Havilah's Podcast (Havilah Cunnington)
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| 31 Aug 2023 | 273. Embracing the Good, Hard Life: Having a Growth Mindset | 00:36:21 | |
This is the final episode of the series we've been chatting about this past month, Embracing the Good, Hard Life. This series was inspired by the realization that life is usually both good and hard at the same time. For a long time, Havilah thought she needed her life to change so she can get from the hard stuff to the good stuff. Today, Havilah is diving into mindset and why mindsets are important as we navigate life. She's sharing exactly what mindset it and the difference between a fixed and growth mindset. When we have a growth mindset, we realize we can continue to get better, be innovative, and solve problems. Having a growth mindset also allows us to view setbacks as temporary hurdles instead of things that take us out. Let's talk about what a growth mindset looks like and how we can incorporate that into our lives! If you are looking for more way to connect and find more resources check out these links: | |||
| 06 Nov 2024 | 333. The Unseen Struggle: Navigating Emotions as a Feeler | 00:26:59 | |
Hey friends, it’s Havilah here! We’re kicking off a brand new series that dives deep into the unseen struggles of each of the Prophetic Personalities. This week, we’re focusing on “feelers” — those of us who connect with God through emotions and have a special sensitivity to His heart. I’ll be unpacking some common misunderstandings about feelers, and sharing why being in touch with your emotions is actually a powerful gift, not a weakness! If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions or struggled to understand them, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah | |||
| 18 Sep 2019 | 128: A Conversation on Mental Health | 00:42:48 | |
“Do Christians go to Heaven if they commit suicide?” “Should a leader, who is struggling with depression, be in leadership?” “Is depression demonic for a Christian?” Depression and suicide is a real thing and something that so many people deal with. It’s a silent killer because people can feel shame for even having thoughts of suicide or feeling depressed, leaving them closed to open up about what’s really going on. It’s a hard topic to discuss but it’s something that the Church NEEDS to talk about more. Havilah and her dad answer these questions and more in this necessary and inspiring conversation. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 13 Nov 2024 | 334. The Unseen Struggle: Trusting Visions as a Seer | 00:22:34 | |
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we're diving into the unique challenges faced by those with a "seer" prophetic personality—those of us who receive visions, dreams, and images from God. If you've ever felt isolated, misunderstood, or even disillusioned because of the vision God has given you, this episode is for you. We'll talk about handling loneliness, the frustration of delayed dreams, and the struggle to stay present when you're so future-focused. I share insights from the life of Joseph and practical steps to thrive in the waiting season. Plus, we explore how to find encouragement along the way and trust in God’s perfect timing. Don't miss it! | |||
| 27 Oct 2021 | 191: Marriage Is… Restoration Episode 4: When Your Marriage Is Broken | 00:54:56 | |
This week in the final episode of the Marriage Is Series, Havilah chats with Clint Davis who talks about trauma within a marriage and what to do if there has been a betrayal or trauma within the marriage. What do you do if your marriage is ‘broken’? Covid has done a number on marriages. Pastors report seeing more divorces in the past year than they have in all of their cumulative years in ministry. Why? Clint explains that up until covid and the lockdowns we had maladaptive coping skills and were able to distract ourselves until we were all given no where else to turn but our homes. It either drove people closer or the wheels came off. Listen in as Havilah and Dr. Clint discuss how we try to put bandaids over bullet holes, how important community is for healthy feedback to know whether or not your situation is truly abusive, and how to heal from betrayal trauma. Clint Davis is an Army Veteran who has a Bachelor's in Psychology from Louisiana Tech University and Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary. He is an ordained minister and Licensed Professional Counselor trained in EMDR for trauma, Restoration Therapy for couples and families, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) and is also a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Clint owns Clint Davis Counseling and Integrative Wellness where he has a team of Mental Health Professionals, Doctors, Chiropractors and Dietitians who help people recover from trauma to the mind, body, and spirit. He is also currently the Director of Recovery for The Hub: Urban Ministry that works to fight against poverty and human trafficking. He is married to his wife Jacie and has two sons Grady (6) and Jude (3). https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/asking-why/id1527892108 Facebook and Instagram @clintdaviscounselingllc Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 07 Sep 2023 | 274: Cunnington Catch Up: Insights & Highlights | 00:17:50 | |
In this episode, Havilah shares a full monthly wrap up on all things in the Cunnington's world including some big changes. She unpacks how her time on sabbatical truly helped give space for the upcoming season shift that is underway for the Cunningtons and Truth to Table. If you want to hear a little bit of how Havilah is building for the future, listen in to this episode. To stay connected with all the things Havilah is doing, visit: | |||
| 11 Sep 2024 | 325. How to Decode Your Emotions | 00:43:09 | |
I’m super excited about today’s conversation because we have Jenna Zint joining us to dive into decoding our emotions. Jenna shares her wisdom on understanding the emotions we all experience but sometimes struggle to name or navigate. We’re unpacking how to recognize these emotions, what they’re telling us, and how to respond in healthier, more empowered ways. Jenna offers practical tips on how to connect with yourself on a deeper level, and together we explore why it’s so important to listen to our emotions instead of pushing them aside. ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: havilahcunnington.com Instagram: @havilahcunnington Facebook: Havilah Cunnington 👇 MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES👇 📕 Here’s everything you need to plan, organize, and write your book: http://havilahsauthorschool.com 💛 Join me & hundreds of like-hearted believers for my monthly Bible study: | |||
| 21 Jun 2023 | 263. My #1 Focus for my Sabbatical | 00:22:48 | |
Today we're talking all about my number one focus for this sabbatical that I'm taking for the month of July. You may not know, but I actually am in the middle of a sabbatical for travel and ministry, and I'm taking a full sabbatical for the month of July. So today I'm here to reveal what my number one focus is for the month of July that I believe is going to be critical to my future, to how I experience myself, how others experience me, and it's something that I need some significant time to process. Get your walking shoes on and your cup of coffee & as always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: : + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 12 Jun 2024 | 312. How Do We Protect Ourselves From Moral Failure? | 00:31:50 | |
Today Caitlin Zick and I are talking about the rise of moral failure incidents in the church and their impact on faith communities. By sharing our experiences, we hope to shed light on creating a safer, more accountable church culture. Success in ministry shouldn’t come at the cost of personal integrity. This conversation aims to empower us to build trust and justice in our own communities. Thanks for joining us on this journey! I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/ZI6Mh_cyFcY If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 08 Jan 2025 | 342. How to Keep Your Brain in Discovery Mode | 00:23:19 | |
Welcome back to the podcast! This week, we’re diving into an essential concept for the new year: moving from defense mode to discovery mode in our brains. I share insights from one of my favorite books, How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb, breaking down how our automatic and deliberate systems influence our responses to stress. We’ll explore practical ways to shift out of the fight, flight, or freeze mindset and into a space of curiosity and anticipation for good things. Join me as we unpack how embracing discovery mode can help us live intentionally and create a more rewarding life. | |||
| 29 Jan 2020 | 142: Overcoming Criticism | 00:34:34 | |
In this podcast, Havilah talks about overcoming criticism. Do you ever get discouraged about your reaction to things? Criticism affects our hearts in multiple ways and it can have a profound impact on our lives in a really negative way. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 03 Apr 2024 | 302. 5 Lies That Sabotage your Friendships | 00:35:06 | |
