Blended Family Breakthrough (Mike & Kim Anderson)
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| 04 Feb 2022 | Simple Step: Parenting Emotions | 00:02:42 | |
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| 08 Feb 2022 | 126. Is Sex THAT Important for a Healthy Marriage? | 00:42:02 | |
What does a healthy, vibrant sex life look like in your marriage? You and your spouse probably both want to be fulfilled when it comes to your physical connection. But for most couples, there are a whole variety of obstacles that chip away at their passion. For blended family couples, the passion can sometimes wane rapidly when they run into unique obstacles. From simple things like having the step-kids in the room just on the other side of the wall. To deeper challenges like the influence of past relationships or hurts from previous sexual mistreatment. The truth is that a "good" sex life will not hold your marriage together. However, an unhealthy attitude, a lack of sex, or tension in a couple's sex life can create a burden on the overall relationship that is often difficult to navigate. We've had significant struggles when it comes to our sex life. Unrealistic expectations, negative triggers from the past, and differences in our attitudes have all created barriers for us over the past two decades. As we've navigated the ups and downs, we've discovered meaningful and practical ways to connect both inside and outside the bedroom. We've been able to experience healing and learned ways to honor each other when it comes to the passion in our marriage. Over the next 3 episodes, we'll be vulnerably sharing some of our story and a few of the practical discoveries we've made along the way. In this episode, we'll focus on the importance of sex in marriage and give you 2 things to focus on in order to create a healthy sex life. Resources from this Episode:
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| 11 Feb 2022 | Simple Step: Dating Adventure | 00:02:20 | |
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| 15 Feb 2022 | 127. Increase Sexual Passion and Connection by Identifying the Challenges You're Facing | 00:58:07 | |
The sexual connection we really want for our marriage can often get hijacked by our histories, hurts, and misunderstandings. For blended family couples, trying to navigate these challenges is often complex and disheartening — even if some of our hang-ups seem typical for any marriage. Our sexual connection has endured a variety of barriers over the past couple of decades. There have been seasons where we've been in sync and genuinely connected. In other seasons, we've been distant and the passion seemed like it was drying up. As we look back over the years, we've identified that there were significant challenges we faced . And even in the most disheartening seasons — it wasn't the end of our love affair. Our passion has been revived many times. In this episode, we're sharing some of our personal hang-ups and some obstacles we've had to overcome. You'll Discover:
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| 22 Feb 2022 | 128. Practical Ways to Overcome Challenges and Enjoy More Sexual Passion | 00:49:49 | |
How can you get really practical about your sex life in marriage? Many of us can slip into the thought that if we were really in love — or if we were really compatible, then our sexual rhythm and connection should be really easy. When our experience doesn't match that expectation, then we're disappointed. We might feel like something is wrong with our relationship. And too much of the time, we're seeking that romantic spontaneity that seemed to exist in the beginning of our marriage rather than having the courage to simply get practical. The word "practical" may not seem sexy or exciting, but the reality is we all need a little practicality in our sex life if we want to experience mutual sexual fulfillment over the long term. In this episode, we're sharing practical tips for increasing sexual passion and experiencing the connection with each other that you're really looking for. You'll Discover:
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| 18 Feb 2022 | Simple Step: Everyday Intimacy | 00:02:44 | |
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| 25 Feb 2022 | Simple Step: Passionate Trust | 00:02:42 | |
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| 08 Mar 2022 | Simple Step: Planting Seeds of Trust | 00:04:25 | |
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| 01 Mar 2022 | 129. What does it take to build and maintain trust in your relationship? | 00:51:46 | |
In June of 1967, just after the release of their album, Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band, the Beatles began preparing for one of the world's first live global broadcast using a newly constructed technology — the satellite. What song did they release that day? "All You Need Is Love" It was a historic event. It's been 55 years since that song was released, but for millennia people have focused on LOVE when it comes to relationships. The message is reinforced in movies, music, stage productions, TV series, and social media — all you need is love. Well, sadly, the Beatles actually got it wrong. Love is a wonderful thing and absolutely necessary in our relationships. However, we need more than love to have a healthy, thriving marriage. We also need TRUST. Trust is what dictates how safe we feel within our relationship. As it turns out, there are 3 elements that create a sense of trust in our relationships. And the great news is that all 3 elements are things you can grow. Join us in this episode to consider the 3 critical elements that build trust and explore practical ways to deepen your connection by maintaining safety and trust in your relationship. You'll Discover:
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| 15 Mar 2022 | 130. How to Build Trust that Nurtures Bonds with Your Kids and Stepkids | 00:56:30 | |
Bonding in a blended family can be challenging. Maybe you're already pretty close with your bio-kids, but trying to connect with step-kids just isn't working. Or maybe you've noticed your bio-kids pulling away just a little lately and you're not sure why. We've been through all kinds of ups and downs in our journey of blending and raising kids and discovered there's one foundational thing that leads to bonded relationships with each one of them… …Trust. In this episode, we're continuing our conversation about trust, but through the lens of parenting. We'll look at all 3 essential elements of trust and how they apply to parenting. You'll Discover:
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| 22 Mar 2022 | Simple Step: Building Trust with Step-Kids | 00:03:52 | |
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| 29 Mar 2022 | 131. Why is trust important in your co-parenting relationship? | 00:52:27 | |
Building trust can be difficult in any relationship… …and when it comes to your former spouse, it might feel impossible. Building trust in your parenting coalition seems out of reach when you keep your focus on the way your Ex behaves. But there's more to it than that. We've had multiple seasons of over-focusing on the untrustworthy actions of Kim's former spouse. But over time, we discovered that we had more control over building trust in our parenting coalition than we thought. In this episode, we're examining how the 3 major elements of trust — predictability, openness, and justice — can be your focal point of creating more trust with a difficult Ex. Ultimately, you have the power to create more trust. In turn, that will create a more stable and secure experience for your kids. Putting the effort in is not only about a healthy relationship with your Ex — it's about a healthy environment for your kids. So, let's get the conversation started and explore why it's so important to build trust in your co-parenting relationship… Resources from this Episode:
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| 05 Apr 2022 | Simple Step: Avoiding Milestone Mishaps | 00:10:16 | |
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| 12 Apr 2022 | 132. How do loss and grief impact blended family integration? | 00:56:45 | |
