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Ep 117: Dark Alley Sex An Erotic Story by Ruan Willow
Ep 117: Dark Alley Sex An Erotic Story by Ruan Willow. This story was inspired by a fan-follower-friend who gave me a bare-bones erotic scene and asked me to flesh out an erotic story for it. I had so much fun creating this story by request! Do you have a request? Shoot me a message and I might just do it! I have a growing list of requests and I'm always adding to it. This story is about "you" and Ruan. It's a hot story of spontaneous sex, fucking in the alleyway. There's a delicious bystander who rages up Ruan's lust as she and her lover fuck passionately in the alley against a brick wall. It's a story of passionate sex and exhibition that's all so very yum! Have a listen! And be sure to enjoy this erotic tale spun by your truly, Ruan Willow.
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Ep 118: The BEST Vibrator Clitoral Stimulation. The best clitoral stimulation I've ever experienced in my life with a toy has come from the Zumio X sex toy. This clit focused sex toy is absolutely mind-blowing, and hands down the BEST toy I've ever tried. In this episode, I share all about the clit, clitoral stimulation, clitoral climax, and how this toy accomplishes this better than any toy I've used. This toy can also improve intimacy when used with others by promoting pleasure. It can also close the orgasm gap between men and women. It's a great tool, a fabulous toy, that will also help those with disabilities or health limitations to enjoy a better sex life. Sexual health is important to overall health and well-being, this toy can facilitate that for women. This is a self-care tool every woman should have in their arsenal of feel-good items. It's also a confidence booster for her partner because he/she can easily get her to her climax. It can be a quick ride when the high levels of strength are chosen, but it can also be a nice and slow edger to build passion. The multiple levels allow it to be customized to an individual's desires and needs.
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Ep 119: Sensual ASMR Full Body Massage. What is ASMR? It's an Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response. Sounds too technical doesn't it? It's not though, it basically means you have a reaction to a voice, whispering, sounds, repetitive motions, etc. It's a shivery feeling or sensation people get when they listen to a stimulating audio/video or even touch. It incites tingles, or as some describe it, sparkling, in a person when they are exposed to the ASMR. It's like brain-gasms! It's positive and personal attention given with a gentle voice, sound, or other stimulation. A soft voice, mouth sounds, hair brushing, moans, calming repetitive motions or sounds, and whispering are all some examples of what can be called ASMR. It could even be the crinkling of paper. It is sounds that get a reaction out of people that is pleasant in nature. In my ASMR, I describe in a soft voice how I'd give you a full body massage. I use my voice, soft moans, and other pleasurable sounds and words to guide you through this pleasurable experience. I hope you enjoy it!
New book in presale: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/148f9c24-882f-11ec-9631-83d5152a95bf
Hello, I'm Ruan!
Welcome to my podcast!
Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Thank you for listening!
Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan
Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:)
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Ep 120: The Kitchen Sex Challenge Erotica A Day of Play His and Her Edging Sex Games. It's my launch day! The first novella in my new series is live on Amazon! Audiobook coming soon too! What's it about? A sexy day of play for this couple as they will go through a full day of sex play and challenges:
The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play Book Blurb: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight.
A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win.
Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 121: How Technology Improves Sex An Interview the CEO of Mystery Vibe. This is a MUST LISTEN TO PODCAST EPIDOSE as I chat with and interview the amazing, talented, and knowledgeable CEO of Mystery Vibe. Soum and I talked about all the mind-blowing and wonderful advances his company has made in the field of sexual health to promote pleasure and address the medical and other sexual and intimacy needs of those in the 35 to 40+ age group. Their technology is astounding in how they are addressing the sexuality needs of not only people and couples in this age group but also those with spinal injuries, in cancer recovery, couples with reproductive difficulties, those in prostate cancer recovery, those with ED and other such related issues, as well as promotion of health via the use of their doctor-recommended products to help restore function and relieve pain. Their products are even for those without health issues, just to promote better intimacy and enjoyment for couples, to keep that spark and mystery alive in the bedroom. Their products mimic the human hand for stimulation and are fabulously targeted to mutually pleasure both partners and close the very real orgasm gap. Their app is highly user-friendly and can help customize the toy. It's a phenomenal company committed to meeting the needs of people to attain a better quality of life in the face of normal changes of aging and for those who feel limited by medical issues. Mystery Vibe is a medical company with pleasure as a core value, focusing on enjoyment in addition to overcoming obstacles for greater enjoyment of life and sex with your partner and alone.
New book in presale: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/148f9c24-882f-11ec-9631-83d51
Ep 122: Sexologist, Sex Educator/Coach, and Author Suzannah Weiss on orgasms, relationships, writing, psychedelics/mind-altering experiences, and squirting
Ep 122: Sexologist, Sex Educator/Coach, and Author Suzannah Weiss on orgasms, relationships, writing, psychedelics, and squirting. Suzannah and I talked about so many amazing topics including sex, porn, only fans, sex positivity aligning with purity, sexual pleasure, and more! Suzannah has had her work on The View, The Today Show, The NY Times, The Washington Post, New York Magazine, Glamour, Elle, and more. She shares information about her courses on learning how to orgasm. She also shares about her own sexual experiences and growth. Listen to this amazing interview!
New book in presale: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalboo
Ep 123: A Morning Tit Fuck Sweetened a Dreaded Day, An Erotica Short Story By Ruan. A quick read short story illustrating how an impending bad day can be made better with a mutually pleasing fuck session before even leaving the bed. A great way to wake up! No doubt! This story is published on Medium, in the publication All Things Sex and Erotica: https://medium.com/all-things-sex-and-erotica/a-morning-tit-fuck-sweetened-a-dreaded-day-1303f888ac3f
In this episode, a quickie erotic experience, Ruan also reads a few sexy snippets of erotica. Sometimes a quickie is just what we need! Right? Oh, fuck yeah!
New novella book is out: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/148f9c24-882f-11ec-9631-83d5152a95bf
Hello, I'm Ruan!
Welcome to my podcast!
Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Thank you for listening!
Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:)
Ep 124: She Gets Blindfolded, Clamped, and Sex Toys Erotica Short Story. This is a short story by Ruan. It's full of steamy hotness! She gets a blindfold, nipple clamps, and a surprise of sex toys ... and more! Can you guess what the more is? I bet you can! Enjoy this sexy little short story full of lots of moans, begging, and orgasms. It's a quickie!!!
New novella book is out: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/148f9c24-882f-11ec-9631-83d5152a95bf
Hello, I'm Ruan!
Welcome to my podcast!
Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Thank you for listening!
Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:)
P.S. Freebie!!! Erotic Audiobook Bridal Rampage, The Bridal Shrink Files [affiliate] US residents
Ep 125: Girl's Night Chat about the internal and external portions of the Clitoris, Sex, Eroticism, Sexuality, Sensuality, and Culture. Come join us and listen to our Friday Night Chat Interview! Mal and I had so much fun talking about so many amazing topics! Mal Harrison is a sexologist, speaker, author, eroticism philosopher, promoter of self-love, researcher, and the Founder and Director of the Center for Erotic Intelligence. We made it a fun girl's night sipping wine and cocktails as we talked about sex, sensual eroticism, advances in knowledge/study of female sexuality, the cultural aspects of porn, and how Freud is what Mal calls "The world's greatest clit blocker!" And most importantly, we discussed the realities of the G spot and the internal structure of the clitoris. She published groundbreaking information about the structure of the internal clitoris and how it is actually erectile tissue (2011 in medical journals). Check out the amazing must-see 3D imaging and animation of the clitoral shape and see it in action (a simulation of penetration). Guess what? The clitoris is a large structure that extends into a woman and all women are different. It's not just the little bean on the outside of a woman, that's just the head. The internal portion of the clitoris has arms... like a wishbone that wrap around the vagina... you've got to check it out here: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/internal-clitoris/ and here: https://centerforeroticintelligence.org/the-clit-disco/
We also talked about the culture of faking it (once again no thank you to FREUD!), sex toys and women who lacked experiencing an orgasm in life who find the joy of finally having one, the harm the current state of sex ed in America is doing to our youth, and how another country is doing it so much better. We talk about fantasies, shame, alternative lifestyles, and trans individuals. We also discuss the history of sexuality and the best places in New York to have sex! We touch on dogging, sexual norms, and so much more! Our chat was not only epic and informative but one of the most fun interviews I've ever had the pleasure to do!
Ep 126: The Mile High Club Sex Date The Sexual Bucket List Episode 8. Sex on an airplane! Just the thrill and the challenge of it is so hot! We can't wait! We've been looking forward to plane sex since we booked the trip. The Mile High Club is deliciously saturated with exhibitionism because of course everyone is looking our way when we both enter that tiny bathroom ... they know what we are gonna do! It's a tiny space to fuck in, a real challenge but worth the bragging rights and the memories! Let's do this! Let's do it on the airplane and join The Mile Club! Let's go!
Ep 127: The Bull, The Cuckhold, and their Sexy Hotwife Muse erotica story. Got a cuckhold, humiliation, or hotwife fantasy fetish? Then this story is for you! Many people secretly have desires regarding this type of scenario. It doesn't mean you'd do it in real life, though some do, and it's not harmful or shameful to have such kinks. If it gets you off, that's all that matters. Our sexuality is fluid and can touch many areas of fantasy and real life, just be true to you! In this story, the bull, Helter, is a leather-wearing bull, and he comes to the couple's house for some fun, humiliating ridicule of the cuckhold, and to thoroughly please the hotwife. And oh, does he ever please her! Listen to this hot story, even if you've never tried such a theme, give it a try. Some part of it might just turn you on. Maybe you want to be the bull. Maybe you want to be the hotwife. Maybe you desire secretly to be the cuckhold. Any way you see it, you may enjoy this story. You should try it out! No better place to try new sexual things than in a story that plays out in your mind. Enjoy!
New novella book is out: The Kitchen Sex Challenge: Book 1 A Day of Play... BOOK BLURB: Anna and Brad had fallen in love and married quickly, as older people tend to do. What they both want in addition to their love is playful sex, complete with his and her edging. Brad gets off on getting Anna off, much to her delight. A day of play is Brad’s plan, to seduce, excite, and pleasure his new wife into a state of passionate frenzy that will culminate in a delicious end when they eventually collide their heightened lust. Until then, Brad intends to tease his wife with voracious edging and explosive orgasms as many times as he can entice her to. It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. https://amzn.to/333Revq Universal book link: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/148f9c24-882f-11ec-9631-83d5152a95bf
Hello, I'm Ruan!
Welcome to my podcast!
Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important p
Ep 128: A How-to Guide for Men on Empowered Sexuality, Sexual Health, and Intimacy, Conscious Cock by Sexologist and author Kristopher Lovestone is an amazingly helpful book! In his how-to manual for men on intimacy, sexuality, sensuality, relating to a female partner in a heterosexual relationship, and tips for bettering your sex life, Kristopher offers men mountains of help on so many fronts and in so many different ways, it's mind-blowing! This book is a must-have for all men! It's actually great for women to read too. I found it enlightening and honestly I wish every man had this book in his library! I loved loved loved his book! As a female, I'm applauding his creation! It's so helpful and full of great ideas, accurate actionable tips, and interactive components to make the learning process both fun and comprehensive. For men who have trouble relating to women, and/or who just want to connect with their partner more intimately and intricately on a deeper level, this book is paramount in achieving those goals. It contains everything from exercises, both physical and actual worksheets, to conversational tips, to advice for how to pleasure a woman, and the best ways to broach sensitive topics. For heterosexual men with a female partner, this book is an absolute must-read! Kristopher provides clear hands-on how-to tips for the act of sex, for self-improvement, and for relationship improvement. He even offers a community for men to join to further develop their growth and learning. Listen to this interview to learn more about what he has to say, this is key sex education and intimacy/sexual communication for adults.
Want a copy of this outstanding amazing stellar book? Click through this affiliate link and buy a copy today! https://amzn.to/35nwAHK
Ep 129: Her Pleasure Dom with Orgasms in the Double Digits. In this erotica fiction short story, Kent is a pleasure Dom to his sub Dana. Kent can't get enough of edging Dana and making her cum. His focus is her pleasure, where he also takes his. Listen to this steamy sexy hot luxurious orgasmic tale of two lovers who can't get enough of each other.
