Married With Benefits™ (FamilyLife Podcast Network)
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| 20 Jun 2024 | Secret 2: 5 Little Ways to Grow Happiness In Marriage | 00:43:15 | |
Looking for some happy vibes in your marriage? Learn about the 'fantastic five' small but mighty try-now practices to grow happiness in your marriage.
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| 05 Aug 2024 | Secret 9: Happy Couples Communicate Openly (Not Brutally) | 00:35:56 | |
We can all agree that open communication is good for healthy relationships. But is there such a thing as being 'too honest'? Listen in as hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn discuss!
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| 05 Sep 2024 | Secret 13: Appreciating Your Better Half | 00:46:11 | |
Who do highly happy couples attribute their happiness to? Themselves or their partners? Join hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn and learn the power of humility and expressing gratitude for your better half. Show Notes and Resources
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| 11 Jul 2024 | Secret 5: Who's In Charge Here? Emotional Management in Marriage | 00:33:15 | |
Do you manage your emotions...or do they actually manage you? Learn how deliberate emotional management can promote your happiness—both maritally and otherwise. Join special guest, Jeff Feldhahn, and hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn as they discuss secret 5 of highly happy couples! Show Notes and Resources
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| 27 Jun 2024 | Secret 3: On Going to Bed Mad, with Jen Goins | 00:38:40 | |
Going to bed angry or not: if someone's giving you advice for marriage, they likely have an opinion. And doesn't the Bible take a stance? Join hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn for a fresh take on how to deal with anger in marriage — a normal part of the human experience — at bedtime and beyond. You'll leave this episode with perhaps a fresh perspective, as well as practical tips on handling conflict, communication, and, yes, anger.
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| 29 Aug 2024 | Secret 12: On "Conflict Amnesia" in Marriage | 00:40:04 | |
True or False? One of the best ways to resolve conflict in marriage is to let go of it. Join hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn as they discuss the art of "conflict amnesia." Show Notes and Resources
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| 22 Aug 2024 | Secret 11: Debunking Myths Around Divorce and Christians | 00:33:36 | |
Divorce and Christians: there are some misunderstandings around its prevalence. Join hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn as they set the record straight and learn how keeping God at the center does help to make highly happy couples. Show Notes and Resources
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| 15 Aug 2024 | Secret 10: Heart Unprotected—Vulnerabillity in Relationships | 00:40:08 | |
Can you keep an eye on the exit and have a happy marriage? Some couples keep separate bank accounts just in case. But in this episode, Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explore how vulnerability in relationships—being "all in" with your spouse—leads to greater trust and happiness. Show Notes and Resources
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| 04 Jul 2024 | Secret 4: On Keeping Score | 00:46:05 | |
You've probably heard the marriage advice: don't try to keep score. Hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn suggest there's one tally that might actually be good to track in Christian marriage—find out what it is! Show Notes and Resources
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| 07 Feb 2023 | 1. When It Comes to Sex Drive–What’s Normal? | 00:46:14 | |
When it comes to sex…what’s normal? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn discuss research about drive, initiative, and other questions. Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma’s book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Feb 2023 | 2. What if My Spouse Doesn’t Want Me? Sex Drive in Your Marriage | 00:40:54 | |
Does one of you want more sex than the other? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas and insight to work through differences in sexual desire. Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 21 Feb 2023 | 3. Sexual Desire: What to Do When You’re Not on the Same Page | 00:48:46 | |
Does one of you want more sex than the other? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas and insight to work through differences in sexual desire.