You probably hope for tight bonds in your blended family. But the reality is that that blended families are born out of loss — and the grief from that loss can make it difficult to bond. Whether it was divorce, death, or separation — there was an 'earthquake' of loss that preceded your current blended family structure. And every member of your family will experience some kind of grief along way as ongoing sadness and painful emotions emerge. Those are the unavoidable 'aftershocks' of loss. Most of us tend to avoid the lingering sorrow of loss that exists. It's easy for us to miss the grief our kids and step-kids might be experiencing. Not intentionally, of course. We simply want to move forward. We don't want to stay stuck. But the truth is that ignoring or underestimating the impact of loss can easily become a barrier to bonding and create frustration, resentment, and anger. In this episode, we'll explore the tough realities that impact every blended family around acknowledging and navigating loss — for adults and kids. Plus, we'll share 10 tips for overcoming this challenge and finding the courage to create a shared grief journey for your family which ultimately leads to deeper connection and healthy integration. You'll Discover:
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| 19 Apr 2022 | Simple Step: Helping Kids Process Grief | 00:07:02 | |
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| 26 Apr 2022 | 133. 3 Tips to Help You Experience Joy on Special Occasions — Including Mother's Day | 00:46:47 | |
Special family occasions should be filled with joy, laughter, and gratefulness — especially Mother's Day. But in your blended family dynamics, that might not be what you actually experience. The relational tension and disconnection that can sometimes be present doesn't just melt away because it happens to be a day designated to honor Mom or celebrate other occasions as a family. Yet, moms and step-moms in blended families still have the opportunity to hold onto their joy. It is possible to accept the positives that do exist and experience genuine contentment in your blended dynamics. In this episode, Kim is going to share some recent disappointment she faced as a mom and how she experienced joy anyway — without just "stuffing" her feelings. Kim's story will give you the encouragement and strategies you'll need to face any disappointments that might emerge on your upcoming Mother's Day — or any special occasion. You'll Discover:
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| 03 May 2022 | Simple Step: Husbands - Let's Prepare for Mother's Day | 00:07:02 | |
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| 10 May 2022 | 134. How to Make Good Decisions in Tough Situations and Stay Connected as a Couple | 00:57:29 | |
Isn't it a great feeling when you're united as a couple around important decisions? It really doesn't matter if the decision is big or small — we feel connected when we're on the same page. But, if you're anything like us, you've probably run into those moments when decision-making seems to create disconnection. And let's be honest. Disconnection stinks. Over the past 21 years of our marriage, making decisions together has proven to be a lot tougher than we thought it might be. Even the small things can become big things in the midst of our blended family dynamics. Countless times, we've felt stuck… …but we've also discovered some simple ways to get UN-stuck. In this episode, we're exploring the good, the bad, and the ugly about decision-making in a blended family. We'll share some do's and don'ts along with some stories about our own journey and some of the couples we've supported. Every blended couple needs a strategy for decision-making that creates connection so they can avoid confusion, pain and division. So, go ahead and hop into the conversation and we'll meet you there! You'll Discover:
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| 17 May 2022 | Simple Step: Partnership and Decision-Making | 00:05:31 | |
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| 31 May 2022 | Simple Step: Supporting Your Spouse When the Ex is Challenging | 00:06:21 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 24 May 2022 | 135. How to Set Appropriate Boundaries and Negotiate Well with Your Ex-Spouse | 00:47:27 | |
Cooperative co-parenting with an Ex is the goal when you've got kids moving between two homes. You likely want your kids to experience peaceful transitions — you want to avoid tension and conflict as you negotiate with your Ex-Spouse. But sometimes this seems like an impossible goal. That's because setting healthy, appropriate boundaries in co-parenting without triggering conflict feels just out of reach. In this episode, Kim is sharing how she took an 'easy wrong turn' when she felt provoked and pressured by her Ex-Spouse. Plus, we'll talk about how the consequences of her snap decision devastated her and rocked our family. You'll discover some lessons we've learned over the years and how you can improve your negotiations with your former spouse — even when things get heated and emotionally charged. The 3 practical strategies we land on will help you develop appropriate boundaries with an Ex and give you a simple framework for setting and maintaining those boundaries. You'll Discover:
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| 07 Jun 2022 | 136. How to Intentionally Create Positive Family Time and Reduce Relational Tension | 01:05:10 | |
You might have headed into stepfamily life hoping that close bonds would develop and everyone would enjoy spending time together. But, if you're like most of us, that may not have happened as easily or as quickly as you hoped. Instead, most blending couples are blindsided by the amount of chaos, tension and resistance that pops up around every corner. You've probably felt frustrated, confused or even hopeless somewhere along the way. Maybe you've even been at a loss about how to approach bonding when relational tensions are high and the kids are either acting out, or shutting down. Here's the good news — you're normal! Most blended families face these challenges — and the really good news is that with the right mindset and strategy you can encourage and enjoy family time, while patiently waiting for bonds to grow. In this episode, we'll share a strategy for family time that will help as you head into summer and throughout the year! When you're intentional about how you plan and manage time as a family, you'll be amazed at the difference it can make. You'll Discover:
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| 14 Jun 2022 | Simple Step: When a Stepparent is Left Alone with Step-kids | 00:08:34 | |
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| 21 Jun 2022 | 137. Practical Tools to Boost Family Engagement and Grow Meaningful Connection [with Jennifer Zumbiel] | 01:12:09 | |
Engaging the whole family in meaningful conversation is challenging for anyone. And for blended families, positive engagement often feels impossible — especially when there's tension or one child makes it clear that they don't want to engage. But don't lose hope! Even with tension, stress, and yes — busy schedules or lots of distractions — today's guest, Jennifer Zumbiel can help you experience more connection in your blended family. Jennifer is the host of the "Families That Stick Togather™" podcast and creator of the Togather™ conversation sticker games and tools. As a mother of four and a wife of 18 years, she understands how everyday distractions can impact face-to-face communication and threaten the strength of our relationships. In this episode, Jennifer is sharing about the ways she has found to help us all "to gather" with easy, meaningful, and fun communication in real-life using the small moments we already have. As you listen in, you'll pick up some simple, practical tools that will help you overcome distractions and reduce tension so that your family can connect in new ways. And we even chat about some parenting tips to encourage and grow strong bonds in your blended family. You'll Discover:
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| 28 Jun 2022 | Simple Step: Connecting with Your Step-Child | 00:04:43 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 05 Jul 2022 | 138. How Relational Dysfunction Plagued Our Marriage and How We Finally Broke Free | 00:49:16 | |
Have you ever thought to yourself, "Our relationship is a mess!"? I know I've thought that in different seasons along the way. What I wanted was a healthy, connected relationship with Kim… …but at times it's felt hopeless — like we would never be okay. And often in those difficult moments, my feelings got deeply centered on my own emotional pain. It wasn't just "we" would never be okay, but that translated to "I" would never be okay. But just a few years into our marriage, I stumbled across a common relational dynamic that described exactly what I was feeling. Not only did I finally begin to understand what was happening between me and Kim. I also found hope that we could get out of this downward spiral we kept finding ourselves in. Plus, I found out that I could be okay — even if things weren't going the way I wanted them to. In this episode, we'll share our personal story of relational dysfunction and some of the first steps it took to move beyond our debilitating, unhealthy patterns. You'll Discover:
