Love Life with Matthew Hussey (Matthew Hussey)
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| 17 Aug 2016 | Take Advantage of Other People’s Time | 00:05:32 | |
We all need other people to help us achieve our goals in life. But the more successful our adviser, the more likely he or she is to be insanely busy! So how can we get on their radar… and even more challenging, their calendar? I’ve got a sneaky tip for you that may be just a tiny bit unfair but, hey – you gotta do what you gotta do to get ahead! Plus, it will make your mentor feel like they’ve done something good with their day too. In the end, it’s a win-win for everyone. | |||
| 08 Jul 2022 | (Rewind): Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone? Listen To This... | 00:08:20 | |
We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want. The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment. We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any. In this clip, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation. P.S. What’s been your experience when you’ve found yourself in this situation? I’d love to hear your story - email at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com | |||
| 04 Apr 2022 | (Matt Monday): Wasted Your Love on the Wrong Person? Listen To This... | 00:06:18 | |
How much time have you spent beating yourself up for things you wish you’d done differently? Whether it’s due to: • A relationship you should’ve left months (or years) earlier • A family member you could’ve created more distance with • A job you stayed in too long . . . it’s easy to mentally pummel yourself as you think about all the time you wasted. But this mindset won’t get you where you need to go. In today’s episode, you’ll learn why you can’t blame the you of the (even recent) past for not meeting the bar you’ve set for yourself today. And if you’ve been wondering how to get your confidence back—the kind that can help you make peace with the decisions of your past as well as change what’s possible for your future—then you can’t miss this message. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com | |||
| 06 Feb 2025 | 282: The Dangerous Lie That’s Holding Back Your Love Life | 00:26:04 | |
In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include:
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| 05 Apr 2023 | 210: How A Lack Of Confidence Is Holding Back Your Love Life | 01:05:06 | |
We asked YOU this week how not having confidence affects your love life, and you answered! It's only when we really ask ourselves this question that we can see all the small ways that lack of self-esteem or negative self-talk can be causing us play it safe, self-sabotage, or just live with unnecessary anxiety. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson dive into the roots of confidence and what we can do to rewire ourselves for a more positive self-image in approaching our relationships. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com | |||
| 08 Sep 2023 | (Rewind) "What if we have different love languages?" | 00:09:13 | |
Many of us have a preferred way that we tend to feel loved in a relationship. These are known as "love languages": physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. In this episode, Matt and Stephen talk about whether it matters if you and your partner have different love languages and how you can navigate these differences in a relationship. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com | |||
| 11 Apr 2016 | THIS Keeps Others from Ruining Your Day | 00:05:45 | |
It’s easy to be happy when you’re surrounded by happy people. But what happens to your mood when you encounter a rude waiter, a cold neighbor, or a cranky person working behind the desk at, say…the DMV??? You have a choice – you don’t have to let grumpy people drag you down. Listen in on today’s episode and I’ll tell you my secret trick for maintaining your positive state in a sea of negativity (using a fun piece of advice from my very own mum!). | |||
| 09 Sep 2024 | (Matt Monday): How To Respond To "Bare Minimum" Texting | 00:17:20 | |
Ever found yourself sitting with your friends trying to "decode" what someone's texts mean, especially when they seem to be giving the bare minimum? And should you respond with the same aloof behavior? Today’s video will give you some simple techniques for clear communication, show you how to model the behavior you want to see, and give you the confidence to set your standards so you're not waiting around for someone to put in more effort. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com
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| 24 Jul 2023 | (Matt Monday): Want MORE From Someone... DO THIS Now | 00:07:55 | |
Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between dating anxiety and your needs not being met. | |||
| 09 Dec 2022 | (Rewind): Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work | 00:07:57 | |
For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic. | |||
| 19 Aug 2022 | (Rewind): Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention | 00:03:11 | |
Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away... What's up with that? When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?" In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way. If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection. | |||
| 04 Dec 2023 | (Matt Monday): Does He Want More With You? (31 Signs to Look for) | 00:25:25 | |
It’s not always easy to tell the difference between friendliness, playful affection, and genuine romantic feelings. | |||
| 25 Jul 2016 | Don’t Let This Conversation Trap Ruin Your Relationship | 00:06:27 | |
Uh-oh. Here it comes. You’ve been dating a man for a while now and everything is going great until you mention a guy “friend” of yours. Suddenly, he’s obsessing about this “friend” and wants to know exactly how “friendly” you’ve been in the past. Before he hooks you into this conversation trap, listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life for my 3 tips on exactly what to say to diffuse his jealousy, ease his mind, and keep your new relationship going strong.
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| 08 Dec 2021 | 143: Why Our Romantic Partners Annoy Us So Much... | 00:41:41 | |
A recent article asked: "Is Your Partner The Most Annoying Person In The World?" Matt and Steve look at this question and discuss: - Top most annoying habits in relationships - The mindset shift that increases our love with our partner - What really destroys relationships --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 18th-20th! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey
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| 10 Feb 2025 | (Matt Monday): Don’t Do These 4 Things After a Breakup… | 00:31:25 | |
When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com | |||
| 10 Aug 2020 | 44: Is He Wasting Your Time? (The Top 2 Red Flags to Watch For) | 00:06:54 | |
I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person. But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so that you don’t waste your time? This episode solves that problem for you. In this podcast, I add a distinction that I’ve never said before and I don’t think you will have ever thought about… Let me know what you think once you’ve heard it, friend. Much love. P.S. For all the sh*t you’re going through right now that others don’t know about, I love you and I’m with you. --- Follow Matthew: Twitter - @matthewhussey Instagram - @thematthewhussey --- Follow Stephen: Twitter - @stephenhhussey Instagram - @stephenhhussey --- Email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Download the FREE chapter of our How To Talk To Men program at GetTheFreeChapter.com | |||
| 03 Oct 2016 | 4 Tips to Charm Anyone in 2 Minutes or Less | 00:06:22 | |
If you think all charming people are just born that way, think again! You can actually learn to build rapport with others and make them feel fantastic around you, and I’ll teach you how with my 4 simple tips. The best part? This is something you can do right away – in the very next conversation you have with someone – to charm them in 2 minutes or less. Ready, set, go! | |||
| 28 Aug 2024 | 259: How to Get Over Narcissists, Cheating, and Heartbreak...the RIGHT Way | 00:38:16 | |
When you've been betrayed or hurt by someone, you can often ask yourself, "How did I miss the red flags?". | |||
| 30 Aug 2021 | 130: What REALLY Gets You A Second Date... | 00:30:20 | |
Matt and Steve talk about the art of flirting and the REAL difference between chemistry and connection... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- If you haven't locked in your place for the next Virtual Retreat this September 24-26, then now is the time. Claiming your place this month will enter you into an exclusive drawing for the chance to receive one of three free tickets to the Virtual Retreat OR the grand prize of an exclusive 1:1 coaching session with me! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com to secure your spot. | |||
| 15 Jan 2024 | (Matt Monday): Why Did They Invest, Then Pull Away?! | 00:09:06 | |
It’s a dating mystery: Why would someone invest in dating you and then walk away? | |||
| 21 Apr 2021 | 106: Should He Come Over On The First Date(s)? | 00:22:42 | |
It's always a question: How fast should you move when it comes to intimacy? The answer: it depends on what your goals are... Matt and Steve talk about the value of inside vs. outdoor dates early on in a relationship, how to find out what their intentions are, and what kind of "progress" really matters in dating. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... (EARLY BIRD SPECIAL OFFER - book your spot before April 30th and get 25% off + special exclusive bonuses! Claim your ticket here) --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! | |||
| 25 Sep 2023 | (Matt Monday): Surviving Heartbreak | 00:04:37 | |
Breakups make us feel lonely, kill our motivation, and leave us scared we’ll never find life beyond this pain. But if you’re in a rut now, it doesn’t mean this is the end. | |||
| 21 Jun 2024 | (Rewind): Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations In Relationships. Do THIS… | 00:04:38 | |
Sometimes we avoid speaking up about what we really want with a person because we're afraid we will "make waves" in the relationship. We come from a place of fear and anxiety. "What if me telling him I want something to be different makes him walk away altogether?" we think to ourselves. So we ignore the conversation and silently suffer. But then nothing gets better. We just put off the conversation for another day while time keeps moving on. If this is you, this episode is for you. >> Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com** >> Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http:// www.LoveLifeBook.com >>> FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http:// http://www.DatingWithResults.com/ | |||
| 20 Sep 2024 | (Rewind): 13 Subtle Ways to Make Someone Want More With You | 00:17:35 | |
In today’s new episode, I’ll share with you exactly how to do that through 13 highly practical tips to get him to take you more seriously. Some of these are subtle, but each one of these points can have an outsized impact on how your relationship moves forward. I really wanted to make this episode because the tone you set in the beginning will serve you throughout your entire relationship, and the influence you can have on being taken seriously by someone is huge. It can determine whether your relationship will be a casual one that’s on their terms, or a committed, loving one where you’re building something together. And in addition to being practical, this episode breaks down the psychology behind each of these tips and provides you with examples (and in many cases, specific texts) you can customize and make your own. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com
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| 06 May 2022 | (Rewind): Say This to Him Then Watch Him Melt | 00:03:54 | |
Has this ever happened to you? You’re on a first date... and... He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry… But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth). If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say: “I’d really like to see you again.” In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)... (You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating...) It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com | |||
| 12 Jun 2024 | 248: Are They Right for You? (Love Languages Explained) | 00:31:16 | |
The concept of "love languages" has been incredibly popular in recent years. But is there really only 5 ways to give and receive love? And how useful is the idea of love languages when trying to find a compatible partner for a relationship? Join Matt, Stephen and Audrey for an explanation of the science around love languages, criticisms and challenges of the theory, and how you can apply them when dating. ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 06 May 2016 | Don’t Wait for the “Perfect” Man | 00:11:00 | |
If you don’t have a lot of experience in the dating world, how are you supposed to find the perfect guy? My answer: You’re NOT. Listen in as I explain how making mistakes in dating takes the pressure off and opens you up to ultimately find the guy who’s right for you. | |||
| 31 May 2023 | 215: Let Go, Move On, and HEAL Your Broken Heart | 00:09:03 | |
"What if you're so afraid of rocking the boat with someone you REALLY like that you forget to uphold your biggest standards?" It's such a common story: we fall for someone, find ourselves thinking we can't live without them, and compromise on everything in the hopes of making them happy. Today, Matthew explains how to deal with this scarcity mindset and keep your confidence and self-worth even when you're afraid your standards might cause you to lose someone... --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com | |||
| 17 Apr 2023 | Matthew McConaughey’s Dating Advice | 00:37:36 | |
Today’s interview with Matthew McConaughey is instantly one of my most popular interviews of the last 10 years. | |||
| 25 Apr 2022 | (Matt Monday): "He Ghosted Me But Still Watches My Social Media... WTF?" | 00:09:36 | |
What does it mean when someone you dated—a guy you still like even though things fizzled out—is still engaging with your social media. Maybe you went on a few dates, had a connection, and even got physical, but it didn’t quite go anywhere. Yet, strangely, he still seems to be keeping a watchful eye on what you get up to on social media. Immediately, the gears of your mind start turning as you analyze the timing and the meaning of each emoji he sends in response to the photo of your night out with your friends. In this week’s brand-new episode, Matt dives into the psychology behind his actions to reveal exactly what it means when someone likes your social posts (but doesn’t reach out in any other way) . . . . . . and most importantly, what you should do about it. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com | |||
| 23 Sep 2016 | Give Him 5 Extra Seconds to Get Your Number | 00:06:11 | |
(Sorry, guys, but I’ve got to give away one of our biggest secrets…) Ladies: Did you know that most times men walk away without getting your number because our interaction with you ended just 5 seconds too soon? Well, today I’m going to give you 3 simple tricks you can use to extend your conversation with a guy just long enough for him to gather the courage to ask you out. Sneaky? Kind of. But it may just mean the difference between “it was nice talking to you,” and “can I take you to dinner on Friday?” So help us out, ok? | |||
| 11 Jul 2022 | (Matt Monday): Freaking Out About Still Being Single?? | 00:16:07 | |
I recently received this comment from one of my Love Life Club members, and I’m curious if you can relate: “I’m starting to feel really uncomfortable with the fact that I’m still single. I can’t help but wonder what’s wrong with me that I haven’t found something lasting yet . . .” This mindset is dangerous. Why? Because our anxiety about being single can lead us to make some really poor and damaging choices. It can turn our dating life into a game of musical chairs, where we scramble to find ANY “chair” for fear of being the only one left standing when the music stops. And as if the uncertainty wasn’t bad enough, it’s usually joined by its friends: shame and comparison. We often spend so much time dealing with these feelings that we forget to even make space for the behaviors that would actually move us closer to what we want. That’s why we need a shortcut, and today’s episode is just that. I share with you 7 mindsets that will take the anxiety out of being single. If applied, each of them has the potential to make a dramatic difference in your love life. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com | |||
| 18 Jan 2016 | Why Men Freak Out and Pull Away | 00:07:05 | |
You’ve just started seeing a guy you’re really into. You just can’t get enough of each other. You spend night and day together. You cancel plans with friends so you don’t miss a chance to see him. Before you know it, you’ve got a toothbrush and a drawer of clothes at his place, and you’re wondering whether to say “I love you” (even though it’s only been a whirlwind few weeks). Then suddenly, out of the blue, he starts ignoring your texts and phone calls. He ditches plans with you to go out with the guys. You can feel the shift: he’s starting to pull away from you. In today’s LOVE Life I’m going to explain exactly WHAT is going on inside his head, WHY this is happening, and HOW you can get through this tricky phase with your relationship intact. I’ll even give you a script of what to say to reverse the situation, create more attraction, and make your relationship even stronger than it was before. | |||
| 13 Jul 2022 | 173: Are These The 7 Essential Questions To Ask Your Partner?? | 01:09:29 | |
We all like to think a great relationship is just about finding the right person. But it's not. It's also about how you communicate with that person. It's about the inner thoughts you share. The way you divide tasks. How you both share your worries. The time you schedule you together. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to talk through a recent New York Times article by Catherine Pearson that made the case for 7 essential check-in questions to ask your partner. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat! - Claim Your Limited Time Summer Self-Care Discount ($100 OFF the usual price!) for The Virtual Retreat at MHVirtualRetreat.com. Offer ends August 7th! --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- ►► FREE guide to download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com | |||
| 06 Feb 2021 | 83: Why We Get Attached Too Quickly (with Matt and Stephen) | 00:20:56 | |
Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Hey listeners! Join Matt and I for a chat today on:
If you want to get in touch, email us at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt Instagram - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen Instagram - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey | |||
| 14 Apr 2023 | (Rewind): Is Having A "Backup Person" Cheating? | 00:12:38 | |
A recent dating study showed that many people have what is known as a "backburner relationship". And many people date today while also still being in touch with exes or former sexual partners. Is this trend dangerous for building a relationship? And what does it cost us in the long-run if we have a "backup person" who we keep contact with? --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey --- ►► Stop Waiting and Start Creating the Happiness You Deserve NOW - Claim your spot on my Virtual Retreat, June 2 - 4, 2023 → MHVirtualRetreat.com | |||
| 18 Mar 2021 | 96: Things To Look Forward To | 00:26:39 | |
Someone once told Steve a secret to happiness he's never forgotten: “You always need to have two things to look forward to.” “Why two?” “You need one so that you can look ahead and know something exciting is on the horizon. And you need to a second so that you don’t get depressed when the first one ends.” In this episode we talk about: - The benefits of "positive anticipation" for your happiness - Why purpose really matters - Whether you should keep chocolate in the fridge --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey
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| 06 Dec 2020 | 72: *SPECIAL EPISODE* - Q&A Ask Matt Anything! (with Stephen Hussey) | 00:45:13 | |
It's finally happened... Matt and I are back in the same room, together at last! And we're taking YOUR questions. In this special Q&A episode, we talk:
Hope you enjoy, and let us know your thoughts and feedback at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt Insta - @thematthewhussey Twitter - @matthewhussey ---- Follow Stephen Insta - @stephenhhussey Twitter - @stephenhhussey | |||
| 29 Mar 2021 | 99: Women's Safety - It Belongs To All Of Us | 00:24:11 | |
I believe in talking about ideas that matter and can help people lead better lives. It’s hard for me to think of anything that fits that description more than the issues this video deals with. I’ve done my best, but I know it won’t be perfect. It’s not meant to be. I just want to begin the conversation in our community. I look forward to learning more from all of you as I go. Women of my community, I did not create this episode for you to do anything. It’s a message we men need to hear. I hope you’ll help me share it with more of my brothers, because the change has to come from us. And I’d love for you to join me in the comments to share your experiences and further educate us. We have your back here, and we love you. Matthew x | |||
| 18 Aug 2023 | (Rewind): One of the MOST Important Qualities For Any Relationship To Last | 00:07:12 | |
There are many qualities that help keep a long-term relationship. | |||
| 06 Sep 2024 | (Rewind): 3 Mistakes People Make When It Comes To Exclusivity in Dating | 00:11:05 | |
It’s very easy to avoid having certain conversations in life. And one of the more dangerous forms of avoidance is assuming we’re exclusive when it’s unclear in early dating. So when should you have The Conversation? And what are some of the pitfalls that lead to people being “in limbo” and never really getting the commitment they want? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey talk about 3 common mistakes in the early dating stage and how to get clearer about where you really stand. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com | |||
| 30 Aug 2024 | (Rewind): Heal Your Broken Heart. Starting Now. | 00:19:42 | |
When your heart gets broken, it can be as painful as any physical trauma. You can't eat. The world seems dark. Your every thought is tinged with a feeling of loss and hopelessness. But there are STILL choices. And the ones you make now will decide whether you stay feeling broken and defeated, or whether you heal and come back feeling stronger, more confident, and ready to love again. Here's how to get on the right path back to YOU . . . --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com | |||
| 07 Sep 2020 | 52: Don't Let Fear of Rejection Paralyze You. Listen To This... | 00:04:28 | |
Maybe you’ve always been afraid of rejection. Maybe there was a specific moment in your past where you experienced a devastating rejection that has left you fearing getting hurt again ever since. The problem with the fear of rejection is that it still hurts even when we are not getting rejected. I was taught by my boxing trainer, Martin Snow, that the worst punch you get is the one you never actually get hit with. It’s the one you think about and fear in your mind. That means that even without literally being rejected, we experience the pain by imagining it over and over again. On top of that, we beat ourselves up for all the things we are missing out on as a result of our fear: potential partners, opportunities, experiences, adventures, and most importantly – our full potential. Fear of rejection is one of the most human things in the world. We all experience it. But how can we learn to manage it, live with it, and even occasionally, overcome it? I know you’ve been dealt some really unfair situations. I know that sometimes it feels like we can’t take anymore pain. But life is short... I’m with you, friend. -- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.co | |||
| 18 Sep 2024 | 263: Protect Yourself In Dating With This Mindset | 00:33:38 | |
Do you find some relationships and situations in life that just drain you? Maybe there are people you're investing energy into in your dating life that make you feel burnt out, frustrated, and make you want to withdraw entirely. | |||
| 15 Apr 2024 | (Matt Monday): 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating | 00:18:59 | |
You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)! | |||
| 31 Jan 2024 | 225: I Asked You to Be HONEST About Your Dating Behaviors. Here’s What I Learned… | 00:35:11 | |
We asked you about what behaviours and patterns have caused the most pain in your love life. And you answered! In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey talk on the topic of jealousy in a relationship, insecurity about our looks, and getting over people who don't choose you. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . | |||
| 11 Dec 2024 | 275: 3 Levels Of Confidence That Define Your Life (W/ Ed Mylett) | 00:28:35 | |
I had so many amazing conversations while promoting my new book "Love Life" in 2024, and this month I want to share some clips from a few of my favorites with you. | |||
| 10 Aug 2016 | The Only Mindset You Need to Overcome Rejection | 00:08:49 | |
On this episode of LOVE Life, our caller, Getty, says it best: “Rejection sucks.” Yet it’s inevitable that we’ll all face it in our lives from time to time. So the question becomes: How can we move on from the grief and heartache of knowing: I’m not the one they chose? I break down my (somewhat surprising) theory about insecurity, and explain why taking small risks every day is actually a privilege to seize rather than a chore to dread. With this new mindset firmly in place, you’ll be ready to get back “out there” in no time. | |||
| 21 Feb 2021 | 87: What It Takes To Have Romance In Your Relationship...(w/Matt and Steve) | 00:22:32 | |
Join us on our virtual retreat in March! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- It's time to talk romance. What it is, and how to get it. Is it something you're born with? Or something you can learn? Join us to find out and email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey | |||
| 19 Apr 2020 | 18: What Made You Fall In Love With Him? (Micro-attractions pt. 2) | 00:16:48 | |
A couple of episodes ago we asked you: What are the moments that made you fall in love in the past? We call these moments micro-attractions. Yes, you can find someone sexy. You can like the same movies. But it's those little behaviours that totally fly under-the-radar that make us say, "Holy crap! I've never met anyone like this before!" So, Steve dived into the inbox and looked at YOUR stories of the moments that made you fall head over heels and discuss what this tells us about long-term attraction. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey
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| 01 Apr 2022 | (Rewind): "No Matter What I Do I Can't Get Over Them. PLEASE HELP!" | 00:01:43 | |
How do you move on when you thought they were "the one" for you? This is where to start... --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join me in-person for the return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new love life advice for you every weekend. ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com | |||
| 20 Feb 2023 | (Matt Monday): Want More From Someone? DO NOT Chase; Do THIS Instead! | 00:13:49 | |
In today’s new episode, I share very specific principles that will be useful the next time you feel like you’re getting carried away with someone you like. And remember, no one (including yourself!) should make you feel like you’re “not enough.” No matter who you’re dating, by investing in yourself, you can come into any situation feeling like an equal. | |||
| 12 Jul 2024 | (Rewind): 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast | 00:05:42 | |
Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her. Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…” She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him. But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?) The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love. In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...
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| 10 Jun 2016 | The Sexiest Thing You Can Do in Three Minutes is… | 00:06:17 | |
How should you communicate with a guy you like in between dates? If you think texting is the only answer, then this episode is for you. I’m going to reveal a surprisingly simple – yet incredibly sexy – way to keep in touch that builds way more connection than sending emojis. Do this and he’ll be dying to take you out again! | |||
| 03 Apr 2021 | 101: If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing? | 00:18:08 | |
"Get serious about people who treat you as serious. Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is. What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs." --- Ready for a Fresh Start in Your Love Life? Download Your FREE Guide to Learn the 3 Simple Secrets . . . http://www.3SecretsToLove.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey | |||
| 20 Nov 2023 | (Matt Monday): We Made a Movie! | 00:09:02 | |
Some very exciting news to share today . . . I made a movie! And it’s not just any film . . . it’s a romantic comedy special that will transform your love life while you watch it. We’ve gathered the very best moments from my last live tour to create The Love Myths: a 90-minute movie that’s been years in the making, and we’ve now set a date for its exclusive premiere and live Q&A next month. This is an event you can’t miss, and in today’s video, I give you all the details on how you can join me. ►► Claim Your FREE TICKET to This World Premiere Event by Pre-Ordering Your Copy of Love Life Now at . . . → http://www.LoveMythsMovie.com | |||
| 16 Sep 2022 | (Rewind): Was Breaking Up With Him The Right Decision? | 00:07:33 | |
You decided it’s time to break up. And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace. You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake? Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone. Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advised you to give things another try with this guy and now you’re even more lost and confused! In this clip, I’m going to show you an easy way to tell whether you made the right choice, and personally guide you out of this anxiety and indecision with simple but powerful change in mindset, so that you feel confident in your feelings and can let a relationship go in peace. Believe me, I know myself how easy it is to get stuck in this place for months only to come out of it and wonder why you wasted so much of your precious time worrying. --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com | |||
| 12 Aug 2024 | (Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again | 00:34:10 | |
Maybe this will sound familiar: After a few bad dating experiences, you say to yourself, “My life is pretty awesome as it is, so why do I even want someone else disturbing my peace?”
The thought of not having to deal with the dating process may feel like a huge relief in that moment . . . but what actually happens when you decide not to put yourself out there anymore (when deep down, you still want to find love)?
In today’s episode, I share 5 ways you can get back into dating that won’t lead to burnout. You’ll see how to maintain your peace while also giving yourself permission to take small (or even big) swings in love. ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days... Learn More About My Live Retreat at → http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at ... → http://www.The3Relationships.com
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| 10 Apr 2024 | 235: THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment | 00:37:33 | |
Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 07 Feb 2025 | (Rewind): This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG | 00:17:53 | |
It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com | |||
| 21 Jul 2023 | (Rewind): The Most Important Qualities To Look For In A Long-Term Relationship | 00:10:30 | |
Do you find yourself with enormous checklists for your romantic partner? Are you often paralysed by a list of standards that no-one can live up to? In this clip, Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson talk about what matters most when choosing a partner and the long-term qualities we often undervalue. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey ►►Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days Find Out More At. . . → http://www.MHRetreat.com | |||
| 16 Dec 2015 | Breaking Up During the Holidays (Surprise – it Could Be a GOOD Thing) | 00:05:33 | |
The holidays are a time of romance, of closeness, of snuggling up together by the fire and opening the gifts you thoughtfully picked out for one another… BUT what if you’re not feeling the love for your guy anymore? If you’ve been thinking of breaking up with him, should you wait until after the holidays or just get it over with as soon as possible? In this episode of LOVE Life we sort through your options and come up with the most fair plan to do what’s best for your soon-to-be ex. | |||
| 24 Nov 2023 | (Rewind): Want a Deeper Connection? Let Down Your Guard | 00:07:18 | |
Do you find it hard to truly let down your guard with a man? What do you do when you get angry or hurt? Do you get quiet? Passive-aggressive? Lash out? If you know that the way you’re bringing things up isn’t productive, and has the tendency to push someone away, my new video is essential watching today . . . Let me know what you think.
►► FREE Video Training: "Dating With Results" → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 08 Apr 2016 | Is He Too Hot for You? (My Most Surprising Advice) | 00:04:59 | |
You’re at a friend’s party, and across the room, you spot him: The hottest guy you’ve ever seen. What’s your first thought? Let me guess: “He’s out of my league. I could never talk to him.” If I’m right, then I want you to listen to today’s episode of LOVE Life. I’m going to reveal a shocking fact about 99% of the “beautiful people” out there, and give you a piece of surprising advice that will have you approaching Mr. Perfect in no time flat. | |||
| 20 Mar 2024 | 232: How To Feel Worthy Of Love | 00:15:20 | |
What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com | |||
| 02 Oct 2024 | 265: Esther Perel’s Advice On Modern Dating, Sexuality, And Communicating In Relationships | 00:48:00 | |
In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! | |||
| 29 Sep 2023 | (Rewind) How To Stand Out In Modern Dating | 00:09:08 | |
Do you keep getting flat responses to your text messages? Or find it hard to get things moving in the early stages of dating? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen talk about why trying to play it too cool can be counter-productive in dating, and how you can show your personality to stand out and create connection in the first few conversations. --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- ►► Discover the 3 Secrets to Taking Control in Your Love Life. Go Here to Get Your Free Guide → http://www.3LoveHabits.com | |||
| 18 Dec 2023 | (Matt Monday): Why You’ve Not Met the Right Person (Yet) | 00:15:39 | |
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| 20 Feb 2020 | 2: The Big Question: How Are You At Your Worst?? | 00:08:21 | |
You might be the kind of person who is funny, joyful, and amazing to be around when you’re in a great mood. But what about when things get tough? Or stressful? Or when there’s conflict and problems? It’s time to ask the really important question that defines so many relationships: “how are you at your worst??” Listen to the episode to find out why this is one of the most defining parts of yourself you can ever work on to improve your love life... Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey, and Stephen @stephenhhussey | |||
| 04 Sep 2024 | 260: He Seemed Attracted...Then Pulled Away. Why? | 00:40:59 | |
Ever felt like you had chemistry and were falling for someone, and then they seem to start texting less, stop scheduling dates, and seem to be fading out? What does this mean? And more importantly, should you have "the conversation" to see where you stand? | |||
| 03 Feb 2016 | How to Talk to a Ridiculously Hot Guy | 00:05:49 | |
Chill for a minute… So that guy you want to talk to is super hot. Before you let your nerves get the best of you, leaving you a giggling, babbling mess, listen to today’s LOVE Life. I’m going to tell you how to take your power back and remain in control of the conversation. That’s right – YOU are going to set the pace and tone with this guy, which will make you seem confident and magnetic on the outside (no matter how nervous you are on the inside). Who’s the ridiculously hot one NOW??? | |||
| 08 Mar 2023 | 207: Finding Your Greatness In Love And Relationships (with Lewis Howes) | 01:12:35 | |
This week, our special guest is New York Times Bestseller, entrepreneur, and host of the "School of Greatness" podcast, Lewis Howes! Lewis joins Matt for an in-depth discussion about all things love and relationships. In this episode we cover: | |||
| 21 Mar 2021 | 97: Underrated Skills Everyone Should Learn To Be A Better Partner | 00:15:43 | |
We’ve all been told the important stuff that helps a relationship work in the long-run:
But there are also other little skills that make a big difference. Things that our partner may not even be able to vocalize, but that deep down in their subconscious they are eternally grateful for and that keep the relationship working and make us No.1 in their books. Cultivate these skills and your name will be on its way to becoming an ill-judged impulsive tattoo on someone’s bicep in no time... --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey | |||
| 22 Nov 2024 | (Rewind): They Told You They Wanted a Break? Here's the Perfect Response | 00:05:24 | |
What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break? You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them? In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need... I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering. ----- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com | |||
| 27 Apr 2022 | 163: "I'm Always Attracted to the WRONG People!" | 00:57:20 | |
How do we find the right person if we're always falling for the wrong one? It's a common problem, one that can make you feel doomed to always be in unsatisfying relationship cycles over and over again. In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Jameson talk about why we feel this way towards certain people with negative traits and how we can heal so we align with the right kind of partner for us. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together. Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” http://www.9texts.com FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” http://www.SayThisToHim.com --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com | |||
| 09 Aug 2023 | 219: Is Your Ego Destroying Your Love Life? | 00:09:16 | |
Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle. What's holding them back? FEAR. They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy. | |||
| 14 Jun 2023 | 216: Sexual Confidence & How to Show It (with Emily Morse) | 01:05:08 | |
Today I'm joined by the fantastic and insightful Emily Morse. Emily is a sex therapist, author and media personality and host of the 'Sex With Emily' podcast. In this conversation we discuss:
--- ►► Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for my Dating With Results Training. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com | |||
| 26 Jun 2024 | 250: “How Soon Can I Ask for Exclusivity?” | 00:48:16 | |
When is the best time to ask the person you’re dating if they’re still dating other people? Is there a “sweet spot” during the dating process to have the exclusivity conversation? In today’s podcast, you’ll learn how to balance emotional intuition with practical strategy . . . plus avoid emotional manipulators and love bombers in the process. You’ll also learn how important connection is (and when feeling it in the early days of dating can lead you down the wrong path, especially when chemistry is valued over compatibility). This episode will give you tools and mindsets to navigate the early days of dating with confidence! ►► Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 22 Mar 2017 | If You Would Never Marry Him, Should You Date Him? | 00:08:39 | |
Today’s caller has a really interesting question: She knows for certain that she wants to marry a man who’s Jewish, but she just “accidentally” had a great date with a man who isn’t. What should she do? We all have our dating deal breakers, religion-based or not, so this is an issue most everyone can relate to. I break down this tricky situation and, together, we’ll weigh the pros and cons of enjoying the now vs. cutting things off quickly before anyone gets hurt. | |||
| 15 Mar 2017 | How to Protect Your Heart from a Rebound Relationship | 00:05:54 | |
Is it wise to date a guy who just got out of a relationship? How can you know if he’s actually ready to get serious with you now or if he’s still too hurt from the past? Actually, I can’t answer that for you… but HE can. Grab a pen, because in today’s episode, I’m going to give you 3 questions you can ask Mr. Recently Single to uncover his true feelings about his breakup and reveal what’s in store for you if you get involved with him now. I also give you an important warning and my #1 tip for protecting your heart while his heals. | |||
| 27 Mar 2023 | (Matt Monday): LET GO, MOVE ON, and HEAL After a Toxic Relationship | 00:18:17 | |
In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free. | |||
| 15 Aug 2016 | Get On Your Guy Friend’s Girlfriend’s Good Side | 00:06:03 | |
Well of course your best guy friend’s new girlfriend is going to be threatened by you. You two have a history that she can only imagine, inside jokes she just doesn’t get, and a friendship that’s stood the test of time… But the reality is, they’re getting serious and she’s not going anywhere. So how can the three of you make this relationship work? I give you 3 quick tips that will put your guy friend’s GF at ease, build your bond with her, and make sure that both of you stay the most important women in your best friend’s life. | |||
| 26 Jan 2024 | (Rewind): Getting Less Attention Than You Used to? Listen To THIS | 00:13:53 | |
Do you feel like everything has changed in the dating scene? Is it making you feel like you have to settle because so many people no longer want commitment? In this clip, Matthew talks about what it's like when we go through difficult experiences and come back onto the dating scene, what happens as we get older and are looking for a relationship, and how you can approach finding love with a new perspective. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Retreat at. . . | |||
| 27 Oct 2023 | (Rewind): Ready to Give Up on Dating? Watch This . . . | 00:08:54 | |
I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.” It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place. It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship. If you feel any of these things, I made this for you. --- Discover the 4 Secrets for Escaping Casual Dating Traps. Claim Your FREE PASS for My Dating With Results Training at. . . → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 13 Sep 2024 | (Rewind): If They Pull Away, Text This Response... | 00:10:19 | |
What can you do when you feel like you're getting excuses and feel they're pulling away in their texts? If you don't want to play games, here's a simple way you can be honest, vulnerable, but still keep your standards when you respond. | |||
| 13 Mar 2020 | 8: The Dumbest Mistake People Make In Dating | 00:10:22 | |
Last episode we talked about how to respond to a flakey guy using “Bliss Point” text messages - which combines being salty and sweet to make someone WANT to pursue you and live up to your standards. Except… Some of the more angry responses said things like: “Matt, why would I even think about being sweet to a guy who flakes on a date?? He should be chasing me already, and if not, I have a right to be angry when I text back…” To tell you the truth, I’m really glad these comments came up (and I kind of expected it). In this week’s podcast, we explain why this response relates to a huge mistake 99% of people make in dating. Make sure you don’t fall into this common trap... Email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com Follow Matthew @thematthewhussey, or Stephen @stephenhhussey on Twitter and Instagram!
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| 28 Jun 2024 | (Rewind): Why We Get Attracted to the Wrong People | 00:05:40 | |
Do you ever find yourself getting attracted to people who are unavailable (emotionally or otherwise)? Treat you poorly? Or simply aren’t interested in you? At the end of this video, I give you a practical “mind trick” you can do on yourself to change this... Learn the 2 mistakes that keep you from meeting the right person...
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| 17 Oct 2016 | How to Do What You Want (Without Being Judged) | 00:06:00 | |
Do you ever feel judged by the people in your life for the decisions you make or your desire to try new things? Ever wish you could just do what you want without worrying about what other people think? Well, you can, and I’m going to show you how. First, it starts with an internal mindset shift. Then, there are two external reactions I’ll teach you that will instantly disarm those “judge-y” friends and possibly even win them over to your side. Either way you’ll be free to do what you want, and they’ll be left without a leg to stand on. | |||
| 26 Sep 2020 | 57: Matt answers YOUR dating questions! | 00:15:44 | |
Answering YOUR questions on topics including: - what to do when a guy is acting flakey - creating a "flirtatious energy" (and how to do it) - how to be less insecure in a relationship _________________________ Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey | |||
| 26 Feb 2021 | 89: Don't Be Afraid Of Your Weirdness... (with Matt and Stephen) | 00:18:31 | |
It's ok to be weird... In fact, it will probably be what makes you stand out and do interesting things in the world. If you copy everyone else, you end up safe, watered down, generic. So if you struggle with the social pressure to conform, this is the episode for YOU! --- P.S. Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- Follow Matt: @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen: @stephenhhussey | |||
| 02 Mar 2016 | No One Stole Your Boyfriend! | 00:05:48 | |
Warning: if you enjoy playing the victim, don’t listen to this episode! I explain why it’s impossible for someone to “steal” your boyfriend, and how to get closure if he leaves you for someone else. | |||
| 17 May 2024 | (Rewind:) If You've Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS | 00:08:37 | |
It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people. I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you. --- ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com | |||
| 11 Jan 2023 | 199: The Most Important Love Advice You'd Give Yourself in Your 20s | 00:52:41 | |
We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :) | |||
| 27 Mar 2024 | 233: What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding | 01:11:48 | |
Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! | |||
| 15 Jun 2016 | Why Being a Virgin Isn’t a BFD | 00:06:05 | |
For any woman, it’s extremely tricky to answer a guy’s question, “So…how many men have you slept with?” But what if you’re a virgin? How do you tell a guy you like without making it weird or freaking him out? I get asked this question a lot, and today I’m going to tell you just what to say, how to say it, and – most importantly – how to respond to his reaction. Oh, and by the way, we’re also going to talk about why being a virgin isn’t a B(ig) F(reaking) D(eal) to begin with. So relax already! | |||
| 20 Apr 2022 | 162: Why "Single-Shaming" Is Dumb (And How To Resist It) | 00:58:23 | |
No matter how far we’ve come, there is still a stigma in society for people who choose to remain single for longer than the average person.
And this leads to all kinds of judgment: you must be sad, you must want a partner, you must have a problem…
Matt, Stephen, and Audrey discuss why “single-shaming” persists and how to avoid feeling the pressure from society in influencing your decisions about your romantic life. --- Let's Create Magic in Your Life, Together Join Me In-Person for the Return of The Matthew Hussey Retreat (May 30th - June 5th) → http://www.MHRetreat.com --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com | |||
| 22 May 2021 | 112: YOUR Answers to the Most Overrated Things in Relationships | 00:36:32 | |
What do you think is the most overrated thing in relationships? We look at your top answers and decide if we agree or disagree! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey --- Join us on our virtual retreat on September 24-26! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... --- We also love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com
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| 10 Mar 2021 | 94: The Obvious Red Flag You Should NEVER Ignore When Dating | 00:11:57 | |
People always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. --- Join us on our virtual retreat on March 19-21! Go to MHVirtualRetreat.com and spend a magical 3 days with us transforming your confidence and relationships... -- Also, we love to hear from you! You can email the show at podcast@matthewhussey.com! --- Follow Matt @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen @stephenhhussey | |||
| 05 Sep 2016 | The Truth About Your “Perfect Man” Checklist | 00:04:31 | |
If I asked you to list the characteristics you’re looking for in your dream man, what would you say? Whether we want to admit it or not, most of us have a mental checklist of what we want in our perfect partner. Is it helpful to be so focused, or could it actually hinder us from finding the person we’re most compatible with? In today’s episode, I tell you exactly what I think you should do with your checklist, and explain why the qualities that will truly bond you to a great guy might be the most surprising of all. | |||
| 25 Jan 2016 | My #1 Tip to Crush Your To-Do List | 00:03:38 | |
Would you like to get more done in a day? How would it feel to accomplish all of your biggest goals before everyone else has had a chance to down their morning coffee? I’ve got a simple secret to smashing through distractions, making the most of your energy, avoiding “decision fatigue,” and earning yourself some much-deserved downtime. I tell you how in today’s LOVE Life… | |||