Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want (Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney)

What does it mean to be a man in 2019?  How do you date? How do you behave? How do you simply BE. 

Authority on modern masculinity Robert Kandell joins us to discuss HOW to be a man in 2019.

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. 

On this episode we also discuss and over analyze:

1. How to talk to women to ensure you always get what you want without pissing her off

2. How to bring up sticky topics with women like casual dating, IF you are sleeping with others and your intentions

3. What does it mean to be a MAN and how do you act like a man?

4. What to say to women in ALL situations that won't make you look weak, creepy or beta

And so much more!

Guest: Robert Kandell

Growth Expert | Author | Speaker | Podcaster
www.RobertKandell.com

Every guy has been in the situation where he's crushing on a server but never fully knows if that girl wants him back OR if she's just doing "her job".  On this weeks episode Miles, the former owner and producer of a very famous travelling strip show reveals all!! 

This was an amazing episode with the wonderful dominey drew. She is a master at unblocking all that SH&T you tell yourself that stops you from having massive success with women. 

Happy New Year!

This week, we're taking another listen to an episode with Relationship Palmist and Heart Harmonizer Cynthia Clark that talks all about hands. How to use them, how to her to use hers but also how you can tell if you or a woman is blocked from receiving love, intimacy and affection through a peek at your or her hands. And, if you're blocked or she's blocked, how you get through those blocks to connect on a deep romantic level. 

This episode is dedicated to penis health. PE, ED, all the E's that may be giving you issues with the ladies.  Our guest Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals joins us to explain everything about premature ejaculation. Why it happens? How to stop it? What it is? Where it comes from?  Even if this is not an issue for you right now, it's really helpful to learn about for the future (just in case)

On this show we also over analyze and dissect:

1. How to talk to women

2. How to be vulnerable without being a wuss with women

3. What makes a man charming?

4. How to learn to be charming?

5. Communication and why it's so important to women and attraction

And a ton more!

Guest: Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals

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This week's episode is PACKED with data and information about why things are or aren't going great in the bedroom and how to fix it when it isn't. Melanie B Curtin, a Sex and Relationship coach shares tons of the facts she's gathered over the years of what doesn't please a woman and what does. She teaches us how to make sex great for her and how to talk about it so a woman feels comfortable communicating with you about what she wants and doesn't want. 

Antonio Centeno, founder of the men's fashion website RealMenRealStyle.com is here to talk about simple style upgrades you can make to your wardrobe so you can get the girl you want. And the good news? It doesn't take as much work as you'd think to add a few pieces to your closet to make you really pop. And the other good news? You don't need to be in a metropolitan area to pull off smooth style. 

We have Clancy, a wonderful matchmaker with us who gives us interesting insights into what it's like using a matchmaker and the benefits to taking advantage of a matchmaking service. And, we also go in-depth on APPROACHING women - do they want to be approached, how to approach, where to approach and so much more!

>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

OMG this is the best best best episode because we cover sooooo many important topics including how to seduce a woman in the first interaction AND how to cure oneitis!!! This is something we haven't really talked about before and I'm so excited to dive deep into the topic with Dating Expert Sebastian Harris.  

Enjoy!

Guest: Sebastian Harris host of the Global Seducer Quickie Podcast

Learn more about Sebastian here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/sebastian

Jordan Harbinger joins us AGAIN and tells us all about his journey from shy, geek to owner of one of the biggest social interaction and networking programs for men. He's now taught 1000's of men how to work through their shyness so that they can be the confident men they've wanted to be. Whether it be for women, work, friends.... We also dive into our mail bag and over analyze your questions! Enjoy! Guest: Jordan Harbinger

This week, we have ex-NBA player Paul Shirley on to talk about sex appeal and the quickest way to increase it.

Tripp Kramer is here to give us all of his wisdom about all stages of dating - from the very beginning moments up until and past making a full commitment. He also talks about how to share your non negotiables in a palatable way so you don’t scare her off.

This one is a goodie!!  We have Andy and Imogen Killyourinnerloser.com on the show to discuss how they have successfully navigated an open relationship and now welcome new women into their bedroom on a regular basis! 

Here are some of the topics covered on the call

- How to have 3somes with 2 girls (including in an open relationship).

- How to meet women and get laid on Tinder.

- How to be honest and real with women (treating them like they're on the same team as you).

- How to leave women better than you found them (how to add to & improve the lives of women you date).

Guest: Andy and Imogen

Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we’re joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn’t serving you well, don’t worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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This week, we take a deep dive into negative dating terms with Mason Farmani who is an intuitive personal coach, specializing in relationship and emotional healing. We talk about what these terms are, why they're being used so much and how to not let them effect you and your dating success.

