Jillian on Love (Jillian Turecki | QCODE)

In this episiode, Jillian speaks with Cory Allen, meditation teacher, podcaster, audio engineer and author of "Now Is The Way". Cory overcame some pretty heavy childhood trauma through educating himself on psychology and neuroscience and teaching himself to meditate. Through years of rigorous self-examination and a determination to thrive, he worked hard to unlearn patterns that were a result of the trauma he endured. We talk about his journey, which includes his relationship with his wife -which of course Jillian asked a lot of questions about! Cory Allen: IG: @heycoryallen Website: https://www.cory-allen.com ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through their experiences, Jillian offers compassionate guidance on letting go with dignity and recognizing the difference between fighting for love and fighting for yourself. Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

"What Would Jillian Say?" is Jillian On Love's first episode that features Jillian coaching a caller live, on her love life. The anonymous caller is a young woman living in NYC who believes she's not meant to have the relationship she craves because she hasn't found a deep connection with anyone. Jillian gently explores this belief with the caller, and together, they discover where it comes from and how she can change her approach to dating. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jillian opens up and dives deep into the roots of our fears in relationships, uncovering how childhood conditioning and self-esteem impact our romantic lives. She shares personal stories, profound insights, and actionable advice to help you break toxic cycles, understand your emotional triggers, and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a powerful reminder that true healing begins with you. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian delves into the complex issue of forming relationships with emotionally unavailable partners. She discusses the patterns that lead people to attract and choose unavailable partners, offering insights into the roots of emotional unavailability, including past traumas and fear of intimacy. Jillian provides listeners with strategies to recognize emotional unavailability from the outset, the significance of building emotional intimacy, and the courage to walk away from relationships that do not serve their emotional needs.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Relationships rarely end because of a lack of love. They more commonly end because of a lack of connection. And it is the absence of connection that makes us feel unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. In this important episode, Jillian shares the real reasons why strong, well-aligned couples can easily sabotage their relationship unconsciously. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this important episode, Jillian shares the worst and best pieces of relationship advice she ever received, and how it's influenced how she has helped thousands of people to lead healthier love lives. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this incredibly informative and direct episode, Jillian shares some hard truths about both red and green flags, and why if you ignore these, you are at great risk of getting yourself into unhealthy or even abusive relationships. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their needs, communicate authentically, and build emotional security for healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Attention SINGLES! Jillian breaks down exactly what you need to know in order to find the "right" partner for you, as well as the habits you need to break ASAP. Jillian guarantees you will learn things that you have never heard before, so you might want to take out a pen and paper for this one. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.  To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this special New Year episode, Jillian teaches truly life-changing ways to deepen and strengthen your connection with the most important people in your life, including your current or future partner. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready for this incredible conversation between Jillian and the one and only Matthew Hussey. Matthew Hussey is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and coach specializing in confidence and relational intelligence. His YouTube channel is number one in the world for love life advice, with over half a billion views. He writes a weekly newsletter and is the host of the podcast Love Life With Matthew Hus­sey. Hussey provides monthly coaching to the members of his private community at LoveLifeClub.com. Over the past fifteen years, his proven approach has inspired millions through authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables them to find love but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness. His new book, Love Life is now available at LoveLifeBook.com and is a must read. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and content creator—to explore her journey of love, growth, and resilience. Valeria opens up about navigating an age gap marriage, the wisdom her mother shared before she said “I do,” and how she and her husband keep their connection strong after 13 years together. They dive into the challenges of personal evolution, the impact of parenting on relationships, and the importance of honest communication and self-awareness. Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this robust episode, Jillian shares 9 strategies and pearls of wisdom to boost your self-worth and confidence in relationships regardless of your relationship status or attachment style. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Attachment styles have received a lot of attention lately, and for good reason. But, it’s important to know that it is not a diagnosis, instead it is a tool to help you understand yourself and your loved ones better. There is a lot of nuance to attachment styles, and Jillian breaks it down in this incredibly informative and thought provoking episode. Be prepared to learn things you probably haven’t learned before on this topic as well as how to begin healing. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes author, speaker, coach and human connection specialist Mark Groves to the show for a powerful conversation about learning how to feel more whole in relationships, how to create a sacred bond with yourself, boundaries, heartbreak, and getting back together with your ex. Mark shares so many kernels of wisdom! Enjoy. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches how to overcome relationship insecurity and to finally choose yourself. Think of this episode as one branch of a tree as Jillian continues to expand on how to become more secure in love in future episodes. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The chaser and the runner, the pursurer and the distancer, the anxious and the avoidant. The push and the pull. This pattern is one of the most common patterns in a relationship and it causes an immense amount of suffering. Jillian teaches that this cycle goes beyond attachement theory and describes how our needs for both connection AND autonomy are the reason behind everyone will struggle with this cycle many times throughout their love lives.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches her 7-step process to truly survive a break-up or divorce. She created these steps based on her own process of transformation, and they are the steps that have been helping thousands around the world to reclaim their loves after heartbreak.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares the two MOST essential things you need for a healthy relationship. She dives into the life-changing power of a good relationship, sharing why they’re essential for both our emotional and physical well-being. Reflecting on recent studies, she explores how fulfilling relationships built on trust, respect, and emotional safety can actually extend our lives and make us healthier. Jillian gets real about the importance of selecting the right partner, explaining how understanding ourselves is crucial to choosing someone who aligns with our values and goals. Whether you're in a relationship, dating, or focused on friendships, this episode offers heartfelt, practical advice on creating connections that uplift and strengthen us on every level. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes Lewis Howes, New York Times best-selling author, keynote speaker, industry-leading show host, and former pro-athlete, to the podcast. Their conversation will guaranteed inspire you! Lewis vulnerably shares his journey from feeling stuck, insecure and filled with-doubt to the freedom of self-acceptance and internal peace that is his emotional center of gravity today.The relationship we have with ourselves has tremedous influence over the relationship we have with others, and Lewis details how he was able to heal his most important relationship - the one with self.  @LewisHowes, New York Times best-selling author, keynote speaker, industry-leading show host, and former pro-athlete, is this week’s guest on the show! Lewis’ new book, The Greatness Mindset is now available for purchase at https://lewishowes.com/gmbook and wherever books are sold. Follow Lewis on Instagram and subscribe to his podcasts “The School of Greatness” and “The Daily Motivation Show” Podcast links:  The School of Greatness - https://lewishowes.com/podcast/#  The Daily Motivation - https://greatness.com/daily-motivation/  Social links: Website: www.lewishowes.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lewis Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/lewishowes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lewishowes ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode has one objective: to shed light onto why many people are single despite their best efforts and deep longing to be in a relationship. Jillian dives deep into the seven possible subconscious blocks you may have to finding love. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes guest Thais Gibson, a leading expert on attachment style and the founder of The Personal Development school. Get ready for an incredile education on the nuances of all the insecure attachment styles and how to heal them. Find out more about her book, "Learning Love" at https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=jillian_on_Love&utm_medium=public_relations&utm_campaign=Jillian+on+Love&el=jillian_on_love Listeners can use jillian25off for a discounted rate at The Personal Development School: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreones Find Rources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes Dr. Nicole LaPera (@theholisticpsychologist) to discuss what it really means to love, why trauma impacts some people more than others, and how to heal generational trauma with family members. This is a potent and fascinating conversation you do not want to miss. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes renowned dating coach, author and podcast host Damona Hoffman to the show to discuss how to date like a pro on and off the apps so that you can find true love. Get ready to take notes! Damona's book "F the Fairy Tale" is out now. Find her at The Dates & Mates Podcast or IG: @damonahoffman Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are some relationships that feel like a rollercoaster, spiking our cortisol and adrenaline levels. But, are they actually addictive? What if a safe, peaceful relationship feels boring, or makes you want to sabotage it? In this powerful episode, Jillian shares insight we are sure you haven't heard before, and she shares HOW people are able to break the cycle. Register today for Jillian’s 5 week course, Choose Yourself: How to find your person from a place of high self-worth, security, and wisdom. https://chooseyourself.jillianturecki.com/1718054877281 ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal journey from a tumultuous past to a thriving marriage, offering practical insights on balancing autonomy and connection, recognizing red and green flags, and navigating healthy versus toxic arguments. Get your tickets for Jillian’s live event at 92NY here: https://www.92ny.org/event/jillian-turecki Pre order Yung Pueblos new book, ‘How to Love Better’, to receive the free workbook download at https://www.instagram.com/yung_pueblo/ Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Amy Morin is a therapist, bestselling author, and has given one of the most popular TED talks of all time in 2015. Her books about mental strength are born out of her personal experience with tragedy and are some of Jillian's favorite self-help books of all time. In this riveting conversation, Jillian and Amy discuss what strong, healthy couples do NOT do, and Amy gives incredible advice on how to deal with difficult relationship issues. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready to take notes! Jillian welcomes entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host of the Women Of Impact podcast Lisa Bilyeu. In this incredible conversation, Lisa shares her journey from toxic relationships to finding radical confidence in life and in her relationship. Get ready to learn some incredible communication skills! Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In celebration of the 1-year anniversary of Jillian On Love, Jillian invited 3 listeners of the podcast to share their stories of change and get some expert advice on how to continue moving forward. Get ready to be super inspired! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian has been helping people feel better about themselves for over 20 years. In this episode, she shares 5 life-changing steps to healthy self-worth and self-love. You will never look at self-esteem the same again after this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Anna Goldstein is an OG coach, having been in the business long before it was trendy. She was also Jillian's first coach, and without Anna, Jillian wouldn't be where she is today. In this riveting episode, Jillian and Anna discuss how Anna went from being completely lost in life and love to finding purpose and a life partner. They get real about the ups and downs of long term relationship, and how we can bring more self-awareness and minfulness to partnership. Whether you're single or have been married for decades, this episode is a must listen. Find Anna's Book: Be Bold: A Guid to Unbreakable Confidence ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

"Conscious Relationship" and "Conscious Partner" seem to be what everyone is looking for these days. People are sick and tired of being ghosted, toxic relationships, and feeling under valued by love interests. But what exactly is a conscious relationship? What does it mean to be a conscious partner? Is it just another fairtytale ideal we have projected onto the complicated reality of love and partnership? In this detailed episode, Jillian explores this phenomenon, busts myths, and explains what a Conscious Relationship really means.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, Jillian speaks to Jillian Tuchman, a brilliant functional medicine dietitian and trauma coach who helps those with chronic conditions heal and reclaim their lives. Her work focuses on the nervous system and the role of emotions -specifically shame, on our physical states. Both Jillians discuss the impact of shame on dating and our love lives and how to date with more confidence. Jillian Tuchman Website: www.workyourgenes.com Instagram: @JillianTuchman Links for waitlists: Dating With Chronic Illness: Your Toolkit to Navigating Something Hard - Waitlist From Shit to Shine Waitlist ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The dance between autonomy and dependence is an ongoing pursuit in a relationship, and for some, it's a hard balance to find. In this episode, Jillian explains the origin of the codependent relationship and why the pattern of turning partners into projects only leads to the destruction of a relationship -- or one that should never have been to begin with. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this fiery and educational episode, Jillian discusses "situationships","breadcrumbing", tolerating nonsense, self-abandonent and standing up for what you need. She then gives specific, and literal scripts of how to ask for what you need. Plus, she shares a very personal story of a red flag she ignored before she marrried who would become her ex husband. You don't want to miss this! Where The F*ck is The One!? After years of requests for her to host an event just for Singles looking for love, Jillian is finally doing it. In this rare live and virtual weekend "retreat" Jillian is going to spend 10 hours teaching and coaching participants how to get ou tof their own way and find healthy love. This is a fullty recorded event so you don't have to join live. To get your seat before it sells out, go to this link: https://theone.jillianturecki.com/weekend-with-jillian ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you emotionally available? Are they? “Emotionally unavailable” gets tossed around a lot but what does it actually mean? In this episode, Jillian breaks it down and teaches what true emotional unavailability is, how to communicate with someone who isn’t opening to you, as well as how if we want to become better partners ourselves, we have to explore our personal barriers to intimacy. Where The F*ck is The One!? After years of requests for her to host an event just for Singles looking for love, Jillian is finally doing it. In this rare live and virtual weekend "retreat" Jillian is going to spend 10 hours teaching and coaching participants how to get ou tof their own way and find healthy love. This is a fullty recorded event so you don't have to join live. To get your seat before it sells out, go to this link: https://theone.jillianturecki.com/weekend-with-jillian ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian answers three listener questions. She unpacks the red flags when a partner still longs for their ex, challenges a listener’s fixation on finding their "ideal" partner, and offers a fresh perspective on dealing with an overbearing mother-in-law. If you’ve ever struggled with relationship uncertainty, this episode is for you. And if you love this format, where Jillian answers listener questions, you’ll love Jillian on Love+, where she tackles new questions every week. Send your questions to hello@jillianonlove.com  Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever struggled to let go of an ex even though you knew they were not good for you? In today's episode, Jillian speaks with a man who feels very stuck on his ex. Listen to hear how Jillian reframes his obsession with his ex to mean something more significant - how he feels about himself. For anyone struggling with self-esteem and/or heartbreak, this episode will be illuminating. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Happy Holidays from Jillian. In the spirit of giving, we are unlocking a taste of the Jillian On Love Plus subscription. Jillian On Love + gives listeners exclusive episodes including meditations, audience questions and deep dives into relationship topics. Sign up today for even more Jillian content via the links below.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship as well as the deeper roots of what causes friction between a couple. Please enjoy this powerful conversation!  Check out Esther’s new course, The Desire Bundle and use code JILLIAN15 at checkout for 15% off at https://www.estherperel.com/course-bundles/the-desire-bundle Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes marriage and family therapist Vienna Pharaon to the show to discuss communication, attachment, and how to figure out if one's relationship is fixable or beyond repair. This is a fascinating conversation you definitely do not want to miss. Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought after relationship therapists. Her book The Origins of You is a National Bestseller, and she is the host of the new podcast This Keeps Happening. Follow Vienna on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @MindfulMFT. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Relationships reflect back to us where our work is, and your child is a mirror into your deepest self and ego. Jillian welcomes acclaimed author, speaker and psychologist Dr. Shefali to the show to discuss. Have a love success story that you’d like to share with us and have featured on the podcast? Send an email to hello@jillianonlove.com with the subject line LOVE SUCCESS STORY and include your name plus a short description of what your love success story is including what advice you put into practice and how it helped. Submissions are due Monday, August 14. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This episode is simply incredible. Jillian welcomes Emmy-nominated Netflix stars, podcasters, and New York Times bestselling authors The Minimalists to the show. They discuss letting go of emotional and physical clutter, letting go of relationships, and how to connect more effectively with the person you love. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There is no stress like the stress of one's relationship falling apart. The truth is that some relationships are worth fighting for, but they end anyway because we don't know HOW to save it. This is what this episode will teach you - how to save or improve your current or future relationship. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning how to create fulfilling, secure relationships. As a thank you to her loyal listeners, she’s offering this exclusive sneak peek of the audiobook to inspire reflection and growth in 2025 Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In honor of Stress Awareness Month, Jillian describes the impact of stress and chronic negativity on a relationship's health. Almost all relationship problems are at the ROOT caused by our consistent reaction to the stressors in our lives. Stress, or how we react to stress has the power to end relationships that could have lasted. In this powerful episode, Jillian gives actionable and practical steps to manage stress better so that you can prevent it from sabotagng your current or future relationship. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready to learn communication skills you have never learned before. Jillian welcomes former FBI hostage negotiator and bestselling author Chris Voss to the show. Together, they have a fascinating conversation about the art and science of masterful communication. Get ready to take notes and put his techniques to the test as soon as possible. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Relationship anxiety is at an all time high, and it's not just related to attachment styles. Sometimes, the anxiety is so intense, we get trapped in obsessing, rumination and doubt. Fear of abandonment, commitment, rejection and intimacy are all part of relationship anxiety as is "anxious attachment" and "avoidant attachment" styles. In this profound episode, Jillian breaks down what relationship anxiety is and how to start to heal it. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you're in a committed relationship or want to be, it's pretty much guaranteed that you'll go through some hard times where you feel disconnected from each other. You might even get to a place where you doubt your relationship will make it. This is a scary place to be. In today's episode. Jillian shares how to make it through a really tough time and end up stronger, together. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever wondered if you should get back together with your ex? Do you feel stuck in a runner and chaser dynamic with someone? Today, Jillian welcomes back Mark Groves but this time with his amazing wife Kylie. In this episode, you'll learn about healing avoidance, codependency and the whole anxious avoidant dance. And, if you're considering taking your ex back, don't do it until you listen to this incredibly valuable conversation. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, Jillian explores the balance between self-love and healthy relationships. She opens up about the challenges of accepting ourselves, especially when past experiences make it hard. Jillian offers practical tips on breaking the cycle of self-neglect and replacing it with positive actions, authenticity, and open communication. She emphasizes the importance of self-care in creating more fulfilling relationships and personal growth.  Join Jillian in celebrating the release of her new book, live in New York (1/13/2025), and Miami (1/16/2025). Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Get ready to have your mind blown. Jillian outlines the most common subconscious patterns and beliefs she sees in those who are struggling in their love lives and relationships. Regardless of your relationship status, you are going to learn a ton from this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate insecurity and avoid true intimacy. She offers practical advice on fostering healthier relationships, maintaining individuality, and breaking free from toxic dating myths. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You", available January 14th, 2025 at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr. Emily Morse and Jillian have an open and honest conversation about the role of communication in both sexual and romantic relationships. They dig into how society often shapes women into people-pleasers, and why it’s so empowering to truly understand your own sexual pleasure and desires. They also touch on some deeply important topics like sexual trauma, mismatched desires, and how to navigate expectations in the bedroom—while busting myths around sexual performance. Plus, they highlight the importance of knowing about STIs and the true power of consent, encouraging more mindful, intimate connections.  Be sure to buy Emily’s new book, Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Check out her website, https://sexwithemily.com/, for a wide array of sex and relationship resources. Emily's Social Media: Instagram | TikTok | Twitter | Facebook | YouTube | Podcast Join Dr. Emily's New Membership Community called SmartSX!  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This is a very eye-opening episode where Jillian explains why we obsess over people we don't know very well as well as why we obsess after a breakup. Expect to feel a lot more freedom after listening. Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to break the patterns holding you back and discover how to move on with confidence, grace, and clarity. This will be the last time EVER that live interactive coaching with Jillian is offered, so secure you spot today! More information can be found here: https://breakupcourse.jillianturecki.com. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A lot of the dating culture today is unhealthy. In this episode, Jillian shares what singles need to do to rise above the mess and make sure they are setting themselves up for a healthy relationship. If you or anyone you know is single, you do not want to miss this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you're hurting, expect to feel seen, validated and inspired after listening to this episode. Jillian goes deep and teaches things she has never taught before on this subject. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-awareness play a role in our connections. She also answers a listener's heartfelt question about letting go of an unrequited love, offering actionable insights for reclaiming your peace and freedom. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s evolution. Get your tickets for Jillian’s live event at 92NY here: https://www.92ny.org/event/jillian-turecki  Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable partners. This episode is all about increasing self-awareness, challenging the labels we put on others, and learning to recognize partners who are ready to show up fully. Whether you’re navigating dating or in a long-term relationship, Jillian shares five key insights that could completely shift how you show up—and what you allow in. Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Love-bombing is a popular term in the current zeitgeist, but what does it actually mean, and what do you need to do and NOT do, to prevent it ftrom happenig to you? What Jillian shares about this dating phenomenon will surprise you. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this illuminating episode, expect to learn insights into attachment theory that you have not learned anywhere else. Jillian busts certain myths, clarifies avoidance and anxiety in a relationship, and points out two of the biggest red flags to look out for. Are you ready to change your life and feel whole again? The 7 Steps To Survive Heartbreak course created by Jillian is where you’ll learn to break the patterns holding you back and discover how to move on with confidence, grace, and clarity. This will be the last time EVER that live interactive coaching with Jillian is offered, so secure you spot today! More information can be found here: https://breakupcourse.jillianturecki.com. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard truths about love that can transform your life—starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one you have with yourself. Jillian gets personal, sharing the journey that led her to finally write this book, how her relationship with herself evolved over the years, and why timing and self-trust were everything. From imposter syndrome to the power of long walks and note-taking, she reveals the behind-the-scenes of her creative process—and how she learned to stop doubting herself and start owning her voice. Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Breaking up and divorce is hard enough, but when the relationship was unhealthy, it adds a layer of complexity to the recovery process. The anger and betrayal that we feel can make it hard to fully move on. In this episode, get ready to listen to some serious wisdom as Jillian shares how to untether yourself emotionally and move on. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

One of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is "How do I know I'm ready for a relationship?" A lot of people think they have to be fully healed to be in a relationship, which isn't true. But it is also true that some people need to heal more before they can build something healthy with someone. In this informative episode, Jillian breaks it down. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with renowned trial attorney and communication expert, Jefferson Fisher, to discuss the art of navigating difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and connection. Whether it’s a tough discussion with a romantic partner, responding to gaslighting, a workplace negotiation, or a friend disagreement, Jefferson shares practical techniques to help you argue less and talk more. Order Jefferson’s new book, The Next Conversation, Today! Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this long awaited and most frequently requested episode, Jillian explains in detail what limerence is and busts some myths about what it is, and isn't. She also teaches why it happens, and what to heal if it gets out of hand. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreones Find Rources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within, Dené shares powerful insights on taking 100% responsibility for our own energy, embracing shadow work, and shifting away from transactional, 50/50 relationship mindsets. Together, Jillian and Dené break down the complexities of masculine and feminine energies, discuss how to create harmony by integrating all parts of ourselves, and offer practical tools to navigate dating and relationships with authenticity, love, and self-awareness. Order Dené’s new book Sovereign Love at https://denelogan.com/book  Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this special Valentine's Day episode, Jillian shares important tips and incredible words of wisdom on how to be your own valentine if you're single or heartbroken. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

While it's often brave to leave a relationship that's not working, Jillian delves into when the most courageous act is to stay and work it out. She discusses the importance of understanding your partner’s needs, recognizing your role in relationship struggles, and overcoming ego-driven narratives. Through real-life examples and thought-provoking questions, this episode encourages listeners to reflect deeply on their own patterns, communication breakdowns, and the transformative potential of love when nurtured with vulnerability and accountability. Join Jillian’s LIVE MASTERCLASS with Matthew Hussey at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book-extras  Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What makes someone "right"? What makes someone the wrong partner? What makes US "right"? Jillian shares three prevailing patterns that are responsible for unhealthy partnership, and teaches things in this episode that she has never taught before. Whether you're in a relationship or not, this episode is for you. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, Jillian shares 5 of the biggest lessons she's learned about romantic relationships from 20 years of working with people and her own personal experience with love.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes sex and couples psychotherapist Todd Baratz (@yourdiagnonsense) to the show. This is one of the most insightful conversations about healing the trauma that results from a breakup and how to heal. Plus get ready to hear Todd's expert advice on sexual intimacy and different sex drives! Find out more about his book, "How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind" at https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/723331/how-to-love-someone-without-losing-your-mind-by-todd-baratz-lmhc/ ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking free from toxic patterns, while also answering a heartfelt listener question about escaping a painful cycle. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt in a relationship or wondered how to protect yourself from emotional manipulation, this episode is a must-listen. Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/  Order Jillian's NEW book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What Would Jillian Say? In this special episode, Jillian speaks to a listener who is having a hard time letting go and moving on from an unhealthy relationship. This is a riveting conversation in which Jillian helps Emily change her perspective so that she can finally move on and choose herself. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The health of a relationship begins with our relationship with ourselves. One of the leading causes of suffering - depression and anxiety, is a life that has not gone according to plan. Whether it's because you're single or childless at a certain age, your work is not what you want it to be, or you've experienced certain losses that you were not prepared to cope with. In this episode, Jillian shares what to do when life has gone down an unexpected path. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How to know when you should stay and fight for your relationship, or leave and fight for yourself? Knowing when it's time to leave your relationship is one of the hardest decisions anyone could make. In this powerful episode, Jillian offers her insight based on when it is time to leave. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jillian addresses the debate she's seen all over social media: Do we truly have to accept someone for who they are? What of they don't meet your needs? What if they are toxic? What if they don't grow? What if they need to change? How do we love someone who needs to change? This episode will clarify all of it. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian finally addresses the trauma associated with being "highly sensitive" and an "empath" and how one's sensitivity impacts their relationships and makes them more susceptible to attaching to toxic people. But, there is a way out. And Jillian explains in detail how. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nothing is more stressful than relationship trouble. Nothing keeps us up at night filled with anxiety than being in a relationship that is struggling. In this episode, Jillian explains in detail the 3 biggest reasons why most relationships end and how to prevent it from happening to yours. This episode is a free couples session - but even if it's just you listening to it, it will help immensely. Ps - If you're single, this will give you temendous leverage for your next relationship! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this important episode, Jillian clarifies what makes a relationship UNHEALTHY, and the very things we need to both look for in another and develop within ourselves in order to have a high functioning relationship. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on ~~ Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian and special guest Jeff Guenther get candid and personal in this riveting conversation about why men look at provocative accounts, the difference between healthy and unheathy chemistry and why dating apps might be working against you. Jeff Guenther is a licensed professional counselor in Portland, Oregon, practicing since 2005. His focus includes working with both couples and individuals. Alongside therapy, Jeff dedicates his spare time to creating short videos for TikTok and Instagram, and hosting his weekly podcast, 'Big Dating Energy.' Excitingly, you can now pre-order his new book, also titled 'Big Dating Energy.' Follow him on all platforms for insightful relationship advice, tips, pep talks, and a range of resources to boost your mental health. Learn more at TherapyJeff.com ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jillian discusses ghosting and online dating. She clarifies what ghosting is (and isn't) why she believes it's on the rise, why people do it, and what to do to protect yourself from it as well as what to do IF it happens.  ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian interviews Doug Bobst, a former felon and drug addict who transformed his life. Today he is an award winning personal trainer, author, speaker and podcaster. His story from victim to hero and the unlikely guide who helped him transform is one that will both touch and inspire you. Plus, Jillian coaches him on his love life! Not to be missed.  Doug Bobst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dougbopst/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1xly1FdiIE2s8c5wUr2dgw Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-adversity-advantage/id1496406333 Website: www.dougbopst.com ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A healthy and secure relationship is a mature relationship. Yet, why do so many people struggle to create this? In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches that it boils down to 3 main skills that we need to practice and develop if we want to master our love loves and have healthier relationships. Get out the pen and paper - get ready to learn a lot! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In honor of Mother's Day, Jillian dedicates this episode to all the women who have decided - for various reasons, not to become a mother and to those who cannot. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian shares Part 2 of one of her most popular episodes: The Chaser and The Runner. How do two people who love each other get trapped in a pattern of anxiety and avoidance? How can they break free of it? Jillian shares the truth about this dynamic and how easily it can erupt between two people. Get ready to learn things about this pattern you have never learned before. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The quality of our lives are determined by the quality of our relationships. Strong relationships make us strong, and weak, unhealthy relationships make us sick. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Jillian discusses the impact of relationships on our mental well-being, when to leave the situation-ship, what to consider before beginning couple's work, and her tried and true tips and strategies for nurturing mental health. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this much awaited episode, Jillian breaks down sexual chemistry. She discusses what it is, the difference between healthy chemisty and unhealthy chemistry, and what to consider if your "picker" is off so you can re-wire yourself for healthy love. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The health and vitality of a relationship rests heavily on our ability to repair after an argument and disconnection. In this episode, Jillian breaks down "the repair process" she has helped hundreds of couples use to restore connection, peace and harmony in their relationships. Note that you can apply this to ANY relationship, ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Jillian dares to go where other's don't. She explains the habits and things we do unconsciously that impact physical attraction and desire. With both compassion and sense of humor, Jillian shares what we need to stop doing and start doing if we want to remain attracted to each other in a committed relationship. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this unique episode, Jillian answers a listener's complex question about what she should do if she feels threatened by one of her partner's friendships. What Jillian says might surprise you, and it will definitely help you navigate how to approach this and similar circumstances in your own relationship or future partnership. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian breaks down what you MUST know about someone before you commit your heart and life to them, as well as the important conversations every couple should have before they take their relationship to the next level. If this was taught in school, there would be less divorces. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes Connor Beaton, best-selling author, host of the podcast ManTalks, and Men's coach to thousands of men trying to better their lives. In this illuminating episode, Jillian and Connor discuss the biggest struggles men face today, and the struggles those who date them experience. They discuss why people get addicted to porn, and how to discuss social media and pornography boundaries with man you're dating. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dating as a sensitive person and/or abandonment wounds can feel very daunting. In this episode, Jillian shares exactly how to navigate dating so that you honor yourself and protect your boundaries. She also shares the most common struggle the anxiously attached have when it comes to a breakup, and how to face that struggle with more grace and calmness. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this special episode, Jillian takes some of your most intense and riveting questions and answers them, in detail. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you single and frustrated about it? In this episode, Jillian shares the 5 biggest and most common mistakes singles makes that sabotage their chances for a committed and healthy partnership plus how to avoid them. You do not want to miss this episode. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Whether you're in a relationship or preparing to have a better future one, this might be one of the most important episodes you can listen to. Jillian shares the 5 most transformative shifts you can make to your relationship. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jillian welcomes Lulu, a client who faced the challenge of trying to overcome low self worth and toxic relationships. In this raw and candid conversation, Jillian and Lulu discuss what healing is and what it's not, Lulu's painful relationship past, her struggle to love herself and overcome trauma, and how she finally was able to open herself up to healthy love. They talk about sabotage and how many times she tried to push her current partner away. But with commitment and courage, Lulu is in the relationship she only thought was possible for other people. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices