Beyond the Monsters (Chell Bane)
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| 11 Feb 2025 | From Religious Cult to Dominatrix | 01:28:18 | |
Raven shares her powerful journey of self-discovery, resilience, and healing. Growing up within the strict Jehovah’s Witness religion, she faced trauma, identity suppression, and addiction, struggling to reconcile her true self with the confines of her upbringing. She courageously speaks about the deep scars left by multiple instances of sexual assault and the lasting impact of those experiences on her mental health. Throughout her story, she reflects on navigating family dynamics, sobriety, and the profound role of plant medicine in her recovery. She emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for consent, exploration, and self-discovery, especially within marginalized communities.
Raven also highlights her advocacy for the military, particularly the Marines, while shedding light on her experiences with complex romantic partnerships. In addition, Raven delves into her empowerment through the world of BDSM, emphasizing the significance of safety, trauma healing, and living authentically. She introduces her alter ego, Raven Roulette, who symbolizes her journey of reclaiming power and self-expression. She also shares her harrowing experience with an abusive partner who exploited her involvement in the BDSM world to manipulate and harm her.
Through writing and her upcoming book, Raven hopes to inspire others to confront their trauma, embrace mental health awareness, and find their voice. Her advocacy aims to provide resources for healing and create a supportive community where others can share their stories.
Raven’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/theravenroulette https://www.instagram.com/drippinginhope
Raven’s book - Releasing this Spring Dark Erotic Poetry Called "I Should Have Murdered You When I Had A Chance." Raising mental health awareness for Sex Workers & United States Armed Forces.
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use) 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 01 Dec 2024 | The Love Bomb Trap: Understanding Narcissists in a Relationship | 01:08:27 | |
In this episode, Chell and Kenna Bane take a deep dive into the intricate world of narcissism, drawing from their personal experiences to shed light on the challenges of navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals. They unpack the signs of narcissistic behavior, the dynamics of love bombing, and the emotional manipulation that often defines these toxic connections. The discussion also examines how narcissism affects self-esteem and emotional well-being, offering insights into the journey of healing, reclaiming self-worth, and breaking free from unhealthy cycles. *Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters Chapters 00:00 Understanding Narcissism: An Introduction 01:56 Personal Experiences with Narcissistic Relationships 12:12 The Cycle of Love Bombing and Manipulation 22:00 The Impact of Narcissism on Self-Perception 33:01 Healing and Moving Forward from Toxic Relationships 34:51 The Heroin Analogy: Emotional Dependency 37:48 The Impact of Emotional Abuse 39:10 The Cycle of Love and Pain 46:01 Recognizing Narcissistic Traits 50:26 Understanding Narcissism: Key Characteristics 01:01:24 Healing After a Narcissistic Relationship | |||
| 15 Feb 2025 | Two Year Old Child and Dog were Killed in a Car Crash | 01:20:41 | |
Naima Hill opens up about her profound journey through grief after the tragic loss of her daughter, Avy, and her beloved dog in a devastating car accident. She shares the raw reality of navigating immense sorrow, the challenges of finding support, and the ways in which society often falls short in offering empathy to those experiencing deep loss. In her quest to honor Avy’s memory, Naima turned her pain into purpose by founding a nonprofit dedicated to creating spaces that celebrate love and remembrance. She reflects on the contradictions of joy and sorrow, the weight of PTSD, and the complexities of moving forward while carrying the past. In this heartfelt conversation, Naima and Chell explore the impact of trauma and grief, the struggles of overprotection and fear, and the unpredictable stages of healing. They discuss the power of storytelling, the importance of community, and the ongoing journey of finding light amid the darkness. Naima’s resilience serves as a testament to the strength it takes to rebuild after loss, proving that even in the depths of grief, love and legacy can endure.
Avy’s Sunshine Tribe Foundation https://avyssunshinetribe.com/ https://www.instagram.com/avyssunshinetribe https://www.facebook.com/AvysSunshineTribe
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 14 Nov 2024 | Finding Strength in Sobriety: Addiction, Family, and the Path to Recovery | 00:49:58 | |
In this episode, Chell and Dan Bane explore Dan's powerful journey through addiction, tracing the early influences that led him toward substance abuse and the role of family dynamics in his story. Dan opens up about his experiences with various substances, pivotal moments that led him to seek help, and the ongoing challenges of maintaining sobriety amid life’s complexities. This honest and reflective conversation delves into the pain of regret, the deep impact of personal choices on relationships, and the steps toward healing and redemption. Dan discusses the downward spiral that followed the loss of a loved one, the turning points that brought him to sobriety, and the critical role of support systems and making amends in the recovery process. Through his story, this episode offers hope and encouragement to those facing similar struggles, illuminating the strength and resilience needed to rebuild a life in the wake of addiction.