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>>>To become MAGNETIC, witty, charming, a master at banter, a pro at dating, and great at sexual escalation with Kristen, fill out the coaching application here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching

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Stylist Goldie Rush joins the show to talk about how to up your style game and WHY it is such a turn on when a man can dress himself well in the look that is most “him”.

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This week, world renowned Dating and Relationship Consultant Race DePriest from AttractionRockstar.com. He explains how to get a woman to LUST after you and see you the way you want her to - sexually. He also shares 5 Lust Triggers toward the end of the episode so make sure to listen to the end. You don't want to miss them!

>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

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Line up 10 women in front of me and ask them to tell you what they find attractive and I guarantee all of them will say a guy that can make me laugh.  BUT what exactly does that mean and how can you avoid becoming her jester instead of her witty, sexy lover???

On this weeks episode we dive into what "I want a guy that can make me laugh" means and how to make a woman laugh.  Guest Scot Mckay and Kristen also give amazing examples of how to make women laugh and provide guidance on how to find the wit in certain situations vs. being cheesy and obvious. 

Guest Scot Mckay

To learn more about Scot Mckay and download his program go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/scotcharming

Are you curious about sex from a woman's perspective but have a hard time knowing what to bring up? It's easy to feel clueless and nervous when you're trying to figure out how to open women up sexually. And it can be really awkward when you try to figure it out without talking about it. Sex therapist, Dr. Laurie Watson, is here to teach you what you need to do as a man, what women need, and how to open a woman up sexually. .

Here’s an oldie about how to give her a goodie. Listen closely because this is the key to making a woman explode with feelings, both physical AND mental.

Friends aren’t always available to go out and hit the town with, especially as you get into the years where lots of friends start getting married or have long been married. So, this week, Rob from Sex Party Podcast joins the show to talk about HOW to go out by yourself doing it successfully so you can make the most out of your time alone. He gives us the goods on how to connect with people without your crew there to offer a safety net. And, he also talks about how to DISCONNECT FROM OUTCOMES so your carefree energy gives off confidence and desirability. 

>> Dusin Rybka is the host of ‘Sex Party with Dustin Rybka’. The show is a weekly tight rope walk between value and chaos in the worlds of sex and dating. New episodes available every Wednesday wherever you find podcasts & YouTube. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexparty.fm?igsh=NW9lbTdkZ2N4c3h6

>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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I know we're all slowly getting back out there BUT most likely we'll all be moving back in.  Which means that online dating will once again become the key resource for meeting women.  And virtual dates will be replacing most of your first dates.  Which is why we brought on Televisions best resource for online dating Carmelia Ray to discuss how to online dating during a pandemic. 

We discuss a ton on this show but mainly focus on:

1. How to date online during a pandemic

2. Virtual date best practices

3. What to do on virtual dates

4. Best lighting and angles and outfits for virtual dates

and so much more!

Guest: Carmelia Ray - https://www.carmeliaray.com/

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Sometimes it's hard to see things clearly when our emotions are involved. So, this week during our summer hiatus, we're running an episode that will help you decipher when you're in the friend-zone and how to get the heck out of it, ASAP.

This week with Jess from Bloomstories.com, we dive deep into erotic fiction, and how it is going to totally transform your sex life with women. Hearing what women want is the key and today we're going to give you all the tips and tricks.

This week it's just Marni and Kristen and we're getting super real and dissecting ways to just be YOU.  Because when people tell you to "just be yourself" when dating, you probably have no freaking clue what that means.  This week we break down what that means and how to do it!  when you stop focusing so much on pleasing women and being right guy for "her" that's when the true you comes out and shines.  

If you want to find out how to grow your inner self work to become a high status man then this episode is for you!

Guests: Marni and Kristen

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This week we have sex coach and tantra expert, Tilly Storm on to talk all about how to pleasure a woman and how to in turn, get her to pleasure and enhance YOUR sexual experience. This means we'll be talking about women's libido and how it’s different from a man's as well as women’s erotic blue prints and how it effects her desire.

Seduction expert Brad P is no longer coaching BUT he made a special exception for the ladies and he is BACK for this show and this show ONLY. And, he's here to teach YOU how to seduce while trying to get the girl. He also gives you the goods on HOW to make a special gal feel oh-so-comfortable so she'll be more likely to let you in, both mentally AND physically. 

