Modern Anarchy (Nicole Thompson, M.A.)
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| 14 Sep 2022 | 74. Sex Work Was The Beginning of My True Healing Journey with Cassie Porter | 01:05:11 | |
On today's episode we have somatic sex educator and sexological body worker, Cassie Porter (She\Her), join us for a conversation about moving towards pleasure through sex work. Together we talk about destigmatizing sex work, exploring our kinks, and my fears of a monogamous sex life. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Cassie's Community: Resources to Learn More: What Is Somatic Sex Education? The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity | |||
| 10 Aug 2022 | 69. Guided Masturbation Meditation #2: Solo-Date Night | 00:49:54 | |
On today's episode, Nicole leads us on a guided masturbation meditation for people with vulvas to slow down and connect with pleasure. Set aside some intentional time to dive into sensation and deepen your embodiment practice through this act of self-love and self-care! Let's dive in together.. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Explore More: Wearing Socks During Sex Makes You More Likely To Have A Satisfying Orgasm Philips Hue White and Color Ambiance Satisfyer Pro 2 Air-Pulse Clitoris Stimulator | |||
| 04 Aug 2021 | 17. Let's Not Take Things Too Personally: HPV, Social Media, and Anxiety Brain with Kellie | 01:00:35 | |
Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault On today's episode, Kellie joins us for a raw and honest conversation about her experience with HPV and navigating this world with anxiety. Together we explore the paradox of our fear of perception and our need to be seen during this time of social media. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources STI vs STD: Do They Mean the Same Thing? Here's How Experts Explain It We All Have “Main-Character Energy” Now How to stop ruminating thoughts 7 Ways to Deal With Negative Thoughts The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom What Is Self-Awareness and Why Is It Important? [+5 Ways to Increase It] | |||
| 27 Sep 2023 | 127. Every Breath Can Be an Orgasm: Intimacy, Social Justice, and Somatics with Caffyn Jesse | 01:05:52 | |
On today's episode, we have queer elder and sacred intimacy teacher, Caffyn Jesse (They/She) join us for a conversation about the power of ecstasy practices. Together we talk about loving all of our parts, our limited understanding of orgasm, and refusing the regime of normal with fierce outrage. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Caffyn's Community: Caffyn Jesse is a queer elder, sacred intimate, teacher and writer who revels in the power and pleasures of the erotic. Intimacy Educator : https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/intimacyeducator Resources to Learn More: Internal Family Systems : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdZZ7sTX840 Window of Tolerance : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNVlppGz0zM | |||
| 22 Jun 2022 | 62. Public Sex: Out of the Closets and Into the Streets with Gem Cut | 01:16:13 | |
On today's episode, we have a conversation with smut writer and exhibitionist Gem Cut (they\them) all about the anarchy behind the queer deconstruction of eroticism and sexuality. Together we talk about reckoning with queer bodies, the personality type of an exhibitionist, and expanding our understanding of sex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of June, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the Texas Elementary School Shooting Victims Fund: https://www.gofundme.com/f/mtdrdc-texas-elementary-school-shooting-victims-fund Modern Anarchy Community: Gem's Community: Resources to Learn More: We Both Laughed In Pleasure: The Selected Diaries of Lou Sullivan | |||
| 09 Aug 2023 | 120. How About We Make Love, Not Porn? with Cindy Gallop | 01:00:17 | |
On today's episode, we have founder and CEO of Make Love Not Porn Cindy Gallop (She/Her) join us for a conversation about authentic pleasure. Together we talk about the need for real consent conversations, the social sex revolution, and the barriers to sharing adult content. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Cindy's Community: Make Love Not Porn : https://makelovenotporn.tv/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/makelovenotporn Resources to Learn More: Money Shot: The Pornhub Story : https://www.netflix.com/title/81406118 | |||
| 25 Oct 2023 | 131. Coming Home to Our Sensual Embodiment and Open Hearts with Sarah White | 01:09:10 | |
On today's episode, we have pleasure rebel Sarah White (She/Her) join us for a conversation exploring the activism of connecting with our bodies. Together we talk about playing with alchemy, getting curious about our discomfort, and creating a new world. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Sarah's Community: Sarah White is an artist and mother who finds the revolution in birthed within connection to the nervous system, land, sensuality, and mindfulness. Website : www.neonsoul.co Personal Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/aquariussunvenus/ Studio for Healing Arts : https://www.instagram.com/nuneurostudio/ Youtube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3CAKOR-4W0 | |||
| 26 Oct 2022 | 80. Are You Carrying Trauma From a Past Life? with Cai Carvalhaes | 00:59:53 | |
On today's episode, PhD candidate Cai Carvalhaes (She\Her) joins us for a conversation all about past life regression. Together we talk about awakening archetypes, fractals and the quantum dimension, and expanding beyond our minds. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Researchers Create World's First Quantum Fractals The Collective Unconscious – What is It, and Why Should You Care? The Archetypes of the Anima and Animus Water Codes: The Science of Health, Consciousness, and Enlightenment Sean Carroll - What are Observers? Does Consciousness Influence Quantum Mechanics? | |||
| 15 Feb 2023 | 95. Stories of Collective Liberation: Leadership Beyond Dominance, Psychedelic Expression, and Hope for a New Future with Naomi Grace | 00:55:02 | |
On today's episode, we have multi-sensory medicine maker and artsy-fartsy rabble-rouser Naomi Grace (She/They) join us for a conversation all about imagining a new future of collective liberation. Together we talk about leaning into our intuition, stories of pan-African feminine leadership, and a world beyond hierarchy and extraction. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Naomi's Community: Resources to Learn More: Day 4: Neuroplasticity: Neurons that Fire Together Wire Together Hebbian learning and predictive mirror neurons for actions, sensations and emotions Why Representation Matters and Why It’s Still Not Enough BRIDGET “BIDDY” MASON (1818-1891) | |||
| 25 Dec 2024 | 191. Relationship Anarchy and The Romance Myth with Dean Spade | 01:19:20 | |
On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (he/him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy. If you are also interested in participating in the research on Relationship Anarchy and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/191-relationship-anarchy-and-the-romance-myth-with-dean-spade Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 03 May 2023 | 106. Pleasure Equity and the Last Big Taboo of Sexuality with Damian | 01:04:25 | |
On today's episode, we have sex educator Damian Weatherald (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the pleasure we all deserve. Together we talk about the taboo topic of sexuality for people with a disability, how American sex education is worse than other countries, and the medicine of laughter. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Damian's Community: Resources to Learn More: Lad Mags : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lad_mag Puritans (The Killjoys of History) : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VayrvCkjANM Make Love Not Porn : https://makelovenotporn.tv/ The Sex Lives of College Girls: https://www.hbomax.com/series/urn:hbo:series:GYXBzKw3n5aJmOwEAAAAE | |||
| 26 Jul 2023 | 118. Dating A.I.? Exploring Intimacy Under Capitalism with Laura Mae Northrup | 01:07:15 | |
On today's episode, we have psychotherapist and author Laura Mae Northrup (She/Her) join us for conversation exploring how capitalism affects intimacy. Together we talk about the power of community, identifying shared frustrations under capitalism across political ideologies, and staying in connection for transformative growth. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Laura's Community: Website : https://www.lauramaenorthrup.com/ Inside Eyes Podcast : https://insideeyes.libsyn.com/ Resources to Learn More: Eden's Last Chance : https://www.edenslastchance.com/ Why American Healthcare Is The Worst In The Developed World : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wO1IoKN0AkY Hollow Water : https://www.nfb.ca/film/hollow_water/ U.S. Health Care from a Global Perspective, 2022: Accelerating Spending, Worsening Outcomes : https://www.commonwealthfund.org/publications/issue-briefs/2023/jan/us-health-care-global-perspective-2022#:~:text=Introduction,than%20residents%20of%20peer%20countries. | |||
| 03 Jul 2024 | 166. From SSRI’s to Psychedelics with Dr. Sam Zand | 00:56:53 | |
On today’s episode, we have Psychiatrist Dr. Sam Zand (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding your unique path to healing. Together we talk about building neuro plasticity through play, how community is medicine, and the impact of SSRIs and Psychedelics on sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family and support the long term sustainability of the show, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/from-ssri-s-to-psychedelics-with-dr-sam-zand Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Dr. Sam Zand's Community: Websites: www.drsamzand.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsamzand/ Resources to Learn More: SSRI are not effective for mild depression: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK361016/ Cocaine and Neuroplasticity: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18345022/ Disagreement between clinicians is the norm, not the exception: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/flex-your-feelings/202206/the-myth-mental-health-diagnosis | |||
| 23 Mar 2022 | 49. The Creative Expression of Pornography with Lina Bembe | 00:52:15 | |
On today's episode we have performer, model, and director Lina Bembe (She/Her) join us for a conversation about our responsibility as ethical consumers to listen to the voices of porn performers. Together we talk about performative sex, stigma around sex work, and the politics of sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Lina's Community: Resources to Learn More: Ethical porn — does it exist and who makes it? Keeping Porn Stars Healthy: A Look Behind The Scenes Of America's X-Rated Industry 'Start low, and go slow': how to talk to your partner about sex Sexual Communication: The Bedrock to Make Your Bed Rock 'Such a Backwards Step': Instagram Is Now Censoring Sex Education Accounts A bill taking aim at online child pornography comes with dangerous tradeoffs | |||
