Harmless Harlots: Ethical Non-Monogamy Enthusiasts (Jen )
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| 30 Mar 2021 | #9 Hakuna Amatonormative | 00:53:11 | |
Let's talk about The One on Netflix, amatonormativity, and demisexuality on another winding episode with your favorite Harlots! We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 25 May 2021 | #17 The Game of Mono-Poly | 00:52:11 | |
Can monogamous and polyamorous people be together? It sounds difficult, but not impossible! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 21 Sep 2021 | #31 Off the Deep End | 01:17:38 | |
We took a break, and now we're back! With a lot to talk about! It's a long one :) If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 22 Jun 2021 | #21 Friends With Consequences? | 00:45:38 | |
Lizzie has a lot to say on how to ethically and successfully have friends with benefits - it can be done. And the current debate: do you use pronouns? Surprise, you probably do. But if you ACTUALLY don't, that's dope. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 09 Mar 2021 | #6 Naked and Unashamed! | 00:50:54 | |
This is not a nudist colony! Except, it is :) We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Thanks Harlots! See you next week! | |||
| 05 Oct 2021 | #33 All Men | 00:56:19 | |
Y'all what is going on, for real? Are y'all as depressed as I am? If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 28 Sep 2021 | #32 The Poly Pages | 00:48:28 | |
Welcome to the first live recording of Harmless Harlots! Live in the sense that Liz and I were in the same room for the first time that is If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 20 Apr 2021 | #12 God Dental Dam It | 00:51:16 | |
A little bit of sex education, from us to you <3 Do you wanna kiss da girl? Jen does! So much harlotry, so little time! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 23 Mar 2021 | #8 Ghost of Ghosting's Past | 00:57:03 | |
Are you haunted by ghosting? Maybe you’ve been ghosted or been a ghoster? When is it ok? We also talk about lust, sex, and Martin Luther… Just another normal episode :) We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 10 Aug 2021 | #28 Relationship Crutches | 00:50:46 | |
*Trigger warning* We briefly talk about domestic abuse and sexual assault, so if these are triggers for you, feel free to skip over those parts. The rest of the episode is monogamy, religion, adoption, ya know, the usual. Enjoy! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! Music by Wataboi from Pixabay--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 09 Feb 2021 | #2 Tall Love Triangles | 00:50:50 | |
Liz and Jen discuss jealousy and love triangles in the movie Tall Girl. Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 24 Aug 2021 | #30 In Sickness, and in Sickness | 00:41:42 | |
Get yoself someone who brings you soup when your sick. I'll trade six pack abs for a sick pack of Campell's. I can't believe we're at 30! Thanks so much for everyone's support! We're going to be taking a season break after this episode because Liz and Jen are moving and STRESSED. Capitalism, am I right? If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 27 Apr 2021 | #13 People Who Need People | 00:57:52 | |
Y'all may think Jen is gender queer because that's "who she is," but no. It's all for the game. Ball is life. He he. We also talk about religion again (someone stop us), and the Greeks. No, no, the other Greeks. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 08 Jun 2021 | #19 Hey Sexy Lady! | 01:03:24 | |
Have you ever been cat called? It's not fun. But Queer TikTok is! Also, God and gender are apparently dead. I killed at least one of them... If you want to help spread poly awareness, follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 17 Aug 2021 | #29 Polysecurity | 00:42:25 | |
Liz and Jen talk about different ways to practice relationships (I mean duh, but in like specific detail) because we're reading Polysecure by Jessica Fern! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 01 Jun 2021 | #18 I'm Mad at Disney | 00:45:16 | |
Happy pride to all our fellow queers! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 29 Jun 2021 | #23 The No Code | 00:50:51 | |
*Trigger Warning* We talk a lot about consent in this episode; nothing too graphic, but it could bring up traumatic memories for some. We love you and support you and want you to be fully informed <3 If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 18 May 2021 | #16 Chaos-sexual | 00:57:56 | |
When your sexuality is just... chaos. A few questions: what does it mean to cheat on your partner? Are all "men" monsters? And why do you shave? (Hint, it's probably because of Venus - no, not the goddess) Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 07 Sep 2021 | #30.1 "Exes" and O's | 00:09:52 | |
Lizzie brushes off her acting skills and gives us a nice monologue while Jen is taking a break to deal with personal issues. But don't worry, you'll hear all about it later ;) If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! And follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 06 Jul 2021 | #23 Partner Lite | 00:50:07 | |
Jen takes us on another trip to Jen Land, where there's no gender or sexual orientation, but lots and lots of consent! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 02 Mar 2021 | #5 Jender and Validation | 00:49:37 | |
Jen talks about her encounter with a less-than-poly-friendly therapist. Liz and Jen talk about the importance of validation for relationship styles and gender identity. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 09 Feb 2021 | #1 Having Sex at Dawn | 00:50:12 | |
Liz and Jen talk about their journeys with Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM). We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 23 Feb 2021 | #4 Mating in Capitalist Captivity | 00:50:04 | |
*Trigger warning* at about minute 35 we discuss potentially triggering topics like rape and trauma. Jen has a new boy and Liz reflects on her little sister's journey to becoming the kinky queer she is today. We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. And we talk about the book Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel. Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 20 Jul 2021 | #25 Attachment - With Style! | 00:51:03 | |
Secure... Insecure... what does it all mean...? We're not 100% sure yet, but we're getting there! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 13 Apr 2021 | #11 Call Me By Your Gay | 00:50:12 | |
What's the last revelation you had about your identity? Was it your sexuality? Gender? Romantic alignment? Were you glad you had made this discovery? Did you instantly go telling everyone about it? It can be scary, but Liz and Jen have been here before, so we can keep you company no matter what stage you're at. We also talk about *shudder* first dates. Who grabs the bill when you go out? Does gender matter? Income? It can be tricky to navigate since finances can be a touchy subject. But we have a little bit of experience and a lot of opinions to share about the matter! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 03 Aug 2021 | #27 And They Were Roommates... | 00:53:15 | |
It's good practice to discuss boundaries with everyone in your life: friends, family, roommates, and even sisters ;) (I'm learning a new audio editing platform, so forgive me if there's a couple mistakes this week...) If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! Music by Wataboi from Pixabay--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 16 Feb 2021 | #3 Lizzie's Lovers | 00:49:42 | |
Liz is riding a poly high. We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 20 Jul 2021 | #26 Capitalism is Trauma | 00:55:41 | |
We continue our journey into Polysecure. This week, we cover trauma and capitalism. Cuz f*ck that noise. If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 13 Jul 2021 | #24 You're My R.O.C. | 01:00:11 | |
Jen and Liz actually talk about polyamory! Thanks to our supporters for getting us copies of Polysecure! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon or Anchor! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 15 Jun 2021 | #20 To Kink, or Not to Kink | 00:49:06 | |
That is the question... The answer? Kink. At least for Jen. If you want to help spread poly awareness, follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! Music by Wataboi from Pixabay--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 16 Mar 2021 | #7 Raw Relationships | 00:51:00 | |
Sometimes sisters just need to rant about the difficulties of intimate relationships, ya know? If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 06 Apr 2021 | #10 Baby Don't Hurt Me | 00:50:51 | |
What is love (love love)? No answers here, but there's some gay fan fic ;) If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 11 May 2021 | #15 Let's Talk About Sex (And Boundaries) | 01:05:12 | |
Can you tell a boundary from a rule? Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Do you know what a femboy is? Everything you seek is inside... If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 04 May 2021 | #14 Sex Brakes | 00:44:37 | |
What gets you going? And what slams the brakes? Jen finally remembered to include a link! Use 2 Words To Talk About Sex — Heartfelt Counseling Also, do you think Jen could make it as a sex worker? In this economy? If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, and partners to spread the ethical love! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||
| 03 Feb 2021 | What are Harmless Harlots? | 00:00:58 | |
Why are all movies, books, and songs about cheating and love triangles (which usually aren’t even triangular)? Why do so many relationships end in adultery? There’s got to be a better way, right? There is! It’s called Ethical Non Monogamy! Harlots/sisters Liz and Jen are here to explore the wonders of it with you! If you want more authentic relationships, join us every week to unlearn toxic relationship habits! Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Thanks Harlots! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/harmlessharlots/support | |||