Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. This podcast shows you how to make this happen in relationships, dating, casual sex and intimacy. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts.

Another podcast we recommend is "Discover Joyous Love" by Anita DeFrancesco MA (www.TantraWisdom.com)

Your host is research psychologist, novelist and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts, who holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness. Their True Flames…” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts: “Sonate pour Anita” (Sonata for Anita), dedicated to psychotherapist, love and relationship counselor and author Anita DeFrancesco.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.  In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.  The guitar solo at the beginning is from Randolph Pitts’ classical composition “Der Schatten eines Traumes” (The Shadow of a Dream) and is based on a musical cryptogram (Arthur Honneger system) of the name of ______________________

What sort of person cheats, what causes a person to cheat, how to spot a  cheater. Then: Reactions and responses to cheating.
Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and  Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters  Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA.  He  has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at  UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics.  He is a  member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the  organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an  associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association.  Randolph  has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a  ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced  Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best  actor.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between  philosophy, psychology and history.  Randolph Pitts is a classical  composer and a novelist.  The first volume of his tetralogy of novels  already completed will be published in 2023.  He is the founder and host  of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.
Musical excerpts:  'Sonate pour Anita' (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco) and 'Love (for three orchestras and large organ' (also dedicated to  Anita)

What is Tantra? What is Tantra Sex? Is Tantra an orgy of sorts? Is Tantra a yoga or a religion? What is ritual and why do rituals work? Is Tantra all about sex ? What are Chakras all about? Sacred Sex and the Tantric Way. Myths about Tantra. How does one get started in Tantra, what is the preparation. The importance of the breath and eye gazing. Is Tantra just for couples? What is Yab Yum and the Kama Sutra? What is transmutation and the male full body orgasm? What is sensate Focus? Honoring the Goddess.  Honoring the God ( women pleasing men).

Anita DeFrancesco, MA, is a Somatic Orgonomy Psychotherapist (Orgonomy referencing the work of Wilhelm Reich), Two-time Award Winning Journalist, and a Love and Relationship Coach. She is the Founder Tantra Wisdom and of Kinepathics.  She is the host and moderator of the Discover Joyous Love Podcast on YouTube as well as on all Podcast platforms, including Amazon Music and Apple Podcasts, as well as of the  It's Your Voice Podcast. She is the Author of “Live Free: Recreate and Liberate Your Life”, and of “The Donna Gentile Story”.

Her mission is centered around the themes of Mindfulness, Sexuality and Relationships, and to educate people to enlightenment and awareness.  Specifically her mission, both in her podcasts and in her professional practice, is to assist people in freeing their emotions from pain, to learn to love more openly,  and to express their hidden voice. By doing these things people will be able to recreate a more purposeful, empowered and happy life,  thus awakening from separation and suffering and embracing the modern world with oneness and love.
www.TantraWisdom.com

#Tantra #Tantra Sex #Sacred Sex #Yab Yum #Kama Sutra #Honoring The Goddess

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive. Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. It presents research findings from leading psychologists and other scientists working out of top universities to help you find solutions to your love, sex and relationship issues and difficulties. It also shows how the insights of philosophers and other thinkers apply to real world issues in your life. Music: “Sonate pour Anita” dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco. And “Love, For Three Orchestras and Large Organ, dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco” (Women have told me that a large organ is essential for good loving). This piece was composed by using a musical cryptogram from the name "Anita Marie DeFrancesco" assigning a note to each letter in accordance with the system devised by Arthur Honegger. This becomes a theme of the piece. Then I turned that cryptogram into two twelve tone rows, and from those I made the usual inversions, retrogrades and retrograde inversions. However after that I also used pitch set multiplication and made derived rows. This resulted in a total of seventy-three tone rows, and those make up most of what you will hear in this piece.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.  In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.  The guitar solo at the beginning is from Randolph Pitts’ classical composition “Der Schatten eines Traumes” (The Shaddow of a Dream) and is based on a musical cryptogram (Artur Honneger system) of the name of ______________________

Is love one of the most supreme, most desirable experiences of human life? Carl Rogers proposed that receiving love in the form of unconditional positive regard was a crucial key to happiness and adjustment. Then Erich Fromm shifted the emphasis from receiving to giving, and proposed the learning the difficult “art of loving” was the essential thing that promised self-realization, emotional satisfaction, and fulfilling insights. Unrequited Love, or One-sided infatuation – in other words love that is not returned in the same form -- offers the ideal chance to separate and examine independently the two phenomena – loving and being loved – since in Unrequited Love one person gives love and the other is loved. Perhaps neither loving nor being loved is enough. Only when they are combined in a relationship is there a significant chance for happiness.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. Randolph Pitts is a classical composer and a novelist. The first volume of his tetralogy of novels already completed will be published in 2022. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

Musical excerpt: Der Schatten eines Traumes, inspired by the writings of Walter Benjamin, Christoph Friedrich Heinle, Gilles Deleuze, Ingeborg Bachmann and Karoline von Günderrode.

This episode contains explicit verbal (not visual )material which may not be suitable for listeners under the age of eighteen or over the age of sixty.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum aude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the first quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. and also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Nobel Prize."
Music: “Love for Three Orchestras and Large Organ” by Your Host

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding heights. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

In addition to The Best Ways to Learn about Love and Sensuality, this episode also discusses Animism and Pantheism; Kindness and Cruelty, Jesus and the Gospel of Q (Sayings Gospel); Stories; Time; Strength and Power; Gender] and Death this Short Takes 3 also includes observations on Religion, Civilization, the Context in which we exist in contemporary society, and Masculinity and Femininity.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

Musical excerpts:

“Sonate pour Anita” (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

“Der Schatten eines Traumes Teil 8 -- Erfüllte Sehnsucht“
(The Shadow of a Dream – Fulfilled Longing)

The night becomes colorless and the shadow is silent

Still heart, do not tell anyone that the morning will rise,

a flicker around it, as if a lake was billowing there.

Fragrances waft gently, as if from tender pain.

I want to hide so that nothing will guess me --

So that only the wind blows into my silence --

So that only the rain runs down my window.

Within are all the sighs of my sisters.

Christoph Friedrich Heinle (1894 – 1914)

(Wenige Tage nach Ausbruch des Ersten Weltkriegs und wahrscheinlich aus Verzweiflung über dessen vorhergesehene Folgen nahmen sich Christoph Friedrich Heinle und seine Freundin Friederike (Rika) Seligson durch Gas das Leben.)

Another podcast we recommend is "Discover Joyous Love" by Anita DeFrancesco MA (www.TantraWisdom.com)

THIS IS OUR ULTIMATE EPISODE ABOUT LOVE AND SEX: Great sex Fuels Love and Love Fuels Great Sex until you recognize and Love and have Great Sex with your Twin Flame. Sex and Sensuality are a part of Love. Sex and Love are not separate. One inspires the other. Psychedelics and Tantra can both inspire great sex, and with great sex comes maximum love. Plus: Other psychedelic substances you may be lesser familiar with, AND research shows that Psychedelics bring greater Connectedness, both to your own self and to others, and that Connectedness is a key factor in mental health and in dealing with mental health issues.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpt: Randolph Pitts  "Sonate pour Anita" (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

Adoring and honoring someone you truly admire is an exponential pleasure because in the process you are also adoring and honoring yourself. "I am sensitive and perceptive enough to understand and appreciate and love and adore my beloved's special gifts, the things that are most marvelous and unique about her." True love of another is also the highest, best and most exalted form of self-love.

Love In the Now, In The Moment. The thought of the one you love should fill you with transcendent joy. You should tingle from head to toe and immediately want to give them the universe. With that feeling all of the neurotic lack of trust and self doubt vanish like toxic dust blowing away in the wind and you are left not only truly whole, not only truly yourself, but ready to become new selves, and to share those selves with your beloved. When two people are ready to take this journey together it is magic. It is the greatest magic there is.

This episode includes discussions of the psychoanalysts Jacques Lacan, Jacques Alain Miller and Michael Balint with regard to their views on love.

The music in this episode consists of an excerpt from "Der Schatten eines Traumes" ("The Shadow of a Dream") by Randolph Pitts.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

Wilhelm Reich’s Vegetotherapy (screaming, streaming); organotherapy. Character analysis; Reich’s emphasis on genitality and the libido. Reich’s views on homosexuality. Instead of sublimation, direct sexual gratification. Reich’s views on the compulsion to repeat and on the “death drive”. Reich and Tantra. Reich and Albert Einstein. Reich’s “orgasm formula”. Armoring. Reich’s views on bioelectric energy. Contrasting Reich’s views with recent revelations of the existence of space-time atoms and discoveries in thermodynamics. Reich on Love. Reich on pleasure. Reich and shamanism. Reich’s comparison of orgone with prana.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Master’s Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

Music: Excerpt from “Sonate pour Anita” (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

I will be delivering these talks in French next year at the Sorbonne in Paris. In the interim they will be available here as podcasts.

In this episode we discus Carl Jung's idea of "The Animus and The Anima" and our alternative to it; Male Orgasm and its importance for solidifying a relationship; Sex and Yoga; The Chakras, what they are and their relationship to psi (psychic) powers; and the havoc that shame and poor self-esteem can wreak on relationships, and how these negative mental states should be replaced by Self-Love.

Novelist, composer, linguist, research psychologist, entertainment company Chief Executive Officer, artist and film producer Randolph Pitts provides an in depth analysis of topics crucial to our understanding of love, intimacy, happiness and relationships.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. Randolph Pitts is a classical composer and a novelist. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

Musical excerpts:

Sonate pour Anita (2020)

Love (dedicated by Anita DeFrancesco, for three orchestras and large organ)

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  And also… with women and men falling in love.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

Musical excerpts: Randolph Pitts, “Sonate pour Anita,” Bagatelle No. 2 (from “Three Bagatelles (for Anita DeFrancesco)”, and “Love (for three orchestras and large organ)

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#Life #Love #Work #Careers #Intimacy #Tenderness #Pleasure #Attention #Relationships #Companionship #Personality # Myers-Briggs ##Lovemaking #Celibacy #Adorno #Minima Moralia #Epistemology #Ontology #Family #Family Drama

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new filmproduction company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independentproducer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film"Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as BestActor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer andproduction company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in SocialPsychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and aMasters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. Hehas also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA,concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi BetaKappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization ofuniversity professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the LosAngeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationshipbetween philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and hostof the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensualitypodcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy ofnovels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbindingnovels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorismand crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller thatshows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoomagic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality,and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatestnovel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize."