| 10 Jul 2024 | 167. The Non-Monogamy Research Playground with Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud | 01:15:01 | |
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud (He/Him) join us for a conversation about letting go of erotic shame to embody your pleasure. Together we talk moving from infidelity to consensual non-monogamy, taking a multicultural view to our scripts around pleasure, and liberating your right to play. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family and support the long term sustainability of the show, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/167-the-non-monogamy-research-playground-with-dr-eric-fitzmedrud Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Dr. Eric Fitzmedrud's Community: Websites: https://www.drericfitz.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drericfitz/ | |||
| 10 Nov 2021 | 31. Life is Too Short to Do One Thing with Keith Ramsey | 00:56:27 | |
On today's episode we have Keith Ramsey (She/Her) who shares his story about how the universe pushed him into becoming a full time artist. Together we talk about burnout, becoming your own boss, and what it means to be an artist. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Ramsey's Community Resources to Learn More: Five Signs It's Time To Be Your Own Boss The Tell Tale Signs of Burnout ... Do You Have Them? Burnout Recovery: 11 Strategies to Help You Reset What "Trusting the Universe" Really Means 7 daily habits that can unlock your creativity, according to science The Secret to Finding Your Passion (Hint: It's Not What You Think) | |||
| 23 Nov 2022 | 84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade | 01:18:34 | |
On today's episode, writer and activist Dean Spade (He\Him) joins us for a conversation all about liberating our relationships from patriarchal and capitalist understandings of connection. Together we talk about building community outside of the nuclear model, choosing to be uncomfortable in order to live more, and feeling powerless to jealousy. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Dean Spade's Community Resources to Learn More: Falling In Love Hits The Brain Like Cocaine Does The Brain Looks The Same When We're In Love Or High On Cocaine What is the Relationship Escalator? Loneliness at epidemic levels in America Angela Davis likens abolishing the prison system to end of slavery Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Between monogamy and polyamory Relationship anarchy could be about so much more than the freedom to fuck | |||
| 04 Oct 2023 | 128. What's Your Cage?: Drug Use Pleasure Enhancement and Harm Reduction with Irina Alexander | 01:15:51 | |
On today's episode, we have harm-reduction therapist and co-founder of Alchemy Community Therapy Center, Irina Alexander (She/Her), join us for a conversation about the need to deconstruct the messaging we have been sold about drugs and step into a research-backed understanding. Together we talk about how larger systems impact our drug use, the importance of community connection, and coming out of the psychedelic closet. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Irina's Community: Irina is a co-founder and Clinical Director of Alchemy Community Therapy Center (alchemytherapy.org), a sliding scale psychedelic therapy clinic in Oakland, as well as a street-based harm reduction therapist with the Harm Reduction Therapy Center in San Francisco. Irina has a long history in direct service work, and believes in the healing capacity of showing up for each other, individually and as a community. She feels passionate about making psychedelic healing services more equitable and accessible to underserved communities. Irina has volunteered for several years as a supervisor with the Zendo Project, and is currently also working as an Adherence Rater for MDMA Clinical Trials. Ketamine Therapy Provider Training : https://www.alchemytherapy.org/licensedtraining Alchemy Community Therapy Center: https://www.alchemytherapy.org/ Resources to Learn More: Sana Healing Collective : https://sanahealingcollective.org/ Rat Park : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9DcIMGxMs&t=14s Drug Decriminalization in Portugal : https://fherehab.com/news/portugal-lowest-drug-rate#:~:text=Portugal%3A%20The%20Country%20with%20the%20Lowest%20Drug%20Overdose%20Rates Dr. Carl Hart : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781101981665 Stages of Change : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVyhhMzWkiU Motivational Interviewing : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9iBPeZjjuYU | |||
| 18 Aug 2021 | 19. When Do You Leave a Relationship: Polyamory, Sadism, and Self-Care with Empress Wu | 01:11:33 | |
On today's episode, we have the tender brutalist and professional dom, Empress Wu (She/Her) join us for a philosophical and vulnerable conversation about liberation through kink. Together we talk about why bad bitches date emotionally immature people, the sublime nature of sadism, and the need to examine your own internalization of social norms. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Empress Wu's Community: Resources Desire, the Big Other, & the Wall of Language | Psychoanalysis of Jacques Lacan Mel Chen - Toxic Animacies, Inanimate Affections Atlanta Shooting and the Legacy of Misogyny and Racism Against Asian Women What EXACTLY Is A 'Service Top' In The BDSM Kink Community? Sublime Borders: Schiller’s Will and Nietzsche’s Will-to-Power | |||
| 06 Dec 2023 | 137. What's Your Frame For Relationship Anarchy? with Tuck Malloy | 01:33:51 | |
On today's episode, we have Tuck Malloy (They/Them) join us for a conversation exploring the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about choosing which feedback we integrate into our narratives, how much discomfort is too much discomfort in nonmonogamy, and the blank white canvas of relationship anarchy. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/137-what-s-your-frame-for-relationship-anarchy-with-tuck-malloy Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Tuck's Community: Tuck Malloy (they/them) is a queer, trans, polyamorous relationship coach and sex educator. Website : https://intrasensual.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/intra_sensual/ Resources to Learn More: How Love Conquered Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780143036678 Relationship Anarchy Occupy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9798368039442 BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females :https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM. 69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474 | |||
| 16 Aug 2023 | 121. Beginning to Question Non-Monogamy and Queerness with Fadl Fakhouri | 01:00:50 | |
On today's episode, we have artist Fadl Fakhouri (He/Him) join us for a conversation about deconstructing society's narrative for our lives. Together we talk about the elusive nature of queerness, learning to love ourselves in relationships, and throwing away the manual to create your own relationship garden. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Fadl's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/fadlfakhouri/ Website : https://fadlfakhouri.com/ Art Show : http://www.thevisualist.org/2023/08/double-blessings/ Resources to Learn More: Microdosing : https://psychedelicsocietysf.org/?ref=5 Spirit Pharmacist : https://www.spiritpharmacist.com/ New Love Euphoria Mimics Effects of Crack Cocaine : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-joint-adventures-well-educated-couples/201609/new-love-euphoria-mimics-effects-crack The Romance Myth : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5WPDUIk4VW0 | |||
| 05 May 2021 | 4. Voluntary Female Sterilization at 26: I Don't Want Kids with Rae | 01:02:17 | |
On today's episode, we are bringing out a woman's personal story about voluntary sterlization as a form of permenant birth control out into the open with all the nitty-gritty details. Rae (She/Her) vulnerably discloses her experience obtaining the procedure and decision making process proudly and without shame. Together we talk about what a bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy surgey is, how she found the information to obtain the procedure, and what the recovery process actually looked like for her. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Unwanted Sterlization and Eugenics - https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/blog/unwanted-sterilization-and-eugenics-programs-in-the-united-states/ The Dark History of Forced Sterilization - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhPAs8bOeBg 1999 Research Article on Regret - https://www.fertstert.org/article/S0015-0282(00)01558-2/fulltext ACOG Committee Opinion - https://www.acog.org/clinical/clinical-guidance/committee-opinion/articles/2017/04/sterilization-of-women-ethical-issues-and-considerations?utm_source=redirect&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=int Danielle Jones, MD - Board certified ObGyn - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxdKfZUhf2g Reddit Community - https://www.reddit.com/r/truechildfree/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/ Intro Song: Wild Wild Woman, Your Smith | |||
| 23 Feb 2022 | 45. Are You Willing to Sip Your Own Medicine? with Natalie | 01:02:36 | |
Activation Warning: Mention of Suicide On today's episode, we have founder of the Mother Tree Foundation, Natalie (She/Her), join us for a raw conversation all about the difficult work that is self-love. Together we talk about moving our way out of depression, our relationship with ourselves, and the multiple u-turns of growth. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Natalie's Community: Resources to Learn More: Cold Exposure, Breathwork, and the Wim Hof Method Former Miss USA Cheslie Kryst Dies at 30 The “online brain”: how the Internet may be changing our cognition The Basics of the Conscious Discipline Brain State Model Why Survival Mode Isn't the Best Way to Live | |||
| 29 Nov 2023 | 136. Waiting for a Hug: Activism for the Chronically Under-Touched with Aaron Johnson | 01:17:46 | |
On today's episode, we have founder of Aaron Johnson (He/Him) join us for a conversation about finding touch balance. Together we talk about the importance of tenderness, how narratives of oppression shape sexuality, and liberating our voices from capitalism. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Aaron's Community: Holistic Resistance : https://www.holisticresistance.com/ Chronically UnderTouched : https://www.cutproject.org/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/cut.project/ Resource to Learn More: Aaron's Ted Talk : Vhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=zi_hm0-zrgk | |||
| 13 Jul 2022 | 65. Relationship Chemistry: Emotional Self-Awareness, Boundary Setting, and Healing Attachment with Emilee Kerper | 01:18:21 | |
On today's episode, we have artist and yogi Emilee Kerper (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about the beautiful complexity that is relationships. Together we talk about healing from attachment trauma through sex work, why we stay in toxic relationships, and the importance of learning to set boundaries. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Emilee's Community: Resources to Learn More: Learning to Lay Down Boundaries 5 Crucial Qualities to Seek in a Partner | |||
| 02 Aug 2023 | 119. Sex and Drugs Are Gonna Save the World with Britta Love | 01:29:23 | |
On today's episode, we have somatic sex educator, writer, and healer Britta Love (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the power of deeply embodied pleasure. Together we talk about dismantling systems through community, the vulnerability of expressing desire, and radical consent practices. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Britta's Community: Website : https://brittaloved.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/brittaloved/ Strike for Pleasure : https://strikeforpleasure.com/ Resources to Learn More: Making Love Not War: The Wild Sexual World of Bonobos : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lb5MwTIV0Wc Camilla Power : http://radicalanthropologygroup.org/people/camilla-power/ Novel treatment of opioid use disorder using ibogaine and iboga in two adults : https://akjournals.com/view/journals/2054/4/3/article-p149.xml María Sabina : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mar%C3%ADa_Sabina INSIDE THE MOVEMENT TO DECOLONIZE PSYCHEDELIC PHARMA : https://proto.life/2020/10/inside-the-movement-to-decolonize-psychedelic-pharma/ How to Play the 3-Minute Game : https://bettymartin.org/how-to-play-the-3-minute-game/ | |||
| 09 Oct 2024 | 180. Approaching Sex Deeply and Wholistically with Ellen Heed | 01:06:17 | |
On today’s episode, we have sexological body worker Ellen Heed (she/her) join us for a conversation about the expansive mind body connection. Together we talk about the neuroplasticity of erotic pleasure, scar tissue remediation, and grounding in the presence of our breath. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/180-approaching-sex-deeply-and-wholistically-with-ellen-heed Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Ellen's Community: https://www.scartissueremediation.com/ | |||
| 07 Jun 2023 | 111. The Ethical Argument Against Monogamy, and Becoming a Dominatrix with Mistress Sybil Fury | 01:10:00 | |
On today's episode, we have Mistress Sybil Fury (She/Her) join us for a conversation about harnessing the power of dominance. Together we talk about early kink memories in Catholicism, the risks of having only one erotic mirror, and Mistress Sybil Fury's fascist state. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Mistress Sybil Fury's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/sybilfury Website: https://sybilfury.com/ Resources to Learn More: Angela of Foligno : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angela_of_Foligno What is a Wartenberg Wheel? : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfNz-wEfH-4 Sexuality Beyond Consent: Risk, Race, Traumatophilia : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781479820252 Frantz Fanon : https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/frantz-fanon/ | |||
| 16 Mar 2022 | 48. That's Not the End of the Story: Spicy Childhoods and Talking about Sex with Jason Best | 01:01:34 | |
On today's episode, we are joined by the therapist Jason Best (He/Him), who enjoys working with LGBTQIAA individuals, poly people, nerds, kinksters, gamers, and trauma survivors. Together we talk about spicy childhoods, the superpowers of trauma, and discussing sex in therapy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Jason's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 24 Apr 2024 | 156. Unlocking Your Inner Dominatrix and Finding Erotic Catharsis with Mistress Wild Iris | 00:59:12 | |
On today’s episode, we have professional dominatrix Mistress Wild Iris (She/Her) join us for a conversation about exploring our psyches through BDSM and fantasy. Together we talk about confronting your shadow in play, the power of the priestess archetype, and surrendering to the keys of your erotic liberation. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Mistress Wild Iris: Website: https://www.mistresswildiris.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MxWildIris | |||
| 14 Apr 2021 | 1. Cannasexual and Finding Pleasure After Trauma with Ashley Manta | 01:00:34 | |
On today's episode, we have Ashley Manta (She/Her) who created the term Cannasexual! She is an award-winning sex and relationship coach. She brings a trauma informed approach to combining sex and cannabis. She is also the author of The CBD Solution: Sex and the host of the podcast Elevated Intimacy. Ashley talks about her journey into the sex education field, beginning with sexual assault survivor advocacy work and opens up about her own history with sexual trauma. We talk about normalizing lube, creating a masturbation ritual, and the benefit of weed suppositories. In this very transparent and honest dialogue, Ashley reveals how difficult it was to find pleasure in penetration and her own struggle with anxiety and panic attacks while using weed. She proudly professes that we all deserve to have amazing pleasure in our sex lives and is an inspiring leader in the pursuit of pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Intro Song: Wild Wild Woman, Your Smith | |||
| 30 Mar 2022 | 50. I'm a Polyamorous Person in a Monogamous Relationship: Black Holes, Relationship Anarchy, and Queer Deconstruction with Aurora Higgs | 01:20:43 | |
On today's episode, we have LGBTQIA+ activist, Aurora Higgs (she/they), join us! Together we talk about escaping the monogamous or polyamorous dichotomy, how men are also victims of the patriarchy, and the humanitarian implications of quantum mechanics. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Aurora's Community: Resources to Learn More: What is the Second Law of Thermodynamics? Astrophysicist Explains Gravity in 5 Levels of Difficulty | WIRED What Is Quantum Cognition, and How Is It Applied to Psychology? White holes: What we know about black holes' neglected twins Scientists Have Found A Way To Make Warp Drives A Reality | |||
| 28 Apr 2021 | 3. Commentary with a Slice of Comedy: Spiritual Trauma and Fundamental Christianity with Fundie Fridays | 00:54:59 | |
On today's episode, we have Jen and James from Fundie Fridays, a youtube channel with over 125,000 subscribers providing deep dives into the world of fundamental Christianity. Together we discuss what spiritual abuse may look like and how to support others who may have survived abuse. We also talk about midwestern culture, purity bricks, imposter syndrome, and Rachel's Challenge. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources for Spirtual Trauma: Leaving the Fold by Dr. Marlene Winell https://takingbackourselves.org/resources-for-religious-abuse Intro Song: Wild Wild Woman, Your Smith | |||
| 16 Feb 2022 | 44. How Men Cry with Dxtr Spits | 01:06:19 | |
Activation Warning: Mention of Suicidal Ideation On today's episode we have artist and podcaster Dxtr Spits (He/Him) join us for a conversation all about the power of vulnerability. Together we talk about the social conditioning of men, working through trauma, and our fears about monogamous marriages. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Dxtr's Community: Resources to Learn More: Understanding Suicide Among Men Boys won’t be boys. Boys will be what we teach them to be. | |||
| 26 Jan 2022 | 41. I'm Too Jealous for Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton | 01:21:42 | |
On today's episode, we have polyamorous research psychologist Dr. Joli Hamilton (She/Her) join us for a conversation on jealousy within non-monogamy and creating the relationships you desire. Together we talk about creative vs. boiler-plate monogamy, relationship agreements, and letting our partners be multiple. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Dr. Joli's Community: Resources to Learn More: Esther Perel: The Secret to Desire in a Long-Term Relationship The Importance of the Relationship in Therapy Angela Chen's ACE: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex | |||
| 02 Jun 2021 | 8. God is Pro-Abortion: an Agnostic and a Christian Share Their Stories with Kim | 01:24:47 | |
Trigger Warning: suicidal thoughts On today's episode, we have Kim (She/Her) from Calling in Christians join me for a very personal conversation about their abortion experience. Together we talk about the abortion pill, gestational age, the Texas heartbeat bill, and the conservative perspective on abortion. This can be a heavy topic for some, so please be compassionate and kind to yourself if this episode is triggering for you. There are resources below for support. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Calling in Christians: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/callinginchristians/ Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@callinginchristians Resources to Learn More: Abortion Facts - https://www.guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/induced-abortion-united-states Abortion Pill - https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/abortion/the-abortion-pill Texas Heartbeat bill - https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2021/05/19/abbott-heartbeat-ban-abortion-law-signed/5165003001/ Gestational Age - https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/what-is-gestation Isolated Beating Heart Cells for Research - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bjn3TwMr4xs Netflix Documentary Reversing Roe - https://www.netflix.com/title/80192834 Catholic Clergy Providing The First Legal Abortion Clinic - https://www.worldcat.org/title/to-offer-compassion-a-history-of-the-clergy-consultation-service-on-abortion/oclc/959080702 and https://time.com/4758285/clergy-consultation-abortion/ Resources for Support: SisterSong - https://www.sistersong.net/ Exhale - https://exhaleprovoice.org/ Faith Aloud - https://www.faithaloud.org/ Religious Coalition for Reproductive Justice - https://rcrc.org/ National Network of Abortion Funds - https://abortionfunds.org/ Shout Your Abortion - https://shoutyourabortion.com/ | |||
| 19 May 2021 | 6. The Vulnerability of Sex and Connection: Yoni Massage Therapy and Guided Masturbation Meditation with Patrick | 01:29:02 | |
On today’s episode, we have a Yoni massage therapist, Patrick (He/Him) join for a honest conversation about Tantra and what a Yoni massage actually entails, how to pursue pleasure, and transform your understanding of sex (be that with a partner, partners, or yourself) into a more meditative practice. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Patrick's Website: https://thesensualmassage.org/ Links to Learn More About These Topics: The Body Keeps the Score Article - https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/06/20/the-body-keeps-the-score-van-der-kolk/ Why Going to Pelvic Floor Therapy Transformed My Life - https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/pelvic-floor-physical-therapy-what-to-expect Somatic Experiencing Therapy - https://www.healthline.com/health/somatic-experiencing Science behind interacting with energies? - https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2016/mirror-neurons-quarter-century-new-light-new-cracks/ Deeper science on energy interaction via chemosensory cues - https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0006415 Relational Psychotherapy - https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/types/relational-psychotherapy#:~:text=Relational%20theory%2C%20which%20holds%20that,and%20emotional%20concerns%20can%20result. TAOISM | Be Like Water - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yUjPFCosmNA Quantum Mechanics and Psychology - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsGJkSDtLvo | |||