Don't miss this fun episode packed with tips, tricks, methods and TOOLS... so you don't become one :)

Guest: Brad P - Bradp.com

A little jelousy is healthy. But, too much? That's a no-no. Women will shut down and get turned off. So, this week, we talk about how to healthily curb your jealousy and even how it use it to make things more exciting.  

Last name revealed: Baumfalk!!!

My coach, Adam Wayne joins us on today's podcast to discuss how to communicate your vulnerabilities to women WITHOUT making yourself appear less attractive. In fact, expressing your vulnerabilities to women can actually make you more attractive to women and Adam is going to tell you WHY and how. 

Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. 

Guest: Adam Wayne - Ask Adam ANYTHING - askadamaquestion.com

This week we have Devon from Socialfluency on to talk about “High Status Humor” which women find so attractive. We shared his tricks of the trade and many insights on how to transform your communication skills from flat or silly to sophisticated and refined to move yourself either the career ladder or the dating ladder. https://www.socialfluency.com/confidencesignals?fpr=marni74

Looking your best is a necessity if you want to turn the volume up on your dating game and Jon Shanahan from TheKavalier.com is here to talk about just HOW to do that. This episode, tune in for men's grooming, fashion, style and how to start forming your own if you're lost in the cargo shorts jungle. 

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Guest: Jon Shanahan

Dating is hard enough as it is, why make it harder by hiding you who you really are and NOT asking for what you want? This week, guest Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist of growingself.com teaches us how to grow our self confidence so we can be who we truly are.  She also gives us the goods on attachment styles and how to recognize what yours may be. If yours is in a not-so-healthy place, not to worry! She gives us the tools we need to begin to change things for the better. 

Guest: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

What does "being attractive" mean to women?  Because I will tell you, after 15 years as a Wing Girl and over 5000 interviews with beautiful, amazing women of all ages and races, I know that "being attractive" to women is defined very different than it is for men. 

On this episode my amazing Wing Girl and author of the F formula Marissa is with me to discuss what "being attractive" and how to BE attractive to women, really means.  And how you can quickly appear more attractive to women without changing your looks, job, status..... anything.

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode!

On this show we also discuss and dissect: 

 1. How to approach and break the touch barrier with women

2. What women find MOST attractive

3. The 3 stages of Flirting from a female POV

4. Simple things you can do to become more attractive

And so much more!

To get LIVE one on one coaching from Marissa go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/mockmarissa

This week we have a really awesome guest who is not only a dating coach for men, he's also an NLP practitioner.  NLP stands for Neuro-linguistic programming and it is an approach to communication, personal development, and psychotherapy created by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in California, United States in the 1970s.

Using this technique you can literally change the way your brain behaves and reprogram yourself to do and be anything you want.  I swear!!!  

Our guest Mark showed us how and gave us 5 tools you can use instantly to eliminate lack of confidence AND approach anxiety. 

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. 

On this show we also over analyze and discuss:

1. How to get over approach anxiety

2. What lack of confidence comes from

3. How tiny past experiences have HUGE impacts on your behavior and how you can change that

4. 5 NLP tricks you can use right now to gain more confidence

5. How to approach women with ease

6. How to bounce back from a bad interaction

And much more!

You will love this episode. 

Guest: Mark Sing

For more information about Mark Sing go to: https://www.marksingcoaching.com

Whether you’re in the beginning stages of dating or years into a marriage, Man Coach, Karen Brody is here to tell us HOW to connect with women and why it is so important.

On this weeks episode we have an X pick up artist who taught himself how to be a master with picking up and dating women. We made him share all of his tactics and routines with us so that you could try them out for yourself.

Elisa Jordana from Kermit and Friends (Howard Stern) is not only super hot, she’s FULL of personality. And, that means, she has her pick when it comes to men. And, she’s going to give us the insider info on what men she finds attractive and WHY they stand out to her. Check out this episode if you want to learn how to be one of those few men intriguing enough for a hard to get woman to take notice.

Loved this episode.  Any time we get to dive into how to reprogram the way you think about feel about yourself, I get giddy.  I know we talk about this a lot but it's because it's so essential for attracting women and bringing quality women into your life.  Our guest Josh Hudson thought he had everything until he was cheated on and his world came crumbling.  Josh explains how he recovered and how he moved forward and changed his inner beliefs about himself and realized he had amazing potential. 

Guest: Josh from Pinnacle of Man

Empowerment is not a word you hear associated with men lately.  BUT on this weeks episode we have empowerment coach Linda Mitchell on the show talking about how to empower yourself as a man.  Linda, an empowerment coach for women, also shares her journey with men.  Who she's been attracted to and why.  

