN $100!!! 1 entry per action: *Follow Us on Spotify *Rate Us on Spotify *Subscribe on YouTube MUST DM SCREENSHOTS TO @s0wets0dry ON INSTA OR EMAIL TO s0WETs0DRY@gmail.com TO QUALIFY. Winner will be announced on Thanksgiving (: Sources: https://ktla.com/morning-news/women-list-places-not-to-go-on-1st-date-goes-viral/ https://www.instagram.com/p/CyzY4F7R1Ct/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 28 Sep 2023 | do queer couples understand each other better than straight couples? | 00:49:36 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Cold Chinese food, queerness, waxing appointments, waking up early, and straws. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: the fundamental differences between queer and straight relationships. Not bad differences, just ✨differences✨ Are wlw relationships better at communication? Why do wlw move so fast? Emotional intelligence. Do same-sex couples understand each other better? Do same sex couples have a more compatible sex drive? Does human dick feel different that strap-ons? Are queer women better at having casual sexual relationships? Are queer women better at giving/getting closure? Masc lesbian stereotypes Relationships with people who aren’t out yet. Listener polls, listener stories, and more! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) Caleb Marsh (Audio Editor) instagram: @calebm.audio --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 27 Jul 2023 | why are men so thirsty?: your relationship isn't safe on instagram | 01:19:51 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on loving the single life, workout challenges, is it okay to fuck your ex's best friend? and feeling manic. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: dating in the age of social media. Listener polls, queer vs straight relationships, not knowing if your man is liking bitches stories, insta porn, instagram making us insecure, going through your man's phone, comparing yourself to other girls, men being attracted to the new shiny object, posting revealing photos, when to go public with your relationship online, responding to listener stories, and more👀 we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 13 Jun 2024 | Domming, sex parties, and why “I don’t know” is the scariest place to be | 02:09:01 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with going out, operation get my life together, people moving slow, and a dry sex drive. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: domming! Thank you to David Teitelbaum of Rose in Good Faith and Laurel Bath House for coming on the show! Follow @david_rigf @roseingoodfaith @laurelbathhouse We interviewed David to learn about his experiences as a trained dom and we’re answering the big questions: Why do people become doms? How do you become a dom? How does BDSM connect to trauma? And are subs really lazy? We’re talking: Obedient subs vs bratty subs, why people become doms, the personality traits of doms, common misconceptions about doms, BDSM and histories of SA or abuse, healing from sexual trauma with a dom, lack of trust in your sex life, rewiring sexual trauma, crying after orgasms, 50 Shades of Grey, the importance of communication in dom/ sub relationships, why “I don’t know” is the scariest place to be, uncomfortable pre-sex conversations, what to call your dom, spicy dom acts, roleplay, leaning in and playing the part, the importance of aftercare and before care, gender dynamics in domming and men’s hidden hostility toward’s women, the difference between porn and in-person BDSM, navigating sex parties with your partner, ethical non-monagamy, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:53 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:53 - 00:06:33 What is a Dom: What are their roles in a bdsm space and what are their personality traits? 00:06:33 - 00:10:33 How common is dom/sub sex? And our Dom/sub experiences 00:10:33 - 00:14:18 Are subs lazy? 00:14:18 - 00:18:17 Why do people become doms and dommes? 00:18:17 - 00:43:27 What goes on during dom training? 00:43:27 - 00:47:30 How can dom/sub relationships be healing? 00:47:30 - 00:57:16 David’s 4 rules of domming and the importance of communication 00:57:16 - 01:11:23 Gender dynamics in domming and men’s hidden hostility toward’s women/ Why bdsm is an escape from everyday stressors for many people 01:11:23 - 01:29:11 Types of doms and dom acts 01:29:11 - 01:36:13 All about sex parties and navigating them with a partner 01:36:13 - 01:53:42 The importance of checking in when domming 01:53:42 - 01:59:55 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about domming (wrap up) 01:59:55 - 02:09:01 Sources: https://www.regain.us/advice/general/what-does-being-a-dom-mean-in-bdsm/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRKMdf9w/ https://kinkyevents.co.uk/how-to-be-a-dom-a-complete-guide/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/avae8z/what-its-like-being-a-professional-male-dom-for-women https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/dom-and-sub-relationships https://badgirlsbible.com/types-of-doms follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 31 Oct 2024 | sex education in america sucks: a deep dive | 03:30:10 | |
This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn deep dive sex education in America, censorship on tiktok, and puriteens. We’re talking: america’s fxcked up sexual history, Catholic school sex education, abstinence-only education, purity rings, consent education, experiences with sex education, menstrual health education, the Me too movement, the lack of LGBTQ+ sex ed, comprehensive and restrictive sex education laws and bills, the overturning of Roe v Wade, the moral panic over sex ed, trans youth, and critical race theory, the teen pregnancy epidemic, STD scares, sex talks with your parents, what parents want for sex education in schools, the problem with porn for sex education, porn addiction, sex education censorship on social media, content moderation, sex worker’s role in sex education, Murphy v. Missouri, the celibacy trend, Puriteens, listener stories, and more!👀 Resources Sexual Assault, Rape, and Domestic Violence Resources, Support, and Hotlines: LGBTQ+ Resources, Support, and Resources: https://afsp.org/lgbtq-crisis-and-support-resources/ Racial Equity Support, Resources, and Hotline: https://www.linesforlife.org/get-help-now/services-and-crisis-lines/racial-equity-support-line/ Mental Health Support, Resources, and Hotline: https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ https://www.apa.org/topics/crisis-hotlines Sex Education Resources, Support, and Hotlines: https://schoolofsexed.org/resources https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn Intro 00:00:00 - 00:04:33 The Racist, Violent, Puritanical, and Repressive history of sex in America 00:04:33 -00:22:02 The history and current state of sex ed in America: Abstinence-only education and the lack of queer sex ed 00:22:02 - 00:57:06 Sex education laws and bills 00:57:06 - 01:15:52 What is sex ed at home with parents or guardians? 01:15:52 - 01:35:14 So, where do people go to learn about sex? TV shows and movies, porn, and porn addiction 01:35:14 - 01:56:43 Sex Ed on social media and censorship 01:56:43 - 02:24:54 Puriteens and Celibacy are trending among Gen-Z 02:24:54 - 03:09:22 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 03:09:22 - 03:30:10 Suggested episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtzN8kstoU4&t=3102s https://youtu.be/nw-TNrYj4CU?si=WkF-sryiWgfu1Nyw https://youtu.be/lb035NeGKLs?si=3Aht_ufC42kERV5p https://youtu.be/cYz6BjjTZwM?si=YWjB4XiVEsKuXPVB Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/13a6AeeQTmh_miQrOTGTQMDHJDBqZl0YN0SLS7qR2EF8/edit?tab=t.0 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:52 Ovulation is trending on TikTok and Sabrina Carpenter’s Ovulation Music 00:01:52 - 00:05:20 What is ovulation and what are the syptoms? 00:05:20 - 00:19:49 Ovulation horniess on tiktok 00:19:49 - 00:37:00 The types of sex you might prefer when you’re ovulating 00:37:00 - 00:54:05 The types of people we’re attracted to when we’re ovulating 00:54:05 - 01:12:26 How men respond when a woman is ovulating 01:12:26 - 01:25:27 Are you more attractive during ovulation? 1:25:27 - 01:50:35 Menstrual cycle nutrition and cycle syncing tiktok 01:50:35 - 02:06:52 The need for menstrual health education and menstruation censorship on tiktok 02:06:52 - 02:27:28 Listener Story 02:27:28 - 02:36:39 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about ovulation 02:36:39 - 02:51:24 the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* | |||
| 30 Mar 2023 | reading my partner’s diary: our toxic traits | 00:36:04 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. we take responsibility for our toxicity (kind of), exploring topics of being bisexual (again), liars, people who lack decorum, fucking with exes’ exes, reading your partner’s diary, trusting your intuition, becoming the psycho girlfriend, how we masturbate (we love a tangent), and more👀 Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 12 Oct 2023 | bimbocore, barbie, and kawaii culture: we should all be playing dumb | 01:08:48 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Revolt world, Laura Prepon from Orange is the New Black, creeps, and root canals.
Next, they break down this episode's main topic: why do women play dumb and should we?
We're diving deep into the history of the word bimbo, early 2000’s movies and culture, The Barbie Movie (***SPOILERS***), I’m not like other girls turning into I want to be like other girls, bimbos and feminism, the "I'm just a girl" trend, Kawaii, Saijao, and Aegyo cultures, and tips on how to play dumb for your benefit and peace of mind.
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Gen-Z and Bimbocore: https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/gen-z-is-embracing-the-term-bimbo-but-this-time-it-s-about-empow/102290858
TikTok and Bimbocore: https://www.byrdie.com/tiktok-bimbo-culture-5248817
Mina Le: Why is everyone dressing like little girls: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7pP06P-yfI
Bimbocore trend defined: https://www.marieclaire.com.au/bimbocore-trend-what-is-it
2000's Reign of Stupid Girls: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2006/may/22/gender.uk
Saijao definition: https://www.ucl.ac.uk/why-we-post/stories/why-men-pose-as-spoilt-children#:~:text=In%20Chinese%2C%20%27sajiao%27%20means,a%20lot%20in%20daily%20life
oliSUNvia: the self-fetishization of east-asia: koreaboos & weebs aren't the only problem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNkZIJkXI6g
USA Today's The Barbie Movie Ushers Bimbo Feminism Hyperfeminity Mainstream: https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/barbie-movie-ushers-bimbo-feminism-hyperfemininity-mainstream-rcna94892
The Hidden Benefits of Playing Dumb: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-at-any-age/202202/the-hidden-benefits-of-playing-dumb
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| 09 May 2024 | stripper stories: recreational D, the worst men imaginable, & the celibacy pipeline | 01:56:52 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with good weather, Alabama rush content rabbit holes, PTSD flare ups, and time moving too fast. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the stripper to celibacy pipeline. Why are many strippers and sex workers choosing to be celibate? We’re sharing our experiences and stories from current strippers and sex workers. We’re talking: Getting into stripping early, mental health issues, substance abuse, the urge to go back after you quit, bad experiences with men at the strip club vs in dating, the empowering side of stripping, recreational sex vs sex work, developing kinks from the strip club, stripping while in a relationship, shame about pleasure in the strip club, hating men because of the club, wanting to have a deeper connection during sex, slut shaming from women, strippers who are virgins, lower sex drives, the difficulties around dating men in the real world, the celibacy bubble, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Thank you to everyone who submitted for this episode! Creator Spotlight: Shaun P Insta: @shaunp_rapper Twitter: @shaunp_rapper TikTok: @shaunp_rapper Threads:@shaunp_rapper YouTube: @pickyapoison Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:12 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:12 - 00:07:18 Setting the scene 00:07:18 - 00:09:24 Our experiences with stripping and sex work 00:09:24 - 00:15:13 Bad experiences with men at the strip club vs in dating, substance abuse, and recreational sex 00:15:13 - 00:24:29 Why we practiced celibacy after stripping 00:24:29 - 00:29:27 Stripper stories: Finding the balance between recreational and professional sex 00:29:27 - 00:44:23 Reddit threads on stripper celibacy journeys: celibate to avoid falling in love with every man I meet 00:44:23 - 00:48:55 R/stripping and celibacy: I want to protect myself and have a deeper connection 00:48:55 - 00:51:01 Celibate because no one deserves it unless they’re paying 00:51:01 - 00:56:55 Stripper stories: Being used by men more in the real world vs the strip club 00:56:55 - 01:05:03 Artist Spotlight: Shaun P 01:05:03 - 01:07:29 Stripper story: healing from slut shaming and addiction with celibacy 01:07:29 - 01:17:32 Stripper stories: selling my virginity, preferring sex with women, and lower sex drives, and relationships with clients 01:17:32 - 01:32:24 Celibacy trending in Gen-Z 01:32:24 - 01:34:04 What happens when you’re celibate for too long 01:34:04 - 01:39:49 An argument against celibacy 01:39:49 - 01:46:24 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the stripper to celibacy pipeline 01:46:24 - 01:56:52 Sources: https://www.thestranger.com/sex/2018/04/25/26093525/on-sexual-deprivation-sex-workers-incels-and-violence https://www.huffpost.com/entry/sex-worker-what-its-like-to-date_n_5dd6d273e4b0e29d728105d8 https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/10asfdk/really_curious_about_how_many_other_strippers_are https://www.reddit.com/r/stripper/comments/170erwg/anyone_else_pretty_much_celibate/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5Mvu4KAjrY/ https://nypost.com/2023/03/30/heres-why-im-not-interested-in-the-new-celibacy-trend/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 27 Apr 2023 | how to heal from a break up: learn from our mistakes | 01:47:58 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about terrible dates, depression coping, tarot card reading review, crying in the street after being dumped, getting proposed to while trying to break up with someone, your ex rapping to you outside your window, trying ketamine for the first time, the seven stages of healing from a break up, and more👀 ***Trigger Warning for self-harm at 1:03:29*** Tarot readers mentioned: @mysticmamaq on Instagram and TikTok @shmakeitraynexx Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 19 Sep 2024 | the glamorization of sugar dating: tiktok is lying to you | 03:03:48 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with Revolt world, new jobs, seasonal allergies, and being off my meds. Next, we dive into this week’s podcast/ video essay topic: sugar dating. We’re talking: The history of sugar dating, types of sugar daddies, Seeking, transactional relationships, who are sugar babies, Lola, The Girlfriend Experience, how we portray sex workers in the media, sugar baby experiences, tiktok creators giving how to advice, the glamorization of sugar dating, the realities of sugar dating, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://youtu.be/j3GlbzodE0k?si=Bv6aclJl-O6FB5eU https://youtu.be/ncTa7JTXDhw?si=tIiDWZsMg9au5IHP https://youtu.be/Y1kRMxoO6Uc?si=cRBG4-T_vvLHyASy Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1AjX2_2R7NBr-S-iszG1Tc0GPM_ud2R6ALLzxici6-H4/edit Intro 00:00:00 - 00:03:33 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:03:33 - 00:09:04 Defining sugar relationships and the history of sugar relationships 00:09:04 - 00:28:48 Sugar relationship stats 00:28:48 - 00:50:07 Types of sugar daddies 00:50:07 - 00:59:53 The power dynamics of sugar relationships 00:59:53 - 01:16:23 Breaking down Seeking the sugar daddy app 01:16:23 - 01:27:46 Sugar baby and benefactor experiences 01:27:46 - 02:06:54 The Girlfriend Experience 02:06:54 - 02:14:55 The problem with sugar baby tiktok and glamorization 02:14:55 - 02:29:34 The stigma around sugar dating 02:29:34 - 02:50:45 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about sugar relationships 02:50:45 - 03:03:48 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...
