Intimacy Advisor Podcast (Lover's Lane)

If you're looking to give in to relaxation and want the same for your partner, this is the episode for you! Let's take the first and most important step to intimacy: relaxation. When the body is relaxed and the mind shuts down, we can have a deeper physical connection. In this episode we mention Le Wand, which you can shop for here. Happy massaging!

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Traditionally, feminine people are type cast as submissives.  But, what if subverting traditional power dynamics ignites your desire and makes you feel sexually empowered?  This episode is a love letter to anyone whose been called bossy as an insult.  We will explore how to tap into your authentic erotic self, wherever you find yourself on the dominant to submissive spectrum. 

If you're inspired by this episode to explore kink, you can find all of your kinky gear and tools at www.loverslane.com

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Welcome to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, Dr. Megan Fleming!

In this episode, Dr. Megan Fleming joins us to take a look at a new lubricant, Beloved, created for comfort with nourishing and balancing ingredients that we should look for in a good intimate serum as a tool to our love-making toolbox. 

Check out Beloved at Lover's Lane here!

Read more about Dr. Megan Fleming here!

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Welcome back to The Intimacy Advisor Podcast! We can safely say, variety is everywhere between the walls of Lover's Lane, and we have a little something for everyone! After being away for only a month, so many new toys are always arriving! We stopped in to a location to get recommendations on 9 new products that are Romance Specialist approved, and you can hear all about them here! Shop online at Lover's Lane through this link.

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Happy National BDSM Day!  BDSM is a highly creative kind of play with limitless possibilities.  This episode celebrates the different flavors of Kink.  Learn the definitions and differences of Kink, BDsM and Fetish play.  We will cover negotiation, play and aftercare practices for ensuring safety and maintaining consent.  Sarah also explores ways to expand your vocabulary of touch, talk and tools on any budget.  Midway through the episode, you'll discover a few scenarios to get you started on your kinky explorations.  Temperature play, full body spankings and sensory deprivation awaits you!

As always you can find the products mentioned in this week's episode below:

Bondage Tape 

Safety Scissors 

Drip Candle

Massage Candle 

Nipple Clamps 

No peek blindfold 

Finger Fork 

Plush Paddle

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We've been holding onto your questions for this very moment!  Labor Day marks the end of summer for many of us and in the spirit of back to school, Sarah answers listeners questions.  How do you turn your partner up if their nipples are too sensitive?  What do you do if you get close, oh so close, to orgasm but can't bring it home to the finish line?   What if you're partner really wants to explore prostate play but you're embarrassed because you've never done it before?  Get answers to these questions on today's episode, which is brought to you by Lover's Lane.

Products mentioned on this episode include:

Dual Action Vibrators: Lelo Ina Wave and Le Wand's Dual Motor

Prostate Massagers: Aneros Helix Syn with Vibrator and Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Vibrating Cockring: Roq Vibrating Cring

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Introducing (finally!) - Uberrime! This Orlando-made product is crafted with love, skill, and hand-poured silicone. Making dildos and tentacles alike with different textures than the average insertable toy, you'll see upon first sight and touch why they're so loved. Check out Uberrime here. Shop Lover's Lane's collection of insertable toys here.

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Take it from us, talking dirty isn't always an easy task in the bedroom. And when you're put on the spot with your partner quick to say "talk dirty to me..." you don't want to freeze up. So how do you think quick on your feet and give them a sexy conversation that won't be a flop? And how do you shake the awkwardness of trying dirty talk for the first time? Join us on this episode for tips and tricks for the bedroom speech class you didn't know you needed.

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Welcome back to Season 3 of The Intimacy Advisor blog with your new (old) host, Haley! Today we're talking what new products made their way to our top 10 picks of 2022 and what old products were so good...that they're STILL on that list. 

Check out our number one pick at Lover's Lane right here!

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Arousal is an overlooked building block to expansive orgasmic experiences.  Sarah debunks some arousal misunderstandings, breaks down the nuances of different types of desire, and explains the importance of context.  If you’re looking for ways to turn up your desire, understand your libido and gain more control over your arousal cycle then this episode is for you!  This episode would not be possible without Dr. Emily Nagoski’s enlightening book Come As You Are – everyone should read it!  Don’t forget to check out loverslane.com for all of your intimate needs.

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If you have a curious mind or are looking to continue experimenting in the bedroom, this episode is for you! Let's take a dive at different roles, themes and products we offer at Lover's Lane in our BDSM department. What suits you best? Try some role play on for size in episode 86 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast.

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This week on Intimacy Advisor Sarah fields listener questions.  How can I make my girlfriend come? What other positions can I explore if I love being on top? I can’t get off. Help!  We’re talking sex toys, vulva massage, the wonders of the clit, nipple play, sex positions, erotic breath and more!

Lover's Lane carries every product mentioned on the show, and more!

Nos Vibrating Cockring 

Vedo Overdrive Vibrating Cockring 

Small, Powerful Handheld Vibrator

Snug Plug Weighted Butt Plug 

Body-Safe Lubricant 

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From toys to lubes to outfits...what tools are going to benefit your Intimate Toolbox the most? And which toys and products are worth trying (or at least keeping on hand?) Join us on The Intimacy Advisor Podcast to learn our Intimate tricks up our sleeve to have romantic, kinky, and passion-building nights in. You can shop at LoversLane.com to build your own Intimate Toolbox!