I don't want to spoil too much but I found this to be one of best episodes and you'll soon see why ;-)

Guest: Linda Mitchell

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This episode is a little different from our typical episode because have a unique and interesting guest.  Palmist Cynthia is on our show talking to us about what your hands tell a woman and what her hands can tell you. 

Guest: Palmist Cynthia

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!! We did a special episode of The Ask Women Podcast just to give back. Please know the audio for me is a little low for the first 5 minutes but then it gets better. Enjoy!

Figuring women out can be so hard, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE because you always have us. But, today you ALSO have sought-after dating coach for women, Kelsey Wonderlin on to give us EVEN MORE insights into women: what they say they want versus what they really want, how to be yourself AND the guy they want and on and on and on. This show covers it all!

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this week's throwback episode, we have Tinder Expert Michael Buthby on the show to tell us the ins and outs of online dating.

IF you are not using an online app or site for dating you are seriously missing out on countless options of amazing women. AND if you are not using these apps correctly, meaning have a kick ass profile, you are digging yourself into an even deeper hole.

On this weeks episode we discuss;

1. How to set up a great profile that makes you look good

2. How to talk to women online

3. How to get offline and into real life

AND so much more!

This week, one of our favorite guests, Dominey Drew steps in for Kristen and Marni and kills it as the guest host talking with Nichol Bradford, CEO of the Willow Group, a Transformative Technology and Fundamental Wellbeing company to get break down HOW technology can effect your dating life, and how to have it bring positive changes. They also talk about how you can use technology to develop emotional intelligence, to overcome your fear of rejection and so much more. 

Laura Berman is an renowned American relationship therapist and television host. She is the host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman on the Oprah Winfrey Network and she is here to talk to us about that mysterious and magical thing we're always looking to create but never quite sure how: CHEMISTRY. She's going to tell us all about the science behind romantic chemistry, why it's created and most importantly, HOW to it on a first date, first encounter or even in that long term relationship that it disappeared from years ago.

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Is there something you want to say to a woman you’re dating but you don't know how to say it??

So many guys I know have something they want but they just don't know how to ask for it without coming off as offensive or off-putting.

Which is why I’m so excited for this week’s podcast episode with Laura Doyle. She’s a New York Times Bestselling Author and the star of the Empowered Wives show… and she’s coming on the Ask Women podcast to teach you how to communicate with women!!!

Guest Laura Doyla

Max Tripp Kramer, dating coach is back to talk about how to talk to women. We talk about everything from the best methods to start a conversation online to how to keep her interested as you go. If you're looking for an episode that dives deep into the best, most successful ways to chat a woman up, this episode is for you.

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>>To become MAGNETIC, charming, witty and a master at banter and dating, book a FREE call with Kristen Here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession

>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp

On this weeks episode we have charisma & hypnosis coach Wendy Packer on to share how you can literally hypnotize yourself to have more success with women. Wendy gives actionable tips on to erase your negative beliefs and replace them with your image ideal a.k.a the man you want to be. Gotta fake it till you become it. Even if you are a woman, you will love this episode. On this episode we also discuss and over analyze: 1. How to be charismatic 2. How to give your woman what she wants without giving up yourself 3. Simple things you can say that would make women love you more And so much more! Guest: Wendy Packer

Jim Wolf, author of The Attract Her and Keep Her System, tells us how he helps men understand how to spot the women who are interested in them.

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In this throwback episode, dating expert and a king at being bold, Adam Gilad talks about what being bold in dating means and how to be bold. We also talk about why it’s so attractive and effective to the opposite sex.

This week, our regular guest Dominey Drew is here to talk about how not to be held back by things you may consider shortcomings or "flaws". We talk about how to use them to your advantage and make you stand out, rather than blend in. 

OMG this episode is jam packed with information that you can apply instantly to your dating lives with women.  Amy Chan joins us to discuss the science of attraction and how you can use this science to your own benefit.  We also discuss: 

1. chemistry compasses and the psychology of why we choose the wrong people and tips on how to start choosing people who are healthier for us. 

2. Our attachment systems and the three attachment styles - secure, avoidant and anxious. We provide insight on how men can understand their own attachment, and the attachment of romantic partners so you can have healthier relationships.

3. Non Violent Communication techniques to trouble shoot common relationship issues. How to make someone feel heard and seen and validated, and move towards connection versus disconnection.

A ton of great stuff on this show!
Guest: Amy Chan

Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to healing the heart. She is also the Editor-in-Chief of JustMyType.ca - an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust and desire. 

