
Julie McCarthy: Jewels Says (jewelssays)
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26 Oct 2023 | Safe Sex Work | 00:30:45 | |
Jewels says all sex work isn't dangerous and talks to her friend Becky about her current work life from the comfort and safety of her own home. Instagram: @jewelssays Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Becky:Instagram: @i.am.error.or_ Linktree: @deeplily Episode References:Sara Pascoe - Book and Podcast: Sex, Power, Money Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
02 Nov 2023 | Nana and the Big Black Cat | 00:21:21 | |
Jewels says it's sometimes surprising when you sound like someone you never expected to and how much you can miss things you maybe took for granted at the time. Instagram: @jewelssays email: jewelssays@gmail.com Episode ReferencesKatherine Ryan: Telling Everybody Everything Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
09 Nov 2023 | The Christmas Album | 00:26:39 | |
Jewels says 'tis better to communicate than to ghost. Sometimes when you think something didn't work out, it's actually a blessing. Instagram: @jewelssays email: jewelssays@gmail.com Album links for Jewels Sings: I'll Be Drunk for ChristmasThank you to these generous, talented people who helped me make this happen:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
16 Nov 2023 | Expectations and Grief | 00:23:53 | |
Jewels says setting realistic expectations is important, guilt and self loathing may not be preferable to grief, and she asks… is it reasonable to expect a credit on a deposit for canceled services if the service provider is able to book your canceled date? email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode ReferencesHidden Brain: Healing 2.0: Life After Loss Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 Nov 2021 | Grandmother's Visit | 00:14:36 | |
Jewels says there's nothing like being a grandmother, even though she misses out on regular drop-ins, the long distance visits are glorious. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 Nov 2021 | Grandmother's Baby Boot Camp | 00:37:38 | |
Jewels says you can be simultaneously firm and kind, children thrive with clear expectations and boundaries, and if you love your child (and of course you DO), don't raise them to be an azzle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 Nov 2021 | Teen Love | 00:26:55 | |
Jewels says it's harder to be a teen now than it used to be. Not only are their hormones raging, their brains are misfiring from a renewed surge in neurological development, they're inundated with information that may or may not be real, and they need love, patience, even when they drive you bananas, and the honest truth about life. Yes, life includes sex. You don't want them learning about sex from a predator. Plus some emails from listeners. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays ReferencesBig Mouth (explicit) Katherine Ryan - Glam Role Model Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
23 Nov 2023 | Mama Loves Showbiz | 00:26:11 | |
Jewels says even if it feels as though your world is one big no after the other, a yes is only possible if you don’t give up. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode ReferencesPatti LuPone - Don't Monkey with Broadway Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
30 Nov 2023 | Fun Friends: Carolyn Kelly - the Irish Dream | 00:36:41 | |
Jewels chats with her friend Carolyn about her lifelong dream of moving to Ireland and how it all went awry. Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: Julie: @jewelssays Carolyn @jeeperzcrow Carolyn was a guest on Jewels Says - Fun Friends: Carolyn Kelly - in 2021. Check it out if you haven't heard that one. Also, check out Jewels' offensive Christmas album, I'll Be Drunk for Christmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
07 Dec 2023 | Fun Friends: Sany Guest | 01:04:05 | |
Jewels chats with Sany Guest about her rocky start in life, her adoption, celiac disease, growing up feeling different and at times even fetishized, in spite of having a safe and loving home; plus so many things, such as algorithmic bubbles, allowing people, including yourself, the grace to feel, listen and learn; housing insecurity, why representation matters, her wonderful mom and the positive male influences in her life. Instagram: @jewelssays Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
14 Dec 2023 | Am I Sexist?? | 00:24:08 | |
Jewels says she USED to be sexist and ponders the value of listening and self reflection and whether she's gone entirely the other way. Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Jewels Sings: I'll be Drunk for Christmas The Facts about Gender Based Violence (Canada) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
21 Dec 2023 | We Didn't Buy the Cottage | 00:23:58 | |
Jewels says "you name me a family with no dysfunction, and I'll name you a family you don't know very well" and dysfunction has a nasty way of escalating over the holidays. Also... contrary to what you may have seen on Cottage Life, she and Abe did NOT buy a luxury cottage. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
28 Dec 2023 | Sharing the Load | 00:25:38 | |
Jewels says babies are exhausting little darlings and add to the challenge of managing household responsibilities equitably. As with everything, respectful communication is key since there's no one size fits all solution. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Jewels Sings: I'll be Drunk for Christmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 Jan 2024 | New Year, New Tenants | 00:20:55 | |
Jewels says New Year's Eve is one of the worst nights to go out, but out she and Grandfather Abe the Babe went anyway. Now they're dealing with preparing for a new tenant. The fun never ends... and one thing you can always count on is change. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 Jan 2024 | Self Doubt and Barbaric Breastfeeding | 00:24:14 | |
Jewels says we all feel self doubt, it's unkind to judge different parenting styles and unconscionable to undermine parents. Most of us are just trying to do our best. Plus some tips on potty training a toddler. It’s a shame Jewels didn’t have Katherine to advise her when Katherine was a baby. Also: If you're planning a trip to beautiful British Columbia's Okanagan Valley, Jewels' middle daughter, Joanne, is appearing in Kelowna Actors Studio shows Tootsie, Matilda the Musical and The Producers. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Katherine Ryan: Telling Everybody Everything Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 Jan 2024 | Landlords, Leaders and Lawyers | 00:30:36 | |
Jewels says owning a rental property may not be the best business for her, leadership isn’t a gender-based skill even though she appreciates a good dance leader and not all lawyers are rich. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
25 Jan 2024 | Fun Friends: Courtney Hall - Realtor, Landlord, Property Manager | 00:34:29 | |
Jewels' guest Courtney shares her expert perspective on the business of owning an investment property, how to legally manage challenges and discusses why ‘cash for keys’, which has been a hot recent new item, is not necessarily unfair to the landlord. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Courtney's Instagram: @courthallrealtor Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
01 Feb 2024 | Am I Naive? Ruminations After a Night Out | 00:24:12 | |
Jewels says perspective is powerfully influenced by our lived experiences, and shares how this hit home on her recent night out for dinner and dancing with a gal pal. Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:KISS (no tour dates listed) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
08 Feb 2024 | Sitcoms, Sleep Shaming and Reality TV | 00:29:59 | |
Jewels says she appreciates a well written sitcom, not everyone wants to be partnered up, giving birth does not ruin your figure, and wouldn't we all appreciate a lot less criticism? email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Katherine Ryan: Parental Guidance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 Feb 2024 | Fun Friends: Kalie Woodcock | 00:58:03 | |
Jewels says romantic love is overrated and sometimes even dangerous, so Valentine’s day should celebrate ALL the loves in our lives – friends, family, pets and especially the children in our lives.
Today's special guest, Kalie, shares some of her insight from working with children. It's possible to be firm, fair and fun. If in doubt, sing, don’t shout! If you have the privilege of hearing Kalie sing, you will understand why the children pay attention. One of my favourite Kalie songs - A Red Dwarf Star is Born – Science Songs by AsapSCIENCE - you're welcome. AND if you can get to Sarnia in May 2024, YOU CAN SEE Kalie as ARIEL in The Little Mermaid (sorry, people who can't get to Sarnia) Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram @jewelssays Kalie: @misskalie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
22 Feb 2024 | My Three Year One Night Stand | 00:29:24 | |
Jewels says she has the three year rule for a reason, it shouldn’t take anyone that long to get out of a relationship with someone who treats you disrespectfully and it’s worth challenging some of the ideas you grew up with. Plus some lessons from a former relationship that soured over 40 years ago. Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
29 Feb 2024 | Fun Friends: Heidi Brander | 00:41:20 | |
Jewels chats with acclaimed comedy writer, Heidi Brander. Heidi says a TV comedy writers’ room is a lot like it’s depicted on 30 Rock. If you aspire to a seat in one of those rooms, you should know that no one wants to read anything, so stand up comedy was Heidi's path to writing jobs. Plus, like it or not, making connections matters more than you think. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Heidi: Instagram: @heidibrander Episode ReferencesHeidi Brander - Big Shiny Jokes Baroness von Sketch - Unfounded Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
07 Mar 2024 | Self Worth, Tradmoms and Instamoms | 00:25:23 | |
Jewels says maybe stubborn independence doesn't serve us well, we really only have choices if we believe we have choices and the social media companies need to be more accountable for customer safety. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
14 Mar 2024 | Dumped | 00:27:02 | |
Jewels says she completely understands why her agent dropped her and reminds you that even though it’s never too late to try new things, it’s better to start young, because your future can take some unexpected turns. And she imagines a life with her mother Dorothy if things had gone differently for them both. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
21 Mar 2024 | My Scam Purchase and NYC | 00:25:00 | |
Jewels says it's her own fault she was scammed but thankfully it was for small sum. Plus she shares highlights from her week in New York City with Grandfather Abe the Babe, Joanne and Richard. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:American Museum of Natural History Tommy (not Tommy Boy) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
28 Mar 2024 | Ruminations | 00:22:48 | |
Jewels says she has a hard time understanding a lot of things, like why some people seriously hate live theatre, or adults who are fine with shirking responsibility, or how the world will ever emerge from violence and chaos. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:London show ticket recommendations from a listener (not confirmed by me): Today TIX - lots for NYC but might be better to show up at the box office if you're there to avoid fees Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 Apr 2024 | Food for Thought | 00:23:23 | |
Jewels says she used to enjoy special occasions a lot more when her children were young, even though she was a bit of a frazzled mess at times and a bit overwhelmed with so many responsibilities. Like the daily grind of making food. And guilt because we should be grateful to have so much food. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 Apr 2024 | An Uplifting Proposition | 00:26:46 | |
Jewels says even though she’s happy to be aging, and grateful for her good health, she has never been able to shake the self consciousness about the visible part of the process. And now, Katherine has come to the rescue. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References: Instagram: @drdominicbray Instagram: @kerriemarieryan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 Apr 2024 | Kerrie's BDE | 00:25:27 | |
Jewels says Kerrie must have been born with BDE as she clearly demonstrated throughout her childhood. Don't feel badly if you don't have it though... you're in good company. It wouldn't be special if it weren't at least a little bit rare. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hidden Brain: The Ugly Side of Beauty Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
25 Apr 2024 | The Old Gal in FLA | 00:23:56 | |
Jewels says don't judge a place by what you see on the news, 'news' or clickbait. Most people are great and even though she hasn't been to Florida in over 20 years, one weekend in St. Augustine left her wanting more. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
02 May 2024 | Pre-op Prep | 00:26:14 | |
Jewels says she’s struggling a bit with the no caffeine, low salicylate pre-facelift diet, maybe it’s not such a bad thing to be high maintenance and it’s important to support people who have the courage to create something. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hot Docs - Documentaries, not Hot Doctors JFL Montreal - No shows because IT'S CANCELLED. BOOOOOOO Andrew Johnston - creator and host of Andrew's Legends' Ball Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
09 May 2024 | Grandfather Abe: Expectations and Cheating | 00:35:12 | |
Jewels chats this week with Grandfather Abe the Babe about his perspective on some of the differences between women’s and men’s expectations in a relationship and what motivates men to cheat. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Chidera Eggerue: @theslumflower Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 May 2024 | Fun Friends on Facelifts: Katherine Ryan | 00:34:25 | |
Jewels chats with her firstborn, Katherine, about plastic surgery, cosmetic enhancements and specifically, her greatest gift yet, aside from the obvious - the facelift - what it was like, the results so far and how her recovery is going. No more melting candle. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Katherine: @kathbum Episode References@drdominicbray - you need to see Dr. Bray's results! Just Baskits in Sarnia Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
23 May 2024 | Fun Friends: Ben Afleck - host of Best of London podcast | 00:56:41 | |
Jewels chats with Ben Afleck about podcasts, travel, their shared love of theatre, Ben’s diverse professional and creative successes thus far and the reticence, risks and rewards of creating something new. Plus Ben introduces World’s Best Pod, launching soon. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Viola's Room - available now! Romano Viazzani - London Tango Derren Brown - How to Beat the Casino Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
30 May 2024 | Fun Friends: Andrew Johnston - Tour de Fours | 00:39:58 | |
Jewels chats with comedian Andrew Johnston on non-profit financial woes and grifters, some of the ups and downs of self made content and the importance of creative work in all our lives, stage time and relentlessly putting one creative step in front of the other for its own sake, even if - or especially if - you feel like you're in the deepest, darkest rut. Do it for yourself because the streamers pay a pittance. Plus Andrew's new album! May 31st Live Album Recording at the Comedy Bar email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Ben Miner @abenminer Super Bloom Show: @superbloomshow
Babs’ podcast: Toxic: The Britney Spears Story And last but not least, though less important than the album record show: Laugh Sabbath at The Comedy Bar Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
06 Jun 2024 | Facelift Update - Week 4 | 00:24:31 | |
Jewels says it would be nice not to care about looking old, but she's pretty happy to be back to looking like herself. Is that shallow? Maybe, but it's ok to appreciate the icing on a cake and still be grateful for everything else that really matters. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Patric McGroarty - Saint Clarens Records Jewels Sings: I'll Be Drunk for Christmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
13 Jun 2024 | The Ashley Madison Scandal and Snoop | 00:23:05 | |
Jewels says the Ashley Madison documentary may be more layered than you might expect... it raises issues of hypocrisy, security, monogamy, marriage and has a few interesting characters. And whoever said dogs are just dumb animals has never truly known or loved a dog. Their personalities are as unique as ours in many ways, and her temporary charge, Snoop, is no exception. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies and Scandal Wired.com: Ransomware Is More Brutal than Ever Kelowna Actors Studio: The Producers Soulpepper Theatre: Age Is a Feeling Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
20 Jun 2024 | Kelowna, Kraken and the Jewels Jinx | 00:23:32 | |
Jewels says she felt a bit of the jewels jinx when she traveled to Kelowna, but is she being petty? Should you stand your ground when someone invades your space or just step aside and let them? Should you feel guilty for standing firm? Maybe the choice is to feel guilty or resentful. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Muster Dogs on Netflix - Snoop's favourite Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
27 Jun 2024 | Life is Unfair | 00:28:35 | |
Jewels says JFL Montreal is BACK, even if on a small scale - mostly men though - and as pride month wraps up, the complainers might need to be reminded of what’s been happening to women’s reproductive rights that we’ve taken for granted, and if you don’t like what people post on social media, you are free to ignore it. We all make mistakes and life isn’t fair, so we might as well relaaaaax and let things that annoy us go rather than amplifying them. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 Jul 2024 | Swimsuit and Shoe Struggles | 00:20:25 | |
Jewels says sometimes the most mundane things can be frustrating when your life is too easy. Like finding an acceptable swimsuit or suffering in insufferable stilettos. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 Jul 2024 | The Scamclusion and Dog Tales | 00:33:48 | |
Jewels says love is blind - well, she's obviously not the first person to say that, but she AGREES that love is blind. When you love someone, even if that someone is a dog, they look so beautiful to you. Plus a less than satisfying - but final - scam conclusion. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Jackie Pirico's Instagram: @jackiepirico Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 Jul 2024 | The Goiter... or Seroma... or WTF Knows | 00:20:57 | |
Jewels says even though the Canadian public health care system is better than nothing, and hospitalization probably won’t bankrupt you, it’s no day at the beach trying to get medical care for something relatively inconsequential. And she loves having a chin again. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Jewels Says: Renovation Reminiscing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
25 Jul 2024 | Fun Friends: Delphine Litke AKA Rosie in Mamma Mia! | 00:29:22 | |
Jewels says one of the great things about an extended stay in Kelowna and being in Mamma Mia is the fabulous women she has met, one of whom is today's guest, Delphine Litke. Delphine is an actor, podcaster, a beautiful singer, a beautiful person, and one of Jewels' newest fun friends. Instagram: @jewelssays email: jewelssays@gmail.com Episode References:Delphine's Instagram: @delphinesiren Kelowna Community Theatre - this is where Mamma Mia is playing Mamma Mia Tickets Rock me Baby Tickets Rocky Mountain High - an Evening with John Denver - Tickets Barb Samuel - Sista B and the Boys The Tingle Podcast on Spotify Lee Holdridge and Lee on Wikipedia Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
01 Aug 2024 | Showbiz and Tech Week | 00:19:55 | |
Jewels says Kelowna has some pretty impressive sports and showbiz venues, and she especially appreciates the Kelowna Actors Studio's investment in the technical side of their productions. The tech team are the unsung heroes. PLUS: Don't buy Mamma Mia tickets from resellers who inflate prices or are selling fake tickets!! YES THIS IS HAPPENING. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Kelowna Actors Studio - Mamma Mia tickets Jewels Says: Airbnb : Not for Me (previous episode) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
08 Aug 2024 | Fun Friends: Michael Esposito II | 00:45:19 | |
Jewels says people are fascinating when you take the time to get to know them. She chats with actor/singer/great guy Michael Esposito II, who is playing Sky in Kelowna Actors Studio's Mamma Mia, and he has an album!! email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Michael's Instagram: @mespo2 Short Path: Hope Short Path: Exist Night and Day - Michael's album Workshop – The History of Summer Alan Menken Musical: The Apprenticeship of Duddy Kravitz Ryan Scott Oliver Musical: 35 mm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 Aug 2024 | Fun Friends: Spencer Bach | 00:25:43 | |
Jewels chats with Kelowna Actors Studio Resident Music Director Spencer "appropriately named" Bach about his passion for playing, teaching, learning, listening to and sharing music and particularly musical theatre. Thank you for the music. If lockdown taught us anything, it was the importance of art. OH and is Spencer related to Johann Sebastian? We may never know. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Spencer's Instagram: @spencer_bach Episode ReferencesHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
22 Aug 2024 | Lice and Laissez Faire Little Ones | 00:25:13 | |
Jewels says she sometimes doesn't understand why children think the way they often do, even though she was an irrational child herself once upon a time, and even though lice aren't a health risk, they're gross and caused her nightmares back in the day. And it's possible that if a child looks excessively unkempt, people might subconsciously treat them as though they're not cared for. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
29 Aug 2024 | Faulty Recall and Change | 00:29:38 | |
Jewels says most of us don’t remember details as well as we think, it’s hard to remember everything you’ve said to whom and a child’s world today is very different from their parents’ and grandparents’. Best to adapt rather than stubbornly clinging to old ideas and mistakes. It's better for us too. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
05 Sep 2024 | Post Show Glow | 00:25:48 | |
Jewels says she hasn't quite yet come down to earth after Mamma Mia and shares some of the trials and favourite moments from both on stage and backstage. Her experience was also a reminder that the world is still full of wonderful young people and you're never too old until you're dead. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References:Kelowna Actors Studio - Education Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
30 Jun 2022 | Pride and Progress | 00:41:03 | |
Jewels says the Pride celebrations are joyous, but for how long? She chats with LA based comedian Andrew Johnston about the choppy path of progress, some of the factual inspirations for Margaret Atwood's 'The Handmaid's Tale' and why some of our fears may be unfounded. Instagram: @mandrewbrawnston Twitter: @_andrewjohnston Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
07 Jul 2022 | Julie’s Boy circa 1988 | 00:23:29 | |
Jewels says you’ll earn some respect if you’re direct, people will believe anything if you say it with a straight face and sometimes you just have to have fun with sexist tropes. Plus a work story from 1988. Oh, and if you're ever in Toronto during the summer, check out the Toronto Islands. Episode mentions: Twitter: @manwhohasitall Podcast: The Man Enough Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 Aug 2022 | Constructive Dismissal | 00:28:37 | |
Jewels says when you try something new, an open mind can become a changed mind. She talks about some of the challenges of being an employee, her disappointment at not being laid off when she moved to Toronto and the value of keeping meticulous records and seeking expert advice if things get so bad you desperately want to resign. UK - Unfair and Construction Dismissal What is Constructive Dismissal and when will this claim succeed?
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14 Sep 2023 | Kerrie’s Birthday | 00:22:45 | |
Jewels says she may not be cut out for fine dining but will make an exception to celebrate her favourite daughter’s birthday, even though she can’t tell the difference between an heirloom and regular tomato and doesn’t trust heirloom, natural or organic labels anyway. She’s so basic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 May 2023 | Fun Friends:Sammie | 00:32:54 | |
Jewels says a lot has changed since she was young and chats with her almost-12-year-old niece, Sammie, about how much society has changed and how different her life is than Jewels’ life was waaaaay back in the olden days. Referenced in this episode: Bobbi Gibb and Kathrine Switzer Billie Jean King - Battle of the Sexes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
06 Jul 2023 | My Baby is Forty | 00:28:52 | |
Jewels says babies are not a blank slate for you to mold, parents make mistakes and can learn a lot from their children, and everyone who told her those years would fly by was right. She's one lucky mum.
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28 Sep 2023 | Comedy, Celebs and Scandal | 00:33:30 | |
Jewels says managers need to do a better job of managing, never underestimate the comfort of confidence and it’s not her fault she doesn’t recognize famous people. Plus a word from Andrew Johnston. Instagram: @jewelssays Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Episode References:Podcast: Walking the Dog with Emily Dean Book: Everybody Died, So I Got a Dog The story behind the Globe and Mail’s unfounded series Invisible Women Newsletter: 1/3 of Female Surgeons Sexually Assaulted by a Colleague Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
13 Jul 2023 | A Bad Audience | 00:20:37 | |
Jewels says bigger isn’t always better, she loves a small live venue and the audience is rooting for you if you have the mic, so don’t blame them if they don’t laugh at your jokes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
16 Dec 2021 | Fun Friends: Carolyn Kelly | 00:52:11 | |
OK, this one is longer than her usual... in Julie's defence, she is a self proclaimed CHATTER, and her guest, Carolyn Kelly, has had so many interesting twists and turns to her life on her path to her current documentarian work. You MUST hear her story! Follow Carolyn on Instagram at @JeeperzCrow Covenant House: https://covenanthousetoronto.ca/ Check out Mark Terry @markterry2015 and his environmental documentary work at @youth_climate_report or on Facebook: youthclimatereport The Changing Face of Iceland: thechangingfaceoficeland.com Facebook: thechangingfaceoficelend AND, last but DEFINITELY not least, check out the trailer for Carolyn's documentary about Michelle DuBarry, Canada's drag legend at https://vimeo.com/251083583 FB: MyMichelleDocumentary Thank you for listening! Subscribe, rate, review or email Julie at jewelssays@gmail.com
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05 Oct 2023 | Funcle Abe’s Squashfest | 00:23:14 | |
Jewels says she has a love/hate relationship with dancing, booze, parties and there's comfort in realizing that people don't notice everything you might feel self conscious about. Instagram: @jewelssays email: jewelssays@gmail.com References in this EpisodeBluewater Dance Academy Sarnia RuPaul's Drag Race UK in Canada!!! Canada's Guidance on Alcohol and Health
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25 May 2023 | The McCarthy Curse | 00:25:36 | |
Jewels says she might be cursed. Is incompetence the norm? Is it just her imagination? Can dermatologists diagnose anything other than skin cancer? Are all the jobs really only available online? So many questions. For a great night, check out Choir! Choir! Choir! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
29 Jun 2023 | Legends, Music and Sexy Dance Shows | 00:27:45 | |
Jewels says there’s no joy like comedy, music and uninhibited dancing, even if you’re just watching. A few mentions: Kalie Woodcock with ASAP Science - A Star is Born Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
10 Mar 2022 | Fab Women | 00:25:20 | |
Julie says it's better to well up with tears of anger than to punch people in the face, scream and swear at them. Plus a snippet of Grandfather Abe the Babe's mum's first person stories from her younger days in Mexico. Happy International Women's Month! #BreaktheBias
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30 Dec 2021 | New Gadget, New Beginning | 00:30:35 | |
In her final episode of 2021, Julie talks about her recent challenges with technology, a fresh start (maybe?) and shares an email from someone with whom she shares a few things in common. Plus Hannah Woolmer offered to help produce the dreaded Christmas album! https://www.hannahwoolmer.online/
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20 Sep 2023 | The Landlord Chronicles: Problems with Property Managers | 00:34:10 | |
Jewels says she and Abe haven't just had troubles with tenants, they've had problems with property managers. Or are they the problem?
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05 Jan 2023 | New Fans and Diversity | 00:26:28 | |
Jewels says she never knew songs about garbage trucks, cement mixers and bulldozers could be so much fun. Blippi has a new fan and Abe has a new best friend. And she shares some short work stories. One thing you can count on is change. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
24 Nov 2022 | Airbnb: Not for Me | 00:30:33 | |
Jewels says she and Abe were not cut out to be Airbnb hosts. Abe joins in to share some lessons learned. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
11 Aug 2022 | Time for Teens | 00:36:34 | |
Jewels says teens have a lot to offer and we should respect, welcome them and give them the benefit of the doubt. Her middle daughter, Joanne, shares her perspective as a teacher, and of course we slide into a bit of a parenting debate. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
17 Aug 2023 | Jerks, Betrayals and Kindness | 00:26:29 | |
Jewels says jerks abound and betrayal stings, but most people really are kind and generous – even in a big city. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays Episode References: CEO Pay has Skyrocketed 1,460% Since 1978 Female Athletes are Undervalued - Forbes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 Sep 2022 | Fun Friends: Jessie Golem | 00:42:29 | |
Jewels and Jessie chat about Basic Income programs, studies and myths. We simply couldn't cover EVERYTHING, so Jessie shared a few references in case you're interested in learning more. Plus check out Jessie's video legacy business: Somebody Always Jessie's photography series: Humans of Basic Income and her podcast! Will You Accept This Roach: The Podcast Where We Get Stoned and Watch The Bachelor Follow Jessie on: Instagram: @jessiferocious Twitter: @jessiegolem References: The Manitoba StoryBootstraps Need Boots book The Case for Basic IncomeSignposts to SuccessRichard Gilbert: UBI and Work IncentiveUBI and WorkUBIWorksBasic Income Canada Network (BICN)Basic Income Canada Youth Network (BICYN)Green Resilience ProjectBIEN 2022Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
05 May 2022 | The 2022 Grandmother Tour | 00:22:10 | |
Jewels says that visiting grandchildren, accepting an insult as a compliment and celebrating Mothers Day at Hooters can all be so much fun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
23 Mar 2023 | One Fun Mum | 00:30:03 | |
Jewels says she's guilty of holding mums to a higher standard than dads even though it's not fair and if you’ve had to distance yourself from toxic family members, you're not alone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 Aug 2022 | The Divine Being | 00:26:15 | |
Jewels says finding her friend and daughters’ childhood caregiver, Val, was a lucky gift and reminisces a bit about those early days juggling childcare and work. Abe returns to talk about the unexpected neighbourhood buzz about our front garden and a visit from one particularly interesting character, who may or may not have put a hex on Julie. Plus a facial filler update now that the swelling is gone. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
16 Mar 2023 | CDM, CCC! and Welcome to Chippendales | 00:25:43 | |
Jewels says it’s been quite a week. Kerrie’s Clinique de Mode Midtown is open, Choir! Choir! Choir! held their first post pandemic Clinton’s pub show before they head out on tour in the UK and Welcome to Chippendale’s has Jewels reflecting on sexy dancing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
24 Feb 2022 | The Gift of Aging | 00:27:59 | |
Julie says things about her experiences and evolving perspective on aging. Plus special guest Joanne tells us about the Ghost of Ted. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
03 Feb 2022 | Audiobook Fraud | 00:28:42 | |
We all have to be vigilant about scams and fraud, but where is the motivation to scam audiobooks? Julie talks about her experiences, good, bad and ugly, with learning how to produce audiobooks and her appreciation for sound engineers, editors and directors. Episode references:
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08 Jun 2023 | Fun Friends: Andrew Johnston - The Writers’ Strike | 00:34:48 | |
Jewels has a chat with her funny, fab, fun friend Andrew about Lady Dicks, the far reaching impact of the writers' strike and what's up in Toronto this month, including Andrew's Legend's Ball - the new Bitch Salad. References from this episode: Andrew on Twitter: @mandrewbrawnston Joan on Twitter: @joansmithandthejanedoes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
27 Oct 2022 | It’s Not You, Sarnia | 00:24:46 | |
Jewels says she loves to visit Sarnia even though she felt like an outsider when she lived there, and if you want something, you better do it, because before you know it, you're either old or dead. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
19 Jan 2023 | Fun Friends: Grandfather Abe the Vegan Babe | 00:30:04 | |
Jewels says she just wants to pretend she’s someone else sometimes and she’s a bit jealous of the trained liars who get to do it for a living. Plus a nice chat with Grandfather Abe about his transition to a vegan diet. Though he doesn’t get hung up about a bit of egg in a birthday cake, since the sugar is probably the least healthful part of the cake. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 Dec 2022 | The Christmas Album | 00:34:41 | |
Jewels says the holiday season can be full of challenges for many people and maybe it's just as well that the Christmas album is delayed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
12 Jan 2023 | Chaos, Anxiety and Narcissism | 00:31:39 | |
Jewels says she’s never heard of anyone on their deathbed wish they had worked more, so if you find it difficult not to let your job take over your life, trust your gut and don’t be afraid to make an exit plan. Plus, did you know that a company can be narcissistic? Podcast recommendation from this episode: Navigating Narcissism in the Work Place at WeWork with Ugo Mbawuike
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20 Apr 2023 | Off the Record | 00:29:11 | |
Jewels says technology is a double edged sword that offers safety and evidence but comes with risks, especially for young people. She's glad there's no record of all the dumb opinions and mistakes she made in her youth. Though she's messing that up now, isn't she? Recommended Podcast Episode: Hidden Brain - How to Make Amends Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
10 Nov 2022 | Please Buy Twitter and other Musings | 00:26:21 | |
Jewels says comedians should buy twitter and fix it because good comedians are genius. Maybe they should replace the politicians too. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
13 Apr 2023 | Lessons from my Dogs | 00:23:26 | |
Jewels says it’s doggone impossible to not love a dog, even though she and Abe are probably not ready for that much responsibility yet. Mentioned in this episode: Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
27 Jan 2022 | Finding the Fire | 00:29:22 | |
Are doctors trained in root cause analysis or are some of them taught to treat symptoms? Julie ponders this question as she talks about her baby Kerrie's symptoms, diagnosis and management of celiac disease in 1989 plus her never-diagnosed migraines. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
02 Dec 2021 | Fun Friends - Andrew Johnston | 00:35:49 | |
Andrew dishes about his early comedy days in Toronto, the kismet of connecting with Katherine and the move to L.A. Andrew on Instagram @mandrewbrawnston His pop culture podcast with Brandon Ash-Mohammed: Sittin Up in Our Room Open mic shows resume in January at L.A.'s Lyric Hyperion - cafe by day, theatre (or as THEY spell it... theater) by night @lyrichyperion
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20 Jan 2022 | Navigating Anxiety | 00:44:00 | |
Julie chats with her friend Joanne about her mental health journey, from childhood anxiety to misdiagnoses to a diagnosis that made sense, to the lack of resources to continue treatment. Joanne shares her experience of navigating scarce and often unregulated resources from the perspective of a regular person trying to build a career, raise a child and just enjoy life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
04 May 2023 | Hot Docs, Joanne and Ravi | 00:30:24 | |
Jewels says life is not fair and sometimes much shorter than it should be. Her daughter Joanne reminisces about a friend who meant so much to so many people. References from this episode: Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
20 Jul 2023 | Fringe, Family and FLA 1982 | 00:28:29 | |
Jewels says she didn't think family vacations mattered until it was too late, and it really is too late, at least for her. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
12 Oct 2023 | Party Tales from the Nineties and Noughties | 00:26:28 | |
Jewels says when it comes to auditions, no news is bad news, but she prefers silence over being told “we don’t want you” again and again. She shares stories about how she handled her teen daughters’ parties way back in the olden days and thinks maybe she should have worried less and just rolled with it. Instagram: @jewelssays Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
18 May 2023 | Mothers’ Day and Mothers-in-law | 00:25:52 | |
Jewels says don't ask for her opinion if you don't want the truth, especially when it comes to her cubs. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
22 Jun 2023 | The Landlord Chronicles: Hoarders, Urban Vermin and the McAss Brothers | 00:31:22 | |
Jewels says some vermin aren't as bad as they seem and sometimes there's a price to pay for peace. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
26 May 2022 | Compliments, Creeps and Cringe | 00:31:19 | |
Jewels says we should verbalize the nice things we think about others, work relationships matter too and it shouldn’t be so difficult to stand up for ourselves or to listen and learn. Even if we decide not to report certain transgressions, we should at LEAST talk about them to raise awareness. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
19 May 2022 | Women, Work and Rutabaga Bags | 00:27:54 | |
Jewels says there are a lot of fabulous women in the world, rude behaviour feels horrible on both sides and every job has its challenges, so best to focus on doing the best job possible, and enjoy the fun, funny bits and remind yourself that one thing you can count on is change. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
15 Jun 2023 | Dreams, Chimps and Stoicism | 00:26:14 | |
Jewels says we may have evolved from chimps but we don’t have to act like them and qualities such as competitiveness and stoicism are essential in the right context. References: APA issues Guidelines for Practice with Men and Boys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
20 Oct 2022 | Tasha the Love Therapist: Arguing | 00:44:12 | |
Jewels says… well, Jewels says a lot of things, but this week's episode is her chat with Natasha Silverman, Relationship counsellor, sex therapist, speaker, writer – a truly accomplished person who actually knows what she’s talking about. Jewels and Tasha chat about some of the most common things couples argue about and some of the challenges of how we argue. Follow Tasha: Instagram: @tashathelovetherapist Twitter: @TashaSilverman Facebook: NatashaSilvermanCounselling Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
01 Sep 2022 | September Transitions | 00:27:52 | |
Jewels says some of life's seemingly ordinary milestones and transitions are a bigger deal than we realize at the time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
16 Jun 2022 | The Importance of Fathers | 00:33:51 | |
Jewels says she underestimated the influence of fathers when she was young, and chats with her friend Paula about what it was like growing up with two completely different dads. Happy Fathers' Day to the dads, step dads and role models who step up. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
17 Mar 2022 | School Rules | 00:32:34 | |
Jewels says she's still paying for her bad attitude as a teen, but Grandfather Abe's mum took nothing for granted. Stay in school if you can, kids, and don't rule out learning a trade. Praise the trades! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
27 Jul 2023 | Barbie | 00:28:35 | |
Jewels says she and Abe are thinking of ditching a couple of winter months and working from somewhere warm, but in the meantime, they need to enjoy summer before it’s gone. That includes seeing the Barbie moving everyone’s raving about. Plus, what it's like working for a US company. Email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jewelssays/ Referenced in this episode: Tiny Shoulders: Rethinking Barbie Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. | |||
10 Aug 2023 | A Casting Scam | 00:34:23 | |
Jewels says trust your gut when it comes to personal and professional relationships. If something seems off or too good to be true, it probably is. She’d love to share your scam story, whether you foiled or fell for a scammer. We learn from each other. email: jewelssays@gmail.com Instagram: @jewelssays References from this episode: Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. |