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Happy Pride!  In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term queer, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be confined by labels of the LGBTQIA+ community, and why she loves the term so much.  For anyone looking for a quick queer history lesson to kick off Pride month, interested to learn how the term became reclaimed as a badge of honor, or queer curious - this episode is for you.  Enjoy!  

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Orgasms are a physiological response.  Orgasmic experiences are also your mind, your body and your breath working together to allow for surrender and release.  In this episode, Sarah shares a number of tools for finding your orgasmic potential.  We cover getting to know your sexual scripts, diving into your Erotic Blueprint, discovering your touch vocabulary with an Erotic Body Scan and why sex toys are so helpful for finding and expanding your orgasms! 

This podcast is made possible by Lovers Lane.

Toys in this episode:

Wand Massager

Stone Shaped External Vibe

Womanizer Premium

Arcwave Ion

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When was the last time you revisited your solo play technique?  Are you relying on the same hand trick from high school? Have you burnt out your vibrator from using it on high for too many years to count?  Join Intimacy Advisor host, Sarah TomTom, for a solo play makeover, including techniques, tricks and products you are sure to have never come up with on your own!

Intimacy Advisor is brought to you by Lover's Lane. You can find all of the products listed on this weeks show...

Waterslyde

Fun Factory Manta

Dual Rider

FF Stronic Fusion

Fun Factory Miss Bi

b-Vibe Weighted Snug Plug

b-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug

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Today's episode wraps up Season 2 of Intimacy Advisor Podcast!! 

This year, we've covered everything from awakening your arousal and the joys of 69 to femme dominance and ways to spruce up date night!  This episode brings it all together with exercises and activities you can return to again and again whenever you need a boost of confidence, or encouragement to connect with your most authentic, sexy self.   Intimacy Advisor Podcast is brought to you by Lover's Lane

We are planning an extended hiatus.  Please visit intimacyadvisor.com for more resources and articles related to relationships, intimacy and sexuality.

This episode references a number of other helpful resources, such as:

Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski

Getting Off by Jayme Waxman

Speaking from the Heart: 18 Modern Love Languages by Anne Hodder-Shipp

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Have you been binging How to Build a Sex Room on Netlfix? In this week’s episode, Sarah breaks down celebrity designer Melanie Rose’s approach and how you can adopt it to YOUR space.  No need to remodel your home!  Sarah gives you activities for discovering your sex style and everything you need to make your very own sex room.

Intimacy Advisor Podcast is brought to you by Lover's Lane.  Visit the Links below for everything you need to outfit your very own sex room!

Little Bag of Tricks

Sex Furniture

Liberator Black Label Ramp/Wedge

Bondage Board

Over the Door Cuffs

Under the Bed Restraints

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On this week's episode, Sarah drops a ton of knob knowledge...From satisfying hand techniques and how to create firmer, more sensitive erections to flaccid play and the squeeze method for delaying ejaculation!  Also discover which toys are best for oral sex and hand jobs.

This episode covers some pleasure anatomy, if it leaves you wanting more visit episode 61 for a full pleasure-based anatomy lesson.

Intimacy Advisor Pod is brought to you by Lover's Lane.  

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Valentine's Day is just around the corner! The holiday of showing love to your special someone deserves no gift less than our Love Collections! 

Join Haley for an in-depth look at each of our 6 Love Kits and other suggestions for this Valentine's Day to make your night unforgettable. Shop our selection of Love Kits with this link!

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Happy Valentine's Day here from Lover's Lane! It's the most lovely time of the year, so let's take the stress out of finding your love a gift this holiday and hear about our best toys and outfits to celebrate February 14. In this episode, we talk about best selling vibes for couples, air pulsating toys, how to dress up sexy for your partner (and yourself!), and we even dive in to some little "love taps" if you will aka floggers, paddles, and crops!

If you're looking for plans this weekend or next week, check out the Love Is Art collection to create something beautiful during your Valentine's *festivities*!

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Happy Pride, Intimacy Advisor family! As we celebrate Pride 2023, join us discussing when is right to come out, and the change in your sense of self. Let's take a look at terms which define the difference between sex, gender, and gender identity. We also have a moment of discussing tolerance between those learning new terms in which the community is changing and evolving. Check out new LGBTQA+ friendly toys here!

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The movies have lied to us!  Going from zero to hot & bothered and ready for action 7 days a week is a myth.  Most of us have busy lives and priorities outside of the bedroom.  Cultivating our erotic life can feel like it takes work.  Creating an erotic bridge, an intentional transition, from day-to-day life into the bedroom can make the time we do set aside to explore our sexuality that much hotter.  This episode explores how to make the most of your date night prep, simple sensory explorations to awaken the body, incorporating fantasy into your life, and weeknight hacks for sexy time.

Lover’s Lane offers a variety of products that can heat up your weeknight sexcapades! 

Massage Candles

Sensual Lotions and Oils 

Erotica 

Pheromones

Dipsea Erotica App 

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Curious about mutual pleasure with your partner? Expanding your penetrative play options? Exploring new power dynamics with your partner/s?  Then strap-on play is for you!  Many people get discouraged or intimidated by the gear, which is why Sarah is breaking down all of the basics for you - choosing your equipment, the ways to have the most control over your harness and dildo and fun tips and tricks for enhancing pleasure for both partners. 

If you're looking for product recs, here are some mentioned in this episode!  

Dual Density Dildo 

Tantus Dildo 

Avant Dildo from Blush Novelties 

Two Strap Sportsheets Harness 

Thong Harness 

Femme Harness

Underwear Style Harness 

Double Dildo 

Harness with vibrator pocket 

Pegging Harness Set 

And some fun, new releases if you're looking to up your strap-on game:

Sliding Skin Dildo

Bumpher for Enhancing the Wearer's Pleasure

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Bring on 2023! What resolutions or lifestyle changes are you bringing to the table this year? At Lover's Lane, Sex Drive and The Intimacy Advisor Podcast and Blog... we're all looking for hotter sex! If that means new toys, more free time, deeper connection, or all the above, have a listen to Episode 83 to ring in the New Year with a resolution you won't want to throw away a few weeks in!

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Tis the season for hitting the beach, the road, and all locations near and far.  But, what toys do you bring?? Sarah covers the most discreet and compact products that pack a punch to liven up your adventures, as well as the newest innovations that will guarantee your sexcapades are as luxurious as your trip.  Whether you've got vacation on the calendar or on your mind, you do not want to miss out on these must-have travel-friendly toy recs!

You can find all of your intimate product needs at Loverslane.com:

Womanizer Liberty

Magic Wand Mini

We-Vibe Touch X

Lelo Tor

We-Vibe Moxie

Fuji Stroker

System Jo Travel Friendly Lubricant

High On Love CBD Lubricant

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April showers are here! I mean, really here, in the bedroom and all! Don't dry off inside, head to the bedroom instead with the toy picks from Episode 90 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast. In this episode, we take a look at what squirt really is and take a peak at some popular products that need a "Caution: Can Be Wet" sign. Enjoy!

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The most popular date night of the year is upon us – Valentine’s Day!  When is the last time you changed up your date night routines? Getting tired of Netflix and chill? Want to engage with your partner in new and different ways? This episode offers a ton of creative (and hot) date ideas and ways to make a gift of the date experience.  Sarah covers date night suggestions for all love languages and relationships new and old, including: Labors of Love (4:00),  Engaged Experiences (6:45), Get Outdoors (9:50), Hot Staycation (10:35), Roleplay the Romance Back (11:30), Gifting Date (14:45), Try Something New (17:45), Get Physical (19:35), Food & Wine (21:15) & Personal Growth (23:35)

Still need a gift for Valentine's Day? Check out LoversLane.com for all of you Valentine's Day needs!

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What does hearing what your partner likes, neck kisses, and eye contact all have in common?  They're all on the list of top 10 turn-ons!  Want to up your game?  Reignite the spark with a special someone?  Become a more attentive lover?  This episode covers the do's and don'ts of turning on your partner.

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We've been working up to this... Multiple Os!  Learn how to catch and ride the waves of Multiple Orgasms.  Sarah covers tips and techniques for anyone interested in expanding their pleasure potential. From the squeeze method and the power of exercising your Kegels; to layering sensations or moaning your way there.  There's something for everyone!

This podcast is made possible by Lovers Lane where you can find all of your intimate pleasure needs.  Products, books & resources mentioned in this episode are linked below:

Aneros Helix Syn Massager

We-Vibe Touch X

Kegel Balls

Njoy Style Wand

Heart Wedge Position Pillow

Multi Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia & Douglas Adams

Multi Orgasmic Woman by Mantak Chia Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD

Getting Off by Jayme Waxman

Jack Johnston's Squeeze Technique

Cam Fraser - Sex Coach & Sexologist

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Valentine’s Day is right around the corner.  Vday is a perfect opportunity to invest in your sexuality, your sensuality, and the love relationships you have in your life, including the one with yourself!  This episode is dedicated to Sarah’s favorite toys. Toys can be a way to enhance your connection, create unique sensations, and bring creativity into your play.  We cover toys for all kinds of experiences you may be looking to create this Valentine’s day; from sensual CBD massages to adventurous date nights or trying bondage for the first time.  You can find all products mentioned on the pod and more at loverslane.com. Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! 💕

Interested in any of the products mentioned? Here’s your Intimacy Advisor Gift Guide:

• Sensual Massage (4:17): Foria Massage Oil
• Sensation Play (7:00): Massage Candle  & Blindfold (7:00)
• Powerful Multi-tasking Vibrator (7:55): We-Vibe Touch X
• Fave C-rings (11:13): Nu Sensuelle & Fun Factory Nos
• Go All Out (15:33): FF Blow & Glow Kit
• For a BJ Assist (16:15) : FF Manta
• Trying Something New (18:14): Under the Bed Restraints or Bed Buckler Kit
• Date Night Out on the Town (21:30): We-Vibe Moxie & We-Vibe Bond
• Best Hosiery (23:20): Kixies Thigh Highs

Still need a gift for Valentine's Day? Check out LoversLane.com for all of you Valentine's Day needs.  

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Here's the latest, greatest, and most explosive toys you can play with in the bedroom! Join us exploring ten different toy and lube categories to find new novelties for just you or to share with a partner. Bonus points if you try a few together! Shop new toys and other products at Lover's Lane here!

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Spring has sprung!  Tis the season of vibe checks and new relationships.  Are you feeling a little out of practice with dating? Are you tired of going on first dates that don’t go anywhere?  Struggling to find other sex-positive matches?  This week Sarah is joined by educator, author, and body acceptance influencer Elle Chase talking about the ins and outs of post-pandemic dating dynamics.  It can be scary to communicate what you want and need from a new date, to find the f*ck buddy of your dreams, or dive into the world of online dating.  Elle shares her favorite platforms and approaches for finding hookups, friends with benefits or a committed partner.  The two also share tips for couples who want to keep the flame of dating life alive and well in their relationship!

You can find Elle and all of her episode recommendations...

Elle's Website

Elle’s favorite, sex-positive dating app

Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love

How Not to Die Alone by Logan Ury

YourDiagnonsense

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Getting in touch with what you want – what you actually want – is incredibly empowering!  But, where do you start?  Sarah takes listeners through a simple process for naming your desires and putting action towards them.  Using tools like the Feelings Wheel and the Desire Map simplifies what may otherwise feel like a daunting process.  Now it’s just up to you to go after your desires with wild abandon!

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It can be intimidating to talk to your kids about S-E-X!  Where do you start? What do you say? How do you know what's age appropriate?  In this week's episode, Sarah breaks down some helpful tips for laying the foundation of open communication with your kids.  Establishing bodily autonomy, setting and respecting boundaries (the cornerstone of consent), naming our bits, and how to work through roadblocks when they come up.  Sarah also shares a fun game you can play with your little ones that she borrowed from educator Pamela Samuelson.

Intimacy Advisor Podcast is run Lover's Lane.  You can find us to ask follow up questions or read additional material at the Intimacy Advisor Blog.

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Happy A n a l August, lovers!  No topic is taboo here at Intimacy Advisor and booty play shouldn’t be either.  If you haven’t ventured to the backdoor yet, you are missing out.  This episode covers everything you need to know to get the most pleasure out of your a n a l adventures, including safety.  Learn why lube is your booty’s BFF, which toys and techniques are best for getting started, and, of course, the best ways to satisfy those thousands of juicy nerve endings.

Intimacy Advisor is brought to you by Lover's Lane.  Check out all of the products mentioned on this week's episode...

b-Vibe Snug Plug

Plug Training Set

Tapered Beads

Booty Friendly Silicone Lubricant

Booty Friendly Water Based Lubricant

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This week we are celebrating our 69th episode by giving some love to the much talked (and snickered) about sex position!  69ing is an act of mutual pleasure dating back to the Kama Sutra.  Sarah shares a little history about the clever naming of the position as well as tips for maximizing comfort and pleasure for both partners!  Thank you for listening and supporting Intimacy Advisor 💗

Intimacy Advisor Podcast is presented by Lover's Lane. All products mentioned in this episode can be found here:

Position Pillow

Egg Stroker

We-Vibe Melt & Womanizer Starlet

Vedo Yumi

Snug Plug

C-ring

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Understanding our bodies' building blocks for experiencing sexual pleasure can help demystify roadblocks to orgasm, our partner's needs and so much more!  Sarah walks you through her favorite nerdy topic, Anatomy, and gives you tips along the way.  This episode covers everything you need to know about the genitals AND how stimulate all of those juicy nerve endings.  This one is a bit longer than our usual shows and may be best to listen to with your headphones on, especially if you've got little ones around (unless you're prepared for their first sex ed lesson).  Don't miss out on all of this good pleasure-based information no one taught us school. 

Intimacy Advisor is brought to you by Lovers Lane 

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Bottom line...which toys are thee best?! In Episode 19, Haley takes vote of those of all different styles and preferences and gives the truth about which toys are the best for wherever! We talk clitoral toys, the newer and oh-so-popular air pulsating, g-spot, strokers, prostate, and c-rings. Hopefully this one helps settle the need-to-buys for Valentine's Day - trust us, a sex toy enthusiast appoints the greatest of the great! 

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Episode 8 follows as a continuation of our discussion in Episode 7: The Big O's. In this episode, we talk about the connection needed between partners to help control and strengthen orgasm. Episode 8 is not one to miss! We talk: edging, mutual masturbation, forced and controlled orgasm, and much more. Tell us how it was for you!

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Isn't it crazy how little we learn in sex-ed?! Now how are we supposed to learn about ourselves AND our partners?! The answer is communication. Haley walks us through what sex-ed looked like for her growing up through now, being a sex educator. Additionally, she discusses emotional and sexual communication and how to talk to your partner about needs and wants in the bedroom.

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In the Introduction Episode 0 of the Lover's Lane Podcast, your host, Haley, discusses health and the overlap of physical, mental and sexual health. 

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Kegels - yep, another thing to add to your workout regimen! Strengthening your PC muscle or your pelvic floor has a long list of benefits for both penis and vagina owners! Our favorite perk? Longer, stronger, more controlled orgasms! Who wouldn't want to take 10 minutes out of the day for that?! In Episode 22 we're going to bust some common misconceptions and myths around our favorite secret squeeze to do. PSA: kegels are for everyone! 