Want approach anxiety GONE? Want the fear of rejection GONE? This week, one of Marni's Winggirls, Traci Bermingham, is here to talk about those magic tools that will help you avoid your "triggering points" that send you straight back into your shell. It's all about getting your brain running on "new software" rather than the old, outdated brain "software" that is no longer serving you, or was never serving you to begin with, so you can get out of your head and into hers. 

Zach Maxwell from Max-Well Coaching.com is passionate about keeping, or making your relationship... passionate. And, a lot of that starts in the bedroom. This week we talk about how to keep sex exciting or how to make it exciting. Whether you're looking to enhance things with your partner or MORE THAN ONE partner, we're talking about it on this week's episode.

There are SIX Pillars of Success you need to become AMAZING with women. This episode, Mani Vaya is here to dig deep into two of the the most important ones - mental toughness and self-belief - to take you to where you want to be. He'll also discuss his journey and how he reached his peak performance with the opposite sex. 

Balancing your professional success with building a happy and fulfilling relationship is a real struggle. You deserve to have professional success and love at the same time.

The good news is that you can have them both, and author Glenn Sandifer, author of The Middle Ground, is here to tell us how. 

This week, here's a reminder from 2019 and our listener Andrew about setting boundaries - WHY and HOW you should so that you can improve not just in your dating life, but in all parts of your life. Boundaries say "I VALUE MYSELF" and there's nothing sexier than that kind of confidence. 

Gaining tools to help you in your dating life is great, but how you implement them into your life is even more important. This week, we talk to Ledon who tells us how he’s learned to not just learn new skills to get further in dating and life but effectively apply them.

Dr. Bradley Nelson, author of The Emotion Code and now, The Body Code, is here to talk about healing your body and how healing it will heal other aspects of your life. Past pain can be effecting your life in ways you're not aware of. Becoming aware of what's going on in your body so you can be in control of what's going on in your life is a crucial part of dating successfully.

This week, Kristen and guest and Dating App Photographer Joe Buchoff go DEEP on what makes great dating profile photos. They talk about facial expressions, angles, clothing, how to try hard WITHOUT looking like you're trying hard, how to get these photos, using photos to filter out the wrong women and so much more. Even if you're not the most handsome guy on the planet, the right photos of you WILL get you matches, and more importantly, the matches you're looking for. 

Your first impression is the most important impression.  That's why we have the founder of First Impression Jordan on our show to tell us how to make the best first impression IRL and online. He gives us the recipe for ultimate success when making a first impression. 

To find out more about first impressions go to: https://www.firstimpressionsdating.com

Guest: Jordan From First Impressions App

This is a short little bonus episode where Kristen and I discuss the female POV on hair loss.  

Special guest: Andrew from the Bosley Team :)

Are you recently divorced or going through a separation and don't know where to start when it comes to dating?

I’m so excited for this week’s podcast episode with Eric Payne, host of the Dating After Divorce Podcast. He got divorced in 2015 then wandered around in the aftermath as a lost, emotional mess.

He'll help you turn divorce or separation into a springboard to discover yourself and find love (possibly even for the first time).

This week, he's here to talk about how to get through divorce and how to know when you're ready to start dating again!!

Groups of women can be intimidating. I know right now, you probably won't come across tons of groups of women. But it's still a skill set that you want to have in your back pocket JUST in case ;)

Which is why we brought on the amazing Patrick James to help teach you how to approach groups of women no matter what age they are. Meaning, we dive into different age groups and tell you how to "crack" the group and get the girl you want. 

Guest: Patrick James

Knowing what someone is looking for and what they’re going to be like in a committed relationship BEFORE going on a date with them can sometimes be hard to discuss. You’re too busy establishing a fun and flirty experience to get her to say yes to a date in the first place. Jumping into heavy talk with some serious questions in the beginning can be tricky and you want to make sure you’re both on the same page. So, we have Russ Haywood on, the creator of the dating app “Can We”, to talk about how his app does all the heavy lifting for you so you can show up to a date knowing exactly what she’ll be looking for now and down the road. We also discuss how to ask about those expectations if you haven’t gotten onto his app yet and are in this little predicament currently.

There is NOTHING attractive about being vanilla, flat or boring. So, this week, we have Dr. Alise Cortez on to talk about having passion and purpose and WHY it's just so darn sexy and appealing. 

But, how do you figure out what you're passionate about in the first place? Don't worry! We discuss that too. We give you the tools and tips you'll need to pull out your passion so you can pull people, and more importantly, women, in. 

