Cara Says It All (Cara Alwill)

Can we talk about what a f*cking circus it is when you begin something new?! My apparel launch has been a MASSIVE success. I am thrilled, fired up, excited, humbled, and grateful, but OMG - I am WORKED! It's been an incredible lesson in the inevitable hiccups that come along with blazing a new trail for yourself. And I truly think so many women never start the things they dream of starting because they dread the hiccups. They dread the craziness that always tags along when we leave our comfort zones and try that new thing. In this episode, I'm talking about my own experience with this, and giving you 5 solid strategies on how to navigate the challenges that come along with new projects and keep your head above water.

In this episode, Cara shares practical strategies and advice on how to handle negative people who don't support you or your dreams. She also shares tips on how she deals with internet trolls.

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Chances are, if you found your way to this podcast, you are not a basic woman. And you don’t want a basic life. Or a basic income. You don’t want to make a basic impact (or worse - none at all).

In this episode, I’m teaching you The Art of Unconventional Branding so that you can build an unconventional business and bring in unconventional cash.

I'm also breaking down the difference between personal branding + business branding and what to focus on first.

Grab a notebook because this epsiode packs a punch!

Welcome to the brand new season of Style Your Mind! I'm back with a fully recharged vibe, breathing new life into the show, and bringing you even more value. In today's episode, we'll reflect on the past year, think about how we want to show up in 2021, talk about social media (and why we all need a major break from it), and more. I hope you love this conversation!

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Today on the show I'm talking to Master Mindset + Business Consultant Victoria Jenn Rodriguez about how women entreprneuers can #SecureTheBigBag by shifting the focus to B2B. She shares tangible tips you can implement right now to leave your limiting beliefs behind and stop leaving money on the table. By doing business with corporate and government agencies, Victoria Jenn spills the tea on how to stop chasing low-paying clients and start landing 5-6 figure contracts.

It may feel unimportant, disconnected, or frivolous to share your work with the world right now. But can you imagine going through quarantine season without music, art, laughter, blogs, podcasts, or books? Please do not let your fear or anxiety keep you from creating your art during this season of life. The world needs your talents more than ever. You don't have to be on the frontlines to make an impact. Do what you do best, and in your own little way, you can save lives too. In today's episode, I'm sharing how to do just that, and the 3 tips you need to thrive in quarantine as a boss babe.

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Welcome to our new mini series: Champagne Thought of the Day! I'm going to start bringing you a mini episode with a "champagne thought" (a powerful, effervescent, high vibrational concept) for you to take with you throughout the day. Think of these as little hot pink jewels of inspiration. Today we're talking about romanticizing our past. We've all done it. But does it serve us? Tune in to find out how to stay in the present moment and keep your mind focused on the magic of the future.

Ever wonder what its like to build your own public relations empire? I'm chatting with my girls Gwen Wunderlich and Dara Kaplan of WKC Communications about their rise to the top of their industry. How they leveraged their internships into careers, why saying YES is so important, how and when to negotiate your salary, and why Caesar salads and Chardonnay became the sign that they had "arrived." Grab another vanilla latte or a glass of bubbly and dive into this very special bonus episode!

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If you've ever wondered what goes on "behind the chair" then you're in for a treat! In this episode, I chat with Terra Harvell, six-figure stylist, salon owner and educator, and founder and CEO of Harper Ellis Hair Co. Terra candidly shares why she's had to learn to fall in love with fear on her journey as a beauty entrepreneur, the importance of cultivating a strong community, and how she juggles it all as a multi-passionate business owner.

About Terra:

Terra  has built a flourishing business behind the chair for nearly a decade and has turned her craft into a six-figure income. Her impressive resumé includes being the Founder and CEO of Harper Ellis Hair Co and owner of Salon Five Zero Four in Fort Smith, Arkansas, but she hasn't stopped there. After mastering the artistry of the business, Terra quickly realized you must provide the FULL package in order to be an industry leader. Cue The Harper Ellis Hair Co. Academy! Her Academy has educated hundreds of stylists digitally and in cities such as Fort Smith and Nashville. Not only has she educated on her exclusive hand-tied luxury hair extensions method, but she has also shared her knowledge of all things business and marketing that led her to becoming a six-figure stylist. Her dream is to share her valuable knowledge in hopes that it will help other stylists find as much success as she has found!

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If there has ever been a time to redefine the way we do business, the way we interact with our clients, and the way we show up as entrepreneurs, the time is now. The COVID-19 Coronavirus outbreak has already changed the world, and things are going to keep changing. But underneath the fear and the tragedy this unprecedented time has brought us, we have one thing we've all been begging for more of, and that is time. And this is time we'll never get back. What will you do with it? In this episode, I'm talking about how to pivot in your business, how to get creative about your work and contributions to the world, and a behind the scenes look at what I'm doing with mine. Bring a notebook for this one.

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As some of you may know, I have been exploring my relationship with alcohol since the end of 2015. You can read more about my journey on the blog (click here), but I know I am not alone when I say drinking does not always serve me. In fact, it rarely does. Throughout the years, I've found myself hungover on way too many occasions, unable to reach my health and fitness goals, and just not operating at my optimal capacity. It has wreaked havoc on my confidence, left me in a bit of a fog at times, and hindered my spirit. I am ready to LEVEL UP in 2018, and booze isn't really a part of that program. I'm not saying I will never touch a drink again, but I am seriously cutting back - again. If you're considering a Dry January, an indefinite break from alcohol, or you just feel like you want to cut back a few days a week, then this episode may motivate you to do just that.

Thank you to our sponsor, Becca Morello!