Resources and Help Lines: National Drug Helpline: (844) 289-0879 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988 SAMHSA’s National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357) Find Treatment Search Engine: https://findtreatment.gov Find an AA Meeting Near You: https://www.aa.org/find-aa NA or AA Meeting Search Engine: https://betteraddictioncare.com/meetings/
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Journey of Sobriety 03:10 Early Beginnings of Addiction 05:59 The Escalation of Substance Use 08:58 The Impact of Family Dynamics 11:50 Transitioning into Adulthood and Drug Use 14:45 The Turning Point: Family and Responsibility 17:48 The Path to Sobriety Begins 20:48 Challenges of Early Sobriety 24:06 Living with Addiction: The Struggle Continues 27:29 The Weight of Regret 29:57 A Downward Spiral 34:25 The Turning Point 36:44 Navigating Recovery 40:34 The Journey of Amends 46:07 Words of Hope | |||
| 10 Apr 2025 | Husband’s First Wife Was Murdered, He Later Took His Life | 02:16:25 | |
Sarah Benedict shares her deeply personal and harrowing journey involving her late husband, Andrew, and the tragic murder of his first wife, Rachelle. She recounts the early years of their relationship, the challenges of young parenthood, and the shocking events that unfolded in their small town in Texas. As the story unravels, Sarah reflects on the devastating impact of Rachelle’s murder and the investigation that followed, touching on themes of trauma, justice, and the lasting scars of unresolved emotional pain. The episode explores the complex dynamics of small-town life, the ripple effects of violent loss, and the emotional toll of navigating mental health struggles within a relationship. Sarah speaks candidly about the weight of supporting a loved one in crisis, the heartbreaking moment of Andrew’s suicide, and her journey through grief, searching for meaning and closure. She highlights the vital role of town support, the power of truth in healing, and the transformative strength that can emerge from tragedy. Sarah also discusses the importance of addressing men’s mental health, breaking the silence around suicide, and supporting children and families through loss.
Project Unbroken
Forensic Files' episode covering Rachelle's case: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muPm136yF5I
Mental Health/S.A Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 06 Mar 2025 | Troubled Teen to Motivational Speaker with Nathan Wray | 01:26:23 | |
Nathan Wray's journey unfolds from being an "Air Force brat" to facing the harsh realities of bullying, substance abuse, and academic struggles. He reflects on the profound impact of his childhood experiences, the power of support and connection in education, and the invaluable lessons learned along the way. Emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication in both parenting and education, he highlights how these elements shape a child's path to success. His story delves into the consequences of past decisions, including a desperate escape from danger, a turning point with family, battles with sobriety, and the transformative experience of fatherhood. Coping with new responsibilities, financial hardships, and the resilience required to overcome adversity, he ultimately chooses purpose over pain, finding a fresh start in non-profit work. From personal struggles with substance use to becoming a passionate advocate for youth, Nathan sheds light on the importance of emotional regulation, strong support systems, and meaningful student engagement. Addressing the alarming rise of vaping among teenagers and the long-term effects of adverse childhood experiences on mental health, he underscores the significance of positive childhood experiences, the critical role of parental presence, and the lasting lessons from his father about preparation and performance.
Nathan’s Socials and Links https://www.nathanwrayspeaks.com https://www.facebook.com/nwrayspeaks https://www.instagram.com/thatnathanwray https://www.tiktok.com/@thatnathanwray https://www.gigsalad.com/nathan_wray_harriman
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 01 Apr 2025 | What It's Really Like for Women in Prison | 01:58:14 | |
Amie Ichikawa shares her remarkable transformation from incarceration to becoming the founder of the Woman II Woman organization. She opens up about her experiences behind bars, the emotional and psychological toll of prison life, and the difficult transition back into society. Through her story, Amie sheds light on the harsh realities faced by incarcerated women, the silent battles with PTSD, and the urgent need for mental health support. She also dives into the complex and often overlooked impact of gender self-ID laws on the safety and well-being of women in prison. Her insights reveal the systemic neglect, lack of proper healthcare, and legislative apathy that continue to endanger vulnerable populations within the justice system. Amie’s advocacy focuses on the need for reform, empathy, and accountability. She challenges the status quo, amplifies the voices of incarcerated women, and calls for stronger support systems and protections. *Trigger Warning: Discussion of SA and other explicit content *We support the trans community and respect their right to safety, identity, and inclusion! This discussion of concern is not directed at trans individuals, but at violent offenders who are abusing gender self-ID laws to cause harm.
Amie’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/ichix310 https://www.facebook.com/amie.ichikawa
Woman II Woman Organization https://www.facebook.com/WomaniiWomaninc https://www.instagram.com/womaniiwomaninc
Amie’s Articles of Support California rape case
Wisconsin
New York
https://nypost.com/2022/04/09/trans-serial-killer-harvey-marcelins-first-prison-interview/
New Jersey
Canada https://torontosun.com/news/national/hunter-whos-pushing-violent-trans-sex-killer-on-female-prisons
Baby case
Washington
Mental Health/S.A Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 14 Mar 2025 | Green Beret’s Reality of S.A, War, Addiction and Healing with Trevor Beaman Part 1 | 01:43:02 | |
Trevor Beaman is an active duty U.S. Army Green Beret, a husband, father, and a dedicated advocate for mental health and trauma awareness. He shares his journey from a difficult childhood marked by sexual abuse and dysfunction to the rigorous path of becoming a Special Forces soldier. He opens up about the harsh realities of war—witnessing extreme violence in Afghanistan, losing fellow soldiers, and grappling with the psychological toll of combat. Trevor discusses how these experiences compounded his struggles with mental health and substance abuse, forcing him to confront the lasting impact of both his military career and his past.
Trevor’s Links/Socials: Trevor’s book, No One Else Can See Your Fire: https://a.co/d/5sgQN5R Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trevor_a_beaman
Veteran PTSD Resources: https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ptsd/next-step.asp
Combat Call Center: (877)WAR-VETS
PTSD Foundation of America -Veteran Line: (877)717-PTSD
Mental Health/S.A Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 01 Feb 2025 | What They Never Told You About Adoption Trauma | 00:48:15 | |
Lorah Gerald discusses her experiences as a domestic adoptee and her advocacy for better mental health care for those affected by adoption. She highlights the hidden history of adoption, particularly the Baby Scoop Era, and its psychological impacts on adoptees. Lorah emphasizes the importance of healing for both adoptees and adoptive parents, the ethical concerns surrounding the adoption industry, and the need for education and awareness about adoption trauma. She also shares her journey into yoga and how it serves as a tool for healing and community support.
https://lorahgerald.com/classes-%26-merch Code: Free Class
Adoptee Resources on Lorah’s Site https://lorahgerald.com/adoptee-resources
Lorah’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/theadoptedchameleon https://www.facebook.com/TheAdoptedChameleon https://www.tiktok.com/@theadoptedchameleon
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters 00:00 Lorah Gerald's Background and Adoption Experience 04:25 The Hidden History of Adoption 09:24 The Baby Scoop Era and Its Impact 14:16 Trauma and Mental Health in Adoptees 19:07 The Adoption Industry and Its Challenges 24:14 The Importance of Understanding Adoption Dynamics 25:24 The Trauma of Birth and Adoption 28:52 Coercive Tactics in Adoption 31:10 The Impact of DNA Testing on Identity 33:30 Understanding Adoption Trauma 35:57 Generational Trauma and Foster Care 39:12 Healing Through Yoga and Mindfulness 43:31 Finding the Right Support in Mental Health
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 09 Mar 2025 | Sexual Trauma and Sex Therapy with Emma Smith, PhD | 01:14:43 | |
Emma Smith, a licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, shares her expertise in working with survivors of sexual trauma. She explores the crucial role of consent in therapy, the challenges trauma survivors face, and the diverse therapeutic approaches she employs to support healing. Emma also examines the profound influence of societal norms—such as purity culture—on individuals’ experiences of trauma, emphasizing the importance of trust and collaboration in the therapeutic process.
In this compelling conversation, Emma and Chell navigate key aspects of sexual health, trauma, and therapy. They discuss the delicate dynamics of couples therapy—particularly in the context of trauma and infidelity—and the transformative journey from trauma to post-traumatic growth. Emma underscores the significance of specialized training in sex therapy, the exploration of sexual fantasies in a therapeutic setting, and the importance of finding the right therapist. Cultural influences on relationships also take center stage, offering a deeper understanding of how personal and societal narratives shape individual healing and intimacy.
Emma’s Socials and Contact https://www.instagram.com/emmasmithphd https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/emma-j-smith-nashville-tn/443578 https://linktr.ee/EmmaSmithPhD Emma’s Website: https://soliloquie.co/
Sexual Assault Resources:
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673 https://rainn.org/consulting-services/Crisis-Support
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use) 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 23 Nov 2024 | Growing Up with the Loss of a Parent | 01:19:17 | |
In this deeply personal episode, host Chell Bane sits down with Kenna to explore her experience of growing up without her father, who passed away when she was just six months old. Together, they delve into the complexities of grief, the unique challenges of losing a parent before forming memories, and the emotional development that stems from such loss. Kenna reflects on how her father’s absence shaped her identity, relationships, and coping mechanisms, including humor and introspection. Chell and Kenna also discuss the broader impacts of loss, from navigating family dynamics to understanding codependency, independence, and emotional healing. This conversation shines a light on the importance of processing grief, maintaining open communication in relationships, and finding strength in vulnerability. Through raw and heartfelt dialogue, the episode offers insights into the ongoing journey of healing and the profound ways loss can shape a person’s life. *Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters 00:00 Navigating Loss: A Personal Journey 05:20 Understanding Grief: Growing Up Without a Father 21:47 Coping Mechanisms: Humor and Reflection 36:21 Emotional Development: The Impact of Absence 40:10 Navigating Codependency and Independence 45:07 Understanding Grief and Loss 49:51 The Impact of Absence on Relationships 55:13 Communication Styles in Relationships 59:47 Reflections on Parenting and Growing Up 01:10:14 The Complexity of Grief and Healing | |||
| 20 Dec 2024 | Church Trauma: The Hard Truths of Faith and Life Beyond the Bubble | 00:56:25 | |
In this powerful conversation, Melissa Greene opens up about her journey through church trauma, sharing her experiences of growing up in a conservative megachurch shaped by fear-based teachings. She reflects on how these doctrines influenced her childhood, her moments of doubt and questioning during college, and the transformative power of travel and personal growth in expanding her perspectives. Melissa dives into the complexities of confronting privilege, navigating LGBTQ+ inclusion within the church, and embracing compassion and understanding as pillars of spirituality.
She also discusses her time in the contemporary Christian music scene, the challenges of fostering inclusivity within faith communities, and the importance of accountability in leadership. Melissa shares her bold decision to leave a church and create Imaginarium, a non-profit organization focused on building a non-hierarchical, inclusive spiritual community. The conversation touches on the profound impact of prison ministry and the belief in the inherent worth of every individual, regardless of their past.
This episode is an inspiring exploration of faith, growth, and the pursuit of authentic spirituality. Please excuse our audio quality towards the end of the episode!
Evergreen Christmas Concert in Nashville, TN on December 23rd
Melissa’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/melissagreene https://linktr.ee/melissagreene https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWQpP8gHH7vew99LcQJs3Og
Imaginarium Foundation https://www.instagram.com/weareimaginarium https://www.facebook.com/ImaginariumCommunity
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Church Trauma 02:54 Melissa's Journey in the Church 06:04 Fear-Based Teachings and Their Impact 09:05 The Us vs. Them Mentality 11:49 Questioning Beliefs in College 14:55 Traveling and Expanding Perspectives 18:09 Confronting Privilege and Theology 20:45 Experiences in Africa and Their Lessons 23:59 Finding Love and New Beginnings 27:06 Confronting LGBTQ+ Issues in Faith 27:55 Navigating Faith and Identity 30:13 The Shift Towards Inclusivity in Faith Communities 35:45 Challenges of Leadership and Accountability 42:15 The Birth of a Non-Profit: Imaginarium 48:18 Transformative Experiences in Prison Ministry
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 05 Feb 2025 | Spiritual Mediumship, Scientology Rehab, and Psychosis | 00:43:44 | |
Sarah Marie shares her journey through trauma, addiction, and mental health struggles, describing how growing up in a small town where secrets were hidden left her feeling vulnerable and fearful. She opens up about her battles with addiction, bulimia nervosa, and episodes of psychosis, which deeply impacted her life. Once a successful spiritual medium with a social media following, Sarah’s declining mental health led her to step away from her business and public presence, leaving her followers wondering what had happened. After navigating various rehabilitation programs, including a Scientology-based center, she found the right support to begin healing. Sarah emphasizes the power of Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS), the importance of facing emotional triggers, and the need to cultivate healthy internal systems. Now focused on helping others, she shares a message of resilience and hope, encouraging those who feel broken to believe in the possibility of recovery and transformation.