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| 17 Aug 2023 | homie hopping & female rage: what makes an unhinged woman? | 00:59:27 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on promoters, road head, beef with bitches at bars, and tall girl struggles. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: unhinged women. Listener polls, Summer Walker, men and their cousins, homie hopping, random nudes double standards, men loving crazy bitches, smashing shit, female rage, being unhinged as healing, why women are this way, unhinged listener stories, and more👀 Summer Walker's insta post: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cvh-PT1gA...https://www.instagram.com/p/CvlGRaPJlPS/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant)we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on promoters, road head, beef with bitches at bars, and tall girl struggles. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: unhinged women. Listener polls, Summer Walker, men and their cousins, homie hopping, random nudes double standards, men loving crazy bitches, smashing shit, female rage, being unhinged as healing, why women are this way, unhinged listener stories, and more👀 Summer Walker's insta post: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cvh-PT1gA...https://www.instagram.com/p/CvlGRaPJlPS/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 25 Jan 2024 | no expectations & high standards: how to avoid a situationship | 01:25:35 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with new meds, unemployment, dance studios, the mob wife trend, and having great women in our lives. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: expectations vs standards when it comes to dating. Do you need to have high standards to protect yourself? Why are high standards so trendy right now? Can having no expectations actually help your relationship? Why do expectations often ruin relationships? We’re talking: the online gender wars, people being sick of situationships, “goals” relationships online, Gen Z’s fear of settling down, high standards trending online, posting with your significant other, being hopeless romantics, men taking advantage of women with no standards, toxic expectations, healthy standards, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.npr.org/2023/05/19/1177036719/how-to-have-healthy-dating-expectations https://www.newsweek.com/jonah-hill-list-expectations-ex-girlfriend-sarah-brady-revealed-1812122 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8pRLjm1/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8pRF3Mr/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8pRrCED/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8pReUuw/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 29 Aug 2024 | in pursuit of beauty: the paradox of effortlessness | 02:19:53 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with finding new events in the city, sex dreams, high levels of stress, and another quarter life crisis Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the pursuit of beauty and the paradox of effortlessness. We’re talking: beauty sickness, the double-bind of beauty, our early memories of beauty, are men beautiful?, beauty vs comfort, pretty privilege, the art of beauty, is beauty anti-feminist?, white-washed beauty standards, how to engage in beauty in a healthy way, natural beauty vs botox beauty, Love Island UK, plastic surgeon tiktok, beauty influencers, anti-aging products, why the media doesn’t want older women, the cost of beauty, Kylie Jenner, the feeling of being perceived, the correlations between botox and relationships, perception drift, listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hu2NZI-oK_E&t=3268s https://youtu.be/6fHrPNyd0jw?si=0VzFI8QENED37ZI5 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15KMnnC5F9caehTM6z4c34ye2fEf05wBRXKEE6hTV5iM/edit Intro 00:00:00- 00:02:42 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:42 - 00:08:13 What is the pursuit of beauty? 00:08:13 - 00:17:11 Would life be better if we weren’t in pursuit of beauty? 00:17:11 -00:29:00 Should women live in the pursuit of beauty? 00:29:00 - 00:36:00 Beauty obsession and beauty sickness 00:36:00 - 00:51:47 Plastic surgery and reality TV 00:51:47 - 01:18:48 The double-bind of beauty and the allure of effortlessness 01:18:48 - 01:37:06 Who is to blame? 01:37:06 - 01:58:23 The Correlations between Botox and Relationships 01:58:23 -02:09:24 Wrap up: What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 02:09:24 02:19:53 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... | |||
| 28 Dec 2023 | 2023 dating wrapped: we’re so ready for 2024 | 02:04:17 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with spinning the block, facetime sex, “let’s work” people, and disappointing music releases. Next, we're doing a complete dating wrapped of 2023 (over-sharing per usual). We're talking sex, relationships, and personality identity growth in 2023 and predicting dating trends for 2024 with listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jul/14/what-are-relationship-boundaries-jonah-hill https://bumble.com/en-us/the-buzz/dating-trends-2023 https://www.essence.com/entertainment/2024-dating-trends/ https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.census.gov/data/tables/2022/demo/families/cps-2022.html&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1703723074362725&usg=AOvVaw1MspH0HZ54zbRAz3pBr7Fv follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 10 Oct 2024 | minisode: revolt world recap as small creators | 00:21:29 | |
On this week's episode of s0 wet s0 dry (or vlog) Fiji and Autumn are reunited in Atlanta for Revolt World! Join us for our takeaways from the Revolt World as small podcast creators trying to make it. If you guys are new here, welcome! We drop weekly episodes on Thursdays where we explore duality through deep diving topics bout sex, relationships, and personal identity where internet trends and reality collide. From the online gender wars to misunderstood kinks to relearning how to date, we’re somewhere between wet, dry, and fxcking confused. Listen in on our FaceTime calls for the nuanced reality check that only a best friend (and some research) can provide. Join our community of confused pxssies and philosophical slxts💦🌵💕 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 09 Nov 2023 | That phase when you start hating your girlfriend: men are emotionally stunted & we need to stop enabling them | 01:45:42 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with crushes on the dentist, going out for Halloween, and terminating a situationship. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: the twitter thread “That phase when you start hating your gf is crazy😭.” We’re going in on the reply section and discussing the backlash from women on TikTok: Why don’t men just break up with their girlfriends? What do men talk about with their homeboys? Is what they’re saying valid? Do men not know how to love themselves or accept love? Are they afraid to be alone? Are they just gay? Do women enable men to treat us like shit? Do women have shitty standards? With a sprinkle of the patriarchy, being a ride or die, women friendships vs mens friendships, sexually maturity, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 ENTER TO WIN $100!!! 1 entry per action: *Follow Us on Spotify *Rate Us on Spotify *Subscribe on YouTube MUST DM SCREENSHOTS TO @s0wets0dry ON INSTA OR EMAIL TO s0WETs0DRY@gmail.com TO QUALIFY. Winner will be announced on Thanksgiving (: Sources: https://twitter.com/sk1tguru?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor https://twitter.com/bontlendlovu__/status/1709067744786719136?lang=en we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 22 Feb 2024 | the men are sad and we're learning to care: the male loneliness epidemic | 02:13:59 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with healing with showers, child star documentaries, giving someone new a chance, and depressive behaviors. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: the male loneliness epidemic. The men are sad and we’re here to talk about it. (Old us is shocked and probably appalled.) What does it mean to be a man? Why are men so lonely right now? Should women really care if men are lonely? Why it’s difficult to be friends with men? We’re talking: how young boys are taught to repress their emotions, male role models, pornography addictions, how to celebrate men, the men are trash era, man-hating feminism, incels, why women claim we don’t need men anymore, women putting pressure on men to be “more of a man,” heteropessimism and situationships, men’s rights activists, why the political right appeals to men, the men’s mental health crisis, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Mental Health Resources: SAMHSA’s National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) National Alliance on Mental Illness HelpLine: 1-800-950-NAMI, or text “HELPLINE” to 62640 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) Sources: https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/#:~:text=As%20of%202022%2C%20Pew%20Research,whopping%2063%20percent%20of%20men. https://hive.rochesterregional.org/mens-health/men-loneliness-friends https://www.cnn.com/2023/09/18/health/male-loneliness-epidemic-wellness/index.html https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/02/03/male-friendship-lonely-close-friends-men/11162423002/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQv8VuLpKN4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd93Z9M5UQI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVKvEaokV6I https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E9A6Dw9TOEwellness/2023/02/03/male-friendship-lonely-close-friends-men/11162423002/ https://open.spotify.com/episode/6j8zsqOxJfPMweVpCqDTV8?si=5aRRxO2ISbWgwLeX81xiVA https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084/ref=sr_1_1?crid=HOAGJH218PPY&keywords=the+will+to+change+bell+hooks&qid=1706910043&sprefix=the+will+to+change%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1 Intro 00:00:00-00:03:00 What’s got us wet and dry this week 00:03:00- 00:09:25 Defining the male loneliness epidemic 00:09:25-00:10:48 Stats on loneliness and lack of emotional support in America 00:10:48- 00:15:29 Is the male loneliness epidemic real? 00:15:29 - 00:16:04 Is the male loneliness epidemic on men to fix themselves? 00:16:04-00:19:13 Psychological patriarchy/ men’s rights activists/ the false dream of what it means to be a man 00:19:13-00:26:00 Why are men so lonely right now?: the stigma around men’s mental health, and male friendships 00:26:00-00:30:37 Hikikomori and the men’s mental health crisis 00:30:37-00:34:37 How technology and pornography contribute to men’s loneliness 00:34:37-00:41:21 Having male friends and celebrating men 00:41:21 - 00:54:24 The “men are trash” era, women’s standards going up, and situationships 00:54:24 - 01:05:48 Men and women responding to the male loneliness episode on TikTok 01:05:48 - 01:16:08 Responses from men’s rights activists 01:16:08 - 01:19:14 Should women really care if men are lonely? 01:19:14 - 01:26:49 The suicide and mental health crisis among men and how it impacts women 01:26:49 - 01:33:31 How boys are raised, fears of homosexuality & male friendships 01:33:31 - 01:37:45 How women are out performing men & different experiences on dating apps 01:37:45 - 01:44:22 Listener stories 01:44:22 - 01:59:59 what’s got us wet, dry, & confused 01:59:59 - 02:13:59 follow us everywhere @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 16 Mar 2023 | it all comes back to sex: personal style and how we’re perceived | 00:48:04 | |
welcome to s0 wet s0 dry! we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 in this episode, we talk about what's got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week. Not sleeping on yourself, balancing multiple jobs and creative pursuits, how we’re perceived at work, early 2000’s slut shaming, nudes sent around the whole school, designer vs fast fashion, capitalism, and more👀 watch the full video on youtube! @s0wets0dry Email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube and tiktok @s0wets0dry t he s0 wet s0dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 02 May 2024 | The girls and gays (and straight men) are yearning: why are we playing it cool? (video essay) | 01:52:41 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with having great friends, Quiet on Set and the backlash, Baby Reindeer, not being able to work out, and new jobs taking over my life. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: yearning. Why is yearning trending so much online? What are we all yearning for? Can the yearning ever be satisfied? We’re talking: Saltburn, One Day, office core, the yearning emoji, yearning and rotting, rom-coms, the connection between yearning and art, wholesomeness, romanticism, the scarcity of genuine connection, the problems with instant gratification, family and community, meaning and purpose, acceptance and understanding, situationships and playing it cool, wearing your heart on your sleeve, yearning for men who yearn, the queer yearn, yearning music, is yearning inherently feminine, protecting men who yearn, limerence, crushes on people you can’t have, Fletcher, sapphic yearning, your first queer love, self-love, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:23 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:23 - 00:10:04 Defining yearning: the emotions involved and the connection to art 00:10:04 - 00:16:32 Yearning trending online and in the media 00:16:32 - 00:22:43 How common is yearning? 00:22:43 - 00:25:47 Why do we yearn? Are we yearning more now than ever? 00:25:47 - 00:29:19 What are we yearning for? 00:29:19 - 00:32:55 Situationships and playing it cool 00:32:55 - 00:36:27 Women are yearning for men who yearn 00:36:27 - 00:42:23 Is yearning inherently feminine 00:42:23 - 00:45:13 Protecting men who yearn 00:45:13 - 00:50:37 Yearning for someone you can’t have and limerence 00:50:37 - 00:54:47 Marginalized communities yearning for acceptance, self-love, and freedom 00:54:47 - 00:58:53 Fletcher and the gay yearn 00:58:53 - 01:03:09 Bisexual and sapphic yearning 01:03:09 - 01:14:00 Yearning for purpose, meaning, and happiness 01:14:00 - 01:19:04 Yearning for a non-capitalist society 01:19:04 - 01:22:07 Can the yearning ever be satisfied? 01:22:07 - 01:25:32 How to cope with yearning 01:25:32 - 01:30:07 Why do we yearn and can we stop the yearning 01:30:07 - 01:37:09 Listener Story: My boyfriend has sensory issues and won’t eat my pussy 01:37:09 - 01:43:10 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about yearning 01:43:10 - 01:52:41 Sources:https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/yearninghttps://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/61932/1/yearning-memes-social-media-tiktok-one-day-netflix-love-longing-2024 https://maryretta.substack.com/p/why-we-yearn https://www.reddit.com/r/yearning/ https://lifeimprovementsteps.com/what-do-you-yearn-for-in-life/ https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/1c82r9v/never_stop_yearning/ https://www.tiktok.com/@karmapilled/video/7321494218373926187?_r=1&_t=8lKvpHOPEfi https://www.google.com/search?q=limerence+definition&oq=limerence+de&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBggBEEUYOTIHCAIQABiABDIHCAMQABiABDIHCAQQABiABDIHCAUQABiABDIHCAYQABiABDIHCAcQABiABDIHCAgQABiABDIHCAkQABiABKgCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 https://coveteur.com/fletcher-interview-in-search-of-the-antidote https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/comments/1c4w6tt/sapphic_yearning_anyone/ https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/jun/25/daydreaming-covid-longing-psychology-mental-healthhttps://www.nytimes.com/2024/01/27/style/limerence-addiction-love-crush.htmlhttps://www.attachmentproject.com/love/limerence/#:~:text=Although%20some%20psychologists%20and%20researchers,attachment%2C%20and%20stressful%20life%20events. follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 21 Dec 2023 | is it cheating or are you insecure: monogamy is failing us all | 01:45:27 | |
Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!* https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with fantasies, building a better relationship with my dad, embarrassing myself while drunk and hitting on a gay guy, and ghosting my therapist. We're trying to answer the big questions: Who cheats more, men or women? What qualifies as cheating? What's worse: emotional cheating and physical cheating? Does cheating parallel underlying issues in the relationship? Can a relationship come back from cheating? Then we get into how to define cheating with your partner, the issues with monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, cheating in non-monogamous relationships, how social media makes cheating more complicated, being accused of cheating, personal experiences, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://www.laweekly.com/men-vs-women-who-cheats-more-in-2023-and-why/ https://gss.norc.org/Lists/gssNewsArticles/DispForm.aspx?ID=101&ContentTypeId=0x010097F51E04B6E29A4DA5088910B198C118001E89468CD12E6047A9101BE0A48227BC https://www.laweekly.com/how-to-repair-a-relationship-after-cheating/ https://haywoodhunt.ca/2023-infidelity-statistics-the-ultimate-guide-to-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-mentality/202209/what-counts-cheating-in-relationship follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 18 Jul 2024 | men are leaning conservative, women are leaning liberal, what does this mean for dating? | 01:49:49 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with visiting family on the East Coast, Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge, my family making comments about my body, and breaking my favorite boots. Next, we dive into this week’s topic: political apathy and dating someone with different political views than your own, is it possible? We’re talking: What is political apathy and why are we experiencing it? Is political apathy a dating dealbreaker? How do we judge people on dating apps based on political associations? Is political apathy a privilege? Different politics depending on the area, religious preferences, voting access, access to information, Dating across party lines: young men are more conservative than ever and young women are more liberal than ever, how algorithms isolate us, arguing about politics with your partner, judging people off of their political affiliations, emotionally charged conversations, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 🍄Use code WET for 50% Tailor Mushrooms at https://www.tailor.store/ 🍄 Sources:https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/62882/1/a-fifth-gen-z-young-people-political-aPathy-dating-dealbreaker-tinder-tory https://mashable.com/article/politics-dating-tinder-surveyhttps://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a61417629/general-election-2024-dating-politics/https://dailytrojan.com/?p=202772 https://www.nytimes.com/2024/01/03/opinion/politics-dating-marriage.htmlhttps://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/dating-politics-women-2024https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPREVe8Mc/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ks5M32xEo60https://www.buzzfeed.com/meganeliscomb/dating-opposite-political-viewshttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRE4ntdt/ follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||
| 15 Aug 2024 | coming out casually: the new lesbian pop star and it girl blueprint | 01:29:39 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with money trees exploding, meeting Drew Afualo, projectile vomiting on my bathroom floor, and breaking someone’s window. . Next, we dive into this week’s topic: dating paranoia content. We’re talking: Ellen Degeneres, coming out back in the day, are there more queer women now than ever?, lesbian icons, Jojo Siwa, Shea Mitchell, Billie Eilish, coming out casually, being outed, Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge, Becca Tilley and Hayley Kiyoko, hard launches vs soft launches, Renee Rapp, Mean Girls, Chappell Roan, queer representation in the media, Julia Fox, is being queer trendy?, the backlash from queer culture becoming more mainstream, trans representation,listener stories, and more!👀 Suggested episode: https://youtu.be/LJ__usfbGuA?si=-mCnbQ4_ljt5UvET Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SQh4ioILedj6OXP-vxesBx7G9ehO6YcvbJ23HxZnZ4Q/edit Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:53 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:01:53 - 00:10:33 How coming out has changed 00:10:33 -00:15:21 Are lesbians thriving right now? 00:15:21 - 00:24:20 Coming out casually 00:24:20 - 00:49:49 How is so many people coming out effecting the culture? 00:49:49 - 01:14:08 The pressure to come out: is it easier now than ever? 01:14:08 - 01:15:26 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:15:26 - 01:39:29 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 30 Nov 2023 | tumblr, thongs, and older boys: is girl teendom too short? | 01:26:27 | |
