Blissful Thinking (Rajeev Balasubramanyam: Writer)

Welcome to our third interview with the truly inspirational Rikki Beadle-Blair who explains the importance of self-love, positivity and gratitude and how to get there. There's nothing preachy or bogus about this man. He lives this. And right now we need people like him more than ever. We need to be inspired and this interview is the definition of inspirational. 

Follow him on twitter @RikkiBB or instagram @rikkibeadleblair or on facebook https://www.facebook.com/rikki.beadleblair and listen, enjoy, and be uplifted! 

Welcome to the Blissful Thinking podcast! In this first I episode, I, Rajeev Balasubramanyam, tell the story of how I came to spiritual practice. I talk about the need for people of colour to share pain and trauma, and ways of healing, and I offer suggestions on how to live life under lockdown with greater awareness. 

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Royalty free music from https://www.fesliyanstudios.com

And below, some meditation resources:

https://plumvillage.org/mindfulness-practice/mindful-apps/

https://bswa.org/teachers/ajahn-brahm/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oh5ii6R6LTM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xtk1kIU6Jy8

https://yourholisticpsychologist.com/

https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/?hl=en

http://www.kairajewel.com/audio-talks

https://www.iamsahararose.com/highestselfpodcast

https://podtail.com/en/podcast/your-own-magic/

https://mysolluna.com/blog-2/

The first interview! And it's with my dear, wise, loving 82-year-old friend from San Francisco, Fannie-Lee. Here she talks about death, about pain, and love, and gives beautiful gentle advice to us all about how to survive this mysterious wonderful thing called life. This one is about everything, and ALL about love. 

This week's episode is with poet, novelist, and writer on masculinity, JJ Bola. We speak about traditional African spirituality and the importance of communicating with ancestors in revolutionary movements, as well as imperialist attempts to suppress such practice, and we speak about today's situation in the United States and how it is as much a spiritual struggle as a material one. 

https://www.pontas-agency.com/jj-bola/

https://www.jjbola.com/

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/jan/02/manhood-mental-health-masculinity

Twitter/Instagram: @JJ_Bola

This week's episode is with radical psychologist, feminist and psychotherapist Guilaine Kinouani, an expert on the impact of racism on the mental health of people of colour, particularly the African diaspora in Europe. We had an extraordinary conversation in which I learned so much about how racism works in the minds of both white people and people of colour, and how to understand this current moment from a psychological perspective.

Visit her website https://racereflections.co.uk/ to learn more about her work and do follow her on twitter at https://racereflections.co.uk/ . Her work is spectacular!

The award-winning novelist Nayomi Munaweera talks with us abut childhood trauma, abuse and her "spiritual toolbox" of vipassana meditation, therapy, twelve-step, and ayahuasca. Her advice to us all at this time is to be soft with ourselves, and to remember that this moment is all we have.

https://us.macmillan.com/author/nayomimunaweera/

https://www.dhamma.org/en-US/index

Dean Dorsett is my oldest friend! He was my companion, confidante, and comrade-in-arms during my 3 years at Oriel College, Oxford, very much in the news now due to the Rhodes Must Fall campaign. In this episode we try to understand what Oxford was, its intellectual culture, the racism we both encountered and were hurt by, and Dean explains his initial transition from being a Jehovah's Witness in Dominica to a medical student at one of the most right-wing institutions in Britain. He ends by explaining how his experience as a doctor in Ipswich, during the Covid pandemic, aligns perfectly with everything else he has learned about how western civilisation functions. 

https://www.burlingtonprimarycare.co.uk/team/dr-dean-dorsett

This week's episode is with former rapper and novelist Mutlu Ergün who is currently an anti-racist trainer, travelling across Germany. Usually with his brother, he runs People of Colour empowerment workshops, and anti-racist trainings for white people, in which he aims to gently, lovingly, separate white Germans from their whiteness, making them aware of their own racisms. It's a spiritual approach to racism that we very rarely hear, and Multu is an expert. 

Links below are to the Phoenix, the anti-racist organisation Multu works for, and to his novel:

https://www.phoenix-ev.org/en/index.html

https://www.amazon.de/Kara-G%C3%BCnl%C3%BCk-geheimen-Tageb%C3%BCcher-Sesperado/dp/3897716003

This week's episode is with writer, editor and translator Ayesha Manazir Siddiqi. It's wide-ranging! We talk about Islam, spirits, tarot, ayahuasca, vipassana, and mostly about life's purpose, and social justice, and the necessity of speaking out, and why. Is it possible for one person to be happy and at peace when others are suffering? And why are we here, and who will we be when we die? 