Sarah’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/sarahmariecollective https://www.sarahmariecollective.com COMING SOON! Sarah will have a free safety plan workbook for people to download on her website!
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sarah Marie's Journey 02:02 The Impact of Small Town Secrets 04:59 Teenage Rebellion and Struggles 09:56 Rock Bottom and Unconventional Rehab 15:08 The Turning Point: Mental Health Care 20:55 Discovering Healing Through Internal Family Systems 22:38 Creating Change Through Internal Systems 29:19 Understanding Triggers and Embracing Emotions 34:00 Building Systems for Collective Healing 39:56 Vulnerability and the Power of Sharing Stories
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 14 Dec 2024 | Reddit Stories: Cheaters Edition | 01:01:04 | |
In this episode, we dive into some of the craziest Reddit stories about infidelity and family drama. From a husband discovering his wife is cheating on him with his son to a father’s shocking betrayal of his dying wife, we explore the messy, emotional fallout of these situations. There’s even a wild tale involving a girlfriend and a rapper that you won’t believe. Join us as we unpack the chaos, share our thoughts on love and loyalty, and find some humor in the absurdity of it all.
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
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| 08 Feb 2025 | Groomed into Marriage and a Cult | 02:00:03 | |
Holly Buss shares her powerful journey of overcoming emotional abuse, manipulation, and religious grooming. She recounts how, as a high school student, she was groomed by an older man—her teacher—into the beliefs of Reformed Christian Reconstructionism, as well as into a marriage that was marked by control and emotional turmoil. This experience of religious and psychological manipulation left her isolated, particularly during motherhood, as she struggled with severe mental health challenges. Holly reflects on her fight to reclaim her identity and protect her children from her ex-husband’s manipulative behavior, highlighting the emotional and legal battles she endured.
The conversation explores the challenges women face when navigating a biased legal system, particularly survivors of trauma. Holly emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, documentation, and community support in overcoming these obstacles. Holly and Chell also discuss the complexities of parenting after separation, the need for self-care and healing, and the importance of strong support networks and safe spaces to empower women to rebuild their lives and reclaim their voices.
National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 Find local resources: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/domestic-violence-local-resources/
Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Center
U.S Department of Justice’s Legal Assistance for Victims Program: https://www.justice.gov/ovw/legal-assistance-victims-program
Safe Horizon’s Legal and Court Help: https://www.safehorizon.org/our-services/legal-and-court-help/
Resources for assistance - financial, housing, necessities, food, etc. https://www.domesticshelters.org
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Holly's Story 06:04 Grooming and Manipulation 10:00 Courtship and Control 15:52 Marriage and Realization 21:50 Motherhood and Survival 32:56 Recognizing Emotional Abuse 34:51 Planning an Escape 36:37 The Fallout of Divorce 41:24 Escalation of Abuse 48:03 Finding Relief and New Beginnings 51:12 The Cost of Justice 54:30 The Turning Point in Court 01:00:35 Empowerment Through Legal Knowledge 01:04:21 Navigating the Costs of Justice 01:10:43 The Importance of Documentation 01:12:18 Finding Support and Community 01:16:28 The Impact of Courtroom Bias 01:24:39 The Role of Empathy in Justice 01:34:45 Navigating Parenting After Separation 01:41:40 The Importance of Self-Care and Healing 01:45:08 Empowering Women in Crisis 01:51:31 Funding the Fight Against Abuse
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 27 Feb 2025 | Fatal DUI, Prison, and Sister’s Suicide | 01:53:17 | |
