My Rejection Story (Alice Draper)
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| 16 Oct 2024 | Kimberly Brown: "It is never too late to change careers" | 01:07:07 | |
In this episode of My Rejection Story, Kimberly Brown shares her personal journey of rejection and redirection in her career. She discusses the emotional impact of job rejections, the importance of vulnerability, and how to navigate the job market effectively. Kimberly emphasizes the significance of asking questions during interviews and the need for self-coaching in professional development. She also opens up about her experience as an author, the challenges of promoting her book, and the importance of community support. The conversation concludes with practical advice for growing a podcast and engaging with an audience. Takeaways:
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Next Move, Best Move, on Amazon: https://a.co/d/74iDP5I I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Kimberly Brown, her book and company, Brown Leadership, visit: https://www.brownleadership.com/ Follow Kimberly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlybonline/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Rejection and Redirection 04:22 Kimberly's Job Rejection Story 07:22 The Impact of Rejection on Career Paths 10:23 Navigating the Job Market and Interviews 13:14 The Importance of Asking Questions in Interviews 16:12 Vulnerability in Professional Growth 19:27 The Journey of Writing and Promoting a Book 21:58 Building a Community Around Your Work 24:51 The Process of Self-Coaching and Leadership Development 28:04 The Challenges of Being Visible and Authentic 31:47 Advice for Growing a Podcast 34:53 Conclusion and Future Aspirations Distribution Partners:A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. | |||
| 30 Aug 2024 | INTRODUCING "My Rejection Story" with Alice Draper. Coming September 3 | 00:01:09 | |
In exclusive interviews, society's bestselling authors share how they navigated the toughest periods of their personal and professional lives, and how this shaped the success they now experience today. You probably know your favorite authors’ success stories. After all, you chose to read their books because of their expertise, wisdom, and great storytelling skills. But do you know their rejection story? I am not talking about the glossed-over “rags to riches” story that you may hear briefly mentioned in a press interview. I’m talking about hearing — directly from them — what it was like in the thick of it. My mission with this podcast is to humanize the stories of some of society’s most successful thought leaders. Grab a cup of tea, plug your headphones in, and take a listen. Who knows? You might just see yourself in their stories. | |||
| 25 Sep 2024 | Jill Mansell: “I'm on book 37, and I still get anxious” | 01:03:03 | |
Jill Mansell shares her journey as a writer, from her early experiences with rejection to becoming a bestselling author. She talks about the challenges of finding an agent and receiving rejections from publishers. Despite the setbacks, she persevered and found success with her unique style of writing. Jill discusses the fear and anxiety she still feels with each new book, as well as the joy of connecting with readers and making a positive impact on their lives. In this conversation, Jill discusses the importance of constructive feedback and incorporating diverse perspectives into her writing. She shares how she creates rich and colourful characters by drawing inspiration from people she knows and combining different aspects of their personalities. Jill also talks about her writing process, including her preference for writing with fountain pens and her daily word count goals. She explains why she chooses not to include explicit sex scenes in her romance novels, the challenges of coming up with new ideas after writing 37 books, and the desire to have her books adapted into movies or TV series. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Promise Me, as well as Jill’s other books, on Amazon: https://amzn.eu/d/g83pZ26 I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Jill Mansell and her books, visit: https://jillmansell.co.uk/ A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with: Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35 If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Chapters: Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Jill's Early Writing Experience 02:25 Jill's Journey from Rejection to Success 10:23 Transitioning from a Full-Time Job to a Full-Time Novelist 17:16 Dealing with Rejections from Publishers 21:55 Life Changes After Finding Success with Hachette 25:10 Navigating Fear and Anxiety in the Writing Process 28:19 The Power of Positive Impact on Readers' Lives 29:02 The Power of Constructive Feedback in Writing 31:03 Incorporating Reader Suggestions into Writing 33:04 Creating Rich and Colorful Characters 36:33 Drawing Inspiration from Personal Experiences 37:00 Writing Process and Daily Word Count Goals 38:21 Writing with Fountain Pens: A Source of Joy and Inspiration 41:49 The Story of the Lost First Manuscript 43:35 The Importance of a Writing Community 48:03 Finding Inspiration in Everyday Life 51:43 Challenges of Generating New Ideas 55:42 The Desire for Book Adaptations | |||
| 02 Oct 2024 | Elizabeth Fremantle: "Getting expelled from school at 15 drove my ambition" | 01:07:23 | |
Elizabeth Fremantle shares her experiences of rejection, starting with being expelled from school at a young age. She felt unjustly labeled as a bad influence and struggled to overcome the rejection. However, her desire to be a writer motivated her to go back to university as a mature student and pursue her passion. Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of finding a way back from early rejection and not letting it define one's future. She also discusses the impact of rejection on her writing career, including the rejection of multiple novels before finding success with her fourth book. Elizabeth reflects on the constant drive to achieve more and the role of luck and timing in her success. In this conversation, Ellizabeth discusses her journey as a writer, including the process of getting her book, Queen's Gambit, published and the challenges of being a visible author. She also talks about the experience of having her book adapted into a film and the importance of letting go of creative control. Elizabeth emphasizes the need to not take rejection personally and to understand that external factors can influence the success of a book. She shares her ongoing goals and challenges, including writing a screenplay. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Firebrand, as well as Elizabeth’s other books, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Firebrand-Novel-Elizabeth-Fremantle/dp/1668005360 I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Elizabeth Freemantle and her books, visit: http://www.elizabethfremantle.com/ Follow Elizabeth on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizfremantle/ A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. f you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com
If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com Chapters 00:00 Early Rejection and Expulsion from School 02:32 Finding a Way Back from Rejection 12:07 The Role of Luck and Timing in Success 26:55 The Constant Drive to Achieve More 34:24 Navigating Rejection and Visibility as a Writer 38:23 The Challenges and Rewards of Book-to-Film Adaptation 44:37 Letting Go of Creative Control 50:06 The Importance of Continuous Learning and Setting New Challenges | |||
| 04 Sep 2024 | Nokuhle Kumalo: “I’m A Realistic Delulu Person” | 01:17:51 | |
Nokuhle Kumalo shares her journey of feeling rejected by her accounting career and making the decision to leave and pursue her own business. She discusses the challenges and doubts she faced along the way, as well as the support she received from her community. Nokuhle emphasizes the importance of finding a career that aligns with your personality and values, as well as the satisfaction that comes from living according to your purpose. She also talks about the audacious confidence she has always had and how it has helped her go after what she wants in life. In this conversation, Nokuhle discusses her confidence in achieving her goals and the support she received from her father. She also talks about the challenges she faced as a Black woman in corporate South Africa and the need to constantly prove herself, sharing her experiences of code-switching and the importance of language and cultural identity. Nokuhle introduces her book, 'Get Ready With Me Work Edition,' which serves as a survival guide for young professionals in the workplace. Nokuhle shares her experience of self-publishing, including the challenges of finding a printer and obtaining a barcode (who would have guessed!). Despite not actively marketing her book, she has had success in sales and has even had bulk sales from corporate clients. Nokuhle also reveals her plans to write a second book aimed at high school students. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Get Ready With Me Work Edition, on the Lomaku website, here: https://8266e8-3.myshopify.com/products/grwm-work-edition-book-get-ready-with-me-navigating-corporate-as-an-adult. I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. Subscribe to Nokuhle's popular Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeRUdQBuR1zX7uhVIV6oRkQ If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with:
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry's guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here's the link:https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:29 Feeling Rejected in the Accounting Field 04:30 Leaving Corporate and Facing Backlash 06:57 Dealing with Self-Doubt and Setting Targets 10:08 The Power of Speaking Your Goals into Existence 11:27 Finding Alignment in Your Career and Personal Values 27:24 Confidence and Support: The Key to Achieving Goals 35:41 Challenges Faced by Black Women in Corporate South Africa 39:28 The Experience of Code-Switching 40:25 The Importance of Language and Cultural Identity 44:23 Introducing 'Get Ready With Me Work Edition': A Guide for Young Professionals 55:18 The Journey of a Self-Published Author 56:34 Building Relationships and Leveraging Social Media for Book Sales 58:30 The Power of Reviews and Feedback 01:04:43 Partnering with Corporations for Sales and Speaking Engagements 01:13:44 Writing for a Specific Audience: High School Students | |||
| 11 Sep 2024 | Paulette Perhach: “I feel like a hypocrite for being the F*ck-Off Fund girl” | 00:59:11 | |
Paulette Perhach, an award-winning writer and author, shares her experiences with rejection and failure. She emphasizes the importance of being open and vulnerable as a writer and navigating the challenges that come with it. She discusses her journey with ADHD and how it has influenced her relationship with rejection. Paulette also talks about the importance of self-compassion and seeking external help when needed. She shares personal stories of infidelity and how she stays open despite past experiences. In this conversation, Paulette Perhach discusses the importance of feeling and embracing vulnerability, the power of acceptance, and the journey from victimhood to survivorship. S he emphasizes the need to tap into our emotions and experiences in order to grow and transform. Paulette also shares insights on negotiation, self-education, and the value of having a vision. She encourages aspiring writers to read, write consistently, and start with small projects before submitting their work. Paulette's personal story of resilience and growth serves as an inspiration for anyone navigating the challenges of life and pursuing their creative passions. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Welcome to the Writer's Life: How to Design Your Writing Craft, Writing Business, Writing Practice, and Reading Practice on Amazon. To find out more about Paulette Perhach and her writing coaching, retreats and pieces, visit: https://www.pauletteperhach.com/ Follow Paulette on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paulettejperhach/ I will also be giving away a copy of Paulette's latest book to a listener who subscribes to the podcast (your entry will count twice if you also review). You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women's spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35 If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you're looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Chapters:
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| 05 Sep 2024 | Neil Patel: “Rejection doesn’t need to sting” | 00:28:05 | |
Neil Patel, a renowned marketer and author, shares his insights on rejection and success. He emphasizes the importance of not letting rejection sting and the need to embrace rejection as a part of life and business. Neil discusses his own experiences with rejection and how he learned to be patient and persistent. He also talks about the mindset of not having much to lose, which allowed him to take risks and pursue his dreams. Neil shares his thoughts on long-term planning, adapting to change, and the importance of community and support in overcoming rejection. He also highlights the value of taking action and not overthinking, as well as the need to own your dreams and not just rent them. Neil provides advice on navigating disagreements and criticism, and he suggests pitching Ray Dalio as a potential guest for the podcast. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Hustle: The Power to Charge Your Life with Money, Meaning, and Momentum, as well as Neil’s other books, on Amazon or at your local bookstore.Link: https://www.amazon.com/Hustle-Power-Charge-Meaning-Momentum/dp/1623367166 I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Neil Patel, his courses and books, visit: https://neilpatel.com/ A special thank you to our distribution partners! Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link: https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35 00:00 Introduction and Neil Patel's Background 02:03 Embracing Rejection and Persistence 09:35 Dealing with Rejection and Overcoming Challenges 11:24 Creating Your Own Luck and Trying Different Paths 13:13 Learning from Mistakes and Finding Your Path 14:16 The Value of Big Markets and Broad Focus 19:47 Taking Action and Owning Your Dreams 24:17 Navigating Disagreements and Criticism 26:16 Pitching Tips: Getting a Warm Introduction | |||
| 06 Nov 2024 | Alice Draper: "Rejection threatens our ability to survive." | 00:48:04 | |
This episode originally aired on ADHD-ish hosted by Diann Wingert. Episode link here: https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/blog/risk-rejection-resilience In this conversation, Alice Draper is interviewed by Diann Wingert, the host of the ADHD-ish podcast. Together, they discuss the complex nature of rejection, its historical roots in human survival, and the psychological impacts it has on individuals, particularly those with ADHD and marginalized identities. The dialogue explores the science behind rejection sensitivity, cultural conditioning, and a gendered perspectives on failure. Check out: The ADHD-ish Podcast. This podcast alternates between straight-shooting solo episodes, guest interviews with other successful female solopreneurs, and client success stories of women who have worked with Diann to transform their businesses and mindset. Connect with Diann Wingert: Podcast: https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/podcast Free guide on Mastering Your Entrepreneurial ADHD: https://diann-wingert-coaching.kit.com/mastering-your-entrepreneurial-adhd Diann’s LinkedIn newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7018282741351817216/?displayConfirmation=true Chapters: 04:36 The Science Behind Why Rejection Is Hard 08:00 Exploring the Depths of Rejection 05:53 The Science Behind Rejection Sensitivity 09:12 Marginalization and Its Impact on Rejection 11:06 Cultural Conditioning and Gendered Perspectives 15:00 Building Rejection Resilience: Strategies and Insights 17:54 Community Support in Overcoming Rejection 21:13 Navigating Personal Rejections and Emotional Responses 24:08 How To Handle Personal Rejections 27:13 Practicing Perspective-Taking When Dealing with Rejection 35:18 Surprising Insights About Success and Rejection 39:01 The Weight of Expectation and Rejection 41:00 Making Big Rejection Goals By Finding Your Intention 46:35 The Secret To Unstoppable Rejection Resilience 47:00 Conclusion And Closing Thoughts | |||
| 03 Sep 2024 | Gay Hendricks: “No editor cared about my book, and I’d spent the quarter of a million dollars advance” | 01:01:18 | |
Gay Hendricks shares his personal journey of transformation and finding his zone of genius. He discusses how a moment of clarity after falling on the ice led him to discover a state of pure consciousness. Gay emphasizes the importance of facing and accepting our emotions and experiences in order to transform our lives. He also highlights the role of meditation in connecting with our true selves and finding inner peace. In this part of the conversation, Gay discusses the importance of self-acceptance and making new choices to create positive change. He introduces the FAC method. Gay also shares his experience with the upper limit problem, where he encountered self-sabotage after experiencing success. He emphasizes the power of wonder and asking questions to uncover limiting beliefs. Gay offers advice for aspiring writers, highlighting the importance of voicing ambitions and taking action. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Your Big Leap Year, as well as Gay’s other books, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Big-Leap-Year-Next-Level/dp/1250292794 I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Gay Hendricks, his work and his books, visit: https://hendricks.com/ Follow Gay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hendricks.gay/ A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with.
Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Chapters 00:00 Gay Hendrick’s Journey 05:54 A Moment of Clarity 11:52 Facing and Accepting Emotions 18:34 Meditation and Inner Peace 24:52 Committing to Your Gifts 30:14 Embracing Unpleasant Experiences 32:22 Self-Acceptance and Making New Choices 36:00 The Upper Limit Problem 46:02 The Role of Wonder and Asking Questions 51:21 Advice for Aspiring Writers | |||
| 09 Oct 2024 | Jason VanRuler: "I didn't know how to have a secure relationship" | 00:55:24 | |
In this episode of My Rejection Story, host Alice Draper speaks with therapist and author Jason VanRuler about the complexities of rejection, particularly in relationships. They discuss the importance of rewriting personal narratives, the necessity of grieving losses, and the journey towards authenticity. Jason shares his experiences with rejection and how they shaped his path to becoming a thought leader in the mental health space. The conversation emphasizes the value of community, the challenge of faulty beliefs, and the growth that comes from embracing rejection. Takeaways:
For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Get Past Your Past on Amazon, here: https://a.co/d/gIGMvYQ I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Jason VanRuler and his work, visit: https://www.jasonvr.com/ Follow Jason on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jason.vanruler/ | |||
| 02 Sep 2024 | Geraldine DeRuiter: “I’m a rejection-avoidant bestselling author” | 01:07:00 | |
Geraldine DeRuiter, a James Beard award-winning writer and author, discusses her experience with a negative review of her book and how her community turned it around to make it a bestseller. She shares the personal attacks she faced in the review and the emotional toll it took on her. Despite the hurtful beginning, her community's support and the negative review actually helped boost the book's sales. Geraldine also reflects on her ambition as a child and the importance of perseverance and authenticity in her writing journey. Geraldine shares her experience of how her blog gained traction and how she navigated rejection in her writing career. She emphasizes the importance of putting yourself out there and not being afraid of rejection. She also discusses the fear of stating what you want and offers advice for aspiring writers and creators. Geraldine encourages setting audacious rejection goals and aiming high. She shares personal anecdotes and insights on overcoming the fear of rejection and pursuing your dreams. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of If You Can't Take the Heat: Tales of Food, Feminism, and Fury on Amazon. I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Geraldine and read her award-winning blog, visit: https://www.everywhereist.com/about/ Follow Geraldine on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheEverywhereist/ If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with: Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women's spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com. Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:33 The Negative Review and Emotional Impact 16:00 Childhood Ambition and Writing Journey 29:58 Traffic Increase and the Power of Authenticity 33:50 Gaining Traction and Overcoming Rejection 36:06 Transitioning from Anonymity to Recognition 37:29 The Impact of Viral Success 38:24 The Condensing Timeframe of Success 40:19 Dealing with Rejection in Personal Life 43:19 Protecting Oneself from Rejection 46:21 The Fear of Stating What You Want 48:06 External Motivation and Accountability 50:18 The Love of Having Written 52:58 The Fear of Rejection vs. Actual Rejection 54:24 Setting Audacious Rejection Goals 59:06 Reaching Out to Influential People | |||
| 18 Sep 2024 | Haley Jakobson: “I got 40+ rejections for Old Enough” | 01:06:18 | |
Haley Jakobson, a writer and playwright, discusses her relationship with rejection and the journey to publishing her debut novel, 'Old Enough'. She shares her fear of rejection and the mantra of choosing herself, which worked until she had to face the vulnerability of publishing a book. Haley talks about the 40+ rejections she received and the tools she developed to navigate rejection, including zooming out and realizing that her career is not defined by one project, leaning on her community for support, and finding joy in other aspects of her life. She also discusses the changes in her life since the book launch and the responsibility she feels to educate and advocate for her audience. Haley explores the concept of vulnerable storytelling and the challenges of being unpolished and messy in her writing. She shares that while her book 'Old Enough' is inspired by her own experiences, the protagonist is a separate character with her own journey. In this conversation, Haley Jakobson discusses her journey of healing and reclaiming her innocence after experiencing assault as a teenager. She shares how she grew into innocence and embraced her silliness and vulnerability. Haley also talks about her writing process and the importance of staying true to her values in navigating the capitalist nature of the publishing industry. She offers insights into manifestation and the power of community in achieving her goals. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of Old Enough: A Novel on Amazon. I will also be giving away a copy to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. To find out more about Haley Jakobson and her writing, visit: https://www.haleyjakobson.com/ Follow Hayley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyjakobson/ A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. If you are looking for a book writing coach to get your manuscript out there, I recommend working with: Lindy Pfeil, Author and Memoir Coach, website: lindypfeil.com Emily Tamayo Maher, Author & bestselling author in women’s spirituality, website: meaningmethod.com.
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com
Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
Freelance writers, you are going to want to get your hands on Amber Perry’s guide, 250+ nonfiction publications that pay, so people can start pitching right away. Here’s the link:https://amber-petty.newzenler.com/f/250-places-that-pay-for-your-writing-forever35
If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com If you’re looking for a brain / neuro trainer, check out Paula Echeverri, website: neuromomceo.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Hayley Jakobson 00:43 Hayley's Relationship with Rejection 03:03 Navigating Rejection and Choosing Herself 05:22 Developing a Relationship with Rejection 10:17 Life Changes After Publishing a Book 15:28 The Challenges of Being Unfiltered in the Public Spotlight 22:33 Understanding Vulnerable Storytelling 29:38 The Inspiration Behind 'Old Enough' 31:02 Growing into Innocence 36:00 Writing as a Tool for Healing 37:39 Navigating Capitalism and Staying True to Values 51:07 Manifestation and Building a Supportive Community 56:36 Balancing Creativity and Marketing in the Publishing Industry | |||
| 30 Oct 2024 | Alice Draper: "Losing my father to dementia is the worst and best thing that happened to me" | 00:38:04 | |
In this episode, Alice Draper reflects on her journey through the first 11 episodes of her podcast, focusing on the theme of rejection and personal growth. She shares her own experiences with rejection, trauma, and caregiving, emphasizing how these challenges have shaped her resilience and identity. The conversation explores the duality of rejection and success, highlighting that both can coexist and lead to personal transformation. Alice encourages listeners to embrace their rejection stories as sources of strength and motivation for growth. takeaways
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| 23 Oct 2024 | Tina Wells: “No one looked like me when I started my business in 1996” | 00:50:30 | |
Tina Wells shares her rejection story and the pivotal moment in her life when she felt rejected. She talks about the changes in the agency world and how she had to confront the rejection and make a decision. Tina emphasizes the importance of taking a pause and becoming present with oneself to navigate through rejection. For anyone listening, you can order a copy of The Elevation Approach: Harness the Power of Work-Life Harmony to Unlock Your Creativity, Cultivate Joy, and Reach Your Biggest Goals on Amazon: https://a.co/d/boRRTDv To find out more about Tina Wells, her books, services and courses, visit: https://tinawells.com/ Follow Tina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tinawells/ I will also be giving away a copy of Tina’s latest book to a listener who subscribes and reviews the podcast. You just need to email screenshots to media@hustlingwriters.com. Distribution Partners: A special thanks to our partners, who I highly recommend getting in touch with. If you are interested in exploring hybrid publishing, I highly recommend getting in touch with Nick Courtright, CEO of atmospherepress.com Special shout out to Eva Langston. Eva created a writing resources newsletter with the goal of giving the advice, encouragement, and resources she wished she’d had at various stages in her writing career. Her Substack newsletter for writers on the journey to publication now has over 4,500 subscribers. Subscribe here: https://evalangston.substack.com/
Tracy Stewart, book mentor and developmental editor, author, and ghostwriter, website: freshlypress.com Javacia Harris Bowser, host of a community for female writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs, website: seejanewritebham.com
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