This short story is published on Medium in the publication Sex and Erotica, which is full of amazing erotica stories. Want to check it out? You can do so at my affiliate link: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership
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My new novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
My new book which came out in January 2022: DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515
Ep 130: Sizzling Sex for Life The World's Most Popular Sex Writer Micheal Castleman. I'm excited to share this amazing interview with the world! Michael Castleman is a sex therapist who has studied and written about sex for forty-five years, and he has focused mainly on writing about sex for the last sixteen years of that. He is definitely a sexpert! He has written an amazing book, a comprehensive book from his experience, and from reading 2,500 sex research papers. The book is called Sizzling Sex for Life, Everything You Need to Know to Maximize Sexual Pleasure at Any Age. He has written for Playboy Advisor, written eighteen books (several genres), answered thousands of questions on sex, including where he writes to answer questions still on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex He has so much to say about sex, libido, healthy sex, relationships, culture, and pleasure. He addresses sexual health, explains why masturbation is healthy and necessary, why sex addiction is a fallacy, why porn is not bad, and why LGTBQ+ individuals have paved the way for us all to have permission to be who we are and to say it. He talks about how culture is changing with regards to only fans because our definitions of privacy are changing. He talks about why fantasies are healthy and specifically explains the true nature of dark fantasies, including taboo fantasies. He offers a wealth of knowledge only someone like him who has spent a good portion of his life studying sex can offer. His book Sizzling Life for Sex is very well supported, praised, and renowned. He's an amazing man y'all need to listen to! You can get his book in ebook, hardcover, or audiobook here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3IiSvNN
Want to read my work? Support me? Review my work? Here's the details:
My new novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book
Ep 131: FFM Threesome with the Hidden Roommate. What do you get when you mix three horny people together as college roommates: a female theater major, a stressed-out basketball player, and a smart mathematician? FWB! You get friends with benefits. Maggie and Kelsie are two women friends who like to pleasure each other sexually. They have a male roommate as well named Alex. Hormones rage when these three happen to be home at the same time. Listen to this sexy hot story, a threesome hook-up where all three most certainly have a good time!! Good things are definitely worth repeating! This New Adult genre story was spun off the top of my head at the time of recording. It's ad-lib, ad-hoc spontaneous erotica!
This podcast episode was sponsored by Wet Leaf Press. When Mike Radley inherited a mysterious old house from a long-lost relative, he wasn't sure what to expect.
He didn't expect a sexual encounter with the nymph in his bathtub.
He really didn't expect to discover a house full of very lonely monsters.
And he definitely didn't expect a pair of witches bent on stealing the home's magic from him.
Called "well-written and surprisingly heartfelt " by Guy White and lauded by acclaimed fantasy author Piers Anthony for its "action, sex, and thought," isn't it time that you check out the series that has captivated hundreds of thousands of readers online?
Welcome to Radley's Home for Horny Monsters, by Annabelle Hawthorne. Expect the unexpected. Find the book here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3CWsmTZ
Want to read my work? Support me? Review my work? Here's the details:
My new novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series, heavier on the romance than the erotica. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
Listen to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 132: The Stranger Hookup Spontaneous Sex The Sexual Bucket Lust List Series Episode 9. Ever meet someone and sparks just fly? There's just something ... unexplainable about the person and you are drawn to them. You are attracted to them upon sight. Maybe it's the way they move, maybe it's the look in their eyes, maybe it's the lush swell of their lips, of their hips, their ass cheeks. A mysterious draw happens between us upon meeting in this episode of the sexual bucket lust list series. Come along on the journey of a spontaneous hookup as we fuck each other's brains out in an unlikely location.
Podcast Episode Sponsor: Wet Leaf Press. Welcome to Radley's Home for Horny Monsters, by Annabelle Hawthorne. Expect the unexpected. Find the book here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3CWsmTZ
My new novella series begins with The Kitchen Sex Challenge! It’s an all-day sex game that starts with the kitchen sex challenge, which each partner intends to win. This is an erotic rom-com heavy on the romance and intimacy. Interested in purchasing? You can use this universal book link from anywhere in the world:
Ep 133: Diet for Great Sex, Eat Your Way to Better Sex with Christine DeLozier. Did you know you can eat your way to better sex? You can do this. How? You can improve your sex life by eating the right foods. Enjoy faster and stronger arousal sensations and orgasms simply by what you eat, and libido can be improved too! Christine DeLozier has written a book that helps us understand how to improve sexual health the natural way with our diet. Listen to find out what to eat, when to eat it, and the best choices of what to eat before sex. Learn about her date night dinner plans, why you should eat a salad every day, and also include foods such as leaves, spinach, saffron, vitamin C-rich foods, and foods with antioxidants, plus mushrooms. Yes, mushrooms! Learn why certain foods can sabotage your sex because they lead to testosterone dumping ... hint hint hint.... don't eat these foods when you plan to get busy! Listen so you can hear what Christine means by the trifecta approach to better sex which includes foods that help promote blood flow to the genitals, promote good nerve conduction, and balance hormones. Masturbation and more sex also both lead to more sex. Exercise leads to better sex. Yes!!!! This book is amazing because it includes scientific discussion, descriptions of real patients, ways of how to have more pleasure and better orgasms, plus a guide for amazing oral sex, oh ... and lots of recipes to help you down the path to better sex because the recipes use these recommended foods. Christine also uses acupuncture to improve sex for patients, and she utilizes the wisdom of traditional Chinese medicine. These practices Christine discusses ways that can also help with sexual dysfunction, such as reduced libido, erectile dysfunction, low testosterone, premature ejaculation, and reduced arousal and sensations. Eat your way to better sex! What better way to plan your date than to get set up for the best sex ever by eating the right foods for the best possible sex!
Results do depend on your baseline, but you can get to better sex by continuing to eat the right foods. You can get there! You can make your sex life better... starting today with choosing that salad for lunch!
Ep 134: Girl’s Happy Hour Masturbation Talk with Mal Harrison & Naked Ruan to Celebrate 200K downloads. Per the poll I did on Twitter for how to celebrate 200K downloads of the podcast, the winning choice was I do the podcast naked…so I did! And the other top winner was the topic of masturbation, so sexologist Mal Harrison and I did just that as we sipped on Sauvignon Blanc wine, from across the country. It was such an amazing podcast happy hour chat! It was such fun! I had a blast!
As we sipped our wine, we talked about our own experiences with masturbation, how it’s helpful for all people, and we even talked about sex toys that I love (including the grinding toy The Ruby Glow and The Ruby Glow Blush links to them below). Mal and I talked about how sex toys can also be used to stimulate people with penises and how they are never a threat to a couple’s sex life, but an enhancement that can bring pleasure to both partners. We talked about road head, sex ed, and the sexologist Jack Morin with his focus on the erotic mind, plus his amazing study and book. We touched on masturbation in nature! Oh hell yes and getting the full 360-degree experience! We all want that! We talked about the book Chalet of Desire by my author and friend Hazel Porter. I learned from Mal about The Great Wall of Vagina and the Rule of Thumb Measure, which is a measurement that can determine if a woman can have an orgasm via penetrative sex or if clit stimulation is required. Well, it can still happen if the angle is right for the vulva owner. Angles matter! Have a listen to our fun chat that was spurred on by my desire to do something fun for reaching 200K downloads of the podcast, and thank you for listening!
Ep 135: Orgy in Bed FFMM, Post Party Night Sex by Ruan Willow. A sexy multiple partner tale FFMM right off the top of my head! It's ad hoc improv-style erotica! When the party is fun, the drinks are flowing, it's late at night, and the friends love benefits, an orgy happens! Orgies are a fantasy for so many people, it's actually one of the top fantasies per sex researchers. And I agree! It's very hot! In this sexy erotica story Paul, Marissa, Ruan, and Max end up in bed together and FWB means all join in the casual sex. There's cum sharing, partner swapping, FF action, FM action, and MM action. Lots of oral sex happens and satisfaction blooms for all! Listen to this sexy story and enjoy!
This podcast episode was sponsored by Wet Leaf Press for the book Radley's Home for Horny Monsters: (affiliate)https://amzn.to/3CWsmTZ
When Mike Radley inherited a mysterious old house from a long-lost relative, he wasn't sure what to expect.
He didn't expect a sexual encounter with the nymph in his bathtub.
He really didn't expect to discover a house full of very lonely monsters.
And he definitely didn't expect a pair of witches bent on stealing the home's magic from him.
Called "well-written and surprisingly heartfelt " by Guy White and lauded by acclaimed fantasy author Piers Anthony for its "action, sex, and thought," isn't it time that you check out the series that has captivated hundreds of thousands of readers online?
Welcome to Radley's Home for Horny Monsters, by Annabelle Hawthorne. Expect the unexpected.
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My new novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series, heavier on the romance than the erotica. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal
Ep 136: Adult Gaming In Her Own Hands, A Free Erotic Game Online. In this podcast episode, I chat with Becca Johnson, one of the creators of the adult game In Her Own Hands. Play this game and you can create your own erotic story to enjoy! It's a fun sex-positive sexual adventure game you create as you make decisions and live the life inside an erotic story! You can experience all the fun, all the possible steamy sexy scenarios right from your own computer or play online. You can even personalize it to your sexual tastes, kinky or not, you get to customize it to your interests and fantasies. It's a safe way to explore and enjoy sexual exploration in the safety of your home. Who doesn't want to live inside an erotic story? I do! What a fun experience this game is! Check it out for free at: In Her Own Hands https://inherownhands.com/
The really cool thing about this game is you can set it to your wishes and just get the options you want. Options include FEMALE PROTAGONIST, REAL PORN, SEX, ROMANCE, VIRGIN, INTERRACIAL, LESBIAN, KINK, BDSM, VOYEURISM, DRUGS, MASTURBATION, CORRUPTION, and EXHIBITIONISM. The team creating this game contains both a female and a male so you get influences and nuances from both!
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My new novella The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series, heavier on the romance than the erotica. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book
Rock and Roll Erotic Romance with Author Jackie Mojica. Love rock and roll and the music industry? Love erotic romance? Well then you will love Jackie's books! Have a listen as I read an excerpt from Chapter 5 of Jackie Mojica's book When the Lights Go Out. Then listen as Jackie and I have a fun discussion about writing, being an author, the culture and lifestyle of being an author, the hard work and ups and downs of self-publishing. We chat about other authors' work we enjoy reading. Jackie shares personal details as well such as her love of music and musicians, and her struggles with contracting COVID, being overweight, and living with mental illness. We talk about how to deal with negative reviews and how as authors we need to remember people come with their own hangups and their review may not even be fair or even be a popular opinion, some people are just plain mean! Authors need thick skin! And we need to stay true to ourselves as authors regardless of what kind of reviews we get.
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The Kitchen Sex Challenge is out as an audiobook. Want it for FREE? You can get it for free here: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/dd67594e-cc03-4130-a821-6fcd66d9193d This book is the first in a novella series of a heterosexual couple who loves to edge each other and do sex games/challenges with each other. It's an erotic romantic comedy series, heavier on the romance than the erotica. The Grocery Store Challenge is the next one coming out soon!
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affili
Ep 139: Porn Star Dancing Sexual Bucket List Series Episode 10. Have you ever had a fantasy inspired by a song? This erotic story I spun off the top of my head live as I recorded is inspired by a song. Lots of fun delicious sexual energy and feelings to tap into from songs. This is one that I felt inspired by when I was speed walking uphill on the treadmill, I was jamming out to the song and it struck me that it would make a fantastically sexy Sexual Bucket List Series episode. Enjoy!
***Podcast Episode Sponsor: Joseph Samaniego The Fate of Kings and Queens (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3E5K203
Ep 140: Babysitter Age Gap Erotic Story by Heather Holmes and Interview (characters 18 and over). H. C. Holmes, Heather Holmes, is an author who writes in multiple genres. She doesn't confine herself to one area of writing but she has her craft opened up to wherever her story leads her. She's very prolific with many stories on Medium. We talked about writing, the writing process, editing, publishing, the creative process of writing, and how we enjoy the creative outlet that is writing. We talked about sex and sex toys and how this impacts one's sexuality and enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Multiple orgasms came up! Two women chatting about sex, of course, multiple O's will come up! We had so much fun and plan to do another podcast chat with wine! So stay tuned for our happy hour wine chat! Red wine of course!
Thank you for coming as a guest on my podcast Heather! It was a blast!
Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together. (affiliate) ht
Ep 141: Men's Sexual Health Chat with Dr. Tracy Gapin of Gapin Institute/Gainswave, also discuss Long term Sustainable Regenerative ED Therapy. This therapy is all-natural and non-invasive, and non-systemic. This is an amazingly helpful talk! You gotta listen! He shared so much information to help men/people with penises have better sex, and of course, their partners too! Whoop Whoop! Let's go!
Dr. Tracy Gapin is a surgeon, world-renowned health and performance expert and the founder of the Gapin Institute for High-Performance Health.
He’s also a thought leader, a professional speaker, and the author of the best-selling books Male 2.0 (affiliate: https://amzn.to/3Mer6iq ) and Codes of Longevity (affiliate: https://amzn.to/3vuetJj ).
His passion and purpose is providing executives and entrepreneurs a personalized path to better energy, better brain power, better body, and even better sex.
He’s the creator of the N1 High-Performance Health Program that provides the data-driven approaches you need to optimize your brain and body for peak performance.
We talk about health as it applies to men's sexual health as well as overall health, dietary tips for better sexual/overall health, and how the shock therapy works for those suffering with ED to regain long-lasting help for the sexual dysfunction. We talked about how medicine in the US is reactive rather than proactive, and how he and those at his Gapin Institute focus on the proactive solutions, while providing help for existing ED. I asked him a few questions from my follower friends. He also shared what potential help is on the horizon and the potential help, such as the use of stem cells.
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Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this interview to improve your sexual health, overall health, and life! On my podcast, you will find erotic romance, plus topics on relationships, sexual health, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, topics for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts as well. Good sexual health and fitness are important parts of a healthy life.
My new novella series book 2 The Grocery Store Sex Challenge is in presale, the erotic rom-com novella. A novella series about a middle-aged heterosexual couple who love to edge each other and do sex games/challenges together. (affiliate)
Ep 142: Female Masturbation Excerpt and Author Interview with Selena Powers aka Maggie Preston. Enjoy this excerpt I narrate from Selena Powers! It's a sexy female masturbation piece that you will definitely enjoy! It's hot, fun, saucy, and oh the surprise! Then stick around the for the interview where we talk about writing, the writing process, what we've learned about writing erotica/romance and publishing. We chat and had such a fun time talking as writers, as authors, so much fun!
Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 143: Learn about Erotic Hypnosis and Kink from the team at Mesmerotic. This is epic! Totally epic!!! Listen in as I interview the partner team of the Hypo Hedonista/Trix and Sinister about erotic hypnosis and kink. You can find them online at Mesmerotic! In this amazing interview with these amazing spectacular lovely talented people, you will learn what erotic hypnosis is, what hypnotic hedonism is, and how you too could explode your sexual experiences, both solo and with a partner(s) with the use of the enhancing tool that is erotic hypnosis. You can learn skills from them in their workshops, classes, and online content. You can experience them via YouTube videos, audios on their Patreon, only fans content, and even by booking appointments with them. They also do virtual appointments so you can learn and work directly from them personally. Hypnosis is poorly understood and you should know you are still in control, so no, you will not be turned into a mindless zombie when you are hypnotized! Check Mesmerotic out at the links below to see all that they have to offer. They want to help others learn the skills to enhance their sexual experiences through the use of hypnosis. Imagine you too could experience your biggest fantasies, your dark fantasies, and just about anything you want to by using your mind and the versatile mind-widening tool that is erotic hypnosis. I learned so much in this interview, I know you will too! Enjoy!
Thank you Trix and Sinister for coming on my show and sharing your experience and knowledge with the world!
Hello, I'm Ruan! Listen to this episode to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book
Ep 144: A Day of Sexual Play The Grocery Store Sex Challenge Erotic Novella Excerpt by Ruan Willow. Announcing book 2 in my sex challenge series! It's a romantic comedy short. In this rom-com erotic novella book two of the sex challenge series, where two consenting adults enjoy some secretive sexual play in public, the Day of Play continues for Brad and Anna, the second marriage newlyweds. Brad had all the advantages last round when the play happened in the kitchen, so Anna must dream up her best plan if she is to win this challenge. Even though she gets caught with a vegetable shoved in her cleavage in the produce section, she’s not deterred, she intends to win. Shedding her inhibitions, and sometimes reveling in them, she slowly seduces Brad to cave in to her sexual charms. But he’s not laying down dead, he throws a few kinks in her toolbox during the playful shopping trip. When the grocery list is almost complete, they both relish the delicious rise and fall. They leave the store more than satisfied with the outcome, optimistic for the rest of their day of play.
Stay tuned for the next erotic rom-com novella in this series where Anna and Brad challenge each other once more; their day of fun is nowhere near over.
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book
Ep 145: Interview with Sex & Kink Writer and Podcaster Kate Sloan. I welcome Kate to my podcast show! Kate is a self-proclaimed sex nerd, and she really has had an amazing career! She's a journalist, author, award-winning sex blogger, podcaster, and a sex educator who has been writing about sex, BDSM, Dom/sub, kink, LGTBQ, and queer topics online and in print for over ten years. Her first book, an introduction to kink and BDSM called 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do, came out in October 2021; her second book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender, is planned to be released in May 2022. She has reviewed over 300 sex toys on her blog at GirlyJuice.net. She also co-hosts the podcasts 'The Dildorks' and 'Question Box.'
In the interview, Kate and I chatted about sexuality, kink, gender, relationships ... she even shares about her own personal kinks and relationship. She shared her insights about Daddy Dom and little girl, the spanking kink, service kink, her top blog posts (including the best lipstick for blow jobs), sex toys, and the importance of masturbation and self-exploration to learn one's own body and sexual hot spots and triggers. We also discussed how to get started writing about sex.
About the podcast host Ruan: Ruan writes erotica about women loving women, bisexual women, heterosexual couples, and multiple partner encounters. She also writes nonfiction about sex on her blog at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/ https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
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Ep 146: Celebrating Masturbation May with Guided Pleasure. Happy May! May is Masturbation Month! Woohoo! And here at the Oh Fck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast, we are celebrating self-love, which is self-care. Pleasuring yourself is a stress reliever. It's healthy to masturbate, even when you are in a relationship, it's healthy to masturbate. It's a different activity that is fully focused on you. Do it to recharge, to fill up your cup, to relieve your stress, and to help you feel good. A major bonus of masturbation is that it also increases your sex drive, your libido will thank you as will your partner, if you have a partner. But if you don't have a partner, or a willing partner, that's okay because you can enjoy marinating yourself in the lush full body encompassing relief and relaxation that comes from climaxing. Get yourself comfortable and let's celebrate Masturbation May going with some guided pleasure. Let's do it...
Want to hear some of my erotic audiobooks for free? I have codes for the 26 audiobooks I've narrated. Email me at ruanwillow@gmail.com if you'd like a free code (I have them for those in the US, UK, Germany, and France).
Ep 146: She Wants to be Dominated Erotic Story by Ruan Willow. The desire to be dominated can be a strong emotional and sexual drive. The desire to dominate is as well. These can be sexy hot satisfying urges to meet when the right mix of partners come together. In this short erotic story, an engaged couple engages in sexual activity where the female desires to be dominated. It's a playful sexy story of a sexual encounter in their living room. This story was first published in the Erotic Stories publication on Medium here: https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/the-thong-in-the-kitchen-cupboard-125d46b0d5cd Check out all the other sexy stories on Medium in the Erotic Stories publication. Simply go to Medium (affiliate link) and search for Erotic Stories https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership
NEW AUDIOBOOK RELEASE! I've just released a new audiobook called "Before the Snowfall: Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light" written by Benson E. Wolf. Proceeds go to charities. Here's the book blurb: Quinn's red light is on, and her job is to wrap "Shakespeare" in the steamy shadow she casts from it.
But sometimes, shadows waver.
To understand what Shakespeare truly needs from her, she'll need to take down both of his pen names find out...
She could blind him by her light of her explicit nature. But if she turns off her light, could they both find the solitude to feel whole in the dark?
"Shakespeare" is a new widower and is away from his family for the first time since his wife's death. Coincidentally, a serious acquaintance that doesn't know he is her favorite author, lives close to where he is staying for last night of his trip. He doesn't care about her nightly profession, if he's going to give someone money he would rather give it to someone he likes and knows about.
Two people, a lonely night in Atlanta, what will happen when the lights go off?
A tale of love, but for who and who for, for just one night without looking into the future.
his story uses the word Daddy as a term of endearment and contains themes of a life of a spicy accountant that takes place nine years before the events of Snowfall.
Ep 147: Erotic Fantasy Fairy Tale Snow White Story by Bestselling Author Regina Grimm plus Author Interview. Fairy Tale retellings are a fun genre, add in intensity, sex, and eroticism and you have a whole new foray into sensuality filled with history, intriguing storylines, and epic characters. Listen to this excerpt from the book 'Snow White and the Wicked Queen' by author Rachel Grimm. Rachel has four books out with the Snow White erotic fairy tale theme. Get ready for power plays, sexy intense scenes, and rich fully fleshed-out characters who may be fairy tale but who live real in these books as sexual beings. The sexuality fleshes out the characters more fully and the tale gets hot hot hot!
Then stick around for the interview! Regina and I talked about sex, writing, life, and so much more!
NEW AUDIOBOOK RELEASE! I've just released a new audiobook called "Before the Snowfall: Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light" written by Benson E. Wolf. Proceeds go to charities.
Quinn's red light is on, and her job is to wrap "Shakespeare" in the steamy shadow she casts from it.
But sometimes, shadows waver.
Two people, a lonely night in Atlanta, what will happen when the lights go off?
A tale of love, but for who and who for, for just one night without looking into the future.
Ep 148: Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light Erotic Story by Benson E Wolf, Narrated by Ruan Willow. This episode is an excerpt of the intro of the story and the blow job scene from the work of erotica:
Before the Snowfall: Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light: Before the Snowstorm Prequels and Shorts, Book 1
Book Blurb: Quinn's red light is on, and her job is to wrap "Shakespeare" in the steamy shadow she casts from it.
But sometimes, shadows waver.
To understand what Shakespeare truly needs from her, she'll need to take down both of his pen names find out...
She could blind him by her light of her explicit nature. But if she turns off her light, could they both find the solitude to feel whole in the dark?
"Shakespeare" is a new widower and is away from his family for the first time since his wife's death. Coincidentally, a serious acquaintance that doesn't know he is her favorite author, lives close to where he is staying for last night of his trip. He doesn't care about her nightly profession, if he's going to give someone money he would rather give it to someone he likes and knows about.
Two people, a lonely night in Atlanta, what will happen when the lights go off?
A tale of love, but for who and who for, for just one night without looking into the future.
This story uses the word Daddy as a term of endearment and contains themes of a life of a spicy accountant that takes place nine years before the events of Snowfall.
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain with steamy spicy erotica, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, books, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in, your fantasy life,
Ep 149: John and Eye Candy the Accidental Threesome, FFM at the Bonfire Sex. Fans on Twitter spoke and chose a threesome story as my next podcast episode theme. They also gave me several ideas of what they want, so stay tuned for more requests being filled! In this erotic story, that I spun right off the top of my head as impromptu ad-lib improv erotica, a couple who has been married for ten years decides they want to do a threesome with another woman. They are having cocktails by the bonfire talking about their desires to have a threesome with a woman. The neighbor eavesdrops, on accident, but the result is something they all want ... a threesome! In this hookup threesome sexual tryst, John, Candy, and the neighbor Mary get off by the light of the bonfire. This accidental eavesdropping gets them all an experience they all want!
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Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 150: For Men: New Sex Techniques to Blow Her Mind with Writer Habeeb Akande. This is a must-listen-to episode! It's epic! This episode is geared towards heterosexual men, but heterosexual women will benefit from listening as well. Habeeb Akande, who is a sex expert, historian, and public speaker, shares amazing relationship-improving advice for in the bedroom and out. He shares a special technique practiced in eastern Africa (such as in Rwanda and Kenya) that leads to a very high percentage of women squirting and much sexual pleasure. We chat about the goal of sex, whether that be sexual pleasure, orgasm, or female ejaculation, these are three different things, and of course, we include male ejaculation in this. We must acknowledge the goal of sex is highly subjective and individual. Habeeb shares the culture behind a technique called Kunyaza, which is the secret to female pleasure, and a sexual act that also meets male needs. This technique is also one that can teach a man ejaculation control while keeping the focus on mutual pleasure. He discusses the sex positive practices for sex education in this culture where Kunyaza is practiced, which also includes inducing the feelings of emotional safety, emotional intimacy, and emotional security. Habeeb and I chatted about the sexual culture of the western world and Europe and how porn that stems from these societies can be both helpful and harmful. He shares with us information he has gathered during his ten years of writing and teaching men about a sex-positive and pleasure-filled approach to sex with their partners. We talk about the needs of men and women and the mutual rights to sexual pleasure and satisfaction. We reiterate the common belief that communication is paramount for all relationships.
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 151: Pool Party Hookup Erotica Short Story FWBs Rock NSFW. Per a poll on Twitter, the second most popular choice was a story about a hookup at a party. This story is set on Memorial Day weekend, it's a pool party! Two friends, Jenna and Sam, flirt. They drink, talk, and socialize, and the hungry eye looks they exchange lead to some fun. Will everyone at the party notice? Will the drunk couple care? Have a listen and get your steamy sexy fun setup for summer going on!
Before the Snowfall: Quinn Turns Off Her Red Light: Before the Snowstorm Prequels and Shorts, Book 1
Book Blurb: Quinn's red light is on, and her job is to wrap "Shakespeare" in the steamy shadow she casts from it.
But sometimes, shadows waver.
To understand what Shakespeare truly needs from her, she'll need to take down both of his pen names find out...
She could blind him by her light of her explicit nature. But if she turns off her light, could they both find the solitude to feel whole in the dark?
"Shakespeare" is a new widower and is away from his family for the first time since his wife's death. Coincidentally, a serious acquaintance that doesn't know he is her favorite author, lives close to where he is staying for last night of his trip. He doesn't care about her nightly profession, if he's going to give someone money he would rather give it to someone he likes and knows about.
Two people, a lonely night in Atlanta, what will happen when the lights go off?
A tale of love, but for who and who for, for just one night without looking into the future.
his story uses the word Daddy as a term of endearment and contains themes of a life of a spicy accountant that takes place nine years before the events of Snowfall.
Ep 152: Dispelling 13 Sex Myths with Sex Coach Molly Carter and I narrate an excerpt from her threesome erotica story. This is an amazingly awesome-packed episode! I first share a story excerpt of a threesome story written by Sex Coach Molly Carter. Then Molly and I have an eye-opening awesome chat where she dispels 13 sex myths. Molly Carter has studied sex for many years and has a wealth of knowledge to share to help people have better sex (with a partner(s) or solo), practice better communication with their partner, and thereby get their needs and desires met so they can have the best sex possible. She focuses on helping people be their best sexual selves. She was wonderful to chat with and shares so many helpful and informative tips. This is literally jam-packed with good information about sex, relationships, and how to improve long-term relationships as well. She shares openly about her own sexual experiences and gives key insight to help us all have better sex lives. Have a listen and I hope you learn a lot, get entertained, and find useful nuggets of information to guide you to the best sex of your life!
Molly dispels the following 13 Sex Myths for us:
Sex is defined as penis-in-vagina
Great sex happens naturally
Sex is always the best at the beginning of a relationship
Sex is for young people... People don't have sex after 50... after menopause... after retirement
Great sex is spontaneous
Masturbation is abnormal
People don't talk about sex
Sex should be like/look like it does in porn, movies, romance novels
Men like X. Women like Y.
It's hard for women to orgasm
Great sex = simultaneous orgasms
Size = satisfaction
There is this one great thing you can do to have amazing sex
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended
Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings. Join me on the podcast today while I chat with Karla who is a nine-time Pushcart-Prize nominee and National Park Artist-in-Residence. Her new poetry book is full of erotic and sensual poems about all 63 of her lovers over her lifetime, and she's still counting! She has kept a journal about her love life since that first kiss at 11-years-old that began as the classic ... "Dear Diary". She has used her lifelong journal to create her current WIP erotic book of poems, where the poetry ranges from tender to raunchy and everything in between. I'm honored to be one of her ARC readers! She also has 700+ poems published and a book called "My Body the Guitar", plus many more available on Amazon. She's a senior who loves to remind other seniors that the joy of sex never ends in life and all should be enjoying it throughout the entirety of their lives, never too old to fuck! Never too old to play!
Karla is also a musician and photographer. She's an amazing woman and an inspiration!
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain with steamy spicy erotica, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, books, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 154: Real People Sex Confessions, A Sexy Chat with Podcaster Dear Nikky. Everyone this is an epic interview with the amazing podcaster Dear Nikky, who not only hosts a very popular amazing award-winning real people sex confessions podcast & she's also a US and International best-selling author, but also she's a kickass awesome sexy babe as well! I was so honored when Dear Nikky agreed to be on my podcast because it's a rare thing for her to do, but let me tell you, I'm so thrilled she agreed to chat with me because I had an absolute blast talking with her about sex, sex toys, sex culture, relationships, sex, confessions, more sex, podcasting, and SECKS!!! Did you notice I mentioned we talked about sex? LOL! We had a blast! Check out our amazing fun chat and definitely don't miss out on her thoroughly entertaining, titillating (had to use this word you know), spectacular, amazing sexy fun podcast Dear Nikky. Free on podcast apps. And don't forget, you could send in your sex story too and have Dear Nikky read your story anonymously on the podcast. How delicious will it be to sit and listen to your story be told to the world as everyone listening, including yourself, might be getting off to your hot saucy sexy steamy amazing yummy sexual confession/secret! Go do it! Information on how to submit on her website. Link below.
Connect with Nikky here: https://www.dearnikky.com/ Her podcast can be accessed through her site as well.
Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You book (all book links affiliate) https://amzn.to/3MbsbHf
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 155: Orgasm Permission Control Be My Pleasure Dom, The Sexual Bucket List Episode 11. Come along on this fun sexual escapade where you get to play the role of my Pleasure Dom and tell me when to put the toy to my clit and when to remove it, and you get to decide when I climax. I have to beg. This is a short but steamy sexy episode. Enjoy!
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup. Access more information here: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. You can find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 156: Let Me Seduce You: For Men Guided Pleasure, The Sexual Bucket List Episode 12. Did you listen to episode 155 where you got to be my Dom and tell me when to touch a toy to my clit? Well, this is the flip side where I'm seducing you, guiding you, dominating you by telling you what to do, when to touch yourself, and when you get sexual pleasure. In this joi-inspired Sexual Bucket List date, we enjoy each other. I dance, strip, seduce you, tell you what to do, and then we enjoy mutual masturbation, edging the fuck out of each other. I ride you cowgirl then the reverse to the yummy delicious finish of both! Get your ride on and let me seduce you! You deserve self care.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup. Access more information here: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. You can find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
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Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! love, Ruan
My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and m
Ep 157: MILF Ruan & Her Younger Lover at the Beach in Ruan's Beach Getaway. Listen to me read the first chapter of my erotica novel. In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean. Here's the book blurb:
Ruan and Sebastian are hitting the beach this time for their romantic getaway. Last time the couple stayed the weekend at a cabin in the mountains and christened every room with their sexual experimentation. The beach gives them new inspiration for their affair and for their libidos. They've each brought paraphernalia to surprise each other. Their lust rages high, but their emotions do too.
Although their age difference doesn’t impact them in the bedroom, their relationship is proving to be more than a simple issue of mutual attraction. Their goal is always to satisfy each other's sexual needs, wants, and desires, but there are strong feelings brewing on both sides that throw the getaway into something beyond sex. Blending their lust is easy, but their emotions prove to be more of a storm than just a lovely day at the beach.
This book contains spicy age gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts.
I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening!
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Visit the website to find more sexy podcasts to listen to! My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews wi
Ep 158: MILF Gives a Blow Job Erotica Story. Ruan gives her younger lover Sebastian a blow job before they are going to walk along the beach. In this excerpt from Ruan's Beach Getaway, Ruan and Sebastian just had sex and are enjoying the afterglow of their amazing fuck. They have plans for the day but don't make it out of the beach house before engaging in another sex act, because they just can't help themselves! They are both so hot and horny for each other that they can't keep their hands, or their mouths, off of each other.
In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean.
This book contains spicy age gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am.
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance
Ep 159: Sensational Tease Kinky Sex Scene Lala's Bedtime Tales Erotica, Sex, & Pleasure Talk and Interview. Lala Loves is a podcaster with Lala's Bedtime Tales & an erotica author.
Lala reads a hot and spicy excerpt of her erotica story where a pop star is tied up by her lover for kinky sex, then they engage in exhibitionism.
What's the story about?
A Sensational Tease: Eden Park is back in a place she never wanted to see again, her hometown. She’s a rising pop star that had to leave her tour early to deal with family affairs. While back home in St. Louis, she becomes smitten with a sexy as sin attorney. He’s a cruel, egotistical man, but there’s no denying the sexual tension and attraction between them. Eden will stop at nothing to snag a spot in this hottie’s bed. But, what all is she willing to lose to satiate her sexual desires?
Lala and I have a hot chat about the benefits of erotica, how it's beneficial to all people and what readers can get from it. We talk about women and the benefits and learning potential of reading erotica and using sex toys for solo play and with a partner. Sex toys are wonderful for couples as well.
We touch on sexuality and how we need more reproductive education for women. Lala shares her views on the sex-ed needs of people of color both culturally and socially, including how the black community needs more discussion in relation to sex. She also talked about the over-sexualization of black women throughout history and how this has been harmful to black women's sexual health. There's a great need to address sexual health discussion for black women.
Lala shares information about how her podcast is female-friendly, sex-positive, and educational in addition to her reading arousing sexy erotic stories. She focuses on helping women take control and ownership of their sexy. She provides a free self-pleasure tracker to help women and their partners to help them learn about each other sexually and discuss their needs and wants. It's a great tool!
Lala gives us hints about her erotica coming out soon as well.
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast
Ep 160: Sexual Favors to Get Out of a Speeding Ticket Erotica Story. Max was driving home from working the night shift at the factory. He was tired. He was exhausted. He was hungry. The only thing he wanted to do was get home and masturbate. He needed to release some stress buildup. It had been a really long night of extremely boring work.
The light-up of police car lights behind him sunk his heart. He couldn't get a single break.
Officer Lucy Montoe emerged from the police car like a svelte goddess in her black uniform. Her demeanor was domineering and commanding, making Max's cock fill as she talked to him through his car window. He hadn't realized he had a humiliation kink until watching femdom porn made him come. This police officer oozed all the makings of what his fantasies were made of.
He knew he was in big trouble, but he also knew this officer turned him the fuck on. She offered a deal. Sexual favors for her in order for her to let him go scot-free without a speeding ticket fine. What Max was pleasantly shocked by was that not only was he going to get out of paying a ticket, he was getting the promise of sex. And the beautiful caveat was, that she wanted it more.
Listen to this fantasy come to life hot erotic story that I spun off the top of my head. Adhoc improv style erotic storytelling I created on the spot from a small little three-point outline. I hope you enjoy it! This story is now a novella! Get it here:https://books2read.com/u/bWEXBM and here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3pcRIah
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/
Ep 161: Polyamory, Kink, & Sex Ed with Dirty Lola. My guest is Dirty Lola and I'm excited to share her with you! She's a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. She's a sex-positive individual who openly shares about her personal and sex life. She recently was on the Netflix documentary "The Principles of Pleasure" so check out this show! Connect with Lola at her website: https://www.dirtylola.co/ and her podcast https://www.sexedagogo.com/
Sex Ed & Toys: Lola shares about sex education and how we should be doing it. She and I discuss the value of sex toys and break the negative falsehoods around using them. We discuss the benefits of using sex toys both solo and in a relationship/partnership. She talks about the lack of knowledge in the world of the anatomy of the clitoris and how clit owners benefit from sex toy usage.
Kink: Dirty Lola shares information for those interested in kink, how to get started, how to find it, and how best to proceed into such a way of life. She shares very helpful books (affiliate): The New Topping Book https://amzn.to/3A3roGa and The New Bottoming Book https://amzn.to/3OHMmOX (Another very popular book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton is The Ethical Slut https://amzn.to/3ncHoOj ) Lola instructs us to learn first before we just venture into the world of kink. Be safe. Arm yourself with knowledge.
Polyamory: Lola shares with us her journey to a poly life. It's a part of her sexual identity. She explains the difference of being open versus being poly, and types of relationships therein. She touches on the difference between the poly life and swinging as well.
Ep 162: 9 Essentials for a Sex Vacation and How to Pack Them. Are you going on a sex vacation? Do you want to plan one because you love this idea? I have tips to make it hot, sexy, steamy, fun, and memorable. Whether sex is your vacation goal or just part of the vacation fun, my ideas are concrete ideas and products to help you enjoy, savor, and get the most sexual satisfaction possible. This episode even applies to those traveling without a partner because several of these things will help a person with solo sex as well.
This podcast contains affiliate links to products I use and endorse. Please know that I do get a kickback for advertising the products but that is at no added cost to you.
I hope you find this podcast episode helpful in planning your next vacation with sex in it, or your next sex vacation. You can have so much fun, just pack the right stuff and you will enjoy to the max!
Ep 163: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop part 1: a podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! But mind you, it's not a brothel, it's tip-based, but spankings, suckling, and all-out fucking are decided on a tip basis. Nothing is sold. It's a delicious lush dive into the fantasies many hold about exhibitionism, being used (consensual and non-abusive of course), and voyeurism. The characters all want what's happening to them to happen. They decide it all. And they ALL get off!
The coffee shop is frequented by patrons who keep their eyes open, their wallets open (for coffee and more), and their mouths shut. They want this coffee shop to stay in business. It's guilty pleasures all around! The shop's owner, Harley, created this shop, and his wife works and runs the shop, but damn, does he love to watch what happens in his little scorching lust haven.
I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening!
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
Ep 164: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Part 2 Podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! In this installment we find Lerise engaging with a patron and oh she's got the secrets! And we find out about the titty washer that Harley invented. Have a listen to this piece of erotic fiction! It's a story sure to get you revved up!
I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening!
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,
Ep 165: Lana Hooks up with Customer, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop; a podcast miniseries part 3 of 5. Welcome to installment 3 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. He and his friends are blown away by the open sexuality and sharing that's going on in the shop. This installment marks the beginning of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/
Ep 166: Spanking the Barista, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Story Part 4 of 5, A Podcast Miniseries. Welcome to installment 4 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. This installment is a part of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. They both enjoy the impact play of sexual playful spanking in this episode. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order.
Ep 167: Sex at the Coffee Shop, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Final installment: Part 5 of 5 in the Podcast miniseries. We've made it to the final episode in this sexy steamy story of exhibitionism, voyeurism, hooking up, and sexual satisfiaction! This little spicy story hits the ahhhh!!! button on the sexual kinks of many people. It's a fantasy for some, and a reality for others, but here, you get to experience it and enjoy and imagine all you want! This installment is the final hot sex scene between Lana the barista and the male customer. They share a mutual instant attraction and find they have similar kinks. They both experience delicious climaxes and sexual satisfaction. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://full
Ep 168: Female Sexuality and Sexual Help for Women with Jordan D'Nelle. This is a very epic and amazingly informative episode for women and men too! Jordan D’Nelle is a Physician Associate, Women’s Sexual Health Educator, Intimacy Coach, and speaker. She is the founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators Podcast. Her goal is to raise awareness about conditions, sexuality, sexual intimacy and relationships that specifically affect women. She wants to help normalize women’s health and create a safe space for women to feel validated. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan magazine, Women’s Health Magazine, and many other podcasts. She is a resident blogger for ForPlay films. She has helped many woman overcome shame and have better intimacy with themselves and their partners.
Jordan and I shared an amazing discussion. We chatted about how erotica is a tool, a resource to improve your sex life, as are sex toys. She addressed how poor sex ed is in the US because it has always focused on the male and ignores the female, and shame starts there. We need to rewrite these stories as we create more comprehensive and thorough sex ed now and include both sexes in all discussions. Educators need talk about the real purpose for sex, which also can lead to decreasing shame around sex.
She explained how squirting is not pee. Get a squirt blanket! Yes! It's a thing!