| 07 Sep 2022 | 73. The Feminist Sex Wars: Suzie Jones Who Takes a Sexy Selfie is a Slut with Emma Phillips | 01:09:53 | |
On today's episode, we have researcher and professional photographer Emma Phillips (she\her) join us for a conversation all about the aesthetics of sexualization. Together we talk about middle class disgust, respectable femininity, and letting go of the male gaze. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Emma's Community: Resources to Learn More: Ariel Levy - Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture Cardi B Won't Let Kulture Hear 'WAP' How to talk to your kids about sex: An age-by-age guide You Don't Have to Freak Out if Your Toddler Masturbates Shadowbanning: Instagram’s Sexual Content Policy Endangers Sex Education | |||
| 03 Aug 2022 | 68. Independent Sexuality for Women: Relationship Therapy, Navigating Jealousy, and a Look Into the Life of Non-Monogamy with Arushi | 00:56:14 | |
On today's episode, we have Arushi (She\Her) join us for a conversation all about navigating the patriarchal construction of monogamy to challenge the status quo. Together we talk about differing from your family value systems, the history of monogamy for women, and navigating non-monogamous relationships. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems: 5 Forces Impacting Our Lives Marriage, a History: How Love Conquered Marriage Are Women Neurologically Less Suited for Monogamy than Men? Human sexual desire: Is monogamy natural? Monogamous Marriage throughout History: A Female Perspective | |||
| 18 Dec 2024 | 190. Claiming Each Other Across the Divide with Lorie Solis | 01:10:29 | |
On today’s episode, we have Lorie Solis (she/her) join us for a conversation about the revolutionary power of softening. Together we talk about healing intergenerational trauma, stepping into embodiment, and the transformation of belonging. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/190-claiming-each-other-across-the-divide-with-lorie-solis Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Lorie's Community: | |||
| 16 Jun 2021 | 10. Leaving the Secure Job to Create Your Own Career + Inner Parent Art Meditation with Pam | 01:25:13 | |
On today's episode, we have Pam (She/Her) share her experience with embracing the unknown and letting go of outcome-based perspectives as she transitioned from a full-time intellectual property lawyer to a birth doula. Together we talk about the antidote to perfectionism, the worship of marriage, and becoming a little more comfortable in the unknown. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Pam's Community: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cosmicrootbirth/ Cosmic Root Birth - https://www.cosmicrootbirth.com/ Resources to Learn More: Higher U.S. rates of death in childbirth for black mothers - https://www.npr.org/2017/12/07/568948782/black-mothers-keep-dying-after-giving-birth-shalon-irvings-story-explains-why Black Newborn Fatality Rates - https://www.cnn.com/2020/08/18/health/black-babies-mortality-rate-doctors-study-wellness-scli-intl/index.html Birthing from Within - https://birthingfromwithin.com/ The Ethical Slut - https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/553912/the-ethical-slut-third-edition-by-janet-w-hardy-and-dossie-easton/ More Than Two - https://www.google.com/books/edition/More_Than_Two/oVpaBAAAQBAJ?hl=en&gbpv=0 Pleasure Activism - https://www.akpress.org/pleasure-activism.html Autism-vaccine link debunked - https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/autism-vaccine-link-debunked | |||
| 12 Jul 2023 | 116. How Conversations About Our Vaginas Will Bring Radical Pleasure with Lindsay Wynn | 01:07:55 | |
On today's episode we have co founder and CEO of Momotaro Apotheca, Lindsay Wynn (She/Her) join us for a vulnerable conversation about authentic liberation. Together we talk about having sex in a Hot Spring, finding empowerment in vulnerable conversations, and connecting to radical pleasure. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Lindsay's Community: Momotaro Apotheca : https://momotaroapotheca.com/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/lovemomotaro/ Resources to Learn More: Nonviolent Communication : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781892005281 The power of vulnerability | Brené Brown : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o Joyful Militancy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781849352888 The Spectrum of Privilege : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5gZ3PHYU3U Radical Ecstasy : https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/503940 | |||
| 13 Apr 2022 | 52. Year One Reflection with Your Host | 00:33:53 | |
On today's episode, we are celebrating the one year anniversary of the podcast with a special reflection episode! Settle in with Fat Cat and myself as we reflect on the last year of growth, embarrassment, and bravery. I cannot express enough of my deepest gratitude for each and everyone of you listeners. Sending so much love your way. Talk soon <3 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: | |||
| 15 May 2024 | 159. Finding Sexual Play and Presence Through Narrative Theory with Allen Turner | 01:07:16 | |
On today’s episode, we have Allen Turner (He/Him) join us for a conversation about creating narratives of play and nourishing connections. Together we talk about boldly embracing your authenticity, learning to practice love, and stepping into the flow state of play. Relationship Reflection : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipreflection If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement at patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Allen’s Community: Allen Turner designer/artist/storyteller/dancer/teacher believes in play and stories and the emergent moments that arise in between are powerful medicines that help us find our place and nourishment in the world. Website : crowmagics.com Resources to Learn More : Johari Window : https://www.communicationtheory.org/the-johari-window-model/ | |||
| 15 Sep 2021 | 23. God Loves Queers: The Faith Journey of a Lesbian Bishop with Brenda Bos | 01:28:58 | |
On today's episode, we have the first openly lesbian bishop in the Evangelical Lutheran Church, Brenda Bos (She/Her), join us for a conversation about how her sexual identity shaped her unique faith journey and prepared her for leadership within the queer community. Together we talk about the nature of God, the internalization of homophobia and the gender binary, and how to rachet up your self-assessment. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Brenda Bos' Community: Resources to Learn More: Meet Rev. Bos, first out lesbian Evangelical Lutheran bishop Millennials are leaving organized religion. Here’s where some are finding community 10 Reasons God Loves Gay Christians Study finds that queer Christians quit the church twice as much as others American churches must reject literalism and admit we got it wrong on gay people | |||
| 30 Jun 2021 | 12. The Psychedelic Experience of Post-Traumatic Growth with Jessica Cadoch | 01:12:08 | |
On today's episode, we have medical anthropologist Jessica Cadoch (She/Her). Together we talk about the power of the psychedelic experience, grief and loss, and how to make meaning when you're presented with the opportunity to redefine yourself. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Jessica's Community: Email: jesscadoch@gmail.com Resources to Learn More: Demi Lovato on Relapsing and Being "California Sober" Carl Jung and the Shadow: The Mechanics of Your Dark Side Rick Doblin on Treating PTSD with MDMA Therapy How Trees Survive and Thrive After A Fire Michael Pollan's Book: How to Change Your Mind Rick Doblin: Therapeutic Potential for Veterans Analysis Paralysis & Trader Joe's | |||
| 23 Aug 2023 | 122. So, I Started Wearing My Purity Ring Again | 01:12:34 | |
On today's episode, we are celebrating my birthday with a special solo episode of empowerment. Together we explore my journey from the roots of evangelical purity culture to reclaiming the divinity of my sexuality. I appreciate you, dear listener, for tuning in each week and creating deeper community with me. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Resources to Learn More: Raisin Meditation : https://mbsrtraining.com/mindfulness-exercises-by-jon-kabat-zinn/mindfully-eating-a-raisin-script/ Judith Herman Trauma and Recovery : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781541602953 Responsive Desire : https://www.lover.io/post/whats-your-desire-type | |||
| 30 Nov 2022 | 85. Embracing Your Sluthood and Geeking Out About Relationship Anarchy with Brian Gibney | 01:12:23 | |
On today's episode, we have surrogate partner and intimacy coach Brian Gibney (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about fully embracing your sluthood through relationship anarchy. Together we talk about reinventing yourself with radical vulnerability, waving your freak flag, and finding security in the gift that you are in your relationships. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Brian's Community: Resources to Learn More: Can You Be Asexual, but Also Enjoy Kink? Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy Come as You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life | |||
| 21 Dec 2022 | 88. The Revolution is Now: Are We Ready to Flip The Board of Capitalism? with Kori Doty | 01:25:15 | |
On today's episode, Kori Doty (They/Them/Theirs) joins us for a conversation about how the system keeps us disconnected. Together we talk about having a full relationship with our body, time-traveler trouble, and noticing the costs of capitalism. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Kori's Community: Resources to Learn More: The Link Between Dopamine and ADHD These TikTok Creators Say They’re Still Being Suppressed for Posting Black Lives Matter Content TikTok Admits It Suppressed Videos by Disabled, Queer, and Fat Creators | |||
| 01 Feb 2023 | 93. The Week After the Orgy: Time and Energy in Non-Monogamy with Sadie Lune | 01:24:43 | |
On today's episode, we have feminist artist and queer sex radical Sadie (She/Her) join us for a conversation exposing the dark side and complications of open-relating. Together we talk about the spectrum of jealousy, navigating the limitations of time and energy, and the wild adventure of co-creating relationships. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Sadie's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 27 Oct 2021 | 29. Limiting Beliefs Around Love: Sound Healing, People Pleasing, and Finding Your Purpose with Sasha Starseed | 01:08:38 | |