Tessa Jennings shares her deeply personal journey through mental health struggles, addiction, loss, and redemption after a tragic DUI accident that took a life and led to her imprisonment. She opens up about the emotional and legal consequences of her actions, the overwhelming guilt she carried, and the societal judgment she faced. As she navigated the hardships of incarceration, she also endured the devastating loss of her sister to suicide, highlighting the painful intersections of grief, mental health struggles, and the failures of the mental health system. Tessa reflects on her path to healing, the coping mechanisms that helped her—including skydiving—and the difficulties of rebuilding her life after prison. She discusses the importance of self-discovery, authenticity, and using her experiences to raise awareness about addiction, mental health, and the power of second chances. Through her story, she hopes to inspire others to find meaning in their struggles and to advocate for compassion and change.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use) 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
Drunk Driving Prevention Resource https://www.responsibility.org/end-impaired-driving
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 10 Nov 2024 | Navigating Grief: Finding Hope and Healing During the Holiday Season | 00:24:22 | |
Please excuse our camera quality on Kenna, the trial and errors of getting started lol In this heartfelt conversation, Chell and Kenna Bane discuss the profound impact of grief and loss during the holiday season. They share their personal experiences with loss, particularly the death of a loved one, and how it has shaped their approach to celebrating holidays. The discussion highlights the importance of community support, the challenges of seasonal depression, and the need for intentional outreach to those who may be struggling. They emphasize that grief is a personal journey that doesn't adhere to a timeline and that everyone deserves to feel included and valued, especially during difficult times. *Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. Chapters 00:00 Navigating Grief During the Holidays 13:07 The Impact of Seasonal Depression 22:08 Building Community and Connection
Host: Chell Bane Instagram: @BeyondtheMonsters | |||
| 21 Mar 2025 | Green Beret’s Reality of S.A, War, Addiction and Healing with Trevor Beaman Part 2 | 01:09:03 | |
In part two of his powerful story, Trevor Beaman opens up about his journey through substance abuse, mental health struggles, and the impact of military life on his personal relationships. He reflects on the turning points that led him to seek help, asking for support within the military, and the realizations that came during deployments. Trevor also shares his transition to a new life in Key West and his path to healing through therapies like EMDR and ketamine treatment. This episode explores themes of healing, self-love, and the lasting effects of trauma on identity, parenting, and connection. It highlights the transformative power of therapy, the importance of community, and how sharing our stories can spark purpose, resilience, and generational change.
Trevor’s Links/Socials: Trevor’s book, No One Else Can See Your Fire: https://a.co/d/5sgQN5R Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trevor_a_beaman
Veteran PTSD Resources: https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/ptsd/next-step.asp
Combat Call Center: (877)WAR-VETS
PTSD Foundation of America -Veteran Line: (877)717-PTSD
Mental Health/S.A Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 31 Jan 2025 | Surviving Childhood Sexual Abuse with Seth Gehle | 02:17:05 | |
In this powerful and deeply moving conversation, Chell sits down with Seth Gehle to uncover his journey from a childhood marked by relentless trauma and sexual abuse to becoming a published author and motivational speaker. Seth courageously shares his story of growing up in a chaotic and dysfunctional home shaped by addiction, neglect, and manipulation. He reveals the profound impact of the ongoing sexual abuse he endured at the hands of a trusted adult, the silence and shame that followed, and the lasting scars it left on his sense of self.
Through raw and vulnerable storytelling, Seth reflects on his rebellious youth, the betrayal of those he should have been able to trust, and the critical turning points that shaped his resilience. He delves into the complex emotional battles he faced, including the struggle to recognize manipulation and the difficult path to seeking help and reporting his abuser. Mentorship became a lifeline, guiding him through some of his darkest moments as he worked toward healing and survival.
Together, Chell and Seth explore the psychological weight of sexual abuse trauma—its lasting effects on trust, identity, and emotional well-being—and emphasize the importance of embracing vulnerability in the healing process. They discuss breaking the silence, confronting shame, and the role of therapy and self-compassion in overcoming the long-term effects of abuse.