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| 12 Jul 2022 | Simple Step: The Art of Letting Go | 00:07:15 | |
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| 26 Jul 2022 | Simple Step: Staying Connected | 00:03:31 | |
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| 19 Jul 2022 | 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences | 00:53:52 | |
We're betting you want to experience teamwork, connection, and peace in your blended family journey. But if you're anything like us, the complex emotions and unexpected relational tension might be taking you by surprise. You're not alone. We struggled with the pain that comes with all that for years. All too often, Kim felt like the rope in a tug-of-war between her daughter and Mike. She wanted everyone to feel loved and to be happy, but felt like she had to choose between Annika and Mike. She felt trapped. On the other hand, Mike often felt like an outsider in his own home. He wanted to be acknowledged, included and heard, but he felt stranded — like he just didn't "fit" into Kim and Annika's close relationship. In our pain, we tended to react in ways that didn't help. Then we would feel stuck. Stuck in our pain Stuck in confusion Stuck in conflict And the good news is that we discovered ways to get unstuck, and now we help blended family couples move beyond the tensions of feeling trapped and stranded too. Hop into this episode to start learning how… You'll Discover:
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| 09 Aug 2022 | Simple Step: Adult Kids Struggling with a Parent's Remarriage | 00:06:14 | |
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| 02 Aug 2022 | 140. Blending with Adult Children — One Couple's Story of Heartache and Triumph | 00:58:31 | |
It's easy to assume that adult children will be happy to celebrate a parent's remarriage later in life. They're adults, right? They're focused on their own lives and families. Your later life marriage shouldn't really impact them. But for most later life remarriages, that's simply not true. Most couples quickly run up against some unexpected challenges. Our friends Steve and Jan Mathews were surprised by the painful issues they faced with Steve's adult kids shortly after he married Jan. His adult kids reacted with unforeseen reluctance to accept Jan into their lives. In this week's episode, we're talking to Steve and Jan about how they've navigated the unique difficulties of blending with adult kids. Their story illustrates healthy ways to embrace realistic expectations, how to best approach bonding, and practical tips to find an appropriate balance that honors your marriage and your adult children — even when you're feeling stuck. Join us for a candid conversation with Steve and Jan. You'll Discover:
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| 16 Aug 2022 | 141. Can my kids be emotionally harmed by blended family dynamics? | 00:52:55 | |
Every parent wants their kids to be safe, healthy, and supported as they grow up. But as they head toward blending a family, many parents worry that stepfamily dynamics might actually cause harm — robbing their kids of a sense of stability and security. The truth is there are some "easy wrong turns" that couples sometimes make that can increase the risks for emotional safety and relational stability for kids. But the good news is that you can avoid the most common "easy wrong turns" with just a little understanding. That's what we're talking about in this episode… …we'll reveal some of the most common dynamics that can create challenges for kids so that you can make a course correction for your family — or avoid the "easy wrong turns" altogether! If you're worried that blending could be negatively impacting your kids, listen in to discover what you can do to make a difference! You'll Discover:
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| 23 Aug 2022 | Simple Step: Step-Parents Curb the Conflict | 00:05:30 | |
Want to learn more about promoting peace in co-parenting? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback | |||
| 30 Aug 2022 | 142. Why Kids Don't Need You To Be Perfect — Just Present (Part 1) | 00:53:09 | |
We all want to raise kids that are secure, resilient and confident. We also want to experience genuine connection with our kids and step-kids. But stepfamily dynamics can be confusing, overwhelming and frustrating — especially when it comes to parenting. It might feel like all the complexity tends to rob you of that connection you're looking for. If you've ever wondered how to handle tough situations with your kids or step-kids, we're here to help. And the good news is that you don't have to be a perfect parent or step-parent to make a big difference - even in tough situations… …you simply have to be present in a few very specific ways. In this episode, we're excited to share an amazing resource called 'The 6 Needs of Every Child' by Jeffery and Amy Olrick. We'll be exploring key insights around child development and the importance of secure attachment. Drawing on psychological research, neuroscience as well as our own experiences, we'll share the most important relational needs for human growth that form the foundation of thriving parent-child connections. You'll Discover:
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| 06 Sep 2022 | 143. Why Kids Don't Need You to be Perfect - Just Present (Part 2) | 00:48:15 | |
In this episode, we're excited to continue our conversation about the amazing resource called 'The 6 Needs of Every Child' by Jeffrey and Amy Olrick. We'll share the final 3 needs outlined in the book. You won't want to miss part 2 of this discussion, and we have a little surprise for you at the end. You'll Discover:
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| 13 Sep 2022 | 144. Empowering Parents and Kids Through the Science of Connection [with Jeffrey & Amy Olrick] | 01:06:20 | |
Creating a healthy, secure relationship with each of your children and step-children is probably a high priority for you. But the complex journey of parenting is challenging — and adding the realities of blending families can make it even more daunting! Sometimes we just need expert advice. That's what we have for you in this episode where we got to interview Jeffrey and Amy Olrick. Jeffrey Olrick, Ph.D., is a clinical child psychologist who has worked with children and families for over twenty years. Amy Olrick is an author and techie whose work and writing has been featured in the Guardian and USA Today. Together, the Olricks are parents of three and the co-authors of the book, The 6 Needs of Every Child: Empowering Parents & Kids through the Science of Connection. Jeffrey and Amy connected with us all the way from New Zealand where they currently reside with their three boys. You'll glean some powerful insights through this discussion about the 6 needs that each of your children have and ways to focus on meeting those needs in the midst of stepfamily life. You'll Discover:
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| 20 Sep 2022 | 145. Do you feel alone and isolated navigating the challenges of stepfamily life? | 00:27:25 | |
Have you ever tried to describe your blended family's unique challenges to a friend — only to be met with a blank stare because they simply didn't understand? Or maybe you felt judged by someone who just didn't get the reality of your family dynamics. Or somewhere along the way you were given advice that just wasn't helpful. Most of us living in blended family dynamics have been there — we often feel alone in our struggles. We might even start to believe that there's something wrong with us because no one around seems to be able to relate to what we're experiencing. But the truth is, you're not alone. You may just need to be intentional about finding your community. We discovered early in our journey just how valuable a supportive community is. Particularly because blended family dynamics can be so confusing, chaotic and painful. The empathy, encouragement, and wisdom of others that are traveling down the same bumpy road are invaluable. Navigating all the complexities that come with stepfamily life is much better when you can lean on others who you know really get it. In this episode we'll share our personal experience in supportive communities as well as 4 benefits of community that have led to our family's success — and lots of other families too! You'll Discover:
Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! Join us on April 5th for Blended & Blessed! Click here: https://www.blendedandblessed.com/ | |||
| 27 Sep 2022 | Simple Step: Don't Get Stuck in Negativity | 00:06:33 | |
Resources from this episode: Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 04 Oct 2022 | 146. Friendship and Connection or Friction and Distance - What's the state of your relationship? | 00:53:33 | |
Do you remember that vibrant sense of friendship you had early on in your relationship? It was a strong connection and it created this pull toward each other that was almost irresistible. But somewhere amid the crazy schedules, complex relationships, and differences of perspective, maybe you feel more like business partners or roommates these days. Or worse yet, battling foes rather than friends. If you can relate to any of that (or if you want to avoid getting to that point) — this episode is for you! The truth is, we all need to experience genuine friendship with our partner. But when the common stress and busy-ness of blended family life hits, it's easy to deprioritize your friendship — or even neglect it altogether. When that happens, the closeness you once enjoyed begins to wane and you slowly begin feeling disconnected from one another. But that doesn't have to be you. It's time to get intentional about growing and maintaining your friendship and focus on rekindling genuine connection in your relationship. In this episode, we'll share how a challenging season in our journey led to an 'easy wrong turn' that unintentionally slid our marriage to the back burner and we ended up losing friendship for a while — it was pretty sad. We'll also share some specific steps we took to revive our friendship and save our marriage — even when we didn't like each other very much. You'll Discover:
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| 11 Oct 2022 | Simple Step: Safeguarding Your Marriage [Part 1] | 00:04:21 | |
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| 25 Oct 2022 | Simple Step: Safeguarding Your Marriage [Part 2] | 00:04:46 | |
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| 18 Oct 2022 | 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship? | 00:38:59 | |
Have you ever felt like you got stuck in a difficult conversation before it even got started? You know that feeling — like this is going downhill fast and you just don't know how it got so heated and emotionally-charged so fast. We've experienced this kind of interaction hundreds (maybe thousands) of times over the years! Those are the moments we feel disconnected and divided. And we're left wondering how we'll ever be able to talk about sensitive topics and work through problems. But almost 12 years ago, Mike kinda stumbled across a communication strategy in a training where he worked. It was a simple little framework for getting a difficult conversation started without kicking off defensiveness and anger. As we both started learning this framework together, it was amazing how much better our communication became. We were able to learn how to navigate the critical first 30 seconds of a difficult conversation well and after a bit of practice we were able to communicate on a whole new level. We're sharing that simple little framework today on the podcast because we want you to experience that same transformation in your communication. The truth is, communication is a skill and we can all get better at it. You'll Discover:
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| 08 Nov 2022 | Simple Step: Protect Your Kids From a Parental Allegiance | 00:06:53 | |
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| 01 Nov 2022 | 148. 5 Tips to Negotiate Holiday Plans and Avoid Scheduling Conflicts with the Ex | 00:36:53 | |
Isn't there just something fun and exciting about the Holidays? It seems to be a time of excitement and high hopes for family "togetherness". You probably want to plan fun, festive activities so that you're able to enjoy memorable moments with your kids. But to make all that fun happen, you might need to negotiate a few logistics with your former spouse… …which could lead to stress and conflict — YUCK! We hear you and have been there more times than we've wanted to be. Yet, over the years we've discovered 5 practical tips that can reduce the headaches and avoid the heartaches that often come when negotiations break down. If you're anticipating changes to the visitation schedule this holiday season, don't procrastinate! We'll help you navigate the negotiations so they don't rob your joy. Hop into this episode to discover how you can approach negotiations well and enjoy more peace this Holiday Season! You'll Discover:
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| 22 Nov 2022 | Simple Step: The Key to Building Holiday Traditions | 00:06:04 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 15 Nov 2022 | 149. How to "Blend" Holiday Traditions and Create Meaningful Connection this Season | 00:47:59 | |
We all want to enjoy the holiday season with our family — without experiencing tension, disappointment or conflict. Managing all the complexities of blended family life can be overwhelming around the holidays. You're merging two family cultures with different ideas about how the holiday season should look… …kids might be looking forward to experiencing past family traditions that are still meaningful to them. On the other hand, adults are focused on creating a whole new experience around holiday festivities. This can lead to unmet expectations, hurt feelings and disconnection — which is the opposite of what you really want for your family. In this episode, you'll discover how to honor the history of your kids, while creating new traditions and a shared history that's practical and meaningful to everyone — without getting overwhelmed! You'll Discover:
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| 29 Nov 2022 | 150. The Highs and Lows of Our Family's Holiday Experiences [Special Guests: Our Kids — Annika, Phoebe and Jacob!] | 01:02:30 | |
Isn't it fun to reminisce sometimes? We love spending time remembering the journey with our family. It's great to recall some of those funny moments in our history. And it's meaningful when we recount the tough seasons we've endured together as well. In celebration of our 150th episode, we thought we'd let you listen in to our family reminisce over some of the ups and downs of our Holiday experiences over the past 20+ years. We wonder if it might stir up a bit of hope for your own future as you hear some of our stories through the voices of all our kids. We've experienced some high points, and low points as a family over the years - and your family will too. But as you navigate it together, we believe you can experience closeness, gratitude, and joy as a family — and we hope our discussion blesses you this season. In this episode, you'll discover how our kids answered these questions as they share their holiday experiences living in our blended family:
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| 06 Dec 2022 | Simple Step: Insights for Navigating Holiday Chaos | 00:05:16 | |
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| 13 Dec 2022 | 151. What Has The Potential to Steal Your Joy - And How Can You Hold Onto it (Part 1) | 00:33:05 | |
You want to experience joy when you gather with your family — not just during the holidays, but in everyday life as well. You might plan, dream, and anticipate how much fun and togetherness you'll experience as a family along the way. You probably look forward to joy-filled moments eating delicious meals, celebrating, and engaging in fun activities together. But in blended family dynamics, it's easy for your joy to unexpectedly be robbed. It doesn't take much for disappointment, confusion, or even conflict to come along and pull the joy right out from under us… …leaving us feeling discouraged, disconnected, and stuck. In this episode, we're uncovering the common pain points that can easily steal your joy. Why? So that you can build awareness and understanding around the sneaky dynamics that tend to emerge and often blindside us. This will set you up for next week's episode where we'll offer practical tips, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you hold onto more joy this holiday season and beyond.
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| 20 Dec 2022 | 152. What Has The Potential to Steal Your Joy - And How Can You Hold Onto it (Part 2) | 00:50:25 | |
How do you hold onto your joy — even in the midst of disappointment, negativity, and difficult emotions? In our last episode, we discussed some common senerios that have the potential to steal your joy and add tension to your blended family. We wanted to help you build more awareness about these joy-stealers and understand that you're not alone… …we've been robbed of our joy many times too! In this episode, we're sharing the strategies and mindset shifts that we've discovered throughout our own journey and how we've managed to experience more joy even when things don't go as planned. Don't let those joy-stealers take over. Hop into this discussion and find out how you can hold onto your joy this Christmas and in everyday life! You'll Discover:
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| 27 Dec 2022 | Simple Step: Shift Your Energy and Focus | 00:05:46 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 03 Jan 2023 | 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two Homes [with Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa] | 01:15:04 | |
For kids who are moving between two homes, the BEST outcomes happen when their parents are able to collaborate well and work together. Kids need reliable support, stability and peace. You've probably heard that before… …but actually living that out can be fraught with challenges — especially if you and your former spouse struggle to communicate or stay on track with everything the kids have going on. It's common for Ex-Spouses to experience miscommunication, ambiguity, or misunderstandings when they're managing all the moving parts. Daily life for co-parents is often overwhelming and frustrating! But you don't have to stay stuck there. This week's special guests Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa have developed a practical tool that will improve communication, empower organization AND create more peace for everyone. Kick off 2023 with a fresh resolve to implement something new that will help you rise above the co-parenting challenges and provide the reliable support, stability and peace your kids really need! You'll Discover:
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| 10 Jan 2023 | Simple Step: The 4 A's of Communicating with Your Ex | 00:06:10 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 17 Jan 2023 | 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family? | 00:42:13 | |
Everyone knows that change inevitably comes with blending families. You might already get that, but "getting it" and embracing it are two different things. Often, couples start off in their blended family journey understanding that change is inevitable, but not fully grasping what those changes ahead might look like — for them and their kids. Then they get blindsided. Why? Because moving everyone under the same roof feels like it's going to be a fresh start — an exciting new beginning! But the reality is that the formation of a blended family also comes with loss. That loss brings pain which impacts everyone's experience as you blend. We all know that change is hard. There are new things to adapt to. There are old, familiar things to let go of. There are practical logistics and routines that must be adjusted. And for most of us, emotional struggles come along as we figure out how to do life together in new and different ways. In this episode, we'll explore some healthy mindset shifts that will help you navigate the inevitable changes that come with blending. You'll Discover:
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| 24 Jan 2023 | Simple Step: How to Focus on Imperfect Progress | 00:03:56 | |
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| 31 Jan 2023 | 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse [with Jennifer Zumbiel] | 01:02:30 | |
When we fall in love and choose to spend our life with someone, we might picture a beautiful vision of what we want our relationship to look like… …relaxed, romantic meals together, the exchange of sweet gestures and affection, supportive encouragement, and genuine heart-to-heart connection. All that sounds amazing, doesn't it? But we also know how easy it is for the busyness and business of life to take over. We might feel overwhelmed and discouraged as our connection with each other seems to fade. For a long time, Mike and I thought we were prioritizing each other. But all the stressful realities of blended family life quickly wedged their way between us. As a result, we endured a painful season of feeling disconnected and alone. The good news is we didn't stay stuck there — and you don't have to either. In this episode, our special guest Jennifer Zumbiel will share an easy way to safeguard your relationship and create genuine engagement and meaningful connection. Jennifer's resource is not only practical but it's fun too! She developed it because she and her hubby needed something to help them stay connected! As Valentine's Day approaches, how can you make your relationship a priority by going above and beyond the usual? Discover something new and creative to intentionally make a heart-to-heart connection with your sweetheart on February 14th AND beyond! Resources from this Episode:
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| 07 Feb 2023 | Simple Step: Connecting Together Intentionally | 00:06:07 | |
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| 21 Feb 2023 | Simple Step: The Super Strength that Leaves a Legacy | 00:06:04 | |
Thanks for joining me for this Simple Step. Here are the 3 questions I asked you to consider this week:
Grab a notepad or journal and capture your genuine answer to these questions. Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 14 Feb 2023 | 156. The 3 Super Strengths of a Blended Family Marriage | 00:39:52 | |
They say hindsight is 20/20. Wouldn't it be cool if you could temporarily fast forward your blending journey about 20 years? You could clarify the most important things to focus on that might lead to success. You'd come back from that trip through time better equipped to understand the things that matter — and maybe some of the things that don’t. Unfortunately, we don't have a modified Delorean like Doc Brown to take you to your future. What we do have is our own story of blending over the past 22 years. So, we can't offer your own personal hindsight… …but we can share some insight based on our experiences that could be helpful and hopeful in your journey. In this episode, we're sharing 3 specific insights we've had over the past couple of decades. We call them "Super Strengths". They are 3 of the most critical character traits we've each had to adopt and develop in our journey as a step-couple. We're confident that if you engage these Super Strengths in your marriage they will lead you to the blending experience you're hoping for. You'll Discover:
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| 28 Feb 2023 | 157. 3 Seasoned Stepmoms Share How They've Survived and Thrived in Their Blended Family Journey | 01:05:40 | |
It's been said that being a Stepmom is like setting your hair on fire and trying to put it out with a hammer! The reality for many stepmoms is a regular sense of rejection, pressure, disrespect, or even slander. It can be a struggle to hold onto their own identity — to find their place and their purpose as the family "blends". A stepmom's pain, confusion, and disappointment might feel overwhelming and can keep them stuck in survival mode. But there's always hope! In this episode, our friends Brenda, Tiffany, and Stacy candidly share all the ups and downs they've experienced as seasoned stepmoms. Brenda is a Stepmom, Life Coach, Author, and International Speaker who is passionate about helping marriages and families flourish, especially in the context of blended families. She and her husband founded the ministry "Restored and Remarried" where they provide encouragement and hope to couples in stepfamilies. Tiffany and Bryan married and began their blending journey almost 10 years ago. Bryan entered the marriage with 2 kids, (currently ages 17 and 19). Tiffany has 1 biological child that she placed for adoption at birth who is now reconnected and very much a part of the family. Tiffany leads a small group for stepmoms, and together with Bryan supplements pre-marriage mentoring for couples preparing to blend. Stacy has been married to Rich for almost 9 years and is a stepmom to 4 amazing young women. She does not want others to feel alone on their blending journey and is passionate about loving and encouraging other stepmoms and blended family couples. Each of these courageous stepmoms has struggled through difficult seasons but has stayed the course. They've decided not to settle for just surviving, but chosen to learn how they can truly thrive in their blended families! You won't want to miss the valuable lessons these three triumphant stepmoms have learned along the way. You'll Discover:
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| 07 Mar 2023 | Simple Step: What Kind of Stepparent are You Becoming? | 00:06:02 | |
If you're a stepparent, consider these important questions:
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| 14 Mar 2023 | 158. An Effective Stepparenting Approach Focused on What Works — and What Doesn't | 00:54:39 | |
Stepparents typically have great intentions and high expectations around the role they'll play in their blended family. But it doesn't take long for them to realize how daunting stepparenting can actually be! When a well-meaning stepparent finds themselves frustrated with the pre-established patterns of how their new partner tends to parent, they often make an easy wrong turn… …they attempt to jump into directing and correcting. And when that approach backfires, it often leads to a whole lot of pushback and tension in the home — within the step relationships AND between the adults. Whether you've inadvertently made this easy wrong turn or if you're simply hoping to avoid it, we've to some good news! There are practical ways to more effectively embrace your role as a stepparent — even when you're feeling frustrated. In this episode, we'll be sharing some helpful strategies from an excellent resource specifically for stepparents. (And the great thing is, many of the concepts also apply to bio-parents.) Discover how you can avoid power struggles, reduce conflict, gain confidence, and work together to become effective parenting partners. You'll Discover:
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| 21 Mar 2023 | Simple Step: Building Trust with a Stepchild | 00:06:11 | |
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| 28 Mar 2023 | 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt | 00:47:38 | |
Stepparents want to feel connected in their blended family. They often invest their energy and efforts into serving with a genuinely hopeful heart. But frequently, we hear from heartbroken stepparents that are exhausted. They feel like they've tried everything to break through the barriers with a resistant stepchild. But nothing seems to be working and they're starting to lose hope. Their stepchild continues to treat them with disrespect, push them away, or even act as if they don't exist. These stepparents feel frustrated, confused, hurt, annoyed, angry and hopeless… …it's a painful place to be. But the truth is — there is hope! In this episode, we'll explore real-life strategies for a real-life struggle that multitudes of stepparents experience across the world. The struggle? Rejection. If you’re a stepparent who feels rejected by a stepchild you simply want to love, this episode is for you. Hop into the discussion to discover what you can do to hold onto hope and create an environment where connection and healthy bonds can emerge in your home — even with a resistant stepchild. You'll Discover:
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| 04 Apr 2023 | Simple Step: Build Meaningful Bonds with Your Stepchildren | 00:08:25 | |
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| 11 Apr 2023 | 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them Out | 00:39:10 | |
You've probably heard the advice to lower your expectations when you're blending a family. But what does that really mean? Does it mean you're supposed to keep the bar low and not expect much of anything? Or is there something more to this common advice for blended families? In this episode, we'll explore the difference between lowering your expectations altogether vs. developing achievable expectations for your family. I (Mike) struggled for years holding onto unrealistic expectations that added a whole lot of pressure and stress to our situation. Eventually, I realized that holding onto my own "dreams" and expecting everyone else to comply was taking us in the opposite direction of what I wanted. My high expectations were sabotaging our progress. But realizing this didn't mean I needed to give up on my hopes for our family — I really wanted good things for all of us. Listen in as Kim and I discuss how we eventually learned to get united, to set realistic expectations for our home, and make real progress toward those things we each wanted to experience in our blended family. You'll Discover:
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| 18 Apr 2023 | Simple Step: Setting Reasonable Behavioral Expectations | 00:05:47 | |
Want to join our virtual workshop called Stepfamilies that Make It! — simply click the link! Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 25 Apr 2023 | 161. How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification? [with Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema] | 01:02:03 | |
Kids and adults experienced losses in their journey from first family to blended family life. Of course, we all want to protect our kids, but the reality is those previous losses can place each of us at risk of developing relational dysfunction. This certainly isn't what any caring parent wants to hear… …but it's critical for all of us to be aware of how we can inadvertently slide into unhealthy roles with our kids. Sometimes well meaning, but misplaced boundaries can set the stage for relational dysfunction. One type of dysfunctional result has a name: Parentification. Whether you've heard about Parentification before or you have no idea what we're talking about, you'll want to pay attention to today's essential discussion with our expert guests. Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema are joining us in this episode to talk about what Parentification actually is, the ramifications of this dysfunction, and how to protect your kids by preserving their childhood. This is an informative conversation with deep insight that will help you identify and define healthy parent/child roles and establish appropriate boundaries in your home. You'll Discover:
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| 02 May 2023 | 162. How do Healthy Step-Parent/Step-Child Dynamics Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Step-Parentification? [with Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema] | 00:41:23 | |
Parentification is one thing — but Step-Parentification is unique to itself. In this episode, we'll continue our conversation with experts Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema to discuss the challenges of Step-Parentification. The reality is that kids whose parent has remarried are now navigating a relationship with a step-parent. Step-relationships can be tough for everyone involved. And navigating the expectations that come with new or not-yet-established relationships in the home can make any family susceptible to inadvertently slide into unhealthy roles or misplaced boundaries. No loving parent wants that for their kids — and neither does their caring step-parent. That's why it's important for all the adults to be aware of how blended family dynamics can often set the stage for Step-Parentification to emerge. Last week we talked with Ron and Lauren about Parentification, but step-parentification is an additional element we all need to understand so that we can avoid it. We're picking the conversation up right where we left off to help you identify and define healthy step-parent/step-child roles and establish appropriate boundaries in your home. You'll Discover:
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| 09 May 2023 | Simple Step: Mother's Day Tips for Husbands | 00:06:41 | |
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| 23 May 2023 | Simple Step: Intentional Steps Toward Success | 00:08:20 | |
To learn more about our Becoming Blended Program for nearly or newly blended couples OR our RelateStrong Program, click the link to schedule your FREE coaching call Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 16 May 2023 | 163. How Intentionality Helped One Couple to Accomplish a Successful Blend (with Special Guests Sean & Staci) | 00:48:56 | |
Have you ever wondered what it really takes to blend your family successfully? Whether you've been blending for years or you're just getting started, you're probably aware there are complex and difficult dynamics that come with the territory. Yet, you might not be sure what to do to lead your family forward. That's exactly where our special guests, Sean and Staci were 7 years ago when they fell in love and began moving toward marriage. They were aware that challenges would come with blending, but they weren't quite sure how they could navigate through them successfully. Listen in as Sean and Staci share the intentional steps they took to prepare and equip themselves to move their two families under one roof… …and how they continue to successfully face every challenge that comes their way — even now that they're more than 6 years into their blend. Discover how this couple intentionally 'beat the blending odds', by working together to build healthy bonds, safeguard their marriage and create a peaceful home for their blended family of six. You'll Discover:
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| 30 May 2023 | 164. A Practical Tool to Help You Stay Focused on Your Biggest Blended Family Challenge | 00:12:04 | |
Be sure to listen in on this quick episode to catch an important announcement and learn about the brand new Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz! Ready to hop into the Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz? Just click the link to get started. Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 05 Sep 2023 | 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life? | 00:40:45 | |
If you're like me (Mike), when you encounter a challenging situation, you're determined to successfully conquer it. You'll jump right in by engaging with lots of resources like books or podcasts — and reaching out for professional support if needed. You don't want to stay stuck and you're all about new learning and growth. But if this does NOT describe you, maybe you're more naturally like Kim. She tends to be more comfortable staying stuck in a challenge much longer than I am. She has her own unique perspectives on how to approach a challenge and moves at a different pace than me. Seeking and engaging in new learning is outside her comfort zone and she's more resistant to growth. The truth is that Kim WAS like this in our early years of blending. Her "fixed" mindset and my "growth" mindset put us in opposition to how to move forward in facing our challenges. And our different mindsets ended up creating even MORE challenging situations for us as a couple - it was difficult to stay united and we were often frustrated with each other. But eventually, we figured out how to overcome our opposing mindsets and work as a team to make real progress in our blended family challenges. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of mindset and offer practical tips for cultivating a growth mindset (which Kim has used over the years). We'll also share how we were able to get on the same page with growth while honoring our individual differences. You'll Discover:
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| 29 Aug 2023 | What we've learned this summer... | 00:11:39 | |
It's been an exciting few months of planning and preparing to better serve you. In this short episode, we'll share a bit about what we've each been learning. Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 12 Sep 2023 | 166. Empowering Benefits of a Blended Family Community — and How to Get Plugged In | 00:44:55 | |
Have the challenges of blending a family ever left you feeling alone? Maybe you've felt like you're the only one experiencing the unique realities of blended family life. Maybe you're struggling with parenting complexities and your friends just don't get it. Or communication is tense in your couple relationship and your extended family can't seem to understand why. Maybe the kids are acting out or shutting down and it's hard to explain to everyone around you. Or maybe there's ongoing chaos stirred up by a difficult Ex and everyone's "advice" doesn't seem to be helpful. The truth is, regardless of the challenges you're facing — you are NOT alone! In this episode, we're connecting with a couple from our blended family support community. Chris and Nicole are one of our founding members who felt "isolated" and "horrible" before getting connected to our community. Listen in to discover how a community of other blended couples can empower you to make a difference in your home — just like Chris and Nicole who didn't stay stuck in their pain and confusion. If you've ever felt alone in your blending journey, this is the episode for you. And who knows, you might discover that a community focused on growth, practical tools, and genuine support could be exactly what you're looking for. You'll Discover:
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| 19 Sep 2023 | Simple Step: Excelling Together | 00:07:27 | |
Ready to join the "Blending Together" community? Just click this link: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 26 Sep 2023 | 167. 3 Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family | 00:41:52 | |
Many of us tend to believe we need to quickly establish our couple relationship as the foundation of our home, right? And yes, that's the goal… …eventually. In a blended family, it's unrealistic to expect this to happen right away. And if you've been trying to "force it", you've probably run into all kinds of challenges. Successfully blending a family requires a well-thought-out strategy because the structure is simply different than a first family. This can be confusing and frustrating for blended couples who are ready to merge their family and make their relationship the foundation of their home. Why? Because it's just NOT as simple or easy as we think it should be. Often, our expectations and experiences seem to be at odds. Particularly when it comes to making decisions and prioritize our time, energy and resources. And, of course, our kids and step-kids have their own expectations as well. In this episode, we'll share 3 achievable strategies to appropriately prioritize your marriage to establish it as the foundation of your home. Understanding and managing these delicate dynamics is one of the most important aspects of blending. Doing this well can make or break the future of your relationship — and your family! You'll Discover:
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| 03 Oct 2023 | Simple Step: Barriers to Building Your Foundation | 00:07:25 | |
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| 10 Oct 2023 | 168 (Part 1) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 00:28:10 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
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| 11 Oct 2023 | 168 (Part 2) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 00:16:19 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
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| 12 Oct 2023 | 168 (Part 3) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 00:13:05 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
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| 13 Oct 2023 | 168 (Part 4) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 00:35:25 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
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| 17 Oct 2023 | Simple Step: When Emotion Coaching Might Not Be Appropriate | 00:05:02 | |
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| 24 Oct 2023 | 169. Real Insight and Advice for Remarried Parents AND Their Concerned Adult Children | 00:33:42 | |
Stepfamily expert Ron Deal says, "Never mind that your children are adults, this is a hard transition for them because it comes at a great cost". In this episode, we'll uncover the challenging family issues that often come up when a parent with adult children chooses to remarry or become romantically involved. We'll explore these sensitive issues from two unique perspectives. The perspective of the parent who is struggling to understand why their adult child is reacting emotionally to their decision to remarry… …AND… …from the perspective of the adult child who could be experiencing painful emotions as they struggle to accept their parent's remarriage. This episode is an opportunity for parent and adult child to help ease tensions, preserve your relationship, and take a step forward as a family. You'll Discover:
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| 31 Oct 2023 | Simple Step: Parent's Remarriage with Adult Children | 00:07:12 | |
Resources for this Episode Episode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 07 Nov 2023 | 170. Co-Parenting Pitfalls for Bio and Step Parents: How to Avoid "Milestone Mishaps" | 00:27:55 | |
You probably know that kids moving between two homes thrive when all the adults — in both homes — cooperate to create stability and peace. That's absolutely true. It's also true that the adults (both bio and step-parents) thrive when trust and consideration exist between homes and tension is low. But when it comes to the art of healthy co-parenting, talk is cheap. Misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and communication breakdowns are hard to avoid. And they tend to shatter the peace for kids and adults in the delicate dynamics of co-parenting. We all need more than just talk — or information about co-parenting. What we really need is transformation. And the great news is that transformation is possible! A few simple strategies and a little mindfulness go a long, long way in reducing drama and cultivating peaceful cooperation. You can proactively avoid and recover from the most common co-parenting pitfalls. In this episode, we share some helpful tips for both bio and step-parents to improve co-parenting relationships so that everyone can enjoy more cooperation and peace! You'll Discover:
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| 14 Nov 2023 | Simple Step: How to Improve Co-Parenting | 00:05:32 | |
As I mentioned in this Simple Step, we encourage you to head back to Episode 67 to dive into more ideas on how to live out this simple strategy in your co-parenting dynamic. Here's the link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/podcast/067 Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 21 Nov 2023 | 171. How to Experience More Fun, Connection, and Joy this Holiday Season [with Rich and Stacy] | 00:51:24 | |