*Shop Mochi Melt's Luxury fruit-flavored lubes with our discount code “s0wets0dry” for 15% off!** https://mochimelt.com/collections/wat... Fiji and Autumn check in this week with old music, new music, the TikTok algorithm, and romanticizing my ex that I work with. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: is there a space for teens in today's society? We're talking about where the word teenager came from, capitalism, how gender plays a role in growing up too fast, bullying, growing into your sexuality, what age are kids getting phones, the Tumblr era, romanticizing trauma and depression online, listener polls, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Sources: teenagers don’t exist anymore (youth culture and third spaces) By: Madisyn Brown https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpbfATrPN_E https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220324-kgoy-kids-getting-older-younger https://auroragambit.wordpress.com/2023/03/07/are-kids-growing-up-too-fast/ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220324-kgoy-kids-getting-older-younger we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 10 Aug 2023 | looking for a quick fix: the commodification of dating | 00:58:50 | |
we're wet, dry, and everything in between💦🌵 Fiji and Autumn check in this week with updates on new purses and clothes, best friend fights, and identity crises. Next, they break down this episode's main topic: is dating today too transactional? Listener polls, women using men for money, men only caring about sex, why men are emotionally crippled, women giving up on the search for the love of their life, shopping on dating apps, capitalism, individualism, self-care, and more👀 Fiji’s new bag from Najee Alive: https://www.instagram.com/najeealive/ we want to hear from you! email us at s0wets0dry@gmail.com follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy Silvia Becca (Set Design and Production Assistant) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/s0wets0dry/support | |||
| 27 Jun 2024 | falling in love with an AI: an ideal partner or a risk to society??? | 01:45:25 | |
Fiji and Autumn check in this week with being in love with myself, new music, playing games with my roommate, Brat by Charlie XCX, expensive health insurance, and being out of my anti-depressants Next, we dive into this week’s topic: AI and our love lives. We’re talking: Using AI to flirt better, the ethics of AI chatbots, sexting your fav porn star’s AI, AI taking on a mind of its own, content creators using AI to make money off of their image, the problem with an “ideal” partner, AI love stories, Eva AI, Soulmate AI, the sims, the dangers of unregulated ai, does AI contribute to misogyny, dating apps adopting AI features, Bumble, Match Group, Ashley Madison, the risks of sharing your data, dating app concierges, fake profiles and bots, gender disparities on dating apps, the social impact of AI, listener stories, and more!👀 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:06 What’s got us s0 wet and s0 dry this week 00:02:06 - 00:07:40 What do we know about AI? 00:07:40 - 00:10:48 Using AI to flirt better 00:10:48 - 00:13:18 AI sex chatbots: the financial opportunities, ethics, and dangers 00:13:18 - 00:25:16 People dating AI: an ideal partner or a risk to society? 00:25:16 - 00:30:34 Cody and Sophia: a tragic AI love story 00:30:34 - 00:40:08 A dangerous AI relationship 00:40:08 - 00:44:58 Dating AI to figure out your sexuality 00:44:58 - 00:46:29 How do we all feel about dating AI? Should we be scared? 00:46:29-00:57:19 Dating apps and AI: Bumble’s dating AI concierge and Match Group’s partnership with Open AI 00:57:19 - 01:10:53 Using AI to create fake dating profiles and bots and the gender disparities on dating apps 01:10:53 - 01:26:20 The future of AI and dating apps 01:26:20 What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about AI and dating 01:32:43 - 01:45:25 Sources: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff/video/7235347166678682926?_r=1&_t=8msOn7BG1VK https://www.dallasobserver.com/arts/a-new-dating-app-pairs-humans-with-ai-companions-18586165 https://gizmodo.com/tinder-owner-signs-chatgpt-deal-enjoy-the-ai-dating-ti-1851275100 https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLvsCeeK/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLvG1wXc/ https://www.tiktok.com/@expatriarch/video/7152918461969173803?_r=1&_t=8msOiZK81la https://time.com/4013017/female-users-ashley-madison/ https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20240315-lidiane-jones-bumble-ai-bbc-executive-interview follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy | |||