Parenting IQ - Healthy Family Habits, Parenting Challenges and Solutions (Kelly Cagle)

Dr. Kelly Cagle speaks with Amber Lia about her journey as a mother and author, focusing on the importance of communication in parenting with children to foster a positive home environment.

The Parenting IQ Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual resources to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.christianparenting.org

In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle interviews Pastor Deidra Meckel they cover topics such as parenting, family dynamics, intentional discipleship, and creating a healthy family rhythm.

The Parenting IQ Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual resources to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.christianparenting.org

In this episode of the Parenting IQ podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle discusses two essential tips to help parents avoid burnout, drawing wisdom from the biblical story of Moses and his father-in-law Jethro. Listen now!

The Parenting IQ Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual resources to help you grow into the parent you want to be, visit www.christianparenting.or

Along with experts from various fields, Dr. Cagle empowers and equips parents during their child’s academic years. Conversations ranging from establishing good study habits to abortion, or theoretical approaches in academic settings to ideal snack and lunch options… if it’s a possibility to individuals parenting their kids ages birth-higher education, we’ll talk about it. Be clear, be confident, and don’t overthink it. The beauty of your story is that it’s going to continue to evolve and your site can evolve with it. Your goal should be to make it feel right for right now. Later will take care of itself. It always does.

Parent involvement and parent engagement are not the same. In this episode, Susan Crosier, takes a deep dive at what a beautiful parent-educator partnership can look like.

Your home should be your child’s primary “school” in many areas. In this episode, I’ll teach on four of these areas, which will help you better equip your child as they attend their actual school.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how life experiences can shape even our kids' education!

In this episode, Meshali shares about her role as an aunt and why she prioritizes her busy schedule to speak and pour into her nieces’ and nephew’s lives. She encourages parents to bring others into their “village” and gives advice to individuals who aren’t parents to take advantage of opportunities to love on others’ kids.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how our word selections can impact our children beyond the present moment– they can be ingrained into what they believe about themselves forever.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly & Dr. Catherine Robert as they discuss how regardless if we like conflict, there are times we must speak out and/or stand up for a child. Dr. Robert equips us with “do’s” and “don’ts” when advocating for our child’s academic needs.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how the work + life balance can be one of the hardest parts in parenthood. In this episode, you’ll hear about six strategies Dr. Cagle practices to seek this balance.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly with special guest Katy Brooks as Katy challenges us to “respond not react,” and how we (and our kids) can benefit from living mindful, aware, and intentional lives.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly and special guest Sonja Love as they discuss how sometimes we don’t know what we just know… Sonja is educating us about what our kids need during the day to be energized and not miss out on any learning!

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she interviews founder and director of Embrace Grace, Amy Ford and they discuss how the hard conversations (i.e., relationships and sex) can be so intimidating and cause parents to avoid them altogether; which can be extremely problematic and lead to harder conversations (i.e., pregnancy and abortion). Amy gives insight about her personal experiences as well as professional encounters.

“Learning” is not just an academic term. In this episode, Dr. Cagle explores different vantage points to challenge our kids in becoming lifelong learners.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how to let your kids come to YOU with their questions… don’t make them want to go to their friends.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how every single day we have choices to make. Some choices only impact us; while others, impact everyone around us. In this episode, you’ll be challenged with the choices you make.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses how we should parent the same– whether we’re parenting within the safety of our homes or the checkout line at Target. But how often do we feel judged about the audience watching us?

On Today's Episode you’ll hear a conversation between Dr. Kelly and her better half, Josh, about being young and in love as well as some of our secrets of growing old together. This year, we celebrate 16 years of marriage… and I promise we’re still fairly “young.”

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she discusses on how not only are chores important because they help mom and dad, but they also teach our kids valuable lessons, like responsibility, team work, independence, hygiene, and the importance of serving others. Today’s episode includes three strategies to try in your home with chore assignments.

On Today's Episode…..Generally, parents constantly search for what’s “best” for their families. Today, we’re being educated by these two mothers, who are strong advocates for reasons we should live clean lives..

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she interviews Kerri Abbatacola, sometimes what may sound radical or crazy for some, turns out to be an adventure of a lifetime for others. Listen to the bold, yet beautiful decision Kerri and Justin Abbatacola made for their kids during the 21-22 school year.

On Today's Episode…..What’s one area that can be a sneaky thief of our intentionality? Technology. How can we keep ourselves from falling prey? Dr. Cagle teaches us three things we can do to fight it.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she talks about how sometimes, without even noticing, we rely on our kids’ for affirmation in our areas of insecurities.

On Today's Episode you’ll learn tips from image consultant, Flavia Soares, for the busy or exhausted mom to still find herself beautiful. Motherhood is not a time for us to lose ourselves. However, if we’re not careful, it can be!

On Today's Episode Dr. Cagle shares about her personal experiences with miscarriages and infertility. Additionally, she talks about the emotional toll on everyone, including the kids during those seasons.

On Today's Episode learn from Dr. Kelly as she interviews Lindsey Brister. A 2-time breast cancer survivor and walking through a divorce, Lindsey knows a thing or two about receiving life-changing news. Grab a tissue and come learn from one of the bravest, toughest people.

On Today's Episode, Dr. Cagle introduces the University-Model. Along with learning about the model, she shares 3 takeaways that all parents can apply with their kids as participants of any academic setting.

School choice… a very popular discussion right now. Even if you’re not sitting at Valerie’s table with a plate of pancakes while you have this conversation with her, this episode covers lots of the similar advice I received from her 4 years ago as I walked through this myself.

What does “raising an independent kid” mean? Heather Larsen, a type A homeschooling mom of 3, shares her experiences and real-life scenarios, along with her top 3 strategies that we can apply with our own kiddos!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…With a combined 40+ years of experience in the room in almost every single academic setting, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss! Important lessons about parent and student engagement and what they can look like… this is a must listen for every parent!

On this episode, Dr. Cagle interviews Hector and Vanessa Valadez, they are educators, business owners, students, volunteers at the local church, and parents of five amazing children.

Not sure how they do it all, but they do IT ALL WELL. Come learn from some of the best of the best! And rumor is that @Trustexmexbbq is the best too!!

On this episode…. Helping kids learn about themselves is such an important part of parenthood. “School” for a child is equivalent to a “job” for an adult. Can they count on you (aka, their “boss!”) to train them well?

On this episode....What’s the melting point, you ask? It’s a term Dr. Cagle created to define the breaking point or the threshold of disaster. And, it can be applied to every area of life and to people of all ages. Come hear Dr. Cagle’s #1 strategy to avoid the melting point with your kiddos!

On this episode…. Balancing life’s demands can be quite challenging. In this episode, Sally Pinon talks about how, even through the ups and downs of business ownership, she continues to prioritize her children and their educational experiences. You won’t want to miss some of her takeaways, especially if you’re a University-Model parent!

On this episode…. Do you ever feel like you need a reset button? Check out this family’s decision to hit that button!

On this episode with Dr. Cagle.....Who talks about adoption on the first date?? The Coons! If you feel a calling to adopt, then you don’t want to miss this episode! Make sure to head over to drkellycagle.com to browse the resources Haley mentions.

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....Why is it important for kids to learn about cultures and languages beyond their own? How can you embrace diversity in your home? In this episode, Dr. Cagle challenges you to think outside your own walls.

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....You have two options: A) live a mundane work-life, where you clock in at 8am and clock out at 5pm daily… or B) love what you do and the impact you get to make every day through your work. Correct? If you were to think of “school” as your child’s “job,” would

On this episode…. As an educator turned entrepreneur, Jenn Kleiber has worn many hats throughout her career. Her latest one, The Faith Filled Entrepreneur, has taken her on an amazing journey of faith, which has touched many lives, including her own son, Tate!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....

My oldest son, Levi, is now in the 6th grade. At a recent school meeting, I heard several of the other 6th grade moms share about the independence they are seeing in their kids, finding their new norm as co-teachers and letting their kids spread their wings a bit more.

In this episode Dr. Kelly Cagle interviews Andrea Cornell and her desire to feed her family whole foods and how she got started with gardening! 

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....If your kids are acting out at home, in school, or at Target, and you’re tired of being embarrassed or frustrated by their behaviors, then this 9-step framework is for you!

On this episode…Homeschooling isn’t for every household, and a few years ago, Natalie 100% agreed that it was NOT for them. Until, she felt a big tug from God that she just couldn’t pass up. Now, she finds daily joy (and stress 🤪) homeschooling her 4 kids, while being a pastor’s wife and running their investment properties.

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....It’s never too early to teach our kids that voting is one way to be good citizens. It’s also an avenue to use to teach them what is Truth and where to find Truth!

On this episode…If you want to:

Explore the impacts of COVID on parent engagement

Learn how culture is strongly influencing kids

Then you can’t miss this discussion between Stephanie Baird and Dr. Cagle. 

Between the 2 of them, there’s 32 years of observations on culture and kids. This conversation is a MUST listen!!

This week, we are talking about fighting consumerism and entitlement… both of which are robbing gratitude from overflowing in our hearts and our kids’ hearts too. 

In this episode, Dr. Cagle shares how they’re fighting against these things in their home. Take a listen to find out the strategy!

On this episode, Dr. Cagle interviews Roman Pierson and Levi Cagle on how they best balance school and sports!

Levi and Roman are friends in 6th grade, they both attend the same University-Model School, Check out this episode to catch a glimpse!

On this episode…Tomorrow will be 24 years since Dr. Cagle’s family left their home country of Brazil! So today, you have the privilege of hearing a conversation between two sisters, Kisi Sakzenian and Dr. Kelly Cagle, as Kisi shares her journey as an 18-year-old immigrant moving to the United States. 

This is an amazing conversation as they relive those transitional years and equip you to welcome some of those ideas within your home as well!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....Is your kid motivated at the possibilities of a new year?! In today’s episode of Conversation Starters, Dr. Cagle equips you to talk to your kids about exploring their interests, strengths, and areas that could improve to get them excited about a brand new year!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....Parents should motivate their learners to take advantage of every “new” moment in their academic career by being engaged through asking specific questions. In this episode, learn 3 questions to help your child see a “new” semester as a brand new opportunity to improve!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....Healthy habits are awesome! They don’t establish themselves, however. Learn how to help your kids analyze areas where they need to create good habits and how to keep them motivated to put forth their best effort by emphasizing the benefits of the habit once it’s become second-nature to them.

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....Latest gadgets, newest cars, brand new pair of expensive jeans… stuff does NOT equal success. In fact, the less stuff, the less distractions! Learn 3 areas to declutter with your child (and maybe in your life too!)

On today’s episode Dr. Kelly Cagle equips you to teach your kids 3 qualities to look for in others that will lead to finding GOOD FRIENDS! 

Happy Valentine’s Day! On today’s episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle, we’re taking a break from conversation starters to bring you some very lovely guests. I promise you don’t want to miss this conversation between Dr. Cagle and her husband, Josh, along with the special, Desi & Mychal Henk! They dig deep and provide tons of examples about how to prioritize your MARRIAGE in the busyness of PARENTHOOD.

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....Got a kid that talks down on themselves all the time?! Take a listen to today’s episode to learn 3 ways to break that negative self-talk!

On this episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle....In a household of 3 sons, Dr. Cagle is constantly talking to her kids about this one thing…. A lot of the behavior issues, whether in the classroom or at home, are related to this same thing… and that is: self-control. Learn 3 ways to teach this trait in your home!

On this episode...Dr. Cagle is doing things a little differently for today’s episode! Make sure to plug in as she teaches us how to make our homes a safe haven for our little introverts (and extroverts too)!

On this episode...If you’re looking for some epic (and CHEAP!) fun for spring break, or just to add to your repertoire of options if your kids have already had their break, then listen to episode 10 for some great ideas!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle, “No, you can’t have another toy!” If you say that every single time you enter a store with your kid, then episode 11 is for you! Listen to Dr. Cagle use @joshua_becker’s book, Clutterfree with Kids, to help you teach your kids about consumerism.

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle, Does your child know “how to fight?” And no… I don’t mean throwing punches because every human knows how to do that! I’m talking about healthy conflict resolution!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle.....Got a kid that’s lacking motivation?? Listen to episode 13 to learn 3 ways to help them!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…..Want to know what Josh and I will be discussing on our next date night?! Take a listen! Maybe the conversation won’t be romantic, but being the bestest parents we can be is a tremendous priority of ours. And it takes a lot of work!! In episode 14, I introduce 3 conversation starters to have with your spouse to make sure a home is a safe haven for everyone.

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…..Home should be a place where kids can try and fail, receive grace, forgiveness, and discipline… and then try to master the skill again! Listen to episode 15, where I teach 3 ways to communicate to your kids that your home– their safe haven– is the best place to practice!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…..Here’s an episode that needs to be on repeat… there’s too much comparison leading to jealousy in the world. But what can you do about it?? Listen to learn 3 ways to help your kids learn to celebrate others!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…..It really is never too early to talk about what your kids want to be when they grow up. But this conversation goes way beyond that!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle….Yay to the end of another school year! Listen to episode 18 to INTENTIONALLY WRAP IT UP!

On today's episode with Dr. Kelly Cagle…The summer break is super fun, until it’s not fun at all anymore when your kid gets on the struggle bus in August… Listen to 3 warnings to avoid a ginormous awful transition back to school!

Let’s go, SEASON 3!!!

With my co-host, Josh Cagle, here are some of the things you’ll learn in episode 1:

Leading reasons for divorce in 2023

A real life glimpse of who we are 

Some of our fighting stories (most of them are so embarrassing…)

The 3 things we do every single time we fight (sometimes we do them really well, other times very poorly… but we still do them!)

LISTEN and SUBSCRIBE on Apple, Spotify, or Google podcasts today!

With my co-host, Josh Cagle, here are some of the things you’ll learn in episode 2:

Ways to prioritize what’s on your plate

Voicing the need for help (uh-humm, it’s not a sign of weakness— all fingers pointing at me…)

Bringing the kids along to pitch in with chores

Sleep divorce statistics (have you heard of it??)

and a few other areas that could make the fighting more constant during the transition into the back to school groove!

Check out free resources and more at drkellycagle.com

Have certain frustrations led to unnecessary arguments?! Have disappointments been creeping into your marriage?! 

Listen to episode 3 to hear some funny and other serious ways that Josh & Kelly fight FOR their marriage through the frustrations + disappointments in life… because they come on a daily basis!

What kind of fighting did you witness in your home as a kid? 

In episode 4, Josh and Kelly talk about the importance of COMMUNICATING those experiences as you establish your own “fighting culture” within your home. 

LISTEN on Apple, Spotify, or Google podcasts or WATCH on YouTube!

Racism, politics, agendas, fears, negative & positive words are all part of your home culture. If your walls could talk, what would they be saying???

p.s. listen to how your kids are talking/fighting. 👀

LISTEN on Apple, Spotify, or Google podcasts or WATCH on YouTube!

It only took us 6 episodes before we brought up sex… this one is about the NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT. Because, ya know, guys are microwaves and gals are ovens 😆

Tune in to episode 6 to learn ways to:

Choose your battles wisely when talking about sex

Explore what kind of fighter you are when sex talk is brought up

Respect one another by leaning in to “the talk”

LISTEN on Apple, Spotify, or Google podcasts or WATCH on YouTube!

What’s the #1 issue married couples fight about???

And how can you create a home culture to fight it in a healthy way?!

Today’s episode has a different structure– Josh & I chat about different topics you have sent in…. 

Like: loving our spouses in different ways, balancing work + house chores + parenthood + marriage + & self-care, and of course, sex too! 

This would be a great episode to listen to with your spouse ;)

Do you fight about the kids?? In this episode Josh & I talk about 3 areas that can put a stop to those arguments!

Are you doing what you REALLY want to do in the 24 hours you have each day? Josh & Kelly share a few thoughts about fighting for their TIME– with the last one being you just can’t live without!

Boundaries are established to protect, not limit. This episode is a must if you’re struggling to stick to your word, even when the kids keep begging.

In this episode, Josh and Kelly share how they fight against disengagement as husband and wife and as dad and mom.

In this episode, Josh and Kelly share why they should fight for rest, what rest looks like and how you can rest

In this episode, Josh and Kelly talk about gratefulness, what creates gratefulness and what the opposite of gratefulness looks like.

Our kids took it upon themselves to write their Christmas wish list. Aaaand ‘tis the season where expectations are met or unmet… In what other areas do you have high expectations?

Listen to episode 15 as Josh and I talk about spoken + unspoken expectations.

Fighting in a crowd is inevitable… In this episode, Josh and I talk about writing a GAME PLAN when you’re about to hang out with outsiders, whether they’re family members, friends, or co-workers!

Try this pre-, during-, and post-game plan, and let us know how it helped you fight (or avoid a fight!) in your next social outing.

For the season finale, Josh and I wanted to remind you to define your personal and family values to help keep eternity as your main focus versus just the present moment– with the millions of distractions.

In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle introduces Season 4 of the Parenting IQ Podcast, titled 'Little Moments, Big Impacts.' She emphasizes the importance of daily moments for growth and learning, not just for children but also for parents and in marriage. The main topic of this episode is habits and their impact on our lives. Dr. Cagle defines habits as acquired behavior patterns that are regularly followed until they become almost involuntary. She discusses the characteristics of habits and provides examples of productivity habits and house chores habits. Dr. Cagle also highlights the importance of teaching kids good habits and the need to avoid punishment and nagging. She concludes by emphasizing the impact of these little moments and habits on our future selves and families.

In this episode, Kelly Cagle and her son Levi discuss the topic of confidence. They explore the challenges faced by the next generation and how to battle negative thoughts and comments. They also discuss the impact of change and transitioning to new environments. Levi shares his personal experiences and offers advice on staying confident in school and overcoming fear and self-doubt. They emphasize the importance of treating others with respect and understanding, and the role of parents in supporting their children's confidence. The episode concludes with a discussion on working towards goals and the importance of consistency.

I am so privileged to have Maya Corbic with me today, and here’s why: as the founder of Wealthy Kids Investment Club and a popular instagram account @teach.kids.money, her heart is to inspire parents to raise financially independent kids. You’ll hear more about her story throughout our chat, but just know that her vision is to empower every child to become a financially independent adult– can I get an amen?!?!

In this conversation, Kelly and Josh discuss the cultural idea of love and the biblical definition of love. They emphasize that love is an action and requires selflessness and serving others.

They explore the importance of patience and kindness in love and the need for a daily walk with God. They also discuss the significance of rest and refocusing in love. The conversation highlights the choice to love daily and the impact of forgiveness and not keeping record of wrongs. They address the dangers of expectations in love and the need to define love in a diluted world.

In this episode, Kelly Cagle discusses how to support your child as a student and foster a love for lifelong learning, emphasizing the difference between being a student and being a learner, highlighting the importance of seeing learning opportunities in everyday life.

In this conversation, MJ Cash, a homeschooling mom, shares her experiences and insights into homeschooling. She discusses her family dynamics, the role of a facilitator in homeschooling, and the reasons for choosing homeschooling.

In this conversation, Dr. Rebecca Jackson discusses the importance of movement for children's development and overall well-being. She emphasizes the negative effects of excessive screen time and the need for balance and regulation. She emphasizes the role of coordination and core muscles in brain development and explains the function of the reticular activating system

In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle discusses the concept of over stimulation and its impact on children. Emphasizing the importance of understanding and having grace for children who may exhibit unusual behavior in these overwhelming situations

In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Cagle and her son Levi discuss their experiences with different schooling methods, including traditional schools, university model schools, and homeschooling.