You can shop Lover's Lane's selection of kegel balls discussed in the show here!

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We are kicking the New Year off with a new host, Sarah TomTom.  Sex Educator and founder of Damiana Productions.  This week we are talking about prioritizing pleasure in our routines and incorporating pleasure into our New Year’s goals and resolutions.  This episode is sure to get you thinking about how you want to feel in the year ahead!

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Happy PRIDE Month!! Let's kick off being back to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast with a Pride Celebration of our own, Episode 34, a resource to everyone to go over some terms used for queer and transgender humans. Respecting boundaries, open communication, willingness to learn, adapt, and change is what will make great allies! Love is love. Hop in to your closest Lover's Lane to celebrate Pride with YOUR loved one!

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In the third official episode of the Lover's Lane Podcast, Haley talks about what foreplay is, gives suggestions to fit many different lifestyles of couples, and reminds you about how necessary communication is through the process. Have questions? Reach out to @LLpodcast_!

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Trick or Treat?! In Episode 53 we talk about TikTok trending sex toys and products, how to give the easiest and best blow job ever, and helpful hints for awesome oral. Be sure to check out our Intimacy Advisor blog and shop Lover's Lane!

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2021...it's kind of hard to believe we're here. We all desperately need a change of pace, a new beginning, and some new, fresh energy. Out of all the fun games and toys we see in adult stores, there's something about the Vibrating Tarot that is new, fresh, and exciting to all of us. Whether it may be pulling the card that you needed to see to enforce a difficult decision, asking a deck a simple yes or no, or maybe you feel like The Fool beginning your spiritual or sexual journey, Frank Lawrence is designing something that is sure to keep your spirits lifted.

While physical prints of The Vibrating Tarot Deck are not yet ready, follow his social pages @vibratingtarot and check back on his site HERE for the latest news on crowd funding and release of cards!

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Enough girl talk - this one is for the fellas...there are so, SO many toys and enhancements out there for men, so which ones are worth the time (and funds) in trying? Episode 36 will dive straight in to popular c-rings, strokers, prostate toys, pumps, and lubes in between. Keep building up your experience maybe in mutual masturbation with a partner or even if you're ridin' solo. 

You can shop Lover's Lane's selection here, and always reach out to haley@loverslane.com for any questions you may have!

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Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggling to feel sexy?  Body acceptance is a process. Host Sarah TomTom offers a variety of tips for affirming and accentuating your body in ways that helps you build confidence and self-love. For all of your intimate needs, don't forget to check out Lover's Lane - www.loverslane.com.

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Soooo...you want a threesome?! Are you in a relationship looking to add a third and don't know where to start? It's not going to be all hot and bothered right in the beginning if it's done correctly! You guessed it, communication is key for a super hot threesome and Episode 35 gives you all the information to make sure all your bases are covered. 

Shop Lover's Lane and don't forget lubes, oils, condoms, toys, bondage, and anything else that kicks the fantasy up even hotter!

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Episode 51 is all about nipples! If you're wondering what products and creams and gels do all the best job of tugging, sucking, clamping, and caressing your way to a nipple orgasm (yes that's real!) look no further. Don't forget to shop Lover's Lane for all the best titillating toys ;)

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Here it is...the odds and ends that just take the right person to love on! Interesting stimulators like electro-spanking, tentacle play and anal hooks (who knows!) could be your next best friend! If you have an open mind and the willingness to explore, this episode is for you. Be sure to shop at Lover's Lane for both new and old favorite intimate products!

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Give the gift of booty. With sleek anal plugs, smooth beads, and extensive knowledge, any B-Vibe toy really is that gift. 

Alicia Sinclair chats with us about which size is right for who, prep, communication, and why anal is oh so popular.

We'll tell you why early - it feels good. Own your pleasure and learn All About Anal here on Episode 13.

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It's the very last episode of 2020! Let's get into...position! Liberator's specialty is oh so luxurious sex position furniture that you can work in to your home as is, you don't need to remove a swing or lock up a "play room" before company comes over. These little pillows hold up in all positions and help you arrange a little deeper pushing on the cushion. 

What resolutions do you want to have in your relationship in 2021? Let us know on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter!

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Hate to break it to you all...but porn does not give us the best how-to lessons on sex. Sure, the squirting scenes where it's (just about literally) raining in the sheets are hot as hell but in order to actually get that release you really need to know your body well.

In Episode 32 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast, we discuss what is squirting exactly, what is it made of, can I do it, and how!

Shop your favorite g-spot toys for you or a partner on SexDrive.com or follow the link here!

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Total. Power. Exchange. Some find it hot, others find it, well, not. But regardless of your stance on it, TPE exists! Whether you're giving up control or taking charge of your sub's do's and don'ts throughout the day- it can be really fulfilling for increased connection, commitment, communication, and understanding. How do I start outlining our agreement now? Episode 28 dives in to a few options on how to take control or surrender yourself not just between the sheets!

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The changing of the seasons can always be pleasant, but what about the changing of your sex drive? At times, it can be not as enjoyable. Of course we only notice when the going gets worse and not the other way around. So in Episode 27, we're using this time to remind you that spring will always come again, and so will you! 

Take a look at hormonal changes and different stages your body goes through with the process of age - it's natural and nothing to fear! Always treat your body with curiosity and not disappointment. You can always shop for new toys, lubes, lingerie, and anything else you may desire at Lover's Lane when your sexual desire peaks again.

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'Tis the season! ...the love season, to give some well deserved effort, thoughtfulness and time to your relationship! Even if you and your honey don't give gifts and classify Valentines as an unnecessary "Hallmark holiday"- why would you not give them a little extra attention on the one day of the year where it seems extra appropriate!

In this episode of the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, we talk how anticipation, planning sex, and desire set up these sexpectations for the holiday, but a little communication can work wonders.

If you are still shopping for a sexy V-Day look, head to Lover's Lane for lingerie and oils or check out SexDrive.com for all your buzzy bedroom essentials!

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High on Love is quickly gaining popularity between adult stores, sexual wellness educators and experts and those in the cannabis industry. With a revolutionary product combining hemp seed oils into the sexual health space while keeping luxury at the root of the brand's development, CEO Angela Mustone shares her expertise of the line! Follow High on Love on Instagram (@highonlove.official) and Twitter (@HighOnLove_HOL) to stay updated on new products. Follow Intimacy Advisor on Instagram (@intimacyadvisorpod) to enter our High On Love giveaway! And be sure to shop Lover's Lane for all your favorite oils, stim gels, lipglosses, luxury items and collections!

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Look no further, your date ideas are right here! Summer is the real season of love, because it can be a bit more spontaneous, fun, and sexy than Valentines or the over-anticipated anniversary or birthday getaway. Episode 37 takes a peak at some fun ideas for your next warm date night, and maybe includes a few wearable toys for a fun concert out! 

Shop Lover's Lane for some exciting toys, outfits, lubes and oils for your post-date-night bedroom fun!

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Kink and Bondage and Consent - oh my! Where do I start? What is my role? What is BDSM and why would I want to try it? Get all the answers right here in Episode 6 of The Lover's Lane Podcast.

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Romance without sex or sex without romance? Why choose?! Your relationship is about you and your partner and whatever works...WORKS! The pandemic has really put a strain on romance seeing that we see our partner each and every day but Episode 20 is here to remind you all how far we've come in a most difficult spot both in life, and in your relationship. Let's celebrate these small (and large) triumphs!

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Your desires don't need to be secrets to your partner; although it can seem intimidating to tell them your fantasies... 

What's the worst that could happen? Misunderstandings? Communication? Growth? Actually getting your desires fulfilled?! We say go for it! There are a few preliminary suggestions we have before you pop the question "can we try some hot, new, kinky sex?" It matters where it's said, how it's said, and how you can handle a "no" answer. 

Ready to buy some new fav fetish gear? Head to Lover's Lane or shop toys at SexDrive.com to Spice Up Your Love Life...Tonight!

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*insert Grinch voice* "but what will I wear?!"

Holiday shopping for something oh so sexy? But what size do you pick? What style? How to complete the outfit so your partner feels as great as you picture them in this look?

Stacey of Coquette walks us through different options to choose from when shopping lingerie, and finally answers what is the difference between a bustier and a corset, anyway?

If you're new to lingerie, new to Coquette, unsure at all, this episode is for you. It's all about confidence, babe, and here's the fuel to your fire right here on Episode 12!

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Another Episode for the penis owners and prostate players! This Episode is all about how to touch that sensitive spot found internal and all the benefits of the perfect p-spot massage. Remember, go slow, use lube, toys are great for intercourse to keep that perfect stimulation, and most important...have fun! 

You can shop at Lover's Lane here for all your back door friendly lubes, toys, and stimulating gels!

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Porn! It might not be for everyone, but there certainly is every type of porn. In Episode 42, Haley talks about how watching it can lead to super hot (and educational) mutual masturbation, open doors for role play and kinky sex. Watching porn with your partner can lead to increased trust in the relationship, intensified arousal, and maybe trying something new for the both of you! Shop Lover's Lane for your favorite toys, oils, lubes and outfits to spice up your love life tonight!

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In order to have good sex, a lot of trial and error happens (generally) when growing up! In health class, you're taught why not to have sex so who's the teacher for topics such as...how to give yourself an orgasm? How to give your partner great oral? Enter Dr. Sadie Allison, America's Pleasure Coach, author of 6 books with over two million copies sold, co-founder of GoLove lubricant, and CEO of TickleKitty! 

Dr. Sadie knows sex and is here to help. You can shop her sex technique books on TickleKitty here, or shop GoLove at Lover's Lane or on SexDrive.com with the link here!

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We know any fun bondage/discipline scene or dominant/submissive relationship calls for a safe word to ensure everyone's physical and mental safety. But what about in our daily relationships? How do you avoid conflict in a way that could be damaging later? Have you ever thought about bringing a safe word into a discussion if need be? 

In Episode 29 we'll navigate through pros and cons of using a having and using a safe word at really any point of an emotional relationship, what to do when they're used...and how to follow up. 

You can always shop at Lover's Lane to ensure More Romance, More Intimacy, More Often! And check back with our Intimacy Advisor blog for all your questions answered!

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Becoming Cliterate is not a radical idea. Like literacy, like it or not, once you know, you can't forget. Just like the clitoris - once you know it's function and all about it, you can't forget! Thanks to Sophia Wallace's "A Case For Cliteracy" the world is relearning the functions of a woman's clitoris and no one will forget it or dismiss it again! Watch the TedTalk here!

Join Haley from Lover's Lane in the discussion of the clitoris, get yourself cliterate just in time for Sweetest Day this Saturday, and remember to get clit-sent, I mean, consent!

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Today's episode is all about erogenous zones that we all know, erogenous zones we often overlook, and some fun toys to stimulate different than something more simple like a standard vibrator. Later in the episode we'll talk about how lingerie can be the best stimulant for your largest and most important erogenous zone! Shop Lover's Lane for your favorite toys, oils, lubes and lingerie to spice up your love life...tonight!

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Are you tired of faking it?! I bet you are. But why are we faking? Is it our fault? Our partners? Technique? Skill? The real reason behind it can be a few different things but it mostly boils down to 1) either our bodies don't want to (weird, right?) or 2) lack of sex education. (Not a big shocker there!) Episode 50 is here to help. Shop at Lover's Lane for your favorite intimate products.

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Hooray! Our 1 year anniversary episode! So how do we celebrate? On today's episode we are giving the best alternatives to some of our high end luxury vibes and products maybe for your travel bag or simply to try something (still awesome) but on the cheaper side before you invest in the luxe version! Tell us how you love them by emailing haley@loverslane.com and be sure to shop on Lover's Lane loverslane.com for your new favorite bedroom excitements.

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A lot goes in to a relationship. It's not always amazing connection, great sex, perfect communication skills...though a lot of times it starts off that way. So you know you love them but something is shifting in your dynamic, what now? Therapy. It's not just for big hurdles or someone messing up on their part. Therapy is an excellent (and healthy!) way to learn communication skills that better your relationship before anything further gets carried to a minor problem. Therapy - and couples therapy - should be utilized just like a doctor; of course you go for your check-ups, but when something just isn't right, having that space to fix an issue is an essential part of a great partnership. 

Be sure to shop at Lover's Lane for all your "kiss and make-up" favorite toys, lubes, oils, and lingerie!

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This episode is a part 2 to our very first (and very popular!) episode about the original 5 Love Languages.  This episode explores expanded concepts around the love languages, what to do when you and your partner’s love languages don’t match up, and how to ask for what you want and need! 

This episode refers to the newest book about the love languages, “Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages for Modern Love” by Anne Hodder-Shipp. 

Valentine’s day is right around the corner!  Stock up on all of your intimate gifting needs at loverslane.com.

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While a healthy sex life often gets overlooked as part of a health regime, we also discuss how your sexual health needs to be just as talked about, just as important, and just as educated as everything else. If you are keeping diet and exercise on your high-priority list but your sex life (personal or partnered!) is lack-luster, this episode is for you. Reclaim your sexuality and rediscover your desires. Shop Lover's Lane for your new favorite toys, lubes, lotions, oils, lingerie, and romantic gifts!

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A wall of pills all boasting "largest, proudest, biggest, hardest" I'm sure can seem intimidating...but what's in the fine print? In Episode 18 of The Lover's Lane Podcast we tear apart the ingredient list, research possible side effects, along with listening to real reviews from our friends and customers to help you choose which little pill is going to give you the best OOMPH! Whether you struggle with ED (it's incredibly common) or you just really want to give your partner that 10/10 experience, this episode will help you choose which enhancement best fits your needs.

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Happy I-W-D, International Women's Day! The first step in change is education. And as far as sex education goes...well, there isn't much sex education! So no wonder why studies show men are having more orgasms then women. In honor of IWD, we need to close the orgasm gap! Episode 25 dives in to a few techniques to help coax the gap to close. 

Of course you may need a toy along the way or some great new lubes. Make sure to check out SexDrive for all your bedroom fun.

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What have I learned that's right?! What is wrong?! Don't stress, in Episode 5, Haley addresses both common and not-so-common sex myths and facts. At the end of the episode, Sliquid Organics lubricants are reviewed and discussed!

Questions? Reach out to us @LLpodcast_ on Instagram and Twitter, or give us a like and review us on Facebook - "The Lover's Lane Podcast"!

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Imagine creating a robot based on an orgasmic experience...crazy right? Now imagine creating a whole company based on that experience! Enter Lora DiCarlo, THEE queen bee for encouraging sexual experiences of your own, owning your pleasure, and bringing sexual health and wellness conversations into the norm. We chat about difficulties she has faced in the industry following receiving the CES Innovation Award, Cara Delevingne joining the brand, and of course...blended orgasm!

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In the seventh episode of The Lover's Lane Podcast, we discuss what exactly is outercourse and why you should try it, some fun oral sex tips, and dive in to orgasm discussion! How do I make myself taste sweeter? Does that really work? Haley has the answers here!

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Sometimes connection and the physical act of having sex isn't as simple as "I want it, let's do it!" Sometimes lube/stimulants/foreplay needs to be present. (We believe lube should always be present.) So we reached out to Intimate Earth and had a chat with Rebecca about what is in some of our best-selling lubes and oils to help you all find the best fit for your lifestyle. Every body is different, and not all lubes are the same! Plus listen early for the inside scoop of our cyber Monday deals and how to sign up for special VIP promos.

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Episode 9 acts as a run through of our retail locations and Haley addresses commonly asked questions from some of our top departments. The flustered "um, is that weird?" is a completely normal part of conversation when shopping in an adult store for the first time. Oh, and no, it's not weird.

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Just when you thought you had a perfect bedroom collection of your favorite oils, lubes, and stimulating gels...BOOM! CBD infused products start popping up everywhere on shelves and claim to really be that magic touch! And you know what? They really are fantastic! Especially if you are one of the 75% of women who will experience pain during sex at some point, CBD is absolutely becoming a staple product. 

To shop Lover's Lane's newest lubes click here!

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Happy Massage Month! It's starting to heat up outside so keep the heat between you and your partner in the bedroom, too! And if intimacy or passion has been lackluster lately, you are not alone. In the post-COVID world, needs are not being met due to high stress situations, and most everyone is in the same boat right now. Episode 33 gives some suggestions on how to use massage to reignite what could be lacking. Every relationship has it's peaks and valleys and who would say no to a mutual massage?! Get to rubbin'! 

Check out Lover's Lane's massage selection here!

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Have you ever considered opening your relationship? That could mean a whole list of options: from inviting a third to enjoying a physical and emotional relationship with others - the possibilities really are endless. In Episode 23, we discuss what types of values and limitations there are for open relationships and provide a description of the many different kinds! 

There's something for everyone ;)

You can shop Lover's Lane's selection of toys and lingerie (and other fun bedroom essentials) here!

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Here's the harsh reality of sex toy materials and how dangerous select few of them can be. Always look for a non porous toy; Episode 39 gives you the know of which toys are made from toxic material and which ones are safe for all over the body! 

Shop healthy sex toys and other intimate products at Lover's Lane.

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Join Haley from Lover's Lane discussing Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages and how-to communicate them with your partner. You can take the quiz to find your own love language here!

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In the 40th Intimacy Advisor Episode, we are relearning stimulation! This time with a much more gentle approach and through a back door. So often with penetrative sex, it's much more rough than back door play needs to be! Slow, lubricated, cleanly, with lots of foreplay and communication will make it the very best - listen to the details here! And shop all your favorite anal products at Lover's Lane! 

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We are at double digits of our podcast episodes! To celebrate, we've interviewed Topher Taylor of Nexus (who also works at Clonezone and is the host of his own sex-positive podcast, Sex With Topher!) 

Episode 10 discusses all things anal and prostate from prep to which size toy is right for you. He reminds us that communication, relaxation, and lots of lube is key to making that experience positive and memorable and gives us great suggestions of which toy would work best for your own level of experience.

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Samantha Brown of Wow-Tech is joining us on Episode 14 of The Lover's Lane Podcast and it's been a long time coming! Both We-Vibe and Womanizer are essentials for those who know and love toys and they are often beginner staples to opening up your sex life. Both brands have tricks up their sleeves whether that may be a fun interactive app where you can take your relationship out of the bedroom or Womanizer's innovative air pulsation technology. 

Lover's Lane loves love. (Say that 3 times fast!) See why We-Vibe and Womanizer are still our very best selling toys!

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Now's the season of layering your clothes! But what's this... a sexy surprise for your partner after date night? You betcha! In Episode 49, you'll learn about different styles of lingerie and on what body works the very best for what style as well as some sexy layered outfit ideas on how to sex-up your fit for whatever thee occasion! Be sure to check out our newest, hottest lingerie on loverslane.com and tag @intimacyadvisorpod on Instagram or @ia_pod on Twitter to show off your looks 😍

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Using the right communication to handle dry times in your sexual relationship is part of the process. Sometimes rejection is unfazed by the rejector, sometimes it comes with purpose, but regardless, it can do some major emotional damage on the rejected partner. In Episode 44, we talk about how rejection happens, and some tools on both ends to come back together. And once that connection happens again, check out Lover's Lane for all your romantic gifts and novelties!

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Happy Labor Day 2021! As we enjoy a relaxing day away from work, consider how our personal relationships need care, understanding, excitement, and emotional labor. Then at the end of todays episode, we talk products fit for the job...the blow job that is! Make sure to shop Lover's Lane for all of your favorite bedroom toys, lubes, oils, and lingerie.

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It's time for the talk...about how the sex ed we've learned as young adults doesn't add up to what you grow to learn. No one teaches pleasure, they don't teach how to explore your preferences, and the part I hate the most is they don't teach LGBT+ sex education. We need to change that. Send this episode to a friend and initiate conversation where it is due! Also be sure to shop Lover's Lane for intimate toys and products for the best sex ever!

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One more round of spookiness before Halloween season is done! In Episode 54, we talk how to build a dungeon, how to communicate your eerie needs, and what to do when you know the sex you want isn't the sex you're getting. Be sure to shop loverslane.com to build your BDSM fantasy!

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