In episode 1 of our series on The Art of Adult Friendship, we're tackling the 5 lies that are sabotaging your social life. The truth is navigating friendships as an adult is hard and there's not a roadmap or a rulebook to follow. Seasons shift and life changes and so do our friendships, but this shouldn't scare us away from developing and building vibrant and healthy friendships. Whether you're running a company, a busy stay at home mom, an entrepreneur, retired or anywhere in between, we all need strong friendships. Listen in to see which of these 5 lies resonates most with you and how you could be sabotaging your friendships. Looking for next steps for your high school senior? Check out Bethel Tech, the only Christian online tech bootcamp in the world for UX/UI design, full stack development, cyber security, data science and more... https://havilahcunnington.com/bethel-tech Connect with Havilah and discover more resources: All things Havilah: https://havilahcunnington.com Join my online book writing mentorship: https://havilahsauthorschool.com Grow your life in God: + https://thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 09 Dec 2022 | 241. Let's Talk About Advent: Week 2 | 00:15:08 | |
In the busyness of this season, are we making room for Him? | |||
| 19 Jun 2019 | 116: Living a Grateful Life with Rachel Cruze | 00:25:26 | |
Today Havilah is joined by special guest, Rachel Cruze. Research shows that our relationships, health, decision-making skills, kindness, and even sleep improve with gratitude. In this episode, they talk about Rachel’s new journal, The Contentment Journal, and how it was created to grow and change you in ways you can’t imagine. Learn more about Rachel: Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 06 Dec 2019 | 139: Breaking Free from Fear and Pain | 00:15:15 | |
At some point in your life, you are going to face hard things. Things that take your breath away. Those things you didn’t expect, the pain you didn’t anticipate, the moment you didn’t see coming. For those of you that have dealt with fear and pain in your life, you know right away that this is not a quick overnight fix. Breaking free of fear and pain requires consistent, deliberate intention to get rid of the habits and old patterns. In this episode, journey with Havilah as she goes through the first chapter of her new Bible study book, “I Do Hard Things:” Breaking Free from Fear and Pain, to gain a plan of action to climb out of your suffering and learn to dream again. Discover how you can climb out of your pit of pain and into a life of freedom and peace. Sign up for the FREE study: https://truthtotable.com/idht/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 25 Aug 2021 | 184: Boundaries and Ministry with Danny Silk | 00:42:35 | |
In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Also: Don’t forget to sign up for Havilah’s FREE EVENT: CREATED FOR MORE event at: https://www.thetruthacademy.com/created-for-more Get clear on boundaries and how to maintain them, how to chase your dream God’s way and how to hear God’s voice in every circumstance in your daily life! We are taking all of your most-asked questions and rolling it into a 3-Day exclusive event where Havilah will teach you everything you need to know about how to live your purpose and remove the blocks that stand in your way! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 18 Aug 2021 | 183: Boundaries and Work | 00:29:48 | |
How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your work! What did you think of this episode? Let us know in our socials! Can’t wait to hear from you on Facebook and Instagram - tag us in your stories + posts! @truthtotable @havilahcunnington
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| 16 Aug 2023 | 271. Embracing the Good, Hard Life: Embracing the Good | 00:27:07 | |
We're jumping into our second episode of our series Embracing the Good, Hard Life. If you missed last week, make sure you go back and listen. Havilah shares what it means to her to embrace the good, hard life. Today, she's diving into embracing the good. It's so easy to constantly be thinking about the bad things going on in our lives. Did you know your brain is created and programmed to seek out danger and anything that could destroy you? Because of this, we tend to go into fight or flight and make sure we are safe. This is great when it comes to survival, but it's not great when it comes to every day life. But, there's strength in focusing on the good and the victories we have. Let's celebrate today. "It is okay to be right where I am, and start today." Havilah's Author School is BACK! We've got some exciting news - for the 3rd time, Havilah will be hosting another class of Authors! In this 16-week mentorship program, she will help you clarify your message and plan your book from beginning to end. You’ll have built-in weekly accountability and the instant support of a community of writers like you. And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft! Join the 230 graduates that have had major success. Learn more and apply here: havilahsauthorschool.com If you are looking for more way to connect and find more resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support | |||
| 22 Feb 2024 | 296. Making Brilliant Business Decisions & Money by Hearing God's Voice | 00:46:46 | |
On today's episode I'm joined by Daniel and Elles Maddry, the founders of Youth Pastor Co and Cards Christians Like, to talk about their experiences in hearing God's voice in their ideas, marketing, and businesses. This conversation was so great and so full, we've broken it up into two parts so enjoy part one today and tune into for part two next week. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones!
As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: --> Grab your copy of my new book Created to Hear God here. + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com | |||
| 17 Feb 2023 | 247. I Dream Big Series: Part 4 | 00:11:43 | |
Welcome back to our series called I Dream Big. Today, we’re going to look at another way to figure out the specific dream of God in your life: through covenant. Our culture tends to glamorize the dreamers and visionaries of the world: Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Oprah… But the truth about dreaming is: The one who partners with the visionary is just as important. | |||
| 13 Sep 2023 | Welcome to Havilah's Podcast! | 00:01:26 | |
Havilah Cunnington has been in full-time ministry for twenty years, and serves as a pastor at Bethel Church. Havilah and her husband, Ben, lead a nonprofit and an online platform called Truth to Table, reaching the world with Bible studies, messages, and lifestyle leadership tools. Havilah and Ben live in Redding, California, with their four sons: Judah, Hudson, Grayson, and Beckham. | |||
| 21 Aug 2019 | 125: 10 Wins You Need in Your Everyday Life | 00:35:09 | |
In this week’s episode, we cover the 10 wins you need in your everyday life. Living for God should never be complicated and all wins matter, no matter how big or small. Consistent wins every day & progressive growth are the keys to living out your purpose on the planet. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 30 Jun 2020 | 152: Conversations on Racial Reconciliation with Mercy Lokulutu | 01:15:10 | |
In this episode, Havilah Cunnington and Mercy Lokulutu have a very vulnerable conversation on racial reconciliation. Mercy brings a fresh perspective to the conversation on racial injustice in the United States. Originally from Nigeria, married with three children and has a Master’s in psychiatry, Mercy shares how to embrace mourning and grief while clinging to hope. She informs where to further educate one’s self on the issue and how to support one another on the journey towards greater racial reconciliation, healing and restoration. Learn more and connect with Havilah: | |||
| 23 Dec 2022 | 243. Let's Talk About Advent: Week 4 | 00:13:55 | |
Today is the final day of our Advent series. | |||
| 19 Feb 2020 | 145: Are You Just Surviving? | 00:15:52 | |
Do you ever feel like you’re in the trenches of life? Do you feel like life has become overwhelming and unmanageable? Join Havilah as she shares life’s secrets to handle this crazy, messy world we call life. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 03 Jan 2024 | 289. How Am I Created To Hear God? | 00:24:00 | |
This January we have started my 10 day study with my new book, Created to Hear God. You were never meant to do life alone. You were created to hear the voice of God in your everyday life. Today we are discussing the topic for Day 1: how God created you to hear Him! You can watch the full series on my YouTube channel. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||
| 12 Feb 2020 | 144: Is God Ignoring Me? | 00:19:33 | |
Sometimes in life, it feels like God is ignoring us. You think to yourself He’s not listening to my cries. What am I doing wrong when I’m doing everything right? In this episode Havilah shares real life stories on trusting God’s timing and how we can have hope and clarity to know that He has a plan. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 23 Dec 2021 | 200: FIRST CHAPTER REVEAL: Discovering and Activating My Spiritual Gifts Book | 00:14:03 | |
Surprise! It’s audiobook time! This week Havilah reads you the first chapter of her new bible study book: Discovering and Activating My Spiritual Gifts. Listen in as you get a sneak peek ‘listen’ into the foundation for the entire study and book! Setting the groundwork for what Spiritual Gifts are, what they aren’t and how God uses them in and through you, you will walk into this Christmas with new eyes for what Jesus’ birth, life and gifts to believers are this season! Order my new book HERE Join our FREE study HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 25 Dec 2024 | 340. The Biggest Questions in Your 50s | 00:24:52 | |
Hey there! In this episode, we’re wrapping up our series on navigating life’s big decades with a dive into the 50s. I chat with Paula, a vibrant, wise, and courageous soul who shares her journey of transformation, from battling life’s curveballs to rediscovering herself in this new season. We talk about embracing change, taking risks, grieving past disappointments, and dreaming boldly, no matter your age. Whether you’re stepping into your 50s, reflecting on your own journey, or just curious about what’s ahead, this conversation is full of encouragement and fresh perspective. Don’t miss it! | |||
| 08 Dec 2023 | 286. Why Can't I Hear God | 00:26:36 | |
My new book, Created to Hear God, is now available! This is also my first time recording my book as an audio book and so to celebrate, I’m reading you the first chapter. I want to remind you that you are capable of incredible things, you have a purpose and your ability to discern God’s voice is pivotal to unlocking that purpose. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! Grab your copy here -- or on Amazon. As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||
| 22 Jan 2025 | 344. How Assumptions Are Holding You Back—And What to Do Instead | 00:21:33 | |
Are your assumptions secretly running the show? In this episode, we’re diving into how assumptions shape our decisions and relationships—often without us even realizing it. I share personal stories, like my old red convertible days, and explore how our minds love shortcuts (hello, confirmation bias!). Together, we’ll unpack practical ways to identify and challenge those sneaky thoughts holding you back, so you can reframe your perspective and step into a more intentional way of living. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one! | |||
| 03 Nov 2022 | 236: Living with Intention Part 1 | 00:24:03 | |
I need to tell you some exciting news! I have been working on a project for the last few months and it's finally ready! We have just launched something brand new. Have you ever wanted to write a book? This is not another course. This is called Havilah's Author School and it's a 4 month LIVE interactive mentorship to guide you step-by-step to get your first draft written and in your hands. Your story is worth sharing! There's only 200 spots and they will fill up fast! Apply today! https://havilahsauthorschool.com/ Today, we will begin to talk about living with intention. Join me for the next few weeks as we talk about what it looks like to live with intention practically and how you can set your eyes on something and live it out. Intention gives us the opportunity to not just get through our days, but live out our days. It helps us to see where we want to go, make decisions and set goals, and develop relationships that propel us into that direction. I hope you enjoy this week's episode and join me for the future ones as we go deeper in this topic of living with intention! | |||
| 14 Aug 2019 | 124: Nourishing Your Soul: Pt 3 | 00:11:47 | |
We’re jumping into episode three of our Nourish Series! We’ve been talking about how to experience a satisfied soul so that we don’t just live with hunger but we know how to fulfill that need and live satisfied. This week we are talking about our hunger to BECOME. Once we start to understand our hunger to be loved and to belong, we are propelled forward to actually become something, to grow! What does it mean to become all we were meant to be? Let’s start to walk in the purpose of God and understand what it means to become who He created us to be. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 05 Jul 2023 | 265. Intentional Living: How Our Intentional Behaviors Can Lead Us to Our Goals | 00:18:58 | |
This month we will be diving into a study I did called Intentional Living. Did you know that your behavior communicates your intentions? And how powerful it is when we set our behaviors to lead us to get the goals we want. I'm taking a lot of my study from a book called How to Have a Good Day. Totally recommend you picking it up and reading it. So join me today as we talk about how intentional behaviors can lead us to our goals! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: : + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 19 Jun 2024 | 313. Overcoming Church Hurt | 00:38:48 | |
Today I’m talking with my friend Debbie Mayes about her journey through her husband's affair and how the church reacted. Debbie shares insights on faith, healing, and the importance of compassionate care. Join us, leave comments, ask questions, and don't miss next week's continuation of our series on Moral Failure in the Church. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/a9lDDy-S78U If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 07 Jul 2021 | 176: The Secrets to Waiting Well | 00:35:13 | |
Are you content while contending for God’s future for you? Often times we think we are ready, but really, we aren’t. God is preparing our minds and our bodies to carry the responsibility that lies ahead. Anyone else been in love with love? Anyone have their future spouse ‘checklist’? That’s right, I see you. Laying our romantic lives down in front of God is not easy. Waiting on God to bring you the things that are the deepest desires of your heart is really hard. But spoiler alert: the waiting never ends. Even if you get the one thing, there is always something else you’re waiting for. When God asks us to wait, He doesn’t give us a time frame. His timing is not our timing. Even if He says suddenly, that doesn’t mean it’s our definition of ‘suddenly’. God likes to keep the mystery. In this episode, Havilah reveals the two things you can control in the waiting season: how you wait and who you become in the journey. Listen in as she unpacks the rich treasure that awaits you in the waiting. Calling all Communicators: Register for my FREE Masterclass: Message Prep: A Step-By-Step Guide to Preparing the Perfect Message July 15th Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 13 Sep 2023 | 275. Purpose Driven Habits Pt.1 | 00:40:07 | |
A lot of people have heard of the Atomic Habit book, and how that’s changed people’s lives. Well, this month I want to share with you my friend’s story and how she found herself in her lowest moment in life and with God’s grace she figured out how to come out of that moment and it was through habits! Join Jenna, and I this month as we talk all about how to implement really clear, simple but transformative habits in our daily routines. And the reason we’re talking about this is because I’ve had a transformation in my own life and you guys know me, I don’t share things that are just good ideas. I share things that make sense, that work and that I try and I often, want to tell you guys about those things. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 29 Dec 2021 | 201: Spiritual Gifts Series Pt. 5 - Deborah Giles - Obey and Release: Supernatural Spirit-Led Living | 00:49:47 | |
THIS WEEK IS THE PINNACLE OF OUR SPIRITUAL GIFTS SERIES and the perfect way to close out 2021 and step into 2022 destined for greater things than you imagined. If you’ve found this podcast, you are meant to hear this. This is a divine appointment. You haven’t found this podcast by accident. This week’s guest is Deborah Giles, a profound prophetic voice to many world leaders. Havilah and Deborah discuss spiritual gifts, living a spirit-led life and a prophetic gifting through the avenue of dreams. Are you in a wilderness and wondering if God has simply brought you here to leave you? Growing your gifts might happen in a dark place where you’re simply keeping your head above water. God takes you to the place where you are done leading and you have to surrender and wait to see what God has for you. This is your sign: It’s time to shake off old concepts and mindsets of how you think God works. Hear Deborah’s story where she did this and used her spiritual gifts to build her business and start over in the marketplace at 38 years old and turn her business into ministry. We are called to be spiritual in the atmosphere we are placed in - it’s not in silos - God wants to bring the supernatural to whatever you are doing in the natural. Living a spirit-led life happens in the midst of whatever God has placed in your hand! Ministry doesn’t happen in the 4 walls of the church, it happens when you steward the natural with God’s supernatural power of spiritual gifts! This episode is so full of wisdom and gold you will fill pages if you’re a note taker. You can find Deborah on Instagram at @deborahgiles where you can see first-hand all that God is doing in and through her! ONLY 3 MORE DAYS! Sign up NOW for our FREE, virtual Bible Study: Discovering and Activating My Spiritual Gifts HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 10 Jul 2024 | 316. Building Blocks: Discovering Your Purpose With God | 00:43:25 | |
Today, we're diving into a topic that's super close to my heart – discovering our purpose with God. Our series, "What Am I Doing with My Life?" explores those moments when we ask ourselves, "Is this what I'm supposed to be doing?" I've asked myself that many times, and I'm sure you have too. If you're not questioning your path, you might be on autopilot! I’m joined by my friend Mark Hilliard who is a worship pastor and recent graduate of Havilah’s Author School, where he wrote his first book. Whether it's stepping out in faith or finding purpose amidst uncertainty, Mark's insights are sure to inspire. So, grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let's dive into this meaningful conversation! As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/ZGsNVU-LAaM If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 17 Jul 2024 | 317. Finding Your Voice: Unleashing Your Unique Purpose | 00:40:48 | |
Hey everyone! Today we dove into finding your unique voice in life with the incredible Lauren Vander Linden. Lauren shared how her life, juggling roles as a new mom, a business leader at a Fortune 250 company, and an author led her to discover and share her story of forgiveness and freedom from bitterness. In her book, "I Want to Move On," Lauren gives practical steps towards healing and growth. So grab your coffee, settle in, and get ready to be inspired! As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/4zyNsApeGEk If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 28 Jul 2021 | 180: Restorative Singlehood | 01:01:24 | |
Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dreams over God’s best carried a heavy price. Hear Courtney’s journey of trying to write her own love story and chasing after her own romantic dreams and what it took for God to get her fully to Himself. Listen in as Havilah chats with her about how Ishmaels get created when we aren’t willing to wait for our Isaac and the beauty and hope that await those that truly surrender to allow God to write the story for their lives. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 23 Jul 2021 | 179: Cunnington Catch Up | 00:30:56 | |
Havilah is back with another behind the scenes peak of what’s going on in the Cunnington world. Tune in to hear some vacation tips and how they make vacations cost effective, thoughts about their eldest going into high school this year, and are the Cunnington’s moving?! If you heard Havilah’s latest Cunnington Catch Up, you know they were on their way to Nashville. (If you haven’t heard it, stop and go listen to episode 172 first!) Have you ever asked God the question, “What’s next?” Hear how Havilah and her family walked through this process with Him and what He showed, or didn’t show, them through it. Did you hear about everything Havilah and her family had to go through when they realized Grayson’s passport had expired RIGHT before they left for vacation? It was an eye-opening experience! Get the full story that you didn’t get on socials. “I don’t know what He’s going to do. All I know is that as long as I’m where God has me, that’s all that matters, and if He has me somewhere, I’m going to give it all I’ve got.” - Havilah Cunnington The Cunnington fam just got back from vacation. Her family started going to Cabo, Mexico when Havilah was 19 years old, and they’ve gone back ever since. Hear a cool testimony that her dad played a role in and find out all the details about how you can save money on your next vacation! Because you NEED to get away, get rest, and refresh. And it’s possible to do without getting into debt and feeling stressed the whole time. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 05 Jan 2022 | 202: FOCUS Series Part 1: Focus Academy’s Shawn Blanc | 00:38:42 | |
This is the first of our FOCUS SERIES going the entire month of January to get us on solid footing in 2022. I hear from so many of you and the challenges, roadblocks and distractions that keep you from stepping fully into your purpose all boils down to FOCUS. To kick off the series you’ll meet Shawn Blanc, long time friend of Ben and Havilah’s and focus+productivity coach with 20 years under his belt helping tens of thousands of people get clear and meet goals that previously eluded them. In this conversation with Shawn and Havilah you’ll learn how focus is about having clarity about what really matters to you. Learn practical ways of how to fight back against the tyranny of the urgent. We all know how easy it is to get caught up in the moment of what is demanding your attention right ‘now’. Learn how to schedule what matters - and how to follow through! Shawn will outline what the 6 main areas of your life are and how to prioritize those. Take a deep breath and extend yourself some compassion: It’s impossible to give your attention to everything all the time. In the midst of hustle culture it’s easy to forget that amidst the noise. As you head into 2022, realize that what got you here might not be what carries you any further. At the end of today’s episode you’ll be confident in knowing if what you’ve been doing is serving your goals moving forward and how to take action toward what is serving your goals! Also, if you want to get connected to Shawn’s Focus Course Academy you can find that HERE. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 24 Jun 2021 | 174: Is Your Future Compelling? Pt 2 | 00:23:58 | |
Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the second of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Don’t miss the wrap up of what special word Havilah has for you in this season! Take advantage of our special discount for ANYTHING on our site, for podcast listeners only: use SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 25 Oct 2023 | 280. Confronting the Devil | 00:26:08 | |
This is our last week of our spiritual warfare series. With Halloween coming up we’re talking about facing the devil and how much authority we have over him. Using strategies of confronting the devil from the safety of God’s covering. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||
| 19 Feb 2025 | 348. Faith and Porn: Breaking Free from the Trap | 00:47:38 | |
Wow, this episode was a deep one! I sat down with my friend Aaron to talk about a topic that so many struggle with but rarely discuss—porn. We unpacked why it’s not just about self-control but about deeper needs, how shame keeps people stuck, and what real freedom looks like. Aaron shared his personal journey, the science behind addiction, and practical steps for breaking free. Whether you’re dealing with this yourself, walking alongside a spouse, or raising kids in a hypersexualized culture, this conversation is full of insight and hope. Don’t miss it!More from Aaron: zintsquad.comBuy Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn: https://a.co/d/ivwtDySBuy The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A | |||
| 03 Jul 2024 | 315. What Am I Doing With My Life | 00:27:13 | |
Hey friends! Today, we're kicking off a new series called "What Am I Doing with My Life?" where we'll dive into discovering purpose and finding meaning in our lives. In this episode, we delve into the big questions about purpose and calling. We'll explore how to recognize that you're in the right place at the right time, understand why you're here, and live out your purpose confidently. Remember, purpose isn't just about reaching a destination—it's a way of living. So, whether you're feeling lost or just looking for some guidance, join us as we unpack these topics and help you live an abundant, purpose-filled life. As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/oHdzvhka7iw If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 24 Nov 2021 | 195: Doing Holidays Differently | 00:44:19 | |
In the Cunnington household this year, we are going to do the Holidays differently. We are contemplating what matters most in life and we know that our podcast community is doing the exact same thing. Feel like the world is a dark place? Today you’ll get to meet mom and substitute teacher Norah - who tells her life story as the youngest of 6 children growing up in Uganda. Norah’s story will bring you joy! Everything that the holidays are supposed to be about - good gifts, joy, peace, love and the light of Jesus… is wrapped up in this powerful testimony. Hallmark movies and cozy candles have nothing on this podcast for getting you in the Christmas spirit! Our core values in the Cunnington home and at Truth to Table are generosity and a spirit of giving back in tangible ways. As a mama, I’m raising global citizens serving the God of the Universe who loves every child of every nation. To release children from poverty in Jesus’ name is the mandate on our hearts as we walk into this holiday season. Xx- Havilah Listen in as Havilah shares about her BIG GOAL for our community! Text TABLE to 83393 to join Havilah and our TTT team in bringing life and freedom for children in need - putting your faith into action. This is a spirit of adoption God wants us to embody - and it can be a way to gift your own children the opportunity to put their faith into action. We love you. You’re special. You’ll make it. Learn more here: http://compassion.com/truthtotable Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 01 Jun 2023 | 260. Nurturing Powerhouse Part 3 | 00:18:43 | |
Thanks for tuning in, this is the last part of this powerful word about the nurturing power of women. In today’s episode Havilah continues to share in the power that women have. She mentions: How Deborah is with Barack and how she’s a huge voice in his life to help him believe in himself and keep going. She encourages him by saying things like, “I’m gonna walk with you and I'm gonna talk, and I can either criticize or I can actually connect, and I'm gonna connect you to the story of God. I'm gonna connect you to your identity in Christ. I'm gonna connect you to what God is doing on the earth.”
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| 09 Apr 2019 | 106: Working Through Fears and Constraints | 00:43:53 | |
Today I have a special guest with me. Not only is he my baby-maker and the love of my life but he is also my business partner and ministry partner. We were having a conversation in our kitchen, and I thought this would be something you could benefit from too. We’ve been running Truth to Table full-time for two and a half years now, and we feel like we are no longer in survival mode. We now ask ourselves, how do we move forward? I’ve been struggling with knowing when certain thoughts are fear or wisdom. A lot of the hesitations I have are not grounded in wisdom but in fear of going without. It’s been hard for me to admit because I usually would not say I’m a fearful person but more of a risk-taker. But when I’m not doing well, I grow resistant towards situations and people due to fear. I’ve had to do some work internally to get rid of that child-like fear of being trapped in a painful situation. In this podcast, I want to share with you how I work through these fears and constraints. I hope this encourages you today and that you can learn from my story. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 22 Feb 2023 | 248. I Dream Big Series: Part 5 | 00:11:54 | |
Welcome back! Today's episode is from our 20 day video series called I Dream Big. We have chosen a few to share here on the podcast with you and this week's is the last one so make sure you go back and listen to the other episodes.
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| 11 May 2022 | 214: Reclaiming Identity with Lisa Bevere | 00:16:09 | |
Tune in to hear a session from the Moms of Men course with Lisa Bevere. Havilah and Lisa talk about creating environments of nurture and imparting destiny in their kids lives. Mothers can frame a world by speaking to their children’s God-given destiny. | |||
| 03 Nov 2021 | 192: Storms You’ve Been Through | 00:21:19 | |
From the Mountain Mover Conference in Moses Lake, WA comes today’s episode where Havilah talks about how the storms we live through in our lives makes our message more impactful. We can preach about God when we are safely on the shore, but it’s in the storm that true trust and relationship is forged with God. This message was recorded in October and is a timely word spoken over people in this specific season of personal and global tumult. You’re not alone and Jesus lived life on earth to show us how to do it best. Stay tuned we have business focused episodes coming up and a prophetic series we have in the works! You’re going to love it ALL! If you haven’t already, please subscribe and leave us a review! It will bring hope to others and help this get into the hands of people just like you who need encouragement and solid, biblical teaching. We love and appreciate all of your support, social posts and tags and reviews! It means more than you know! Join our email list which is where we always drop the news first for any open enrollments, special events or sales we have on our courses or studies. You can do that by clicking the link here. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 20 May 2020 | 151: Radical Love & Self Acceptance | 00:32:50 | |
In this episode, I am vulnerably sharing my process of learning to radically love and accept myself. I’ve had the same body my whole life but I cannot say I have always LOVED and accepted it. It took some hard seasons and lessons to recognize the areas self-rejection can hide. Tune in to learn of the incredible revelation I gained on my journey of self-acceptance that led me to the freedom available with the Lord. Learn more and connect with Havilah: | |||
| 07 Jan 2022 | 203: Cunnington Catchup | 00:16:58 | |
Welcome to the FIRST Cunnington Catch Up of 2022 and it is a BIG one! I share about our new house and property (you heard that right!) and a special experience I had there just a few days ago. You know the ones - the touchstone experiences that you have no documentation of but the snapshots in your mind that you’ll carry with you because it marks such a significant moment in time. The end of 2021 and the beginning of 2022 have been so humbling as I look at what God has done - all of the ‘almosts’ and ‘not yet - wait’ seasons that felt hard in the present, but I now know it was all leading to God’s ‘exceedingly, abundantly more’ than I could have ever hoped or imagined. I am living to see the fruition of all I prayed for and knew was supposed to happen - but wasn’t quite sure how it would come to be. If you’re in a season of ‘hard’ and you’re not understanding what God is up to - you’ll want to hear this Cunnington Catchup as I am confident you will have a similar experience to mine, in your future. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 15 Dec 2021 | 199: Spiritual Gifts Pt 3- Gift of Discernment (with guest Kris Vallotton) | 00:39:57 | |
This week Havilah interviews Kris Vallotton about the Gift of Discernment. Listen in as Kris breaks it down as the gift of discerning the spirits and how you might already be operating in that gift without realizing it! Havilah and Kris share their personal experiences of how this gift shows up in daily life - how it might be that you are ultra perceptive of the atmosphere that someone else is bringing into a room. Hear them discuss how to discern what belongs to you and what does not, how to operate in this gifting with vision, grace and love and common pitfalls that can occur. Also - learn how you can begin to activate the gift of Discernment in your own life right now! Kris Vallotton mentions his book Spiritual Intelligence which can be found here. Kris is a foremost authority and expert on operating in Spiritual Gifts and has numerous books and resources which can be found here. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 22 Sep 2021 | 186: Shake Off The Dust | 00:42:22 | |
Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 11 Oct 2023 | 278. Uncomplicate your Spiritual Battle | 00:44:25 | |
This month we are starting our Stronger than the Struggle series. I’m helping you uncomplicated your spiritual battles and teaching you how to view life through God’s plan for you. Our team has created a free resource of declarations just for you. You can download it here 👉🏻 havilahcunnington.com/declarations I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||
| 20 Oct 2022 | 235: Purpose Series: Big Wins Happen in Small Steps | 00:10:42 | |
Hey, welcome back to day 5 and our final day of the purpose challenge series. Listen, if you listened to all 5 days and you are still wanting more, guess what! I have just the thing for you. I've made a free master class to help you start Living and creating a life of immediate impact. Here is the link for you to invest more on yourself: www.thepurposemasterclass.com Today's episode is all about learning one of the greatest secrets to avoiding burnout and getting where you want to be in life. You'll learn how important it is to celebrate your small wins daily. Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge! | |||
| 23 Oct 2024 | 331. The Dangers of Not Hearing God | 00:23:49 | |
Hey friends, in today's episode, we're diving deep into the dangers of not hearing God's voice. I know we often talk about how to hear His voice, but today, we’re flipping the script. What happens when we don't hear from Him? We explore some serious risks, like losing direction and purpose, falling into deception, and spiritual drift. I even share the story of David, who, despite being anointed and having incredible victories, still found himself hiding from God. If you're feeling lost or disconnected, this episode is for you. Let's unpack it together and get back to hearing from our Creator! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah | |||
| 28 Aug 2019 | 126: Nourishing Your Soul: Pt 4 | 00:14:36 | |
In this series, we’ve been talking about all these deep hungers that we have been given by the Holy Spirit to help us nourish not just our natural bodies but our spiritual beings. We have to learn to continuously feed ourselves in these areas or we will live a hungry life. We’ve talked about the hunger to be loved, to belong and to become. In this episode, we are going to talk about the hunger to bless other people. The hunger begins to leak from the inside out! We can’t do everything but we can do something and we can do something today to set a miracle into motion. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 04 Dec 2024 | 337. The Biggest Questions in Your 20s | 00:39:34 | |
In this episode, we dive deep into what it’s like navigating your 20s—the highs, the lows, and the wild unpredictability of it all. I’m joined by Katie, a third-year student at Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry, who shares what being 25 really feels like. We talk about embracing experiences, taking risks, and shaking off the pressure to have it all figured out. Whether you’re thriving, surviving, or somewhere in between, we cover how to find purpose, peace, and maybe even a little fun in the chaos. If you’re in your 20s—or know someone who is—this one’s for you! | |||
| 21 Oct 2020 | 162: Marriage Life with Barry & Lori Byrne: Pt 1 | 00:26:14 | |
In today's Part 1 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries and family therapist, discuss the secrets of having a healthy marriage. They are passionate about bringing spiritual, relational, and emotional breakthrough. It always takes two people showing up fully. Listen in to uncover real solutions when pitfalls happen in marriage! Learn more and connect with Havilah: | |||
| 03 Aug 2023 | 269. Setting Healthy Boundaries | 00:16:55 | |
In today's episode, Havilah is talking about setting up healthy boundaries and using clear language. It's important to write down your boundaries. Write down your internal rules of what you will allow and what you will not allow helps keep you healthy. Ways to help set up healthy boundaries: - It's important to you know your "why" behind the "no" - Determine to follow through no matter what - Decide how you're going to communicate - It's important to use clear language - Be as kind as possible - Communicate without using words What you need to know about: Havilah's Author School is BACK! We've got some exciting news - for the 3rd time, Havilah will be hosting another class of Authors! In this 16-week mentorship program, she will help you clarify your message and plan your book from beginning to end. You’ll have built-in weekly accountability and the instant support of a community of writers like you. And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft! Join the 230 graduates that have had major success. Learn more and apply here: havilahsauthorschool.com If you are looking for more way to connect and find more resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support | |||
| 13 Dec 2023 | 287. Does it Matter if I Hear God or Not? | 00:31:07 | |
Created to Hear God, my newest book, came out yesterday! I’m continuing to give you a sneak peak as today I’m reading you the second chapter. This chapter talks about how important it is to hear God and how it affects your spirit, soul and body. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||
| 07 Feb 2024 | 294. Exploring the Prophetic Personalities: The Knower | 00:44:06 | |
Continuing our series on the Prophetic Personalities, Havilah's sits down with Cole Zick to talk all about the knower prophetic personalities. Cole and his wife Caitlin have been longtime friends and currently pastor a church called Risen King. This is an insightful conversation that we hope will bring clarity and empowerment as you grow in your prophetic personality to hear God's voice the way you were uniquely designed to hear him. Continue your journey of learning about all 4 Prophetic Personalities. Pick up a copy of Havilah's newest book: Created to Hear God on Amazon or wherever books are sold. Thanks so much for listening and if you're looking for more ways to connect with me or for more resources, check these links: | |||
| 30 Jan 2019 | 101: I Hate What I See in the Mirror: Pt. 1 | 00:23:49 | |
In this episode, we dive into part one of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love. We explore the power of making a conscious, and intentional choice to embrace yourself as God’s most significant work. Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ | |||
| 27 Mar 2024 | 301. My Top Ten Boundaries | 00:33:46 | |
Today I'm talking about a different perspective on relationships. In light of some of the events that have come out recently, I'm sharing my top ten boundaries that I use as a woman in ministry. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 12 Mar 2025 | 351. Keeping Up Love After Marriage | 00:40:50 | |
In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with Barry and Lori Byrne, the powerhouse couple behind Love After Marriage and Nothing Hidden Ministries. We’re talking about the real struggles, the tools for breakthrough, and why transparency is the key to a thriving marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or hoping to be, this conversation is packed with wisdom on intimacy, connection, and spiritual warfare in marriage. Plus, we get real about sex, communication, and how to heal when trust has been broken. Grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s do this! Love After Marriage course: https://nothinghidden.com/love-after-marriage/ | |||
| 29 Jan 2025 | 345. Supercharge Your Productivity! | 00:25:41 | |
In this episode, we dive into the power of attention and how it shapes our productivity and outcomes. I share personal insights and practical strategies for staying focused, avoiding distractions, and prioritizing what truly matters. Whether it’s tackling the one task you've been procrastinating on or learning how to set boundaries to protect your mental energy, these tips are game-changers. Plus, I reflect on how my journey of saying "no" to some things has made room for a more intentional, fulfilling life. Tune in to supercharge your focus and get ready to shift your productivity into high gear! | |||
| 26 Feb 2020 | 146: The Secret To Happiness | 00:21:44 | |
Have you ever wondered what the secret to happiness is? In this episode, we're talking all about HAPPINESS! Robert Holden, the founder of the Happiness Project in England, introduced something called the happiness test. The test includes a set of questions designed to help one find the key to joy. Take the test today and learn what your happiness score is. It's a simple test you can take right now. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 16 Oct 2024 | 330. Why People Don't Want To Hear God | 00:27:22 | |
In this episode, join me as I unpack why we sometimes resist hearing God's voice and how to reconnect with it, even after being hurt. I share some personal stories, including a tragic experience that challenged me, and talk about the struggle we face when our expectations don’t line up with reality. Plus, I’ll share some practical steps to deepen this journey. Also be sure to check out the Created To Hear God Journal available now! Amazon: https://a.co/d/2VCeRXH Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/created-to-hear-god-journal-havilah-cunnington/1145097137?ean=9781400238675 ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: havilahcunnington.com Instagram: @havilahcunnington Facebook: Havilah Cunnington 👇 MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES👇 📕 Here’s everything you need to plan, organize, and write your book: http://havilahsauthorschool.com 💛 Join me & hundreds of like-hearted believers for my monthly Bible study: | |||
| 10 Apr 2024 | 303. 5 Game Changing Truths About Friendships | 00:19:36 | |
Today I’m continuing my series, The Art of Adult Friendships. Today I’m giving you my 5 game changing truths to change your approach to friendships. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/cnxkGR829vY As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 24 Mar 2023 | 252. March Mindset Series Part 4 | 00:37:57 | |
Welcome back to another March Mindset series. Your thoughts are a reflection of the identity that you carry. You want to change your identity, change your thoughts. So, how do we begin to know that we are not doing well in our thoughts? What thoughts do we really want? What thoughts do we not want? We're going to talk about that today. Here's what's important. The Bible's really clear that in James 1:8, it says, "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways." I love what the Amplified says, "a double minded man is unstable and restless in all his ways, in everything he thinks, feels and decides." Are you dealing with a restlessness in what you're thinking about and what you're feeling and in your decisions? Then you're probably living double minded, and that means you want to live in two worlds at the same. In this episode Havilah is going deep and talking about the thoughts that we are currently having, how have we entertained these thoughts, and how they are affecting our lives. After listening to this episode, you will feel powerful to take control of your thoughts and know the steps you need to take to do so. Hope you join us all this month to dive into this topic and get practical steps. Have a great week and thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of the purpose challenge! | |||
| 01 Jan 2025 | 341. Is Your Brain Filter Lying To You? | 00:27:37 | |
Hey friends, welcome to a brand-new year and an exciting new series on Intentional Living! This month, we're diving into how to live with purpose by understanding how our brains work and how that impacts our choices, behaviors, and faith journey. I'll be sharing practical, actionable steps to help you align your thoughts with God's design and set priorities that actually stick. So, whether you're here to grow personally or as a leader in your community, there’s something for everyone. Let’s reset, refocus, and start living with intention together. Tune in—this series is going to be life-changing! Sign up for Truth Academy: https://thetruthacademy.com/ | |||
| 09 Aug 2023 | 270. Embracing the Good, Hard Life: Navigating the Good and the Bad | 00:29:20 | |
We are jumping into a brand new topic this month called Embracing the Good, Hard life. There are things in life that are challenging. How do we embrace the good and the bad at the same time? In this episode, Havilah shares things that has helped her navigate both the good and the bad simultaneously, what it looks like to embrace the good, confront the hard, and finding a good balance. Havilah's Author School is BACK! We've got some exciting news - for the 3rd time, Havilah will be hosting another class of Authors! In this 16-week mentorship program, she will help you clarify your message and plan your book from beginning to end. You’ll have built-in weekly accountability and the instant support of a community of writers like you. And in just 4 short months, we guarantee you’ll be holding your finished first draft! Join the 230 graduates that have had major success. Learn more and apply here: havilahsauthorschool.com If you are looking for more way to connect and find more resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support | |||
| 11 Dec 2019 | 140: What Do You Do When You Face Hard Things? | 00:19:16 | |
You are going to face hard things in life. Things that take your breath away. Those things you didn’t expect, the pain you didn’t anticipate, the moment you didn’t see coming. What do you do when you face these HARD THINGS? In this episode Havilah’s talks about her new online bible study, “I Do Hard Things.” A Bible study to break Free of Fear and Pain and how you can climb out of your suffering and learn to dream again. Doing hard things isn’t always something you’ve been taught, but it’s something you are made for. Sign up for the FREE study: https://truthtotable.com/idht/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 09 Oct 2019 | 131: Ownership: Pt 2 | 00:12:38 | |
This week is all about owning your thoughts. A lot of our battles happen in our mind and it is critical that we understand this battle. In order for us to experience spiritual transformation, we have to start in our minds and set our thoughts on things above (Colossians 3:2). Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 27 Apr 2019 | 108: Overcoming Pain: Pt 2 | 00:17:38 | |
The moment we begin to redefine our pain, it allows us to be mature. Pain is important for our development and allows us to know that we are in process. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing the moment we begin to transform. Every time you begin to experience pain, you are presented with a choice; you can either climb out of your pain or stay in the pit. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 20 Nov 2024 | 335. The Unseen Struggle: Confidence in Knowing as a Knower | 00:22:26 | |
Hey friends! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the "knower" prophetic personality. Are you someone who just knows things deep in your spirit, without visions or emotional experiences? You’re not alone, and you’re not missing out! I share my journey as a knower, the challenges of feeling underrepresented in spiritual environments, and how to embrace your unique way of hearing God. We’ll also talk about overcoming fear, trusting your inner knowing, and building confidence in who God created you to be. Let’s jump in! ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah | |||
| 01 Mar 2023 | 249. March Mindset Series Part 1 | 00:14:55 | |
Let’s take this month of March and really go through what it’s like to renew and transform our minds. The mind is where everything starts, and it's where our battles are won or lost.
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| 13 May 2020 | 150: What is God Saying Right Now | 00:24:34 | |
In this episode, I’m talking about the very real and raw journey quarantine has been. I sharing how I have walked through the last several weeks and my process with the Lord. Since the start of this journey I've been reminded of the Israelites story and how when there is no way, God makes a way. Sometimes, listening to someone else's process leads you to the next steps for your own. Learn more and connect with Havilah: | |||
| 04 Feb 2021 | 167: Boundaries: Why Am I So Tired | 00:14:05 | |
The first of our I Do Boundaries series, Havilah begins to walk us through finding our power, finding out how to protect what matters most to us and to stop feeling bad about it. Being nice out of fear doesn’t work and people-pleasing will keep us stuck in the cycles of powerlessness that we are trying to break away from. Learn how to do the right thing, when the right thing won’t make everyone happy. Being at war with the internal narratives you have about people’s opinions of you and the affect/perceived control you have over it can be confusing. Good news: you don’t have to betray who you are to make others comfortable! Likely, being a good Christian girl isn’t what you’ve been taught it is. Where do your responsibilities end and others’ begin? Find out as you listen in to this week’s episode as Havilah begins to walk you through interrupting the pattern of making others happy and empowering you to live life the way God wants you to! Get ready to show up in the world as the powerful person He created you to be. Learn more and connect with Havilah:
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| 14 Jul 2021 | 177: Contentment While Contending for the Dream featuring Christa Smith | 00:46:04 | |
You can’t run from the waiting! In this episode, Havilah interviews and chats with Christa Smith, Pastor, Preacher, Teacher and Author. Content while contending for what you want. If God isn’t enough for you now, in the absence of something, He won’t be enough when you get it. In order to get to a place of contentment, you have to grieve what you don’t have. Often times the depths of your desire will connect you with the true surrender needed to carry the dream that awaits you. Listen in as Christa shares about the journey of singleness that lasted far longer than when she wanted. When you aren’t in an ‘encounter’, can you still walk out your declaration? We believe that this episode is for the single woman OR the woman who is in a painful season of waiting or who is facing longsuffering. You will find freedom in the encouragement Christa has for you, through her inspiring story and deep wisdom. DON’T FORGET: Havilah is hosting a LIVE, FREE Message Prep Masterclass this Thursday, July 15th at 10am and 5pm PST. Register here! https://www.messageprep.com/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 03 Dec 2022 | 240. Let's Talk About Advent: Week 1 | 00:17:43 | |
In December we are focusing on sloooooowing down and savoring all the season holds. In this 4-part series, I speak and teach on Advent. | |||
| 19 Jan 2022 | 205: HACKED: The Inside Story | 00:32:53 | |
This week on the podcast, we are going to hear a play-by-play from Havilah of the craziest 48 hours! In this episode, we are going to hear the full story of how her Instagram account was hacked, where she is at with it today, and how they got it back! From losing complete access to her account to being interrogated by the hacker, and the account held for ransom, we are going to hear ALL the details! Havilah wants to thank YOU for rallying and getting the word out! Be encouraged knowing that no matter what you are facing today, whether it be hopelessness, feeling overwhelmed, or tired, miracles can happen! Don’t be afraid to reach out to those around you and ask for help! The Truth Academy is now open! It’s my spiritual mentoring community of like-minded women where we uncomplicated Biblical truth and activate the spirit-led woman. Get 50% off your first month for a limited time only! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 11 Aug 2021 | 182: Boundaries and Family featuring Dr. Alison Cook | 00:56:09 | |
Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’?
This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person God wants us to be. Dr. Cook and Havilah about how to set boundaries in the relationships in life that tend to be the relationships that are the most sticky: family. Nothing is off-limits, we talk about relationships with mothers, in-laws, children, what does actual toxicity in a relationship look like? We took questions we heard from you on socials and got answers straight from Dr. Cook! Listen in and find out the key signals that clue you in that there is an issue with unhealthy boundaries in your life.
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| 12 Apr 2023 | 254. Habit Hacks: Part 2 | 00:16:40 | |
This month we are diving into Habits! In this week’s episode hear my friend, Jenna, share deeper into her experience of running a small business and realizing that habits are also about identity and the changes she started to make in that point of her life and how it’s changed her whole life today.
The Habit Lab is now open for enrollment! Click here to learn more and join us before the doors close on April 25th. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + http://havilahcunnington.com + http://truthtotable.com + http://thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 15 May 2024 | 308. Embracing Motherhood and Leadership in the Same Season | 00:47:15 | |
I’m continuing my Women in Leadership series, but this week I’m joined by Libby Gordon. We're discussing what we’ve learned about balancing Motherhood and Leadership to best help our children. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UcTbMeBQd18 If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + http://havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 13 Oct 2021 | 189: Marriage Is… Intimate Episode 2: Sexuality and Intimacy In Marriage | 00:44:44 | |
Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known! As a bonus, Rebekah has a special journal that will help you in your journey you can find here if you’re interested! Also don’t miss Havilah’s LIVE Masterclass TOMORROW, October 14, 2021 to give you the keys to be a powerful communicator and get you ready for the stage! Kick fear in the face so when God calls you to communicate next you will be able to step confidently into what He has for you! Register HERE. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 13 Jul 2022 | 223: Summer Series: Every Day Wins - #3 Environment | 00:16:30 | |
We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! Today we’re talking about how we can win in our environment! We will be chatting through 5 things that I do that help me win in my everyday life when it comes to my environment. From setting up my day for success the night before to decluttering your space, we’re covering it all! If you need some practical ways to set your environment up for success, this is for you! Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this podcast with your friends and stay tuned for the rest of our summer series! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 09 Feb 2022 | 208: Female Friendships: Part 2 Finding Your Tribe | 00:38:09 | |
Join Havilah as she chats with her core group about how to find your tribe! We know that the only way to do hard things is through community, you have to find people that are in your corner!