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.. As a composer he has written pieces in all genres, including works for vocal orchestra and soloists ("A Cabaret for Cesare Pavese," "Der Schatten eines Traumes," "Das Buch der Blauen Rose"), chamber music (strings quartets and a sextet), concertos ("Concerto for String Orchestra," "Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra dedicato ad Anita DeFrancesco"), the large orchestral piece "Love-- for Three Orchestras and Large Organ"), and chamber works for vocalist and small ensemble ("Le sang des rêves.")  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts:  Randolph Pitts, "Sonate pour Anita" (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco, 2019)

"Sex is the theater of the poor."  Dialogue spoken by Oscar Wilde in Ken Russell's film "Salome's Last Dance."  There is no evidence that this statement was ever written or uttered by Wilde, but we are sharing it here anyway... just because.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA.  He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics.  He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor.  The first volume of his tetralogy of novels will be published in 2022. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

This episode contains explicit verbal (not visual )material which may not be suitable for listeners under the age of eighteen or over the age of sixty.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2024. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Nobel Prize."

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

In today’s Episode #4 we discuss Subtlety and nuance; the importance of avoiding clichés, an introduction to the psychology of Object Relations; narcissism; and Jacques Lacan’s concept of Jouissance – enjoyment beyond the Pleasure Principle.

This excerpt includes the reading of a passage by the Italian author Cesare Pavese, and a musical excerpt from “Der Schatten Eines Traumes” (The Shadow of a Dream) composed by your host in 2019 and dedicated to the excellent psychotherapist and relationship counselor Anita DeFrancesco. www.AnitaDeFrancesco.com www.TantraWisdom.com

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

The clitoris  is truly unique in the human organ system inthat its only known function is to serve as an erotic focus for both afferent and efferent forms of sexual stimulation; and that the minor labia are almost as sensitive to superficial tactile stimuli as the clitoral glans, making them almost as important as the clitoris as a source of erotic arousal. Vincenzo Puppo Centro Italiano di Sessuologia, Bologna, Italy; and Giulia Puppo Department of Biology University of Florence Sesto Fiorentino, Italy.

 The 2025 edition of the Encyclopedia of Sexual Psychology and Behavior published by Springer and edited by Todd K.Shackelford of the Department of Psychology, Oakland University, Rochester, defines the clitoris as follows:  It is asmall organ situated near the vagina that is sensitive and can provide sensual pleasure if stimulated; it is sometimes misunderstood as a nub of skin folds or flesh, but it is a part of a connective erectile that is connected with nerve endings and complex vascular network which is both inside and outside the body.  Researchers at the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Istinye University, Gaziosmanpasa Medical Park Hospital, Istanbul, Turkey, published an article entitled “Relationship of orgasm withmeasurable dimensions of clitoris and visibility of clitoral glans”. In their study, among the patients who had no previous genital surgeries, a statistically significant relationship was found between clitoral glans visibility, sexual function, and orgasm.

 Discussions have come up time and time again about the relevance of the clitoris and its stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is a key aspect of sexual pleasure for many individuals. The clitoris is a highly sensitive organ located above the vaginal opening and is packed with nerve endings. Stimulation of the clitoris can lead to arousal, increased blood flow, and pleasure. The innervations of the clitoris and itsvascularization have a significant impact on the experience of sex for people who have it.

www.AnitaDeFrancesco.com

Anita DeFrancesco’s mission is to educate people to enlightenment and awareness. To free the emotions from pain, learn to love more openly, express the hidden voice, and recreate a more purposeful, empowered and happy life; thus awakening from separation and suffering and embracing the modern world with oneness and love. She is a somatic Orgonomy psychotherapist, a Yoga Gugu, a Two-Time Award winning Journalist, a Love – Relationship Coach, the Founder of Tantra Wisdom-Kinepathics, the Discover Joyous Love YouTube-Podcast and the It’s Your Voice Podcast. She is the author of “Live Free: Recreate and Liberate Your Life” and the spellbinding True Crime Thriller “The Donna Gentile Story.” Her specialties as an author and an educator are Mindfulness, Sexuality and Relationships.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts: "Der Schatten eines Traumes" (dedicated to H.A.)

SPECIAL IN THIS EPISODE: "Mr. Sensuality" admits who he worships! You won't want to miss this!

The benefits of Tantric sex are you get a deeper connection with your partner. There’s more love, there’s more intimacy. There’s more communication. And there’s a direct energy toward free expression. So you start to become more liberated. And you’re able to receive. If you practice Tantra with a regular partner she will become more open to receive her partner.  Anita DeFrancesco, MA, is a Somatic Orgonomy Psychotherapist (Orgonomy referencing the work of Wilhelm Reich), Two-time Award Winning Journalist, and a Love and Relationship Coach. She is the Founder Tantra Wisdom and of Kinepathics. She is the host and moderator of the Discover Joyous Love Podcast on YouTube as well as on all Podcast platforms, including Amazon Music and Apple Podcasts, as well as of the It's Your Voice Podcast. She is the Author of “Live Free: Recreate and Liberate Your Life”, and of “The Donna Gentile Story”.

Her mission is centered around the themes of Mindfulness, Sexuality and Relationships, and to educate people to enlightenment and awareness. Specifically her mission, both in her podcasts and in her professional practice, is to assist people in freeing their emotions from pain, to learn to love more openly, and to express their hidden voice. By doing these things people will be able to recreate a more purposeful, empowered and happy life, thus awakening from separation and suffering and embracing the modern world with oneness and love.

A brief discussion of what people mean by "dating" and the different ways in which women and men approach the idea of the purpose of "going on a date" and of what a date should consist of.  We also consider the need of (as we say) finding a premise for a relationship. (To be continued in future episodes.)  

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his tetralogy of novels will be published in 2022. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

Musical excerpts:  "Sonate pour Anita" (2019, Dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

                            "A Cabaret for Cesare Pavese" (2018)

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 204. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time."

In this episode based on scholarly research from more than a thousand sources Professor Pitts addresses in detail the vast field of divine and sacred prostitution in Ancient Tantra and in the Ancient Near East.

This episode traces misogyny back to its origins and then on through western religions and cultures. 

Ancient Egyptian deities represent natural and social phenomena, as well as abstract concepts. The beliefs and rituals surrounding these gods formed the core of ancient Egyptian religion, which emerged sometime in prehistory. These gods and goddesses appear in virtually every aspect of ancient Egyptian civilization, and more than 1,500 of them are known by name.
Maʽat refers to the ancient Egyptian concepts of truth, balance, order, harmony, law, morality, and justice.  Ma'at was the goddess who personified these concepts, and regulated the stars, seasons, and the actions of both mortals and of the deities who had brought order from chaos at the moment of creation.  The earliest surviving written reference to Ma’at was in the texts found in the Pyramid of Unas, dated to two thousand three hundred seventy-five BC, however it is certain that belief in her, and the principles which she embodied, went back into prehistory. Ma’at, it should be noted, was not a “fertility goddess” or a “mother goddess.” Instead she the feminine principle of truth, balance, order, harmony law, morality and justice. To put it another way, for the Egyptians these were feminine principles.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

Musical Excerpts: Sonate pour Anita, Der Schatten eines Traumes

Women who are more likely to have vaginal orgasm have a preference for a longer penis that might more effectively provide deep vaginal and cervical stimulation, and thus stimulate additional nerves to those stimulated by middle or shallow vaginal stimulation, let alone only superficial clitoral stimulation. The results are consistent with an evolutionary understanding of vaginal orgasm also being an indicator of quality of the male partner, including the hypothesis that vaginal orgasm evolved as part of a female mate choice system favoring larger penises. This is a special case of the concept that women’s orgasm evolved as a mechanism for mate choice. Women who prefer longer penises are more likely to have vaginal orgasms (but not clitoral orgasms), indicating an orgasm reward system bound to the one reproductive sexual behavior per se. Multiple studies found intimate relationship quality and satisfaction to be associated with vaginal orgasm. Our present study indicates that deeper vaginal stimulation (as would more probably occur with a man with a longer penis) is associated with greater Vaginal Orgasm Consistency. so at least one aspect of the higher quality concept is supported.” So here, on your podcast, Explore Ecstatic Sensuality, the argument, or should one say the issue, is finally resolved once and for all: SIZE DOES MATTER.

My career has been as a creative, production and business executive in the motion picture industry, with side excursions into academia. I am now developing a slate of projects for theatrical release. I divide my time between Southern California, New York City and Europe. I am currently active as a screenwriter and producer. I am also a novelist, an artist and a composer. My tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023.

Advance praise for my latest book: “Easily the most erotic novel ever written.... A sexy thriller which shows New York city in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

Former CEO, Lumière Films, Inc., Hollywood (producers and financiers of such films as LEAVING LAS VEGAS [Academy Award Winner], FRESH [Sundance Film Festival Winner], TOUCH [nominated for the Spirit Award as best indie film of the year), CYCLO [winner of the Golden Lion, Venice Film Festival], CITY OF LOST CHILDREN [La Cité des enfants perdus], and many others).

Member, American Philosophical Association (professional association of university professors of philosophy).

Associate Member, Los Angeles County Bar Association (and its sections on Intellectual Property/Entertainment law & Real Property law).

Former Distinguished Visiting Professor, Chapman University (taught advanced graduate courses on Motion Picture Production & Entertainment Law).

Summa Cum Laude degrees in Sociology (social psychology, intellectual history) and Near Eastern Studies (ancient), University of California, Berkeley.

Phi Beta Kappa (Alpha of California Chapter)

Former Regents Graduate Fellow, University of California, Berkeley (Egyptology).

Completed Graduate Program in Motion Picture Production, UCLA.

Also studied at the Graduate Theological Union, Berkeley (advanced Coptic studies and seminars on Gnostic religion and literature); and at California State University, Los Angeles (law).

As a composer I have written pieces in all genres, including works for vocal orchestra and soloists ("A Cabaret for Cesare Pavese,” dedicated to the memory of Constance Dowling; "Der Schatten eines Traumes," dedicated to HA, "Das Buch der Blauen Rose,” dedicated to CS, and concerti, including his highly regarded “Concerto for String Orchestra“ and his “Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra dedicato ad Anita DeFrancesco” both of which may be heard on my Lendall Pitts II YouTube channel, where you may also find video versions of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcasts.

Based on research by psychologists, sociologists and sexologists from around the world.  Psychological research has shown that that 1 out of 6 people desire to engage in polyamory: In having an open relationship, in having a ménage a trois, in having a swapping arrangement with another couple, or in engaging in swinging. Why is there so much interest in these things? Research shows that there are sexual disadvantages of monogamy, including lower sexual desire and dysfunction. Recent research has found that women have a greater need than men for novel stimuli in order to maintain sexual arousal, and, without the introduction of new stimuli women’s sexual arousal is likely to diminish. Given that women habituate to their monogamous partners, it is not surprising that research has found that women (and men) in polyamorous relationships report high sexual satisfaction. For women who’ve been with their partners between one and four years, a dive begins — and continues, leaving male desire far higher.  Research shows that polyamorous relationships provide a space for women to exert sexual autonomy without risk of stigmatization.
Surveys confirm that 97.5% of people participating in a polyamorous relationship feel that their life has improved overall because of it. Some data suggests that people participating in non-monogamous relationships may actually have an opportunity for more self-awareness and peace with their sexual needs than those in a monogamous relationship.
Both swingers and polyamorists – the swappers, those in threesomes, and those in open relationships -- were around ten percentage points higher than the general population in responding that “Life is Close to Ideal” (67% vs. 57%) and ten percent lower in saying that they disagreed that their lives were close to ideal.“
Musical excerpts:  Sonate (pour Anita) (piano, Randolph Pitts)
Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra (dedicato ad Anita DeFrancesco) (piano, Randolph Pitts)

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. Music: “Sonate pour Anita” dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco. And “Love, For Three Orchestras and Large Organ, dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco” (Women have told me that a large organ is essential for good loving). This piece was composed by using a musical cryptogram from the name "Anita Marie DeFrancesco" assigning a note to each letter in accordance with the system devised by Arthur Honegger. This becomes a theme of the piece. Then I turned that cryptogram into two twelve tone rows, and from those I made the usual inversions, retrogrades and retrograde inversions. However after that I also used pitch set multiplication and made derived rows. This resulted in a total of seventy-three tone rows, and those make up most of what you will hear in this piece.

The late Jacques Lacan is the unofficial sponsor of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award wining film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. It presents research findings from leading psychologists and other scientists working out of top universities to help you find solutions to your love, sex and relationship issues and difficulties. It also shows how the insights of philosophers and other thinkers apply to real world issues in your life. Explore Ecstatic Sensuality is available on all podcast platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music and Audible, as well as on the Lendall Pitts and Lendall Pitts II channels on YouTube. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast.

Intro music: from "Der Schatten eines Traumes" by Randolph Pitts

Ending music: "Orgasm Music" from "A Cabaret for Cesare Pavese" by Randolph Pitts

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new filmproduction company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as BestActor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and aMasters Degree in Motion Picture Production and ntertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA,concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the LosAngeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensualitypodcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorismand crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality,and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize."

#dating #pickups

The Private Language Argument, Jouissance, Counterfactuals, Retrocausality, Bestimmung, itself-according-to-its-place, modal realism,
Action at a distance, On The Plurality of Words, Polarity, The Theory of the Subject, Vorstellung, Sethian Gnosticism

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

#The Private Language Argument” #Jouissance #Counterfactuals #Retrocausality #Bestimmung #itself-according-to-its-place #modal realism #Action at a distance #On The Plurality of Words #Polarity #The Theory of the Subject #Vorstellung
Music: "LOVE for three orchestras and large organ“ (R. Pitts, 2021, dedicated to Anita DeFranceso)
“Sonate pour Anita” (2019, dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

What are YOUR Sexual Fantasies? Do you fantasize while having sex? Do you fantasize about someone else while you are having sex? Do you share your sexual fantasies with your lover? Are your fantasies Normal or Abnormal? Can your fantasies unleash ORGASM? Find out on this episode of the hit podcast Explore Ecstatic Sensuality!

Host and presenter Randolph Pitts holds degrees in Social Psychology, Near Eastern Studies (Egyptology), and Motion Picture Production/Entertainment Law. He also studied law at California State University Los Angeles. He was Distinguished Visiting Professor in the film school at Chapman University, where he taught legal and business aspects of the motion picture industry. His ongoing fields of interest and study are philosophy, psychology and 20th/21st century classical music. His tetrology novels will be published later in 2022. He is also a classical composer. The content of this video and of other episodes should not be viewed as professional psychological or relationship advice. For such advice he recommends that you contact psychotherapist Anita DeFrancesco at www.tantrawisdom.com

Music in this podcast: Sonate pour Anita by Randolph Pitts (Randolph Pitts, Piano)

Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra (dedicato a Anita DeFrancesco) Randolph Pitts, Piano

Here is a link to the podcast about fantasies by Anita DeFrancesco mentioned:

https://soundcloud.com/user-230540803/sexual-fantasy?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award wining film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. It presents research findings from leading psychologists and other scientists working out of top universities to help you find solutions to your love, sex and relationship issues and difficulties. It also shows how the insights of philosophers and other thinkers apply to real world issues in your life. Explore Ecstatic Sensuality is available on all podcast platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music and Audible, as well as on the Lendall Pitts and Lendall Pitts II channels on YouTube. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast. Introductory music is from “Sonate pour Anita” by Randolph Pitts. End music is “Chaque événement est comme la mort“ from the song cycle « Der Schatten eines Traumes » by Randolph Pitts, text by Gilles Deleuze.

Tired of looking for your Soul Mate or your True Flame? Why bother when you can have lots of love and lots of fun having CASUAL SEX?  

This is an episode of my podcast in which I, as is my wont, share research by psychologists from around the world as well as other insights. It is hoped that some may recognize that the proceedings are to a certain degree tongue in cheek, as in the old song "Dancing Tongue In Cheek." The point of this exercise is to be be both informative and amusing, with the emphasis on the former.
Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

This episode also includes a discussion of Elementary Lingual Technique.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

In this episode we discuss Love at first sight; Attraction and Attractiveness; French Psychoanalyst Jacques Lacan's ideas about Desire and Love; how we make Mental Representations (with reference to the philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer); and Marriage vows and Death. 

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. Randolph Pitts is a classical composer and a novelist. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.   He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

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 Musical excerpts:  Sonate pour Anita (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco), 2020 Concerto per Pianoforte e Orchestre (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco), 2021  Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

In this episode host Randolph Pitts recounts true stories of how what begins as Love can end in Pain.

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA.  He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics.  He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor.  The first volume of his tetralogy of novels will be published in 2022. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

Love and Pain; Trust

Musical excerpts:

Sonate pour Anita (2020)

Der Schatten Eines Traumes (The Shadow of a Dream) 2019

My recommendation for psychotherapy and relationship counseling:

Anita DeFrancesco

www.anitadefrancesco.com

www.tantrawisdom.com

This podcast contains material which may not be suitable for listeners under the age of eighteen or over the age of sixty. As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. It presents research findings from leading psychologists and other scientists working out of top universities to help you find solutions to your love, sex and relationship issues and difficulties. It also shows how the insights of philosophers and other thinkers apply to real world issues in your life. Explore Ecstatic Sensuality is available on all podcast platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music and Audible, as well as on the Lendall Pitts and Lendall Pitts II channels on YouTube. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast. Introductory music is from “Sonate pour Anita” by Randolph Pitts. Music: “Sonate pour Anita” dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Musical Excerpt from "Der Schatten eines Traumes" (The Shadow of a Dream), based on poems by Karoline von Günderrode and dedicated to Helen A.

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.  In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts:   Randolph Pitts, "Der Schatten eines Traumes" (The Shadow of a Dream), 2019 Randolph Pitts, "Love" (for three orchestras, soloists and large organ, 2021) Randolph Pitts, "Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra, dedicato ad Anita DeFrancesco" (2021, revised 2022).

Musical excerpts heard in this episode: Randolph Pitts, "Sonate pour Anita" (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Master’s Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever\pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast.

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

In this episode we discuss Repression and how things that we Repressed return in irrational, "neurotic" ways; the Compulsion to Repeat; Transference, which in this context means superimposing previous episodes in our lives (relationships, conflicts going back to infancy) onto our present life, thus holding us back both from dealing with current relationship issues and from our ultimate goal -- finds new heights of pleasure); the Sensuous Gaze; and how Humor and Lightness are a way to make love and sex more sensual and more fun.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever\pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time."

Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast. Introductory music is from “Sonate pour Anita” by Randolph Pitts.

Music:  “Sonate pour Anita” dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco.  And “Love, For Three Orchestras and Large Organ, dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco” (Womenhave told me that a large organ is essential for good loving). This piece was composed by using a musical cryptogram from the name "Anita Marie DeFrancesco" assigning a note to each letter in accordance with the system devised by Arthur Honegger. This becomes a theme of the piece. Then I turned that cryptogram into two twelve tone rows, and from those I made the usual inversions, retrogrades and retrograde inversions. However after that I also used pitch set multiplication and made derived rows.  This resulted in a total of seventy-three tone rows, and those make up most of what you will hear in this piece.

Today we are going to talk about kundalini, emotions, desire, and a bit about how to achieve cosmic consciousness through sexual ecstasy, which, our regular listeners will note, is an overarching theme of this podcast series.  

We are going to begin by introducing you to Patanjali, an ancient Hindu author, mystic and philosopher. Patanjal’s Yoga Sutras is the oldest book on Yoga. All yoga science originates from it. It is generally believed to have been written more than 2500 years ago though no one is sure of the dates. The Yoga Sutras is one of the most important texts in the Indian tradition and the foundation of classical Yoga.

 As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Music:  “Sonate pour Anita” dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco. 

Within the past thirty years or thereabouts novel phenomena were defined and coined as “expanded orgasm” (EO) and “expanded sexual response” (ESR) in a minority of women.  ESR was defined as (quote) “being able to attain long lasting and/or prolonged and/or multiple and/or sustained orgasms and/or status orgasmus that lasted longer and were more intense than the classical orgasm patterns defined in the literature.”  Unquote.  The duration of EO and ESR varied from woman to woman, lasting starting from a couple minutes to hours or even days.  In the literature, the highest number of orgasms in a woman recorded by Dr. William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian wasreported to be 134 per hour. 

 This reminds me of something I was ruminate about in my recent episode on Ancient Tantric Sex Rites:  Ancient Tantric scholar Sha-hi-dullah observes, "in accordance with the mystical language of the Do-ha-kosas, we may explain maithuna (orgasm) as the union of lotus (padma) and thunder (vajra), as realization of the state of emptiness (vajra equals sunya) in the plexus of the cerebral nerves (padma).  We may understand “girl” as emptiness.  But can one not turn that around and say that if woman is emptiness she, unlike man, is every possibility, contains every possibility – and therefore is infinite?  Woman, absolutely unlike man, is capable of experiencing infinite sexual pleasure – an infinite number of types of orgasms.   When we speak of emptiness the word which comes immediately to mind is the oft-used philosophical term “the void.”  For French philosopher Alain Badiou, who was influenced by Jacques Lacan, reality is grounded on a ‘void’ of ‘inconsistent multiplicity’, which is at once void and excess.  This would not be Badiou’s view, nor Lacan’s certainly, however one might suggest that woman is such a void of inconsistent multiplicities which is both void and excess.  A divine excess, a cosmic excess.

 In expanded orgasms or ESR orgasms, more pleasure input is carried through many loci and many pathway systems, such that at least two or more orgasm reflex pathways are activated at the same time, while many other loci and pathways carry lots of supplementary information into the brain, such that orgasmic response is stronger, more intense, prolonged and more pleasurable, lasting for from a couple of minutes to tens of minutes, or even hours. 

A very large percentage of adults have sexy dreams, anywhere from 70% to 99% depending on the survey. If you are listening to this podcastYOU have erotic dreams. Sigmund Freud believed that dreams were wishfulfillments -- that they fulfill wishes, sometimes naughty wishes, that we are unable to fulfill in real life. But that's not the only theory. Learn all about dreaming in this episode, beside on research by the world's leading psychologists and psychoanalysts.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new filmproduction company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as BestActor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and aMasters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA,concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the LosAngeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensualitypodcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorismand crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality,and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize."

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Master’s Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2024. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever\pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.

#celibacy #Tantra #sexuality

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.  In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness.” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts: Randolph Pitts, "Love" (for three orchestras, soloists and large organ, 2021, deciated to Anita DeFrancesco), and "Sonate pour Anita" (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new filmproduction company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independentproducer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film"Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as BestActor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer andproduction company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in SocialPsychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and aMasters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. Hehas also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA,concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi BetaKappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization ofuniversity professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the LosAngeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationshipbetween philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and hostof the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensualitypodcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy ofnovels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbindingnovels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorismand crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love.Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels: "A sexy thriller thatshows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoomagic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality,and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatestnovel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize."

Intermission music: Excerpt from “Der Shatten Eines Traumes”by your host.

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/10baGdohgZW0L3VADOdbUhsb1jWo5KYYL/view

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022.  Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale.  He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
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Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

In today’s Episode #5 we continue our discussion of Object Relations Theory and how important it is to relate to your lover as a whole person; tenderness; love; and boldness.

Musical excerpts:  Sonate pour Anita (Randolph Pitts, 2019), and A Cabaret for Cesare Pavese (Randolph Pitts, 2018), both dedicated to psychotherapist and author Anita DeFrancesco

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

 A discussion based in part on a consideration of the views of Rudolf Carnap,  Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, Plato, Jacques Lacan, Friedrich Nietzsche and Martin Heidegger

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Epistemology podcast, the number one podcast in the areas of philosophy, psychology, and ontology, and how they realte to relationships, sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels:

"A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Nobel Prize."

 « Est-ce que je m’aime ? Vraiment pas. J’aime bien ce que j’ai été hier. Je ne suis jamais en adéquation avec le présent. Aujourd’hui, non, je ne m’aime pas. Mais, quand je regarde des photos d’hier sur lesquelles je ne m’aimais pas, je me dis: “Ah si, c’était bien !” »

Charlotte Gainsbourg

I highly recommend that you watch the video of this episode on Spotify or on my LendalPitts YouTube channel Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

I will be delivering these talks in French next year at the Sorbonne in Paris. In the interim they will be available here as podcasts.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Master’s Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

Music: “Love, For Three Orchestras and Large Organ, dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco” (Women have told me that a large organ is essential for good loving). AND:

“Orgasm Music” from “Cabaret for Cesare Pavese”

www.RandolphPits.com

www.TantraWisdom.com

Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! With research psychologist, novelist and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts, who holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness. Their True Flames…” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts: “Sonate pour Anita” (Sonata for Anita), dedicated to psychotherapist, love and relationship counselor and author Anita DeFrancesco. To hear more topics about Love, Relationships and Mindfullness, be sure to tune in to Anita DeFrancesco’s Discover Joyous Love Podcast.
www.DiscoverJoyousLove.com

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth.

I will be delivering these talks in French next year at the Sorbonne in Paris. In the interim they will be available here as podcasts.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

Clitoral, Vaginal and Full Body Orgasms. Penis Size and Orgasm. Orgasmic Meditation. Sex and the female brain. Eroticism of the the body, the heart... and Sacred Eroticism . Sexual Magic. All on The Number one Sex and Sensuality Podcast. Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Musical excerpts:  Randolph Pitts, "Sonate pour Anita" (dedicated to Anita DeFrancesco)
Randolph Pitts, "Der Schatten eines Traumes" (The Shadow of a Dream), 2019
Randolph Pitts, "Love" (for three orchestras, soloists and large organ, 2021)
Randolph Pitts, "Concerto per pianoforte e orchestra, dedicato ad Anita DeFrancesco" (2021, revised 2022)

Our first experience is a sensual experience, but as we live we become closed off to sensuality, to our bodies and to the joys of being embodied. Instead, guided by philosophy, psychology and embodied spirituality, we can open ourselves to transcendent sensuality which will elevate our relationships, sexual and otherwise, to entirely new and ever-expanding levels. There is no finitude. There are no limits. The underlying energy of all universes can and should fuel our creativity so that each of us may be a beacon of love, sensuality, caring, compassion, and truth. I will be delivering these talks in French next year at the Sorbonne in Paris.  In the interim they will be available here as podcasts.

Randolph Pitts is a well-known international motion picture producer. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California, Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationship dynamics. He is a member of the Phi Beta Kappa and of the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph Pitts has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year sting as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas, the film for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as Best Actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts’ spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And Also… with women and men falling in love. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world.
Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts’ novels: “A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man’s fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time.”

THIS IS A PROMO FOR OUR ULTIMATE EPISODE ABOUT LOVE AND SEX: Great sex Fuels Love and Love Fuels Great Sex until you recognize and Love and have Great Sex with your Twin Flame. Sex and Sensuality are a part of Love. Sex and Love are not separate. One inspires the other.
AND please check out our other recommended podcast "Discover Joyous Love" with host Anita DeFrancesco
Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! With research psychologist, novelist and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts, who holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during 2022. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. In a recent interview Randolph Pitts said, “Love is the main theme of my novels. Women and men, women and women, come together because they recognize and come to cherish each other’s uniqueness. They fall in love because they know that the objects of their love are their special people – woman or man. The people who will make life joyful and fulfilling for them. The people with whom they will find mutual fulfillment and enduring happiness. Their True Flames…” He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. Musical excerpts: “Sonate pour Anita” (Sonata for Anita), dedicated to psychotherapist, love and relationship counselor and author Anita DeFrancesco.

Would you rather be a giver or a receiver in Life and in Love?  In this episode Randolph and his special guest Anita DeFrancesco discuss Tantra, relationships, and pleasure; the psychology or giving and receiving; what it means to be romantic. Are you into friendship love or game playing love? Men and women and how they differ in love and in relationships. What it means to fall in love. The search for your True Flame.

Anita DeFrancesco, MA, is a Somatic Orgonomy Psychotherapist, a two-time Award Winning Journalist, and a Love & Relationship Coach. She is the Founder of Tantra Wisdom - Kinepathics.  She is the host of the Discover Joyous Love series on YouTube and also of the Discover Joyous Love and It’s Your Voice Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music and elsewhere. She is the author of “Live Free – Recreate and Liberate Your Life” and “The Donna Gentile Story,” a true crime thriller.

Mindfullness, Sexuality and Relationships: Anita’s mission is to educate people to enlightenment and awareness. To free the emotions from pain, learn to love more openly, express the hidden voice, and recreate a more purposeful, empowered and happy life; thus awakening from separation and suffering and embracing the modern world with oneness and love.

her website is www.TantraWisdom.com

Randolph Pitts holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of Philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. Randolph has been a top executive at several entertainment companies, including a ten year stint as Chief Executive Officer of the company that produced Leaving Las Vegas for which Nicolas Cage won the Academy Award as best actor. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast.

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award wining film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and Entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the fourth quarter of 2023. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph PItts' novels: "A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time." Maximum Sensuality is essential for a more exciting sex life, whether you are with one lover or with many. The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast shows you how to make this happen in dating, casual sex, short term and long term monogamous relationships, open relationships and poly-amorous relationships, explaining how maximum intimacy may be achieved in each or these. Sensuality is also the path toward spiritual love and spiritual sex. Your sensual self is your spiritual self! Sensuality enhances your passion and your creativity in all aspects of your life, from business through sports through the arts. Sensuality is the essence of pleasure! Research psychologist, novelist, classical composer and motion picture production executive Randolph Pitts is the writer, producer and host of The Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, which is the Number One Sex and Sensuality podcast in the world. It presents research findings from leading psychologists and other scientists working out of top universities to help you find solutions to your love, sex and relationship issues and difficulties. It also shows how the insights of philosophers and other thinkers apply to real world issues in your life. Explore Ecstatic Sensuality is available on all podcast platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music and Audible, as well as on the Lendall Pitts and Lendall Pitts II channels on YouTube. Randolph Pitts, "Mr. Sensuality", guides you through fundamental concepts of Psychology and Philosophy so that you will understand how to have a truly ecstatic sex life and the truly fulfilling, rewarding and supportive relationship that you have always dreamed of. Guests include leading authorities in the field of love and relationship counseling, such as Anita DeFrancesco, author of Love Buzz and producer and host of the Discover Joyous Love podcast. Introductory music is from “Sonate pour Anita” by Randolph Pitts. End music is “Sarabande for Flute and Strings” by Randolph Pitts

Image at end from "Die Unbekannte" film by Frank Wisbar starring Sybille Schmitz Sybille Schmitz, cinematography by Werne Bohne or Alexander von Lagorio.

Are you stuck in a pattern of falling into sexless relationships with women friends? Do your dates consist of going to Starbucks with some woman and listening to her troubles with her kids or her ex or her parents or her job? Then this episode is for you!

As its CEO Randolph Pitts turned a small, new film production company, Lumière Films, Inc., into the most successful independent producer/financier in Hollywood, best known for the multi-award winning film "Leaving Las Vegas", for which Nicolas Cage won the Oscar as Best Actor. Today he is a widely respected international motion picture producer and production company executive. He holds Summa Cum Laude degrees in Social Psychology and Egyptology from the University of California Berkeley, and a Masters Degree in Motion Picture Production and entertainment Law from UCLA. He has also done advanced research for the Department of Psychology at UCLA, concentrating on couples and relationships dynamics. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa and the American Philosophical Association, the organization of university professors of philosophy. He is also an associate member of the Los Angeles County Bar Association. He has a lifelong interest in the relationship between philosophy, psychology and history. He is the founder, writer and host of the Explore Ecstatic Sensuality podcast, the number one sex and sensuality podcast in the world, and of the Explore Redundant Epistemology podcast, the most ontologically superfluous podcast on the internet. The first volume of his eagerly anticipated tetralogy of novels will be published during the second quarter of 2025. Pitts' spellbinding novels deal at an unrelenting fever pitch with eroticism, mysticism, terrorism and crime on a global scale. And also… with women and men falling in love. Advance praise for one of Randolph Pitts' novels:

"A sexy thriller that shows New York City in the grip of terrorists, natural disasters and voodoo magic, while at the same time being a moving meditation on love, sensuality, and twenty-first century man's fate in the universe. Possibly the greatest novel of our time. I am going to nominate it for the Pulitzer Prize."