Have you ever felt like the holidays in your blended family are fraught with more challenges than there should be? It might seem like when the holidays hit, you get bombarded with chaotic schedules and difficult negotiations with Exes. The kids have high expectations and so do you — which just adds to the pressure. Relational tension and stress seem all too common as blended families struggle to cope with holiday hang-ups and disappointments. But that's not the whole story… …it's also possible to experience fun, connection, and joy through the holidays. In this episode, you'll hear from our friends Rich and Stacy who have been blending their holiday experiences for 12 years. They'll share a few of their highs and lows and how they've learned to navigate the challenging dynamics of blended family holidays. Rich and Stacy offer some real-life strategies and mindset shifts that will help you to intentionally prepare for the holiday season with greater understanding, realistic expectations, flexibility, and the right perspective — without sweating the small stuff or getting hung up on having to get everything perfect! You'll Discover:
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| 28 Nov 2023 | Simple Step: Break Free From "Perfectionistic" Holiday Ideals | 00:09:57 | |
Resources from this Episode Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 05 Dec 2023 | 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences — And Get United | 00:51:13 | |
Does it feel like your partner's parenting style is impossibly different than yours? You really want to get on the same page, but your different approaches to parenting seem to rob you of the unity you're looking for. Maybe you find yourself in a cycle of conflict about parenting and it seems like you'll never find your way out. We felt the same way for years. Our different styles constantly tripped us up and prevented us from becoming the parenting partners we really wanted to be. But we've discovered 2 key elements that ended that cycle and united us around parenting. In this episode, we'll tell you exactly what those two elements are. Resources from this Episode:
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| 12 Dec 2023 | Simple Step: The Unpredictable Parenting Style | 00:05:41 | |
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| 19 Dec 2023 | 173. Expert Guidance for Holiday Success | 00:48:21 | |
You want to experience a little holiday magic and meaningful connection in your blended family, right? But the challenges and tensions that emerge for blended families during the holiday season often rob us of the bonding experience we're hoping for. High expectations, difficult emotions, and logistical complications seem to bombard everyone — particularly when it comes to managing transitions and blending traditions. In this episode, we're talking with Joneen Mackenzie and Lauren Reitsema about their personal stories of managing the holidays. They're a mother-daughter duo who've navigated divorce and blending. Now they offer their expert guidance to help others blend well, build genuine connections, and learn how to best support all the kids through change, loss, and grief. Lauren is the author of In Their Shoes, where she shares her experiences of living through her parent's divorce and later their remarriages. Together, Lauren and Joneen have co-authored a book called Relationship Essentials. Joneen founded The Center for Relationship Education where Lauren is currently serving as well. They both use their experience and expert knowledge to help others cultivate healthy dynamics and deeper connections in all their relationships. We're confident you'll find valuable insight from Joneen and Lauren's holiday hindsight and use it as foresight as you navigate your blended family holidays. Who knows? Maybe you'll get to experience a little more fun as you manage transitions and merge traditions in your blended family — and enjoy a little more magic this year! You'll Discover:
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| 26 Dec 2023 | Simple Step: Turning Setbacks into Real Growth | 00:08:00 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 02 Jan 2024 | 174. How to Raise Confident Kids by Building a Solid Foundation for Success in Life [with Special Guest Nellie Harden] | 01:05:59 | |
You want to raise kids who are equipped for success in life, right? You want them to have confidence, a sense of esteem, and worth. But this can feel like an unattainable goal in a world constantly sending mixed messages. Maybe you've felt hopeless when you add in the wake of complex family dynamics and trauma that may have occurred in your family along the way. But the truth is, it's not hopeless and your parental voice matters — even in those moments when it doesn't feel that way. Our expert guest in this episode, Nellie Harden, offers every parent real hope! She'll share some of her personal journey growing up in a blended family as well as parenting four girls, who are all currently teenagers. Her quest for healing and a desire to set her children up for success has brought her to where she is today — helping parents love and lead their teen/tween children in a way that teaches them to love and lead themselves while building a strong foundation of worth, esteem, and confidence. All before they launch into adulthood! If your goal is to equip your kids and stepkids with the foundation they'll need for success in life, then don't miss Nellie's insight, wisdom, and encouragement in this episode. You'll Discover:
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| 09 Jan 2024 | Simple Step: Effective Dialog with Tweens & Teens | 00:06:16 | |
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| 16 Jan 2024 | 175. 8 Tips to Protect Kids From Stress and Tension When Moving Between Homes | 00:40:26 | |
Children moving between two homes WANT one thing — to be connected to the people they love. And what they NEED most is to experience peace and freedom to simply enjoy time spent with each of their parents. This might seem simple, but many kids don't get what they want or need due to unhealthy co-parenting patterns. Most often, that leads to unnecessary stress and tension for kids. Why do we say it's unnecessary? Because parents and step-parents CAN make a difference and protect the kids. When you do your part to follow the 8 tips we share in this episode, you'll be setting your kids up for the best possible outcomes as they move between their two homes.
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| 23 Jan 2024 | Simple Step: Keeping Kids Out of the Middle | 00:07:50 | |
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| 30 Jan 2024 | 176. Uncover Your Relationship Style and Gain Hopeful Insights From Our Journey | 00:38:40 | |
Do you ever think about your romantic relationship now compared to what you'd really like to experience as a couple? If you ever wonder (or even feel hopeless) about how to make progress, you're in the right place today. Research reveals five different Relationship Styles based on a combination of things like communication habits, conflict resolution, parenting partnership, and finance management. In addition, aspects of leisure time, sexuality, friends and family, role sharing, and spiritual beliefs all play a part. The truth is that your romantic relationship has a unique combination of strengths and weaknesses across all of these aspects. Understanding your particular combination helps you discover where you are now and how to grow your relationship toward what you really want. As we look back over our journey, we've realized that different seasons of life have had a big impact on our marital experience and shifted our relationship style. In this episode, we'll unpack 5 Relationship Styles. We'll also share a few surprising and hopeful pieces of our story that might help you navigate the season you're in right now to reach your ideal relationship style! You'll Discover:
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| 06 Feb 2024 | 177. Unleash the Power of Friendship This Valentines Day and Beyond | 00:51:04 | |
Do you remember that vibrant sense of friendship you had early on in your relationship — the strong connection that created an irresistible longing just to be with each other? Isn't it crazy how the packed schedules, complex relationships, and differences of perspective, take you from irresistible to irritated in no time flat! It might leave you feeling more like business partners or roommates these days. Or worse yet, battling foes rather than friends. When real life happens, it can rob you of the closeness you once experienced and leave you feeling disconnected or dissatisfied — especially when your deepest needs aren't being met. In this episode, we'll share some of our journey and what it took to revive our friendship and save our marriage — even when we didn't like each other very much. The truth is, we all need to experience genuine friendship with our partner — it's a vital aspect of any relationship. As Valentine's Day approaches, it's time to intentionally grow your friendship and then focus on rekindling genuine connection each and every day beyond… You'll Discover:
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