We want to encourage you to be brave and do the really hard thing; just start! You don’t want to step into your greatest breakthroughs in life alone. You want to be surrounded by people who have been through it with you and we’re here to help you find those people! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + thetruthacademy.com | |||
| 16 Oct 2019 | 132: Ownership: Pt 3 | 00:10:44 | |
This week is all about owning your words. Our words are a reflection of our hearts. They can create the worlds that we live in. It’s not about how many words we use but about what we are speaking into existence. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 15 Jan 2025 | 343. The Mind-Body Hack That Will Unlock Your Brain Power | 00:21:50 | |
This week on the podcast, we’re diving into the fascinating connection between our minds and bodies, exploring how intentional living can unlock your full potential. I’m sharing some of my favorite insights, practical tips, and even personal stories to show how things like sleep, exercise, and mindfulness can profoundly impact not just your mental clarity but your whole life. Plus, I’ll let you in on how tiny habits can lead to big transformation and why even something as simple as smiling can boost your mood. Ready to take your intentional living game to the next level? Let’s do this together! Learn about Havilah's Author School here 👉🏼 https://havilahsauthorschool.com/ How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb here 👉🏼 https://a.co/d/3GuHVg2 | |||
| 14 Aug 2024 | 321. Faith and Practical Self-Care | 00:40:41 | |
In this episode, I'm joined by Chantelle Nelson, a therapeutic life coach who shares her journey of balancing motherhood, faith, and a professional life. We discuss the common struggle of feeling selfish for prioritizing self-care and how important it is to redefine self-care as essential, rather than indulgent. Chantelle offers insights on how to manage the demands of life without losing yourself in the process, emphasizing that self-care isn't just about bubble baths and candles—it's about sustaining your body, mind, and spirit so you can truly be present for others. She shares her self care acronym: Sleep, Exercise, Limits (Boundaries), Fun, Connection, Aspirations, Rest, Eating Well. You can find her at instagram.com/chantelleenelson or comealivelifecoaching.com Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/-py8ENUg8DE ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah 👇 MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES👇 📕 Here’s everything you need to plan, organize, and write your book: 💛 Join me & hundreds of like-hearted believers for my monthly Bible study: 🎉 SNAG THESE FREEBIES: 📖 If you want to hear God better: Created to Hear God Quiz - Take this short quiz to identify your Prophetic Personality and the unique way God speaks to you. 10-day Study on Hearing God’s Voice - Join me for 10 minutes a day for 10 days and learn how to hear God more clearly by understanding your unique Prophetic Personality. ✍️ If you want to write a book: What’s Your Writing Style? - Take this 5-minute quiz to find out and get my personalized tips for leaning into your strengths and growing as a writer. Learn to Write a Book Masterclass - Discover a proven roadmap to writing & publishing your book, even if you already tried and failed before. 🌱 If you want to grow personally & spiritually: 6-part Growth Video Series - Are you living a life your future self will thank you for? Or are you feeling stuck and stagnant? Learn how subtle changes can lead to radical growth. I Do Boundaries Free Chapter - Dive into the first chapter of my best-selling book and discover your power, protect what matters, and stop feeling bad about it. 📚 BOOKS & BIBLE STUDIES FOR SPIRITUAL GROWTH: Created to Hear God - Everyone deserves to hear from God. Discover 4 Unique and Proven Ways to Confidently Discern His Voice. I Dream Big - A 20-day study to help you discover your purpose, break free from disappointment, and chase dreams God’s way. I Do Boundaries - Overwhelmed from taking on other people’s responsibilities? This 15-day study will help you discover your power, protect what matters, and stop feeling bad about it. I Do Hard Things - What if, instead of feeling paralyzed by fear and pain, you had a plan of action to climb out of your suffering and learn to dream again? This 15-day study will show you how. | |||
| 21 Jul 2021 | 178: Singled Out in a Couple’s World featuring Christa Smith | 00:33:50 | |
Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and foremost: HIM. Learn what will help shift your perspective from a place of waiting to a place of contentment. Hear about what specific tips Christa has for you in your season of waiting and find out WHY your single years are not ‘filler years’ until you get married. Shift your perspective from waiting to be chosen to a place of a God-focused, empowered place of CHOOSING. Healed and whole marriage doesn’t happen unless you are actively chasing being healed and whole as a single person. Listen in as Christa brings the fire as she shares the top keys to lean in and maximize the power of your singleness. “Look to the future but don’t forfeit the present of what God is doing now.” - Christa Smith Also - don’t miss out on Havilah’s ONE DAY ONLY LIVE TRAINING for How To Deliver a Message, this Thursday, July 22nd, save your seat here: https://www.messageprep.com/message-delivery Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 10 Jul 2019 | 119: Beating Procrastination: Pt 3 | 00:11:36 | |
When we don’t follow through with the commitment we have made to ourselves and we continue to violate that part of us that says “I’m going to do this”, it actually creates less confidence in us and it really matters. In this week’s episode we’ll be discussing the power of pre-commitment. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com | |||
| 30 Sep 2020 | 160: Cultivating Healthy Relationship: Pt 1 | 00:28:30 | |
In this episode, Havilah and Ben Cunnington have a very real conversation about marriage. They talk openly and honestly about the reality of building a healthy marriage in the midst of all that life brings at you. Tune in to learn some keys to building a healthy marriage, that builds intimacy and connection. Love After Marriage book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-After-Marriage-Spiritual-Emotional-ebook/dp/B00LA9FLPE Learn more and connect with Havilah: | |||
| 07 Aug 2019 | 123: How to Have your Life Not Suck with Bianca Olthoff | 00:21:25 | |
In today’s podcast, I get to have a chat with my great friend Bianca Olthoff. She’s a like-minded bold woman, a wife, mother, preacher, author, and pastor. We reminisce a bit about how we met, connected and have stayed friends over the years. She’s written a brand new book called “How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Become today who you want to be tomorrow. In the book, Bianca unpacks lessons she’s learned from her own mistakes and heartache, this field guide will help you avoid unnecessary detours on the path to your best self. With her signature wit, engaging stories, and brilliant insights from a counselor friend, Bianca gives spot-on advice for adulting, career, relationships, and faith. Following the biblical story of Ruth and Naomi, Bianca's humorous and honest anecdotes will empower you to create a successful life and discover all you can be. To learn more and order Bianca’s new book visit: https://www.biancaolthoff.com/notsuck You can also learn more about Bianca and follow here: https://www.biancaolthoff.com/ | |||
| 22 Nov 2023 | 284. Family Boundaries | 00:38:50 | |
We’re continuing to talk about boundaries with Caitlin Zick, but this week we’re talking about family boundaries. Holidays are often when my boundaries fall apart. I’m prepping for 19 people and 6 dogs to be at my house! Join us as we help you prep for this holiday season. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: | |||