Seth’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/seth_gehle?igsh=M2J0Y21tNGdlYXZu https://www.youtube.com/@sethgehle https://www.facebook.com/share/1Uwjt6kSab/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Seth’s book: Strength Beyond the Shadows
Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
National Sexual Assault Hotline RAINN 800-656-4673
Sexual Assault Crisis Text Line 741741 https://www.crisistextline.org
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Seth Gehle and His Story 01:33 Seth's Childhood and Family Dynamics 05:20 Abuse and Neglect in Early Life 09:14 The Impact of a Dysfunctional Home 16:25 The Role of Foster Care and Its Challenges 18:41 Rebellion and Troubled Youth 27:07 Finding a Mentor Amidst Chaos 31:46 The Betrayal of Trust and Abuse 42:29 Manipulation and Control in Relationships 45:30 The Complexity of Sexual Abuse 52:53 Resilience Amidst Trauma 57:34 Hope and the Will to Overcome 01:12:01 The Complexity of Manipulation 01:25:17 The Turning Point: Reporting the Abuse 01:35:39 Life After Trauma: Military and Healing 01:40:17 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help 01:42:28 Embracing Shame and Vulnerability 01:43:32 The Power of Being Triggered 01:53:19 The Importance of Sharing Your Story 01:57:04 Spring Cleaning for the Mind 02:00:19 The Decision to Heal 02:05:09 The Role of Empathy in Healing 02:06:59 The Courage to Share Your Story
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 07 Apr 2025 | Being MLM Exec Jessie Lee’s Assistant During Her Stage 4 Cancer Battle | 01:02:05 | |
Carissa shares how her spark for life was reignited after meeting and working closely with powerhouse entrepreneur Jessie Lee Ward, who was navigating a Stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis. As Jessie’s personal assistant, Carissa found herself transformed—not just by the challenges they faced together, but by Jessie’s relentless spirit, drive, and vulnerability. In this powerful episode, Carissa opens up about overcoming chronic depression and anxiety, the deep impact of friendship, and how loss became a catalyst for purpose. She reflects on the importance of emotional honesty with her daughter, rebuilding after separation, and the courage it takes to be authentic while starting a new chapter.
Carissa’s Socials https://www.instagram.com/carissalovesu/ https://www.youtube.com/@carissalovesu
Jessie Lee’s https://www.instagram.com/imbosslee/ https://www.youtube.com/@Imbosslee https://www.tiktok.com/@imbosslee?lang=en
Mental Health/S.A Resources: Suicide and Crisis Lifeline 988
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters/ https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||
| 05 Dec 2024 | The Connection Between a Love for Horror Movies and Trauma | 00:51:03 | |
In this conversation, we explore the intriguing relationship between trauma survivors and their unique affinity for horror movies. We discuss how horror films provide a sense of control over fear, offering a safe space to confront intense emotions. The discussion dives into the psychological and physiological responses evoked by scary movies, showcasing their potential for cathartic release and the grounding, empowering effect they can have for those with trauma. We examine why these films resonate so deeply with trauma survivors, shedding light on the complex interplay between fear, resilience, and emotional healing. Additionally, we analyze how horror films can mirror real-life fears and traumas, serving as both a connection point and, for some, a source of discomfort. By discussing the duality of these responses, we highlight how some trauma survivors find solace and empowerment in facing fears, while others may experience retraumatization. Hypervigilance and the influence of real-life fears also take center stage, underscoring the importance of understanding personal limits when engaging with horror content. *Trigger Warning: Brief mention of SA scenes in movies*
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health.
Instagram: www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters
Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Trauma and Horror Movies 08:54 The Connection Between Trauma and Horror 13:07 Understanding the Appeal of Scary Movies 22:11 Psychological and Physical Reactions to Fear 24:02 The Aftermath: Relief and Reflection 25:29 Exploring Darkness in Horror Films 28:40 The Symbolism of Fear and Trauma 35:31 The Duality of Trauma Responses to Horror 39:59 Hypervigilance and Real-Life Fears 43:53 Understanding Personal Limits with Scary Movies | |||
| 22 Feb 2025 | A Taxi Ride Made Me a Widow | 01:08:35 | |
Chell, the host, shares her deeply personal journey through trauma, love, and loss. In order to help other widows, she opens up about the heartbreaking experience of losing her first husband due to a tragic drunken night that ultimately led to the accident. She reflects on past experiences—including tumultuous relationships and the weight of generational trauma—that have shaped her life. Chell candidly recounts the events of the accident, the emergency response, and the heart-wrenching decisions that followed. Her story stands as a testament to resilience and the complex process of healing from profound grief. Through her narrative, Chell illuminates the emotional struggles of widowhood, the challenges of societal judgment, and the transformative power of empathy and support. Her reflections on the raw realities of grief and personal healing aim to offer comfort and understanding to others navigating similar journeys.
SAMHSA’s National Helpline (mental health and/or substance use) 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Beyond the Monsters Socials https://www.instagram.com/beyondthemonsters https://linktr.ee/BeyondtheMonsters
*Disclaimer: The content shared on this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The discussions and experiences shared are based on our personal stories and opinions. This is not medical advice, and it should not be used as a substitute for professional medical guidance. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for any concerns or questions regarding your health. | |||