becomng with Nick Slater (Nick Slater)

Today we're joined by ex-nightclub owner, promoter, booze mogul and interesting human Danny Grant.

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Zoë and Nick (mostly Nick) seriously question their commitment to a 30-day no alcohol, sugar, gluten, dairy or anything fun cleanse. Although, has Nick already cracked?

We also talk about our new ebook becomng Magnetic and the Art of a Good Breakup. You can find the ebook here: www.becomng.com/ebook

I drag Zoë' onto the Pod to talk relationships. In this episode, we answer a bunch of amazing questions we received on Instagram stories, including: - How did we meet? - What are our attachment styles? - What's our erotic blueprint? - How we keep the spark alive? And lots more. Enjoy!

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Victoria Sinis worked at an OnlyFans management company where it was her job to recruit and manage content creators. She lasted a mere 5 weeks once she saw behind the scenes and became disgusted by the realities of the industry. Now Vic is on a mission to educate and protect young women. Learn more about Victoria’s mission here. Victoria’s Instagram

Thomas Malucelli is a former Bachelor, lifestyle coach and holistic wellness advocate. Thomas has gone through a remarkable transformation. From living as a burnt out, stressed out restaurant manager with a gut to winning fitness competitions around the world and now inspiring others with his holistic approach to wellness In this interview: - What really happens on the Bachelor - How the show changed him - How much is real vs fake? - Whether he’s in touch with other girls from the show And then we head into the topics which light us up the most: - Manifesting - Morning routines - How to move in flow with the universe Do me a favour and hit subscribe and jump across to YouTube if you’d prefer video.

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Dom is the author of 3 best selling books including Crappy to Happy, Stay the course and Going North, Tips and Techniques to Advance Yourself. Dom is also the host of the Going North podcast which has been voted amongst the top 10 self-improvement podcasts in the world. Living by the mantra, 'Advance Others to Advance Yourself, Dom has become a powerhouse of leadership and personal development. What comes through in this conversation is Dom’s unwavering belief in giving back and spreading positivity. We learn about the most valuable lessons Dom has learned after interviewing over 700 authors and why we should all have a side-hustle in today’s digital economy. If you haven’t already, help me make friends with the algorithm by giving this episode a 'like and subscribe' and stick around for the wrap-up after my fun conversation with Domnique Brightmon.

Welcome back to Becomng! In today’s episode, Zoë and I dive deep into love languages—the secret cheat code to building intimacy and strengthening your relationship, emotionally and physically. 💕 We’re covering: 👉 What love languages are and why they matter 👉 Practical ways to apply them to improve connection with your partner 👉 How understanding love languages can reignite the spark 🔥 We’re also answering your amazing Instagram poll questions, like: 💬 How can I use love languages in foreplay? 🛠️ What if my partner doesn’t understand their own love language? ❤️ Can love languages change over time? Whether you’re feeling disconnected or want to level up your relationship, this episode is packed with actionable tips, personal stories, and real talk to help you express love in ways that truly resonate. 🎙 Plus, Zoë joins me as the new co-host! Expect more deep-dive episodes every week, focusing on relationships, self-improvement, and navigating modern love. Key Topics: 1️⃣ What are love languages? 2️⃣ Why they’re a game-changer for intimacy 3️⃣ Real-life examples for each love language 4️⃣ How love languages can evolve in different stages of life Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes and let us know in the comments which love language resonates with you the most! 👉 Follow us on Instagram @nick.slater @Zoemarkell for Q&A polls and updates! #LoveLanguages #Relationships #BecomingPodcast

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Sara Kuburic is an existential psychotherapist, who you might know as Millennial Therapist on Instagram. When Sara's not writing for her community of 1.5 million followers, she pens an article in USA today and has just finished her first book, It’s On Me. Sara is firing on all cylinders and has created a meaningful and interesting life for herself, while adding tremendous value for others. In this conversation, we traverse the subjects of relationships and meaning sprinkled with self-care and manifestation. Please enjoy this wide-ranging chat with Sara Kuburic.

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You’ll know Danny Clayton from Channel V where he ruled our TV screens for many years. These days, in his words, he does whatever puts a smile on his face. Whether that’s MCing, Djing, content creation or getting in his budgies smugglers to swim across the ocean, he’s a vibrant chap with a gift for storytelling. In this chat you’ll hear some hilarious stories from Danny’s Channel V days, we talk about how social media has shaped the music industry and get an idea about what makes Danny Tick. Stick around for my wrap-up after this great yarn with my mate Danny Clayton.

Don’t you love it when you stumble upon a creator whose content just smacks you in the face with super relatable ahah moments? That’s what happened when I found Annabel's Glasses.

Annabel is a Bondi-based Psycho-Kiniseologist, Himalayan Kriya Yoga instructor and lifestyle coach. Her content is all about emotional regulation, yoga, manifesting and all of that wonderful stuff!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to re-write limiting beliefs and using courage to step towards your potential.
• Where specific emotions are held in your body and what we can do to release them.
• The magic of Himalayan Kriya Yoga.
• Love languages and how we can better receive love!
• The power of breathwork and the one small habit we can do everyday which is guaranteed to supercharge your morning.

Please help me make friends with the algorithm and hit that subscribe button and remember stick around for my wrap-up after this informative conversation with the lovely Annabel's Glasses.

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Today we’re joined by Jem Fuller.

Jem spent his twenties seeking adventure and backpacked all over the world. In his thirties, he came back to Australia to start a family and grew into a successful career. From the outside, he had it all. But as you’ll learn in this conversation, everything fell apart.

 

Jem went through a remarkable transformation (his mid-life Awakening) which led him to write his first book ‘The Art of Conscious Communication for Thoughtful Men’. And in this conversation Jem shares some of that wisdom.

 

We talk about:

 

• How mindful moments throughout the day can improve your performance at work by shifting your mode from DOING to BEING.
• Simple ways for men to start opening more to their partner 
• How to get your kids to talk about emotions
• And why detaching from ego is key to discussing sensitive topics like the conflict in the Middle East

 

I honestly think you’ll love this episode with Jem, it’s wide-ranging, thought-inspiring and full of actionable takeaways.

 

Please enjoy becomng Jem Fuller.

A huge thanks to Liv for coming on and sharing her wisdom! You can find Liv on Instagram and TikTok OR check out her course and newsletter here.

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You can also watch this on YouTube Join our Facebook group, The Village Follow Nick on Instagram Follow becomng on Instagram Jeremy Lipkowitz overcame porn addiction and now helps thousands of men, all around the world, escape the grip of porn addiction. In this episode: - The normalisation of porn in society - How it has conditioned our beliefs around intimacy - How it can create an emotional divide between partners - How it affects men and women's performance in the bedroom - The rise of OnlyFans - Is porn cheating - And how our life changes when we quit For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness. Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation. I’m so excited for you to listen to this one, Jeremy is a fantastic communicator and as you’ll hear, his advice around quitting isn’t just applicable to porn addiction, but also applies to any vice or addiction you might be grappling with.

Jordan Candlish is a man living intentionally. 6 years ago, he bailed on his accounting career to persue something a little more alligned with his values. He is now travelling world, working as a performance coach, helping men in particular, get out of their heads and back to their hearts. You can also watch this video on ⁠YouTube⁠. I first came across Jordan on Instagram where he shares very clever content challenging men to think about how they’re behaving in relationships and offers practical tools to help process emotion and stress. I love this episode. It embodies what becomng is all about - creating space in our life, stepping into alignment with our values and nurturing a spiritual practice to become our potential. We cover ground, discussing some strategies around: dealing with a mind that always wants more spiritual practices and the power of just ‘be’ing balancing high performance with fun and how travel is inspiration for designing our ultimate lifestyle I hope you enjoy this conversation and remember to stick around for my wrap-up afterwards where I discuss the conversation and provide a little life update. Enjoy, the charming, intelligent and very mindful Jordan Candlish.

Is it possible to keep the spark alive long-term? So many couples struggle with intimacy fading over time - but why does it happen, and what can we do about it? In this episode, we break it down.

Christian Van Camp is a Holistic Lifestyle Coach specialising in nutrition, energy and performance. You may have come across Christian on Instagram where he shares fun and informative Reels challenging his audience to re-think how to eat, move and live.

There’s a wealth of information in this episode. Pull out the notebook for some practical takeaways on nutrition, mindfulness and movement as well as some life-altering insights around gratitude and how to live in harmony with our bodies.

Remember to stick around for my wrap-up at the end of this captivating and insightful discussion with Christian Van Camp.

This conversation is also available on YouTube and if you haven't already, consider liking and subscribing.

Liv Phyland is a TV presenter, MC and lifestyle coach. She’s also my ex and despite that, we share a great friendship. Liv and I ran into eachother at the beach the other day and I thought why not jump on the pod where we can dig into some of the wonderful things Liv is doing in the coaching space, as well addressing why our relationship didn’t work. I’m kidding. BUT we did have a super fun conversation, covering Liv’s country roots, the hilarious way she got into TV and unpacked some of the strategies she uses to overcome obstacles nurture her mental health. This was also the first episode I’ve recorded in person so jump across to YouTube if you’d prefer video. Please enjoy this wide-ranging conversation with my dear friend Liv Phyland.

How often are you breathing through your nose? As you’re about to learn, nasal breathing, can have a profound impact on your wellbeing. Dean Gladstone, an OG Bondi Rescue Lifeguard , has devoted his life to breath. Besides working as a lifegaurd, Dean’s purpose is to help people manage stress. His workshop, Power of the Breath, has reached tens of thousands of people globally and you can download his app, of the same name, free of charge here: https://apps.apple.com/au/app/power-of-the-breath/id1587665426 in today’s conversation, Dean discusses the link between nasal breathing and deep sleep and why taping your mouth during sleep can lead to an increase in energy and vitality. We talk about breathwork in sport and the NRL team Dean’s been working with lately He also provides pratical tools to help youWe unwind at night and have deeper sleep. So grab a tea, coffee, sit back and enjoy becomng Dean Gladstone.

Scott Tweedie is a presenter, producer and breakfast connoisseur. After recently co-hosting Australian Idol, today we find Scott in Venice beach taking on Hollywood. But no doubt, his biggest achievement to-date was being crowned house captain in high school. Scott was the year above me at school where he was a real 'man of the people' and in this conversation we learn that nothing changed. Tweeds has an infectious enthusiasm and innate ability to squeeze joy out of every moment. In this episode, we cover Scott's current projects, how he manages uncertainty and doubt, moving to New York just before covid hit and we even touch on Tweed's skincare routine. Enjoy this very fun conversation with one of the "Brown Snake's" greatest exports, Scott Tweedie. You can also find this episode on YouTube.

Katie Williams is a former Australian sprinter, Big Brother Contestant and host of the 'Better For It' podcast. In this episode: - The specific tools and practices which help Katie nurture her energy - We talk about ways to cultivate an abundance mindset - Katie’s recent ADHD diagnosis and regulation techniques which might help you - Why flexibility with a morning routine is so important - The Pro’s and Con’s of working in Social Media - And we also talk about Katie’s sexuality, the differences between dating a man and a woman and her advice around sexual acceptance. If you haven't already, please consider subscribing to help my Podcast grow! You can also find this episode on YouTube.

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In this episode of becomng, we’re diving into the toxic dating games that keep people stuck in frustrating, confusing situationships.

From waiting hours to text back to ghosting, fake future plans, and playing the numbers game, we’re calling it all out. 🚩

Navigating the world of modern dating and relationships can be tricky, especially when red flags come into play.

Are they deal breakers or simply quirks you can work through?

In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest questions around dating red flags, relationship boundaries, toxic traits, and when to compromise versus when to walk away. We cover:

• Manipulation in intimacy and emotional control. • Financial red flags like stingy habits or controlling money dynamics. • Trust issues, including social media behavior and boundary violations. • Subtle signs of toxic relationships, such as love bombing, low emotional intelligence, or controlling tendencies. We also share listener stories, unpack the spectrum of red flags, and even laugh about some of the trivial ones (dirty bed sheets, anyone?)

Whether you’re navigating a new relationship or reevaluating an existing one, this episode provides actionable advice to help you build healthier connections and avoid heartbreak.

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Tom ‘Hookie’ Nash is an Australian icon. After contracting a life-threatening illness at the age of 19, Tom became a quadruple amputee. But what makes Hookie special is the incredible growth mindset he articulates through a wickedly-dark sense of humour.

Read Hookies "unexpected" memoir Hook Line and Sinner

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Chloe Mascord is an Intimacy Coach and host of the Honey Ed podcast, where she shares short episodes PACKED with value on sex and intimacy. Today we receive a free session with Chloe as she kindly coaches us through some of the most common issues she works through with her clients: - How to boost libiddo and reclaim your sexual power - How to approach sensitive conversations with your partner - What to do if your partner doesn’t want sex - The value in organising a ‘sex date’ - The specific tool we can use to heighten our senses in the bedroom - Navigating changes after having children This episode is sponsored by Eight Sleep www.eightsleep.com

Jake and Callan of Corrective Culture are changing the world one parasite at a time. More on that in a bit.   Today on becomng, two holistic health practitioners who have setup a practice on the Sunny Coast. But as you’ll learn in this conversation, what they’re building is much bigger.   Corrective Culture are kind of like a holistic version of The Inspired Unemployed, who share their value in an authentic, raw and unfiltered approach.   In Today’s chat, we cover some really interesting topics such as:   Why are people connecting so well with what they’re doing?   Why Chek coaching is taking off at the moment and being integrated into professional sports   Jake’s experience sitting down to record a podcast with Paul Chek   We talk about death and what we could learn from eastern cultures   We sink our teeth into the boys successful parasite cleanse and why 50% of their customers are passing worms and parasites on the toilet     There’s also plenty of universal intelligence sprinkled through this conversation so grab a tea or a coffee and enjoy becomng Corrective Culture

Welcome to the Love Shack! In this episode, Nick Slater sits down with Thomas Malucelli (his second time on the show) to talk: dating and relationships. As a walking example of someone who has “done the work”, Thomas provides THE BLUEPRINT on EXACTLY what you can do as a single person to beat loneliness, raise your vibration and attract your soul-mate.

Today on the show, Australia’s favourite kiwi, Luisa Dal Din. You've probably heard her podcast, We Mean Well, or seen her skits on TikTok Luisa is hilarious and unapologetically authentic. But there’s also an introspective side to Lu which might surprise you. In this conversation, we go through the specific tools she uses to fend off anxiety and nurture her mental health. Don’t worry, for the Bedwetters, I also quiz her on what it’s really like working with Jarch. This is an episode which blends laughs with self-improvement and if that’s what you appreciate in a podcast, please give it a like and subscribe. Have a belly laff and the occasional snort with the refreshingly authentic Luisa Dal Din.

This isn’t just a story about a proposal — it’s about why we chose each other, how we knew it was right, and what we believe makes a relationship truly work.In this intimate episode, we answer your biggest questions about love, commitment and what it actually takes to build a healthy partnership.

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I sit down with Dr. Will Bulsiewicz, a renowned gut health expert, to dive deep into the fascinating world of diet, mental health, and our microbiome. Dr. Bulsiewicz shares his expertise on how our gut impacts everything from anxiety to overall well-being, and we explore the latest research on how to improve your gut health for a healthier mind and body.

Zoe and Nick kick off this episode from the Gold Coast, reflecting on their biggest lessons from 2024 and sharing their New Year’s resolutions for 2025. They dive into their personal growth, tackle listener questions about relationships and life, and even reveal their thoughts on baby names and future plans. From handling conflict to balancing hobbies and quality time, it’s an insightful and fun way to wrap up the year and look ahead!

Ben Harvey experienced a spinal cord injury while playing rugby in high school and became a c4 incomplete quadriplegic. Now Ben uses his lived experience to dispel myths surrounding disability and helps improve disability representation in society.As you’ll hear in this interview, the way Ben responded to his life-changing injuries was nothing short of profound. He has an incredibly resilient mindset which has inspired me my whole lifeIt was such a pleasure having Ben on and catching up with an old friend. I can’t wait for you to listen to this one and be inspired by Ben’s story.

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