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| 28 Feb 2023 | 4. When Your Married Sex Life Hits a Snag | 00:53:39 | |
Wondering how to keep your married sex life sizzling—or just move around conflict or hurt? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you troubleshoot. Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 07 Mar 2023 | 5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma | 00:33:16 | |
Initiating or declining sex: It's tricky. Are your signals clear to your spouse? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you with “not tonight” and “yes, please.” Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 14 Mar 2023 | 6. When Sex is Painful: Dr. Michael Sytsma | 00:47:56 | |
Sex can be painful in more ways than one: from trauma, to physical pain, to porn. But these don't need to doom your relationship. Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas to transform hurt to eventual healing and wholeness. Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 21 Mar 2023 | 7. When Sex is Boring | 00:37:53 | |
Has your married sex coasted into the blahs? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma's got solutions to keep you both captivated in the bedroom. Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 28 Mar 2023 | 8. Is Your Sex Life Missing the Point? | 00:36:26 | |
Could your sex life be missing the point? Dr. Michael Sytsma talks about why we have sex…and the key to wow-level sex that changes everything. Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 23 May 2024 | Is Marriage Past its Prime? Dr. Brad Wilcox | 00:39:02 | |
Is marriage worth it? If you've never wondered yourself, you may have had someone ask you that question. In this special teaser episode to Season 4 of Married with Benefits, hosts Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins are joined by Dr. Brad Wilcox, a renowned sociologist specializing in marriage and family research. Dr. Wilcox is a Professor of Sociology and Director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia, as well as the Future of Freedom Fellow at the Institute for Family Studies. Join us for this conversation exploring why more and more people are doubting marriage's value and what the research actually says. You'll also learn data-backed practical advice for building a happy marriage and family -- for yourself or for a friend! Show Notes and Resources Learn more and connect with Dr. Brad Wilcox See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 06 Jun 2024 | The Highly Happy Marriage: Is That a Thing? | 00:44:43 | |
"Highly happy" is possible for marriage. But how do you get there? Change—even "good" change and growth—can be uncomfortable! Join hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn for a roadmap for perseverance in relationship growth, towards the highly happy marriage you dream of. Show Notes and Resources FamilyLife has a brand-new course to help you strengthen your marriage and move towards more joy. Learn more about the the all-new Art of Marriage at artofmarriage.com! And for more resources on building a happy marriage and family, check out familylife.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Jun 2024 | The First Secret of Highly Happy Marriages | 00:29:52 | |
You know what they say about making assumptions, right? But there's one kind of assumption that can dramatically improve your marriage. Hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn discuss first secret of highly happy marriages on today's episode of Married with Benefits. Learn how one foundational mindset shift can help you move from frustration to affection and from grumpy to gracious. Show Notes and Resources FamilyLife has a brand-new course to help you strengthen your marriage and move towards more joy. Learn more about the the all-new Art of Marriage at artofmarriage.com! And for more resources on building a happy marriage and family, check out familylife.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 01 Apr 2019 | 1: Why Is He So Interested in Sex? | 00:36:36 | |
Do you long to make deep, heart-to-heart connections with your husband? You might be surprised to learn that he wants the same thing. But his efforts come in disguise. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explore the topic of sex and why this simple physical act carries such complex emotional weight for your husband. Understand the difference between assertive desire and receptive desire. Learn what to do when you're tired. Discover why your desire for your husband (not just the physical act of sex) is what delights him and gives him a sense of well-being. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 02 Apr 2019 | 2: Why Is He So Touchy? | 00:35:12 | |
Does your husband sulk or get angry over the weirdest things? Ever wonder why he is so touchy? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins discuss common male triggers and what's really underneath those strange reactions. Understand what's happening deep inside his heart, and be assured-it's not your fault. Even so, you can help make him feel okay again. Learn how to read your husband's tells and master the single best thing you can say in those moments. And learn to follow a simple "next day rule" that could help eliminate these conflicts altogether. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 08 Apr 2019 | 3: How Can A Good Man Be Tempted By Porn? | 00:36:03 | |
Porn is disgusting, right? It's fake, gross, destructive, and downright sad. So, how could a good man be tempted by it? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins take an honest look at a topic many wives find impossible to relate to, but are surprised to learn how easy it is to understand. There's no excusing this sin, but there is solid brain science and biblical insight to help you make sense of it, and maybe even empathize with your husband's struggle. Plus, you'll learn what to do if you've just discovered that your husband has been viewing porn. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 15 Apr 2019 | 4: What If We Butt Heads Over Parenting? | 00:31:13 | |
Do you and your husband butt heads over the kids? Are you often stuck being the disciplinarian while he gets to be the fun parent? Why would God put together two parents that are bent in such different directions? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins give three tips for handling those moments when you reach a parenting impasse ... plus a secret to helping your husband see things from your point of view. Remember, parenting stuff always becomes marriage stuff. Even your differences can pull you together. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 Apr 2019 | 5: What If My Husband Doesn’t Deserve Respect? | 00:35:03 | |
Show your husband unconditional respect? Yeah, right. What if he doesn't deserve it? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins talk through the difficulties faced by many wives whose husbands make it really hard to show respect. Wives knows this can be tricky, so Shaunti explains the practical steps used by couples who've turned the corner toward transformation and change. She describes the biggest "little wins" you can make, and what you can do when his behavior has zero respectability. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 29 Apr 2019 | 6: Why Does He Insist on Carrying All the Groceries in One Trip? | 00:12:54 | |
Does your husband always try to carry the groceries in a single trip? You may be surprised when you learn why he does that. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins crack open the mystery and explain why he risks breaking all those eggs. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 06 May 2019 | 7: Why Does It Take Such Nagging to Get Help Around the House? | 00:24:30 | |
Honey, the trash needs to go out, but please don't take it now because I like having to ask 12 times, said NO WIFE EVER! So why is this such a common experience? Are husbands really that uncaring? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain what's really behind this and how to move a husband to action without nagging. Hint: Husbands who avoid chores often have a deep desire to tackle projects, and to feel heroic loving you in the process. Learn to ask "when" and to ask once. And gain practical steps for handling those pesky, repetitive, daily tasks that can make or break your home life. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 May 2019 | 8: Why Does He Care More About Work Than Me and the Kids? | 00:25:01 | |
Couples trying to balance work and family face the pull of two competing priorities—financial security and relationship connection. Even in dual-income homes, it's common for the husband and wife to fall on different ends of that value spectrum. Typically, but not always, he values being at the office while she wishes they had more time together. If you can relate, listen as Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain how and when to discuss all this. And if your husband is especially prone to workaholism, learn four ways to disarm the pressure he feels and together find the work/home balance you desire. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 20 May 2019 | 9: Why Does My Husband Choose Video Games Over Me? | 00:28:53 | |
Okay, so what's with the video games? Wasn't your husband supposed to leave those behind in his childhood? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins, along with special guest Ryan Guinee of FamilyLife, discuss the unique challenges gaming presents in marriage. Every wife married to a gamer knows the backlash if she confronts this sensitive area, but there are practical things you can do to make the conversation easier and hopefully get some win/win boundaries set in your home. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 27 May 2019 | 10: Can My Spouse and I Have Friends of the Opposite Sex? | 00:26:12 | |
Can you or your husband still have friends of the opposite sex? It’s a lightning-rod question that sparks strong emotions on both sides. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins say yes, but with a few wise caveats (#itscomplicated). Should you use the “Mike Pence rule” or have no rules at all? How can you keep friendships from going too far? And what are seven diagnostic questions you can ask to guard your marriage without putting your head in the sand? For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Sep 2019 | 11: Does My Husband Secretly Want Me to Look Like a Bikini Model? | 00:23:15 | |
Do men secretly wish their wives looked like bikini models? Thousands of men were surveyed and the results are in! Listen as Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain what the overwhelming majority said and the implications for normal marriages like yours. If you've tortured yourself with feelings of inadequacy or thoughts of never fitting into that ideal dress size again, take heart. Giving your husband what Shaunti calls "gleeful delight" is WAY easier than you imagine, if you're willing to make a little effort and maybe step out of your usual comfort zone. See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Sep 2019 | 12: Why Can’t He Just Listen? | 00:19:57 | |
A husband who shifts into "fix it" mode without taking time to truly understand, or glazes over after only 3 minutes of listening, will only frustrate his wife and make the problem worse-the opposite of what he intends. So how can you avoid this very common experience and instead create interactions that leave you feeling heard without treating him like "one of the girls"? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain a process with two critical steps. If he brushes off step 1 or you neglect step 2, you both lose. Bonus: a pro tip just for wives to increase your odds of gaining his ear every time. It's Not About The Nail video. (2 min. video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 24 Sep 2019 | 13: Why Does He Ignore the Kids and Me When He Comes Home From Work? | 00:23:08 | |
Does your husband sort of “power down” after work right when you need to talk? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins demystify this common frustration and offer tips for making your evenings more relational. Learn why some questions draw your husband out of his hole, while others prompt only grunts. Gain a simple tip for his drive home that will make life easier on both of you. And discover one thing ESPN knows about gaining and holding your husband’s attention and why you should steal it. More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 24 Sep 2019 | 14: Why Doesn’t My Marriage Look Anything Like a Hallmark Movie? | 00:21:34 | |
No, your husband doesn't act like those guys in the Hallmark movies. Not even close. Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins explain why that's by God's design and why it's actually a good thing for you and for your marriage. Don't worry, it doesn't mean you need to cut the Hallmark channel. In fact, there are three ways those movies can make you love your normal, real-life husband even more than you already do! More from Shaunti Feldhahn at Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 30 Sep 2019 | 15: Season Finale – Live Women’s Conference Speed Round | 00:23:07 | |
Season one of "Married With Benefits" comes to a close in glorious, speed-round fashion as Brian Goins, alongside Shaunti Feldhahn, enters the arena like a gladiator and fields rapid-fire questions live from a women's conference crowd of over 1000. "Why can't my husband multitask?" "Why does he flip channels so fast?" "Why does he go run errands and vanish?" The questions came fast (and sometimes furious), but Brian and Shaunti were up to the task. Find out if your burning question made the show. Learn more about upcoming Aspire Women's Events. https://aspirewomensevents.com/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | 1: How Long Until My Wife Believes She’s Beautiful? | 00:30:10 | |
Research shows that many women struggle with hidden insecurities and find it difficult to believe that their own husbands see them as beautiful. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explain what drives a woman's feelings of inadequacy. They explain what to do and what not to do to overcome her fears in love. Discover practical ways to put her heart at ease and prove how much you truly do delight in your wife. Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | 2: Why Can’t My Wife Focus More On Sex? | 00:37:12 | |
Husbands often ask, "Why can't my wife focus more on sex?" Dr. Juli Slattery, co-founder and President of Authentic Intimacy, joins host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn to answer this important question. Learn how most women are wired sexually; Hint: it's not what you think. Find out how to answer her #1 question and meet her #1 need. Discover why, if God's design seems complicated and frustrating, that's actually a good thing for you and your marriage. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | 3: How Important Is My Physical Appearance to Her Desire of Me? | 00:26:34 | |
Your wife can't really be attracted to your "dad bod" right? A lot of guys assume they need to be workout warriors to be desiraable, but the reality is that a trip to the doctor is probably way more attractive to your wife than another tip to the gym. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn offer husbands two tips for taking care of yourself, and one question you can ask that your wife will find irresistible. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | 4: Why Can’t My Wife Land The Plane In Conversations? | 00:24:57 | |
Husbands, do you get tired head in conversations with your wife as she circles the airport but never lands the plane? Listen as Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn demystify this very common frustration. Understand the brain science behind these exchanges and, more importantly, learn two easy ways to start winning in these moments as the hero of her heart. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | 5: Why Does She Ask The Deep Questions At 11pm At Night? | 00:20:56 | |
Have you ever wondered why, just when your mind is shutting down for the night, your wife's mind seems to be just getting started? Married with Benefits host Brian Goins, along with Harvard trained researcher Shaunti Feldhahn, discuss this and reveal a simple truth that explains so much about your wife. And they offer 3 steps you can take to navigate this late-night impasse. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 25 May 2020 | 6: What Do I Do If My Wife Doesn’t Trust Me? | 00:30:12 | |
As crazy as it sounds, it's not uncommon for trust to be broken within a marriage and the husband not even realize it. Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn are joined by FamilyLife Today co-host Ann Wilson to offer hope and wise counsel for couples needing to restore trust between them. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 01 Jun 2020 | 7. How can I restore trust after pornography or an affair? | 00:40:23 | |
How can a couple restore trust in the area of sexual brokenness (pornography, affairs, etc.)? Licensed sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn to instruct husbands and wives on the necessary steps to take to bring the darkness into the light and tenaciously hold on to the God of hope. From season 1: "Questions Every Wife is Asking: How Can A Good Man Be Tempted By Porn?" https://www.familylife.com/podcast/married-with-benefits/3-how-can-a-good-man-be-tempted-by-porn/ See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 08 Jun 2020 | 8: Why Aren’t Decisions Ever Final For My Wife? | 00:21:15 | |
Does it feel like decisions are never final with your wife? Does she like to "taaaaaaaaaalk" things thru way too long? And what should you do when it feels like she's questioning a decision you've made and felt was final? Host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn explore this common experience with humor, wisdom, and insight on how to finally "lock in" her answer. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 16 Jun 2020 | 9: Every Hallmark Movie Is The Same. Why Does She Still Watch Those? | 00:26:49 | |
In season #1 of Married With Benefits we explained what a wife can learn about the mind of her husband from watching ESPN. Here Brian and Shaunti explain the heart of most wives as revealed in Hallmark movies. What core question is she asking that a good love story answers? What insecurities does she carry that she's hoping you will cover? Good news: You don't need to go ice skating or build a rocking chair out of raw cedar to win her heart every day. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 29 Jun 2020 | 10: My Wife Cries A Lot…Help! | 00:26:31 | |
Husbands all over the world struggle to understand and respond to their wife's tears. Considering two thirds of women admit to crying for no reason, they have good reason to. Curious why women cry so much? Shaunti and Brian, joined by Brian's wife Jen, dig into the "why" behind women's tears and some helpful "dos" and "don'ts" as you move towards your wife. Also learn how God responds to our tears. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 29 Jun 2020 | 11: When Conflict with Your Wife Leaves You Defeated | 00:27:58 | |
In this episode, Brian, Jen, and Shaunti address the common insecurities husbands experience in conflict with their wives. At work they feel they can tackle anything, but everything changes at home when emotions enter the scene. Are you curious why late-night arguments leave you feeling outmatched? Or why you'd rather withdraw to think before processing together? Listen for the reasons behind your feelings and for some healthy conflict management tips. Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 06 Jul 2020 | 12: Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her Mind? | 00:24:57 | |
Trying to figure out why your wife expects you to know what she's thinking? Does trying to interpret all that mystery feel frustrating, even exhausting? Brian, Shaunti, and guest Jim Mitchell explore how to uncover what's whirring beneath the surface in a way that makes your wife feel known--and significantly improve your relationship. For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 13 Jul 2020 | 13: Rapid-Fire: Questions (a lot of) Other Husbands are Asking | 00:31:13 | |
Gathered from a live audience at FamilyLife's Love Like You Mean It cruise, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn and Brian Goins answer a variety of questions from husbands--like, "Why does she ask for my opinion, then do her own thing?" "Why does she pick on my tone of voice?" "Why doesn't she say what she means?" "How can I convince her I think she looks good?" "How am I supposed to avoid fix-it mode when she talks?" For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | Bonus A: Top 5 Rookie Mistakes – Come on man! | 00:07:34 | |
In episode 2, we were joined by Dr. Juli Slattery, co-founder and President of Authentic Intimacy, to dive deep into the question, "Why can't my wife focus more on sex." Here, host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn keep it simple as they offer a quick-hit list of the top 5 rookie mistakes of husbands who just want more sex with their wife. Husbands, if you find yourself relating to any of these rookie mistakes...Come on man! Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 22 May 2020 | Bonus B: Top 5 All-Star Moves – You got this! | 00:05:42 | |
In episode 2.1 you heard the top 5 "rookie mistakes" of husbands who want more sex with their wives. Now learn from host Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn your top 5 "all-star moves." You got this! Show Notes and Resources For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com. https://shaunti.com See cru.org/us/en/about/privacy FamilyLIfe’s Privacy Policy | |||
| 18 Jul 2024 | Secret 6: Factual Fantasies: How to Get Yours | 00:36:09 | |
Not all fantasies are created equally, in fact, one kind is the leading cause of unhappiness in marriage. But how do you avoid pitfalls and pursue contentment with your spouse? Tune in as hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn continue discussing the fifth secret of highly happy couples! Show Notes and Resources
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| 25 Jul 2024 | Secret 7: Your Marriage's Secret Language (ft. Jen Goins) | 00:26:10 | |
Ever notice some couples seem to have a secret language? Maybe it looks like little loving gestures saying, "I appreciate you." "I forgive you." "I want to hear what you have to say about that." Jen Goins joins hosts Brian Goins and as they discuss the 7th secret of highly happy couples! Show Notes and Resources
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| 30 Jul 2024 | Secret 8: Highly Happy Couples Hang Out (ft. Dr. Brad Wilcox) | 00:40:55 | |
Struggling to get a consistent date night? Not to worry. Hosts Brian Goins and Shaunti Feldhahn are joined by Dr. Brad Wilcox, renowned sociologist specializing in marriage and family research, as they share tips for a great marriage—even without a budget or a babysitter. Show Notes and Resources
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