Healing Honeys (formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball) (Louise Rumball)

Watching Sweet Bobby or looking to bulletproof your ability to get hurt in today's digital dating era? This week, Louise runs through 5 under discussed reasons that we ignore red flags in love and dating, using Netflix's Sweet Bobby as a case study. Louise unpacks cognitive dissonance, pressure, shame, cultural conditioning, societal pressures, attachment wounds, inner child challenges, the Sunken Costs Fallacy, honesty with ourselves and others and more. Plus, she shares her OWN catfishing story and what it taught her. Louise also dives into why some people catfish and what might have been going on in this situation, too. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you ready to de-shame and radically change your life? While the whole world is talking about the nervous system and nervous system regulation, very few people are talking about the one emotion that will keep your nervous system consistently dysregulated: shame. Today, Louise & her friend Dana Doswell, an expert in shame, de-shaming and trauma meet to discuss:  What actually is shame Implicit shame vs. explicit shame How you don’t have to be bullied to be full of shame or feel ashamed How shame trickles out into your body, mind and psyche and your relationships around you The importance of shame detoxing The connection to the nervous system De-shaming and somatic shame healing  And more! The pair also discuss their own experiences with shame - from being a wild gal at university to body count, STIs, body image and more. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Toxic relationships aren’t bad ALL of the time - and that’s part of the problem. Today, Louise & clinical psychologist Dr. Tari Mack talk about how often toxic and abusive relationships can get labeled as ‘passionate’ or ‘rollercoaster’ and can have us walking on eggshells or begging for forgiveness while we wait for the good moments to return. The pair discuss: How most relationships don’t start out as toxic or abusive and, instead, toxicity develops over time when the cracks start to appear. How a toxic person, or someone with toxic traits, may actually be grooming you early on to not have boundaries and to be the powerless party. Why a toxic person will make YOU responsible for their actions or feelings. The most common and frequent signs of toxic and abusive relationships that often get overlooked or brushed under the rug. How your first moments of conflict will show you a lot about the other person. How important it is to set boundaries early in a relationship and understand how the other responds to those boundaries. How a lack of respect from another can lead to self-doubt and lowered self-trust within yourself. The pair also discuss how important it is to NOT accept disrespect in relationships while trying to make space for ‘understanding’ the other person’s wounds and why they act that way. Dr. Tari Mack also helps to explain why we make excuses for other people’s behavior and how, instead, we can talk through how situations make us feel, rather than accusing or losing our sh*t. The pair also discusses how crucial it is to NOT accept disrespect in relationships while attempting to create room for 'understanding' the other person’s wounds and the reasons behind their actions. Dr. Tari Mack also explains why we tend to make excuses for other people’s behavior and suggests that instead, we focus on discussing how situations make us feel, rather than resorting to accusations or losing our composure. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you constantly saying "yes" when you really mean "no"? Do you show up to plans when you’re exhausted and you’d rather go to bed? Ever find yourself agreeing to tasks you secretly dread? Or going on dates with people you don’t want to because you don’t want to ‘hurt their feelings’? Whether or not you identify yourself as a ‘people pleaser’. it's time to decode the art of saying "no" and reclaiming your energy so you can learn to love all of your layers and celebrate yourself and your truth this year In this week’s episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, sponsored by Sol de Janeiro, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy dive into: What people-pleasing is  How it forms Why we’re scared to say no (or maybe why you hate conflict) The healing hack in asking yourself ‘what is the fear behind this feeling’? How this is often a coping mechanism to childhood Identifying whether you are people-pleasing for those who wouldn't do the same for you Where to start with breaking the cycle of people pleasing  The concept of ‘baby boundaries’ How to communicate your new boundaries to those around you - and so much more.  On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter. Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin. Shop the product here: ⭐ HERE ⭐ ----- ⭐ Want more bonus episodes, Home Truths, Voice Notes from Lu and access to our community area The House? Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM for all of this + exclusive access to our 'Ask A Therapist' room with guaranteed therapist responses. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! Join OPENHOUSE Premium here: https://openhouse.supercast.com/ ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel a silent but relentless drive to prove yourself—to prove that you can do it, that you're enough, that you're capable, that you can get where you want to go? Do you sometimes wonder if others have it “easier” or wish that things were simpler or easier for you? This week, I dive into all things “Underdog Mindset” because it’s something I know all too well. Born out of my own sibling rivalry with my brother, I’ve lived this & it still pervades every aspect of my life today - driving my insane ambition, overworking and drive for success. I dive into this, Tom Brady’s journey from underdog to champion, and how this trait can be a blessing and a curse (did someone say alienated, isolated, and angry?). If you can relate, you’re not alone and I’ve got you. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 👑BUY THE CONFIDENCE QUEEN CHALLENGE 👑HERE 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 167 Breakdowns lead to breakthroughs SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 153 - Inner child healing SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 141 - Breaking cycles and intergenerational trauma SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 122 - Shadow work, manifestation, money and financial trauma SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well, this story is kinda crazy. And what's even crazier? Sometimes we keep bad behavior hidden, secret, and behind closed doors, and it's only when we start to talk about it that we can finally admit that IT WAS NOT OKAY.  This week, Louise shares a wild story about her ex and *THAT* thing he did in Marbella. She explores why we accept bad behavior, why we justify it as love, and how, once we start healing, we start to see it for what it truly is—unacceptable. Louise chats through the crazy story and its connection to: Our childhood. Our nervous system. Familial patterns (and how these don't always make sense). Low self-esteem, self-respect, and self-worth. And so much more! Join us in this deeply personal and vulnerable episode as Louise recounts heart-wrenching incidents from probably the most toxic relationship of her life, how it opened the doors to her healing journey, and what light at the end of the tunnel of a “passionate” (read: abusive) relationship looks like in the form of five hard-hitting lessons she learned in therapy. 🆘 Trigger Warning: This episode contains references to relationship abuse. 🆘 ⭐The entire catalog of BONUS PODCAST EPISODES will be added to the Daily Devotion Portal later this week⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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LOVE Alix Earle. Did you know she is avoidantly attached! Today, Louise sits down with clinical psychologist and celebrity relationship expert Dr. Tari Mack to dissect all things Alix Earle & Braxton Berrios. The pair discuss recent soundbites from Alix Earle discussing her romantic life and use these to get inside the mind of the Avoidantly Attached so we can better understand those who relate to Aix. Louise & Dr. Tari discuss: The roots of avoidant attachment to childhood  How unconscious attraction keeps us replicating our past patterns How her Father’s infidelity shaped her and developed a ‘trust wound’ The impact of family communication styles on adult attachment ‘Independence vs. Hyper Independence’ and how an emphasis on independence can lead to distancing behaviors Viewing relationships as ‘hard work’ requiring ‘lots of time, attention and investment’ The pair also discuss ‘The Trust Wound’ and the impact of its ability to trust others around us, particularly in dating. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

⭐ Redeem your FREE 30 day breathwork, meditation and movement flow trial to OPEN ⭐ Every moment in life is a micro moment that might change the direction of your future. Are you filling these micro moments with targeted, clear, steady steps and commitments to self, growth, connection play, joy and ambition, or are you running, running, running trying to keep up? Today, Louise jumps into the studio at Spotify LA with the CEO of OPEN, Raed Khawaja to discuss how we can better use these micro moments to our advantage to transform our lives. They also talk you through how OPEN are pioneering a space in the market as a mindfulness studio for everyone. A place to come to your senses with meditation, music, breathwork and movement awaken your body and mind. The pair dive into:  Leaning into the slow shift of transforming into who you always wanted to be Why one cold email can change the direction of your life The impact of playfulness - ‘it’s supposed to be fun’ The power of ‘modest meaning’ - how does meaning show up in your life? The importance of being deeply curious and deeply authentic How we all have to have our own brand of ‘cool’ Living with a sense of evolution (doing vs. being) and How business and wellness / happiness don’t need to be exclusive The pair also talk about the recent Anxious Attachment Bootcamp and the Nervous System Regulation Reset that OPEN and OPENHOUSE recently collaborated on. You can access the Nervous System Reset here ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The oversharing hangover is real AF. Ever feel like you’ve said way too much and been left with that “Whyyyy did I just say that?” or "WTF is wrong with me?" shame spiral? Same, honey. In this episode of Healing Honeys, I’m diving into oversharing—why we do it, how it’s tied to our nervous system (hello, fight, flight, fawn!) and neurodivergency too. From hilarious college stories (yes, I REALLY said that on the back of a wedding bus) to unpacking the emotional drivers behind oversharing, I’m serving up a mix of my life to help you understand yours, so you can move on from “why did I say that?” to feeling more empowered about what you choose to share—and with whom. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 148 - Healing Shame After Our Wild College Years ft. Dana Doswell SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 162 - Entering your villain era: How to stop being a people pleaser ft. Kali Somatics SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 143 - Healing people pleasing (+ baby boundaries) SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Healing girlies already know they need to heal their inner child - but where do you start? Today, Louise sits down with psychotherapist Tasha Bailey to get into this & more. Louise & Tasha discuss: What inner child healing *actually is*  How our childhood shapes our adulthood The concept of age regressions (including you anger, we see you!) The connection between the inner child, the inner critic, the shadow, and how you feel about yourself  Big bad boundaries (and the importance of them when healing a wounded inner child)  How important play is for children and adults alike ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s been a hot minute…. Because I disappeared. And things have been dark AF. Today, I’m opening up about why I disappeared, took an unexpected hiatus from the pod for the first time in 2.5 years and I share about the intense, emotional journey I’ve been on. We’ll rewind to when I was in the best shape of my life—mentally, physically, and spiritually—and how everything took a sudden turn, leading me into adrenal fatigue, burnout, loneliness, and a deep freeze state of depression in my nervous system.  I also chat my best friend being on Love Is Blind, my travel plans and more. ⭐ [REDEEM YOUR FREE TRIAL] The SOMATIC GLOW UP with Louise Rumball ⭐https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/daily-devotion With our Daily Devotion monthly membership, complete just one somatic healing practice a day to revolutionize your relationship with yourself and others. Join Daily Devotion today! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy new year to the loves of my LIVES (YOU GUYS!!!!). This fun, solo episode is EVERYTHING I wish I had learned sooner and everything that I learned the hard way in 2023 or through the OPENHOUSE therapists & their mic-drop moments. Today, I’m sharing them with you and whenever you’re streaming this episode, it’s full of things that would have saved me so much time, stress, chaos, grief and heartache if I had learned them a little bit sooner! I jump into: Why our nervous system drives EVERYTHING (including repeated partner choice) Why just because it feels good doesn't mean that it's going to be good Why your inner child isn't able to see right from wrong (& why your adult has to learn to take the reigns) The power of shadow work and asking - what triggers me the most? The magnet theory - how we pull towards or push against the exact types of experiences we have gone through previously Why Love bombing doesn’t feel like love bombing if it’s the type of love we are desperate for Why Red flags don't feel like red flags if they feel like home  Cheating, infidelity & the connection to the inadequacy wound that is never spoken about and How we can find can find a world in our wound (and we need to step outside of it)  You cannot make an avoidantly attached partner love you more by loving them more   Join me on this fun, fresh episode so you can learn everything to have an INCREDIBLE 2024. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m so excited! Welcome to your first-ever Expansion Event, normally exclusive to my monthly healing portal, Daily Devotion. Today, as a heartfelt thank-you for your support on the podcast, I’m bringing this transformative practice to Healing Honeys. Whether you’re lying down, sitting up, or on the move, this Expansion Event is your portal to unlock the limitless potential waiting just beneath the surface of your subconscious mind. This isn’t just another practice—it’s a gateway from your conscious mind to your subconscious mind and to the future version of you who already exists: thriving, magnetic, radiant, happy, and golden—you just haven’t fully connected with her yet. These events are designed to take you out of your head and into your body, shifting your energy, accelerating your growth, and guiding you toward the emotional frequency that supports the life you deeply, truly long for and desire. 👉🏽 For more practices: 7 Day Free Trial to my Somatic Healing Portal, Daily Devotion: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/daily-devotion✨ WHO AM I? I’m Louise Rumball, holistic wellness coach, integrative health practitioner and healing girlie who has spent thousands of dollars on therapy and healing. With new episodes of Healing Honeys every Wednesday, expect therapy, girl talk, love, sex, and dating, plus wellness, nervous system work, and even a sprinkle of business and spirituality too. The real glow up starts from within, so if you’re ready, then I’m too! RESOURCES ▶︎ Find us on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0kO8hrFFWPNHWUEMFrbr5P?si=ba42d05e81034a43 ▶︎ Find us on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/openhouse-with-louise-rumball-and-leading-therapists/id1530817653 ▶︎ Ad free listening + Premium Podcast feed (+ bonus episodes): https://openhouse.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

⭐ Free 7 day trial: HEALING PILATES THAT BURNS WITHOUT DYSREGULATING YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM: https://daily-devotion.vhx.tv/ ⭐ Working out all the time and feeling great in the moment? HIIT, spinning classes, bootcamp workouts, you name it. And yet not seeing any REAL changes? Feeling like your body isn’t shedding the weight you want? Today we’re chatting about how exercise might be the thing that is actually contributing to your dysregulated nervous system, hormonal imbalances and unexplained health issues. This week, former exercise and spin addicts Louise and Sarah Murphy (our resident Integrative Health Practitioner and Biology of Trauma Expert) sit down to discuss: Why we need to re-think intense exercise (even if we’re trying to lose weight).  Why cortisol isn't always the villain, we think it is. What inflammation actually is (and how it leads to hormonal chaos). How your workout routine might be messing with your nervous system (and your hormones, blood sugar regulation and insulin resistance too!) The sneaky ways undischarged stress causes "unexplained" health issues. What the f**k somatic healing actually is. The game-changing workout routine that transformed Louise’s life. And more! Join us on this journey as Louise shares her story—from being a spin addict who couldn't imagine life without intense exercising to realizing the harm it was causing. Learn how turning inwards, gently and gracefully, with the help of somatic healing practices can help you give your body what it ACTUALLY needs. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have big emotions or nearly none at all? Do you feel blocked off from others even when you want to connect? Ever wondered why intimacy seems to be so easy for everyone else? If yes, this episode is for you. This one is for the people who had ‘good parents’ and a ‘good childhood’ and objectively ‘not much to complain about’ but still don’t seem to have found the answers, solutions or connections in intimacy that they were hoping for. Today, Louise is joined by Dr. Jonice Webb, leading clinical psychologist in the space of childhood emotional neglect to discuss how a parent’s failure to notice, acknowledge or respond to your emotions and emotional needs can deeply shape the adult that shows up in the dating and friendship world today. The pair discuss how:  Our brain registers what ‘happened’ more than what didn’t happen (& how our childhood can impact our ventral striatum) Having our feelings invalidated (being told they are wrong or excessive) or that emotions are a burden is very damaging for children The concept of ‘walling off’ our feelings (so they happen outside of our awareness) + how this shows up in adulthood The concepts of emotional numbness, emotional suppression and emotional disconnection  How these experiences can impact our self-worth, self-esteem and relational health A lack of emotional attunement and validation in childhood can lead to a lack of self care in adulthood The pair also discuss a journey towards warmth, connection and recovery. They talk about HOW to break down emotional walls and allow oneself to feel, facing neglected emotions, finding meaning and purpose. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The character arc from daddy issues to hyper independent “I don’t need you, I’ve got everything under control myself” and even “omg, have I become my father or am I dating someone like my father!?” is more common than you might think. Today, join Louise as she dives into a hotline episode - answering a user submission discussing how to start healing this wound. She jumps into the signs of an emotionally healthy father, how many of us didn’t get this in our childhood, how this can impact us in adulthood, the epic ski slope analogy and how to move forward when it feels like you (and your inner child) are gonna be hyper independent AF forever. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 77 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 1 - Exploring the Father Wound & the ‘Emotionally Unavailable’ Father SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 82 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 2 - Female Hyper-Independence & Overachieving SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 86 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 3 - Fantasy Bonding, Sex & the Alpha Male SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get ready to call in a girlfriend/boyfriend! Heavily requested, finally delivered! Join Louise on this fun solo episode as she takes you on an 8 stage journey to finding your next partner, including: How she found her man How to move forward by looking back Understanding your Unconscious Attraction & Communication Cycles The power of a Previous Partner Audit & Previous Power Dynamics Reflect on your Parental Patterns Identifying Attachment Hunger  Understanding Falling In Love With Potential (so you don’t!) Get clear on your dating app / offline dating strategy (& intention!) Stop wasting your time on dating apps Stop filtering potential with excessive requirements The importance of Dating Standards & Communication  Moving forward with commitment & celebration! Louise also shares her own answers to these questions - including sharing her own Previous Partner Audit too. Welcome to what feels like a podcast with your fun, caring, loving but straight-talking friend. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Situationships can be crazy, soul crushing, exhilarating journeys. Who can relate? One moment you’re on top of the world, the next you’re desperately waiting for them to text you back feeling like the world is going to end. You’re not alone if you’ve been left wondering how so much damage could be caused by such a short-lived experience. Today, in a highly requested solo episode, Louise dives deep into the REAL WHY behind how and why these situationships can f**k you up.  Louise gets into the juicy details of: How situationships can be tied to early life experiences, brain structure, nervous system, and neurotransmitter function (yes really). The rollercoaster of emotions that come with a situationship  How the concepts of hope & silence can drive our inner child crazy (and how inconsistency of the highs and lows can exacerbate this cycle) The biochemistry of obsession The concept of fantasy bonding & maladaptive daydreaming (and how it is actually a coping mechanism) How imbalanced neurotransmitters can leave you craving situationships And more. Louise has been there. You’re not alone. You’re not going crazy and when you listen to this episode you will understand WHAT is going on a biochemical level and HOW this person has such a grip over you. Welcome to clarity, peace and healing! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I can’t believe I get to gift you a free WHOOP 4.0! Head here to redeem it: https://join.whoop.com/healinghoneys What makes someone truly charismatic? In this episode of Healing Honeys, I break down what charisma and energy really are. I dive into: The science behind charisma—and why it’s really an energetic experience Fascinating research from Princeton on the two key drivers of charisma (and why balance is everything) The role of your biofield, heart coherence, and emotional frequency in building magnetic energy How sleep, nervous system regulation, and self-worth shape the way others perceive you Practical charisma hacks—body language, making others feel valued, and confidence without perfection and more! I love this episode, and I hope you do too! 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 174: The Psychology of Staying Silent SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 163: Change Your Life: If you don’t jump, you’ll never fly baby SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 162: Stop Being a People Pleaser ft. Kallie Klug SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Confidence Queen Challenge: HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE → Golden Girl Game Plan: HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to meet your sacred slut, she’s been WAITING for you.  Ashamed of your past and consciously or subconsciously living a life where you keep things secret, hidden or denied? Hate the question ‘what’s your body count’? And don’t know how to handle the answer. Harboring any type of shame, regret, or guilt? In this sensitive and vulnerable episode, join Christina Zayas as she courageously opens up about her journey of overcoming childhood sexual trauma and transitioning through adult sex working and escorting to reclaim her love, truth and every part of herself and her sacred sensuality that she once denied. Together, Louise & Christina explore: How society teaches us to suppress our truth, sexuality, and shadows, leading to a cycle of avoidance and denial. How denying ourselves mirrors the partners we attract, leading to recurring patterns in our lives. The transformative power of shadow work (and sobriety) in confronting and integrating our darkest aspects, paving the way for stepping into the light. Rediscovering autonomy over one's sexuality and rights to pleasure; As well as taking charge of self-care, self-love, and self-worship and how a sacred pleasure practice plays a huge part in this. Christina candidly shares her own personal experience of reclaiming power, control and compassionate agency in her sexuality and offers actionable steps to initiate a practice of self-care and self-love and even self-worship. This episode invites you to look back at your past with love and gratitude, rather than with shame, regret or anger.  Trigger Warning: this episode discusses sexual abuse and substance abuse. Listener discretion is advised. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Honey, I’m home! In this episode, I'm catching you up on all my life updates – where I’ve been, why the podcast has been so MIA, and what’s been happening behind the scenes (+ when you can expect us back on a regular schedule!). From 5 weeks living out of a suitcase, major life location decisions, contraction, expansion, questioning if this is my ‘flop era,’ and podcast changes too, I’ve got so much to share. Plus, I dive into my first-ever confidence crisis that caught me off guard and led to the overwhelming pressure I felt to get filler and Botox. This eventually sparked the birth of my newest FREE challenge to help us all navigate through these confidence crises. So, grab your headphones, get outside on your hot girl walk, and get comfy for this chat – I’ve missed you! ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 14 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The perpetual bachelor. We’ve all known one. Probably all dated one too. Probably been heart broken by one as well. You know what we’re talking about: the hyper-charismatic, sells you a dream, gets you excited for the future then never pulls through kinda guy or gal. Maybe everything is perfect at the beginning but as time goes on you see they don’t turn up to plans on time, they don’t lead and they end up being well… just disappointing. Constantly scrolling on their phone, not making plans, always on the sofa, always drunk or always hungover. Today, join Louise and Stephanie Therapy as they jump into uncovering all things Peter Pan Syndrome and how some men might grow up, but might never really want to accept responsibility for their life.  The pair jump into? The concept of commitment  The deep seated fears and insecurities that often drive men away from being ‘the one’ for you How societal expectations and gender norms further contribute to the reluctance of some men to embrace long-term relationships The concept of Peter Pan Syndrome How to work out if you are being his ‘Wendy’? And how to work out if it’s the avoidant attachment style or Peter Pan Syndrome. Louise and Stephanie Therapy share actionable tips and strategies for understanding and navigating relationships with commitment-phobic men and also help you understand why YOU might be interested and engaging in these types of relationships. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to *THE* episode we all need this Holiday Season - a step-by-step therapy guide on how to navigate and survive the holiday season when we go home and get reunited with the family. This week, just in time for the holidays, Louise is joined by psychotherapist and attachment expert, Stephanie Therapy, and the pair discuss WHY the holidays can be so damn triggering (and how you can do this holiday season differently). Louise & Stephanie jump into:  How to process the strain of the holiday season on our nervous system (particularly crowded, over stimulating spaces and a lack of escape)  How to address holiday triggers and navigate them (particularly those uncomfortable questions and conversations) Exploring unresolved family issues (and why they resurface over the holidays) Delving into the impact of ‘labels’ within the family unit and how to handle these when we are no longer the person our family thinks we are How to better understand the ‘stressed-out overworked Mother’ and the ‘absent father’ or the ‘drunk sibling’ How to manage suppressing emotions and instead calmly balance our emotional regulation to avoid conflict Coping with changing family dynamics - how to adapt to new individuals joining the family unit Coping with missing loved ones during the holiday (and how to handle loss and grief) Louise & Stephanie also discuss practical coping and active strategies on how to set limits on sensitive topics, establishing boundaries with family members and how to navigate triggering or uncomfortable conversations during the holidays. They discuss safe spaces, setting limits, evening self-care, routine, balance and more.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

WTF does breaking cycles actually mean? Today, we tell you. Are you the chosen one who is breaking your family’s cycle by ‘doing the work’ Are you ready to shed intergenerational trauma, break your ‘destined patterning’ and step into a legacy of abundance and peace instead? Do you feel like the ‘black sheep’ in your family who is out there doing the work alone? Or maybe you’re clear on your cycles but you need more help on this journey because things can get hard and heavy. If yes, this episode is for you. This week, join Louise Rumball & Dr. Mariel Buqué, PhD, a Columbia University–trained trauma-informed psychologist and practitioner of holistic healing as today they discuss all things intergenerational trauma and CYCLE breaking.  The pair dive into:  What intergenerational trauma *actually* is How trauma can be transferred across generations through biology and psychology The power our environment has on our gene expression and how we are not *destined* to live with our genes The importance of ‘grounding’ and ‘identifying and excavating’ past wounds before being able to move forward The importance of finding the right practitioner to avoid re-traumatization The pair also discuss some of the most common generational cycles that Dr. Mariel sees in practice - ranging from patriarchal structures, family communication styles, socioeconomic backgrounds to ‘depression running in the family’, autoimmune disorders substance abuse and more as well as: The starting points for breaking generational cycles How you can cycle break without 1-1 therapy; and Dr. Mariel’s new book that can help you do exactly that.  ⭐ Want weekly bonus episodes, access to our community room ‘The House’ + access to our ‘Ask A Therapist’ room? Join OPENHOUSE Premium. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for a real talk about relationships? Today, we're getting down to the nitty-gritty as we explore the 9 not-so-obvious signs of toxic relationships. We get it, the word 'toxic' might bring up images of major drama, but in reality, it's not always that in-your-face. Think of this as a low-key guide to spotting the not-so-cool stuff that might be lurking beneath the surface of your relationships. No frills, no drama, just a straight-up chat between Louise & Dr. Tari Mack about the subtle signs that things might be a bit off-kilter. The pair talk you through:  The reality of gaslighting (so many people get this wrong) One party always being the decision maker The importance of having a voice in a relationship (and how easy it is to lose yours) Believing you can't leave because the partner is dependent on you Double standards in a relationship Isolation from friends and family by the partner in any format Unhealthy boundaries, including surveillance and lack of trust ANY sort of criticism, belittling or manipulation And a lot more.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From billboards, wild nights, hangovers, blackmail and bankruptcy through to fitness, businesses and helping to heal the world just by being him, today, Louise is joined by great friend Calum Best as they dig into the truth about the well-mannered, well-moraled and well-tempered ‘man behind the screen’. The pair discuss:  Letting people see the ‘real you’ (and how everything changes when you step into this space) The rock bottom moments when you realize ‘somethings gotta change’ Thriving in the struggle vs. finding solace in peace, calm & quiet  How our coping mechanisms change and shift as we grow older (and wiser!) The importance of having purpose intricately weaved into life, and a career Calum’s deep-rooted fears from past abandonment, particularly linked to being the child of an alcoholic - and how he has been deeply shaped by both of his parents The pair also discuss whether Calum might be ready to find ‘the one’ and they query whether he is using being ‘too busy’, ‘building businesses’ and ‘wanting to be able to provide’ as a blockage for intimacy. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever felt like ‘If I just looked prettier, life would be easier?’ Or maybe everyone else has better hair, better teeth, and a better body? And why can’t I have that too? Today, Louise & psychotherapist Stephanie Therapy, in partnership with Sol de Janeiro, discuss the pressure we all feel to ‘glow up’ and how this pressure and desire are often rooted in something much deeper: the wound of not feeling ‘enough’. The pair discuss: The story behind Sol de Janeiro & the celebration of the Brazilian Culture Body image and the pressure to look a certain way (+ the pressure to conform) The filler revolution  The connection to childhood and the wound of ‘not enough’ and ‘validation’ The fine line between making personal changes that make you feel good versus changing for external validation The challenges of projecting the best version of oneself in the dating world What self-care really means The healing power of true connection in relationships, beyond superficial appearances An Inner Child Exercise and The power of rituals to start to connect with your body. On a journey to help you love all of your Layers, this episode is recorded in partnership with Sol de Janeiro to support the launch of their new Delícia Drench Body Butter. Get your hands on this whipped, ultra-rich body butter that supports the skin's barrier and penetrates deep below the surface to lock in moisture and relieve extra dry skin. Shop the Delícia Drench Body Butter & Cheirsoa 59 new products here: ⭐ HERE ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Celibacy gets a bad rap, are we right? This week, Louise jumps into the Bumble controversy to reverse ANY sort of shame you might be feeling about your own dating and celibacy decisions after that tone deaf ad. Because, you know what, sometimes a man ban is actually the PERFECT answer. And us women? We’ve had enough of being told what to do for as long as we can remember. And if you don’t wanna date, hook up, sleep with anyone? You do you honey boo! Don’t let a billboard shame you. After a hot take intro where you get Louise all to yourself, Louise revives a past episode with Jordan Jeppe, shadow work guide and celibacy expert. Join Louise & Jordan for a real-talk girl episode as they: Share their personal journeys with celibacy- one intentional, the other with a side of naughtiness.  Debunk common misconceptions about celibacy (yes, you can still date!). Explore how our shadow influences dating patterns. Discuss the game-changing impact of setting boundaries and intentions in the dating stage. Give us all the juicy details on navigating celibacy even while dating. Unpack the concept of a 'sexual pause'.  The pair’s raw, honest conversation will demystify the assumptions around celibacy and help you see it as a path to self-discovery, empowerment, and the best sex of your life! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, join Louise & her favorite neuroscientist Em On The Brain to discuss the subconscious mind and how it is the ultimate hack to accelerating your healing journey. The pair get into:  The difference between the conscious, subconscious and unconscious mind How the subconscious mind isn’t what you think it is The importance of different brainwave states in rewiring our habits Louise’s recent experience with coffee, coffee and more coffee Practical strategies for brain rewiring Which one Emily recommends out of meditation, visualization, theta brainwave induction, binaural beats and more. The importance of dopamine in building a new future ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎟️ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ 🎟️ Sometimes fun AF, warm, loving and memorable—but often triggering, exhausting, lonely, and painful. Navigating the holiday season isn’t always fun-fun for everyone. In this HOTLINE Episode, Louise dives into two wildly relatable listener submissions: tackling triggering family dynamics, the loneliness of outgrowing old friendships, and finding ways to stay calm, cool, and balanced amidst the family chaos of going home for the holidays. This episode is packed with personal stories, practical strategies, and an important reminder: it’s not your job to change your family—especially when they don’t want to change. No matter how tough the holidays feel, it’s okay if it’s not the “best holiday ever.” Whether you’re spending the season with family, friends, or solo, this is your reminder that it’s just a season—and you’ve got this. 🌟 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 135 - How to survive the holiday season ft. Stephanie Therapy SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 141 - How to break your family’s cycles ft. Dr. Mariel Buqué SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 162 - Entering your villain era: How to stop being a people pleaser ft. Kali Somatics SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 143 - Healing people pleasing (+ baby boundaries) SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is for when you're obsessed. We're talking like really, really obsessed. You know, thinking about them 24x7, imagining you see them everywhere you go - hoping for a chance encounter? Basically, mad fantasy bonding. And this episode? It's to help you understand that you're not alone and you’re not going crazy- you're actually probably experiencing something called limerence.  Limerence is an intense, all-consuming longing for someone, even if they don't feel the same way or you barely know them. And guess what? It's deeply biological. That's the part no one talks about.Today, in one of our most requested episodes, Louise chats with Biology of Trauma and Nervous System Expert Sarah Murphy as the pair gets into: The cocktail of hormones fueling our obsessive thoughts and tendencies. What’s happening in our bodies when we fantasize about that special someone. Why we feel lovesick and chase chemistry? The link between low self esteem and fantasy bonding. The root cause of a dysregulated nervous system.  Why life feels boring without a chaotic relationship. Louise’s daily routine for a regulated nervous system.  The magic of somatic healing practices. They also tell you HOW to navigate and alleviate this state and how to help your biology from obsessing over that one person you just can't stop thinking about.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone’s talking about hormones, am I right? You know when you think you're living your best life, and then one day everything comes crashing down so hard that you have to stop and really reflect on what brought you here? That’s exactly what happened to neuro-nutritionist, Kacy Shea - and initially she had no idea it was connected to her hormones.  In this incredibly poignant episode, Kacy gets up, close and personal with Louise about how her seemingly perfect life was disrupted when she got sicker than she ever thought possible, forcing her to embark on a deep healing journey through imbalanced hormones and burnout. As a neuro-nutritionist, she knew what to do next. Having turned her life around, Kacy sits down with Louise to discuss: The dopamine-centric lifestyle we find ourselves in. The subtle nudges your body gives to signal issues. The power of hormone testing and blood chemistry. The jaw-dropping test reports that changed Kacy’s life. The epidemic of emotional suppression. The psychosomatic approach to healing. Dietary and nutritional facts that everyone should know. And the power of small, sustainable changes. Inspirational and insightful, this episode will take you on an uplifting journey that’s going to CHANGE your life and help you get to your THRIVING state - all while learning about hormones - something that everyone talks about but very few people discuss the specifics of! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sick of ‘everyone turning out the same’? Could your whole dating life be explained by schema chemistry, schema traps and schema jigsaws? Welcome to schema chemistry school - the reason that you might have been attracting the same partner on repeat over the duration of your lifetime (and why those relationships always turn out the same!) This week Louise is joined by clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Laura Williams as they dive into:  Schema therapy  What schema chemistry is (and why Louise is obsessed with it)  The concepts of surrendering, avoiding and counter attacking against schemas we develop in childhood The abandonment schema (and why it’s so prevalent in adult dating)  The schemas of mistrust/abuse, self-sacrifice, and defectiveness/shame, and how they manifest in relationships. Perfectionism How schema chemistry can lead to unrealistic fantasy bonding Advice for breaking cycles; and more. The pair also discuss how schema chemistry can relate to your relationship with yourself, not just others.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel like a different person for half the month? Are you being told ‘it’s just PMS’ when it feels like SO much more? If you’ve ever felt like your emotions, thoughts, and mental health are completely hijacked every single month—and no one seems to understand—you’re not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Sophie Milner to talk about PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), a condition that affects 1 in 20 women but is wildly underdiagnosed and misunderstood. We get into: 🔬 What PMDD actually is (and why it’s NOT ‘just bad PMS’). 🧠 The emotional & mental toll of feeling like a different person every cycle. 💊 Hormones, medication & treatment options (and why many doctors dismiss women’s pain). ⚡ How to start advocating for yourself & getting the right help. 💊 Sophie’s top tips and supplements; and 💡 Somatic healing & nervous system regulation to support PMDD symptoms. Sophie shares her personal experience with PMDD, the rollercoaster of misdiagnosis, and its impact on her relationships, career, and self-worth. If you’ve ever felt dismissed or gaslit about your hormonal symptoms, this episode is your permission slip to take them seriously. Product Recommendations:  Chase Tree Supreme Raena Progesterone Cream - https://raena.com/product/progesterone-cream-50mg/ Microdosing Magic Mushrooms - Schedule 35 or MicroFlow by Christy Nault Spacegoods Coffee - Rainbow Dust (Chaga, Cordyceps Lion's Mane, Rhodiola) and Astro Dust (Reishi, Tremella, Maitake) - use code HEALINGHONEYS20 for 20% off -  NEED MORE HELP? My go to practitioner to help building a personalised protocol for PMDD is Sarah Murphy, from the Potent Plant. DM her here (@thepotentplant) and mention that you came from Healing Honeys and Louise Rumball for a discount on your plan. 🤍 FOLLOW SOPHIE MILNER 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/itssophiemilner/ https://sophiemilner.co.uk/ Find out more about Sarah Murphy here: https://www.instagram.com/thepotentplant/  🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 161: How to heal acne naturally ft. Kacy Shea SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wanted a therapist’s insight on WTF was going on with Tell Me Lies (the show we are all OBSESSED with on Hulu)?! Today, we bring you exactly that. Relationship expert Louise teams up with Psychotherapist and Attachment Expert Stephanie Therapy for an in-depth dive into Tell Me Lies from a psychological perspective. They cover covert narcissism, Stephen DeMarco, the different types of narcissists, how they operate, manipulation, hidden agendas, fear, how they draw in empathetic people, the Lucy and Diana saga, what’s going on with each of them individually, why people stay silent, the concept of "supply," and the red flags to spot when dating or avoiding covert narcissists in relationships. This episode is juicy, it is deep and it is important to make sure you avoid Stephen DeMarco in your day to day life. Enjoy!  🤍 FOLLOW STEPHANIE THERAPY 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/stephanietherapy/  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 14 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I know it’s been a hot minute, but honey, I’m BACK! Welcome back to Series 3 of the podcast! New name, new artwork, new segments and more! In today’s episode, I re-introduce myself to anyone who is new around here and I tell you what to expect from the season ahead. I also share the 10 things that have been the most transformative learnings from $10,000 of therapy and the things that have *really* helped me unf*ck my life. Join me as we dive into sobriety, daddy issues, chronic pain, emotionally unavailable men, infidelity, toxic relationships, closing down successful businesses, the never slowing down rollercoaster of a life and emotional suppression – nothing is off-limits in this episode. Get ready for an hour packed with real AF honest stories, life-changing lessons, and so much heart. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 →How to Heal the Father Wound →How to Heal Your Anxious Attachment Style →How to Stop Attracting Toxic Relationships  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7-day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Everyone was talking about Sabrina and Steven, and today, I sit down with Steven, one of my closest friends and the star of Love Is Blind UK. We dive into what it’s really like to have your love life—and heartbreak—put on blast for the world to dissect. Steven opens up about the brutal realities of reality TV, the emotional toll of internet trolls, and the raw truth that men, too, can be left feeling shattered after breakups. He discusses his shock at the reunion, the pain of re-watching himself fall in love on TV, and why he stayed silent while others created their own versions of the story. He shares how he uses daily tools to stay calm, grounded, and mostly anxiety-free—and how he’s evolving, just like everyone else. 🤍 FOLLOW STEVEN 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/stvnsmthy/?hl=en  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 14 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you cringe at the thought of telling your nail technician you hate your nails, or does sending your food back in a restaurant make you break into a cold sweat? Do you speak up when someone does something that makes you feel anything less than amazing, or do you find yourself thinking, “It doesn’t matter” or “I shouldn’t make a fuss”? In today’s episode, Louise explores the psychology and nervous system foundations behind why some of us stay quiet instead of speaking up. She also discusses the dangers of suppressing our voice and not expressing our truth and why your voice and experiences are one of the most powerful things about you.  🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 163 - If you don't jump, you’ll never fly HERE  → Episode 162 - Entering Your Villain Era: How to Stop Being a People Pleaser HERE → Episode 143 - Healing People Pleasing (+ Baby Boundaries) HERE ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I spent my birthday bawling my eyes out on Facetime to my Mum. Welcome to my first-ever “Confession Session,” where I’m sharing why my birthday was a complete disaster — from feeling unseen and unsupported by my normally very loving boyfriend to navigating the loneliness of being 12,000km from home. I dive into the classic "it's my birthday, I can cry if I want to" vibes, exploring the psychology and biology behind why birthdays can trigger unexpected waves of emotion, pressure, expectation, and reflection, alongside inner child wounds and feelings of isolation too. If you’ve ever had a birthday that didn’t live up to the Instagram highlight reel, you’re not alone and I share my top 6 ways to make your birthday better, even if you aren’t looking forward to it. 💛 THE TRIPPY PLAYLIST: linked here: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3dw5Ta4q9aqdgN3T3dcaqi?si=f784ff0ee5004898 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎟️ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ 🎟️ “I would find myself googling - when do I know if I should leave my marriage?” The end of any relationship is incredibly difficult to navigate, especially when you’ve spent years building a life with someone. Today, we’re joined by the shining light, Sasha Pallari, who shares her deeply personal journey of navigating the breakdown of her 10-year relationship—just eight months into her marriage. Sasha opens up about the pivotal moment she realized, “This might not be it” and what she was longing for instead. We also discuss new love, new attachment, and experiencing things you never thought possible.  🤍 FOLLOW SASHA PALLARI: 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/sashapallari/?hl=en  https://www.instagram.com/spill__podcast/?hl=en  🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/theopenhousepodcast/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 →How to Heal the Father Wound →Lessons in Love →How to Call in Healthy Love ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7-day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎟️ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ 🎟️ #179 - This week, I’m unpacking: The cultural obsession with “pretty privilege” and the viral Luigi Mangione phenomenon. Selena Gomez’s happily-ever-after and what it teaches us about self-worth and healthy love. Megan Fox’s break up, healing era and the lessons we can take from love, trauma bonding, and moving on and ‘I can fix them’. Why David Beckham wants us to replace all of our supplements (and who’s coming for AG1)  David Ghiyam’s podcast on aligning your vessel with your vision: Why you need a body that can hold the energy of your future self. Why trauma responses deserve respect—and how they’ve saved your life. Gut health gossip: Are your stomach issues actually nervous system issues? Normal consumption ‘core’ - anything worth buying is worth finishing.  Let’s go! JOIN THE NEWSLETTER: 👉 Sign up here for curated wellness goodies every Thursday REFERENCED RESOURCES: Unlocking Your Soul’s Potential by David Ghiyam – Listen here Put Some Respect on the Trauma Response that saved your Life – Watch on TikTok here. Megan Fox and MGK: Lessons on Trauma Bonds with Dr. Tari Mack – Listen here. Why Men cheat on even the most beautiful women with Dr. Tari Mack - Listen here. The Gut-Brain Connection – Read More. The Impact of Chronic Stress on Your Body – Read Here. Products worth finishing: Laneige Lip Mask, ILIA Serum Foundation, and Hibiscus Tea 🌸 Pancho Pomade Hair Stick: Here 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨ Start your 7-day free trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing Portal): HERE. Explore Free Podcast Pathways: HERE. Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎟️ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Masterclass: Secure your early access spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ 🎟️ Ready for a 2025 science-backed glow up? After analysing search data + insider insights, today I’m breaking down what’s hot in the holistic health world and what’s worth your energy next year. I discuss the search trends that are flying/ From vaginal probiotics, pre- pro- and postbiotics, oat milk, seed oils, beef tallow, supplementation, the celebrities' favorite supplements (that sat in my cupboard untouched), through to skincare, pore clogging, and more - I tell you my ins and outs for 2025 to help you on your glow up journey.  JOIN THE HOT & HEALING NEWSLETTER: https://openhouse-healing.myflodesk.com/newsletter 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7-day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

⭐ BRINGING BACK REAL DATING: DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE TRIAL OF FIRST ROUNDS ON ME HERE: ⭐ Ready to meet your person? Hate apps? Not sure why it’s not working for you? Keep getting lost in the abyss of multiple matches & never ending conversation? Finding faults with people before the first date even happens? If yes, this episode is for you. Louise & Joe Feminella, founder of new dating app “First Round’s On Me” (also known as FROME) dive into why dating apps today are often keeping us stuck and disconnected from finding that special person (and how we can navigate them differently to use them to our advantage!). Coming to you from Spotify LA, Louise & Joe get right into: The importance of intentional dating: clarity, embodiment and communication Proudly owning what you want from the app Overcoming the "rejection mindset" in dating How 'dating app filters' might block meeting your soulmate Why not to deep dive into Instagram stalking before the first date  The value of reducing number of dating app conversations Danger of 'false intimacy' and 'text bonds' Why a confident woman attracts a healthy man Reviewing your dating profile for improvement Joe's experience meeting his wife on a dating app and lessons learned for those still searching ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

🎟 2025 GOLDEN GIRL GAME PLAN - A 90-Minute Live Masterclass to Build the Energetic Foundations of a Breakthrough Year + a FREE 10+ page 'The Glow' Lifestyle Manual - secure a spot here 🎟  Welcome to your Golden Girl 2025! Happy New Year, my honeys! 🎉 Today, we’re talking 2025 ins and outs. In this solo episode, I dive into how to actually make 2025 a great year—not by slapping another Range Rover on your vision board, but by focusing on what truly matters: feeling good in yourself, your body, your mindset, your relationships, and your life. I cover: Becoming a productive princess, week/life management, and my ‘Sunday Reset’. Balancing your hormones and mastering your mindset. Setting small habits and daily rituals. Nutrition, radiance, and ‘skin from within’ hacks. Friendships, mindset shifts, and more! This is everything I learned in 2024 that’s worth bringing into 2025! 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 161 - Balancing hormones, healing cystic acne, becoming ‘that girl’ ft. Kacy Shea SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 169 Being a Confident Queen SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 138 - Goodbye Resolutions, Hello Realizations SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 173 - 10 ways I unf*cked my life SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready to step into your spiritual era this year and feel more depth, connection, and clarity? Then this episode is for you. I’m joined by the lovely and expansive Kela Rose as we dive into the very first spiritually-focused episode on my podcast. We share how both of our spiritual journeys began, touching on angel numbers, meaningful coincidences, and synchronicities as the starting point for so many people’s spiritual paths. We also explore karmic relationships—how past-life connections can show up to teach lessons through rejection, inconsistency, or emotional growth. From there, we delve into the deep and fascinating world of soul ties, past lives, and those obsessive connections that often mean more than you think. It’s soulful, thoughtful, and packed with insights to illuminate your spiritual journey. I’m so excited to go there with you and Kela Rose—I adore her! 🤍 FOLLOW KELA ROSE 🤍 https://www.instagram.com/sundazedkk/?hl=en  https://www.instagram.com/skinnydippingdiaries/?hl=en  Listen to Louise & Kela on Skinny Dipping: https://open.spotify.com/episode/703iUU4cZRY00n8jNN8a26?si=ckYhup4gTny2KURL521lAg 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 117: Healing trauma, overcoming addiction, reconnecting with your soul ft. Dr. Elisa Hallerman SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 151 - From stressed to blessed, reprogram your subconscious mind ft. Neuroscientist, Em on the Brain SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 139 - Hacks to help you on your healing journey ft. The Holistic Psychologist SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 141 - How to break your family’s cycles ft. Dr. Mariel Buqué SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, I’m unpacking: Demi Moore’s Golden Globe Win: A reminder that success and growth have no age limits. Situationship Energy: Breaking down Kylie Jenner and Timothée Chalamet’s dynamic, the neurobiology behind craving mystery, and why situationships can feel so intoxicating. The LA Wildfires: Exploring the immediate and long-term impacts of this traumatic event, from nervous system overwhelm to epigenetic stress that could affect future generations. The Year of the Liver: Why liver health is the foundation for glowing skin. Will it be the organ of 2025? Expansion vs. Contraction + The Emotional Guidance Spiral: How these states affect your nervous system, belief system, and life choices, plus a sneak peek into my Golden Girl Masterclass insights. A TikTok That Hit Hard: Reflecting on missing the parts of yourself someone else brought to life—and how to reclaim and amplify them for self-growth. Plus, a life update from me, leaving Tulum and more. JOIN THE NEWSLETTER: 👉Sign up for Hot & Healing the newsletter every Thursday REFERENCED RESOURCES: Golden Girl Masterclass Replay – Access here. The Liver Health Breakdown – Read more here. Healing Honey's Podcast with Kela Rose – Listen here. Organic Olivia Liver Juice - discount via HEALF here Wildfire detoxification guidance - here Cymbiotika Liver Tonic - here Emotional Guidance Spiral - here.  🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨ Start your 7-day free trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing Portal): HERE. Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I’m diving into the concept of expanders and expansion moments—the people who inspire you, stretch your energy, and show you what’s possible. We’ll explore how expanders help us break through limiting beliefs and bridge the gap between where you are right now and where you want to be—in the most inspiring, expansive, f**k-yes way. I’ll walk you through what an expander is, where the concept originated, and how they can help you clarify who YOU want to become (and what you want to achieve). And yes, expanders can show up as envy, jealousy, and “ugh, I hate her” moments too —but that’s where the real work begins. This episode takes you on an interactive journey to identify your own expanders, how they show up in different areas of your life, and how to harness their influence to step into your 2025 self. Plus, I’m sharing MINE—the people who light me the f**k up. Let’s make this your year to expand into possibility. 🎫Ready to take your life to the next level? Access my signature Golden Girl Game Plan Mindset Masterclass and discover how to harness the power of your nervous system for true expansion. Secure your spot today! [HERE]. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7-day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Healing Honeys Hotline! Ever been attracted to a 'man in power'? Someone richer, older, more successful, or even an ex you’ve put on a pedestal? This week, Louise dives into a listener submission, exploring the complex dynamics of dating (and being attracted) to men in positions of power—specifically, this listener's sexy AF Chemistry tutor and Louise's very own semi-toothless motorcycle instructor!  Louise unpacks the conscious or subconscious seductive pull of authority figures, the fantasy-versus-reality struggle in digital relationships, the excitement of exploring kinks and desires, and the emotional toll and confusion when online connections come to an end. She discusses why we’re often drawn to these powerful personalities, how to spot manipulative, ego-driven behaviors, why real safety is essential to explore your sexuality consensually, and why boundaries are critical—even in virtual situationships—to keep things liberating, fun, healthy, and on your terms.  Welcome to protecting your heart in the digital world! 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 77 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 1 - Exploring the Father Wound & the ‘Emotionally Unavailable Father SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 82 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 2 - Female Hyper-Independence & Overachieving SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 86 - Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Part 3 - Fantasy Bonding, Sex & the Alpha Male SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

✨ You NEED this daily ritual. Use code HEALINGHONEYS20 for 20% off Spacegoods – the adaptogen-packed coffee that keeps me energized, stress-free, and on top of my game. No crashes, no jitters—just pure focus while balancing my cortisol levels too. Trust me, you’ll never go back to empty-energy coffee ✨ Honeys, today I am coming in hot with some real talk. In this episode, I’m sharing a little life update (spoiler alert—I think I’m moving to Mexico City!) and the four biggest lessons I’ve learned in my self-development journey this January. I’m diving into: The Fishtank Analogy The importance of giving yourself permission to pivot  How resilience is everything when navigating stress (+ the 1 switch out product you NEED to consider) Why cycle syncing did not work for me; and How bad relationship moments don’t mean bad relationships.  I’m also introducing my new go-to for resilience: Spacegoods’ adaptogen-packed coffee. Trust me, this one’s a game-changer. Thank you to Spacegoods for sponsoring a segment in today’s episode.  Tune in for some January reflections, a little life recalibration, and the permission slip you didn’t know you needed. Let’s get into it. 💛 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS: 🤍 https://openhouse-healing.myflodesk.com/newsletter  https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 185 - Expanders and Expansion Moments for a Better Life SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 182 - Get Your Sh*t Together for 2025 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 173 - 10 Ways I Unf*cked my Life SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I’m chatting about the root causes of PMDD. Following my powerful conversation with Sophie Milner, where she shared her raw and vulnerable experience with PMDD, I’m breaking down what the doctors might not be telling you —hormonal imbalances, stress, gut health, nutrient deficiencies, and more. We'll explore how chronic stress and high cortisol levels disrupt estrogen and progesterone, how blood sugar regulation impacts your symptoms, and why your body's detox pathways play a crucial role in balancing hormones.  I’m also sharing holistic tools—from nutrition and supplements to somatic therapy and nervous system regulation—that can help you feel more in control of your body and emotions. If you’ve been struggling with PMDD and are looking for alternative ways to heal beyond traditional medicine, this episode is for you. You are not alone, and healing is possible. NEED MORE HELP? My go to practitioner to help build a personalised protocol for PMDD is Sarah Murphy, from the Potent Plant. DM her here (@thepotentplant) and mention that you came from Healing Honeys and Louise Rumball for a discount on your plan. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 190: My PMDD Journey ft. Sophie Milner SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 161: How to heal acne naturally ft. Kacy Shea SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 94: Nutrition and mental health ft. Kimberley Wilson SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 116: Emotional eating, binge eating + the nervous system SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE → Golden Girl Game Plan: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE 🧡 This description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It always starts out so good, right? The butterflies, the excitement, the electric pull. But what happens next? In this episode, Louise takes you on a deep dive into the psychology and biology of love—from the euphoric highs of initial lust and those heart-racing fanny flutters to the more grounded, regulated, and lasting stages of falling and being in love (yes, there’s a difference!) and then falling out of love. She’s breaking down every stage of the love cycle, exploring attachment, hormones, and subconscious patterns that shape our relationships. If you’re currently obsessing over someone new or wondering ‘Is this still working for me?’, this episode is for you so you can get clear on all stages of the love cycle. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES 🎵 → Episode 160 - Limerence (like really, really obsessed) SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 107 - Limerence, Fantasy Bonding and Sex Addiction SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 30 - The Psychology of Pacing and Exploring Slow Grow v. Rollercoaster Romance SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 88 Why Healthy Relationships Feel Boring SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 154 - Why Situationships Can Fuck You Up SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 77 - The Emotionally Unavailable Father SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 82 - Hyper-Independence in Dating and Relationships SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  → Episode 86 - Daddy Issues Part - 3 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS  ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE → 💌 TRASH TALKS: Your Awful Dating Stories: HERE Episode Sponsors: 🧡 This episode description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this episode and support the podcast at no cost to you. Thank you for your support! BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This one’s for the stepmoms. In this Hotline episode, we’re diving deep into the emotional complexities of blended families with expert (and co-parent) Stephanie Therapy. Together, we unpack the unique challenges stepmothers face — from navigating feelings of resentment and abandonment to managing the realities of co-parenting (or parallel parenting) with an ex, their family, all while balancing the impact it (and the other parent) can have on your current relationship. This one’s honest, validating, and for anyone who’s ever thought… Why does this feel so hard? 🤍 FOLLOW STEPHANIE THERAPY🤍 @stephanietherapy @loveandtherapy Book a Call with Stephanie 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing) to calm the stressful moments: HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you sometimes chill and secure… and other times totally anxious? Maybe you’re fine when you’re single but lose it the second someone shows up in your love life. Is it possible for your anxious attachment to only kick in sometimes? In this HOTLINE episode of Healing Honeys, Louise dives into exactly that. She breaks down why attachment styles aren’t set in stone — how you can feel secure in one situation and completely dysregulated in another. She also explores how abandonment wounds, vulnerability, fears, and hidden shame can flare up only sometimes (and why). If you’ve ever felt like dating throws you into emotional chaos, this episode is for you. Louise shares grounding insights, tools, and real-talk advice to help you navigate love — without losing yourself in the process. 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys  https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_  https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 🎵 RELATED EPISODES  → Episode 38: Anxious Attachment (How to Heal) Part 1 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 39: Anxious Attachment (How to Heal) Part 2 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 40: Anxious Attachment (How to Heal) Part 3 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 62: Anxious Attachment and Dating SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 93: Anxious Attachment (How to Heal) Part 4 SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS → Episode 126: How to Heal Anxious Attachment (Breathwork + Somatics) SPOTIFY and APPLE PODCASTS ✨ FREE HEALING RESOURCES: ✨  → Free 7 day trial of Daily Devotion (Somatic Healing): HERE → Chill Girl Challenge: HERE  → Golden Girl Game Plan: HERE → Free Podcast Pathways: HERE SUBMIT: → 💌 HEALING HONEYS HOTLINE: Submit your question or story: HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Formerly OPENHOUSE with Louise Rumball, this season brings you everything you loved about the OPENHOUSE Podcast—and so much more. Get ready for video episodes, a brand-new YouTube channel, and exciting new segments like Healing Honeys Hotline and Trash Talks. YOU can join the conversation by submitting your questions and sharing your stories through voice notes for a chance to be featured! Healing Honeys is the podcast you know, leveled up. More healing, more hustling, and more balancing those big big dreams, baby. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm from the UK, my boyfriend is from Mexico. From the dreaded airport goodbyes to the joyous reunions, long distance relationships (LDR) can be HARD and EMOTIONALLY DRAINING. Add an anxious attachment style into the mix and you have the recipe for a rough ride ahead. Who are you with? Who are you f**king? What drugs are you taking? We’ve all at one point or another had these uncomfortable thoughts in an LDR but when managed well? They can also be beautiful, powerful testaments to a relationship that is worth going the long distance for! In today’s solo episode, Louise dives headfirst into the wild world of long-distance relationships to arm you with the tips and tricks you need to make your long distance love thrive across miles and time zones.  In this episode, Louise spills the tea on:  Her personal experience of navigating her 2-year long distance relationship. Managing communication and staying emotionally connected. The importance of maintaining trust in an LDR. The power of thoughtful gestures. The 9 tips she swears by to hack the long distance game + to keep the romance alive. Facetiming fatigue and how you can spice things up in other ways. Her straight-out-of-a-movie ultimate meet cute with her boyfriend. And more! So if you're currently in a long-distance relationship or considering taking the plunge, this episode is your ULTIMATE survival guide. It’s fast, it’s fun, and you get Louise all to yourself with plenty of heartfelt advice from someone who's been there, done that, and still believes that love knows no bounds! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a bucket list episode, baby! Louise welcomes The Holistic Psychologist to the studio to delve into the art of genuinely loving and liking yourself this year. This is the stuff that no one ever teaches us about but that we should all be learning about at school. Louise & Dr. Nicole LePera, a trailblazer in holistic psychology, get into: The importance of integrating the body, somatic practices, and nervous system awareness for ACTUAL change. What the time between our heart beats can tell us about our ability to regulate our emotions in relationships (+ HRV, heart-brain coherence) How you can’t break cycles without using your biology Understanding the differentiation between The Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind: Why affirmations alone fall short and post-its on the wall aren’t enough The power and danger of ego stories Exploring the core universal belief of feeling unworthy Understanding trauma-based attractions versus grounded, healthy connections. Why so many of us struggle with self-love and compassion, thriving instead in stress-based chaos Louise & Dr. Nicole finish the episode by asking each other what the biggest change they have each seen, personally, since doing this work. Their answers might surprise you! ----- ⭐ Ready to start working with your nervous system but don’t know where to start? Join us on our free 31 day Regulate Your Nervous System bootcamp in partnership with OPEN ⭐ ⭐ Want weekly bonus episodes, access to our community room ‘The House’ + access to our ‘Ask A Therapist’ room? Join OPENHOUSE Premium. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! ⭐ ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Crying over Biebs? You’re not alone. There Louise was. Standing in a cute little organic supermarket when it happened. Justin and Hailey Bieber announced that they were having a BABY! Her reaction? Silence and a weird smidge of… something? Had that feeling too? You’re not alone. That’s the story of how this episode was born. Pun intended! From dreaming of running into your favorite star on the street to feeling personally offended when they're criticized, the allure of celebrity culture can be downright intoxicating. But why do we feel this intense connection to people we've never even met? And how does it affect us on a deeper level? AND HOW CAN WE REALLY BE UPSET WHEN SOMEONE WE HAVE NEVER MET ANNOUNCES THEY ARE HAVING A BABY WITH A WOMAN WHO IS NOT YOU? In today’s episode, Louise sits down to investigate the psychological and emotional aspects of celebrity worship and parasocial relationships. In this episode, Louise dives into: The slightly odd but hilarious reactions she and her friends had to the Beiber pregnancy announcement. The psychology behind celebrity worship and the three levels of parasocial relationships. Why the Selena v. Hailey/ Damon v. Stefan debates get us in a chokehold. Why criticism of our favorite fandoms and idols evokes visceral reactions (looking at you, Swifties). The delulu belief that we can "fix" or help celebrities like Justin Bieber. Maladaptive daydreaming and escapism associated with celebrity fascination. Themes of the sheer relentlessness of life, self-worth, and attachment styles. And more! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise gets into a solo episode discussing all things Rihanna & A$AP Rocky and the news that they are having a baby!  In this episode, Louise looks at ‘Rihanna energy’ and her break up from Hassan Jameel at 31, an age when many people would feel pressurised by society to stay in their relationship or make it work, rather than the fear of being ‘thirty and single’.  In this episode, Louise shares:  ⇢ The psychology of our brain development in our 30s vs. our 20s and how this impacts our dating decisions;  ⇢ Why sometimes we have to date a ‘Chris Brown’ to meet our very own A$AP Rocky;  ⇢ Why being single in your 30s can be a revolutionary and insightful phase of self-awareness; and  ⇢ How you can use it to your advantage, helping to take you closer to the right person.  Louise also shares her own personal dating stories, particularly: ⇢ Her experience of dating her very own Chris Brown and what she learnt;⠀ ⇢ What watching her friends settle down and have babies has taught her about what she wants in a relationship;  ⇢ Her top 6 tips to embracing being single in your 30s + 40s; ⇢ And why you need to date ‘smart’, ‘fast’ and ‘with intention’ as you get older. As well as chatting all things fertility and biological clocks.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Episode 20 of the OPENHOUSE podcast we covered all things ghosting, because if you haven’t already heard, Louise got ghosted.  Today, in Episode 22, Dr Tari Mack is back from holiday & we are looking at the flip side of getting ghosted. We ask Dr Tari: ⇢ Why do people ghost?  ⇢ How this can tie back to more significant personality traits, like narcissism and sociopathy; ⇢ But how it can also tie back to our experience in childhood and what we were taught by our caregivers about conflict; and ⇢ What ghosting teaches us about another person.  Louise also shares her personal experience of how she used to ghost people when she was younger, but also shares: ⇢ How she now understands why she used to act the way she did;  ⇢ How her behaviour has changed since going to therapy; and ⇢ Her tips and tricks on how not to ghost people.  We also share live examples of messages that Louise has sent to people when she has needed to communicate that she wasn’t into things, rather than ghosting, and get Dr Tari’s feedback.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, we get into the topic that everyone is talking about - the crazy Netflix documentary - The Tinder Swindler, The so-called Tinder Swindler is Shimon Hayut (aka 'Simon Leviev'), a convicted fraudster born in Israel. He used dating apps to meet multiple women, then got them to take out loans and credit in their names, ultimately leaving them holding the bills when he would later disappear - but not before he had spent ALL of the money on an insanely lavish lifestyle that he used to impress OTHER women. In today’s episode, Louise & Dr Tari break down: ⇢ The psychology of Attachment Hunger - something that starts in childhood when we don’t get the appropriate bonding and nurturing form our parent figures, and then later shows up in adult life as attaching too quickly to romantic partners; ⇢ The reason that so many people today ignore red flags;  ⇢ Why sexual validation and attention are not the same as healthy loving care; ⇢ The importance of knowing ourselves before we can really know another; and ⇢ Why some people only attract superficial relationships. Louise Rumball & Dr Tari Mack also break down the specifics of the situation and look at; ⇢ Immediate red flags that should have been picked up on in the episode; ⇢ How to navigate dating apps when meeting someone new (+ the questions you have to ask); ⇢ How to actually get to know someone; ⇢ How to keep an eye out for someone like the Tinder Swindler so you can avoid at all costs; and ⇢ The importance of boundaries and time to attach when you meet someone new. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise interviews Maddy Anholt, author of ‘How to Leave Your Psychopath’ Are you forever finding yourself in the stranglehold of controlling companions? Today’s chat will help you wave ta-ta to unhappy and unhealthy relationships for good. We talk about red flags to look out for, how and why people exert control, and also discuss lovebombing, gaslighting, and negging. Backed with personal story and supported by psychological insight Louise & Maddie share their personal journeys and all they have learnt along the way. In this episode, Louise & Maddy break down: ⇢ Why it isn’t just ‘doormats’ and ‘weak women’ who find themselves being treated awfully in relationships; ⇢ The traits that these types of people look for in their partners; ⇢ How to tell the difference between a ‘d*ckhead’ and an abuser; ⇢ The hormonal addiction cycle & how the cycle plays out in practice; ⇢ Why there isn’t a breaking point for everyone; ⇢ And how to leave if you are in a potentially dangerous situation. If you are or someone you know is experiencing family violence and need someone to talk to, contact a local domestic abuse service by using Women's Aid Domestic Abuse Directory www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic-abuse-directory ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, we discuss all things friends, the psychology of enablers and the less than healthy friendships that we love. We take a look at this through the lens of the recent finale of Euphoria and the very special, sweet and sad situation that we all got to experience alongside the captivating characters of Rue and Elliott. ***SPOILER ALERT*** If you haven’t watched the finale of Euphoria yet, then skip this episode and come back to it later! Louise Rumball & Dr Tari Mack also go deeper into: ⇢ Rue & Elliot and why their friendship worked initially, and why he ultimately showed true friendship through his actions later on in the series; ⇢ What is an enabler + the psychology behind enabling; ⇢ Why do we enable others; ⇢ How to broach a friendship that isn't feeling good; ⇢ Understanding how to break the cycle of a less than healthy friendship; and ⇢ How to deal with the anger of another person as you break the cycle. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with Emma Wilson, the first Turning 30 Coach to discuss how much life changes when you hit the big 3-0. Today, the focus is friendship - and together, Louise and Emma explore: ⇢ What happens when your friends start settling down; and you don’t ⇢ Whether forever friendships can really last forever ⇢ How the situation changes further when your friends start to have babies ⇢ How to communicate with friends that things no longer feel the same. The girl’s also talk about their own personal experiences of: ⇢ Neglecting friends when they fall in love; ⇢ Having uncomfortable but life changing conversations; and ⇢ Discussing where and how to make new friends in today’s busy, fast paced society. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the friendship series. In this OPEN(HEART) episode we ask clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack about all things friendship breakdowns. Louise and Tari discuss why they happen, why they hurt, why they’re inevitable, how to handle them when they change or break down, how to learn from them and, ultimately, how to grow and be happier after them. Louise Rumball also goes deeper into three of her own personal friend breakdowns: ⇢ 1. Her childhood best friend & how she dreamt about her for years & what this meant; ⇢ 2. A good friend in her 20s who Louise bonded with over their equally disastrous and toxic relationships - and whose friendship then slowly broke down when they didn’t bond over that any more; ⇢ 3. Her most recent friendship breakdown - with someone who she loves and cares about but feels is incompatible with her at this point in her life. Dr Tari and Louise also discuss: ⇢ How to self-reflect on your friendships using the Wedding Cake analogy; ⇢ How to broach a friendship that isn't feeling good; ⇢ How to communicate with yourself and others; and ⇢ How to lean into the changes of friendships to your benefit, rather than them hurting you. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify if it resonated. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the final episode of the friendship series. In this OPEN(HEART) episode we ask clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack what to do when a friend (or a partner) breaks up with you. Louise & Dr Tari take a recent example that one of Louise’s friends went through, when she got ghosted by a friend. Dr Tari Mack shares information on: ⇢ How self-awareness can help avoid these situations happening; ⇢ How open conversation, communication & discussion can reduce the severity of the situations. Dr Tari and Louise also discuss: ⇢ How the same principles in friendship breakdowns apply to romantic relationships; ⇢ What to do when someone sets a boundary that you feel is unfair; ⇢ Whether you ever really are owed a conversation or discussion by someone else? ⇢ How to move on from friendships that you don’t know if you can. And: ⇢ How helpful therapy can be with the breakdown of friendships to help with the healing and self-awareness process. If you enjoyed this episode, please do share on your social media or leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so we can help spread the word about our #FreeTherapy. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we look at the recent drama of Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars in defense of his wife Jada Pinkett Smith, when Chris Rock disrespected her with a joke about her hair-less condition, alopecia. Louise starts the episode by sharing that she felt like the missing piece of the jigsaw was when she read a section of Will Smith’s autobiography where he explained that he grew up in an abusive environment, watching his Father beat his Mother and that this developed his ‘biggest regret to date’ that he was a ‘coward’ and never ‘avenged his Mother’. Today, we discuss the stories, limiting beliefs and conditioning that we pick up in childhood, subconsciously and consciously, and how these shape how we show up in the world, and how they hold us back from living our best life. Louise & Dr Tari talk about: ⇢ How we often learn we are not enough, that we have to fight for love, earn it, or that we are going to be abandoned; ⇢ Family dynamics, sibling relationships and what you can learn if you are, or are not, the golden child of the family; ⇢ How stories can be picked up around hobbies and food; and ⇢ How picking up your attachment style from your caregivers will impact all of your relationships later in life. Louise also goes deep and shares her personal experience of: ⇢ Her experience with high level ballet and gymnastics as a child; ⇢ How her relationship with food was defined from her relationship with her family; and ⇢ How her relationship with her family unit maybe developed becoming an introvert later in life. If you enjoyed this episode, please do share on your social media or leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so we can help spread the word about our #FreeTherapy. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr Tari Mack to discuss the psychology of pacing, dating and the slow grow vs. the euphoric rollercoaster romance. Louise Rumball & Dr Tari explore: ⇢ Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian and why everything moves so damn quickly in life and in Hollywood ⇢ Why pacing is one of the magic bullets in a relationship⠀ ⇢ Why people struggle with pacing ⇢ Why we attach super quickly ⇢ How to information gather and date smart ⇢The psychology of losing ourselves in a new relationship ⇢The benefits of the go-slow rather than the rollercoaster romance ⇢Why the initial parts of a relationship are the equivalent to taking drugs. Louise also shares her own experiences, particularly in relationship to the benefits of the slow grow and how to hold onto the roller coaster romance. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Louise sits down with clinical psychologist look at the concepts of attachment, validation, power, comfort, attention, security and more in this episode of OPENHOUSE - with a dose of juicy stories along the way. ⇢ How to be friends with your ex - and whether you really should be trying to be? ⇢ What is the psychology behind what drives someone to want to stay in touch with your ex? ⇢ We explore validation, power, comfort, attention, security and more - why do we find it so hard to let go of these things? ⇢ Louise’s experience of bumping into an ex years down the line; ⇢ How a new partner coming into the scene impacts the experience. Things also get deep in this exercise when Louise shares her feelings about her most recent ex boyfriend and Dr Tari Mack gives her some sobering home truths. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Louise sits down with clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr Tari Mack to discuss the psychology of trust issues and why people have them, and how to get over them. We look at trust issues through the vehicle of J Lo, who after being cheated on publicly by A Rod and acknowledging that she had trust issues, was able to move through this to get engaged to Ben Affleck. Louise Rumball & Dr Tari explore: ⇢What are trust issues? ⇢The psychology behind trust issues ⇢How do you know if it’s you having trust issues or if it’s an actual issue in the relationship?  ⇢If you found out that your partner has cheated on previous relationships, how to stop bringing this into your relationship with them? ⇢ Is there ever a good reason to not trust someone?   ⇢ How do you know if its trust issues or an anxious attachment style? ⇢ For people that have experienced trust issues feel like they follow them around forever? ⇢ What about people who just feel like they only attract the same type of person? ⇢ How to communicate to someone that you are struggling with trusting. + ⇢ Hope that there are good men and women out there that are trustworthy, reliable, kind and will not hurt you. Louise also shares her own experiences of her exes and what she has learnt about trust over the years. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do some of us love partners that make us chase after us? Or that are inconsistent? Hot and cold? Treat us well then disappear? In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with Dr Tari Mack for a live coaching session.  Louise and Dr Tari explore ⇢ How Louise is feeling about starting to date again; ⇢ Her recent romantic experiences in Tulum; ⇢ What to do when faced with ‘the bad guy’ and the ‘good guy?' and going for the 'good guy' feels unfamiliar and unusual'; ⇢ How to finally break cycles of attraction once and for all;  Dr Tari also asks Louise about:  ⇢ The concept of earning love;  ⇢ The concept of looking forward into the future; and ⇢ Why it can feel so damn good to go for the wrong choice.  Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ghosted me then ‘orbited me’ so my therapist told me to block you. Exploring the psychology of orbiting Orbiting is the newest toxic relationship trend. Orbiting is when someone breaks off direct contact with you after you have been talking, dating or sleeping together, but then they continue to engage with you on social media - orbiting around you.  In this quick fire OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with Dr Tari Mack for a live coaching session on what to do with a guy that is orbiting her.  Louise and Dr Tari explore ⇢ What is orbiting; ⇢ Why people do it; ⇢ What it means; ⇢ What to do if you are on the receiving end of it;  Louise also asks whether: ⇢ You should block someone who is orbiting you;  ⇢ Whether blocking someone seems too dramatic;  ⇢ Whether she should have a conversation with the person.  Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bite size episode, Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look at orbiting - the newest toxic relationship trend when someone breaks off direct contact with you after you have been talking, dating or sleeping together, but then they continue to follow, engage or stalk you on social media - orbiting around you.  In this quick fire OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with Dr Tari Mack for a live coaching session on what to do with a guy that is orbiting her.  Louise and Dr Tari explore ⇢ What is orbiting; ⇢ Why people do it; ⇢ What it means; ⇢ What to do if you are on the receiving end of it;  Louise also asks whether: ⇢ You should block someone who is orbiting you;  ⇢ Whether blocking someone seems too dramatic;  ⇢ Whether she should have a conversation with the person.  There is also a major surprise at the end of this episode! It’s good fun! Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Attracted to looks, power, status and aesthetics but want to really find true meaningful connections?  This episode is for you.  Today, Dr Tari Mack and Louise Rumball explore why today’s society are attracted to external metrics and what we really need to be focusing on to be building deeper, healthier and more conscious connections.  The pair explore:  ⇢ The external metrics of attraction ⇢The concepts of superficial love vs. deep intimacy and emotional vulnerability  ⇢How social media today makes you feel ‘less than’ others ⇢How a focus on the external world does not cultivate the internal world that ultimately attracts the right people around you ⇢How a focus on the external in terms of appearance, aesthetics and ‘fine tuning our facial work’ will not take you to true happiness ⇢How to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and those around you  ⇢The concept of ‘non-judgment’ in relationships ⇢What it means to be attracted to money, success and status ⇢What subconscious fears are running what you are attracted to + Louise’s personal experiences of ⇢How not being ‘the prettiest’ at school shaped her relationship with her self and body ⇢How her dating has changed throughout her 20s and into her 30s - and how dating attractive people & used to validate her ⇢What is important for her now in a relationship ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The best sagittarius duo, Louise & Monica and their epic friendship bring the fire in this first ever GIRL TALK episode between the two of them. After recently being together in Tulum and knowing they need to share their healing lessons with the world.  Now you can join this powerful pairing as they talk real life, dating, men, falling in love, sex, intimacy and more, covering: Why you keep texting men to distract yourself, instead of actually doing the work to find a good one;  Why our nervous systems are always f&cKING on & how dating only perpetuates this cycle;  How your childhood wounds drive the partners you are picking and dating today; Louise & Monica's own personal stories around their childhoods; Why you are probably your own red flag; Polarity between masculine & feminine energy & why this is so important in your romantic relationships;  Monica's new boyfriend & the guy Louise is dating in Tulum; How sex can be a healing experience, as can relationships; And MORE! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#37 - Waiting for someone who is just not ready to date you, to be ready to date you? I ask my therapist, should we wait for them to start their healing, get over their ex, let their busy period at work calm down for them to step up to the plate - or should we just move on? Should we entertain them as a friend? Should we stay in contact? Should we keep things going until they see how good you two could be together?  In this OPENHEART episode of OPENHOUSE, Louise Rumball asks Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist and relationship expert, what to do when the person you are interested in is not ready to commit.  Louise and Dr Tari explore ⇢ The clear, conscious and subconscious ways that people say they ‘can’t show up for you right now’ ⇢ What to do if someone is acting nonchalant or is expressly communicating that they don’t want a relationship but they like you; ⇢ How to ask someone what they want in a relationship (and when you should do so);  ⇢ How and why people use sex and hook ups to avoid emotional vulnerability and intimacy. Louise also asks shares: ⇢ Her personal story around how meeting someone who ticks ‘most of the boxes’ can lead you on a wild goose chase of waiting for them to be ready; ⇢ Her friends recent story, and whether you can really be friends with someone you have slept with;  ⇢ Her experience of why not all men’s word can be trusted. Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

✨ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ ✨ --- ⭐ ACCESS THE SOMATIC / NERVOUS SYSTEM RITUALS THAT HEALED MY ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE!: HERE ⭐ Anxious Attachment Therapy PDFs: ⇢The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––  Having an anxious attachment is stressful as f**k. And what’s even more stressful? When people don’t talk about how stressful it is. In this episode, we look at an anxious attachment style *in action* as Louise feels anxious about the new man she is dating. Dr Tari helps to talk her through what she is feeling, where the fear is coming from, how to handle the situation and more.  In this OPEN(HEART) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast, Louise sits down with Dr Tari Mack for a live coaching session.  Louise and Dr Tari explore ⇢ What it means to have an anxious attachment style; ⇢ How to manage and regulate your anxious attachment style;  ⇢ How to communicate this with someone else;  ⇢ How to finally break your own attachment cycles once and for all.  Louise also asks Dr Tari: ⇢ Whether you can fully heal the anxious attachment style;  ⇢ Who you should be avoiding when dating; and ⇢ How to stay regulated when things really feel out of control.  Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up HEALING HONEY PODCAST SPONSORS BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

✨ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ ✨ ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT THERAPY EBOOKS NOW AVAILABLE ⇢ The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢ The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE --- PLUS ... ⭐ Want to get more of your therapy fix? Want to 4 - 6 bonus episodes a month for just $3? ⭐ Get access to The House & OPENHOUSE's weekly premium content as well as asking our therapists anything + get access to our our community area for more love and support --- The feedback from pt. 1 of this episode was phenomenal. You guys really went crazy for our first anxious attachment podcast episode where myself and clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack looked at the anxious attachment style that over 20% (1 in 5 people ) in the global population live with, after having it form in childhood.  After a lot of requests, in today’s episode, Louise & Dr Tari go deeper into this, looking at: ⇢Breaking down the four stages of an anxious attachment style  ⇢The underlying fears behind an anxious attachment style  ⇢The triggers that provoke an anxious attachment attack ⇢The activation of your attachment cycle - understanding what happens in your body when your attachment style is activated + how to handle it ⇢The concept of protest behaviours and why we use them to try and re establish connection Louise & Dr Tari also discuss: ⇢Why you can’t have reassurance on tap all of the time ⇢How to calm and regulate your anxious attachment style ⇢How to heal it in the long run ⇢The concept of meeting in the middle with whoever you are dating ⇢ Can you heal and date at the same time?  ⇢ A couple of Q&A topics from Louise’s recent TikToks  Louise also shares:  ⇢ The concept of ‘positive intent’ which has changed her life ⇢ Her personal experience fears, triggers and protest behaviours ⇢How soon is too soon to share your trauma with someone you are dating? Let us know how you enjoyed the episode and be sure to share this on social media, as well as giving us a rating and review on Apple or Spotify. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up HEALING HONEY PODCAST SPONSORS BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

✨ 2025 "Golden Girl" Game Plan Tickets: Join Louise Rumball for a live masterclass and "Get the Glow" lifestyle manual on January 5, 2025 (+ lifetime access to the recording)! Secure your spot now: https://healinghoneys.vhx.tv/ ✨ ⭐ ACCESS THE SOMATIC / NERVOUS SYSTEM RITUALS THAT HEALED MY ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE!: HERE ⭐ Anxious Attachment Therapy PDFs: ⇢The Ultimate Guide - How to navigate & heal your anxious attachment style when dating - A 26 page PDF guide created by clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack & Louise Rumball - linked HERE ⇢The Ultimate Script - How to communicate your anxious attachment style when dating - a 14 Page Script PDF - linked HERE ---- Struggling with anxiety or an anxious attachment style? This episode is for you. Louise is joined by her friend Sarah Murphy in their first ever OPEN(BODY) episode of the OPENHOUSE Podcast to discuss the connections between mental health and physical health and most importantly --> nervous system health.  The pair discuss and explore: ⇢What is the nervous system? ⇢The science behind anxious attachment. ⇢What happens when an anxious attachment (or anxiety) gets triggered ⇢What happens after the fight or flight kicks in and how the 30-90 second rule can change your life ⇢Grounding & the influence of nature on your nervous system ⇢Why the foundations for your anxiety may have started before you were born; ⇢The connection that your Mother's nervous system has to your breathing; ⇢Why so many of us 'don't breathe properly' today; ⇢The connection between mental health & nervous system health; ⇢How to stop a trigger in its tracks by understanding your nervous system; and ⇢Sarah's product recommendations of choice. Sarah has dedicated her life to seeking root cause answers to mental and physical health challenges. She started out as a certified nutritional practitioner and a clinical herbalist before moving on to study across a board of multiple holistic healing modalities including traditional Chinese medicine, Ayurvedic medicine, homeopathy, detoxification, toxicology, environmental medicine and, most relevant for this podcast potentially, the mind body work and polyvagal theory. She’s a lifelong student of health and is a goldmine of info.  All product recommendations in this episode come from her 10 + year career owning health food shops in Toronto & practicing with clients. She understands how many products on the market are toxic, not organic and just full of chemicals and junk. She is the only person I trust when it comes to product recommendations.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up HEALING HONEY PODCAST SPONSORS BetterHelp: 10% off your first month of therapy at betterhelp.com/healinghoneys with code HEALINGHONEYS. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever dated an avoidant man or woman? They disappear when conflict starts or a conversation heats up? You feel like you get close to them, but never quite fully there? Maybe you are one yourself and other people feel ‘too needy, too much’, or that being independent and alone is safer and less hectic. Maybe you don't see the point in talking about your feelings, don't like to depend on others for help, think relationships are a lot of work or just prefer 'being mysterious?' If this is you, or it sounds like your partner, this episode is for you. After the success of our anxious attachment series, we know you will take deep value from this episode  Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack discuss: ⇢What is an avoidant attachment style ⇢How did it form in childhood ⇢What are avoidantly attached people actually scared of (you might be surprised!) ⇢Why do the avoidantly attached live life with a ‘buffer’ between them and others  ⇢Why the fear of true intimacy drives an intermittent reinforcement cycle ⇢Why an anxiously attached person is often an avoidantly attached person’s worst nightmare ⇢Why you can never truly thrive with an avoidant attachment until you are working on it ⇢How conflict can actually bring you closer together if you learn to regulate your attachment style And more! Louise also shares her own experiences with: The difference between solutions based love and reassurance based love when in conflict ⇢Tolerating avoidantly attached relationships ⇢Trying to pull men closer to get them to experience true intimacy; and ⇢ Dr Tari shares why there is only one person who can fully break the cycle. If you are anxiously attached, be sure to listen to Episodes 38, 39 and 40 of the podcast before getting into this one.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The attachment style - fearful avoidant, also known as ‘disorganized’ is often overlooked. Do you feel like you want to be close to people and want their love, but when you get close, you feel like it is a dangerous space to be in? Maybe you push people away before they can push you away, but deep down want to be and feel loved? Did you experience deeply stressful, neglectful or abusive situations as a child that make you feel that love is not only scary, but sometimes actually dangerous? Do you expect or fear people might hurt you?  If this is you, or it sounds like your partner, this episode is for you. Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack discuss: ⇢What is a disorganized attachment style ⇢How did it form in childhood ⇢What are disorganized people actually scared of (you might be surprised!) ⇢What’s the difference between feeling fearful and avoidant in life or dating and actually having a disorganized attachment style? Plus, we discuss what happens & what to do when a partner is not working on their attachment style. Louise asks Dr Tari:  ⇢How patient should you be with someone’s attachment style? ⇢Is an attachment style enough to break up with someone for? ⇢What to do if someone’s attachment style is bringing you unhappiness? ⇢And, ultimately, how conflict can actually bring you closer together if you learn to regulate your attachment style And more!  Louise also shares her own experiences with a ‘disorganized’ ex boyfriend and how one moment changed the entire relationship.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of Girl Talk, Louise is joined by her great friend Monica Yates where the two get into a juicy conversation about how to work hard, make a lot of money & let your man (energetically) still be the provider, rather than finding the situation emasculating, unattractive or awkward.  The high-energy pair discuss:  ⇢Their own personal experiences with men and money - past & present - and how they have learnt to navigate; ⇢Why so many more women today are challenging traditional gender roles; ⇢How to manage your man making the same or less money than you; ⇢Why men being the provider needs to be looked at differently; ⇢Why making money is sexy; ⇢Examples of how your man can love, care and lead for you in other ways other than money. + plus the incredible concept of 'Provision vs. Execution' which will change everything for your relationship. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look in today’s episode at:  ⇢What is unconscious attraction  ⇢Why you choose people who reinforce how we feel about ourselves ⇢Why we are attracted to partners who recreate our patterns, roles, templates from childhood ⇢Why you can think you want a relationship, but be blocking yourself ⇢What have you been conditioned with that has shaped your beliefs around love, dating and more? ⇢The psychology of breadcrumbing + how to stop engaging with it   Louise also shares:  ⇢How she has been breaking her unconscious attraction in micro moments ⇢Why it’s ok for the process to take a while ⇢And who she has been missing from her past  And more!  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In light of the recent news that beautiful specimen Em Rata got cheated on, the whole world is shouting 'WTF'... and we are too. People are thinking - if it could happen to her, then it could happen to anyone, and are any of us truly safe from the big bad concept of infidelity and a partner being unfaithful?  It is thought that 1 in 4 adults are unfaithful at some point in their life and in today’s episode, Louise & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack go deep into why people cheat, but perhaps more importantly and interestingly - how you can build a relationship that will withstand the likelihood of infidelity. The pair discuss personality traits, communication, needs, boundaries, intimacy, sex, curiosity and more and a ton of free therapy tips on how to navigate love and attraction both inside your relationship and outside of it.  Louise shares her very personal insights from her own journey around infidelity and learning the hard way that often it says a lot more about you, than the person you are cheating with. Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look at:  ⇢The epic formula that explains cheating in 6 words ⇢The 8 main reasons that people cheat ⇢How to build intimacy in your relationship without scaring your partner off ⇢The importance of boundaries and a mutual understanding of what classifies as cheating in a relationship ⇢How to discuss cheating and infidelity long before it happens  ⇢Why cheating is often not about the other person ⇢ What to do when you meet someone that you have even the smallest spark with Louise also shares: ⇢ How she has built a relationship of trust & communication after cheating in her younger relationships;  ⇢ How many men seem to think it is ok to message her while being in a relationship  ⇢ What discussions, boundaries & conversations she is putting in place with her new man.   And more!  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you are on TikTok, it’s almost impossible to not have come across Lisa Smith - better known as ‘So, My Mom’s a Therapist’. Lisa takes people’s TikToks and breaks down the psychology of what is going on behind the scenes and with over 600,000 followers, Lisa is doing so much good in this world. Based out of California, Lisa is a trauma therapist and is EMDR and TRM trained and honestly - her charisma and personality is next to none.  Lisa invited me on her podcast which was a *major* fangirl moment for me - and I asked her if I could share the recording with my beloved OPENHOUSE Audience. She said sure, so, here we are!  In this episode, Louise & Lisa discuss:  ⇢ The 3 key things Louise has learnt from 3 years of therapy; ⇢ The cutest story re: how Louise met her new boyfriend & what she is learning from her healthiest relationship yet; ⇢ The micro moment approach + how to let love in; ⇢ The flip flop analogy and how to avoid emotional suppression or emotional outbursts ⇢How to cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself and those around you And so much more. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever dated a really, really sh*t, mean, hurtful, poorly communicative or downright disrespectful person? Us too - but today, so many people throw the term ‘narcissist’ around so much that it seems like those with Narcissist Personality Disorder are around every corner. The truth? Experts estimate that up actually only around 5% of people have Narcissist Personality Disorder - and a lot of people are not actually suffering from the personality disorder that we tell everyone they are. So, why are we pathologizing this so much?  Is every relationship with a narcissist a trauma bond? Is an angry person always a narcissist? In today’s episode, Louise and clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack help you understand the difference between someone with some negative personality traits or damaging, disrespectful & destructive learned behavior / coping mechanisms vs. being able to actually identify those with a narcissist personality. The two look at: ⇢ What narcissism is ⇢ How it starts ⇢ Can you get rid of it ⇢ The 3 different types of narcissism ⇢ How we mistreat it ⇢ How we enable it ⇢ What it gets confused with, and more.  Louise Rumball & clinical psychologist Dr Tari Mack look at:  ⇢ What is really beneath narcissism;  ⇢ What traits do people cover it with;  ⇢ The 3 different types of narcissist; ⇢ How obsessively taking instagram photos might come onto that continuum; ⇢ How it develops, and why;  ⇢ Whether you can ever change a narc; ⇢ Or whether a narc is ever likely to commit to changing themselves; and more.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s episode, Louise discusses coming back to London and how it has been a total shock to the system. She starts with a solo episode discussing something she has a lot of experience with - living a high energy, hectic, calendar full, big city life that can often lead to you feeling very overwhelmed - and how she is now back into the thick of it. As things have got increasingly stressful, Louise shares the 12 things that help her navigate when life gets just a little bit too much. Louise shares the ‘Jenga Analogy’ - a way that she has found incredibly helpful to help share her feelings and communicate when others that things are getting too much At the back end of the episode, Monica joins Louise to discuss how her actionable tips and tricks on what to do when life, business, relationships and the world get too much.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wondered why you keep dating, and dating, and never really getting anywhere? Maybe you find yourself jumping from relationship to relationship or attracting and engaging with people that turn out to be total disappointments.In this OPEN(HEART) episode of OPENHOUSE, Louise is joined by head OPENHOUSE therapist, clinical psychologist & celebrity relationship expert, Dr Tari Mack as she discusses the three key areas that she sees people missing time and time again when they are trying to find their life partner.  The two discuss:  the importance of a shopping list;  the importance of building foundations before jumping into bed together;  why you keep going for the same types of men on repeat, even though it’s not working;  the importance of leading with consistency rather than chemistry alone; how to break the chemistry cycle;  why you have to be able to communicate about what you want and what you don’t want before you start jumping into bed together And more.  Louise also shares all she has learnt about: how you can be your own red flag how you often can be perpetuating the cycles of wrong partner choice due to your own unconscious attraction & bias; how much therapy has helped her to move from poor communication, conflict styles & partner choice to her healthiest relationship yet.  Dr Tari Mack also shares more about her exclusive “Single To Engaged” course launching this month (enrolment closes August 30th 2022) and how the 3 month, 12 module course (including a 1-1 individual relationship reading of your blind spots - plus option of a & live coaching group and WhatsApp access) could be the perfect way for you to deep dive into therapy and find the partner for you. Even if you’re not ready to find your forever person, Dr Tari will prepare you for healthy dating, While the Single to Engaged live coaching group is only open until Aug 31, the online course is self-paced and always available. Sign up to Single to Engaged HERE ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like everything is just a little too much and that you feel more sensitive than most people? Or that you are either hyper stressed out, with 101 things on your to-do list that all need to be done at once? Or, alternatively, do you not feel much at all? Are you lethargic and struggling with motivation and can think of nothing better than lying on your sofa, never leaving the house & eating take out and binging netflix? Has the pandemic changed you as a person and the outside world doesn’t feel as good as it used to?  In today’s episode, Louise sits down with nervous system coach and somatic therapist Dana Doswell to discuss how our relationships, community, city and even the pandemic can either hurt or heal your nervous system. Dana & Louise get into:  What is somatic bodywork; How and why emotions show up in the body;  Louise’s personal tendency to shift into fight & flight as opposed to rest & digest or freeze; and How so many of us are disconnected & numb to what is really going on around us and inside of us.  The pair also discuss the impact that coming back to London has had on Louise’s nervous system as well as discussing how other big changes, like the pandemic, are deeply distressing to so many people’s nervous systems (even if you didn’t realise it) and how it has shifted the entire way that your body (and mind) may function.  Dana also runs through the three ‘states’ of the nervous system and how these are supposed to work in a healthy functioning and resilient nervous system, as well as discussing the impact that loving and stable relationships can have on your biology and physiology vs. those that are unhealthy And so much more!  If you took value from this episode, please share to your socials & give us a rating on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to help us reach as many people as possible with the life changing and transformative impacts of therapy and emotional health practices.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bonus episode, Louise jumps into the podcast studio at Shoreditch House to discuss something she's been thinking about lately - the significance of the small and how we can use tiny, 30 second moments to make people feel loved, cared for, cherished and adored. A little really goes a long way in a world lonelier and more disconnected than ever before. Louise discusses her top 10 tips on how the little things can become the big things - and how she has put some of these into action in the last few weeks of her life with those around her. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, I am beyond excited to introduce you to my Sex Therapist, Massimo Fontana. He is the most incredible sex therapist and he is the man that is going to help the OPENHOUSE audience start reach the pinnacle of sex, intimacy and deep connection. While I am all for female empowerment, I LOVE that Massimo brings a bit of ‘male’ to the podcast, because the way he looks at what we discuss is revolutionary and allows us to consider today’s sexual conditioning from all stand points.  In today’s episode, I introduce Massimo and then we jump straight into the juicy stuff, including:  The rise of designer vaginas and how pornography has led to a misguided belief that your pu$$y should be ‘perfect’ What you’d think about your genitals if you were stranded on a desert island How religion sets the foundations for sexual shame and keeping pleasure inside the marital home How many of us are not connected to our sexual self Why society glorifies big penises, and focuses on performance based sex The Bell Curve for male & female orgasm;  Why today’s society overlooks foreplay; and more! I also share my personal stories of what I have learnt in my own sex life over the past decade and Massimo doesn’t hold back with any of his questions. It’s a juicy one, and is the first of many very important, intimate discussions to come. If you took value from this episode, please share to your socials & give us a rating on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to help us reach as many people as possible with the life changing and transformative impacts of therapy and emotional health practices.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to ‘No Mans Land’ - when you have no trust issues in your relationship and no reason to not trust your partner but you struggle with trust & insecurity. It’s a sticky in between area when sometimes you feel uncomfortable and you find yourself thinking ‘do I trust them!?’ or ‘do I not trust myself? Is this the problem coming from me or is it being caused by them? Is it because of a partner or incident before? Should they be doing more to help me or should I be pulling myself together? Am I being irrational? Are they being irrational? If you can relate, this episode is for you.  Today, Louise is once again joined by Lisa Smith, of TikTok’s ‘So My Mom’s A Therapist’ notoriety to discuss all things TRUST.  They pair discuss:  ⇢ The concept of silence, suppression, the crazy girl and the cool girl ⇢ How the cool girl and crazy girl show up in our cognition and in our brain patterns ⇢ Why it’s not needy to have needs but why we don’t act on our feelings because of rejection ⇢ The physical impacts of ignoring our own needs ⇢The real of ‘reasonable’ - what can you ask your partner to do to make you feel better? ⇢ How to understand the difference between overactive anxiety and an overactive nervous system response vs. our gut trying to tell us the truth ⇢ The secret to soothing your nervous system, alone, and with your partner;  ⇢ How to navigate these situations when our bodies aren’t happy and we don’t feel safe.  And so much more. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you hate dating apps? Do you think people are lazy? Never reply? Always think there are more fish in the sea? Always keep meeting useless people and heading back to the apps?  Louise talks with Dr Tari Mack, clinical psychologist and relationship expert on how to make these damn apps work for you.  The pair talk: Approach & intentionality - clarity around shopping list and qualifiers that you HAVE to be clear on before you download the app;  Dealbreakers, red flags - how to talk about them and how to identify them; How you can get in your own way with search criteria;  How to set up your profile to share your true self - and to weed out people who are interested in your fake self;  How to stop wasting mental time and energy engaging with the wrong people;  How to start conversation;  How long should you talk before meeting? And more. Louise also shares:  Some of the amazing stories she has experienced through dating apps;  And how many hilariously BAD stories she has also experienced thanks to her poor use of dating apps.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mothers define our childhood, so it only makes sense that they might define our adulthood too, right?  In today’s episode, Louise is joined viral TikTok Therapist, LMFT and EMDR/TRM trained therapist and the powerful pair discuss all things Mummy issues and look at the complex relationships we can have with our Mother’s. They look at the positives we can take from our Mother’s in childhood and adulthood but also the way that they can push our buttons like no others. Louise & Lisa look at healthy relationships all the way through to toxic relationships, setting boundaries, commenting on our lives and decision making and more including: ⇢ The psychological model of the ‘Good Enough Mother’  ⇢ What we learn from Mom, and what we learn from Dad; ⇢ How often we look at the parent who made the ‘loudest’ or most ‘painful’ wounds - and ignore the quieter one;  ⇢ How to understand Mum’s judgment, criticism and constant feedback - as well as the guilt when she always calls and you’re ‘too busy’ to talk; ⇢ How to set boundaries, why they are important and how to handle the backlash;  ⇢The ‘Fleet’ Analogy - about how to have a healthy relationship with your parents (and family) that doesn’t lead into isolation or enmeshment;  ⇢ The ‘Characters We Play In Our Families’ - how everyone is taught to play a role in the family and how you can change this when you shine a light on it. And so much more. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today’s first ever OPENHOUSE Hotline episode, Louise reads clinical psychologist, Dr Tari, Mack and sex therapist Massimo Fontana a listener’s question that explains she is in a happy, long term relationship but has started to think about someone she has met at work …. A lot.  Louise asks the therapists their thoughts on what to do when you start to think about someone who is not your partner. The group discuss:  ⇢ Is this normal? Does this happen to everyone? ⇢ What to do when it happens;  ⇢ Why this is often more about you, rather than the person outside of the relationship;  ⇢ But what the other person can show you about yourself and your relationship;  ⇢ Why stepping out of bounds isn't always the solution;  ⇢ The shame and guilt that people experience when they do engage with the 'other person' thinking it might make them feel better; As well as asking; Is it normal to fantasize about someone who isn’t your partner? and What tips and tricks that you can introduce into your relationship to re-connect both inside and outside of the bedroom. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As summer draws to an end, Louise hops into the studio to give you a *QUICK* solo episode and life update. After a busy summer and things growing fast at OPENHOUSE, she's juggling lots of plates and hasn't taken a hot second in a while to tell you what's going on, behind the scenes, in her life.  So, grab a tea, grab a coffee, go for a walk and join Louise as she chats a little dose of real life reality (because not everything can be sex, love and intimacy): ⇢Why did she come back from Mexico?  ⇢Is she going back?  ⇢What are her thoughts on long distance love?  ⇢What is the future of OPENHOUSE ⇢What is she still working on in therapy?  ⇢Who trolled her; and more! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Our sex episodes are back. Join Louise & OPENHOUSE sex therapist, psychologist, & intimacy coach, Massimo Fontana, as the pair discuss: ⇢Making love in the dark; ⇢The balance between receivership and service in the bedroom; ⇢The impact of pornography and ‘fake it till you make it’ culture on our sex lives today ⇢The fragile ego + why we take things personally if our partner doesn’t orgasm ⇢Why we’re not creating space to explore our sexual self ⇢How to communicate what you like and what you don’t like in the bedroom ⇢How to build a space of intimacy where it doesn’t matter whether you orgasm or not  ⇢The importance of being in your body rather than cerebrally being in your head  ⇢And the importance of aftercare, safety and non-violent sexual play Massimo and Louise also chat breath play, blindfold play, creating sex tapes, the Master’s and Johnson Orgasm curve & crying in the shower after sex + the HEARTSPACE trick to bring you and your partner closer together.  ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Louise and Shadow Work Guide, Jordan Jeppe, as they discuss how the simple act of giving space to your relationships and sex life can revolutionise them With the pair coming to you from Mexico, Jordan shares her experience with 13 months of conscious and intentional celibacy, and Louise shares her 2 year experience of being a ‘naughty celibate’ as well as discussing: ⇢Healing from heartbreak, jealousy, and toxic traits and patterns ⇢Why celibacy is nothing like you think it is ⇢The concept of the 'sexual pause' ⇢Why we all need space to reflect on our past and present ⇢How our shadow drives our past relationships ⇢Are you masturbating intentionally? and ⇢How to review your connection with self pleasure And MORE! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A bonus update and solo episode from Louise as she discusses her recent life challenge in Mexico and what she learnt from it. ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Louise is joined by psychologist Dr. Alex Melkumian and writer, speaker and Louise's great friend, Ellie Austin-Williams of This Girl Talks Money to discuss all things money and how it has us in such a chokehold. The group discuss: ⇢ How our money habits start to form before we are even born (+ the intergenerational cycles of money) ⇢ A discussion around which caregiver drives our money habits the most; ⇢ The connection between money, sex & food - and which is Louise’s favorite;  ⇢ The threshold at which money stops making us more happy;  ⇢ The concept of retail therapy - is this just normalized addiction; ⇢ The big money taboo; ⇢ Why we’re happy to share a bed with someone but not discuss money; and ⇢ How to start having the conversations that will  And more! ------ 🤍 FOLLOW LOUISE / HEALING HONEYS 🤍 https://www.youtube.com/@healinghoneys https://www.instagram.com/iamlouiserumball/ https://www.tiktok.com/@healinghoneys_ https://www.instagram.com/healinghoneys/ 💌 Submit a question to the Healing Honeys Hotline 💌 TRASH TALKS: Submit Your Awful Dating Stories HEAL WITH LOUISE ✨ 7 Day Somatic Healing Trial: Daily Devotion ✨ Therapy + Healing PDFs: Therapy Shop ✨ 7 Day Free Confidence Queen Overhaul: Waitlist Sign Up ✨ There She Glows: 12 Week Life Transformation: Waitlist Sign Up Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices