
Dear Vampire Diaries (DVD Cast)
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26 Dec 2021 | 12 DVDays - Holidays 2021 | 00:05:25 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Your podcast hosts are together for the holidays and wanted to bring you some Christmas cheer with a Mystic Falls-inspired song. Just imagine us singing it (well, Brigid singing it and Nikki playing the tambourine) on the Mystic Grill's stage. Wishing you and yours Happy Holidays and we'll see you in '22 on the 21st of January! Sincerely, Nikki and Brigid PS (SPOILERS) There might be a teensey weensey spoilery mention at 03:40 for Episode 11 of Season 1, and a spoiler for Episode 12 of Season 1 at 4:00. We promise it won't ruin your holidays. Nothin' huge. Just in case. Art & editing by Nikki | |||
06 Nov 2021 | 162 Tears S1E8 | 00:58:48 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to 162 Candles! If you thought we cried a lot last week, this week we will drown you in 162 teardrops that we shed, forming a pool as deep as an ocean, an ocean that contains “Damon’s” “medallion” (yes double quotes) and the treasure of Cortés himself and Nikki’s houseplant, Jeremy. Make sense? No? Sorry. We’re emotionally exhausted. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Trigger Warnings- 16.16 - 17.48 Grooming 36.05 - 37.00, 38.00 - 38.43, 50.02 - 51.44 Abusive dynamic 47.35 - 48.23 Oppressive, harmful language We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide Prevention Lifeline, English & Spanish: 800-273-8255 United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Works mentioned- Lindsay Mack’s Tarot for the Wild Soul Podcast -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing and artwork by Nikki | |||
11 Sep 2021 | Flying Brooke and Crow Paul Wesley S1E1 | 01:49:07 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to the Pilot! We are beginning our adventure and soaking in all the fog, crows, and animal attacks we can get! Join us as we simultaneously swoon over the meet-cutes and question the dining styles of our favorite Salvatore brothers. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki
-Trigger Warnings- Grooming/Power Dynamics / Age: 34.20 - 35.31 & 46.15-52.50 Sexual Assault : 1:08.30 - 1:15.20 Stalking : 39.37 - 41.40 -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki Other works mentioned: Lindsey Mack’s Tarot Teachings https://www.tarotforthewildsoul.com Anatol, G. L., Kramar, M., & Nicol, R. (2011). Arrested Feminism. In Bringing light to twilight: Perspectives on a pop culture phenomenon. essay, Palgrave Macmillan. | |||
30 Oct 2021 | Framing Vicki Donovan - S1E7 | 01:22:50 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Haunted! Happy Halloween!!! Join us as we chat about Vicki Donovan's potential, holier-than-thou Elena Gilbert, and make one or two or five Harry Potter references. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
-Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Trigger Warnings- 39:00-39:10 - Lack of believing allegations 42:30-42:53 - Talk about roofing drinks 44:04-44:34 - Abuser dismissal of abuse 54:15-54:40 - Attack and talk about lack of consent 57:45-1.02:30 & 1.14:10-1.14:38 - Harmful tropes of characters struggling with addiction and LQBTQ+ characters We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide Prevention Lifeline, English & Spanish: 800-273-8255 United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Works mentioned- Kevin Williamson Quote - -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
16 Sep 2022 | Game On... Again S2E2 | 00:59:57 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Brave New World! Do you have your game face on yet...? But do you...? Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: physical abuse & violence, racist and misogynistic moralistic tropes of typical horror genre IP, and emotional manipulation. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
09 Sep 2022 | Game On S2E1 | 01:11:54 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Return! We're back and so is a certain dead ringer... We couldn't be more excited! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: sexual assault, physical abuse & violence, and emotional manipulation. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
01 Oct 2021 | Get Out - S1E4 | 01:00:15 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Family Ties! Do you have your invite? The Lockwoods are throwing a boring-ass party. Join us as we learn about the who’s who of Mystic Falls! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki
Abusive relationship: 15.27-16.15 & 48.15-55.00 We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki Other works mentioned: Georgia Freedom Initiative- | |||
25 Mar 2022 | Going once! Going twice! S1E15 | 01:09:47 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to A Few Good Men! We’re back! And so is Kelly Donovan?!? This ought to be good…. Say how much are you willing to auction for a date with Damon Salvatore? Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki
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-Trigger Warnings-
00:11:40 - 00:15:40 Compulsion date rape/abuse 00:31:00-00:31:40 Home invasion & Murder 00:32:27-00:33:00 Slavery
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
21 Jan 2022 | I'll Journal About Your Journal S1E11 | 01:13:17 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Bloodlines! We’re back baby, and with a special guest!! It’s off to Georgia we go where we try to sort out our complicated feelings on Damon being both awesome and the absolute worst. We hope you had a nice holiday and are ready to dive back into teenage vampire drama with us! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings-
General discussions about vampire teenage age differences. -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki
Special thank you to our guest host Mary-Beth!! | |||
10 Sep 2021 | Introduction Episode Zero | 00:31:55 | |
EPISODE 0 Dear Podcast Listener, For nearly a decade, we have lived our normal adult lives, hiding our love for TVD, alone in the world, until now. We are starting a podcast, and this is our intro. Welcome to the intro episode of Dear Vampire Diaries. In the episode we (Brigid & Nikki) introduce ourselves as your co-hosts & discuss why we felt the need to spend countless hours of our lives rewatching a beloved show from our teenage years. If you loved this show when it aired, or are interested in checking it out now, we hope you’ll join us as we embark on this journey!! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki Other works mentioned: Anatol, G. L. (2011). Bringing light to twilight: Perspectives on a pop culture phenomenon. Palgrave Macmillan. -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
23 Sep 2022 | Mason Is A Very Good Boy S2E3 | 01:04:04 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Bad Moon Rising. Who's a good boy? Mason is! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: sexual assault, predatory behavior, violence against women of Color We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
22 Apr 2022 | Mr. Steal Your Girl S1E19 | 01:38:10 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Miss Mystic Falls! Rise up Delena fans, it’s your moment!! We talk all about Damon and Elena’s chemistry and the bandwagon Stefan has fallen completely off of. Join us, and our guest host, for one of our absolute favorite episodes. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings-
Themes of alcoholism & disordered eating 00:25:00-00:29:25
Abusive Relationship / Gaslighting / Volatile argument 1:02:25 - 1:05:00 1:08:00 - 1:08:30 1:26:40 - 1:28:00
Kidnapping, depictions of violence 1:15:00 - 1:16:50 1:18:35 - 1:19:00 -Credits- Special Thanks to our guest Jess! Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
01 Apr 2022 | Not Awkward At All S1E16 | 01:11:23 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to There Goes the Neighborhood! We apologize in advance for some audio issues. Maybe Anna, the technologically advanced vampire, can help us troubleshoot, and learn how to use a remote control and stuff. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Trigger Warnings- 00.29.45 - 00.30.05 Triggering language around racial power dynamics -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing and Artwork by Nikki | |||
13 May 2022 | Old Crones Finish Season One S1E22 | 01:33:06 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Founders Day! We made it!! Through season one!!! Alive and one year older!!!! Get on your float and let's take a ride. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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-Trigger Warnings- Suicide-coded scenes 00:20:10 - 00:20:30, 01:08:12 - 0:1:09:33 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Artwork and editing by Nikki | |||
04 Feb 2022 | Pearls Are A Girl's Best Friend S1E13 | 01:06:40 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Children of the Damned! It’s family night! Now that we are all gathered together let’s talk about trust and history, both fictional and real. We discuss TVDs continued white washing of the Civil War era and as always what we like and didn’t like about this week’s episode.
Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings-
Disscussions of slavery and civil war era flashbacks 00:8:45 - 00:17:25 & 00:30:20 - 00:31:00
Dating Violence 00:52:00 - 00:53:25
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki
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29 Apr 2022 | Pearls Before Swine S1E20 | 01:06:30 | |
Dear Podcast Listener,
Welcome to Blood Brothers!
#JohnGilbertmustdie #WeHateJohnGilbert4ever #Mr.Gilbertmayyourotinhell #GoAwayJohnGilbert #MissMeWithThatJohnGilbert #RickIsDrivingUs #SeriouslyDoesAnyoneLikeThatGuy #JessIsWrongJohnGilbertSucks #JusticeForPearl #JusticeForHarper #WeCallHimJackass
Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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-Trigger Warnings- This episode’s plot revolves around the personal choice of whether to live or die. Please be advised. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing & Artwork Nikki | |||
15 Jul 2022 | Ranking Season One: Events | 00:30:11 | |
P.P.S. We ranked the town events of Mystic Falls from Season 1. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
02 Sep 2022 | RIP Season One: Final Closure | 00:02:30 | |
P.P.P.P.P.P.S. In memorium: we rank the memorability of the deaths of Season One's characters. Obviously there are spoilers. Dearly beloved, you've been warned. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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24 Oct 2021 | Sexy Rafter Dancing - S1E6 | 01:11:29 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Lost Girls! Known to us as the episode where there is no big Mystic Falls event! Whaaaaat? Make way for sexy rafter dancing, packages from Rome, and polyamory, oh my! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid PS Still having some audio issues this week, please don’t worry - it’s not your headphones! -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Trigger Warnings- 00.04.40 - 00.10.07 cavalier use of traumatic events in history - slavery / mentions of violence against female characters in show 00.12.00 - 00.15.55 distressing controlling behavior, physical force, stalking 00.19.49 - 00.21.10 stalking 00.38.20 - 00.39.33 compulsion/gaslighting, abusive dynamic 00.50.36 - 00.51.17, 00.56.50 - 00.59.36 choice around living/dying, suicide 01:02:42 - 1:04:20 grooming We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide Prevention Lifeline, English & Spanish: 800-273-8255 United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing and artwork by Nikki | |||
12 Aug 2022 | Singing Season One: Closure | 00:27:56 | |
P.P.P.P.S. Let us regale you (and sometimes serenade you) with the songs of Season One. All credit to the artists in this playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/60gRO73LU1yl7BWIzA138r?si=78fa5cd3436a44bd (Also we didn't make any money off this episode. Not complaining, just a legal note) Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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11 Feb 2022 | Somebody Get This Witch Some Sage S1E14 | 01:04:48 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Fool Me Once! We call in fire, earth, air, and water from the tap as we entrance you with a tale of great loss and Indiana-Jones-like triumph. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings-
00:08:30 - 00:08:45 mention of date rape
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Nikki Artwork by Nikki | |||
18 Feb 2022 | Spring Break Y'all | 00:03:35 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, We're going on spring break (like season 1 of TVD did many long years ago)! We'll be back March 25th, just in time for Nikki's favorite part of the year. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Artwork by Nikki Editing by Nikki | |||
01 Jul 2022 | Staking Season One: Closure | 00:13:13 | |
P.S. We tallied up the takes and stakes of season one. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
01 Sep 2022 | Tarot Reading Season One: Closure | 00:30:17 | |
P.P.P.P.P.S.
We each dedicated tarot cards to characters and do a reading of their Season One arcs. Spoilers for Season One - you've been warned! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
-Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
18 Sep 2021 | The Comet Is a Metaphor - S1E2 | 01:15:37 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Night of The Comet! This event carries a looming threat of exposition and thinly veiled metaphors. We are cringing at some poorly written dialogue, but loving our first Elena & Damon scene! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki
-Trigger Warnings- Sexual Assault/ Abusers : 26.30-28.04 & 46.50-49.25 & 1:09.27-1:10.07 Psychological Torment: 51.45 - 55.07 -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
20 Nov 2021 | The Vampire Journals S1E10 | 01:13:36 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Turning Point! Winter hiatus is upon us! We’ll be back in late January, when the first season of TVD returned 12 long years ago… In the meantime, send us your word-of-the-day sentences about the TVD characters, insights, and any questions about Nikki’s houseplant, Jeremy, to our email: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Timestamps: 00:20:00 - 00:21:03, 00:42:15 - 00:42:45 Kidnapping, depictions of violence
00:33:33 - 00:34:03, 00:41:30 - 00:42:11 Dynamics of abuse father/son
00:49:20 - 00:50:33 Excessive existentialism from Brigid
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-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing and artwork by Nikki | |||
01 Apr 2022 | There Goes the Neighborhood... | 01:32:05 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, APRIL FOOLS!!!! We have a special bonus episode for you! It’s a little niche book about a teenage girl that falls in love with a vampire. As their love blossoms conflict ensues as a dangerous vampire comes to town…. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Trigger Warnings- Note, a lot of this episode covers problematic relationships and ideas. A general TW for the following throughout: Controlling relationships Gaslighting Anxiety & Depression Grooming
Some especially rough parts: Romanticizing self harm/death : 00.21.30 - 00.22.15 Parentalization & depression: 00.22.20 - 00.26.50 Racist descriptions of characters: 00.44.36 - 00.44.57 Rape/Assult & victim Blaming: 00.46.10-00.46.55 Physical Assault: 1.18.00-1.19.40 (skipping whole chapter talk) We want you to be safe. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! All quotes taken from: Meyer, S. (2013). Twilight. Little, Brown. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki Special thank you to www.directline.com (for use of apple image) | |||
24 Sep 2021 | There's No Football Game In This Episode - S1E3 | 01:03:09 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Friday Night Bites! Today Nikki is pouting over the lack of a big game… More importantly today we are working out how TVD makes us both love and hate Damon. We hope you love this episode as much as Elena wants everyone to love stefan. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Trigger Warnings- Abusive relationship: 2.20-3.49 & 17.20-18.00 -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki Ancestral Voices: https://ancestralvoices.co.uk/ Black Witch University: | |||
13 Nov 2021 | This Episode Is Haunted S1E9 | 01:06:43 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to History Repeating Happy Halloween!!! Oh wait… we did that already?? Well, this sure feels like the Halloween episode! Join us as we freak over unsupervised seances, spooky ghosts, and cryptic history teachers! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings-
54:50-55:40 - Discussion of slavery -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
16 Oct 2021 | Vampire Investigator Elena Gilbert S1E5 | 01:09:12 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to You’re Undead to Me! Elena’s got questions and is looking for answers!! Not even a Sexy Suds Car Wash can distract her from her hunch! Our hearts break for Crow Paul Wesley… Oh and we're sad for Zach too, we guess. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki P.s. We had some audio issues in this episode, we apologize for the disruption!!
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-Trigger Warnings- Abusive relationship : 12.10-14.55, 43.15-46.39, Grooming: 55.25-56.55 We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
08 Apr 2022 | Very Brave and Very Very Dumb S1E17 | 00:59:28 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Let the Right One In! Join us for a sting operation with TWO Harrison Fords! Elena is about to do something very brave, and very very dumb…. Go go Gryffindor!! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Trigger Warnings- Torture 00:17:10-00:17:50 Coded LGBT coming out not going well 00:32:40 - 00:33:09 -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
29 Jul 2022 | Wording Season One: Closure | 00:18:10 | |
P.P.P.S. We utilized our vocabulary from the Word of the Day segment to sum up the season's events! Spoiler alert for the entire series of season one! Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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15 Apr 2022 | You Can Call Me Dad S1E18 | 01:10:04 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Under Control! The town’s favorite son is back and he’s SUCH A JACKASS! Also he’s got a nice hunk of jewelry. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings- Themes of alcoholism & disordered eating 00:04:30 - 00:06:55, 00:10:50 - 00:11:00, 00:21:00 - 00:23:55, 00:26:50 - 00:27:05, 00:29:00 - 00:30:22, 00:30:45 - 00:30:57, 00:34:45 - 00:35:16, 00:35:55 - 00:36:05, 00:56:20 - 00:56:33, 01:00:30 - 01:01:38 Abusive red flags/predatory behavior 00:36:55 - 00:37:22, 00:47:49 - 00:48:51, 01:01:05 - 01:06:15 Grooming 00:38:00 - 00:39:18, 00:41:50-00:43:00, 00:44:50 - 00:45:20, 00:46:09 - 00:46:27 Abusive parent-child dynamic 00:28:30 - 00:28:50, 00:42:38 - 00:44:50, 00:46:30 - 00:47:18, 00:54:38 - 00:55:37, 00:56:50 - 00:57:33, 01:05:50 - 01:06:15 Reference to a character’s sexual assault of another character 00:10:20 - 00:10:46, 00:42:38 - 00:44:50 RESOURCES: Eating disorder hotline: (800) 931-2237 Monday—Thursday 11am—9pm ET Friday 11am—5pm ET Translation services are available on the phone. Substance abuse & drug addiction hotline: Call: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 -Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing and artwork by Nikki | |||
28 Jan 2022 | You Can't Just Take A Baby S1E12 | 01:06:27 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Unpleasantville! We hope you have your ticket to the BEST Mystic Falls event so far - the 50s decade dance. Correction to what we said in this podcast: it is the NINTH event of season 1 so far, not the big 1-0. But it’s the big 1-0 in our hearts. A-WHOP-BOP-A-LOO-BOP, A WOP-BenoftheMysticGrill. Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com
-Trigger Warnings- 00:47:30 - 00:47:50 hair-pulling, violence 00:57:30 - 00:57:50 - grooming
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Nikki Artwork by Nikki | |||
07 May 2022 | You Selfish Bi-- S1E21 | 01:21:15 | |
Dear Podcast Listener,
Welcome to Isobel! The bitch is back. And damn, what a woman. We discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly with this bi-coded villain. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid
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-Trigger Warnings- Please be advised that we speak about biphobia, transphobia, and sexual violence for the first 15 minutes of the podcast. Biphobia / Transphobia 00:00:45-00:15:25 Gone With the Wind conversation / slavery 00:26:30-00:29:15 Compulsion of sexual acts & Bi stereotypes 00:31:00-00:35:25
The Trevor Project for Bisexual Youth: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/how-to-support-bisexual-youth/
CDC’s Survey from 2010: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/cdc_nisvs_victimization_final-a.pdf
Why bi people are more vulnerable to partner violence: https://mashable.com/article/bisexual-people-sexual-violence Randall, A. (2008). The wind done gone. Mariner Books. Selznick, D. O., Howard, S. C., Steiner, M., & Haller, E. (1939). Gone with the wind. United States; Loew's Incorporated. Depraved bisexual. TV Tropes. (n.d.). Retrieved May 4, 2022, from https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DepravedBisexual National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! Thank you to Netflix and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
30 Sep 2022 | One Big Ford Fiesta Commercial S2E4 | 01:01:00 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Memory Lane! So many fun (and also cringey) callbacks to the past in this episode... Join us as we deal with our feelings for yet another charming manipulative character. Also isn't Caroline's car the coolest? Isn't it? Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: grooming and gaslighting. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
07 Oct 2022 | Best Friends Share Erotica S2E5 | 00:57:17 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Kill or Be Killed! Are you ready for MFHSVP?! ...What do you mean you don't know the acronym for Mystic Falls Historical Society Volunteer Picnic? WHO ARE YOU. DO YOU EVEN GO HERE? Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: aggression and underage drinking. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
21 Oct 2022 | Accidental Stabbings S2E6 | 01:09:31 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Plan B! Plan A is that we both talk about this episode together. Plan B is that Nikki talks about the hard scenes while Brigid leaves the room... we had to use plan B. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: torture We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
28 Oct 2022 | Such Flames Much Throwing S2E7 | 01:10:56 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Masquerade! HAPPY HALLOWEEN! Did you bring your mask? Your fruit of choice? Great, we brought the flame-throwers. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Please forgive the lack of initial timestamps. We hope to have them up soon! Sensitive themes include: Black characters being undervalued and killed off, abusive family dynamics We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow us - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
04 Nov 2022 | It's Elena S2E8 | 01:02:22 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Rose! This one has thorns. And lightbulbs. Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Sensitive themes include: violence, intimidation We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
11 Nov 2022 | Fanging Out with Christina Part 1 S2E9 | 01:00:39 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Katerina! Come fang out with us! We can fang-girl together... see what we did there? Sincerely, Christina & Brigid Sensitive themes include: disownership of a woman who has a child out of wedlock, suicide We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
26 Nov 2022 | Fanging Out with Christina Part 2 S2E9 | 00:27:50 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Katerina (part two)! Sincerely, Christina & Brigid Sensitive themes include: disownership of a woman who has a child out of wedlock, suicide We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
03 Dec 2022 | Get Your Petrova On with Mary Beth S2E10 | 00:59:53 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Sacrifice! Who are YOU in spooky cahoots with? Do they have the Petrova fire? Sincerely, Brigid & Mary Beth Sensitive themes include: choices around whether to live or die, aggressive/abusive dynamics We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
09 Dec 2022 | Manners are Sexy with Christina S2E11 | 00:58:22 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to By The Light of the Moon! If only this episode was as romantic as it sounds... Join us as we cringe about Tyler's journey and Damon and Alaric's choices in this ep. Sincerely, Brigid & Christina Sensitive themes include: drugging/poisoning someone's drink against their consent, grooming, unwanted advances We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
23 Dec 2022 | Introducing Anusha | 00:28:15 | |
Dear listeners, Please welcome Anusha to our pod fam! With a background in international human rights law and super TVD fandom, Anusha lends an eloquent, intelligent voice to our deeper discussions of the themes of the Vampire Diaries. She also conducts polls (spoiler alert for those who haven't seen the whole series!) on her instagram: @itsmeanusha This episode, however, is spoiler-free to where we're currently at in Season 2. We welcome a new recurring segment in this introduction and interview with Anusha, as well as explore how she started watching TVD, and why it stands out from other vampire media. We hope you enjoy! We certainly had a blast! Sincerely, Dear Vampire Diaries cast | |||
26 Dec 2022 | Deck the Halls in Mystic Falls | 00:03:14 | |
Dear listeners, We will be returning for the rest of Season 2 on January 27th. In the meantime, please enjoy this embarrassing Christmas diddy. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Sincerely, the Dear Vampire Diaries Cast -Credits- Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
27 Jan 2023 | Rose You're Killing Us S2E12 | 01:16:51 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Descent! Happy New Year! Ready to get bummed? It's a long day's journey into night in this one... but undoubtedly one of the most beautiful episodes of The Vampire Diaries yet. Sincerely, Brigid, Mary Beth, & Anusha Find Anusha on Instagram (spoiler alert for future seasons of TVD): @itsmeanusha Sensitive themes include: existential crises, grief & caretaking of a sick loved one We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html
-Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
03 Feb 2023 | Spooky Cahoots S2E13 | 01:08:08 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Daddy Issues! Ew is that seriously this episode's name?! It's almost as gross as John himself. Sincerely, Brigid, Mary Beth, & Anusha - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Anusha on Instagram (spoiler alert for future seasons of TVD) @itsmeanusha Sensitive themes include: torture, abusive relationship dynamics We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki
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06 Feb 2023 | Does Elena Have "Daddy Issues"? S2E13 | 00:03:08 | |
Dear listeners, Does Elena have "Daddy Issues" as the title of episode 13 of Season 2 implies? To respond go to: Twitter: @dearvampdiaries Instagram: @dearvampdiaries or @itsmeanusha or email us long-form at: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Sincerely, Brigid & Anusha | |||
14 Feb 2023 | Matt and His Ketchup S2E14 | 01:37:39 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Crying Wolf! The only thing we're crying about is how Caroline lost her phone for this whole. episode. And when Matt will bring the condiments over to our table. Sincerely, Brigid, Bryan, & Anusha - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Anusha on Instagram (spoiler alert for future seasons of TVD) @itsmeanusha Sensitive themes include: torture, roofie-ing someone against their will, abusive relationship dynamics We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
17 Feb 2023 | Guess Who's Coming To Dinner S2E15 | 01:08:20 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Dinner Party! You know that old question "If you could invite anyone to dinner, alive or dead, which Elijah would you choose?" We'd gladly have him over no matter his dagger-status. Sincerely, Brigid, Mary Beth, & Anusha - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Anusha on Instagram (spoiler alert for future seasons of TVD) @itsmeanusha Sensitive themes include: gaslighting, roofie-ing someone against their will, self-harm and suicide, abusive relationship dynamics We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
17 Mar 2023 | Poll Discussion from "Does Elena have daddy issues?" S2E13 | 00:06:39 | |
Dear listeners, In answer to our bonus ep about episode 13 of Season 2, we sat down to discuss our findings from the Twitter & Instagram polls. To respond to our discussion: Twitter: @dearvampdiaries Instagram: @dearvampdiaries or @itsmeanusha or email us long-form at: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Sincerely, Brigid & Anusha | |||
01 Apr 2023 | The House Guest... | 00:21:25 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, APRIL FOOLS!!!! We have a special bonus episode for you! It’s a throwback to Brigid's third grade budding love of vampires... And perhaps Stefan's love of bunnies... Sincerely, Brigid & Grace
-Credits- Thank you to Patrick Hornig for our theme song! All quotes taken from: How, James. (1979). Bunnicula, A Rabbit Tale of Mystery. Simon & Schuster Children's Publishing Division. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki and Grace Special thank you to Alan Daniel (who illustrated the Bunnicula image) - see cover of Bunnicula Strikes Again! | |||
01 Apr 2023 | Dating in the Supernatural Community S2E16 | 01:06:33 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The House Guest! Join us as we sort through extra-complicated feelings as the body count increases in Mystic Falls... Sincerely, Brigid & Anusha - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Anusha on Instagram (spoiler alert for future seasons of TVD) @itsmeanusha Sensitive themes include: gaslighting, roofie-ing someone against their will, violent racism We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Mental health resources for BIPOC: https://beam.community/ https://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/directory-therapists/ BlackLine HotlineThis resource is divested from the police. BlackLine provides a space for peer support, counseling, witnessing and affirming the lived experiences to folxs who are most impacted by systematic oppression with an LGBTQ+ Black femme lens. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html
United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
08 Apr 2023 | Know Thy Soaps S2E17 | 00:54:08 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Know Thy Enemy! Join us as Mary Beth feuds with herself, Brigid drools over Nina Dobrev, and we put "find cool soap dish" on our to-do list. Sincerely, Brigid & Mary Beth Sensitive themes include: suicide, kidnapping We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
14 Apr 2023 | His Open Flowing Shirt S2E18 | 01:08:14 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Last Dance! Got your painted bus, your obsession over background actors in tie dye shirts, and your lava lamp?! Let's dance the night away. Sincerely, Brigid & Bryan We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
21 Apr 2023 | Gogurt Blood Flavor S2E19 | 00:51:41 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Klaus! Join us as we meet our long-awaited big bad hairdo, salivate over Elijah once again, and demand better from Damon. Sincerely, Brigid & Mary Beth Sensitive themes in this episode include abusive relationships. We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
29 Apr 2023 | King of Consent S2E20 | 01:07:17 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Last Day! Ready to get bummed? Oh boy. At least we have a silver-lining Salvatore. Which one you ask? We think it should be obvious. Sincerely, Brigid & Anusha Sensitive themes in this episode include violations of consent and abusive relationships. We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
05 May 2023 | It's Your Favorite Aunt S2E21 | 00:58:21 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Sun Also Rises! Brigid is alone to regale you with this one.... OR IS SHE??? Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki Sensitive themes in this episode include choosing whether to live or die, grief & loss. We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
12 May 2023 | It's Stefan... For Reasons S2E22 | 01:12:14 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to As I Lay Dying! Join us for the season finale and find out what in the world it could be after that last episode! Sincerely, Brigid & Nikki Sensitive themes in this episode include suicide, grief, & loss. We want safety for you. Sending you much care <3 If you need help please consider the resources below. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
24 May 2023 | You Are Invited: The Lady's Not for Burning | 00:03:37 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, You are invited to the next big Mystic Falls town event, ahem oops (force of habit), I mean, a play that Brigid is acting in in Los Angeles, CA in June 2023 - possibly July 2023. The information for tickets are here: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/9826 Hope to see you there! Sincerely, Brigid Follow us: @itsmeanusha (Anusha on instagram for DVD polls) @dearvampdiaries on Twitter & Instagram Write to us: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
14 Jul 2023 | Staking Season Two: Closure | 00:13:53 | |
P.S. We tallied up the takes and stakes of season two. Sincerely, Mary Beth & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com -Donate to the pod at - www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
28 Jul 2023 | Ranking Season Two: Events | 00:29:53 | |
P.P.S. We ranked the town events of Mystic Falls from Season 2. Sincerely, Bryan & Brigid -Follow us- @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram or email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
14 Aug 2023 | We Are On Strike | 00:00:56 | |
In solidarity with SAGAFTRA and WGA, this podcast is on strike until AMPTP comes to its senses. Sincerely, DVD Cast | |||
17 Nov 2023 | We're Back | 00:02:50 | |
Dear podcast listeners, We're baaaaaaaaaack, but not in a creepy Poltergeist way. More in a Katherine Peirce being badass way. We have changes to the show: we are going bi-weekly for our release schedule, and we will be getting back to wrapping Season 2 in December, starting Season 3 rewatch in January! We made the top 10 list of Vampire Diaries podcasts from Feedspot (check it out): https://podcasts.feedspot.com/the_vampire_dairies_podcasts/ Please support us continuing by donating if you'd like, to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Write to us: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Find us on Socials at dearvampdiaries All the ooey gooey love, DVD Cast Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
01 Dec 2023 | Singing Season Two: Closure | 00:26:28 | |
P.P.P.S. Let us regale you (and sometimes serenade you) with the songs of Season Two. All credit to the artists in this playlist (and on the Vampire Diaries CD that Brigid plays in her car all the live long day): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0burjlyfu9le6EEnA5N84b?si=076cee1ed6b44a57 Please support us by donating if you'd like, to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Write to us: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Find us on Socials @dearvampdiaries All the ooey gooey love, DVD Cast Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki | |||
15 Dec 2023 | RIP Season Two: Final Closure | 00:03:04 | |
P.P.P.P.S. In memorium: we rank the memorability of the deaths of Season Two's characters. Obviously there are spoilers. Dearly beloved, you've been warned. Please support us by donating if you'd like, to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Write to us: dearvampdiaries@gmail.com Find us on Socials @dearvampdiaries All the ooey gooey love, DVD Cast Editing by Brigid Music recorded & played by Patrick Hornig, written by Frédéric Chopin. | |||
24 Dec 2023 | The Night Before The Sacrifice | 00:04:12 | |
Dear listeners, Happy Holidaaaaays! Please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, DVD Cast -Credits- Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
12 Jan 2024 | The Phone Call S3E1 | 00:54:01 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Birthday. If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Nikki & Brigid Sensitive themes include: underage drug use/drinking, torture/violence We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
26 Jan 2024 | WTF is Bill?! S3E2 | 00:35:38 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The Hybrid. If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Mary Beth & Brigid We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
09 Feb 2024 | Sadistically Creative S3E3 | 00:49:48 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to The End of the Affair. If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Gaby & Brigid We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Statistics on queer conversion therapy in the United States: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/conversion-therapy-report/ Resources for those threatened with or recovering from CT: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/additional-resources/ Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
23 Feb 2024 | Stefan the Sizzler S3E4 | 01:06:27 | |
Dear Podcast Listener, Welcome to Disturbing Behavior. If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Kathleen & Brigid We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Statistics on queer conversion therapy in the United States: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/conversion-therapy-report/ Resources for those threatened with or recovering from CT: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/additional-resources/ Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
08 Mar 2024 | You Can Blame John Gilbert S3E5 | 00:44:43 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to The Reckoning! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Christina & Brigid We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care.
Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
22 Mar 2024 | It's Giving Drunk Uncle S3E6 | 01:24:42 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Smells Like Teen Spirit! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Anusha & Brigid This episode contains conversations around sexual assault, suicide, and grief. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
05 Apr 2024 | Ghost World... | 01:21:47 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Carmilla! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps To pre-order Black Witches and Queer Ghosts: Race, Gender, & Sexual Orientation in Teen Supernatural Serials go to https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781666926750/Black-Witches-and-Queer-Ghosts-Race-Gender-and-Sexual-Orientation-in-Teen-Supernatural-Serials
Le Fanu, J. S. (2022). Carmilla. Mumbai, GENERAL PRESS.
"Who or What is Matska in Carmilla?" by Valerie Guyant: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/00144940.2014.928253
Carmilla: The First Vampire by Amy Chu and Soo Lee: https://www.darkhorse.com/Books/3010-192/Carmilla-The-First-Vampire-TPB
There's also a free version of Carmilla that listeners can access easily: https://www.gutenberg.org/files/10007/10007-h/10007-h.htm
For more about Deanna: www.deannakoretsky.com Sincerely, Deanna & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on racism, sexism, suicide, and homophobia. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK<... | |||
19 Apr 2024 | It Ain't Latin S3E7 | 00:44:08 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Ghost World! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Christina & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on grief and torture. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
03 May 2024 | Shoddy Research Methodology S3E8 | 01:07:08 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Ordinary People! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps To pre-order Black Witches and Queer Ghosts: Race, Gender, & Sexual Orientation in Teen Supernatural Serials go to https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781666926750/Black-Witches-and-Queer-Ghosts-Race-Gender-and-Sexual-Orientation-in-Teen-Supernatural-Serials
Koretsky, Deanna. 2023. "Mystic Falls in Covington, GA: Race, Gender, and Fandom in The Vampire Diaries Franchise." In The Palgrave Handbook of the Vampire. Available at: https://www.academia.edu/112274648/Mystic_Falls_in_Covington_Georgia_Gender_Race_and_Fandom_in_The_Vampire_Diaries_Franchise or https://link.springer.com/referenceworkentry/10.1007/978-3-030-82301-6_69-1
Lampert-Weissig, Lisa. 2018. "Blood and Soil in The Vampire Diaries." Aeternum: The Journal of Contemporary Gothic Studies, vol. 5, no. 1. Available at: https://www.medievallit.org/course_materials/Lampert_publications/Lampert_blood_soil_vampires.pdf
Tuck, Eve and Yang, K. Wayne. 2012. "Decolonization is not a metaphor." Decolonization: Indigeneity, Education & Society, vol.1, no. 1. Available at: https://jps.library.utoronto.ca/index.php/des/article/view/18630/15554
For more about Deanna: www.deannakoretsky.com Sincerely, Deanna & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on racism, sexism, suicide, and homophobia. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usa... | |||
17 May 2024 | Sorry I Stabbed You S3E9 | 00:49:24 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Homecoming! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Bryan & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on a man escourting an unconscious woman out of a party, and abusive family dynamics. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
31 May 2024 | No Meat Cleavers Today, Thank You S3E10 | 00:44:26 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to The New Deal! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Gaby & Brigid This episode contains conversations about beheading. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: https://www.thehotline.org/ “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.sheltersafe.ca/ https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
14 Jun 2024 | Wickery Dickery Dock S3E11 | 01:11:14 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Our Town! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Roslyn & Brigid This episode contains conversations about existential depression and suicidality. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: https://www.thehotline.org/ “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.sheltersafe.ca/ https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
28 Jun 2024 | Terrible AI Writing S3E12 | 01:09:49 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to The Ties That Bind! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps To order Black Witches and Queer Ghosts: Race, Gender, & Sexual Orientation in Teen Supernatural Serials go to https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781666926750/Black-Witches-and-Queer-Ghosts-Race-Gender-and-Sexual-Orientation-in-Teen-Supernatural-Serials
For more about Deanna: www.deannakoretsky.com Anyiwo, U. Melissa (2016). "Beautifully Broken: True Blood's Tara Thornton as the Black Best Friend." In Gender in the Vampire Narrative, edited by Amanda Hobson and U. Melissa Anyiwo. Available at: https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-94-6300-714-6_7 Sincerely, Deanna & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on parental abandonment of a child, suicide, racism, and intimate partner abuse. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source.
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12 Jul 2024 | Bros Before Petrova Hoes S3E13 | 00:46:30 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Bringing Out the Dead! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Christina & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on parental abandonment of a child, violence, and sexism. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
26 Jul 2024 | A Little Incesty S3E14 | 01:25:15 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Dangerous Liaisons! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps To order Black Witches and Queer Ghosts: Race, Gender, & Sexual Orientation in Teen Supernatural Serials go to https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781666926750/Black-Witches-and-Queer-Ghosts-Race-Gender-and-Sexual-Orientation-in-Teen-Supernatural-Serials
For more about Deanna: www.deannakoretsky.com Sincerely, Deanna & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on incest, racism, and intimate partner abuse. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
09 Aug 2024 | Homicidal Karen S3E15 | 01:34:39 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to All My Children! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps For more about Janelle: https://janellegray.wixsite.com/janelle , https://janellegray.wixsite.com/allagrayarea and https://www.echoesofthestruggle.com/ Citations for this episode: Hudson, Dale M. Vampires, Race, and Transnational Hollywoods. Edinburgh, UK: Edinburgh University Press Ltd, 2018. Hughey, Matthew W. “Cinethetic Racism: White Redemption and Black Stereotypes in ‘Magical Negro’ Films.” Social Problems 56, no. 3 (2009): 543–77. https://doi.org/10.1525/sp.2009.56.3.543. Sincerely, Janelle & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on death of a parent, racism, and kidnapping. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - | |||
23 Aug 2024 | There's a Silent "D" S3E16 | 01:07:50 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to 1912! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps For more about Janelle: https://janellegray.wixsite.com/janelle , https://janellegray.wixsite.com/allagrayarea and https://www.echoesofthestruggle.com/ Sincerely, Janelle & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on grooming, disordered eating, restraining orders, and sexual assault. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
06 Sep 2024 | Just Normal Sandwiches S3E17 | 00:44:45 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to Break On Through! If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Brigid's mic had some issues on this one, it's not your earphones. Sorry for the intermittent clicking! Sincerely, Gaby & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on predatory/grooming behavior, suicide, disordered eating, restraining orders, and sexual assault. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
06 Dec 2024 | A Conversation with Dr. Kendra R. Parker (TVDU Spoiler-inclusive) | 01:01:13 | |
Dear podcast listener,
Welcome to an all-TVDU-spoiler-INCLUSIVE conversation with the incredible Dr. Kendra R. Parker! If you are doing a spoiler-free re-watch, come back and listen to this episode once you've consumed all eight seasons of The Vampire Diaries. You can find out more about Kendra's work at her website: If you'd like to support the podcast's work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, Brigid Kendra R. Parker's website:
PARKER, K. R. (2020). Black female vampires in African American women’s novels, 1977-2011: She bites back. LEXINGTON BOOKS.
PARKER, K. R. (2025) Understanding Octavia E. Butler. University of South Carolina Press.
Bishop, R.S. (1990). Mirrors, windows, and sliding glass doors. Perspectives: Choosing and Using Books for the Classroom, vol. 6, no. 3, 1990, pp. ix-xi. https://scenicregional.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Mirrors-Windows-and-Sliding-Glass-Doors.pdf
Jones, Charisse, and Kumea Shorter-Gooden, Shifting: The Double Lives of Black Women in America (Harper Collins, 2003), 124.
Movies with Black Vampires
Movies Mentioned
Ghost with Whoopi Goldberg, Demi Moore, and Patrick Swayze
Secondary Sources
Mitchell, Koritha. “Identifying White Mediocrity and Know-Your-Place Aggression: a Form of Self-Care,” African American Review 51, no. 4 (January 1, 2018): 253. Thomas, Ebony Elizabeth. The Dark Fantastic: Race and the Imagination from Harry Potter to the Hunger Games, 116. Johnson, K. Murry (2012). “A Slaves Tale.” Image of Emeralds and Chocolate. Johnson & Franklin, LLC.
Jackson, Monica (2004). “The Ultimate Diet.” Dark Thirst, edited by Angela C. Allen, Pocket Books, pp. 3-37.
Farmer, A. D. (2018). “Archiving While Black”. African American Intellectual Historical Society. https://www.aaihs.org/archiving-while-black/
Books/Stories
Massey, Brandon. Dark Corner. Dark Corner Publishing, 2017. The Black Girl Survives in This One, edited by Desiree S. Evans and Saraciea J. Fennell, Macmillan, 2024. Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source material. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki ... | |||
25 Dec 2024 | Niklaus The Only Hybrid | 00:01:57 | |
Dear listeners, Happy Holidaaaaays! Please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Sincerely, DVD Cast -Credits- Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com | |||
10 Jan 2025 | It's Always Revenge S3E18 | 00:35:14 | |
Dear podcast listener, Welcome to The Murder of One! Please excuse our audio issues. If you'd like to support our work, please consider donating to our pod so we can keep going! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dearvamps Brigid's mic had some issues on this one, it's not your earphones. Sorry for the intermittent clicking! Sincerely, Christina & Brigid This episode contains conversations that touch on torture. We want safety for you. If you need help please consider the resources below and take care. Suicide prevention resources: https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html Info on grooming: https://www.rainn.org/news/grooming-know-warning-signs https://www.preventingexploitationtoolkit.org.uk/home/what-is-exploitation/grooming/ https://caage.org/help-for-victims-of-adult-grooming/ https://womenagainstcrime.com/how-to-identify-grooming-and-what-to-do-if-you-see-it/ United States: “Internet usage can be monitored and is impossible to erase completely. If you’re concerned your internet usage might be monitored, call us at 800.799.SAFE (7233)” Canada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html UK https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/ https://www.survivorsuk.org/ways-we-can-help/#section-1 -Credits- Music by Patrick Hornig Thank you to HBO Max and the CW for our source. Editing by Brigid Artwork by Nikki - Follow the pod - @dearvampdiaries on Twitter and Instagram Email us at dearvampdiaries@gmail.com |