She also elaborated on the types of orgasms females have and that pleasure should be the focus.
I loved how our discussion went when Jordan and I talked about ethical porn, erotic blueprints, and kink, and how kink can be used to heal past trauma by rewriting it. Other fantastic topics we hit on are that there is no "normal" when it comes to sex and kink and how the BDSM community really does it right in terms of consent and communication. It's a great model all relationships should adopt whether they are into kink or not. She talked about how we are all way kinkier than we are lead to believe by society and culture.
She also talked about the benefits of daily masturbation for females, period sex, and taking the time to learn what turns us all on. She highly recommends the book (affiliate) Pussy Reclamation: https://amzn.to/3nEUeF8
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan
P.S. Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars: You can find this book on sale at
Ep 169: Sexual Energy, Empowerment, and Healing with Natasha Edwina. Natasha is an LMFT, an alternative and holistic coach, a hypnotherapist, and a consultant with a focus on pleasure, spirituality, and healing through pleasure. She highlights female sexuality topics that attend to states prior to dysfunction or problems occurring. She also teaches how diet affects both our sexuality and our mental health.
She zones in on the significance of the breath to connect with yourself first before sexual relations. She discusses how women experience pleasure and orgasms differently than men in that they have rolling hills of bliss rather than the hard and fast route to climax and enjoyment. She says, "Don't miss the subtle energy" of the rise of pleasure to orgasm (or not orgasm, but always pleasure).
Heterosexual couples: She talks about the importance of foreplay and how it's not just about touch. It begins way before the sexual encounter. She discusses how the different brain chemistry between the sexes is something to pay attention to and that women are more circular, whereas men are more direct with the hard and fast path, and often compartmentalized. Both men & women would do well by slowing down to understand each other's sensual processes. We talked about why couples should make a fantasy list which includes boundaries that should not be crossed, the devastation that occurs if boundaries are not respected, & the extensive healing needed if a boundary is crossed.
We talked about squirting and how sexuality is taught & treated around the world.
We spent time talking about how erotica is beneficial, especially to women, and how it can be used for sexuality but also remembering that we are all different in this area.
Natasha pointed out that in relationships, we all need sexual connection and a charge, that desire, otherwise it's just a pleasant relationship without passion. She explained how sex is basic to a couple-relationship, it's integral. Communication is key and knowing things change for all people is something we should all recognize, so our sexuality is not static but ever-evolving & changing over time.
She also taught us about how nutrition and sugar impact libido and how sugar is a boner and sex drive killer.
Ep 170: Friends to Lovers Foursome Erotic Excerpt Never Say Never Swing By Ruan Willow. My new book is in presale! And live on Apple! What's it about? It's sexy fun! A great fantasy of many to have multiple partner sex, to swing, to experience and live out an alternative lifestyle. Ethical nonmonogamy is when members of a couple both agree on having sex with others, but their relationship stays intact, so it's about sharing sexual experiences rather than cheating.
Here's the book blurb: Never Say, Never Swing by Ruan Willow Two couples have been friends for years. Their families have hung out, but they've spent many evenings alone as just couples, without the kids. They are comfortable together as a group and they've always enjoyed each other's company. So, Miranda and Kyle wonder why not enjoy each other more on a whole deeper level?
One evening when the two couples are enjoying dinner, the topic of sex comes up. They fall into a flirty discussion that launches the foursome into a new topic they've never explored. Much to Karley and Dean's surprise, their friends are secret swingers. As they get entangled more into their flirtations, Miranda and Kyle decide to trek into new territory with their friends Karley and Dean and bring up the often-called taboo topic of swinging. The foursome launches into a negotiation discussion that might just propel them from friends to lovers, couples style.
With this new exhilarating adventure brewing, each person may just get to saunter down a new path and experience the pleasure of living out a fantasy they've never had the chance to enjoy. Will their new foray into swinging explode Karley's and Dean's sexuality as it did for Kyle and Miranda, or will it leave them devastated they dared to venture into this new alternative lifestyle?
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://
Ep 171: Sapphic Erotic Tale Unwrapping Santa. It's Christmas in July! And stay for the Author Chat with Emily S Hurricane. Listen to me narrate Emily's very sexy Santa story with light BDSM, a woman-loving-woman story (WLW) with a very intriguing and sexy twist! Then stick around for the amazing author chat where Emily and I talk about all things writing, writing erotica, and in other genres, plus we talk about indie publishing, successes and challenges, and the writing process. Emily is an accomplished writer who has authored many works in multiple genres as a ghostwriter and for herself under her own pen names. She also works as a freelance editor. This Canadian author was a delight to chat with and she shared many tips for those venturing onto the indie publishing path. She's just totally amazing!
Emily is an east-coast Canadian thirtysomething mom of two humans and a furbaby. Her lumbersexual husband doesn’t actually work in lumber anymore, but he still wears the plaid and the beard.
As well as authoring, she’s a freelance editor and ghostwriter. Her books range in genre from Romance and Erotica to Horror and Science Fiction, and everything in between.
When she’s not writing and/or momming, she’s sipping espresso, crocheting, and listening to audiobooks.
You can find Emily and her collected works at emilyshurricane.com.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/
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Ep 172: Shedding Sexual Shame and Enhancing Intimacy with Dr. Kristie Overstreet, Sex Therapist and Sexologist. Dr. Overstreet is also a psychotherapist, author, speaker, and podcast host at Fix Yourself First. She teaches people how to get emotional and physical intimacy; yes, she gets to talk about sex all day!
Dr. Kristie and I discussed shedding sexual shame to promote pleasure. We chatted about fantasies and how to share fantasies with your partner. She talked about how to enhance intimacy and the different kinds of intimacy. We discussed sexual boundaries, how to communicate those boundaries, and what happens when a partner crosses a boundary. She talked about the Dom/sub dynamic and relationship/lifestyle, and we also talked about how our libidos and sexual interests change over time, and how to navigate that. She also talked about the types of orgasms and the role of sex toys/ masturbation in relationships.
She also helps healthcare providers give respectful and dignified care for LGBTQIA+ individuals. She offers a quiz to help people find out their needs. Check out her courses and therapy offerings on her website (link below).
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In this erotic romance, filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean. This book contains spicy age gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts.
I'm on Full Swap Radio! An internet radio channel you can listen online or in an app. Listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.
Ep 174: Gay Erotica Author John Valjean Interview and Book Excerpt Reading where John narrates part of his tale for us from his My Daddy Valentine story (see the chapter marker to just listen to the excerpt). I'm excited to share this interview and erotica excerpt with you! John is a very prolific author and content creator. He writes about taboo kink erotic topics such as family, role play, and other topics with really open-minded characters. He loves to get people hot!
We chatted about writing, publishing, promoting our work, reviewers (both good and stinky bad ones who take petty jabs--ha!), and the current culture around sex and erotic writing. We had a blast! If you like to listen to two authors chatting, you will love our discussion!
I'm on Full Swap Radio! An internet radio channel you can listen online or in an app. Listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/
Want to be a part of my review team and read/review my books for FREE? Check out the books I currently have available for reviewers on BookSirens and Story Origin App under Ruan Willow.
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Ep 175: Super Hot Erotic Shorts by Ruan. I write little erotica shorts, little erotic pieces of fiction for social media like Twitter, Instagram, etc and today's podcast is me reading them. I enjoy it so much! It's so fun to narrate sexy stuff for all of you! I really get into it! It's so sexy and hot!
The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now in presale! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu!https://books2read.com/u/bp8elJ
The Kitchen Sex Challenge: a couple challenges each other with sex games and challenges https://amzn.to/3BoqMvv
My show is also on: I'm on Full Swap Radio! An internet radio channel you can listen online or in an app. Listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/
Want to be a part of my review team and read/review my books for FREE? Check out the books I currently have available for reviewers on BookSirens and Story Origin App under Ruan Willow.
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Ep 176: Swimming Naked, Skinny Dipping & Hot Summer Sex at the Pond Erotica Story created ad hoc, ad lib, impromptu right off the top of Ruan Willow's head live as she recorded it. Phineas Larson and Star Monet are both young adults in their twenties getting their starts in their careers. Both work hard and get sweaty, she in her garden, and him on the farm, so they both desire a swim in the pond. Life is busy, and who needs a swimsuit anyways, no one is ever at the pond so skinny dipping is in order on a hot summer day. And damn, it will feel good to glide in the cool water naked after working hard in the summer heat. Star arrives first and she decides a little masturbation is in order before her swim, so she pleasures herself, only to find out afterward that she had a horny onlooker, who is well-meaning, but definitely saw more than Star ever intended anyone to see. Listen to this sexy steamy summer sex tale to discover what happens after the wannabe swimmers become aware of each other at the pond.
The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now in presale! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on the menu!
Ep 177: The Manwhore Podcaster Billy Procida is My Guest, We Chat About Sexual Adventures, Relationships, Sex Toys/Experiences, podcasting, and more! This is a fabulous episode where I enjoyed chatting with the host of the long-running podcast The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest. Billy is a comedian, podcaster, and sexual adventurer. He's on Only Fans as @callmebilly where he explores his sexuality and shares it. We chatted about dating, sexual adventures, new sexual experiences, and sex toys. We talked about his past hookups, which was the premise for him starting the podcast. On his podcast, he often talks about nonmonogamy, polyamory, dating, and other sex-positive topics. He does fun and outlandish sexual adventures on his podcast and loves connecting with guests, creating sexual tension, naked podcasting, and exploring his sexuality openly for himself, for his fans, and in front of the world.
The Licking Sip Coffee Shop is now out! This is a naughty exhibitionistic, voyeuristic naughty tale where the baristas are topless and the steamiest stuff is not on th
Ep 178: The Pegging Book and Male Prostate Orgasms with Authors Cooper S Beckett and Lyndzi Miller published by Thorntree Press. The Pegging Book: A Complete Guide to Anal Sex with a Strap-On Dildo is the topic of this podcast episode. I was lucky to be able to chat with both authors in this interview/chat. They are both podcasters as well, check out their links below to find out more. Cooper S. Beckett is also an author of several books on his own.
In this discussion about their manual to pegging, we chatted about pegging as an act, where the term came from and what it means. They gave their advice and tips for pegging, for sex toy products for pegging, and about male anatomy, including the prostate. The P spot for men/people with penises, is analogous to the female G spot. Cooper shared with us his amazing experiences with prostate orgasms!
They both shared reasons why pegging is beneficial to both partners and to a relationship, and also to long term relationships. They talked about shame and fears associated with sexual butt play, and how some men inappropriately make the fragility of their ego their partner's problem and how we should all be more sexually open. We discussed if pegging is kinky, and the answer is, that depends on the person/couple/group. We touched briefly on if milking the prostate is healthy, why prostate orgasms are fabulous for men on psych meds, and why we should all masturbate daily. Yes! I love that!
Lyndzi, who works in a sex shop as an assistant manager and an educator, shared with us why sex shops are so beneficial to everyone's sexuality, and it's not just for the reason that we can get toys!
They shared about their upcoming launch party for the book releasing this October. The book will be coming out in ebook, paperback, and audiobook (which the authors are narrating themselves, woohoo!) Find the book here (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3Q5ye2S
Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ruan's books: My DEBUT LESBIAN NOVEL Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains their taboo relationship and many explicit BDSM lesbian sex sc
179: Lesbian Dressing Room Sex Date: A Story of Sexual Exhibitionism. The setup for this story is a polycule family, which is a polyamorous group of people who are in a relationship with each other and have sex with one another (usually in a long-term arrangement/situation). Once in a while, this family gifts each other a day of sex with others outside the polycule. In this story, the plan was that one of the women in the polycule family, Michelle, was to get a day of sex dates where she'd go from date to date all day long having enjoyable sexual relations that were designed with her tastes in mind. Michelle, a beautiful bisexual woman, loved exhibitionism. This story was to be my chapter in an anthology. But that anthology has tragically been canceled.
Why you ask? Here's why. And the story behind this is sad, but the story is fun, sexy, and celebratory of sexual openness and exploration and honors Michelle.
This story was originally written for an anthology that was being created in loving memory of an erotica author who passed away from cancer. The proceeds for the book were to go to cancer research. Before her husband could get the book live, he was tragically killed. So the story was given back to me to do with as I pleased. I decided I wanted to still honor Michelle's memory and put my chapter out into the world. Michelle was an erotica author who went up and above over the top to support other erotica authors, to buy their books, and write reviews. Her erotica books are still on Amazon at: https://www.amazon.com/Michelle-Myer/e/B01MSDTQAU Check out her books! Her legacy of books is still there. I hope it stays in loving memory of her and all the support she offered up to the erotica writing community. What an amazing person she was!
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Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life.
Ep 180: Two Erotica Authors, Lucille Lewis & Ruan Willow, Chat about writing erotica, fantasies, sex, & the writer's life. Listen to my chat with Lucille! We had so much fun! It's a girl's chat & you get to listen in! We discussed writing: how to do it, writer's block, story development, & using both our own sexual fantasies & those of others, in our erotic writing. She read an erotic poem, which was yummy! We chatted about the novel she's working on, which she is co-writing, plus her writing on Medium. We discussed how erotica helps people explore and experience their kinks and fantasies & why it's so much more powerful, & personal, as compared to watching porn. We broached the topic of the negativity of many people in this world who view erotica as bad, those judgmental people are a part of the bigger problems in our sex-is-taboo sex-negative society. Erotica embraces sex/sexuality openly as a normal everyday thing, which it should be, & often is, even though our culture tries to pretend it's not. We chatted about how important it is to be a genuine person, a whole person, on social media. We talked about how real friendships can happen on spaces like Twitter, & how close & solid those friendships can be. We get to connect & make friends with like-minded people from all over the world we may never have met in our lives. We gushed about how unbelievably great, supportive, & amazing the erotic writing community is on Twitter. It's a very special phenomenon that constantly blows my mind in a very good way. Check out Lucille Lewis's work on Medium: https://medium.com/@looloubelle Follow her on Twitter: http://twitter.com/LoolouLewis Thank you for coming on my podcast Lucille! Want to join Medium? Learn more through my affiliate link: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Connect with Ruan:https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New Audiobook: Daddy Never Had to Use His Belt on Me Before: A BDSM Impact Play Spanking Story (affiliate) worldwide access: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/9b69e62e-19ab-11ed-9d46-676ce26d62f8 Amazon US Store affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3vYOafe Podcast merchandise! https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/
Ep 181: Daddy Never Had to Use His Belt on Me Before: A BDSM Impact Play Spanking Story written by Benson E. Wolf, narrated by Ruan Willow. In this excerpt of the audiobook I narrated, you will get an intense storyline of a Daddy Dom/sub dynamic. This consensual type of spanking impact play should always be consensual. Talk about such an act and get consent before you do it. Many people love the power dynamics and role play components of a Daddy Dom/sub relationship. This is hardcore spanking with a belt. I thoroughly enjoyed acting out the parts of the sub Andrea, who gets spanked, and Daddy Dom Todd.
Want to know more? Here's the book blurb: Andrea keeps making the same mistakes over again, but when Daddy Todd shows up to find out why his teaching colleague and friend didn't show up for work, she will have to submit to the spicy lesson plan that will leave a lasting impact on her...in the end.
Is Todd prepared to use corporal punishment on this naughty cheerleading coach? When will she realize that this won't be a sexy funishment but punishment that will make her look back and feel the steam rise as her skin flushes many colors?
The age gap between the two naughty friends will not stop Todd from making sure that her tail will tell naughty tales.
Ep 182: Owning Your Sexual Self with Rachel Maine. Rachel is a Sex Therapist, Sex & Relationship Coach, and podcaster at Owning Your Sexual Self. She's an amazing resource to help people have better sex, improved relationships, and more pleasure in their lives. She was fascinating and wonderful to chat with and I'm super excited to share her with all of you!
We chatted about the masculine and feminine energies, including what they both are with examples, and why we should embrace both sides of them within ourselves. Yup. We have both! It's not a gender thing; it's an energy thing.
We also talked about how sex toys and erotica are great tools to improve your sexuality of yourself and of that with your partner. They are an enhancement, a tool, not a replacement.
We talked about how important communication is in relationships. We also addressed the fact that around 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to climax (and how sex toys can help with this too in positions where the clit is not getting enough stimulation to reach climax).
Rachel talked about low desire and how to help with that, plus I loved her discussion of erotic blueprints and how knowing what category you fall into can help guide your sex life to flow more smoothly, and efficiently, and lead to more satisfaction and pleasure. There's a website that offers how to help you determine which category you fall into: https://missjaiya.com/
We talked about the definition of orgasms and how there are different types and how important foreplay is ... and it's her favorite 'F' word! I love that! She also recommends women have an orgasm before penetration occurs since women can often easily have multiple orgasms.
Other topics include sexuality, romance, psychology, self care, intimacy, health and fitness.
Oral Stimulation! Listen and enjoy as erotica author Ruan Willow reads her sexy titillating yummy erotic stories. Ruan talks about sex with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and erotica fiction. Ruan is sharing ideas to enhance your relationship and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. She also will be reading her erotic poems and prose and interviewing erotica authors. Celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, Ruan cares about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NFSW. Get podcast merchandise with Oh F*ck Yeah on shirts at the online store here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Copyright 2021-2022 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow
Connect with Ruan Willow across the internet, find her books, audiobooks, sex blog, and all the places she is published across the internet at: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
Ep 183: Doggystyle Sex is What She Loves Erotica Fiction Story, an impromptu improv on the spot erotic story spun by Ruan. Yup! It's one of those stories I created on the fly as I recorded ... all about a couple who loves doggystyle. Marissa and Lance love their doggystyle sex and they can't wait to get it going on! Marissa has made dinner. Lance comes home in a suit and Marissa gets the urge to call him 'Sir' and service him in the suit he wore to work. It's an erotic tale of a blow job in a business suit, doggystyle sex, and lots of begging before dinner even starts!
Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB Book Blurb: They might as well have woken up and said, ‘It’s in our stars today.’
Star Monet is a sumptuous woman and she has needs, sexual needs. She strips with the intent to pleasure herself right on the pond's shore, after all, she's alone right?
Phineas Larson, a farmer and assistant manager on a nearby farm owned by his dad, can't believe his luck when he sneaks up and catches a goddess satisfying herself.
A swim is what they both need and want, but seeing each other naked is no way to start a romance. That's backward.
Ep 184: Men's Pleasure & Sexuality with Sex Coach, podcaster, and Australia's leading men's sex coach Cam Fraser. In this episode, we get all the experience, knowledge, and wisdom on sexuality and relationships from the amazing sex coach Cam Fraser. He's out of Australia so he has that awesome kickass accent! I loved our chat. I learned a lot from Cam. We chatted about how curiosity should be our approach to our sexuality as well as open-mindedness, rather than being judgmental and assumptive. Many of our assumptions about sex that we have learned are incorrect and can limit us significantly. We talked about a sexual myth about men's sexuality, and this blew me away! I had no idea! We also chatted about masturbation, performative sex versus pleasure-based, tips on how to give a good blow job, and how best to talk about fantasies with our partners. Did you know the optimal way to masturbate? Well, Cam shares all in this episode! We also talked about sex toys for men, how to increase testosterone naturally, sex and pleasure, and how the media shapes and limits our view of sex, sexuality, and relationships. We shouldn't give it so much power! We also chatted about ethical porn sites...whoop whoop we did it up! Have a listen and stock up your sexual knowledge so you can have better sex, both solo and with a partner(s). You can do it! You deserve it! Let's go!
Find him on social media as thecamfraser His podcast is called Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser.
Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB They might as well have woken up and said, ‘It’s in our stars today.’
Ep 185: A Sexy Pick You Up Episode. Need a sexy pick me up... well... actually pick you up? Need some sexual thoughts to rev up your day? To relax with? To get your erotic motors juiced up and ready? I've got some quick little erotic fiction snippets, some little sexy scenes, to give you some flash fiction erotica to brighten heighten and set your day on fire! Oh f*ck yeah, let's go!
Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB Book Blurb: They might as well have woken up and said, ‘It’s in our stars today.’
Star Monet is a sumptuous woman and she has needs, sexual needs. She strips with the intent to pleasure herself right on the pond's shore, after all, she's alone right?
Phineas Larson, a farmer and assistant manager on a nearby farm owned by his dad, can't believe his luck when he sneaks up and catches a goddess satisfying herself.
A swim is what they both need and want, but seeing each other naked is no way to start a romance. That's backward.
Ep 186: Dom sub Discussion with Fat Chicks On Top Podcaster, author, performer, and kinkster Auntie Vice. Her work focuses on kink, BDSM, and gender. We really had quite the epic & amazing conversation. We chatted about Dom/sub topics including what Dom's hate most, who benefits from a Dom/sub relationship, kink and D/s, sub space and top or Dom space, consent, and how the BDSM/Dom/sub communities do consent the best and should be models for lawmakers. With a background in law, she shares fabulous, and shocking, insight into laws surrounding sexuality and consent. She even shares action tips for us all to take to protect ourselves and have our voices heard. This information can be found on her website. Check out her linktree for access to all her links/books/classes https://linktr.ee/AuntieVice and her website https://www.auntievice.com/
Auntie Vice is an author, instructor, performer, and podcaster. Her extensive knowledge and experiences in all things dominant and submissive are helpful, insightful, and expansive. She has several books and courses available about the Dom/sub dynamic. Here's one called the Big Workbook for Submissives which is a Golden Flogger Finalist at (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3qlE9G5
We discussed how she loves to create a space for expression and discussion for those marginalized from the current sex-positive movement such as big/fat folks, those of color, disabled people, queer folks, sex workers, and nongender conforming people. Check out her podcast for more on these topics https://www.auntievice.com/podcast
Auntie Vice's other books: Dating Kinky: How to find the kinky love of your fantasies. (Dating Kinky Presents Book 1) in ebook https://amzn.to/3cy2qp7 and in audiobook https://amzn.to/3pZ8k5E
To connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB Being at the right place at the right time sparks two naked young lovers to take a chance.
Ep 187: Two Female Podcasters Talk About Sex, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries & Ruan Willow.
Layla went through a dry spell for sex for years and woke up one day with the intention to explore her sexuality and not lie dormant any longer. She made a sex bucket list and began podcasting about her personal sexual journey.
Layla is open about sexuality as I am so our chat went all over the topics of sexuality including women's sexuality, sex exploration, sex toys, the value of changing sexual positions with a partner and in solo play, and the different types of orgasms we've both experienced. Layla gives insight into sexual relations and masturbation in how to get out of your sexual rut and stave off the boringness of sex. She shares personal info about her sex life and what she thinks is the best lesson she's learned. She also shares about her tradition of doing March Masturbation Madness Month and how that is so valuable to her. And yep, it's all on her podcast! She also talks about why women should give certain sexual ponderings/doings at least a month of dedication. She says we can reset our brains to become more orgasmic, and she discusses how we as women can do this. She stresses the importance for women to make their sexuality a priority and gives us tips on how to keep our libido up. We chatted about our friends at The T&A Podcast and Full Swap Radio.
We also talk about podcasting in the sexuality genre, the challenges, and ideas for success.
It was an epic chat and soon I will be on her show as a guest!
To connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB Being at the right place at the right time sparks two naked young lovers to take a chance.
Ep 188: “It hurts when having sex.” Do you find yourself saying that sentence? Sex should be fun and satisfying. It should feel good. But for some women, penetrative sex is painful. Yikes! Something that is supposed to be enjoyable and give people feel-good hormones is suddenly dead in the water when unwanted pain chokes off the fun. I’m so happy to be sharing that there is a solution to help eliminate the pain! I’m excited to share this tool so that people can quit being plagued by painful sex. Curious? Here's my affiliate link to it: https://tinyurl.com/3ccdnacy
Sex Should be Enjoyable, Not Painful.
There are other ways to enjoy sex and physical closeness with a partner other than vaginal penetration, such as oral sex, nipple play, cuddling and caressing each other, stimulating the clitoris and or penis, or anal sex. But if penetrative sex is something both partners desire to include in their sexual intimacy but it hurts, then intimacy can’t be at its best. I’m an affiliate for a sex toy company called MysteryVibe. I recently received an announcement from them that one of their products reduces pain from penetrative sex for those suffering from such pain. I was very excited to hear this news. Immediately, I wanted to spread this information around because I’m passionate about helping people have better sex, both solo and with a partner(s), improve their sex lives, and experience increased libido so they can enjoy their bodies and their interpersonal relationships.
That’s a lot of words for … I just want people to enjoy sex!Ha! Well, it’s true, I do.
Being limited by the fear of pain due to penetration during sex is a sad state to be in. This pain closes off a whole area of the body that can bring pleasure, namely the G-spot/internal clitoris. So, when something gets invented to help alleviate that pain, I have a giant urge to shout it from the rooftops. Woohoo! Let’s go!
What Can a Woman Do When It Hurts When Having Sex?
If this is you, what are the options? Listen and find out in this episode.
The sex toy/tool is Crescendo, and it has resulted in a 480% improvement in pain scores for those suffering from painful sex. WOW! Now that’s some seriously positive results! The disorder that was studied is called Genito-Pelvic Pain & Penetration Disorder (GPPPD). They report “1 in 10 women suffer from GPPPD, a condition known to cause painful sex and difficulty with vaginal penetration. There are currently limited treatment options available for GPPPD, therefore, this news is unprecedented and potentially Quality-of-Life changing.”
Ep 189: Date Night Sex at the Car Wash. This is a story I created right off the top of my head as I recorded this episode... basically erotic improv storytelling. I have so much fun! Okay... let's get to it! It's date night for Kate and Darren! They are 38 and 44. Kate has brown hair, sexy brown eyes, and lots of curves that Darren, with a sexy dad body, loves. They've been dating for a while and things are going well for them. They love to challenge each other to grow together in their sexuality. Kate is a bit more daring than Darren, but he's enjoying expanding his boundaries with her. Kate sends him a sext about their date for the evening. She texts this: Surprise me and come on to me in a place you are kind of scared to fool around in but yet intrigued. He agrees to come up with an idea. After much pondering, he comes up with surprising her with fooling around, and hopefully full sex, in a car wash. But he keeps it a secret from her so she's on pins and needles all day waiting. Oh, do they get it on in the car wash! Have a listen and enjoy!
Ruan's new 10 story anthology is in presale mode (releasing 10/22/22) Decadent Erotica: An Anthology of Erotic Tales to Quench Desires Learn more at the link below: affiliate https://amzn.to/3RyOsCw
Ruan's other new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues.