Instead of looking at your limitations as a flaw, look at them as a gift and the thing that makes you UNIQUE. This week, Mindie Kniss of Lucra, a coaching firm devoted to helping entrepreneurs create wealth in all areas of life, joins us to talk about her late husband and HOW, despite his stature, won her affection and more importantly, her heart and mind. 

Mindie also talks to us about re-finding passion for yourself and your dating life so you can get back out there with the zest you once had. 

Guest: Mindie Kniss

https://mindiekniss.com/

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David Buss is an American Evolutionary Psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, researching human sex differences in mate selection. He is considered one of the founders of evolutionary psychology and just released his new book called "Why Men Behave Badly". We talk all about WHY it is men do what they do and how come it's not really their fault ;) We also talk about how to fix these things so you can attract the right woman for you. 

This weeks episode is a tribute to a past guest and friend of The Ask Women Podcast Amie Harwick.  A talented Sex Therapist and sex educator who sadly died a couple of weeks ago in a tragic accident.  This show is a tribute to this beautiful woman and all the amazing advice she shared :)

On this weeks show: 

How and what do women think about sex? AND what do us women think men think about sex? 

On this weeks episode we dive into the female POV on sex.  How we want it, when we want it, how often we want it.....  Psychologist and Sexpert Amie Harwick joins us to explain how and what women think about sex and why it's so different from men.

On this show we also discuss and over analyze:

1. How to talk sexually to women

2. How to escalate a conversation from non sexual to sexual

3. How to approach women sexually without insulting or harassing

4. How to be blunt and clear on your intentions without being insulting

5. What women think men think about sex

And so much more!

Guest: Amie Harwick

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How do you even start building your self esteem??? That's a huge question that so many people struggle with and sadly don't try to find an answer for.  Lucky for you listeners we have the king of build self esteem AND building muscles on our show today to tell you how to do it.

Guest: Matt Reynolds is the Owner of Barbell Logic Barbell-Logic.com

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Whether you are DEEP into a relationship with a woman or just starting out, establishing TRUST through an emotional connection is key.  IF you do not know how to do this, your relationship will fizzle out faster than those old school hard rock candies ;)

On this weeks episode we have couples therapist and host of The Make More Love Not War Podcast Terah on the show to teach us about A.T.T.U.N.E.  John Gotlieb's helpful tool for how to connect to women and create trust.  A.T.T.U.N.E. is not just for you to use on women you are dating or in a relationship with. It's for all women.  Mom, sister, co-workers.... every women will respond to A.T.T.U.N.E. 

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode. 

Guest: Terah Harrison LPC - Host of The Make More Love Not War Podcast

Do women like men who are dominant?  Well you are about to find out on this weeks episode because BDSM coach Suzie Wheeler is on with us dissecting how women feel and respond to dominance in 2019.  She teaches guys how to get into a woman's sexual psyche and truly fulfill fantasies.  

Women will LOVE this episode because it says all the things they truly want to say but may not know how. 

On this show we discuss:

How to be dominant with women in 2019

How to slowly introduce dominance and fantasy play into the bedroom

Do women like dominance?

How to be dominant if you've never been dominant before

And so much more

Guest: Suzie Wheeler

Quote from the show: 

Marni: How is a guy on a first date supposed to be authentic if he isn't looking for anything serious or long-term.

Suzie: "I am not looking for anything serious, but I am enjoying being in this moment with you right now. If you are okay with it, then I am great. If you are not, I totally understand."

Have you ever wondered what it's like dating women from another country? Should you worry about different cultural norms, languages barriers, if they have different romantic preferences? Eve Lyons, wife of dating expert Adam Lyons and also Russian, is here to talk about that and more.

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Bobby Rio the KING of nice guys into guys that get girls, joins us to discuss  5 most attractive traits that ALL men need to have and can easily get!

Little preview of them. They are: 1. Certainty 2. Non Reactive 3. Claim 4. Quiet Power 5. Integrity

He explains in great detail each of these traits and how YOU can gain them easily ;)

To learn more about Bobby and get your hands on one of his awesome programs go to: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/bobbyrio5

Link to video from YouTube where bobby walks you through 5 "Older Guy" Qualities Younger Women Chase in a Man | Use THESE Instead of Money to Attract Her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJ3xExpWaAI&t=223s

Guest: Bobby Rio

This week, we’re talking all about your friend, “Mr. Johnson.” We have Dr. Mohit Khera to talk to us about erectile dysfunction, if size matters and how to WORK OUT YOUR PENIS. Yes, you read that right… WORK OUT your penis. You and your man downstairs don’t want to miss this one.

This week we're asking women (and a man) about whether or not you should lower your standards when dating. But more importantly, we're talking about how to be GREAT on a first date so you won't have to lower your standards at all!

Trauma!!!  Everyone has some sort of past trauma in their life that is affecting their present life.  Some are big, some are small but they all have an impact on how we see things, do things and act.  

On this weeks episode we have Trauma expert Tori on our show to discuss how to figure out what your trauma is AND how to eliminate so that it no longer has a strong power over you. 

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode!

Guest: Tori - Trauma Expert

We typically talk about a woman's emotions on our show but this week we're going to dive into MEN and their emotions.  Are men even allowed to have emotions around women and if they do, how can they express them without getting a BETA or wimp label. 

Guest: Dominick Quartuccio host of Man Amongst Men, a podcast dedicated to helping men operate as the highest version of themselves and building environments where he and others can thrive. In doing this they have created an amazing show that encompasses many topics all around helping men, and the partners who support them.

This week, Alex Grendi is a certified Men’s Sex Coach and he's here to help you become better in the bedroom so you can make things great for her but for YOU too. If you'd like to learn more go to: https://go.superiorlovers.com/lp1?el=MarniAWP

More and more it seems that young men are finding women a bit older than themselves appealing. This week, we have Marcela Alonso on to talk about how to date an “older” women, the benefits of doing so and why it might be your way in to getting a gorgeous woman you may not be able to get as easily at your own age.

This week we have sex coach for men, Sterling Cooper on to tell us what you're doing wrong, what to do that's right and how to do it better in the bedroom. We also talk about how to position yourself as a sexual man, not just a friend.

Get yourself Beducated at  https://beducate.me/pd2344-askwomen 

In this episode, we have Matt Ritter and Aaron Karo, the host of Man of the Year podcast, are here to talk about why friends enhance not only your life but your dating life. They'll tell us how to make friends at no matter what age to help attract women into your lives.

This weeks episode is a very interesting one.  We have my friend, comedian and Podcast Host Dark Mark on the show to discuss if and when you should change yourself for women.  Mark has not been very successful with women and the reason is because he simply doesn't have sex appeal.  On this weeks episode we bluntly tell Mark why he's not getting the attention he wants from women and how to alter that BUT it's up to him to make those changes.  He may not be into making the changes.   Heads up: we're a little harsh with Mark because we know he can take it.  But ultimately it's up to him to decide what and how he wants to alter himself to get the women he wants :)  

We overanalyze:

1. How to dress to attract women

2. How to be sexual with women without being creepy

3. How to boost your own sex appeal and no longer be seen as "nice"

Guest: Dark Mark the gothic comedian host of the Dark Mark Show

This week, we have the author of Dating Sucks but You Don't, Connell Barrett on to talk about confidence, authenticity, flirtation, being charismatic and so much more. We also talk about being smooth with approaches and how to be smooth when the approach doesn't go as smoothly as planned. So many nuggets of gold this episode you'll want to listen to it twice. 

This week we had my new hero Dr. Susan Campbell on the show talking to us about the important of honest, authentic, CLEAR communication at any/all stages of dating and relationships. She is a master with words and shares with us how to talk to women so that ALL your words come across as confident, sexy and powerful. Even if what you are discussing is not. Even if you are a woman you will LOVE LOVE LOVE this episode. I know I did. BTW - Kristen and I were basically silent for most of the episode because we wanted to hear more from Susan. Again - amazing episode!

This week, we talk about how to select a partner that is going to be right for you in the long run, which often includes seeking out similar values and knowing what yours are first. We also talk with our guest Jen, a school psychologist, about how using the psychology of children can be helpful when communicating with your partner - because deep down, we're all still just kids. 

Self sabotage is REAL, but the good news? So is STOPPING it. The OTHER good news? It is EASIER than you think. So, this week Dominey Drew, an expert in transpersonal psychology joins us to tell how to SHIFT the distorted ways we see ourselves so you can finally start dating the women you WANT and more importantly, the women you deserve.

Will women date short men?  Does height really matter to women? If I'm shorter than average, how can I get a leg up in the looks department and be attractive to women?  These are the questions we cover on today's podcast. Brock McGoff joins us to tell us why women actually like shorter men better than taller men AND how to be confident about your height. 

Brock delivers some amazing advice on how to build your confidence about being short and how to improve your style so that your height is never an issue. We also discuss: 

- Easy ways to improve your style/appearance

- Confidence and why "be more confident" is bad advice

- Life as a shorter guy - style, dating, career, etc.

And so much more!