On today's episode we have holographic sound healer, yoga teacher, and spiritual mentor, Sasha Starseed (She/Her) join us for a conversation about limiting beliefs and her journey to finding her passion. Together we talk about rebuilding trust with ourselves, living from the inside out, and leaping into the unknown. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Sasha's Community: Resources to Learn More: I'm Not Jealous: The Ethical Non-monogamist's Guide to Free Love Relationships without Suffering Human Design: Were We Coded at Birth? The Uses and Benefits of Music Therapy Being a Highly Sensitive Person Is a Scientific Personality Trait. Here’s What It Feels Like. | |||
| 27 Apr 2022 | 54. Understanding Romantic and Sexual Attraction: Asexuality, Libido, and Abundant Love with Aubri Lancaster | 01:01:56 | |
On today's episode, we have sex educator Aubri Lancaster (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about discovering her Asexual identity. Together we talk about the spectrum of attraction, polyamicable quadracules, and questioning the hierarchy of the nuclear family. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Aubri's Community: Resources to Learn More: Testosterone Therapy Can Restore Women’s Libido—but Questions Remain Multigenerational Living Creates Warmth and Companionship What is the Relationship Escalator? Marriage, a History: HOW LOVE CONQUERED MARRIAGE Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life Living as a Sex-Favourable Asexual THE ACE AND ARO ADVOCACY PROJECT | |||
| 18 May 2022 | 57. Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents with Ebony Holloway | 01:07:18 | |
On today's episode, we have Ebony Holloway (She\Her) join us for a raw and vulnerable conversation about healing and dealing. Together we talk about emotional integrity, internal vs external processing, and embracing growth even when it hurts. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Ebony's Community: Resources to Learn More: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents Does your body really replace itself every seven years? The Water in You: Water and the Human Body The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma Long Term Physical Health Consequences of Adverse Childhood Experiences | |||
| 16 Oct 2024 | 181. Relationship Anarchist: Monica Davis | 01:36:37 | |
On today’s episode, we have Monica Davis (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research episode. Together we talk about the life goal of fluidity, the power of sexual liberation, and the process of compassionate deconstruction. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/181-relationship-anarchist-monica-davis Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Monica Davis: Monica goes by many labels: Scientist, Instructor, Mother, Partner, Daughter, Advocate, and Survivor. These are labels I choose because they are accessible to others. RA has allowed me to deconstruct the "normal" of these labels and communicate my definition and use in my lived reality. | |||
| 25 Jan 2023 | 92. Platonic Intimacy, Forced Birth, and Sexism with Asia Dorsey | 01:13:53 | |
On today's episode, podcaster and herbalist Asia Dorsey (She/They) joins us for a conversation all about a critical analysis of contemporary sexism. Together we talk about love as a conduit of oppression, reclaiming with fourth wave feminism, and how the personal is binary but the political is queer. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Asia's Community: Resources to Learn More: Caliban and the Witch: Women, the Body and Primitive Accumulation The Book That Incited a Worldwide Fear of Overpopulation Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype Bernie Sanders explains Democratic Socialism Cornel West on Democratic socialism Dr. Cornel West on Socialism | Joe Rogan Relational-Cultural Theory: Fostering Healthy Coexistence Through a Relational Lens | |||
| 19 Oct 2022 | 79. Think BIG and Scare Yourself with Alycia Levels-Moore | 00:57:32 | |
On today's episode, artist Alycia Levels-Moore (she\her) join us for a conversation all about calling out the seeds of greatness to becoming our highest self. Together we talk about the importance of having a supportive community, letting go of the victim mentality, and how things just show up when you set your intention. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Alycia's Community: Resources to Learn More: Understanding Boundaries: What Is Projective Identification? Letting Go of Victim Mentality to Heal The Power of Setting Intentions | |||
| 11 Aug 2021 | 18. The Gray Forefront of Psychedelic Research with Manesh Girn | 01:16:13 | |
On today's episode, we have psychedelic scientist and researcher Manesh Girn (He/Him) join us for a conversation about how psychedelics affect our brain and their effectiveness in therapy. Together we talk about some of the mythology around psychedelics, your serotonin receptors, and the importance of mindfulness and meditation in creating a positive mental state. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Manesh's Community: Resources The Challenges of Psychedelic Research The Neuroscience of Psychedelic Drugs: Ending Psychedelic Myths With Professor David Nutt The History of Psychedelics and Psychotherapy Psychedelics Promote Structural and Functional Neural Plasticity 2 Claims About Psychedelics and the Default Mode Network DEBUNKED From Sacred Plants to Psychotherapy: The History and Re-Emergence of Psychedelics in Medicine Coffee is a Drug Not a Beverage, Drink Up! Just Not Too Much Trial of Psilocybin versus Escitalopram for Depression | |||
| 31 May 2023 | 110. MDMA, Ketamine, or Psilocybin Psychedelic Therapy and Pleasure? with Dr. Craig Heacock | 00:49:43 | |
On today's episode, we have Dr. Craig Heacock (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the future of psychedelic healing. Together we talk about the varying experiences of different psychedelics, exploring these medicines in our relationship to pleasure, and the importance of connecting to our bodies. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Craig's Community: Back From the Abyss : https://www.craigheacockmd.com/podcast-page/ Resources to Learn More: MAPS : https://maps.org/about-maps/ How to Change Your Mind : https://www.netflix.com/title/80229847 A potential role for psilocybin in the treatment of obsessive-compulsive disorder : https://akjournals.com/view/journals/2054/4/2/article-p77.xml Roles of β-Endorphin in Stress, Behavior, Neuroinflammation, and Brain Energy Metabolism : https://www.mdpi.com/1422-0067/22/1/338 A novel theory on the predictive value of variation in the β-endorphin system on the risk and severity of PTSD : https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/08995605.2020.1730111 Women and Madness : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781641600361 | |||
| 23 Oct 2024 | 182. Energy Literacy and Compassionate Magnetism with Dr. Broderick Sawyer | 01:54:38 | |
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Broderick Sawyer (he/him) join us for a conversation all about applied liberation psychology. Together we talk about integrating the woowoo into clinical psychology, tuning into plant logic, and the compassion avatar technique. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Dr. Broderick Sawyer's Community: website: https://www.brodericksawyer.com/ | |||
| 08 May 2024 | 158. Liberating Non-Monogamous Play and Your Birthright to Sexual Pleasure with Kristen Thomas | 01:12:14 | |
On today’s episode, we have Kristen Thomas (she/her) join us for a conversation about our cultural shift towards more expansive pleasure. Together we talk about unpacking why you might be nervous at your first play party, telling your mom about your first threesome, and embracing the fluidity of our sexuality. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Kristen's Community : Website : https://www.openthedoorscoaching.com/ Resources to Learn More : All or Nothing Marriage : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781101984345 Purity Culture with Dr. Rachel Smith : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/e4c490ce/134-healing-from-the-grooming-of-purity-culture-with-dr-rachel-smith Sexual satisfaction among individuals in monogamous and consensually non-monogamous relationships: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2018-13429-005 Are there “Better” and “Worse” Ways to be Consensually Non-Monogamous (CNM)?: CNM Types and CNM-Specific Predictors of Dyadic Adjustment https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02027-3 The more the merrier? New study suggests polyamorists may have more satisfying relationships: https://www.cbc.ca/life/wellness/the-more-the-merrier-new-study-suggests-polyamorists-may-have-more-satisfying-relationships-1.4681382 | |||
| 12 Oct 2022 | 78. A Spiritual Direction Session: What is Spirituality? with Mandie McGlynn | 01:21:51 | |
On today's episode, we have spiritual guide Mandie McGlynn (She/Her) join us for a conversation all about finding a safe space to explore what we believe spiritually. Together we talk about how we each have our own sense of what is sacred, the power of the narratives we tell ourselves, and healing from the wounds of spiritual abuse. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Mandie's Community: Resources to Learn More: Tarot therapy: Why some believe the cards can help mental health | |||
| 30 Oct 2024 | 183. Embracing Your Pleasure in Relationship Anarchy with Marcia Baczynski | 01:22:01 | |
On today’s episode, we have Marcia Baczynski (she/her) join us for a conversation all about communicating your desires. Together we talk about chasing vs becoming available to pleasure, the vulnerability of claiming your desire, and liberatory vs oppressive hierarchy. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Marcia's Community: Marcia B is a consent educator, sexual communication coach and champion for living a life outside of shame. Website: http://askingforwhatyouwant.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/askmarciab | |||
| 18 Jan 2023 | 91. What Is The Most Pleasurable Sex You've Experienced? with Annie Philpott | 00:59:13 | |
On today's episode, we have the founder of The Pleasure Project, Anne Philpott (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about the liberation of pleasure. Together we talk about the declaration on sexual pleasure, the seven pleasure principles, and changing the paradigm of sex education. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Anne's Community: Resources to Learn more Declaration on Sexual Pleasure 10 Surprising Health Benefits of Sex Women who have fewer orgasms expect and desire less during sex with their partners | |||
| 17 Apr 2024 | 155. The Relational Power of Psychedelics, Spirituality, and Integration with Tony Moss | 01:18:43 | |
On today’s episode, we have psychedelic activist Tony Moss (He/Him) join us for a conversation exploring the relational impact of psychedelics. Together we talk about the importance of examining your set and setting, seeing your relational patterns from a new perspective, and finding your own spiritual empowerment with psychedelics. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Tony's Community: Tony Moss is a recording artist, producer, and creative director at I.AM.LIFE MUSIC, with over 25 years of experience working with plant medicines and psychedelics. Website: https://www.tonymoss.me/ Resources to Learn More: Harm Reduction with Irina : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/2a5e0581/128-whats-your-cage-drug-use-pleasure-enhancement-and-harm-reduction-with-irina-alexander Rat Park: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNeSkyHccmo The Immortality Keys : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781250803986 The Four Agreements : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781878424310 Millionaires own a record 45% of the world’s wealth : https://www.cnbc.com/2017/06/14/millionaires-own-a-record-45-percent-of-the-worlds-wealth--and-their-share-is-growing.html | |||
| 06 Sep 2023 | 124. Play as Rebellion: Eco Sexuality, Kink Healing, and Somatic Connection with Elmo Painter-Edington | 01:19:53 | |
On today's episode, we have somatic therapist and relationship coach, Elmo Painter-Edington (she/her/fae/femme) join us for a conversation about the power of play. Together we talk about letting your weird light shine, listening to our bodies, bringing more absurdity in our lives, and sensually thriving. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more about Modern Anarchy, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Elmo's Community: Elmo Painter-Edington is a Somatic Therapist, Empowerment Coach, and Life Artist whose role is to grant supportive space for people to be exactly who they are, and to remind people of their unique brilliance, no matter how flawed they feel inside. Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/weirdlight_coaching/ Website : https://www.weirdlightcoaching.com/ Resources to Learn More: YouGov Data : https://today.yougov.com/topics/society/articles-reports/2020/01/31/millennials-monogamy-poly-poll-survey-data Sexual Desire and Relationship Duration in Young Men and Women : https://sci-hub.ru/10.1080/0092623x.2011.569637 The Heteronormativity Theory of Low Sexual Desire in Women Partnered with Men : https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8382213/ Play, Pain, and Religion : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781800500297 Polysecure : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781944934989 Female sexual function varies over time and is dependent on partner-specific factors: a population-based longitudinal analysis of six sexual function domains : https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27766993/ Long-term relationships may reduce women's sex drive : https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/314181 Women get bored with sex in long term relationships : https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/ Flower Video : https://www.instagram.com/p/CtfUYUaABD0/ | |||
| 06 Nov 2024 | 184. Unleashing Your Divine Whore with Claire Dore | 01:25:01 | |
On today’s episode, we have Claire Dore (she/her) join us for a conversation all about challenging the status quo of eroticism. Together we talk about learning to receive sexual pleasure, transforming jealousy into erotic energy, and how your community shapes the expansiveness of your fantasies. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/184-unleashing-your-divine-whore-with-claire-dore Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Claire's Community: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewildwomanceo | |||
| 22 Nov 2023 | 135. Just Another Old, Married, Non-Monogamous Love Story with Kyros | 01:06:58 | |
On today's episode, we have Kyros (He/Him) join us for an exploration of their non-monogamy journey. Together we talk about how polyamory is about so much more than sex, learning you can love multiple people, and normalizing polyamory through authenticity. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 06 Apr 2022 | 51. Being Transgender is My Super Power with Corey Rae | 00:56:11 | |
On today's episode we have activist Corey Rae (She/Her) join us for a conversation about what she has done with the cards she has been dealt to change the lives of others. Together we talk about the oppression and marginalization of the transgender community, the importance of finding our truth and living it out loud, and waking up to our responsibility of advocating for a brighter future. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Corey Rae's Community: Resources to Learn More: Gender Identity Disparities in Criminal Victimization 2021 is now the deadliest year on record for transgender people ‘Terrible Time For Trans Youth:’ New Survey Spotlights Suicide Attempts — And Hope Transgender Day of Remembrance Neil deGrasse Tyson Explains Why The Sky Is Blue | |||
| 22 May 2024 | 160. Updating Freud On The Whole Penis Envy Thing with Em Hill | 01:14:34 | |
On today’s episode, we have queer sex educator and podcaster Em Hill (She/Her) join us for a conversation about healing from sexual trauma to embodying empowerment. Together we talk about the mindfuck of doming cis-men, the subversion of role play, and the life-long exploration of our erotic narratives. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Want to support the long term sustainability of the podcast and connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement at patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Learn more here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/160-updating-freud-on-the-penis-envy-thing-with-em Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Em’s Community: Em is a queer sex educator focusing on middle school and high school and host of Sexistentialist, a podcast that seeks to normalize any and all safe and consensual sexuality experiences for adults. Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/sexistentialistpod/ | |||
| 24 Nov 2021 | 33. Claiming Your Pussy Power with Tazima Paris | 01:24:00 | |
On today's episode, we have sex coach Tazima Paris (She/Her) join us for a conversation on the question, what is sex? Together we talk about monogamousish relationships, being femme of center, and the difficulty of judgement. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Tazima's Community: Resources Relationship Satisfaction of Polyamorous Partnerships Why We Complain in Relationships and How to Stop 5 Scientific Reasons You Should Choose Your Friends Carefully Develop Authenticity: 20 Ways to Be a More Authentic Person | |||
| 25 May 2022 | 58. I'm Definitely Gay: Unholy Sex, Disciplinary Action, and Painting the Mormon Church with Clark Hazel | 01:25:01 | |
On today's episode, we are joined by the polyamorous and kinky non-binary/trans therapist Clark Hazel (They\Them), who shares their vulnerable story of resilience. Together we talk about never getting the lesbian sex talk, the paradoxical logic of the patriarchy, and processing through shame. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of May, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting The National Network of Abortion Funds (https://abortionfunds.org/) Modern Anarchy Community: Clark's Community: Resources to Learn More: Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion | |||
| 20 Oct 2021 | 28. You are Enough: How the ADA Shaped America with Cyndi Jones | 00:49:34 | |
On today's episode, we have Reverend Cyndi Jones (She/Her) join us for a meaningful conversation about disability. Together we talk about the white older man syndrome, what it means to deny yourself assistance, and acknowledging your disability. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: March of Dimes poster of Cyndi Jones as a poster child in Saint Louis 1 in 4 US adults live with a disability Understanding Disability Pride Month What is Disability Pride… And How to Display It The Complexities of “Passing” as Nondisabled How To Include People with Disabilities Disability and Passing: Blurring the Lines of Identity Paperback | |||
| 20 Dec 2023 | 139. The Sensual and Mindfulness Practice of Kink and Psychedelics with Leia Friedwoman | 00:54:48 | |
On today's episode, we have Leia Friedwoman (She/Her) join us for a conversation exploring the cross over of kink and psychedelic practices. Together we talk about learning to surrender, big questions with no answers, and freeing the queef. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Leia's Community : The Psychedologist : https://thepsychedologist.com/ Resources to Learn More : BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females : https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM. 69% of the general population had fantasies about BDSM-related activities : https://academic.oup.com/smoa/article/7/2/129/6956474 The Human Playground : https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10112282/ The New Topping Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351 The New Bottoming Book : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781890159351 | |||
| 17 Nov 2021 | 32. Coming Out to Your Conservative Family: Are You a Gay Villian? with Jordan Parvex | 01:10:52 | |
TW: Mention of Suicidal Ideation On today's episode, we have artist and graphic designer Jordan Parvex (She/Her) join us for a conversation about coming out to conservative family and claiming your queer identity. Together we talk about how our parental relationships shape our desires for attachment, the "othering" of queer identities, and the expectation to be the model minority. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Jordan's Community: Resources to Learn More At What Age Did You Know You Were Gay? What happens when a gay person grows up in an anti-gay home Why We Pick Difficult Partners Acknowledging Our Parents Are Human Support for gay marriage reaches all-time high, survey finds What Is Tokenism, and How Does It Affect a Person's Health? Here's What Experts Say How The AIDS Crisis Changed The LGBT Movement Presence vs. representation: Report breaks down LGBTQ visibility on TV | |||
| 10 Apr 2024 | 154. Year Three: A Feminist Tale of Non-Monogamy, Jealousy, and Pleasure | 01:05:58 | |
On today's episode, we are celebrating the three year anniversary of the podcast with the annual reflection episode. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/154-year-three-a-feminist-tale-of-non-monogamy-jealousy-and-pleasure Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Resources to Learn More: Somatics with Elmo Painter Episode: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/2647cd81/124-play-as-rebellion-eco-sexuality-kink-healing-and-somatic-connection-with-elmo-painter-edington Raquel Savage Episode : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/3cf1f83d/115-are-therapists-causing-harm-when-it-comes-to-sexuality-with-raquel-savage Relationship Anarchy with Tuck Malloy : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/podcast/episode/3ce615e1/137-whats-your-frame-for-relationship-anarchy-with-tuck-malloy Sex, Explained: Episode 1 Sexual Fantasies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11535966/ Sex, Explained: Episode 2 Attraction : https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11535972/?ref_=ttep_ep2 | |||
| 17 Jul 2024 | 168. Your Fierce, Fearless, and Fully Engaged Sexuality with Tristan Taormino | 01:18:47 | |
On today’s episode, we have Sex educator Tristan Taormino (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the queer sexual revolution. Together we talk about bottom at age 25 compared to age 52, transformative soul merging sex, and when a magnet hits you with timeless wisdom. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy community and support the long term sustainability of the show, then join the movement on patreon. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to Work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website: www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Tristan's Community: Tristan Taormino is an author, speaker, podcaster and LGBTQ health expert. Website: https://tristantaormino.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tristantaormino/ | |||
| 03 Apr 2024 | 153. Relationship Anarchist: Lara Okafor | 01:07:43 | |
On today’s episode, we have our second relationship anarchy research interview with Lara Okafor (They/Them). If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/153-relationship-anarchist-lara-okafor Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Resources to Learn More: The RA Manifesto : https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/andie-nordgren-the-short-instructional-manifesto-for-relationship-anarchy Lara's Community : Lara Okafor is a Black queer curator, software developer, and writer currently based in Oslo, Norway. | |||
| 04 Jan 2023 | 89. Burning The Holy Mormon Underwear: Kink, Community, and the God Complex with Madazon | 00:58:17 | |
On today's episode, performing artist and dominatrix Madazon (They/Them) joins us for a conversation about a different understanding of community. Together we talk about the fear of expansive love, being a sacred interrupter, and deconstructing the god complex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Madazon's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 07 Feb 2024 | 145. The Gift of Non-Monogamy Ending in Divorce with Dirty Lola | 01:42:00 | |
On today's episode, we have Dirty Lola (She/Her) join us for a vulnerable conversation about embracing the discomfort of change as a sex and relationship radical. Together we talk about how don't ask don't tell can really complicate your cruise plans, having a break down in the isle at trader joe's, and how a penis should be the fifth thing to go in your butt. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/145-the-gift-of-non-monogamy-ending-in-divorce Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Lola's Community: Website : https://www.dirtylola.co/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/dirtylola/ Spectrum Journal : https://spectrumboutique.com/journal/writer/dirty-lola/ Resources to Learn More: Revealing Divorce Statistics In 2024 : https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/ Global survey finds 9% of adults identify as LGBTQ : https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-news/global-survey-finds-9-adults-identify-lgbtq-rcna87288 How Common Is Cheating and Infidelity Really? : https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-common-is-cheating-infidelity-really | |||
| 11 Sep 2024 | 176. How to Deal with Jealousy in Non-Monogamy: The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide [Audiobook] | 01:47:26 | |
On today’s episode, I will be walking you through my book, The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous and Expansive Relationships. Together we talk about grounding in your body, exploring your set and setting, and connecting to your intention for expansive relating. Read the Psychedelic Jealousy Guide Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/psychedelicjealousyguide If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/175-the-polysecure-paradigm-shift-with-jessica-fern Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 17 May 2023 | 108. Exploring the Kinky Non-Monogamy and Vanilla Monogamy Sex Spectrum with Hannah Witton | 01:02:28 | |
On today's episode, we have sex educator and content creator Hannah Witton (She/Her) join us for a conversation about the passionate anger that fuels our advocacy for a sex education that deconstructs binaries. Together we talk about toxic monogamy culture, navigating sex after pregnancy, and the Madonna whore complex. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Hannah's Community: Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@hannahwitton Podcast : https://open.spotify.com/show/2QgeByrS2LzOl6PVZ2bskD Resources to Learn More: Why Birth Control Pioneer Margaret Sanger Kept Getting Arrested : https://time.com/4065338/margaret-sanger-clinic-history/ How the Madonna-Whore Complex Still Reigns : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuZAvmPKecE | |||
| 11 Oct 2023 | 129. Deep Sex-Positivity for the Political Liberation of Our Pleasure with Dr. Carol Queen | 01:17:37 | |
On today's episode we have pleasure activist and cultural sexologist Dr. Carol Queen, Ph.D (She/They) join us for a conversation about embracing the diverse world of sexuality and relationships. Together we talk about how the values of anarchism intersects with our pleasure, pop sex-positivity vs deep sex-positivity, and how we need to work both within and against the systems. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Carol's Community: Carol Queen PhD is a writer, cultural sexologist, theorist of deep sex-positivity, Good Vibrations Staff Sexologist, and the co-founder and director of the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco. Twitter: https://twitter.com/carolqueen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolqueenphd/ FB public page: https://www.facebook.com/carolqueenauthor Website: www.carolqueen.com Good Vibrations : https://www.goodvibes.com/content/c/good-vibrations-sexologist-carol-queen Resources to Learn More: BDSM Versus the DSM : https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/01/bdsm-versus-the-dsm/384138/ BDSM related fantasies were found to be common (40-70%) in both males and females, while about 20% reported engaging in BDSM: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2019.1665619#:~:text=BDSM%20related%20fantasies%20were%20found,20%25%20reported%20engaging%20in%20BDSM. Exhibitionism for the Shy : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780940208353 Go the Way Your Blood Beats: On Truth, Bisexuality and Desire : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9781910924716 | |||
| 29 Mar 2023 | 101. What's Wrong with the Field of Psychology? Liberation Psychology with Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez | 01:42:19 | |
On today's episode, we have Dr. Daniel José Gaztambide Nuñez (He/Him) join us for a conversation all about liberation psychology. Together we talk about the neoliberal tilt of psychology today, the mobius strip of how social conditioning affects our ability to love, and how speech is always relational and political. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Daniel's Community: A People's History of Psychoanalysis Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 13 Dec 2023 | 138. The Healing of Earth-Based Medicines with Shane Norte | 01:08:55 | |
On today's episode, we have Shane Norte (He/Him) join us for a conversation about the capitalization of healing. Together we talk about the psychedelic buffet, when a giraffe tries to give a polar bear advice on how to live, and the need for free access to earth-based medicines. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/the-healing-of-earth-based-medicines-with-shane-norte Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Shane's Community: Church of the People : https://churchofthepeopleforcreatorandmotherearth.com/our-team Decriminalize Nature : https://www.decriminalizenature.org/Resources to Learn More: Medical Debt in the USA : https://www.thirdway.org/report/end-medical-debt#:~:text=Twenty%2Dfive%20percent%20of%20adults,adults%20have%20more%20medical%20debt. American Wealth Disparity : https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2023/12/06/top-1-american-earners-more-wealth-middle-class/71769832007/ Decriminalize Nature : https://www.decriminalizenature.org/ COMP360 psilocybin treatment in TRD : https://compasspathways.com/our-work/comp360-psilocybin-treatment-in-trd/ | |||
| 21 Apr 2021 | 2. Out Here for the Queers: Sex Work, Activism, and Advocacy with Cruel Valentine | 01:02:25 | |
On today's episode, we have the wonderful Cruel Valentine (They/Them). They are a burlesque entertainer, sex worker, performing artist, creative business consultant, and diversity and inclusion specialist. Cruel Valentine talks about their journey into the performing arts world and the activism behind all that they do. Today's episode really is a treat that covers a range of topics. Together we discuss the politics behind burlesque, what is sex work, queerness, reprograming straight cis white men, financial domination, and our relationships with our anti-depressants. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Cruel Valentine's socials: @CruelValentine website & directory: CruelValentine.com/links Calling Us In - Antiracism group: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScEXL6h8b-QwTu6vQwl79JhiiSmPvEZUrswX1S7L5xzgrVFWA/viewform?fbclid=IwAR0Rc7TDU7foyXBOt-L0yzN4BU5-fITzwtjY44tSf8O6lvot6i2AHjH0tPY&gxids=7628 Intro Song: Wild Wild Woman, Your Smith | |||
| 22 Mar 2023 | 100. Masturbation Meditation #3: Pussy Breathing | 00:23:50 | |
On today's episode, we are celebrating the 100th episode with a special masturbation meditation. Slow down and connect with all the pleasure that is possible in your body with this quick 10 minute meditation. **Meditation begins at 9:04** For all of you listeners that continue to tune in each week, from my full heart I want to wish you the deepest thank you. Thank you for joining me on this journey of expansion and growth. I look forward to all the things we will explore together. Sending you so much love! If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Resources to Learn More: Brief Mindfulness Meditation Induces Gray Matter Changes in a Brain HubState and Training Effects of Mindfulness: Meditation on Brain Networks Reflect Neuronal Mechanisms of Its Antidepressant EffectSelf-Medication for Chronic Pain Using Classic Psychedelics: A Qualitative Investigation to Inform Future ResearchFinding the divine within: exploring the role of the sacred in psychedelic integration therapy for sexual trauma and dysfunction | |||
| 21 Jun 2023 | 113. The End of Faking Orgasms and Beginning of Prioritizing Pleasure with Kelly Gordon | 00:57:29 | |
On today's episode, we have Kelly Gordon (She/Her), join us for a conversation all about prioritizing our pleasure. Together we talk about remembering the historical context of women's sexuality, healing our inner child, and letting go of perfectionism. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com PLEASURE PRACTICE: Looking for support with enhancing your sex life or exploring non-monogamy and open-relating? Nicole offers 1:1 support for designing the pleasurable life you deserve. Check out her offerings at: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Kelly's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/mskelgee/ With Not For : https://www.withnotfor.co.uk/ Hot Octopuss : https://www.hotoctopuss.com/ Resources to Learn More: A Reflection on the History of Sexual Assault Laws in the United States : https://ualr.edu/socialchange/2018/04/15/reflection-history-sexual-assault-laws-united-states/ | |||
