So many women wonder what men are thinking when it comes to dating post divorce, and how to approach finding a new partner in a way men actually respond to. This week's episode sheds light on the way men think about all of this, because we talk to a dating coach that specializes in working with men. If you're single and ready to mingle, you have to listen to this! (Guest: Celeste Moore, Image & Dating Consultant)

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Going to court is not always necessary in divorce today, but it does happen when couples cannot agree on how to settle. It may be the traditional idea of divorce, but nowadays it is always more expensive and usually not worth it. Hear all the reasons why you don't want to litigate! (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)

If you are buying a new home while getting divorced or post-divorce, this is an episode you must hear. There are a lot of important things to know (and things you have to be sure your real estate agent and real estate attorney know!), and you'll find out exactly what they are. Whether it's choosing your agent or lawyer - and knowing whether or not you even need one or both - we give you the information you need and the questions to ask. (Guest: Jill Sodafsky, Real Estate Attorney)

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Getting divorced is hard enough, but if you have a child that has special needs and requires special services, that can make everything significantly harder. What if you and your ex don't agree on what's necessary? What if you're not even on the same page about what is going on with your child and whether they're even considered special needs? Working with a parent advocate can be one of the best decisions you make, and you must listen to this episode if you're looking for answers to understanding the definition of special needs, the difference between and IEP and 504 and who is eligible. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Divorce & Family Mediator and Special Education Parent Advocate)

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Moving forward in divorce isn't always a straight line of progress and momentum - we all have periods where we and moving with momentum and then times where it seems we're stuck moving backwards. This is all part of the process and it's important to understand that a series of steps forward and back is completely common. In this interview, we talk to Sadie Marie, host of the Divorced and Happy podcast all about seasonal setbacks (in her case it was a summer setbacks) and resetting your life. The joy and pain are relatable to all of us, and you will walk away with insight that will empower you to keep moving forward in your own journey. (Guest: Sadie Marie, host of Divorced and Happy podcast)

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The pandemic has created some unexpected situations, particularly where people are living. Many families relocated for what was supposed to be a temporary time, but ended up staying because they now work remotely. So what if you're the parent that was "left behind" and can't see your kids per your custody schedule? Or what if you're the parent that relocated and now you want to stay far from the other parent? What is permitted and how can you protect yourself and your kids? We get all of that information and more in this episode! (Guest: Sandra Fava, Family Law Attorney)

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In this episode, we talk to a parenting mediator/divorce coach/author whose personal experience through her own parents' divorce taught her that divorce is not a problem in our culture, but rather a potential solution to a problematic marriage. No one is advocating for divorce, but there is a way to have a mindset that allows you to embrace - and yes, even love - divorce...for what it is. It's a refreshing and uplifting perspective that helps shed some of the stigma surrounding divorce, and will help inspire everyone who listens! (Guest: Tara Eisenhard, Parenting Mediator, Divorce Coach, Author "The D Word: Divorce Through a Child's Eyes")

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Not seeing eye-to-eye on how to handle COVID can certainly be more challenging if you're trying to co-parent while disagreeing on whether or not to be masking, vaccinating, social distancing and everything else. How to handle it all and not lose it? (Guest Jennifer Graf, LCSW)

We've said it before and we'll say it again, dating after divorce can be scary! You may feel insecure, you may not feel ready to actually experience intimacy with someone else yet - or you may be more than ready to get out there and get back in the game! No matter which way you're feeling, internationally renowned relationship expert Susan Winter has got lots of advice. From what your (and their) expectations should be, to how to broach sensitive topics like your divorce and/or kids, and even how and when a first kiss should happen, this is an episode you have to hear if you're back to dating post-divorce! (Guest: Susan Winter, Author and Relationship Expert)

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We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy during divorce, and we want you to be up on everything you need to know and when. In this episode of Divorce etc..., you'll find out why you can't wait until Feb to start dealing with your taxes, and why it's so important to actually consult with an accountant in the midst of your divorce process - so that you are factoring in all of the numbers that will impact you. (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA)

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It's not a sexy topic, but tax time is coming and there are some specific things you need to know so you don't get hit with any penalties or fees if you're getting divorced. If your divorce wasn't finalized before the end of the year, do you file jointly or separately? If you have kids, how do you determine who claims them? We go through all the important basics so you're set up for success! (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA and Financial Expert)

FYI - Divorce and Taxes Part 1 is S2, Ep 26 with Michele Spence

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What if you hate yoga? How many times have you heard it...everyone saying to do yoga because it's THE answer for all the stress in your life. And who doesn't need help with stress during a divorce? But what if you don't like it...is there a way to learn to love yoga - if not for the mindfulness, then at least for the abs? Neither Jessica nor T.H. enjoy yoga, so listen to this conversation on the truth about yoga and why you might decide to learn to love it. (Guest: Thara Natalie, Certified Yoga Teacher & Owner of Fire Shaper yoga studio)