Becca is an actor and model who helps creative female entrepreneurs bring their message to life through various mediums including voiceover work, audiobook narration, modeling, acting and more. Learn more about her and her work at BeccaMorello.com

Women are twice as likely to suffer from anxiety than men. If you've been there, you're not alone sister. I struggled with anxiety for years, and in this episode I dive into my personal journey and how I used (and STILL use) behavioral therapy to manage it. If you've ever experienced an anxiety attack or overwhelming feelings of stress or panic, this episode will provide some tips and advice on how to work through them. And remember, there is no shame in seeking professional help for your mental health and wellness. If you need help, please get it.

Every day, I find myself more obsessed with learning how to supercharge my health and wellness. From fitness, to mindset, to nutrition, there are so many factors that go into our overall well-being. I never paid much attention to vitamins and supplements until I met Charlotte Trass, Direction for Education for New Chapter. In this fascinating and inspiring conversation, Charlotte breaks down what we can do to ensure we feel and look our best every day.

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Disclaimer: These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

If you love fashion and the arts, you're going to LOVE this episode. I have Joanie Coyote on the show, who is a Costume History Professor, Theatre Costume Designer, and Stand-Up Comic.

Costuming brought her from Texas to New York in the 1980's where she made costumes for Broadway plays such as Starlight Express, Miss Saigon and Phantom of the Opera. She was a dresser for Les Miserable and a few other Broadway shows. Joanie stumbled into other creative outlets such as acting in a critically acclaimed Off-Broadway play, Top Girls, and waitressing at the Original Improv Comedy Club which would lead to her eventually performing comedy in Houston and Los Angeles for many years. Joanie is a single mom to an awesome daughter and is committed to empowering women in any way possible.

Joanie and I talk about the rise of women in the fashion industry, how fashion has evolved through the times, the power of pink hair, our fashion predictions for a post-COVID world, and so much more. Grab a cup of coffee and get ready to dig in to this fabulous conversation!

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Click here to check out Joanie's blog. Follow Joanie on Instagram here.

In this episode, bestselling author and master life coach Cara Alwill Leyba answers listener questions. She dishes on everything from advice for aspiring life coaches, how to deal with negative people (and keep your good vibes flowing!), how to stay focused and inspired by your dreams, and more.

Have you ever caught yourself saying, "I don't want to get my hopes up"? It seems like our default setting is to imagine the worst case scenario - especially when it comes to getting what we want. But what if you started to imagine the best case scenario? What would your life look like if you let optimism rule? In this episode, we'll chat about how to shift into a space of positivity, and all the benefits that come along with getting your hopes up.

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We've all been there...waking up with a hangover and feeling totally unmotivated and guilty. Here's how to cure it. Plus, advice on how to create your own "lightning bolt moment" and get out of any kind of funk you may find yourself in.

In this episode, Cara shares some of her "success rituals" for living your best life and designing your environment to feel chic, inspiring, and gorgeous. From your home, to your office, she believes that a beautiful space and a few simple lifestyle tips can elevate your vibe and help you feel incredible.

In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Kelly Lynn Adams to talk about how women can redefine their self-worth and make their work lives work for them. We talk about our culture's obsession with hustle and why it is crucial that we slow down and prioritize our pleasure, and so much more. Get ready for a juicy conversation!

ABOUT KELLY LYNN:

Kelly Lynn Adams, is a certified executive, leadership & life coach, speaker, & creator of the Perfectly Imperfect podcast. She is also the founder of the Womxn. Work. Worth. Movement, which has helped hundreds of high-achieving leaders manage their mindset, maximize their time and monetize in their businesses.

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Today's episode is a candid conversation about my divorce and all that has followed over the past three and a half years. A super vulnerable and personal account of what it looks like to start over at 40. Thanks for listening <3

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In order to make lasting changes and upgrades to our lives, we must first change and upgrade our mindset. There are core beliefs needed to weather the inevitable storms and push through the challenges that present themselves when we're on the path to living better. Life is not all roses and champagne, but with the 3 truths I'm sharing in today's episode, you're sure to remain more optimistic and feel more empowered as you handle whatever comes your way.

This episode is sponsored by Stephanie Catalano of Mindful Living, a community she created to empower women on their individual journey to living a happy, fulfilled life of their dreams. Stephanie believes everyone has a transformational story inside of them and she helps women own their story and step into their power. This is accomplished through her books, courses, coaching, and counseling. Check out Stephanie's 30-day Workbook, Mindful Makeover, which offers one question per day and practical skills that not only help you identify the barriers, blocks, beliefs that are holding you back, but also, how to overcome them so you can experience a happy, fulfilled life. She also has digital courses and she is the host of The Mindful Makeover Podcast. Learn more about Stephanie’s products and services at themindfulliving.com and on Instagram @mindfulliving.now

We need to talk about mental health. In light of the recent suicide of Kate Spade, and watching so many women (myself included) struggle with overwhelm, anxiety, and depression, it's time to talk about what happens behind the lip gloss and selfies. Behind the best seller lists and seven-figure incomes. In this episode, I'm vulnerably talking about my own personal boundaries and how I'm changing what I allow into my world, and sharing tips on how to prioritize your overall well being as a woman in business.

Pre-order my new book, Like She Owns the Place, here.

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We have 3 months left in the year. What will you do with them? You may feel you desire more money, clients, love, or opportunities, but before you can claim those things you need one thing first, which is clarity. In today's epsiode, I'm sharing 3 powerful questions that will change everything for you. Grab a notebook, this is a good one!

If you don't think your health is seriously affected by your happiness, think again! I'm sharing a personal story about how my nails (that were once thin, broken nubs) grew long and strong as soon as I upgraded my happiness level. Plus, a ton of research that proves that good health and wellness can be achieved in ways we may not realize.

Have you ever had a fabulous idea, felt a mega spark of motivation, and then took a look around at your industry and felt like giving up? Have you ever thought that another woman's success might mean that you were somehow a failure? In this episode, Cara discusses the idea of limitless possibility and how there is room for everyone at the table. It's time to get back to business, babe. You are needed. And this episode will teach you why.

In today's episode, I'm chatting with author and entrepreneur Sarah Ordo. Sarah started the movement Sober As F*ck after hitting rock bottom on a drinking and drug binge, and deciding to take her life back. In this conversation we talk about her journey and the scary moment when she realized she had no choice but to get sober, her views on aging gracefully, and what it takes to show up as a powerful, purposeful woman in the world. Her inspiring story is sure to move you to take action in your own life. Grab a cup of coffee and get ready to dig in!

Click here to order Sarah's new book, 12 Rules of Being a Powerful Woman (I wrote the foreword!)

Learn more about Sarah at SarahOrdo.com

I want you to ask yourself this question honestly: am I more focused on building a business, or building my social media following? Highly successful business women aren't concerned with likes, followers, or little blue check marks. They aren't concerned with how famous or loved they appear on the internet. They're concerned with making an impact and making money. In this episode, I'm sharing some real talk about what it takes to shift from Instagrammer to business woman and how to become intentional about your time.

Thank you to Breanna Bracken Killpack for making this episode possible!

Have you ever wanted to make an income while making an impact but didn’t know where to start? That was Breanna Bracken a few short years ago. She went from broke single mom to successful six figure earner by using a proven system that works, capitalizing on the increasing health and wellness industry, millennial spending, and trends like the hemp industry and intelligent water that is alkaline and homogenized. She now raises her baby while raising her business and teaching other women how to do the same. Are you ready to be your own boss, get out of debt, have time freedom, and created the life you’ve always dreamed of? Contact Breanna to learn about the products, path, and program to set you up for success.

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Email Breanna to learn more at breannakillpack@gmail.com.

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Are you bringing main character energy to your business!?

That is the question du jour.

It's easy to feel like an extra when you spend your time looking around at everyone else online. You begin to doubt your own superpowers. You start comparing yourself to everyone in your industry and you talk yourself out of the things you want to do before you even get started. You forget how fucking magical you really are when your job becomes trying to fit in rather than blaze your own trail and stand out.

In today's episode, I'm going to help you supercharge your confidence and start showing up as the MAIN CHARACTER in your life and biz. Get ready for a powerful episode!

Have you ever had one of those days where you just feel awesome? Everything feels in flow, you feel clear, energized, ideas are flowing, you feel creative and just in the zone? That is what it means to be in a high vibe. It’s basically that feeling where you believe EVERYTHING is possible and nothing can get in your way. (I love those days!)

On the flip side, there’s that state of being in a LOW vibration. That’s where you feel stuck, frustrated, jealous, BROKE, drained. All those crappy feelings that NOBODY has time for.

If you’ve struggled with getting into that HIGH VIBE state, there are some ways you can shift your energy instantly so that you can feel fabulous and start attracting amazing things into your life and I'm sharing them all in this episode.

I'm also sharing a personal story about how I shifted my vibration before leaving my full-time job to pursue my dreams. Because I do not believe we can live our best lives while we're in a low vibration. All change starts with our ENERGY.

POWER QUOTES from this episode:

"You have every opportunity in every moment of every day to choose a high vibration."

"What we attract is a direct reflection of our energetic state."

This episode's MANTRA:

"My natural vibration is of joy, clarity, energy and love. I redirect any thoughts that do not serve my highest self."

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Get on Melissa’s VIP list at GumballLove.com to learn more about her work and sign up for her next Academy (the next and final one of the year begins next week, October 11th!) Melissa will teach you to transform your life and business by finally getting the courage to break up, get over your ex, and be happily single living your BEST life so you can ultimately attract the right guy and the right people.

I like to say I see the world through rosé colored glasses. I make it a point to choose optimistic, positive, blissful thoughts, which create an optimistic, positive, blissful reality. The first step to making any real change in our lives and our businesses is to change our energy. Our energy, or vibration, is the frequency we put out into the world that determines the quality of our experiences. Getting in a high vibe is the quickest way to supercharge your soul and skyrocket your success. We cannot create quality content from a low vibration. In this episode, I will help you identify what is, and what is not serving you, raise your frequency, and create your energetic outline for your success.

Grab my digital course, Style Your Mind for Success here.

Did you know that by January 12th, most people have totally given up on their New Years resolutions? In fact, January 12th is called "National Quitters Day" because of it. More than half of Americans will make resolutions, but only 8% will achieve them. In this episode, I'm helping you make your resolutions a reality by creating a new version of yourself in 2019. It goes beyond writing down goals. You've got to be willing to rewire your thoughts, commit to major change, and show up as the person you want to be. This episode will show you how.

Thank you to our sponsor Sarah Ordo! Be sure to check out Sarah's new book, Thirty as F*** and all her others, below!

Ladies, I have SUCH a treat for you today! I'm thrilled to bring you a very special guest, Jessica DeBry, Amazon bestselling author and owner of Soulfluential Publishing. So many of you want to add "bestselling author" to your title, and Jessica is going to help you do it.

Head to Soulfluential Publishing to learn about Jessica's services and apply to be featured as a contributing author in her collaborative group project, The Bestseller Collective. Click here to take advantage of her very special offer, exclusively for Style Your Mind listeners.

I'm so honored to have Gina DeVee on the show today! Gina is a self-made multimillionaire entrepreneur,  business coach, and author of the brand new book, The Audacity to Be Queen. Her mission is to show women everywhere how to be Queen of their lives. “Within every woman lives a Queen,” Gina affirms, “And only from the position of Queen can you fulfill your purpose.” In becoming Queen, no longer must women pretend to be anything other than brilliant, capable and fabulous. The world needs us to own our power, raise our standards, and contribute our talents like never before, and Gina DeVee is here to lead the way.