| 27 Jul 2022 | 67. PORN, PORN, PORN: Masturbation, BDSM, and Safe Words with Alan Mckee | 00:44:23 | |
On today's episode, we have researcher and professor Alan Mckee (He\Him) join us for a conversation all about the effects of pornography after 50 years of academic research! Together we talk about the contradictory data about pornography use, informed consent, and life-long sexual learning. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of July, the Modern Anarchy Patreon Family will be supporting the National Network of Abortion Funds: https://abortionfunds.org/ Modern Anarchy Community: Alan's Community: What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? Resources to Learn More: The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: An Introduction Positionality & Research: How our Identities Shape Inquiry Thinking Sex: Notes for a Radical Theory of the Politics of Sexuality Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape | |||
| 02 Feb 2022 | 42. Public Art with a Cause with Jason Avery | 01:19:17 | |
On today's episode we have the epidemiologist and activist, Jason Avery (He/Him), join us for a conversation all about his life as a classic over achiever. Together we talk about the importance of continually learning, the need for protection of our artists, and working with the neighborhood to grow towards inclusiveness. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Jason's Community: Resources to Learn More: | |||
| 28 Jun 2023 | 114. Unlocking Potential: Embracing Your Intuitive Calling with Jasmine Prince | 00:58:59 | |
On today's episode, we have diversity, equity, and inclusion practitioner, educator, and business owner Jasmine Prince (She/Her) joins us for a conversation about being true to yourself. Together we talk about redesigning your life path as an adult, paying attention to the top five people you surround yourself with, and listening to the wisdom of the body. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com PLEASURE PRACTICE: Looking for support with enhancing your sex life or exploring non-monogamy and open-relating? Nicole offers 1:1 support for designing the pleasurable life you deserve. Check out her offerings at: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what keeps this podcast free and sustainable. You'll also access private posts about Nicole's research, a community discord, and behind the scenes content. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com Pleasure Practice: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Jasmine's Community: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/_jp_doesit/ Magnolia Penn : https://www.instagram.com/magnoliapennco/ Resources to Learn More: Women who run with wolves : https://bookshop.org/a/88413/9780345396815 Synchronicity: Meaningful Patterns in Life : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGTbxUk0oK0&t=1309s | |||
| 06 Mar 2024 | 149. Relationship Anarchist: Renya NeoNorton | 00:55:52 | |
On today’s episode, we have our first relationship anarchy research interview with Renya NeoNorton (They/Them). If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/relationship-anarchist-renya-neonorton Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Renya’s Community: Renya is an anarchist organizer, writer, YouTuber, and therapist based in Philly. Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@cometogether/featured Therapy : https://cometogethercounseling.net/ https://allmylinks.com/cometogether | |||
| 20 Nov 2024 | 186. The Alchemy of Psychedelics and Sexual Liberation with Katie Sullivan | 01:28:53 | |
On today’s episode, we have Katie Sullivan (she/her) join us for an open-hearted conversation about transforming pain. Together we talk about the medicine of authentic connections, riding the waves of life, and finding your alignment. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Katie's Community: | |||
| 09 Jun 2021 | 9. Squirting, Wrestling, and Cannibalism! OH MY! with Lola Jean | 01:03:51 | |
On today's episode, we are getting kinky with Lola Jean (She/Her), sex educator, pro domme, wrestler, and writer. Together we talk about her squirting world record, the psychology behind kink and fetishes, and how to discover your own and join the kink community. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Lola Jean's Website: https://lolajean.com/ Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Kink Quiz - https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode Feeld App - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/feeld-for-couples-singles/id887914690 Fet Life - https://fetlife.com/ Sex Workers Outreach Project - https://swopusa.org/ Red Canary Song - https://www.redcanarysong.net/ Veil Machine - https://veilmachine.com/ | |||
| 20 Apr 2022 | 53. True Crime: Holding Onto What He Could Be vs. What He Was with Jamie Baier | 01:16:23 | |
Activation Warning: Stalking, Self-Harm, and Domestic Violence On today's episode, Jamie Baier (She\Her) shares her story behind starting the podcast I Am Not Mentally Ill, But. Together we talk about being a bitch about our boundaries, the hindsight of 20/20, and remembering that we are always doing our best with the skills and resources we have at the time. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And if you feel like you have benefited from this podcast, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 50% of all patreon pledges will be used to support a mutual aid fund. For the month of April, we will be supporting Insight, a Ukrainian LGBTQ+ and feminist non-profit that is helping people in Ukraine with covering basic needs in protection, safety and health during the war. To learn more about Insight, check out https://www.insight-ukraine.org/en/ Modern Anarchy Community: Jamie's Community: Resources to Learn More: Supporting a Friend or Family Member with Mental Health Problems The Body Keeps the Score: Memory and the Evolving Psychobiology of Posttraumatic Stress How to support a friend or family member who’s struggling with their mental health How to Release ‘Emotional Baggage’ and the Tension That Goes with It | |||
| 13 Nov 2024 | 185. Relationship Anarchist: Aspen | 01:11:44 | |
On today’s episode, we have Aspen (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about deconstructing the narrative of single, bringing the romantic into the platonic, and how great freedom comes with great responsibility. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/185-relationship-anarchist-aspen Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 27 Mar 2024 | 152. Pleasure and Passion: Exploring Sex-Positive Expression with Anita Nevar | 01:14:12 | |
On today’s episode, we have artist Anita Nevar (She/Her) join us for a conversation about living into sexual liberation. Together we talk about growing up in a doom’s day cult, the connection between creativity and embodiment, and letting our pleasure lead by example. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: www.modernanarchypodcast.com And if you want to connect deeper with the Modern Anarchy Family, then join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are creating! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Transcript : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/152-pleasure-and-passion-exploring-sex-positive-expression-with-anita-nevar Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Anita's Community: Website : https://www.anitanevar.com/ Insta : https://www.instagram.com/anitanevar/ | |||
| 08 Dec 2021 | 35. The Struggle of Living with Vitoria | 01:00:48 | |
On today's episode, we have a conversation with activist Vitoria (She/Her) about learning to be comfortable with change and grounding actions in your beliefs. Together we talk about the importance of community, connecting to the present moment, and remembering that no day is ever guaranteed. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Vitoria's Community: True Social Equity in Cannabis | |||
| 01 Sep 2021 | 21. The Internet Age Gap: Is Curation Making Real-Life Intolerable? with Noah Scalin | 01:18:03 | |
On today's episode, we have artist and activist Noah Scalin (He/HIm) join us for a conversation about the generational divide with the rise of the internet age. Together we talk about the internet-self vs. the physical self (or a lack thereof), the danger of curation, and the possibility that political beliefs may be taking over the role of religion. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Noah Scalin's Community: Resources to Learn More: Generational Differences At Work Are Small. Thinking They’re Big Affects Our Behavior Revisiting the Origins: The Internet and its Early Governance How the Internet was born: from the ARPANET to the Internet Why Are My Boomer Parents on Their Phones Literally All the Time? Millennials stand out for their technology use, but older generations also embrace digital life Demographics of Key Social Networking Platforms | |||
| 11 Dec 2024 | 189. Relationship Anarchist: Absayonika Hone | 01:29:07 | |
On today’s episode, we have Absayonika Hone (they/them) join us for a relationship anarchy research interview Together we talk about the expansive wish to love and share, embracing our humanness, and how another world of relating is possible. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement or reading Nicole's dissertation, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/189-relationship-anarchist-absayonika-hone Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 | |||
| 24 Jul 2024 | 169. Relationship Anarchist: Ren Cerebral | 00:56:48 | |
On today’s episode, we have Ren Cerebral (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about trying to explain relationship anarchy to your parents, the eroticism of intellectual alignment, and the power of a frame shift. If you are also interested in participating in the research and sharing your voice in the movement, then click on the link below. RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY RESEARCH : https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/relationshipanarchy If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website www.modernanarchypodcast.com Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community and support the long term sustainability of the show, our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Looking to work with Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/169-relationship-anarchist-ren-cerebral Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith Modern Anarchy Community: Website : www.modernanarchypodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast Patreon : https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Ren's Community: Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asecretthirdthingpodcast/ Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cripqueercontemplations/ | |||