Guest: Brock McGoff - https://www.themodestman.com/

Porn has made it hard for both sexes to have realistic expectations about gettin' it on, usually setting both parties up for disappointment. In this throwback episode, we discuss the difference between romance and pornography and how not to lose the "fun" so you can have the most satisfying bedroom experiences. 

This week, we're throwing back to an old episode with master relationship coach and pick up artist, Brad P talking about all things getting the girl and staying out of the wretched friend zone. 

If you’re wondering what traits women are looking for in their dream beau, wonder no further because we have expert Lizzie Brown from Yoga Wake Up filling us and YOU in on the 3 *most* important characteristics women WANT in a MAN.

You’ll have to wait until you hit play and listen if you want to know what they are. HINT: one those traits is the VERY THING you’re doing RIGHT NOW.

Curious what that is? Great! GET LISTENING.

In this throwback episode, we have actress Catherine Urbanek with us to discuss how to handle heartbreak and rejection as Kristen got her heart a bit broken when reentering the world of dating after ending an 8 year relationship years ago. We all go through it at one point or another, so knowing that it's normal but moving forward and showing yourself grace and self love is the best way to grow so you can find your true love.

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

One of the biggest challenges for men in dating and relationships, is understanding how to connect to women the way women want to be connected to. Women are so different than men when it comes to connecting. We can't just enjoy a basketball game with a guy to feel connected. We need more. Not a lot more. But a different more. Which is why this week we dive into what connection means to women and why so many men aren't connecting to women in a way that makes women happy.

 On this weeks episode we have the amazing dating coach for shy guys TRIPP. 

He's been on before but this week he's going to be giving actionable advice, tools and steps for you take to go from 1st date to girlfriend. This is something we don't discuss on the show very often but I'm gong to start talking about it more. 

KEEPING a girl is a tough nut to crack and on this weeks show Tripp tells us exactly how to do it without belittling yourself or lowering your value 

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode! (Kristen gets some sex-coaching as well) 

On this show we also discuss and over analyze: 

1. How to select the RIGHT woman for you 

2. How to avoid picking the wrong women - 3 Non negotiable's explained 

3. Why knowing your values is super important in finding a mate 

4. How to successfully navigate the first 3 months of dating 

5. When to have "the talk" and how to know it's the right time 

6. How to make a girl WANT to be your girlfriend And so much more I know you will love this episode

And so much more!   Enjoy

This may seem like a strange topic BUT it's one that is soooo needed to be discussed and shared.  How you fight can determine how successful you are in relationships with women. Whether you are dating them or working with them OR family with them.... the way you fight is directly correlated to how connected you can be to women. 

On this episode we dive into the RIGHT way to fight with women and how to ensure your fights: 1. bring you closer to together 2. are effective in having your voice heard so change can happen. 

Guest: Jennie Marie LMFT

Did you know that you can turn women by using just your words??

Well you can and on this weeks episode of Ask Women you are going to learn how to do it!

We also discuss:

1. How to navigate Valentines Day whether you are single, newly dating or in a long term relationship

2. What to say to women to start a conversation

3. How to make her think of "us" so that she feels connected to you

4. Defining that "spark" and "chemistry" that women always talk about

5. How to make a woman feel that spark or chemistry

and much more...

In this episode, we're joined by a bold, sexy woman in her 50s who’s single, self-aware, and not afraid to speak the truth about dating at this stage of life. We dive deep into what’s actually going on for women in their 50s—physically, emotionally, and romantically.

She shares what men are doing that works, what’s turning women off faster than you can say “hey beautiful,” and the kind of communication that truly feels attractive and emotionally safe. We also get real about how things like hormones, life experience, and shifting priorities impact how women date and what kind of connection they’re open to now.

If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with women in their 50s or you're re-entering the dating world yourself, this conversation is packed with what you need to know to date in this age range successfully.

Need personalized coaching to get out of your dating rut??

>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni’s Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

We rarely have health experts on our show but I'm really happy that we finally did.  On this weeks show we have health professional and body builder Trevor Kourtzin on our show.  

Trevor breaks down the little things in your life that may be literally emasculating you by decreasing your production of testosterone. 

I'm not going to even try to go into deeper details on this because I am NOT a scientist but Trevor will explain it as well what you can do to reverse this starting right now!

Even if you are a woman you will love this episode!

Guest Trevor Kourtzin - Host of Evolutionary Radio Podcast

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This episode is all about how to FIND that spark and how to KEEP that spark alive. Anne McCarthy from the Twisted History podcast is here to tell us all about what attracted to her husband many years ago and how they still keep making people jealous with their love today.