Have Kinky Sex, Participate in BDSM or an Alternative Lifestyle? Know Your Rights & Support with NCSF Susan Wright. What is NCSF? It's the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. They are a nonprofit organization that focuses on advances of equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expression. Visit them online here: https://linktr.ee/ncsfreedom and directly to their website here: https://ncsfreedom.org/
I was fortunate to be able to chat directly with the executive director of NCSF Susan Wright in this interview. It was very enlightening and educational. She talked about how NCSF has been able to influence policy and laws, including getting laws rewritten, and they've been able to make needed changes to medical standards for assessing individuals more accurately and fairly (which is very important for sexual assault and such things as divorce and child custody hearings), and they've also influenced the media to not be discriminatory. They have power!
And the great thing is they share that power with the people who need it. They can help you if you are being shamed or targeted in legal matters for your sexuality choices. You can literally contact them and they will help you. They even want people to notify them of injustices so they can go to work on rectifying the issues. They are a team of professional people who have resources to share to help you. Please don't hesitate to contact them.
They also have a blog and information available about consent and other topics related to kink, BDSM, sexual orientation, alternative lifestyles, swingers, and ethical nonmonogamy. Check them out today! Be sure to listen to the podcast because the statistics she states may shock you.
Thank you for being a guest on my podcast Susan!
I hope you find helpful advice and self help for relationships, law, sex, intimacy, and legal matters in this episode.
Ruan's new 10 story anthology is in presale mode (releasing 10/22/22) Decadent Erotica: An Anthology of Erotic Tales to Quench Desires Learn more at the link below: affiliate https://amzn.to/3RyOsCw
Ruan's other new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naug
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Ep 191: Doggy Shower Sex erotic story number 13 of the Sexual Bucket List series. This is a series where I do erotic improv where I spin an erotic tale right off the top of my head live as I record the episode. The erotic story is told in a combination of first person and second person, so it's "you" and "I" points of view. This is an early morning doggy shower sex date and it's wet, hot, and explosively satisfying! Have you listened to the rest of my Sexual Bucket List series? If you haven't caught it yet, check out my public playlists on Spotify and search for the Sexual Bucket List playlist. Here's the link: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1hzeldaHzbdsSsd22HF5eL?si=xOKVMM8uRguawUMJnaX8Bg
One of my favorite sex toys, the one I mention in this episode is Zumio, whom I'm an affiliate for. September is sexual health month so buy one get one free. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack=
Ep 192: Vagina/Yoni Mapping, Pleasure, Health, Wellness, & Empowerment with Freya Graf. This is an amazing episode for vagina owners and their partners! We can learn so much from Freya to improve our lives!
Who is Freya Graf? Freya Graf is a Holistic Sex Educator & Coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist with a passion for holistic health and personal development.
She keeps it real, raw and relatable when it comes to talking about sex, relating and bodies, and is on a mission to dismantle the shame, taboo and stigma shrouding these important topics by having open and vulnerable conversations about them through her work with women and on her hilarious podcast The Labia Lounge.
With a background of study in Kahuna massage, yoni massage, facilitation, early learning, yoga teaching, tantric bodywork and sacred sexuality, Freya works to inspire, educate and empower, supporting you to cultivate a fulfilling and life-changing relationship with your body and sexuality!
Freya offers one-on-one Yoni Mapping Therapy sessions for vulva-owners, and online sex coaching and education programs for the whole gender spectrum. She has just launched an epic 3 month online course called Queen Out and pours her heart, soul and lots of laughter into her podcast The Labia Lounge where she interviews incredible guests about all things womanhood, sex, vaginas, relationships, holistic health and self development!
Freya and I chatted about podcasting in the field of sexuality and the ability with podcasting to talk about taboo topics and to get open conversations going, which is so helpful for all people. She explains what Yoni mapping is because she's a Yoni Mapping Therapist. She focuses on female health using sex therapy, talk therapy, communications, and body work through massage and touch. She incorporates energy work and guided touch for vagina owners to learn more about their bodies, and their pleasure zones, for help with healing, and to help women explore their sexuality. She teaches clients about their pleasure anatomy and assists in 'waking up' numb areas. She helps women become aware of all of their parts by improving their body awareness. She focuses on pleasure, all types of pleasure.
She also talks about what a crygasm is, helps women who have penetrati
Ep 193: Sex Positive Talk with the Sexuality Podcasters of the Full Swap Radio Internet Radio Station. Hey everyone! I have three epic sexuality podcasts to introduce you to! They are a part of the Full Swap Radio Internet Radio station network and family! I had so much fun chatting with all of these people! You will love the clips and then slip and slide on over to hear the full episode of each (links below).
Who are they? Dear Nikky, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries, and the husband and wife team of Kyle and Lilly Canon at The Speak Seductively Podcasts. They are all fantastic and amazing, stupendous, and sexy hot as fck content creators! We are all on the internet radio station Full Swap Radio at https://fullswapradio.com/
Ep 187: Two Female Podcasters Talk About Sex, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries & Ruan Willow. Layla is open about sexuality as I am so our chat went all over the topics of sexuality including women's sexuality, sex exploration, sex toys, the value of changing sexual positions with a partner and in solo play, and the different types of orgasms we've both experienced. Layla gives insight into sexual relations and masturbation in how to get out of your sexual rut and stave off the boringness of sex. She shares personal info about her sex life and what she thinks is the best lesson she's learned. https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11271006-two-female-podcasters-talk-about-sex-layla-london-of-the-curious-girl-diaries-ruan-willow
Ep 75: BDSM Erotica Excerpt, the Swinging Lifestyle, & Erotica Author Interview with Kyle Canon, and Voiceover Narrator Lilly Canon.An amazing episode! Listen as I interview this awesome sex-positive poly couple who work very well together as a team for creating content and running their podcast Speak Seductively.
Ep 194: Their First Orgy Sex Party An Excerpt from Decadent Erotica by Ruan Willow. This episode has been sponsored by The Premium Reviewer. Find them online at thepremiumreviewer dot com for reviews of XXX content.
In this episode, I narrate an excerpt from my new erotic anthology:
Book Blurb: Decadent Erotica is an anthology to please your deepest desires. It's a book of ten erotic stories to quench your fantasies and will also satisfy, intrigue, and enflame your passion. This sexy book includes stories about a pleasure Dom with his sub where he's addicted to making her climax, a couple who succumbs to dark alley impromptu intimacy, naughty office oral fun between coworkers, sneaky and intense nighttime passion between a husband and wife, and a scorching hot coffee shop that pushes all the limits. Not only will those steamy tales light up your yummy alone reading time, but so will the short stories about taboo female domination, a morning filled with surprise skin-on-skin rubs, but also thong panties plucked from the kitchen cabinet as inspiration for intimate relations, and a threesome rendezvous in a dressing room where female-female-male means extreme pleasure taken while in semi-public. And last but not by any means least, excite yourself with an extremely hot orgy party story.
Get this compilation of steamy spicy short stories from Ruan Willow all in one book. She's an erotica author, podcaster at Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, sex blogger & influencer, and NSFW audiobook narrator. Some of these stories are also narrated by Ruan on the podcast. Check out her podcast which is free on podcast apps and on this site as well.
Short story titles in this anthology: FFM Dressing Room Hookup Rendezvous Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party His and Her Sleepfucking, Nighttime Passion, Getting Fucked into the Afterglow Her Pleasure Dom Dark Alley Sex Getting Head at Work A Morning Tit Tuck Sweetened a Dreaded Day A Thong in the Kitchen Cupboard The Licking Sip Coffee Shop His Submission, She Dominated Him Out of a Speeding Ticket
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Ep 195: Girl Sex, Communication & Sex, and Sexual Culture with Allison Moon. Allison is an author and sex educator. She focuses on female sexuality, queer women, and communication tools and strategies for better sex and sexual relations. Her popular books Girl Sex 101 and Getting It are great tools to help people communicate about sex with others, shed shame, and rock a partner's sexual world. Allison is very knowledgeable about sexual culture, queer sexuality, sexual citizenship, and sexual techniques/communication and has traveled around the US and Canada teaching people. Today she shares all her incredible insights on my podcast!
Allison's books are also great for heterosexual men who want to learn how to pleasure a woman like a lesbian, for those who wish to know about female pleasure and sexual anatomy, and how to best communicate about (and during) sex. Allison talked about how there is power in normalizing eroticism and sex, and that talking about sex is a great way to do that. Our society is currently trying to hide sex, so in talking about sex, we can combat this.
Allison gave some fabulous tangible tips and scripts for ways to do sexy and hot communication and provide advocacy of our needs during sex.
We also talked about when a partner crosses sexual boundaries and what ensues.
Allison and I talked about how female sexual anatomy is not only ignored but hidden from the public, even in medical settings and with medical providers. The clit and the penis are the same, even in size, it's just that the clit is primarily an internal organ and the clitoral head is the only external part. Education, which includes anatomy, is essential for better sex for clit owners and reaching climaxing pleasure.
She also talked about how feminist sex stores/sex-positive sex stores, are great resources for people for not only products but in talking with and learning from sex store retail and teaching staff. Find a store near you to visit! Check her website for a guide to finding one.
Ep 196: Sexy Sweet & Hot Nothings by Ruan. Lots of little snippets of sexy hot micro erotic scenes. Enjoy the yummy ride with me! Listen and imagine, enjoy and satisfy, all the hot delicious sexy fun! Delve into the thick swollen ride with me as I spin little hot nothings for you, or maybe they are everythings!
Ruan's Beach Getaway Erotic Romance Novella: In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean.
This book contains spicy age-gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts.
My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am.
Ep 197: Dark Erotica for Halloween The Femdom Coven erotica excerpt. Ruan narrates a part of her story, The Genie's Wish, from The Femdom Coven anthology book. This is the second book in the trilogy of anthologies. The final one will release Valentine's Day 2023. The first anthology with this group of authors was He Will Obey (see below for links to these books).
The Genie's Wish is a dark erotic story of witch seduction and enchantment. Hanson is a college student. He is mesermized by the sexy coffee shop owner Goddess and under her spell, but he wants to be with her. More than anything he wants to have sex with Goddess, but sex with Goddess means something will be forever. What will Hanson choose?
Book Blurb: Decadent Erotica is an anthology to please your deepest desires. It's a book of ten erotic stories to quench your fantasies and will also satisfy, intrigue, and enflame your passion. This sexy book includes stories about a pleasure Dom with his sub where he's addicted to making her climax, a couple who succumbs to dark alley impromptu intimacy, naughty office oral fun between coworkers, sneaky and intense nighttime passion between a husband and wife, and a scorching hot coffee shop that pushes all the limits. Not only will those steamy tales light up your yummy alone reading time, but so will the short stories about taboo female domination, a morning filled with surprise skin-on-skin rubs, but also thong panties plucked from the kitchen cabinet as
Ep 198: Sex is Messy, Dirty, & Pleasurable, Understanding Our Sexuality with Dr. Joe Kort. "Sexuality and erotic interests are not clean. They are messy, nuanced, smelly, dirty, prideful, pleasurable, shameful, and we have to make room for all of that and not try to clean it up and try to make it a textbook thing," said Dr. Joe Kort. This is the last sentence he said in the interview and I think it's so very right, poignant, and definitely an accurate statement. Sex is all of those things, and even more! And it's certainly not cookie-cutter or so-called "normal". There is no normal. And why should there be? We are all individuals, as is each of our sexualities.
Listen to and learn from our amazing discussion! He has years and years of experience, he's so knowledgeable about sex and relationships. We chatted about all things sexuality. He shared about his journey coming out as a gay man in the seventies, how his mom was enlightened enough to get him help, but how he also fell into the trap of being labeled with a sexual addiction, which he later learned was false as with time he learned more about sexual health and reframed his mindset to a much healthier one. He became a therapist in response to his journey.
He counsels predominantly heterosexual couples, and he shared some very interesting stories from his practice.
He talked about how our sexual orientation is not in the acts we do, but rather it's who we are. He talked about how we need to shed shame, and how the worldviews have changed regarding gay/lesbian people. We also chatted about how trans people are being stigmatized now.
We talked about sexual orientation, masturbation, erotic compassion, cracking our erotic code, and how what's driving it isn't even about sex at all. He highlighted the importance of shedding shame for healthier sexuality and how couples really need to harness the mindset of having erotic compassion for one another, and not judge each other for their fantasies.
Ep 199: Kinky Sex at Home in a Sex Fort Erotica Story Part 1 of 2 written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Jenna is waiting for Tom to come home from work. She has a new lace-up bodysuit on to surprise him. As part of her surprise for their at-home date, she has made and stocked a sex fort for them to enjoy intimacy together. She calls it a f*ck fort. She loads the homemade sex hut with alcoholic beverages, sensual foods to enjoy together during foreplay, sex toys, and their new sex wedge pillow. She's wearing stockings too as she greets him at the door. They engage in flirtatious foreplay and Jenna removes a stocking to use as a sexual prop and the sexual play is underway! Their fun begins with a blow job and that's only the beginning of their hot sexy fun! This is part 1 so come back for the next episode for part 2 where this yummy story will conclude in a delicious climax for both!