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Mediation is a method of negotiation used in almost every divorce, whether you go to court or not. It's important to understand that typical mediation involves both spouses and one mediator who is trying to help both sides come to a settlement. The mediator is not more inclined to one party over the other, and that can be difficult for some people in the process. You can have a lawyer to help you through the mediation process, and in some states you are required to have your own lawyer sign off on the final mediated terms. There is a lot to know, and this episode explains it all! (Guest: Gabriella Formosa, Family Law Attorney)

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Are you excited about or dreading the holidays? Either way, it's natural to have feelings around the holiday season, and we've learned a LOT over the years after our divorces. We've compiled some of our best tips to help you survive the holidays, including what to do about holiday cards, gifts, budgeting and what if you are solo - you can still enjoy the holidays, just make a plan. (T.H. & Jess)

Abuse is far too common in marriages and chances are you know someone that has been or is struggling in an abusive relationship. Whether it's physical, emotional, mental, financial or some other form, just leaving the marriage does not always put an end to the abuse. In this episode T.H. talks to an expert on the different types of abuse, how to know if that's what you're dealing with, and how to stay strong after you leave. (Guest: Tina Lynn Huggins, High Conflict Divorce Coach).

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It doesn't have to be confusing to find the information you want and need when it comes to dealing with divorce, We know that making things simple helps, which is why color-coded our website by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the mySELF category - all about career, dating, self care, support and more.

1. Narcissist vs. Asshole, There's a Difference with Ina Hanson - Part 1 and Part 2 (S2, Ep. 57 & 58)

2. Dealing with a Sexless Marriage with Kim Bowan (S2, Ep. 68)

3. How to Divorce a Difficult Person with Nowal Houghton (S2, Ep. 46)

4. Personal Story of Divorcing a Narcissist with Alyssa Dineen (S3, Ep. 26)

5. Is Divorce the Right Answer with Karen McMahon (S3, Ep. 1)

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We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll learn the top tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship - as well as what all of that even means. (Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Coach)

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The cost of divorce can be extreme, especially if you and your soon-to-be-ex are in an acrimonious situation. Most lawyers charge a retainer fee up front, which can be hard to pay if you don't have access to money at the moment. In this episode, Jess and T.H. talk to attorney Nicole Noonan from New Chapter Capital all about the novel idea of divorce funding. This genius concept is a game-changer for people that will receive some money or assets at the end of the divorce, but are short on cash at the beginning to get the process started. Hear all about how divorce funding works and whether or not you could be eligible!  (Guest: Nicole Noonan, attorney & founder/CEO of New Chapter Capital)

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Summary: Online dating isn't always easy, but avoiding the most common mistakes can help you stand out in your dating profile. Hear the biggest mistakes and what you should be doing instead. (Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)

"Do I need a lawyer?" is a common question for many people when faced with the reality that they're getting divorced. There are common perceptions that you'll save a ton of money and a judge may even feel bad for you because you are the underdog, but if you don't get a lawyer, then you have to be prepared and understand the letter of the law. The harsh reality is that not having a lawyer may hurt you, especially if you have to go to court. This episode exposes the real truth on whether or not you should really do it alone. (Guest: Sandra Fava, Family Law Attorney)

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Divorced dads often have a harder time setting up and settling into a new home after divorce. Design firm Stripe Street Studio focuses on making this a smooth transition for both divorced parents and kids. (Guest: Stacey Herman, Stripe Street Studio)

If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)

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When is it worth taking your ex back to court? Just being unsatisfied with the settlement you reached probably won't be worth it, but if there have been material changes or you have solid reason that things should be changed, then it might be. We ask all those questions so you'll understand what your best options - and chances are - if you find yourself considering whether to back to court. (Guest: Kimberly Cook, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Host of Grown Girl Divorce podcast)

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It's all those little things that piss us off, right? Those triggers can make or break your day, but here's how you can spot them and deal with them head on. (Guest: Jennifer Gallagher, Parenting Coach)

Saving for retirement when you're divorced - or getting divorced - looks different. You may be starting over and you need to know all the options for retirement accounts, plus the right way to get started so you have what you need when you need it. We get all the answers from financial expert Tracy Byrnes.

We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more.

1. Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissist with Christina McGhee (3, Ep. 16)

2. How Divorce Affects Kids - Are they Ok? with Amy Armstrong (S3, Ep. 7)

3. Are you co-parenting with an Asshole? with Sabrina Cronin (3, Ep. 34)

4. Harmonious Co Parenting with Luke Entrup (S4, Ep. 6)

5. Divorce Tips for Moms and Dads with Grace Casper (S3, Ep. 33)

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Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situations, and help you think about it all in a way you never have before. (Guest: Mellissa Librach, Coach, Trainer & Author)

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One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additional arguing and toxicity. We spoke to lawyer and divorce coach Sabrina Cronin about the secret to making it a little easier. (Guest: Sabrina Cronin, Family Law Attorney)

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In every divorce, someone is moving out, and in many cases the family home is being sold. Even before you meet with lawyers, you should have a real estate professional value your home so you know what it's worth in your negotiations, and there are a number of other important things to know and do from the very beginning of your process. In this episode, Christie's International Real Estate Agent, Melissa Rubenstein,  takes you through the the top tips of preparing, listing, showing and selling a home, as well as what you need to know if you want to purchase something new. There are specific privacy issues and concerns when selling a home during divorce and we've got all the info you need to know! (Guest: Melissa Rubenstein, Real Estate Agent and former Real Estate Attorney)

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Using social media while in the midst of separation and divorce is a bad idea. There are too many nuggets that your ex can (and will!) use against you during the process. In this episode we give you all the do's and don'ts of using Instagram, Facebook, and more, so you can protect yourself. (Guest: Susan Guthrie, The Divorce & Beyond Podcast Host/Attorney/Mediator)

Coercive control is not something we knew much about, but it turns out it occurs is many marriages - and does not stop after a divorce. It can be scary and mentally and emotionally draining, but there are ways to strategize and make sure that you are able to protect yourself and your children. This is an eye-opening episode. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, Founder, NJ Protective Moms)

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Father's Day should be a happy day for dads, but when you're divorced, there are a lot of emotions that may come along with it. Plus, wrangling the kids and trying to set up the day can sometimes end up leading to disappointment. We've all been there! But there are some ways you divorced dads can set yourself up for success, and we get some of the best ideas and tips from parenting coach Jay Skibbens. This episode can help make your day the way you want it! (Guest: Jay Skibbens, Parent Coach)

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Everyone always asks what to do with their money to prepare for a divorce, as well as how to protect it when it's over. In this episode, you'll hear from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst how to deal with those things, as well as how to leverage your resources to make your divorce less expensive and less hostile. (Guest: Nikki Tucker, CFDA)

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It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear episode with dating stories from the one and only Carmindy! (Guest: Carmindy, Founder Carmindy Beauty, Entrepreneur)

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There's no doubt that finances are one of the top concerns when going through a divorce, and often it's the biggest one. But if you have someone on your team that can help simplify what it all means, it may not be as scary or cause as much fear as you think. In this episode, you'll hear from the founders of the women-owned business, My Divorce Solution, on how they break down the details of your situation to give you the financial clarity and confidence to move on. (Guests: Karen Chellew & Catherine Shanahan, Co-Founders My Divorce Solution)

As if divorce wasn't challenging enough, going through it all while helping a child with special needs can add an extra layer of stress and difficulty. T.H. and exEXPERT Rebecca Stern recently spoke about their personal experiences with their sons to the group "Other Parents Like Us". This event was so impactful and informative, and we are airing this episode to help even more parents dealing with these issues, so you all know you aren't alone.

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It's so common to think you don't want to get re-marry after being divorced - the idea of another marriage not working out  can be overwhelming. But if you are open to the idea of marriage after divorce, figuring out who the right person is can be really scary, not to mention incredibly frustrating. This episode is an inside look at the author's story behind the best-selling book Becoming Mrs. Karen Stanley: The Single Mom's Guide to Creating the Life you Want. Hear how she created systems to find true love again, how you can use these same strategies and her journey to becoming Mrs. Karen Stanley. (Guest: Karen Stanley, Author, Life Coach)

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It takes two to make a marriage work or not...it's just not always easy to recognize and understand what role we play in the demise of a relationship. But some of the reasons your marriage may not work could also be reasons why other relationships in your life could be strained - with family, friends or even colleagues. In this episode, Strengths Coach Dan Schaal breaks through the barriers of knowing how to best utilize your own personal strengths, as well as how to work with others' strengths to develop the types of bonds, friendships, relationships and even marriage that you're looking for in your life. (Guest: Dan Schaal, Gallup Certified CliftonStrength Coach)

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Red flags can be different for different people, but there are some universal red flags that we should all be wary of. How is it that we allow ourselves to overlook and ignore red flags, and even continue staying in a relationship when we're feeling unsettled? In this episode, Brianna McCabe spills it all about the red flags we all need to watch out for, how to determine what are red flags to you, and why she wrote all about it in The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. (Guest: Brianna McCabe, Author)