Click here to learn more about Gina's work.

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I'm back with one of my favorite guests, Ilana Muhlstein, MS, RDN, and creator of the life-changing 2B Mindset approach to positive weight loss. We're talking about how to STAY IN IT now that the New Years Resolution energy has faded, and life is happening. Between Valentine's Day and all the emotions that come with along with that holiday, and the upcoming spring and summer holidays, this episode will help you rewrite the script of how you previously lived and take control of your body and mind NOW.

Ready to do the 2B Mindset with me?

If you're ready to ditch the dead weight and start feeling stronger, healthier, and happier, click here to join my community, Rebel Body Babes. We're all following Ilana's program together and I'd love to support you as you reach your goals!

I'm so excited to share today's guest with you. Robbie Lockie is the co-founder of Plant Based News, one of my absolute favorite resources for vegan news, education, fashion, lifestyle, culture and more. I discovered Robbie and his work in 2019 and was instantly drawn to his passion and compassion for animal rights. He is a wealth of knowledge, a force in the vegan community, and an inspiring entrepreneur. After leaving his full-time job to run Plant Based News full-time, he is without a doubt creating a revolution. Get ready for a deeply meaningful episode.

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Check out my new blog, Glamorously Well.

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Have you ever been curious about astrology and the "moon rituals" everyone talks about? Have you ever wondered about the difference between the full moon and new moon energies, and how you can make them work for you? In this episode, I'm sharing my passion for using the moon cycles to enhance your personal development routine. In this chat specifically, we'll dive into the power of new moon rituals and the questions you can ask yourself during the new moon phase to set your intentions and curate your world.

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We hear about boundaries all the time, but what exactly are they? And why do we need them? And most importantly, how do we stick to them? In this episode, I'll share some powerful tips with you on how to know when it's time to set a boundary, how to confidently express them, and why they are so crucial to your identity, relationships, and mental health.

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Spring has sprung! And there is no better time to take stock of your business than right now. The holidays are behind us, we’re coming out of our winter slumber mode, yet we’re ahead of the deep summer stagnancy. I find that not only am I excited and invigorated by the fresh energy of Spring, but my audience and clients are as well. It seems like everyone is ready for something new.

I love using the vibrant energy of Spring to look for ways to refresh my work, reinvent myself, increase productivity, and ascend to the next level in my business. In this episode, I’m sharing 9 powerful steps with you that I’ve created that you can use to “Spring Clean” your business.

Check out my blog for more on this!

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I always ask what you guys want to hear on the show, and this topic consistently comes up. In this episode, I address a health coach who personally reached out to me for help in building her clientele. No matter what business you're in, I'm sharing my advice on how to get clients when you're just starting out. I share my own personal story and how I began, and also give you actionable tips you can start working on RIGHT NOW to make it happen!

I'm relishing in pub week and I continue to get asked 1 question that is so surprising to me. In this episode, I'm sharing what that question is, along with my thoughts on what true success looks and feels like for me. It's not what you think!

I'm also offering some guidance for those who still struggle with wanting to be validated by outside forces - whether that be a title, money, awards, rankings, or anything that exists beyond us.

Get ready to get EMPOWERED with this quick chat!

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Today on the show, I'm taking you inside one of my favorite launches that resulted in $107,000 in sales. I don't believe in gatekeeping and I know that if I am able to consistently make this happen, you can too. Get a pen and a notebook and get ready to take some notes because I'm spilling all the tea! From the exact emails I sent, to how often I posted on social media and what I said - I'm walking you through the whole process. This is a GOOD one!

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It's impossible to magnetize the things we want when our vibe is off. When we identify with a version of ourselves that never gets what she wants. When we feel low, drained, and disenchanted. In today's episode, I'm sharing tangible tips and shifts you can use right now to "kill the old you" and start attracting what you want now.

I'm so excited for today's guest! You may know Marisa Ravel as the genius behind the 80's and 90's pop culture inspired fashion and accessories line LASER KITTEN. I've been a fan of her work for a few years now and have quite the collection of her pins and mugs (David Bowie and Prince riding on a unicorn together?! Yes please). I've watched Marisa build her business with so much passion and creativity and after seeing her most recent collaboration with Forever 21, I was so inspired that I reached out and invited her on the show. Join us for this #BabeChat where we talk all things glitter, nostalgia, and what it's like to fearlessly build an empire.

Connect with Marisa here:

@LaserKitten on Instagram

www.LaserKitten.com to shop online

and check out her brand new clothing line in Forever 21 stores across the U.S.!

“We can’t become what we need to be by remaining who we are” - Oprah.

When we release something from our lives, we allow ourselves to detach from thoughts, feelings, people, and situations that are no longer meant to take up space. Whether it’s a relationship that has run its course, or a job that is no longer a fit for you, or a home you once lived in, we must let go of these things to invite the new. We must let go of the past in order to evolve. And as I always say, an evolving mind is a healthy mind. In this episode, I'm giving you actionable tools on how to let go and start enjoying the next phase of your life.

Becoming the Woman You Want to Be is about rising up from your own ashes, reimagining your own life, and realizing that you hold the power and perspective to change things within yourself. And when you change things within yourself, the world around you changes. In this powerful episode, and in honor of International Women's Day, I'm sharing my tools to help you release your past, design your future, and truly embody the absolute best version of yourself.

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In this brand new inspiring episode of Cara Says It All (formerly Style Your Mind), we’re diving headfirst into your Writer Girlie Era! You already know you’re the main character in your life—but now it’s time to step up, own your story, and share it with the world.

I’ll walk you through how to turn your personal experiences into powerful, relatable writing that connects deeply with your audience. You’ll hear my own journey of serializing my latest book, writing about my post-divorce life, and building a thriving Substack community with 220 paid subscribers—most of whom didn’t even know me before!

This episode is perfect for entrepreneurial women who’ve built a business and now feel the pull to share their story—not just as a side hustle, but as a meaningful extension of their brand. If you’ve been dreaming about starting a blog, writing essays, or eventually publishing a book, this is your sign to start NOW.

Ready to take your writing to the next level? Join my signature program, Literary Queens. It’s designed for bold women like you who are ready to own their voice, craft their story, and build a writing empire on their terms. Spots are limited—don’t wait! Grab your spot here: https://www.carasaysitall.com/literary-queens

Subscribe to My Substack: Read my serialized book, essays, and more at https://caraalwill.substack.com/

The title says it all, boo. I'm sharing 10 shifts that helped me elevate my self-concept and stop settling for low vibrational men. This episode will kick your butt in the best way possible whether you are single, married, or somewhere in between. It's time to upgrade the D in 2023! High vibe relationships only. Because we are so f*cking worthy.

Click here to be notified of my next program, She Comes First. You don't want to miss this!

Turning 40 last year was a powerful moment in my life. And I knew in the months leading up to it that I was going to own my age, fully embrace my power, and walk into the next half of my life as the absolute best, most badass version of myself. I discovered Star Monroe, coach and creator of The Midlife Revolution, and instantly knew this woman would become a mentor to me. She is bold, unapologetic, and truly a queen in her own right, and I'm thrilled to bring her to you today on the show. In this episode, we'll talk about what it looks like to totally own who you are, redefine sexuality beauty as we approach our older years, and rock the f*ck out of your life.

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What if "someday" never comes? One of the most motivating and empowering truths is that we are all going to die. And nobody knows when. So why are you saving all of the beautiful, life-changing things you want to do for some imaginary bucket list you'll probably never actually check things off of? Why aren't you doing all those beautiful, life-changing things NOW? In this mini episode, I'm serving up some real talk to help you turn your bucket list into your to-do list, and start creating the wildly gorgeous life you deserve to live.

If you liked the poem I closed this episode with, you can find it (and more) in my book STRIPPED here: http://amzn.to/2CYrRcw

Have you ever found yourself clicking around on Instagram or Facebook innocently enough, looking for “inspiration” – only to find yourself feeling totally consumed by someone else's life or business? I know its happened to me, and its happened to pretty much EVERY single woman I know.

In this episode, I'm giving you actionable tips for how to get out of "compare and despair" mode, elevate your thinking, and stop thinking about what SHE'S got and start focusing on what YOU have.

Power quotes from this episode:

"One of the most common qualities of the evolved woman, as I love to call her, is that she does not allow feelings of comparison to swallow her whole."

"When you have mastered yourself, you naturally celebrate another woman: her beauty, her success, and her accomplishments."

"When you stand in your own power, competition dissolves."

This episode has been a long time coming. I've hosted a lot of Ask Me Anything's on my Insgram (follow me here) about relationships, dating, love + marriage, and it was time to bring it to the podcast.

In today's episode, I'm talking about how to navigate relationships as an empowered women. Why do we have such high standards in every area of our life except love? Why do we accept scraps? If you've struggled with asking for what you want in a relationship, if you've ever felt "too much" - then today's conversation is for you.

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Have you ever found yourself dimming your own light to keep others comfortable? Maybe you don't want to share a major win in your business because you're worried you'll come across as bragging. Maybe you're worried about turning off your colleagues by being proud of your accomplishments. Maybe you're worried about being "too happy" or "too successful" because you think someone else may be annoyed by it?

Whatever the case - it needs to end. When we dim our own light, we send a message that women should not take up space. When we shrink ourselves, we send a message that being confident is something to be ashamed of.

It's time to celebrate our success! It's time to acknowledge how far we've come. This episode will tell you WHY it's so important and HOW to do it.

Thank you to our sponsor, Judi Holler! Check out Judi's brand new book, Fear is My Homeboy here. Learn more about Judi here.

I'm answering all your burning questions once again! We're talking about how to handle rejection, tips for resetting and recharging, why you must be your own permission slip, how to start when you have a million ideas, where I shop (this is a popular question believe it or not!) + style tips and so much more. I love you guys!

HUGE thank you to our sponsors!

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If you follow me online, then you know how obsessed I am with Substack. I launched my blog there a little over a year ago and it has lit a creative fire in me that has given my writing and my personal brand a whole new life. It's connected me to a whole new community and become a serious source of income for me as well. I decided to bring Linda from the Substack team on the show to share the ins and outs of the platform and answer all your burning questions.

In this episode we talk about:

What is Substack and how it's different from a regular blog

How to earn income on Substack

How to cultivate + grow your community

The secrets to true Substack succcess

Why everyone needs to be on the platform now

and so much more. You don't want to miss this!

If you want to work with me 1:1 to create and grow your Substack, click here to grab a spot for my mentorship + writing coaching program: https://caraalwill.thrivecart.com/substack-book-coaching/

Read my Substack here.

Follow Linda on Substack here.

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I've been into astrology for as long as I can remember. My mom started reading my horoscope to me in high school, and to this day she still sends it to me regularly. So you can imagine how thrilled I was when I learned that The Astrotwins wanted to come on the show to talk all things cosmic with us!

In case you aren't familiar, Ophira and Tali Edut (The AstroTwins) are among the most sought-after astrologers and intuitive advisors of our times. As the longtime resident astrologers for ELLE Magazine and the authors of over 20 books, they are the advisors to a roster of CEOs, celebrities, global leaders and successful entrepreneurs, including Beyonce, Dua Lipa and Emma Roberts.

In today's episode, we're discussing their revolutionary IAM system (which makes breaking down your birth chart so easy), how the zodiac plays a role in relationship dynamics, why astrology is your secret weapon when it comes to personal development, and so much more.

Connect with the Astrotwins:

Follow them on Instagram

Buy their new book

Check out their website + read your daily horoscope

Ever meet those girls who just GET IT? That's JoJamie Hahr. She is the Vice President of Marketing at BBR Music Group based in Nashville, TN. We chatted about the importance of relentlessly working toward your dreams, why taking a risk always pays off, and why women should be able to be, look, do, and SAY whatever they want in business. Ever feel like you need to shrink yourself as you get older? Not after this conversation. Buckle up babes, this is a GOOD one!

Connect with JoJamie:
Instagram: @JoJamie + @JoJamieInstaFashionGram
BBR Music Group: www.BBRMusicGroup.com

Today on the show I’m talking to Matt LeBris, award-winning entrepreneur and host of the Decoding Success podcast. I listen to Matt’s show, and recently I’ve heard him talking a lot about love and dating from the male perspective, so I thought it would be fun to have him on the show and ask him the questions me and my girls RACK our brains about when it comes to men.

With all the advice out there - from YouTube to TikTok to all the books that tell us what to do and what NOT to do when it comes to men, I’m going straight to the source.

We chat about the shift in modern dating and if THE RULES really mean anything at all. Do guys really love the chase? Do they view women differently if you sleep with them on the first date? Are men REALLY intimidated by successful women?

Grab a glass of wine and get ready for some juicy stuff. This is so enlightening. I know you’re gonna love it. Let’s get to it.

Visit Matt's website here

Connect with Matt on Instagram

Listen to Matt's podcast

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Being a BOSS is more than what it looks like on the outside. It’s a feeling. An energy. A KNOWING that you are worthy of everything you want and everything you are becoming. In this episode, I'm sharing my top 5 ways to cultivate your confidence and show up in your life and business like a true boss. From embracing our vulnerable sides, to shifting our perspective on our life stories, I'm breaking it all down to help you feel like the baddest babe possible.

Grab my book Like She Owns the Place here!

I’m answering more of YOUR questions this week! We’re talking about how to get out of your head and start taking action, how to gain clarity and create a vision for your life and business, how to cure indecisiveness and start making decisions, and much more.

Thank you to our sponsor, Cheryl Thacker!

Alright ladies, are you coaching as a side gig and want to transition it into a full-time gig? Or maybe you’ve been coaching with no system or plan in place and don’t know how to get your business organized and running? I’m excited to tell you about the Successful Coaches “Master Your Coaching Buisness” Bootcamp! This  12-week small group program was designed by Cheryl Thacker - MY personal coach and instructor at World Coach Institute where I studied to be a life coach. Cheryl has designed to help you create a comprehensive business plan and structure that you will have confidence in and be able to easily implement. It’s designed for coaches who know that the best way to build your business is to get clear on the day to day actions you must commit to and act on to build a real sustainable business. Her pilot program launches Feb 4 with a HUGE discount! So Go check out all the details at SuccessfulCoaches.com

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It's no secret that the world is feeling anxious and uncertain right now. I'm back with another special episode to help you navigate these challenging times and stay as calm and high vibe as possible. Pour yourself a cup of coffee, take a deep breath, and dig in.

Music heals, soothes, and uplifts our spirits. Click here to listen to this playlist I made you!

In the latest #DearCara episode, I'm sharing my tips on beating negative reviews and learning to be your own support system, how to get clear on your vision and start taking action steps to actually get things done (and get out of your own head), I'm sharing my nutrition routine and how and when I "cheat," how to beat overwhelm, and more! ENJOY! XO

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In today's episode, I'm talking about:

How life doesn't always play out the way we expect it to, but always the way we need it to

What to do when things don't go as planned

How my biggest heartbreak led me to where I am today

Did you ever notice when you stress out and worry over something you want, it feels even further out of reach?

Or when you are working toward something you THINK you should want (but really, deep down you couldn't care less), it feels totally out of whack and gross?

In this episode, I'm giving you a refresher on how to align with your desires and become an energetic match for the things you truly want for yourself. We're taking out the energetic trash, so to speak. If you've been feeling a little off, this episode is for you.

Pre-order my new book, Like She Owns the Place, here.

Are you inviting stress and overwhelm into your life? Are you pouring it a cup of coffee and allowing it to stay awhile? Not after this episode. I'm serving up my secret strategies for dealing with the stresses of every day life and work, and providing some mega perspective to help you decide what you're available for in your world.

Thank you to our sponsor, Metal Marvels!

Metal Marvels is a brand for badass & bold women who don't fit societies standards. Katie, the creator, was always searching for mantra jewelry with more powerful & in your face messages. Being a woman who curses like a sailor daily, the messages just weren't out there. So she created the amazing Expletives collection that gives women jewelry that helps them feel empowered to be themselves, to be bold, and use the word fuck as frequently as they want. Societal standards for women and success, are bullshit and she runs her company that way too showing that someone who curses like a sailor, has tattoos and purple hair, can be extremely successful in this world. Make sure you follow Metal Marvels Instagram for daily inspiration, a heavy use of profanity, and badass products. And you can save 20% off for being a Style your mind listener. Use code: STYLEYOURMIND at metalmarvels.com

Click here to apply for the Girl on Fire mastermind! Spots are limited and enrollment closes this week!

I've always drawn so many life lessons from fitness. There is an incredible amount of mental fortitude required to push your body past your own self-imposed limits. But watching the extraordinary humans run the New York City marathon was a whole other level. In today's episode, I'm sharing 5 things I learned from witnessing the incredible strength and drive from these runners. I hope this episode inspires you the way watching them inspired me! Enjoy.

In this episode, Cara talks about her upcoming birthday and why it used to be a day filled with anxiety and expectations. After shifting her mindset ten years ago, she has since found reason to celebrate every day (especially birthdays!) and shares some of her most powerful stories and secrets around why celebration is truly one of her biggest keys to life. Warning: you may find yourself craving a glass of champagne during this show! Cheers!

It's time for another episode of #DearCara! Your burning questions, answered. In this chat, we'll talk about the most dreadful time of the month (PMS!) and how to navigate your hustle and your hormones. We'll also tackle the big question, "When do I know it's the right time to leave my day job and give my side hustle a shot?" Plus my thoughts on staying sane and positive while consuming mainstream news, and so much more.

Thank you to our sponsor, Michele Russo of The Dime Series! Michele is an author, podcaster, and dating coach and she's helping you navigate the dating world by learning to laugh through your pain and celebrate the single life. Learn more about Michele at TheDimeSeries.com, and on Instagram @TheDimeSeries, and tune into her podcast, Love Lies, on iTunes.

Apply for the Girl on Fire mastermind here!

We're doing something BIG today! I'm sharing the top 3 tips (and a few bonus ones) I gave my private, high-level clients last week. From getting out of your own head, to tapping into your most abundant self, and so much more, this advice is golden. Get ready to take notes!

In this episode, Cara breaks down the reality of manifesting and visualization techniques and shares how to actually make these tools work (hint: it takes WORK!). If you've ever felt confused, frustrated, or stuck when it comes to putting the Law of Attraction into play, then don't miss this episode.

Happiness Board Tools:

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If you've ever struggled with understanding why things are happening in your life, why something is taking so long to work out, or why you've had to face certain challenges, this episode is for you!

Thank you to our sponsor, Whatskin! Download the Whatskin app now to get a free skincare analysis and a customized shop just for you so that you can find the right products to make your skin more radiant, healthy and flawless. Use code CARA20 to get 20% off (no minimum purchase required!)

One of my favorite mantras when it comes to building your empire and becoming truly iconic is, "Create what you wish existed" and that's exactly what today's guest has done. Erin Meyer, LCPC and founder of Mindful Healing Works, is dedicated to making mental health luxurious by up leveling the client experience and unraveling the barriers that hinder their well-being. From building the first-ever mind spa of its kind, to treating her clients with the respect and attention they deserve, Erin is truly changing the landscape of mental health. And wait until you hear her story of how she got there. If you are a creator or entrepreneur who thinks outside the box, let this episode inspire you!

Connect with Erin on Instagram at Mindful Healing Works and her personal page, Erin Meyer Lifestyle.

In honor of Earth Day, I'm sharing some staggering statistics about the fashion industry and how we can all care for the planet - and look fabulous while doing it - by rocking vintage.

Shop my vintage collection here.

Jump on my email list here to receive exclusive invitations to my NYC in-store shopping experiences and more.

If you've ever dreamed of self-publishing your own book but have NO idea where to begin, then you are going to find so much value in this episode. Meet my brother, Mike! Mike is an author, editor and self-publishing concierge. He shares his personal story about how he made his own writing dreams come true after leaving his corporate career at Google, and he now writes novels for a living and helps others get their books out there. Tune into our chat and get some tips and learn more about his insight and services, which include cover design, book layout, editing, helping you navigate the wild world of Amazon, and more.

In this episode, Cara answers listener questions surrounding getting started as a young entrepreneur and advice to the "Under 21 club," tips on how to be happy when they money isn't there and how to shift your attitude around finances, advice on how to create a beautiful and inspiring home that supports your success, and how to stay driven and focused when you're feeling overwhelmed.

In this episode, Cara shares her perspective on earning and spending, as well as her top tips around mending your relationship with money. Ever felt guilty about investing in yourself? Ever felt bad about treating yourself to something? It's time to turn those thoughts on their head, because you are worthy of more than you know!

The special introductory price for my new course with my dear friend and fellow bestselling author Amanda Frances, SELF-PUBLISHED, ends tonight! Get all the details + join us here.

In today's episode, I'm sharing more about how writing and self-publishing my book early in my career changed the game for me, and why writing a book is easier than you think.

If you're feeling called to our course, SELF-PUBLISHED, we'd love to have you! Questions? Email Info@TheChampagneDiet.com and we'll help you out!

It's time to stop dreaming of becoming an author and start making it happen. Are you ready? Let's do this.

Join us here.

There was a lot of chatter about 2.22.22 yesterday. A lot of people felt it was a magical portal and a powerful day for manifesting. Even mainstream celebrities were posting about it on Instagram. No matter how you felt about the day, this episode will remind you that the actual magic is you. Tune in for some tips on how to harness your power today and every day.

HUGE thank you to our sponsor, Haylee Powers of Bad Bitch Branding! Ladies, if you’re a BAD BITCH who is looking for a little help clarifying your brand strategy so that you can rise above the noise, Let go of the confusion, and overwhelm bogging your brand down, then you have got to connect with my girl Haylee Powers from Bad Bitch Branding. Be seen by your ideal customer and bring in the money with the Bad Bitch Branding Coaching Program...It is time to elevate your brand strategy and design, bitches. Go to www.badbitchbranding.com/slay and schedule a free intro call with Haylee Powers, mention this podcast and receive an EXTRA coaching call added into the program you choose.

Has your mind ever felt like a runaway train, creating worst-case scenarios and letting fear take center stage? In today's episode, I'm sharing my best practices for stopping a spiral in it's tracks so you can get back to your best life.

Most of us learned from a young age to equate success with money and power. We hold high-powered CEOs, rich entrepreneurs and celebrities on pedestals, assuming that because they are “successful,” they have it all. We click through their Instagram feeds in awe, we binge-watch their reality television shows, and we spend our hard-earned money to see them speak and perform. But do we ever wonder if they are actually HAPPY?

I invite you to redefine success with me today. I invite you to acknowledge that SUCCESS IS A STATE OF MIND. Something we all have access to. Something we can choose to tap into. And in this episode, I'm showing you how.

Power quotes from this episode:

"When we operate from a place of power, we understand that if we believe we are successful, then we are."

"I invite you to acknowledge that success is a state of mind and it is something we all have access to."

Grab the Style Your Mind workbook here: www.styleyourmind.com

Follow Melissa on Snapchat at @MelissaLeger1

Today I'm sitting down with Jamie Kern-Lima, author of the new book, "Believe It" and founder of IT cosmetics. In 2016, Jamie sold IT Cosmetics to L'Oréal for $1.2 billion and has been included on the Forbes' list of "America's Richest Self-Made Women" since 2017. Despite Jamie's massive success, she is truly one of the most humble and generous women I've ever had a conversation with. It feels like Jamie is our very own mentor in this episode and I cannot wait to share it with you.

Here are some of the things we chat about in this powerful chat:

Have you ever noticed there is a "je ne sais quoi" about certain women who seem to get everything they want? They appear to move effortlessly through the world, exuding an unapologetic energy that seems to attract the best of the best? These women are confident, happy, and free. They are not burdened by worry or stress; they are simply living, and it's beautiful.

In today's episode, I'm going to help you tap into that exact vibe. Get ready to take notes - this is a good one!

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In this episode, I'm breaking down how and why last week was my biggest week EVER in business. From the mindset shifts I made, to what I needed to let go of to make it happen, I'm letting you guys in for a behind-the-scenes look so that you can use some of these strategies to push yourself and cultivate your own success. I'm also sharing my perspective on why you shouldn't be scared to put yourself out there and sell your products and services and why it's really SO much easier than you think.

If you're an entrepreneur who has been in business for less than 5 years and you're still not experiencing the success you desire, consider joining my brand new masterclass: StyleYourMindForSuccess.com. I'm giving you 7 weeks of on-demand exclusive coaching in both audio and digital content that will help you make the mindset shifts necessary for reaching the next level in your business and in your life.

The food we put into our bodies has a profound impact on the way we feel. Now more than ever, people are waking up and becoming conscious of where our food comes from, and what it's doing to us on a physical, emotional, and spiritual level. In today's episode, I'm talking all about my journey transitioning into a 100% plant-based, organic, whole foods diet. I'm sharing why I'm doing it, how it's changing my life, and how you can do the same. If you're "plant-curious" and open-minded, this episode will give you some tips on how to create a healthier lifestyle that supports your overall well-being.

Books + Documentaries I talked about in this episode:

Forks Over Knives. Watch it here.

What The Health. Watch it here.

The PMA Effect. Click here to check it out.

Meat is for Pussies. Click here to check it out.

John Joseph VICE video. Click here to watch.

Thank you to our sponsor, author Judi Holler! Judi's new book is out on May 28, and you can pre-order now! Click here to grab Fear is My Homeboy today.

If you're an entrepreneur or aspiring one, I'm dropping tons of tips for you on how to get smarter about your online marketing, social media strategy, and why public speaking is not as scary as we make it out to be.

Big thank you to our sponsors!

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Today's epsiode is as empowering and educational as it is heartwarming. I'm talking to Julie Castro Abrams, who I've dubbed as the Fairy Godmother of Investing for women. Julie is the Founder + CEO of How Women Lead, as well as a gender and social justice activist who is actively changing the financial landscape for women in the world. Her latest project, The New Table, is essentially Girl Code for women and wealth. In today's conversation, Julie talks about the energetics and accessibility around investing (and how doable it really is for many of us), as well as the importance of supporting women-owned companies while building our own wealth. This one's gonna blow your mind. Let's go girls.

Learn more about Julie's mission, How Women Lead, here.

Today on the show I'm talking to Val Jones, host of The Selfish Woman podcast and certified coach who has spent the last decade helping women burn the rule book, reinvent themselves, and take their power back. Val teaches and speaks from her own experiences of two divorces, emotional abuse, marriage to a narcissist, parenting three kids to adulthood, living as an expat in Spain, and reinventing herself at the age of 51.

In today's episode, we discuss:

>> How to know when its time to go

>> Why being selfish is the most important thing you can be

>> How to identify your relationship patterns

>> Val's biggest lessons after two divorces

>> and so much more

Val Jones is host of the popular podcast, The Selfish Woman and a Life Coach for midlife women who are longing for a reinvention. She is the creator of the powerful online program, Women Rising, which helps women release their past, connect to their authentic self, and design a life that lights them up.

Connect with Val here.

Listen to her podcast, The Selfish Woman, here.

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When was the last time you had a difficult conversation? Did you feel confident in the way you expressed yourself?

When was the last time you shared your views on something without second-guessing yourself or worrying about what someone else thought?

When was the last time you spoke up in a meeting, set a clear boundary with someone, or asserted yourself in an uncomfortable situation?

Many women struggle with using their voice. Some research suggests that women apologize when we really should be direct because we worry about coming off as rude, or hurting someone's feelings. According to a study in the journal of Psychological Science, women have a much lower threshold for what constitutes offensive behavior. In turn, this causes us to apologize more - even when we should be assertive.

In this short but powerful episode, I’m going to share some tips on how to get crystal clear about who you are, what’s important to you, and how to put it all out there without the fear and without the guilt.

Continue this conversation in the Style Your Mind Academy. Join us here.