My new audiobook is live! It's a dark NSFW title written by Benson E. Wolf called In the Dark for the Dark Web. I had a blast narrating this story! Book blurb: Lisa, a nice young southern girl accepts an offer that she thinks only trashy Alabama redneck trailer park whores would, and do, die for.
But it's a lot of money.
It is unemployment that pushed her into the dark web. Will she become a missing person or leave the dark, hot and sweaty, like the south?
Ep 200: Kinky Sex at Home Erotic Story Part 2 of 2 narrated and written by Ruan Willow. This sex-filled intimate tale is part 2 and the conclusion of the Kinky Sex at Home in a sex fort. If you missed part 1, you can go back to the previous podcast episode and listen to how they started their sex date at home. In this episode, Jenna and Tom continue their sex games in the sex tent in their living room. They enjoy their games with sex toys, sensory cold sensation play, role-playing prisoner play, light BDSM, and oral sex before the big finale act. It gets hot! It gets spicy and intense! And they end up soaked and happy, ready for dinner.
My new audiobook is live! It's a dark NSFW title written by Benson E. Wolf called In the Dark for the Dark Web. I had a blast narrating this story! Book blurb: Lisa, a nice young southern girl accepts an offer that she thinks only trashy Alabama redneck trailer park whores would, and do, die for.
But it's a lot of money.
It is unemployment that pushed her into the dark web. Will she become a missing person or leave the dark, hot and sweaty, like the south?
Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway: You can find this book on sale at online sellers:
Ep 201: Helping Women Become Sexually Empowered with Emily Young. My guest for this episode is Sex & Love Coach Emily Young. Emily helps women. Women are her main focus and she seeks to empower women sexually, in their lives, and in their relationships. She's an epic resource for women!
She shares tips for how to keep the boringness out of your sex life. She also talks about removing shame. She shares about her own journey in how she learned to remove shame, express her sexuality, and embrace her full sexual self. She grew up in a very conservative Christian home as the daughter of a preacher, so she has walked the path she's teaching about. She emphasizes how we can all shed our oppressive pasts. She also shared how she deals with spiraling and triggers with self-love. This is really helpful stuff!
She desires to help women feel comfortable talking about sex by doing breath work, dropping into their bodies to feel safe, and she does this by meeting them at their comfort level. She said it's hard to share our body if you aren't comfortable it in to begin with... so very true! She teaches us as women how to shed obligation duty bound sex patterns and how to shed the people-pleasing mode. She instructs on ideas for exploring sexual fantasies and experiences for both single people and those in relationships.
She shares about what to do with a partner who may be shaming you for any aspect of your sexuality. She helps women become sexually empowered in a way that fits them as individuals.
A few of my favorite things she said are: how that if people can't love you for who you authentically are, maybe those aren't your people and it's time to go find your people, and... if it's not a hell yes, it's a f*ck no! Plus, we call all life a "oh f*ck yeah" life! Great lines from this interview with Emily! Check it out by listening and follow Emily Young on Instagram for more! http://instagram.com/emily_young_co and https://linktr.ee/_emilyyoung_
More books: Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway: Online sellers:
Episode 202: Threesome Hide & Seek Sex Game Erotic Story. Ruan does erotic improv, spinning an erotic tale right off the top of her head. A threesome story, two divorced people and a man who broke off his engagement to another because he realized she wasn't right for him, are forming a polycule. They found each other online because each of them was searching on their own for a multiple-partner relationship. They are now living as roommates as they explore the possibility of becoming a threesome couple... a thruple. They just enjoyed dinner and are horny. One of them suggests a hide-and-seek sex game and so they all are off and running with this fun sex-at-home date night.
Episode 203: How to Dirty Talk with Sexpert Susan Bratton. 18+. Susan is a beautiful and vivacious author and sex/relationship educator. She's the intimacy expert to millions! I was so honored to chat with this fantastic woman! She shares all her juicy tips on how to talk dirty to your lover. It's sexy fun, and easy to dirty talk with her advice.
The author of 44 books and programs, including the mega popular book Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essential for Connected Sex (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3zqZNgM Susan teaches lovemaking techniques, bedroom communication skills, gives intimate wellness advice, and instructions on shame-free sexuality.
In this episode, she shares with us how to dirty talk. She gives concrete examples, techniques, and ideas that can help a person get out of that performance mode in the bedroom and into the enjoying mode. She says we can practice dirty talk and tells us how. She teaches that men like acknowledgment and women like encouragement, and how we can cater to each other needs, wants, and desires to make our sex life the best it can be. She talks about how we should be verbal with our lovers, both moaning and with our words. She also shares tips for enhancing post-coital afterglow.
Ep 204: Slutty Activism and Pleasure with Sex & Dating Coach Sarah Martin. Sex and Dating Coach Sarah Martin joined me to discuss slutty activism, being a dignified hedonist, and pleasure. She helps people build dream relationships, gives dating and hookup advice, and helps people communicate better and more efficiently. She's a podcaster at the Slutty Activism Podcast so you can listen to her show on podcast apps.
We had an amazingly epic conversation! It was fabulous! We talked about how we should all focus on pleasure, live a life led by our desires, and about female dating strategy. We discussed how we all receive toxic messaging from society and how society demonizes sex, sexuality, and pleasure. We talked about how inadequate our sex education is in America.
She gave ideas and suggestions about how to combat fascism even on a small level in our own lives. We can practice connecting with others and connecting with pleasure in our lives, thereby making us more present. We chatted about how big powers try to make us feel isolated and control us all via social media, what is allowed culturally, on websites, and what isn't, and how this is not benign, but highly intentional.
We talked about how sexual communities are all around us and we should not feel alone in seeking out sexual lifestyle alternatives, and once we start to seek these communities and experiences, we will see we are definitely not alone. There are communities everywhere, but we are made blind to them by society. So go out and seek what you want!
We talked about jealousy versus envy in relationships as well as jealousy versus compersion, and how this also works in ENM.
We also talked about sex toy usage, masturbation, and the death grip phenomena in self-pleasuring.
Ep 205: Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook Excerpt by Ruan Willow. Listen to chapter 1 of my newly released audiobook Magic In Her Kisses! Written, narrated, mastered, edited, and fully created by me! I'm so excited this audiobook is in the world! I've been working on it for a long time so I'm ecstatic it's finally live! Get it here (affiliate links): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680
What's it about? Book blurb: Magic In Her Kisses: An Explicit Age Gap Woman Loving Woman Erotic Romance College student Alicia fantasizes about her hot nerdy teacher, Dr. Maddie Lillian, her thoughts drifting to steamy office hour hook-ups as she listens dreamily to the professor's lectures. After getting a job as her lab assistant, Alicia finds her wishes swelling into thoughts of being spanked in her employer’s cluttered office, though she wonders, being as clumsy as the woman is if she could coordinate such actions. She decides to act on her fantasies and begins seducing the brainiac.
Much to her wonderment, the determined professor reveals herself to be a surprisingly eager, if adorably inexperienced, dominant BDSM lover—so much so that, despite Alicia’s presumed distaste for spanking, she soon finds herself yearning for more play.
Delicious forays into sexual exhibition, fueled by the taboo nature of their entanglements, lure both women into forbidden union after union. What started as being all about the guilty pleasures of hardcore sex gives way to the magic in their kisses, sparking a sweet, caring romance that neither expected.
Unfortunately, not everyone approves, and Alicia’s mommy issues soon rage. Just as the two are beginning to realize what they’ve found in each other, there isn’t enough magic in the world to save their love, demanding the empowered young seductress find a new way to be bold.
This book contains kinky explicit lesbian sex scenes.
Sex Getaway Erotica by Ruan Willow. Sex scenes from Ruan's Getaway Series books, so much sex in twenty-seven minutes, plus some bloopers from Ruan's recording sessions. Ruan and Sebastian meet up for sex in a cabin in the first erotica excerpt and then at the beach in the second.
Ep 207: Alternative Lifestyles, Sex, and Relationships with Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey. Listen to my fantastic discussion with Dr. Bisbey about ethical non-monogamy relationships (ENM), the "monogamy hangover", the difference between jealousy and envy in relationships, and the reality show she was on called Open House: The Great Sex Experiment out of the UK, on channel 4. We chatted about sexual confidence and energy, how that impacts a person's entire life and relationships, and how that confidence (not arrogance) is very attractive in a person. She also shared about how to shed shame and how shame damages our lives and sex lives. We talked about consent. We also discussed how masturbation is healthy in and out of relationships, and how masturbating actually improves your libido and sex life. We talked about sex toy usage and how it's very beneficial, with recommendations of the best brands. We also talked about how porn is not addictive, but how porn can actually enrich your relationship and sex life.
Episode 208: Hot Spontaneous Car Sex Fun. It's erotic NSFW improv time! Ruan narrates a hot sexy exhibitionistic story right off the top of her head! It's the impromptu sexy time of your day, so get comfy and open to be entertained! Ruan is a storyteller and that includes the spinning of erotic stories! Erotic fiction is her jam. Now sit back and enjoy the ride as two people decide they need to pull the car over for some car sex. It's hot and naughty, and they both love it!
A new novella in the book series by Ruan Willow is out from The Sex Challenge series. Check out this heterosexual Day of Play fun where the couple plays games to try and make each other climax. Get The Car Sex Challenge here: https://amzn.to/3EzX6fW
Ep 209: Fitness & Movement for Better Sex with Ash That Fit Sex Coach https://linktr.ee/ashtarver Ash aims to empower women with orgasm pleasure and power in that pleasure. She teaches about how movement and fitness can help us all have better sex. Exercise should be pleasurable and help people become more confident in and out of the bedroom, resulting in improved libido. She wants people to have better sex and believes that fitness allows us to connect with our bodies. She thinks it's important for women to feel confident in their bodies and that coming from a place of love and confidence can lead to better sex. She talked about how core strength is important for great sex and other ways health and fitness can help our sex lives. We also discussed the power of a woman's pussy and feminine energy and how all women should harness that power, and expression of, to better their lives (as taught by the book Pussy: A Reclamation affiliate links https://amzn.to/3ArJzEQ )
A new novella in the book series by Ruan Willow is out from The Sex Challenge series. Check out this heterosexual Day of Play fun where the couple plays games to try and make each other climax. Get The Car Sex Challenge here: https://amzn.to/3EzX6fW
Decadent Erotica: Ruan's newly released anthology of ten erotic s
Ep 210: Queer Erotic Romance Author Gabriel Hargrave. Gabe's book Between Desire and Satisfaction launches today! Get it here: affiliate https://amzn.to/3EpMn6F Gabe treats us with a reading from the book, then we chat all about writing, the ups and downs, and the amazing things, plus he gives us insight into his mind, his writings, and the thought processes he goes through. We had an epic and fun writer's chat!
Connect with Gabe here: https://linktr.ee/gabrielhargravewrites Follow Gabe as gabrielhargravewrites on TikTok, tumbler, Instagram, and GHargraveWrites on Twitter.
Ep 211: FFM Erotic Scene Lingerie Dressing Room, Her First Pussy. Cameron and Alicia aim to garner a threesome sex hookup, and the salesgirl in the lingerie store is their target to seduce. She agrees and the three embark on the best sex of their lives! Plus, Alicia gets her first chance to eat pussy. This hot scene is an excerpt from the anthology Decadent Erotica (affiliate) https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f and https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ
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Ep 212: Cam Girl Show: An Interview with Creator, Playwright, and Director Ian Trutt. This is a fantastic episode! I was fortunate to chat with Ian Trutt, who holds an MFA in screenwriting and has studied under successful people in the field, about playwriting, writing/producing/directing a show, and his personal experiences and advice about sex and kink, and the kink community. We chatted about OF, the judgmental views and stigma of sex-work, and the differences between writing screenplays versus novels versus for film production. As an author myself, it was so interesting to hear his side of the field and the production of writing a piece for this specialty area in the media. He also chatted about his experience doing boudoir photography, kinky stuff, and the sexy allure of voyeurism. He said, "Your kinks can take you to your art." I love that! And it's so true! He also gave advice for newcomers to the world of kink. He shared how his real-life experiences in the world of kink helped him create the show Cam Girl, which is tentatively planned for an early 2023 release.
Ep 213: She Triggers His Dominant Mode with a Blow Job & TF. Kevin is Candy's Dom. She's his sub. They have been in a relationship for a few years and fell into the Dom/sub lifestyle naturally. Candy wants to trigger Kevin's aggressive Dom mode. She knows his triggers. She knows just how to get him to rage into full Dom mode. She desires that passion that flares bright in him when he switches into that highly arousing masculine mode. As he comes down the stairs, she offers a blow job, then a TittyFck. He loves her breasts. The triggers work beautifully and they rage into a delicious sex session of intimacy, hardcore, with moments of tenderness and love, & a claiming move on his part that turns them both on. Listen to this story and enjoy!
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Ep 214: Real Hotwife Casey Donatello Tells All. This is an epic episode! I was fortunate to chat with real life hotwife Casey Donatello! She shares her experiences in the lifestyle, as a hotwife, and her thoughts, feelings, and yummy doings. She's one part of a Stag & Vixen Couple. She gives insight into how she became a hotwife, how she met her husband, and her feelings, thoughts, and the sexy stuff she's done. I also read an excerpt from her book Scarlet Surrenders (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3gZ1zjl All her books are the real stories of her life, so all her books are memoirs. It's so hot!!!!
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