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	Pub. Date	Title	Duration
	12 Oct 2022	Whole Man Recovery (Pt 2): Physical	00:15:33
In today’s episode with Matt Wenger we will explore the Physical element of Whole Man Recovery. We will attempt to answer the following questions about this element: What is the element? What effect does it have: On addiction, On relationships, On identity How does recovery address this element? What might health and wholeness look like for this element in one’s life? Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery. To learn more about Matt and Boulder Recovery, visit BoulderRecovery.com. More Resources: Bebroken.org/Men Not All Stress is Bad Find a Support Group Related Podcasts: How Do You Handle Pain? Recovery Discover 018: Your Brain Healing Your Brain ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	07 Jun 2022	Sex, God, and the Chaos of Betrayal	00:35:46
Today’s guests are Roane and Eva Hunter, counselors and co-authors of the book, Sex, God, & the Chaos of Betrayal: The Couples' Road Map of Hope & Healing - Recovery from Infidelity, Affairs, Pornography & Sexual Addiction. In this episode, they share their histories of brokenness and the impact this had on their marriage. Through the many ups and downs of their relationship, they gained many insights that they now share with other couples seeking help in their own marriages. To learn more about Roane and Eva and their book, visit SexGodChaos.com. More Resources: Lifeworks Intensives and Groups WivesCare.Bebroken.com Men.Bebroken.com Related Podcasts: Rebuilding Your Marriage After Sexual Betrayal How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair Hope After Betrayal ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	02 Aug 2023	Men Helping Men Grow and Mature	00:29:38
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership Opportunity When you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership! ---------------------------- We learn and grow best in community. This is why we encourage and enjoy feedback from men as they travel along in their transformation journey. Today’s episode is a collection of honest thoughts and ideas and insights from men who are wanting to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors and live as the men God created them to be. If you’re a man on a similar journey, we hope and trust that today’s episode will encourage and challenge you to keep pressing on in pursuit of greater integrity and emotional maturity. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Workshop for Men Growth Map by Stephen Cervantes Find a Men's Group Related Podcasts: Why Don't Men Go Deeper? Guy Thoughts on Emotional Awareness Insights from a Brother in Recovery ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	03 Dec 2019	Thoughts from a Closed Husband	00:30:00
Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Nearly every husband we have served over the past 16 years could be described as "closed" emotionally. Much of this is due to past wounds and ignorance. This episode explores the effects of such stunted growth and how to address it for potential healing and better relationships. Helpful Resource: Emotional Training for Men
	09 Apr 2019	Loving LGBT People Well	00:29:00
Special Guest: Laurie Krieg (https://www.himhministries.com/) There seems to be a great (and growing) divide between the LGBT community and orthodox Christianity. And while there may be real theological differences in worldviews, how are we to "love our neighbors" regardless of those differences? In this episode we invite back Laurie Krieg from Hole In My Heart Ministries to help us navigate how to love LGBT people well, and gain a new perspective on what true discipleship can look like.
	22 Jan 2025	Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage	00:30:41
In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the ongoing struggles of emotional disconnection in marriage, sparked by one man’s agonizing question: How does a man live a good life while feeling alone and disconnect in his marriage? We explore the pain of feeling isolated from a spouse and the importance of personal growth, faith, and community support. Stephen shares wisdom on enduring suffering, finding joy beyond one’s spouse, and the necessity of a supportive network. We emphasize that personal transformation often happens through discomfort and that God's presence provides comfort and guidance. This episode is a hopeful reminder that growth and resilience can lead to deeper connections and fulfillment, even in challenging times. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional disconnection in marriage Personal growth through discomfort and suffering The role of faith in navigating relationship challenges Importance of community support and accountability Strategies for coping with loneliness and isolation Transforming perspectives on love and relationships Finding contentment and peace in solitude Engaging in practices that foster connection with God The significance of ongoing dialogue with God Encouragement to take actionable steps toward personal transformation More Resources: God is Growing You Is Grace Really Enough? Dealing with Conflict - Marriage Podcast Bundle Related Podcasts: What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission? Living More than a Love Story Grieving to Grow a Great Marriage ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	27 Mar 2024	100 Recovery Rules (with Mark Denison)	00:35:21
Addiction recovery is hard work. It is the process of learning to live in a whole new way apart from old, harmful, compulsive patterns. Such transformation doesn’t happen quickly or without help. Our guest today is Mark Denison. He has been on the program several times before and is the co-founder, with his wife Beth, of There’s Still Hope. He joins us to talk about his newest book, Recovery Rules: 100 Truisms that Will Change Everything. Men often need pithy, wise tips to help them on the long road of recovery. In our conversation, we highlight several of the truisms, such as: If you are 90% in, you are 100% out. Addiction isn’t a bad problem, it is a bad solution. If you can stay sober for 20 minutes, you can stay sober. Relapse is not an event, but a process. Don’t commit to a lifetime; commit to a day. Direction trumps destination. If you are looking for some super practical help for your recovery journey, this episode will be very impactful. To learn more about Mark and his ministry’s resources, visit TheresStillHope.org. More Resources: Recovery Rules: 100 Truisms that Will Change Everything* Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive Grace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups Related Podcasts: A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth The Stopwatch Acting Out Cycle 3 Levels of Sobriety *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	26 Oct 2021	Unoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional Maturity	00:34:54
The world seems to always be ready to criticize and complain. What happens when those criticisms and complaints are directed at you? How well do you respond? In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan unpack how our responses to verbal barbs affect (and measure) our emotional growth journey. Discover the path of grace and love that sets your heart free from being offended and offers others the hope of Jesus. Book: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better More Podcasts: A Biblical Framework for Emotions About Your Emotional Connecting Skills Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.com Help for Women: Women.Bebroken.com Help for Families: Family.Bebroken.com ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	21 Feb 2025	The Scandal of Virginia Grey: A Tale of the "Other Woman"	00:32:31
In today’s episode, we have Wendy Crane with us to talk about her new book, "The Scandal of Virginia Grey." Wendy opens up about her personal journey through infidelity, her 20-year marriage to Reese that didn’t start out like a fairytale, and the healing process that followed. She shares the emotional experience of writing her book, which allowed her to confront past traumas and find redemption. We discuss the importance of forgiveness, especially Wendy's unique relationship with Reese's ex-wife. Wendy hopes her story offers hope and understanding to others in similar situations, emphasizing that healing and transformation are always possible. To get the book and learn about coaching services, visit TheSilentAddiction.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Wendy Crane's personal journey and experiences with infidelity The emotional process of writing her book, "The Scandal of Virginia Grey" Themes of healing and redemption in relationships The significance of forgiveness, particularly in blended families The allegorical nature of Wendy's book and its connection to her life The impact of revisiting painful memories during the writing process The concept of confession as a means of healing Target audiences for the book, including those in similar situations and readers interested in redemption stories The importance of self-forgiveness and compassion towards others Messages of hope and transformation in the face of adversity More Resources: The Scandal of Virginia Grey book Basics Webinar for Wives Wives Care Groups for Betrayal Trauma Healing Related Podcasts: Life and Hope After Divorce: Reese and Sharon's Story Dealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and Hope New Course: 40 Days of Healing for Wives ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	06 Nov 2024	Sadness and Hope: The Dynamic Duo of Personal Growth	00:31:51
In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the complexities of personal growth, focusing on how childhood experiences shape adult behavior. We discuss insights from the "Gateway to Freedom" workshop, emphasizing the importance of recognizing our own choices while understanding the influences of our upbringing. I admire Stephen’s work on DoctorMarriage.org and how he offers practical tools and tips for men wanting to live a full life of integrity. In our conversation, we explore themes of belonging, identity, and the emotional struggles many face. We highlight the coexistence of sadness and hope, encouraging listeners to embrace self-discovery and seek support for healing and transformation. To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Personal responsibility and its complexities Impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior Distinction between personal choices and external influences Insights from the "Gateway to Freedom" workshop Emotional struggles related to belonging and identity The pain of rejection and its lasting effects The relationship between sadness and hope Coping mechanisms developed in childhood and their consequences The journey of self-discovery and healing Importance of seeking support and community for personal growth More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for men Sad, but Hopeful post on DoctorMarriage.org Grace-Based Recovery Online Groups Related Podcasts: Why Men Need to Practice Sadness Whole Man Recovery Pt 3: Emotional Navigating Grief, Fear, and Transformation ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	07 Feb 2024	Living More Than a Love Story	00:31:44
How important is trust to emotional health and building strong, mature relationships? It is vital! Yet, many men we have served in our ministry struggle terribly with trust. In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to dig into this important topic of trust through the lens of one man’s story that begins with him not being able to trust his parents with his thoughts and feelings and ends with him finally living a “love plus trust” story. We will share the distinction between love and trust and how love plus trust takes us even deeper than love alone. We need to learn how to understand trust in its multilayered dimensions if we want to enjoy strong, healthy relationships. For resources from Stephen to help you grow and mature emotionally, visit DoctorMarriage.org. More Resources: 40 Days to Oneness Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* Untangling Emotions by Groves & Smith* Related Podcasts: Men Helping Men Grow and Mature Healing Steps to Rebuild Trust Why Men Struggle to Love *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	12 May 2020	Understanding Therapeutic Disclosure	00:33:00
How can your marriage survive sexual betrayal (of any kind)? And how important and helpful is counseling to this process? In this episode, our guest Dan Drake will help us understand therapeutic disclosure; what it is, what its role is in the restoration process, and how to do it effectively. If you feel stuck in your marriage, this program might help you take next steps toward greater hope and healing. Learn more about resources for Therapeutic Disclosure at DisclosureHope.com.
	14 May 2019	Working Through Marriage Challenges	00:30:00
What does it look like for ministry leaders to "practice what they preach" in their own lives and marriages? This episode is a conversation with Steve and Jamie Wiechman from Breathe Life Ministries about their transition from one season of life and ministry to another. Gain insights and encouragement for your own marriage as you face various challenges and transitions. Learn more about Breathe Life at BreatheLifeToday.com.
	01 Nov 2022	What Do You Say to Someone Who is Struggling?	00:29:50
Everyone in life has struggled with something. Struggle is part of being human. Here we see it in all forms of sexual brokenness. We have staff and ministry partners who are trained in helping such strugglers. But what if you wanted to help someone who is struggling? Do you know what to do or what to say? Have you ever given bad advice? Does it scare you when someone shares their pain? In today’s episode, Stephen and I will share with you some practical things to do and say when someone shares their struggles with you. You don’t need to be an “expert” in order to truly help a struggling friend. More Resources: Bebroken.org/counselors Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith Better Together (blog post) Related Podcasts: How Do I Help My Wife When She Falls into a "Pit"? The Immanuel Approach in Recovery 50 Things to Do When Your Core Fear Gets Triggered ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	14 Apr 2020	Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex Addiction	00:44:00
Do you struggle with answering the "why" question surrounding your sexually addictive behaviors? What is underneath these compulsive actions? In this episode, Eddie Capparruci helps us unpack what he describes as your "inner child" and how understanding who this is will unlock significant growth in your recovery. For more info on Eddie and his ministry, visit InnerChild-SexAddiction.com.
	09 Oct 2024	How to Make Sex Pleasurable and Fun Again	00:37:53
In this episode, we invite back Dr. Jennifer Degler, a clinical psychologist and marriage expert, to talk about making sex pleasurable and fun again, especially for couples dealing with betrayal or brokenness. Dr. Degler shares her insights on the importance of pleasure within God's design for sex and offers practical steps for re-engaging with intimacy after betrayal. We discuss the necessity of communication, mindfulness, and sensory exploration to rebuild trust and enjoyment in sexual relationships. Jennifer’s tips and insightful anecdotes provide a refreshing perspective on rekindling passion and connection in marriage. To learn more about Dr. Degler and her resources, visit JenniferDegler.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of pleasure in sexual relationships within a Christian context. Challenges couples face in reconnecting after betrayal or brokenness. Practical steps for re-engaging with intimacy and pleasure. Role of communication in rebuilding trust and intimacy. Mindfulness techniques to enhance sensory experiences during intimacy. Non-sexual physical affection as a foundation for intimacy. Engaging the five senses to deepen connection and pleasure. Strategies for managing intrusive thoughts during intimate moments. Incorporating spirituality and prayer into the healing process. Encouragement for couples to persevere in their journey toward intimacy and fulfillment. More Resources: CWIVES Free resources for building healthy marriages Find a Counselor Related Podcasts: What Men Need to Know About Female Sexuality Understanding Your Flipped Out Brain The Journey to Stay ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	02 Aug 2019	Why Invest in SILS?	00:30:00
Special Guest: Daniel Weiss (BrushfiresFoundation.org) What is SILS? It stands for Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, and it is a collaborative effort to equip church and ministry leaders to inspire sexual integrity discipleship, wholeness, and freedom in Christ. In this episode, we talk with Daniel Weiss, one of the executive team members of SILS, about what the movement is and why it is important in church history. Learn more about SILS at SexualIntegrityLeaders.com or follow us on Facebook at Facebook.com/SILSUMMITUSA/.
	21 Aug 2024	Discover the Power of "Co" in Relationships and Recovery	00:30:07
My apologies for the poor audio quality of this episode. I hope it won’t distract too much from the content. In this episode, Stephen and I talk about the power of "co," meaning "together" or "jointly," in relationships and recovery. We dive into how collaboration and connection are essential for personal growth and healing, especially in marriage and overcoming addiction. Dr. Cervantes shares insights on co-parenting, co-planning, and co-nurturing, emphasizing that love and community are vital for a fulfilling life. We also discuss the church's role in fostering a sense of belonging and unity. Join us as we explore how embracing "co" can transform our lives and relationships. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The significance of the prefix "co" in relationships and community. The role of collaboration and partnership in personal growth and healing. The impact of addiction on connection and the importance of overcoming isolation. Practical applications of "co" in everyday life, such as co-parenting and co-planning. The challenges individuals face in embracing a "co" mentality, especially after trauma or addiction. The journey of co-expression and the importance of sharing desires and fears. The concept of co-nurturing and its relevance in supporting relationships. The role of the church in fostering community and addressing emotional and cultural needs. The idea of community as "common unity" and the importance of shared goals. Encouragement for listeners to actively seek connection and collaboration in their lives. More Resources: Resources for Men Resources for Wives Resources for Families Related Podcasts: The Goal is Connecting The 7 (or More) Pillars of Emotional Growth The Power of Community ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	10 May 2022	Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World	00:36:08
On today’s program, our guest is Mandy Majors, founder of Next Talk and author of the new book Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World: A Solution that Works. Our discussion highlights some of Mandy’s personal journey with her daughter on this subject and the three main sections of the book: The new problem we face. A solution that works. 10 practical things to do to implement the solution. If you are a parent (or grandparent) who wants encouragement and real-world insights that work, tune in to what Mandy has to share. To learn more about Mandy and their ministry resources, visit NextTalk.org. More Resources for Parents: Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World Family.Bebroken.com A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn Related Podcasts HOW and WHERE are Your Kids Hanging Out Online? Good Pictures, Bad Pictures A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	30 Aug 2023	Making Sense of the Sexual Revolution	00:34:49
How did we get to where we are today when it comes to sexual brokenness, confusion, and outright rebellion against God’s design for sex? In this episode, our guest is Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse, who is the founder of the Ruth Institute, an interfaith international coalition to defend the family and build a Civilization of Love. Our conversation was inspired after I read Dr. Morse’s book, The Sexual State: How Elite Ideologies are Destroying Lives and Why the Church Was Right All Along. In this book, she provides a timeline that breaks down the sexual revolution into its component parts so that people can better understand how we have reached our current period and respond to it with grace and truth. Dr. Morse shares the three big ideas of the sexual revolution: The Contraceptive Ideology – Society should do everything possible to separate sex and babies. The Divorce Ideology – Society should do everything possible to separate both sex and babies from marriage. The Gender Ideology – Men and women are completely interchangeable; the “idea” of self is more important than the body. To learn more about Dr. Morse and her resources, visit RuthInstitute.org. More Resources: Family Defenders Flash Drive Ruth Institute Resource Centers Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey Related Podcasts: The Dr. J Show Exposing the Gender Lie How to Speak Unpopular Truth in Love ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	13 Apr 2021	The Goal is Connecting	00:30:00
What if what you thought was your sexual brokenness problem isn't the actual thing that needs to be "fixed"? What if the solution ran much deeper than just behavior modification? In this episode, we highlight the need to pursue healthy and vibrant intimate connections with God and others. And merely stopping unhealthy sexual behaviors will never automatically create these intimate connections. Listen in to gain insights and practical questions to ask yourself to help you build deeper connections. Devotional for couples: 40 Days to Oneness Made for Purity Online Course
	07 May 2019	Tips to Grow a Better Marriage	00:30:00
Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Good marriages don't just happen. It takes work -- hard work! But there are wise ways to work and foolish ways to work on growing a better marriage. This episode unpacks multiple tips to help you and your spouse build a better marriage, day-by-day, choice-by-choice.
	15 May 2024	Helping Women Embrace their Bodies and Sexuality	00:32:25
I'm thrilled to have the amazing Danisa Suarez back on the program. Today, we're tackling a subject that's really important to a lot of people: women's understanding of their own bodies and sexuality. Danisa has put together an incredible e-course called "The Story of Her," (https://ccicourses.org/thestoryofher) and she's here to share why it's so essential for women to recognize and celebrate their unique design and to confidently step into their womanhood. We're not shying away from the difficult topics either—we discuss how to heal from past wounds and pursue a godly approach to sexual fulfillment. Plus, Danisa’s got some solid, actionable tips for anyone looking for support on this path. This episode is all about empowering women and deepening their relationship with God. Make sure you don't miss out on Danisa’s valuable insights—follow her on Instagram for more inspiring talks! @danisasuarezoficial Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of understanding women's bodies and sexuality Influences affecting women's self-image Fighting against comparison Challenges faced by women who have experienced brokenness, abuse, or sexual violations Lack of mentorship and education for women regarding their bodies Impact of social media, mass media, and culture on women's self-image Women's sexuality and its connection to confidence, knowledge, and attitudes Challenges and roadblocks in the journey towards sexual health and wholeness Importance of seeking support and guidance in the journey towards sexual health and wholeness Empowerment, encouragement, and finding fulfillment in the relationship with God More Resources: SheRecovery.com CCI Counseling The Body Revelation* Related Podcasts: Understanding Female Sexuality and Struggles What Men Need to Know About Female Sexuality Women and Sex *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	10 Jul 2024	SHE Virtual Summit: Where Women Find Support, Resources, and Hope	00:32:16
DOUBLE YOUR GIFT! Thanks to a generous donor, we can offer a $75,000 match for gifts given between May 1 through July 31. Every dollar you give, collectively up to $75,000, will be DOUBLED! Give Today and double your impact. Thank you for your support! ---------- In this episode, I chat with Crystal Renaud Day about the SHE Virtual Recovery Summit, a transformative event for women battling unwanted sexual behaviors like pornography addiction. Crystal shares her personal journey and insights from years of ministry, emphasizing the importance of surrender, accountability, and community in recovery. We discuss the summit's role in providing a safe, supportive space for women and even teens to find healing and resources. Crystal's passion for helping women shines through, and we invite listeners to join the summit and take steps toward wholeness in Christ. To learn more about the SHE Summit and register, visit SheRecovery.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: SHE Virtual Recovery Summit Support and resources for women struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors Personal experiences and insights from Crystal Renaud Day Importance and topics covered during the event Research on women's view of porn Training for women in recovery Ministry to women dealing with unwanted sexual behaviors Stories of transformation and victory She Virtual Recovery Summit as a space for learning, growth, and surrender The significance of surrender, confession, accountability, responsibility, and sharing in the recovery process More Resources: SHE Virtual Recovery Summit (use affiliate code BEBROKEN for a 10% discount!) What Drives Women to Porn? Survey Results 90 Days to Wholeness* by Crystal Renaud Day Related Podcasts: New Research on Why Women View Porn Total Freedom for Women Struggling with Porn God's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	22 Oct 2019	Being a Single, Sexual Man	00:32:00
Oftentimes when the topic of biblical sexuality comes up there is this idea that it only really applies to married people since that's the "approved" context for sexual activity. But where does this leave the single person who wants to live out a biblical sexual ethic? In this episode, David Kyle Foster weighs in on this topic. He has lots of professional and personal experience in what it means to be a single, sexual man. Our hope is that this conversation will help our single listeners better understand and apply God's design for sex in their singleness.
	20 Oct 2020	Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?	00:30:00
Can the church be a safe place for those who struggle with unwanted sexual desires and behaviors? How do we walk with sexually broken people in a grace-based, healing manner? In this episode, Garry Ingraham shares his story of same-sex attraction and the local church's role in his journey of healing and transformation. There is hope for true community and lasting change when the body of Christ embraces wounded, broken people and points them to Jesus and His Word. Learn more about Garry and his ministry at LoveandTruthNetwork.com.
	23 Apr 2019	6 Hours That Will Transform Your Marriage	00:30:00
Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) What if we told you that it only took 6 hours a week to radically transform and improve your marriage? You might think we were snake oil salesmen, right? Well, solid research from John Gottman actually backs up this claim. This episode unpacks this research and the specific things to do in these magical six hours. For more info, get Gottman's book, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work.
	12 Jun 2020	An Unexpected Journey to Hope	00:35:00
What happens when a couple realizes that porn addiction is not merely a "problem" to be fixed? What if there is far more to it than that? How can a couple navigate the possibility of restoration when "recovery" doesn't fit their pre-conceived paradigm? In this episode, we hear the story of Garren and Lyschel Burket. Gain a new perspective for restoration that brings true hope and joy. Learn more about Lyschel's ministry to betrayed wives at HopeRedefined.com.
	26 Mar 2025	Are You a Loner or Connector in Your Relationships?	00:31:34
In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of "loners" and "connectors" in relationships. Everyone falls into one of these categories. As we explore this topic, my friend and co-host Stephen Cervantes discusses how loners tend to be independent and process internally, while connectors thrive on dialogue and emotional exchange. We examine how these differences impact communication and emotional connection, particularly in marriages. We share insights on personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other's communication styles; we aren’t out to change a loner into a connector or vice versa. We give lots of personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to help you navigate these differences to foster deeper connections and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. To read the Thought on Loners and Connectors, go to DoctorMarriage.org/loners-and-connectors. Topics Covered in this Episode: Distinction between "loners" and "connectors" in personal relationships. Characteristics of loners: independence, introspection, and internal processing. Characteristics of connectors: relational, expressive, and dialogue-oriented. Impact of communication styles on relationships, particularly in marriage. Importance of emotional connection and its role in relationship dynamics. Challenges faced by loners in engaging with emotional exchanges. The necessity of active listening in fostering trust and connection. Strategies for navigating differences between loners and connectors. The role of personal growth in improving relationship dynamics. Encouragement for couples to discuss and understand their connection styles for deeper intimacy. More Resources: 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes The 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen Cervantes Building True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith Related Podcasts: Dealing with Conflict Podcast Bundle Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage About Your Emotional Connecting Skills *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.
	14 Jun 2023	Becoming a Healing Church	00:35:22
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership Opportunity When you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership! ---------------------------- Our guest today is Sam Black. Sam is the director of recovery education at CovenantEyes and the author of the new book, The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It. In our conversation, Sam shares who he wrote this book for (pastors and ministry leaders) and why he wrote it (to help them better understand why people get stuck, why they often stay stuck, and how the church holds the answers for freedom, not just for individuals but for families and leaders, too). To learn more about Sam and get a copy of the book, visit TheHealingChurch.com. For a FREE copy of the book, go to https://www.signupanywhere.com/signup/hrmupv0t (available to the first 50 people; US addresses only). More Resources: The Victory App Safe by Nick Stumbo Ministry to Transgender Individuals Related Podcasts: How False Grace is Perpetuating Abuse in the Church Reframing How the Church Views Sexual Purity Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation? ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	08 Nov 2023	Helping Men Navigate Between Logic and Emotion	00:31:25
Men, I’m really excited to bring you today’s program because Stephen and I are going to provide you with some VERY practical help for understanding how to navigate between logic and emotions – and why engaging emotions is essential for maturity. Generally, the majority of men we work with in our ministry are very comfortable when communicating logic and solving problems, but very uncomfortable and unfamiliar with communicating emotion. This often results in them becoming stunted or stuck in their relational skills, especially in marriage. Today, Stephen and I will share with you a story of one man’s journey to get unstuck when it comes to sharing his emotions and the 2-channel system he developed to help with that process. We are hopeful that this conversation will enlighten you and give you the confidence to work on becoming more skilled in emotional sharing and listening. More Resources: 49 Days of Growth* by Stephen Cervantes 40 Days of Training for Your Soul The 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen Cervantes Related Podcasts: Why Don't I Connect Better? 15 Rules of Emotionally Detached Men Guy Thoughts on Emotional Awareness and Maturity ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel. *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.
	03 Jan 2024	Best of 2023: Back to the Basics of Sexual Integrity	00:31:33
Originally Aired on March 7, 2023 View this episode on Youtube ---------- Today’s episode is getting back to the basics of living a life of sexual integrity. Stephen Cervantes and I have been working with men desiring greater integrity for over 20 years, and we know that a life of integrity is not static. You must be on a daily growth mission to mature. In our conversation, we share some of our personal growth tips and many other insights we have seen that help men get on a growth mission and discover their God-sized purpose in life. A great next step in your pursuit of greater integrity is our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. This Friday-Sunday event will help you get down to the roots of your unwanted sexual behaviors and provide practical, powerful direction for living each day with integrity and purpose. Learn more about Gateway to Freedom and how to register at Bebroken.org/gtf. More Resources: FREE Integrity Webinar for Men 40 Days of Purity for Men The 4 Pillars of Purity Related Podcasts: Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors 3 Levels of Sobriety Insights and Action Steps for Men ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	15 Nov 2022	Keys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors	00:40:14
Thousands of men over the past 20 years have reached out to our ministry to get help in overcoming unwanted sexual behaviors. Our desire is to help them experience long-term freedom, not merely short-term abstinence. So, what are the keys to long-term freedom from unwanted behaviors? Our guest is Jason Martinkus. He is the founder and president of Redemptive Living, a coaching and speaking ministry helping men find freedom from sexual integrity issues and marriages find redemption beyond betrayal. Jason has 19 years of personal sexual sobriety; he has walked the walk. In this episode we talk about key principles of freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors, such as humility, confession, authentic community, and more – principles that are vital for both short-term and long-term freedom. To learn more about Jason and his ministry, visit RedemptiveLiving.com. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive Integrity Webinar for Men Grace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups Related Podcasts: The Freedom Fight with Ted Shimer Recovery Discovery 030: Lifelong Learning The Last Relapse with Sathiya Sam ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	28 Sep 2021	Porn, Technology, and Self-Control	00:32:00
Jon Wilkes is a tech guy. He also struggled with porn. This is his story of how his struggle and skill set turned into an incredible tool to help individuals engage in self-control while online. In our conversation, we talk about the difference between accountability and self-control, some features of Jon's technology, and some positive and negative trends happening in the tech sphere. To learn more about Jon and the resources he has built, visit Pluckeye.net. Other Internet Filters and Monitors: https://filters.pluckeye.net/ If you are part of a tech company that would like to partner with Jon and Pluckeye, contact Jon. Previous Podcast: Ideas for Self-Control ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	07 Apr 2020	The Harms of Negative Talking	00:31:00
Many of us don't pay much attention to how we talk. Especially if we have a "negative talk" template. In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen unpack this template to help you recognize if you talk in this unhealthy way -- and provide insights and tips for how to reduce or eliminate this kind of talking from your life. Learn how to talk WITH people instead of AT them.
	08 Oct 2019	A Letter to My Resistant Husband	00:30:00
Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Sometimes husbands who are bound up in sexual sin are riding the fence between their brokenness and embracing integrity as a new way of life. This episode unpacks a compilation of many wive's hearts in a letter to their resistant husbands. We hope this episode will challenge resistant husbands to get on track toward recovery and growth, and also provide hope and encouragement to wives who are struggling to persevere.
	24 Aug 2021	Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual Abuse	00:36:32
Countless women suffer in silence from past sexual abuse. Are there any safe places within the church for women to tell their stories and heal from past abuse? In this episode, Dr. James Reeves shares his 30+ years of experience in helping women (and men) heal from sexual brokenness struggles, including sexual abuse. He shares a message of great hope and a new resource that is helping women around the globe to heal from past sexual abuse. The Fearless Series for Women covers: The Prevalence of sexual abuse The Problems that manifest from abuse The Priority for the Church to get involved The Prevention of abuse The Pathway to healing Get the Fearless Series: FS4Women.com More Resources for Women: Women.Bebroken.com Today's Sponsor: CovenantEyes -- try them out for FREE for 30 days at CovenantEyes.com and use promo code BEBROKEN.
	24 May 2022	Why Men Struggle to Love	00:35:51
On today’s program, we have one of our fan-favorite guests back with us, Dr. Eddie Capparucci. Eddie is certified as a licensed professional counselor and certified in treating sexual and pornography addiction. He is the creator of the Inner Child Model for the Treatment of Sexual and Pornography Addiction and the author of multiple books and workbooks. Today our conversation focuses on his newest book, Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots. In this book, Eddie identifies 14 blind spots in men that can prevent them from building healthy love relationships. So, if you are a man who wants to understand the deeper issues of recovery beyond just behavioral sobriety, this conversation will benefit you. To learn more about the book and get a copy, visit StrugglingMen.org. More Resources: Men.Bebroken.com InnerChild-SexAddiction.com Growth Map by Stephen Cervantes Related Podcasts: 3 Levels of Sobriety Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection? About Your Emotional Connecting Skills ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	22 May 2024	Neurodiversity Challenges in Marriage Restoration	00:38:26
Shawna Meek, founder of Living Stones Coaching, joins us to share her incredible journey through marriage, divorce, and unexpected reconciliation. Shawna opens up about the challenges she faced in her relationship, from communication breakdowns to confronting her husband's infidelity – and learning how his previously undiagnosed neurodiversity impacted his sexual brokenness and their marriage. Shawna then shares about setting boundaries, the importance of individual growth, and how she and her husband both worked on themselves to rebuild trust. Her story is a testament to the complexities of love and the resilience and faith needed to navigate them. As a result of this journey, Shawna turned her personal trials into a passion for coaching and helping others through their own relationship struggles. To learn more about Shawna and her resources, visit LivingStoneCoaching.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Shauna Meek's personal story and experiences Navigating neurodiversity challenges in relationships and marriage Seeking help and setting boundaries Healing and recovery process Individual coping strategies and personal growth Building trust and safety in a marriage Lessons learned about oneself and each other Transformation and growth in relationships Overcoming communication differences Reconciliation and remarriage More Resources: Determined for More* by Shawna Meek Neurodiverse Coaching and Mentoring Hope Restored Related Podcasts: The Journey to Stay Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from Betrayal Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	08 Jun 2021	A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations	00:31:56
Barb never expected her son would get hooked on porn. But he did. No parents hope for their children to get swept away by porn. But what happens when they do? In this episode, Barb Winters shares her story of navigating this journey with her son and the many insights she has gained. Tune in if you are a parent wanting hope and practical help for addressing porn with your kids. Follow Barb on her blog: HopefulMom.net Online Course for Parents and Teens: GamePlan.PureLifeAcademy.org More resources for families: Family.Bebroken.com
	29 Nov 2022	What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?	00:32:20
For nearly two decades we have been inviting men to embark on an emotional growth mission, not merely a sexual purity mission (as good as that is). But what is an emotional growth mission and what are the challenges and possible stumbling blocks to emotional growth? In this episode, Stephen and I define the emotional growth mission and share over 10 thoughts and ideas that could stunt this mission. To get started, or keep going, on your emotional growth mission, watch the 7-part Emotional Training for Men webinar series at Bebroken.org/etm-webinar. More Resources: 40 Days of Training for Your Soul Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith Free Integrity Webinar for Men Related Podcasts: How to Experience Excellent Emotional Connections Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection? ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	23 Jun 2020	When (& Why) Do Men Escape to Porn?	00:29:30
When do men go looking for porn or some other kind of sexual escape? And why do they seek it out? Finally, how does a man change this unhealthy pattern? In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen explore many various reasons for when and why men look for porn, and how to refocus on healthier ways to solve emotional and circumstantial difficulties.
	01 Jan 2025	Best of 2024: Living More than a Love Story	00:31:44
Originally Aired on February 7, 2024 View this episode on YouTube ----- How important is trust to emotional health and building strong, mature relationships? It is vital! Yet, many men we have served in our ministry struggle terribly with trust. In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to dig into this important topic of trust through the lens of one man’s story that begins with him not being able to trust his parents with his thoughts and feelings and ends with him finally living a “love plus trust” story. We will share the distinction between love and trust and how love plus trust takes us even deeper than love alone. We need to learn how to understand trust in its multilayered dimensions if we want to enjoy strong, healthy relationships. For resources from Stephen to help you grow and mature emotionally, visit DoctorMarriage.org. More Resources: 40 Days to Oneness Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* Untangling Emotions by Groves & Smith* Related Podcasts: Men Helping Men Grow and Mature Healing Steps to Rebuild Trust Why Men Struggle to Love *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	13 Oct 2022	Whole Man Recovery (Pt 3): Emotional	00:18:40
In today’s episode we will explore the Emotional element of Whole Man Recovery. We will attempt to answer the following questions about this element: What is the element? What effect does it have: On addiction, On relationships, On identity How does recovery address this element? What might health and wholeness look like for this element in one’s life? Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery. To learn more about Matt and Boulder Recovery, visit BoulderRecovery.com. More Resources: Bebroken.org/Men 40 Days of Training for Your Soul Find a Counselor Related Podcasts: 15 Rules of Emotionally Detached Men Why Men Need to Practice Sadness Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	19 Jun 2024	How Can Therapeutic Disclosure Help Heal Marriages Affected by Sexual Betrayal?	00:42:20
In this episode, I welcome back Dan Drake and introduce Janice Caudill, both experts in therapeutic disclosure for marriages affected by sexual betrayal. We dive into the importance of truth in healing relationships, discussing how disclosure helps rebuild trust. In our conversation, Dan and Jaunice walk us through the disclosure process, emphasizing the impact of betrayal, readiness for disclosure, tailored approaches, the “choreography” of disclosure, and the post-disclosure phase that highlights potential obstacles when rebuilding trust. To get access to Dan and Janice’s resources, visit KintsugiRecoveryPartners.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Development of resources for disclosure in marriages affected by sexual betrayal Availability of resources on Kintsugi Recovery Partners website Impact of sexual betrayal on relationships Definition of disclosure and its importance in healing Importance of readiness for disclosure Tailored approaches to disclosure based on each couple's unique situation Process and key elements of disclosure Choreography of the disclosure process Significance of disclosure in healing and rebuilding trust More Resources: Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Betrayal* Full Disclosure: Seeking the Truth After Betrayal* Disclosure Guide Training Related Podcasts: Understanding Therapeutic Disclosure in Marriage Affected by Sexual Betrayal Confession and Disclosure for Couples How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	27 May 2022	Matt's Recovery Story	00:41:12
This episode is a special bonus. Our guest is Matt Riley, the development director of our ministry. Matt will share his story of sexual brokenness and addiction and the recovery road he has traveled. Story is a core value of our ministry. It matters to know that others have experienced some of the feelings and challenges we too have faced. This is why we want you to hear Matt’s story – that you might gain some hope and insight into your own story and discover next steps that will help you keep going on your own journey. You can connect with Matt at 210-822-8201 x108 or by sending him a note/question on Contact.Bebroken.com. Helpful Resources: Abba's Child by Brennan Manning Worthy of Her Trust by Jason Martinkis Secrets by Jonathan Daugherty Related Podcasts: Outgrowing the Porn Pacifier An Unexpected Journey to Hope Recovery Discovery: Telling Your Story ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	11 Sep 2024	Helping Families Build a Healthy Relationship with Technology	00:40:37
In this episode, I welcome Sarah Siegand to the program, co-founder of Parents Who Fight and an expert in helping parents navigate technology's impact on children. We dive into the importance of modeling healthy tech habits, delaying access to devices, and educating parents about online safety. Sarah shares her personal journey, emphasizing the need for intentionality in family tech use. We discuss the five phases of tech training: Modeling Delaying Protecting Monitoring Releasing Sarah provides practical tips and insights, aiming to empower parents to create a safe and balanced digital environment for their kids. It's a thoughtful conversation filled with valuable advice for modern parenting. To learn more about Sarah and the resources she offers, visit ParentsWhoFight.co m. Topics Covered in this Episode: Challenges parents face regarding technology's impact on children Importance of modeling healthy technology habits Delaying access to devices and social media for children Educating parents about online safety and potential dangers The role of intentionality in family engagement with technology Framework for tech training for parents: modeling, delaying, protecting, monitoring, and releasing Strategies for creating a safe digital environment at home The significance of open communication and trust between parents and children Balancing protection with the need for children to learn responsibility Resources and support available for parents navigating technology issues More Resources: PWF Tech Tools Free Webinar for Parents: Critical Conversations Creating a Tech-Healthy Family* by Andrea Davis Related Podcasts: Better Screen Time for You and Your Family Brain Defense Digital Safety for Kids Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	31 May 2022	Betrayal Healing Phases	00:33:35
In today’s episode, our guest Tammy Gustafson shares her story of sexual betrayal in her marriage and the healing and restoration that followed. Through her journey of healing from such trauma, she developed what she calls the Betrayal Healing Phases, which are: Reveal Rumble Resolution Rebuild Tammy wrestled with how to return to God after betrayal, when and how to forgive her husband, and God’s call on her life to help other wives. If you are a wife facing similar struggles, today’s conversation will give you hope. To learn more about Tammy and the counseling and courses she offers, visit BetrayalHealing.com. For the Betrayal Healing Phases quiz, visit BetrayalHealing.com/quiz. More Resources: WivesCare.Bebroken.com First 7 Days for Wives FREE Wives Care Basics Webinar Related Podcasts: Helping Wives "Detach with Love" in a Difficult Marriage Helping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual Betrayal Online Care Groups for Wives ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	28 Jan 2020	What Can You Learn from Your Anger?	00:30:00
Co-host: Stephen Cervantes (HopeCounseling.com) Anger is a powerful emotion that reveals what we value, whether good or bad. And anger has the potential to fire off anger responses in others. How can we learn from our anger and respond in healthy ways? This episode unpacks these deeper questions about anger and the hope we have for managing anger well.
	20 Jul 2021	"Best Of" PSR: Healing Your Brain	00:27:56
Originally Aired: October 15, 2019 Your brain is an organ in your body that can break down, especially when there has been trauma or chaos in your history. But so often Christians will project shame on anyone who tries to address brain health with any other tools than "spiritual" resources. But God gives us many tangible tools (medicine) in addition to intangible resources (prayer, talk therapy, etc.). This episode helps you understand how to use all the available resources for better brain health and more peace. Find a counselor: Counselors.Bebroken.com Book: This is Your Brain on Joy by Dr. Earl Henslin Workbook: A Guide for Listening and Inner-Healing Prayer More recovery resources: Bebroken.com
	01 May 2024	Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused Culture	00:41:22
In this episode, we're hanging out with the dynamic duo, Linda Stewart and Linda Noble, who share their journey and collaborative work in the world of sexual education and theology of the body. They tell about their work with the Identity Project, aiming to help parents and families chat about sexuality and relationships in a faith-filled, positive way. The Lindas talk about their own lightbulb moments at the Theology of the Body Institute and how they're now passionate about giving parents the tools to paint a beautiful picture of God's design for their kids. They're all about tackling the big questions and easing those parent jitters with resources like their books and workbooks. It's all about building trust, having heart-to-hearts, and guiding the little ones through life's big topics. Learn more about the Lindas and their work at IdentityProject.tv and TheConversationWorkshop.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Collaboration of Linda Stewart and Linda Noble in sexual education and theology of the body The Linda's Involvement in the Identity Project Approach to educating parents and families about sexuality and relationships Initial reluctance to discuss sexuality and the journey to embracing the theology of the body Theology of the body as a comprehensive view of sexuality and Christian sexual ethic Importance of understanding God's design for sex in addressing sexual brokenness The role of parents in teaching children about God's love and their design Addressing the fears and anxieties of parents in discussing sexuality with children Providing support and resources for parents to navigate sexuality and relationships with their children More Resources: Before the Sex Talk* by The Lindas Honest Talk* by John Fort Our Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher West Related Podcasts: God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and Sexuality Keeping Kids Safe in a Digital World *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	07 Aug 2024	Unlocking Greatness: Why Emotional Connections Matter More than Success	00:31:57
In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the theme of emotional growth and the importance of relationships among men. We start by sharing some personal stories about our dads and male role models, highlighting how men often prioritize being providers over nurturing emotional connections. A key highlight of this episode features a movie character from our Gateway to Freedom workshop, who realizes his potential after being told, "You could have been great." This statement is loaded with powerful insights for men when they realize their lives are running on the wrong tracks. We want men to experience their full potential as image bearers of God; to know him fully and love others deeply. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The significance of emotional growth in men's lives. The role of relationships and male connections in personal development. The impact of societal expectations on men's focus on productivity and financial success. Reflections on personal experiences with fathers and male role models. The portrayal of an emotionally stunted character in a movie and its implications. The wake-up call of recognizing one's potential and the importance of relationships. The concept of greatness and how it relates to emotional and spiritual fulfillment. The importance of accountability and honest feedback among male friends. The transformative power of truth and listening to others' stories. Encouragement for men to prioritize emotional well-being and meaningful connections. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive Grace-Based Recovery Online Study Groups 49 Days of Growth* Related Podcasts: Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission? *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	27 Sep 2022	Why Don't Men Go Deeper?	00:32:16
Every day we are inviting men to embark on a journey of personal growth, especially in the area of emotional growth. This is an essential part of breaking free from unhealthy, unwanted sexual behaviors and pursuing a life of integrity and joy. On today’s program, Stephen brings lots of statements from men who are stunted on their journey of emotional growth, such as, “I have a good life and I’m stable. Just leave everything alone. Why do I have to keep growing?” We then offer insights and practical ideas for getting “unstuck” and going deeper to grow in emotional maturity. For specific help on going deeper emotionally, we encourage you to download our free resource, 40 Days of Training for Your Soul, at Bebroken.org/store. More Resources: Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith Integrity Webinar for Men Personal Ministry Consultation Related Podcasts: 15 Rules of Emotionally Detached Men Why Men Struggle to Love Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	10 Aug 2020	From Broken Home to Broken Sexuality to Wholeness in Christ	00:31:00
Janet Boynes never intended to live a lesbian lifestyle for 14 years, but that is where her childhood chaos and sexual brokenness took her. This episode unpacks her story and the twists and turns of the journey out of brokenness and into wholeness in Christ. To learn more about Janet and her ministry, visit JanetBoynesMinistries.com.
	13 Aug 2019	The 7 Steps of Forgiveness	00:29:00
No human can go through life without being wounded. These hurts, if left unforgiven, will rot one's soul with bitterness and anger. But how do you actually forgive those who hurt you, whether they did so intentionally or unintentionally? This episode gives you a model prayer that outlines 7 steps to help you forgive your offenders -- and in so doing experience deep freedom and peace.
	22 Jun 2021	Life and Hope After Divorce: Reese and Sharon's Story	00:40:00
What happens when a marriage ends due to porn and sex addiction? Is all lost for hope and healing? And what about the children? In this episode, Reese and Sharon share their story of marriage, divorce, and the power of God to heal wounds and redeem purpose even when a marriage is not restored. Join us to discover how God works even (or especially) in the messiness of life to bring hope, healing, and new life. Learn more about Reese and his ministry at TheSilentAddiction.com. Blog post: Where to Get Help for Porn Addiction Counseling help for individuals and couples: Counselors.Bebroken.com Help for Men: Men.Bebroken.com Help for Wives: WivesCare.Bebroken.com
	17 Feb 2023	Men and Mental Health (since Covid)	00:35:19
Everyone has experienced various emotional and mental challenges over the last three years since the Covid-19 pandemic swept the globe. Many men have faced significant mental health struggles as a result. In today’s bonus episode, our guest is Steve Dulaney. He is a counselor in the Pacific Northwest and the director of Prodigals International, a non-profit Christian ministry focused on helping men, women and families find healing, hope, and redemption from the impact of sexual brokenness. Our conversation is focusing on all the effects of these mental health challenges men are facing today and what hope there is for better health and relationships. To learn more about Prodigals and their resources, visit ProdigalsInternational.org. More Resources: HigherGroundMen.com RestoringHeartsConference.org (for wives) Gateway to Freedom Bebroken.org/men Related Podcasts: Understanding Your "Flipped-Out" Brain Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection? Healing Your Brain ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	21 Dec 2021	How Parents Can Leverage Their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity	00:33:29
Today my guest is John Fort, the Director of Training at Be Broken and also a family care specialist. John brings a background in education and addiction recovery that gives him a unique perspective on dealing with sensitive issues in today’s modern family. He is also an experienced parent who can understand firsthand the challenges and difficulties of raising kids in a sex-saturated culture. In our discussion, we highlight the importance of parents being transparent with their kids about their history of sexual brokenness and leverage these conversations to help their kids navigate their own struggles with sexual topics and questions. This conversation deals with the fears that both parent and child likely have, how emotions connect to sexuality, and some practical applications to help families be more open about the ongoing journey from brokenness to wholeness in Christ. For help having these conversations, get John’s book: Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex. More Resources for Parents: Emotional Resilience (online course) A Family Game Plan for Responding to Porn (online course) Related Podcasts: A Hopeful Mom Shares How to Have Difficult Conversations Talking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn't Portrait of a Brave Parent ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	31 Mar 2020	Gateway Insights #16	00:29:00
Since 2008 hundreds of men have experienced our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. Powerful transformation has occurred in many men's lives. Over the years, men have allowed us to share their insights with our podcast listeners. This episode gives you a peek into five men's journeys and the insights they are gaining. We hope it will encourage you to keep pressing on in your own pursuit of greater integrity. Learn more about Gateway to Freedom at GTF.Bebroken.com.
	23 Jul 2019	What's the Ultimate Goal of Recovery?	00:33:00
Is the goal of recovery to simply stop acting out? Or is there something bigger, something deeper? In this episode we invite Josh Glaser, executive director of Regeneration Ministries, to help us answer this question. Discover a vision for recovery that is bold and beautiful! Learn more about Josh and Regeneration at RegenerationMinistries.org.
	30 Jun 2020	Freedom & Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse	00:28:30
Many women have faced the terrible trauma of sexual abuse and rape. How can a woman heal and recover from such deep pain? In this episode, Joy Skarka shares her personal story of sexual brokenness and how the grace of God intersected with her pain to bring lasting healing and freedom. Wherever you are in your journey, may Joy's story bring you hope and courage. For helpful resources for women, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com or Women.Bebroken.com.
	09 Nov 2021	Breaking Free with Russell Willingham	00:34:11
In 1999, I began my recovery from over 13 years of porn and sex addiction. One of the first books I read was Russell Willinghams’ foundational work, Breaking Free: Understanding Sexual Addiction and the Healing Power of Jesus. To this day I am reaping the benefits of this resource. In fact, the name of our ministry, Be Broken, is due in large part because of chapter 9 in Breaking Free, entitled “The Courage to Be Broken.” Today’s guest is none other than Russell Willingham. Russell has worked full-time with sexually broken people since 1993. He oversees individual, couples and group counseling at New Creation Ministries in Fresno, California. He has spoken widely across the nation on issues related to sexual addiction, the healing process, marital intimacy and spiritual formation. In this episode, Russell shares insights from his 30+ years of experience to understand sexual brokenness strongholds and how we can be truly set free from such compulsions. He unpacks the goodness of our desires, the reality of the struggle with sexual temptation, and the practical application of God’s Word in experiencing freedom, peace, hope, and joy that comes from authentic community. Learn more about Russell and his counseling ministry at NCMFresno.org. Related Podcasts and Media: Breaking Free from Your Secret Habit Freedom vs. Abstinence Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	14 Jul 2020	The Intimacy You Crave	00:28:30
Lucille Williams has ministered to couples and families for over 25 years. She has a strong desire to safeguard marriages, especially when it comes to what happens in the bedroom. In this episode, Lucille shares some of her story and gives lots of insights for couples who want to improve intimacy in their marriage. To learn more about Lucille and her book, The Intimacy You Crave, visit LuSays.com.
	15 Sep 2020	6 Reasons Kids Search for Porn	00:34:00
Why do kids search for porn? And why is this important for parents to know? In this episode, John Fort shares 6 main reasons that kids search for porn: curiosity, peer pressure, "freedom," comfort, validation, and make sense of sexual abuse. Discover why this information is valuable and how to help your kids navigate the normal draw toward porn with wisdom and courage. For helpful resources, visit PureLifeAcademy.org/pages/parent-resources. More resources available at ProtectYoungMinds.org
	05 Feb 2025	Helping Parents Respond in Truth and Love to their LGBTQ-Identifying Child	00:36:45
In today’s episode, our guest is author and speaker Melinda Patrick. She transparently shares about her journey as a mother navigating her daughter's revelation of same-sex attraction. Melinda opens up about her initial reaction, driven by a desire to "fix" her daughter, and how this response strained their relationship. She shares the struggles, shame, and guilt she faced, and the redemptive work God has done in their lives over time, even though they are very much in the “messy middle” of the journey. Melinda emphasizes the importance of love, listening, and understanding, offering valuable insights for parents in similar situations. Her story is a testament to the power of compassion and faith in overcoming challenges. To learn more about Melinda and her resources, visit MelindaPatrick.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Melinda Patrick's journey as a mother dealing with her daughter's same-sex attraction revelation. Initial reactions of parents when faced with their child's professed LGBTQ identity. The impact of a "fix it" mentality on parent-child relationships. Feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation experienced by parents. The importance of love, listening, and understanding in difficult family situations. The role of faith and spiritual growth in navigating personal struggles. The significance of authentic faith and modeling forgiveness in relationships. Common pitfalls for parents, such as the urge to control or manipulate situations. The power of prayer and seeking God's guidance in parenting. Resources for parents, including Melinda's book and podcast focused on supporting LGBTQ-identifying children. More Resources: The Daring Rescue* book The Bridge Between Us podcast with Melinda Patrick HisWonderfulWorks.com Related Podcasts: Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation? How to Support Without Endorsing Loving Your LGBTQ-Identified Child with Grace and Truth *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	24 Nov 2020	What is Healthy Masculinity?	00:28:00
What is healthy masculinity and why is it important? The essence of "manliness" is under severe attack in the western world. But God created men and women with distinct differences that are good and healthy. In this episode, Brannon Patrick joins us to share his insights into what constitutes true healthy masculinity and why this is important for the flourishing of relationships. Learn more about Brannon and his resources at Beyond-Enough.com.
	13 Sep 2023	Grace-Based Transformation (Book Review)	00:22:28
I’m so excited about today’s program. I have written a new book that was released this month. It is entitled Grace-Based Transformation: The 3-Stage Journey to Wholeness in Christ. In this episode, I share what Grace-Based Transformation is and why I wrote this book after 20 years of full-time ministry. It’s really the book I’ve always wanted to write. We will explore what I call the Transformation Pathway and highlight the three key stages on it: Heal -> Grow -> Share. These form the primary indicators of a Christian’s progress. So, if you would like greater freedom, deeper joy, and a more effective impact in your life, I invite you to listen in. To get the book, simply go to Amazon.com or any other online book distributor. More Resources: Bebroken.org Grace-Based Recovery Made for Purity Related Podcasts: How Brokenness Fits with Wholeness in Christ How God Redeems Our Brokenness to Help Others The Journey of Transformation ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	17 Dec 2019	What Men Need to Know About Female Sexuality	00:31:00
Many men think women are just too complicated to understand, especially when it comes to sex. But is this necessarily true? In this episode, Jennifer Degler joins us to explain some key basics about female sexuality that might "unlock" the mystery for men. Listen in to gain more understanding for discovering deeper intimacy in your marriage. To learn more about Jennifer and her resources for wives, visit http://JenniferDegler.com.
	21 Oct 2021	Out of the Dust: One Couple's Story of Radical Restoration	00:36:54
Chris and Steph were high school sweethearts who were "following all the steps that the typical southern church would have spelled out." They got married in college and everything seemed to be fine, even great. But Chris began to have doubts that didn't align with his view of faith. This episode is a conversation about Chris and Steph's journey through peaks and valleys related to faith, marriage (and divorce/remarriage), fear, freedom, and authentic community. Learn more about Chris and Steph and their music at OutoftheDustMusic.com. More podcasts on marriage: Restored to More: Clinton and Charity's Story A Thank You Letter from a Repentant Husband 4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	30 Mar 2021	Answering Questions Wives Have About Sex and Intimacy	00:35:00
A lot of Christian wives carry terrible burdens of shame and confusion over sexual intimacy in their marriages. In this episode, Tiffany Hardenberg helps answer many questions these wives have. Here are some of the questions Tiffany will tackle: What challenges do most Christian wives face with experiencing sexual intimacy? How would you reframe the conflicting sexual message of the culture and the Church to help wives understand and experience God's design for sex? What impact does the "moral imbalance" of sexual expectations between men and women have on women/wives? Join us for this important discussion to help wives break free from shame and find the hope and freedom God desires for their lives and marriages. To learn more about Tiffany and her podcast, visit TiffanyHardenberg.com. For more resources for wives, visit WivesCare.Bebroken.com.
	29 Nov 2023	The Journey to Stay (with Steve & Lisa Goldberg)	00:36:02
HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Infidelity is devastating. For couples who have experienced this deep betrayal of trust, it can be hard to imagine that restoration is possible – and even more difficult to think that they could rebuild their marriage into something better than they ever had before. But this is the story of Steve and Lisa Goldberg’s marriage and ministry. Steve and Lisa are the founders of Side by Side, a ministry to help couples navigate the “unexpected crash” of betrayal and how to restore and rebuild their marriage. In today’s episode, Steve and Lisa share their own story of brokenness and healing and the key elements of restoration in their new book entitled The Journey to Stay. They offer a practical message of hope to couples facing the overwhelming difficulty of unfaithfulness. To learn more about Steve and Lisa and their ministry, visit StaySidebySide.org. More Resources: The Journey to Stay The Journey to Stay Guide (free download) Building True Intimacy* by Drake & Raabsmith Related Podcasts: Navigating the Revelation of an Affair (Steve & Lisa) Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from Betrayal Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	16 Jul 2019	Helping Husbands and Wives Go All In	00:30:00
Sexual betrayal is devastating to a marriage. But it doesn't have to be the final chapter. How does a couple really heal and restore from such brokenness? This episode highlights the key principles and practices for couples who want to experience the beauty and joy of full restoration. Our special guests, Mark and Beth Denison, have lots of wisdom to share on this topic. Learn more about Mark and Beth's ministry at TheresStillHope.org.
	18 Sep 2024	Talking About Taboo (with Mike Novotny)	00:34:28
In this episode, I chat with Mike Novotny, pastor, speaker, and author of "Taboo: Topics Christians Should Be Talking About But Don't." We dive into sensitive subjects like anxiety, depression, addiction, and especially sexuality within the Christian community. Mike shares his personal journey of overcoming pornography addiction and stresses the importance of open discussions in the church. We explore God's design for sex, emphasizing that understanding and obeying biblical truths can lead to healing and transformation. Mike encourages listeners to seek grace, find trustworthy confidants, and take steps toward wholeness in Christ. To learn more about Mike, his book, and other gospel resources, visit TimeofGrace.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion of taboo topics within the Christian community Personal experiences with anxiety, depression, and addiction The importance of open conversations about sexuality Overcoming struggles with pornography and the role of confession Understanding God's design for sex and its significance The necessity of obedience to biblical truths for transformation The impact of societal views on sexual intimacy within marriage The metaphor of sex as a fire, emphasizing boundaries and self-control The role of grace in addressing sexual sin and personal struggles Encouragement to seek support and build connections within the community More Resources: Taboo: Topics Christians Should Be Talking About But Don't* Help for Men Help for Families Related Podcasts: Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol Tanksley Masturbation, Emotional Health, and Abundant Living God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	04 Jan 2022	Best of 2021: Outgrowing the Porn Pacifier	00:32:00
Originally Aired: July 6, 2021 Drew was a kid who loved Jesus and hated porn, but still couldn't stop his unwanted behavior. Are you a man who can identify with this vicious cycle? In this episode, our guest is Drew Boa, the founder of Husband Material, a ministry to help men outgrow porn by changing your brain, healing your heart, and saving your relationship. If you want to discover hope for true freedom from porn, tune in to hear Drew's story and practical insights. Learn more about Drew and his ministry: HusbandMaterial.com 40-Day Online Course for Men: 40Days.PureLifeAcademy.org More resources for Men: Men.Bebroken.com ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	06 Sep 2022	Hope and Healing After Abortion	00:33:41
Our guest today is Karin Barbito. She is the Special Projects Coordinator at Support After Abortion, an organization whose mission is to end the demand for abortion through healing people impacted by abortion. In this episode, Karin shares her own abortion healing story, the connections between sexual brokenness and abortion, the hope of healing after abortion, specific stages of healing, and also how abortion impacts men. To learn more about Karin and the resources provided by Support After Abortion, visit SupportAfterAbortion.com or call 844-289-4673. Helpful Resources: Keys to Hope and Healing booklets Virtual Support Groups Related Podcasts: Support After Abortion Podcast Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	26 Jan 2021	Helping Wives Recover from the Aftershock of Sexual Betrayal	00:32:00
Sexual betrayal is a tidal wave of pain, confusion, and grief for a wife. It can feel like the very underpinnings of her life have been destroyed; kind of like an emotional earthquake. In this episode, Geremy Keeton introduces Aftershock, a powerful book he co-wrote with Joann Condie to help wives overcome the pain of their husband's secret sin and gain a plan for recovering from such betrayal. Get your copy of Aftershock at FocusontheFamily.com/Aftershock Online Course for Wives: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal For more Wives Care Resources, visit WivesCare.Bebroken.com
	25 Aug 2020	Replacing Escaping & Hiding with Healthy Thoughts & Behaviors	00:29:00
Why does it take so long to recover from sexually addictive patterns? What does it mean to "play the long game"? In this episode, we dive into the damaging habits of escaping and hiding, and how to replace this with healthy thoughts and behaviors. Let's learn to "be real" together and take better care of ourselves through genuine recovery!
	24 Mar 2020	Talking to Your Kids About Sex: What Works and What Doesn't	00:35:00
Parents, you are the most influential person in your child's life. This means there is no one who can guide and mold your child like you can. But there are wise ways to influence and foolish ways, especially when it comes to the topic of sex. In this episode, we have our Director of Training, John Fort, to help you navigate very practical conversations on this topic with your children. Discover what works and what doesn't. For even more help and practical guidance, get John's book Honest Talk at HonestTalk.Bebroken.com.
	28 Feb 2023	Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal	00:37:00
Sexual betrayal in marriage is more common than most of us would like to admit. But this terrible fracture is not incurable for couples who choose to go on a journey of healing and restoration. Our guest today is Dr. Michael Sytsma, a licensed professional counselor, ordained minister, professor, and founder of Building Intimate Marriages. In our conversation, Michael answers questions about the “why” of affairs, the impact of past trauma, the myth of affairs only occurring in “bad” marriages, how to know if restoration is possible, what is required for restoration, and more. To learn more about Michael and Building Intimate Marriages, visit IntimateMarriage.org. More Resources: Secrets of Sex and Marriage (book) Gateway to Freedom for Men Wives Care Groups Related Podcasts: Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After Betrayal Affair Recovery Through a Trauma Lens Helping Husbands and Wives Go All In ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	21 Jan 2020	Jesus and The 12 Steps	00:30:00
Do Jesus and the 12-Steps belong in the same sentence? Some Christians may say no. But what if God is bigger than any singular recovery process, and the grace of Jesus is better than empty religious rituals? In this episode, Mark Denison shares insights from his new book entitled "Jesus and the 12 Steps." Learn with us about how God is still in the business of setting addicts free, and how He uses the 12-Steps in that journey. For more info about Mark, and to order his book, visit http://TheresStillHope.org.
	12 Apr 2023	Health and Integrity in Leadership	00:34:21
Many Christian leaders struggle silently with various sexual temptations and sin. And too many never get the help they need to heal and grow in their personal sexual integrity. Today our guest is Jorge Suarez, co-founder of CCI Counseling, a counseling ministry that provides therapy to couples as they overcome infidelity, sexual addiction, a lack of intimacy, betrayal trauma, and intimacy disorders. Jorge especially has a heart for leaders and helping them live out their God-given purpose. In our conversation, we talk about the four key areas where leaders (and anyone, really) need health in order to thrive: Emotional Spiritual Relational Sexual If you are a leader or want to help Christian leaders in your life, this conversation will inspire and encourage you toward greater health and wholeness. To connect with Jorge for further help, visit CCICounseling.com. More Resources: Broken Vessels: Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom Use Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive The Christian Response to Moral Failure in the Church Related Podcasts: Restoring Broken Pastors for Kingdom Use A Hopeful Response to Church Leaders Struggling with Sexual Sin Pastors on Porn ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	04 Aug 2020	Finding Rest by Speaking Out Your Deepest Fear	00:29:30
Addiction never creates restfulness. In fact, it does the exact opposite. So, how does an addicted person discover true rest for their mind and soul? In this episode, we suggest a counterintuitive way to discover the rest your heart longs for: by speaking out your deepest fear. Join us for a robust discussion on how to identify your restlessness and how to find it through courageous vulnerability.
	20 Sep 2023	Emotional Safety in Marriage	00:33:39
When a husband betrays his wife’s trust through sexual acting out, this can cause feelings of deep insecurity to arise in a wife – even to the point of feeling unsafe. In today’s episode, we will discuss the topic of emotional safety in marriage and why this is often befuddling to many husbands (and men in general) and offer a few ideas on how to create safer emotional spaces for the healing and restoration of marriages broken by sexual betrayal. (As a side note, this topic is helpful for any marriage!) This conversation was sparked by a conference Stephen went to by Focus on the Family. They built this topic around the book by authors Paul, Burbee, and Arnzen, entitled Restoring Hope: An Integrative Approach to Marital Therapy (link below). More Resources: Restoring Hope book Hope Restored Marriage Intensive DoctorMarriage.org Related Podcasts: The Need for Boundaries After Betrayal Helping Men Understand a Woman's Grief Process Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	31 Jan 2023	The Why & How of Boundaries in a Recovering Marriage	00:38:01
Why are boundaries necessary for marriage restoration after sexual betrayal? And how does a couple navigate establishing and enforcing such boundaries in a redemptive way? Today we have back with us Karla Downing to help us answer these important questions. Karla is the founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. She offers Christian marriage help and Christian relationship help as a speaker, author, counselor, and Bible study teacher. As one who has walked her own path of relationship struggles, she can speak to these matters with both experience and empathy. In this conversation, Karla defines what boundaries are, why they are necessary to rebuild a broken marriage, how they are enforced, various pitfalls to boundary-setting and boundary-keeping, and what the real “goal” is of restoration. To learn more about Karla and her relationship resources, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com. More Resources: Help for Husbands Help for Wives God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery Related Podcasts: Helping Wives "Detach with Love" in a Difficult Marriage Recovery Discovery 026: Boundaries Gaslighting and Deception ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts
	17 Apr 2024	Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active Listening	00:33:02
In this episode, we have Andrew Arthur back with us to dive deep into the art of active listening. We chat about the common obstacles we face, like distractions and assumptions, that can disrupt our ability to truly hear others, especially in long-term relationships. Andrew shares a golden nugget for exceptional listening: asking "What do you need from me right now?" as a way to better support those in emotional need. We even touch on how this skill translates to our spiritual lives, suggesting we quiet our inner chatter to connect with God. Wrapping up, we leave you with some practical tips to enhance your listening skills. To learn more about Andrew and his mediation services, visit GenesisChristianMediation.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of active listening Roadblocks to effective communication Removing oneself from the center stage Asking "What do you need from me right now?" Providing support and affirmation in times of crisis Assumptions in long-term relationships Barriers to good listening Listening to God and spiritual connection Practical advice for improving listening skills More Resources: Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith Words Have Power 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes Related Podcasts: Conflict Management for Marriage Healing from Betrayal Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection? The Goal is Connecting *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	26 Nov 2019	Help, My 11-Year-Old is Looking at Porn!	00:30:00
Special Guest: Mandy Majors Additional resources at NextTalk.org Parenting for Purity Online Course at PureLifeAcademy.org Additional podcasts at PureSexRadio.com
	31 Jan 2024	Understanding Human Agency	00:29:41
Albert Bandura was a psychologist who is credited with developing the term “human agency,” which refers to how you act, think, and interact with life. In this episode, Stephen and I will unpack the four functions of agency and how they might help us develop better self-awareness and deeper faith and relationships. The 4 functions of agency are: Intentions (or intentionality) Outcomes (or expectations) Self-regulation Self-reflection Agency asks, “Are you paying attention to your own intentions and are you getting better at self-regulating and self-reflecting?’ We hope this conversation will help you understand yourself and others better – and use your agency for good, godly purposes. To learn more about Albert Bandura and his research, visit AlbertBandura.com. More Resources: Untangling Emotions by Groves & Smith* Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest & Joy by Stephen Cervantes* APEST Spiritual Gifts Test Related Podcasts: Why Must I Learn Me? Understanding 4 Key Roles in Your Story About Your Emotional Connecting Skills *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	09 Aug 2024	How Sharing Our Stories Can Lead to Healing Betrayal Trauma	00:46:23
In this heartfelt episode, I chat with Kate and Will Conwell about their journey through betrayal trauma and healing in their marriage. Kate shares her work with "Journey Beyond Betrayal," a ministry supporting women facing similar struggles. Will opens up about his past issues with sexual brokenness and infidelity, and how these impacted their relationship. We explore the importance of sharing personal stories for healing and connection and the crucial role of faith in recovery. This episode is all about offering hope and encouragement to couples dealing with betrayal trauma. If this is you, you aren’t alone! To learn more about Kate and her resources for wives, visit JourneyBeyondBetrayal.com. To learn more about 423 Men’s groups, visit 423Communities.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The Conwells' journey through betrayal trauma in their marriage. Will's struggles with sexual brokenness and infidelity. The significance of sharing personal stories for healing and connection. The role of faith in overcoming challenges in relationships. The impact of early exposure to pornography on men's relationships. The process of confronting and addressing infidelity and its aftermath. The importance of self-awareness and communication in marriage. Messages of hope for individuals facing relationship struggles. Resources and support systems available for healing and recovery. More Resources: Wives Care Online Groups Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive Help to Tell Your Story Related Podcasts: Living More than a Love Story The Journey to Stay Betrayal Healing Phases
	02 Oct 2024	Mr. Unemotional: Moving from Isolation to Connection	00:31:29
In this episode, we dive into the emotional struggles men face, especially those recovering from addiction. We explore the concept of "Mr. Unemotional," describing men who find it hard to express their feelings due to past experiences or societal pressures. Stephen Cervantes and I discuss the importance of emotional growth alongside behavioral recovery. We share insights on how men can better understand and articulate their emotions, emphasizing the need for openness and support from partners and friends. The episode highlights the journey toward emotional maturity, encouraging men to embrace change for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional health and its significance in addiction recovery for men. The concept of "Mr. Unemotional" and its implications for men's emotional development. The disconnect between behavioral recovery and emotional growth. The impact of childhood emotional training on adult emotional expression. The importance of recognizing and acknowledging one's emotional state. Tools and strategies for improving emotional awareness, such as the "feelings wheel." The role of openness and willingness to learn in emotional growth. Challenges in navigating emotional conversations and the tendency to shut down. The need for comfort and connection in relationships, particularly during emotional expressions. The journey toward emotional maturity and the potential for personal and relational transformation. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive 40 Days of Training for Your Soul Emotional Training for Men Webinar Series Related Podcasts: Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active Listening A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	16 Mar 2021	Men, We Need to Talk	00:30:00
Sometimes on this program, we just turn on the microphones and cameras and cut Stephen loose to share all kinds of thoughts and insights and questions that have been rattling around in his head. In this episode, Stephen has a lot to say to men about the long journey of discipleship, how this podcast helps on that journey, the central focus on Jesus, and a lot more. So, men, if you need a "shot in the arm" as a follower of Jesus, listen up. (And ladies, we hope you'll peek in on this conversation, too.) Download Training for Your Soul devotional: SoulTrain.Bebroken.com For more Men's Resources: Men.Bebroken.com
	16 Feb 2021	Best of: What Can We Learn from our Lust?	00:29:04
Originally aired: April 14, 2018 If you struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors, have you ever examined your lustful fantasies to understand your brokenness? And what can such discovery mean for recovery and wholeness? Our guest on this episode is Jay Stringer, a licensed counselor and researcher who has conducted research that reveals significant predictors of porn use. Listen in to gain insights into your own heart and behaviors. Learn more about Jay at http://jay-stringer.com. Get Jay's book, Unwanted: https://tinyurl.com/3rtit2dn
	14 Aug 2024	The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma Healing	00:39:23
In this episode, I’m joined by Stacey Fitzgerald, who shares her profound journey through betrayal trauma and her path to healing. Stacey opens up about the resurfacing of her trauma in 2021, describing intense physical symptoms like panic attacks and a racing heart. She emphasizes the importance of feeling safe and regulating the nervous system. Stacey’s healing process involved spiritual, emotional, and physical approaches, including prayer, music, and understanding the mind-body connection. Now, she helps other women navigate similar experiences through her platform, "Becoming Safe." To learn more about Stacey and her resources, visit BecomingSafe.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Healing and safety in the context of betrayal trauma Personal experiences of betrayal trauma in relationships Resurfacing of trauma and its physical symptoms The role of spiritual, emotional, and physical approaches in healing Importance of feeling safe and regulating the nervous system Impact of trauma on mental and physical health The concept of holistic healing encompassing spirit, soul, and body Tools and resources for women navigating similar experiences The significance of community support in the healing journey Addressing the interplay between personal healing and external circumstances More Resources: Online Wives Care Groups Find a Counselor or Coach Free Wives Care Webinar Related Podcasts: Self-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed Wives Betrayal Healing Phases ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	11 Jan 2022	Do Your Emotional Beliefs Lead You to Connection or Disconnection?	00:29:55
In today’s episode, we talk about beliefs and how they affect the way you live and interact with others. We especially focus on beliefs about emotions. Do these beliefs move you toward or away from deeper connections with others? To help you understand the “lens” through which some see the world we will highlight several comments from different men’s lives. Listen in to gain insights into yourself about what you believe and the effect this has on how well you connect with family, friends, and neighbors. More Resources for Emotional Growth: 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen Cervantes Untangling Emotions by Groves and Smith Training for your Soul devotional Blog Posts: The Next Step: Growing The Good News About Depression Related Podcasts: Essential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional System About Your Emotional Connecting Skills A 7-Day Challenge for Emotional Growth
	03 May 2023	The Stopwatch Acting Out Cycle	00:31:42
Addiction can be simply defined as a repeated cycle of unhealthy or harmful behaviors that gets worse over time. In order to break free from addiction, recovery must include understanding this cycle and how to respond differently to its triggers. Today’s guest is Vern Tompke, a 30-year pastor, podcaster, and founder of Band of Brothers, a community of men helping men find freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors. Vern has developed what he calls the Stopwatch Acting Out Cycle as a tool for helping men understand their addictive cycle and how to respond more quickly when tempted to go down old paths of self-destructive behaviors. To learn more about Vern and his resources, visit BandofBrothers.care or Vern's Podcasts. Download the Stopwatch Acting Out Cycle Diagram More Resources: Finding Traction Course Gateway to Freedom Workshop for Men Find a Counselor Related Podcasts: Beating Porn Through All Ages and Stages of Life Exposing the True Impact of Porn Breaking Free with Russell Willingham ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	25 Jan 2023	The Powerful Effects of Shame-Free Accountability	00:33:20
Why does most “accountability” not work in recovery from unwanted behaviors? Is there a better way to engage others in recovery that does work? My guest today is Chandler Rogers. He is the creator of Relay, an online platform that helps you discover a team of support. It is built on two key principles that are foundational to recovery: Connection Teamwork In our conversation, Chandler shares his own story and struggle with porn and the keys to his healing journey. We also talk about the importance of authentic community in recovery and how the Relay app can help in that quest. To learn more about Relay, visit JoinRelay.app. More Resources: Be Broken Support Group Network First 7 Days for Men Integrity Webinar for Men Related Podcasts: Recovery Discovery 024: Community & Accountability (Part 1: Defining It) Recovery Discovery 025: Community & Accountability (Part 2: Living It) Porn, Technology, and Self-Control ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	26 Jun 2024	Navigating Grief, Fear, and Transformation	00:32:41
In this episode, Stephen and I dive into the journey of emotional maturity and self-awareness. We explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity. Our conversation highlights the role of grief in self-discovery and the impact of critical parenting on self-criticism. Stephen and I stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and self-reflection in achieving emotional growth and maturity. We encourage listeners to embrace uncertainty and seek support, underscoring that emotional maturity is a continuous process of growth and understanding. For more insights from Dr. Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional maturity and self-awareness Impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior Recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity Role of grief in the process of emotional healing Impact of critical parenting on self-criticism and judgmental behavior Shaping oneness in relationships Grief and fear in recognizing emotional patterns and transformation Importance of admitting uncertainty and vulnerability Embracing the journey of growth and change Seeking support and guidance for personal and relational growth More Resources: 49 Days of Growth* by Stephen Cervantes Growth Map: The Pathway to Peace, Rest, and Joy* by Stephen Cervantes Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith Related Podcasts: Moving from Being Fear-Driven to Love-Driven Why Men Need to Practice Sadness How Brokenness Fits with Wholeness in Christ *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	08 May 2024	Why Do We Fall? And How Do We Get Back Up?	00:32:22
Why do we fall? This is a deep question and we can’t ever fully answer the “why” questions. But it’s worth the conversation. In this episode, Stephen and I dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tangles that we all face. We begin by talking about the roots of our emotional programming and then move on to the emotional-spiritual connection and the complexities of stumbling and falling; it’s not just about sin. Emotional maturity is just as vital. Finally, we aim to provide some practical wisdom for facing emotional pain and the power of community in our healing and recovery journey. Even though we fall, we can get back up! For daily thoughts to help on this emotional growth journey, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Interconnectedness of emotional and spiritual aspects of human behavior Development of emotional program in childhood and its influence on adult behavior Common disconnect between strong spiritual knowledge and emotional struggles Biblical concept of sin and falling short of the glory of God Influence of parental values and language on emotional program development Challenges of navigating relationships and emotions in childhood Recognizing and addressing unresolved emotional issues in relation to spiritual struggles and addictions Understanding the connection between spiritual and emotional programs for maturity and healing Exploring breakdowns in the emotional program and addressing emotional pain Seeking community support for emotional healing and maturity More Resources: Find a Support Group Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive Untangling Emotions* by Groves and Smith Related Podcasts: Helping Men Grow and Mature A 7-Day Challenge for Emotional Growth A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	20 Nov 2024	Lord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering Through Prayer	00:34:09
2024 YEAR-END FINANCIAL NEED: $118,000 This ministry continues to reach men and women worldwide through the generous and faithful partnerships of listeners like you. Would you prayerfully consider partnering with us to meet our year-end financial need? To make your year-end gift or become a monthly partner, visit Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you! ---------- In this episode, our guest is Ben Locke, author of "In Our Suffering Lord Be Near: Prayers of Hope for the Hurting." Ben shares his amazing journey from being a dedicated soccer player to facing severe injuries, abuse, and emotional trauma. These experiences led him to a deep exploration of suffering, mental health, and faith. We discuss the importance of processing emotions, the transformative power of prayer, and the role of therapy in healing. Ben’s story is a testament to finding hope and connection through shared human experiences and Christian faith. Join us for an inspiring conversation on resilience and recovery. Ben’s book can be found on Amazon or wherever books are sold. If you want to receive Ben’s weekly prayer devotional, visit EvensongJournal.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Personal journey through suffering, injury, and trauma Experiences as a soccer player and the impact of injuries Challenges related to mental health and emotional struggles The role of prayer in coping with suffering Importance of processing emotions and seeking therapy Connection between suffering and shared human experiences Role of faith and relationship with God through struggles The transformative power of prayer and honest communication with God The significance of community and support in dealing with suffering Hope and healing as outcomes of confronting and sharing struggles More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for men Find a Group A Sacred Sorrow* by Michael Card Related Podcasts: Let's Pray Recovery Discovery 019: Prayer The Immanuel Approach in Recovery *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	05 Jul 2023	Exposing the Gender Lie (with Brandon Showalter)	00:33:20
$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership Opportunity When you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership! ---------------------------- My guest today is Brandon Showalter. He is a journalist and podcaster with the Christian Post and has co-authored the excellent ebook, Exposing The Gender Lie, with Dr. Jeff Myers. In his role at the Christian Post, he has written extensively on topics of theological interest in the Church, including developments of the “gender identity” movement and transgender ideology. In our conversation, we discuss how Brandon got into writing on this topic, some of the history and roots of the current transgender movement, the truth about real gender confusion, the war over language, and how Christians can respond to those struggling with the cultural narrative as well as true gender confusion. To learn more about Brandon and to get a copy of his book, visit ChristianPost.com/ebook/gender-lie. More Resources: DeadNameDocumentary.com Summit.org/protect Ministry to Transgender Individuals Related Podcasts: Embracing God's Image in Gender Generation Indoctrination: Inside the Transgender Battle Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation? ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.
	06 Oct 2020	Embracing God's Image in Gender	00:35:00
"Will you now?" This was the question God asked KathyGrace Duncan years after she had been living as a man, and years after she had placed her faith in Jesus Christ. In this episode, KathyGrace shares her powerful story and struggle with transgenderism and the beautiful path God lead her down to discover her true identity as a woman made in His image. To learn more about KathyGrace and Portland Fellowship, visit http://PortlandFellowship.com.

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