This week's guest is Vimalasara (Valerie) Mason-John, an award winning author of 9 books,  including her most timely book published this year I'm Still Your Negro, An Homage to James Baldwin. She is the co-founder of the accredited program Mindfulness Based Addiction Recovery MBAR and of Eight Step Recovery, an alternative and addition to the 12 step recovery meetings. She is one of the leading African Descent voices in the field of mindfulness approaches for addiction.

This week's episode is with the extraordinarily insightful poet, storyteller, healer, clairvoyant, tarot reader, and psychic, Giorgia Alexander. This is a deep, sensitive, and most of all wise exploration of some of the key issues that face us all: trauma and how to heal from it, narcissism, sociopathy, and, last of all, how to develop our psychic powers.

Giorgia's linktree:

https://linktr.ee/giorgiaalexander

This week's episode is with my friend, the dharma teacher Thomas Davis. Thomas was a lay minister in the church for over 10 years before crossing over to Theravada Buddhism. He graduated from the Spirit Rock Community Dharma Leader Training Program, and after co-founding the the Insight Richmond Meditation Group, moved to Los Angeles where he now teaches at Insight LA. Thomas combines warmth, calm, and love with acute political insight and has one of the best laughs of anyone I know. I love him dearly, and I'm sure you will too. 

https://insightla.org/teacher/thomas-davis-2/

And beneath, a brilliant piece by Thomas on Duke Ellington and meditation:

https://tinyurl.com/yaykbxz4

This week's episode is with my dear friend Mauricio Barriga, a schoolteacher originally from Mexico, now living in Santa Ana in Orange County. Mauricio and I met at Deer Park Monastery, CA, which is where he learnt his practice of meditation in the tradition of Thich Nhat Hanh and here he explains the essence of this practice and how it transformed his life. Simple, honest, authentic and beautiful, Mauricio is the living embodiment of the teachings of the Buddha. 

My guest this week is my friend Kevin Martin. He is a native of the Bay Area and a practitioner of vipassana and, more recently, a student in the Dharmacharya Program under the teachings of Venerable Pannavati Bhikkhuni and Venerable Pannidipa Bhikkhu.  Kevin is a Dharma Community teacher at Insight Richmond and currently serves as a Restorative Justice Facilitator with at the Contra Costa County - Criminal Diversion Program in the Northern California, Bay Area. Kevin's take on the world is always original, and he has those essential qualities for the path: curiosity, honesty, humour, warmth, and humility.  I've only known him for four years, but I feel we are fellow travellers who have already come a long way together. Enjoy being a part of Kevin's world!

www.insightrichmond.com

This episode features Kadija George! She's a legendary figure in the Black British literary world, one of the truest pioneers. Kadija writes under the name Kadija Sesay, and is an literary activist, poet, short-story writer and publisher of Sable LitMag, which is on hiatus but will be back. Kadija's achievements are huge. She has helped so many writers, soooo many, and has been rewarded with the Cosmopolitan Woman of Achievement, Candace Woman of Achievement, the Voice Community Award in Literature and the Millennium Woman of the Year. She deserves all this and more.

In 2015 her cousin Sheku Bayoh was killed by Scottish police and an incident not unlike George Floyd's murder, and there are links beneath to the campaign, so please do check those out. 

Roger Robinson is a poet and vocalist for the musical crossover project King Midas Sound. I've known him for 20 years as one of the biggest-hearted, most generous writers around. This year, everything has gone his way, in terms of success, so I wanted to ask him how he has remained grounded, what his secret is. Here he explains, stressing the importance of doing the right thing, being true to your inner voice. 

https://rogerrobinsononline.com/

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/jan/16/ts-eliot-prize-winner-roger-robinson

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/nov/02/a-portable-paradise-roger-robinson-poem-of-month

https://www.peepaltreepress.com/authors/roger-robinson

My guest this week is Mita Mistry, a writer, mindfulness-based cognitive therapist, and acupuncturist based in the UK. Mita is an incredibly sensitive and empathic person, and in this episode she introduces us to the world of five elements acupuncture in the Taoist tradition, along with many other subjects including narcissism, codependence, and abuse south Asian families. Her website is below, and you can also find her articles at https://muckrack.com/mita-mistry/articles. She tweets @mitamistry .

https://www.mitamistry.co.uk/