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Understanding the relationship between you and your divorce lawyer is a crucial part of the process, because if expectations aren't met (on either side), things can go badly. Boundaries, methods of communication, who works for you, the billing...these are all things you need to clarify at the very beginning. In this episode you'll hear the how to's and no do's of a client-attorney relationship. (Guest: Jennifer Armstrong, Family Law Attorney)

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We know that dating post-divorce can be a drag and it's easy to get discouraged. But while you may be on the market to meet your new special someone, you may actually be focusing on all the wrong things! In this episode, you'll hear about the things that should be at the top of your list, versus the characteristics that you think may make someone the ideal partner. And spoiler alert - what you hear will surprise you! If you're looking to get back in the dating game, you definitely need to listen to this! (Guest: Julianne Cantarella, Dating Coach and Relationship Expert)

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Divorce from a narcissist is one of the most challenging types of divorces a person can go through, and we know it's not always easy to talk about. Getting out of a toxic relationship that includes trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult, but with the right support, you can move on and find joy - and love! - again. In this episode we hear a first-hand account of divorcing and moving on from a narcissist, so if this is a situation you are or have faced, you are not alone! (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Author & Dating Expert)

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Is this you? Wouldn't you like to feel some community as we enter into the holiday season? While we pride ourselves on the engagement and community we're building through exEXPERTS, we love to give a shout-out to others that have a similar mission, and Divorced Over 40 definitely does. We know how lonely, isolating and sad getting divorced is, and this group has grown from just six people to hundreds across the country. Their in-person events and trips has attracted people from all over (including us!), and two of its core members, Amy and Travis, tell all about what they offer and how they do it. This is a must-listen for anyone divorced because it's stone-cold proof you are not alone! (Guests: Amy Greene & Travis Rolo, Divorced Over 40)

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Thinking about revamping your food and exercise routine? Separation and divorce are a popular time to assess what's working or not, and to make some big changes. Revenge body, anyone? We asked all the questions about what's true versus what's a myth around some of the most common diets and workout routines. Listen up to get started on your own path to the best you yet! (Guest: Hillary Irwin, Nutritionist)

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Turns out, one of the first questions men ask themselves when getting divorced is "WTF do I do now?" This episode helps answer that, along with busting many of the myths around men and divorce. It's different for men and women, but many assumptions are made about how easy it can be for guys because they seem to move on so quickly. It's not true! And in this episode, the founder of WTF Divorce breaks it all down. (Guest: Rob Roseman, Founder, WTF Divorce/www.wtfdivorce.com)

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Resumes today aren't what they used to be, and what employers want has also changed over time, partially due to the pandemic. So whether you're hoping to find a new job post-divorce, or you're going to be looking for the first time in a long time, it's important to be on your A-game! Human Resources expert, Jenifer Barkon, spells out exactly what those in her position (as Chief Talent Officer) are really looking for, and how you can make sure your resume stands out among the rest and gives you the edge over everyone else. (Guest: Jenifer Barkon, HR Expert)

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Hearing that you may need a parent coordinator can sound scary, but it can actually help you in your divorce process. The skills and benefits a parent coordinator can offer can help you navigate the co-parenting situation and set you up for a successful future. Lawyer and LCSW Linda Schofel talks us through all of the ways this type of expert can be an asset for you in your divorce. (Guest: Linda Schofel, Lawyer, LCSW and Parent Coordinator)

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In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to organizational experts Nicole Naidrich and Lauren Tutundgy of NeatFreaks Home, to learn the easiest ways to declutter your home when starting fresh after a divorce. Whether consigning designer clothing or donating items to charity, the NeatFreaks girls offer three super simple tips that will prevent the process from becoming overwhelming.

In this episode, we talk all about how to learn your finances so anyone concerned about whether or not they can afford to leave an unhappy marriage will learn they can, and be better prepared. What do you need to have, to save, to invest? Hear what to focus on first, and how to manage your money when you're the one calling the shots. (Guest: Stacy Francis)

Even when the decision is made to divorce, it's important to take the time you need to prepare, find the right attorney and understand what you want your process to look like. Wendy Sloane, co-host of the "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast and host of "What's Up with Wendy" podcast, opens up about her process in an effort to help others not to find themselves in the same situation. Wendy offers up some great tips and insight that will be helpful for anyone dealing with the divorce process. (Guest: Wendy Sloane, co-host "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast)

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We're all looking to win in so many areas of our lives, but it's a challenge to make it all happen. Renowned divorce lawyer, Renee Bauer, is a big advocate of empowering women through divorce and beyond, and her new book "She Who Wins" is full of takeaway advice for women everywhere. It's not a divorce book, but the strategies and tips can be applied as you navigate your divorce and life afterwards. This is a must-listen (and must read!) for anyone! (Guest: Renee Bauer, Divorce Attorney & Author "She Who Wins" https://msreneebauer.com/)

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Divorce is a time of negotiation over many things in your life, and a common time to reevaluate your place at work, or even find a new job. Trying to determine how much money you should make can be challenging, but it's imperative that you first understand your value and what you're "worth" so that you aren't underselling yourself. This episode answers all of your questions about how to figure out what you should be asking for and how, no matter if it's at your current job or in the search for something new (even if you haven't worked prior to your divorce). (Guest: Jenifer Barkon, HR Executive)

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Infidelity is far too common in many marriages, but it's all about how you own up to it and take responsibility that allows people to move on productively, and often find themselves in a better place than before. In this episode, Jessica speaks to divorce coach Cindy Stibbard, whose own personal experience with cheating - both her own and her ex husband's - led her to a successful practice helping others focus on family reorganization and navigating the divorce process in a better way. Cindy opens up about how extramarital affairs affected her self-worth and inner strength, and her insight will resonate deeply with anyone dealing with divorce. (Guest: Cindy Stibbard, Certified Divorce and Career Transition Coach)

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Divorce over 50 is becoming more common, but the issues and finances need to be treated differently, as this is a time where retirement is a much bigger concern. If you're in this age group, this episode will give you the information and tips on the steps you must take right now, in order to best serve your needs during your divorce. (Guest: Laura Cowan, Trust & Estates Attorney)

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Figuring out how you want to look and present yourself after divorce can be a huge decision! Especially if you've fallen into a style rut that you don't feel represents who you are anymore. Hear about one of the easiest ways to get your style back with Wardrobe Stylist Ari Rosmarin.

It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: Heather MacKenzie, Hello Divorce)

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Everyone needs trust and estate planning when getting divorced - even you! It's not about how much money you have, but protecting what you do have so it goes to the people you want, and not your ex. We've got all the do's and don'ts. (Guest: Laura Cowan)

Once you get divorced, do you have to identify as divorced for the rest of your life? When are you just single or not married - just YOU? Why does every form you fill out anywhere you go ask if you're divorced? What if your divorce was years ago? We have to shift into the mindset that we are who we are, and that being divorced is not the only thing that defines us. This is the poignant fact that entrepreneur Leslie Kaplan realized and says it's what she wished she knew when it comes to divorce. Hear her amazing story and how she has successfully reclaimed her independent identity as a strong single woman. (Guest: Leslie Kaplan, Real Life Expert, Entrepreneur)

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If you aren't sure what your money personality is, now is a good time to find out. Identifying your money personality will help you as you navigate your divorce budget and finances, which is imperative while you're going through the process and figuring out your next steps. Plus, knowing your money personality and spending traits will be helpful when you are looking for a new partner, because you will be able to understand red flags and potential problems before they arise. (Guest: Mikelann Valterra, Seattle Money Coach)

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Hear the first-hand perspective from a client about exactly how exEXPERTS helped her through every step of her divorce, to come out stronger and happier. The end of a marriage is always difficult, but it is also the beginning of something new. In this episode, we talk to exEXPERTS client Jennifer all about her experience, how she reached out to us before the papers were even filed, and how exEXPERTS helped her every step along the way. It's inspiring to hear how Jennifer used the guidance we gave her to grow stronger throughout her process, and to hear her talk about where she is now in such an optimistic way. This is exactly what exEXPERTS and Divorce etc... is all about! If you need support and guidance through your divorce and beyond, please reach out at hello@exexperts.com.

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It's hard to see our kids be disappointed, especially when it stems from their other parent letting them down. It's instinct to want to protect them from that hurt, which often comes in the form of covering for that other parent. It could be as simple as getting the birthday gift for the party they're invited to on your ex's weekend, or as big as making excuses when your ex doesn't show up when they're supposed to. But shielding them from the inevitable disappointment from a difficult person isn't always the best thing for your kids. Parenting expert Christina McGhee explains how to deal with this kind of situation in divorce, and what's actually the better way to handle things. (Guest: Christina McGhee, MSW, Parenting Expert, Author "Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids")

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Have you ever thought about working with a matchmaker to meet your perfect partner? The idea may seem old-school, but modern day matchmakers can set you up successfully, and often help you hone in on what you should be focused on when finding the right person. In this episode, Julianne Cantarella gives the honest truth about what to expect (or not) from a matchmaker, the myths and how to manage your own expectations so that you are in the right place to meet that Mr. or Ms. Right. (Guest: Julianne Cantarella, Relationship/Dating Coach, Creator of First Date to Soulmate)

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Divorce litigation happens when couples are too caught up in their emotions or blame to be able to find a way to settle. But the revenge of litigating will cost you more than just money...and is usually not worth it. (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)

Are you getting divorced and don't know where to start? We have the answers in this month's virtual Open House event on Wednesday Jan 11 at 7pm EST! Our guests are divorce lawyers, mediators, co-parenting experts, divorce coach and forensic accountant and fraud coach. You'll be able to ask all of your questions and get them answered live by: Renee Bauer, Brian Martel, Tracy Coenen and Jennifer Warren Medwin - plus US! Even if you can't attend live, if you register for a ticket you can send in your questions and get them answered so you can watch the replay! Go to www.exexperts.com for tickets and use the code SAVE for $10 off!

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For anyone divorcing with kids, custody and parenting are the most important topics. There are so many considerations and it's important to try and make this aspect as painless as possible, especially for the children. This episode tells you what you need to know. (Guest: Sara Corcoran, divorce attorney)

How you handle, process and model behavior to your children all have huge impacts during and after divorce. This is the information you may not want to hear, but you have to! With Barry Selby, Relationship Expert and Bestselling Author.

Have you thought about a "what if they don't" clause in your divorce agreement? Negotiating settlements are difficult by nature, and we're all concerned about making sure we get in all of the things the ex must do in order to abide by the terms. But one thing that can be extremely useful and important when divorcing a narcissist or difficult person is protecting yourself in any case where they do not follow the agreement. This episode goes through some great points on how to protect yourself in ways you may not have thought about otherwise. (Tracy Malone, Narcissist Abuse Support Coach)

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Finding a way to still wear and enjoy your engagement ring after divorce can be tricky, but nowadays there are so many ways to repurpose your stone that selling it is no longer your only option. If you've had an amicable divorce or the stone happens to be a family heirloom that you still love and plan to keep, we're bringing you some amazing ideas on how you can do exactly that. (Stephanie Gottlieb, Founder & CEO, Stephanie Gottlieb Fine Jewelry)

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First dates can be nerve-wracking no matter what, but even more so after going through a divorce. When you've been in a marriage, stepping out with someone new can bring up a lot of emotions, not to mention concerns about what you even still remember about dating, flirting and beyond. One upside is that everyone is a little nervous on a first date, so you're not alone. But if you feel like you could use a little practice, advice and encouragement, then you have to listen to this conversation with acclaimed dating coach and relationship expert Susan Winter, as she guides us through the steps for the most successful first dates. (Guest: Susan Winter, Dating Coach and Bestselling Author)

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It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for anyone who's been cheated on! (Guest: Erica Bennett, Empowerment Coach)

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Can you imagine getting diagnosed with stage-three cancer right after finding out your spouse was having an affair and divorcing you? To be a single parent with three small kids and dealing with divorce, surgery, chemo and more might completely break many of us and our spirits. But TV personality Barbara Majeski rose to all the challenges and rebuilt her life bigger and better than before, and shares how she did it (you can, too!) and her life philosophy to help inspire us all. (Guest: Barbara Majeski, TV Personality and podcast host "Baring it All") 

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Exes and authors of the popular book “Our Happy Divorce” sit down with Jess and T.H. to talk (and laugh) about how they went from unhappily married to very happily divorced! This real and raw interview offers a lot of insight into some very common problems during marriage, and how Ben and Nikki were able to work through the anger and discontent to now live as a new “family” that includes their new significant others as well as as new siblings for their son. Their transparency and practical tips will help anyone dealing with divorce! (Guests: Ben Heldfond & Nikki DeBartolo, authors “Our Happy Divorce”)

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Let's talk about sex, baby! So many of us coming out of divorce have been in a major dry spell, and now it's time to think about getting back out there and enjoying yourself in every way! This is a time to learn how to get over any fears, embarrassment or shame and realize that sex is amazing and it should be. It can be hard to speak up about your sexual wants and desires, especially with a new partner, but sex therapist Carli Blau shares some great tips and is about as direct and forthcoming as can be. Hear how you can be more comfortable in bed, even if it's been a while! (Guest: Carli Blau, Sex Therapist/Psychotherapist)

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Getting divorced means splitting up all your stuff, and then having to buy a lot of new things for your new household - kitchenware, bedding and more. All at a time when money is tight and you are probably trying to live on a budget. in this episode, hear why Olivia Howell created the Divorce Registry and how it works. (Guest: Olivia Howell, Founder, Divorce Registry)

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You've heard experts say you should talk to yourself the way you talk to your best friend - but do you? Or do you have an inner voice that makes you feel bad about being divorced and "failing" at marriage, and makes you feel like a bad parent or that you just aren't good enough in so many other ways? In this episode, 10-time Emmy winner and author, Valerie Gordon, explains the most important skills you need in order to stop criticizing yourself and move forward with ease and grace. You'll learn how to get out of your head, stop second guessing yourself and end the process of always overthinking past mistakes. This is a conversation everyone needs to hear! (Guest: Valerie Gordon, Author "Fire Your Narrator!: A Storyteller's Guide to Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Life")

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Are you wondering if the recovery from divorce for women is different than men? Sometimes women think men deal with it all so much easier - they seem to start dating and getting into relationships sooner, and often don't seem to shoulder the same guilt or shame as women. But guess what? We found out it's all a facade! Listen to this fascinating conversation with a nationally recognized relationship expert and author of The Breakup Bible, about the truth on how men actually deal with and recover from divorce. The insights are surprising and will not only help you understand the male perspective, but also help as you navigate into new relationships with divorced men. (Guest: Rachel Sussman, Relationship Expert and Coach, Author The Breakup Bible)

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Even though we're always giving you two perspectives on everything, we're still both women. In this week's episode, T.H. sits down with one of our favorite good guys, Daren Douglas, to talk about his community Relationships Renewed, and what other good guys are going through as they get divorced. (Guest: Daren Douglas, Certified Divorce Specialist)

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Whether you call it spousal support, alimony or something else, this is a huge part of the discussion of every divorce. How do you know what you're entitled to? How much and for how long? In this episode, T.H. and Jess sit down with family law attorney Jennifer Armstrong and dig deep into the concept of spousal support - how it works and how to handle it in your divorce negotiation. If you're thinking about divorce or in the midst of the process, you need to hear this. (Guest: Jennifer Armstrong, Family Law Attorney)

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Abuse can show itself in many ways in a marriage - it's not always physical and doesn't always show obvious scars. You or someone you know may be in an abusive marriage without realizing it. Hear some of the forms and the telltale signs, as well as how to get help. (Guest: Julye Minor, Center for Hope and Safety)

In this episode, we briefly recap which are our top 5 highest-rated and most-listened to podcast episodes from this past season - the guests, the topic and some of the best, most useful pieces of information that you'll take away from each. These episodes were all about dealing with difficulties, whether it be divorcing a narcissist or moving on from a difficult relationship, trauma recovery, and focusing back on yourself.

No. 1:  Melissa Gragg, “How to Find Hidden Money in Divorce” - Season 2, Ep. 60

No. 2 (and 2.5): Ina Hansen, “Narcissist v. Asshole –There is a Difference” - Season 2, Ep 57 & 58

No. 3: Nawal Houghton, “How to Divorce a Difficult Person” - Season 2, Ep. 46

No. 4: Jennifer Lazor, “The One Thing You Can Control During Divorce” - Season 2, Ep.38

No. 5: John Nachlinger and Christina Previte, “The Most Common Mistakes of Men and Women in Divorce” - Season 2, Ep. 11

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There's a new trend we're hearing about when it comes to dating after divorce - mate poaching. This isn't cheating, exactly, but it's when someone sets up a situation with the ultimate goal of stealing someone's partner. The crazy part is that the one being poached has no idea...and it has real consequences and ruins relationships. One of our favorite relationship and dating coaches explains all the details, how to know if you're being poached and what you can (and should!) do to stop it. (Guest: ⁠Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right⁠)

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The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from enjoying all the great ones! (Guest: Cat & Nat, Hosts of "Cat & Nat Unfiltered")

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Don't you want to know what judges are really thinking when deciding on matters of divorce in family court? Are there insider secrets to know that can help or hurt you during your hearings? In this episode, T.H. and Jess talk to the Honorable Ronny Siegal, a retired Superior Court judge, who opens up about what you really need to know if you're going to be in a courtroom at all during your divorce proceedings. (Guest: Judge Ronny Jo Siegal, Retired Superior Court Judge and Family Law Attorney at Pashman Stein)

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We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more.

1. Organizing Your Life for Divorce - S3, Ep. 12 with Laurie Palau
2. Covering Your Ass in Real Estate During Divorce - S3, Ep. 71 with Jill Sodafsky
3. Why you Must Have a New Trust & Estate Plan Post-Divorce - S1, Ep. 12 with Laura Cowan
4. Repurposing Your Engagement Ring After Divorce? - S3, Ep. 6 with Stephanie Gottlieb
5. Top Tips for Selling Your Home After Divorce - S2, Ep. 47 with Melissa Rubenstein

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Why do you always have to check off the "divorced" box on medical forms, school forms and more for years after your divorce? Does the fact that you went through a divorce mean that has to be your identity forever? Listen to this fun and empowering conversation btwn Jessica and T.H. and two incredible women who are also best friends, and hear how the stigma and judgement around the topic of divorce has to change in a positive way. (Guests: Najiyyah Brooks & Tanisha Russell Day)

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Divorce comes with its fair share of mistakes, but they're not the same by men and women. "Divorce Shield" host John Nachlinger and "Divorce Happy Hour" host Christina Previte - both divorce attorneys, give us the lowdown on the most common mistakes made by women versus men, so you know what you may be facing and how to work through them. (Guests: John Nachlinger & Christina Previte, divorce attorneys and podcast hosts)

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The type of divorce you choose depends on who your ex is, but mediation is a common practice in several kinds of divorce. But who does it serve? What can go wrong? In this episode you'll learn exactly what goes on in mediation, how to best prepare for it, what can go wrong and how to prevent that so you come out feeling good about your result. This is a must-listen for anyone getting divorced! (Guest: Gabrielle Hartley, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Author Better Apart)

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We know how hard it can be to start dating after divorce, but it's ten times as terrifying to start having sex again! Whether you your marriage lasted a year or 30 years, you probably got used to how your partner liked things in bed, but here's the cold, hard truth - not everyone likes it that way! Learning what a new partner likes can be nerve-wracking, and Sex Doc Carli emphasizes that the most important thing is that you know how YOU like it. That means learning your own body, what turns you on, what you're comfortable with and willing to do and taking responsibility for your own orgasms (and btw, spoiler alert, not everyone can have one, and that's ok!). We go deep in this episode and it's no-holds barred. (Guest: Carli Blau, Sex and Relationship Therapist)

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Do you think you're divorcing (or did divorce) a narcissist? You may think the telltale signs were on display: doesn't seem to care about anyone but themselves; they're full of themselves; they're only really concerned about their own happiness and how things affect them. Professionals may agree these are narcissistic tendencies, but there is a lot more when it comes to a person being an actual narcissist. Otherwise, your ex may just be an asshole. In part 1 of our two part episode, you're going to have a clearer understanding of what a true narcissist is and whether or not that's what you're dealing with, along with how to tell the difference between a narcissist vs an asshole. (Ina Hansen, Bestselling Author and Life Coach)

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Feeling like you've lost your identity after getting divorced is so common because divorce often brings about feelings of "who am I?" now that you're no longer part of a married couple. From changing your name to going back into the corporate workforce, major changes are happening in many ways. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen - the Divorce Doctor - explains that there are ways to reset how you think so you can embrace the new you. This is must-listen for anyone going through divorce and everyone who has already gotten divorced! (Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, Ph.D., Author, aka The Divorce Doctor)

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Do your kids open up to you about how they're coping with your divorce? It can be a struggle for all parents, but there may be support at school that you aren't aware of. The awesome program Banana Splits has kids helping each other! Dr. Valerie Raymond tells us all about it.

If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert)

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When getting divorced, the first year is always the hardest. It's the time when you are figuring out what this new life will look like, for you and your kids. And it's a time when you exprience a lot of new firsts, as you learn how to navigate and adjust. In this episode, we speak to Sarah Armstrong, an executive at Google who knows how to get things done, about how she did it and why it prompted her to wrote the book "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce". (Guest: Sarah Armstrong, Author, The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce")

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Getting back in the dating game can be scary - what are the "rules" today and how have things changed since you were single? Listen to the dating tips and advice from one of today's premier experts! (Lindsey Metselaar, "We Met at ACME")

The man’s view of divorce and how to handle it isn’t always what we think. Stereotypes lead us to think men don’t want to talk about it, but that’s not the case. Karen McMahon of Journey Beyond Divorce shares the real story from the male perspective.

Understanding the difference between a true narcissist vs an asshole is an important distinction - it came have a profound impact on almost every aspect of your divorce, as well as how you can manage the process. There are personality traits that people can exhibit which may make it easy to consider them a narcissist, but in actuality, stats show less than 5% of people really have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Either way, there are specific things that you need to know, which will help you move forward in a way that won't be as harmful to YOU. Once you understand who you're dealing with in your divorce, you will learn strategies and ways to handle your divorce and beyond. (Ina Hansen, Bestselling Author and Coach)

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Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach)

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SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to ⁠www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com⁠

After 30+ years as a divorce lawyer - and having been divorced herself - acclaimed attorney Susan Guthrie saw there was a better way to get divorced, rather than going through the old-school litigation process. She admits she fell into all the traps that everyone does, even though she had been telling clients for years what to do and what not to do! This eye-opening episode pulls back the curtain on the personal process of divorce, as well as how you can best manage your own process to avoid the pitfalls and come to a satisfactory outcome for everyone involved.

(Guest: Susan Guthrie, Family Law Attorney/Mediator, Host of Divorce and Beyond podcast)

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